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Speaker 1: jewels second dat day. You know, whenever a relationship ends,
Speaker 1: I always feel the most sorry for the woman. Why really, Well,
Speaker 1: because they might be sad about the breakup or whatever,
Speaker 1: but I know what they're about to go through. They're
Speaker 1: about to get inundated with dudes trying to pick up
Speaker 1: the rebounds. Yes, yeah, And looks like that's what we've
Speaker 1: got on the phone today. Patrick emailed us and he
Speaker 1: just found out that a girl that he likes recently
Speaker 1: broke off her engagement, and now he's ready to pounce.
Speaker 1: What okay, engagement that's like a serious thing, that's not
Speaker 1: just she broke up with her boyfriend. What's up? Patrick? Hey?
Speaker 1: How are you doing? And whatever opens the door I
Speaker 1: will take with this girl. Okay, so there's a door open?
Speaker 1: How do you plan on jamming your way in there?
Speaker 1: Oh god? Patrick? Well, let's just ask about the girl first.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is April. Have you known
Speaker 1: April for a while? Yeah? We actually we went to
Speaker 1: high school together and she has always been the one
Speaker 1: that got away from me, and it just floats through
Speaker 1: my mind every so often. You know, did you guys
Speaker 1: have a relationship in high school? Then we came close,
Speaker 1: We went on a date and then immediately got awkward.
Speaker 1: Right afterwards, we were good friends and then it was done. Okay,
Speaker 1: what was was the date awkward? Or well, the date
Speaker 1: didn't have to be awkward, but I just I couldn't
Speaker 1: get it together. I was so nervous. Oh no, but
Speaker 1: here's what we did. I knew that my dad was
Speaker 1: going to be able to prepare the best meal in
Speaker 1: the city, and I really wanted to impress her, so
Speaker 1: he actually made a menu of a advance. I invited
Speaker 1: her over. I gave April the menu a week before,
Speaker 1: and she was looking forward to it all week. Okay,
Speaker 1: so she knew that your dad was involved at this
Speaker 1: date leading up to it, Yeah she did. I'm close
Speaker 1: with my parents, she'd met him before, you know, we
Speaker 1: were Okay, So this was in high school, right, correct? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: And so you invited her over to your family's house
Speaker 1: for dinner. That's correct? Yeah? Cool? Sorry, it was a it.
Speaker 1: Guy was a little I was trying to figure out
Speaker 1: where you're if your dad at a restaurant or something. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you invited her over your family's house for dinner,
Speaker 1: and that was the date that you went on exactly.
Speaker 1: That was the beginning of this evening that I had
Speaker 1: kind of like planned for us. Okay, So she came
Speaker 1: over and dinner went fantastic. It was so good. It
Speaker 1: was just the two of us. You know, my parents
Speaker 1: like left us alone and did the whole just being
Speaker 1: a chaft and waits out on a part. That's really cute.
Speaker 1: I know, it was adorable. And then afterwards, of course,
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to take her out to
Speaker 1: a movie. Okay, So we go out and we're actually
Speaker 1: gonna go see Night at the Museum. If you remember
Speaker 1: that old old film film, that's right. It was really cool.
Speaker 1: I find out halfway through that she actually has already
Speaker 1: seen the movie. Oh. I was like, oh, you know, okay, uh, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm wasting your time. I'm not really sure to do
Speaker 1: with this. And because she's like, no, no no, no, I'm
Speaker 1: having fun. This is wonderful. She's the only person in
Speaker 1: the country that saw Night at the Museum twice quite possibly,
Speaker 1: And she started throwing up signs left and right that
Speaker 1: she wanted to escalate something. She just wanted something. She
Speaker 1: had her arms around my torso she was holding my
Speaker 1: hand when she got the chance, and I was so
Speaker 1: nervous I froze up. I didn't know how to handle it.
Speaker 1: I had struck a crush on her for so long.
Speaker 1: I couldn't make the move. Sweet awkward, Patrick, Yeah, so awkward.
Speaker 1: And afterwards I drive her back to her place and
Speaker 1: we're standing outside of her front door and she's looking
Speaker 1: at me, and I know what she's wanting to do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I just couldn't do it. Yeah, Patricks, I couldn't
Speaker 1: kiss her. I couldn't do it. She looked at me.
Speaker 1: I mean, time passed. It was awkward. She just hugs
Speaker 1: me and says, I'll see you later and walked inside. Yeah. So,
Speaker 1: no wonder you got friend zoned. You did to yourself? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really did. I crushed my own dreams. So wait,
Speaker 1: how long ago was this? This was ten years ago?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, And you're still that worked up about it.
