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Speaker 1: My guest.

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Speaker 2: Today's actress Tiffany Theeson. Her roles as Kelly Kapowski on

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Speaker 2: Saved by the Bell where I was a PA by

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Speaker 2: the Way, and Valerie Malone on Beverly Hill's nine oh

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Speaker 2: two one Oho made her a teen idol. But these days,

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Speaker 2: Tiffany is cooking up a storm on TikTok and her

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Speaker 2: second cookbook, Here We Go Again, comes out September twenty sixth.

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Speaker 2: This is just be with Tiffany Theeson. Let's get into it. Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen you, and we're not. I guess we're

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Speaker 2: not even allowed to talk about where we met, but

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Speaker 2: we we met. It's so weird on a show that

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Speaker 2: I was a PA on years ago on the beach

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Speaker 2: and I met Tiffany during the summer when you were a.

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Speaker 1: Kid, and we're talking about we're still chill.

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Speaker 2: You're well, you're younger than I am, which doesn't seem

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Speaker 2: as different now, but then you were. You seem like

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Speaker 2: a kid because it was where I think I met you,

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Speaker 2: and I was when do you when did one graduate college?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: If you really did go to college, I guess what

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Speaker 1: twenty two? Right?

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Speaker 2: So I guess twenty two? Yeah, yeah, Okay, So I

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Speaker 2: met you when you were a kid, and I met

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Speaker 2: your I remember your.

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Speaker 1: Mom, and you were I just I can't believe how

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Speaker 1: long ago that was.

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Speaker 2: I met you, Mario Lopez, Elizabeth everyone, And now I've

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Speaker 2: come across your paths so many times in modern adult life.

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Speaker 2: And so now you're kind of like a sort of

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Speaker 2: a chef. You have cookbooks and you're it's it's like

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Speaker 2: a not a reinvention, but it's definitely a layer in

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Speaker 2: addition to.

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Speaker 3: I think you more than anybody can talk about that,

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Speaker 3: you know, right, I mean, as women and as we

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Speaker 3: do get older, and I think times are changing, we're

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Speaker 3: constantly having to reinvent ourselves all the time.

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Speaker 2: Well, it feels like you want, like, not like you

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Speaker 2: have to. Like, you enjoy it, you like it, You're

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Speaker 2: liking these new sort of like. I don't get the

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Speaker 2: sense that you feel like you have to reinvent. I

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Speaker 2: get the sense that you are just exploring other aspects

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Speaker 2: of yourself because your previous life was one dimensional, linear,

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Speaker 2: and now you've got all these things you get to

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Speaker 2: do and be whatever you want.

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Speaker 3: You're right, I mean, I'm very lucky to get to

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Speaker 3: do things that I enjoy and make a living out

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Speaker 3: of you know. So that's definitely something to be said

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Speaker 3: right there. But I would agree that it was much

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Speaker 3: more linear when I was younger, because it was like

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Speaker 3: the focus and everything was put onto acting and all that,

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Speaker 3: but food was always a side passion. I just didn't

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Speaker 3: think that, especially at a young age, that I could

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Speaker 3: make a living out of it, you know, like that's

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Speaker 3: the thing. But I do believe as you get older

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Speaker 3: that it is important to show other aspects of yours

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Speaker 3: or passions or loves because it's it grows you as

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Speaker 3: a person. But also, you know, I think it's important

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Speaker 3: to show different sides of yourself. Again, I'm very lucky

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Speaker 3: to say that I can do that as a career.

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Speaker 2: You know, well, what do your kids think you are

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Speaker 2: if they're talking to their friends, like what does your

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Speaker 2: mom do? Because I'm sure they see you on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: And well it's different.

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Speaker 3: My kids are both they're five years apart, so they're

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Speaker 3: very vastly different in the way they see the world

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Speaker 3: and how they're going through school. And so I have

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Speaker 3: a teenager and I have, you know, a young eight

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Speaker 1: My eight year.

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Speaker 3: Old has grown up where he never watched my shows,

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Speaker 3: so he always only saw that I was doing cooking.

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Speaker 3: He says, he goes, Mom, you're a cooker. That's what

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Speaker 3: you do for a living, a cooker.

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Speaker 1: That's so funny, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Or now he calls it, that's what he used to

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Speaker 1: say when he was little.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he knows, you know, he's better at his

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Speaker 3: English now, but but you know, he's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: you show people how to cook.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, you're right.

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Speaker 3: I kind of do I inspire people, you know, That's

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Speaker 3: what I tell him. But when he was little, it

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Speaker 3: was like, you're a cooker. My daughter was on set

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Speaker 3: with me and since a very very young age. That

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Speaker 3: was a show that I was actually shooting in New

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Speaker 3: so she totally saw me as an actress. So she

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Speaker 3: always knew and then my past as she's gotten older,

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Speaker 3: and so she sees that that was my you know,

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Speaker 3: my sort of bigger career in what I've done my.

