WEBVTT - "DICK'D DOWN, VAG'D UP!" w/ Rob Benedict, Gareth Reynolds and Doug Benson 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.000 Welcome to Will You Accept This Rose? Our production of 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:19.319 I Heart Radio. Finally something spicy happened. Finally you know 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:26.799 what if it's attached to I will, Yes, I will 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:39.320 exciting new giant blue gloves, giant blue okay iris, Hello 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:44.000 and welcome to a very special episode of Will You 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.400 Accept This Rose? My name is Arte Marine, coming to 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.760 you from my boushee garage in Los Angeles, California, testing 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:54.440 out my enormous new blue glasses from one of our sponsors, 0:00:54.560 --> 0:01:00.000 Coastal Optics. Very exciting. Um. First, before we introduced my guests, 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:01.920 Dr Banana and I want to give a shout out 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.880 thank you to the people at Bachelor Archive for putting 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:10.399 The Bachelor Asta Bachelor Paradise Australia season three for our 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:13.960 Patreon viewers. If you were not watching, we just started 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:17.479 a chef's kiss of a season and if you've ever 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:21.199 wanted to see men covered in tattoos from their face down, 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:26.240 buck naked looking for love in in Fiji, then this 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:29.400 is the show for you. Dr Banana. How many chefs 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.440 kiss would you give it? Out of five? It's five 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:36.000 out of five obviously it's so fun. You know, Australia. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.919 They just have more fun. They do have more fun. 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:42.440 And we our newest patron, Becca French, Come on, hop on, 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:45.800 hop on the game? What are you waiting for? All Right, 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:48.440 here we go. We're almost at the one year anniversary 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.560 of the lot. The last people I was with was 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:54.080 you guys the day before Lockdown. UM. I could not 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:58.160 be more excited this grouping we paired very specifically together 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.840 with us as a man newly back. He's just back 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:06.760 from Nashville because he's been recording an album safely Safely. Um, 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:10.160 he's you know him from Supernatural, you know him from 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:14.000 his podcast. And my guest is Richard Spate, you know 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:18.079 him from Bosh. But most importantly he's uh this podcast 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:25.280 Bachelor of the Year. Will he find Will he find love? 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:28.200 When will this poor man find love? Ladies and gentlemen, 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:32.480 Mr Rob Benedect, thank you, it's so nice to be back. 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:37.320 It's been a minute. It's been a minute. It's been like, oh, 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:41.360 one of our our captain just clapped at you with 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:46.639 a gavel, which is which is? It's a good sign. 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:49.919 I want to just say, if you've ever wanted to 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:53.120 be applauded by a man in a like a fleecy 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.640 boxing robe, eating what appears to be a pizza bite, 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.160 clapping at you with a judge's gavel. Then you are 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.360 in luck. You know our next guest. He's a brilliant 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:05.200 stand up comedian. He is the host of the Wide 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:08.360 World of Dougs podcasts. He's also the host of Doug 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.240 Loves Movies and Rob and I will be on it 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.640 with Jerry Trainer at south By Southwest. I believe this weekend, correct, 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:21.880 ladies and gentlemen, Rookie of the Year Doug Benton. Hello, 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:26.520 I guess we're correct. Are in the Douglas Movies for 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:31.480 the south By Southwest Comedy will be available starting on 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:36.560 We're kicking off the comedy at south By Southwest on Tuesday, 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:41.400 December sixteenth at six o'clock Central time. December available, Did 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:45.240 I say December? Really looking forward to Christmas? This year 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.160 really been the war has just really been ramping up 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:52.280 against Christmas every year. I'm more excited about it. Uh No, 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:57.800 it's uh Mark sixt And you don't have to march 0:03:57.840 --> 0:04:02.840 anywhere though, because it's a virtual south By Southwest. Tickets 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:06.119 at south By Southwest dot com. And if you ever 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:08.839 wanted to see me get schooled in real time via 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:13.880 text by Paget Brewster. That show is for you. It's incredible. Yeah, 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:17.720 okay with us. Also is a gentleman who first made 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:20.279 his appearance on this podcast a couple of weeks ago. