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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 2: talks back, big back, big back. Listen, I'm giving a

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Speaker 2: big bag indergy right now. I might as well start.

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Speaker 2: What's up y'all? Welcome to that new episode of We

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Speaker 2: Talk Back. As your Girl tam Man, I love y'all.

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Speaker 2: AJ what's not y'all?

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Speaker 1: It's your girl, a j holiday, a great a day.

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck are you starting off the introduction talk

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Speaker 1: about big bags?

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Speaker 2: Cause listen, y'all. One of my good friends, she has

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Speaker 2: a wellness studio which is fabulous called Muambouge, and I

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Speaker 2: did some content for her and I got a massage

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Speaker 2: and she was recording me getting a massage. And then

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Speaker 2: when I was looking at the video, baby, you couldn't

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Speaker 2: tell me what the linebacker laying down on that bed,

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's my bad dad, why for real?

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Speaker 2: Like that shit hurt my feelings. I ain't even made

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Speaker 2: the video yet because I just don't know how I

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Speaker 2: much edit out that extra back piece. Girl, your back

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Speaker 2: is not big that I'm gonna send you this video.

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Speaker 2: You gonna sweat. You gonna swear, bitch that I'm exavierly

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Speaker 2: get laying down there on that motherfucker bed.

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Speaker 1: The backs baby talk about. I know the backs they

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Speaker 1: be talking about, and I don't got one of them.

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Speaker 2: Nigga, when I look at him, when I look in

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Speaker 2: the mirror, I'm gonna send you this video because you're

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Speaker 2: gonna be like, Okay, I see what you're saying. It's

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Speaker 2: just that it's that space between the the arm pit,

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Speaker 2: in the arm rofat.

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Speaker 1: Oh this left punk right here, that.

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Speaker 2: Chunk right there up under the armpit. But in the bag.

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Speaker 1: What is that?

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Speaker 2: Baby, girl? I ain't like it. I've been doing uh,

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Speaker 2: what's it called?

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Speaker 1: Roe?

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Speaker 2: I've been rowing never since that video, baby, because that

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Speaker 2: got to come up off me. How's your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Just suck it out. My weekend is going well, girl.

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Speaker 1: It is an eight day weekend for me. I'm on vacation, bitch, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I'm in Anguila, chilling, black as hell. We had lobster

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Speaker 1: for dinner last night. Your best life, God is real good.

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Speaker 1: The only thing I'm missing some Penis man.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, Penis couldn't come with you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I like thugs. This nigga, don't have

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Speaker 1: no passport, but we gonna get you a passport, baby,

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Speaker 1: so we can go outside.

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Speaker 2: What did I do this weekend? Oh, it was my

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Speaker 2: friend Bunny's birthday and we went outside. Uh, she's cousins

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Speaker 2: with Jayla from the Baddies, So we was outside with

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Speaker 2: the baddies from Zeus Network. Girl. Yes, it was a

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Speaker 2: situation situation.

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Speaker 1: Who's Jayala? Is that not the girl from Columbia that's

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Speaker 1: he talking about? Mm hmm which character is that? Because

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Speaker 1: didn't they have from Colombia before?

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Speaker 2: I think she was on Joscelyn's Cabaret it was Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so this Jayla. I don't know exactly where Jayla is from,

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Speaker 2: but she's the one who always wears white with the

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Speaker 2: low cut, blonde hairstyle. That's Bunny's cousin.

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Speaker 1: I think I just seen that person. She was apologizing

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Speaker 1: to somebody on an episode fatiasing the big one who

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Speaker 1: just got surgery and ship. I just see clips on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I don't know if she's a She don't

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Speaker 2: seem like the apologizing type. But maybe I ain't seen

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Speaker 2: it because I watched Batties on the Traadmill. That's my

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Speaker 2: because I be fighting for my life. They be fighting

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Speaker 2: for theirs too, but I'll be fighting for my life

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Speaker 2: as well, so it's perfect together.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to the batties, Shout.

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Speaker 2: Out to the Batties, and shout out to Bunny. Happy birthday, y'all.

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Speaker 2: My friend Bunny. Uh, she is healing from stage four

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Speaker 2: breast cancer. So this is the first time we all

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Speaker 2: got to actually hang out in a long time. We

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Speaker 2: had a really good time. We started a GoFundMe for her,

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Speaker 2: so the likas in my bio. If y'all want to

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Speaker 2: support my sister, please donate or just come and share

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Speaker 2: it with your people so we can make sure she

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Speaker 2: gets all the holistic care that she can get because

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Speaker 2: insurance don't pay for holistic care. Did you know that?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Why would they want to heal you? They

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Speaker 1: want you alive and sick. What's her instagram? Let the

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Speaker 1: listeners know you know it?

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Speaker 2: Her Instagram is it's Bunny Baby, so y'all go check

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Speaker 2: her out her Uh, It's Bunny Baby, and her gun

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Speaker 2: for me will be in the link there too. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So that's that was my weekend. That was Sunday and Baby.

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Speaker 2: All Monday I was remembering to meet in Monday. Baby,

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Speaker 2: I was down bad and I didn't even drink that much.

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Speaker 2: I just don't know your body, don't.

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Speaker 1: I keep saying that. I don't know why y'all playing

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Speaker 1: like that's one thing I drink all day long. I've

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Speaker 1: barely been drinking alcohol like that. I did have a

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Speaker 1: couple of gummies, but I can't do it. I want

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Speaker 1: to be fully functioning all day long, Okay. I don't

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Speaker 1: like feeling sick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I never.

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Speaker 1: Drink these BBC's y'all ever had in the Caribbean is banana,

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Speaker 1: Bacardi and coconut.

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Speaker 2: That's liquor, bitch, what's you talking about? Said that girl

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Speaker 2: said I don't be drinking like that, and they said,

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Speaker 2: suck it up.

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Speaker 1: I don't count mixed drinks because when I drink liquor,

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Speaker 1: it'd be straight liquor like mixed drinks, don't. I never

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Speaker 1: do more than one, so it's never going to like

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Speaker 1: have the effect like me drinking my straight liquor. Okay,

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Speaker 1: because I don't chase shit. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Let's get in the sands. What happened?

