WEBVTT - ALL THE THINGS

0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:04.040
<v Speaker 1>This is, he said a Yavi ho with Eric Winter

0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:05.279
<v Speaker 1>and Rosalind Fantaz.

0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Dude afternoon, she said, yet the listeners look at you, okay,

0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:18.480
<v Speaker 2>look at you. Literally just walked off the plane from Cabo.

0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:20.759
<v Speaker 1>I oh yeah, pretty much right.

0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:25.640
<v Speaker 2>We were in Cabo, which was great week leading up

0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.680
<v Speaker 2>to Father's Day, which was listen. We had a great

0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:32.680
<v Speaker 2>time at the hotel. We oh my god, this totally sidetrack.

0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:35.040
<v Speaker 2>We had the best, one of the craziest stories told

0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:38.000
<v Speaker 2>to us while we were in Cabo. What so one

0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.080
<v Speaker 2>of our good friends we're not going to say who

0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:46.880
<v Speaker 2>was having sex with her boyfriend and he had a

0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:52.760
<v Speaker 2>heart attack triggered by sex. Didn't understand what was happening.

0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:55.200
<v Speaker 2>He just felt like, he said, an elephant was sitting

0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.680
<v Speaker 2>on his chest, his chest, he was everything was very heavy.

0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:02.440
<v Speaker 2>Obviously they stop. She even jokes, he didn't finish the job,

0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:07.240
<v Speaker 2>got done, said you had a heart attack, rushed them

0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:11.600
<v Speaker 2>immediately into surgery, used the balloon, opened up the artery

0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:16.680
<v Speaker 2>and he's okay, thankfully, so we can Three days later.

0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Is when we saw them, and he looked fabulous, like

0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.960
<v Speaker 1>handsome as ever, laughing about it, but at the moment,

0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:25.800
<v Speaker 1>of course, it was not funny at all, but it's

0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:29.320
<v Speaker 1>really scary. How men it's becoming so common. Eric the

0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:35.479
<v Speaker 1>late fifties but looks early like late forties. He looks

0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:41.840
<v Speaker 1>fantastic and perfectly healthy. It's super clean, no previous medical

0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.200
<v Speaker 1>issues at all. It just it just happened. And more

0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:47.760
<v Speaker 1>and more we hear about this. So guys, please, like

0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:51.280
<v Speaker 1>that comedian said, your fifties for a male is your

0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:55.400
<v Speaker 1>drop dead face years. Yeah, so please take care of yourself.

0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:56.880
<v Speaker 1>Although it comes out.

0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Of nowhere, I just can't believe he was. They were

0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.320
<v Speaker 2>in the act of having sex like that. You hear

0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:01.280
<v Speaker 2>stories like that, I know.

0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:02.840
<v Speaker 1>My question to you is, are you going to be

0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:04.840
<v Speaker 1>all weared every time you have sex now? Are you're

0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.040
<v Speaker 1>going to be like super diligent and take it slow

0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:09.679
<v Speaker 1>because you're the one your heart rate to go too

0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.840
<v Speaker 1>high and then have the possibility of a heart attime?

0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:18.040
<v Speaker 1>No you should why because no, it happens to the

0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:18.560
<v Speaker 1>best of them.

0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.960
<v Speaker 2>No, take care of it. And it's just that's just

0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.400
<v Speaker 2>crazy as it is, like, yeah, you can have it anybody.

0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.560
<v Speaker 1>He's doing great, So we are very very happy. They're

0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:28.560
<v Speaker 1>a fantastic.

0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.520
<v Speaker 2>Colorable intro to the show right, we judged the sex

0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:32.320
<v Speaker 2>of the heart attack and Cabo and what.

0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:36.600
<v Speaker 1>About Cobo was amazing. Noble Residence says it was incredible,

0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:38.560
<v Speaker 1>to the point that now we're like, we should get

0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.120
<v Speaker 1>a place. And cow is so convenient for Los Angeles.

0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:42.519
<v Speaker 1>It's so close, it's so nice.

0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.119
<v Speaker 2>I would love to make that a regular. We haven't

0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:46.400
<v Speaker 2>been in almost twenty years. Well, think we've been together

0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.840
<v Speaker 2>for eighteen No, right, nineteen years. Now, we haven't been

0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:50.720
<v Speaker 2>in like seventeen years.

0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we loved it. We all gained probably a

0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:59.440
<v Speaker 1>minimum of five pounds because and eight and eight. So

0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:01.800
<v Speaker 1>now we're to do a cleanse so we can just

0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.400
<v Speaker 1>it's not even hounds, it's inflammation. We're just inflames.

0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.000
<v Speaker 2>How about I take you out snorkeling and we see

0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.480
<v Speaker 2>some incredible fish and I throw some bread in the water.

0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:14.280
<v Speaker 2>And yes, we got swarmed by probably two ndred a

0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:17.160
<v Speaker 2>couple of hundred fish, I mean, circling us, bumping into us,

0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:22.520
<v Speaker 2>huge fish, huge massive fish. But Roland literally climbs on

0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:25.320
<v Speaker 2>top of me like a koala was thrown the back

0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:29.040
<v Speaker 2>weather life that's on and like clinging to me, legs

0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.040
<v Speaker 2>wrapped around me, arm wrapped around me like we're under attack.

0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.640
<v Speaker 1>We were under attack, and I just freaked out. I

0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:38.880
<v Speaker 1>looked because I look, and I am surrounded by two

0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:42.760
<v Speaker 1>hundred plus fish, not a lot of tiny fish, massive fish,

0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.960
<v Speaker 1>and I lost it and I had to leave like

0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:47.600
<v Speaker 1>a like a lunatic. And then I got.

0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Stung, stung, stung by jellyfish.

0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.880
<v Speaker 1>By jellyfish on my arm nose all it's, oh my god, God,

0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I just got it was pretty crazy. But that boat,

0:03:57.760 --> 0:04:00.280
<v Speaker 1>the whole day was fantastic. The kids had a last

0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:02.440
<v Speaker 1>We went with a couple front of hours from Salt

0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Lake City, Kelly Jasamine and the girls, Luke and Olive,

0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:09.520
<v Speaker 1>and it was so so wonderful. Then we came back

0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:11.960
<v Speaker 1>the flag go canceled.

0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:13.680
<v Speaker 2>That was also wild.

0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:14.960
<v Speaker 1>We thank you Biden.

0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:20.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, I guess Biden was coming to town. We flew JSAX.

0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:26.800
<v Speaker 2>We loved, but it basically got grounded. Every every charter

0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.200
<v Speaker 2>or every private plane, private plane which just wasn't private.

0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:30.520
<v Speaker 2>This is just like a it's like a it's a

0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.600
<v Speaker 2>company that they like a Southwest like they have their

0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:37.400
<v Speaker 2>own private planes with their own charter planes open to

0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:40.960
<v Speaker 2>the public. And everything got grounded. So come Saturday, we

0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.279
<v Speaker 2>lost our flight had to move our flight to later

0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:46.880
<v Speaker 2>in the day. It was chaos for about less than

0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:48.719
<v Speaker 2>twenty four hours. We finally got a flight back and

0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:50.120
<v Speaker 2>then made it home.

