WEBVTT - How Cleft Lips and Palates Work

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Stuff you Should Know, a production of I

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<v Speaker 1>Heart Radio. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark,

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<v Speaker 1>There's Charles W Chuck Bryant, and Jerry is literally right there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm Chuck. I want to start something. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to get I actually have a jar at my studio

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<v Speaker 1>at home kind of. But it's a use of the

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<v Speaker 1>word literally jar. I'm trying to break myself of that,

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<v Speaker 1>except when it really truly makes sense, when it literally

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense to use that word, like in this instance,

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry is literally sitting right here. So do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with that, with misusing that word like so

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<v Speaker 1>many Yeah, no, not necessarily. It's overused. That's what bothers me.

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<v Speaker 1>What about Gimmy and she donating to the jar at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Or she just like this literally the dumbest idea. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think she has an opinion on this one. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just spend some money. Well, I keep the jar

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<v Speaker 1>at home. I'll get money out of it when I

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<v Speaker 1>need to. It's more just the ritual of like punishing myself,

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<v Speaker 1>calling out that's good, I'm doing something stupid. Once a Catholic,

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<v Speaker 1>always a Catholic. So um, oh yeah, this is stuff

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<v Speaker 1>you should know. And uh, we are talking Chuck today.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing, by the way, I'm great. Good,

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<v Speaker 1>we're in the same room. It's still a little weird,

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<v Speaker 1>getting used to it still. Yeah. I went to a

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<v Speaker 1>baseball game last night, Oh my god. And that was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was great. Uh. And once we get

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<v Speaker 1>on our seats, we were actually i mean they're fully

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<v Speaker 1>just selling seats, but where we bought seats there just

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be no one kind of around us, which

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<v Speaker 1>was good. But yeah, I went to a Braves game.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, they're supposed to be policing and saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, unless you're in your seats, eating and drinking,

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<v Speaker 1>you should be wearing a mash. And so we the

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<v Speaker 1>four of us, wore masks, you know, in and out

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathrooms and the food lines and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, buddy else was well, I mean Atlanta there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of jerks, yeah, and Atlanta. Yeah, it just

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<v Speaker 1>it is what it is. We took care of ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>and it's fine. Yeah, it was fun. Um, well, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. Juddie good walk off, Homer. Oh yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom of the ninth man. I've only seen like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those in my life. It was amazing, great game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool. Who we play? We played the Mets

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<v Speaker 1>in our star player Akunya blasted one in the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the ninth first pitch. It was just great. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought Freddie Freeman was our star player there. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they're one and two on any given day. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to be number two, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, no, of course not. That's why I'm number two. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not true. You meet Jerry all tied for number one.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, it was a little just's it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>little jarring to be among a lot of people again.

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<v Speaker 1>And but it also comes back quickly like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I spent the first forty nine years of my life

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<v Speaker 1>among people. A took a year off, and I'm back

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<v Speaker 1>in this wing. That's good. That's good. I'm hoping to

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<v Speaker 1>get back there myself. At any rate. This is still

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird. So we're talking today about clefts, and

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<v Speaker 1>most people when they think about clefs, they think about

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<v Speaker 1>cleft lips. But there's a lot more to that, or

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<v Speaker 1>trouble cliffs. Sure, that's a little different. There's an extra

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<v Speaker 1>letter in this one that I'm talking about at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>How is that spelled? Is that just trouble cleft? No

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<v Speaker 1>cl ef Oh, there's no t trouble cliff cliff. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't take piano. That's okay, right, Um, But no, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a cleft. This is a cleft. A cleft in this

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<v Speaker 1>case is um. It's a it's a division, it's a trench,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a void. I guess you could say and that

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<v Speaker 1>that that is what we're talking about. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>it is a very common, actually fairly common birth defect. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It occurs in the embryonic stage and a child is

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<v Speaker 1>born with part of their lip and or part of

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<v Speaker 1>their palate the roof of their mouth is another way

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<v Speaker 1>to put it right missing, it's just not there, un joined.

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<v Speaker 1>And we should probably say right at the beginning, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a birth defect. But it is a visual difference,

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<v Speaker 1>is what we call things like this. It is not

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<v Speaker 1>a disability, although there are you know, many complications will

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<v Speaker 1>go over, but it's a visual difference. And it is

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<v Speaker 1>also the term hair lip is not something you should use.

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<v Speaker 1>It was used for many, many years, even by doctors

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<v Speaker 1>to describe this condition, but it is uh not a

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<v Speaker 1>good nice term, so just stop saying it. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anybody who says that. I don't think so

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<v Speaker 1>any but you know, some people just may not know. Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that's what it was called. Uh, And when

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<v Speaker 1>doctors use a term, you can sort of understand, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody falling into that trap. But it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>term that we use anymore now. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was a good thing to say. All right, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>the c I A is finished. So um, like we're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, like you said, it is a birth effect,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is just a visible difference. And there's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's it. I mean, it is tied in with

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<v Speaker 1>some syndromes, some genetic syndromes, but plenty of people, I

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<v Speaker 1>think in the United States somewhere between one and every

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<v Speaker 1>seven um comes with some sort of cleft, either a

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<v Speaker 1>cleft lip, a cleft palette, or both UM and there's

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. That can be it. That's the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>that is different about that child. There's no developmental problems,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no and like you said, it's not disability. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing else that's it. And what's fascinating to me, I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea about this, but I never really thought

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Is that the the kid with the cleft

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<v Speaker 1>lip or the cleft palette there, their palette or their

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<v Speaker 1>lip just never finished forming. Yeah, they never You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a symmetry generally running down the center of your

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<v Speaker 1>nose and the two sides of the lip. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff forms when you're in the in the womb

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<v Speaker 1>very early on. It actually for both. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>lip is first and then the palette, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>they joined together, and in this case they just don't join. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the little a little bit under your nose,

