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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Battery half the Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and this is.

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Speaker 1: Fan Question is Part two. We are back for part

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Speaker 1: two of our episode.

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Speaker 3: We are answering all the questions we love Harry from

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Speaker 3: you guys. It's always some of our favorite podcasts to

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Speaker 3: deal and honestly the easiest because we.

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Speaker 2: Just talked about ourselves the whole time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Who doesn't love to do that, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I'd like the audience is interviewing us, you know.

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Speaker 3: I know they're doing our job for a minute. Yeah right,

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Speaker 3: But before we do, we are now gonna break down

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Speaker 3: some Bachriination news, which is what I used to do.

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Speaker 2: Back you know what, when you did Clickbait, I would

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Speaker 2: listen to pretty much every single episode and I always

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Speaker 2: liked it.

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Speaker 1: I knew you were a fan.

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Speaker 2: I was a fan. I was a fan of you. Well,

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Speaker 2: I started listening after we got together, if I'm being

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Speaker 2: totally honest.

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Speaker 1: But.

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Speaker 2: I always thought bacher Nation News with you, Natasha and

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Speaker 2: Tia was like the best part. I thought it was

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Speaker 2: so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we haven't done it forever. I used to kind

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Speaker 3: of sit back in the wings and let Natasha talk.

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Speaker 2: About it, so I know, vote no Natasha here today,

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Speaker 2: and I'm not going to be doing that. So step up, Joey,

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Speaker 2: step up.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: First one, Gabby and girlfriend Robbie talk about moving in

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Speaker 3: together and discuss a queer bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: I mean, they've been together for almost a year now.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm trying to think when the relations I

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Speaker 2: think it was last spring, Yeah, because I remember Rachel

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Speaker 2: Rekia being like they had just started seeing each other

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Speaker 2: before she went to film Paradise and she made a

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Speaker 2: joke like I wouldn't have been surprised if, like I

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Speaker 2: came back and they were like married, Like they were

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Speaker 2: obsessed with each other right away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when we went to La and went paintballing with Gabby,

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Speaker 3: I feel like she was already low key in that relationship.

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Speaker 2: That was what in end of May of last year. Yeah, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: we didn't know about it at the time, but she

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Speaker 2: was already seeing Robbie and then she announced it. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, like June, I think, I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, but around this time moving.

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Speaker 3: In together, though, I would say moving in together is

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Speaker 3: the biggest step in a relationship besides having a child.

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Speaker 2: I would agree.

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Speaker 3: It's just as big as getting married, like moving in together.

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Speaker 1: I mean, getting married is massive change. Yeah, people, both

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Speaker 1: people's line.

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Speaker 2: Getting married is a big commitment. But like, at the

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Speaker 2: end of the day, it doesn't change at least for us,

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Speaker 2: it did not change the structure of our relationship or

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Speaker 2: our day to day. I mean, it definitely changed the

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Speaker 2: fact that we're committed to each other for life. But

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Speaker 2: like I mean, at the end of the day, we

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Speaker 2: could get divorced. Yea, there's an option. And also if

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Speaker 2: you live with someone it's for like two to three years,

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Speaker 2: you're totally considered common law married. Yeah, so like there's

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Speaker 2: still like.

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Speaker 1: A yeah, an attachment that what you said, it's it is.

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Speaker 3: It changes kind of how you operate out a day

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Speaker 3: to day. Yes, because now there's somebody in your space.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent, you're sharing your home with another person.

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Speaker 2: It does, and you're seeing this person way more. You're

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Speaker 2: having to like compromise and like navigate how you live together,

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Speaker 2: which if you don't live together, if you don't live

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Speaker 2: in similar ways, it can create problems.

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Speaker 1: I love how we just explained what it is to

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Speaker 1: move so much like.

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Speaker 2: For those of you that don't know this is what

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Speaker 2: it means when two people move in together.

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Speaker 3: It's oh my gosh, but yeah, no it is.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just a mess.

