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Speaker 1: Lisa Lampanelli is not a licensed therapist or life coach.

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Speaker 1: She is a meddling advice giving yana and know it all,

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Speaker 1: and her words come from her head, her heart, and

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Speaker 1: often out of her ass. This podcast should not be

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Speaker 1: misconstrued as therapy. I should be taking with a huge

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Speaker 1: grain of salt for entertainment purposes only.

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Speaker 2: These You need help, You're the problems.

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Speaker 3: Come on, come down, go lamb take a pill. I

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Speaker 3: think you're insane.

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Speaker 2: Do what I say, dumb ass, listen to me. You Hey, everybody,

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Speaker 2: welcome to this tiny mini episode of Shrink This with

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Speaker 2: Lisa Lambinelli. You know I almost said, Nick, I swear

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Speaker 2: to god, I almost said losely dream because that's how

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Speaker 2: we used to start our last much maligned podcast with

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Speaker 2: seven listeners.

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Speaker 3: It was fun. Are you saying this isn't fun?

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Speaker 4: I'm having fun here to you better? That was fun.

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Speaker 2: Where's your fucking bread buttered son? Yes, we are back

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Speaker 2: to revisit a former episode and have written, no, have

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Speaker 2: read some letters.

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Speaker 3: We've been reading. We had letters we ignore that. We're

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Speaker 3: gonna do them now whether you like it or not.

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Speaker 2: Damn, And I'm here with Nick Scopoli where can they

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Speaker 2: find you? Nobody cares? Nick scopes, Where can we find you?

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Speaker 3: Celia?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk for you, Celia Underscore Underscore Ramana, worst

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Speaker 2: fucking screen.

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Speaker 4: Name ever, Celia Underscore Underscore double backslash.

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Speaker 2: Period, exclamation point, Tilda, pulse check.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ob out yeah there she cried her sens.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna hugg you.

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Speaker 3: Oh she's gonna be so send.

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Speaker 2: All right, So we're going to do this week revisit

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Speaker 2: the episode called Racing to Nowhere and Beyond, which you

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Speaker 2: will remember, Nick, was the episode of people trying to

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Speaker 2: fill the desperate void within them with items of clothing,

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Speaker 2: items of oh, I don't know, things they're collecting.

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Speaker 3: Fiesta wear is one.

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Speaker 2: Of the things I remember that was weird degrees, maybe achievements,

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Speaker 2: anything that we take externally and tried to fill the

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Speaker 2: internal god.

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Speaker 3: Shaped toll with. We came to the conclusion after that

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Speaker 3: episode that.

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Speaker 2: Obviously it can't be filled with anything except self love.

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Speaker 2: But since we're not willing to do that, we have

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Speaker 2: letters from people who are unwilling to do the same.

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Speaker 2: So Nick read us some letters.

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Speaker 4: Dear Lisa, what, I'm the CEO of my own company?

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Speaker 2: Ah, he knows that. By the way, everybody says they're

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Speaker 2: a CEO of a company, it might be that they are, like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I sell my one brand of puffer jacket out of

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Speaker 2: my house, my candle making business in Verman.

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Speaker 3: I'm CEO. Yeah, but you have a fucking red, fucking

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Speaker 3: balanced bitch. You in the red. You not CEO. Shut

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Speaker 3: the fuck up.

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Speaker 2: I hate you.

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Speaker 3: No, no, okay, go ahead, guys.

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Speaker 4: This is my favorite denim skirt. Does that right now?

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Speaker 4: All right? I'm the CEO of my own company and

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Speaker 4: receive both my bachelor's and NBA from Harves. I've always

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Speaker 4: been a goal setter, and it's served myself and my family. Well,

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Speaker 4: I'm considering running for office.

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Speaker 3: Oh what a jack off.

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Speaker 4: But my wife thinks it's all ego. And then I

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Speaker 4: don't really want to be a public servant. I think

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Speaker 4: I should follow my gut as I always have. Do

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Speaker 4: you think I should run? Preston?

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Speaker 3: Okay, everything, Preston?

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Speaker 4: Fuck you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Everything about this guy like he doesn't mention. By the way, there,

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Speaker 2: the big ol' mission here to me is I want

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Speaker 2: to make the world a better place.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to help my community. I'd like to make

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Speaker 2: Like to help bypock folks and non binary folks and

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Speaker 2: trans people. He's saying, I want to do this, and

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Speaker 2: if anybody knows you, and I'll call you on your shit.

