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Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and

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Speaker 1: what I want to share with you. Stop complaining. So

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Speaker 1: without us even thinking about it, oftentimes we just complain

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Speaker 1: just giving you a small example of how it starts

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Speaker 1: Stop complaining. Stop Have you noticed? I'm just asking, have

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Speaker 1: you oldest that in all of your complaining, it has

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Speaker 1: stop complaining because God is able, Because God is capable.

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Speaker 1: He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and

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Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I

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Speaker 1: have not used my greatest asset, and that's my relationship

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Speaker 1: have nurtured it, but you have one because God created

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Speaker 1: who fathers that? Stop complaining until you strengthen your relationship

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Speaker 1: with God and formulate this relationship. You don't have enough weapons.

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Speaker 1: thing called life. It just keeps coming. Man, And unless

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Speaker 1: you develop a relationship with God, you need a partner

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Speaker 1: Stop complaining. It hasn't fixed a single thing in your life.

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Speaker 1: And if you're a chronic complainer, it's because you really

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Speaker 1: Today it's going to be different. I have decided, without

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Winston's. Hey once, how you're doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: I have a dream about my wife. What's going on

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Speaker 1: I share something with you? Sherby? Yes, you've been saying

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Speaker 1: that's because you're gone. That's not mine. That Shirley's my name,

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Speaker 1: I steve this one from Calvin in Atlanta. He says,

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Speaker 1: Kiki and Lafiatte Louisiana Steve says, I'm a forty one

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Speaker 1: Mary Jane. I I'm funny. Do it. He can't take it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't get enough of this kid cat ball like stop,

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Speaker 1: to show. Well. Americans may not take all their vacation days.

420
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 1: Everybody on this show can can agree to that. Example,

421
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: one person, I'm not talking about you this time. Okay,

422
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, Sere, Yeah, yeah, you ain't doing that. You

423
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: let me hear it. A week, vacation days, sick days,

424
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: whatever he could take off, he does it? Is he

425
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 1: sick on the sick days? Uh? This golf week? Yeah, no,

426
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: we're talking about you. Americans may not take all their

427
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: vacation days, but that does not mean that we don't

428
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: spend a lot of time thinking about those vacation days.

429
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: New research revealed that Americans spend about two hundred and

430
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Speaker 1: eighty four days of their life dreaming about being on vacation,

431
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: and we spend more than that's a lot of time.

432
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: Then we spend more than one hundred and thirteen hours

433
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: every year thinking about being on a beach somewhere and

434
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: your vacation picks on social media. People don't like those.

435
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: They do not stop up. Yes, yes, yes, they make

436
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: people jealous. They bring out that their food. The study

437
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: found that every day the average person sees vacation pictures

438
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: on social media. That makes them mad. Okay, that's probably why. Yeah,

439
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: I knows, uh huh, nobody cares. That's probably why thirty

440
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: six percent of Americans admit they put those vacation picks

441
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: on social media to show people just how great their

442
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: lives are. So, Steve, you and your wife Marjorie take

443
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: wonderful vacation. You and we know you guys ball till

444
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: you fall when you go on vacation. But we what

445
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: we want to know is how do you vacation on

446
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: a budget? Before you got to where you are? Now,

447
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: how did you do? Well? I just need to know

448
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: you know how much we're talking about? If you tell

449
00:29:55,600 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: me what the budget is? Okay, yeah, things I can recommend.

450
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: Let's do two thousand dollars, two thousand dollars for a

451
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: family of four four okay, bad? Yeah, well, we ain't

452
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: going nowhere. What what do you sounding like that? Okay?

453
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Let me change. Yeah, we're

454
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: gonna have to drive somewhere. We have to make the

455
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: gas budget be the how much Okay, let me how

456
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: much it costs phillip at the average tank right now.

457
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: So we need we need to stay one gas tan't

458
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: going and one gas tan't coming. We're talking about one

459
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty dollars out the budget. You know, man,

460
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: we gotta stay within one tank. So we're talking about

461
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: it's got to be within three hundred miles. Now if

462
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna stay overnight, we gotta get in economically. Fees

463
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: of accommodation. Okay, these are stuff like comfort In sweets

464
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: that reason you I would recommend comfort In because they

465
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: had a free breakfast. See that's saved money now, you know.

466
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: And they got free Wi Fi. So you gotta gotta

467
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: take this consideration. And if you stay at comfort In,

468
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: you get points. I'm just working with this two thousand.

469
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: So everybody's room at fifty dollars a night. Would you

470
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: say that's fast sixty? So you need just two rooms

471
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: for the kids, you and your wife and one for

472
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: the kids with a connected dough and lead a damn dough. Yeah,

473
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: so they don't burn that damn hotel down. And then

474
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: you got other issues. So we got two rooms that

475
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: let's say seventy dollars five dollars a night. That's one

476
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty two nights. We're looking at three hundred

477
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: dollars in rooms. How many nights we're gonna do two

478
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: nights only, Well, I'm trying to I'm trying to get

479
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: it together. First, we got to stay somewhere. We're gonna

480
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: do three fifty four rooms, and we got one hundred

481
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: and twenty on gas. We are about five fifty fifty

482
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: something like that. He all right, now we got let's

483
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: just say we got fifteen hundred left. Okay, okay, that's

484
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: a nice amount of money. Did we eat? Get We

485
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: should make some sandwich? Yeah, a pack of cooler full

486
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: of sandwich because you're driving. But make sandwiches that stick,

487
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: peanut butter and jelly sam being a whole lot of ham.

488
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: Now peanut butter and jelly sandwiches permental spread sandwich. Look

489
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: about to give a damn what you don't want this

490
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: all we got to eat hark skins and water. You

491
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: gotta get something in you that swear, puk skins and water.

492
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: I'm familiar with all this. Just what we got hot

493
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: blood pressed by the time we take bagging and punched

494
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: and drank a bottle of water. You ain't even gonna

495
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: know your hut. Damn that at least they quick crime.

496
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: All right, now we got us a little something to eat.

497
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: Kids have stopped up the hospital on the go. We

498
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: gotta have some kind of activities now. Now we're going

499
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: to six Flags with a day pass for everybody, or

500
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: we're going to the zoo where you can really entertain

501
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: kids and keep it on the budget. All We're going

502
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: to a state park. Okay, nice, pull up at it

503
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: where we can barbecue out there and just let the

504
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: kids run till they drop in open field, and you

505
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: gotta put your grill. What you only gonna stay there

506
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: and watch well on the other side, away from the car.

