1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Jewils dirty little Secret? Come on, Hey, 2 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewels Show. You texted us 3 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:14,079 Speaker 1: at four one six one and said he had a 4 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: dirty little secret, So we're calling you back. Hi, Hi, Hi, 5 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: how are you? I I'm okay. Do you still have 6 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: a dirty little secret? I mean I do. I just 7 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: did it. I didn't actually, yeah, surprise, it's us. Um 8 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: are you in a spot where you can tell us 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: your dirty little secret? Or do we need to figure out? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 10 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: I can't know. This is fine, okay, cool? What is 11 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: your dirty little secret? Well? Um, okay. I have two girls, 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: like elementary and they okay, they really love different like 13 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: you know, child like performers, singers, which they're supposed to 14 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: write it's for them, but they loved Jojo Siwa and 15 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: and I don't. And I just feel like it's like 16 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: just a blast in my face. It's just too much, 17 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: just all the time. It's just blah blah, too much Jojo. Yeah, 18 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: Jojo overloads. So I feel, you know, I wanted to 19 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: sort of curtail their enthusiasm for her. It's just there 20 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: was no stopping it, right. And my husband is a 21 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: bit of a pushover. Okay, so anything they want it, 22 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: anything they want it. He was like, yeah, sure, no, 23 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: it's fine right way. It was like a lunchbox or 24 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: another poster or like anything in the world that was 25 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: Jojo siwa ended up in our house. It was so 26 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: much crap. And then it's this loud, rainbow haired, screaming 27 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: person all the time and I can't do it. And 28 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: so anyway, luckily I survived that phase. Uh, and they 29 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: sort of moved on right to you know, another loud something. 30 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, well save all of this 31 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: stuff and you know, give it away or take it 32 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: to the good Will or whatever. Um. I had a 33 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: girl's night and some of my other mom friends came 34 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: over and you know, out of solidarity, we burned it. 35 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: Why you burned all their jojo stuff? That's aggressive? I did, yeah, 36 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: because I was like, forget it right. I need I 37 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: need my freedom, I need my adulthood, and I need 38 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: to feel like I am not behold into the winds 39 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: of my six year old. And so that's what I did. 40 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: That was probably very therapeutic for you and your friends 41 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: if their parents too. Oh yeah. So now we hold 42 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: a monthly get together of bring your least favorite toy 43 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: of your child, the thing that makes them toys, or 44 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: the thing that you think is the ugliest, or the 45 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: thing that they fight about the most. It just magically 46 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: disappears from your house and then we have a little 47 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: bit of wine and then we watch your burn. That's amazing. 48 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: Don't they wonder where all their favorite things are going? Listen, 49 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: they lose all the time. I hear. I'm not this 50 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: is Christian. I'm not a parent, but I hear that, Like, 51 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: kids have so much stuff they don't even you know, 52 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: they're not going to miss anything if it goes missing. No, 53 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 1: it's I mean, it's not like we we never give 54 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: them joy with it. Right, they get all the memories 55 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: of playing with it, and we have the memories of 56 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: it driving us insane, and then we get the memory 57 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: of watching it come up in flames and turn again. Right, 58 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: that's amazing. So you know, it's a lot less expensive 59 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: than therapy. It's kind of like a book club, but 60 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: way better. So that's what you should do, all right. 61 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you for telling us your dirty 62 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: little secret. It sounds like a great idea. Then Jebel 63 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: Show on demand