1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,000
Speaker 1: Say, I'm driving the car.

2
00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,120
Speaker 2: We're going down the highway right, and you're sitting in

3
00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,680
Speaker 2: the in the passenger seat, and I passed the exit.

4
00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,600
Speaker 1: I clearly passed the exit. I was supposed to accident. Okay.

5
00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,680
Speaker 2: Now, if your friend looked over at you and said, hey,

6
00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,479
Speaker 2: where are we going, I'm like, oh my god, I

7
00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,760
Speaker 2: totally forgot to exit. Why didn't you say something? Did

8
00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,880
Speaker 2: you know that we were about to miss the exit? Yes,

9
00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:24,759
Speaker 2: but for some reason thought you wanted to take me

10
00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,760
Speaker 2: somewhere else. No, you should have told me there's an

11
00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,040
Speaker 2: exit right there, and if I miss it, if I'm

12
00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:32,199
Speaker 2: about to miss it, you should tell me.

13
00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,320
Speaker 1: As my friend.

14
00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,879
Speaker 2: Like in life, if you see a friend about to

15
00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:37,640
Speaker 2: miss an exit, you know you can miss it.

16
00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:39,040
Speaker 1: Whatever you let him know.

17
00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,919
Speaker 2: Hey, you're you're doing You're about to do this to

18
00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,120
Speaker 2: this person by saying this and that. Don't say that.

19
00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,040
Speaker 2: Maybe think rethink that, but don't let me just keep going.

20
00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,760
Speaker 2: This happened to me the other day. Okay, I almost

21
00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,599
Speaker 2: I almost passed the I passed the exit, and then

22
00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,120
Speaker 2: the question was where are we going? I'm like, oh

23
00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,880
Speaker 2: my god, did you see me passing the exit?

24
00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,240
Speaker 1: Yes?

25
00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,280
Speaker 2: Why did and you say something because it looks like

26
00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:03,400
Speaker 2: you want to take me somewhere else.

27
00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,640
Speaker 1: What are you doing? I don't know, so it's just

28
00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:07,679
Speaker 1: a thought. Yeah, scary way.

29
00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,080
Speaker 3: This happens on the show a lot where you say

30
00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,600
Speaker 3: you want to do stuff, Nate lays out some things,

31
00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,000
Speaker 3: some instructions, and you got you go along with it.

32
00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,760
Speaker 3: We all agree, and then you start drifting somewhere else

33
00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:19,920
Speaker 3: and I don't.

34
00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,039
Speaker 4: I'm gonna I'm gonna let you keep going. I'm not

35
00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,160
Speaker 4: gonna say get off of this exit because to me,

36
00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,959
Speaker 4: I'm like, well what he had, Elvis had a better

37
00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,360
Speaker 4: idea right now. So we're just gonna go along with it.

38
00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,240
Speaker 4: And that's what makes the show so great, right is it?

39
00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:31,880
Speaker 1: Okay?

40
00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:37,640
Speaker 4: Well? Sometimes yeah, you improvise a lot. People think the

41
00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:38,319
Speaker 4: show is scripted.

42
00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:38,640
Speaker 1: It's not.

43
00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,600
Speaker 4: But like you do, go in directions, and if you're

44
00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,440
Speaker 4: going in a direction, we're not gonna stop you.

45
00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:43,240
Speaker 1: Okay.

46
00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,600
Speaker 2: Well, is that the same as exiting because we have

47
00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:50,000
Speaker 2: a twelve o'clock lunch reservation at that exit behind us, Gandhi, you're.

48
00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:50,880
Speaker 1: With me on this, right? No?

49
00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,200
Speaker 5: I yes, I am with you on this. But I

50
00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,520
Speaker 5: also think that there are some people who do not

51
00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,560
Speaker 5: want to be told that they're missing the exit. Like

52
00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,360
Speaker 5: my dad if and I'm doing this very literally, if

53
00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,040
Speaker 5: I were to tell him you're about to miss that exit,

54
00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,000
Speaker 5: he'll tell me all the reasons why that's what he planned.

55
00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,680
Speaker 5: So I'm like, who's in the space to be told

56
00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,800
Speaker 5: you're about to miss the exit?

57
00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,840
Speaker 3: Twelve o'clock lunch.

58
00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you something.

59
00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:11,200
Speaker 5: Else I might not now.

60
00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,160
Speaker 1: Was this person the designated navigator or were you? No?

61
00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,200
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, just just you know the part

62
00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,440
Speaker 2: they are a part of the car community that I

63
00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,679
Speaker 2: think they're totally not at fault in this instance.

64
00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,440
Speaker 1: Well, well no, I'm not. Okay, let me let me

65
00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,400
Speaker 1: they are. Okay, there's fault there.

66
00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not as much fault as in, are you

67
00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,120
Speaker 2: the type of person who will catch me before I fall?

68
00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,200
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess.

69
00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:39,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to make this like a simple conversation about

70
00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,480
Speaker 2: who is there looking out for you to keep you

71
00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,640
Speaker 2: from like making an ass of yourself or losing a

72
00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,560
Speaker 2: client or getting getting fired.

