1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Matt, how you doing? 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,319 Speaker 3: Hey guys doing? Okay, how you doing? 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: We're great, Welcome to the show. So what's going on 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: with this woman, Shenise? How did you meet? Tell us 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on and kind of 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: where things are now? 8 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 4: Absolutely so, Yeah, Nise and I we met on the apps, 9 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 4: and yeah, I was really excited to take around. 10 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: We jailed immediately. 11 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 4: So I invited her out to this new restaurant in 12 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 4: my neighborhood, and I mean, I got to say when 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 4: she showed up, she was even more gorgeous in person, 14 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 4: like wow, And we had a blast. Like we were 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 4: chatting for several hours, and I couldn't wait to go 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 4: in the next one, next date. But like, I don't know, 17 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 4: ever since we finished that date, I've. 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 3: Been trying to contact here and I've been getting radio 19 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 3: silenced and I do not know why. 20 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so this was a great date in your estimation, 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: but she's ghosting you since then. And obviously you were 22 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: excited about it because you're describing, you know, how much 23 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: better looking she was than you were anticipating and all 24 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 1: these things. So you're really hoping to hear from her again, 25 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: and you, I would imagine it's sort of winging on you, Like, 26 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: why is this person not calling me back? 27 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 2: Yeah? 28 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's something I did, or maybe. 29 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 2: Like something happened to her. I don't know. I just 30 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 2: I want to check in. All right, man, let's call 31 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 2: her now. Good luck, Matt, thank you. 32 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 1: Hi's this Denise, Hi Shaneze, good morning. My name is 33 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: Fredam called from the Fred's Show, the other radio show, 34 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 35 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 36 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Is that okay if we 37 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: chat for a second, Yes, thank you very much. We're 38 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy who reached out to us. 39 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: His name is Matt. I guess you recently went on 40 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: a first date with him. Do you remember him? 41 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I remember? 42 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh you remember this guy. 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: So he told us that he, you know, thought you 44 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: were really pretty and he had a great time on 45 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: the date and was hoping to see you again. And 46 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: he says he's reached out since then but has not 47 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: been able to get a hold of you. So what's 48 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: going on? Are you ghosting this guy? I assume what's 49 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: the deal. 50 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: I did not intend to. 51 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 5: I don't know if he told you this, But that's vegan. 52 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: He's vegan, okay, And he didn't he didn't share that 53 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 2: with us. 54 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 3: No, and it's not it's not like okay, it just 55 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: happens to be vegan or guys, like the whole time 56 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: you talked about it judged me and what I I 57 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 3: need those articles yet about what I was eating as bad? 58 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 2: Oh no, while you were eating yes, yeah, see. 59 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: It's one thing if you want to be vegetarian, vegan, 60 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is, you know, pescatarian, all these different versions, 61 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: that's one thing for you. But as soon as you 62 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: start preaching, and especially if you start judging and like 63 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: pointing out things that people are doing wrong in real time, 64 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: like why would I want to spend time with that? 65 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like what I mean? 66 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: It's one thing if you want to try to influence 67 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: me in a in a over the course of a relationship, 68 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: maybe to be a little more healthy or whatever things 69 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: that you found work, But I don't. 70 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to eat my steak. 71 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: And the whole time you're like, oh, well, you know 72 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: that's no fun. 73 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, thank you. 74 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 3: It's not like I was trying to like encourage them 75 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: to eat meat. 76 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let me bring I got to bring up 77 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: madd In because I forgot to mention that mattis here. 78 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm extremely forgetful, Matt. What's the deal? Why why are 79 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: you writing her on your choices? 80 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: Hey? 81 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: Guys, Yeah, hey, hey niece. 82 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I honestly just want to say that I simply 83 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 4: care about you and I want the best for you, 84 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 4: and I'm just trying to help. 85 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 3: That's all, okay. I mean, like what you think is, yeah, 86 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 3: it's best for you, right, yeah, and like I mean, 87 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 3: ask for help. It is also best for the environment 88 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: and best for your health and you know all those 89 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: other things. But it's it's nothing, nothing personal, you know, 90 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 3: it's just an active service. 91 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: I think people's dietary choices are personal, and the reasons 92 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: why they eat what they eat, I think that is personal, 93 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: and nobody wants to feel judged. And again, if it 94 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: works for you, that doesn't necessarily mean it works for 95 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: somebody else. And you also got to remember, this is 96 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: a first impression. I mean, it's the first time she's 97 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: ever met you, So what's she supposed to What's she 98 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: going to expect that you're gonna look her up and down, 99 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: check out her outfit, and then then judge everything she 100 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: ever orders. 101 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: When you guys go out to eat, that's no fun. No, no, no, no, it. 102 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 4: Is nothing like that. 103 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 5: It's and you're right, it is a little personal because 104 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 5: we are all you know, people here on this earth 105 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 5: or you know, we want to make sure that we're 106 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 5: not contributing to downfall stuff. 107 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 3: You know, there are all these articles that haven't written. 108 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 2: Look them up on not Listen. 109 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: I love that Johnny for you, but you know, no 110 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: one wants to go on a date and be judged 111 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: by what they're eating. I don't eat beef, but I 112 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: would never tell someone across the table not to order 113 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: a steak like that's my choice. 114 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, well sounds like both of you want to die young. 115 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: Damn okay, extreme at all? Yeah, I don't know what 116 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: the statement. Yeah, I was going to say, wait. 117 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 4: A minute, very happy. 118 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 2: On the boat. I choke on it. What happened? I mean, 119 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 2: where was I Was it a good steakhouse? I hope? 120 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 3: So? 121 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: I mean he's well talking about like this it is. 122 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: I understand it's for you, but it doesn't necessarily mean 123 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: it's for me or that that's going to happen. But 124 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: you out here telling me I'm gonna die. 125 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 5: Well, you know what, you can't feel motions when you're dead. 126 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 3: So enjoy your happiness while you have. 127 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, all right, wow. 128 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 3: Enjoy your heart attack. 129 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see here where you go get This guy 130 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: is a blast to go on a day with that. 131 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 2: I can't wait. 132 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure Shenie is just was just you know, 133 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: when she was so excited to call you, she forgot. 134 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: Do I even have to? I'm going to ask anyway 135 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: you want to go out with this guy? Matt again, 136 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: that's a know for you, Doug. All right, Matt, look man, 137 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 1: good luck to you on your journey. I might a 138 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: little less judgmental. Or how about just go find somebody 139 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: who's vegan. Then he won't have any trouble. 140 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. Thanks guys, thanks for all your help.