0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:53.360
<v Speaker 1>We made it home and then we Sunday Father's Day

0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:59.119
<v Speaker 1>was about Rossolini, Fauccini, doing laundry all day long, Fuccini,

0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:06.599
<v Speaker 1>and then we went to dinner and it was just

0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:07.240
<v Speaker 1>very mellow.

0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:09.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, kids had sports. It was good.

0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:11.719
<v Speaker 1>You played a lot of basketball with the kids. It

0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:12.839
<v Speaker 1>was awesome. It was awesome.

0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:17.000
<v Speaker 2>And here we are, here we are, and you're gearing

0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.880
<v Speaker 2>up to go out of town. Your movie is finally

0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:21.880
<v Speaker 2>coming together. I think it's real at this point.

0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:24.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Yes it's real. What you say.

0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:28.000
<v Speaker 2>I think there's no chance it doesn't happen at this point.

0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Amazing people to Puerto Rico guys.

0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:39.760
<v Speaker 1>Four fabulous ladies married to fabulous Puerto Rican baseball stars

0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:44.880
<v Speaker 1>and one or two more that are just incredible, empowered

0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:51.320
<v Speaker 1>professionals and as well as my other ladies that are

0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:57.400
<v Speaker 1>beloved in Puerto Rico because the husbands are beloved athletes

0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:01.120
<v Speaker 1>and they are on their own incredible mods and entrepreneurs,

0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and they run foundations and they do a lot of philanthropy.

0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Work and they're smart and it's awesome female empowerment.

0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:12.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's gonna be great. I'm excited coming together.

0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.479
<v Speaker 1>How guys sweat in tears and years and years, but

0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I am so excited and it's going to be such

0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:19.960
<v Speaker 1>a special When you're leaving just in time for me

0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:20.839
<v Speaker 1>to go back to work.

0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I start the Rookie this week and you are gone

0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:25.680
<v Speaker 2>for about a month and a half, going to be crazy,

0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.479
<v Speaker 2>but it is what it is. It's good. It's good things.

0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.680
<v Speaker 2>We're glad the Rookie is back up. I'm glad to

0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.200
<v Speaker 2>be back at work. The Rum officially has launched. So

0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:37.120
<v Speaker 2>much stuff happening this summer. It's been it's been great.

0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.640
<v Speaker 2>It's been really great. Starting to dive into making some

0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:43.040
<v Speaker 2>different rum drinks, some moheat those, you know. I had

0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:44.880
<v Speaker 2>a mint jewel up when we were on the Access

0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Hollywood talking about the Rum.

0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:47.560
<v Speaker 1>What is a mint jewel up.

0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.000
<v Speaker 2>It's typically a bourbon drink and it's the drink of

0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:54.000
<v Speaker 2>the Kentucky Derby. It's a little simple syrup, you're bourbon

0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.640
<v Speaker 2>and some crushed mint in it with crushed ice. It's

0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.000
<v Speaker 2>really really nice. It's a great summer drink.

0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.719
<v Speaker 1>I sent you a to be for a coconut. I

0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:05.320
<v Speaker 1>saw it, so did you see that? Yes? I was like,

0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:06.240
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this is.

0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Perfecttail version, and I'll make the public versiontail.

0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:13.960
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's a fan doing like a whole illustration guys.

0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I posted it on my well my story is is

0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.560
<v Speaker 1>going to go away, but I think your TikTok account.

0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.360
<v Speaker 2>Has no I put on my actual page too because

0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I was so impressed by the scribe.

0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:23.160
<v Speaker 1>Was is it a woman or a guy?

0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:27.600
<v Speaker 2>It was a girl. She's a young girl lives it

0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:31.120
<v Speaker 2>doesn't live here, but sketched out this amazing you.

0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Know, the bottle card on your face, a.

0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Press release of the bottles and and and me at

0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:39.840
<v Speaker 2>the bar drinking, just an awesome piece of fan art

0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:42.920
<v Speaker 2>already coming to surface with republic that the support has

0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.080
<v Speaker 2>been incredible and I'm really really pleased by it.

0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:46.880
<v Speaker 1>What are you the most excited about going back to

0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the rookie?

0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Good storylines, good storylines, just you know, it's like, you know,

0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.920
<v Speaker 2>the feeling too. It's nice to be back at work. Obviously,

0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I love everybody I work with, so it's always fun

0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:57.720
<v Speaker 2>to reunite with everybody. And I think we're excited to

0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:59.960
<v Speaker 2>see what's in store for for season seven, which is

0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:03.880
<v Speaker 2>unbelievable to be going that farah, and I know the

0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.600
<v Speaker 2>fans are anxious and excited about it. We don't premiere

0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:09.280
<v Speaker 2>for like six months, so that's a little weird for

0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.960
<v Speaker 2>six months being premire until January of twenty twenty five,

0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:14.720
<v Speaker 2>so that's that's a bit of a bummer. But it's

0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.960
<v Speaker 2>gonna be good to be back to work. And Alexi

0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:20.320
<v Speaker 2>r showners directing the first episode, so that's exciting. That

0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:20.960
<v Speaker 2>is exciting.

0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.800
<v Speaker 1>That's awesome, And hopefully they'll have me do like an

0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:24.640
<v Speaker 1>episode or something.

0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:26.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and what was your character's name? We got to

0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:31.040
<v Speaker 2>bring your character Natalie, the reporters came back Natalie.

0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know the last name, but.

0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hopefully this season, once you get free and you're

0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.600
<v Speaker 2>not working on your movie anymore, we hopefully get you

0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:38.240
<v Speaker 2>back on the show.

0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:41.600
<v Speaker 1>This is what's crazy, guys. It's been such an interesting

0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.079
<v Speaker 1>year with the strike and just things are slow and

0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.600
<v Speaker 1>there's so many things in development. And I went to this.

0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I think I said this already before I went to this.

0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.520
<v Speaker 1>Not astrologer. He calls himself, I don't even know what,

0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:00.320
<v Speaker 1>very accurate, and he's I wur in November twenty twenty three,

0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and he said, you're going to be that this is

0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:09.280
<v Speaker 1>your quiet time. Have patience, and just enjoy doing things

0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.640
<v Speaker 1>that you always wanted to do but you haven't had

0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.360
<v Speaker 1>the chance to do because you're always busy. So just

0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.640
<v Speaker 1>think about a hobby that you love. This is the

0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.720
<v Speaker 1>time to do it, because very soon everything is just

0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:23.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna show up at once and it's gonna be overwhelming,

0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.360
<v Speaker 1>and then you're not gonna have time to do anything.

0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:29.640
<v Speaker 1>And that is going to happen in fall twenty twenty four.

0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm listening to these Listen, guys, this is November twenty

0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:37.280
<v Speaker 1>twenty three. I'm not used to not ever working or

0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.560
<v Speaker 1>having downtime that I can just have a hobby that

0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna oh for six months. I'm just gonna

0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:44.400
<v Speaker 1>have a hobby. I've never done that in my life,

0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.079
<v Speaker 1>only when I wanted to get pregnant. That I took

0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.800
<v Speaker 1>a pause both times to be able to get pregnant

0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:52.040
<v Speaker 1>because I was doing fertility treatments anyways, so I didn't

0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:56.319
<v Speaker 1>pay attention. I actually left the session annoyed because I'm

0:09:56.320 --> 0:10:00.520
<v Speaker 1>going is it out of his mind that it's November

0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:03.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to wait until fall of twenty twenty

0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.120
<v Speaker 1>four to work.

