WEBVTT - Nepo Baby

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 2>talks back, big back, big back. Listen, I'm giving a

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<v Speaker 2>big bag indergy right now. I might as well start.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up y'all? Welcome to that new episode of We

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<v Speaker 2>Talk Back. As your Girl tam Man, I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>AJ what's not y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>It's your girl, a j holiday, a great a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Why the fuck are you starting off the introduction talk

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<v Speaker 1>about big bags?

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<v Speaker 2>Cause listen, y'all. One of my good friends, she has

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<v Speaker 2>a wellness studio which is fabulous called Muambouge, and I

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<v Speaker 2>did some content for her and I got a massage

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<v Speaker 2>and she was recording me getting a massage. And then

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<v Speaker 2>when I was looking at the video, baby, you couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>tell me what the linebacker laying down on that bed,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, it's my bad dad, why for real?

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<v Speaker 2>Like that shit hurt my feelings. I ain't even made

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<v Speaker 2>the video yet because I just don't know how I

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<v Speaker 2>much edit out that extra back piece. Girl, your back

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<v Speaker 2>is not big that I'm gonna send you this video.

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<v Speaker 2>You gonna sweat. You gonna swear, bitch that I'm exavierly

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<v Speaker 2>get laying down there on that motherfucker bed.

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<v Speaker 1>The backs baby talk about. I know the backs they

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about, and I don't got one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Nigga, when I look at him, when I look in

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<v Speaker 2>the mirror, I'm gonna send you this video because you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be like, Okay, I see what you're saying. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just that it's that space between the the arm pit,

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<v Speaker 2>in the arm rofat.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh this left punk right here, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Chunk right there up under the armpit. But in the bag.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, girl? I ain't like it. I've been doing uh,

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<v Speaker 2>what's it called?

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<v Speaker 1>Roe?

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<v Speaker 2>I've been rowing never since that video, baby, because that

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<v Speaker 2>got to come up off me. How's your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>Just suck it out. My weekend is going well, girl.

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<v Speaker 1>It is an eight day weekend for me. I'm on vacation, bitch, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in Anguila, chilling, black as hell. We had lobster

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner last night. Your best life, God is real good.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing I'm missing some Penis man.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you know, Penis couldn't come with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, I like thugs. This nigga, don't have

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<v Speaker 1>no passport, but we gonna get you a passport, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can go outside.

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<v Speaker 2>What did I do this weekend? Oh, it was my

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<v Speaker 2>friend Bunny's birthday and we went outside. Uh, she's cousins

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<v Speaker 2>with Jayla from the Baddies, So we was outside with

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<v Speaker 2>the baddies from Zeus Network. Girl. Yes, it was a

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<v Speaker 2>situation situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's Jayala? Is that not the girl from Columbia that's

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<v Speaker 1>he talking about? Mm hmm which character is that? Because

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<v Speaker 1>didn't they have from Colombia before?

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<v Speaker 2>I think she was on Joscelyn's Cabaret it was Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so this Jayla. I don't know exactly where Jayla is from,

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<v Speaker 2>but she's the one who always wears white with the

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<v Speaker 2>low cut, blonde hairstyle. That's Bunny's cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I just seen that person. She was apologizing

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody on an episode fatiasing the big one who

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<v Speaker 1>just got surgery and ship. I just see clips on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I don't know if she's a She don't

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<v Speaker 2>seem like the apologizing type. But maybe I ain't seen

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<v Speaker 2>it because I watched Batties on the Traadmill. That's my

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<v Speaker 2>because I be fighting for my life. They be fighting

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<v Speaker 2>for theirs too, but I'll be fighting for my life

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<v Speaker 2>as well, so it's perfect together.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to the batties, Shout.

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<v Speaker 2>Out to the Batties, and shout out to Bunny. Happy birthday, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend Bunny. Uh, she is healing from stage four

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<v Speaker 2>breast cancer. So this is the first time we all

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<v Speaker 2>got to actually hang out in a long time. We

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<v Speaker 2>had a really good time. We started a GoFundMe for her,

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<v Speaker 2>so the likas in my bio. If y'all want to

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<v Speaker 2>support my sister, please donate or just come and share

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<v Speaker 2>it with your people so we can make sure she

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<v Speaker 2>gets all the holistic care that she can get because

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<v Speaker 2>insurance don't pay for holistic care. Did you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. Why would they want to heal you? They

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<v Speaker 1>want you alive and sick. What's her instagram? Let the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners know you know it?

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<v Speaker 2>Her Instagram is it's Bunny Baby, so y'all go check

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<v Speaker 2>her out her Uh, It's Bunny Baby, and her gun

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<v Speaker 2>for me will be in the link there too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's that was my weekend. That was Sunday and Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>All Monday I was remembering to meet in Monday. Baby,

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<v Speaker 2>I was down bad and I didn't even drink that much.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't know your body, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I keep saying that. I don't know why y'all playing

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<v Speaker 1>like that's one thing I drink all day long. I've

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<v Speaker 1>barely been drinking alcohol like that. I did have a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of gummies, but I can't do it. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be fully functioning all day long, Okay. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like feeling sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I never.

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<v Speaker 1>Drink these BBC's y'all ever had in the Caribbean is banana,

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<v Speaker 1>Bacardi and coconut.

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<v Speaker 2>That's liquor, bitch, what's you talking about? Said that girl

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<v Speaker 2>said I don't be drinking like that, and they said,

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<v Speaker 2>suck it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't count mixed drinks because when I drink liquor,

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be straight liquor like mixed drinks, don't. I never

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<v Speaker 1>do more than one, so it's never going to like

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<v Speaker 1>have the effect like me drinking my straight liquor. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't chase shit. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get in the sands. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>They're all a BT? Lawrence? Did you indulge? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>watch it?

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<v Speaker 2>This weekend. I was like literally sad because I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be the work in the red carpet. But that's

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation for another time. So I didn't watch it

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<v Speaker 2>because I was, like I said, we were out celebrating

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriend's life. So I did not get to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I got to see a lot of clips, like

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<v Speaker 2>on the Shade Room and the ones that were like

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<v Speaker 2>really viral. So I did see Glorilla hanging in the

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<v Speaker 2>sky for twenty minutes. Why they did gloriala like that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. And do people are we too hard

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<v Speaker 1>on any black anything? It's like other people can slide,

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<v Speaker 1>but were so hard on black things.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, No, that shit was funny, bro, She's just up there, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you have that on the internet? Dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Like y'all know how?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Okay, so BT wars because we did attend the

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<v Speaker 1>Hip Hop Awards last year and it is it's live,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also pre recorded at the same time, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So they do a lot of things and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>they broadcast and in between times, so there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of post production shit that people really don't see. But

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<v Speaker 1>they could have at least turned the highlight off on

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<v Speaker 1>Golilla hanging from a higher he came down like a

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<v Speaker 1>pit with the parachute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but she was up there, just waiting on her turn,

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<v Speaker 2>just proudly waiting. I listened. They would have had to

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<v Speaker 2>lower me down to the floor because my legs wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>have worked sitting hanging there.

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<v Speaker 1>In the air that long straight noodles? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Why why tam Ban rolling around the stage would.

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<v Speaker 1>Get up? Stand up? Stand up?

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<v Speaker 2>Will I weakened the knees, I weakened the thighs. They'd

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<v Speaker 2>have cut off my circulation for fifteen minutes up here.

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<v Speaker 1>G I had heels on one day that I just

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<v Speaker 1>did like a lot of squads the day before. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you my legs, my legs was noodles

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<v Speaker 1>in the club dog my shit, I know if people

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<v Speaker 1>could see my legs underneath my dress, my shit was

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<v Speaker 1>like shaking, shaking fucking heels.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, Listen, idn't I discovered the cables? Like I always be,

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<v Speaker 2>like very intimidated by equipment in the gym. I already

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<v Speaker 2>feel like people be looking at me. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>people be watching me.

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<v Speaker 1>I do be watching you.

