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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Chris, you know, the host of this podcast

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Speaker 1: you're listening to. I have a few stand up dates

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Speaker 1: coming up. September eighth, I'll be in Boise, Idaho at

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Speaker 1: the Lounge at the End of the Universe, followed by

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Speaker 1: the Bug Theater October twenty eighth in Denver, Colorado with

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Speaker 1: the Grolocks. That'll be a fun one. And then I'll

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Speaker 1: be in Fort Collins at the Comedy Fort October twenty ninth.

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Speaker 1: Please do attend. The tickets are available at Chris Fairbanks

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Speaker 1: dot com.

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Speaker 2: I leave in I you wanna way back? Either way,

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Speaker 2: we want to be there. Doesn't matter how much baggage

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Speaker 2: you claim and give us time and they turnin on engage.

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Speaker 1: We want to send you off in start.

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Speaker 3: We want to welcome you back home. Tell us all

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Speaker 3: about every scared or was it fine?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Porn?

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Speaker 1: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 2: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 4: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 2: Do you need to ride? Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 2: Do you need ride to ride?

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Speaker 3: Do you need.

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Speaker 1: With Karen and chrissh welcome? Do you need a ride?

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Speaker 1: This is Chris Fairbanks.

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Speaker 2: This is Karen Kilgara.

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Speaker 1: We are in beautiful Burbank, the city that built, right,

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Speaker 1: who did J Leno? Kind of? I don't know. Anytime

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Speaker 1: I hear Burbank, I think of the area you live.

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Speaker 1: Those should I have no said that.

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Speaker 2: You know they're all gonna come.

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Speaker 1: Home, all the people that are well, they're probably already

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Speaker 1: perched outside Jay Leno's house. Yeah, he's the most murderable.

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Speaker 2: But I believe that.

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Speaker 3: You say Burbank is the city that Jay Leno built

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Speaker 3: because of the acid washed denim dome that is u

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Speaker 3: oh yeah, put up over the city in nineteen ninety two.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, the acid. It's acid washed on the top

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Speaker 1: and the bottom. Letting you know it's okay to uh

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Speaker 1: do denim on denim.

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Speaker 2: It's always been okay for old j you know what.

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Speaker 1: I've heard that it is okay to do denim on denim.

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Speaker 1: These days, I think you can.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't go chambray on a lightwash gene.

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Speaker 1: Right, it depends on it's it's nice to do it

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Speaker 1: with a darker denim.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't. You don't want to look like you

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Speaker 3: work as I don't know, Yeah, an acid factory.

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Speaker 1: You're right. He dresses like he's he works at some

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Speaker 1: sort of a manual labor job when he's doing his jaywalkings.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we are talking about something that happened in

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Speaker 3: the past too. We could probably right, let's forget.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about the future.

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Speaker 2: Yes, how about this, Let's.

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Speaker 1: Talk about jay Leno's future.

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Speaker 3: He's going to go to Mars. I volunteered him to

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Speaker 3: go to Mars. Oh, and he will surely die there.

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Speaker 1: We can only we can only hope. Oh why am

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Speaker 1: I being so appressed?

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Speaker 2: We're bandwagoneering about hating Jay Leno?

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Speaker 1: What else could we say? Burbank is well known for

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Speaker 1: new wave entertainment. Where we're about to pick up our

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Speaker 1: next guest, Sarah Schaeffer. So exciting, Yeah, very exciting. So

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Speaker 1: we know Sarah of course from her podcast Nicki and

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Speaker 1: Sarah and the show they had on MTV Nicky and

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Speaker 1: Sarah Live.

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Speaker 2: Which was great.

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Speaker 1: Sarah was the second name in the title of that project.

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Speaker 2: They probably did it alf Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think either one of them had any kind

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Speaker 1: of dominance over the other. You know, right where it is?

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Speaker 2: Do we?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're here, Wow, we're here.

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Speaker 4: That might be it might be her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how quick, that's how close we were.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Well, we're gonna have a nice fall.

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Speaker 2: Is this a red carpet?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Comedy Dynamics a seminar. Let's ask her about the

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Speaker 1: comedy Dynamics seminar. I don't know what that is, but

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Sarah?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you hop on in back?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: There?

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Speaker 4: I'm picking up the mic.

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Speaker 1: Perfect.

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Speaker 4: It's so good to meet you in person finally because

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Speaker 4: I'm a huge fan.

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Speaker 1: So this is really Sarah Karen, Karen Sarah.

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Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan of yours.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I'm so flattered.

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Speaker 2: We have a mutual friend. Scotty landis love me so.

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Speaker 1: Scotty right, I think your miccid's fallen off. Karen. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't know, but it all Oh you guys,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: It was the back I'm back, so just the.

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Speaker 4: Like a cinnamon roll in here? Does it good?

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Speaker 1: Because I nice compliment?

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Speaker 2: I have dogs, so I'm a yeah. There's all those chefs.

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Speaker 2: Shape, very fat.

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Speaker 1: Were you at the Comedy Dynamics seminar?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a seminar. No, it was a taping.

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Speaker 4: They're doing like a It was like a stand up

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Speaker 4: show that they filmed and they're gonna put it on

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Speaker 4: their all across all their digital platforms.

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Speaker 2: Its platforming.

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Speaker 1: It's hard digitizing those platforms.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I did a stand up set in front

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Speaker 4: of a sort of you know, these things are always

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Speaker 4: a little weird when you do stand up in They

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Speaker 4: set it up pretty nice, you know, it seemed like

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Speaker 1: Was it stand up in front of like your management people?

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Speaker 4: No, thankfully, there was a real audience there. They were

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Speaker 4: a little they weren't the best audience, but you know,

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Speaker 4: they assured us that they were gonna make it sound great.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, ooh, left track, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what else could that mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? But I mean, you know, they mike the audience,

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Speaker 3: But and this was just like your management being like,

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Speaker 3: we're just going to make our own stand up show.

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Speaker 4: No, this they're not my management. They are.

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Speaker 1: We're going to start a rumor that they are.

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Speaker 4: Please don't like people think that my managers are far

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Speaker 4: less well known. No, the it's I guess comedy Dynamics

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Speaker 4: is a new thing. But new wave is like they

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Speaker 4: do specials and albums and they also do a lot

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Speaker 4: it's a company that does a lot of different things

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Speaker 4: and they're they're trying to put out They're putting out

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I see their logo everywhere. Yeah, maybe it's

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Speaker 4: Yeah. New Wave does a lot of specials that you'll

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Speaker 4: see on Netflix. I have an album coming out with

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Speaker 4: them in a.

