Speaker 1: Novel.
Speaker 2: This show contains adult material and swearing. You have been warned.
Speaker 3: Well, if I was in a freesom or a woresome moment,
Speaker 3: I feel left out, I will.
Speaker 1: Leave Like Wait, I'm the mascot on the side watching
Speaker 1: the game. I'm the war boy and they're all playing
Speaker 1: sport and I'm watching and it's reminding me.
Speaker 2: Of secondary school again.
Speaker 4: Me, I'm a savage.
Speaker 3: Are you bored of modern dating? Meeting the same people
Speaker 3: from the same apps in the same bar You've only
Speaker 3: chosen because it's close to your house and you can
Speaker 3: make your usual quick getaway. It's time to change the
Speaker 3: narrative on how we find love. It's time to start
Speaker 3: looking for love in all the wrong places. I'm going
Speaker 3: on a wild dating adventure, only picking people who were
Speaker 3: the total opposite of my type. And after twenty eight
Speaker 3: of these dates in two months, will I find that
Speaker 3: special someone or Well, this experiment proved that I should
Speaker 3: just give up on dating altogether.
Speaker 2: It's time to find out.
Speaker 3: I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later.
Speaker 2: Hi, down, what have you been up to? What have
Speaker 2: I've been doing this week? What? To be honest, I
Speaker 2: have just been dissociating. Oh that's fun. Yeah, Wait to
Speaker 2: tell me about the date.
Speaker 3: Okay, the day I went on this week is a
Speaker 3: first for me because this was a date with a couple,
Speaker 3: and I've never been on a date with a couple
Speaker 3: and they were like ten years apart.
Speaker 2: Wait, how did you meet on Field?
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I have used Field, and I think it's
Speaker 1: never done any good for me.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like what Field is.
Speaker 1: Field is a bunch of really boring straight men who
Speaker 1: say they're head for flexible, which actually makes no sense.
Speaker 1: Head to flexible just means you're willing to have a
Speaker 1: threesome with a girl, or you're willing to have a
Speaker 1: threesome with a guy who needs to be attractive.
Speaker 2: But his dick needs to be smaller than yours, Right,
Speaker 2: That's what I think it means.
Speaker 1: There's all these like bland men and these gorgeous queer
Speaker 1: people that they're with, and I'm like, how does this work?
Speaker 2: Like I would love to like maybe just a reflection of.
Speaker 3: The fucking world, Like unfortunately, like what men will do,
Speaker 3: which is what was the case for this couple. Basically,
Speaker 3: they were a couple and had been together for a
Speaker 3: couple of years, and it was painfully obvious to me
Speaker 3: that she was less invested in opening up, opening it
Speaker 3: up and having other situations with other couples, other people. Right,
Speaker 3: And he was really quiet as well, like he didn't
Speaker 3: really say much, Like it didn't quite all match up.
Speaker 1: But this honestly to quote, and I can't giving me
Speaker 1: up to it the hard situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3: It was a bit like he was quite creepy, I'll
Speaker 3: be honest. And I thought that from the moment I
Speaker 3: met him. It was triggering, not my non star. I
Speaker 3: didn't think he was a nonce.
Speaker 2: It was triggering my just.
Speaker 3: You're a creepy man, And if I met you in
Speaker 3: most context, I would think.
Speaker 2: That, Yeah, yeah, even if you're my friend's dad.
Speaker 1: It's giving, like magician exactly, it's giving, Like wearing eyeliner
Speaker 1: fully around the eye does not make you more sexually ambiguous.
Speaker 2: Exactly, it just makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and you're looking at me too much. Yeah, you still
Speaker 2: probably secretly have like a Lost Profits tour t shirt. Hi,
Speaker 2: So how long have you been together? You in a bit,
Speaker 2: what is your relationship if you had to define it,
Speaker 2: mostly monogamous, Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you go on field to meet a
Speaker 3: third or other couples.