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Speaker 2: Whole life, and what do you think the path will hold? Like,

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Speaker 2: where do you do you see yourself? Doing both, Like

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Speaker 2: where do you see yourself? What road going on?

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Speaker 1: Both roads?

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, I've been able to be a I've

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Speaker 3: been very fortunate to be able to do both. No

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Speaker 3: one's working right now, right, Nor are my friends who

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Speaker 3: are stylist and wardrobe stylist and krum and makeup and

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Speaker 3: But but no, it's my first love. I mean, it's

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Speaker 3: it's it's kind of like your first child, right, It's

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Speaker 3: it's sort of that that sort of very precious, sacred

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Speaker 3: career that I have a lot of, uh a lot

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Speaker 3: of love and respect for and I still enjoy it.

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Speaker 3: And the fact that I've been able to sort of

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Speaker 3: continue and do many different roles as I was, you know,

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Speaker 3: starting at a young adult and teenager. Up until the

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Speaker 3: last one I was playing a mom, which you know,

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Speaker 3: my daughter loved that show. Like, you know, it's it's

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Speaker 3: cool to say that I'm still doing it. But again, like,

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Speaker 3: no one's doing it right now, So I hope you

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Speaker 2: But do you feel well, do you feel anxiety about it?

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Speaker 2: I mean, thank god you have something else that you do,

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Speaker 2: but you definitely didn't think that was going to be

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Speaker 3: So I think because I have something else, another outlet,

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Speaker 3: another sort of area that I love and I do make,

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Speaker 3: that makes sense, Like I don't have to take roles

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Speaker 3: that I may not want to take roles, and I

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Speaker 3: can be I feel like I can be a little

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Speaker 3: more picky, and I have been for a while. So

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Speaker 3: you've been picky.

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Speaker 2: Even before you've been pit you were picky, and now

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Speaker 3: I wasn't always picky, but I feel like as I've

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Speaker 3: right because I have other areas and you've worked.

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Speaker 2: That's me now, Like I really can say I don't

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Speaker 3: I feel I feel like that in everything in my life.

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Speaker 3: I say I say that about friends. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 2: Friends same like, same same, and I'm not gonna eat

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Speaker 2: things I don't like and I'm not gonna Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: get that way, which is why it's interesting people who

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Speaker 2: stay single, it's harder for them to get into relationships

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Speaker 2: older because you get set in your ways. There are

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Speaker 2: just things that you will like dig your heels in

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Speaker 2: on and and I don't think that that's spoiled or entitled.

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Speaker 2: It's it's it's definitely fortunate.

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Speaker 3: And just know yourself and you know what you want,

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Speaker 3: and you know what you stand for, and you know

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Speaker 2: Right, Oh yes, But I mean that like in your

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Speaker 2: Like I just couldn't financially afford it, and even didn't

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Speaker 2: it's a hard balance for a woman to decide, you know,

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Speaker 2: I have a friend who was worried that her daughter's

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Speaker 2: has no social life.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, who gives a shit?

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Speaker 2: Work your ass off, make money, get on some sort

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Speaker 3: And I think that's the thing that sort of has

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Speaker 3: and all that later, right, I mean that's how I was.

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Speaker 1: I was much yeah, and I had all that.

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Speaker 2: I was watching a show where a woman asked another

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Speaker 2: like giving up your career and wanting to have kids,

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Speaker 2: and it is really it's so cliche, but it is

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Speaker 3: It's not so much marriage, right, because I was married

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Speaker 3: five years before we started having kids, and really there

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Speaker 3: wasn't a massive shift then, right, It wasn't really until

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Speaker 1: They change, you know, they change both of you. That's

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're saying, the marriage isn't the thing. It's the children.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. It's having children, even on your own

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Speaker 2: Do so you you you did you plan to have

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Speaker 2: I don't like to say accident, but like I ask

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Speaker 1: So we definitely wanted wanted to wait. We we definitely

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Speaker 3: And I think a little bit, I'll be totally honest,

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Speaker 3: the time, that I would be able to get pregnant

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Speaker 3: and they'd be like, that's okay, we can build it

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Speaker 2: You know, that's back to what we're talking about exactly.

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Speaker 2: You had to it's so interesting. You didn't want to

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Speaker 2: be like auditioning while pregnant, and then it.

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Speaker 1: So hard to do that.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's hard to do that, and then you know,

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Speaker 3: as you know, your body changes so much and it's

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Speaker 3: you know, the pregnancy to me is always I had

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Speaker 3: very easy pregnancies, and I know not every woman has that.