507
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: Then you run your kids to the car to get

508
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: stuff that helps zap the energy out of their hand

509
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: and to give them something to do. You can see

510
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: the car from your barbecue grill, but it way across

511
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: the field. Send the ass back and forth across that

512
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: field by six trips, and every time you send them,

513
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: say hell for this dog, I know how to love you.

514
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: Thank you having fun because you're running in that field.

515
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: The third trip back, they answered, walking, I said, he

516
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: walking forward me pushing responsibility. Only we gotta go. You're

517
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 1: listening show? All right? Here we go junior year up,

518
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: Hey morning everybody. Man. Let me just tell the truth

519
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: right now. And I'm just meaning. I don't mean this

520
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: dispecting nobody in here. I love all y'all, now, I

521
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: really do, but I wasn't want to let y'all know something. Man,

522
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,879
Speaker 1: truth be told. I won't be related to Steve for real?

523
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: What's wrong? No? Because I ain't got no money in

524
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: my family. You don't I need somebody else beside me money?

525
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: And I just found an over vacation uncle, Steve. Boy,

526
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: do you even looking to me? Do you know how

527
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,280
Speaker 1: much your uncle worth? Yea? How much? I'm not gonna

528
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: throw the number that But I actually no, No, I

529
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: don't know this. Yeah, but we've been working with him

530
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: every day. Y'all are so disrespectful. Man. Did I google him? Uh? What? That? Man?

531
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: We supposed to treat him different? Yes? No, because he

532
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: ain't broke people you treat better than him. Oh No,

533
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: I gotta ain't it. I swear I never talked to

534
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: the same No, No, not a long as I know.

535
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: Steve ain't hill. If you don't get your broke ass

536
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: away from me. No, No, I'm tired. I'm tired all

537
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: the pro people I got to be nice to a

538
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: hid On Steven. We treat him like he ain't worth

539
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: doing this. Man, he could change our generation. We treat

540
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: him regularly, treat him like I don't want to treat him. Regor,

541
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: I love you. Now. If you see me giving him

542
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: all the problem, I'll tell you what. He worked more

543
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: than a hunting me. Did you know that I knew

544
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: that that? Did you know he was the highest paid?

545
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: What I want saying that dude, I was winning when

546
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: he was worth a hundred dollars? Get that I was.

547
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: I knew him when he wasn't was nothing but but

548
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: now he didn't pass everybody. We're not tripping on you.

549
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: You don't want to sound like you I didn't know

550
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 1: he was just rich. Yes, oh my god, do you

551
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: need your shoes because you know you're gonna be on TV?

552
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: Know you not. We're not doing this for him. We're

553
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 1: not listen and make it work. Regular forget that regular

554
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: folk got thirty dollars hour that Reglar folk. All right, okay,

555
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: y'all quit this regular folk, sevent regular people, I may

556
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: I take your are that people. Okay, two hundred million, Yeah,

557
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: it is a look different. But let me tell you something.

558
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: People with two hundred men, you still have to tell

559
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: you tell to ste yourself that sitting you do that

560
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: regular time? He don't do nothing you do? No, he don't. Okay,

561
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: So how you need regular You have to sit in

562
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: a regular chair. He don't. Man, that's why it stop.

563
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 1: That's it you. He gonna try to call you dry

564
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:50,919
Speaker 1: Timmy dry. God said you can say it stop. Just

565
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 1: what how did I get called up in this? Juli?

566
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. We'll be back. You're listening.

567
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: So I want to know what you'll be putting on

568
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: the grilled Steve and Tommy and Junior. I don't. I

569
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 1: don't know if you cook, but I know you'll be eating. Yeah,

570
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: it's in case. You know, I need to stop buy

571
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: and get a plate. I don't do that. I don't

572
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: even have fall I don't have fall on wax paper.

573
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: You have the take out containers. We don't have none

574
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: of that. So what are you going to be too much?

575
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: We don't have people that do that. We don't know

576
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: people that come over big. I mean, if n't do that,

577
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:53,360
Speaker 1: what you're cooking ribs, burgers, meat, meat, anything that is meat.

578
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: I don't do fish on the grill. Don't ask me

579
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: fun no fish. You wouldn't grill a nice salmon steak.

580
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: Put it on a little plank. What I do that?

581
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: All meats? Baby baby backs? Take me now, Tommy, that's

582
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: what Junior's asking the phone that I can't do it

583
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: because Junior's not has not convinced me that he is

584
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: a true barbecueologist. And I'm scared that he gonna be

585
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: sprinkling my rub on ham sandwiches and putting it on

586
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: top of potato salad like pip or something. I'm not

587
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:47,439
Speaker 1: gonna do this with Junior, you know, like it's something

588
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: sprinkle or something like that. You got it, Like he's laris,

589
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: Like you're just putting it on everything, all on your

590
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: French fries. We're not fitting to do that. And putting

591
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: a little bit on the baked beans. You're not going

592
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: to do that to my damn rub. Open it off

593
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: with everything. Yeah, sprinkling on stop of stuff. They ain't

594
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: gonna I put a little bit on my slaw. What

595
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: take my rib and put it on nothing? So it's

596
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: all meat of fare. Now that will be side. Talk

597
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: about the sides. Besides will be baked beans, cold slaw,

598
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: corn on the cob. The corn goes on the grill,

599
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 1: but it goes on the grill in the husk. Well,

600
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 1: why can't you do the fish on a plank if

601
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: you could do the corn. I just told you I

602
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: don't do fish. Now. I have two sons. That's uh

603
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: pasketeria that only eat fish. Steve, my girlfriend take a

604
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: day off from it. Try this chicken. My girlfriend says

605
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: she no longer eat land animals will not be invited.

606
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: Oh she can come, but I don't know what she's

607
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: gonna do. She gonna eat called sport. What is you

608
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 1: gonna eat animals? It's some meat in them beans. I

609
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: don't know what. I don't know what she gonna do.

610
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't eat land animals. What what you gonna eat

611
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: a animals? You know, I ain't got no fight. You

612
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: didn't say potato salad. You cooking potato salad? Uh No.

