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Speaker 1: What is up? Welcome back to Happy Hour listeners. This

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Speaker 1: is Michelle Young. I'm going to be your solo host

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Speaker 1: today as Becca could not make it, so until she

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Speaker 1: returns next week, I'm going to be holding down the fort.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited because we are having our guests Brooklyn

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Speaker 1: about her time in the rodeo, about this huge week

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Speaker 1: that she spent in London while Zach had COVID. But

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Speaker 1: before we bring her on today, I'm going to fill

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Speaker 1: you in with some things that I've been up to.

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Speaker 1: I've been so excited. I've been teasing a lot of

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Speaker 1: the different activities, different organizations, different launches that I have

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Speaker 1: coming up. And I'm so proud to officially announce that

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Speaker 1: my website, Michelle Young Official dot com is actually launching

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Speaker 1: and by the time it's come out comes out, it's

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Speaker 1: actually going to be launched. But again that's Michelle Young

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Speaker 1: Official dot Com. It's going to showcase all the different

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Speaker 1: foundations orzations, nonprofits campaigns that I am running. In the

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Speaker 1: next year. It's going to focus on showcasing all of

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Speaker 1: those due diligences, all those giving back events that I've

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Speaker 1: promised so much to my followers and that I've tried

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Speaker 1: to involve fans and followers with becoming an impact alongside

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Speaker 1: of me, and so please make sure to go check

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Speaker 1: that out. But before we bring in Brooklyn, we have

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Speaker 1: to recap last night's episode. There was so much that

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Speaker 1: was happening, and as I was watching first, I have

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Speaker 1: to start off by saying, I'm truly enjoying watching Gabby

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Speaker 1: and Zach in their connection together. It seems like one

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Speaker 1: of the most genuine connections on the screen. Honestly as

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Speaker 1: a viewer, as somebody who has gone through it with

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Speaker 1: all of the cameras around, I feel like I forget

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Speaker 1: that this isn't even a TV show when I'm watching

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Speaker 1: them together, and absolutely loved their whole royal perfume creation date. Gabby.

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Speaker 1: I'll say one of my favorite piece parts about Gabby

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Speaker 1: is just she's quirky. She seems down to earth. As

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Speaker 1: they're trying out these different perfumes, you know, you're in

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Speaker 1: a royal setting, it's like a high classy setting, and

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Speaker 1: this girl is labeling these scents as sour Patch, Christmas

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Speaker 1: it is leave it to Gabby to bring everything back

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Speaker 1: down to earth, regardless if we're in London, regardless if

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Speaker 1: My only question and I'm so curious this is maybe

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Speaker 1: something that I should ask on my social media story.

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Speaker 1: But happy our listeners. Zabby the scent Zabby for Zach

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Speaker 1: and Gabby. Nobody ever gave an description of what that's

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Speaker 1: or guess what the perfume scent of Zabby would be,

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Speaker 1: what would it smell like? Let's be honest, but also

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Speaker 1: let's be nice. Okay, moving forward, I will say this, Gabby,

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Speaker 1: she was the one who got the fashion date. I'll

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Speaker 1: say it's so so tricky to watch these dates. I

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Speaker 1: feel like there's a fashion date every single every single season.

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Speaker 1: And as a person who's been on that couch while

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Speaker 1: I'm wrong, But there's gonna be some kind of statistic

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Speaker 1: that goes back to the person who gets the shopping date.

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Speaker 1: Nearly always makes it to the final four, if not wins.

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Speaker 1: Rachel Kirkconnell, Susie. I believe Susie and Clayton were on

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Speaker 1: That's just my guess. But anyways, I want to know.

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Speaker 1: They're in London, they're excited, they're finally on the road,

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Speaker 1: But for these girls to then go throughout the whole

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Speaker 1: Let's bring her in. Welcome. Brooklyn Beckett is so sad

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Speaker 1: the episodes, and also have you give us a teaser?

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Speaker 1: It's this realis is really happening, It's real. Where are

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Speaker 1: So oh that's so. That's so nice of you to

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Speaker 1: But first off, how did you come about to being

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Speaker 1: It's actually funny. We you know, always joked, oh Brooklyn,

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Speaker 1: he was different than the men in the rodeo dating scene? Oh,

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Speaker 1: So you went straight from the live show to filming? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Did you feel spark like? I'm sure you were nervous,

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Speaker 1: I was definitely still nervous. How Ever, I kind of

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Speaker 1: romantic relationship. So feeling that I did feel the connection

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00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: of a lot faster, a lot further, but in a

430
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: good way and definitely in the right direction. Yeah, I

431
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: want to definitely give you some time to kind of

432
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: like dive into just the conversation that you had with

433
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 1: Zach as much in detail or little as detail as

434
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: you are comfortable and you would like to, you know,

435
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 1: going on that one on one day, everyone kind of

436
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: knows like the day portion is for like this adventure

437
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: and this fun piece, and then you know that the

438
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: night portion is kind of where you have the more

439
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 1: serious conversations. Was that something that like waking up that

440
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: morning or just or I guess after figuring out that

441
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: you're going on that one on one? Is that something

442
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: that was in the forefront of your mind of this

443
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: is something I really want him to know about me

444
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: right off the bat. Yes, absolutely, you know, I was

445
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 1: super excited to have a one on one, But like

446
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: he said, like in the back of my mind, was

447
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: am I ready to share this with him? Is he

448
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: ready to hear this? Like I didn't want him to

449
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: feel like I was trauma dumping on him or anything like.