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Speaker 1: It's always the for me.

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Speaker 3: It was after it was that first six months after

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Speaker 3: head and all of that was the hardest. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: it was hard having a job and having to go

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Speaker 3: because I went right back to work six weeks later.

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Speaker 2: Well, it emotionally, it tears you up. Physically and emotionally too.

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Speaker 2: Completely you feel complete time.

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Speaker 3: But I'm glad the show that I had. I'm glad

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Speaker 3: I had that show at that time. It was it

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Speaker 3: couldn't have been more perfect in that sense. Yes it

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Speaker 1: Are they kissing? Are they going to think about drinking?

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Speaker 3: It's more of it's more of a feeling than it

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Speaker 3: reason to have some of those wrinkles. To laugh with

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Speaker 3: their every day it's it's debilitating mentally and physically, right,

440
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 3: And so you know, I've talked about this story where

441
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,639
Speaker 3: I was trying to do everything I was supposed to

442
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 3: do right, and you know, I had to lay off

443
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 3: the gym, which was depressing in itself. I couldn't do

444
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,919
Speaker 3: the normal things with my kids. I was literally in

445
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,119
Speaker 3: bed trying to like I sit, and he didn't go

446
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,600
Speaker 3: into my chiropractor and you know, doing all these things

447
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 3: that I needed to do. And it was one time

448
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 3: I went to my chiropractor and I really put a

449
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 3: lot of credit into him, doctor Gregg, and he literally

450
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 3: said to me, and he's known me longer than my husband,

451
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,360
Speaker 3: and he goes, you know, I've never seen you this dark.

452
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,919
Speaker 3: You walked in here with like a dark, rainy cloud

453
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,240
Speaker 3: over you. He's like, I've never seen you like that.

454
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 3: And I go, but you don't understand. He goes, no,

455
00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 3: I do understand, I said, But he goes, You're not

456
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 3: going to change anything. All this work that you're trying

457
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 3: to do is not going to change until you change

458
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 3: your attitude. He goes, You've got to literally do a shift.

459
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,080
Speaker 3: He goes, your mind is not going to help your

460
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:42,679
Speaker 3: body if you're completely in the dark. And so it

461
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 3: was a huge mind shift of just kind of like, Okay,

462
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 3: this is this is what's.

463
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 1: Happening right now.

464
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 3: Maybe my back being thrown out was a little sign

465
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 3: telling me to slow the f down, right, Like, I'm

466
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 3: really trying to shift my mind into everything tries I

467
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,239
Speaker 3: try to believe everything happens for a reason. And then

468
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 3: I just started taking care of myself. And my brother

469
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 3: in law and sister in law are big health people

470
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 3: and they've been icing for you know, doing ice bass

471
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 3: for five years, like before it became popular, and so

472
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 3: we were going to see them, and I knew that

473
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 3: I would be able to start doing that again because

474
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 3: they do it all the time at their house.

475
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 1: And I have a cold plunge pool. I don't really

476
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: use it. I have a bun one.

477
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a plunge too, But this is like

478
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 3: old school icing like ice. You go in ice with

479
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 3: a little bit of water, which bathtub and like literally

480
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,479
Speaker 3: stock tanks, like the metal big stock tanks.

481
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: Right.

482
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 2: Oh, you don't even need to have the seed or thing.

483
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: You're just saying, like go into like a bin like

484
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 2: a thing.

485
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 3: You can do it on your bathtub too, but it's

486
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 3: like getting all the ice from the store and literally

487
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 3: putting it in like old school sports.

488
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 1: Way, right, So you get all the ice from a

489
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 1: store and you do it this way.

490
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do it this way. But I also

491
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, I do have a plunge now, which

492
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 3: is awesome because it's okay you can just walk out

493
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 3: and do it. But what I'm saying is I started

494
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,880
Speaker 3: doing that again with them, and I brought it back

495
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,719
Speaker 3: to LA and I literally sort of doing it all

496
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 3: the time.

497
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: And it what's all the time? Like every day?

498
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 3: Well now I wasn't doing it every day, but I

499
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,119
Speaker 3: was probably doing it four times a week, which is

500
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 3: what I'm still doing now with the plunge.

501
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 2: And how three to five minutes Okay, laarired Hamilton is

502
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 2: very big into this. Yeah, yeah, and Gabby and so

503
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,199
Speaker 2: three to five minutes and what goes on?

504
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 1: What goes on?

