WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Hook Up or Hold Up

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels. Second dat date. Dude name Mike is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone for a seconded up date today. He said

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<v Speaker 1>he went on a double date with the girl he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call. I've only been on one double date

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<v Speaker 1>and it worked out great for me. I got in

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<v Speaker 1>an argument with the girl that I was with and

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<v Speaker 1>ended up leaving everybody. So I don't think double dates

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<v Speaker 1>are very good. And so it's no wonder that Mike's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back after his double date. Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys argue on the actual date and then

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<v Speaker 1>you just ditched out? No, that didn't happen. That is

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<v Speaker 1>so awkward for the other three people that were reviewed.

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<v Speaker 1>She was terrible. She was a horrible person. Anyway, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about me, it's about you right now, Mike, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the girl you want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Aaron? Aaron? All right? And where did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Aaron? So we actually met at a bark rawl? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a few weeks ago. We had a seven legged bark crawl?

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<v Speaker 1>What is a seven legged one? It was pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>you and the group friends get tired at your legs,

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<v Speaker 1>like six of us tied at your legs and you

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<v Speaker 1>just go to t bars all night and drink what

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<v Speaker 1>and you're tied together? How do you fit through anywhere?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're six people deep? You actually crawl? Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>part of the fun. I mean, you have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>that out or you just won't make it. You know. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you hit on a person? Which did you

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<v Speaker 1>have six other people tied to you? Are they all

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<v Speaker 1>just standing there awkwardly listening to you? I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>like if she didn't like me, she couldn't run away, right, right?

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<v Speaker 1>So she was she tied to you? Was she in

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<v Speaker 1>the group of people that were tied together? Yeah? She was,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I see, okay, it was like one seven

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<v Speaker 1>group of people tied together talking to another seven group

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<v Speaker 1>of people. So yeah, she was really chill and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually ended up you know, talking a lot about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>movies and kind of other things that we were into.

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<v Speaker 1>And I take it she was tied right next to

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<v Speaker 1>and not like at the end of all the people

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<v Speaker 1>and you weren't yelling down the line. Yeah, she was

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<v Speaker 1>right next to me. Okay, So did you ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out that night? Well? Actually, the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>we all ended up getting really really uh stated and

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<v Speaker 1>I worked up the courage to ask her out. I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you may we're going somewhere else with direct. We're all drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all tied up already, a little bit of bondage,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of you know, I don't know. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so you you got drunk enough to ask her out,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. Yeah, okay. But my roommate was also in

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<v Speaker 1>our group and she got to do her too, and

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of hit it off also, so I suggested

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<v Speaker 1>a double date with my roommate and I okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I invited Aaron over to be my date, and I

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<v Speaker 1>got my roommates and by her guy over to be

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<v Speaker 1>her date. Where did you guys do when you went out?

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<v Speaker 1>So we invited them over to our place and we

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<v Speaker 1>drank and then we um. We made our way down

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<v Speaker 1>in the bars again. Awesome. It's kind of crazy how

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<v Speaker 1>we always seem to like end better bars. Somehow it

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<v Speaker 1>seems to right. There's not a lot of food involved.

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<v Speaker 1>This sounds lucky either. I mean we had some snacks.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, okay, how did it go? I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was cool, I mean I enjoyed myself. Okay, it got

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward at one point, my roommate started making

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<v Speaker 1>out with her guy, and you know, I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>suggested that we went up them, and she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just laughed it off. So you were being really serious,

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<v Speaker 1>like we need to make out too, and she laughed

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<v Speaker 1>at you. Well, I thought I was being you know,

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<v Speaker 1>smooth with that line. I thought I was gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>at least a little pack on the cheek or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, she just kind of laughed it off. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So did you not get a kiss at all? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know. Okay, And was that just the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. You guys just hung out for a little

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<v Speaker 1>while watching your roommate makeout with her date and she laughed. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it got a little awkward. So we pretty much just

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<v Speaker 1>ended up getting the check and calling in a night.