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Speaker 2: It's a big step. It's like our relationship probably changed

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Speaker 2: more when we moved in together than when we got married.

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Speaker 2: And then I think, obviously, I think having kids is

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Speaker 2: probably the biggest, the biggest change. But happy for them.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing, love that they're they're moving together. I feel

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Speaker 2: like from social media it looks like they're together, like

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Speaker 2: twenty four to seven. Anyway, I kind of already thought

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Speaker 2: they lived together. But I'm glad that they're doing well

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Speaker 2: and they're taking this step. Every time I see them

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Speaker 2: on our screens or on social they just seem very

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Speaker 2: happy and in love, which is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: And then they discuss a queer bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: When I was probably too young to be watching this.

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Speaker 2: I was at a friend's house. I wasn't even watching

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Speaker 2: like the Battery at it this time, but I remember

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Speaker 2: they did like Tila Tequila's Search for Love, Do you

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Speaker 2: remember that? And they had like girls and guys. That's

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Speaker 2: the closest thing in the US I've ever seen to

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Speaker 2: like a queer dating show or someone as the lead

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Speaker 2: of a dating show from the LGBTQ plus community. One

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Speaker 2: of my best friends who is gay, he was like,

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Speaker 2: a gay bopsler would never work because you would have

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Speaker 2: men that are all attracted to one another.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know why they haven't, well, like, why

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Speaker 2: That would be I feel like it have to be

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Speaker 2: like Paradise, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Want that because honestly, that adds so much drama. I mean, wait,

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Speaker 1: could you imagine at the end when the.

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Speaker 3: Lead is ready to propose to a person and then

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Speaker 3: that person's like, hey, listen, also like you're not the

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Speaker 3: only one that hooked up with Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I Also, I was like what and then he can't?

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Speaker 1: Like could he even get mad? Because like if the

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Speaker 1: lead gets bad, it's like, well, like but you did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It would be wild.

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Speaker 2: I think they would have to create a unique structure

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Speaker 2: or like an adjustment in the rule book if they

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Speaker 2: were to do a queer lead. But I think it

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Speaker 2: would be fun. I think it's something they should explore.

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Speaker 2: I mean, they have had certain like aspects of representation

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Speaker 2: through the show. But like they've had people on the show,

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Speaker 2: like contestants that are openly bisexual. They've had people come

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Speaker 2: out and say, you know that they're gay, but they've

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Speaker 2: never had someone on the show like as the lead

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, uh moving on Blake Horsemen in Giannina from

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Speaker 3: Love Is Blind.

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Speaker 1: Just had a baby.

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Speaker 2: I know, I think the baby looks so much like her,

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Speaker 2: like the eyes, Like she has these really beautiful, big,

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Speaker 2: like looks so much like her.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I never think babies look like anyone until they until

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Speaker 3: they start hitting like the three Yeah, two three year

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Speaker 2: You're not wrong because like, but you can kind of

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I always feel like it's a stretch.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I always feel like it to show. When I

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Speaker 1: see like like like one month old, I'm like, they

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Speaker 2: Old, even like your cousin's baby. Yeah, when he was born,

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Speaker 2: you were like, oh my god, he looks so much

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Speaker 2: like the mom your cousin, And now that he's like two,

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Speaker 2: everyone's like, no, he looks like the dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I I I yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think I think babies all look just like babies.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they look like their parents.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you think they like grow into.

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Speaker 1: It and they're growing. And I think everyone that says that,

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Speaker 1: I think they're just wrong.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's fo Yeah, I just think it's a stretch

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Speaker 2: maybe a little bit. Yeah, but I think it's just

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Speaker 1: Also, Oh, also, like I don't I don't judge, like

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Speaker 1: I like, everyone's not everyone sees must see the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Because there's people that have said, like, I look like

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Speaker 1: someone and I'll be like or like I'll like a

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Speaker 1: friend looks like like a like an actor or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's not even like close, like like no, like I

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Speaker 1: not even close, Like how is this what you see?