505
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, it's hard, it's it's uh, it's

506
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 3: mentally challenging, which I like, yes, But I think the

507
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 3: biggest thing besides it helping my back for obvious reasons, right,

508
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 3: anti inflammatory and everything, the dopamine effect that I get

509
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 3: from it is like nothing else. And they and there's

510
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 3: and there's research showing like you know, wine can give

511
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 3: you a little bit of a kick of dopamine. Drugs

512
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 3: can do the same thing, but it drops, right, you

513
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: have the little high of a wine, you know, I

514
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 3: have a glass of wine, but it drops massively. It

515
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 3: becomes a depressant, right say, with drugs you know, ice

516
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 3: bathing doesn't do that. It keeps going for a couple

517
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,359
Speaker 3: hours and then it gradually goes back to normal instead

518
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: of dropping. So that's why you feel like when you

519
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 3: get out of those, you feel like you can like

520
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 3: climb Mount Everest.

521
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: You know. Wow, I don't know if you ever feel

522
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: that ud Like, well, no, I passed out.

523
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 2: I have very, very drastic low blood pressure, to the

524
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 2: point where if I sleep eight hours, I'm so dehydrated

525
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: my blood pressure crashes. I can't even stand up. So wow,

526
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 2: I want I've gone into so I used to live

527
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 2: for sauna for cold plunge, even for just a second,

528
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 2: not like three minutes, but I went into it. I

529
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 2: have twice I fainted and I didn't know why. But

530
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 2: I fainted in a cryo tank. I just dropped to

531
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Speaker 2: the floor. So I don't think I can do it because.

532
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: It's so extreme.

533
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 2: Probably not, And it sucks because I would. I mean

534
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: that seems I also run cold, like I'm always cold.

535
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: But like that, I'm so jealous, Like I want I

536
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: have a sauna, I don't use it. I have a

537
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 2: cold plunge. I don't use it because I just it's

538
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: too extreme, but hard for you. Yeah, yeah, but you

539
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:50,959
Speaker 2: do your face too.

540
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: No, No, it's funny. I keep reading how much it's

541
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: great for your face my face.

542
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. I've been seeing like on TikTok where people put

543
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: the straws and they put their face in ice, and

544
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, that's interesting.

545
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I could do the face.

546
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: I would like to do the face. That's well, good

547
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 2: for you. I just love hearing about things like that.

548
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

549
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: And are you vain? Am I vain?

550
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I am, but vain in one

551
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 3: said so myself like things that I like?

552
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: You thinking that, I mean, things that I want, Like

553
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: what do you like get?

554
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 3: Oh?

555
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: Are you thinking about your appearance? A lot of thinking

556
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 2: about your body and your face and your skin.

557
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 3: And it's funny. I again, I think about it. But

558
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 3: I feel in a healthier way than I did in

559
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 3: my thirties and forties.

560
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: I understand.

561
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 3: I understand because you're running around in so like I said,

562
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 3: you know, I'm looking and I'm like, okay, there's there's

563
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 3: you know, I'm getting. You know, I'm seeing it, and

564
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, but that's okay, Like you know, I literally

565
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 3: say this, like I feel good.

566
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 1: I feel good for almost being fifty. I feel good,

567
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 1: you know.

568
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 3: And I don't know if I always constantly said that

569
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: to myself and thirties and forties, which is sad.

570
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if I did.

571
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if I did. I probably didn't. I didn't,

572
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 2: I probably didn't. And we have so many things.

573
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 3: I look back at pictures and I look at myself

574
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: and I go, I remember not feeling great, and I'm

575
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 3: looking at it now and I'm like, that was stupid.

576
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: I know it's right. He's wasted on the young. Youth

577
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 2: has wasted on the young one hundred percent. Do you

578
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: do you care about filler and botox?

579
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: And I don't. I don't.

580
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 3: I've been really good about trying to take care of

581
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 3: myself and I'm not against it because I have lots

582
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: of friends who do it, and I'm not saying I

583
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 3: never will do it, but I've been really trying to

584
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: age gracefully naturally. Who knows how long it'll hold up?

585
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, But what does your husband say about it?

586
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: Whatever makes you?

587
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 3: I mean, he's not he's not that kind of guy

588
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: at all, so and he he's very I don't want

589
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 3: to say old school, but you know what I mean,

590
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 3: Like he's just he's just he's not at all, Like

591
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 3: the guy doesn't even half the time. I have to

592
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 3: remind him to shave even you know, get a haircut,

593
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 3: so get a No, he's just so not that he's

594
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 3: like the opposite, and which is funny because he is

595
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 3: an actor, but he's very much not that way. Like

596
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 3: I literally have to Like he's doing some videos right

597
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 3: now for a company doing art and they made him

598
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 3: go get a manicure and he's like, do I have

599
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 3: to do this every week?