0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:09.319
<v Speaker 2>He is tripping patience. And guess what I know it's

0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:10.040
<v Speaker 2>not your name.

0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Knows no my name. My name is Midlas Miracle.

0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:15.480
<v Speaker 2>Our miracles come with patience.

0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:19.760
<v Speaker 1>Well then I'm a very odd miracle. Anyways, So guys,

0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:24.800
<v Speaker 1>fall twenty twenty four, my schedule is out of control.

0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have time to do nothing. And it's

0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.280
<v Speaker 1>really interesting. He was right. It freaks me out.

0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:33.560
<v Speaker 2>So of these people we've met with have been so

0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:35.559
<v Speaker 2>spot on. You know me, I was never a big

0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:37.520
<v Speaker 2>fan of that type of stuff, but I've starting to

0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.280
<v Speaker 2>become a believer. I mean a lot of things have

0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:42.360
<v Speaker 2>been super accurate, which is which is impressive.

0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:46.280
<v Speaker 1>Give the Tyler Henry said to you the medium that

0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:47.680
<v Speaker 1>you were going to play a cop, but it was

0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:48.440
<v Speaker 1>going to be like.

0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.240
<v Speaker 2>He had something about flaw enforcement.

0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:51.599
<v Speaker 1>That I was working in and under time that was

0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.240
<v Speaker 1>what I wasn't even pregnant with Dylan. We were trying

0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:55.280
<v Speaker 1>for another year.

0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.280
<v Speaker 2>We were in the other house, so we had you

0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:58.800
<v Speaker 2>were pregnant with Dylan. No, no, no no.

0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.400
<v Speaker 1>When we met Tyler Hair, we were no. It was Josebella.

0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:01.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh, wow.

0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:05.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and he saw another pregnancy. Oh wow, and we

0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.280
<v Speaker 1>were like, I was crying. I couldn't believe it. Goes no, no,

0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.079
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have another baby. And then he said to you,

0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:12.160
<v Speaker 1>this is more than six years ago, so back then

0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:13.760
<v Speaker 1>he didn't mean anything to you because he was like,

0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna something related to law enforcement that's gonna be huge.

0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:18.920
<v Speaker 1>And we were like, oh, interesting, but like we didn't

0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:19.360
<v Speaker 1>think about it.

0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.559
<v Speaker 2>Some of these things are I mean, you know, I'm

0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.719
<v Speaker 2>always fascinated by how that stuff plays out. And we

0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:25.199
<v Speaker 2>need to get another one on the show. We have

0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.920
<v Speaker 2>to find somebody special to talk about, you know, bring

0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:39.120
<v Speaker 2>on the on the podcast again. Oh my god. There

0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:42.040
<v Speaker 2>is an article that our producers put in front, and

0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:46.400
<v Speaker 2>this is pretty fascinating. A groom is upset because his

0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:50.280
<v Speaker 2>sister doesn't want to attend his clothing free naturist wedding.

0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:51.760
<v Speaker 2>What do you think about that?

0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I agree with the sister.

0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:56.679
<v Speaker 2>Would you attend a wedding if you were going to

0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:57.080
<v Speaker 2>be naked?

0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.360
<v Speaker 1>That everybody's gonna be naked?

0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Wedding a party.

0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:07.599
<v Speaker 1>My philosophy is that I don't care what others do

0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.480
<v Speaker 1>as long as someone isn't hurting or infringing on my

0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.160
<v Speaker 1>rights or the rights of others. Whatever consenting adults do

0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:17.760
<v Speaker 1>in their private lives is none of my concern, she wrote. However,

0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I do take issue with them bringing angry, being angry

0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.439
<v Speaker 1>that I want to tend their wedding. She noted that

0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.400
<v Speaker 1>she checked in with them if nudity was a requirement

0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:31.600
<v Speaker 1>of the wedding celebration or if it's regular wedding attire,

0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.640
<v Speaker 1>and they confirmed that all of their guests were required

0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:38.000
<v Speaker 1>to be in the buff for both the ceremony and reception.

0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:40.240
<v Speaker 2>What is the buff naked? Oh?

0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:43.840
<v Speaker 1>She wanted to explain that this, by understanding the significance

0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.040
<v Speaker 1>of the wedding venue, she wasn't willing to follow the

0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:50.040
<v Speaker 1>dress code. She also noted that she's offered to pay

0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:52.839
<v Speaker 1>for a separate reception for them, but the offer just

0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.200
<v Speaker 1>made amazing angry earth, she said.

0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:57.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely not comfortable walking up the aisle arm in

0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.880
<v Speaker 2>arm with a groovesman I've never met before who's both nude.

0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:05.880
<v Speaker 2>I just can't even imagine the photography at this wedding.

0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:10.520
<v Speaker 2>Can you imagine? It's all the stuff shaking around, jiggling around,

0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:15.240
<v Speaker 2>hanging down, all the different types of people just nude

0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:15.839
<v Speaker 2>at a wedding.

0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Would you do that? Heck no, heck no, I don't

0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:21.640
<v Speaker 1>know if this is real.

0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:25.160
<v Speaker 2>I was uncomfortable watching that that show. We got to

0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:29.440
<v Speaker 2>a naked dating show that was crazy on HBO Max,

0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:31.520
<v Speaker 2>so that people completely naked. You had to judge their

0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:34.160
<v Speaker 2>bodies before you could actually decide if you were going to.

0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Beach.

0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:39.920
<v Speaker 2>I've been to a nude beach, not nude myself, but

0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.120
<v Speaker 2>is also frowned upon. You're not supposed to walk around

0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:46.880
<v Speaker 2>that because I was I was traveling in your I

0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.600
<v Speaker 2>was young, traveling in Europe and having to stroll onto

0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:52.760
<v Speaker 2>one briefly and go back out like I didn't like

0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.120
<v Speaker 2>hang out there, which is where it's a problem. People

0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.680
<v Speaker 2>look at you like, huh. Topless beaches are a little

0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.520
<v Speaker 2>more forgiving. So I've been to topless beaches where obviously

0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm clothed and people have clothed this other tops off,

0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:05.480
<v Speaker 2>and that's a little easier to navigate.

0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you walk around your home naked when no one

0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:08.280
<v Speaker 1>is home?

0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.120
<v Speaker 2>No, with the kids. No, we don't really walk away.

0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:12.400
<v Speaker 1>You live yourself.

0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:15.040
<v Speaker 2>When I was by my so I mean, I don't

0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:17.240
<v Speaker 2>like just like walk around naked if I had to

0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:19.320
<v Speaker 2>go get something or walk me out something fast. But

0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.280
<v Speaker 2>that's not my style was not yours either. I don't

0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:25.400
<v Speaker 2>think right, No, I just think this is pretty pretty well.