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.800 And let me tell you what the fans of Will 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.120 You Accept This Rose were a fan of his and 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:28.480 they wanted more. Uh. He is a stand up comedian 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:31.760 who has been performing improvised stand up sets every week 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:37.200 during Quarantine on on Instagram Live. I Believe the platforms 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:40.520 and YouTube the big platform. He was a writer on 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:43.720 Arrested Development. He was a writer on You're the Worst. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:47.719 He is the father of the cat Jose and he 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.280 is also the host of one of the most popular 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:55.560 podcasts on Earth, The Dollarp with our friend Dave. Dave 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:59.360 Anthony Anthony, if you want to call me, ladies and gentlemen, 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:03.360 Gareth at all? You you need a title so you're 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.760 gonna be you don't want to be the bosin for 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:09.040 the cow take whatever? How does it work? I get 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.839 I'm bestowed a title? Right, we can give him. We 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.119 can give him a title. You can suggest a title. 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:16.680 Do you want to be chief deck like the deck 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:22.160 hand for the cads? Great? Yeah, podcast dog anything you 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:27.720 need first officer, first officers. Okay, so you're gonna be 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:31.520 the first officer of the podcast, but your main loyalty 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:35.320 is to Dug, not to The teams are over qualified. 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:37.800 Thank you, Doug. If you need any more pizza roll, 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:41.599 say the word, sir, Captain um And of course we 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:46.280 have with us as always are wonderful producers Katy Levine 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:49.920 and Dr Tanna Banana hosny A. Hello lady. He shoutout, 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:54.479 production crew, shout out. Production people were angry at the 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:59.520 production crew couple weeks ago. They were like, they were 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:01.560 mad at me. I got one star. They listened to five. 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.320 They would have been enraged and shut it off. I 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.480 know they were mad that the intros were too long. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:07.960 And then they said, and then after these long intros, 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:11.080 they took the time to introduce the production crew. I 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:13.039 shut it off after and they said I had a 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:18.920 screeching voice. Wow, you were somebody. This week we actually 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:22.520 got an incredible five star review from Pandels, who said, 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.040 I love Arden and all her friends. And for those 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.680 of you who think Arden has a hyena voice, may 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.159 I suggest listening at a slower speed or just go 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:37.479 funk yourself. Those are the two options. Yeah, I like 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.279 the slower speed idea because then Arden would sound like 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:44.600 Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lamb, So podcast takes 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:48.000 a different vibe on then definitely a little more evil, 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:50.839 and then all of the other guests will be really 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.800 it'll be, it'll be. You can't adjust per guests. It 0:06:53.839 --> 0:07:04.360 would be a warder's first over um, overall, did you guys? 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:08.800 I thought of four the Matt James Pandemic season. I 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.400 thought this was the most fun episode we've had so far, 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:17.200 and that was fun. It was fun. You liked it, Captain, No, 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.840 you didn't like it. It was all you know. They 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:22.640 were all just sitting in different places talking about how 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:25.600 she loves him so much, in him nodding in agreement, 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.280 without committing to any of them. But you didn't like 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.840 when they were like buttering each other up and maybe 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:34.800 maybe going and getting at it in different huts around Pennsylvania. 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:38.800 This plays into my ongoing argument that they should have 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.840 the exact same date, all three women, so he could 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:46.640 see how each of them behaves. You haven't. You haven't 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:48.560 laid out that thesis yet. This is the first time 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:50.560 you've laid out your seat. Well, I laid out in 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.720 the past, and I think that they're unfair and why 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:58.040 does one lady get fireworks and two other ladies no fireworks. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:01.880 I did think it wasn't fair to see. It wasn't 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:05.200 fair to see like butter sex hut and the other one. 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:06.960 It was like we're gonna pitch a tent that we 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:12.680 don't stay in potent Alright, Gareth, did you enjoy this 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:18.640 episode more than the captain rank rank? I hate to 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:22.800 go against orders, but I enjoyed it. Uh sorry, captain, 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:25.720 I I there wasn't I thought the dates you were good. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.880 But yeah, I totally agree that there's like there's not 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:31.240 only a disadvantage with the date, but as you see, 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:36.640 like with the time, like Rachel became crazed by the 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:40.440 time she showed up. Well, you're also thinking in theory 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:44.680 in order, if it's back to back sexually, you're number three, 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:49.959 Like that's disgusting. You know. Also normally, traditionally on The Bachelor, 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:53.319 you're not aware of your first, second, or third. Yeah, 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:55.559 so if it's not I don't know if Gareth, I 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:58.280 don't know if you've watched before, but like in a 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:02.120 non pandemic season, you're at like the Sandals Jamaica, and 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:05.320 you have your own private residence and you don't see 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.600 the other women's you don't know when they went. It's 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:11.880 it's closer with this sort of tag team dick baton 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:16.640 of like knowing knowing when it's like a real like 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.440 a dick. Really, Katie's living for it. I see about 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:23.800 the dick. Well, I was gonna say. They used to 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:26.520 not let the last three ever like talk to each other. 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.160 Like after that they never spoke. And I think it 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:33.240 was even before Lakina, before Tatious season. They ended up 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.480 having them together like talking. I think it was during 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.800 Peter season, and I thought that was really it's it's mean. 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:43.640 It's very mean. It's very mean to have them all 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:46.000 like sitting there and they come in and they're like, 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:51.240 how is your nice? Like, oh hey God, Like no, 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.800 I'm really good, really relaxed right now, I feel great? 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:58.480 Where's the ice? I belwere They started doing that to 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:01.200 get to pressure mad as Sin into admitting that she 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:04.240 was a virgin. Oh right, because she had to keep 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:09.160 seeing all these women come and be like I'm feeling great, doctor. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.000 They started doing it and then we're like, this is 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.960 good TV. Let's keep torturing these poor women. I think 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:17.920 it's also pandemic TV. That's why you're doctor that did 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:26.439 you get your doctorate? Doctor in Bachelor producing? Yeah, Bachelor analysis? Right, well, 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.000 then we have some good questions for you about coming up. 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:31.560 It's a classic Bachelor move what they did with the 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:34.600 family coming up. All right, here we are, we're starting out. 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:38.440 Michelle is ready to tell Matt that she's in love 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:41.800 with them. Brie can't believe how fast he's falling for him, 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.719 and she's excited. The fantasy suits are a big day, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:48.880 and Rachel can't wait to tell Matt that she's so 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.960 sure of things. Chris says, wow, it's amazing we got 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:56.640 to thirty eight women. Um, but it's he It was 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.120 fascinated to what try watch him try to spin like 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.080 the bones own weekend, like the weekend of like the 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:05.880 hump Fest weekend of getting to spend time off camera 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:09.840 to have tough conversations. What do you really believe? Do 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.480 you want kids? Where are you gonna live? Am I 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:16.760 going to have a job? Later in Anyone, Michelle gets 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:20.840 the first card. She's excited to go first. Um, and 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:25.600 before the date, we see Matt saying that it's been 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:29.040 hard for him and past relationships going deep, that it's 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.920 been hard for him to have the tough conversations and 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.800 to have long term relationships based on his family's past. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.400 And this is a big day. He's going to face 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:44.760 his father for the first time on The Bachelor, and yeah, 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:49.199 now this was hard to watch. I felt badly for 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:52.360 both of them. I felt badly for the dad who 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:55.680 thought they were bringing him in just to like cheer 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:57.679 on his son, to have like good for you. You 0:11:57.760 --> 0:11:59.800 got these like you could see he just showed up 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:03.000 with innocently thinking it was sort of like hey, cool, 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:06.080 like how well he did? You're the Bachelor, And you 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:09.760 could see Matt had a lot to talk to him about. 