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<v Speaker 2>That should be motivation.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't know what the fuck I'll be doing. Sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>like when when I learn a new machine, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be on one in the videos like look

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<v Speaker 2>what is this bitch doing?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>So I always be like really intimidated by using new ship.

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<v Speaker 2>But I got the courage to use the cables with

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<v Speaker 2>the ankle. Maybe that's my new ship. Yeah, do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have like the little the little padded, little hooked things

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<v Speaker 1>for your ankles, like I bought mine off Amazon. But

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<v Speaker 1>I love like the donkey kicks and shit like that

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<v Speaker 1>on the cables.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I've been doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Good workout. It's a girl. I don't think I like

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<v Speaker 1>looking at me fucking up or doing the right thing

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<v Speaker 1>or the wrong thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, get it in. No, I'll be in there. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be nervous because I already feel like it's eyes on

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<v Speaker 2>me heavy and now I'm in here like yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>know they watching watching me fuck up. So but here's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing. I'll be in there fucking up. But I

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<v Speaker 2>also don't want your help. Yeah, please like, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing it wrong. No I'm not. I'm doing it like

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<v Speaker 2>this video on Instagram, nigga, man your business if.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all with some girl workouts and we're all off topic

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<v Speaker 1>we're supposed to be talking about since But if y'all

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<v Speaker 1>download muscle Wiki like Wikipedia, but it's muscle w I

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<v Speaker 1>k I dot com. It actually has like videos and

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<v Speaker 1>you could press like what part of your body you

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<v Speaker 1>want to work on, and they have all the different exercises,

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<v Speaker 1>like even if you want to do like some type

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<v Speaker 1>of machine or whatever, like you can select them. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's free and it's good. That is a personal trainer.

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<v Speaker 1>Muscle Wiki muscle wiki wiki yeah like Wikipedia.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, because I need to figure out what worked

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<v Speaker 2>that little piece of meat on my back when I

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<v Speaker 2>was laying down in that video.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to find the roles so you can literally

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<v Speaker 1>like they'll have us a picture of a woman or man.

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<v Speaker 1>You select the female, and then you tap that spot

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<v Speaker 1>and it'll give you the workouts to do them for

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<v Speaker 1>that particular area.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna log as soon as

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<v Speaker 2>we fucking finished with this ship because I literally look

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<v Speaker 2>like a linebacker in that video.

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<v Speaker 1>Were so hard on our damn selves, y'all. Okay, cut

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<v Speaker 1>it out.

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<v Speaker 2>My titty to back ratio ain't giving baby girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to the bet Awards, did you like to Roger

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<v Speaker 1>p Henson hosting.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get to see it. I didn't really get

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<v Speaker 2>to see her host. I saw her do the day

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<v Speaker 2>not like us parody, and I thought that was like

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<v Speaker 2>probably more fun if you're there watching it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted them to have somebody younger, not like

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<v Speaker 1>Auntie age our age damn there, like some funny funny,

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<v Speaker 1>like a comedian, like a real comedian.

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<v Speaker 2>My Pretty V, like Pretty V pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Pretty V could have done it, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's not completely ready for that, because I like hosting

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<v Speaker 1>is like a real that's a skill like skill set,

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<v Speaker 1>like with her and Dream.

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<v Speaker 2>I like when her and Drewski was, like when he

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<v Speaker 2>was like all behind.

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<v Speaker 1>Her, like you know, entirely too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like that was funny. That part was funny, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine him and she looked good. Be a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>mess the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, No, not following nothing on the tailor prompter, lagging

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<v Speaker 2>behind the whole time. But I think she did good.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw I saw people was talking about something that

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<v Speaker 2>she said to Keith Lee.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't know who Keith Lee was. She also didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know she she went up to Haley Bailey and was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to the guy next to her as if that

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<v Speaker 1>was her, dude, like it was just some real auntie

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<v Speaker 1>shit going on. Forgetfulness not knowing who the fuck people

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<v Speaker 1>are for real, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't she her fities?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>She probably ain't on TikTok Keith Lee TikTok famous.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have to have people who are well versed

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<v Speaker 1>in all the internet ship. Okay, you gotta know who

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<v Speaker 1>the people you're gonna be talking to them and recorded audience.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Taraji, nevertheless, I love Taraji. Okay, next year,

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<v Speaker 1>get somebody else to do it, Get somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>To do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, let's put in Rick Ross, big ass. Rick

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<v Speaker 1>Ross got attacked in Canada yard. They was playing They

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<v Speaker 1>Not Like Us and they got into fight with some

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<v Speaker 1>white boys the other side of Drake and and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>he was playing they Not Like Us like Kendrick Lamar

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<v Speaker 1>and he was asked basically like turn that shit off,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know where you at?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that really what happened?

0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes? Rick Ross is like, yeah, I know where I'm at,

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<v Speaker 1>got swung on. Some of his people got knocked the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck out some of them got jumped. He didn't really get.

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<v Speaker 2>He got missing. I like he fell out the frame.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't see him.

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<v Speaker 1>Saw a video videos like security like pushing him, like

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<v Speaker 1>out the way, out of the back door or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, a back end.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but but he wasn't trying to, Like I pay

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<v Speaker 2>too much to get hit, y'all get hit. They was like.

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<v Speaker 1>A security security like this, this, this is bigger than this.

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<v Speaker 1>Why get beat up in Canada?

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<v Speaker 2>Dog by drink? His security did their job as far

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<v Speaker 2>as I could start. He didn't get hit, just get

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<v Speaker 2>beat up.

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<v Speaker 1>No, my security supposed to fuck people up. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see my security losing. Like you you fired

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as we get back to the house. Really, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was you're a loser.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like five of them on him. He was

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<v Speaker 2>like he ate him, like he got up. Five people

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<v Speaker 2>hitting you and you still get up. It was pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>Good to me.

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<v Speaker 1>They lost, man, they lost. Nobody will remember your wins

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<v Speaker 1>when you lose. Dog. They lost.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Rick Ross's baby mama kill. She showed out.

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<v Speaker 2>She kept showing the video all live and laughing all

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<v Speaker 2>hard and looking at her teeth. I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>girl is a.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, fucking nuts, man. I think she's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest people on Instagram. And Rick rossni to try to

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<v Speaker 1>mend that relationship, boy, because she'd be doing a douggie

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<v Speaker 1>to his ass every chance she'd get. Now, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>blame her. She's this, this would happen. He's the bitter

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<v Speaker 1>baby mamas. Man, they be mad when y'all play in

0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.960
<v Speaker 1>their face because guess what that first baby mama know

0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.360
<v Speaker 1>exactly who the fuck you are. And that's why your

0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:24.680
<v Speaker 1>niggas be mad at them baby mamas, because they remember

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<v Speaker 1>you when you ain't had ship and they're a reminder

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<v Speaker 1>to you of who you really are nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Outside of the money period.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I always say niggas deserve access to

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<v Speaker 1>the same bitches they had access to before they got

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<v Speaker 1>the check. I'm telling you how old is the baby

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<v Speaker 1>because in college he's going to Bathune Cookman. I just

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<v Speaker 1>saw another video. She just did somebody's podcasts and she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about him going to Bethune Cookman. So she

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<v Speaker 1>brought her a sun child. She love her baby, but

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<v Speaker 1>that daddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, my mama, what can I say? That's my mama?

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<v Speaker 1>Me cutting up on Rick Ross ass Man. So the

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<v Speaker 1>only other thing about the BET Awards, I'm skipping back.

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<v Speaker 1>Goddamn Kamala Harris. That part made my ass. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit like, can we leave politics out of everything

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Stop pandering to black people during all black shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't like it because it's almost like they

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<v Speaker 1>just be urging everybody to do one thing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>will would like to take this opportunity to encourage people

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<v Speaker 1>to be informed. Get your primary resources someplace fucking else.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I'll let people tell you what to think.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like Kamala Harris may have single handedly ruined. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>They not like us, these extreme us, as they say,

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<v Speaker 1>they not like us, They not like stop stop during

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<v Speaker 1>the black people. I'm sick of it already. Just stop

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<v Speaker 1>go away, Roger.