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Speaker 1: Few weeks, terrific.

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Speaker 2: What's it called chrysalis?

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Speaker 1: Oh, my favorite stage.

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Speaker 4: Of pupil it is. It's my favorite stage too. It's

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Speaker 4: the development and transformation from caterpillar to butterfly.

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Speaker 3: You guys don't like larvae those assholes as a kid,

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Speaker 3: but now you think they're gross.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it has I leave the meaning up to

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Speaker 4: the listeners. There's one butterfly reference on the album, but

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Speaker 4: it also just represents my This material is like my

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Speaker 1: So I always think of the song by crazy Town

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Speaker 1: Come My Lady, Come, Come my Lady, or my sugar

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Speaker 1: Pie or my Butterfly.

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Speaker 4: You're my butterfly.

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Speaker 1: That's why I brought it up.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I brought that guy up.

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Speaker 1: I liked it well when that's terrific?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, How how do you approach the I'm looking to

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Speaker 1: launch my second album, What do you?

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Speaker 4: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. This is my first album and I've

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Speaker 4: I'm really proud of how it came out. Just turned

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Speaker 1: It's risky doing it at a club. I attempted to

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Speaker 1: never know what Yahoo group of Americans is going to.

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Speaker 3: Show up at the It could be a party of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, close people, an empty room except for Yeah, who's

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Speaker 1: Only him laughing, but super Australia. I yeah, but it was.

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Speaker 4: It was totally different than in the moment, nothing but excitement.

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Speaker 2: I stay away from those comments.

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Speaker 1: For do not read the comments.

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Speaker 4: I know sometimes I do, just as like a cutting,

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Speaker 4: a form of cutting just to feel pain. I feel

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Speaker 3: The first time I ever read a comment about myself

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Speaker 2: I think I've told this story.

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Speaker 4: Before, but.

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Speaker 3: Colgarriff is super hot when she's not being a lard ass.

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Speaker 1: Most women hate women. That bothers me too, Yeah, comedian

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Speaker 1: I've I learned. I really don't read comments anymore. Just

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Speaker 4: See, if you take this is what I've been thinking

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Speaker 4: Then that means you have to take the negative review seriously.

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Speaker 4: Nah, And so you have to read none of them.

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Speaker 3: Well, not just but last year put out an album

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Speaker 3: It's scary, and it's like it invokes all the demons

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Speaker 2: But just get all that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's become pretty negative for me. Social media has

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Speaker 3: It's hard well, because you also have good conversations.

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Speaker 3: Right, and it's you know, it's letting other people run

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Speaker 4: It is every time I've ever weighed in on any

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Speaker 4: Specifically, Oh I quit Facebook, Yeah, after the the I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, guys, trust me. I looked up the other photos

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Speaker 3: It's so crazy, the idea of people arguing stuff like

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Speaker 3: well enough. I did the thing where I sent kind

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00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 3: of a long email that was like this meant so

449
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 3: much to me, and it was like a thank you,

450
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 3: but I was kind of a little bit caught up

451
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 3: in in in the the day we had spent together,

452
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 3: so it was very I get very like into the

453
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 3: writing of like I lose the point almost of like

454
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 3: what I'm doing.

455
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 4: And they're like, what the fuck.

456
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 3: Yes, I did the one where I did that, so

457
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 3: it was like a four paragraph email and then my computer,

458
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 3: my Gmail said it didn't send.

459
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,120
Speaker 2: So I immediately rewrote it.

460
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 3: And resent it, and then in the afternoon that day

461
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: he sent me an email that said those were two

462
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 3: of the nicest emails, and I thought.

463
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: I was going to die.

464
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 3: Like I was like sitting there just going like oh

465
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 3: my god, like no, no, no, no, no, no.

466
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 1: It were different enough that you know that he was like, oh,

467
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: there's a nice second email related.

468
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 3: But also I think he is the kind of person

469
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 3: that got the general is like we weren't we didn't

470
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 3: know each other that well and now we're really good friends,

471
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: where he kind of gave me the benefit of the

472
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 3: doubt and like to.

473
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 1: Be duplicate sentences.

474
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, I know, right. It was like I basically

475
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 2: it might as well sentiment an email that said I'm

476
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 2: deeply in love.

477
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 3: With you, because it was that, but it was more

478
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 3: of like because he it was I had just done

479
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 3: a big show and it meant a lot to me,

480
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 3: and it was like one of those things and we kind.

481
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 2: Of had had a deep conversation.

482
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: It was all these layers of shit that then just

483
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 3: turned into like a Jane Austin level humiliation where I

484
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 3: was like, I can't believe.

485
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: That's like and so from like since that day, I

486
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 2: never sent.

487
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 3: If something like doesn't send or there's any problem, I'll

488
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 3: I just shut my computer and like walk away from it,

489
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 3: like I'm not nothing's going to happen for at least weeks.

490
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 4: I have a rule about emotional emails that I write

491
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 4: them without the person's email address in the two sections,

492
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 4: so I can't accidentally send it. And then I close

493
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 4: it and I forced myself to wait twenty four hours. Yeah,

494
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 4: and then I reread it, and usually I don't even

495
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 4: send it, or if I do, it's like two sentences

496
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 4: as opposed to like eighteen paragraphs.

497
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: Literally wait till the next day.

498
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 4: Wow, yes, I started doing this in my.

499
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: I regret ninety percent of my emails.

500
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, well these are like angry. It usually prontational,

501
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 4: which I shouldn't even be sending an email. I should

502
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 4: be talking to the person.

503
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

504
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think. But I think even worse than like

505
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 4: because those you don't want to say something you regret,

506
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 4: and you know you don't want to like cause a

507
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 4: fight that isn't necessary or whatever. But my thing that

508
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 4: I do that I regret is I'll send like what

509
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 4: you did, Karen, I'll send a gushy, spilling my guts,

510
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 4: like you know, just you know, really emotional email to

511
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 4: someone and then like they don't respond with the long response.

512
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 4: They'll just be like, oh my god, thank you. I'll

513
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 4: respond to this later, and then they never do, and

514
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 4: I'm just like, fuck, why did I just spill my

515
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 4: guts to you? And then you're like not giving it?