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.400 There was a lot of unresolved and I just felt 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:15.880 badly for both of them. So he shows up and 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:18.959 he's like, um, it's good to see you, and he 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:25.720 basically Matt wants a lifetime of wants to get some 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:29.400 answer in like an hour or two conversation, and the 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:32.960 set of The Bachelor that sort of sets him free 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:35.600 to get past these blocks that he has because his 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:39.600 father left, um, his he has a fear of commitment. 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:45.040 He wants to move forward. He wants to address his demons. So, um, 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:48.200 before we get started, how did you guys feel just 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:55.160 going into this rob So with this part in particular? Um, 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.640 I mean, what is that what you're asking? Yeah? Before 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:00.720 I mean, do you want to hear this? Should we should? 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.120 I read some of the specifics of the actual conversation? 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:08.240 All right, I'll just okay, I thought about the dad thing. Okay. So, 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.280 so basically the gist of the conversation, he was like, 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.400 the dad comes in sort of hat in hand. He's like, 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.480 it's nice to be here, and and Matt says, it's 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.440 been a minute. He goes, it's been a great minute. 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.960 And he goes, wow, you are doing well. You've always 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.680 done well. I'm not worried about that. And he's like, well, 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:28.520 I have problems with commitment. And he goes and then 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.560 the dad tries to kind of make it nice. It's like, well, 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:31.920 I don't see you being able to have problems with 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.520 that that you're gonna be great. So and then the dad. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.959 So then Matt says, I want a family. I want 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:39.400 to be a father. Um. He's like, well, you'd be 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:42.400 a wonderful father. The dad says and he's like, well 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.800 that means. What that means is showing up, having tough 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:49.160 conversations being there, and he gets more and more emotional, 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.559 and the dad is basically telling him to get over it. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.320 He's like, you gotta let that go. He's like, well, 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:54.920 I'm not gonna let that go. And I needed you 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:56.760 weren't there. You weren't there. You weren't there to have 0:13:56.760 --> 0:14:01.600 those conversations. You started other families that affect me. Um. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.160 I don't need to know where your head was at 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:04.959 so I don't make the same mistakes. We never had 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:07.720 this conversation. And then the dad says, we never had 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:10.240 this conversation. Why don't you come talk to me another time? 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:12.440 I would have talked to you. I didn't have a 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:14.760 father either. My father was killed at five. Do you 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:18.120 know what I went through? Um? And then he was 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:21.080 I came home one day and your mom was gone. Uh. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.360 And then he said, well you weren't faithful. He says, 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:28.360 nobody's perfect. You're not perfect. And uh. He says, this 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:31.160 is not a celebration. He said, if we wanted to celebrate, 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:34.080 we would go to Chuck E Cheese. And then eventually 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.560 he came around Matt was talking about his dad would 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:39.320 come around just drop off shoes. He started crying. He said, 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:41.920 I don't need shoes, I don't need pizza. I needed Dad. 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:48.120 And then um, basically eventually there was a hug and 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:51.080 the dad said, I tried, Matt. I tried. I'm sorry 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:53.520 that I hurt you so much. I'm sorry. I'm gonna 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:55.960 work on it to be better and have a healthy relationship. 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.160 I don't like you so far away from me. And 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.800 then they hugged, and then they he gave him a 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.520 little kiss on the cheek. I'm proud of you. I 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.520 love you, dad, and then they did like a little 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:06.560 thing about beating him at soccer. So it was like 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:11.400 a pretty intense I felt badly for both of them. Rob, 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.280 I'm gonna start with you. Yeah, so uh same. I 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:17.600 felt the same way. I definitely uhl when he said 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:19.640 at the beginning, the dad was like, you're doing great, 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:22.520 Like looking around the place, like, that's not his place, right? 