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<v Speaker 2>Where you be at? That's all I want to know, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do we even at? We at the abortion clinics

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<v Speaker 1>talking to college students about getting abortions, because that's all

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck they seem to care about is making sure

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<v Speaker 1>women have access to abortions. That's what come out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet I ain't seen her there, like, I ain't seen

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<v Speaker 2>no video on her out there or nothing, like.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been seeking at colleges she spoke at Howard Is

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<v Speaker 1>just that's that's mainly the headlines that I've seen about

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<v Speaker 1>Kamala Harris have been about abortion rights, like that's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's always one of the big things them wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>control women's reproduction. But I just have I feel a

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<v Speaker 1>way like, as two women with no children, I would

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<v Speaker 1>never tell a younger girl to have an abortion. I

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<v Speaker 1>would never encourage that, and you see it through the

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<v Speaker 1>music everything, Like I feel like women who don't have

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<v Speaker 1>kids should really shut the fuck up. Also about what

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<v Speaker 1>somebody should do as far as their reproduction.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like you should have the right to

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<v Speaker 2>choose for your own body.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a judge of jewelry for anyone or

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<v Speaker 2>Heaven or hell. So that's your body and you make

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<v Speaker 2>that decision. I would never encourage it, but I also

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't tell you not to, you know, but you just

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<v Speaker 2>have to live with the choices that you made. Yeah,

0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:22.040
<v Speaker 2>you have to live with the decision you make.

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<v Speaker 1>So because most of the people who be performing at

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<v Speaker 1>these I don't know, women's rights conferences, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>them don't have children themselves. And as a woman who

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<v Speaker 1>wants children. Right, I'm never going to be back in

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<v Speaker 1>those shit like that because the decisions you make today

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<v Speaker 1>are going to shape your future. I've had an abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I could talk about it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I had my kid. So it seems like that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's all Kamala has been doing, is pushing and pushing abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>That was her whole thing for office as far as

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<v Speaker 1>I'm concerned.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, Well, I know you ain't the it might wig go,

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<v Speaker 2>but they walk advocate talking like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I don't believe it's struggling. Okay, I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>in fucking struggling now I'm telling you, like bringing these

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<v Speaker 1>fucking kids. I'm just saying women should have more. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be accountable, right, and you also have to be more,

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<v Speaker 1>Like where is the self control? You know what I'm

0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:20.080
<v Speaker 1>saying like that, Like I always say it shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>used as birth control birth control? I agree, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I think. You know, people wrapping about plan b's

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<v Speaker 1>and shit like that, like that's just like popping a

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<v Speaker 1>sick sack. You're fucking wilin.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, No, it's not good for yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all apparently dating app burnout is on the rise.

0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:42.880
<v Speaker 1>It says more and more Americans are getting exhausted by

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<v Speaker 1>swiping left and right. It's called dating app burnout, and

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<v Speaker 1>more than eighty percent of people using dating apps are

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<v Speaker 1>experiencing experiencing it, psychologists say. One expert said, using apps

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<v Speaker 1>like Tender or Okay Cupid triggers a lot of hopelessness

0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:06.080
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of self esteem issues. Roughly three out

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<v Speaker 1>of every ten Americans say they've used a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>at some point. Have you used a dating app tam,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the worst part of the experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I done been on the motherfucking things. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>do it no more because one people be like lying,

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<v Speaker 2>they be having old last pictures up. You go meet,

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<v Speaker 2>you think you meet in one nigga and you meet

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<v Speaker 2>in the same nigga but fifteen years older. For the future?

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<v Speaker 2>Right for the future? Right? Or like I remember I

0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:45.480
<v Speaker 2>went on one day and we met at PF. Chang's.

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<v Speaker 2>This was a minute ago. And baby, he looked he

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<v Speaker 2>looked like average height in the pig but when he

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<v Speaker 2>was a small pert he's like A I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to say like the M word, what's the proper word?

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<v Speaker 2>A little well, he was he was vertically challenged. He

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<v Speaker 2>probably was like four eight four nine. Girl, Shut the

0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:10.800
<v Speaker 2>fuck up, baby. He jumped down from that stool. I

0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:14.000
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh shit, boy, you trip me, ain't it?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>You know telling the truth, man, I'm not lying. He

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<v Speaker 2>was a little person. But I still hung out with him,

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<v Speaker 2>like we had dinner. His legs were swinging and shit,

0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:28.680
<v Speaker 2>we was laughing. We had fun. But I just knew

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't gonna see him no more because he's too

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<v Speaker 2>little to ride his ride.

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<v Speaker 1>He might have had a bunch of dick for you, man.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I like little.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't know about four eight now that like

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<v Speaker 1>I would feel like I'm fucking on somebody's little son.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool on that.

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<v Speaker 2>But could you imagine four eight behind me?

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<v Speaker 1>Behind me?

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<v Speaker 2>Nah? Bruh.

0:20:48.920 --> 0:20:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Everybody the same height when you're laying down. Damn there. Okay, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not too tall.

0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't like your chest all in my face.

0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that, like to be face to face

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laying down.

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<v Speaker 2>How you trying to hit me and you got your

0:21:04.000 --> 0:21:05.280
<v Speaker 2>legs wrapped around my waist.

0:21:07.320 --> 0:21:11.639
<v Speaker 1>You'll really be rid of your ass. Okay, hell that

0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:14.760
<v Speaker 1>is too short, he played. He had played entirely too much.

0:21:14.760 --> 0:21:17.280
<v Speaker 2>Like he played entirely like you gotta tell that you

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<v Speaker 2>can't just you know, just sneak that in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been like on a dating app, dating app consistently,

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<v Speaker 1>like I've been on a dating app, Meet a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>and get the fuck up off of there, because it's

0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:34.119
<v Speaker 1>like a feeding frenzy, and it's almost like it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>the same bitches, the same dudes. And I just think

0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:41.040
<v Speaker 1>everybody on the app has smashed each other, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they just trying to hook up?

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<v Speaker 1>So the day you get on there, it's like, oh

0:21:45.480 --> 0:21:48.639
<v Speaker 1>fresh meat, your inbox is piled up with all these

0:21:48.720 --> 0:21:51.119
<v Speaker 1>niggas who don fucked all the other bitches off the app,

0:21:51.720 --> 0:21:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and they all saying the same shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You just feel like I'm talking to a robot now

0:21:56.920 --> 0:21:59.920
<v Speaker 2>with different faces. Yeah, so I don't like it. I

0:22:00.200 --> 0:22:02.000
<v Speaker 2>just like to peak, but I do, like, I mean,

0:22:02.160 --> 0:22:06.040
<v Speaker 2>its Instagram dating any different because I will.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can see people's personality a little bit

0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:11.840
<v Speaker 1>better on Instagram, you know what I'm saying, Cause you

0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:14.440
<v Speaker 1>got it limited on like the bios and stuff like that,

0:22:14.520 --> 0:22:18.120
<v Speaker 1>Like you can go down years and years of somebody Instagram. Shit,

0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:20.359
<v Speaker 1>see where relationships that I've been in, what type of

0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:22.280
<v Speaker 1>money they be making. You can find out a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody based on like the pictures and stuff they post,

0:22:25.359 --> 0:22:28.520
<v Speaker 1>the content they post. So I think Instagram dating is

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit better and it's fucking free.

0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, right, That's where I.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, I wish. I wish people the

0:22:43.800 --> 0:22:46.840
<v Speaker 1>best on those dating websites, like I I.

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<v Speaker 2>I just was watching.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a it's the two B series and

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot the name of it, but one of the

0:22:52.359 --> 0:22:58.320
<v Speaker 1>episodes it was Young Jock and he was on a

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<v Speaker 1>you saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a story to tell.

0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:04.960
<v Speaker 1>No, it was called gas Station Pills or something. Yeah,

0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 1>but the episode was yeah, you're right.

0:23:07.440 --> 0:23:09.160
<v Speaker 2>It's a show call I got a story to tell

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:10.880
<v Speaker 2>and got different episodes, different names.

0:23:10.960 --> 0:23:15.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and Young King is called so the Young Jocque.