600
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: I mean its hilarious.

601
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

602
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: Well okay, So I want to talk about leftover. So

603
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 2: you've always been into cooking and food, but leftovers is

604
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: like a niche for you.

605
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: Well it is. It's funny.

606
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 3: The idea came during COVID, like literally the start of COVID,

607
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 3: when we weren't going to the grocery store as much

608
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 3: because everybody was so afraid of it, right, and so

609
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 3: it kind of put me back into that sort of

610
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: thought process that I was like, you know, I was

611
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 3: actually raised like this. This is what my mom used

612
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 3: to do because we didn't come from a lot of money,

613
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 3: so my mom was always trying to stretch food for

614
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 3: the entire week. So the roasted chicken that she made

615
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: on Monday, she was putting it into enchiladas on Tuesday,

616
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So it was always trying

617
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: to repurpose something.

618
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: I just didn't marry that.

619
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so because but it was truly because we didn't

620
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 3: have a lot of money, and then we were kind

621
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 3: of forced to do that same sort of thing because

622
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 3: we just weren't going to the grocery store. So I

623
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 3: would really try to come up with a lot of

624
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 3: different things that I could then make into many different

625
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 3: dishes as we were starting COVID and not going to

626
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 3: the grocery store. And so it made me think, like,

627
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 3: you know, I've really tried to teach my kids about

628
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 3: food waste. I do believe that it's one of the

629
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 3: biggest contributors to global warming.

630
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: I really do. There's massive research.

631
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 3: It says right now, you know, the studies show that

632
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:38,959
Speaker 3: we we literally almost take away, you know, about forty

633
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 3: percent of food. And you know, like we go to

634
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: the grocery store five bags of food we're dropping too

635
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 3: in the trash.

636
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 1: Like it's.

637
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 2: I don't either, I'm really very if we go out

638
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: we love my daughter and I love to explore and

639
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 2: we're big foodies. But I'll say, and we can order

640
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: as much as we want, but we'll take it home.

641
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: We'll take it other things. I'll make sure. I'll make

642
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: life saut. I'll take a side of broccoli that I

643
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 2: wanted to have a couple of bites of and then

644
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: make it into an egg whitelm at the next I'm

645
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: very like the roast chicken.

646
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: Becomes a soup.

647
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: But I had a doctor tell me that leftovers, not

648
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: just because of the reduction and nutritional value, but for

649
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: people with autoimmune aren't good, and it really broke my heart.

650
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: I was like, no, it's not.

651
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like there's some science behind taking food home. And

652
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's the difference in the storage

653
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: or the back to I don't know, but I was disappointed,

654
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 2: but I still don't so sorry.

655
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 3: So you got to I believe that there's massive importance

656
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 3: to it on a bigger global level, and also teaching

657
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,959
Speaker 3: my children, which I'm huge, you know about about just

658
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 3: not wasting. And so I said, you know, there's a

659
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 3: book here. There's a different kind of cookbook that I

660
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 3: don't feel like I've ever seen before where it shows

661
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 3: people what they can do with already things that they

662
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: have in their fridge, their pantries. So whether it is

663
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 3: the leftover chicken, or whether it is that little bit

664
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 3: of buttermilk that you bought for a recipe that you

665
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 3: have no idea what to do with and it gets wasted,

666
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 3: or that the ships that are broken at the bottom

667
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: of the bag that my kids are like, they're broken,

668
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: I'm not going to eat them. Well, I can show

669
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 3: you something to do with them, right, So it's stuff

670
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 3: like that to really kind of think outside the box

671
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 3: a little bit of the things that are already there,

672
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 3: to really show that you can get creative in a

673
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: whole different way.

674
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. I love that.

675
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: I love when I see good uses of that too.

676
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 2: I love when I see like those companies that do

677
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 2: the broken canoli shells and then the cannoli came outside.

678
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: That's the dip, because you know that came out of invention.

679
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 2: Stacey's Pita Chips. That's how it started. She had a

680
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 2: sandwich stand with her brother in Chicago. I think it

681
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: was it was freezing and the one thing they overbought

682
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: every day wasn't the meats and the vegetables was the

683
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 2: peeda because you can't run out of bread for sandwiches,

684
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: and so they would start making petas and that became

685
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 2: the thing that they were successful at, not the sandwich.

686
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know what it's going to be. Love that.