Speaker 1: It stays in your mind, you know. It's it's like
Speaker 1: the thing that never happened, that she always wanted it
Speaker 1: to be. So have you guys been talking over the
Speaker 1: last ten years? Are you just stalking her on Facebook?
Speaker 1: And that's how you know she broke off her engagement.
Speaker 1: I haven't kept up with her too much honestly, over
Speaker 1: the last ten years. She kind of stayed in the
Speaker 1: hometown and I moved out. But a friend of mine
Speaker 1: recently actually told me about it and said, hey, do
Speaker 1: you remember this girl, and said you should try to
Speaker 1: reconnect with her. And I, honestly, I don't even know
Speaker 1: if she remembers me, but she probably remembers you. She
Speaker 1: probably remembers you as a dude who wouldn't make a move. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: the timid young man. Yes, yeah, all right, so you
Speaker 1: know that her engagement it was called off, and now
Speaker 1: you want to just call her up and ask her
Speaker 1: out totally, and so you think it's going to be
Speaker 1: cute that we do it in a second date update. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are going to talk with her first.
Speaker 1: So if she doesn't remember me, I can just I
Speaker 1: can bail, I can just hang out and let it go.
Speaker 1: So we're your security blanket, is what we are. Patrick,
Speaker 1: You're still scared. How did you get her phone number? Anyway?
Speaker 1: People hold on to the same phone number from high school.
Speaker 1: I know I still have the same way. Yeah, that's true,
Speaker 1: still the same, Yeah, I got lucky. You know it's
Speaker 1: still the same. Yeah. My buddy confirmed it. He pulled
Speaker 1: it up in his phone. It's the same number. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Well we'll play a song and then come back and
Speaker 1: call her and see if she remembers you, and then
Speaker 1: see if we can get you a date. I really
Speaker 1: hope this works. I actually do too. Yeah, me too
Speaker 1: do No, not really, I don't really don't care. I
Speaker 1: just I just want to do the second part of
Speaker 1: the second date. So hang out, okay, okay, hang on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning seconds. Everybody has the one
Speaker 1: that got away for me. I did this girl name
Speaker 1: Michelle in high school when on one date, all the
Speaker 1: signs were there, with my hand on her leg, where
Speaker 1: watching a movie everything. I never made a move, never
Speaker 1: kissed her, I got friend zoned, didn't talk to her after,
Speaker 1: and I'll always remember her. Are you serious? That's so romantic? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it wasn't so much about the romance. Her dad was
Speaker 1: an execut at Paramount, and I thought maybe if we
Speaker 1: had a long relationship, I could somehow get into the
Speaker 1: movie industry. So that's what it was about for me.
Speaker 1: But then again, my first love is my career, and
Speaker 1: then I settled for radio, and now I'm at the
Speaker 1: bottom of the barrel. You could have been Matthew McConaughey
Speaker 1: if I only would have kissed that girl. And Patrick
Speaker 1: is going through the same kind of thing right now.
Speaker 1: He's on the phone for a second date. Update. He
Speaker 1: went out with a girl named April in high school.
Speaker 1: He was too scared to make a move. Fast forward
Speaker 1: ten years later. He just found out that she ended
Speaker 1: her engagement, and he got her phone number and wants
Speaker 1: to call her and see if he can get an
Speaker 1: others shot at love. All right, Patrick, you're ready. I
Speaker 1: am so ready, Okay, And you heard through the grape
Speaker 1: vine that she ended her engagement. I didn't even ask
Speaker 1: how long ago was that it was actually really recently,
Speaker 1: within the last couple of weeks. And I'm trying to pounce,
Speaker 1: well I can, yeah, Okay, So we may call her
Speaker 1: and she could still be crying. Hopefully that's not the case,
Speaker 1: and I can cheer her up, yeah, or hopefully she's
Speaker 1: crying the appropriate amount where she'll give you a chance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: She's like, I just need somebody to hang out with.
Speaker 1: Just feel so soon. However, you guys can make it happen.
Speaker 1: I'm up for it, all right. Well, dialing her phon
Speaker 1: number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this April? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is she April. How are you? This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay,
Speaker 1: how's it going. What is that well? Calling you today
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners actually sent us an email
Speaker 1: asking us if we can get in touch with you,
Speaker 1: isn't it Joe? Nope? His name is Patrick and apparently
Speaker 1: you guys went on a date in high school. I
Speaker 1: know it's been probably about ten years since you guys talks.