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:17.400
<v Speaker 1>He was taking like a gas station pill and turn

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<v Speaker 1>into another nigga, like a fine nigga and dog. When

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:22.119
<v Speaker 1>the ship first happened, I said, ain't no way they

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:24.160
<v Speaker 1>about to try to make Young Jock fine. It better

0:23:24.200 --> 0:23:26.320
<v Speaker 1>be a whole nother person. And that's what happened.

0:23:28.960 --> 0:23:32.239
<v Speaker 2>Ain't no way, bro. They did things to make him

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<v Speaker 2>less attractive, like put bumps on his face.

0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:38.679
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, like the two little witch moles on his face.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like like that's how Dayton apps be. Like,

0:23:43.320 --> 0:23:47.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I think people be hiding

0:23:47.800 --> 0:23:49.919
<v Speaker 1>on all these things and then you actually got to

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:51.440
<v Speaker 1>see the person in person.

0:23:52.359 --> 0:23:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Then people be dying behind that shit. You mean somebody crazy?

0:23:56.280 --> 0:23:59.639
<v Speaker 2>You've seen people like get like really hurts especially women.

0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:02.879
<v Speaker 2>Not so much. Men are being hurt, but women are

0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 2>getting hurt behind you know, meeting random people. So I'm

0:24:06.600 --> 0:24:07.240
<v Speaker 2>over it too.

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, y'all be careful out there. Just I don't know,

0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:15.679
<v Speaker 1>Just go outside more, get out the house. Take a

0:24:15.680 --> 0:24:20.720
<v Speaker 1>week off from work and go hang out at bars

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 1>or something. Go meet people organically and see what happens.

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 2>Girl, the price of these organic eggs is too high

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:29.879
<v Speaker 2>to take a week off work, bitch, I don't know

0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:32.320
<v Speaker 2>what you talk about. Go after work, y'all. Don't take

0:24:32.359 --> 0:24:36.280
<v Speaker 2>the dot fuck around and take no whole week off

0:24:36.280 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 2>to meet no niggas. Just go after There's a lot

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.439
<v Speaker 2>of afterwork socials.

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:46.800
<v Speaker 1>So Jada Chavez claps back after receiving criticism for her

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>comments on dating. So a couple of weeks ago, she

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:52.520
<v Speaker 1>was on a podcast, and you know, I just people

0:24:52.560 --> 0:24:55.600
<v Speaker 1>ask these questions so they can get viral moments, right,

0:24:55.640 --> 0:24:58.440
<v Speaker 1>So she provided a viral moment for this particular show

0:24:58.480 --> 0:25:01.159
<v Speaker 1>in for herself. I guess so recently dyshavez responding to

0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 1>the backlass after the backlash she received over her comments

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 1>about dating men who earn less than her. So originally,

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Jada said that she wouldn't date someone who makes less

0:25:11.720 --> 0:25:13.720
<v Speaker 1>money than her because she feels that they would try

0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:17.080
<v Speaker 1>to make her feel like a lesser woman. After many

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.879
<v Speaker 1>fans commented on what she said, she clapped back and

0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:23.680
<v Speaker 1>at it. Baby, know the fuck I didn't, she continued.

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:28.120
<v Speaker 1>I said exactly what I felt, and the real rich

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 1>boss bitches will feel me. And if you don't feel me,

0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:38.159
<v Speaker 1>message isn't for you. I think what she said is

0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>pretty valid because we know there are a lot of

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>men out here with very fragile eagles, and they think

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 1>they want a boss bitch to they actually get one

0:25:46.760 --> 0:25:51.120
<v Speaker 1>one who doesn't have time to run behind you. I

0:25:51.160 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 1>was having a conversation with one of my homegirls yesterday

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:56.679
<v Speaker 1>because she said her dude asked her to do something

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 1>and she had to tell him like, Nigga, I'm dealing

0:25:59.040 --> 0:26:01.320
<v Speaker 1>with this that I got two adult kids, Like, I

0:26:01.320 --> 0:26:03.560
<v Speaker 1>got a whole bunch of shit that I'm dealing with

0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:06.560
<v Speaker 1>as a woman. Like the shit that you're talking about

0:26:06.680 --> 0:26:09.439
<v Speaker 1>is very trivial, So you need to get you a bit.

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:12.679
<v Speaker 1>You don't god much going on that can deal with

0:26:12.920 --> 0:26:15.880
<v Speaker 1>figuring out what you should eat eight hundred miles.

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:18.800
<v Speaker 2>Away from me. Well, really, that's what it was.

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>It was some dumb shit like that, yes, ye. And

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:25.159
<v Speaker 1>so when you're a man and you're used to women

0:26:25.240 --> 0:26:27.920
<v Speaker 1>like doing things for you, because men oftentimes want women

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>to be secretaries, porn stars, babysitters, and when you got

0:26:33.560 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 1>somebody who got a lot shit, a lot of shit

0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:37.560
<v Speaker 1>going on just like you, some of them say that's

0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 1>what they want, but they when they get it, they

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:40.919
<v Speaker 1>don't they don't really like it.

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 2>In particularly I listen, I don't have nothing. I don't

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:48.760
<v Speaker 2>see nothing against dating somebody who make less than you.

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 2>But I I even me, but I just don't have

0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 2>enough money for that yet. Like if I had a

0:26:56.640 --> 0:26:59.959
<v Speaker 2>whole bunch of money, then like I'm tricking off on all.

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh y'all, right, all my niggas, you get a PlayStation,

0:27:03.080 --> 0:27:05.639
<v Speaker 2>you get a PlayStation, you get a PlayStation. But I

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:07.720
<v Speaker 2>just ain't in a space where I could be with

0:27:07.760 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 2>someone who's making listen to me because I don't make

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 2>enough for that. You know, I need someone who make

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:14.639
<v Speaker 2>it as much as me.

0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Or more, right, And I don't think that's a It's

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.639
<v Speaker 1>not like a big thing to ask. It's not a

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 1>big ask, right, especially in this economy, Like, it's not

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>a big ask. Everybody should be pulling any weight. However,

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:32.840
<v Speaker 1>now we're talking about women, their dating pool is a

0:27:32.880 --> 0:27:36.160
<v Speaker 1>little bit different because of their tax bracken, So why

0:27:36.200 --> 0:27:38.560
<v Speaker 1>would you think this? This? This even goes back to

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:42.440
<v Speaker 1>remember they was on what's a girl Who's pregnant? Now

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:48.479
<v Speaker 1>saying she wouldn't date a bus driver? I mean it

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>goes back to that that conversation, like why would I.

0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm an attorney, Why would I be dating a bus driver?

0:27:56.400 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. It's just the men are

0:27:58.440 --> 0:28:00.679
<v Speaker 1>more shallow. And I don't know who wasn't if it

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:04.639
<v Speaker 1>was just women attacking attacking Jada Chavez or we know

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 1>the bitter niggas is out there too, But why would

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you want to put yourself in that position to, you know,

0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:15.199
<v Speaker 1>to feel some type of way about how much a

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 1>woman is making I agree, Like, it's not the woman

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:22.680
<v Speaker 1>masculating you, Like you know you ain't doing your best?

0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:25.399
<v Speaker 1>So why do you want me to settle for it?

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 1>But it's not. You wouldn't want that for your daughter.

0:28:30.040 --> 0:28:30.560
<v Speaker 2>Exactly.

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I love to throw niggas kids in there real quick.

0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 1>You want that for your baby? Like, do you really

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 1>want to have to send your daughter money when she's

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 1>sucking dick? She got somebody she fucking on and you

0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>still got to take care of her. You want that?

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Not.

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they don't want that, so, but they don't want

0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:51.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody else's daughter.

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm somebody's daking, right, we all are, period.

0:28:59.120 --> 0:29:02.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like think of it like that. I'm somebody's kid.

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Take care of me. God damn it, figure it, figure

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:06.840
<v Speaker 1>it the fuck out. And men, men are problem solvers.

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Figure it out all right.