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Speaker 2: It's that clam of a blonde headed countable wife who

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Speaker 2: will say this is all your ego, mister crossfait. So

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Speaker 2: I think saying he's going with his gut, well, you

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Speaker 2: have to as a public officer, if.

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Speaker 3: You are correctly doing the fucking job, you have to.

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Speaker 2: Go with your heart, not your gut. So I would

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Speaker 2: say this guy lacks heart. He's a fucking spineless douchebag.

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Speaker 2: And I suggest he stays home and sells that one

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Speaker 4: What do you think, Nick, Yeah, dude, your name's Preston,

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Speaker 4: you went to Harvard, you're a CEO. Just cut it out.

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Speaker 4: You did it. Life's good, you did great, it's all right.

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Speaker 4: You got to run for office.

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Speaker 3: SI your.

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Speaker 2: Words things like that also pisses me off. It's very

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Speaker 2: like your friends and neighbors type fucking assholes that show

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Speaker 2: where It's like, it's what does it it served my family?

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Speaker 3: Well? Is the way I've just done?

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Speaker 4: You know, I've just done whatever I wanted to, and

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Speaker 4: it's always gone perfectly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate that.

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Speaker 4: Maybe maybe he runs and he gets a little fucking

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Speaker 4: do reality, or.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he actually has a lot wrong with him that

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Speaker 2: he's trying to cover up by all these achievements, Like

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Speaker 2: he probably pulls an ed Geans and gets on a

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Speaker 2: fucking stool in mom's underwears and yeah, and jerks off

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Speaker 2: with the fucking belt those public officials. I'm telling you,

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Speaker 2: if you did a cross section of guys who choke

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Speaker 4: It's got to be high. It's like every time a

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Speaker 4: bunch of Republicans get together, grinder crash in that city.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: And nothing's worse than being gayads horrible.

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Speaker 3: I mean, strangle yourself for abel first.

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Speaker 2: No, But I think it's like just sounds to achievement

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Speaker 2: based versus I want to help people. Like it's a

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Speaker 2: person who I don't know goes on a game show

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Speaker 2: for charity and wins it and brags about it, Like

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Speaker 2: how about the fact how about that person who did

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Speaker 2: it and didn't tell anyone named Lisa Lampinella.

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Speaker 3: See I'm just hinting.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even telling you what it was. But they

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Speaker 2: got a lot of money, those gays, they did. And

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Speaker 2: after I took my seventy five percent cut, two gays

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Speaker 2: got cured of the HIV, which is curable now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much, you can have it. Fuck around, Okay,

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Speaker 3: go on a new letter. I hate this guy, sorry,

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Speaker 3: Preston what.

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Speaker 4: I spend more time on Instagram than I want to admit.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to the world, bitch, Yeah, and follow Celia Triple

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Speaker 4: Underscore at romano tips dot com. I spend on Instagram

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Speaker 4: that I want to admit, and realized how much more

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Speaker 4: money I've spent unclothes because.

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Speaker 3: Of the influencers.

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Speaker 4: Puffer Colt and my tits are out but they're warm

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Speaker 4: and hot and cold and the ads that target me.

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Speaker 4: I see something cute, I immediately have to buy it.

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Speaker 4: Luckily I can afford it. Is she married depressed, probably,

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Speaker 4: but I have so many coats and pairs of jeans

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Speaker 4: now that I never wear yep, but have you heard

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Speaker 4: of the denim skirt from gobblegots dot com? How can

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Speaker 4: I resist something that feels irresistible in the moment? Thanks

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Speaker 4: Lacey la Jolla California. I, Lacy, I am an expert

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Speaker 3: You have come to the right place.

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Speaker 2: This is not about I can afford or thank goodness,

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Speaker 2: I have the means. It's like, what are you trying

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Speaker 2: to outrun? You are trying to outrun your feelings of

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Speaker 2: worthlessness with things. So every time you see a they

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Speaker 2: know what they're doing, These advertisers and influencers. They see

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Speaker 2: a bunch of women, mostly who feel like shit about

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Speaker 2: themselves and go only got a cute sweater that's like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, orange with little cherries on the left hand.