73
00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,639
Speaker 6: Ah yeah, but I think you have to be careful

74
00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,000
Speaker 6: when because with car situations, if we're going to be literal,

75
00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,760
Speaker 6: there are certain people who get very offended. If you

76
00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,280
Speaker 6: tell him what the hell to do in a car

77
00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,480
Speaker 6: scary in life. In life situations they might be different.

78
00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,880
Speaker 6: But yeah, if you tell Scary where to go, Scary

79
00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,280
Speaker 6: tells the Uber driver where to go.

80
00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,280
Speaker 2: In the car, and which makes everyone in the car

81
00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:14,840
Speaker 2: so yes, unhappy. I politely suggest where to come from,

82
00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,000
Speaker 2: don't okay? Well I tell you there's a different Sometimes ubers,

83
00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,520
Speaker 2: you know, they use ways, and sometimes sometimes their map

84
00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,600
Speaker 2: really should be watched because the map knows what we

85
00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,280
Speaker 2: don't know sometimes about traffic patterns.

86
00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:26,560
Speaker 1: Isn't that?

87
00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,200
Speaker 2: But like the other the day we got into a cab.

88
00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,600
Speaker 2: We were going, We're going uptown. The guy starts driving

89
00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,320
Speaker 2: down toward downtown. I'm like, oh, this guy's not going

90
00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,160
Speaker 2: so well. Maybe he's gonna take the East River or

91
00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,120
Speaker 2: he's gonna do he would he was going all the

92
00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,600
Speaker 2: way down to like World Trade, and I'm finally I

93
00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,560
Speaker 2: said let us out, we are not going this way.

94
00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, Alex, how long were we gonna go

95
00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,680
Speaker 2: without telling him we're gonna let him take us all

96
00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:53,240
Speaker 2: the way to Delaware until we said maybe you should turn. Yeah,

97
00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,680
Speaker 2: the text are great. I go through this all the time.

98
00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,720
Speaker 2: I have the worst co pilot ever. Uh oh, you

99
00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,400
Speaker 2: can always just take the next exit then come back.

100
00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,800
Speaker 2: See that's true. I like that outlook. The worst is

101
00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,600
Speaker 2: I know I have to exit and then they say it. Yeah,

102
00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,400
Speaker 2: people know it all is in the car. I have

103
00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,320
Speaker 2: to disagree. I get an annoyed when someone jumps the

104
00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:16,880
Speaker 2: gun on telling me to exit. See a lot of

105
00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,400
Speaker 2: people get irritated people telling them how to drive.

106
00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,240
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm waiting for the GPS. Though one day when

107
00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,679
Speaker 6: I miss my exit to say, hey, dumbass, you're supposed

108
00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,400
Speaker 6: to get out over there, Stupid, I told you that's

109
00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,920
Speaker 6: the GPS I want in the car.

110
00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,440
Speaker 5: Okaya, yell me even metaphorically with life. How we were

111
00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,080
Speaker 5: just saying, you know, some people get annoyed if you

112
00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,720
Speaker 5: try to tell them the exit because you told them

113
00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,679
Speaker 5: too soon. Isn't that the same with catching someone before

114
00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,080
Speaker 5: they fall? Like a lot of people will get very

115
00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,240
Speaker 5: irritated if you try, like you think you're looking out

116
00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,040
Speaker 5: for someone, and they're like, get out of my life.

117
00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,080
Speaker 5: Got to you gotta know your audience walk that line.

118
00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,560
Speaker 6: Let me tell you I will not tell my husband

119
00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,720
Speaker 6: how I was driving, because that did not turn out well.

120
00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,640
Speaker 6: A couple of times, so I'm just like, oh, you

121
00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,719
Speaker 6: can get off the wrong exit.

122
00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,080
Speaker 1: God, yeah, you sounds like you got burned. You got burnt,

123
00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,520
Speaker 1: mat Okay. If I'm the driver, I would prefer you

124
00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,440
Speaker 1: say nothing as opposed to doing me.

125
00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,320
Speaker 2: What did you do?

126
00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,679
Speaker 4: It's gonna get down right here.

127
00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,520
Speaker 1: That don't do that? Yeah, that makes me rack.

128
00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,840
Speaker 5: You if you do. Have you ever been with someone

129
00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:15,960
Speaker 5: who pulls the steering wheel?

130
00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:17,800
Speaker 1: No, no.

131
00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:19,480
Speaker 6: Pull.

132
00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:22,920
Speaker 2: I made this rule when I was in high school.

133
00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,760
Speaker 2: There's a line down the center of that car. Your

134
00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,800
Speaker 2: hand does not come over that line.

135
00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:30,719
Speaker 6: Attack and you die in the middle of your driving.

136
00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:34,200
Speaker 2: Then I there's nothing worse than yeah, will hard attack you.

137
00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,919
Speaker 2: It's different, but there's nothing worse than someone grabbing your wheel,

138
00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,520
Speaker 2: which is dangerous or at least go look there's John

139
00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,800
Speaker 2: and they reach over and they honk your horn in

140
00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,400
Speaker 2: the middle. No, no, I will know you just like

141
00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:49,440
Speaker 2: Denzel Washington.