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Speaker 1: They're all a BT? Lawrence? Did you indulge? Did you

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Speaker 1: watch it?

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Speaker 2: This weekend. I was like literally sad because I wanted

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Speaker 2: to be the work in the red carpet. But that's

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Speaker 2: a conversation for another time. So I didn't watch it

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Speaker 2: because I was, like I said, we were out celebrating

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend's life. So I did not get to see it.

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Speaker 2: But I got to see a lot of clips, like

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Speaker 2: on the Shade Room and the ones that were like

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Speaker 2: really viral. So I did see Glorilla hanging in the

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Speaker 2: sky for twenty minutes. Why they did gloriala like that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. And do people are we too hard

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Speaker 1: on any black anything? It's like other people can slide,

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Speaker 1: but were so hard on black things.

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, that shit was funny, bro, She's just up there, like.

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Speaker 1: Why do you have that on the internet? Dog?

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Speaker 2: Like y'all know how?

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Speaker 1: Like, Okay, so BT wars because we did attend the

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Speaker 1: Hip Hop Awards last year and it is it's live,

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Speaker 1: but it's also pre recorded at the same time, right,

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Speaker 1: So they do a lot of things and I guess

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Speaker 1: they broadcast and in between times, so there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of post production shit that people really don't see. But

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Speaker 1: they could have at least turned the highlight off on

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Speaker 1: Golilla hanging from a higher he came down like a

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Speaker 1: pit with the parachute.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but she was up there, just waiting on her turn,

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Speaker 2: just proudly waiting. I listened. They would have had to

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Speaker 2: lower me down to the floor because my legs wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have worked sitting hanging there.

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Speaker 1: In the air that long straight noodles? Right?

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Speaker 2: Why why tam Ban rolling around the stage would.

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Speaker 1: Get up? Stand up? Stand up?

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Speaker 2: Will I weakened the knees, I weakened the thighs. They'd

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Speaker 2: have cut off my circulation for fifteen minutes up here.

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Speaker 1: G I had heels on one day that I just

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Speaker 1: did like a lot of squads the day before. And

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Speaker 1: when I tell you my legs, my legs was noodles

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Speaker 1: in the club dog my shit, I know if people

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Speaker 1: could see my legs underneath my dress, my shit was

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Speaker 1: like shaking, shaking fucking heels.

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Speaker 2: Man, Listen, idn't I discovered the cables? Like I always be,

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Speaker 2: like very intimidated by equipment in the gym. I already

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Speaker 2: feel like people be looking at me. I feel like

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Speaker 2: people be watching me.

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Speaker 1: I do be watching you.

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Speaker 2: That should be motivation.

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Speaker 1: No, no, I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't know what the fuck I'll be doing. Sometimes,

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Speaker 2: like when when I learn a new machine, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be on one in the videos like look

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Speaker 2: what is this bitch doing?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: So I always be like really intimidated by using new ship.

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Speaker 2: But I got the courage to use the cables with

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Speaker 2: the ankle. Maybe that's my new ship. Yeah, do you.

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Speaker 1: Have like the little the little padded, little hooked things

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Speaker 1: for your ankles, like I bought mine off Amazon. But

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Speaker 1: I love like the donkey kicks and shit like that

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Speaker 1: on the cables.

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Speaker 2: That's what I've been doing.

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Speaker 1: Good workout. It's a girl. I don't think I like

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Speaker 1: looking at me fucking up or doing the right thing

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Speaker 1: or the wrong thing.

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Speaker 2: Girl, get it in. No, I'll be in there. I'd

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Speaker 2: be nervous because I already feel like it's eyes on

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Speaker 2: me heavy and now I'm in here like yeah, I

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Speaker 2: know they watching watching me fuck up. So but here's

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Speaker 2: the thing. I'll be in there fucking up. But I

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Speaker 2: also don't want your help. Yeah, please like, yeah, you're

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Speaker 2: doing it wrong. No I'm not. I'm doing it like

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Speaker 2: this video on Instagram, nigga, man your business if.

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Speaker 1: Y'all with some girl workouts and we're all off topic

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Speaker 1: we're supposed to be talking about since But if y'all

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Speaker 1: download muscle Wiki like Wikipedia, but it's muscle w I

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Speaker 1: k I dot com. It actually has like videos and

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Speaker 1: you could press like what part of your body you

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Speaker 1: want to work on, and they have all the different exercises,

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Speaker 1: like even if you want to do like some type

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Speaker 1: of machine or whatever, like you can select them. But

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Speaker 1: it's free and it's good. That is a personal trainer.

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Speaker 1: Muscle Wiki muscle wiki wiki yeah like Wikipedia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, because I need to figure out what worked

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Speaker 2: that little piece of meat on my back when I

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Speaker 2: was laying down in that video.

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Speaker 1: I need to find the roles so you can literally

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Speaker 1: like they'll have us a picture of a woman or man.

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Speaker 1: You select the female, and then you tap that spot

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Speaker 1: and it'll give you the workouts to do them for

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Speaker 1: that particular area.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna log as soon as

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Speaker 2: we fucking finished with this ship because I literally look

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Speaker 2: like a linebacker in that video.

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Speaker 1: Were so hard on our damn selves, y'all. Okay, cut

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Speaker 1: it out.

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Speaker 2: My titty to back ratio ain't giving baby girl.

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Speaker 1: Back to the bet Awards, did you like to Roger

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Speaker 1: p Henson hosting.

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Speaker 2: I didn't get to see it. I didn't really get

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Speaker 2: to see her host. I saw her do the day

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Speaker 2: not like us parody, and I thought that was like

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Speaker 2: probably more fun if you're there watching it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted them to have somebody younger, not like

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Speaker 1: Auntie age our age damn there, like some funny funny,

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Speaker 1: like a comedian, like a real comedian.

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Speaker 2: My Pretty V, like Pretty V pretty.

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Speaker 1: I think Pretty V could have done it, or maybe

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Speaker 1: she's not completely ready for that, because I like hosting

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Speaker 1: is like a real that's a skill like skill set,

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Speaker 1: like with her and Dream.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that was funny. That part was funny, Like.