Speaker 1: That's what he told us. But he wanted us to
Speaker 1: call you because he still thinks about you a lot.
Speaker 1: What huh is that? Like? Oh my god, that's so
Speaker 1: crazy I think about him? What or is that not
Speaker 1: that I'm processing? Okay, processing, I'm guessing you didn't expect
Speaker 1: this phone call. No, okay, so I'll tell you why
Speaker 1: we're calling. We do a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: the Second Date Update. So if somebody goes out on
Speaker 1: a date with a person and then they end up
Speaker 1: getting blown off or not getting a call back. You
Speaker 1: can email us and we'll get that person on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask what happens. So technically there's a second
Speaker 1: date update from your first date ten years ago. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm shocked. Besides the fact that it's in a decade,
Speaker 1: I'm just shocked that he's reaching out about me. He
Speaker 1: was so cute about you. He told us like the
Speaker 1: awkward story of your guys's date where he had his
Speaker 1: dad planned this dinner and he went over to his
Speaker 1: parents house. It was very sweet. What about Patrick, though,
Speaker 1: Did you actually enjoy going out with him? And were
Speaker 1: you interested in him? Oh? My god, I had the
Speaker 1: biggest crush on that kid. You did. Yes, He said
Speaker 1: that he always regrets not making a move because he
Speaker 1: feels like he screwed himself. Do you remember that moment
Speaker 1: on the doorstep when he dropped you off. Yes, And
Speaker 1: I felt like an idiot because I was like practically
Speaker 1: throwing myself but he gave me nothing, So I just
Speaker 1: felt so rejected and WHOA, I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: I was. I tried to comfort myself by saying maybe
Speaker 1: he's gay. He must be gay, but I knew he wasn't.
Speaker 1: It didn't provide much comfort, and I just I am
Speaker 1: getting angry. Yeah okay, yeah, I mean that's what he said.
Speaker 1: He said, you guys didn't really talk much after that. Well, no,
Speaker 1: I was humiliated, and I thought, like I wasn't gonna
Speaker 1: call him. Okay, you can understand now though, like that
Speaker 1: it's been ten years that he was just an awkward teenager.
Speaker 1: That was nervous, right. I think it's really endearing, especially
Speaker 1: you know, with the way the world is now, to
Speaker 1: know that he was so shy even you want to
Speaker 1: kiss me when he did, that's just really beyond sweet. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: you know what else is endearing. He's actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yeah but wait, aren't you excited? Patrigree? You there, hey, April?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's been a while. Hi Patrick? Yeah? Yeah? Wow?
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, this is like beyond um do you
Speaker 1: guys need some help? Are you gonna work this one
Speaker 1: out together? It's just a conversation. I how have you been? Um?
Speaker 1: I've actually been better. Um. I I just broke up
Speaker 1: an engagement. So your timing is uh, impeccable. Well, um,
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry to hear that that sucks, but I
Speaker 1: want to do what I couldn't do ten years ago.
Speaker 1: I want to at least get the chance to take
Speaker 1: you out. I'm sorry I couldn't do it ten years ago.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I fell short at the finish line.
Speaker 1: I really did. But um, it's weighed on my mind
Speaker 1: ever since, and I'm really hoping that you'll just give
Speaker 1: me a second chance. Um. Well, this is hard for me. Um,
Speaker 1: just keep in mind, you know how we were really
Speaker 1: young back then, and we look the books, were attracted
Speaker 1: to each other, and nothing happened because we were both
Speaker 1: awkward teenagers. Right in mind, we're growing up now. But
Speaker 1: back then I didn't have the cognitive skills I have now.
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna say it. Okay, Patrick, Okay, I
Speaker 1: was feeling so rejected by you and so angry. I
Speaker 1: there was that big party that Rob had, you know,
Speaker 1: Rob was always having those big high school parties. Yeah, remember, Okay,
Speaker 1: So I went and I made out with your brother
Speaker 1: who you made out with? Who? Your brother Thomas? I
Speaker 1: was funk. I was stupid. I was mad at you
Speaker 1: for not kissing me. So you wouldn't kissed to look alike. Brother.
Speaker 1: You know, we were teenagers. There's a crowded house, and
Speaker 1: it was nothing serious, but you know, it was definitely
Speaker 1: a making out session, and I thought it made me
Speaker 1: feel worse. I'm so glad I have all the details.
Speaker 1: I'm stoked about that. Thank you. Wait, of course I'm upset.