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<v Speaker 1>the bip joining the uh, the bottom of your nose

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<v Speaker 1>through top lip. Yeah, it's filtraum okay. And that is

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<v Speaker 1>where your lips joined together, your upper lip joins together, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is where your mustache can part. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a little mustache part. I have a mustache

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<v Speaker 1>part because mine. But you know, some guys, do you

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<v Speaker 1>shave yours in just for looks or is it it

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of parts? Naturally? Your hair doesn't quite grow

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<v Speaker 1>right there. But you know, if you're like a Burt

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<v Speaker 1>Reynolds type or Wilfred Brimley, you can just grow it

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<v Speaker 1>over the whole. What's it called filtraum fil traum p

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<v Speaker 1>h I l t r U Hiltraum, which would be

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<v Speaker 1>a really great nerdy boy's name film. Yeah, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>his brother Baxter. On the second thought, though, don't name

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<v Speaker 1>your son filter so um. When you are in the embryonics,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, very early on, the lip forms in

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<v Speaker 1>like the fourth to seventh week, and very frequently a

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<v Speaker 1>woman might not even know she's pregnant at that time,

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<v Speaker 1>and that lips forming, yes already. Um. I saw a

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<v Speaker 1>really cool bbc UM Documentaries sequence basically where they took

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<v Speaker 1>three D images of baby in utero and basically turned

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<v Speaker 1>it into a flipbook video showing the face forming. Your

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<v Speaker 1>nostrils are giant when you're when you're forming, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like on the top of your forehead. They moved down

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<v Speaker 1>and each nostrils part of a tissue plate, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom jaw and your bottom lip are part of

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<v Speaker 1>a third tissue place. So you have three forming and

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<v Speaker 1>coming together. And as they form, new cells form new skin,

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<v Speaker 1>and they just kind of move into place. If you

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<v Speaker 1>have a cleft, flip or a cleft palette. Again, that

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<v Speaker 1>that final meeting in the middle just never happened. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So when you watch something thing like that, are you

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<v Speaker 1>amazed at the miracle of life or are you disgusted

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<v Speaker 1>amazed at the miracle? Okay, yeah for sure, because when

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<v Speaker 1>you think of nostrils on the top of the head,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing like that most it did. It's neat, actually

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<v Speaker 1>it is. Yeah, for sure. The miracle of life is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going with. So there are different ways this

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<v Speaker 1>can happen. Your your palette on the top of your

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<v Speaker 1>mouth is in a couple of sections. The one closer

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<v Speaker 1>to the front is the hard palette, and the rear

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<v Speaker 1>it's a soft pallet. And if you have a cleft palette,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be in the soft part the hard part.

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<v Speaker 1>It can split both. Yeah, because if you do don't mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. The front part is is bony, that's

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<v Speaker 1>your hard palate. If you go further back, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>kind of tough to do, but you can go, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what you gotta stop. You don't like that, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think anyone does. Um, I really you think some

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<v Speaker 1>people like hearing that. I think it's kind of pleasant.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who like that shout out. I want to hear you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's some kind of a pressure point in

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<v Speaker 1>your soft pallet too. For is it migraines or something

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<v Speaker 1>I remember hearing about, like pressing your thumb into your

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<v Speaker 1>soft pallet to do something that wasn't that it was

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<v Speaker 1>something else. Well, you can cure an ice cream maybe

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<v Speaker 1>multi functional. Anyway, In the very back, you have just

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<v Speaker 1>a muscle like your hard palate, bony with some skin

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<v Speaker 1>covering it. Further back, it's like muscle with skin covering,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's your soft palate. It's like a little rib

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<v Speaker 1>cage up there. And you can have this division, this

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<v Speaker 1>cleft in either part or both. Right, that's correct, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I said. So, Uh, an incomplete cleft is missing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little notch and it's missing from the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the upper left. A complete cleft is all the

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<v Speaker 1>way through into the nose. And then with the lip,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's always the upper lip, but it's usually off

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<v Speaker 1>to one side or the other, I think because of

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<v Speaker 1>that symmetry and how it forms. Yes, uh, And it's

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<v Speaker 1>always the upper lip because it only affects the two

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<v Speaker 1>top plates of flesh that are forming that from your

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<v Speaker 1>upper lip in your face and those forehead nostrils that

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<v Speaker 1>come back down to your nostril area. That's right. God,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like old times. Cherry's literally dropping food out

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<v Speaker 1>of her mouth onto the table. Is amazing. No, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's so funny. I don't know. I think there might

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<v Speaker 1>be a little all day and she chooses to eat

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<v Speaker 1>when she's in here. I think we should take a break.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so too. All right, that's a good opening, Uh, salvo,

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll be back after this. I think I might

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<v Speaker 1>have missed you salvo did I don't think so? Was

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<v Speaker 1>that right? Yeah? I associate that with like a timpani

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<v Speaker 1>or and in going off. Yeah, all right, I think you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you used it correctly. A cleft that you

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<v Speaker 1>got wrong. Yeah, back to clefts. They are developmental defects,

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<v Speaker 1>like we said, very early, and what causes them, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>genetics can play a part. I think if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>parent you have with a cleft either a palette or lip,

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<v Speaker 1>you have it like a two to eight percent chance

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<v Speaker 1>that your kid may if you have a biological child,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that goes up if you have siblings and

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<v Speaker 1>or if you have your parents and it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>passed down. I think that number can go up to like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it can if you if your parent has a sibling

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<v Speaker 1>that has a cleft as well, the chance of your

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<v Speaker 1>your kid having ACT is definitely increased. And then um,

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<v Speaker 1>it can keep going up depending on whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>your parent has a genetic syndrome that they're passing along. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's something like three hundred to four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>different genetic syndromes are associated with cleft lip or cleft

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<v Speaker 1>palette um and together we should say they're both called

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<v Speaker 1>orofacial clefts. Oh yeah, we didn't say that to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've also known and I've also seen it abbreviated