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I think appearance is somewhat subjective.

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Speaker 1: Effect. Like some people have cilantro and they love it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone really loves cilantro.

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Speaker 2: I like cilantro, but do you love it? Love's a

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Speaker 2: strong word. I don't know if there's any herb that

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Speaker 1: But some people eat cilantro and it tastes like soap.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's a genetic thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's why I think maybe maybe with some

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Speaker 1: That has to be no way we all no way,

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Speaker 1: the entire well, it's just just let's just call it

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Speaker 1: the United States. No way, the entire United States looks

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Speaker 1: at Serena Pitt and sees the same face I see.

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Speaker 2: Why not you think, I'm like, I'm just telling you

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Speaker 3: I just I don't think people see everyone for what

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Speaker 2: Kind of?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm just telling you because there are people that

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Speaker 1: at the person they're comparing you to and be like,

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Speaker 1: that's not even No, that's not what she's not what

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Speaker 1: I see, that's not what she looks like. And I

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Speaker 1: so the only way that this makes that I can

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Speaker 1: make this make sense to me is the ciladral fact.

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Speaker 2: But I also think, like when you receive not just you,

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Speaker 2: like when people perceive someone's looks, there's so many factors

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Speaker 2: view other people. Do you know what I mean? Like

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Speaker 2: I think like and I think but yeah, if we're

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Speaker 2: I think you're not wrong, Like I think that, like

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Speaker 2: she has like dark hair and this color skin, she

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Speaker 2: like features, maybe I don't. I don't know, I know

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Speaker 2: what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I just want to bring it back that this topic

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Speaker 1: is about Blake and Right.

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Speaker 2: And their child and their new room baby. So happy

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Speaker 2: for them. The baby's name is Heath, Heath, I forget

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Speaker 2: the middle name Heath something horsemen, do.

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Speaker 1: You feel like it is now.

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Speaker 3: Something that has you have to do if you are

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Speaker 3: someone that has a social media following, take professional photos

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Speaker 3: when you have a kid.

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Speaker 2: Quick pause. The baby's name is Heath Orion or O'Ryan. Okay, horseman.

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Speaker 2: The middle name is beout O R I O N.

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Speaker 1: What happened to Joe or Jeff?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean you don't like the name Heath?

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Speaker 1: Get me just navy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go literally half your.

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Speaker 1: Family Joe, Jim or Jeff or John, Mike.

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Speaker 2: You're just naming one syllable white boy names. We won't

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Speaker 1: Name our kid Joey.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not, Yeah, Joey. The thing is, I'm like

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Speaker 2: The name Heath and how people should just.

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Speaker 3: Name no, no, No, I was talking about something before

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Speaker 2: I don't remember what you were saying. But I don't

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Speaker 3: and that's the only thing. That's the only way you're

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Speaker 3: I'm just yeah, I'm Joseph. You're Joseph, Joseph Anthony. My

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Speaker 2: Like that's actually a really good idea, Like that's so

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's one of those things that you

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Speaker 2: The parents sure, So yeah, it was something I've literally

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Speaker 1: Joey and Kelsey Moving on. Moving on, Joey and Kelsey

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Speaker 1: reveal how couples counseling has made the relationship. Also, I

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Speaker 1: I think that's great. I think doing that, I honestly

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Speaker 3: They both have to watch the whole season back. Kelsey's

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Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's something that should the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I think we did not do couples

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Speaker 2: counseling after.

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Speaker 1: Pairs, but I'm essentially a counselor myself.