0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:27.320
<v Speaker 2>What about you just walking around the house right now

0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:30.360
<v Speaker 2>all the time with an iPad in your hand or

0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.800
<v Speaker 2>a phone and all I hear all day are podcasts

0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:37.280
<v Speaker 2>in Spanish? Or what's the dating show? Now you're watching? Now?

0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.720
<v Speaker 2>I find myself like rubber necking looking at now, like

0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.280
<v Speaker 2>what's going on with this thing? Where is this show?

0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:43.240
<v Speaker 2>Per perfect Match?

0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Perfect Match?

0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:45.160
<v Speaker 2>What is nonsense?

0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:47.000
<v Speaker 1>Am I watching nonsense?

0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:51.720
<v Speaker 2>Watching? Not really? Although it's getting me looking at it too.

0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Now you love it? I don't love it, but it's

0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:55.920
<v Speaker 2>all and I'm like, who is that person? Why is

0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:57.000
<v Speaker 2>that person doing that? What? Who?

0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like Netflix like the way they produce

0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:03.440
<v Speaker 1>all these Love is Blind and perfect Match and the ultimatum.

0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:07.960
<v Speaker 2>And same production coming trust I think it is Nick

0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:08.400
<v Speaker 2>isn't Nick?

0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:12.960
<v Speaker 1>And they're just produced so well that everything about it,

0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:14.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, they way they make everything. Look how how

0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:17.800
<v Speaker 1>you follow the storylines and everything is like eye candy,

0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's just the locations are incredible and it's.

0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.680
<v Speaker 2>Are you? Are you? You're fancying a lot of the

0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:26.000
<v Speaker 2>guys you're seeing on the show.

0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.360
<v Speaker 1>No, none of them. A lot of them are very

0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:29.680
<v Speaker 1>very good looking. I don't fancy them.

0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:30.200
<v Speaker 2>Is that what you mean?

0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:32.600
<v Speaker 1>All very good looking? I don't fancy them.

0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:33.840
<v Speaker 2>Is that what you mean by I can't?

0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:35.120
<v Speaker 1>It's just attractive people.

0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:37.560
<v Speaker 2>So you like looking at a bunch of attractive people.

0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:41.800
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm fine, is coming out because you want to

0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:43.000
<v Speaker 1>just look at ugly people.

0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:47.360
<v Speaker 2>No, it's a bunch of good looking people, for sure, many,

0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:50.560
<v Speaker 2>and they're just like being ridiculous. I think it's it

0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:52.920
<v Speaker 2>feels like a lot of tools at times between the

0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:55.920
<v Speaker 2>guys and the girls, a lot of tools all came

0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:59.280
<v Speaker 2>from like reality success, and it looks like they're also clinging.

0:15:59.440 --> 0:15:59.920
<v Speaker 1>It's awful.

0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.520
<v Speaker 2>They're clinging the reality success, which makes it a little

0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:02.920
<v Speaker 2>bit silly.

0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.000
<v Speaker 1>It's awful about it's funny. This is fun this is eric.

0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.480
<v Speaker 1>So I'm in bed and I'm watching it.

0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:08.560
<v Speaker 2>But that's why I don't buy that it's really for love,

0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.280
<v Speaker 2>because when you see reality people, it's not continuing to

0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.240
<v Speaker 2>jump from dating reality show. They just want to stay

0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.400
<v Speaker 2>relevant in the world.

0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.840
<v Speaker 1>They're being paid. It's an opportunity just want.

0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:19.480
<v Speaker 2>To stay a celebrity.

0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's just fun, but whatever.

0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:22.440
<v Speaker 2>You watch it for what it is.

0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.080
<v Speaker 1>But this is Eric. Eric is like my ning is

0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.880
<v Speaker 1>own business, is like doing some stuff in his phone.

0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.320
<v Speaker 1>We're both in bed. I'm like looking at my eye

0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.840
<v Speaker 1>but and I notice I see that he is like

0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:35.240
<v Speaker 1>because you know, he's not scrawling anymore, so he's not writing.

0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.760
<v Speaker 1>So the phone is in front of him, but it's

0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.040
<v Speaker 1>not moving. Nothing is moving, So I know he was

0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:41.280
<v Speaker 1>actually looking at my eyepad.

0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Because I saw a couple of attractive people, I was like,

0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:43.760
<v Speaker 2>what is that?

0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:48.360
<v Speaker 1>And then at ten minutes after, he's like, is that Harry?

0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:50.320
<v Speaker 2>Because I saw him, and.

0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how the heck do you know? What is

0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:52.520
<v Speaker 1>his name?

0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:53.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know Harry?

0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Harry? Does you do?

0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.440
<v Speaker 2>No? I don't I know Harry because of TikTok, which

0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.200
<v Speaker 2>I can't believe I'm even saying this, because I thought

0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.280
<v Speaker 2>he was dating the girl and dancing with the stars.

0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know he wasn't dancers because I would

0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:09.320
<v Speaker 2>see it on that Eric.

0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Knew who Harry was and I was like, how the

0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:13.000
<v Speaker 1>heck do you know Harry?

0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.040
<v Speaker 2>He was dating Riley, So how the heck do you know,

0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:19.800
<v Speaker 2>even the name of Riley, some cute blonde girl. I

0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:23.520
<v Speaker 2>think it's Howsey. Yeah, Riley, she's a cute blonde girl.

0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:25.399
<v Speaker 2>How That I think is like a Mormon. And I

0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:27.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know what if they had I think I saw

0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:28.800
<v Speaker 2>something about that between the two of us.

0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:30.920
<v Speaker 1>See, I don't know, I don't know who's Rowley they were.

0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:31.639
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:32.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who's Riley.

0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:35.960
<v Speaker 2>She's one of the dancers on Dancing Partner, and I

0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.600
<v Speaker 2>believe they were dating. And now I see him on

0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:39.840
<v Speaker 2>the show and I'm like, wait, I thought that dude

0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:40.320
<v Speaker 2>was dating the.

0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Girl because Harry is very, very good looking.

0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.959
<v Speaker 2>And then he only that he's good looking. I got

0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:47.719
<v Speaker 2>no problem with the guy.

0:17:47.800 --> 0:17:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I pointed out at Harry and I was like, oh,

0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:52.840
<v Speaker 1>this is some guy from reality. No, And then he

0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:55.080
<v Speaker 1>gave me the whole resume of Harry, and I thought

0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:57.919
<v Speaker 1>it was very hilarious that you know about him and me. Ye, anyways,

0:17:58.760 --> 0:17:59.840
<v Speaker 1>Harry fast forward.

0:17:59.920 --> 0:18:02.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know he was your favorite on the show.

0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Is it my favorite? He might be my favorite? Yes?

0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:10.720
<v Speaker 1>And jess the girl, Jessica, the.

0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.119
<v Speaker 2>One that is the one Harry is also a very

0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:13.840
<v Speaker 2>beautiful study.

0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so she was on Love is Blind.

0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Someone passed on her or they didn't know what you

0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.280
<v Speaker 2>looked like. Correct, Oh yeah, she's a beautiful giry.