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<v Speaker 1>So what got awkward just that you were sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>staring at your roommate swapping saliva? Yeah pretty much. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I offered to get her a number of acting because

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted it, and she actually took me up in

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<v Speaker 1>my offer. So okay, so he got hern Uber home,

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<v Speaker 1>and have you talked to her since? I've tried calling,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just goes straight to voicemail. So nothing. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't even ring. Yeah, it sounds like you've been

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<v Speaker 1>blocked or something. I don't know, hopefully not. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well try to find out. We'll play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date. Okay, all right, all right, hang looking

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<v Speaker 1>cuble in the morning. You know, usually when the first

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<v Speaker 1>date starts, I'm being tied up to a group of

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<v Speaker 1>other people and there's all kinds of making out going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, usually you're in for a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently that didn't happen. From Mike, he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Aaron today who wasn't calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually met at a seven legged bar crawl I

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<v Speaker 1>guess him and six of his friends were all tied

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<v Speaker 1>together and she was one of those people. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>ended up asking her out. She hung out with him

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<v Speaker 1>and his roommate and another dude on a double date.

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<v Speaker 1>Things were going okay, but then it got awkward when

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<v Speaker 1>his roommate started making out with her date in front

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<v Speaker 1>of them. He made a joke like maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>try to one um. She wasn't into that, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she got an uber home and hasn't called him since.

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<v Speaker 1>So see, if we can find out why. All right, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>you radio call her feel Let's do it. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever thought that maybe, just maybe she isn't calling you

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<v Speaker 1>back because she doesn't know you sober at all? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't know her sober either, so kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the same thing. Right, Yeah, you could hate her sober.

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<v Speaker 1>You might not even want to call her. But we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out. We'll see if she's sober, we'll get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Okay, all right, all right, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking to Aaron. Please. This is she? Hey Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who Jebil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>well are you? Is this like a survey or something

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<v Speaker 1>or kind of I'm doing a survey on this dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Mike that I know and anybody who's been out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with him. Have you been on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy named Mike recently? Sorry? I'm excused?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you being serious? We do a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then don't

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<v Speaker 1>call them back, after that person can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone to try to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. So Mike emailed us about your date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. Now, do you mind talking to us

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<v Speaker 1>for a minute about your date with Mike? Um? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. Okay. So he told us how you met

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<v Speaker 1>like some seven legged bar crawl thing, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>says that you went out on a double date with

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<v Speaker 1>him in his roommate, but now you're not getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to him. He said he really liked you and he

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<v Speaker 1>can't figure out why. Is there a reason? Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I feel like the whole situation with him,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just, you know, I really don't think it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>work out between us. So what situation? I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mention that he was in any sort of situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, just kind of what happened that night. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it just got kind of weird. But the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>that he told us that was weird was his roommate

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<v Speaker 1>started making out with her her date and wouldn't stop,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought that was awkward. Oh, he didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you about the situation with him in his roommate. No, Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So basically At one point, I was talking to his

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<v Speaker 1>roommate alone, and she was telling me that occasionally, when

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<v Speaker 1>she and Mike get bored, still hook up, maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>once or twice a month or something like that, they're

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping together. Yeah. Yeah, Like I kind of tried to

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<v Speaker 1>play it cool like at the time, but I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>like not cool with that at all. Not what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. You don't want to date a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>hooks up with a roommate from time to time, No,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially not too when he like lives with Like yeah, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just kind of like the rest of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just kind of like, okay, just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>sit here and let the time pass and again. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way, like she wasn't joking, right, There's no

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<v Speaker 1>way it could have been a joke or something. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she was being very sincere. Oh oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>from what I could tell, Yeah, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's still a big deal. It's fully fine. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to let you know, like, how was that not

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal? Yeah, you would think that would be

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. I think what's happening is the roommate

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<v Speaker 1>likes Mike, and she was trying to sabotage your day

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Well, either way, even if she's not the

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<v Speaker 1>one who has feelings going to sleeping together and they

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<v Speaker 1>lived together, so it's kind of like, I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>want to get in between that. No, I remember, he

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<v Speaker 1>probably wants you to get in between it. That probably

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<v Speaker 1>she's really hoping for her. But what if she's making

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Though she's not making it up. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>make up something like that. I don't know their roommates. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that is, who is gonna date Mike when he's sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>with his roommate? No one. Yeah, anyway, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>surprising didn't mention that. But yeah, well that answers our question. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty pretty cut and dry there. Yeah. So you know