450
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 1: But I feel sharing about my past relationship with any

451
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 1: new relationship is very important and it's not something I've

452
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 1: really been able to do in past relationships, just because

453
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 1: it's shaped me to who I am and it gives

454
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: him just a little bit more information on why I

455
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 1: am the way that I am and how I handle things,

456
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: how I see things in my perception of, you know,

457
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: relationships moving forward. So it was on my mind. It

458
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: was you know, that's a lot of what I thought

459
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,360
Speaker 1: about was like, Okay, the day is so much fun,

460
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: I'm having a great time. But then it was like

461
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: lingering cloud I was like, oh my god, Like I

462
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: knew it was I felt comfortable and I felt safe

463
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: doing it, but I was like, is this going to

464
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: be too much? Is this you know, is this really

465
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: what I should do at this point? But you know,

466
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: it floats so naturally that I was happy everything happened

467
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: the way that it did, but it was definitely on

468
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: my mind of is now a time? Yeah, I will

469
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 1: say that I really do applaud with how you handle

470
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: that entire situation. And you use the words trauma dumping, right,

471
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: and like that's a huge phrase. I guess you can

472
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: call it that. It's not even so much the contestants

473
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: use it, but like the viewers use it. That's somebody

474
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: who's watched the show, like you said, you have. It's

475
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: like you really do hear these stories, and it kind

476
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: of it can seem to viewers that it's trauma dumping.

477
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: But what's so hard is that for us walking in

478
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: and having these conversations, for somebody like you was having

479
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: these conversations, you almost have to like your relationship moves

480
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 1: so fast and so serious and it's so real and

481
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: it's for an engagement, and so it's like it really

482
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 1: does puts you in a position where you have to

483
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: be confident or courageous I guess, and brave enough to

484
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: have these conversations because you are doing it in front

485
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: of the camera, which one incredibly vulnerable. It's an incredibly

486
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: strong thing to do and to talk about and to

487
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: kind of just really put your life out there and

488
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,959
Speaker 1: the struggles that you've had and really like connect with

489
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,479
Speaker 1: not only Zach but a lot of other people who

490
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: are watching the show and who have been through similar things.

491
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 1: And to not even just like watch you speak about

492
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: it and to watch you connect with Zac about it,

493
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: and to see Zach respond to you, and just to

494
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: see a healthy conversation around past trauma was something that

495
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: was really just even impactful for me to watch so truly, like,

496
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: I really do applaud you for how you handle the situation,

497
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: how you spoke about that. I know that's not easy.

498
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: I know it's always kind of trying to navigate when

499
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: the right time is to have those conversations. But in

500
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: my book, if if it's something that you need to

501
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: talk about, it's the right time, and like it's right

502
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: if it's something that's important to you, it's the right time. Shit,

503
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: regardless if you're jumping out of a plane, regardless if

504
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: you're whatever you're doing, whatever you're doing on an adventurous

505
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: date in the Bahamas, Like, if it's something that's weighing

506
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: on you, especially in the situation where it's a serious

507
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: relationship engagement, commitment, like talk about it. Yeah, so yeah,

508
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: very much, very much. Start, So you guys have this conversation,

509
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: and how did you feel about how Zach responded because

510
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: I kind of give my opinion with how he handled it,

511
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: But what did you have worries about talking about this?

512
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: Did you have worries about how it was received and

513
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: like has it been received differently maybe in the past

514
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: and other relationships. Yeah, I definitely did have worries and

515
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: reservations going into it sharing that with him, you know,

516
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: I didn't want me telling him that to make him think, Oh,

517
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: I mean like she's she's still dealing with this or

518
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: she's not healed. Like that's not the case. Like I'm

519
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,959
Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I'm healing every day. It's kind

520
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: of like you have to choose to continue to heal

521
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: every day after situations like that and with other situations

522
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: as well. So I was concerned that he would be like, oh,

523
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: maybe like she still needs to like work some stuff out.

524
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: But that was the complete opposite of how he handled

525
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: and how he reacted. He was very receptive. He was

526
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not just like oh okay, gotcha. Yeah,

527
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: he was. You know, I could feel that, not that

528
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to hurt him, but that he hurt with me.

529
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: Not like I said, I don't want anyone to hurt

530
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: or anything, and I didn't want him to hurt too.

531
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: But it just showed that he cared, and he was

532
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: listening intently and that he was hearing everything I had

533
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: to say and taking it seriously. He didn't ever take

534
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: it the way I thought where he was like, oh gosh,

535
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: she's still healing. He understood that I went through something

536
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: that is really hard and that I have made an

537
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: effort to heal from that and I am continuing to

538
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: make that effort. So he handled it with such grace

539
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: and it was so receptive that all of my worries

540
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: at the time I completely forgot about them at the

541
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: end of the night. That's really I'm very very happy

542
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: to see that. And honestly, that came through the screen

543
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: just you would kind of almost just see your body

544
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: language take like a deep breath after you had taught

545
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: like spoken about it, even like regardless of how it went,

546
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: just a deep breath of like, this is something that

547
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: I've been having, like weighing on you, not even dealing

548
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: with or holding onto, but it's like something that's been

549
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: winging on you that you've kind of had to like

550
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: navigate through. And it seems like your level of trust

551
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: kind of skyrocketed. Would you say that, like the relationship,

552
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: what was like the feeling I guess at the end

553
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: of that night or after that conversation and how it went,

554
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: How do you feel like your connection changed after that?