516
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 4: Because all I want is like intimacy with people like

517
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 4: that is my I'm addicted to it. I want to

518
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 4: be close to people. I want I want best friends.

519
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 4: I want you know, I want to be just like

520
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 4: in you, like as a friend, which is.

521
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: Really I want to wear your skin.

522
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 4: I want to wear your skin, and I want to

523
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 4: live in your bed with you.

524
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: I want to be out of your face and put

525
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: on my face.

526
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 2: I don't understand what you resist.

527
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: Are you afraid of I'm afraid. I'm the I am

528
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,239
Speaker 1: the person that says, oh, I'll get back to this

529
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: because I'm overwhelmed. If there's a long email.

530
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 4: I know, I'm like too much. Yeah, I get too much.

531
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh, I got to get back to this, and I

532
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 1: take a nap and then I never part of.

533
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 3: My thing too is I love writing so much that.

534
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 3: I love figuring out exactly how I want to say something.

535
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 3: It's so satisfying to be like, I'm going to tell

536
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 3: you how much you mean to me in a way

537
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 3: that's and then exactly do the thing I want to

538
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 3: do to you, Like it's gonna endear.

539
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 2: Me to you, but then it's also going to make

540
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 2: you feel good.

541
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 4: And like I like writing. That's why I like email,

542
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 4: and sometimes in that way because you can be so

543
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 4: clear with your feelings.

544
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: I like to be nice in an email and every

545
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: other and.

546
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: Somebody, which makes them fall in love with you.

547
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 3: Right, that's a good trick. My worst is when people

548
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 3: want and this is kind of my dating problem life.

549
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 3: Still it's taken me forever to learn of, like if

550
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 3: someone texts you, the whole politic of texting back and

551
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 3: waiting and not or whatever, because I'll totally be like,

552
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 3: if it's if you have a jokey relationship, I just

553
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: want to get a good joke in, so I'll totally

554
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 3: sacrifice like seeming alluring or mysterious.

555
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 1: Or waiting two days or I'll be like, here's the

556
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: hilarious thing now, and I've driven away scores of people

557
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: by doing that.

558
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: You're not really like.

559
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 3: Three, but still horrifying, Like you just can't learn the

560
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 3: lesson because it's it seems so funny to me. Or

561
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 3: also same thing with emailing early in the morning.

562
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 4: I have to force myself not to do that.

563
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 2: An eight am email can freak the shit out of people.

564
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they're like, what she fucking been doing?

565
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: Like just looking at your picture, just you.

566
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: Too, a picture of you and me and a cup

567
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 1: of coffee.

568
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 4: We just woke up thinking about you.

569
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: Every day near these knives.

570
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 2: Drop a line.

571
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 4: And now living in La now I'm I've become acquainted

572
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 4: with the like when you're in it with someone, when

573
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 4: you're in some sort of like argument or drama, is

574
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 4: someone the having to pull the car over to text

575
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 4: or write something because you're just like you've got to

576
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 4: fucking say it now, you know, like which I'm like,

577
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: this is defying my rule. But I'm like, I'm so

578
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 4: mad I need to pull over, and you'd like, but

579
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 4: then this, what about this?

580
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: That's just one time I fevershly pulled over and uh

581
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: and then I just typed you made me pop my

582
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: tire because I hit the curb and my tire went flat,

583
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: And then I and I blame the person, and that's

584
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: not why I over to that's so hard. Yeah, I

585
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: do a lot of that, but it's also you're just

586
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: being safe when you do that.

587
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's okay to I know, I don't do. I

588
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 4: don't fight while driving, no pull over. I do like,

589
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 4: I do like and really enjoy the car now being

590
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 4: a place where I can talk out my feelings to myself.

591
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 4: Just scream at someone that's pissing me. I'm just be

592
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 4: like you knew, you knew that would hurt my feeling,

593
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 4: just like having a fucking meltdown in the car. Yes,

594
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 4: and it's really good. I mean it's very therapeutic. You

595
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 4: can't do that in New York or you're a crazy person.

596
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

597
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: No, we do a podcast in our car, did you know?

598
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:38,719
Speaker 4: I love it.

599
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: I love I'll do some interviews in the car if

600
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 3: it's like a long ride.

601
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: I practice what my stances on things.

602
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I do that too.

603
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 2: Like professional stance practice.

604
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 3: I should in a way that never comes into play

605
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 3: in my real life, like in no way.

606
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: But I'll be like, you know, I think it's just

607
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 2: really important a community.

608
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 3: Like things like that that like do not apply to

609
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 3: my real life at all, like almost like practicing Ted talks, Yes,

610
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 3: that you'll never give I can't.

611
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: Go, you guys, I have stance practice.

612
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 4: I got it.

613
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 3: I gotta nail my stance down pretty hard before I go.

614
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: What's your stance?

615
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 4: You gotta know your stance. It's very important.

616
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: I know that I talk to myself in my car.

617
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: I yell angry. I get angry. In my my car

618
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: is where I get my angriest. I am afraid so

619
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: or just yeah, I get. You know how anxious I am.

620
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: There's a reason Karen's driving I get and people have

621
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: commented on it. Apparently I have a surreal vehicular temper explosive. Yeah,

622
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: it's and it makes people scared and takes away from comedy.

623
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

624
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: So Karen operates the motor vehicle and I but I'm

625
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: you know, it's good that that, to me is therapeutic.

626
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: You don't make that way outside your car where there's

627
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: people and ears.

628
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: Well.

629
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: Also, you may have noticed this. One of the great things.

630
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 3: About LA is probably eighty percent of the drivers here

631
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: are the worst drivers on the planet.

632
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've noticed that.

633
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: I don't.

634
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 4: I don't have much to compare it to because I

635
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 4: lived in New York for so long and didn't have

636
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 4: a car. No, okay, that I lived in Virginia. It's like,

637
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 4: I don't know. It was like in college, I didn't

638
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 4: really know what driving.

639
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: When I moved here, I was relieved that people didn't

640
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: drive as crazy as they did in Austin, Texas, where

641
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: people really go one hundred. People go so fast, like

642
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: we're the biggest state fast, like there's a pride in

643
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: speed that is equivalent I do.

644
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 4: I do drive. I drive like an old woman. I'm

645
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 4: extremely caut too. Me too, But I don't get mad.