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:24.560 That was his house? Was it? That was just the 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.760 hotel room. I mean I think it's where he Yeah, 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:29.800 he doesn't live in the woods to Pennsylvania. Do you 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:33.600 love the kitchen? Love when're done with the kitchen. But yeah, 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:36.040 I felt bad for the dad, you know, flop sweating 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:39.680 on his head, But um, I just I couldn't help 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:41.600 but feeling like, first of all, it's one of the 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:43.440 one of the best scenes of the Batchelor so far 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:48.320 all year, the real moments. But man, it's just like 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:52.320 you're having this on National TV. You're having this conversation 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:53.720 that you and your dad need to have, but it's 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:56.240 on National TV. It just felt that felt weird to 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.240 me that I don't know that that felt like a 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:02.800 like a real front dad. But you know, I mean, 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.520 you know, I had a similar situation growing up, so 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:07.600 like I totally my heart goes out to Matt, But 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:10.880 like in that moment, I was like, not a National TV. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.440 Nobody ever says that in this show, no wherever it goes. Yeah, 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:16.000 but this is all happening in National TV. I know 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:20.480 I had a similar bad dad and I and I 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:23.320 understand wanting to get like wanting to be like, well 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:25.280 maybe now is my I can see the thinking like 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:27.840 maybe now is my chance of like if I'm gonna 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:29.520 get it, I'm gonna get it right now. With the 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.400 cameras here like almost the equivalent of like he's got 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:34.880 to at least I not like just wanting to not 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:38.200 be doesn't even acknowledge that it happened even, you know, 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:41.720 like doesn't even acknowledge, you know, but like I watch 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.800 him like he's not gonna give it. But even just 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.400 saying I'm sorry, I was like, well, that's something I guess. 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:49.080 But this is what the Bachelor does. And Katie was 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:51.520 saying this earlier. If you have a bad if you 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:55.560 have a parent that's maybe not you know, Mary Poppins, 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.320 they're gonna find them and they're gonna they're gonna ambush them, 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:01.040 and they're gonna to came in their face like they 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:04.879 did a Dean's that's what they do, all right, Gareth, 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:08.560 what did you think? Yeah? I thought, well, to Rob's 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:11.399 I think anytime I walk into a hotel Nomina, pretend 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:17.080 the person lives there. You really landed on your This 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:26.639 is pretty nice. Nice. He did pretty good. Uma, So 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:32.440 it seemed like similar units in the building. Am I crazy? Um? 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.399 But I do think it's weird. It's all weird because 0:17:35.520 --> 0:17:38.280 it's weird to go on the Bachelor and then be like, 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:40.639 oh shoot, I'm getting married engaged in two weeks and 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:43.600 now I have to resolve my unresolved issues. So there 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:48.040 is that. I too had a very similar situation growing up. 0:17:48.440 --> 0:17:52.480 So I was watching it going like, I mean, it's fine, 0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:55.640 it is whatever, but what should I think The whole 0:17:55.680 --> 0:17:58.160 scene would have been helped by a rose. If Matt 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:01.680 had a rose to give to his father, then it's 0:18:01.720 --> 0:18:06.359 more on brand, you know, and then he gets it. Yeah, 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.480 but yeah, it was really weird, and it was weird 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:13.040 how often Matt was beating the drum after the dad 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:15.400 was probably like, I'm gonna get that scene. I'll watch 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:18.000 it later. And then it was just like every time 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:19.200 Matt was on a day and he's like, you know, 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:22.200 my dad's a jerke off and I'm not that I'm 0:18:22.280 --> 0:18:26.359 anything but that I'm not Doug. Is it flour out 0:18:26.359 --> 0:18:30.159 of four bad dad's make entertaining children? Do you have 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:33.199 a bad dad? Dog? No, my dad was cool, but 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:37.639 he should um okay, well well that's cool. Do you 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:40.080 have a bad mom? Who's a bad parent? Who's who's 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:42.560 he just should have done that? Do not disturb door? 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:45.760 Close with bad in the room, like like like it 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:49.600 was a you know, roance situation. Early when people are 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:51.440 about to bone is the only time you could tell 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:55.000 the cameras to go away. We had sex with my dad, 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:59.159 so I'll leave us alone. I just kept expecting. I 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:01.159 was I was think what he kept saying, he was 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:04.080 an imperfect man. I was hoping that was Chris Harrison's 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:08.400 cue to step in and you know, yeah, we're all 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:12.919 imperfect men, and you know, and maybe remind him that 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:15.679 he's got a rose ceremony coming up, because that seems 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:18.919 to be Chris Harrison's whole job at this point. I 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.040 think they've got him back so much, and he just 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:24.760 is there. He's almost like an alarm on your phone. 