555
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: Like you said, it truly was a weight lifted off

556
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: my shoulders, and even still like it's just a complete

557
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: weight lifted off my shoulders because like I said, it

558
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: was a cloud just lingering over me. But I feel

559
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: like after that, like I said, our connection to skyrocketed.

560
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: I felt so heard and secure and just safe and

561
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: where I was, you know, sharing something like that. You

562
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: have to feel safe to share that information, and I did.

563
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: And then I really feel like our relationship blossomed a

564
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: lot more than I was expecting, because, like I said,

565
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to expect going in but very

566
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: I continued to feel very safe in the relationship and

567
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: just felt safer and safer, like I could share anything

568
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: with him. I mean, if I can share that, I

569
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: can share just about anything. Yeah, did you after like

570
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: sharing that? Just I'm curious of just social media and

571
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: just you know, having a platform or just putting yourself

572
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: out there in that vulnerable, vulnerable position in the public eye.

573
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: Did you receive support? Did you have people who really

574
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: like either reached out to you or just related to

575
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: what you had gone through? Yes? Absolutely, the support and

576
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: the love has been overwhelming in the best way possible.

577
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: I have had a lot of people reach out to me,

578
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: and you know, even if they didn't relate to saying

579
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,479
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing, like you could help someone, and

580
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: then other women that have been through similar things just

581
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: sharing and saying thank you. You know, you have showed

582
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: me that you things do get better, you can heal,

583
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: you can't be brave, just stuff like that. And it's

584
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: so hard to respond to everyone because I'm serious. I've

585
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,719
Speaker 1: probably had at least a thousand messages that I've seen. Yeah,

586
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: and it's been you know, just incredible that they feel

587
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: that they can share with me, which of course, anytime

588
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: anyone ever can, but that you know, like I said,

589
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: I if I can help just one person, If me

590
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: sharing my story can benefit at least one person somehow,

591
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: some way, then maybe that's the reason God had me

592
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: go through it. I don't know, but that's what I'm

593
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: going to tell myself. So if they could help one person,

594
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm thankful. And I'm so thankful for just the outpouring

595
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: of love and support I've received since doing that, because

596
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: that was big, it really it was. Yeah, it scared enough.

597
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: I'm going to get I will get emotional right there

598
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: with you, as I can see you're getting emotional now

599
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: just talking about it. But it's in such a such

600
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: an empowering way, and I really am, like, I know,

601
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: we don't haven't known each other for all of what

602
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 1: thirty minutes we've been talking, right, I really am, though,

603
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: proud of you, just from woman to woman to to

604
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: doing that. And there's a lot of people who've been

605
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: through different things, you know that that they haven't been

606
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 1: able to share that, and for you to kind of

607
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: set that open that door, just give that reminder of

608
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: people that it's okay to have those conversations is so

609
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: powerful and I know that Charity. You and Charity are

610
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: really closed. We had her on last week and we

611
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: spoke a little bit about your friendship with everything, because

612
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: you can just see that y'all connect, you get each other,

613
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: and she told you just how proud she was of

614
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: you for telling your story. Were the like, how was

615
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: the support with the other women in the house once

616
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 1: you had opened up, because you know, yeah, the support

617
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: with all the women was incredible. I mean, we had

618
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: a great group of girls. Everyone there was just incredibly

619
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: supportive in all aspects. But opening up about that, you know,

620
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: I think I've heard from every single woman in the

621
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: house just telling me they're proud of me, thanking me

622
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: for doing that for other women, and just being there,

623
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: you know, just saying like I'm proud of you, or

624
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,439
Speaker 1: just being a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen,

625
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: anything like that. So that support during filming and after

626
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: from all the women has been incredible. Definitely, like you said,

627
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 1: Charity's my rock, Like she was engraced through the whole thing.

628
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: So I was super thankful to be able to really

629
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: confide in her and dive a lot deeper with her

630
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: in a lot of these conversations but especially that one.

631
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: And I mean not just because of her profession, but

632
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: just her how incredible she is. She really helped me,

633
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: you know, walk it, walk through it, talk through it,

634
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: and it was wonderful, it was amazing, And I'm beyond

635
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: thankful for everyone, but certainly beyond thankful for charity and

636
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: our friendship. Yeah. Absolutely, what would you say to other

637
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna even say women. I'm gonna just say

638
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: other people in general who might be going through a

639
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: healing process similar to yours or might be going through

640
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: a similar situation. Yeah. Something I would tell anyone in

641
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: this situation or in my past situation healing anything like

642
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: that is you are strong, your courageous, and you're worthy

643
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: of love, first of all, first and foremost. But that

644
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: to remember, healing is not a linear journey. You'll have

645
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: good days, you'll have bad days, and you can't dwell

646
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 1: on the bad days. Every day is an active choice,

647
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: even you know, the hardest part is leaving. Truthfully, even

648
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: after that, even after you've left, the hardest part, after

649
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: you've done the worst of it, is leaving is just

650
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: choosing to love yourself every day, know your worth and

651
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 1: to keep moving forward. It is possible and it is

652
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: so worth it. But I would just encourage everyone too,

653
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: in my situation or a previous situation or healing, to

654
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: just keep the strength and keep being strong and choose

655
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: yourself and not to dwell, not to dwell on any

656
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: of the bad days. There is life cool. Healing is

657
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: not linear. I absolutely love the way that you put that.