Speaker 2: But yeah, okay, and was it that from the beginning.
Speaker 5: Or it's what I wanted from the beginning?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know, doubt Yes, I mean it's what I wanted,
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted.
Speaker 3: But also like there was things about like him that
Speaker 3: just gave me the ick. He's just gone through a divorce,
Speaker 3: discussing I'm.
Speaker 2: Drinking, but he like, okay, what is this a Sex
Speaker 2: and the City reboot?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Exactly.
Speaker 3: He was like ten years older than her, but basically
Speaker 3: had known that he wanted an open relationship when he
Speaker 3: got with her, but she didn't, and then after like.
Speaker 1: Well that's shady, Like if that's what you want, it
Speaker 1: needs to be on the profile. It needs to be
Speaker 1: said at the beginning, right, Like you can't kind of
Speaker 1: like let someone in and then go, oh, by the way.
Speaker 3: Well exactly, which is why there are benefits to like
Speaker 3: apps like Field, because you can make it really clear
Speaker 3: that that is what you're looking for and are interested in,
Speaker 3: and then people can decide, like from the get go
Speaker 3: if they're going to be into that.
Speaker 1: Because I guess also the good thing about fluidity, which
Speaker 1: I don't think people like think about, is that if
Speaker 1: you're open and you want things to be fluid, then
Speaker 1: it goes in and out, do you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: so there's sometimes in your like open relationship where you
Speaker 1: are more monogamous, where actually you're like, we're really into
Speaker 1: each other at the moment, so we're not going to
Speaker 1: go out there and have sex with other people, and
Speaker 1: you can have the open dialogue of being like that
Speaker 1: would make me feel jealous if you did that, and
Speaker 1: then it can open itself a bit further out and yeah,
Speaker 1: back in.
Speaker 3: But yeah, but those things are only achievable if both
Speaker 3: people have the capacity to.
Speaker 2: Like community walk. Yeah.
Speaker 3: But I guess what was kind of but not like
Speaker 3: sad sounds a bit patronizing, but I enjoyed the company
Speaker 3: of more.
Speaker 2: Of the Alice the girl.
Speaker 3: But what A felt a bit sad was it did
Speaker 3: feel like this was a situation that had been thrust
Speaker 3: upon her, like once she'd fallen in love with someone. Yeah,
Speaker 3: which is just like not really, it's not really ideal.
Speaker 6: I do think then until you're able to be alone,
Speaker 6: you can't maybe someone else.
Speaker 2: I obviously disagree with that well, because you've never been
Speaker 2: by yourself. But really I.
Speaker 5: Was looking forward to her and then you came along
Speaker 5: among no way, yeah, just out of a ten year marriage.
Speaker 2: No, no, the marriage is not my fam. I mean,
Speaker 2: it's not giving me goodvibes. I think as well.
Speaker 3: I basically think that's the sign of someone who's quite unthrapized,
Speaker 3: is being like, yeah, I've never been alone.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean as someone who has. But I okay,
Speaker 1: So I used to always think that, like, you know,
Speaker 1: you can't love somebody else to love yourself whatever.
Speaker 2: That phrases, well choose life.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but like it's a thing of like being,
Speaker 1: like you have to like yourself, right. So I didn't
Speaker 1: date for like a long ass time because, like I guess,
Speaker 1: as a person, I was trying to figure myself out
Speaker 1: more and.
Speaker 2: Like like who I was more.
Speaker 1: But then the most I learned about myself was when
Speaker 1: I started dating people. I mean, so I think it's
Speaker 1: like a it's a paradox.
Speaker 2: Of like you can't rely on being. I do.
Speaker 3: I agree with that, but I think because I've been
Speaker 3: someone who's been so codependent in relationships, and that wouldn't
Speaker 3: have happened if I'd have been more happy with who
Speaker 3: I was. It's not necessarily about being like happy on
Speaker 3: your own. It's just about being happy with yourself so
Speaker 3: you don't need somebody else to help regulate your emotions,
Speaker 3: which is like why people are so desperate to like
Speaker 3: being relationships, because they need someone else to make them
Speaker 3: feel like validated all the tea.
