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Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny.

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Speaker 2: Girls.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to I Choose Me, the podcast about making choices

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Speaker 1: that fill our cups and give us room to breathe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we talk about that a lot, filling our cups. So

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Speaker 1: I decided to practice what I preach. Uh huh, And

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Speaker 1: I called my girls. I said, let's go away, let's

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Speaker 1: get away. So we all, Luca, Lola and Fiona, we're

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Speaker 1: all here. We jetted away to Nasa, Bahamas. We are

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Speaker 1: here at the gorgeous Baja Mar Ocean Front Resort. It

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Speaker 1: is gorge We are having the best time and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna record this mother daughter chat straight from the studio

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Speaker 1: at Baja Mar. So cool that they have a podcast

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Speaker 1: studio here. We're bringing you with us. So close your eyes,

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Speaker 1: you guys, imagine the ocean breeze and escape for a

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Speaker 1: little bit with me and my girls. Hi, ladies, is

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Speaker 1: so fun to have you all in one room with me.

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Speaker 1: Your the door shut, you can't get out him. They're

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Speaker 1: all smiling at me. There's a lot of teeth in

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Speaker 1: this room between the four of us and Easton. We're here.

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Speaker 1: How are you how you like in the Bahamas?

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Speaker 2: It's amazing, so nice.

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Speaker 1: You just flew in, Luca and Lola. Luca and Fiona

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Speaker 1: just flew in this morning the Red Eye, and we

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Speaker 1: flew in at night, so we had no idea where

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Speaker 1: we were to let the sun came up. But it's

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Speaker 1: so pretty here. What do you guys? What do you

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Speaker 1: what have you been up to while have been in

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Speaker 1: here working?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think the most beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Part was flying in over that crystal ocean, blue water.

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Speaker 3: It's so stunning.

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Speaker 4: You could really see all the way to the bottom.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys see any sharks in there? Because I

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Speaker 1: bet there's.

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Speaker 2: Looking saw a sea turtle on the.

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Speaker 1: Beach, Yeah, you see the turtles.

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Speaker 2: There was one on the apparently there was one on

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Speaker 1: What do you mean apparently apparently.

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Speaker 2: Some people saying that there's sea turtles And then I

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Speaker 2: looked up and then I laid back down. She didn't

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Speaker 4: The enclosure though, right with like turtles, Yeah, they.

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Speaker 2: Have tortoises and flamingos. You've touched a flamingo.

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Speaker 1: Basically cuddled a flamingo just like an hour ago. And

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Speaker 1: it was really quiet. It was very it's a very

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Speaker 1: quiet experience. A flamingo. If you were ever wondering on

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Speaker 1: one leg? Yes, it was. Yeah, why did it do that?

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Speaker 1: Why does a flamingo stand on one leg? I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was awake. I'm pretty sure, is it? Do you

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Speaker 1: think it's I think it's pretty common that family's vacation together.

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Speaker 1: Like even though Luca you live in New York, Fiona

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Speaker 1: you're away at college, Lola you are busy living with

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Speaker 1: me and running a business, but we always come together

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Speaker 1: for our basically definitely one summer get away and try

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Speaker 1: to do a winter getaway too. Yeah, isn't that's pretty common?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it is common. But every now

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Speaker 2: and then you'll meet someone who's like, you go on

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Speaker 2: vacation with your family, Like they don't get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But a lot of my personal friends, like they all

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Speaker 2: vacation with their family. Still.

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Speaker 3: I think it's about prioritizing each other and we just

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Speaker 3: all really like hanging out with each other. So it's like,

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Speaker 3: we want to go on vacation together, and that's such

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Speaker 3: a beautiful thing. That's something we look forward to and

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Speaker 3: enjoy doing together and sharing experiences and memories.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have so many great memories from

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Speaker 1: our escapades. Wait, Fiona, you actually thinking about priorities. You

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Speaker 1: could be on spring break right now with all your

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Speaker 1: college friends. Instead, you chose to come on a trip

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Speaker 4: No, I'd rather be here. I feel like what.

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Speaker 1: Says no college kid? Ever? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know. It's more relaxing, and

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Speaker 4: I like being about my family.

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Speaker 2: I know, and you have pretty colol sisters, and I

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm here. Yeah, cool, Mom?

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Speaker 2: How about that? Is that a vacation with your family

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Speaker 2: when you're younger?

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Speaker 1: No, we never went on vacations.

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Speaker 3: We went in a camper, not on RV, a camper

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Speaker 3: on my dad's pickup truck.

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Speaker 1: We drove it to the the Pike's Peak you ever

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Speaker 2: It's not the Bahamas, not the worst, not the Bahamas.

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Speaker 2: It feels like Grand Canyon.

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Speaker 1: It's like in the middle of the country, somewhere the

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Speaker 1: Pike's Peak is there the because you know I like

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Speaker 1: to put the front of the is the Pike's Peak.

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Speaker 1: It's in Colorado. Okay, Yeah, so apparently I don't remember it.

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Speaker 1: I was literally a baby in a sling. They my

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Speaker 1: mom and dad put like a sling in the between

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Speaker 1: them in the front of the pickup trunk. So there

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Speaker 1: was my dad driving and my mom as a passenger,

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Speaker 1: and there was a sling made out of like fabric,

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Speaker 1: and that's where I was so key.

