WEBVTT -  2nd Date Update PODCAST: 10 Years After High School 

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<v Speaker 1>jewels second dat day. You know, whenever a relationship ends,

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel the most sorry for the woman. Why really, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because they might be sad about the breakup or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know what they're about to go through. They're

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<v Speaker 1>about to get inundated with dudes trying to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the rebounds. Yes, yeah, And looks like that's what we've

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<v Speaker 1>got on the phone today. Patrick emailed us and he

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<v Speaker 1>just found out that a girl that he likes recently

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<v Speaker 1>broke off her engagement, and now he's ready to pounce.

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<v Speaker 1>What okay, engagement that's like a serious thing, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>just she broke up with her boyfriend. What's up? Patrick? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? And whatever opens the door I

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<v Speaker 1>will take with this girl. Okay, so there's a door open?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you plan on jamming your way in there?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god? Patrick? Well, let's just ask about the girl first.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is April. Have you known

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<v Speaker 1>April for a while? Yeah? We actually we went to

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<v Speaker 1>high school together and she has always been the one

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<v Speaker 1>that got away from me, and it just floats through

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<v Speaker 1>my mind every so often. You know, did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have a relationship in high school? Then we came close,

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<v Speaker 1>We went on a date and then immediately got awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Right afterwards, we were good friends and then it was done. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was was the date awkward? Or well, the date

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have to be awkward, but I just I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get it together. I was so nervous. Oh no, but

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<v Speaker 1>here's what we did. I knew that my dad was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to prepare the best meal in

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<v Speaker 1>the city, and I really wanted to impress her, so

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<v Speaker 1>he actually made a menu of a advance. I invited

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<v Speaker 1>her over. I gave April the menu a week before,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was looking forward to it all week. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she knew that your dad was involved at this

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<v Speaker 1>date leading up to it, Yeah she did. I'm close

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<v Speaker 1>with my parents, she'd met him before, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>were Okay, So this was in high school, right, correct? Yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And so you invited her over to your family's house

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. That's correct? Yeah? Cool? Sorry, it was a it.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy was a little I was trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>where you're if your dad at a restaurant or something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you invited her over your family's house for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was the date that you went on exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the beginning of this evening that I had

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like planned for us. Okay, So she came

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<v Speaker 1>over and dinner went fantastic. It was so good. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just the two of us. You know, my parents

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<v Speaker 1>like left us alone and did the whole just being

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<v Speaker 1>a chaft and waits out on a part. That's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it was adorable. And then afterwards, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm going to take her out to

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<v Speaker 1>a movie. Okay, So we go out and we're actually

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go see Night at the Museum. If you remember

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<v Speaker 1>that old old film film, that's right. It was really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I find out halfway through that she actually has already

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<v Speaker 1>seen the movie. Oh. I was like, oh, you know, okay, uh, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wasting your time. I'm not really sure to do

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<v Speaker 1>with this. And because she's like, no, no no, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having fun. This is wonderful. She's the only person in

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<v Speaker 1>the country that saw Night at the Museum twice quite possibly,

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<v Speaker 1>And she started throwing up signs left and right that

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to escalate something. She just wanted something. She

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<v Speaker 1>had her arms around my torso she was holding my

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<v Speaker 1>hand when she got the chance, and I was so

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<v Speaker 1>nervous I froze up. I didn't know how to handle it.

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<v Speaker 1>I had struck a crush on her for so long.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't make the move. Sweet awkward, Patrick, Yeah, so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>And afterwards I drive her back to her place and

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<v Speaker 1>we're standing outside of her front door and she's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me, and I know what she's wanting to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just couldn't do it. Yeah, Patricks, I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her. I couldn't do it. She looked at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, time passed. It was awkward. She just hugs

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<v Speaker 1>me and says, I'll see you later and walked inside. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 1>no wonder you got friend zoned. You did to yourself? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really did. I crushed my own dreams. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>how long ago was this? This was ten years ago?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, And you're still that worked up about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It stays in your mind, you know. It's it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that never happened, that she always wanted it