Speaker 1: But also I feel like plot twist, no one's happy,
Speaker 1: Like you've heard it here first, Like either you like
Speaker 1: your work's going well, so you're upset about your personal life,
Speaker 1: or like the opposite way around, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I mean.
Speaker 3: That, but that, but that is because I at the
Speaker 3: moment in my life feel truly, I actually feel really happy,
Speaker 3: and she lies.
Speaker 2: They had basically as a couple.
Speaker 3: The week before I met them, been on a date
Speaker 3: with another couple and it had just been like a
Speaker 3: first date. They hadn't like done a sex thing, but
Speaker 3: they were meeting up the next week after I met
Speaker 3: with them to go on a second date with this couple,
Speaker 3: and they had like pre booked babysitter the other couple
Speaker 3: had kids, and then also like a hotel room. So
Speaker 3: I was like really asking like loads of questions about
Speaker 3: what they imagined was going to happen.
Speaker 6: I think I expected to be way more embarrassing at
Speaker 6: the beginning. It's just like you sit there with two
Speaker 6: strangers and you kind of know that I'm basically interviewing you.
Speaker 3: It's two and two, So it's like, what if one
Speaker 3: person wants to do it and the other.
Speaker 2: Person, what do you do? Exactly? Do you think you'll
Speaker 2: see them again? We have a second guy really.
Speaker 5: Out for Jenna next.
Speaker 3: Week, So can I ask when you go on this
Speaker 3: second date with this couple, what do you think could happen?
Speaker 5: Well, we've we've been kind of sex stayed, so really
Speaker 5: anything anything.
Speaker 2: But it's going to be like a foursome. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm so stressed. Are you buy? Would
Speaker 2: you get with the woman? I would? Yeah, I've never
Speaker 2: done it. You would my preference as women? Yeah, but
Speaker 2: you would? You know?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Some? Oh so then it could go anyway?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Who's leading the sex day? Yeah? I see what's the
Speaker 2: WhatsApp group called? Yeah? Like, like, what's it called?
Speaker 3: I reckon It's called Dinner Thursday the twenty second of
Speaker 3: March or.
Speaker 1: Is it like a couple of keys trying to find
Speaker 1: one big bowl.
Speaker 2: That's a bit long for like a WhatsApp group tail.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes these things are supposed to feel exciting,
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like you're supposed to
Speaker 1: open up your relationship and feel like in a space
Speaker 1: that you're comfortable and there's trust that this new er
Speaker 1: is exciting. But from the sound of it, it doesn't
Speaker 1: sound that. Like she said, I'm really stressed out by
Speaker 1: the situation.
Speaker 3: What she said, which like I think was after this,
Speaker 3: was she was like, I think that maybe because basically
Speaker 3: the guy from the other couple was also Italian like her,
Speaker 3: And she said that him, her boyfriend, and the woman
Speaker 3: from the couple were both English and they were really similar.
Speaker 3: And she was like, I have a feeling that they're
Speaker 3: just gonna like really get on and me and the
Speaker 3: Italian guy are just gonna like sit there like talking
Speaker 3: in Italian. And I was like that that as a scenario,
Speaker 3: like just imagine that.
Speaker 2: That gives me such a deep it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but also to know what sounds so much more
Speaker 1: sexy not the two Brits fucking Italians talking.
Speaker 2: No, No, I mean that's hot to me. White.
Speaker 1: I don't know, that just doesn't sound fun or like erotic,
Speaker 1: like when he said sexting, honestly, my full body, full
Speaker 1: body reaction goosebumps.
Speaker 3: Also, how can you sex with a couple where like
Speaker 3: maybe like one slash poss two of the people aren't game, but.
Speaker 1: Then exactly and it's also like, well, yeah, what are
Speaker 1: you sending?