658
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: And we are going to switch gears into our group day.

659
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: But before we switch gears, just because I know that

660
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: these situations are so important and the conversations are so

661
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: important to have. Is there anything else just that you

662
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: want to get off your chest about this conversation or

663
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: advice or anything related to this journey that you this

664
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: healing journey that you've gone on before. Before we do that,

665
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we've covered you know, the meat

666
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: of it all. You know that it does get better.

667
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: You can't get out of it. Healing snot linear. Those

668
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: are the most important parts, but that you don't have

669
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: to do it alone. You know it's hard reaching out

670
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: for help. It's you know, I like I said, I

671
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: was embarrassed, but you shouldn't be embarrassed. Reaching out for

672
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: help is the best thing you can do. So just

673
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: get straight to it. Truly an inspiration. Thank you for

674
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: sharing that, Brooklyn. So we aren't switch hears on to

675
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: a little bit of this group date, experiencing this magical

676
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: city with Zach right in London, all these other things

677
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: that are going on. But before we go into the

678
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: group date, what are your thoughts on you're sitting on

679
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: the couch with all these women right the infamous couches

680
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: that happen and take place, and the anxiety and stressors

681
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: of sitting on the couches as we wait for the

682
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: dick cards. What were your thoughts or what are your

683
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: thoughts at this point with the other women shedding tears

684
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: over not getting that week's one on one, Totally understandable.

685
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: You know, I had my one on one, so I

686
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 1: knew I probably wouldn't be getting another one that week.

687
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 1: But I understand because it's so easy to compare your

688
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 1: journey to someone else's, and it's so easy to get

689
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: in your head and think, Okay, well there's so much

690
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: further ahead me because they've already had a one on

691
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: one and I'm getting left behind. What if he's not

692
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: into me. It's just so easy to spiral, So I

693
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:52,879
Speaker 1: totally understand other women being concerned, being upset that they

694
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: haven't got that one on one yet. But it's valid,

695
00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: totally valid to feel that way. I think it's such

696
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: an important reminder with what you just said just to

697
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: yours in general, of it is so easy to spiral.

698
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: You could be walking into this environment as the most confident,

699
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: level headed person and it's just like you're in a

700
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: room full of emotions constantly, and whether you're not necessarily

701
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: putting that out, like you're still absorbing other people's anxiety

702
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: and stress and you don't have your normal support system

703
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 1: near you. You're still trying to figure out what this

704
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: hold is, like, what the hell is actually going on

705
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: in this entire world, Like there's so much that is

706
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: taking place that it's like, I think a lot of

707
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 1: people at home are like, well, she's crying over nothing,

708
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: like you just met him and all these other things,

709
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 1: but it's such an intense moment. It's like it's constantly

710
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: such an intense moment. Like you said, comparing, there's constant comparisons.

711
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: How did you handle that mentally for yourself with not

712
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: letting your mind spiral or what did you do to

713
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: kind of like reel yourself back in when you really

714
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 1: felt yourself, like feeling the weight of everything. You know,

715
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: it was hard. There was some days that I would

716
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: spiral more than others. But in order to just kind

717
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 1: of keep myself sane and grounded, honestly, a lot of

718
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 1: it was me and Charity talked it out a lot,

719
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: but a lot of it, like with myself, I had

720
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: to just continue to remind myself that comparison is the

721
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: thief of joy and that my walk is different than

722
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: everyone else's. I can't continue to compare myself in any

723
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: way relationship wise. I mean, we're in a room full

724
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: of beautiful, smart women. I can't compare myself there either.

725
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: So it was a constant reminder and beg on like affirmations,

726
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: So constantly reminding myself, affirming myself and just trying to

727
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: kind of take myself out of the stress and you know,

728
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 1: find a happy place and remind myself that me and

729
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 1: Zact do have a good connection and be confident in

730
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: what we do have and what I know. Because what

731
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: one person says, you could take it completely out of

732
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: context of like what they're actually saying. They could actually

733
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: be saying, Oh, it's kind of on the rocks but

734
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: it comes across to you like, oh my god, like

735
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: I already know I'm the one, so like, I think,

736
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 1: just reminding myself that my journey is not theirs was

737
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: the biggest grounding technique I used. Yeah, okay, wait, I'm

738
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: big on an affirmations. It's like one of your go

739
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: to affirmations. I think definitely. It's like I'm strong. You know.

740
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: It's so simple, but yeah, simple, but you know, thinking

741
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: however you need it, apply it wherever you need. That's

742
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: why I like that one, right right. Okay, So we

743
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: know that the group date obviously didn't go quite to plant,

744
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: but it seems like you ended up having like at

745
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: least a little bit of fun. Can you tell us

746
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: about how the day went. Yeah, we have. We had

747
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 1: a great time. We had a lot of fun. It

748
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: was really disappointing, you know, the way things played out,

749
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: but knowing that Zack still wanted us to have a

750
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: good time was really refreshing and kind. You know, he

751
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: could easily have been like sorry, like y'all just chill

752
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: just hanging out at the hotel, but no, he wanted

753
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: us to have a good time, so that was refreshing.

