Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second dat date. Dude name Mike is on
Speaker 1: the phone for a seconded up date today. He said
Speaker 1: he went on a double date with the girl he
Speaker 1: wants to call. I've only been on one double date
Speaker 1: and it worked out great for me. I got in
Speaker 1: an argument with the girl that I was with and
Speaker 1: ended up leaving everybody. So I don't think double dates
Speaker 1: are very good. And so it's no wonder that Mike's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back after his double date. Mike,
Speaker 1: did you guys argue on the actual date and then
Speaker 1: you just ditched out? No, that didn't happen. That is
Speaker 1: so awkward for the other three people that were reviewed.
Speaker 1: She was terrible. She was a horrible person. Anyway, it's
Speaker 1: not about me, it's about you right now, Mike, what's
Speaker 1: the name of the girl you want to call today?
Speaker 1: Her name is Aaron? Aaron? All right? And where did
Speaker 1: you meet Aaron? So we actually met at a bark rawl? Okay,
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago. We had a seven legged bark crawl?
Speaker 1: What is a seven legged one? It was pretty much
Speaker 1: you and the group friends get tired at your legs,
Speaker 1: like six of us tied at your legs and you
Speaker 1: just go to t bars all night and drink what
Speaker 1: and you're tied together? How do you fit through anywhere?
Speaker 1: Like you're six people deep? You actually crawl? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: part of the fun. I mean, you have to figure
Speaker 1: that out or you just won't make it. You know. Wait,
Speaker 1: how do you hit on a person? Which did you
Speaker 1: have six other people tied to you? Are they all
Speaker 1: just standing there awkwardly listening to you? I mean it's
Speaker 1: like if she didn't like me, she couldn't run away, right, right?
Speaker 1: So she was she tied to you? Was she in
Speaker 1: the group of people that were tied together? Yeah? She was,
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see, okay, it was like one seven
Speaker 1: group of people tied together talking to another seven group
Speaker 1: of people. So yeah, she was really chill and we
Speaker 1: actually ended up you know, talking a lot about you know,
Speaker 1: movies and kind of other things that we were into.
Speaker 1: And I take it she was tied right next to
Speaker 1: and not like at the end of all the people
Speaker 1: and you weren't yelling down the line. Yeah, she was
Speaker 1: right next to me. Okay, So did you ask her
Speaker 1: out that night? Well? Actually, the end of the night,
Speaker 1: we all ended up getting really really uh stated and
Speaker 1: I worked up the courage to ask her out. I thought,
Speaker 1: you may we're going somewhere else with direct. We're all drunk,
Speaker 1: we're all tied up already, a little bit of bondage,
Speaker 1: a little bit of you know, I don't know. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: so you you got drunk enough to ask her out,
Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, okay. But my roommate was also in
Speaker 1: our group and she got to do her too, and
Speaker 1: they kind of hit it off also, so I suggested
Speaker 1: a double date with my roommate and I okay, So
Speaker 1: I invited Aaron over to be my date, and I
Speaker 1: got my roommates and by her guy over to be
Speaker 1: her date. Where did you guys do when you went out?
Speaker 1: So we invited them over to our place and we
Speaker 1: drank and then we um. We made our way down
Speaker 1: in the bars again. Awesome. It's kind of crazy how
Speaker 1: we always seem to like end better bars. Somehow it
Speaker 1: seems to right. There's not a lot of food involved.
Speaker 1: This sounds lucky either. I mean we had some snacks.
Speaker 1: But okay, okay, how did it go? I mean it
Speaker 1: was cool, I mean I enjoyed myself. Okay, it got
Speaker 1: a little awkward at one point, my roommate started making
Speaker 1: out with her guy, and you know, I kind of
Speaker 1: suggested that we went up them, and she kind of
Speaker 1: just laughed it off. So you were being really serious,
Speaker 1: like we need to make out too, and she laughed
Speaker 1: at you. Well, I thought I was being you know,
Speaker 1: smooth with that line. I thought I was gonna get
Speaker 1: at least a little pack on the cheek or something.
Speaker 1: But yeah, she just kind of laughed it off. Okay,
Speaker 1: So did you not get a kiss at all? I
Speaker 1: didn't know. Okay, And was that just the end of
Speaker 1: the date. You guys just hung out for a little
Speaker 1: while watching your roommate makeout with her date and she laughed. No,
Speaker 1: it got a little awkward. So we pretty much just
Speaker 1: ended up getting the check and calling in a night.
Speaker 1: So what got awkward just that you were sitting there
Speaker 1: staring at your roommate swapping saliva? Yeah pretty much. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I offered to get her a number of acting because
Speaker 1: she wanted it, and she actually took me up in
Speaker 1: my offer. So okay, so he got hern Uber home,
Speaker 1: and have you talked to her since? I've tried calling,
Speaker 1: but it just goes straight to voicemail. So nothing. Oh,
Speaker 1: it doesn't even ring. Yeah, it sounds like you've been
Speaker 1: blocked or something. I don't know, hopefully not. All right,
Speaker 1: well try to find out. We'll play a song and
Speaker 1: then come back and call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date up date. Okay, all right, all right, hang looking
Speaker 1: cuble in the morning. You know, usually when the first
Speaker 1: date starts, I'm being tied up to a group of
Speaker 1: other people and there's all kinds of making out going on.