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<v Speaker 1>to be. So have you guys been talking over the

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<v Speaker 1>last ten years? Are you just stalking her on Facebook?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how you know she broke off her engagement.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't kept up with her too much honestly, over

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<v Speaker 1>the last ten years. She kind of stayed in the

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<v Speaker 1>hometown and I moved out. But a friend of mine

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<v Speaker 1>recently actually told me about it and said, hey, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember this girl, and said you should try to

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<v Speaker 1>reconnect with her. And I, honestly, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if she remembers me, but she probably remembers you. She

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<v Speaker 1>probably remembers you as a dude who wouldn't make a move. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>the timid young man. Yes, yeah, all right, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know that her engagement it was called off, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you want to just call her up and ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out totally, and so you think it's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>cute that we do it in a second date update. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys are going to talk with her first.

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<v Speaker 1>So if she doesn't remember me, I can just I

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<v Speaker 1>can bail, I can just hang out and let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're your security blanket, is what we are. Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>You're still scared. How did you get her phone number? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>People hold on to the same phone number from high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I still have the same way. Yeah, that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>still the same, Yeah, I got lucky. You know it's

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<v Speaker 1>still the same. Yeah. My buddy confirmed it. He pulled

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<v Speaker 1>it up in his phone. It's the same number. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we'll play a song and then come back and

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<v Speaker 1>call her and see if she remembers you, and then

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can get you a date. I really

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<v Speaker 1>hope this works. I actually do too. Yeah, me too

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<v Speaker 1>do No, not really, I don't really don't care. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just want to do the second part of

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<v Speaker 1>the second date. So hang out, okay, okay, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning seconds. Everybody has the one

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<v Speaker 1>that got away for me. I did this girl name

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle in high school when on one date, all the

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<v Speaker 1>signs were there, with my hand on her leg, where

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<v Speaker 1>watching a movie everything. I never made a move, never

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<v Speaker 1>kissed her, I got friend zoned, didn't talk to her after,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll always remember her. Are you serious? That's so romantic? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't so much about the romance. Her dad was

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<v Speaker 1>an execut at Paramount, and I thought maybe if we

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<v Speaker 1>had a long relationship, I could somehow get into the

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<v Speaker 1>movie industry. So that's what it was about for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But then again, my first love is my career, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I settled for radio, and now I'm at the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom of the barrel. You could have been Matthew McConaughey

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<v Speaker 1>if I only would have kissed that girl. And Patrick

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<v Speaker 1>is going through the same kind of thing right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He's on the phone for a second date. Update. He

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<v Speaker 1>went out with a girl named April in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>He was too scared to make a move. Fast forward

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<v Speaker 1>ten years later. He just found out that she ended

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<v Speaker 1>her engagement, and he got her phone number and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call her and see if he can get an

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<v Speaker 1>others shot at love. All right, Patrick, you're ready. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so ready, Okay, And you heard through the grape

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<v Speaker 1>vine that she ended her engagement. I didn't even ask

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<v Speaker 1>how long ago was that it was actually really recently,

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<v Speaker 1>within the last couple of weeks. And I'm trying to pounce,

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<v Speaker 1>well I can, yeah, Okay, So we may call her

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<v Speaker 1>and she could still be crying. Hopefully that's not the case,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can cheer her up, yeah, or hopefully she's

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<v Speaker 1>crying the appropriate amount where she'll give you a chance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I just need somebody to hang out with.