754
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: But we had a great time. You know, it was

755
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: a lot of fun to get to bond with all

756
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: the women even more than you know we already had,

757
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 1: but also kind of taking the pressure and like the

758
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: awkward part out of a group date, because you know,

759
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: on group dates it's it's so strange because like we're

760
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: all friends and we're rooting for each other, but also

761
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: we're like, okay, she just talked to him twice, like

762
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: come on, like get you can't help but to get jealous.

763
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: So that we got to take that out and just

764
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: really have fun with each other without the clause. There

765
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: are so many like implied rules of respect, I think

766
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: amongst the cast of just how to handle like fight

767
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: for what you want, but also like handle it respectfully

768
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 1: as possible. I know that the girls. I can't remember

769
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: who said it, but someone was like I was constantly

770
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 1: waiting for Zac to pop up at what going did

771
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: you realize like this man's not showing up on the stage.

772
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 1: I was skeptical from the get go when we first

773
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 1: got the note everyone, I mean, I was like, there's

774
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like he's not feeling well. There's

775
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: no way if I'm not feeling good, I count me

776
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: out of the rest of the day because I'm gonna

777
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: milk it. Honestly, I don't do love when I'm not

778
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: feeling good. But We're sitting at the cocktail party and

779
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: it had been long enough, and I was like, okay,

780
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: we're getting stood up on national television. Not that it

781
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: was his fault, but I was like, oh, yeah, this

782
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: isn't happening. So it was probably it was during the

783
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: cocktail party that I was like, this is definitely not happening.

784
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 1: So a little disappointing, but you know, what can you do? It?

785
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: Also does it necessarily like look good on his part

786
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: at that point, So it's like you can like, yes,

787
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: you guys are feeling stood up, But at the same time,

788
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 1: I was like, this looks bad on him, not y'all. Yeah, yeah,

789
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 1: but I mean, I know there's so many factors that

790
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: go into it, but I was kind of like, okay,

791
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: come on, like you could have told us something sooner.

792
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 1: But I also understand there's so many factors that play

793
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: into it, and I know he'd probably tried his best

794
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: to make it. Um yeah, just didn't go in his direction,

795
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: didn't fall in his favor this time, or okay, so

796
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 1: I have to ask did anyone get the beef eater

797
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 1: to flinch? Yeah? We did. Um, I'm not exactly sure

798
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: who or how, but finally we cracked him. He was

799
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: probably just sick of us and like, okay, get him

800
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: out of here, Like if I move and if I flinch,

801
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: will they leave me alone? Oh my gosh. I was

802
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: so surprised, like was it was it an actor or

803
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: like legitimately no, I mean you guys, I'm here watching it,

804
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: like he's gonna get scolded? Can you get fired? Like yeah,

805
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: by the thing? He was like, did you just make

806
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: this poorman listen his job? Did we just get him? Fine?

807
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: Is he going to jail? Like? Right? So, who was

808
00:45:55,320 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: someone's like torking in this porn man? Yeah? We I

809
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: mean we tried everything. We pulled all the tricks out,

810
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna hope he's an actor. But if

811
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: he's an actor, I mean, like made your skills of

812
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: not fluinching, Like honestly, he did a good job, like

813
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: he oh yeah, he's shown a little bit of personality,

814
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: which like that's not the worst thing. Okay, so don't

815
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 1: I hope he doesn't get in trouble for this. Of course,

816
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 1: we just like draw more attention to him. But okay,

817
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,280
Speaker 1: so you guys do end up making like the best

818
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: of the day, Like you do turn it around, You

819
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: do like take a moment to pause and realize where

820
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: you're at, and you know, like make the best of

821
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: the opportunity, end up laughing, enjoying each other's company. But

822
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: then that night, going into that night now knowing how

823
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: it played out and like unfortunately Zack's not able to

824
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,720
Speaker 1: make it that evening. Did you feel like between that period,

825
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: like there's a weird period of time where you like

826
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: go on a group jay and then you like run

827
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: back and you're like eating and getting ready and like

828
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 1: figure out what you're going to talk about that night.

829
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: Did you have any the idea or feeling that he

830
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: was not going to be making it to the cocktail

831
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: party or the after party. Yeah. I kind of had

832
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: a guess that he might not be coming, just because,

833
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 1: like I said, he wasn't feeling good and if I'm

834
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: not feeling good, I'm not coming either. But I looking

835
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: at like surely he's coming, because he wouldn't have a

836
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: skit ready. I mean, I'm sure he knows how long

837
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 1: it takes women to get ready. He probably wouldn't have

838
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: it ready for him not to come, So I'm sure

839
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: with that in mind, he tried his very best to

840
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:37,359
Speaker 1: make an appearance. It just couldn't happen. But I did

841
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 1: kind of have a rough idea, maybe this isn't happening,

842
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: but I was gonna go find out anyways, because I

843
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: was hoping it would. I love that. I love that energy.