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<v Speaker 1>as c l slash p lips slash pallet um. That

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be kind of like the shorthand for it,

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<v Speaker 1>because doctors don't like the right full words and their

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<v Speaker 1>handwriting is just terrible. Um. And then I've also seen

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<v Speaker 1>them called affectionately as cleft eas. Oh that's nice. So

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we'll talk about the uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>acceptance of facial differences if you have a cleft or

0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.000
<v Speaker 1>have friends or family members, and that's a big, big

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<v Speaker 1>part of it. And I think something like cleft E's

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<v Speaker 1>might be a way of embracing that s. So there

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<v Speaker 1>are some other things that could be risk factors and

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<v Speaker 1>increase the risk of all kinds of birth effects, certainly

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<v Speaker 1>including clefts. And one of them is if you're smoking

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<v Speaker 1>and drinking booze while you're pregnant. UM. One of the

0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:59.839
<v Speaker 1>reasons alcohol effects UM, any kind of birth effect, is

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<v Speaker 1>because it disrupts the absorption of UH follic acid. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's another reason you might if you don't have enough

0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.199
<v Speaker 1>fallic acid. That's why pregnant women take extra It's a

0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:15.680
<v Speaker 1>natural form of B nine. It's a vitamin. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. And then late nineties the FDA said you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to start putting extra folic acid in like all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of common foods. Remember that store your recyclables starting, yeah,

0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and and just like put it in bread and pasta

0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.320
<v Speaker 1>and grains and cereals and things that people eat a

0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:36.160
<v Speaker 1>lot of. UH. It's naturally found in sunflower seeds and

0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:40.160
<v Speaker 1>fruits and beans and peanuts and stuff like that. So

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<v Speaker 1>you want the follic acid, I think if you're pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>they recommend you take at least UH six hundred milligrams

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<v Speaker 1>per day. And and if you're just a regular non

0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:55.760
<v Speaker 1>pregnant humans a day, yeah, if you UM are in

0:13:55.960 --> 0:14:00.320
<v Speaker 1>your reproductive stage or age. Right, but you you need

0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:03.720
<v Speaker 1>folic acid anyway, right, why not just as a person? Sure? Yeah,

0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:05.559
<v Speaker 1>I get a lot of bread, I get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of folic acid. Uh So smoking and drinking is one,

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<v Speaker 1>Diabetes is another. Right, Yeah, that's a really big risk factor.

0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:17.200
<v Speaker 1>Diabetes and obesity both seem to be correlated to increased

0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:20.200
<v Speaker 1>risk of clefts. I'm not sure what the incidences for

0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:23.880
<v Speaker 1>women with diabetes, but it is an increased risk UM.

0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:26.920
<v Speaker 1>And then there's also a couple of epilepsy medications that

0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.000
<v Speaker 1>increase your risk. UM. The thing about all this is

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<v Speaker 1>there is no UM definitive understanding your explanation of why

0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:42.960
<v Speaker 1>clefts form of what it is that causes some children's

0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.080
<v Speaker 1>um lips just not to join together or their palettes

0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:50.040
<v Speaker 1>that not fuse together at that last final stage. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems to be multi factorial is what they call it,

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<v Speaker 1>where there's just a bunch of different factors. UM. And

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<v Speaker 1>also in addition to genetics, like your parents having one

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<v Speaker 1>of your parents having a sibling with one UM depending

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<v Speaker 1>on your race, actually your your risk is increased. Apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>it's far more common among Asian people, UM and Native Americans.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the highest among Native Americans, something like

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<v Speaker 1>three points six out of every uh thousand births. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe um to two among Asian people. It's the lowest

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<v Speaker 1>among African Americans. I think Chinese babies are more commonly diagnosed.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a diagnosis or just what do you even call that? No,

0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:39.480
<v Speaker 1>you're diagnosed, But I mean it's like very easy diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, okay, you're a child has a cleft flip. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's what's interesting, Chuck, is with the cleft palette.

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<v Speaker 1>You can have a cleft palette, but it not be visible.

0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:53.840
<v Speaker 1>It can actually be hidden. That's called the submucosis cleft palette.

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<v Speaker 1>And they might they you might never be diagnosed with

0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.480
<v Speaker 1>it because there may be no problem with that or

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<v Speaker 1>that arise from it, like with other cluts, like we'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. Yeah, but um, that's kind of rare from

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<v Speaker 1>what I understand, right, And the palette is less visible

0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:12.040
<v Speaker 1>anyway as opposed to the lip. Uh. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you see any kind of photo image of cleft palette,

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<v Speaker 1>is usually the doctor taking a picture of someone with

0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.400
<v Speaker 1>their mouth wide open, kind of tilting their head back

0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.280
<v Speaker 1>so you can get a good angle on it. Um

0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:28.000
<v Speaker 1>health problems that are associated with clefts are uh, they

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<v Speaker 1>can be numerous. It's it's not you know, it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like everything is something that can be overcome. But they

0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.440
<v Speaker 1>are challenges, nonetheless, and they are challenges that especially can

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<v Speaker 1>just make a kid when they're growing up field not

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<v Speaker 1>so great about themselves. So that that's a big, big

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<v Speaker 1>part of overcoming these challenges. But to be sure, there

0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:53.320
<v Speaker 1>are some physical things that happen, like it can interfere

0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:56.200
<v Speaker 1>with how your teeth are forming and growing in Uh.