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<v Speaker 1>Just feel so soon. However, you guys can make it happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm up for it, all right. Well, dialing her phon

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<v Speaker 1>number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this April? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is she April. How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going. What is that well? Calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners actually sent us an email

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<v Speaker 1>asking us if we can get in touch with you,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it Joe? Nope? His name is Patrick and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went on a date in high school. I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's been probably about ten years since you guys talks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what he told us. But he wanted us to

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<v Speaker 1>call you because he still thinks about you a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>What huh is that? Like? Oh my god, that's so

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<v Speaker 1>crazy I think about him? What or is that not

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm processing? Okay, processing, I'm guessing you didn't expect

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<v Speaker 1>this phone call. No, okay, so I'll tell you why

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling. We do a segment on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Update. So if somebody goes out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a person and then they end up

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<v Speaker 1>getting blown off or not getting a call back. You

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<v Speaker 1>can email us and we'll get that person on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and ask what happens. So technically there's a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update from your first date ten years ago. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked. Besides the fact that it's in a decade,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just shocked that he's reaching out about me. He

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<v Speaker 1>was so cute about you. He told us like the

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<v Speaker 1>awkward story of your guys's date where he had his

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<v Speaker 1>dad planned this dinner and he went over to his

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<v Speaker 1>parents house. It was very sweet. What about Patrick, though,

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<v Speaker 1>Did you actually enjoy going out with him? And were

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<v Speaker 1>you interested in him? Oh? My god, I had the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest crush on that kid. You did. Yes, He said

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<v Speaker 1>that he always regrets not making a move because he

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<v Speaker 1>feels like he screwed himself. Do you remember that moment

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<v Speaker 1>on the doorstep when he dropped you off. Yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like an idiot because I was like practically

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<v Speaker 1>throwing myself but he gave me nothing, So I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt so rejected and WHOA, I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I tried to comfort myself by saying maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he's gay. He must be gay, but I knew he wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't provide much comfort, and I just I am

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<v Speaker 1>getting angry. Yeah okay, yeah, I mean that's what he said.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, you guys didn't really talk much after that. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I was humiliated, and I thought, like I wasn't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call him. Okay, you can understand now though, like that

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<v Speaker 1>it's been ten years that he was just an awkward teenager.

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<v Speaker 1>That was nervous, right. I think it's really endearing, especially

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<v Speaker 1>you know, with the way the world is now, to

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<v Speaker 1>know that he was so shy even you want to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss me when he did, that's just really beyond sweet. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what else is endearing. He's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah but wait, aren't you excited? Patrigree? You there, hey, April?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's been a while. Hi Patrick? Yeah? Yeah? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, okay, this is like beyond um do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys need some help? Are you gonna work this one

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<v Speaker 1>out together? It's just a conversation. I how have you been? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually been better. Um. I I just broke up

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<v Speaker 1>an engagement. So your timing is uh, impeccable. Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry to hear that that sucks, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do what I couldn't do ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to at least get the chance to take

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<v Speaker 1>you out. I'm sorry I couldn't do it ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that I fell short at the finish line.

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<v Speaker 1>I really did. But um, it's weighed on my mind

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<v Speaker 1>ever since, and I'm really hoping that you'll just give

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<v Speaker 1>me a second chance. Um. Well, this is hard for me. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>just keep in mind, you know how we were really

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<v Speaker 1>young back then, and we look the books, were attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to each other, and nothing happened because we were both

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<v Speaker 1>awkward teenagers. Right in mind, we're growing up now. But

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<v Speaker 1>back then I didn't have the cognitive skills I have now.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just gonna say it. Okay, Patrick, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling so rejected by you and so angry. I

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<v Speaker 1>there was that big party that Rob had, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Rob was always having those big high school parties. Yeah, remember, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I went and I made out with your brother

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<v Speaker 1>who you made out with? Who? Your brother Thomas? I

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<v Speaker 1>was funk. I was stupid. I was mad at you

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<v Speaker 1>for not kissing me. So you wouldn't kissed to look alike. Brother.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were teenagers. There's a crowded house, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was nothing serious, but you know, it was definitely

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<v Speaker 1>a making out session, and I thought it made me

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<v Speaker 1>feel worse. I'm so glad I have all the details.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stoked about that. Thank you. Wait, of course I'm upset.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really weird. I'm finding out about this at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time that a lot of people are. But ten

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. I mean, I can't believe he never told me,

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<v Speaker 1>And I definitely can't believe you never told me. I

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<v Speaker 1>was very immature. It was ten years ago. Second, when