0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:22.399
<v Speaker 1>Correct, she's very pretty.

0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:25.240
<v Speaker 2>They together and they seem like they would be a

0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:26.040
<v Speaker 2>good match.

0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Claiming that he's madly in love with her, and he's

0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:31.080
<v Speaker 1>crying and throwing up and he's like trying to change

0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.000
<v Speaker 1>his ways because I guess he's like crying.

0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:36.720
<v Speaker 2>He was a little ridiculous. He was like crying with

0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:37.160
<v Speaker 2>a pillow.

0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I know, no, because there's all the show anyways, what's

0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:42.040
<v Speaker 1>funny is this? I don't know what I was watching it.

0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it was this morning. I don't know what

0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:45.280
<v Speaker 1>happened in Sabby No last night. Seby gets out of

0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:47.040
<v Speaker 1>the shower and she goes to me, she goes, what

0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:48.800
<v Speaker 1>are you watch and all these things about it. It's

0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:50.920
<v Speaker 1>not for you. This is for adults. And then he's

0:18:51.680 --> 0:18:54.320
<v Speaker 1>on the screen and he's and she's like, is that Harry,

0:18:55.080 --> 0:18:56.400
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, how the heck?

0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Because she probably out on the short.

0:18:58.640 --> 0:19:00.399
<v Speaker 1>She said that she saw something about and you know

0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:01.840
<v Speaker 1>all about it. I'm going am I the only one

0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:02.359
<v Speaker 1>that they didn't know who?

0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:05.760
<v Speaker 2>This one? Because YouTube shorts which I've now figured out.

0:19:05.760 --> 0:19:07.800
<v Speaker 2>O way, Riley and Harry did not date. There were

0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:11.240
<v Speaker 2>just a lot of rumors. She's nineteen how old t

0:19:11.800 --> 0:19:13.119
<v Speaker 2>twenty something? I don't know.

0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:15.080
<v Speaker 1>He's a baby too though I thought.

0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:16.760
<v Speaker 2>They dated, that is, they were playing it that way.

0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.920
<v Speaker 2>But sebbi again, which she got in trouble with the

0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:21.280
<v Speaker 2>other day because she's not supposed to be looking at

0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:24.000
<v Speaker 2>YouTube shorts and she was looking at YouTube shorts because

0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:25.760
<v Speaker 2>she's not supposed to TikTok. But I guess she finds

0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:29.639
<v Speaker 2>a way round it through YouTube anyway, That's how she

0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:30.680
<v Speaker 2>knows who he is for sure.

0:19:32.000 --> 0:19:36.639
<v Speaker 1>But anyways, so I can't wait for the twenty first. Well,

0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:40.159
<v Speaker 1>is this how the twenty first? Maybe we have to

0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:43.840
<v Speaker 1>edit this because the next episode airs the twenty first.

0:19:45.520 --> 0:19:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Harry is twenty, okay on this twenty next episode, the

0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:51.159
<v Speaker 2>next episode of our show you're talking about? Yes, I

0:19:51.200 --> 0:19:52.800
<v Speaker 2>don't know. We have to cut all this out now, yes,

0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:53.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:56.720
<v Speaker 1>So anyways, I cannot wait to see the next episode.

0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:58.280
<v Speaker 2>To see what I guess. I would have to see

0:19:58.280 --> 0:20:00.119
<v Speaker 2>it too, because she literally walks around the house the

0:20:00.160 --> 0:20:02.359
<v Speaker 2>iPad in her hand and just sets up shop everywhere

0:20:02.400 --> 0:20:04.440
<v Speaker 2>she's at to see it.

0:20:05.200 --> 0:20:09.080
<v Speaker 1>To Lee Toulou, I think it's to let the Australian girl.

0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:11.960
<v Speaker 1>They know, Nigerian or something. She's the very very black,

0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:15.639
<v Speaker 1>very short hair, stunning beautiful girl. So she's with Chrisy

0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:21.280
<v Speaker 1>with non by guys. Bye. I just want Harry and

0:20:21.480 --> 0:20:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Jest to make it. So I'm gonna I'm gonna write

0:20:24.080 --> 0:20:25.560
<v Speaker 1>it out just to see if he's a happy ending.

0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:26.280
<v Speaker 1>I doubt it, but.

0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:31.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know's they're they physically match up. They'd

0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:32.240
<v Speaker 2>be a good they'd be a good math.

0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:35.879
<v Speaker 1>Then, Sarah Williams tells people her upcoming Doctor series in

0:20:35.960 --> 0:20:40.560
<v Speaker 1>the Arena well, touching her competitive relationship with her sister Venus.

0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:43.240
<v Speaker 1>Venus is it was very difficult to compete against her

0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:45.320
<v Speaker 1>sister Venus before retiring from tennis.

0:20:45.400 --> 0:20:47.840
<v Speaker 2>This series is the next edition from Man in the Arena,

0:20:47.920 --> 0:20:50.400
<v Speaker 2>the Tom Brady one. So it's gonna be produced very similar. Wow,

0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Area will So it'sould be a great.

0:20:53.240 --> 0:20:57.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Stanley, she's now forty two, Venus is forty three.

0:20:57.760 --> 0:20:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you something. It must have it must have.

0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:01.879
<v Speaker 1>It must have been really hard when you are like

0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:05.400
<v Speaker 1>the best number one, number two players in the world,

0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:07.560
<v Speaker 1>what happened to be sisters? And it's inevitable that they

0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:08.760
<v Speaker 1>playing against play against.

0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's it's got to be brutal playing against family

0:21:11.480 --> 0:21:12.600
<v Speaker 2>like that and you just want to take the other

0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:14.680
<v Speaker 2>person out. It's it's got to be tough. But this,

0:21:15.040 --> 0:21:16.560
<v Speaker 2>this series in general, I think is going to be

0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:19.359
<v Speaker 2>fascinating about her life and where you know she was

0:21:19.440 --> 0:21:20.800
<v Speaker 2>and where she's at now. I think it's gonna be

0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:23.680
<v Speaker 2>to be fantastic. There's a lot. How are you liking

0:21:23.960 --> 0:21:26.720
<v Speaker 2>the show that I got you onto? Clipped the clippers

0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:28.680
<v Speaker 2>story about the owner.

0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Furiating and annoying to watch though which part what he did,

0:21:33.720 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 1>his behavior and the girl and the girl they both

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:38.960
<v Speaker 1>were toxic in that situation.

0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:41.720
<v Speaker 2>But he was awful, awful human the things he was

0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:44.680
<v Speaker 2>saying about African Americans, the players and all that.

0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:47.080
<v Speaker 1>And then why is he banging an African American?

0:21:49.320 --> 0:21:50.920
<v Speaker 2>He fancied her and he's a hypocrite.

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:55.640
<v Speaker 1>And then how about the wife staying through thick and thin.

0:21:56.200 --> 0:21:58.840
<v Speaker 1>It's a very interesting character, the wife and the actress

0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:00.680
<v Speaker 1>playing it is just I don't know if I just

0:22:00.720 --> 0:22:02.240
<v Speaker 1>want to slap her, if I just want to hugger.

0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:02.960
<v Speaker 1>It is the craziest thing.