844
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 1: What was the energy though in the room after hearing

845
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: the news, just the news that he was not going

846
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: to be there, he went the full day hoping to

847
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: be able to see him, like kind of mustering up

848
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: more energy than you had, like whatever energy you had

849
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 1: left to get ready for this after party, and then

850
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 1: he doesn't show up again. Yeah, at this point, you

851
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: guys don't know that it's COVID, right, But we didn't

852
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: know at that point. You know, we kind of took

853
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: our guests just because, like if it was a cold

854
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: or something, we were like, oh, he would just be

855
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: like don't kiss me or something like that. But we

856
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: kind of guessed it was something more serious because he

857
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't just not show up for something small. The energy

858
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: in the room though, was very a little mixed. It

859
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: was like part like you could tell people were just

860
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: like really bummed and super sad, but you could also

861
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: tell some girls were like genuinely pissed off, which is understandable,

862
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: and I felt both ways. I was super sad. I was.

863
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: We were all concerned for him. We were like, Okay, well,

864
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: this obviously has to be something big. I hope he's

865
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: doing Okay, I hope you know it's nothing serious. But

866
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: we were also just really just let down. Yeah. No,

867
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: I totally get that. And it's like it's souch a

868
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: different dating situation because if you were just normally dating

869
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 1: at home, you can see them whenever you want, you

870
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: can text, Like normally, if somebody cancels a date and

871
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: they're not feeling well, like you're either talking over texting

872
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: still or like you know, okay, you can reschedule for

873
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: the next day. But this is a situation where you

874
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: don't know the next time you're going to see him,

875
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: absolutely yeah, and then the relationship can just abruptly end.

876
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: So like there's a lot that's on the line here. Definitely, Yeah,

877
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: that was I think that's also something that went through

878
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,439
Speaker 1: all of our minds. It's like we can't really check

879
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: on him, you know, we can't call him be like

880
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: are you okay? Or he could have you know, in

881
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: a normal situation, he would have been able to text

882
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: us or call us and be like, oh hey sorry,

883
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: like I'm not going to make it and here's why

884
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: instead of a note, like a message in a bottle

885
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: kind of thing. Okay, so you're you have charity. Then

886
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: who's in this position where she this girl, this poor

887
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 1: girl already knows that she's going to get her one

888
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: on one date the next day. She's been so excited,

889
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: like her name wasn't on the group A card, that

890
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: feeling like I finally got to have this time. And

891
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: then what was going through her mind? Like what did

892
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: she did she talk to you about? Or how did

893
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,919
Speaker 1: you feel for her? Just with her not knowing what

894
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: the one on one was gonna look like, is it

895
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: gonna even take place? Yeah? It was. I mean she

896
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: was visibly upset, rightfully, So I was upset for her.

897
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: You know, it's still that weird situation like that's my

898
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: very best friend and I want, you know, to see

899
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: her go on her date. But it's like we're still

900
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: digging the same man. But I really didn't even focus

901
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: on that at moment. Honestly, I felt so bad for

902
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: her because she'd already had one moment snatched away from

903
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: her previously covided this moment away from her, and I

904
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well, I hope she gets everything and more,

905
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: because I mean, she's had a rough go. You know,

906
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: like I said, she was upset. We were all upset

907
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: for her. She didn't know, you know, if she was

908
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: going to get the next one on one that she

909
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: didn't know I was gonna be guaranteed, or if how

910
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: things were gonna work, you know, if she was gonna

911
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: get skipped over. None of us had any idea. But

912
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: like I said, she had moments snatched. So it's really

913
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: sucked to see it happened two times in a row,

914
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: only because you run up the words snatched, and I've

915
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: been wanting you to ask. I've been wanting to ask

916
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 1: this because you're blood. I love, I love how blood

917
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 1: you are. You just speak it, you say it with

918
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: like unapologetically yourself. Okay, this moment where her moment gets snatched,

919
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: right where she gets the group day, Rose, can you

920
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:40,439
Speaker 1: enlighten us on your perspective of what happened during that.

921
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna go a little bit back in time. Yes, yeah,

922
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 1: it was just kind of one of those moments. I

923
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 1: don't I mean, looking back on it, it's just one

924
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: of those like what are what are you thinking? Like

925
00:51:55,880 --> 00:52:00,320
Speaker 1: what is going on? Um? You know, she was anyone

926
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: who ever gets throws is deserving of that moment, but

927
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: like especially her, she's been Honestly, she was everyone's rock there.

928
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: She kept everyone grounded. Literally, Um, you know, she was

929
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: a voice of reason and then to just have that

930
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 1: disrespect thrown at her, I was like, that's not gonna work.

931
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: We're not gonna have this. So you know, like you said,

932
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: I am pretty blunt. I'll just say what I'm thinking.

933
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: There it is. I'm not gonna, you know, keep I

934
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: mean I kind of didn't want to keep, just like

935
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 1: driving home the point, but I could see she was

936
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: visibly upset, and I was like, now it's not the time.

937
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: Let's read the room. I said what I said there

938
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: it is. Let's move on and let's support charity as

939
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:44,839
Speaker 1: best we can, because that was not right when you're

940
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: laughing so hard. Okay, wait, did you do typically costs? Yeah? Okay,

941
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: I honestly you said what we all were thinking. So

942
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: thank you for that and you said it very bluntly,

943
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: boldly with dictation, and that's that amazing. Well, okay, so

944
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: you're going into this rose ceremony now. Jesse tells you

945
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: that it's your break in history. It's going to be

946
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: the first virtual don't you love anytime he says that

947
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: this has never happened before, you're either You're like, oh shit,

948
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: what's coming? Like does it? It's so it's so anxiety provoking,

949
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh god, what what what are we

950
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: doing now? But you learned that the cocktail party is

951
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: going to be virtual? At this point, what were your

952
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: thoughts on talking to Zach through a screen? Honestly, my

953
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: first thought was social media's gonna have a heyday with this.