Speaker 2: That's what I mean?
Speaker 1: But wait, I in terms of being part of a
Speaker 1: group that has become sextinc esque.
Speaker 2: I recently this is so long.
Speaker 1: I recently got messaged by this guy on Grinder who
Speaker 1: was like, Hey, I want to start a big group
Speaker 1: for tall gaze baby. It's a WhatsApp group called like
Speaker 1: two hundred gays mainly why embarrassing be course it would be,
Speaker 1: but like and it's like all these like soho gays.
Speaker 1: I feel like, though me saying this, they're going to
Speaker 1: find out they're going to get me, because.
Speaker 4: Sometimes feel a bit like what is being said.
Speaker 1: Well, baby, it's just people sending like real lame ass
Speaker 1: nudes like gays be gay in, Gays be gay in.
Speaker 1: They can't stop. Like it's just like it's like two
Speaker 1: o'clock in the afternoon on a Tuesday. I don't want
Speaker 1: to see like what looks like a dead hamster in
Speaker 1: a shape val it looks like a dead hamster and
Speaker 1: take a good nude.
Speaker 3: If I was in a couple and we were meeting
Speaker 3: with another couple to figure out like whether or not
Speaker 3: we're going to have like a good fucking swinging party
Speaker 3: or whatever, all I would really care about is how
Speaker 3: much I'm attracted to them. Like I'm not really looking
Speaker 3: to go on like a holiday with them.
Speaker 2: It's not like I'm interviewing for a job.
Speaker 3: I would just need to assess do I fancy the
Speaker 3: guy and the girl? Do I feel comfortable with the
Speaker 3: other person getting with my partner?
Speaker 2: That's all I'm like thinking about. Wait, can I ask.
Speaker 1: A question which maybe to be personal to me, but
Speaker 1: actually I think it's maybe universal. I feel like everyone's
Speaker 1: just talking about like couples going away together. Does everyone
Speaker 1: have like a period of time in their lives but
Speaker 1: like their parents or like single parent, like had a
Speaker 1: close friend or like a close couple friend who they
Speaker 1: went away with that like deep down you kind of
Speaker 1: thought they maybe were fucking because I remember going to
Speaker 1: Digital and Florida and being like, I swear I can't
Speaker 1: say their real name for legal reasons, but my mom.
Speaker 2: Is like maybe like do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I don't know, there's like a vibe.
Speaker 1: I was like, if it was happening, good for her,
Speaker 1: and I want that, Like I would love that, but
Speaker 1: like I feel like, is that a thing that like
Speaker 1: secretly cool?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah yeah, but like swinging in the middle age
Speaker 2: is very normal middle ages. Yeah, it's very normal.
Speaker 3: Like swinging is very popular at the moment with middle
Speaker 3: aged people. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I my parents have been
Speaker 3: propositioned to swing quite a lot, is it.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, political leaning exactly.
Speaker 1: Well, I think the question I would ask the couple, like,
Speaker 1: I think simply, if it's about sex, you need to
Speaker 1: know that you're compatible in the bedroom. It's a hard
Speaker 1: situation because obviously things like grinding that Like I've spoken
Speaker 1: to people, but the first time we meet is in
Speaker 1: a situation where we're going to have sex. And there
Speaker 1: are lots of situations where like the way that person's
Speaker 1: curated their profile gives them a certain energy and then
Speaker 1: when you meet them, you're like, oh, like you were
Speaker 1: giving me like daddy vibes and I meet you and
Speaker 1: actually it's missed out fire Like it's that scene in
Speaker 1: like Robin will like that.
Speaker 2: Which is like run into the bathroom and getting changed.
Speaker 2: It's like that hello goodbye.
Speaker 1: So like that's what I think about, like grinding self
Speaker 1: or even field, Like it's so upfront in terms of
Speaker 1: like what you like and what you want to do,
Speaker 1: but then also like so.