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Speaker 2: Right, No, not following nothing on the tailor prompter, lagging

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Speaker 2: Ain't she her fities?

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Speaker 1: Come on, Taraji, nevertheless, I love Taraji. Okay, next year,

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Speaker 1: get somebody else to do it, Get somebody else.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let's put in Rick Ross, big ass. Rick

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Speaker 1: Ross got attacked in Canada yard. They was playing They

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but but he wasn't trying to, Like I pay

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Speaker 2: Dog by drink? His security did their job as far

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Speaker 1: No, my security supposed to fuck people up. I don't

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Speaker 2: It was like five of them on him. He was

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Speaker 2: like he ate him, like he got up. Five people

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Speaker 1: They lost, man, they lost. Nobody will remember your wins

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Speaker 2: And then Rick Ross's baby mama kill. She showed out.

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Speaker 1: blame her. She's this, this would happen. He's the bitter

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Speaker 1: their face because guess what that first baby mama know

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Speaker 2: Outside of the money period.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I always say niggas deserve access to

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Speaker 2: Oh no, my mama, what can I say? That's my mama?

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Speaker 1: Me cutting up on Rick Ross ass Man. So the

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Speaker 1: only other thing about the BET Awards, I'm skipping back.

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Speaker 1: Goddamn Kamala Harris. That part made my ass. It's a

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Speaker 1: little bit like, can we leave politics out of everything

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Speaker 1: right now? Stop pandering to black people during all black shit.

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Speaker 1: I just don't like it because it's almost like they

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Speaker 1: So now I'll let people tell you what to think.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like Kamala Harris may have single handedly ruined. Uh.

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Speaker 1: They not like us, these extreme us, as they say,

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Speaker 1: the black people. I'm sick of it already. Just stop

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Speaker 1: go away, Roger.

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Speaker 2: Where you be at? That's all I want to know, Like.

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Speaker 1: Where do we even at? We at the abortion clinics

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Speaker 2: Yet I ain't seen her there, like, I ain't seen

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Speaker 1: She's been seeking at colleges she spoke at Howard Is

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Speaker 1: just that's that's mainly the headlines that I've seen about

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Speaker 1: that's always one of the big things them wanted to

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Speaker 2: I just feel like you should have the right to

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Speaker 2: I don't have a judge of jewelry for anyone or

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Speaker 2: Heaven or hell. So that's your body and you make

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Speaker 2: that decision. I would never encourage it, but I also

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Speaker 2: wouldn't tell you not to, you know, but you just

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Speaker 1: So because most of the people who be performing at

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Speaker 1: these I don't know, women's rights conferences, a lot of

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Speaker 1: them don't have children themselves. And as a woman who

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Speaker 1: wants children. Right, I'm never going to be back in

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Speaker 1: those shit like that because the decisions you make today

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Speaker 1: I feel like I could talk about it, and I

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Speaker 1: that's all Kamala has been doing, is pushing and pushing abortion.

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Speaker 1: That was her whole thing for office as far as

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Speaker 1: I'm concerned.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Well, I know you ain't the it might wig go,

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Speaker 2: but they walk advocate talking like that.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't believe it's struggling. Okay, I don't believe

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Speaker 1: Like where is the self control? You know what I'm

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Speaker 1: saying like that, Like I always say it shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: used as birth control birth control? I agree, So that's

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Speaker 1: what I think. You know, people wrapping about plan b's

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Speaker 1: and shit like that, like that's just like popping a

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Speaker 2: Right, No, it's not good for yeah.

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Speaker 1: So y'all apparently dating app burnout is on the rise.

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Speaker 1: It says more and more Americans are getting exhausted by

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Speaker 1: swiping left and right. It's called dating app burnout, and

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Speaker 1: more than eighty percent of people using dating apps are

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Speaker 1: like Tender or Okay Cupid triggers a lot of hopelessness

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Speaker 1: what's the worst part of the experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I done been on the motherfucking things. I don't

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Speaker 2: do it no more because one people be like lying,

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Speaker 2: they be having old last pictures up. You go meet,

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Speaker 2: you think you meet in one nigga and you meet

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Speaker 2: in the same nigga but fifteen years older. For the future?

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Speaker 2: Right for the future? Right? Or like I remember I

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Speaker 2: went on one day and we met at PF. Chang's.

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Speaker 2: This was a minute ago. And baby, he looked he

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Speaker 2: looked like average height in the pig but when he

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Speaker 2: probably was like four eight four nine. Girl, Shut the

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Speaker 2: fuck up, baby. He jumped down from that stool. I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh shit, boy, you trip me, ain't it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: You know telling the truth, man, I'm not lying. He

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Speaker 2: like we had dinner. His legs were swinging and shit,

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Speaker 2: we was laughing. We had fun. But I just knew

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Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna see him no more because he's too

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Speaker 2: little to ride his ride.

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Speaker 1: He might have had a bunch of dick for you, man.

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Speaker 2: That's why I like little.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know about four eight now that like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a kid.

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Speaker 1: I'm cool on that.

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Speaker 1: Behind me?

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Speaker 2: Nah? Bruh.

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Speaker 1: Everybody the same height when you're laying down. Damn there. Okay, No,

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Speaker 1: I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Not too tall.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't like your chest all in my face.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that, like to be face to face

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Speaker 2: How you trying to hit me and you got your

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Speaker 2: legs wrapped around my waist.

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Speaker 1: You'll really be rid of your ass. Okay, hell that

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Speaker 2: Like he played entirely like you gotta tell that you

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Speaker 1: I've never been like on a dating app, dating app consistently,

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Speaker 1: like I've been on a dating app, Meet a nigga

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Speaker 1: and get the fuck up off of there, because it's

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Speaker 1: like a feeding frenzy, and it's almost like it'd be

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Speaker 1: the same bitches, the same dudes. And I just think

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Speaker 2: Are they just trying to hook up?