613
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: I kind of gave up both potatoes salad years ago

614
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: because only a lot of people don't know how to

615
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,240
Speaker 1: make potato salad. I don't really know how to make it. Marjorie,

616
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: make a good potato salad. But yeah, and Marjorie, Mama, Lord,

617
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: Marjorie really is outstanding cook. Margie's outstanding. She thinks she

618
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: had better g real person to me. But I don't

619
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: want to hurt it. But she's gonna get cussed out

620
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: if she say that in front of somebody else. Again,

621
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: that's what If she told me she could bobe que

622
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: jes as good at me, she's gonna mess around and

623
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: get a little self stop. Yeah, I'm trying not to

624
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: because I know that's what that's gonna cost me. But

625
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: she borderline getting cussed out if she tell one more

626
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: person she can griel as good as me, because that's

627
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 1: a damn laugh in here, a little us Scott shrimp

628
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: on skew us? Who do that? I hear? I hear

629
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: barbecue battle coming on a vegetable. That's it. You're listening.

630
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

631
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: four minutes after it's today's strawberry letter, let's subject to

632
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: my husband is such a dummy. But right now the

633
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you

634
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: got for us? Now, it's time to hit the pool.

635
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: Summer time it's coming. It's here. Basically, the title is

636
00:42:54,080 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: naked lifeguard? Naked what lifeguard? Don't don't, don't, don't let

637
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: this bother you. Okay, I know I ain't the only

638
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,959
Speaker 1: one on this shoulder swam naked. I know I ain't

639
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: the old Let's go catch make a lifeguard. Hello. Hello,

640
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a carry. Yes, this is carried,

641
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: Hi Carrie. My name is Oliver. Oliver. You uh put

642
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: in an application with the employment agency about looking fortunate

643
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: work as far as being a lifeguard. Oh, yeah, I did. Okay.

644
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,479
Speaker 1: Have you had much experience being a lifeguard? Yeah, I've

645
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 1: been doing this for a while out back, since I

646
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: was like eighteen I got my CPR certification. I've had

647
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 1: as many as like two hundred people at one time

648
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: watching them. So I'm good. I'm good at what I do.

649
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: I love it, very good, very good. Well, i'll tell

650
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: you what. I've looked over your application and I've checked

651
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: everything out thoroughly, and I'm very very excited about maybe

652
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: getting you too. I don't know if you're familiar with it,

653
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: but public Pool it's actually in a subdivision. There's two

654
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: pools there. Are you familiar with? Yeah, I'm familiar with there.

655
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,320
Speaker 1: They're near where I live. Yeah, okay, well there's actually

656
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: in the back of there's a gated community and that

657
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: is actually the particular property that I'm talking about. You

658
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: coming out and working for us there at the pool site.

659
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: If we can get you on Monday to Friday, we're

660
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: gonna actually hire some some more college students for for

661
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: Saturday and Sunday. What do you say? Oh, I say, okay,

662
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 1: that sounds great. Money to Friday weekends off. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

663
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: Now we start off. Job actually pays twenty five dollars

664
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: an hour. Wow. You would be our head lifeguard, and um,

665
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 1: we would. We would want you to be there from

666
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: you know. I mean if you start at twelve, we'd

667
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: actually like you to get there around eleven thirty, you know,

668
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: just just to be prepared and be the overseer and

669
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: make sure the other lifeguards get there on time, and

670
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: you know, we'll go from there. I carry there's only

671
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: one catch that actually comes along with this job. We

672
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 1: want you to work an additional four hours from six

673
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 1: to ten at night. But it's gonna pay you fifty

674
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: dollars per hour, so you'll make an extra two hundred dollars.

675
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that. Man, I feel good.

676
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: I mean, with the recession and everything, I can use

677
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: that money right now, especially during the summertime. Okay, now

678
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: here's the deal. This is in a gated community, like

679
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 1: I told you before. But also it's gonna be adults

680
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:42,439
Speaker 1: at night, and they are actually gonna be swimming nude. Yeah,

681
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: they're gonna be swimming nude. And what they ask is,

682
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: if they're gonna be swimming nude, they want to make

683
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: sure that the lifeguard that's protecting them is gonna be

684
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: nude as well. Okay, I'm a certified lifeguard, I'm CPR certified,

685
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm a student. I've had other jobs, but nudity wasn't

686
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: on my resume, and and I understand that wholeheartedly. But

687
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: we're talking about you possibly making seventeen hundred and fifty

688
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: dollars a week. How do you feel about seventeen hundred

689
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: and fifty a week for your nursing school. I'm sure

690
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: that'll that'll definitely pay for it throughout the entire summer.

691
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: That should be a big help, shouldn't it. Yeah? It would,

692
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean, are are you how do

693
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: you feel about trying it for a few weeks and then,

694
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: you know, how do you feel about that? I don't know,

695
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: But I mean, you're gonna watch over some adults who

696
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: are actually just gonna be nude in the pool, and

697
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 1: you're nude as well, up on the big chair that

698
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: overwatches everybody. Seventeen fifty I don't seventeen fifty carry, you know,

699
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm gonna be able to do that

700
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: seventeen fifty carry. We're talking about four hours of you

701
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: being nude along with some other people that are already new. So,

702
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: I mean, what's the big deal. You know? What we

703
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: need you to do is come down. We're gonna do

704
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: some drills, some lifeguard drills to make sure that you're

705
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: definitely qualified. But we're gonna make sure that when you

706
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: do those, you gotta be naked as well. Okay, what what?

707
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: Why would I have to do some drills naked? I'm

708
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 1: on already a lifeguard? What do I need to drill?

709
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: And I understand that, But in order we for our

710
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,760
Speaker 1: particular property, we gotta make sure that you're actually prepared

711
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: and ready. You know, I understand. Well, that's the way

712
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: it is. Carry We need you to come down and

713
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 1: do some drills it's not gonna take a long probably

714
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: about a half hour. You come down, you get undrafted,

715
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: you get in the pool, and we make sure that

716
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: you're qualified, um to swim, nude, to handle to saving

717
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: somebody's life, nude, the whole nine yards. But I mean,

718
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: what if my family come to that? You know, Carrie,

719
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: you know I can't go back and forth with you.