Speaker 1: That's really weird. I'm finding out about this at the
Speaker 1: same time that a lot of people are. But ten
Speaker 1: years ago. I mean, I can't believe he never told me,
Speaker 1: And I definitely can't believe you never told me. I
Speaker 1: was very immature. It was ten years ago. Second, when
Speaker 1: you're drunk, especially for the first time, I had no
Speaker 1: idea how low your inhibitions can go. April that I sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to get over my shock. I'm about that.
Speaker 1: It's just kind of it's kind of weird, like it
Speaker 1: feels likes out all over again. It's it's kind of
Speaker 1: a double whammy over here. Well, yeah, but we were
Speaker 1: all kids, and I mean, it's not like I made
Speaker 1: out with your dad when he made dinner. Because did
Speaker 1: you consider making out with my dad? Valid question? Patrick? No,
Speaker 1: I mean he was old, but he was like a
Speaker 1: hot old where why would you? That's insane. That's my point, Patrick,
Speaker 1: You're missing the point. The point is that I like you,
Speaker 1: but you didn't make the move. So I had to
Speaker 1: make some move and unfortunately fortunate whatever it was with
Speaker 1: your brother. Well, April, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Patrick again on a second date and see if
Speaker 1: maybe he can make a move? Then? Oh, man, I'm
Speaker 1: open to it because a lot of time has passed.
Speaker 1: I just feel better having told him everything because it's
Speaker 1: been weighing on me. So with that, I'm open to
Speaker 1: possibility with him. Okay, hear that, Patrick, I hear it. Um.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'd be thinking about my brother the
Speaker 1: entire time. I'm not a good thing or a bad
Speaker 1: thing for you, valid question. It's a bad thing. It's
Speaker 1: a bad thing. Okay. So I got to know then
Speaker 1: you don't want to go out with April. I I
Speaker 1: can't do it, your brother, big deal? Like ten years ago, too,
Speaker 1: care are you doing? You were painting this beautiful love
Speaker 1: story and just this one little thing is going to
Speaker 1: ruin it all. It was my brother, and Hugh lied
Speaker 1: to me about it, and then she lies me about it,
Speaker 1: and there's no way, I'm getting involved in that again.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you're still you're basically still in high school.
Speaker 1: I still can't get past it. Call it whatever you want,
Speaker 1: but I'm out. I did not expect that. Patrick. We
Speaker 1: can really have something together, and you're allowing us to
Speaker 1: miss the potential a second time. Look, I don't want
Speaker 1: my first kiss with you to be thinking about my
Speaker 1: brother the whole time. The deal breaker for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, you're a loss. You chickened out for the
Speaker 1: second time. I'm making the first move your brother right now,
Speaker 1: right in the morning text end at seven eighty five
Speaker 1: to nine two that says get over. It was ten
Speaker 1: years ago. She's probably lost her virginity since then. Two man, no,
Speaker 1: stop it talking about today's second eight update and sproken
Speaker 1: jewil in the morning if you missed it, stud Patrick
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named April. They went out
Speaker 1: ten years ago in high school. Yeah, he was really
Speaker 1: attracted to her. She was sending him all the right
Speaker 1: signals to give her a kiss, but he was too nervous,
Speaker 1: so he didn't do it. And that was really kind
Speaker 1: of the last time they hung out. Even and fast
Speaker 1: forward ten years later, she was engaged and then that
Speaker 1: engagement ended, so he heard all about it, and of
Speaker 1: course he pounced. Just like dudes too, they wait until
Speaker 1: someone's singling, they're like, hey me, And it was just
Speaker 1: pretty new too. Anyway, we contacted her and she admitted
Speaker 1: that she was frustrated that he never made a move
Speaker 1: ten years ago, so she made out with his brother
Speaker 1: at a party out of revenge, not currently made out
Speaker 1: with his brother. It was like the same month basically. Yeah,
Speaker 1: at the time and in the end, she was willing
Speaker 1: to give Patrick another chance, but Patrick just couldn't get
Speaker 1: over the fact that she kissed his brother ten years ago.
Speaker 1: That is so weird to me. I mean, this guy,
Speaker 1: he gets hung up on things. I think she dodged
Speaker 1: a bullet. Dude, I could live with a kiss, like
Speaker 1: if you know, maybe that didn't happen, that's saying. So
Speaker 1: I get why he's upset, but it was ten years
Speaker 1: not see her at Hopefully he's never talking to his
Speaker 1: brother again. Ether. Yeah, that's a good point. Destroy the
Speaker 1: family absolutely. If you're in your back, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day update, all you have to
Speaker 1: do his email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point
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