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Speaker 2: Sure, okay, you can tell yourself that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's true you were things that you were

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Speaker 2: It No, that's not what happened at all, just spreading lies,

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Speaker 2: spreading so many lives. But I will say, like coming

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Speaker 2: But it coming off the Baucher and the Baucherette, like

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Speaker 2: trying to figure each other out while watching the person

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Speaker 2: of people were like, I hope Joe ends up with Maria,

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Speaker 2: that element is very difficult too, Whereas like, thankfully for

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Speaker 1: Show for show for show.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that being said, Let let's move on

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Speaker 3: to fan questions. Question because we're running a little long

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Speaker 3: Okayan question number one, You guys seem to take the

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We actually don't have another vacation planned yet.

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Speaker 2: We typically only take one vacation maybe two vacations a year.

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Speaker 2: One one, well, one big one. We actually went to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's that's a trip.

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Speaker 2: That's that's a vacation anything. What do you what do

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Speaker 1: I find a vacation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's great, love this question. I I don't

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Speaker 3: I consider it to be seven to ten days out

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Speaker 2: What a vacation is only an international trip to you? Yeah, wow,

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Speaker 2: Like going to Miami for four days. We literally were

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Speaker 2: what do you mean exactly? I gave a totally different definition.

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Speaker 1: I do agree with you, but I know I yeah,

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Speaker 2: Feel like exactly, but it has to be out of America.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, yeah I could. So how would I consider

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Speaker 2: Okay, good to know, well to answer this person's question.

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Speaker 1: And we may not even do those every year, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we usually. So far, we've done one vacation by

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Speaker 1: But I've been to Japan, so I don't know if

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Speaker 2: Okay, But you're the one that wanted to go there.

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Speaker 1: No, I still do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I do too, and I hope we make it work.

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Speaker 2: We're thinking September, and I think it's a good year

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Speaker 2: how is it being married, lived together and working together

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is a good question because we

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Speaker 1: Do you ever get sick of me?

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know. Wow, I don't get sick of you,

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Speaker 2: I aren't really like that. But do you agree with me?

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling super vulnerable right now.

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Speaker 3: I do agree with you, and I think but like,

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Speaker 3: And it's never like a thing like you went at

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Speaker 1: I went and did my thing.

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Speaker 1: I go to the gym, but usually by myself.

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Speaker 2: your friends, yeah, where it'll be like, yeah, go to

442
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Speaker 2: your thing.

443
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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, take a Vegas trip with my friends.

444
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

445
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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I don't. I don't. I don't. I

446
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 1: don't ever get sick.

447
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 3: There's never a time where I'm like, oh, I need

448
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 3: to anita a guys night Well, actually a guys night

449
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 3: out's different because it's just something that's just it's not

450
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 3: that I'm sick of you.

451
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: It's just like I haven't done that in a while. Yeah,

452
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: but I'm never.

453
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like thereover be times when I'm like I it's

454
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 2: not that I want to get away from you, but

455
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: like a night out for dinner with you is not

456
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 2: the same and not giving me the same thing as

457
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 2: like a night out with my girlfriends U. And I

458
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 2: think that it's important that we still have balance in

459
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 2: our lives and like invest in our outside relationships, and

460
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Speaker 2: I think that's why we don't get sick of each other.

461
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

462
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Speaker 3: I also feel like if we answered this we're we

463
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 3: two get sick of each other, this whole podcast would

464
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 3: go away Differently.

465
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 2: I don't think so, because I do think there's people

466
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 2: that would say, like, yes, like you know, like we're

467
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 2: kind of like that's why a lot of relationship ended

468
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 2: during COVID. Yeah, it was like I'm together with this

469
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 2: person twenty four to seven now and I'm realizing like

470
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 2: I don't want to be, which is also very normal.

471
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 2: I think it's normal to get sick of your partner,

472
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 2: especially with the way we live where it's like we

473
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 2: live together, we both work from home, we both work

474
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: on this podcast, Like it would not be weird if

475
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: we were like, yeah, sometimes we get a little sick

476
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: of each other. I agree, but we're very fortunate that

477
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 2: we don't. And I think that's why we can work

478
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 2: together and live the way we do show the show.