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Speaker 4: It's really cute.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do have pictures and it makes me

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Speaker 1: happy when I see them. My dad carried me in

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Speaker 1: his little backpack hiking and stuff. So that's the kind

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Speaker 1: of vacations we did. We've never got to fly anywhere

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Speaker 1: or go anywhere. We're so blessed to have had the

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Speaker 1: ability and the opportunity to travel so much, even when

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Speaker 1: you girls were younger. Wait, can we just talk about

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Speaker 1: now that I have all of your tension weddings, because

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I think you're what. No, you

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Speaker 1: tell me what your ideal wedding place, environment, situation would be,

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Speaker 1: and I'll and then I'll tell you what I've always

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Speaker 1: thought for you. Okay, Luca, when you go first, since

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Speaker 1: you thought for I don't want to like sway you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I will, Luca. You're on a beach, undoubtedly.

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Speaker 2: Yes, very cash. Nobody's wearing shoes.

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Speaker 3: Nope, it's giving my fifth birthday on the beach.

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Speaker 2: When my dad was wearing like a lou Oscart.

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Speaker 1: We can hire who dancers yeah yeah yeah, shell yeah,

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Speaker 1: bring a dish. So we're we're in alignment as far

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Speaker 1: as what I always thought for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Lola, I know Lola's too well. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: tell you what I want to do, because you both

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Speaker 2: have super overrojecting. I want to have a ranch wedding

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Speaker 2: with kind of like how you got married to Dave,

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Speaker 2: where it was very like d I y, only your

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Speaker 2: close family and friends and a helicopter. Yeah, minus the helicopter,

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Speaker 2: and it's just like on a ranch, very sweet outside

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Speaker 1: I love that for you. Not what I pictured, not

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Speaker 1: at all what I pictured. It may change. I told

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Speaker 1: you before, I always thought you would have a winter

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Speaker 1: wedding and you would be in snow, nature beautiful, just

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Speaker 1: pristine snow, and you would be wearing a garnet red dress.

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Speaker 1: That's always what I thought.

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Speaker 2: You told me.

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Speaker 1: You garnet anything anymore, you can wear whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: That's I love that for you.

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Speaker 3: Maybe next wedding when they hear about.

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Speaker 1: I want to do that, I need to do that, Fiona,

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Speaker 1: all right, I think mine would be in like Italy.

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Speaker 4: What no, I'm saying, like lake Como with somewhere the

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Speaker 4: lake underneath. But then like, really, I have a bunch

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Speaker 4: of finer sports about this.

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Speaker 1: Actually, oh my god, you have Fiona and Lola have

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Speaker 1: pinters sports about their wedding.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a pincher's account.

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Speaker 1: I love. Wait, okay, so you'd be in lake Como.

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Speaker 1: I see that. Wait do you see me getting Can

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Speaker 1: you come in the wedding?

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Speaker 2: Will be your bridesmaid? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Obviously, But we were just talking about this.

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Speaker 2: My friends and I about how maid of honor.

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Speaker 4: The maid of honor is the issue because I can

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Speaker 4: have multiple bride days, but you have to pick one

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Speaker 4: made of honors. So I'm honestly just gonna make like

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Speaker 4: all my made of honor.

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Speaker 2: That's cute, isn't that fun? You actually have to pick one?

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Speaker 1: Wait, no, I can't do that because one of you

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Speaker 1: you can give honors.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you can kind of be whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: Now we are planning in detail right now.

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Speaker 1: Let's get real for a second. Okay, I mean not

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Speaker 1: that you know, wedding talk isn't real, but nobody's getting

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Speaker 1: married right now. Okay, just saying that. Wait, no, it's

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Speaker 1: you know whatever you guys want, of course, but you know,

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Speaker 1: take your time because I didn't. Right, Okay, good with

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Speaker 1: some hindsight, now that you guys are almost all in

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Speaker 1: your twenties, you're almost there, You're about to be no

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Speaker 1: in your twenties, ish, what are some things that when

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Speaker 1: maybe even by my mistakes in life, things that I've

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Speaker 1: taught you Because you guys, I've always been really open

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Speaker 1: with all of you. You've been with me every step

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Speaker 1: of my journey. I've kind of grown up right along

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Speaker 1: I think I've done that pretty well. But at the

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Speaker 1: winging it. I had no idea what I was doing

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Speaker 1: you say, like has stuck with you that you've learned

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Speaker 2: I think that we kind of got to grow up together,

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Speaker 2: which was really special. Like I look back at we

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Speaker 2: love watching family videos and looking back at our photo albums.

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Speaker 2: And you were a baby when you had Luca. So

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Speaker 2: it's so interesting to watch you go from somebody who's

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Speaker 2: like almost me and Fiona's age to who you are

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Speaker 2: now and see you raising people the same age that

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Speaker 2: you had your babies. We really did grow up together.

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Speaker 1: It's wild. I was so young when Luca was born,

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Speaker 1: twenty three ish, I think, wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think from what I witnessed because I was the first,

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Speaker 3: is how it shifts your priorities. And I feel like

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Speaker 3: I feel so grateful because your whole focus with me

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Speaker 3: when you had me, and like that was a blessing

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Speaker 3: that you were able to give me so much energy

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Speaker 3: even though you were working full time and like working

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Speaker 3: late night shoots and all that. But it really just

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Speaker 3: I think, and we've talked about this, like gave you

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Speaker 3: a lot of like inherent purpose and you are such

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Speaker 3: an amazing mom. I think you always wanted to be

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Speaker 3: a mom, like when you were playing with your teddy

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Speaker 3: bear and like taking care of You were always a caretaker.

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Speaker 3: So I think sometimes people's purpose and passion can also

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Speaker 3: be like a family. That's not like it doesn't have

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Speaker 3: to always be career, even though you're so amazing and

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Speaker 3: successful and driven, but it can also be your family.

