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Speaker 1: Second date Update. You know you're getting blown off for

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Speaker 1: a date when somebody tells you that they have a

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Speaker 1: As far as I know, not a lot of doctors

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Speaker 1: to Matt, who is on the phone right now and

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Speaker 1: wants to do a second date update. He wants to

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Speaker 1: call a girl named Claire. Apparently Claire is really bad

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Speaker 1: at blowing guys off. Yeah, because he asked her out

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Speaker 1: after their date and that was one of her excuses

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Speaker 1: What's up, Matt? How are you? I'm doing great? Guys?

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Speaker 1: How are you good? So she actually sent you a

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Speaker 1: In the morning, Snatt is on the phone with us

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Speaker 1: and he wants to call a girl named Claire. Today.

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Speaker 1: They met through friends, went out on a date. He

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Claire please. Yeah, this is Clay.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, I don't understand. Okay,

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Speaker 1: the Second Date Update. Matt is wondering why you are

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