720
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: I can't now. I know you. You you know. I

721
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: looked at your resume. I looked at what you were

722
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: doing and what you're pursuing in life, and I thought

723
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 1: this would be a great opportunity for you. But I

724
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 1: can't be I mean, I can't do that to my family.

725
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: You can know. No, wait a minute, hang on a second. Now,

726
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: you can't tell me you can't do it now? Oh yes,

727
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: yes I can't. So you get your down here in

728
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: the morning so I can get these drills done. And

729
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: I want you naked when you get here and getting

730
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: this pool. You understand me, Who the hell do you

731
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,320
Speaker 1: think you're talking to? Are you some kind of Paul pimp?

732
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: Life guard? Human Resources? Hurry, pimp? You're new pimping me.

733
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: I don't have to come down there. If I want

734
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: to come down there, you gotta bring you think it

735
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: down here tomorrow and get in this pool and do it. Thrill.

736
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: Do you think you're talking too I'm talking to you.

737
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: You get your tomorrow and you do the drill. Need

738
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: to do it. Go get you a pill and sing

739
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: babywach because I ain't tread you doing the new breast

740
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: for you all freaking I don't know them. I don't

741
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: know them people. I don't give it. Who you know? Now?

742
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: You get your down here and you take the job.

743
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm not coming down that to your fun told tomorrow

744
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: and I swim new and life. Go ahead now for

745
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: a run. I don't know you take your time to

746
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be nice to you when you come

747
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: around with that. She never stood. But because I'm not

748
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 1: thinking of the girl, you got me. Okay, you need

749
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: to gonna get you a Pamela and baywatch you know,

750
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: deep sea diving. I don't know what you need, but

751
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm not what you need. You get your black down

752
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 1: here tomorrow. What I'm talking to you? Who you think

753
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: you're talking to? Who I'm talking to you? Do you

754
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: think you're talking to I got something I want to

755
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: say to you. You're listening, you know where you've been

756
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: a grahad and stay because I'm bout hang up this

757
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: pone in your face right now. This is nephew Tommy

758
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked

759
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 1: by your girlfriend. I just see this. Franks you, baby,

760
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, Franks you? When I see that, she's gonna

761
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: have one little float? All right, I gotta ask you something, baby,

762
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the

763
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show.

764
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: Distress in her voice. I thought about it that I

765
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: can't do that. I just can't do that to my family, right,

766
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 1: she really was keep your black ass down? Did you

767
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: talk to her like that? Tommy? I would have been

768
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,240
Speaker 1: down there for show. I got my daddy. But Tommy,

769
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: you kind of blew it in the beginning. You know

770
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna be at the pool. You're gonna be like

771
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: the head. Uh, you gotta be the overseer. I said,

772
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: what kind of slave ass? Gold can't be the overseers?

773
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: What did his old ass say to this younger, y'all overseer?

774
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: At what point shall I bring out my band and

775
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: pick a bail? You're listening to string show. All right,

776
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

777
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more,

778
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter on Steve Harvey FM and

779
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 1: just click submit Strawberry Letter. We'll get it and we

780
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

781
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now today.

782
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: All right, buckle up and hold on tight. We got

783
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject,

784
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: My husband is such a dummy. Here's Stephen Shirley. I've

785
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: been married for twenty years and it's been the longest

786
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: twenty years ever. Neither of us has been perfect in

787
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 1: the marriage. But I got myself together and I was

788
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: hoping that my dumb as husband did too. But it

789
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: seems like there are far too many ways for him

790
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: to do his dirty deeds now. About three months ago,

791
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: he sent me a text that was intended for someone

792
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: else he wanted to meet up after work. I busted him,

793
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: and he lied and said that the text was for

794
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: me and he was trying something new to keep our

795
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 1: marriage interesting. I knew he was lying, so I started

796
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: paying close attention to his daily called logs on the

797
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: cell phone bill. He was dialing all kinds of numbers

798
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: that I had never seen before. I didn't ask him

799
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: about it because I needed more proof. Then, by looking

800
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: at his phone, I noticed that he downloaded a new

801
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 1: app that allows him to talk and video chat with

802
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: people without its showing up on the cell bill cell

803
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 1: phone bill. Then I realized he was on social media,

804
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 1: liking pictures of half dressed women, commenting on how nice

805
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: and fine they are, and in sending these women direct messages,

806
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: he was demming them. When I confronted him with everything,

807
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: he swore that it's all innocent fun and he's not

808
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 1: trying to be sneaky. He said he never had planned

809
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: to meet up with any of those women. I pay

810
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: the cell phone bills, So I told him that I'm

811
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: going to have his cell phone deactivated and he will

812
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: not have access to any apps or social media. He

813
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 1: almost lost it when I said that, which confirms my suspicions. Okay,

814
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 1: she pays the cell phone bills. Okay, so she told

815
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: him that she's going to have his phone deactivated and

816
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: he will not have access to any apps or social media.

817
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: He almost lost it when I said that, which confirms

818
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: my suspicions. If my gut feelings are right and he's

819
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 1: cheating again, I'm out of here. Do you think I'm

820
00:53:56,640 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 1: just tripping or blowing this out of proportion? Please help? Well,

821
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: you definitely have a few things that are definitely caused

822
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: for a concern here, and really more than that. First,

823
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: the text you mentioned in the letter that he sent

824
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: to you by mistake. You knew it was intended for

825
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: someone else. You knew he was lying. He tried to

826
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,279
Speaker 1: cover it up saying that you know he wanted to

827
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: try something new in the marriage. You knew that was

828
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: a lie. Also, the new app he has where he

829
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: can video chat and like pictures and DM people, that's

830
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: another clue. And of course your gut feeling. You know

831
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: what they say, always trust your gut. Right. Well, after

832
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: twenty years, you know your man, you know his habits,

833
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: you know how he moves, so you know when he's

834
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: telling the truth and you know when he's lying. All

835
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: through this letter he has done nothing but lie and

836
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: you've caught him. So you ask us, are you tripping?

837
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 1: And are you blowing things out of proportion? You know,

838
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: I say, trust yourself, trust your instincts. No I don't

839
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 1: think you're blowing things out of proportion. I don't think

840
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 1: you're tripping at all. I think your husband is tripping.