0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you might have to get bone graphs on the

0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:02.000
<v Speaker 1>upper portion of your gums, especially if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>cleft lip. Yeah, cleft lips, it seems like it's usually

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<v Speaker 1>where the teeth problems come from. Uh. And then one

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<v Speaker 1>of the first things you know, if you're nursing your baby,

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<v Speaker 1>then if your baby has a cleft lip or and

0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.920
<v Speaker 1>or a cleft pallet, they may have trouble latching on

0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:21.520
<v Speaker 1>and getting a good like a good suck is what

0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.520
<v Speaker 1>they call it. Yes, And if you luckily, there are

0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:27.960
<v Speaker 1>different um methods for improving that. There are certain types

0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:31.080
<v Speaker 1>of bottles which can help with that. So again that's

0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:34.919
<v Speaker 1>a problem that can be overcome pretty routinely. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>easiest to overcome and to nurse a child with a

0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:42.439
<v Speaker 1>cleft lip because you can set the baby up and

0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:48.200
<v Speaker 1>as usual chuck them in the air um, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can just after they latch on, you just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>put your finger over their cleft flip oh and just

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<v Speaker 1>like close the gap. Basically, it's it's easy as pie.

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<v Speaker 1>With a cleft palette, it can be much more difficult

0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:03.520
<v Speaker 1>because we use our palette to create suction, use your

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<v Speaker 1>tongue and your palate, your soft pallet in particular to

0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:10.919
<v Speaker 1>create suction. So there's specialized bottles for feeding babies with

0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:15.760
<v Speaker 1>cleft pallets. Uh. And in particular, if the baby is

0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:19.880
<v Speaker 1>just not able to latch on for breastfeeding, they still say, well,

0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:22.119
<v Speaker 1>just pump your breast milk and feed your baby the

0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:26.600
<v Speaker 1>bottle milk because unfortunately, because of that gap in their

0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:30.160
<v Speaker 1>their palette, uh, there there's basically a passage into their

0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:33.160
<v Speaker 1>nose and sometimes their ears, so breast milk can get

0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:36.159
<v Speaker 1>in there, and they found it's far less irritating breast

0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:39.679
<v Speaker 1>milk is than um formula when it does get in

0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:43.720
<v Speaker 1>the little baby's ears and nose. That's right. And because

0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:47.159
<v Speaker 1>of that same gap there, I think throughout you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about the surgeries, but throughout childhood, babies and

0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:54.879
<v Speaker 1>children with cleft palets and lips have higher incidences of

0:18:54.920 --> 0:19:00.480
<v Speaker 1>ear infections, UM, sometimes chronic Sometimes they might have trouble

0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:04.520
<v Speaker 1>hearing and learning how to talk. But again, these are

0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:08.159
<v Speaker 1>all early challenges that it's such a common birth defect

0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:10.560
<v Speaker 1>that they really really know a lot about how to

0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:14.040
<v Speaker 1>overcome this stuff. That's exactly right. Fortunately, especially in the

0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.080
<v Speaker 1>developed world, there's a lot of services available that are

0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:20.160
<v Speaker 1>pretty routine. Yeah, and if you're fortunate enough to live

0:19:20.160 --> 0:19:22.480
<v Speaker 1>in a country with socialized medicine, you get it all

0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:25.560
<v Speaker 1>for free. And if you're not, you're gonna be dropping

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<v Speaker 1>some money on surgery. I think the statistic is two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred thousand dollar average for medical procedures over the course

0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:36.280
<v Speaker 1>of your life. Uh. And I don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>figuring in insurance. If that's a two d thousand dollars

0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:42.320
<v Speaker 1>sort of total and you pay a portion of that

0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:45.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're insured, I get that that's out of pocket.

0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:48.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh you think so. I think so interesting. So do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to talk specifically about some of the treatments

0:19:50.800 --> 0:19:57.399
<v Speaker 1>for class. Yeah. So, Um, the diagnosis of cleft often

0:19:57.480 --> 0:20:02.360
<v Speaker 1>happens um through ultrasounds. Uh, so you will know your

0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:04.720
<v Speaker 1>baby is going to be born with a cleft lip

0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:07.800
<v Speaker 1>especially is how you know. But a cleft palates probably

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<v Speaker 1>diagnosed after birth, but shortly after birth, usually upon the

0:20:10.960 --> 0:20:14.440
<v Speaker 1>first examination by the doctor and they'll say, okay, well

0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:17.919
<v Speaker 1>your your child has a cleft pallet. Um, don't panic.

0:20:18.200 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of stuff in place. We know exactly

0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:22.479
<v Speaker 1>what to do, we know exactly when to do it.

0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.119
<v Speaker 1>But it's gonna be really tough for you and your

0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:28.639
<v Speaker 1>family because your baby, before your baby turns one year old,

0:20:29.240 --> 0:20:33.240
<v Speaker 1>and as actually as early as maybe three months old, uh,

0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:36.560
<v Speaker 1>they might be they will undergo a surgery, like a

0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:41.439
<v Speaker 1>major surgery where they are given general anesthesia and um,

0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:45.920
<v Speaker 1>basically it's a form of cosmetic surgery to to repair

0:20:46.000 --> 0:20:48.159
<v Speaker 1>is what they call it, um their cleft lip or

0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:51.080
<v Speaker 1>the cleft palette or both. And it's it's basically the

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<v Speaker 1>first in a very long line of surgeries that will

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<v Speaker 1>take up their first eighteen years pretty easily. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>called the first one is called kylo plasty uh c

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<v Speaker 1>h e I l o plasty, and this is uh

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a few surgeries. Like I said about

0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:12.760
<v Speaker 1>the teeth, it can include bone graphs. And I think

0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:15.040
<v Speaker 1>the cleft palate surgery is a little bit later. That's

0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:17.360
<v Speaker 1>only for cleft lip and cleft pallet though, is still

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<v Speaker 1>before they're eighteen months old. And you know, even though

0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:22.440
<v Speaker 1>it's routine, it is like you said, it's it's stressful

0:21:22.480 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>for a parent too to see that little baby go

0:21:25.920 --> 0:21:28.520
<v Speaker 1>under general anesthesia and go under the knife. Yeah, and

0:21:28.560 --> 0:21:31.679
<v Speaker 1>when they come out, I mean, you know, they're in pain,