0:22:03.240 --> 0:22:04.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's there's a lot of good acting going on.

0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's incredible, but it's a little disturbing. He's like,

0:22:07.680 --> 0:22:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm ubsessed with it, but then I'm watching it, I'm uncomfortable.

0:22:10.640 --> 0:22:12.320
<v Speaker 2>Fish person doing a great job as well. Lawrence is

0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:16.600
<v Speaker 2>always but it's really good, like the way it's always been.

0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:16.959
<v Speaker 1>Amazing.

0:22:17.000 --> 0:22:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's molded himself really well into playing even o'ni

0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:23.880
<v Speaker 2>like phenomenally. I know, I don't even recognize I don't.

0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:26.240
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I recognize that O'Neil, but his mannerisms don't

0:22:26.240 --> 0:22:27.679
<v Speaker 2>feel like you know how I love.

0:22:27.800 --> 0:22:29.280
<v Speaker 1>I love what is the name of the guy playing

0:22:29.359 --> 0:22:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Chris Paul? That is the guy from Valley from Valley's

0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I love that freaking at this guy.

0:22:34.000 --> 0:22:38.160
<v Speaker 2>Is really good, amazing. Yeah, that that story has been

0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.479
<v Speaker 2>really fun to see how that actually unfolded and how

0:22:40.480 --> 0:22:44.800
<v Speaker 2>the players dealt with it and fascinating. And the new

0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:46.560
<v Speaker 2>documentary I want to see now is The Brats, the

0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 2>one about the eighties movies. You know, although the movies

0:22:49.640 --> 0:22:50.920
<v Speaker 2>we grew up with, you don't want to see that.

0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:52.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm seeing that without you.

0:22:52.960 --> 0:22:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Eighties. I was in Puerto Rico, I wasn't. I wasn't

0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:57.000
<v Speaker 1>into I wasn't about those movies you watched.

0:22:56.800 --> 0:22:59.359
<v Speaker 2>Sixteen Candles and Breakfast Club and all that you did,

0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:02.520
<v Speaker 2>But it wasn't. It wasn't like a big Alpouria Bkfoost club,

0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:03.639
<v Speaker 2>but the.

0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 1>First club, Fast Club. I try to say, yeah, I

0:23:07.600 --> 0:23:09.840
<v Speaker 1>mean I enjoyed them, but it was well. Although you

0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:11.600
<v Speaker 1>know I loved Pretty Woman, that.

0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:13.960
<v Speaker 2>Was more my my gent the same era.

0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 1>It's not that. Maybe that's why. Maybe that's why, like

0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:19.280
<v Speaker 1>sixteen Kindas, I don't remember every watching. I know, I

0:23:19.440 --> 0:23:22.200
<v Speaker 1>know the IP, I know it, but I don't remember

0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:22.920
<v Speaker 1>watching the movie.

0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:26.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, those are some good let's do. Let's do some

0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:27.240
<v Speaker 2>some listeners.

0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:29.119
<v Speaker 1>You told me that they're doing the remake of an

0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:30.119
<v Speaker 1>officer and a gentleman.

0:23:30.560 --> 0:23:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Are Miles what's his name?

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:36.400
<v Speaker 1>My steel tailor? Yes? And the girl?

0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know yet. I think there's work.

0:23:37.880 --> 0:23:39.639
<v Speaker 1>Am I too old for him? I'm too old? Roy?

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:42.320
<v Speaker 1>What to play the girl?

0:23:43.520 --> 0:23:44.119
<v Speaker 2>You think it's my.

0:23:44.119 --> 0:23:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Favorite movie in the world.

0:23:45.280 --> 0:23:49.920
<v Speaker 2>I get it. You're thirty something, you're pay fifty two.

0:23:50.680 --> 0:23:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm fifty one, thank you very much.

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:52.560
<v Speaker 2>That's right.

0:23:53.080 --> 0:23:55.080
<v Speaker 1>And he's not thirties for sure.

0:23:55.119 --> 0:23:57.560
<v Speaker 2>He is in his thirties. Mike is not his forties.

0:23:57.960 --> 0:24:00.760
<v Speaker 2>Miles Teller, Yeah, he's in his thirties.

0:24:00.800 --> 0:24:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't look I don't look like I'm not compatible

0:24:02.920 --> 0:24:05.880
<v Speaker 1>with him? What do I look much older than him?

0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.600
<v Speaker 2>See? I think I'm not compatible with quite a few

0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 2>thirty year olds as well. What do you think I

0:24:10.080 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 2>can match it with it?

0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:11.600
<v Speaker 1>You're not compatible?

0:24:12.119 --> 0:24:15.200
<v Speaker 2>Is very wrinkly, wow, very wrinkly.

0:24:15.560 --> 0:24:16.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm joking.

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:18.760
<v Speaker 2>That's the word. Very wrinkly.

0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:22.720
<v Speaker 1>Beautiful. Wow, you're like I tell you, you're like very

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I think it's going to be like a clean Eastwood

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:28.399
<v Speaker 1>or like a Rubert super wrinkly. But that's but they're beautiful, man,

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:32.360
<v Speaker 1>they're handsome. I don't think they they they age like studs.

0:24:33.280 --> 0:24:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Very wrinkly. I thought my wrinkles have been doing much incredible,

0:24:37.160 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my fine gosh.

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 1>Anyways, so you don't think.

0:24:40.119 --> 0:24:43.639
<v Speaker 2>I messed with my the facial thing trying to make

0:24:43.680 --> 0:24:44.200
<v Speaker 2>my face.

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Look amazing supern twenty.

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:47.320
<v Speaker 2>You look at me?

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:50.399
<v Speaker 1>See how old are you? Forty seven? Forget you can

0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:54.159
<v Speaker 1>you lost me at very wrinkly joking Anyway, So my

0:24:54.280 --> 0:24:55.959
<v Speaker 1>husband doesn't think that I that I can do an

0:24:55.960 --> 0:24:59.960
<v Speaker 1>officer and a gentleman the remake because I've a wrinkle.

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:01.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm too old for that.

0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:13.560
<v Speaker 2>From your very wrinkly husband. Let's talk about some audience

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:18.280
<v Speaker 2>questions from Kristen via email Rosland. I suffer from claustrophobia

0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 2>and I have to fly this summer. Oh we just

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:23.119
<v Speaker 2>went through this. Please give me all the tips to

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:25.440
<v Speaker 2>get through the flight. I'm stressing out and I don't

0:25:25.480 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 2>want to have a panic attack. Help.

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Well, there's many different techniques you can take Unison. You

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:38.240
<v Speaker 1>can buy to the pharmacy. It's like a sleep aid.

0:25:38.960 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 1>You can have a saanax or a volume. Although I

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:45.280
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be telling people to take. You have

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:47.400
<v Speaker 1>to consult with your doctor. But that will keep the edge,

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:49.479
<v Speaker 1>it will control you a little bit, a little bit.

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:51.679
<v Speaker 1>I just actually took one and a half. I had

0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:55.520
<v Speaker 1>to do an MRI my friend yesterday from my lumber

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:58.800
<v Speaker 1>and my cervical. Even though it was an open MRI.