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Speaker 1: So the day you get on there, it's like, oh

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Speaker 1: niggas who don fucked all the other bitches off the app,

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Speaker 2: You just feel like I'm talking to a robot now

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Speaker 2: with different faces. Yeah, so I don't like it. I

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Speaker 1: I think you can see people's personality a little bit

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Speaker 1: better on Instagram, you know what I'm saying, Cause you

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00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: got it limited on like the bios and stuff like that,

439
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 1: Like you can go down years and years of somebody Instagram. Shit,

440
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: see where relationships that I've been in, what type of

441
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: money they be making. You can find out a lot

442
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: about somebody based on like the pictures and stuff they post,

443
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 1: the content they post. So I think Instagram dating is

444
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: a little bit better and it's fucking free.

445
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 2: Okay, right, That's where I.

446
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I wish. I wish people the

447
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: best on those dating websites, like I I.

448
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:47,959
Speaker 2: I just was watching.

449
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: It was like a it's the two B series and

450
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: I forgot the name of it, but one of the

451
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 1: episodes it was Young Jock and he was on a

452
00:22:58,800 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: you saw that.

453
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 2: I got a story to tell.

454
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: No, it was called gas Station Pills or something. Yeah,

455
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: but the episode was yeah, you're right.

456
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 2: It's a show call I got a story to tell

457
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 2: and got different episodes, different names.

458
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Young King is called so the Young Jocque.

459
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 1: He was taking like a gas station pill and turn

460
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: into another nigga, like a fine nigga and dog. When

461
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: the ship first happened, I said, ain't no way they

462
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 1: about to try to make Young Jock fine. It better

463
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: be a whole nother person. And that's what happened.

464
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,239
Speaker 2: Ain't no way, bro. They did things to make him

465
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Speaker 2: less attractive, like put bumps on his face.

466
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like the two little witch moles on his face.

467
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

468
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like like that's how Dayton apps be. Like,

469
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I think people be hiding

470
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 1: on all these things and then you actually got to

471
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 1: see the person in person.

472
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 2: Then people be dying behind that shit. You mean somebody crazy?

473
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 2: You've seen people like get like really hurts especially women.

474
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 2: Not so much. Men are being hurt, but women are

475
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: getting hurt behind you know, meeting random people. So I'm

476
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: over it too.

477
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all be careful out there. Just I don't know,

478
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 1: Just go outside more, get out the house. Take a

479
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: week off from work and go hang out at bars

480
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: or something. Go meet people organically and see what happens.

481
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Speaker 2: Girl, the price of these organic eggs is too high

482
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 2: to take a week off work, bitch, I don't know

483
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: what you talk about. Go after work, y'all. Don't take

484
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: the dot fuck around and take no whole week off

485
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 2: to meet no niggas. Just go after There's a lot

486
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 2: of afterwork socials.

487
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Speaker 1: So Jada Chavez claps back after receiving criticism for her

488
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Speaker 1: comments on dating. So a couple of weeks ago, she

489
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: was on a podcast, and you know, I just people

490
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: ask these questions so they can get viral moments, right,

491
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: So she provided a viral moment for this particular show

492
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: in for herself. I guess so recently dyshavez responding to

493
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: the backlass after the backlash she received over her comments

494
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: about dating men who earn less than her. So originally,

495
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Speaker 1: Jada said that she wouldn't date someone who makes less

496
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Speaker 1: money than her because she feels that they would try

497
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: to make her feel like a lesser woman. After many

498
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 1: fans commented on what she said, she clapped back and

499
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: at it. Baby, know the fuck I didn't, she continued.

500
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 1: I said exactly what I felt, and the real rich

501
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: boss bitches will feel me. And if you don't feel me,

502
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: message isn't for you. I think what she said is

503
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: pretty valid because we know there are a lot of

504
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: men out here with very fragile eagles, and they think

505
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 1: they want a boss bitch to they actually get one

506
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: one who doesn't have time to run behind you. I

507
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: was having a conversation with one of my homegirls yesterday

508
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 1: because she said her dude asked her to do something

509
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: and she had to tell him like, Nigga, I'm dealing

510
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: with this that I got two adult kids, Like, I

511
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: got a whole bunch of shit that I'm dealing with

512
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: as a woman. Like the shit that you're talking about

513
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,439
Speaker 1: is very trivial, So you need to get you a bit.

514
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 1: You don't god much going on that can deal with

515
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: figuring out what you should eat eight hundred miles.

516
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: Away from me. Well, really, that's what it was.

517
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: It was some dumb shit like that, yes, ye. And

518
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: so when you're a man and you're used to women

519
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 1: like doing things for you, because men oftentimes want women

520
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: to be secretaries, porn stars, babysitters, and when you got

521
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: somebody who got a lot shit, a lot of shit

522
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: going on just like you, some of them say that's

523
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: what they want, but they when they get it, they

524
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: don't they don't really like it.

525
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Speaker 2: In particularly I listen, I don't have nothing. I don't

526
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 2: see nothing against dating somebody who make less than you.

527
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: But I I even me, but I just don't have

528
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: enough money for that yet. Like if I had a

529
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 2: whole bunch of money, then like I'm tricking off on all.

530
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: Oh y'all, right, all my niggas, you get a PlayStation,

531
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: you get a PlayStation, you get a PlayStation. But I

532
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 2: just ain't in a space where I could be with

533
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: someone who's making listen to me because I don't make

534
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: enough for that. You know, I need someone who make

535
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: it as much as me.

536
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: Or more, right, And I don't think that's a It's

537
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: not like a big thing to ask. It's not a

538
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: big ask, right, especially in this economy, Like, it's not

539
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: a big ask. Everybody should be pulling any weight. However,

540
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: now we're talking about women, their dating pool is a

541
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 1: little bit different because of their tax bracken, So why

542
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: would you think this? This? This even goes back to

543
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: remember they was on what's a girl Who's pregnant? Now

544
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,479
Speaker 1: saying she wouldn't date a bus driver? I mean it

545
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: goes back to that that conversation, like why would I.

546
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm an attorney, Why would I be dating a bus driver?

547
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's just the men are

548
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: more shallow. And I don't know who wasn't if it

549
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: was just women attacking attacking Jada Chavez or we know

550
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: the bitter niggas is out there too, But why would

551
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: you want to put yourself in that position to, you know,

552
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 1: to feel some type of way about how much a

553
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: woman is making I agree, Like, it's not the woman

554
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 1: masculating you, Like you know you ain't doing your best?

555
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: So why do you want me to settle for it?