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Speaker 1: It can be both things at once. Yeah, That's one

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Speaker 1: of the things that I've been so like happy to

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Speaker 1: can have all the things at once, and you have

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Speaker 1: everything within you to be able to juggle all of

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Speaker 1: pick oh I'm just a mom or oh I'm just

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Speaker 1: a career woman. You can do it all. And we're

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Speaker 4: I remember you remember when I used to get mad

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Speaker 4: Like, no, if you don't ever let someone like not

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Speaker 3: I think we went in order, and I think the

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Speaker 2: It's interesting when you were wisdom and Mola's courage, you're wisdom,

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Speaker 1: Those are all You're very wise, right you because you

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Speaker 4: But also like you have courage too. It's like about unlocking,

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Speaker 1: Within you. Yeah, each of those things. And it's so

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Speaker 4: I think, which is you had one word, what would

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Speaker 1: Th good question? One word? You tell me what would

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Speaker 3: I'd like to say love or love because I think

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Speaker 1: And I work and work at love too, which is

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Speaker 4: I said resilience because I feel like you've grown a

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Speaker 3: I feel, Yeah, I think a lot of people think

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Speaker 4: It's your first time living too. Have you ever seen

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Speaker 1: Right, You don't think about that of your parents though,

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Speaker 3: Well, even having Memi Anna in the helm, which is

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Speaker 1: How's that been for each of you? As you now

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Speaker 1: I know you. I don't want you to ever take

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Speaker 2: Our throughmate. It's definitely there's a lot of feelings. There's

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Speaker 2: And it's sad, it's scary, it's it's a lot of things,

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Speaker 1: It's definitely different. I remember when you sort of like

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Speaker 1: But it's been, you know, it's been, it's been. It's

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Speaker 1: I don't want to just lump you together as a

438
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 1: bunch of my kids, you know, like you're so much

439
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: more than that to me.

440
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 3: What resources do you feel like you had, because I

441
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 3: remember you used to like read books about go to

442
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 3: classes and class I don't know, did you go to

443
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: any like mommy classes matter.

444
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: Like no, no, you.

445
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 4: Know, even Dad didn't go to any like classes.

446
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: No.

447
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: I never I never even talked to other moms about

448
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: what it was like to be a mom. I just

449
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 1: was like making it up as I went the whole time,

450
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: winging it, pretending fake it till you make it.

451
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 4: And you did a really good job. Just look at

452
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 4: all of us. I feel like we're all really smart.

453
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: And you're all very smart, smart girls.

454
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 2: That's actually really interesting because you were the youngest, so

455
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: I feel like, as the middle I have a lot

456
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 2: of practice taking care of Fiona, and like I had

457
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 2: a lot of my maternal instincts come from being a

458
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 2: big sister Fiona. So the fact that you were the

459
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 2: youngest sibling and that you were, honestly from the jump

460
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 2: like such an attentive mom to Luca is really it

461
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: must have been passed down from MEMI yeah, all the

462
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: animals that you had, I'm sure.

463
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: No, I think it's just kind of in my genes,

464
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: Like in my upbringing from the Midwest, like family was

465
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: always so important to me, it was the only thing

466
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: I knew because, like I said, we didn't travel places.

467
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: We didn't you know, we didn't go off our farm

468
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 1: very much, to be honest. Yeah, So it just like

469
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: inside me that thank God, just sort of naturally takes over,

470
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: whether it's with my doggies, you know, I'm obselves with

471
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: them or with my children. Like it's just like and

472
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: also what you said earlier, like that ability to step

473
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: out of this world of like self scrutiny and self

474
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: drive and the constant you know, attention that one pays

475
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 1: to themselves when they're young, or one pays to themselves

476
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: when they're in the industry that I'm in. I was

477
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: so happy to have the like safe space where I

478
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: felt really confident as a mom, Like just I knew

479
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 1: that this was what I was supposed to do, be

480
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 1: your mommy, and like it knew it was. I was

481
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: good at it, Like there was there have been times

482
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: when I've definitely questioned, like, oh no, how am I

483
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: messing them up today? Or who's going to be in

484
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: therapy over me when? But all those things, but like

485
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: mostly I've always felt like this was my calling, was

486
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: to be the mother of all of you more than anything.

487
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: And I think having that, the ability to have the

488
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: opportunity to be a mom, has helped me not be

489
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: so self focused, so selfish, so wrapped up in everything

490
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: as an individual, but more about like our family and

491
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: each of you individually. Like the fact that I have

492
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: within me the capacity to mother each of you individually

493
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: per your specific needs and just where you are in

494
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: your lives blows my mind.

495
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, it's not exhausting. Yeah, I'm very impressed.

496
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a lot more exhausting when I was younger,

497
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: because it was like just throwing everything up in the

498
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: air and hoping everything landed right. But I'm most proud,

499
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: obviously of being your mom, and most proud of how

500
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: you girls have turned out and are turning out and

501
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: will continue to grow, you know, y.

502
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: And I actually have a question for you because you've

503
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 2: just started your first semester at college and it's your

504
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 2: first time being out of the house and I'm curious.

505
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: Mom just called it kind of like our space, safe space,

506
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: and we called our bird's nest, Like, how are you

507
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 2: feeling being out in the world without Mommy?

508
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 4: It's definitely weird. Even though I go to college kind

509
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 4: of close comparatively to all my friends who moved, you know, farther.

510
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 4: I feel like it still feels weird when I go home,

511
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 4: Like my room doesn't feel like my room anyway.

512
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: You kind of like, really, but it's okay.

513
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 4: I just kind of feel like on my own, but

514
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 4: I can do It's really weird. That sense of independence

515
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 4: you get, like creating your own schedule and doing what

516
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 4: you want for the first time is so fun, and

517
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 4: I feel like, I don't know, first semester, I was

518
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 4: kind of in between, like I was going home a

519
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 4: lot more because I feel like it was kind of

520
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 4: hard for me to adjust since I love being home

521
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 4: with you guys. But after that, I kind of feel

522
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 4: like the independence and like the fact that I could

523
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 4: do my own things and like make my own schedule

524
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 4: really kind of motivated me to, yeah, start my life.