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I had to go with a friend. He was in

0:26:00.960 --> 0:26:03.960
<v Speaker 1>the room with me because Eric was not available. They

0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:05.800
<v Speaker 1>had to put a mirror on top of me so

0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:08.280
<v Speaker 1>I could look at the street and not feel like

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:11.879
<v Speaker 1>I was enclosed, and they kept the temperature very cold,

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:14.760
<v Speaker 1>so I was pretty much freezing, because if I feel hot,

0:26:15.000 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 1>then I get a panic attack. And I took valume

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:21.560
<v Speaker 1>and I have to say. And then I requested Anita Nasario,

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:24.639
<v Speaker 1>Puerto Rican singer and Spotify, so they gave me headphones,

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:26.760
<v Speaker 1>so I was fully loaded. I had company, I had

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:28.960
<v Speaker 1>a volume, and I had music, and I had a

0:26:29.040 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 1>mirror and.

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:31.720
<v Speaker 2>I was able to Cabo. We got stuck on the

0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 2>runway for like twenty minutes waiting and you started to

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 2>freak out.

0:26:34.760 --> 0:26:39.840
<v Speaker 1>And because we landed exactly, I started texting Aera. Can

0:26:39.920 --> 0:26:42.880
<v Speaker 1>you ask what's happening? Like I'm about to lose my mind?

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 2>Why is that buggy more being in the same plane ground,

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:48.800
<v Speaker 2>you're not flying. There's no accident that could happen.

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:51.560
<v Speaker 1>If I am ground. If I am flying for whatever reason,

0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:53.919
<v Speaker 1>the movement when I opened the window and I.

0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:56.960
<v Speaker 2>See movements, movement, you just see blue skies.

0:26:57.080 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I know there's I don't know what is psychological madness.

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.640
<v Speaker 1>But if I am flying and I'm cold, I can

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I can control myself. If I am stuck at the

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 1>landing and you know how the airflow is different because

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:10.120
<v Speaker 1>the plane is not moving.

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.479
<v Speaker 2>That part I get. But I would think being trapped

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:15.520
<v Speaker 2>in the air would be way worse than being trapped

0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 2>on the ground. No, if you're in the air, you

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 2>can't get off the plane. If you're on the ground,

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how plane get off.

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's moving. I feel much better.

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, before I even moving, I would be freaking out.

0:27:27.160 --> 0:27:30.160
<v Speaker 1>Now it has changed into as long as I'm flying

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>and I'm cold, I'm gonna be fine. So listen. If

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:38.000
<v Speaker 1>you are losing it, then tell the person next to you,

0:27:38.160 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm about to have a panic attack. Would you please

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>talk to me?

0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 2>I just talked the passenger's ear off next to her.

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>He talked to me for five hours.

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, you forced him to.

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:47.479
<v Speaker 1>I forced him to talk.

0:27:48.400 --> 0:27:50.040
<v Speaker 2>He probably he probably wanted to hit on you, but

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 2>he didn't.

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:54.280
<v Speaker 1>He was very respectful, respect very respectful Asian man, very respectful,

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>and he did not stop talking for hours. I feel

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:57.840
<v Speaker 1>so terrible.

0:27:57.480 --> 0:27:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Because he didn't want that plane to be turned around.

0:27:59.080 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 2>He wanted to get to his destiny.

0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:01.400
<v Speaker 1>And that that's what I said to him when I said,

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:03.200
<v Speaker 1>listen about I have a panic attack. I don't want

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:06.680
<v Speaker 1>to unfortunately, mess everybody's flight because they're going to have

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:09.119
<v Speaker 1>to open the doors and call La lah blah, So

0:28:09.359 --> 0:28:11.399
<v Speaker 1>I need you to talk to me right now. So

0:28:11.560 --> 0:28:14.639
<v Speaker 1>he did for five hours. It was amazing. So Jo's great.

0:28:14.760 --> 0:28:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Take something before the flight brings a podcast, download a

0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of shows that you like, so you just look

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 1>into your iPad and just put that on. That helps

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot. Just don't do anything if you if you're

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:32.680
<v Speaker 1>just sitting down thinking about I'm enclosed, you're gonna have

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 1>a panica.

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:35.840
<v Speaker 2>And to answer your other question, yes, for the realm,

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 2>I will be doing some in store signings for the launch,

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 2>and you know, onward, not just for the launch, but

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 2>we'll be doing in store meet and greet, so we're

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna be lining that stuff. I was to move on,

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Let's see Sue via email from the UK. My questions

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:55.640
<v Speaker 2>for both, is there one piece of advice you wish

0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 2>you had been given, either when you were trying or

0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 2>had just had your kids? And similarly, is there any

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:05.720
<v Speaker 2>piece of advice you offer family and friends who are

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 2>trying to have young.

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Kids piece of advice that I wish we would have known.

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:15.800
<v Speaker 2>I know one that I was given that it's not

0:29:15.880 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 2>really advice, It was just sort of a it was

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 2>information and it was everything that you've ever and this

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 2>is very true. My uncle gave me this. Everything you've

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 2>ever heard about having a baby or being a parent,

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 2>it's all true. Just magnify it by a thousand because

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 2>when it's your kid, everything is exponentially greater. So you'll

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 2>never know what it's like to have no sleep. You'll

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>never know what it's like. I mean, you have an

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 2>idea of the lack of sleep, or the difficulties with discipline,

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>or the joys, even the positives. Everything is what people say,

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 2>but when it's your child, it's hard to explain. It

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 2>is magnified beyond your comprehension and the moment. If that

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 2>makes sense. It is doesn't really advice, that's just information,

0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 2>but advice. We struggle to have both of our kids.

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 2>You know, there was a long process to get pregnant.

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't easy, so for us it was a lot

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 2>of patience and which still to this day, there was

0:30:13.440 --> 0:30:15.480
<v Speaker 2>a lot of patience when it comes to being a parent.

0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Always we're always working on that.

0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:25.640
<v Speaker 1>And there's no playbook, guys, there's really no Oh my goodness,

0:30:25.680 --> 0:30:28.560
<v Speaker 1>what am I doing? There's no playbook. You think you know,

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:34.480
<v Speaker 1>but in reality, you don't know, and it's a learning process,

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>and there's like it's hard. Is the hardest job you

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:46.840
<v Speaker 1>will ever have. It is the most satisfying. It's incredible

0:30:46.880 --> 0:30:50.760
<v Speaker 1>gratification when you do it right. And they will make

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>you laugh more than anybody in the world. They will

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>make you cry more than anybody in the world. They

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 1>will make you lose your patience more than anybody in

0:30:57.160 --> 0:30:59.240
<v Speaker 1>the world. But at the end of the day, just

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 1>having the ability to parent and just create this little

0:31:03.040 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>individual and see them grow to become something special, it

0:31:06.680 --> 0:31:10.160
<v Speaker 1>is a unique experience that I think every single person

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 1>should have the opportunity to go through. Even though there's

0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 1>people that they are very clear about not wanting to

0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 1>have a kids. Absolutely and that's respectful, but if you

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 1>can do it. We have a question from Rebecca which

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:24.040
<v Speaker 1>is actually an interesting follow up to that. Do you

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 1>think our parenting styles and rules would have been different

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:28.240
<v Speaker 1>had Dylan been the firstborn?