841
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: I think he's tripping. He's the one that's out of

842
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: control here with all of this. You say, if you

843
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 1: if your gut feelings are right, and you find out

844
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 1: he's cheating again, you're out of there. So it looks

845
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: like you know you better start packing your bags. You

846
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: don't have any concrete proof now, but it looks like

847
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: it might be coming, so get ready. Steve, Wow, I

848
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: don't know what to tell you. You've been married for

849
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: twenty years. You said it has been the longest twenty yes, ever,

850
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, neither one of y'all been perfect in

851
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 1: the marriage. I mean, you didn't tripped and needing trip.

852
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: But then you say you got yours together, and then

853
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: you was hoping he did. But now it's tech causing

854
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: technologists just too many ways for him to be out

855
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: there tripping. So he sent this text about three months

856
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: ago that was intended for somebody else, said, you know,

857
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: to meet up for after work. Well, then you busted him.

858
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: Here's what he did. Though. After you busted him, you

859
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: said that he said that was for you. He was

860
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 1: trying to keep new things in that man. I said

861
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,399
Speaker 1: that that you. I just told you that. I just

862
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: act like I ain't knew you. I knew he was lying.

863
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: So then you started watching the call log on the

864
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: cell phone, did all kinds of numbers on that, you know,

865
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: But now you're snooping. So you didn't want to bust

866
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: him right away, but you started looking at his phone

867
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 1: that he had downloaded a new app that allows him

868
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: to talk and video chat with people without his showing

869
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: up on the cell phone bill. Now that's curious to me.

870
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: A video phone call is different on your cell phone bill?

871
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: Is it the WhatsApp? I don't know WhatsApp. I think

872
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,760
Speaker 1: it's WhatsApp Steve. She didn't say that, but it's probably

873
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: what you mean. No, nephew, seems like he has some

874
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: sight on this. What was that married man? Okay? Then okay,

875
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: let me inside boys outside boys. That's crazy. This boy

876
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: did give it some year, definitely years like the last

877
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah said to be the longest. She said. That allows

878
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: him to talk and video chat with people without his

879
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: showing up on the cell phone bill. Oh, I see

880
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. That must be horse. Then I

881
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: realized he was on social media liking pictures of half

882
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 1: dressed women. Come in on house and find the sending

883
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: these women dms. Then when you confronted and he swore

884
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: he was innocent, he ain't sneaking, he ain't playing on

885
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: me with no new women. I just said I wanted

886
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: how did he say it? I just said I ain't

887
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: gonna beat up with nobody. I just said I have

888
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:57,439
Speaker 1: wounded too. Girl. You tripping? Yeah? Right? You don't see

889
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: me over there, now, do you? All right? Hold on,

890
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at

891
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Subjects up today's strawberry letter,

892
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: my husband is such a dummy. We'll get back into

893
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:15,439
Speaker 1: it right after this you're listening to all right, let's

894
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter and uh, come on, Steve with

895
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 1: your response. The subject is my husband is such a dummy. Man,

896
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: y'all been together twenty years, according to you, has been

897
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: the long as twenty available. Technology then took over head

898
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: and found a lot of ways to cheat. Now, three

899
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: months ago he sent a text to you that was

900
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: intended for somebody else. He wanted to meet up after

901
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: the work. I busted him. He lied and said that

902
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: the text was for me, and he was trying to gil. Girl.

903
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 1: Let's tell for you. What's his name? Girl? Oh tell

904
00:58:55,520 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: me the dude's name in the letter to really to Realist,

905
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: because he tells the women I'm to really still really

906
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: so to Realist's dead serious. And uh, Lee led and

907
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: said the text was for you, and you knew he

908
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: was lying, So you started watching the call logs. He

909
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: downed all kind of numbers you've never seen before. I

910
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: didn't ask him about it because I needed some more proof.

911
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: Then you're looking at the phone. Notice heating the downloaded

912
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: a new app that allows him to talk in video

913
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: chat with people without his showing up on the cell

914
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: phone bill that horse Altum, cording to Sherley. Then I

915
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: realized he was on social media, liking pictures I have

916
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: dressed women, comment on how nice and fine they are,

917
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: sending these women direct messaging. Then when I confronted what

918
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: he swore to it was all innocent. He just not

919
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 1: trying to be sneaky. Girl. I ain't had no plan

920
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: on going out with none of these here women, because listen,

921
00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: we was just talking. We was just talking, and that's

922
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 1: all it wools from New York. And then when you

923
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: come talking about that I was going to meet up

924
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: with these women's and I wasn't and I wasn't you know,

925
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 1: so then you know, then you come talking about because

926
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: you paid the cell phone the bills that you was

927
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 1: gonna have my phone just deactivated? Now why are you

928
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: tripping like that? Wow? And then you ain't got no,

929
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna have no access to any of these apps.

930
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: I need these apps for my job. Well, if he

931
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: got a job, he should pay his own cell phone.

932
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: Then if my gut feelings are right and he's cheating again,

933
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: I am out of here. Do you think I'm just

934
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: tripping and blowing this out of proportion? Okay, let me

935
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: ask you something. What's her name? This is to really

936
01:00:52,440 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: us and just Shamika? Okay, yeah, okay, yeah they call

937
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: him STD. What they call him STD? Shimika into really

938
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: doing the damn thing. If my good feelings are right

939
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: and he's cheating again, well, if your good, if your

940
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 1: good feelings is right, your good telling you he's cheating again,

941
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm out of him. Do you think I'm just tripping

942
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: and blowing this side of proportion? Look if you're looking

943
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: for a reason to stay with him. Man, they're just

944
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: gonna stay with him. You got twenty years in. You

945
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: could use that one people like to use I got

946
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: twenty years in, like that's supposed to have value to

947
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 1: it when they after that, if something had gone bad,

948
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 1: then it was a season for it. You know, some

949
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: racing relationships are just for seasons. It's just you didn't

950
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: blow that part in of your life. You look back

951
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: on it. You got some good times out of him

952
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 1: twenty even though it was the longest you ever had.

953
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 1: You know, your husband had dummy. But if he done

954
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: what they make you though, because you staying with it

955
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: and you're good telling you what he's doing. Man to Really,

956
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 1: it's just that any question about this letter because I'm

957
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: technically don't tell him to get her own damn phone

958
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: in his own name? Why good? Don't no? Because you

959
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: know telling me when you're stupid? Now you're noticed? What notice? Now?