0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:16.160
<v Speaker 2>Lastly, Lebron and Bronni about to be teammates. Did you

0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 2>see that meme where it was like breaking news Lebron

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 2>is having sex with one of his teammates mom, And

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 2>I was.

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 1>Like, I'm reading it, Like then I started groogling like, damn,

0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:29.640
<v Speaker 1>Lebron got caught cheating. I didn't understand what was going

0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 1>on and what was going on initially. I'm happy for them, Okay.

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Me too. I'm excited to see them play together. I

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:41.720
<v Speaker 2>know they gonna be on that boy ass hard when

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 2>he played like, they're gonna be on him heavy. So

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 2>he gotta be ready for a fight, because that's what

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be. But it's gonna be fun to watch

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 2>to see them all then play together fathering. So, and

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:54.720
<v Speaker 2>that's never happened in the history of the NBA.

0:29:55.800 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I read. So it's brought up the conversation surrounding nepotism.

0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 1>We've been accused of nepotism here. We talked back, and

0:30:07.120 --> 0:30:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the problem is, like, so what, Okay,

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about it after this break.

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 2>We'll be right back, all right.

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:23.640
<v Speaker 1>So it says Lebron and Bronnie James have become the

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>first father and son to play for an NBA team

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 1>at the same time. After the Lakers on Thursday draft

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:33.200
<v Speaker 1>at the younger James Brownie was the team's number fifty

0:30:33.240 --> 0:30:36.480
<v Speaker 1>five overall pick deep in the second round, with only

0:30:36.520 --> 0:30:40.200
<v Speaker 1>three picks remaining in this year's draft. In the history

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.560
<v Speaker 1>of the NBA, there's never been a father and son

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>that have shared an NBA basketball court, and that feels

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 1>like something that could be magical since Lakers general manager

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Rob Polenka. Polenka, so people are not to talk about

0:30:55.720 --> 0:31:00.400
<v Speaker 1>nepotism I've seen and this could be the out because

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>this was actually one of my questions to basketball heirs,

0:31:02.720 --> 0:31:05.480
<v Speaker 1>like is Lebron's son really that good? And one of

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:07.400
<v Speaker 1>one of one of my guy friends is like, maybe

0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>in a couple of years he will be, you know,

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily right now to be drafted into the NFA,

0:31:13.280 --> 0:31:17.360
<v Speaker 1>just NFL just like his dad. He's not drafted into

0:31:17.400 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 1>the NBA just like his dad, like out of high school.

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Basically he did some college right mm hm. So I've

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:30.680
<v Speaker 1>heard mixed reviews. So is Lebron's son Is Bronnie James

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:33.920
<v Speaker 1>actually ready for the nf I keep saying NFL for

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:37.880
<v Speaker 1>the NBA. Is he ready for the NBA or was

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 1>he just pushed in there because of who his dad is.

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 2>I think it's a combination of both, you know. I mean,

0:31:45.720 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 2>I think their baby son probably gonna be better than

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 2>him when he get out there. But I mean, who

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 2>gives a fuck is Lebron James Son? We want to

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 2>see this ship, Like, are you guys dumb y'all making

0:31:56.680 --> 0:32:00.320
<v Speaker 2>an argument about some bullshit what y'all son doing work

0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:02.640
<v Speaker 2>at the jiffy lu? Shut up, you stay out of

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 2>the conversation. Let the boys play. Let the boys play.

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:08.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of it is coming from

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>a place of fucking hateration because you're not in a

0:32:11.600 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>position to put your son in position. I don't think

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:17.520
<v Speaker 1>anything is wrong with nepotism, and I wish that more

0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Black people was in position for people to benefit from nepotism,

0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 1>because why are not Relationships are worth more than gold.

0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:30.160
<v Speaker 2>And if you go ahead, go ahead, and if you

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:33.320
<v Speaker 2>look at any of these corporations and you look at

0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 2>all these titles, these high up titles, they all had

0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:39.360
<v Speaker 2>the same fucking last name. And I bet you half

0:32:39.360 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 2>of them kids don't know what the fuck they're doing

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:43.360
<v Speaker 2>or if they even do anything. It's just a title

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 2>to get them a check. They may not even work

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 2>at the fucking place, you know, so, miss and I think.

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 1>That's just where it comes. It's just one of those

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:55.720
<v Speaker 1>things is like black people are mad because we aren't

0:32:56.360 --> 0:33:00.360
<v Speaker 1>in position, and it's almost like within the black families,

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>like everybody wants the next generation to have to have

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 1>struggle like they did. Like my goal is to get

0:33:06.720 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>it so that the people coming behind me don't have

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:12.320
<v Speaker 1>to or they can get like a little head start.

0:33:12.560 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:33:12.880 --> 0:33:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Why why do we always feel like we got to

0:33:15.040 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 1>get it out the mud.

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 2>That party you're trying to get this people.

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>Whose bottom is different from yours. Everybody has a bottom,

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like you may come from

0:33:26.280 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 1>a good family, but you don't want to live off

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 1>and you want to make your own way, right, So yeah,

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I have this family, but that's not I can't depend

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:38.040
<v Speaker 1>on that. So but you outside looking in think it's

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:43.640
<v Speaker 1>one thing, right that part, you know, because you felt like, oh,

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I like like I was telling you how the motherfuckers

0:33:46.760 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 1>on the bus on the school bus talk about how

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:50.920
<v Speaker 1>we don't have trash now neighborhood and shit like that.

0:33:51.200 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Growing up, Like why do black people we we celebrate

0:33:54.800 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>the stupidest things, celebrate Lebron Lebron's son get it's just

0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>nice people. Though.

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's just us. Though they have a

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:03.840
<v Speaker 2>problem with this.

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I think everybody else practice nepotism. Why not? Why don't

0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:09.320
<v Speaker 1>Why would you not put your people on?

0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:13.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean everybody does practice nepotism, But I think

0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:17.800
<v Speaker 2>it was also just basketball fans, especially fans of other teams,

0:34:18.120 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 2>that had a problem with it because they felt like

0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:26.160
<v Speaker 2>the baby wasn't qualified, so they hollering nepotism. I don't

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 2>think it's just black people. All kind of people in

0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 2>the conversation.

0:34:31.320 --> 0:34:31.799
<v Speaker 1>Look at us.

0:34:32.760 --> 0:34:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't even watch motherfucker basketball. What color? I can't

0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:42.759
<v Speaker 2>tell you what who they played for the Lakers because

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 2>I thought they was in Cleveland.

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I could have sworn that Lebron went back to Cleveland, Like,

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:50.879
<v Speaker 1>what the fuck are you doing in La? Back in La?

0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember that, right.

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:54.719
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like they should. It would be better

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:57.480
<v Speaker 2>if they both were playing for Cleveland. That would be

0:34:58.520 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 2>more lit.

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Hmmm. I think Lebron is done when home. So do

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:06.320
<v Speaker 1>you remember? This was a couple of years ago, so

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:08.879
<v Speaker 1>it just album And this is when, like, I think

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the bigger discussion about nepotism first started. His daughter wanted

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:18.120
<v Speaker 1>she wanted to play his daughter in a film he

0:35:18.280 --> 0:35:22.279
<v Speaker 1>was doing, and she actually had to audition for the role,

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 1>and she didn't get the role. They gave the role

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>to another bat black younger actress, and then she didn't

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 1>speak to her dad for three weeks because she felt

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 1>like he could have just he could have helped her

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>more to lock in the role. But he got you

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:45.040
<v Speaker 1>to the audition, right, So now at that point you

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 1>got to show him prove at the audition they didn't

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.760
<v Speaker 1>think she was a fit, and maybe he had something

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:52.560
<v Speaker 1>to do with it too, maybe he thought she wasn't

0:35:52.600 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>ready and she didn't get the role. So online at

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 1>that time a lot of people were saying, why did

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.840
<v Speaker 1>she have to I mean, why does she even have

0:36:02.960 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 1>to audition? Like she should have just been given the role.

0:36:08.000 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, nepotism, I feel like getting in the room,

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 1>the nepotism that it was executed. He helped her get

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 1>into the room. At that point, you got to do

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:21.160
<v Speaker 1>the work right.