Speaker 1: I mean, usually you're in for a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: But apparently that didn't happen. From Mike, he wants to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Aaron today who wasn't calling him back.
Speaker 1: They actually met at a seven legged bar crawl I
Speaker 1: guess him and six of his friends were all tied
Speaker 1: together and she was one of those people. Then he
Speaker 1: ended up asking her out. She hung out with him
Speaker 1: and his roommate and another dude on a double date.
Speaker 1: Things were going okay, but then it got awkward when
Speaker 1: his roommate started making out with her date in front
Speaker 1: of them. He made a joke like maybe we should
Speaker 1: try to one um. She wasn't into that, and then
Speaker 1: she got an uber home and hasn't called him since.
Speaker 1: So see, if we can find out why. All right, Mike,
Speaker 1: you radio call her feel Let's do it. Have you
Speaker 1: ever thought that maybe, just maybe she isn't calling you
Speaker 1: back because she doesn't know you sober at all? No? No,
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know her sober either, so kind
Speaker 1: of the same thing. Right, Yeah, you could hate her sober.
Speaker 1: You might not even want to call her. But we'll
Speaker 1: find out. We'll see if she's sober, we'll get her
Speaker 1: on the phone. Okay, all right, all right, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm asking to Aaron. Please. This is she? Hey Aaron,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who Jebil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Um,
Speaker 1: well are you? Is this like a survey or something
Speaker 1: or kind of I'm doing a survey on this dude
Speaker 1: named Mike that I know and anybody who's been out
Speaker 1: on a date with him. Have you been on a
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Mike recently? Sorry? I'm excused?
Speaker 1: Are you being serious? We do a segment on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then don't
Speaker 1: call them back, after that person can email us to
Speaker 1: get you on the phone to try to figure out
Speaker 1: what happened. So Mike emailed us about your date. Okay,
Speaker 1: I get it. Now, do you mind talking to us
Speaker 1: for a minute about your date with Mike? Um? Sure,
Speaker 1: that's fine. Okay. So he told us how you met
Speaker 1: like some seven legged bar crawl thing, and then he
Speaker 1: says that you went out on a double date with
Speaker 1: him in his roommate, but now you're not getting back
Speaker 1: to him. He said he really liked you and he
Speaker 1: can't figure out why. Is there a reason? Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like the whole situation with him,
Speaker 1: it's just, you know, I really don't think it's gonna
Speaker 1: work out between us. So what situation? I mean, he
Speaker 1: didn't mention that he was in any sort of situation.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, just kind of what happened that night. Um,
Speaker 1: it just got kind of weird. But the only thing
Speaker 1: that he told us that was weird was his roommate
Speaker 1: started making out with her her date and wouldn't stop,
Speaker 1: and he thought that was awkward. Oh, he didn't tell
Speaker 1: you about the situation with him in his roommate. No, Well, okay,
Speaker 1: So basically At one point, I was talking to his
Speaker 1: roommate alone, and she was telling me that occasionally, when
Speaker 1: she and Mike get bored, still hook up, maybe like
Speaker 1: once or twice a month or something like that, they're
Speaker 1: sleeping together. Yeah. Yeah, Like I kind of tried to
Speaker 1: play it cool like at the time, but I'm really
Speaker 1: like not cool with that at all. Not what I'm
Speaker 1: looking for. You don't want to date a guy who
Speaker 1: hooks up with a roommate from time to time, No,
Speaker 1: and especially not too when he like lives with Like yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: So I just kind of like the rest of the day,
Speaker 1: I was just kind of like, okay, just trying to
Speaker 1: sit here and let the time pass and again. And
Speaker 1: there's no way, like she wasn't joking, right, There's no
Speaker 1: way it could have been a joke or something. No.
Speaker 1: I think she was being very sincere. Oh oh my god,
Speaker 1: from what I could tell, Yeah, and she was like,
Speaker 1: it's still a big deal. It's fully fine. I just
Speaker 1: want to let you know, like, how was that not
Speaker 1: a big deal? Yeah, you would think that would be
Speaker 1: a big deal. I think what's happening is the roommate
Speaker 1: likes Mike, and she was trying to sabotage your day
Speaker 1: with him. Well, either way, even if she's not the
Speaker 1: one who has feelings going to sleeping together and they
Speaker 1: lived together, so it's kind of like, I don't really
Speaker 1: want to get in between that. No, I remember, he
Speaker 1: probably wants you to get in between it. That probably
Speaker 1: she's really hoping for her. But what if she's making
Speaker 1: it up. Though she's not making it up. You don't
Speaker 1: make up something like that. I don't know their roommates. Dude,
Speaker 1: that is, who is gonna date Mike when he's sleeping
Speaker 1: with his roommate? No one. Yeah, anyway, I'm kind of
Speaker 1: surprising didn't mention that. But yeah, well that answers our question. Yeah,
Speaker 1: pretty pretty cut and dry there. Yeah. So you know
Speaker 1: after that, I don't really want to go out with
Speaker 1: him again or see him again. Yeah. Well, the goodness
Speaker 1: is you don't have to see him again, But I
Speaker 1: do want to see if you'll talk to him again,
Speaker 1: because he's on the other line listening. I wants to
Speaker 1: talk to him. What are you serious? Yes, I am,
Speaker 1: Mike is on the phone. Yeah, Mike, you're still there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've heard all of that. I mean, what's what's the
Speaker 1: big deal? What's the big deal I used to do.
Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. I mean we're not exclusive.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean that I don't really care
Speaker 1: if you're not exclusive. But you're like the girly live
Speaker 1: with only once in a blue moon, and it's purely physical,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So, I mean, we're not exclusive,
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't know why this is a
Speaker 1: big deal for real, you don't know why that's an issue.
Speaker 1: You're sleeping with somebody that you live with. No, I mean,
Speaker 1: are you Bryan to pressure me to be your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Is that what you want? Oh my god. God, women
Speaker 1: always trying to like ruin your life right away. It
Speaker 1: seems like you're trying to pressure me to not see
Speaker 1: other ladies. No, actually know, I you can go ahead
Speaker 1: and see other ladies. I'm looking for someone who doesn't
Speaker 1: have your situation going on. I mean, like, think about it, Like,
Speaker 1: how could she ever trust you if you guys did
Speaker 1: start a relationship. Yeah, I mean, my roommates beake too
Speaker 1: cool with it. I don't I don't see how you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be cool with it. But just what if I mean,
Speaker 1: what if you're just sitting around and said we're starting
Speaker 1: to get serious. But one day, like what if I'm
Speaker 1: out of town and you just get really bored and
Speaker 1: you just you look up with her and like what then,
Speaker 1: Like it just sends well, if that did happen, I'd
Speaker 1: tell you, yeah, we're dating stuff with my roommate. I'd
Speaker 1: at least let you know. That is nice. I appreciate
Speaker 1: the honesty, but that's still just not really what I'm
Speaker 1: going for. It's like thinking about it this way, Mike,
Speaker 1: Like if I ask you to come over to my
Speaker 1: apartment and then I told you like, oh, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: having sex with my male roommate over here, would you
Speaker 1: be like super cool with that? Like what would you
Speaker 1: think of that? I mean, I just want you to
Speaker 1: call me and after you've showered. Wow, man, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying we should be allowed to date other people.
Speaker 1: Why do you care who I date? We're not exclusive.
Speaker 1: Did we sit down and have a conversation and say, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm your boyfriend, you're my girlfriend? Like that? We did not. Obviously,
Speaker 1: we haven't had that kind of conversation. And it's it's
Speaker 1: different too when the person that you're like seeing just
Speaker 1: live a just trend feet away from you all the time.
Speaker 1: I mean, that just makes it even weirder, Like, I
Speaker 1: can't it's just not something I'm into, Mike. Why aren't
Speaker 1: you just dating your roommate now? I'm not into her
Speaker 1: like that. I mean, that's just weird. It's weird to
Speaker 1: date someone that you're sleeping with casually happen to live
Speaker 1: with you too. Odd. I'm with you there on that one, Mike.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, have none of you guys sucks up
Speaker 1: with any of your friends because you've been bored? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't multiple times a month and I didn't
Speaker 1: live with them. I mean, I highly recommend it because
Speaker 1: it's pretty fun and it's pretty convenient. Convenient too that, Aaron,
Speaker 1: it's convenient. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure it is. Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: keep on keep it on, Mike, But I don't think
Speaker 1: I can I have any part of that hold on, Aaron.
Speaker 1: Before you get to that, let me just ask you,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date when Mike,
Speaker 1: we will pay for it? No, I'm sorry, No, Aeron.
Speaker 1: How about this? How about you come over one night
Speaker 1: with my roommate. We can all like have dinner and
Speaker 1: talk us over. Yeah, it sounds like you, Mike. Yeah, drinks.
Speaker 1: I think Mike, you guys just have different boundaries, right.
Speaker 1: I think so yours are a little bit more open
Speaker 1: than hers, a lot more open. I mean, she's definitely
Speaker 1: open to come over whenever she wants. Okay, Aaron, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know you turned down the date, but
Speaker 1: you got an open invite over to Mike's place whenever
Speaker 1: you want it. That's kind of nice, right, thank you?
Speaker 1: All right, Well, appreciate you telling us why you didn't
Speaker 1: call him back, and Mike maybe be more upfront about
Speaker 1: that with other dates that you go on, and you
Speaker 1: might find a girl that's right for you, or don't
Speaker 1: sing it at all, or just again start dating the
Speaker 1: roommate ill. I would never date her. She's like my sister.
Speaker 1: All right. It's getting worse, getting even worse for you, Mike,
Speaker 1: take care of broken Juwil in the morning.