960
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: Some of this stuff I don't see what the questions

961
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: from where? You know? You know, when a man is

962
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: at this level of ignorance, it compounds and manifests itself

963
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: in a lot of ways. You know, you know, when

964
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:55,959
Speaker 1: you're stupid you ain't just stupid at that that stupidity

965
01:02:56,040 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: shows up in multiple areas of your life on him

966
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: of Steve. Now, Tommy, is this true? What's Steve saying? Come?

967
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: Oh boy? I love you, love you? Answer the question

968
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: now to see the thing about Tommy. Now, let me

969
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 1: tell you something. Tommy's ignorance is reserved for prank phone call.

970
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: Now his anger management problem that carries over, but he

971
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 1: don't have to deal with his anger management in pranks.

972
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: His stupidity is for pranks now, his anger management that's

973
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: other areas of life. And that's not really stupidity, that's

974
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: angle managed. Okay, aren't we getting off subject though? We're

975
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: talking about stupidity. Well, I don't know how we could be,

976
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:57,160
Speaker 1: didn't I say Tommy twice? Okay? Yeah, I may I

977
01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 1: am as ignorant, but I'll be damning from stupidity whatever

978
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: you say. All right, listen, we gotta get out of here.

979
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: Leave us your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram

980
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey f M and check out the Strawberry

981
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. You're listening to show Time for

982
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: comedy Roulette Guys Jayson Yea. Each week we get tested

983
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: with our comedy ability. Give us five subjects. Put them

984
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: on a wheel. Spin the wheel, wed stop what you got?

985
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: All right? Here we go? All right. Number one, every

986
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 1: time you say something, they try to top. That's a

987
01:04:54,080 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: good subject. That's here's what you say. Number two, Why

988
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: is your kids so fat? We can do that. We

989
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 1: can do that. Number three people who go from zero

990
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 1: to sixty Tommy? Four? Big girls with little men? Yeah.

991
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: Number five broke people who you don't know are broke

992
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: until the check comes. Who's that spend the whale? Cats

993
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:43,919
Speaker 1: in the whale? Oh here it is, looking guy. People

994
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 1: who go from zero to sixty? Day, my god. Working

995
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: with somebody like this, let me tell you it is

996
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: a nightmare. And then then from Houston. That's all I'm saying.

997
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: I ain't talking about the name. They're from Houston. Everythang

998
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: is a damn an argument. Now that your voice with

999
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 1: a high voice, you know what high voice argument about? Nothing? Zero?

1000
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: They were talking thing? You know, any full blown out

1001
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:22,480
Speaker 1: manet dare get dang good about Wow? Do you have one? Steve?

1002
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: A person doesn't have to be somebody you work with,

1003
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: people up from over sixty. Okay, Well, since we're talking

1004
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: about people we work with. I think Sherley, I think

1005
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: for zero sixty. Every time I turn around, she man

1006
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: a boy, someone a bullshit, always correcting you. You can't

1007
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: say nothing wrong, isn't this isn't. I mean as soon

1008
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: as you say something like she right there, like we

1009
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: got to deal with that, do you say something to it?

1010
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: And she just started drawing. She started drawing right now.

1011
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, we're making a flower. It don't

1012
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: really look like a flowers that look like you're on

1013
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 1: the sixty. Not only not only zero to sixty one,

1014
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 1: they reached sixty. They shut down. They got nothing down.

1015
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: Now let's say they quiet shut it down. Then after that,

1016
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: so you're okay with cool? No we cool? No no,

1017
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: well no, hell no, let's just move on. No no,

1018
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: let's move no no, no no no, let's just going

1019
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 1: to do the show because listen comment right there, No

1020
01:07:33,840 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: no hell no, get the attitude now, no no, no, no, no,

1021
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: no man, no, here here go his favorite it's always me. Yes,

1022
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: you're listening morning show. This is when you realize you're

1023
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 1: not good at sheating. It's when you get caught. As

1024
01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: soon as you get caught. Always well, I wasn't good

1025
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 1: at it this time. I've never been good at it,

1026
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 1: but duke duke one time. Yeah, I'm at my place.

1027
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 1: You know, got my little place is all, you know,

1028
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 1: got faked for all on the couch and everything, got

1029
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: my little got my little pictures on the wall, my seat,

1030
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: my album, you know the album, got the albums on

1031
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: the wall. Man, I'm sitting at chit chatting. You know.

1032
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 1: We listened to some loofah loofah, some loop. All of

1033
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 1: a sudden, a brick comes through the window, right, what right?

1034
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 1: Like this is normal with with his It didn't have

1035
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:46,680
Speaker 1: a note on it, so I had no wood, It

1036
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 1: didn't have a normal And I threw a brick through

1037
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 1: your window. And it was a nice side of brick, right,

1038
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,640
Speaker 1: not a rock. I didn't say it rock. This was

1039
01:08:55,720 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 1: a brick. Well, I'm here to jail. Nothing changes the

1040
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:05,879
Speaker 1: mood in the room like a brick coming through your window.

1041
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 1: In your albums and all that, forget all that, right,

1042
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 1: I can. I can't hear outside. I still didn't know

1043
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 1: who was bring your own lass out in. You ain't

1044
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:23,600
Speaker 1: gonna out that though. You still hear the rude number one,

1045
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:30,160
Speaker 1: Never go outside, You never go outside? And then hell no,

1046
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: you don't go outside. But it changed the mood of

1047
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 1: the inside. So I couldn't go outside, and I had

1048
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 1: nothing inside because what was inside Now I wasn't naked,

1049
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't naked, but what was inside left, So she

1050
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 1: left because that changed the mood right there. When you hit,

1051
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: when you hit, when you see a brick and then

1052
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 1: bring your lass outside. But when you saw the brick,

1053
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 1: you had no idea. I kind of had an idea,

1054
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,439
Speaker 1: threw the brick, but the mood was changed. So that

1055
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: was that's my convention. Wow, mine ain't that. I was

1056
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: young man about twenty two, So I started dating this

1057
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: girl that worked at four. So I finally took a

1058
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 1: long time, got to go out to dinner with me.

1059
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 1: I went to this restaurant up on Northfield called brown Derby.

1060
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 1: We walked into brown Derby. I got a little pr

1061
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:30,879
Speaker 1: Carden suit on everything. We sit down at the table.