687
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's she sold her company for two hundred and

688
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: fifty million dollars and it was the You know, it's

689
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: so funny because I mention her all the time. She

690
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: must be like, this woman's obsessed with me. He's on

691
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: the podcast years ago. But I tell her, oh, you know,

692
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 2: it's an amazing story. It's a totally amazing story. And

693
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: I and I agree, like it's it's something I feel

694
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: like everybody can relate to, and and and then a

695
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: whole other side of it. My husband is one of

696
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 2: those people, and I know there are some people like

697
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 2: that who hate leftovers. And so it was kind of

698
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: my sort of a funny little game that I would

699
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 2: play where I would take something that he had no

700
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: idea was left over and make something new and totally

701
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 2: trick him. And he would always be like, I don't

702
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 2: want that anymore. I don't want the leftover bloody blow

703
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: from last night. You know, Yes, But then I just

704
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't tell him, and then he would have no idea

705
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: because some people are left over, you know, they're they're ashamed,

706
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: or they just don't like the look of it, or

707
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: it feels like it's going to be gross tomorrow.

708
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: I think it's more like people have either touched her.

709
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, he's weird.

710
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, but I get that it is

711
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: there's something that can be gnarley, but you can like

712
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: refresh like fresh greens.

713
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Speaker 1: Make it by of the book. Yeah, that's of the book.

714
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 3: So anyways, that's sort of how the spark of the

715
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 3: idea started. And then I really wanted to kind of

716
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 3: shoot it in a way that was very nostalgic for

717
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: me growing up in the seventies and eighties, and and

718
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 3: so I wanted it to be where people, you know,

719
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 3: if our age, would look at it and be like,

720
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, my grandmother had that wallpaper, and my

721
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 3: grandmother had that mixing bowl, and my mom used to totally

722
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 3: have that you know, serving set and things like that

723
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 3: to kind of, you know, give a little model yes corning, well, yes,

724
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: all of it. You'll see all of it in the book. Yeah.

725
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: Oh I love that.

726
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 2: Did did TikTok like, so enter TikTok that was recent

727
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: for you.

728
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: And very recent. I thought I was too old.

729
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 3: For it to be like I did. I was like,

730
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 3: I'm too old for this. Instagram's perfect for me and Facebook.

731
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: I don't need another platform. But then I saw the

732
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 3: blow up of food.

733
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: That was happening on TikTok.

734
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 3: Yes, and now I'm hooked and I love seeing some

735
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 3: of the food that's happening. And they were like, you've

736
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 3: got to get on this. I'm like, okay, all right,

737
00:31:58,680 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 3: I'll add another one to me.

738
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 2: And you're on food Talk mostly you're seeing Food Company.

739
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 3: Most of my stuff is no. I mean, I would

740
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 3: say it's a little bit of both. I mean, I

741
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 3: know it's important probably to be funny and do trends,

742
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 3: and I like showing my like, you know, my funny

743
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: side and stuff like that. And so and then my

744
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 3: daughter will every now and then engrace her presence at

745
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 3: if she gets you know, if she gets me the

746
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: okay to do it, because that's.

747
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: What she likes it.

748
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 3: I think she does. Yeah, she's done a couple with me.

749
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, it's funny, Like I said, she

750
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 3: has to give me clearance.

751
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: She has to have approval, which you know, I'm glad.

752
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 3: She has a voice and she's telling me, and then

753
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 3: I have to let her know that I'm posting it

754
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 3: because a lot of her friends, of course, have social

755
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: media and she doesn't.

756
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: So I just want her prepared when she goes to school.

757
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: It's so true.

758
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 2: And a lot of her friends are your fans now

759
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: that wouldn't even have known of you, which is weird

760
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: because you go on the street and you have thirteen

761
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: year olds come up to you, which happens to me.

762
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 2: And also we're like the losers, like our kids are

763
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 2: not even on it as much as we are.

764
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: We are those moms that are like dorks that are.

765
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: Doing TikTok and you know what I mean, it's like

766
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 2: it's like, what are you doing?

767
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: I mean it's embarrassing. You know, it's fun.

768
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: But I'm just like, I know, Brinn, I'm doing a TikTok.

769
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: Right, I know, it's true, it's very fun. I never

770
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: thought I would, but here here I am. It's the reverse, okay.

771
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 2: So I always find out interesting things about people on

772
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 2: those lists, like things you don't know about me, so

773
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: packing a car, like but are you good at packing

774
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: everything or just packing that car.

775
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,959
Speaker 1: I mean I am so type a. Literally. My husband

776
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: will bring everything down and then I pack it. It's

777
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: like it's like jinga, oh I got it. Yeah. Two

778
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: kids like that too, And is your daughter like sure, no,

779
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: not at all?

780
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 3: Oh my kids are I think both my kids, I

781
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 3: think are a little more like my husband.

782
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 2: Oh okay, oh really no my daughters and then gets

783
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 2: it and then forgets it, you know, like he's like

784
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: I forgot my sunglasses when we were in Hawaii and

785
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: I was like, really, are you serious?