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Like Bronnie, if he get out there and he'd be

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:29.520
<v Speaker 2>throwing air balls and got bad sportsmanship, conduct and all

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:32.279
<v Speaker 2>those things, they gonna let his hands go eventually, no

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 2>matter who his daddy is, exactly, So you got to

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 2>be able to show improve something. Now you can't just

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:41.319
<v Speaker 2>expect everything to be handed to you. Because of your relationships.

0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:48.240
<v Speaker 1>So Sweetie also had something to say recently after Brownie

0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:52.319
<v Speaker 1>was drafted because a lot of people try to come

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>for her and Doja Cat saying that they are in

0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:57.880
<v Speaker 1>the industry because of nepotism because of who their parents

0:36:57.960 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 1>are and haven't had like connections. I think I know

0:37:04.360 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 1>that Doja Cat. I think either her dad or her

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:12.319
<v Speaker 1>mom are in the music industry and they those two

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:15.840
<v Speaker 1>grew up together. I think that Sweety Mom was like

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 1>a video vixen and some short sort at some point

0:37:18.520 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 1>beautiful lady. So you know, Sweetie was saying like she

0:37:22.080 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 1>wish people would get rid of that uh neple baby

0:37:25.880 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>narrative because nobody helped her do anything, you know what

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. She was saying, how you know, she put

0:37:30.719 --> 0:37:34.600
<v Speaker 1>herself in bad situations sometimes just trying to chase her dreams,

0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:38.440
<v Speaker 1>working four or five jobs and going to college. So

0:37:38.560 --> 0:37:41.720
<v Speaker 1>she's saying she's she's done the work, but people try

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.279
<v Speaker 1>to like suck her success up to just being you know,

0:37:44.400 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 1>having access.

0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think access plays a part, you know, And

0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't think is girl own that shit? If it is,

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 2>if there's any truth to it, like and what now

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:02.319
<v Speaker 2>what now, what you're gonna do? I'm still where I'm

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 2>at and you still where you're at.

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 1>So now, because it was sad to us pertaining to

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:11.840
<v Speaker 1>this podcast, right, so we went on someone else's podcast

0:38:11.920 --> 0:38:14.520
<v Speaker 1>and it was like, oh, y'all still here. It's basically

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:17.320
<v Speaker 1>what the conversation was. We thought it was some nepotism,

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, and was, we're the face of nepotism.

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Why not?

0:38:21.440 --> 0:38:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Why should I not use connections and repor and relationships

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>to get to where I need to go? I'm sorry,

0:38:29.440 --> 0:38:31.400
<v Speaker 1>or you didn't have the shortcut.

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:34.680
<v Speaker 2>Right, But we also happened to be pretty funny and

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 2>witty bitch.

0:38:35.640 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>So we still got to do the things we have

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 1>committed the last four years to this thing, and we're

0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 1>still fucking doing it and nobody helps. Okay, So you

0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:47.440
<v Speaker 1>get you can get your foot in the door, but

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you have to also produce.

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:53.759
<v Speaker 2>Right in that part. So we say that, thank y'all

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 2>for listening, Thank y'all for tuning men and this shit,

0:38:56.480 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 2>and tell y'all friends about us for they let our

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:00.200
<v Speaker 2>motherfucking ass go.

0:39:01.840 --> 0:39:04.640
<v Speaker 1>Because it could happen. You know, it could happen. You

0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 1>ain't never safe, Okay, so I still don't understand what

0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:11.800
<v Speaker 1>the big issue is in the black community. Why do

0:39:11.960 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 1>we think that everybody's supposed to struggle because we did not.

0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:17.919
<v Speaker 1>I experienced that in my own family, bitch, I swear

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:18.279
<v Speaker 1>to God.

0:39:19.280 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 2>How so.

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about it, but I do

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.279
<v Speaker 1>experience it. I think there are black people and then

0:39:26.320 --> 0:39:31.120
<v Speaker 1>there are niggers, and oh not a hard r. Yes,

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 1>there's black people and then there's niggas. Okay, let me

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 1>take the hard er out there. And when I say

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:40.879
<v Speaker 1>black people and niggas, like some niggas, they just don't

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:44.279
<v Speaker 1>know what they don't know, right, So, and it could

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:47.319
<v Speaker 1>be your parents, it could be people real, real close

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>to you. They just don't know what they don't know,

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:53.799
<v Speaker 1>so they can't they can't fathom or understand it. Never

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:58.160
<v Speaker 1>they would never understand it. And you end up you

0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:00.480
<v Speaker 1>gotta make. You gotta do. You gotta do the things.

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 1>You have to do the things. It has nothing to

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:05.959
<v Speaker 1>do with with with anybody else you upbringing. You gotta

0:40:06.000 --> 0:40:14.800
<v Speaker 1>do the work. But niggas is niggas. Niggas is niggas. Man, Okay.

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:17.920
<v Speaker 1>So this is an article from the Nationalpost dot com,

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:20.920
<v Speaker 1>and it says Nepotism is a term that doesn't receive

0:40:21.520 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>the kind of attention it fully deserves when trying to

0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:29.319
<v Speaker 1>explain the impact of systematic racism in the workplace within corporations,

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:31.640
<v Speaker 1>like you said, like big companies like Bank of America,

0:40:31.719 --> 0:40:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you can find a lot of people who are related

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 1>within that one corporation because the head you want to

0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:41.000
<v Speaker 1>put all your people on, like why wouldn't you, right,

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:44.400
<v Speaker 1>So there's nepotism, and then the other one is like cronyism.

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Cronyism is like, you know, you have clicks in the

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:51.720
<v Speaker 1>office and people getting promoted not because of their skill,

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:54.879
<v Speaker 1>but just because they've been there long enough or they're

0:40:54.960 --> 0:41:01.240
<v Speaker 1>in the group, they get promoted. Yep. I've definitely experienced

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:04.960
<v Speaker 1>that in corporate settings. I've definitely worked around husbands and

0:41:05.040 --> 0:41:10.520
<v Speaker 1>wives in major corporations. This should definitely happen. So nepotism

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:14.600
<v Speaker 1>is favor favorism, both seen and unseen, that can impact anyone.

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Although race can be a factor, it's not always exclusively

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:25.360
<v Speaker 1>the case. Nepotism institutionalizes barriers to employment and promotion, evidenced

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:30.279
<v Speaker 1>by the absence of black business professionals and executives on

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:34.839
<v Speaker 1>Bay Street nepotism is not a friend of equity. Rather,

0:41:35.200 --> 0:41:37.800
<v Speaker 1>it's the seed that grows, the weed that struggles, that

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:42.279
<v Speaker 1>strangles nations of fairness, impartiality, and fair play in the

0:41:42.360 --> 0:41:46.320
<v Speaker 1>work workforce. For B I, p O C. That's black Indigenous,

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:57.520
<v Speaker 1>whatever else Americans pr Yeah, B B BP, B I,

0:41:57.719 --> 0:42:03.080
<v Speaker 1>p O C, H, Black Indigenous and people of color.

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>That's what that means. Nepotism needs to be checked at

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 1>the boardroom doors so it doesn't disadvantage B I, POC

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:16.520
<v Speaker 1>and other groups, including women who may also be disproportionately

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:19.319
<v Speaker 1>impacted by this destructive force.

0:42:20.480 --> 0:42:23.680
<v Speaker 2>So this is basically saying that nepotism isn't fair, and

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:24.560
<v Speaker 2>it ain't fair.

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:28.040
<v Speaker 1>But it's fair. But we as black people think it's

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 1>not fair way more because we're not in a position

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 1>to practice it. I think, I think if we had

0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>more corporations, we and I think sometimes black people are

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:42.320
<v Speaker 1>in position right, and some black people get in position

0:42:42.400 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 1>they only think about themselves. They're not trying to have

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:49.000
<v Speaker 1>anybody else be on their level. They think they're there,

0:42:49.640 --> 0:42:51.200
<v Speaker 1>they're the only one. They want to be the only

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:51.919
<v Speaker 1>one in the room.