646
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 4: I get I go, oh, you're gonna come right in

647
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 4: front of me, are you? I'll be like, well, and

648
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 4: I'll be fucking douchebag, and I'll just be really calm

649
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 4: about it. But the the thing that I noticed here is,

650
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 4: and this is more just where I live. I hear

651
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 4: car accidents or near car accidents every day where I live,

652
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 4: and just you know, it's and I'm like, it shouldn't

653
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 4: be this much.

654
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm more, I've become very alert. I am up front,

655
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: I almost have my forehead touching my windshield. I am

656
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: like this, But I really do think that in La.

657
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: People are all, for the most part, driving with the

658
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: frantic fear, fear of each other. And I think that's well, there's.

659
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 4: Fear, and then there's people who are just distracted on

660
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 4: their phones doing whatever. And that's what you know. Like

661
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 4: cause where I live, I live right on not on

662
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 4: Silver Lake Boulevard, but like I can see it from

663
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 4: my apartment. I live on a different road that's next

664
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: to it, and it's just the curvy road and people

665
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 4: go too fast on it. But you can't get up

666
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 4: that much speed on it. It's just that people aren't

667
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 4: paying attention coming around a curve and they hit people.

668
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 3: Like people really do look at their phones when they drive, though,

669
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: it's crazy.

670
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: Yeah I do.

671
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: It's so bad.

672
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 4: You really try. I do it.

673
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: We both do it.

674
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 4: Let's just stop lights, and you shouldn't even do that

675
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 4: because it's not Yes.

676
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 3: I've been trying to save it for stop lights, but

677
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 3: my problem is I will get this sense that people

678
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 3: are going without looking up.

679
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 4: Yet, and then you start to accelerate. Yes, that's why

680
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 4: I stop light is bad idea.

681
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 2: It's bad.

682
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 3: Like it's that kind of thing of just being an adult.

683
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 3: For me, I should just put my phone away. Right,

684
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: there's nothing going on. That's that I'm afraid.

685
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: That's that's when I have my thoughts to myself. That's

686
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,719
Speaker 1: when I want to address things. I'm driving, I'm thinking.

687
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: That's where I do most of my business. But I

688
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: use the voice command. I go and like just say

689
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: what I want. I think that we should meet later, Comma,

690
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: we have to talk about this other stuff, period. Furthermore.

691
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: Comment again, I don't say again that word. Yeah, therefore,

692
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: either I've gotten very good at dictating with punctuations.

693
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 4: That's good.

694
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: I think it's Meanwhile, my eyes are on the road safely. Yeah,

695
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 1: so I don't know.

696
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 4: Ittoth like for the phone, but I've never done voice commands.

697
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: It really you can do.

698
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 4: Audio texting now too, where you can just record a

699
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: message and text it to someone.

700
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 3: If that's oh again, have you ever accidentally done that,

701
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 3: because I've accidentally a.

702
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 4: Friend of mine just did it to me, and it

703
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 4: was just all I heard was her dog barking and

704
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 4: her going.

705
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 3: No, it's a little snippets of people's lives.

706
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 4: I do it all the time.

707
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 3: I'll just look down and I'll have sent someone the

708
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 3: past five seconds, and I like panic of like, what

709
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 3: the fuck? Was I just doing or saying. But it's

710
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 3: usually like walking in a parking lot or something.

711
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: I have not pocket done that yet.

712
00:34:59,040 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: It's pretty great.

713
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 4: I need to get in on that.

714
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 1: I'm going to get in on it, doing it, get

715
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: down on it.

716
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: So, Sarah, what being in Los Angeles? What is the

717
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: most fun thing you've done?

718
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: Compare contrast New York? No good here is really in

719
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: the water.

720
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 4: I the most fun thing I've done here, just other

721
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: than experiencing a new part of the country in great weather. Yes,

722
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 4: I'm trying to think.

723
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 2: Ship. Have you seen the celebrity yet?

724
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 4: I saw Miles Teller best Wine, best Buy, Yeah, and

725
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 4: he was picking something up. And he's the kid in

726
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 4: Whipblash that plays the drums and I had never really

727
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 4: seen him in anything before, and I fell in love

728
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 4: in the movie. Like I just I think he's very attractive.

729
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 4: He's just my He's like a young Richard Gear and

730
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 4: Richard Gere is like my favorite. I would fuck him

731
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 4: into next week. My first sex dream ever was about

732
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 4: Richard gear. I don't know what it is about him.

733
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 4: He doesn't He's not even conventionally like as attractive as

734
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 4: many other actors.

735
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 2: I think it is.

736
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 3: It's tiny alpha swagger. It's like he's saying you all

737
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 3: the time.

738
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so it's kind of like, what if.

739
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 2: He liked me? What if the asshole liked me?

740
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 4: Yeah? I know, and they never do, but uh, yeah, I'm.

741
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: Going to fuck you in the next week as a tattoo.

742
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: I think that's.

743
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I was quoting. Fifty Shades of Gray. No, oh, God,

744
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 4: did you see that one? I did. I saw it

745
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 4: in Miami. I was just there.

746
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: That's where you go.

747
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 4: I flew to Miami to see it. No, he was

748
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 4: in Miami, and I had to go see it because

749
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 4: I was it was filming something that I had to

750
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 4: talk about it, and and I went to like a cinebistro,

751
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 4: which is like you're you eat and drink while you're

752
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 4: watching the movie with those yes, big chairs like. So

753
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 4: I went and it was all these Miami women, like

754
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,919
Speaker 4: middle aged housewives, drunk off their asses. I didn't even

755
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 4: hear most of the funny commentary because it was in

756
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 4: Spanish that people were yelling out at the screen like

757
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 4: big laughs would happen after a lady would say something,

758
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I don't know what she said, but

759
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 4: it would be so funny because anytime anything hot would happen,

760
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 4: which wasn't often, a woman would not need to be

761
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 4: like ials meal. It was so fun But the movie

762
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 4: was just a hot pilot trash. Was so bad. It

763
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 4: was so fucked up and weird. There was only one

764
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 4: sex scene that actually like turned me on, and it

765
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 4: could have been a sex scene between any great lovers,

766
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 4: you know, like.

767
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't It wasn't even that.