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Speaker 3: Tit.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna make me feel better about myself. So let's ask,

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Speaker 2: did that make you feel better about yourself? You still

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Speaker 2: have your gaping hole, not your twat, your dirty insides

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Speaker 2: still have a gaping hole.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so go with what I'm saying. Follow the

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Speaker 2: We all think by buying things, by achieving things, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna fix the hole and fill the hole. But the

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Speaker 2: only thing you could fill the hole with is meaning,

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Speaker 2: purpose and self love. This doesn't mean you have to

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Speaker 2: have a big purpose like you don't have to like

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Speaker 2: like fucking.

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Speaker 4: Look at the food bank.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to feed the hungry or win fifty

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars for the charitey and not tell anyone no.

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Speaker 2: But you could do small, pe purpose things that have

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Speaker 2: meaning for your life so that when the ordering option

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Speaker 2: the whole. What I'm doing is more important. I don't

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Speaker 3: Because look what it ends up.

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Speaker 2: She's filling the landfill with this stuff. She has jeans

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Speaker 2: and sweater she's not even using. That's a heartbreaker.

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Speaker 4: Hey I donate that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, we're talking about you. We're talking about Clammy Jones,

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Speaker 2: Geez, sorry, it's not all about you wasting your time

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Speaker 4: Ready, le one, you.

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Speaker 3: Can't help I'm ugly, you know it is?

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Speaker 2: Okay, whole new episode idea, people fish for compliments.

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Speaker 3: I was joking, Yeah, bitch, bitch. If you're to make

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Speaker 2: Not funny because it's not fucking true. First of all,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you have many other faults you could say

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Speaker 2: the best Instagram captions where you need to be.

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Speaker 3: Oh so you just don't know which you're your strength.

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Speaker 2: So you just need to adjust the straps on those bruh,

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Speaker 2: you're not that good at that.

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Speaker 3: Hike them up a little, honey, hike them up. But anyway,

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Speaker 3: you just lady, what's this bitch's name? Not Celia the lazy.

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Speaker 2: You gotta just look and sign and say what am

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Speaker 2: I feeling that? I'm trying to medigate you what the

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Speaker 2: problem is?

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Speaker 3: Nick? And you're as a food addict know this, No,

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Speaker 3: we all do. I've done it. You grab for the

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Speaker 2: A feeling is uncomfortable because you can't sit with the feeling,

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Speaker 2: So here's the problem. You gotta sit with that discomfort sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever had the self esteem and self control

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Speaker 4: Sit with the discomfort? Yeah, it's fucking hard. I know

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Speaker 4: it's really hard.

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Speaker 3: But gets what you do it because you've grown.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's but it's incredibly and again it's like it

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Speaker 4: for me, it's really one part of my life. It's

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Speaker 4: like romantic relationships is where I with that with other feelings,

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Speaker 4: with other things, I could like maneuver through it, but

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Speaker 4: like romantic relationships is the part where it's like it's

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Speaker 2: But if you don't risk your comfort, you're not going

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Speaker 2: By the way, stop with this hoarding of everything.

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Speaker 3: I would quick shot of Celia. I actually love that sweater,

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Speaker 3: No, I love it. I've been bullied for ten minutes.

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Speaker 4: Someone went to private school somebody?

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Speaker 4: Football locker room stories. Fucking upset. You get harassed hard.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm advocating that.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this does not sign off on bullying,

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Speaker 3: Ganging, gang activity, gang gang. I feel like verbally issault god.

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Speaker 2: Hey see, how about you feel those uncomfortable feelings for

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Speaker 2: a while we'll get back to next.

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Speaker 3: Episode one week to think about that. Okay, steal on

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Speaker 3: that and bring us a feeling next time we're out

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Speaker 3: of here. No, I got end on a mean note.

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Speaker 2: Just Kattie, we love you anyway. Where can we listen

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Speaker 2: to this stupid ass fucking podcast.

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Speaker 4: iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcast, or.

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Speaker 2: You know, and look up bullying techniques. I've written a

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Speaker 2: great article. All you do is you tax someone's sweater

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Speaker 2: over and over and then try to steal it from them.

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Speaker 3: Right, yeah, we out