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Speaker 1: jewels second dat day. You know, whenever a relationship ends,

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Speaker 1: I always feel the most sorry for the woman. Why really, Well,

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Speaker 1: the rebounds. Yes, yeah, And looks like that's what we've

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Speaker 1: What okay, engagement that's like a serious thing, that's not

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Speaker 1: just she broke up with her boyfriend. What's up? Patrick? Hey?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? And whatever opens the door I

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Speaker 1: How do you plan on jamming your way in there?

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Speaker 1: Oh god? Patrick? Well, let's just ask about the girl first.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is April. Have you known

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Speaker 1: April for a while? Yeah? We actually we went to

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Speaker 1: have a relationship in high school? Then we came close,

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Speaker 1: We went on a date and then immediately got awkward.

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Speaker 1: what was was the date awkward? Or well, the date

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Speaker 1: he actually made a menu of a advance. I invited

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Speaker 1: so she knew that your dad was involved at this

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Speaker 1: so you invited her over your family's house for dinner,

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Speaker 1: and I'll always remember her. Are you serious? That's so romantic? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: He's on the phone for a second date. Update. He

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Speaker 1: how's it going. What is that well? Calling you today

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Speaker 1: because one of our listeners actually sent us an email

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Speaker 1: isn't it Joe? Nope? His name is Patrick and apparently

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Speaker 1: you guys went on a date in high school. I

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Speaker 1: know it's been probably about ten years since you guys talks.

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Speaker 1: What huh is that? Like? Oh my god, that's so

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Speaker 1: He said, you guys didn't really talk much after that. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: Yeah but wait, aren't you excited? Patrigree? You there, hey, April?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's been a while. Hi Patrick? Yeah? Yeah? Wow?

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna say it. Okay, Patrick, Okay, I

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Speaker 1: Rob was always having those big high school parties. Yeah, remember, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I went and I made out with your brother

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Speaker 1: who you made out with? Who? Your brother Thomas? I

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Speaker 1: You're missing the point. The point is that I like you,

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Speaker 1: I still can't get past it. Call it whatever you want,

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Speaker 1: but I'm out. I did not expect that. Patrick. We

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