0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:36.919
<v Speaker 1>they're not very happy, they're pretty uncomfortable. It's no fun. Fortunately, um,

0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:42.360
<v Speaker 1>they've actually come up with a procedure called nasoalveolar molding

0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:47.919
<v Speaker 1>or any um, thank god uh where this reduces the

0:21:48.000 --> 0:21:50.520
<v Speaker 1>number of follow up surgeries because they don't always get

0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:52.959
<v Speaker 1>it on the first surgery. They might just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>be like, well, this is the first step, and we're

0:21:55.160 --> 0:21:57.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna let this heal and kind of fuse a little

0:21:57.280 --> 0:21:59.359
<v Speaker 1>more closer together, and then we're gonna try it again

0:21:59.400 --> 0:22:01.640
<v Speaker 1>and again, and we'll finally get there after a couple

0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:05.480
<v Speaker 1>of surgeries. Are a few Uh an a yum kind

0:22:05.480 --> 0:22:08.880
<v Speaker 1>of does that follow up surgery ahead of time by

0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:14.880
<v Speaker 1>molding the little baby's astoundingly malleable features ahead of time

0:22:14.920 --> 0:22:19.399
<v Speaker 1>before the surgery. Yeah, it almost sounded like braces for

0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:24.880
<v Speaker 1>your faces. That's right. Uh. It's a clear plastic retainer

0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:27.920
<v Speaker 1>inside the mouth, and like you said, it helps mold

0:22:27.960 --> 0:22:31.159
<v Speaker 1>it as they grow, and then like braces, they adjust

0:22:31.240 --> 0:22:34.119
<v Speaker 1>it as they grow and maybe like tighten it down.

0:22:34.280 --> 0:22:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I think for cleff lips um they add a little

0:22:37.440 --> 0:22:39.480
<v Speaker 1>if it's a small one, they add a little plastic

0:22:39.560 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>post that's up in the nose to lift that up

0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:45.800
<v Speaker 1>because it can also affect the shape of your nose

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.119
<v Speaker 1>early on too. I'm not sure if we mentioned that.

0:22:48.200 --> 0:22:51.840
<v Speaker 1>So it's all sort of tied in together developmentally, and

0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:56.280
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like this nam retainer device sort of just limits,

0:22:56.320 --> 0:22:58.600
<v Speaker 1>like you said, what's going to happen in the future. Yeah,

0:22:58.640 --> 0:23:01.760
<v Speaker 1>And it just brings a head cliff closer together so

0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:04.160
<v Speaker 1>that when they actually do go in to do the surgery,

0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:09.480
<v Speaker 1>there's far less trauma and it's it's far more successful

0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:15.119
<v Speaker 1>bringing it together. Um. The palette surgery is called the palettoplasty,

0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:18.600
<v Speaker 1>and it actually because the especially if it's going through

0:23:18.640 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 1>the bony part of your hard pallet. Um. They may

0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:25.399
<v Speaker 1>use bone graphs to kind of fuse that, or they

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:29.119
<v Speaker 1>may just basically cut the gums along the roof of

0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:32.600
<v Speaker 1>your mouth from the mouth and bring it together and

0:23:32.680 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 1>just basically cover it up. And for all intents and purposes, Um,

0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:40.600
<v Speaker 1>the palette has been fixed. There's not milk going in

0:23:40.680 --> 0:23:44.280
<v Speaker 1>their ear canal any longer rub their nose. Um, they're

0:23:44.359 --> 0:23:47.320
<v Speaker 1>going to be able to speak clearly because they'll have

0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:50.560
<v Speaker 1>that soft palette, which we use to basically make almost

0:23:50.600 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>every sound we make phonetically. We use our soft palette

0:23:54.040 --> 0:23:57.640
<v Speaker 1>to close the airway. I'm doing it right now, literally,

0:23:57.880 --> 0:24:01.440
<v Speaker 1>right now, I'm doing literally. Um. So if you could

0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:05.280
<v Speaker 1>just kind of cover that cleft palette with gum tissue,

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:08.479
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've fixed a lot of the issues that

0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>arise from having a cleft pallet. Yeah. I mean, in

0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:14.040
<v Speaker 1>addition to that speech surgery, there may be speech therapy

0:24:15.040 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 1>that your kid might undergo early on. Um, they're rhino plastic.

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes because I did mention the nose, sometimes the rhino

0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:28.440
<v Speaker 1>plastic comes into play. Uh. And then there's also worth

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:36.080
<v Speaker 1>man or though Nathnick Nathic ornatic. That g's gotta be silent,

0:24:37.160 --> 0:24:39.840
<v Speaker 1>don't you think? I don't know? Man, all right, you

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.000
<v Speaker 1>take a stab or thug natic? Yeah, I think that

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:46.160
<v Speaker 1>was it, really yeah, I think so. All right, Well,

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:50.600
<v Speaker 1>this is jaw alignment surgery, and this is uh, this

0:24:50.680 --> 0:24:53.720
<v Speaker 1>is something that happens later on because your jaw has

0:24:53.720 --> 0:24:55.680
<v Speaker 1>to stop growing. This is sort of similar, I think

0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:59.600
<v Speaker 1>to my issues with my crossbite, and it's all sort

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:02.880
<v Speaker 1>of the Donic related in a way as well. Um,

0:25:02.960 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 1>and that that ridge that's at the like right behind

0:25:06.720 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 1>your teeth, that your adult teeth actually grow out of

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that And if you have a cliff lip in particular,

0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:14.800
<v Speaker 1>like you were saying, um, you might need a bone graph.

0:25:14.840 --> 0:25:19.400
<v Speaker 1>That's another surgery that you were talking about implants, so

0:25:19.480 --> 0:25:23.400
<v Speaker 1>that like for your front teeth in particular. Um, So

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:25.720
<v Speaker 1>that's a that's a pretty decent amount of surgeries and

0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:28.880
<v Speaker 1>that's not necessarily one and done for any of them.