556
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: But it's not. You wouldn't want that for your daughter.

557
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 2: Exactly.

558
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: I love to throw niggas kids in there real quick.

559
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: You want that for your baby? Like, do you really

560
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: want to have to send your daughter money when she's

561
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: sucking dick? She got somebody she fucking on and you

562
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: still got to take care of her. You want that?

563
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Not.

564
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't want that, so, but they don't want

565
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: somebody else's daughter.

566
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: I'm somebody's daking, right, we all are, period.

567
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like think of it like that. I'm somebody's kid.

568
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: Take care of me. God damn it, figure it, figure

569
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 1: it the fuck out. And men, men are problem solvers.

570
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: Figure it out all right.

571
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 2: Lastly, Lebron and Bronni about to be teammates. Did you

572
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: see that meme where it was like breaking news Lebron

573
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: is having sex with one of his teammates mom, And

574
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 2: I was.

575
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: Like, I'm reading it, Like then I started groogling like, damn,

576
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: Lebron got caught cheating. I didn't understand what was going

577
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: on and what was going on initially. I'm happy for them, Okay.

578
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: Me too. I'm excited to see them play together. I

579
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 2: know they gonna be on that boy ass hard when

580
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: he played like, they're gonna be on him heavy. So

581
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 2: he gotta be ready for a fight, because that's what

582
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: it's gonna be. But it's gonna be fun to watch

583
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 2: to see them all then play together fathering. So, and

584
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: that's never happened in the history of the NBA.

585
00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: I read. So it's brought up the conversation surrounding nepotism.

586
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: We've been accused of nepotism here. We talked back, and

587
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what the problem is, like, so what, Okay,

588
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: let's talk about it after this break.

589
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 2: We'll be right back, all right.

590
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: So it says Lebron and Bronnie James have become the

591
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: first father and son to play for an NBA team

592
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: at the same time. After the Lakers on Thursday draft

593
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: at the younger James Brownie was the team's number fifty

594
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: five overall pick deep in the second round, with only

595
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: three picks remaining in this year's draft. In the history

596
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: of the NBA, there's never been a father and son

597
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: that have shared an NBA basketball court, and that feels

598
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: like something that could be magical since Lakers general manager

599
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: Rob Polenka. Polenka, so people are not to talk about

600
00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: nepotism I've seen and this could be the out because

601
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: this was actually one of my questions to basketball heirs,

602
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: like is Lebron's son really that good? And one of

603
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: one of one of my guy friends is like, maybe

604
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: in a couple of years he will be, you know,

605
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: not necessarily right now to be drafted into the NFA,

606
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: just NFL just like his dad. He's not drafted into

607
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: the NBA just like his dad, like out of high school.

608
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: Basically he did some college right mm hm. So I've

609
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: heard mixed reviews. So is Lebron's son Is Bronnie James

610
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: actually ready for the nf I keep saying NFL for

611
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: the NBA. Is he ready for the NBA or was

612
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: he just pushed in there because of who his dad is.

613
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 2: I think it's a combination of both, you know. I mean,

614
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: I think their baby son probably gonna be better than

615
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: him when he get out there. But I mean, who

616
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 2: gives a fuck is Lebron James Son? We want to

617
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: see this ship, Like, are you guys dumb y'all making

618
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: an argument about some bullshit what y'all son doing work

619
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: at the jiffy lu? Shut up, you stay out of

620
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: the conversation. Let the boys play. Let the boys play.

621
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of it is coming from

622
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: a place of fucking hateration because you're not in a

623
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: position to put your son in position. I don't think

624
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: anything is wrong with nepotism, and I wish that more

625
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: Black people was in position for people to benefit from nepotism,

626
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: because why are not Relationships are worth more than gold.

627
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: And if you go ahead, go ahead, and if you

628
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: look at any of these corporations and you look at

629
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: all these titles, these high up titles, they all had

630
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: the same fucking last name. And I bet you half

631
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: of them kids don't know what the fuck they're doing

632
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 2: or if they even do anything. It's just a title

633
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 2: to get them a check. They may not even work

634
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: at the fucking place, you know, so, miss and I think.

635
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: That's just where it comes. It's just one of those

636
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: things is like black people are mad because we aren't

637
00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: in position, and it's almost like within the black families,

638
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: like everybody wants the next generation to have to have

639
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: struggle like they did. Like my goal is to get

640
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: it so that the people coming behind me don't have

641
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: to or they can get like a little head start.

642
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 2: Right.

643
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: Why why do we always feel like we got to

644
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: get it out the mud.

645
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 2: That party you're trying to get this people.

646
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: Whose bottom is different from yours. Everybody has a bottom,

647
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like you may come from

648
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: a good family, but you don't want to live off

649
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: and you want to make your own way, right, So yeah,

650
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: I have this family, but that's not I can't depend

651
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: on that. So but you outside looking in think it's

652
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: one thing, right that part, you know, because you felt like, oh,

653
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: I like like I was telling you how the motherfuckers

654
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: on the bus on the school bus talk about how

655
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: we don't have trash now neighborhood and shit like that.

656
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: Growing up, Like why do black people we we celebrate

657
00:33:54,800 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: the stupidest things, celebrate Lebron Lebron's son get it's just

658
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: nice people. Though.

659
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: I don't think it's just us. Though they have a

660
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: problem with this.

661
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: I think everybody else practice nepotism. Why not? Why don't

662
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 1: Why would you not put your people on?

663
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean everybody does practice nepotism, But I think

664
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 2: it was also just basketball fans, especially fans of other teams,

665
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: that had a problem with it because they felt like

666
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: the baby wasn't qualified, so they hollering nepotism. I don't

667
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 2: think it's just black people. All kind of people in

668
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: the conversation.

669
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: Look at us.

670
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 2: I don't even watch motherfucker basketball. What color? I can't

671
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 2: tell you what who they played for the Lakers because

672
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: I thought they was in Cleveland.

673
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: I could have sworn that Lebron went back to Cleveland, Like,

674
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: what the fuck are you doing in La? Back in La?

675
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: I don't remember that, right.

676
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 2: I just feel like they should. It would be better

677
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: if they both were playing for Cleveland. That would be

678
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: more lit.