525
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: I was wondering because I am such an independent woman

526
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: and always have been since I was a young person.

527
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: You are each very independent. I was wondering, like, how

528
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: have I have I given you your independence? As you've

529
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: left the nest. I know, I feel like I really

530
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: have for you, Luca, because I mean, you moved across

531
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: the country, so you kind of made it hard for

532
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: me to be too involved.

533
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: Yes, and I feel like I don't know.

534
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: There's just moments where like I remember you were like

535
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: you have to, you know, find your own apartment, and

536
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 3: then like when I found it, you were like crying.

537
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: It's like a little give and take. Here's the story

538
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 3: with that easy to want someone to help somebody be independent.

539
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: I didn't want you to find your own apartment. First

540
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: of all, it was a group effort being told to

541
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: me that that was what you needed to do development right,

542
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,719
Speaker 1: But then you found an apartment on a busy street

543
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: in North Hollywood, which is not safe. There was no security,

544
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: no underground parking. There was a key that opened the

545
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: actual like metal key.

546
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 3: You had loved it, and that was such an experience,

547
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 3: Like that was such a chapter for me because like

548
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 3: I needed that.

549
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: The girl, you know, terrified was terrifying.

550
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 4: I remember I came over one time and I was

551
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 4: really scared of like, oh my god, you're building. Also,

552
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 4: the living room wall had the.

553
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 2: Refrigerator. Oh yeah, what was in your refrigerator?

554
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't have a lot of storage and I

555
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 3: didn't cook, so I just kept my shoes and my refrigerator.

556
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: But then my shoes would be cold. That was not

557
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,479
Speaker 2: very that's really weird.

558
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 3: But I've lived in a lot of weird places, Like

559
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 3: I feel like I've like lived with random movements, like

560
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: that's just part of being young, and like you got away.

561
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: With a lot.

562
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 3: You got to backpack, yeah, across Europe and stay in

563
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: hostels like I'm just that's my expression of independence. It

564
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 3: looks differently on each of you, which is awesome doing this,

565
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 3: but I like like that kind of stuff.

566
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: You think. You guys probably think that Fiona gets away

567
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: with a lot because she's the baby and I've gotten

568
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: more relax which is true and it's a different time

569
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: and world. But I feel like you got away with

570
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: a lot because I was busy with them and still

571
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: treading water, and then you were gone and I was like, okay,

572
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: well when worried about her, she was gone. Yeah, she

573
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: was just gone.

574
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and they've always come back comes back.

575
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: Wait. I was always just like so uneasy with you

576
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: out on your own, but knowing that I had to

577
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: let you do you well that way.

578
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 4: Like yeah, I do feel like you've kind of really really.

579
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: Too much too much, Like you're like you always are,

580
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: Like why are you all of a sudden, what do

581
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: you wait?

582
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 4: No, I've really it's fun.

583
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: Then I noticed what.

584
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, we haven't talked to her in like two days,

585
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 4: and then I'm like, wait, I have to call her

586
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 4: right now. But I think you've done a really good

587
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 4: job with letting me kind of feel like, I like

588
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 4: not pressured. I know a lot of kids when they

589
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 4: get to college, their parents are like, you know, sending

590
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 4: them gift bags every single day, and they're like freaking

591
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 4: out when they go do whatever. So I don't know,

592
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 4: I appreciate it.

593
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: Actually, Yeah, I set up your room and then I

594
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: was out.

595
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I really appreciate you helping me do that.

596
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: No love what about you? Because we live together, I feel.

597
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 2: Like it's a little different and we work together, are

598
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: with each other pretty much twenty four seven, and we

599
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 2: choose to be. Yeah, but it feels like a choice.

600
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: I think that I I did have the going to

601
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: college experience, and we got to Luca and that was

602
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: very special and I'm really glad that I got to

603
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: experience that. But I just feel like now I'm trying

604
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: to balance so much more than just my own independence,

605
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: Like I have so much more on my plate. The

606
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 2: business and everything. So I feel like, yeah, that's a

607
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: little more. Yeah, I need the nets a little bit more.

608
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: Do you feel that you have the independence things?

609
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I need my alone time. I

610
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: like I need to My social battery is very small,

611
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,239
Speaker 2: and when I go and spend it all, I need

612
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: to have my alone time. So I do feel like

613
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: I enjoy being alone. I love my independence, but I

614
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: do love being around my family.

615
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: It's so weird because I always struggled with like, because

616
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: my mom loved me in my mind young woman mind,

617
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: too much, and I was always afraid that I was

618
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: being given more love than my sisters. And so I've

619
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: always been very like, I've always been cognizant of giving

620
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: you each individual amounts of love and sometimes like my

621
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: instinct is to pull back enough to like see what

622
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: you need instead of me just smothering you and with it,

623
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: especially as you've gotten older. Yeah, you used to know

624
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: you had no choice. I was likes seeing you everywhere

625
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: all the time. But now it's it's it's like it's

626
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: shifted gears. It's really interesting.

627
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: Well, this era for you.

628
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 3: Is a little different than full on coat like parenting.

629
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 3: Like parenting, it's more career focus, which for me is

630
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: super inspiring because I feel like you never had that

631
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 3: in my lifetime, like fully diving in and following your passions.

632
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 3: I don't know, you were obviously working full time when

633
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 3: I was younger, but you were your priority was still home,

634
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 3: and it's been really empowering to watch you like take

635
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 3: more career risks and like jump.