142
00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,560
Speaker 1: Can you will not?

143
00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:51,200
Speaker 2: No?

144
00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,560
Speaker 1: No, no stop.

145
00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,640
Speaker 6: I'm the worst passengers because I'm a nervous passenger. So

146
00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,760
Speaker 6: if you get too close to the other car and

147
00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,360
Speaker 6: I think you're gonna hit them, like, I go.

148
00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:05,240
Speaker 5: Oh God, because I feel like you break to you know.

149
00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,920
Speaker 6: To take you too long to break drives me crazy?

150
00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,440
Speaker 1: Is what is car?

151
00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,720
Speaker 2: What are these cars I have? I need to figure

152
00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,520
Speaker 2: out how to fix this. It has a screen in

153
00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:19,400
Speaker 2: front of the passenger, okay, and they can choose what

154
00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,400
Speaker 2: they can see on the screen. They can see what

155
00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,040
Speaker 2: they can see, uh, navigation, they can see the music.

156
00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,919
Speaker 2: They can basically control a lot of my functions over there.

157
00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,240
Speaker 2: And I don't like that. I don't like them having

158
00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,880
Speaker 2: all that control on their side of the car. Whoever

159
00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,000
Speaker 2: designed this car, they thought, oh, this would be great.

160
00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,000
Speaker 2: Let's give the passengers some control and you know, something

161
00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,200
Speaker 2: to do, you know, over on their side of the car. No,

162
00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,680
Speaker 2: that's my car. I'm the captain. I'm the captain of

163
00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,520
Speaker 2: this ship. If all right, if you if you do

164
00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,960
Speaker 2: see an iceberg ahead of us, okay, let me know

165
00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,599
Speaker 2: and we'll discuss calmly.

166
00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:55,120
Speaker 5: Let me know.

167
00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,960
Speaker 2: For instance, Nate Marie and Nate Marino is going to

168
00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,280
Speaker 2: be picking me up, you know, Nate straight, Nate gonna

169
00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:01,520
Speaker 2: be picking me up. We're gonna go have lunch and

170
00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,120
Speaker 2: then drive down the Jersey shore tomorrow. I'm anxious to

171
00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,520
Speaker 2: see how he drives. I've never ridden in a just

172
00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,880
Speaker 2: a few times early in the morning, and sometimes he

173
00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,800
Speaker 2: would run stop lights and almost get hit.

174
00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,360
Speaker 1: That happened once distracted.

175
00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,600
Speaker 4: Sorry, Now, if he's going to go the wrong way

176
00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,560
Speaker 4: or the long way, are you going to correct him?

177
00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:18,040
Speaker 6: Elvis?

178
00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,440
Speaker 1: Well, no, no, he will be on He will be

179
00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:24,480
Speaker 1: on navigation. So you were not going. If I decide

180
00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,120
Speaker 1: to go the wrong way, you will not say something.

181
00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,960
Speaker 2: If you're going where navigation tells you to go. I mean,

182
00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:35,520
Speaker 2: you know, unless it's obvious. But see you scary. If

183
00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,160
Speaker 2: he's a passenger in your car, it's the worst day

184
00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:38,679
Speaker 2: of your life.

185
00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you during my car car a couple of times

186
00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:42,200
Speaker 1: a week. What's wrong with the way?

187
00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:44,040
Speaker 4: Ever?

188
00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,400
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I said, No, you a passenger in micro

189
00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,000
Speaker 2: if you're driving, scary tries to control everything. Yeah, where

190
00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,640
Speaker 2: you're driving, what lane, what lane you're in, the speed

191
00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:54,640
Speaker 2: you're driving.

192
00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:58,200
Speaker 4: The temperature, the radio at, what we're listening to experience

193
00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:58,960
Speaker 4: also scary.

194
00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,560
Speaker 5: He has certainly complained before. He called me while you

195
00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,240
Speaker 5: were in the car to say, how do you do this?

196
00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:04,840
Speaker 5: I think I'm going to die?

197
00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:05,360
Speaker 2: Elvis?

198
00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,160
Speaker 1: Did that? You were in the car next to him.

199
00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,120
Speaker 1: Who's you? Who was talking to.

200
00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:12,920
Speaker 6: You?

201
00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,120
Speaker 1: Said you feared for your life?

202
00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I told everyone on the phone that day.

203
00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,720
Speaker 2: These are my loved one told me to takeodbye to them.

204
00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,840
Speaker 2: You know, because you're driving me, you are a little He.

205
00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,720
Speaker 5: Was telling us about his wishes for the future.

206
00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,120
Speaker 2: All right, so you know it is a metaphor, yea

207
00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,840
Speaker 2: being there for someone they're about to take the exit.

208
00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:40,120
Speaker 1: What do you do? Yeah, okay, something about I can't imagine. Obviously,

209
00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,920
Speaker 1: you had a list of things you wanted me to do,

210
00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:43,719
Speaker 1: and we did nothing. We talked about driving a car.

211
00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,040
Speaker 4: Now, that was a great conversation.

212
00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:47,320
Speaker 2: You didn't take the exit.