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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, this is from Devon On Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey FM, Devin says, what do you do when you

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Speaker 1: find out you're just friends in the middle of a

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Speaker 1: date that you're on? So over the weekend, I was

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Speaker 1: out on a fourth date with a girl that I'm

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Speaker 1: really into. While we were out, she ran into a

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Speaker 1: few of her friends. At first, it was odd that

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Speaker 1: she didn't go out of her way to introduce me.

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Speaker 1: Then it appeared that she was making it a point

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Speaker 1: to tell them that we are quote, just friends. Considering

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Speaker 1: that at the end of the first three dates there

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Speaker 1: was some increasingly serious making out going on. I'm curious

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Speaker 1: how I got publicly friend zoned, but a totally different

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Speaker 1: story in private. What's the best way to handle this, bruh?

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Speaker 2: Just keep on the full court press. Hey, dog, At

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Speaker 2: the end of the three dates, there is some serious

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Speaker 2: romance going on. You ain't had a second yet, but

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Speaker 2: y'all making out, you good, feeling, y'all still friends?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong?

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Speaker 2: No, you got friends on. Keep showing up, Keep doing

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Speaker 2: what you do.

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Speaker 3: Dog.

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Speaker 2: She just making it clear, y'all, just frish. She testing

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Speaker 2: the water. You know how you you know a dog?

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Speaker 2: You gotta pass the test, pimp. That's all it is.

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Speaker 2: Now you're lucky, you know, you know, I mean it

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Speaker 2: ain't finna go no fast? Now this the speed she

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Speaker 2: wanted to take it that you you push it if

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Speaker 2: you want to. Now at least she's still on dates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no dog.

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Speaker 2: Now she trying to figure out if she can stand

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Speaker 2: this or not. Look in the mirror, you probably ain't

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Speaker 2: that attracted.

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Speaker 3: Is that why she friends? Pretty much?

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Speaker 2: It She done told all her friends, no, no, hey,

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Speaker 2: we just friend. But she knows, she knows, she knows

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Speaker 2: he a little hard on the eyes. So you know,

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Speaker 2: she told her friends, now you got to overprove yourself

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Speaker 2: now because you're not attractive.

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Speaker 1: Keep Is she embarrassed by him?

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying, because it's not a little

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Speaker 2: bit bit you know, you know, just because on site,

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Speaker 2: you know, she looking over there at her friends talking

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Speaker 2: about Carol who that are we just friends? We're just

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Speaker 2: going out okay girl who? Because I was been in

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Speaker 2: the same.

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Speaker 1: Like a hot best that's what the girls are saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she gotta figure out if she can change

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Speaker 2: outfits and you knowed you to get the right line,

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Speaker 2: and you know, you know, you know, get you to

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Speaker 2: the right ball. But she's trying to see, you know,

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Speaker 2: she could deal with that tooth, like the side that's missing.

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Speaker 3: You know, when you're gonna get you know, that same

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Speaker 3: tooth gone.

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Speaker 2: You gotta see if she can talk you into that

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Speaker 2: folk she make a commitment. That's how women do. You

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Speaker 2: gotta see if you know, you gotta be open for change.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, now I like that. I do like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know because women, like I say, all men

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Speaker 2: will change, but there's and all men can change, but

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Speaker 2: the only one woman would change for So she gonna

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Speaker 2: see if she can work with you on a couple

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Speaker 2: of things.

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Speaker 3: You know, will you use this lotion my ass? She yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's just little stuff like that. Will you

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Speaker 3: get that cat put on that tooth?

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Speaker 2: She smile sideways and she looking up at sea food

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Speaker 2: in your mouth when you sideways.

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Speaker 3: That ain't ain't nobody finna do that on the dates.

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Speaker 3: But she'd have kissed you a couple of times.

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Speaker 2: That's why it ain't went fast kissing, because she hadne

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Speaker 2: kissed you a couple of times, and her tongue to

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Speaker 2: slid in that little.

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Speaker 3: Hole and made her made her a little bit uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he said he's really into her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a problem. Yeah, yeah, it's all right

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Speaker 2: that she's still going out with you. She just trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out if she's gonna be able to get

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Speaker 2: you to make these changes looking at me, Adough, you

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Speaker 2: know what if this ain't the first time, let's stop

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Speaker 2: all this surprise.

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Speaker 1: Say this was so much confidence.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I know, I know I've been under

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Speaker 3: where he is. Know it. In my life.

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Speaker 2: The only thing helped me out with money. See you,

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Speaker 2: you got to understand what that is now. And you

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Speaker 2: got to kill him with kind This dog, I've been

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Speaker 2: doing that my whole life.

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Speaker 3: That's how not know? This stone looking the meal dog

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Speaker 3: is all good.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about it. You ain't got to be the cure.

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Speaker 2: Nobody never said, oh he cute. I ain't never walked

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Speaker 2: in the room. Oh my god, he's cute. I ain't

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Speaker 2: never heard that ever. You ain't never heard that, And

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Speaker 2: I know they never heard that.

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Speaker 3: But he don't know it. Who is he talking to?

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Speaker 3: I wish we had more time.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after right after this you're listening

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show,