679
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: Hmmm. I think Lebron is done when home. So do

680
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: you remember? This was a couple of years ago, so

681
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,879
Speaker 1: it just album And this is when, like, I think

682
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: the bigger discussion about nepotism first started. His daughter wanted

683
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: she wanted to play his daughter in a film he

684
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: was doing, and she actually had to audition for the role,

685
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: and she didn't get the role. They gave the role

686
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: to another bat black younger actress, and then she didn't

687
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: speak to her dad for three weeks because she felt

688
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: like he could have just he could have helped her

689
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: more to lock in the role. But he got you

690
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: to the audition, right, So now at that point you

691
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: got to show him prove at the audition they didn't

692
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 1: think she was a fit, and maybe he had something

693
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: to do with it too, maybe he thought she wasn't

694
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: ready and she didn't get the role. So online at

695
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: that time a lot of people were saying, why did

696
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: she have to I mean, why does she even have

697
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: to audition? Like she should have just been given the role.

698
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: You know, nepotism, I feel like getting in the room,

699
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 1: the nepotism that it was executed. He helped her get

700
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: into the room. At that point, you got to do

701
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: the work right.

702
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 2: Like Bronnie, if he get out there and he'd be

703
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: throwing air balls and got bad sportsmanship, conduct and all

704
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 2: those things, they gonna let his hands go eventually, no

705
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: matter who his daddy is, exactly, So you got to

706
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 2: be able to show improve something. Now you can't just

707
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 2: expect everything to be handed to you. Because of your relationships.

708
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 1: So Sweetie also had something to say recently after Brownie

709
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: was drafted because a lot of people try to come

710
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: for her and Doja Cat saying that they are in

711
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: the industry because of nepotism because of who their parents

712
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: are and haven't had like connections. I think I know

713
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: that Doja Cat. I think either her dad or her

714
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: mom are in the music industry and they those two

715
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: grew up together. I think that Sweety Mom was like

716
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: a video vixen and some short sort at some point

717
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: beautiful lady. So you know, Sweetie was saying like she

718
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: wish people would get rid of that uh neple baby

719
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: narrative because nobody helped her do anything, you know what

720
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. She was saying, how you know, she put

721
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: herself in bad situations sometimes just trying to chase her dreams,

722
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: working four or five jobs and going to college. So

723
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,720
Speaker 1: she's saying she's she's done the work, but people try

724
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: to like suck her success up to just being you know,

725
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: having access.

726
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: Well, I think access plays a part, you know, And

727
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 2: I don't think is girl own that shit? If it is,

728
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: if there's any truth to it, like and what now

729
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: what now, what you're gonna do? I'm still where I'm

730
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 2: at and you still where you're at.

731
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: So now, because it was sad to us pertaining to

732
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: this podcast, right, so we went on someone else's podcast

733
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: and it was like, oh, y'all still here. It's basically

734
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: what the conversation was. We thought it was some nepotism,

735
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, and was, we're the face of nepotism.

736
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 2: Why not?

737
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: Why should I not use connections and repor and relationships

738
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: to get to where I need to go? I'm sorry,

739
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: or you didn't have the shortcut.

740
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 2: Right, But we also happened to be pretty funny and

741
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 2: witty bitch.

742
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: So we still got to do the things we have

743
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: committed the last four years to this thing, and we're

744
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: still fucking doing it and nobody helps. Okay, So you

745
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: get you can get your foot in the door, but

746
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: you have to also produce.

747
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 2: Right in that part. So we say that, thank y'all

748
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: for listening, Thank y'all for tuning men and this shit,

749
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: and tell y'all friends about us for they let our

750
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 2: motherfucking ass go.

751
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: Because it could happen. You know, it could happen. You

752
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: ain't never safe, Okay, so I still don't understand what

753
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: the big issue is in the black community. Why do

754
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: we think that everybody's supposed to struggle because we did not.

755
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,919
Speaker 1: I experienced that in my own family, bitch, I swear

756
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: to God.

757
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: How so.

758
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it, but I do

759
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: experience it. I think there are black people and then

760
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: there are niggers, and oh not a hard r. Yes,

761
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: there's black people and then there's niggas. Okay, let me

762
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: take the hard er out there. And when I say

763
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: black people and niggas, like some niggas, they just don't

764
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: know what they don't know, right, So, and it could

765
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: be your parents, it could be people real, real close

766
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: to you. They just don't know what they don't know,

767
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: so they can't they can't fathom or understand it. Never

768
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: they would never understand it. And you end up you

769
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: gotta make. You gotta do. You gotta do the things.

770
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: You have to do the things. It has nothing to

771
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,959
Speaker 1: do with with with anybody else you upbringing. You gotta

772
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 1: do the work. But niggas is niggas. Niggas is niggas. Man, Okay.

773
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: So this is an article from the Nationalpost dot com,

774
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 1: and it says Nepotism is a term that doesn't receive

775
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: the kind of attention it fully deserves when trying to

776
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: explain the impact of systematic racism in the workplace within corporations,

777
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: like you said, like big companies like Bank of America,

778
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: you can find a lot of people who are related

779
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 1: within that one corporation because the head you want to

780
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: put all your people on, like why wouldn't you, right,

781
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: So there's nepotism, and then the other one is like cronyism.

782
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: Cronyism is like, you know, you have clicks in the

783
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 1: office and people getting promoted not because of their skill,

784
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: but just because they've been there long enough or they're

785
00:40:54,960 --> 00:41:01,240
Speaker 1: in the group, they get promoted. Yep. I've definitely experienced

786
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: that in corporate settings. I've definitely worked around husbands and

787
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: wives in major corporations. This should definitely happen. So nepotism

788
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: is favor favorism, both seen and unseen, that can impact anyone.

789
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: Although race can be a factor, it's not always exclusively

790
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: the case. Nepotism institutionalizes barriers to employment and promotion, evidenced

791
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: by the absence of black business professionals and executives on

792
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 1: Bay Street nepotism is not a friend of equity. Rather,

793
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 1: it's the seed that grows, the weed that struggles, that

794
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: strangles nations of fairness, impartiality, and fair play in the

795
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: work workforce. For B I, p O C. That's black Indigenous,

796
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: whatever else Americans pr Yeah, B B BP, B I,

797
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: p O C, H, Black Indigenous and people of color.