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:54.960
<v Speaker 2>But there are a lot of black people who elevate

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:58.360
<v Speaker 2>their people. You know, I don't want to promote the narrative,

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:01.680
<v Speaker 2>narrative that black people aren't taking care of each other,

0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:04.239
<v Speaker 2>because there are a lot of black people who are

0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:06.799
<v Speaker 2>positioning they elevating everybody along with them.

0:43:08.480 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they're elevating people that they know, but me personally,

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:14.960
<v Speaker 1>in a corporate setting, I have had a black woman

0:43:15.160 --> 0:43:20.720
<v Speaker 1>in particular, attempt to hold me back from a promotion

0:43:20.880 --> 0:43:23.440
<v Speaker 1>that would have put me on the same level as her.

0:43:24.040 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 1>I was working under her, and this is when I

0:43:26.280 --> 0:43:28.239
<v Speaker 1>moved to Saint Louis. I moved to Saint Louis for

0:43:29.000 --> 0:43:33.000
<v Speaker 1>another position within this company, and this lady really was

0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:35.719
<v Speaker 1>just trying to stop my growth. And she was gone.

0:43:35.760 --> 0:43:37.640
<v Speaker 1>She actually got laid off from the company maybe a

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:39.840
<v Speaker 1>year or so later, you know, and I me and

0:43:39.960 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 1>her like really had it out, like really had it

0:43:43.160 --> 0:43:49.400
<v Speaker 1>out though, because she did not want to approve my promotion.

0:43:49.840 --> 0:43:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I applied for another job. I interviewed it within the

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:54.640
<v Speaker 1>same company, but you have to have, you know, the

0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 1>approval from your current manager. And she did not want

0:43:59.120 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>to let me go.

0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Well did she give a reasoning and no reason, no.

0:44:04.200 --> 0:44:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Reason it wasn't performed top performing, just because she could

0:44:08.880 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>do you see. So if I were somebody that she

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 1>probably liked, you know, she probably would not have, you know,

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:19.040
<v Speaker 1>stood in a Yes, we had like real life words

0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:23.000
<v Speaker 1>just me and her in office because I'm like, why, why,

0:44:23.239 --> 0:44:25.319
<v Speaker 1>what's the problem. Why would you be trying to stop

0:44:25.400 --> 0:44:28.879
<v Speaker 1>me from from elevating? I would never because I feel

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:30.920
<v Speaker 1>like as a good manager, that's what you do, right,

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:32.839
<v Speaker 1>you make sure you people are heard for the next

0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 1>for the next step. But I think in the black

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.600
<v Speaker 1>community sometimes when you see somebody start doing a little

0:44:38.600 --> 0:44:41.319
<v Speaker 1>bit better, it makes you refocus on what you are

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:44.920
<v Speaker 1>or aren't doing, and some people don't like that mirror.

0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know if even I think that's just people,

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:55.000
<v Speaker 2>not just the Black community. It's just people. Child people

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 2>want to.

0:44:55.320 --> 0:45:01.239
<v Speaker 1>See you people I'd be dealing with more mostly. Yeah,

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:02.839
<v Speaker 1>these niggas.

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:07.719
<v Speaker 2>White people experience that ship, the same ship too, I imagine,

0:45:08.040 --> 0:45:10.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, people because people want you to grow, but

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:14.760
<v Speaker 2>just not past them. Yeah, unfortunate niggas.

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Room for all of us, right. I don't think there's

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>an industry that's oversaturated to where we can't get a

0:45:21.120 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 1>piece of it.

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:25.399
<v Speaker 2>I agree. I always think of the analogy of going

0:45:25.480 --> 0:45:29.760
<v Speaker 2>on the bread out. It's three hundred two different breads,

0:45:30.360 --> 0:45:33.759
<v Speaker 2>all the same. We we we we we whit white

0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:37.239
<v Speaker 2>white white, and it's just in everybody in all of

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:37.920
<v Speaker 2>them sell.

0:45:38.400 --> 0:45:43.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, because all I'm a little different. So it's

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:45.680
<v Speaker 1>the best to some.

0:45:46.840 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 2>But I like that old school ship the butter bread.

0:45:52.600 --> 0:45:55.000
<v Speaker 2>That's liquor, bitch, that's how I know you out there

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:58.360
<v Speaker 2>drinking heavy, y'all. She said she ain't drinking, But this

0:45:58.560 --> 0:46:03.960
<v Speaker 2>bitch is Captain Bridge. That is Captain Captain Morgan bread. No,

0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:07.680
<v Speaker 2>Ain't no fucking Captain Morgan Bread. That's liquor. That's what's

0:46:07.719 --> 0:46:09.480
<v Speaker 2>in there. Drink you over there, slipper down.

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:15.560
<v Speaker 1>Let me see Captain John. Is it Captain John? I

0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:24.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know him either. It's Captain John dearest. So to

0:46:24.440 --> 0:46:28.200
<v Speaker 1>properly wrap up the conversation regarding nepotism, get a position,

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:32.080
<v Speaker 1>stop fucking hating, so we could put our people on it.

0:46:32.160 --> 0:46:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Ain't nothing wrong with a lord nepping a load nepotism

0:46:35.800 --> 0:46:36.239
<v Speaker 1>here and there.

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Nipple baby, I'm trying to give it to you. Yeah,

0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:46.439
<v Speaker 2>instead of throwable baby, I'm trying to have a bunch

0:46:46.520 --> 0:46:50.880
<v Speaker 2>of them. Amen. All right, y'all, I have a dumbich

0:46:50.960 --> 0:46:52.560
<v Speaker 2>story for y'all, and this one is good. I can't

0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:54.759
<v Speaker 2>wait to hear what AJ thinks and what you guys think.

0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 2>We'll be right back.

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:01.319
<v Speaker 1>Dumb bitch story, so because we've all been a dumb

0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:02.720
<v Speaker 1>bitch at least once or twice.

0:47:04.520 --> 0:47:08.359
<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all listen to this. Hey, we talk back.

0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:10.600
<v Speaker 2>I love you and AJ, and I love the show,

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:14.160
<v Speaker 2>and I wanted to sin in my DBS. I've been

0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:16.799
<v Speaker 2>married sixteen years, and for the first five or six

0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:20.360
<v Speaker 2>years I cheated on my husband badly. He caught me

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:23.040
<v Speaker 2>most times, and he would always forgive me, but I

0:47:23.120 --> 0:47:27.000
<v Speaker 2>knew it hurt him. I eventually recommitted to my marriage,

0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 2>and I'm proud to say that I've been a good

0:47:29.920 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 2>and faithful wife for nearly ten years now. But here's

0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:36.320
<v Speaker 2>the issue. He has now decided that he wants to

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:39.160
<v Speaker 2>cheat back, and when I caught him, he told me

0:47:39.280 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 2>to divorce him or deal with it. I love my

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:44.960
<v Speaker 2>I know right. I love my husband very much, but

0:47:45.080 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure that I can take this betrayal at

0:47:47.560 --> 0:47:50.480
<v Speaker 2>this age. I also don't want to be alone. What

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:51.160
<v Speaker 2>should I do.

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:56.360
<v Speaker 1>Whatever's good for the goose is good for the gander,

0:47:56.520 --> 0:48:00.960
<v Speaker 1>isn't that girl like he didn't you tat him a.

0:48:00.960 --> 0:48:03.640
<v Speaker 2>Lot of years, like he tried to.

0:48:03.840 --> 0:48:06.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think keep been cheating all along. She's

0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:07.600
<v Speaker 1>just finding out.

0:48:10.080 --> 0:48:13.279
<v Speaker 2>Sixteen years and then the first five or six you

0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:15.840
<v Speaker 2>cheated and then you was good for ten years, and

0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:19.880
<v Speaker 2>now he just getting his get back. Is crazy because

0:48:19.920 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 2>now you're probably older now, like the thing ain't singing

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:25.480
<v Speaker 2>like it used to.

0:48:26.080 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like, why don't I might as well

0:48:28.440 --> 0:48:31.480
<v Speaker 1>just keep keep the whole little process going. She might

0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:33.040
<v Speaker 1>as well go cheat again.