786
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: But he you know, like I make lists. I have

787
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 3: lists that are on going my pack. You know, that's

788
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 3: just who I am. I'm my packing list. Same yeah,

789
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: but I do it with everything, whether it's groceries or

790
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 3: or to do lists or whatever it is. I'm very yes.

791
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 3: I mean, my husband makes fun of the fact that

792
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: I'm so anal, but you know that's what it is.

793
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 1: Okay.

794
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 2: And I've read that you love so you love Thrive

795
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: Miscaret's your favorite.

796
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: I do very good.

797
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 3: I like that very I But I'll tell you having

798
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 3: a teenage daughter, I'm learning about makeup even more now

799
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 3: because I feel like I'm so set in my ways

800
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: and if a makeup art, my makeup artist isn't telling

801
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 3: me about it. I'm never going to change, right, I

802
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: just I like what I like and it's done. But

803
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 3: she's the one now that she's starting to worry a

804
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: little makeup. She's like, Mom, you got to try this

805
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 3: new mess scare. I'm like, where did you go? Where

806
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 3: did you get this?

807
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: You know, well, if you like to drive, you'll like it.

808
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: Superhero also, oh, my Superhero is very good and the

809
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 2: inexpensive great option is essence essence. I think it's called

810
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: princess Lashka. Do all these like crazy comparisons, and I

811
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 2: don't even wear makeup, and I become an expert on

812
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 2: it for no reason, for no good reason.

813
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 3: I mean, scare is like the one staple that you know.

814
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 3: I mean I generally don't wear makeup during the day,

815
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,800
Speaker 3: but if I'm gonna wear any makeup, it's a little

816
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 3: concealer and it's mascara.

817
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 2: Oh I would I don't think about my scare. Even

818
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 2: though I don't have very long I have long eyelashes,

819
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 2: but they're straight, like they go forward. I would be

820
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 2: I think concealer or like some sort of like a yeah,

821
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 2: concealer or tinted SPF and liptops and I have not.

822
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 3: I don't have as se. I hardly ever wear except

823
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 3: for like Chastick, so I would pick. I would pick

824
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 3: mascara over it.

825
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 2: So I want a lot of people say that I

826
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 2: want to get more into a scare because people do.

827
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 2: I guess because it just opens up your eyes. But

828
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 2: I guess, and then you didn't.

829
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: I feel like that's where everybody looks like, you know.

830
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 2: I'm getting into scare today, but you didn't get into

831
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 2: You didn't get lashes though, like the the ones that

832
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: last because you don't want it on your face.

833
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 3: Well, you know what's fun is years ago when it

834
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 3: started to become popular to get those lashes put on,

835
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: they wrecked my lashes and I swear it never go back.

836
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: And I yes, it's like fake nails. All my eyelashes out.

837
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: I felt like, and I was sitting there trying to

838
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: grow them.

839
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 3: Back, and you know, like they took a lot out,

840
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, I will never do this again.

841
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: No, I'm never doing it again either here in that No,

842
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: And that's the same thing the kids wanted to gel

843
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,479
Speaker 2: on the nails. I'm like, it's gonna rip your freaking

844
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: nails out.

845
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: I know. I've had this conversation again with my daughter

846
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 3: and she wants them so badly, and I said, no,

847
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 3: you're not, because they all have the fake nails and

848
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 3: I'm like, don't you have such beautiful nails. No, it's

849
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 3: the worst possible.

850
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 2: And the dye they want to dye the hair, well,

851
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 2: tell her to get the dazzle dry. It's a type

852
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 2: of nail polish that the salon has. It lasts a

853
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 2: little bit longer. It's a good happy meetium because it

854
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: yeah dazzled dry. It does chip off in two days.

855
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 2: To their point, it's annoying. They get a manica. They

856
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: look you two days, I know it's gone.

857
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: And and I make her kind of pay for.

858
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: A lot of this stuff now, you know, like it's

859
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 3: part of like learning, and yeah, I agree that, so

860
00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 3: it's hard.

861
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 2: I know, I agree. So, okay, we know people in

862
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 2: common from that era. And it was like it was

863
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: very gossipy, Like I was a PA and I was

864
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: like it was very gossipy, like me just like being

865
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: a fly on the wall with all the young kids

866
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: that came through, and like all the different I've met

867
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 2: in my old life. I met Tory Spelling and Denise

868
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 2: Richard's in this world that we crossed over, INNODYA, who

869
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 2: do you speak to? Are you still friends with these

870
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: people that you kind.

871
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: Of got me?