0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:33.080
<v Speaker 1>Especially I think rhinoplastic can be uh can take multiple

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:35.919
<v Speaker 1>surgeries to kind of get the nose back where you

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>wanted to. But again, like this is the doctors who

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 1>handle this stuff at children's hospitals around the country and

0:25:43.400 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 1>basically everywhere and the um the global North just know

0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:51.080
<v Speaker 1>exactly what they're doing and what to do and when

0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:54.120
<v Speaker 1>to do it, and it's the The outcome is usually

0:25:54.760 --> 0:25:57.879
<v Speaker 1>very good. The prognosis of a baby born with a

0:25:57.920 --> 0:26:02.120
<v Speaker 1>cleft lip um is you know, is pretty good. Yeah,

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:05.240
<v Speaker 1>it's great. Um, there can be scarring obviously, especially that

0:26:05.320 --> 0:26:08.399
<v Speaker 1>first surgery. They're sort of a signature scar from a

0:26:08.440 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 1>cleft lips surgical procedure, and kids can be very self

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:15.480
<v Speaker 1>conscious about that stuff. But I think you know, they

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:19.040
<v Speaker 1>encourage parents to try and uh just be open about

0:26:19.040 --> 0:26:20.920
<v Speaker 1>that stuff and get them to to own that as

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.280
<v Speaker 1>a as a facial difference and as a visible difference,

0:26:24.440 --> 0:26:27.159
<v Speaker 1>and and to really drive home to the kid like

0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:29.720
<v Speaker 1>this is not going to you know, you can still

0:26:29.720 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 1>be an athlete, you can still it doesn't affect any

0:26:32.680 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of uh learning or anything like that in school. So, uh,

0:26:37.200 --> 0:26:39.600
<v Speaker 1>it's really up to the parents and then through the

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:41.960
<v Speaker 1>help of like friends and family hopefully to to get

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:43.639
<v Speaker 1>that kid on the right track. And that that's a

0:26:43.720 --> 0:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>huge one to supposedly like parents who are given, especially

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:50.119
<v Speaker 1>with an ultrasound a diagnosis of a child with a

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:55.280
<v Speaker 1>cleft lip um, can they can take the news pretty hard. Yeah. Um,

0:26:55.480 --> 0:26:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I was reading Uh, I don't remember I read it,

0:26:57.520 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>but it was basically like a first person account of

0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 1>having a child with a cleft lip. And the woman

0:27:03.080 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>was saying, she was really worried that she's gonna have

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:09.359
<v Speaker 1>trouble bonding with her baby. Remember our cute episode in

0:27:09.400 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>the kinder kindIn Schema. Um, she was basically worried about that. Uh.

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:16.480
<v Speaker 1>And then she said the moment she saw her baby,

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 1>she just fell totally in love and it was like

0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:22.439
<v Speaker 1>it was just like having any other baby. It was

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 1>her baby, so of course she loved it no matter

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 1>whether she had a cleft lip or not. But that

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:30.720
<v Speaker 1>is that is a common concern among parents when their

0:27:30.840 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 1>first you know, getting their feet wet with this. Um.

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:36.600
<v Speaker 1>But I was reading some studies and they found that

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>there are basically no bonding issues that that differentiate parents

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 1>and children of kids with cleft palates or lips um

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:54.760
<v Speaker 1>from from kids without cleft lips. That that they basically

0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:57.600
<v Speaker 1>the outcome is the same. One of the things that

0:27:57.640 --> 0:28:00.280
<v Speaker 1>you do have to be careful with though, is it's

0:28:00.440 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 1>very easy for you to become an overprotective parent because

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with a baby that you're sending off for surgery.

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't want any harm to come to it. You've

0:28:10.119 --> 0:28:13.159
<v Speaker 1>now seen your baby with like a heart monitor, like

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:16.119
<v Speaker 1>i V tube sticking out of them, and that's just

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 1>not a sight you want to see. It can really

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>make you even more protective of your baby than before.

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.600
<v Speaker 1>And then when they come home and they're being teased

0:28:23.640 --> 0:28:27.119
<v Speaker 1>because of their facial difference, which they cannot help and

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:30.000
<v Speaker 1>they had. They're not guilty of anything. They don't deserve

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.360
<v Speaker 1>any of that kind of bullying or teasing. I'm sure

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:34.000
<v Speaker 1>it makes you want to go kill those little kids

0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:36.880
<v Speaker 1>who are doing that. UM, so you got you kind

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 1>of have to. It's a definite crucible for uh, for

0:28:42.640 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 1>parents that that you have. It's an additional challenge that

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 1>you would have to to take on. But parents do

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>it all the time and their kids turn out totally

0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:54.560
<v Speaker 1>normal all the time. All right, Well, take another break,

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>are another break, and we'll come back and finish up

0:28:58.080 --> 0:29:23.640
<v Speaker 1>right after this. See alright, so we should talk about

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>some of the great things that are going on around

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 1>the world, but we first have to talk about some

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 1>of the not so great things. Um. We've been talking

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.760
<v Speaker 1>to this about this from the perspective of someone in

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>the United States, where it is very common and very

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:41.200
<v Speaker 1>treatable and outcomes are great. Unfortunately, in developing countries there

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:44.200
<v Speaker 1>are a lot more challenges. Of course. Uh. There is

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stigma attached to this anywhere, but especially

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>in developing countries. You might come into a situation where

0:29:52.680 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 1>um uh, like a father might blame the mother and

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.840
<v Speaker 1>say you were to blame because you didn't do whatever right,

0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>that my child looks like this, and there can be

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of shame involved. I think there was a

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:08.640
<v Speaker 1>study in Kenya where mothers of babies were blamed by

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 1>their husband and extended families for that. And they interviewed

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:15.600
<v Speaker 1>some of these women and some had contemplated taking the

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>baby's life or their own life or both. Uh. And

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 1>that is just unspeakable, uh, unspeakably tragic, of course. Uh.