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<v Speaker 1>after that, I don't really want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again or see him again. Yeah. Well, the goodness

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<v Speaker 1>is you don't have to see him again, But I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to see if you'll talk to him again,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's on the other line listening. I wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him. What are you serious? Yes, I am,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike is on the phone. Yeah, Mike, you're still there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard all of that. I mean, what's what's the

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<v Speaker 1>big deal? What's the big deal I used to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a big deal. I mean we're not exclusive.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I mean that I don't really care

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not exclusive. But you're like the girly live

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<v Speaker 1>with only once in a blue moon, and it's purely physical,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So, I mean, we're not exclusive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't I don't know why this is a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal for real, you don't know why that's an issue.

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<v Speaker 1>You're sleeping with somebody that you live with. No, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>are you Bryan to pressure me to be your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you want? Oh my god. God, women

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<v Speaker 1>always trying to like ruin your life right away. It

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<v Speaker 1>seems like you're trying to pressure me to not see

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<v Speaker 1>other ladies. No, actually know, I you can go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and see other ladies. I'm looking for someone who doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have your situation going on. I mean, like, think about it, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how could she ever trust you if you guys did

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<v Speaker 1>start a relationship. Yeah, I mean, my roommates beake too

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<v Speaker 1>cool with it. I don't I don't see how you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be cool with it. But just what if I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what if you're just sitting around and said we're starting

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<v Speaker 1>to get serious. But one day, like what if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out of town and you just get really bored and

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<v Speaker 1>you just you look up with her and like what then,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it just sends well, if that did happen, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, yeah, we're dating stuff with my roommate. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>at least let you know. That is nice. I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>the honesty, but that's still just not really what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going for. It's like thinking about it this way, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I ask you to come over to my

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<v Speaker 1>apartment and then I told you like, oh, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having sex with my male roommate over here, would you

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<v Speaker 1>be like super cool with that? Like what would you

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<v Speaker 1>think of that? I mean, I just want you to

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<v Speaker 1>call me and after you've showered. Wow, man, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying we should be allowed to date other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you care who I date? We're not exclusive.

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<v Speaker 1>Did we sit down and have a conversation and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your boyfriend, you're my girlfriend? Like that? We did not. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't had that kind of conversation. And it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>different too when the person that you're like seeing just

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<v Speaker 1>live a just trend feet away from you all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that just makes it even weirder, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't it's just not something I'm into, Mike. Why aren't

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<v Speaker 1>you just dating your roommate now? I'm not into her

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean, that's just weird. It's weird to

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<v Speaker 1>date someone that you're sleeping with casually happen to live

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<v Speaker 1>with you too. Odd. I'm with you there on that one, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, have none of you guys sucks up

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<v Speaker 1>with any of your friends because you've been bored? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't multiple times a month and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>live with them. I mean, I highly recommend it because

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty fun and it's pretty convenient. Convenient too that, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>it's convenient. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure it is. Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>keep on keep it on, Mike, But I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I can I have any part of that hold on, Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you get to that, let me just ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second date when Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>we will pay for it? No, I'm sorry, No, Aeron.

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<v Speaker 1>How about this? How about you come over one night

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<v Speaker 1>with my roommate. We can all like have dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>talk us over. Yeah, it sounds like you, Mike. Yeah, drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Mike, you guys just have different boundaries, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so yours are a little bit more open

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<v Speaker 1>than hers, a lot more open. I mean, she's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>open to come over whenever she wants. Okay, Aaron, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, you know you turned down the date, but

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<v Speaker 1>you got an open invite over to Mike's place whenever

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<v Speaker 1>you want it. That's kind of nice, right, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, appreciate you telling us why you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call him back, and Mike maybe be more upfront about

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<v Speaker 1>that with other dates that you go on, and you

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<v Speaker 1>might find a girl that's right for you, or don't

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<v Speaker 1>sing it at all, or just again start dating the

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<v Speaker 1>roommate ill. I would never date her. She's like my sister.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. It's getting worse, getting even worse for you, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>take care of broken Juwil in the morning.