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:29.880 But this film dollars doing it. This was filmed before 0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:33.199 he was in trouble, and it's still an alarm on 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:37.280 the film. Weird things and and it was funny with 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:40.640 a three person rose ceremony. I was laughing to myself 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:43.199 that what if Chris walked in and there's only two 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.600 roses to begin with? What if you walked in after 0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:48.120 what I went, there's only one left the last rows, 0:19:48.600 --> 0:19:51.679 Like we all know, Chris, there's only two thanks crash 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:54.320 down to the final It is weird every time he 0:19:54.400 --> 0:19:56.440 comes in. It's it's made more awkward by the news 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:01.320 that's happening now. It's almost like a lot it is. 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:05.200 It's all I can think is like, is it bades 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:10.400 and a bad look in t Like, like it's Dr Banana? 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.359 What did you think watching this? Dr Branana? You have 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:17.240 a complicated dad? Is that correct? Yeah? I have a 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.480 dad who would have slapped the ship on me out 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:21.600 of me on national television if I pulled this shit. 0:20:22.560 --> 0:20:26.240 But also, it is so fascinating to watch The Bachelor, 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:33.200 the series fumble every like everything when it comes to race. Yes, 0:20:33.359 --> 0:20:38.639 you think, like it is so like so many stupid 0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:42.679 companies put out those you know, like we believe, we 0:20:42.800 --> 0:20:46.000 believe black lives matter, Like it is so easy to 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.399 even just pretend to know what to funk to do. 0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:51.760 It's like the Royal family and the Bachelor producers didn't 0:20:51.760 --> 0:20:55.280 get the training. Yeah, so they're like boon. Now there's 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:58.760 a stereotype about black fathers being m I A should 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:00.960 we use that as a plot point on this show? Yes, 0:21:01.080 --> 0:21:03.920 let's do it. Let's drag this poor man in and 0:21:04.000 --> 0:21:07.680 make Matt clearly who's uncomfortable, confront him about an issue 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:09.879 that should have been discussed with a therapist or a 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:12.480 mediator or someone to like help them break it down, 0:21:12.520 --> 0:21:15.400 and not a television not a producer on a TV crew. 0:21:15.840 --> 0:21:21.240 And then let's exploit this situation and just use it 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:24.520 as a TV plot point that honestly has zero context. 0:21:24.560 --> 0:21:26.439 I don't know anything about his dad. I don't know. 0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:30.359 I barely know anything about Matt. What all of a 0:21:30.359 --> 0:21:32.960 sudden you need your dad's approval because you're on TV. 0:21:33.160 --> 0:21:36.120 It's like, what are you twenty eight? Like I don't 0:21:36.200 --> 0:21:38.800 understand why this was the moment, Like you guys were saying, 0:21:38.840 --> 0:21:41.359 like this is not the place to have this conversation. Also, 0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:43.879 what makes you think your dad is going to be 0:21:43.960 --> 0:21:46.800 okay with this? Once his airs and he's portrayed as 0:21:46.880 --> 0:21:49.399 like a real shitty father, which he is, but like 0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:52.480 that's those are his feelings. You just completely disregarded. And 0:21:52.480 --> 0:21:54.800 now he has to watch that, your whole family sees that, 0:21:54.960 --> 0:21:57.359 his friends see that. It's like I don't, I don't. 0:21:58.000 --> 0:22:00.359 I think then sucked up his relationship up with his 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:03.920 father more now because of this, there's a real gutcha 0:22:04.040 --> 0:22:07.200 quality to when they deal with the families. There's a 0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:11.359 real like it's not idelicate, it's always a very heavy 0:22:11.480 --> 0:22:17.200 handed you know, they don't. It's never for the benefit 0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:24.080 of the person that detriment. I mean that he's certainly 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:28.359 like it was painful to watch the father clam on 0:22:28.640 --> 0:22:31.520 like finally realized what the hell was going on. He 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:34.119 was just there, you know. Yeah, It's like it's like 0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:38.720 in the what's that movie The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, 0:22:38.800 --> 0:22:40.520 when the guys all of a sudden like, oh ship, 0:22:40.600 --> 0:22:42.520 I'm in the wrong basement at the wrong time. Like 0:22:42.560 --> 0:22:45.200 the dad was just kind of like, oh no, this, Yeah, 0:22:45.280 --> 0:22:49.320 he innocently Now again I'm not saying he was great, 0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:52.600 but like innocently walking in trying to show up for 0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:54.399 his son at this but like trying to like do 0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:58.679 like show up and be supportive. And there's it's like, 0:22:58.880 --> 0:23:02.080 I'm not saying wasn't good for Matt to have this conversation. 0:23:02.320 --> 0:23:06.800 I think he should have this conversation. But but but 0:23:07.160 --> 0:23:11.880 maybe certainly with this show that has proved to not 0:23:12.000 --> 0:23:15.919 have his back, these are not the people to facilitate 0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:20.520 this conversation in a way. So overall we all thought 0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:23.920