479
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Speaker 1: Okay, Serena, name one thing that Joe does that annoys you.

480
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 2: Okay, let me think about this one, because they can't. Well,

481
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: it used to be that you would put your dishes

482
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 2: in the sink and not the dishwasher. But you actually

483
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: have worked on that a lot. You don't really do

484
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: it as much anymore.

485
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: I know. Well.

486
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: The thing that also used to annoy me that doesn't

487
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 2: really because you don't do it as much anymore, is

488
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 2: if you would go to bed without telling me that

489
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 2: you were going to bed.

490
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: I said that last night.

491
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 2: No, you text me and said that you were going

492
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:01,719
Speaker 2: to bed. I hate it, I really hate it. Like

493
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 2: I hate it in a way that like it's comical,

494
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 2: it's not like a real problem in our relationship, but

495
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,719
Speaker 2: like genuinely, like if we're both sitting there reading our

496
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 2: books together and Joe like shuts his book, puts it

497
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: on his bedside table, turns off his light, and lays

498
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 2: down to go to sleep, that's an absolute no. That

499
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 2: is so makes me so mad. My my blood is

500
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 2: boiling just thinking about that.

501
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: I wake up.

502
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: I've always like, what do you think you're doing? I

503
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 2: don't care if you go to bed first, but you

504
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 2: have to say, hey, I'm going to sleep, good night,

505
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 2: And sometimes I'm be like, I want to go to

506
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: sleep too, So why don't we just go to sleep

507
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 2: initiate sleep boat together versus me look over and see

508
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: your back while you're snoring.

509
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: That's so hard to because I do, I too.

510
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 2: I hate it.

511
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: I do joy.

512
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 2: I feel crazy saying it like it's such But there's

513
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 2: really not much that bothers me, but that one really does.

514
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 1: That is a ball buster, and I do kind of

515
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: enjoy you do it. I'm her sure, I do enjoy

516
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 1: busting street up balls, but if I do it at night,

517
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: I know she gets all worked up and that's going

518
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 1: to screw up the sleep.

519
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 2: So yeah, because then you start laughing and that we're awake.

520
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 2: But no, But last night I went out to dinner

521
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 2: with Abigail and Chelsea and you text me and said, hey,

522
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 2: I'm going to bed, which I really appreciated. But I said, okay,

523
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: I'm on my way home, meaning I was going to

524
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: be home in ten minutes, so I thought that you

525
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 2: might wait up for me. Came home, lights her out,

526
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 2: Joe's horizontal asleep in bed.

527
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 3: That's crazy, though, that's crazy because you you were out late.

528
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 2: No, I was okay with it. I was like, this

529
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: is understandable. I mean I got home at like midnight,

530
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: but I did wake you up. I wanted to chat.

531
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you woke me up.

532
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 2: What I hadn't seen you all night. I wanted to

533
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: to chitty chat about our evenings and see how yours

534
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 2: was and tell you about mine.

535
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Do you think if you two had met when you

536
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 3: were in high school that you would have ended up together?

537
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm maybe. No, I don't know. It's hard to know.

538
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't know.

539
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,239
Speaker 2: Like you, I was basically I've been basically the same

540
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 2: person my whole life.

541
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: I have.

542
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 2: I would say if you met me in high school,

543
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,479
Speaker 2: I'd be the same as I am now. But you,

544
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: I think have changed a lot. Yeah, over the course

545
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 2: of your life.

546
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: Definitely.

547
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: Like even if I met you at twenty five and

548
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 2: we were both twenty five, I don't know, I was thirty.

549
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, definitely.

550
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

551
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

552
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 2: I don't know either. I mean, like, I think we

553
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 2: always would have like clicked and had chemistry, but I

554
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: don't know if we would have worked out. I think

555
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: for our relationship to work out, we kind of had

556
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 2: to meet in the stages of life that we were

557
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 2: at when we met one another.

558
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you guys ever renew your vows? No?