636
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, Yeah, I really do.

637
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: I love that you guys recognize that. And it's yeah,

638
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: the first time in my life where I've been yet

639
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: even though you were, you know, independent and doing your thing,

640
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: I was still consumed with are they okay? And what?

641
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: You know? You just still and until you went to college,

642
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 1: like I had something to focus on so imminent, and

643
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: then when you left, it was like, okay, what's next?

644
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think that's what a lot of parents

645
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 3: struggle with, is that empty nest syndrome, And like, I

646
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 3: feel like you didn't really have time to do that

647
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 3: because you just jumped right into a really big project

648
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 3: and undertaking in the business of I Choose Me with Lola,

649
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 3: and that's been really.

650
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: Cool to watch. Yeah, you said the word empty nesters,

651
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: and that's kind of triggering for me because we don't

652
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: have an empty nest. I know, you guys, this was

653
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: the thing when Dave and I got married and he

654
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: took on the role of stepfather to three girls who

655
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: had a father. And you know he loves you, guys.

656
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: He would do anything for you, Dave, step Dave. But

657
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 1: he's been waiting, he's been waiting for that empty nest,

658
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: which I've always like, you know, someday you'll get all

659
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: of my attention. I promised it's coming. They'll all, they all,

660
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: they won't need me, and they'll be on their own

661
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: and we'll just kind of check in and out with them.

662
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 1: We can travel, we can do whatever. The minute Fiona

663
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: left for college in came meet me and Dottie and

664
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:37,760
Speaker 1: the baby Doggie. So I feel really bad for Dave. Actually,

665
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: he doesn't have an empty nest, and he really really

666
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: wanted it. He wants it. I don't know how that's

667
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: gonna work out for him, though. Monday time, Monday at

668
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: a time. My mom's grandfather, my great grandfather, lived to

669
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: be one hundred and one.

670
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 2: Oh great gems, that's good, great.

671
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's good, but that means I will never

672
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: have an empty nest. But I don't know when you.

673
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: And they find the time you shay on weekend. Yeah,

674
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 2: you have to make the choice.

675
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 1: Choose me. We have to choose, we choose we Yep.

676
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes I think that it's really been interesting to like

677
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: with you, especially Luca as the oldest, the adult, the

678
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:32,280
Speaker 1: big one is the oldest one. It's been really interesting.

679
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 1: It's been harder for me to step back, I think

680
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: in the momming department, because you're the first one that

681
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: I've had to really let go of and not you

682
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I'm learning from our relationship

683
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: how to be that for your sisters when they're at

684
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 1: that point. Has there been a point when it's been

685
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: when you've been like you need a step.

686
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 3: Back, mom, Not in those words, Obviously, I love and

687
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 3: appreciate all of your advice and wanting to participate in

688
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: all my life. And I feel like career was always

689
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: something where I was trying out different things and you

690
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 3: were like, I wish I could help you. But I

691
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 3: kind of got lucky. I didn't really have this moment

692
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 3: of like what's it called early twenties where you're like.

693
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: Trying things out, Like I feel like, you know, there's

694
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 2: like a word for it. Not that. No, it's like

695
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 2: a type of roughing it chapter in your life.

696
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 3: I feel like it's like being in your twenties and

697
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: not having like any really responsibility other than figuring it out,

698
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 3: which I feel like there's a lot of shows that

699
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 3: are about that now, which like girls like where you're

700
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 3: like figuring out what you're going to become. So I

701
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 3: definitely feel like I had that, and.

702
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah I wasn't.

703
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 3: I wasn't maybe as like inclusive of it with you

704
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 3: because being together was more of like family time.

705
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: You're so so independent and then you just let me know,

706
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: like what was happening in your personal life and let

707
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: me know what is happening in your career life. I

708
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: think that's mentor in normal because it's crazy because being

709
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: from my background, I didn't ever have the experiences that

710
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: you're all having having. I've never had any of the

711
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: experiences that any of you have had because of just

712
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 1: the like growing up in show business and being famous

713
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: at such a young age, which brings me to a

714
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 1: question of, like I know that people probably wonder what

715
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: is it like for you each to have a famous

716
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: mom and a famous dad, like parents that are in

717
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: the industry, like that's probably a really loaded question.

718
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: I kind of we've talked about it.

719
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,439
Speaker 5: I feel like we hate this question because you hate

720
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 5: this question because like it's you or you, like we

721
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 5: don't see you as a famous person.

722
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,399
Speaker 2: You're just like our mom. I feel like I agree with.

723
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 4: That one hundred. But I do remember like the kind

724
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 4: of age or around where I've figured out kind of

725
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 4: what your job was.

726
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: Because how old were you?

727
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 4: I don't know I was. I don't remember the exact

728
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 4: age was like seven or eight or something, so when

729
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 4: you were stretting out the catwalk, Yeah, but no, I

730
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 4: kind of just like thought it was super cool. And

731
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 4: I remember like the paparazzi I used to post for them, and.

732
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: I think it was oh my god. Yeah, wait, that

733
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: reminds me of it. Used to get so excited when

734
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: the pop It was like a.

735
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: Fun like where's that? What's that game? Where's Waldo? Felt

736
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 2: like where's Waldo? They'd be like in the bush, Dad,

737
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 2: they're over there, Mom, they're over there. Wait, this is true.

738
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 3: I had a nightmare about pop parazzi chasing all of us,

739
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 3: but we were younger. But I had a nightmare recently,

740
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 3: maybe like three weeks ago, So as an adultalment kind

741
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: of traumatizing in a way where it's just like random following.

742
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: You and your mom family.