798
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: That's what that means. Nepotism needs to be checked at

799
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: the boardroom doors so it doesn't disadvantage B I, POC

800
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: and other groups, including women who may also be disproportionately

801
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: impacted by this destructive force.

802
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: So this is basically saying that nepotism isn't fair, and

803
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: it ain't fair.

804
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: But it's fair. But we as black people think it's

805
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: not fair way more because we're not in a position

806
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: to practice it. I think, I think if we had

807
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: more corporations, we and I think sometimes black people are

808
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 1: in position right, and some black people get in position

809
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: they only think about themselves. They're not trying to have

810
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: anybody else be on their level. They think they're there,

811
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: they're the only one. They want to be the only

812
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 1: one in the room.

813
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 2: But there are a lot of black people who elevate

814
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 2: their people. You know, I don't want to promote the narrative,

815
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: narrative that black people aren't taking care of each other,

816
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 2: because there are a lot of black people who are

817
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 2: positioning they elevating everybody along with them.

818
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: Maybe they're elevating people that they know, but me personally,

819
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: in a corporate setting, I have had a black woman

820
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 1: in particular, attempt to hold me back from a promotion

821
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: that would have put me on the same level as her.

822
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: I was working under her, and this is when I

823
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: moved to Saint Louis. I moved to Saint Louis for

824
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: another position within this company, and this lady really was

825
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: just trying to stop my growth. And she was gone.

826
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: She actually got laid off from the company maybe a

827
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: year or so later, you know, and I me and

828
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: her like really had it out, like really had it

829
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: out though, because she did not want to approve my promotion.

830
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: I applied for another job. I interviewed it within the

831
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: same company, but you have to have, you know, the

832
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: approval from your current manager. And she did not want

833
00:43:59,120 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: to let me go.

834
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: Well did she give a reasoning and no reason, no.

835
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: Reason it wasn't performed top performing, just because she could

836
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: do you see. So if I were somebody that she

837
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: probably liked, you know, she probably would not have, you know,

838
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: stood in a Yes, we had like real life words

839
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: just me and her in office because I'm like, why, why,

840
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: what's the problem. Why would you be trying to stop

841
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,879
Speaker 1: me from from elevating? I would never because I feel

842
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: like as a good manager, that's what you do, right,

843
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: you make sure you people are heard for the next

844
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: for the next step. But I think in the black

845
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 1: community sometimes when you see somebody start doing a little

846
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: bit better, it makes you refocus on what you are

847
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: or aren't doing, and some people don't like that mirror.

848
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if even I think that's just people,

849
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: not just the Black community. It's just people. Child people

850
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 2: want to.

851
00:44:55,320 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: See you people I'd be dealing with more mostly. Yeah,

852
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: these niggas.

853
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 2: White people experience that ship, the same ship too, I imagine,

854
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 2: you know, people because people want you to grow, but

855
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 2: just not past them. Yeah, unfortunate niggas.

856
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: Room for all of us, right. I don't think there's

857
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: an industry that's oversaturated to where we can't get a

858
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: piece of it.

859
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 2: I agree. I always think of the analogy of going

860
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 2: on the bread out. It's three hundred two different breads,

861
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 2: all the same. We we we we we whit white

862
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 2: white white, and it's just in everybody in all of

863
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 2: them sell.

864
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: You know, because all I'm a little different. So it's

865
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: the best to some.

866
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 2: But I like that old school ship the butter bread.

867
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 2: That's liquor, bitch, that's how I know you out there

868
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 2: drinking heavy, y'all. She said she ain't drinking, But this

869
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: bitch is Captain Bridge. That is Captain Captain Morgan bread. No,

870
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 2: Ain't no fucking Captain Morgan Bread. That's liquor. That's what's

871
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: in there. Drink you over there, slipper down.

872
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: Let me see Captain John. Is it Captain John? I

873
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: don't know him either. It's Captain John dearest. So to

874
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: properly wrap up the conversation regarding nepotism, get a position,

875
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: stop fucking hating, so we could put our people on it.

876
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing wrong with a lord nepping a load nepotism

877
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: here and there.

878
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 2: Nipple baby, I'm trying to give it to you. Yeah,

879
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 2: instead of throwable baby, I'm trying to have a bunch

880
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 2: of them. Amen. All right, y'all, I have a dumbich

881
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 2: story for y'all, and this one is good. I can't

882
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 2: wait to hear what AJ thinks and what you guys think.

883
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 2: We'll be right back.

884
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 1: Dumb bitch story, so because we've all been a dumb

885
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: bitch at least once or twice.

886
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 2: All right, y'all listen to this. Hey, we talk back.

887
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 2: I love you and AJ, and I love the show,

888
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 2: and I wanted to sin in my DBS. I've been

889
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 2: married sixteen years, and for the first five or six

890
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 2: years I cheated on my husband badly. He caught me

891
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: most times, and he would always forgive me, but I

892
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: knew it hurt him. I eventually recommitted to my marriage,

893
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 2: and I'm proud to say that I've been a good

894
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 2: and faithful wife for nearly ten years now. But here's

895
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 2: the issue. He has now decided that he wants to

896
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 2: cheat back, and when I caught him, he told me

897
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 2: to divorce him or deal with it. I love my

898
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: I know right. I love my husband very much, but

899
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: I'm not sure that I can take this betrayal at

900
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 2: this age. I also don't want to be alone. What

901
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 2: should I do.

902
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 1: Whatever's good for the goose is good for the gander,

903
00:47:56,520 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: isn't that girl like he didn't you tat him a.

904
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: Lot of years, like he tried to.

905
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I think keep been cheating all along. She's

906
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: just finding out.

907
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 2: Sixteen years and then the first five or six you

908
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 2: cheated and then you was good for ten years, and

909
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 2: now he just getting his get back. Is crazy because

910
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 2: now you're probably older now, like the thing ain't singing

911
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 2: like it used to.

912
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like, why don't I might as well

913
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: just keep keep the whole little process going. She might

914
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: as well go cheat again.