1062
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, man, big thick knock, gotm a little

1063
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:39,919
Speaker 1: frow and everything. You know how you feel somebody standing, Yeah,

1064
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: you just kind of dimly lit in there. So when

1065
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 1: my eyes adjusted, I look and the other girl I'm dating,

1066
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 1: it's in now with her mama dinner, and she just

1067
01:10:57,320 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: standing at me, looking at you. I'm talking about man,

1068
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 1: upside my head her mama back to me. Now, i'd

1069
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: have been over that house, man there any time that

1070
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: your girl. She stared at me. So I looked cross

1071
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: through the little vase with the flowers at it. You

1072
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 1: just thought I was in the jungle. So I looked

1073
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 1: around it and made our contact. I jerked my head

1074
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 1: so I would look out of no more. I said that. Man,

1075
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. Man, I'm young. I'm

1076
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 1: trying to work this out. So I said, man, I

1077
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,839
Speaker 1: gotta do something, So I got up. She looked dead

1078
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 1: at me. As soon as I got up and walked

1079
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 1: towards the bathroom, here she comes. So when I got

1080
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,360
Speaker 1: ready to make the left to turn into the bathroom,

1081
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,720
Speaker 1: I just kind of peeked back to see if she

1082
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 1: was at with her mama. She was halfway across the restaurant,

1083
01:11:52,680 --> 01:12:04,720
Speaker 1: so I ain't making left straight on out. Then my car,

1084
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 1: I parked a long way from the restaurant, was crowded,

1085
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 1: so I'm on the other end. I walked out the

1086
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 1: restaurant and just walked to the corner and crossed the

1087
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 1: street all out here, stave, stave, I got here to

1088
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 1: get here. Now, guess what I did? Okay, what did

1089
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 1: you think? I went back to get the car home.

1090
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. What if y'all this

1091
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:41,640
Speaker 1: gen Brown trying to get his horn and done? This

1092
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 1: is still forth of July. Weekeinning with spence fires, which

1093
01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:47,400
Speaker 1: me somebody will sit on fire, somebody will lose a come,

1094
01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 1: somebody will lose an somebody was setting on fighting and

1095
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: somebody was sticking a fire pack up there. I'm not letting,

1096
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: I'm not making somebody will stick the fire pack up

1097
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: there and blow that up. To the song is don

1098
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: into those foes who can do that with firecrafts? Who

1099
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: they they do what they're doing, but they don't shot

1100
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 1: coming a racket, racket, cracket. Another dumby sitting in the

1101
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: hospital go holding ice to porths fingers and times on

1102
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 1: the side of town house on fight Bioch inside and

1103
01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 1: says say, while smoke came up and each head happens,

1104
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: that don't stop in man all for my shooting. I say.

1105
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 1: The car reached up the thing that it's true to

1106
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 1: hold in adds in their band. It goos some now

1107
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 1: his as is seen down. Listen to me, up, Jesus

1108
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: file Okay, Firecracker, Okay, I kind of like it though,

1109
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: even though you're kind of my dog. You're listening Morning

1110
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: Show Junior year Up, Hey, morning everybody. Man. Let me

1111
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 1: just tell the truth right now. And I'm just meaning,

1112
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't mean this dispecting nobody in there. I love

1113
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 1: all y'all, now, I really do, but I want just

1114
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: want to let y'all know something, man, truth be told.

1115
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 1: I won't be related to Steve for real from no,

1116
01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 1: because I ain't got no money in my family. You don't.

1117
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: I need somebody else beside me that's got money. And

1118
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: I just found an over vacation uncle, Steve. Boy, do

1119
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: you be looking to me? Do you know how much

1120
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 1: your uncle worthy already? How much? I'm not gonna throw

1121
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:04,719
Speaker 1: the number that But I actually no, no, I don't

1122
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 1: know this. Yeah, but we've been working with him every day,

1123
01:15:07,360 --> 01:15:15,640
Speaker 1: y'all so disrespectful. Man. Did I go with him what

1124
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 1: that man? Were supposed to treat him different? Yes? No,

1125
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: because hell, we ain't broke people you treat better than him?

1126
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 1: Oh No, I gotta ain't it. I sweat. I never

1127
01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:30,720
Speaker 1: talked to the same. No, not long as I know.

1128
01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm Steve ain't hill if you don't get your broke

1129
01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:39,479
Speaker 1: ass away from me. No, No, I'm tired. I'm tying

1130
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 1: all the broke people. I got to be nice to

1131
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 1: a hit on Steve, and we treat him like he

1132
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,839
Speaker 1: ain't worth nothing. This man, he could change our generation.

1133
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: We treat him regularly, treat him like I don't want

1134
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 1: to treat him. Record, I love you now. If you

1135
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 1: need me him problem, I'll tell you what he's worth

1136
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,840
Speaker 1: more than a hunted me. Did you know that? You

1137
01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 1: know that? Did you know he was the highest pain?

1138
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying that, dude, I was winning when he

1139
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 1: was worth one hundred dollars, for get that. On the

1140
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 1: n through it. I knew it when he wasn't worth nothing.

1141
01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:19,600
Speaker 1: But but but now he didn't pass everybody. You're not

1142
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,600
Speaker 1: tripping on you. You don't want to sound like I

1143
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,800
Speaker 1: didn't know he was just rich? Ye oh my god,

1144
01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:27,679
Speaker 1: do you need your shoes because you know you're gonna

1145
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: be on TV. We know you're not. We're not doing

1146
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 1: this for him. We're not doing to listen and make

1147
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: it work. Forget that. Regular folks got thirty dollars hour

1148
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:43,400
Speaker 1: that regular folk? All right? That okay, y'all quit it.

1149
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 1: Regular folk, seventeen regular people. It may I take your

1150
01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: reg people. Okay, two hundred million, Yeah, it isn't look different.

1151
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. People with two hundred men,

1152
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: you still have to tell you go tell to you

1153
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,760
Speaker 1: that sitting that you do this regular time. He don't

1154
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: do and you do? No, he don't. Okay, So here

1155
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:05,639
Speaker 1: how you you have to sit in a regular chair?

1156
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:16,559
Speaker 1: You don't? Man, that's you. He gonna try to call

1157
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 1: you dry, No, Tommy, dry God say it. You can

1158
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 1: say it. Just how did I get called up? All right,

1159
01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 1: we gotta go. We'll be back. You're listening, show bright Steve.