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Their access to medical care is different. Obviously. The further

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 1>they are away from good care and the more expensive

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 1>it is, the harder it becomes to overcome these challenges.

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 1>But there is great news because there are some great organizations.

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>One's called Smile Train, one's called Operations Smile and what

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 1>they do instead of sending in doctors, they try and

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 1>go in and train up doctors in these places to

0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>deal with this better, to teach them how to perform

0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 1>these surgeries, and to help educate the public at large

0:30:56.000 --> 0:31:00.160
<v Speaker 1>about facial differences and that it's it's okay. Yeah, I

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 1>was looking at Charity Navigator. You ever go on there, man,

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 1>they're great. Um, it turns out Operations Smile has like

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:11.959
<v Speaker 1>a seventy, which is fine, but Smile Train is a

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:17.400
<v Speaker 1>Charity Navigator. No. No, they've been around for a while now.

0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>That's amazing. Both of them have, like, um, they're spending

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 1>tens and tens of millions of dollars a year on

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 1>providing like these services for children around the world. So

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 1>seventy five or a hundred, hats off to both of

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 1>them for that. That's great. I think Operations Smile has

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 1>thirty one medical centers in sixteen countries and they have

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>these international medical missions every year, like over a hundred

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>of them that they where, Like I said, they just

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:47.480
<v Speaker 1>go in they teach the doctors instead of bringing in doctors,

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 1>and I think the whole teacher person to fish thing

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 1>all right comes into play. Teach a person to fix

0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:56.240
<v Speaker 1>a cleft flip and they'll be doing it again and again.

0:31:56.880 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>That's the old thing. So uh, there are actually like

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:04.040
<v Speaker 1>since it's I think one out of every seven fifty

0:32:04.080 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 1>berths in the United States alone, that might even be

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 1>like a European statistic too. Um, there's a lot of

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>famous people who have cleft flips because, like you said,

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>if you have a cleft lip or a cleft palette,

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:19.680
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't prevent you from doing anything. Um, so you

0:32:19.720 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>could excel at say acting as maybe Mike Hamer if

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you wanted to Stacy Kea. Yeah, is that you're talking about? Yeah,

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Stacy Keach has that cleft palette or I guess cleft

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>lips surgery scar forward surgeries. Actually that Stacy Keach had

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>uh cheech marin sure. I guess he can still smoke

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>downs a weed. I was gonna say, he's got the

0:32:42.760 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>suction thing down maybe, So who else? Uh? Joaquin Phoenix

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 1>actually is widely considered to have a um like a

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 1>cleft scar. It has what looks like that cleft scar

0:32:55.840 --> 0:32:59.040
<v Speaker 1>like he had a cleft lip repair, a chilly a

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>kilo plastic um, but he doesn't. He has a microform

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:08.720
<v Speaker 1>cleft that was It's it's looked like that since birth. Um.

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:11.959
<v Speaker 1>And apparently Wendy Williams, the talk show host, got just

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>jumped all over last year because she was talking about

0:33:15.160 --> 0:33:17.719
<v Speaker 1>how cute she thought it was and then was like

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 1>basically pulling her Yeah, she didn't do it right at all.

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.440
<v Speaker 1>She was ultimately trying to give him a compliment, but

0:33:25.040 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 1>she did not do it in the right way. Definitely

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>suffered for it. Um. And then Peyton Manning is another one. Yeah,

0:33:33.000 --> 0:33:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I think his was a palette, right, he had I

0:33:36.880 --> 0:33:41.280
<v Speaker 1>think a lip too. No, I guess it says palette.

0:33:41.320 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>I thought he had a cliff flip because I feel

0:33:43.320 --> 0:33:45.719
<v Speaker 1>like I've seen him he has a scar, like his

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 1>lip looks turned up a little bit. But maybe it

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:50.520
<v Speaker 1>was just a cliff palette. So he had a couple

0:33:50.520 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 1>of surgeries, and he had I think he had braces

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>for like eleven years, from like age four. Yeah, man,

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 1>that's to four to fifteen having races. I mean I

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:03.400
<v Speaker 1>had braces twice and that was bad. That's the Jolly

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Rancher years. And Peyton Manning missed out on those. I

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:09.280
<v Speaker 1>can assure you he did. Did you like the individual

0:34:09.320 --> 0:34:13.399
<v Speaker 1>candies or the sticks? The sticks? That was just too much, man,

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:16.239
<v Speaker 1>it was over the top was it for me? I

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of liked him because the more you uh licked

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>on him and sucked on him that you can make

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:24.360
<v Speaker 1>him into a knife basically right, like a poop knife.

0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:28.600
<v Speaker 1>But it was very sharp. What was your flavor? I

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:31.040
<v Speaker 1>was always green apple? Same here. I love those watermelon

0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 1>are good too. It's okay, it's old fast. Don't come

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 1>at me with grape. I don't. I don't like the grape.

0:34:35.920 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I had no problem with grapes. What about

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>the blue? I think blue raspberry one have been remember

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:44.400
<v Speaker 1>that maybe? But boy, those green apple, yeah, they're good.

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:46.719
<v Speaker 1>I haven't had one of those in forty years. I

0:34:46.760 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>think I still have. I haven't either. I still have

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:54.760
<v Speaker 1>some stuff to my mole. Wow, Dennison never just couldn't

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 1>even get it out. They try, they try, and they fail,

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>every single one of them. So Peyton man Ing uh, he,

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 1>like I said, has done a lot with his money

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>over the years, in addition to throwing lots of touchdowns,

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot of philanthropy, and I think even the St.