559
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: Saying my vows one of the most anxiety provoking experiences

560
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: of my life, and I'm surprised I got through it

561
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: the first time. Yeah, that's but maybe you know what,

562
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: maybe in like twenty years we could do something like

563
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 2: private and intimate and special just like for us, Like

564
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: I wouldn't necessarily want to like do it in front

565
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: of a whole bunch of people, but there's other ways

566
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: we could go about it. I think it's nice to

567
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 2: like do romantic things throughout your marriage, throughout the years.

568
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 1: If you had never gone on The Bachelor.

569
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: Joe's like, no fucking comment.

570
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: If you had ever gone on the Bachelor or the Bachelorette,

571
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: where do you think you'd be now? Each of us?

572
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 2: Oh, you go first.

573
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: I think I would probably be in Chicago, probably in

574
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: the grocery produce business, doing something of the sort.

575
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: Miserable.

576
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god, horrible. Thank god you went on the show.

577
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: I know.

578
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: I mean I was working in pr when I went

579
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 2: on the show, but I really wanted to get into events.

580
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 2: I was doing PR eight because I liked it be

581
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: because it was COVID times and there was no events

582
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: to work for, So I would probably have down my

583
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: way into a career in events, living in Toronto, working

584
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: a nine to five, doing like what all my friends

585
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: are doing. You know, it's pretty easy to see what

586
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: my life would have looked like because I was young

587
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 2: when I went on the show, and all my friends

588
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 2: were kind of on a similar trajectory as I was

589
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 2: at the time, and they've all kind of ended up

590
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: in a place where I think I probably would have

591
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 2: ended up if I hadn't got on the show.

592
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: If you were to get a pet, what would it be?

593
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: It would be a little doggie. Because we have a

594
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,959
Speaker 2: small apartment and we travel so much. We would need

595
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: a dog that we could bring around with us and

596
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: a dog that doesn't shed, because I just I don't

597
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: think I could emotionally handle a dog that shads. Yeah,

598
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 2: do you agree?

599
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: Yeah?

600
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: Like a little like if you see Natasha's dog. That

601
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 2: would be what we would get.

602
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you want children someday?

603
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: Yes? I believe we do.

604
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: What do you mean you believe we do? Yeah?

605
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 2: We want children. We're living our best ink life, right

606
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 2: now dual income, no kids, but she would no, yeah, no.

607
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: All I think about when I see you by the

608
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 2: dozen is how expensive it would be to have twelve kids.

609
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: And last one? If you won the lottery tomorrow. What's

610
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: the first thing you would buy?

611
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: I would buy a lawyer who specializes in wealth management. Wow,

612
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: I would have them on salary. Well, depends on how

613
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: much you win. You know, how much is it? You know?

614
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: Are we talking five thirty million?

615
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

616
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would. I would get a lawyer on staff immediately.

617
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Speaker 2: Who would you do?

618
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: I would buy a bitcoin?

619
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I would expect. But if we're talking

620
00:30:53,160 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 2: about like an actual physical material purchase, probably property.

621
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: My answer states the same bitcoin.

622
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: Bitcoin you wouldn't want to get like a place in Chicago,

623
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: a place in Toronto, place in New York, a place.

624
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: I would do that, but the first thing, yeah, not

625
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: the last thing.

626
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 2: We wouldn't see a dollar of that money. It'll be

627
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: in bitcoin.

628
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: Okay.

629
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 3: Well, honestly, that's it for the episode about your happy Hour.

630
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Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much for sending in your questions.

631
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Speaker 3: This has been a lot of fun. I hope you

632
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 3: enjoyed this episode as much as I did.

633
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: And we will be back with some interviews that are

634
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: not about us, that are about some of your Bachelor

635
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: Nation favorites. Coming up in the next few weeks as

636
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: we anticipate gen season of the Bacherette, so be sure

637
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: to subscribe and stay tuned.

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Speaker 1: Thanks again bye,