0:48:33.840 --> 0:48:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Right, You might as well hop back outside system. Just

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:38.759
<v Speaker 2>stay with him. That's what I would do.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people be together because they've had so

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:46.359
<v Speaker 1>much trauma happening in relationship. They've been trauma bonding all

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:49.040
<v Speaker 1>these years. So you cheated on him. It probably took

0:48:49.120 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 1>him ten years to get over that shit, and now

0:48:52.360 --> 0:48:54.960
<v Speaker 1>he like, you know what, I'm gonna go get me

0:48:55.040 --> 0:48:57.439
<v Speaker 1>some new pussy. How about that bitch? If you don't

0:48:57.520 --> 0:48:59.920
<v Speaker 1>like it, get the fuck out or do you?

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<v Speaker 2>That's Ooh that Carra come back crazy, don't it though?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Ten years later after I've been good, now she's talking

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<v Speaker 2>about betrayal. The nerve for you to use the word

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<v Speaker 2>betrayal when you was out there doing shit for five

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<v Speaker 2>or six years, Like cheating for five and six years

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<v Speaker 2>is like you hold, I had a whole nother relationship

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<v Speaker 2>or was it here yeah, multiple people or was it

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 2>just one specific person that you kept involved in and

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:26.719
<v Speaker 2>you said you hurt him real bad and he took

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<v Speaker 2>you back every time? Damn, this is what you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of deserve.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they deserve each other, for sure. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I'm gonna wait ten years to cheat on

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes though I'm more of a like immediate type

0:49:37.560 --> 0:49:42.359
<v Speaker 1>of bitch, But I don't think she should divorce him.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she should deal with it the same way

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<v Speaker 1>he had to deal with it. Let him do it

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<v Speaker 1>for however long he feels like it. Get over a

0:49:48.239 --> 0:49:53.279
<v Speaker 1>bitch like you opened this can of worms. Deal with

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 1>it if you really love your husband. Because what we

0:49:57.360 --> 0:50:00.279
<v Speaker 1>don't own people, man, And this is why lean more

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<v Speaker 1>not saying I want an open relationship. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to own nobody because I don't want to be owned.

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<v Speaker 1>So even though y'all in a union, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there's conversations y'all might have missed. Y'all ain't been talking.

0:50:12.239 --> 0:50:16.279
<v Speaker 2>There's no fucking one, clearly, clearly, And I want to hear,

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<v Speaker 2>like how long because you left out some parts, So

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<v Speaker 2>how long he been cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>How long? Is it something new?

0:50:23.719 --> 0:50:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Are you just finding out?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Because he might have had a whole bitch for

0:50:27.239 --> 0:50:31.840
<v Speaker 2>sixteen years, niggas would have a whole family.

0:50:32.200 --> 0:50:35.799
<v Speaker 1>So I wonder how their relationship has been these last

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 1>few years, like after him cheating, because I listen, a

0:50:38.120 --> 0:50:41.000
<v Speaker 1>niggas speculated about me fucking cheating and that motherfucker gave

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<v Speaker 1>me hell for at least two years after Meanwhile, like

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<v Speaker 1>I dealt with a bunch of bullshit earlier on in

0:50:47.920 --> 0:50:50.759
<v Speaker 1>the relationship. So I'd like to know, like how their

0:50:50.840 --> 0:50:54.239
<v Speaker 1>relationship has been up until this point of him cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, because yeah, because when a man find out, like

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<v Speaker 2>because they'd be like, men don't stay when they get

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:02.680
<v Speaker 2>cheated on. That's not true. They do, they do stay,

0:51:03.200 --> 0:51:06.760
<v Speaker 2>but they just mean as hell they're not the same person.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, nigga man, Yeah, born man is worse than

0:51:11.640 --> 0:51:13.960
<v Speaker 1>a broke nigga doll. They aren't going to troll the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck out of you in the relationship. Get out of there.

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 1>She should leave because she started this shit. Actually no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's no, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Should have been left, like a long time ago. Once

0:51:26.080 --> 0:51:29.160
<v Speaker 2>he forgave you for the sixth time, you probably should

0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:31.960
<v Speaker 2>have got out of there because this was only gonna

0:51:32.000 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 2>happen at some point, So I listen, go ahead, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't even be mad, and especially like if they okay,

0:51:39.400 --> 0:51:42.000
<v Speaker 1>if they're in their fifties, we all going at that,

0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:44.399
<v Speaker 1>might as well just be roommates and deal with the shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't fuck up the money.

0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:48.520
<v Speaker 2>That's what she said. I can't handle this portrayal at

0:51:48.600 --> 0:51:52.479
<v Speaker 2>this age. So that means they're you know, at least

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<v Speaker 2>closer to fifty. I'm assuming like late forties, early fifties

0:51:55.920 --> 0:51:58.759
<v Speaker 2>or something, sixteen years to be married to somebody's But shit,

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 2>they could have got married at twenties, so I don't know.

0:52:01.200 --> 0:52:02.279
<v Speaker 2>But either way, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if they got married at twenty, that makes that

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:07.320
<v Speaker 1>still makes even more sense to me why you should

0:52:07.400 --> 0:52:09.440
<v Speaker 1>still be wanting to fuck on other people like y'all

0:52:09.520 --> 0:52:16.920
<v Speaker 1>been married to damn long shit. I'm okay with him

0:52:16.960 --> 0:52:19.680
<v Speaker 1>getting some pussy man if that was my man, and

0:52:19.800 --> 0:52:22.720
<v Speaker 1>already I'm okay with it. Go ahead.

0:52:22.960 --> 0:52:24.800
<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like he should have got his pussy

0:52:24.840 --> 0:52:27.279
<v Speaker 2>a long time ago. Why you ain't until now, Why

0:52:27.320 --> 0:52:29.960
<v Speaker 2>you ain't till ten years of me being good to

0:52:30.120 --> 0:52:33.240
<v Speaker 2>decide you want to be bad. It's crazy you should

0:52:33.239 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 2>have been bad with me.

0:52:34.920 --> 0:52:38.279
<v Speaker 1>Cauz bitch like I didn't have a feeling. I didn't

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:40.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like doing it thing I feel like doing it now.

0:52:40.480 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he just got a corvette and maybe having a midlight.

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh it might be even more fucked up if he

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:46.000
<v Speaker 1>got a young bitch.

0:52:47.120 --> 0:52:49.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, now he fucking on somebody.

0:52:49.400 --> 0:52:52.000
<v Speaker 1>That's why she feel betrayed. She's not seeing this young

0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:57.920
<v Speaker 1>bitch right youngersion of her and she.

0:52:58.000 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 2>Getting money from him because you know, if he got

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:03.879
<v Speaker 2>a young one, ding he tricking too. Mmmm m man,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, miss Sheila. It's like, I don't know if

0:53:06.960 --> 0:53:07.680
<v Speaker 2>that's your name.

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<v Speaker 1>About I say, not you calling these people name on it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have no advice for her, really, honestly, I

0:53:17.320 --> 0:53:20.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like staying in your marriage. Staying in marriage ain't

0:53:20.760 --> 0:53:22.920
<v Speaker 1>nothing outside, like y'all just need to work it out,

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:26.239
<v Speaker 1>like you cheated, cheat? It is he saying he coming

0:53:26.280 --> 0:53:28.759
<v Speaker 1>to fuck the bitch at the house, like in your

0:53:28.840 --> 0:53:33.800
<v Speaker 1>face type cheating or he said, Blayton, is it? How blatant?

0:53:33.880 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>It's this level Citi sh Now, you're just being straight

0:53:36.680 --> 0:53:39.160
<v Speaker 1>up disrespectful to me because I cheated on you before.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have left, right, deal with it? Is crazy

0:53:43.960 --> 0:53:48.279
<v Speaker 2>to tell me, Yeah, deal with it. You don't like her,

0:53:48.360 --> 0:53:49.279
<v Speaker 2>You don't like you no more.

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<v Speaker 1>No get that girl. You don't like you? Yeah, all right,

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