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Vincent's Childrens Hospital in Indiana they renamed that Peyton Manning

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Children's Hospital at St. Vincent because they have the leading

0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 1>or one of the leading pediatric cranio facial centers in

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:23.759
<v Speaker 1>the country, and he has shoveled a lot of money

0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:26.600
<v Speaker 1>their way. UM. There's also one other thing we're talking about,

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>how other kids and other countries don't have access to

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:33.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the services UM. And apparently a lot

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 1>of people have said, I want to adopt a child

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:40.759
<v Speaker 1>from a developing country, and I am going to just

0:35:40.840 --> 0:35:44.560
<v Speaker 1>basically go ahead and go right onto the canonization track

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:48.319
<v Speaker 1>and adopt a child from a developing country who has

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>what's called an unrepaired cleft and like, you know this

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 1>going into it, Yes, you sign up for it. There's

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 1>actually a group by the way called Rainbow Kids UM

0:35:56.680 --> 0:36:02.240
<v Speaker 1>that connects people to adoptive parents to children with developmental

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 1>UM or other kinds of special needs UM and that

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:08.879
<v Speaker 1>includes kids with cleff lips, cleff pallets, that kind of thing,

0:36:08.880 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 1>which I think is pretty great. That is great, and

0:36:10.760 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 1>then you know that's one of the stressors of the

0:36:13.360 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>many stressors of adopting a kid period. I can say

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 1>from experience and that you are oftentimes dealing with a

0:36:19.719 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 1>birth mother that may not have practiced great prenatal care.

0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:26.800
<v Speaker 1>Add access to it, UM, smoking and drugs and alcohol

0:36:26.840 --> 0:36:29.680
<v Speaker 1>could play a part. And you you sign up for this,

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:32.359
<v Speaker 1>and you they ask you these questions beforehand. They're like,

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:35.520
<v Speaker 1>what would you do if you are in the birth

0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 1>room and the baby comes out with a cleff flip

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:41.399
<v Speaker 1>or a cleft pallet? Like, what's your real They ask that. Yeah,

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's just called your tolerance list, Like what

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>if this happens? What if this happens? What if you

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:49.839
<v Speaker 1>go in there and the baby comes out that's an

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:54.080
<v Speaker 1>unexpected race? And you're like, okay, well could that happen? Yeah,

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 1>They're like, well sure again, so how are you gonna

0:36:56.719 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>And then they you know, they tap on their on

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 1>the clipboard and look you and they're like what would

0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you do? So you just got to fill out all

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:06.439
<v Speaker 1>this stuff, and uh, it's really interesting and it makes

0:37:06.440 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 1>you do two things. That makes you really take a

0:37:08.840 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 1>hard look at what matters and also take a hard

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:15.280
<v Speaker 1>look at your own family and genetics, and eventually probably

0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:18.359
<v Speaker 1>end up saying like, hey, we're no prize either, so

0:37:19.000 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>let's just do this. That's fantastic. Yeah, it's real, it's

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 1>really do an adoption podcast. When I agree, I agree.

0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Jerry could even maybe say a few words. She just

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 1>thumbed up and then shook her head. She did. She's

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>a little sleep now. She just finished the lunch. We'll see. Uh,

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:37.799
<v Speaker 1>so you got anything else? I got nothing else? Okay, Well,

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:39.400
<v Speaker 1>if you want to know more about cleft lips and

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>cliff palettes and cranio facial clefts, then you can go

0:37:43.600 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>do some more research online. Since I say good, do

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:52.439
<v Speaker 1>more research online, it's time for listener. Ma, I'm gonna

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:57.839
<v Speaker 1>call this. Uh. I inadvertently said something and I didn't

0:37:57.840 --> 0:37:59.960
<v Speaker 1>even know what it meant. I don't think we did this,

0:38:00.000 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and yet did we about Netflix and Chill? I don't so,

0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I said, Netflix and Chill have heard. It's an expression.

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:12.399
<v Speaker 1>There's a been and Jerry's flavor that I love. What's it? Oh?

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:15.359
<v Speaker 1>I can't even remember. It's just really good. It's got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of good, delicious, crunchy sweet things going on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of my favorite flavors. I'll check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me just read this welcome back stuff you

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<v Speaker 1>should know. Team listening to your appendix episode had a

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<v Speaker 1>good laugh During the podcast, Chuck said our immune system

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<v Speaker 1>is not good at Netflix and Chill and I really

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<v Speaker 1>started laughing. Did you know what this meant? Yes, why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you say something when I said it? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I must have been thinking of my next joke or something,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know how I missed that. Did you know, Jerry?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what that? Man? I'm an idiot. I

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<v Speaker 1>can listen if I snorted. Last week, my thirty year

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<v Speaker 1>old daughter was visiting. I said to her, let's Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>and Chill and she promptly told me, mom, that is

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<v Speaker 1>code for having sex. What who knew? Obviously? Stuff you

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<v Speaker 1>should know. Oh did not get the slang Dakota memo either,

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<v Speaker 1>and we should say Chuck did not. I'm absolving you

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<v Speaker 1>and Jerry, but thanks for making me laugh. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>from Rosie. And Rosie said that I could read this

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<v Speaker 1>and her daughter would get a good laugh about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like a rube. I had no idea that,

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<v Speaker 1>And it makes sense now, like I could see some

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<v Speaker 1>kid being like, what did you guys do last night? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Just you know Netflix and Chill, when in fact they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing you know, unspeakable things. But now I know

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and Chill. Yeah, I don't know how I let

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<v Speaker 1>that one passed. Maybe it was purposeful, that's right. Um, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for that one. Who was that again, Rosie? Rosie

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. Um, and I'll bet that was a really

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<v Speaker 1>great conversation you have with your mom. I'm glad we're

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<v Speaker 1>clearing this up though, because there's probably a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people that were like, what is is Chuck that dumb? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe they thought like you had just gotten bone

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<v Speaker 1>dry and your sense of humor and timing and delivery. Um. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to get in touch with this, like

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<v Speaker 1>Rosie did, we want to hear from you, you can

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