743
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 3: But my like sweet, vulnerable young mom picked me up

744
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 3: from school and there's like six men descending upon her

745
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 3: like it was not.

746
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: So it's weird, you guys, I think I see it

747
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: more like reflected in you, probably the most, because you

748
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: were in like weaver, I was inn that was back

749
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: in those days when it was bananas, and I feel

750
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: like it put a certain like maybe like a guard

751
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: up for you, or maybe just a fear inside of you,

752
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: a little bit of like I don't know what, I

753
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: don't really know how to define it. I know for Lola,

754
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 1: I've always felt like she was always very like who

755
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 1: are you and what do you want from my mother?

756
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: Very protective.

757
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 2: You are very protective mom. Specifically, I feel like in

758
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 2: a weird way, it's made me work harder to always

759
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: present myself in the best way and be kind to

760
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: everyone around me, just because we were watched when we

761
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 2: were younger. So I feel like now I'm able to

762
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: be more cognizant of how I can lead with kindness

763
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 2: and like shed light onto people. That's so sweet, You're

764
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 2: so cute.

765
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: Did you ever have that like that pressure though? Do

766
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: you think you carry that around the pressure of representing,

767
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 1: you know, whatever, our family, the brands, the whatever, our business,

768
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: you know, our business. Luca is avoiding this question.

769
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking honest, I don't really feel out.

770
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, always as a family, I want to

771
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 4: represent the best I can and you and you know.

772
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 4: But I feel like growing up in La a lot

773
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 4: of my friends also had families that, you know, we're

774
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 4: in the public eye, so I feel like it was

775
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 4: kind of it was a weird thing that was like

776
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 4: normalized for I feel like me in high school. But

777
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 4: I do feel like I've always tried to be my

778
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 4: best self so that.

779
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't think it's exclusive to like famous families or

780
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 3: families in the Hollywood industry. I think it's like all families,

781
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 3: like Mulan wants to bring honor to her family, Like

782
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 3: I think you always want to represent your loved ones

783
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 3: and like to carry the torch, and you have a

784
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 3: very bright torch to carry.

785
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 2: I feel like the weirdest part isn't even the famous aspect.

786
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: It's more about like watching you work, like when you

787
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: have to do something or do yeah, you just turn

788
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 2: it on, and I feel like that is like some

789
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 2: sort of superpower or something. And I love watching that,

790
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 2: Like that feels empowering. That is like then I'm like,

791
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is like a famous powerful person

792
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 2: because of how you're able to just like carry yourself

793
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 2: and do panels and your inspiring and I love watching.

794
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 2: I love watching how loved you are.

795
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 3: I feel like you hold from nine or two on

796
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 3: specifically such a place in people's memory and childhood. They

797
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 3: grew up with you, they feel such a like love

798
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 3: for you, and I get to like experience that love too,

799
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 3: like it extends onto everyone around you, and that's such

800
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 3: a beautiful, warm feeling. And I feel like we really

801
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 3: got to experience that at the live event last year,

802
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 3: and that was such a celebration of like fandom meets

803
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 3: like respect.

804
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have some really just like loyal, beautiful fans.

805
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: You guys have like an army of people probably out

806
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: there that would protect you whenever you need it. I

807
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: can name a few, but I won't. But you know, I.

808
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 3: Feel like we have personal relationships with some people too

809
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 3: that like got to know you through your work and

810
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,479
Speaker 3: just follow and support you and That's what it really is.

811
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 3: Is like being a fan is like loving something and

812
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 3: supporting it.

813
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: It's in a weird way. It's like the people I

814
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: went to school with, Like if I went to high

815
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: regular high school and went to you know, had friends

816
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: from high school. That's kind of what my fan base

817
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 1: is now because we grew up together. Yeah, and we

818
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: you know, we're just in that we've been in it together.

819
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 4: That's an interesting the correlation. I never thought about that

820
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 4: because you never had like a high school. I mean

821
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 4: maybe high.

822
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: School, but like, no, no, really, I left when I

823
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: was a sophomore.

824
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 2: She tested out.

825
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

826
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, And obviously we're so grateful for all the amazing

827
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 3: experiences your work has gotten to give us, Like being

828
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 3: here such a fun experience. Getting to like record and

829
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 3: sit in bomb right now is so fun. Like it

830
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 3: definitely brings a lot of amazing opportunities and experiences.

831
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I have a question, then, have you ever felt guilty?

832
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: Have you ever felt any guilt from growing up obviously

833
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: in a position of privilege or in a position of

834
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: you know, just being born into a very you know,

835
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: unique situation. Have you ever felt guilty or embarrassed by it?

836
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: Or I wouldn't say guilty.

837
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 4: I feel like we're very I feel like we're all

838
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 4: very grateful, so like I feel like the guilt kind

839
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 4: of just transfers into like gratitude for us. And I

840
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 4: feel like as long as we're thinking of it with

841
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 4: like a grateful and open mindset like that, it doesn't

842
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 4: really feel like I don't know, you know, I feel

843
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 4: like everyone kind of puts gets put into like life

844
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 4: that they're meant to live. I don't know I'm getting

845
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 4: into like the universe.

846
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: Who yeah, I like no, But I don't know.

847
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 4: I feel like everyone has their own experiences, and I

848
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 4: don't think that being guilty is like benefits anyone. I

849
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 4: don't know.

850
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: I feel like that goes back to how you raised us,

851
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 2: like we're you raised us very humble. You never took

852
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 2: us to the fanciest of restaurants. You We were watching

853
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: a home video the other day and we were playing

854
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,280
Speaker 2: on the water slide in our front, ye front lawne.

855
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 2: That was funny.