915
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: Right, You might as well hop back outside system. Just

916
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 2: stay with him. That's what I would do.

917
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: A lot of people be together because they've had so

918
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 1: much trauma happening in relationship. They've been trauma bonding all

919
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: these years. So you cheated on him. It probably took

920
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: him ten years to get over that shit, and now

921
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: he like, you know what, I'm gonna go get me

922
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 1: some new pussy. How about that bitch? If you don't

923
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: like it, get the fuck out or do you?

924
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 2: That's Ooh that Carra come back crazy, don't it though?

925
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: Oh?

926
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 2: Ten years later after I've been good, now she's talking

927
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 2: about betrayal. The nerve for you to use the word

928
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: betrayal when you was out there doing shit for five

929
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 2: or six years, Like cheating for five and six years

930
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 2: is like you hold, I had a whole nother relationship

931
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 2: or was it here yeah, multiple people or was it

932
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 2: just one specific person that you kept involved in and

933
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: you said you hurt him real bad and he took

934
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 2: you back every time? Damn, this is what you kind

935
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 2: of deserve.

936
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,439
Speaker 1: I think they deserve each other, for sure. I don't

937
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: know if I'm gonna wait ten years to cheat on

938
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: your eyes though I'm more of a like immediate type

939
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: of bitch, But I don't think she should divorce him.

940
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: I think she should deal with it the same way

941
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: he had to deal with it. Let him do it

942
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: for however long he feels like it. Get over a

943
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: bitch like you opened this can of worms. Deal with

944
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: it if you really love your husband. Because what we

945
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: don't own people, man, And this is why lean more

946
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: not saying I want an open relationship. I just don't

947
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,800
Speaker 1: want to own nobody because I don't want to be owned.

948
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: So even though y'all in a union, I feel like

949
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: there's conversations y'all might have missed. Y'all ain't been talking.

950
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 2: There's no fucking one, clearly, clearly, And I want to hear,

951
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: like how long because you left out some parts, So

952
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 2: how long he been cheating?

953
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: Do you know?

954
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: How long? Is it something new?

955
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: Are you just finding out?

956
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 2: Right? Because he might have had a whole bitch for

957
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 2: sixteen years, niggas would have a whole family.

958
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 1: So I wonder how their relationship has been these last

959
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: few years, like after him cheating, because I listen, a

960
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: niggas speculated about me fucking cheating and that motherfucker gave

961
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: me hell for at least two years after Meanwhile, like

962
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: I dealt with a bunch of bullshit earlier on in

963
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: the relationship. So I'd like to know, like how their

964
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: relationship has been up until this point of him cheating.

965
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: Right, because yeah, because when a man find out, like

966
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: because they'd be like, men don't stay when they get

967
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 2: cheated on. That's not true. They do, they do stay,

968
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,760
Speaker 2: but they just mean as hell they're not the same person.

969
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 2: Like that's what.

970
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: I say, nigga man, Yeah, born man is worse than

971
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: a broke nigga doll. They aren't going to troll the

972
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: fuck out of you in the relationship. Get out of there.

973
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: She should leave because she started this shit. Actually no,

974
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: it's no, she.

975
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 2: Should have been left, like a long time ago. Once

976
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: he forgave you for the sixth time, you probably should

977
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 2: have got out of there because this was only gonna

978
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 2: happen at some point, So I listen, go ahead, I.

979
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 1: Wouldn't even be mad, and especially like if they okay,

980
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: if they're in their fifties, we all going at that,

981
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,399
Speaker 1: might as well just be roommates and deal with the shit.

982
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: Don't fuck up the money.

983
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: That's what she said. I can't handle this portrayal at

984
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,479
Speaker 2: this age. So that means they're you know, at least

985
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 2: closer to fifty. I'm assuming like late forties, early fifties

986
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 2: or something, sixteen years to be married to somebody's But shit,

987
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 2: they could have got married at twenties, so I don't know.

988
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 2: But either way, and.

989
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: Even if they got married at twenty, that makes that

990
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 1: still makes even more sense to me why you should

991
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: still be wanting to fuck on other people like y'all

992
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: been married to damn long shit. I'm okay with him

993
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: getting some pussy man if that was my man, and

994
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 1: already I'm okay with it. Go ahead.

995
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 2: No, I feel like he should have got his pussy

996
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 2: a long time ago. Why you ain't until now, Why

997
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 2: you ain't till ten years of me being good to

998
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 2: decide you want to be bad. It's crazy you should

999
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 2: have been bad with me.

1000
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: Cauz bitch like I didn't have a feeling. I didn't

1001
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: feel like doing it thing I feel like doing it now.

1002
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: Maybe he just got a corvette and maybe having a midlight.

1003
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: Oh it might be even more fucked up if he

1004
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: got a young bitch.

1005
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, now he fucking on somebody.

1006
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: That's why she feel betrayed. She's not seeing this young

1007
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: bitch right youngersion of her and she.

1008
00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 2: Getting money from him because you know, if he got

1009
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 2: a young one, ding he tricking too. Mmmm m man,

1010
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, miss Sheila. It's like, I don't know if

1011
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: that's your name.

1012
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: About I say, not you calling these people name on it.

1013
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 2: No, I don't know that.

1014
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: I don't have no advice for her, really, honestly, I

1015
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: feel like staying in your marriage. Staying in marriage ain't

1016
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: nothing outside, like y'all just need to work it out,

1017
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: like you cheated, cheat? It is he saying he coming

1018
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: to fuck the bitch at the house, like in your

1019
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 1: face type cheating or he said, Blayton, is it? How blatant?

1020
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: Is it?

1021
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 2: Now?

1022
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: It's this level Citi sh Now, you're just being straight

1023
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: up disrespectful to me because I cheated on you before.

1024
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 2: You should have left, right, deal with it? Is crazy

1025
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: to tell me, Yeah, deal with it. You don't like her,

1026
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 2: You don't like you no more.

1027
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: No get that girl. You don't like you? Yeah, all right,

1028
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: y'all listen. If you enjoyed this episode, y'all, tune in

1029
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1030
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1031
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1032
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1033
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Speaker 2: All right, remember speak now and.

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Speaker 1: Never hold your churn back. Okay in position period deuces