Speaker 3: Much of that, but I'm feeling that doesn't quite tick
Speaker 3: off this thing of like it's about, yeah, am I
Speaker 3: gonna like have good sex with you? But also am
Speaker 3: I going to feel comfortable with your fucking my boyfriend
Speaker 3: in front of me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah yeah, Like can I firstly assess how good
Speaker 1: you are giving head?
Speaker 2: Is it better than me? Because it's better than me?
Speaker 1: And let me just say absolutely that's this is like
Speaker 1: a parallel universe and that could possibly be situation because
Speaker 1: no one gives the old good block block through that
Speaker 1: I wasn't like I do.
Speaker 2: Nobody finds that bean like down.
Speaker 3: My friend told me the other day that he used
Speaker 3: to think that when he used to give head, like
Speaker 3: eating out. The phrase eating out confused him so much
Speaker 3: so he was like looking for something because he thought
Speaker 3: you meant.
Speaker 2: To be getting like a bean, like a wait what, So.
Speaker 3: He thought like eating out the goal was like you're
Speaker 3: getting something out.
Speaker 1: Why Why does say that like it's given like Pokemon boarders.
Speaker 3: No, I know, so he thought he was in this
Speaker 3: little mission of people trying to get something out, which
Speaker 3: I get is kind of misleading.
Speaker 2: No, it's not.
Speaker 1: No one has ever thought, oh, I'm going to go
Speaker 1: down and stone and get a little bean out of
Speaker 1: the person.
Speaker 4: I love the idea that there is like a little
Speaker 4: bean in that way, but.
Speaker 2: There's not the am I right always been when I
Speaker 2: was I saw sometimes to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, famously very good at head. I know very well
Speaker 3: that has not giving me head.
Speaker 1: I just have to No matter how many times you ask,
Speaker 1: I won't do it every time.
Speaker 2: No, but I do know that you're you've made a
Speaker 2: woman come. Thank you. And if I die tomorrow, this
Speaker 2: is how I want to be remembered.
Speaker 1: Yes, I never understood why people are like, I don't
Speaker 1: know why people are like, where is it like it's
Speaker 1: quite is it not quite obvious?
Speaker 2: Where it is? Yeah? But people are you know, men
Speaker 2: and men, men and men.
Speaker 3: And also I think people don't even know where they're
Speaker 3: looking at the beginning.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, but it's also hard to look like you know,
Speaker 1: where you're looking is like.
Speaker 3: A bean, it's like a jelly bean. If someone has
Speaker 3: pampas grass at their door, it's the international signal that
Speaker 3: they're a swinger. So it's the sort of way to
Speaker 3: tell when they're having a dinner party. Kind of like
Speaker 3: dogging exactly what is it?
Speaker 5: Dog ill It's where you're like you're in the car
Speaker 5: and you flash the headlights a certain way to like
Speaker 5: signal to the other car to come over.
Speaker 2: But so there's this like car park and Hams even.
Speaker 3: I know two people who came to London to visit
Speaker 3: and they were just walking on through that car park.
Speaker 3: They got some of this guy and he was American
Speaker 3: and he was like, oh, I've come all the way
Speaker 3: over for this, and they were like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: we're this thing as well. And then he was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I mean like to come here. And then they were
Speaker 3: like what do you mean do you mean? And then
Speaker 3: he was like, well, like through there and apparently there's
Speaker 3: like a bit where you walk like through the trees
Speaker 3: and then suddenly it's literally like loads.
Speaker 2: Of people fucking yeah, we need to go.
Speaker 3: My mom was once walking on Humpstead Heat and just
Speaker 3: suddenly it was in the like George Michael, you know
Speaker 3: the area yeah, and she was just like, I mean,
Speaker 3: nobody had any interest in her because she was a
Speaker 3: middle aged woman.
Speaker 2: But it was really fun. But she still stayed for
Speaker 2: three hours. I mean she's still there now. This was yesterday.