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<v Speaker 1>you're drunk, especially for the first time, I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea how low your inhibitions can go. April that I sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to get over my shock. I'm about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just kind of it's kind of weird, like it

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<v Speaker 1>feels likes out all over again. It's it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a double whammy over here. Well, yeah, but we were

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<v Speaker 1>all kids, and I mean, it's not like I made

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<v Speaker 1>out with your dad when he made dinner. Because did

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<v Speaker 1>you consider making out with my dad? Valid question? Patrick? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was old, but he was like a

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<v Speaker 1>hot old where why would you? That's insane. That's my point, Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>You're missing the point. The point is that I like you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't make the move. So I had to

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<v Speaker 1>make some move and unfortunately fortunate whatever it was with

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<v Speaker 1>your brother. Well, April, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Patrick again on a second date and see if

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he can make a move? Then? Oh, man, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>open to it because a lot of time has passed.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel better having told him everything because it's

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<v Speaker 1>been weighing on me. So with that, I'm open to

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<v Speaker 1>possibility with him. Okay, hear that, Patrick, I hear it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'd be thinking about my brother the

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. I'm not a good thing or a bad

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<v Speaker 1>thing for you, valid question. It's a bad thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad thing. Okay. So I got to know then

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to go out with April. I I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do it, your brother, big deal? Like ten years ago, too,

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<v Speaker 1>care are you doing? You were painting this beautiful love

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<v Speaker 1>story and just this one little thing is going to

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<v Speaker 1>ruin it all. It was my brother, and Hugh lied

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<v Speaker 1>to me about it, and then she lies me about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's no way, I'm getting involved in that again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, so you're still you're basically still in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I still can't get past it. Call it whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm out. I did not expect that. Patrick. We

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<v Speaker 1>can really have something together, and you're allowing us to

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<v Speaker 1>miss the potential a second time. Look, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>my first kiss with you to be thinking about my

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<v Speaker 1>brother the whole time. The deal breaker for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you're a loss. You chickened out for the

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<v Speaker 1>second time. I'm making the first move your brother right now,

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<v Speaker 1>right in the morning text end at seven eighty five

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<v Speaker 1>to nine two that says get over. It was ten

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. She's probably lost her virginity since then. Two man, no,

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<v Speaker 1>stop it talking about today's second eight update and sproken

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<v Speaker 1>jewil in the morning if you missed it, stud Patrick

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named April. They went out

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<v Speaker 1>ten years ago in high school. Yeah, he was really

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to her. She was sending him all the right

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<v Speaker 1>signals to give her a kiss, but he was too nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>so he didn't do it. And that was really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the last time they hung out. Even and fast

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<v Speaker 1>forward ten years later, she was engaged and then that

0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:11.199
<v Speaker 1>engagement ended, so he heard all about it, and of

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<v Speaker 1>course he pounced. Just like dudes too, they wait until

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<v Speaker 1>someone's singling, they're like, hey me, And it was just

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<v Speaker 1>pretty new too. Anyway, we contacted her and she admitted

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<v Speaker 1>that she was frustrated that he never made a move

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<v Speaker 1>ten years ago, so she made out with his brother

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<v Speaker 1>at a party out of revenge, not currently made out

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<v Speaker 1>with his brother. It was like the same month basically. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time and in the end, she was willing

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<v Speaker 1>to give Patrick another chance, but Patrick just couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>over the fact that she kissed his brother ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so weird to me. I mean, this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets hung up on things. I think she dodged

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<v Speaker 1>a bullet. Dude, I could live with a kiss, like

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<v Speaker 1>if you know, maybe that didn't happen, that's saying. So

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<v Speaker 1>I get why he's upset, but it was ten years

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<v Speaker 1>not see her at Hopefully he's never talking to his

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<v Speaker 1>brother again. Ether. Yeah, that's a good point. Destroy the

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<v Speaker 1>family absolutely. If you're in your back, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, all you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do his email the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point

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<v Speaker 1>five