768
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 4: It wasn't even really BDSM like I mean, and this

769
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 4: is the heart and I'm it is a little sorry

770
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 4: Karen's having an orgasm just hearing about but yeah she

771
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 4: uh okay. So this is a little it's not much

772
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 4: of a spoiler because you find out very quickly in

773
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 4: the movie. And I didn't know this because I didn't

774
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 4: read the book or anything. He's a virgin. She meets him,

775
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: and no joke. The second time she has sex, she's

776
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:32,720
Speaker 4: tied up to the bed, blindfolded and doing it doggy

777
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 4: style and gets spanked, and I'm like, you just went

778
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 4: from zero to like your second time having sex, it

779
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 4: was like more advanced. And then this is a tweet

780
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 4: I'm quoting, but that I did. It's like more advanced

781
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 4: than my like five hundred times.

782
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 3: I don't think I've had sex that's hilarious.

783
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 2: I was thinking, because I've had.

784
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 3: A couple of people that talked about what the sex

785
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 3: was in that movie, and to me, it's so hilarious,

786
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 3: Like there's shit on Tumblr like if those people.

787
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 2: Knew what real real beds, real bds.

788
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 3: I'm and like the stuff that's becoming very common to people.

789
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it felt almost like like too tame, like it was,

790
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 4: you know. And she gets beaten at the end of

791
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 4: the movie, and it's like like beaten up. He like

792
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 4: whips her really hard, and because she goes, it's like

793
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 4: the worst fucking dialogue. She's like, she's like, do your worst.

794
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 4: I want to know why you do this, and he

795
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 4: she's like, show me the worst you can do, and

796
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 4: the worst is him whipping her with a belt really hard,

797
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 4: and then she she lets him do it and then

798
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 4: it finishes. I'm giving away the end of the movie,

799
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 4: so oh yeah, and she's like pause, she's she finished,

800
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 4: she's crying. She finishes getting whipped with a belt, and

801
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 4: then she gets up and he tries to touch her

802
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 4: and she's like, touch me, and then.

803
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 1: What are you kidding me that way.

804
00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: Don't get married.

805
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,720
Speaker 4: That wouldn't get married because there's gonna be a sequel.

806
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 4: You know where they where they you know where they

807
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 4: make their mouth and stuff like that. I mean, but

808
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 4: that's what I'm saying, is like she goes from so

809
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 4: much of it is so unbelievable and weird, and like

810
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 4: his behavior at the beginning of the movie, if he

811
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 4: wasn't rich and attractive, would be literal like stalker, serial

812
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 4: killer behavior.

813
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: Either of you read this book that was sweeping the nation.

814
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 2: I didn't read, of course, I can't read.

815
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: It's Yeah, I'm not a member of the b D

816
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: s M.

817
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 4: I recommend the movie Secretary if you want to see.

818
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: It's a good one.

819
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 4: It's hot, and it's a love story, yes, like a

820
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 4: true like they're both they both awakened to their who

821
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 4: they are together.

822
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 3: Yes, and it's so consensual. She's like, oh, she's so

823
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: it's almost like therapy for her.

824
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: I love that movie. That's a really great movie.

825
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is what is BDS. I don't even know

826
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: what its stands for.

827
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 4: Dominant submissive. No, I don't know what D is.

828
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: Dominant daisies.

829
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: There's a lot of flowers. I haven't seen the movie.

830
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 4: I'm really into a flower play.

831
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 2: I just stick a daisy and a gun.

832
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

833
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 1: Well, I like when a girl comes up to me,

834
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: it looks like she's gonta kiss, and then she just

835
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: blows a bunch of pollen into my face. Turns I mean,

836
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't turn me on so much. It's cause a

837
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: horrible allergic reaction, which is allergic.

838
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 2: Which is part of the pain of what are your

839
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: depths that you're willing to go.

840
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: Nothing turns me on more than when I get because

841
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm allergic to almost everything. One of them is the ocean.

842
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 1: If I am getting down with and just my nose

843
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: it's just draining and I'm sneezing and I'm coughing, and

844
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: I get It's like just one of the God turns

845
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: me on. Yeah, I currently have bronchitis, I really do.

846
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: That's okay, I'm on antiotics, but theodics is it biotics

847
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 1: or beonyx?

848
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 2: Biotics?

849
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 4: Beonyx is definitely an old person way of saying antibiotics.

850
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: I am a horrible case of bronchis. Thank god it

851
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 1: wasn't pending yet. I'm done.

852
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 2: I'm done antibiotics.

853
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: You guys, take it away. We're here, We're here at

854
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,959
Speaker 1: Mount Them. We're just kind of chilling.

855
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 4: I saw Miles Teller that the best buys the moral

856
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 4: of that long story.

857
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: And he's an actor and also a real life drummer, right,

858
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: I think that he's a drummer turned actor.

859
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 4: Is he? Oh that makes it even better.

860
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 2: I heard that he was a drummer.

861
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 3: But not to that level, and that he basically studied

862
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: to be that good for that movie.

863
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's what act. It even hotter.

864
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 3: I found him very appealing in that movie, and then

865
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: did a little research, and uh, by research, I mean

866
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 3: watched a zach Efron movie that he was in.

867
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 4: I've heard, yeah he's in some other ship that's and

868
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 4: ship being the operative word.

869
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: Good. I need to see that Whiplash ship though, Oh

870
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: you haven't seen it. It's good.

871
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 4: It's great that j K.

872
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: Simmons, guys from Missoula. He spoke at my graduation.

873
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: Oh you then you absolutely must see it.

874
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah he's a great guy.

875
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good.

876
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 1: But in that movie, it's super mean, right, super stern.

877
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 4: I have a sexual fantasy, Whiplash fantasy that is Miles

878
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 4: Teller fingering me and then me going not my tempo

879
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 4: after the mine from the movie.

880
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 2: Do you have huge guns and a black.

881
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 4: Yah? And I keep like smacking him in the face.

882
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 4: Speed it up.

883
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 2: I kind of love that. Like people were so outraged

884
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: by how.

885
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 4: Mean he was, and he was very homophobic, like in

886
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 4: his insults, which made me prickle a little bit sometimes.

887
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: But I was like, no, I mean that is if

888
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 4: you're going to do your worst, you know, like that's

889
00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 4: what you do.

890
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like that's the That kind of

891
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:07,320
Speaker 3: pressure is good, but negative things when you're trying to

892
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 3: learn the thing you want to do, having like having it.

893
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 2: Be really hard is really good. In my opinion.

894
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 4: I liked what his character said about like, you know

895
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 4: that if I told you you were good, you would

896
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 4: never have been great.

897
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: I saw that in the trailer and I agreed with it.