Speaker 2: She didn't have a dog with her. How what a
Speaker 2: you're walking? Is your dad at a last?
Speaker 1: I remember actually living just outside of cor in this
Speaker 1: little countryside town called bucks Well, and you could walk
Speaker 1: and like see people dogging quite a long if you
Speaker 1: wanted to, and it was quite fun.
Speaker 2: But why is it called dogging?
Speaker 1: I could never tell you, okay, because I've been sworn
Speaker 1: to secrecy by the community doggers. If I were to say,
Speaker 1: they'd come for me and then my family free, but
Speaker 1: then my family's family.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: But I think it's I would like to do more,
Speaker 1: Like I would like to go to more saunas.
Speaker 2: I would like to like go and experience these things more.
Speaker 1: But like what I've experienced so far is well, I
Speaker 1: have been cruised quite a bit, like in my life,
Speaker 1: Like in terms of like cruising is kind of like
Speaker 1: where you're on public transport or like walking through a
Speaker 1: park or something.
Speaker 2: Can you have like long eye contact with somebody.
Speaker 1: And then that's kind of like an instagator of being
Speaker 1: like I'm into you and then you can go have sex.
Speaker 1: Like I remember, actually I remember this happened to be
Speaker 1: on the bus once and it was really hot. But
Speaker 1: then also one time it happened to me. I was
Speaker 1: walking home from a night out and this and this
Speaker 1: guy is like it was given like shameless, like gold tee, tracksuit,
Speaker 1: shaven head, and I actually had already hooked with someone
Speaker 1: in the club lot and I was walking back and
Speaker 1: this man called me a faggot, and I don't know
Speaker 1: what took over me, but like I just turned round
Speaker 1: and I was like, how about I suck your dick?
Speaker 1: And then I just start sucking this man off on
Speaker 1: the street Nail in the fields. We start six and
Speaker 1: nine on the pavement. It's like five o'clock in the
Speaker 1: morning in August.
Speaker 2: No, I remember there. I am hold on in the
Speaker 2: full way of homophobia on my own. Yeah, and I
Speaker 2: was on the pavement.
Speaker 4: I just happened to pass by on the ones before.
Speaker 2: Judge.
Speaker 1: But like sometimes like that, when it again, like when
Speaker 1: it happens in a in a way that kind of
Speaker 1: is organic.
Speaker 2: I guess that by that tracks on the street could
Speaker 2: be called organic. Yes, yes, so.
Speaker 1: Might say it is the most organic that ever could be.
Speaker 1: But no, but like I agree that, like if it's
Speaker 1: not pushed upon me because I don't want to go
Speaker 1: to a space and not find anyone fit or like,
Speaker 1: well that's.
Speaker 2: What I mean. It's the forcedness.
Speaker 3: Yeah, are you jealous when he's getting with other people?
Speaker 2: No? But because I chased hid. Yeah.
Speaker 5: For me, jealousy is just like cancer and like everyone's jealous,
Speaker 5: Like I think everyone is, like saw just a big scale.
Speaker 2: It's about how you deal with it, I think, Yeah.
Speaker 5: And my jealousy was like brought the reins in on.
Speaker 5: It's like a few relationships to girls with someone who
Speaker 5: like slept with all of her friends, like all of them,
Speaker 5: but not only that, you know, fine with that, but
Speaker 5: they would talk about their encounters like openly, like they
Speaker 5: were young, Like I was probably like five years older
Speaker 5: than her. She was like twenty, so I saw her
Speaker 5: as they were just like immature. But like after we
Speaker 5: broke up, I was just like, why was I bothered
Speaker 5: by it?
Speaker 2: Well, you know, they say a jealous in cancer. I
Speaker 2: wanted to and we'll get it. That's a mental statement.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is your eyes when he said it because
Speaker 3: I was like really confused.
Speaker 2: I was like, wait, what, it's a big comparison. It's
Speaker 2: a big comparison. We raise awareness of jealousy. Please, yeah, jealousy.