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 2>No, been too different. We're very We're very Yeah, we're

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 2>very locked in as as parents on how we choose

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 2>to parent, and we are very different. Still, We've grown

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 2>a lot closer, I think, in our styles over the

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 2>years with both kids, but I don't think it would

0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 2>have changed dramatically to say, yeah, I don't think so.

0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, Dylan's a little bit easier going and than

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 2>Sabella's personality wise. You know, Sabella likes to challenge and

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 2>push and that's her way of navigating this world, and

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 2>she does it and she's extremely loving as well, but

0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:08.600
<v Speaker 2>she pushes in certain directions that Dylan doesn't. And he's

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:11.120
<v Speaker 2>also more challenging in some ways because he's a lot

0:32:11.160 --> 0:32:13.600
<v Speaker 2>more sensitive and things get under his skin a lot

0:32:13.720 --> 0:32:17.960
<v Speaker 2>quicker where Sabby they brush right off for the most part.

0:32:18.440 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 2>So we would have it would have been a different

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 2>experience for sure, but I don't think we would have

0:32:22.640 --> 0:32:24.120
<v Speaker 2>handled it differently, you know, I was.

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I had a really interesting conversation with Sabella last night

0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 1>that it's crazy. Listen, when you're talking to a twelve

0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:37.280
<v Speaker 1>year old and trying to teach them life lessons in

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>a way that is elemental enough so they understand it

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>and they don't find it weird or confusing. But Sabella

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 1>and Eric, because they have known each other from past

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:54.720
<v Speaker 1>lives and it's a really really interesting codependent relationship, they

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 1>like to argue a lot. And I have noticed that

0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Say likes to poke and poke. She likes to provoke Eric,

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:07.160
<v Speaker 1>and she's very smart, so she knows exactly what to say,

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>what to do, or how to behave to get you

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 1>to react a certain way and then you try your

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:16.920
<v Speaker 1>best to keep it cool and then you explode.

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:18.760
<v Speaker 2>But it was all.

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Reacting towards something that she's doing. And I have noticed

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 1>that it's almost like she feels that that is normal,

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:30.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I am going to fight with dad,

0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>so then I can have a moment with that of

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>apologies and then we hug it out and everything is beautiful.

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>And it's this constant push and pool, push and pull.

0:33:40.000 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 1>And it happened again last night, and I'm observing from

0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>afar because I don't have that kind of dynamic with

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 1>with Sabella. She's very different with me. And I told her,

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, Seth, I need you to go, and I

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 1>think you should go apologize to that because you know,

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>you ruined his night and now we came back from vacation,

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:00.360
<v Speaker 1>everything was so wonderful. He takes you to tenn Is

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 1>once again, you guys have an argument that you know

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>you could have avoided that you know it was un

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 1>called for, and you're very smart, Sabby, so you know what,

0:34:08.400 --> 0:34:09.920
<v Speaker 1>just for the sake of you guys having a good night,

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:13.359
<v Speaker 1>just go say Dad, I'm sorry. I don't have to apologize.

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't do anything. And I said, okay, so maybe

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 1>not an apology because I know that word bothers you.

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:25.040
<v Speaker 1>But if you go in very normal, no drama, just

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 1>throw it away like the most normal things, saying you

0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:29.840
<v Speaker 1>know what, that I'm sorry that we had a misunderstanding.

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't I didn't mean to have an argument with you.

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I love you, list have a good night. That is

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:37.600
<v Speaker 1>going to mean the world to him. And she's so

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:40.239
<v Speaker 1>confused about the simplicity of what do you mean just

0:34:40.320 --> 0:34:41.719
<v Speaker 1>saying that, just say that.

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 2>It reminds me of someone else I know in the household.

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 2>No me, So I said to her, the simplicity of

0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 2>saying I'm sorry.

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:56.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's but I just wanted her to the point.

0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know the point was. I don't want her

0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 1>thinking I'm always to have a blowout and then I

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:03.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to go and have to say I'm sorry

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>because it feels so toxic. So, as I said, Bell,

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I just diffuse the situation and I say, you have

0:35:08.719 --> 0:35:14.400
<v Speaker 1>to break this habit that you feel loved if there's drama,

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:18.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you don't want to carry that throughout

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:23.239
<v Speaker 1>your life with boyfriend's husband even friendships. It's like, why

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.239
<v Speaker 1>everything has to be so dramatic and I'm going to

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 1>fight and love fight and love is like, it's not

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>a good habit to have. And I was like, I'm

0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>talking to a girl that is not comprehending what I'm

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>trying to say. But I want her to break that

0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 1>habit because she truly believes that. Let me just poke

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:42.799
<v Speaker 1>my dad so then I can hug him.

0:35:43.000 --> 0:35:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, let's hope that that she grows out

0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 2>of this phase. But again, these are some of the

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:50.279
<v Speaker 2>challenges and the rewards of being a parent. You know

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 2>what I mean. You figured out, you navigate, and it's

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:55.200
<v Speaker 2>part of the journey. Before we wrap it up, I

0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:58.360
<v Speaker 2>just want to say really quick that Lynn in Toronto,

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:02.600
<v Speaker 2>you're absolutely right Rosland and did fail at her bet

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:06.279
<v Speaker 2>of cutting her hair by at fifty years old or

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:08.880
<v Speaker 2>by her fifty first birthday, and that you bet me

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 2>one hundred dollars.

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:11.839
<v Speaker 1>That was a pay pay up.

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm ready. You're right if you pay it up in

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 2>many ways, you can work it off any way. I

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:20.759
<v Speaker 2>need to give my money.

0:36:20.920 --> 0:36:23.719
<v Speaker 1>You're absolutely right. I did not cut my hair. I'm

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:26.200
<v Speaker 1>a chicken. Every day I look at myself in the

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:28.040
<v Speaker 1>mirror and I go, I need to cut my hair.

0:36:28.080 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 2>And she sees other women with their hair short, and

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>she goes, oh, I love that hair, love it. But

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 2>she want to do it because I told her to

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 2>do it, because I.

0:36:33.880 --> 0:36:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Feel like I'm going to love it the day off

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:39.360
<v Speaker 1>and then a week later, I'm going to cry hysterically.

0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:42.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm going, what have I done? Because this has become

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.080
<v Speaker 1>like my identity because because I've had long hair in

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 1>my whole life.

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:48.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, I wish you luck on this journey. Now I'm

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 2>gonna go cry my head off for being wrinkly.

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Until next time you wrinkly, You're beautiful.

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Love you, Thanks for listening. Don't forget to write us

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:58.160
<v Speaker 2>a review and tell us what you think.

0:36:58.239 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 1>If you want to follow us on Instagram, it goes

0:37:00.320 --> 0:37:02.760
<v Speaker 1>out at he said ajado or sen as an email,

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Eric and Ross at iHeartRadio dot com. He said. AJAB

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 1>is part of iHeartRadio's my Pultuda podcast network.

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:11.319
<v Speaker 2>See you next time. Bye,