898
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: But he was yelling and it seemed like he was

899
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: about to choke him when he said that. He's very aggressive.

900
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know he's kind of a

901
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: big because to the gymnasium.

902
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 2: It seems like, oh JK.

903
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: Simmons, Yeah, it tosses around the medicine ball. He's just

904
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: got like one of those old jacked. He's got old

905
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 1: muscle on him. Yeah, like I used to be jacked,

906
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 1: but now I'm just.

907
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 4: He comes off pretty jacked in the movie really yeah,

908
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 4: as he wears a tight T shirt and you can see.

909
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: That, well, no, I you know, Oh hi, sorry, Oh

910
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna have to move, aren't we.

911
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 3: No, we'll see, We're gonna wait it out.

912
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: Well he would have in that movie. Is it like

913
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: a teaching Is it a high school teacher? He's at

914
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: like a special music.

915
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 4: School Juilliard type situation.

916
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, because my sister is a teacher and she

917
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: just got fired for saying bullshit in front of some kids.

918
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 1: She was I don't fourth grade. I'm not sure I

919
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: should know that she should be teaching high school. That's

920
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: what the union. She got fired. There was one other

921
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: strike that was a Facebook post she made a year ago,

922
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: and they kept that in mind too, because she said

923
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: something about now I know whether they hit their knuckles

924
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: with rulers, I don't. It was a comedic blog like

925
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: post where she said that, and the principal happened to

926
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: be your Facebook friend. Oh you never, So she got

927
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: fire and I'm like, my point is my music teacher

928
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: in high school when I played trombone or and a

929
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 1: bunch of teachers were so abusive. He threw a pencil

930
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: at my face and it whizzed past my eye, and

931
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: I remember saying, wow, what if that had gone in

932
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: my eye and blinded me? And he got frustrated and

933
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: left the room. That guy worked at that high school.

934
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: He worked there.

935
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: But my high school were fucking lunatics. There was a

936
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 3: lot of them were drunks. We had a priest that

937
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 3: was literally schizophrenic. He would the entire theology class. He

938
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 3: would draw maps on the board of how the Communists

939
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 3: were taking over San Francisco and none of it, we

940
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 3: none of us said anything because we didn't have to

941
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 3: study the Bible as long as he was doing that.

942
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 2: So we all just like everyone just kept a lid

943
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 2: on it.

944
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 3: And we just knew if we sat there and listened

945
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: to him talk about the Communists taking over, that we

946
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 3: could just hang out and not have to worry about

947
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,760
Speaker 3: like memorizing stuff.

948
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

949
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 3: And that was just like I've actually written out some

950
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 3: of it because it was so crazy, the amount of

951
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 3: like kids getting screamed at and all of it that

952
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 3: like these days.

953
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 4: Catholic school, Yes, yeah, yeah. Extreme.

954
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 3: It's crazy. It's like its own little world. But I

955
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 3: mean these days it's like I think about that all

956
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 3: the time. Like kids, I think it's good, but at

957
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 3: the same time, it's like can be so extreme, Like

958
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 3: they can hear the word bullshit.

959
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 2: If a teachers a good I.

960
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: Can't believe she got she just got that job too,

961
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: that's why they let her. Oh she hasn't Adam and

962
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: eve Leaf when the kind of cover your generals with Sarah,

963
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: did you go to public school or do you.

964
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 4: I went to public schools. I lived in an area

965
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 4: of Virginia that had really good public schools, and then

966
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 4: in high school, I went to one of the first

967
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 4: magnet schools charter schools in the country and it was

968
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 4: in my city and so it was a new trend.

969
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: For older kids.

970
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 4: I don't know it kind of but it's a yeah.

971
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,320
Speaker 4: It was a school like you had to apply to

972
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 4: get into it. For like I hate the term gifted

973
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 4: because it's needlessly.

974
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 1: Like I was from calling it gifted.

975
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 4: I am gifted. It was like a gifted thing. And

976
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 4: it was really great for me because I went from

977
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 4: a huge county school where I felt alone to like

978
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 4: a smaller nerd school where I felt way more comfortable,

979
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 4: like I could be myself and I loved it. I

980
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 4: loved my high school.

981
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm jealous of anyone that went to that school Emerson

982
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: that I only know of in stories.

983
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 2: It's like a school.

984
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a school for artists and creative people.

985
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but it's a regular You just get a

986
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: degree and you draw and paint and make music and

987
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: comedy and oh.

988
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: Man, you yourself.

989
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 4: Whatever.

990
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 2: That school was.

991
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, anytime I took a college course with the

992
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: football team, they did have us come up and say

993
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: what do you think you earned? And it would just

994
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 1: be football players going a and they go all right,

995
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: all right, hey, nice catch the other night.

996
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 4: Wow.

997
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't like that.

998
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

999
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is crazy.

1000
00:48:54,440 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 4: I got Really I was very hard on myself academically,

1001
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 4: Like I just wanted to be good like at things

1002
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 4: and would try to be not the It wasn't like

1003
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 4: I want to be the best. I've never really had

1004
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 4: that in me, but I wanted to just do my

1005
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 4: best and like I had And I've always thought was

1006
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 4: that my parents that did that to me. But they've

1007
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 4: always been like you were just always like that, just

1008
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 4: your standard for yourself was so high that you would

1009
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 4: just be in constant pain because I and I'm still

1010
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 4: like that. I'm I'm like always like it's not good enough.

1011
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 4: I have to work harder. I have to do that.

1012
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 4: That was a mistake, and I'm really hard on myself.

1013
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 4: So it was in one way I loved my high school,

1014
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 4: and in other ways I just fed into what I already

1015
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 4: you know, my college was like that, or it was

1016
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 4: just I put myself in situations where it's it's probably

1017
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 4: too hard for me. And now if I if I

1018
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 4: think about if I ever have kids, I already have

1019
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 4: this like gut feeling that I just don' I don't

1020
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 4: want them to have to worry about any of it.

1021
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 4: I just would be like, let's just let them go

1022
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 4: to whatever school. Like I'm like people when they're like,

1023
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 4: we got to live in the right neighborhood with the

1024
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 4: good schools, I'm like, now, let's just live in the

1025
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 4: shitty neighborhood where it's more affordable and we can have

1026
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 4: like a nicer house and the kid, the kid'll be fine.

1027
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 4: But I don't know, I have this like I don't

1028
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 4: want my kid to suffer the way I have.