954
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: They're gonna have a lot of fun. True. I was

955
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: excited that, you know, we were able to make it

956
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: work somehow and get to talk to him. Um, I

957
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: was a little curious on how how it was going

958
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 1: to work as far as like stealing, like, um, what

959
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,720
Speaker 1: you am I supposed to like get in an argument

960
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 1: with an iPad? Like it was just oh my god, wait,

961
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: how did that work? Um? Basically we just sort of

962
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: like can I steal the atad? I mean Zach, like

963
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: you know, I mean it was like stealing like normal. Um,

964
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: you would interduct it as you normally would. And it

965
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: was just on an iPad and just a little awkward,

966
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: but worth it because, like I said, at least get

967
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 1: to talk to him. UM. So honestly, goodies. Yeah, we

968
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 1: we loved it. It was it was a little spice up.

969
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: I did love I did love that. But of course

970
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: you got a rose. We'll be heading into next week

971
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 1: with hopefully an in person's act this time, but we

972
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: aren't sure where you all are headed next. But can

973
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: you tease a little bit of what is to come? Um,

974
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: I will say, expect the unexpected. Oh okay, I like that.

975
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 1: I think okay, I like that. I heay. Honestly, there's

976
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: always plot twists here. Can't expect anything less. But we're

977
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 1: going to move into a game, Brooklyn. It's called rapid

978
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: fire Questions. I've truly enjoyed getting to know you. This

979
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: game is to allow our listeners to get to know

980
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: you even more. So I'm going to throw a quick

981
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: question your way. You're going to give like a one

982
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,479
Speaker 1: word response or a phrase. It's rapid fire back and forth.

983
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: You don't have to give any explanation and we'll rattle

984
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 1: through them. Are you ready? I'm ready? Okay. Are you

985
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: an early riser or a night owl? A night owl

986
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:35,919
Speaker 1: early riser? Okay. What is the best dating advice you've

987
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: ever received? As cliche as it is, just be yourself? Absolutely?

988
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: What is your go to pizza order? Pineapple pepperoni. Oh,

989
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,720
Speaker 1: you're a pineapple on the pizza girl. Okay, I wouldn't

990
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 1: have guessed that. What is one word your best friends

991
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: would use to describe you, um? Loyal? Okay. What is

992
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: your favorite curse word? Probably the F word. I love

993
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: how you don't say it now, perfective, We know what

994
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 1: you're talking about. What is the most played at song

995
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: or artists in your library? Probably Morgan Wallen. Oh favorite song?

996
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: It depends on the day. But Broadway Girls, that's just

997
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 1: like gets you pumped up? Okay? Favorite cocktail? Fringe seventy five?

998
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay. If you could be any animal, what would

999
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: you be? I would be a unicorn? It's not unique

1000
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: fairy two. What is the current screensaver on your phone?

1001
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: I always getting nervous asking this one right now? It

1002
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: is me and a friend from like four years ago

1003
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: going to music festival and it's like overly edited. There's

1004
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: like unicorns and purple clouds and everything everywhere. So oh,

1005
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: I love that. If you could visit one place in

1006
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:06,479
Speaker 1: the world, where would you go? Okay, and last one,

1007
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: if you had to describe this season of a Bachelor

1008
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: in one word or phrase, what would it be? Oh,

1009
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Um oh, I know you can

1010
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: take a minute. This one. This one trips people that.

1011
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a good one. But um, I would

1012
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 1: say like supportive, you know, like the women support each other,

1013
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 1: then Zach supports us. Um, it's very supporting. Supportive. Wow,

1014
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: I will say that's been like a common theme throughout

1015
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: this from Zach and from the other women of just

1016
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 1: like everybody's support now for each other. Yeah, all right, Well,

1017
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: next we're gonna move into our resources segment. I cannot

1018
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: speak today resources segment. So basically what we've been doing

1019
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: is we've been providing resources at the end of every

1020
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: EPI so to really challenge our listeners to taking steps forward,

1021
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: doing our education, doing our unlearning of different anti racist behaviors,

1022
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: just after everything that has taken place. And so I'm

1023
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: going to start with the resource that I'm just going

1024
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: to talk about I'll tag on my highlights my story

1025
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: on Instagram, and then I'll hand it off to you

1026
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: to do the same. Sound good, all right, So I'm

1027
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: gonna go with I recently listen to a podcast it's

1028
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: called Speak Up, and it's basically this podcast platform that

1029
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: really focuses on handing like the mic to different groups

1030
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: of people, and it goes off of the theme of

1031
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: not being afraid to take up space and making sure

1032
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: that you are being your one hundred percent self, whether

1033
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: that's the LGP lg BTQ community, whether that's women advocacy,

1034
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: whether that's a person of color. It really does just

1035
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: emphasize is like an unfiltered conversation every single week that

1036
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 1: challenges different social norms and challenges different thought patterns. And

1037
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: I don't want I'm trying to think of like how

1038
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: to how to fully describe it. Unfiltered and raw and

1039
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: uncut is what I will say. And so it's different.