872
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 3: I'm still very close with with that first cast, so

873
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 3: Elizabeth and Mario and Mark Paul and all of them. Yes,

874
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 3: very I mean I just saw Mario and you are, yeah,

875
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 3: very very close. Yeah, totally, I see. I probably see

876
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 3: Mario the most. I would say I have the longest,

877
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 3: deepest relationship with Mark Paul because my husband and Mark

878
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: Paul are also very close. Oh really, but he just

879
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 3: moved from my life, so he's not here La anymore.

880
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: Sadly.

881
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, he went down south a little a little more

882
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 3: south from here. So yeah, So I would say that

883
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 3: out of the you know there, Mario and Mark Paul

884
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 3: are probably the ones I'm closest to. But like Matt

885
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: Bomer I'm still very close with and Tim Decay who

886
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 3: played with my husband, and so very close with them.

887
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 3: And as you know, we had a huge loss with

888
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 3: Willie Garson a few years back, which still still still

889
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,479
Speaker 3: is so hard for me to understand that he's not here.

890
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 3: It's just it's you know, I go back and look

891
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 3: at my pictures and stuff, and it's just it's interesting

892
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,760
Speaker 3: now that you're getting older, you know, you do lose

893
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 3: people in your life, right, and so it's it's pretty

894
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 3: pretty kind of crazy, the whole death thing. You know,

895
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 3: Like I lost my grandmother, which was an interesting because

896
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 3: you know, the process of it was actually quite beautiful,

897
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 3: and she was ninety six and it was, you know,

898
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 3: like she lived an amazing long life. But during the

899
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 3: same time, I was losing a friend who was way

900
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 3: too young to be to be going through that, and

901
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 3: it's it's a really interesting I learned. I learned a

902
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 3: lot about just myself and death and emotions and life

903
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 3: and and love and all those types of things, you know.

904
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: But anyways, but no, no, no, no, it's it's because

905
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 2: when you were talking, you know, you just provoked something

906
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 2: to me where I think about, you know, how how

907
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: close I am with my daughter, and then you like

908
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 2: do the numbers and the age and like when she's

909
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 2: my age, you know, like I don't be here, and

910
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: you do that thing in your mind and it's noisy

911
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 2: and it's anxiety producing and you feel for her because

912
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: I had a child later, so I feel for her,

913
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 2: because I won't be here as long as if I

914
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 2: had a kid. That's the other thing we were talking

915
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 2: about about when to have kids, because one way, you

916
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: have a kid at twenty three, like you really spend

917
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 2: your whole life with them, yep, together, you know as ye,

918
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 2: and when you choose to do that later, you're leaving them.

919
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,959
Speaker 3: But let's hope that people are living longer, right because

920
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 3: we are, Yes, you generally are, so maybe that sort

921
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 3: of evens out a little bit more, right, that's what

922
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 3: that's true.

923
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling us. No, it's true too, but it's it is.

924
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 3: But you know, like my grandmother lived till ninety six

925
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 3: and and that's amazing, unbelievable, unbelievable.

926
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: And and and yeah, my fiance's grandmother is that same age.

927
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, you're starting to prepare and

928
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 2: talk about and think about, but you don't want to

929
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: think about. And it's like, yeah, it's a circle of life.

930
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 2: And teaching kids that too.

931
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: Very much the circle of life totally.

932
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 2: You don't want them to be too immersed in that topic,

933
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 2: but you want them to understand that well, but you

934
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 2: want to.

935
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 3: Understand and we have ant like we we have animal,

936
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 3: lots of animals, and we have chickens and and so

937
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 3: the circle of life has been very much a part

938
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 3: of like.

939
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: Oh crazy animals.

940
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 3: Yes, it's really interesting and the natural part of like

941
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 3: you know, we've had chickens that have gone to other

942
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 3: places because of other animals, and so they learned at

943
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 3: a very young age that you know, this is part

944
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 3: of life and and this is no differently in the

945
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 3: animal world than it is in the human world sometimes,

946
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 3: you know.

947
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:01,240
Speaker 1: It's so true.

948
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 2: And dogs, the dog conversation, the dog conversations.

949
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 3: Lost dogs with our kids young, you know, when they

950
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 3: were younger. So I hope they have a healthy outlook

951
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 3: on death because it is a part of life, right, it.

952
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 2: Is, Yes, it is. It is a part of life

953
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 2: that we try to avoid talking about. Wow, well, I

954
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: want to like see you when I'm in La one

955
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 2: of these days. I was so glad to reconnect with you. Honestly,

956
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: it was so nice as timmy, thank you, and I'd

957
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 2: love to.

958
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 1: Send you the book as well. I want it ready

959
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: to be one hundred. Thank you. I have a good

960
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: rest of your day. Thank you to bye.