1029
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder if parents can control that. I always

1030
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: had their support and everything, but I anguished over I

1031
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 1: was so timid and scared as a kid, and it

1032
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: wasn't anything they did. I was just a little It

1033
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 1: was different. I didn't I wasn't motivated to do well.

1034
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: I did horrible in school. But I did worry about it,

1035
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: though not enough to change things. But I wonder, Yeah,

1036
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,879
Speaker 1: I always think that if my parents were like were

1037
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: they yelling at me and disappointed with me? Would it

1038
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: have lit a fire under my ass? I don't know.

1039
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,959
Speaker 4: My dad was pretty hard on me about stuff mine.

1040
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 4: I said some of it came from him.

1041
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: But.

1042
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was a lot of it was

1043
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 4: within me.

1044
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: My dads I said, he was just from my town,

1045
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: but got his shirts were tight and his punches were hard.

1046
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 3: I literally figured out that everyone at my high school

1047
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 3: was crazy and never did homework the entire time. I

1048
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 3: don't know how I graduated from high school, and it's

1049
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,760
Speaker 3: the reason I ended up getting kicked out of college

1050
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 3: because I just never went to class.

1051
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 4: You never did any saying kills.

1052
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 2: I yeah, I didn't know how.

1053
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 3: And our high schools college prep, but I just got

1054
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 3: around everything or like would I would. It was actually

1055
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 3: twice as hard because I was just figuring out, like

1056
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 3: I would just sit there and put it together in

1057
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 3: my mind of like, well, here's the test about the book,

1058
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 3: and this is the question being asked, so this is

1059
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 3: this is probably the answer.

1060
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 2: There was a lot of that I did that.

1061
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 4: I did that a little bit too, because I would

1062
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 4: just be overwhelmed. I would sign up for too much shit, yeah,

1063
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 4: and I would be too busy, and I got I

1064
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 4: was an English major in college, and I got really

1065
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 4: good at writing an essay about a book I hadn't read, Yeah,

1066
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 4: the whole I just read enough. I just knew how

1067
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 4: to do it, and I could skate by because I

1068
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 4: just had too much going on. It wasn't that I

1069
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 4: didn't like that. I was like fuck this. I was

1070
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 4: like just constantly being economical with my time, you know,

1071
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 4: like so that I could go do the fun things

1072
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 4: like being in the comedy group and doing theater and

1073
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 4: stuff like that.

1074
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 1: We didn't have a comedy group where I'm from, so

1075
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: I anxiously I just wanted to get college over with.

1076
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: And I took the exact amount of credits to fulfill

1077
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 1: my major and to graduate, not one more. I had

1078
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: it all mapped out by this guy's like, do you

1079
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 1: you need to take a structural system or what? I

1080
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: just and I graduated right on. I just wanted to

1081
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: end it. I just want to get it out of

1082
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 1: the way. But I'm glad I did it in retrospect.

1083
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I've never shown my degree to a

1084
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: single human.

1085
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 3: You should start showing it on stage.

1086
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 4: Before I begin. I just want to show you.

1087
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: I need you to put your eyes on this.

1088
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: It's called to a Bachelor of Fine Arts, and it

1089
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: is fine. It is fine, And I'm a bachelor Ladies

1090
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 1: one piece just with us on the side. It's gonna

1091
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: be a hot summer.

1092
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 2: H Howard on the back. Oh oh, we always have

1093
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 2: to talk about Howard.

1094
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, Howard Kramer album Admiration Hour.

1095
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 2: We love them.

1096
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 4: We do you do, Sara?

1097
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 3: Do you have anything to plug besides Chrysalist The new

1098
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 3: album coming to you in June?

1099
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 4: No, March seventeenth.

1100
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 2: March seventeenth is Saint Patrick's Day.

1101
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, celebrate with my album. No. I mean I around town.

1102
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,919
Speaker 4: I would say, go to my website Sarah Shaffer dot

1103
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 4: com and check out the calendar. I'm doing a lot

1104
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 4: of colleges. So if you're in college, look to see

1105
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 4: if I'm coming to your car. Oh that's fine, Yeah.

1106
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: Good way to make money.

1107
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 4: I'll just that.

1108
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: That's a little Induscreese side note.

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Speaker 4: Folks, I'm killing it and that's it.

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Speaker 1: You're not podcasting anymore.

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Speaker 4: No, not not. I had a podcast with Nikki Klazer.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of dormant. We're both just been too busy

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Speaker 4: and in different.

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Speaker 1: Places in the New York person right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. And then I had a podcast come out last

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Speaker 4: year on w n y C and Nervous, like they

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Speaker 4: partnered up for it, and it was like a season thing,

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Speaker 4: like wny C does seasons of things, and they are

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Speaker 4: very slow to make decisions. So I don't know if

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Speaker 4: I'll keep doing it, but you can go look it up.

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Speaker 4: It's called Lies and I just interview someone and everything

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Speaker 4: they say has to be a lie.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's terrific. That's great, and it sounds fun.

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Speaker 4: I'm really proud of how it came out. It's really fun.

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Speaker 4: So go listen to those episodes. I really liked that

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Speaker 4: concept and they're short, they're like fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: Thinking right now, I was gonna say it's no long one.

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Speaker 4: No, it's definitely.

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Speaker 1: Ours is exactly an hour long. We have seven more

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Speaker 1: minutes left of that.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 1: We are going to do a comedy concert in here

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Speaker 1: and meltdown. Sarah and I are both on the show.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to stand in the back knowingly.

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Speaker 4: Well, I love it. Judge be judging it, please judging.

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Speaker 1: And I don't want to discourage you. Sarah. Did you

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Speaker 1: see on the thing that they it's like an audience participation? What?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I don't email me. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I hope that's not what I think. It means that

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Speaker 1: the audience will be participating. Do you think that's what

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Speaker 1: it means? Those were the two words.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes there's a it's fun when you show up to

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Speaker 4: a show and they're like, okay, so this is a

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00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 4: high concept show and you just go out there and

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00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 4: then you don't have to do any stand up and

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Speaker 4: it's just like it was different. But then sometimes the

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Speaker 4: concept's not good and then you end up being like,

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Speaker 4: why did I fucking.

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Speaker 1: Waste my well?

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Speaker 4: But I don't remember. That's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I trusts. I trust Daniel and Aaron. Yeah, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure it'll be fun. Hopefully it doesn't mean it's not

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Speaker 1: free for all of friendly heckling. That's saying the economy

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Speaker 1: what like suggestions, I don't know what it means.