1040
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: And what I really appreciated about it is that sometimes

1041
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 1: like we see being uncomfortable as a very like bad thing.

1042
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 1: I think it's bad to be uncomfortable, but there are

1043
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,919
Speaker 1: some situations, especially like when you're on learning behaviors. When

1044
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: you're challenging yourself to be a better person, you should

1045
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: you should be uncomfortable and to really like push getting

1046
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: comfortable with being uncomfortable, and this is the podcast to

1047
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: do that. I will tag it. It's on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, um,

1048
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: I think it's on a lot of other podcasts platforms

1049
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: as well. And it's called spe Up. So I do

1050
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: want the ticket away? Yes, So I have followed. Her

1051
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: name is Morgan Harper Nichols on Instagram for a long time.

1052
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: She is a woman of color. She posts a lot

1053
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 1: of self love, self help poems and like with her

1054
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: art on there. She's also very open about her ADHD

1055
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: and her autism and also being a woman of color.

1056
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: She has books, she has TikTok wife, I believe she

1057
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: has TikTok. She has her books, TikTok's her Instagram. I'm

1058
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 1: a huge fan of hers because all of her it's

1059
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: just very shortened to the point, but also gives you

1060
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: a good point, you know what I mean. Like it's

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Speaker 1: very authentic from her, from her heart, and I love

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Speaker 1: everything she has to say. I just ordered her book.

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01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: It came out on I don't have Friday, No Tuesday

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01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: it came out. She's her book, so I'm really excited

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01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 1: to read about that, and I just really like what

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Speaker 1: she stands for and how she's very open about everything,

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Speaker 1: because I think that's important. It's to be open, vulnerable,

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Speaker 1: and like you said, have the conversations and say the

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Speaker 1: things that need to be said even if it makes

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Speaker 1: something uncomfortable. Yeah, what is the book title called? If

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Speaker 1: you don't mind, I'm sure our listeners will want to know. Yes,

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Speaker 1: let me remember top of your head. You're only just

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01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: beginning and it came out Valentine's Day, so I just

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01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 1: ordered that, so you can't wait to get it. She's

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Speaker 1: my follow her on TikTok and she is just like

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Speaker 1: radiates positive energy, like she really yeah, really authentic as well,

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Speaker 1: does it in a very authentic, like unapologetic way. So

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Speaker 1: thank you for that resource. And lastly, one of the

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Speaker 1: best parts of the podcast are Rose and Thorn, and

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01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: so really, what you're gonna do is just kind of

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01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 1: tell us or share a rose and thorn from everything

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01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: that has taken place up until this point. And it

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01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: can be um doesn't have to be like last episode,

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01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: but rose something positive or like some of you hold

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01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: close to your heart and the thorn it can be

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01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: something awkward, uncomfortable downfall throughout the episodes, still till we're

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01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 1: in London here. Okay, Um, a rose, I mean it

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01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: goes without saying. A one on one would definitely be

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01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: a rose. But um, I definitely my relationship with Charity

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01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: just blossoming from the beginning is definitely another rose in

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01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: my book, a thorn. A thorn would probably be when

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01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: I fist bumped Zach after he said you're a good

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01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: kisser and I fist bumped the poor man. I'm still

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01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 1: am like, oh my god, I did that. That's my thorn.

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01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: Dang Okay, But honestly it was so genuine. I've just

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01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: like always dunce, I'm awkward, Okay, Like I've always done

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01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: goofy stuff like that, and like I didn't mean it bad,

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01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: like friend zoning or anything like. That's my way of

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01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: showing affection, right, But it's like, okay, you know, you're

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01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: you know those cute moments when you're watching like rom Columns,

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01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: and it's like these quirky moments that either like the

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01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: girl or the guy has or just like whoever is

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01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: in the show that was like that moment and it's

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01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: like when you're sitting and watching it, it's like, oh,

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01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: it's like to feel good, like genuine relatable, like it's

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Speaker 1: not all perfect, you don't have you know, it's just awkward. Yeah.

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01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 1: I just remember when that, Like when I did, I

1108
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it's like, well, maybe it

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01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: won't make it in and then define it. There it is,

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01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 1: And my family and friends that were watching with me

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01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: were rolling. I was like, here we go. Were there

1112
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 1: any memes? Guess I haven't seen any. I mean I've

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01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: seen a couple or I guess I've seen a couple. Um.

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01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: Someone said like awkward turtles unite or whatever, and I

1115
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, there is, but it lives on, it

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01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: lives forever. Well, Brooklyn, it's been such a joy talking

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01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: with you. I can totally see why you and Charity

1118
01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: are so close, really positive vibes, great energy, such great loyalty,

1119
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 1: and just with you and everything that you stand for,

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01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 1: everything that you've been through and everything that you're advocating for.

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01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for continuing to do that and

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01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: kind of being that spokesperson or being that person that

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01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: people back at home on the couch or people who

1124
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: are watching or listening can kind of look to for

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01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: guidance or to feel understood when they might not. So

1126
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: thank you for everything you're doing, and thank you for

1127
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: being blunt anytime saying how it is. Thank you so

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01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 1: much Brooklyn for being here, being so honest and raw

1129
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: with everything that you've shared. And thank you Bachelor Happy

1130
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 1: our listeners for being here. New episodes of The Bachelor

1131
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:48,200
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01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:51,960
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01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,680
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