856
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: It was funny. We were like we were the famous man,

857
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: like the family with the picket fence, like the big

858
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: house on the corner, and your parents were both really

859
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: at the height of they think their fame at that moment.

860
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: But and we had a slip inside up in the

861
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 1: front yard for the world to see.

862
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 4: And didn't Dad used to do like snow machines on

863
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 4: the block too, He did, he did.

864
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: He put up spiders, light shows, machine loves know the

865
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: neighbors had a snow machine for Christmas. Yeah they know.

866
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: Actually they brought in fake snow from somewhere snow was

867
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,280
Speaker 1: And you guys.

868
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 4: Played Jonas brothers that lived next door.

869
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't Joe Bros. It was. It was It was

870
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: Jennifer of Hewitt's house, but brought it into snow.

871
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely like weird elements to childhood, like brothers next time.

872
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 4: What I mean, I don't know.

873
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 3: But again, like a little said, it was just so

874
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 3: safe and sweet and normal and you really protected, like

875
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: our little bubble.

876
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: I remember the Joe Bros. Being next to next door

877
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: because they all three lived in the house. Even though

878
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: I think some of them were.

879
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 2: Adults, they were teenager.

880
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: We would sit in the top bedroom, the playroom, whatever

881
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: that room was. I was with you. We were all

882
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: standing in the wind like, Oh, they're coming out of

883
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: their house. Where are they going?

884
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 2: What are they doing?

885
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: Like we were like, oh, they're playing basketball, but we had.

886
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 2: Some pretty good lemonade stance with a very star sudded.

887
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. And Hillary Duff was next door the other way.

888
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it was fun.

889
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: It was fun. But you're you're right, not it's not normal,

890
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: very unusual. I don't.

891
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 4: I feel like I agree with that they're saying, though

892
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 4: I didn't really realize it wasn't normal because it felt

893
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 4: so like normal to.

894
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 2: Us, and you made it normal. Like we had the

895
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: ranch that we grew up on and we would go

896
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 2: there during the weekends and be completely private from any

897
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 2: nonsense of la. We really tried hard to make it private.

898
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean when I look at you all and

899
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: I think of where I was born in the different

900
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 1: upbringing that I had in the Midwest, on a farm

901
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: out in the middle of nowhere, no nothing, no magazines,

902
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: no internet, no nothing, and now here you are, all

903
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: three of you, born and raised in Los Angeles, the

904
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: biggest craziest aside from New York where you live, Luka,

905
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: but the biggest craziest city, full of really great people

906
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: and really whackado people. Like I'm just like amazed because

907
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: I know that for me, I didn't really ever like

908
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: think about it, Oh my god, I'm raising these girls

909
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 1: in LA and Hollywood, and how do I keep them grounded?

910
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: I just kind of was, I like sunk my teeth

911
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: in and dug my feet in and did what I

912
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: knew how to do, which was like, let's grow a

913
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: garden together, let's you know, the play with the animals,

914
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: like try to keep you as normal as I was

915
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: and as I still feel like I am. And I

916
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: can't wait for you to all have grandkids. But I

917
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 1: was just like marveling the other day at like, yeah,

918
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: you were born in Los Angeles. That comes with its

919
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 1: own stigma. You're LA girls, but you don't feel like it.

920
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't think so. I don't think you really

921
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 1: act like it. And I've never ever seen any of

922
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:13,720
Speaker 1: you act entitled like I went like this in my flinched.

923
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 2: I felt sorry. I couldn't.

924
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: I can't lie, I know that. But yeah, it's okay.

925
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: You've worked your way through a lot of we've all

926
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: done a great job working your ways through figuring out

927
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: who you are aside from your parents, aside from being

928
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: l A born and bred from this like world that

929
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: you've grown up in. But it's just so so wild.

930
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: How it's so different than I mm hmm experience, like

931
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: pre Hollywood.

932
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 2: One of my favorite things is when when do you

933
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: nanty say, your sisters come over and they're like, are

934
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 2: embracing the la, Like we say that we're not LA,

935
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: but compare to other people are very LA. That's true,

936
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: and so it's my favorite thing to be around non

937
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 2: LA people that are your family. Does this kind of

938
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 2: shock them in a funny way of like how but.

939
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: Also it feels grounding right, like very much. This is

940
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: these are the people that I come from, these are

941
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 1: the people that my mom comes from. Like we're it's

942
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: alto the earthy kind of people. Like I feel like

943
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: I'm so happy that there's there's that element. And then

944
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: you guys have the wild, crazy Italian side, which is

945
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: also a gift. Yeah, and like a whole different energy,

946
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: but but having the best those both worlds come together

947
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: to make you who you are. But I feel like

948
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 1: that's why you're all so diverse, really truly like accepting

949
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: of all kinds of people, really self aware. I'm really

950
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 1: proud of all of you. We're proud of me. You

951
00:50:55,840 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: the best mom, Thanks fons I love you, guys, before

952
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: where I let you go, before I let you out

953
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 1: of this room and beautiful Baha Mar Studios, And we're

954
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: gonna just go. We're gonna go ham on this place

955
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 1: and straight to the beach, straight to the beach, getting

956
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: in the command that you guys do what you do.

957
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read. Okay, So let's start with Luca, Luca Bella, Fachinelle.

958
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: I like to say, Luca Bella, Garth Fachionelle, what was

959
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: your last I choose me moment? Ooh, last night, this

960
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,839
Speaker 1: is your favorite thing to do, like play games like this.

961
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 3: Like yeah, last night, I flew out with Fiona a

962
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 3: little bit later than Mommy and Lola and David. But

963
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 3: so I had a couple hours by myself, basically because

964
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, my family's already in Pahamar, and

965
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 3: I was like waiting to have our adventure together. But

966
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 3: I had a little meat night and I just walked

967
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 3: on the beach before going to the airport and just

968
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 3: enjoyed the sunset by myself, which was so cute.