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Speaker 3: So it's almost like it's only the only half of

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00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 3: improv is that there are suggestions, but then suggestions to

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Speaker 3: stand ups who don't take suggestions.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be great, or you.

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Speaker 1: Do a joke and then they pause and just give

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Speaker 1: you tip. I would end it with that. I would

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Speaker 1: tag it first of all, and just the audience that

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Speaker 1: the worst case torture.

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Speaker 4: Time talk about Okay, I'll tell you about a show

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Speaker 4: that's torture for the comedian but really fun for the audience.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 4: It's called that seven minutes in Hell, I don't know, no,

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Speaker 4: seven minutes in Heaven or something. You do stand up

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Speaker 4: in a room to a camera alone, and you have

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Speaker 4: headphones on so you can't hear the audience through the wall,

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Speaker 4: and then they pipe it into the theater. They do

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Speaker 4: it at uc B Franklin, and it was I was

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Speaker 4: like I watched some of it from the audience and

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Speaker 4: it was really fun. But as a performer, I was like,

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Speaker 4: that is not something I ever want to do again.

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Speaker 4: I was like, thank you, so much for having me,

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Speaker 4: but that was fucking awful for me because it was

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Speaker 4: it was the for me. It was the thing on

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00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 4: my ears that bothered me because I couldn't hear my

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00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 4: own voice and sound. I felt like I was drunk,

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Speaker 4: like because I felt like I was slurring my word.

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Speaker 4: It was weird. It was just a sensory like deprivation

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Speaker 4: type thing, and you don't know if you're bombing or

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00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 4: if you're doing well. And to this, like a social

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00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 4: experiment type show show is cool. I highly recommend going

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00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 4: to it. But if you're a comedian and you get

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Speaker 4: claustrophobic or any kind of weird, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I was like, that was I never know if I'm

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Speaker 3: bombing anyway, even if they're right there in front of me.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, this is terrible.

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Speaker 4: I do that too, Igo. That was awful, And people go,

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Speaker 4: that was great.

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Speaker 2: I loved it.

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Speaker 1: I'm very I'm very sensitive to when I'm not doing well.

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00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: I know when it's happening always. You know too, and

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Speaker 1: it does set list you guys mentioned it. It is

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Speaker 1: horrifying and while you're on stage while when I do it,

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Speaker 1: I'm sweating, I feel uncomfortable and I feel like I

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Speaker 1: did doing stand up fifteen years ago, and but it is.

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Speaker 1: It's good afterwards, it's like this exhilarate.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the adrenaline.

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Speaker 1: It's so scary.

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Speaker 4: I haven't done it yet. I got it's very booked

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Speaker 4: on it. And then I had a migraine that day

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Speaker 4: and I emailed him and I was like, I really

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Speaker 4: don't think I can do this type of show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tonight, right, I can't look at you to be

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Speaker 1: quick and you have to be yeah.

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Speaker 4: And he was really, he was like, absolutely not, do

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Speaker 4: not come.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been booked on that show and haven't done

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Speaker 3: it four times really, and almost every time I would

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Speaker 3: I think I flaked straight out, just flake flaked two times,

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Speaker 3: and then I had two very legitimate reasons the other two.

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Speaker 3: But I'm scared to death to do it. Scared to

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Speaker 3: death to do it, but I really want to. I

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Speaker 3: think it would be fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it would.

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Speaker 3: But around five o'clock every time every day that i'm

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Speaker 3: when and I've booked on it that night, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's weird.

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Speaker 2: I just don't feel well. This isn't going to work out.

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Speaker 4: I gave myself a headache because I was scared you know,

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Speaker 4: my body just like went into like survival.

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Speaker 2: You're not doing this.

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Speaker 1: I do not enjoy doing set lists, but I do

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Speaker 1: ask to do it all the time, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: I think it's good for me, but it's not enjoyable

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Speaker 1: until right when it's done. Yeah, that's all stand up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I really don't enjoy it until it's over.

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Speaker 3: I really love watching watching it, and I love watching

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Speaker 3: people suffer through it. It's so funny how nervous people

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Speaker 3: get and how great they do and how on their

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Speaker 3: side the audio and it doesn't really matter, like because

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Speaker 3: they're just up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think stand up forget how much forgiveness is given

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Speaker 4: when you do improv. Yeah, I mean I started out

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Speaker 4: in New York trying improv and and did it for

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Speaker 4: many years. Well, I did it for like five years,

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Speaker 4: and it was I and I was doing stand up

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Speaker 4: at the same time, and I would always be like, oh, man,

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Speaker 4: improv is like you have so much more forgiveness from

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Speaker 4: the audience because they know you're making it up on

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Speaker 4: the spot. The laughs are coming easier, but they're but

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01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 4: there's a different like when you do stand up, you

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01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 4: just feel so much more satisfaction when you do get

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01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: the laugh because you're in control and you had to

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Speaker 4: force it, and you're like getting it out of them

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01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 4: and bringing it out of them.

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Speaker 1: It's a better art.

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Speaker 4: In other words, improv sucks and that's why I.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's go do whatever that says. I'm a little

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Speaker 1: worried about whatever audience participation means.

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Speaker 2: Definitely start getting mad about it. Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm not I'm going to go in there

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Speaker 1: with a rage and treat it like I'm in the

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Speaker 1: inside of my car.

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Speaker 2: Just blurt, come out screaming guns of blazon.

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Speaker 1: I want to just dedicate this episode to Harris Whittles,

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Speaker 1: who is a person that I very much loved and

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Speaker 1: he's passed away, and so I just want to say

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Speaker 1: that he was great and I wanted to mention his

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Speaker 1: name and just ended that way.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I like it.

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Speaker 4: I like that too.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Do You Need a Ride? D y

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Speaker 1: n aar. This has been an exactly right production.

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01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 2: Produced by Annalise Nelson.

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Speaker 1: Mixed by Edson Troy.

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Speaker 2: Our talent booker is Patrick Cottner.

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Speaker 1: Theme song by Karen Kilgarrett.

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Speaker 2: Artwork by Chris Fairbanks.

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Speaker 3: Follow the show on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook, at dinar

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Speaker 3: podcast that's d y n ar podcast.

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Speaker 1: For more information, go to exactly rightmedia dot com.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, ooh, you're welcome.