1160
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:39,400
Speaker 1: Here we are. It's good. It's been a good day.

1161
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 1: It's been a real good day. It's been a good day, Steve.

1162
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: I know you have some inspiring words to leave us

1163
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 1: with today. You know. I got up yesterday and um,

1164
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: I was about to do my morning meditation, and something

1165
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: told me to just turn the TV on and look

1166
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 1: for Joel Oldstein. I mean, I didn't turn the TV

1167
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: on because that's my meditational time. So I turned it

1168
01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 1: on and I thumbed through and I found Joe those

1169
01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: team right at eight o'clock out in La It was

1170
01:18:08,200 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 1: right at the exact moment, and I was there in

1171
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:14,479
Speaker 1: time for the joke that he does and a little

1172
01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 1: funny thing he starts off his sermons, and I was listening.

1173
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 1: He was talking about something, man, that really struck a

1174
01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 1: chord with me, and I think has affected all of

1175
01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: us at one point in time in our life. And

1176
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 1: I wanted to share it with you, man, because it

1177
01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 1: was so helpful to me. He was talking about bitterness.

1178
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:42,320
Speaker 1: He was talking about not allowing bitterness to take hold

1179
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 1: in your life. He said, the problem with bitterness is

1180
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:52,400
Speaker 1: that the longer you hold on to it, the harder

1181
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: it is to get rid of. And what the basic

1182
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: thing in his sermon was, and I'm just paraphrasing every

1183
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:04,680
Speaker 1: thing he was asking everybody, instead of holding on to bitterness,

1184
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 1: you've got to learn to ask God to help you

1185
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:14,160
Speaker 1: forgive more quickly. You've got to start asking God to

1186
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 1: help you let it go, because if you don't, it

1187
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 1: just attaches itself to you and bitterness shows up everywhere.

1188
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 1: It's a funny thing, man, because I was thinking, I said, Man,

1189
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm not really a bitter person. This ain't for me,

1190
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:32,479
Speaker 1: but oh man, as I listened, he was talking about

1191
01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: because bitterness shows up everywhere. You Ever been angry because

1192
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 1: a deal didn't go down. You ever been angry or

1193
01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:42,439
Speaker 1: got upset about a contract and it kind of bugged

1194
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:44,920
Speaker 1: you for a while. You ever been you ever see

1195
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 1: a coworker and they just kind of rubbed you the

1196
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 1: wrong way? You know, maybe they fronted you in front

1197
01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:57,440
Speaker 1: of others. You got to remember something about a bitterness, man, Bitterness,

1198
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:04,920
Speaker 1: it's a roo r oot. Bitterness is a root. You

1199
01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 1: can't see roots because roots are underground. But roots anchor

1200
01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: the tree and the bush, and and and and and

1201
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 1: and the roots are under the ground. And bitter roots

1202
01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 1: make bitter fruit. If a if a tree has bitter roots,

1203
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:30,599
Speaker 1: it's gonna produce bitter fruit. So what he was saying

1204
01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:34,520
Speaker 1: the whole time yesterday was don't let mishaps and grudges

1205
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:39,679
Speaker 1: take root. Don't allow these stuffs to take root, because

1206
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:41,800
Speaker 1: you won't You won't even be able to see it,

1207
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 1: and just be underground gathering strength and holding you down.

1208
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:52,840
Speaker 1: And and and the roots. The root feeds a tree,

1209
01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:58,679
Speaker 1: the root feeds the bush. And if you got bad

1210
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 1: roots down there, Bitter roots don't free, don't feed to

1211
01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 1: treat good nutrients. Bitter roots destroy. So when you're starting

1212
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 1: to feel some type of resentment, you're holding a grudge.

1213
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 1: Maybe he left you, Maybe you got they told you

1214
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 1: they loved you and it turned out they didn't. Maybe

1215
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:26,439
Speaker 1: you got stuck with the baby. Maybe your kids just

1216
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 1: weren't act right. Maybe you just can't get past what

1217
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 1: your sibling did to you a long time ago. Maybe

1218
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 1: your mama ain't been a good mother to you. Maybe

1219
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:39,080
Speaker 1: your father walked out. Maybe you just can't seem to

1220
01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 1: get a break, so you become bitter. You gotta ask

1221
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 1: God to help you let that go. Man, You gotta

1222
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 1: ask God for some help. Man. You got to ask

1223
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:52,000
Speaker 1: God to help remove the resentment, Help remove the hatred,

1224
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 1: Help get rid of the jealousy. Help you start feeling like, oh,

1225
01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: so what they treated you unfair. You gotta get rid

1226
01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 1: of that. Man. You can't keep holding on to the

1227
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:11,160
Speaker 1: wrong things. You're contaminating your roots, and your roots is

1228
01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 1: contaminating your tree. When you hang on to that jealousy

1229
01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:19,840
Speaker 1: of resentment to another person, you're not hurting that other person.

1230
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:23,800
Speaker 1: You're hurting your tree. Your roots is feeding you the

1231
01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 1: wrong types of nutrients. See the problem with bitterness, It

1232
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:31,040
Speaker 1: takes you away from God, who who God created you

1233
01:22:31,160 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: to be. God created all of us in his image,

1234
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: all of us. He created us for greatness. He created

1235
01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:42,719
Speaker 1: us to be dreamers. He created us to be social

1236
01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 1: people who help others, who help them less fortunate. Created

1237
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:51,040
Speaker 1: us to be powerful. God made us to be joyous,

1238
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:54,720
Speaker 1: to be creative, to be strong. That's who you were

1239
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 1: born to be. But when you get become bitter, you

1240
01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:05,759
Speaker 1: start renaming yourself. So now you're not this strong, courageous, powerful, joyous,

1241
01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: creative person anymore now because you this. I'm broken. They

1242
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 1: broke my heart. I can't get over it. I lost

1243
01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 1: my mama. I'll never be the same. This man left me,

1244
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:21,599
Speaker 1: all me and the dogs. I'm bitter. I'm lost. Nah, man,

1245
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 1: that's not your name. You got to reclaim the name.

1246
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 1: You were created in God's image. Don't let bitterness. Don't

1247
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 1: let your break up, your divorce, your bad childhood, your

1248
01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 1: lost business, your bad parents. Don't let none of them

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