969
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 2: And there was other I was looking around.

970
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 3: There's just other people doing the same, like a woman

971
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 3: with her dog, a man running down the side. So

972
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 3: I was like, this is so nice that you can

973
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 3: just as an as a human take time for yourself

974
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,439
Speaker 3: and just like b it was really cool.

975
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 1: Soak it all in low Lowrey Garth for Chanelli, what

976
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 1: was your last I Choose me moment?

977
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So I have been working really hard to try

978
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 2: to work out every morning you have And normally when

979
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 2: I wake up, I like open my computer and I'm

980
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: just like in work mode. But recently I've been working

981
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 2: out and have like a slower me time focused morning

982
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 2: where I get to work out and like it's a

983
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 2: little bit more relaxed, and so I've been working out

984
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 2: a lot more. And I actually worked out this morning

985
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 2: at the gym Dave bahmar is changing Dave, I swear

986
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 2: it was awesome.

987
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 1: I love that, and I've noticed that by the way,

988
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: I've noticed you because you are a fierce you have

989
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: a fierce work ethic.

990
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 2: Yes, and I'm not a workout type of girl. I

991
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 2: don't like that kind of stuff, but I'm really trying.

992
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: You're taking good care of yourself, prioritizing yourself. I love

993
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 1: seeing it. I'm also jealous because I can't work out

994
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: with you right now because my but but we'll get there,

995
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: We'll get there. Fiona eve Garth Pinelli, what was your

996
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 1: last I Choose me moment?

997
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 4: Well, okay, every morning for the past I think it's

998
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 4: thirty six days because I have this book called The

999
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 4: Pivot Year.

1000
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 1: By my favorite author. Yes, shout out Brihanna Weiss. Yes,

1001
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 1: you love her so much. We all love you.

1002
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 4: So every morning there's kind of just like one page

1003
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 4: that you read and you kind of reflect on. I

1004
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 4: haven't missed today since the beginning of the year, which

1005
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 4: I think is wow.

1006
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 2: I've wanted to, like I've been.

1007
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 4: Like I'm too tired to get out of bed and

1008
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 4: like just read it, like go and annotate it. But like,

1009
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 4: whenever I do it, it's exactly what I need to hear.

1010
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's why I haven't stopped, because

1011
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 4: I feel like it's like aligned day by day. I

1012
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 4: feel like taking that time has really helped me just

1013
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 4: like figure out what I need to for the dice.

1014
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: So I love that.

1015
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 2: What about you, Jennifer eve Garth Abrams, what was your

1016
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 2: last I Choose me moment? Hm?

1017
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: This is really hard for me because when the questions

1018
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: turned back onto myself, I love I like to ask it.

1019
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: I like to help people discover their own I choose

1020
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: me moments. But when I think about my stuff, to

1021
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: think about, when was my last I choose me moment?

1022
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: Help me? Who do you guys know?

1023
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,439
Speaker 4: Well, I saw you all this morning on the bath.

1024
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 2: Yeah sometime I woke.

1025
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: Up this but yeah, yeah, I woke this morning. I

1026
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 1: was on my phone. I was just checking in with

1027
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: the world. But I took a bath last night. Yes,

1028
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: that was more out of need though. That wasn't like

1029
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 1: a lounge in this bathtime.

1030
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 2: I choose me moments usually, yeah, yeah.

1031
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: You love taking it. You know what was my last

1032
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: I choose me moment? Honestly? I came home from our

1033
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: photo shoot on Wednesday. It was really tired. We'd worked

1034
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: a long day, and I came in the door. I

1035
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:02,320
Speaker 1: didn't help me me. I didn't go dress Mimi's knees.

1036
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: I didn't go clean up the kitchen, look at dinner plans.

1037
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: I laid down on the couch, like I collapsed on

1038
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: the couch and I took Dottie, the puppy, and I

1039
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 1: laid her on my chest and I just enjoyed our heartbeats,

1040
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: like beating together. It was really soothing and comforting like

1041
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 1: only a doggie can do. Oh, that was it? Cute?

1042
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: I love you girls?

1043
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: Have one thing?

1044
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 1: What is it?

1045
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 3: Because we have two more days here in beautiful Baha, Mark,

1046
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 3: can we go rapid fire?

1047
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 2: What we're most excited about?

1048
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: What are you going to do? What's your We have

1049
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,959
Speaker 1: two days? Yes, don't tell anyone because then we won't

1050
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 1: have two days to ourselves.

1051
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 2: But I saw a convertible or a car jetski outside

1052
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 2: on the beach.

1053
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: It looks like a car is driving on the ocean.

1054
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: I saw that out the balcony.

1055
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 2: That okay, okay, I'm stoked for the go ball courts.

1056
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 3: Those look so fun and we're literally going to play.

1057
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 1: Do you think they can play pickle ball in my

1058
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: current situation?

1059
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 2: She could. I don't know what the word is.

1060
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 3: I'm not a pickleball connoisseur, but I just love being

1061
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 3: out in the courts.

1062
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: I love any activity, let's be.

1063
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 4: Honest, Okay, Fianna the jet ski comment, Yeah, the banana boats.

1064
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 2: We love a banana boat.

1065
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:26,919
Speaker 1: Oh.

1066
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 2: I saw like one of those jumpy little yes, so like.

1067
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 4: What about you.

1068
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: I'm excited to just lay and watch you guys have

1069
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: fun in the sun while I read a book. Yeah.

1070
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 3: I love you girls, us On, thank you, thank you,

1071
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 3: I heart, thank you.