Speaker 2: I'm sunging charity jealous Will they cure it? Why do
Speaker 2: they cure it? What is the cure? I'm just going
Speaker 2: to run this marathon. Why for jealousy?
Speaker 1: You've got to combat jealousy somehow, Joe, what the big farmer?
Speaker 2: Big Farmer's got the cure for jealousy? Does not give
Speaker 2: it to her. I had this friend Grace, and she
Speaker 2: was really jealous. I'm running this race behind.
Speaker 3: The thing is I get if your partner like has
Speaker 3: slept with a lot of their friends. Like I've been
Speaker 3: in that situation before, and I've also been that person
Speaker 3: before and it definitely spikes feelings.
Speaker 2: But it's kind of like what we talk about quite
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: But it's like it's just like your level of maturity
Speaker 3: and truly shut yes, yes.
Speaker 1: Like I think like if you have especially if you're
Speaker 1: in an open relationship, like you have to have those
Speaker 1: things down or you just can't really venture into those
Speaker 1: into that space.
Speaker 2: It's trust at the end of the day.
Speaker 3: Even like with like my menstrual cycle, Like my feelings
Speaker 3: of jealousy like changed roout different times of the month.
Speaker 3: Because when I'm like on my period or coming onto
Speaker 3: my period, I'm like absolutely insane and I like do
Speaker 3: become quite paranoid.
Speaker 4: And then like after my period, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: that was mad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's good, And do you communicate that thing? Yeah.
Speaker 1: I always feel like I've got like a divorce woman
Speaker 1: inside of me because my mom like fan of divorce,
Speaker 1: like the hatred of men, and I feel.
Speaker 2: Like I've got like a little divorce women inside of me.
Speaker 2: I just stop beating divorced women. You need to stop
Speaker 2: being divorcedomen. But it's so tasty and bitter.
Speaker 3: I did think, like when you up, like I can
Speaker 3: hear like a shrieking, shrill noise coming out.
Speaker 1: Do you say that to your dad? So what was
Speaker 1: it actually like going on a date with a couple,
Speaker 1: because that's the first time you've done that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it didn't quite really feel like a day.
Speaker 3: I just felt like I was interviewing them, to be honest, Yeah,
Speaker 3: like I didn't feel you know, I felt like I
Speaker 3: actually wasn't really what they were looking for in the
Speaker 3: sense that they weren't looking.
Speaker 2: For a third.
Speaker 3: They were looking for other couples, right, like in general.
Speaker 3: And then they were like going to sex parties where
Speaker 3: they were like, you know, finding thirds.
Speaker 4: But I don't know if they were like actually like
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 2: Know if they'd had a threesome.
Speaker 3: So I just felt like I was, you know, doing
Speaker 3: very much like what I'm going to do when I
Speaker 3: come to the dogging park and hamsterd Heath with you,
Speaker 3: just like asking questions and what.
Speaker 1: Yah yeah yeah yeah, And actually from like listening to
Speaker 1: the electric energy from those clips on that.
Speaker 2: Day, Yeah, I look forward to you being whilst I dog.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I get deep dick dogged in hampsterdy Heath
Speaker 1: because I would just.
Speaker 3: Say, there like cheering you on so much, like I
Speaker 3: was actually so proud of you.
Speaker 2: Sometimes when you're trying to put a dick in your
Speaker 2: ask what you need is a cheer.
Speaker 4: You do need someone to be like, yep, you got this.
Speaker 2: Give me an out. I'll spare me. If you need it,
Speaker 2: I'll just spit someone got loose, I'll just driver next time.
Speaker 3: On twenty eight dates later, can I just say if
Speaker 3: I was going on a date with you, I'd be nervous.
Speaker 3: Really yeah, that makes me so happy. I just I
Speaker 3: love the idea that I make man nervous.
Speaker 4: Around for me, I'm a survey it can hurt.
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