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Speaker 1: second date of to day. It's creepy or not creepy?

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Speaker 1: And I guess I don't even know how you then that.

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: that's the reason the poem. Where did you out? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: the other line listening right now, Jamie, Hello, come on, guys,

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Speaker 1: because this doesn't happen with other girls. This is not normal.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm sure that, like, if you can just take

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Speaker 1: on some other planets. But at this point, Jamie, I

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Speaker 1: just a tad bit. Okay, you're sure, Jamie? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Give it time. Yeah, stop doing that, just Jamie, You

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Speaker 1: to listen to him. Yeah, listen to me, Jamie. No,

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Speaker 1: stop it. Why maybe he can't. Yeah, I'm trying for you, Lily,

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Speaker 1: jubil You weren't making this situation eighty times worse right now.

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Speaker 1: because I feel like that's a better dynamic. Yeah, Jamie,

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Speaker 1: grown adults. Maybe you too should go out you know what, Fine, then, Lily,

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Speaker 1: right now. It's all it's all about it's all about Jamie. Okay,

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Speaker 1: broken Jebil in the morning. It's been a lot day

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