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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody. We are scrubbing and scrubbing

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Speaker 1: in like a dubbing in, like a duggan. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm seeing it in all amenute. I know you're

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Speaker 1: very like we're both very um like in domesticated relationships.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know what it is, that is the case.

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like we live very different lives also,

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Speaker 1: like I am always I feel like I'm constantly like

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Speaker 1: running amuck mhmm. And I feel like you're always like chill. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's that's literally our brands right there. You're

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Speaker 1: running amuck me chill just like chilling. I am so

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Speaker 1: good at chilling. It's concerning yesterday. I really did not

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Speaker 1: get out of bed until like six pm. What see,

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Speaker 1: Like I can't even there's a part of me that

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Speaker 1: wishes that I could do that, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like there's this part of me it's like I don't

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Speaker 1: want to do anything tomorrow, and like I'll carve those

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Speaker 1: days out my schedule. I do nothing, and then I'll

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Speaker 1: get to that day and I'll plan, like, oh, work

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Speaker 1: out at eight am, and then like brunch somewhere. That's nice, though,

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Speaker 1: I mean I would do that. I just I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I didn't have any thing to do, so I just

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Speaker 1: stayed in bed. I just watched TV. I slept. I

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Speaker 1: didn't sleep till six pm, but I like intermittently napped.

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Speaker 1: There's some napping, so nice. I know. I was so tired,

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Speaker 1: Like part of me was like it almost was like

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Speaker 1: that exhaustion where you're like, am I getting sick? Because

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Speaker 1: I could just sleep. So I was like, I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna let my body do it. I feel like it

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Speaker 1: needs great today, so maybe it needed it. It probably

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Speaker 1: needed it. I am on the other end of that

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Speaker 1: where people were messaging me about my um out my

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Speaker 1: how I said it was going to be drinking alcohol anymore?

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Speaker 1: Did you just burp and then you didn't even cover

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Speaker 1: your mouth, like, in fact, not only did you not

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Speaker 1: cover your mouth, you'd kept talking post burp. I was

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Speaker 1: hoping that nobody could hear that. Well, okay, it was

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Speaker 1: right into the microphone. I'm so sorry. Yeah, well you

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Speaker 1: said you were going to drink this weekend. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: knew I was going to drink this weekend because we

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Speaker 1: went we um we went and spent the weekend with

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Speaker 1: a lot of Robbie's like old college friends, and there's

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Speaker 1: something like there's something so sweet about him and these

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Speaker 1: friends that are from college, you know, because their friendship

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Speaker 1: is just so genuine and sweet. And they play these games.

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Speaker 1: It's like beer pong, but it's not beer pong, it's

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Speaker 1: like something else with the pink pong ball and like

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Speaker 1: these cups cups um and like, I have no interest

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Speaker 1: in playing it, but seeing how much joy it brings

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Speaker 1: him just makes me so happy. So are they all married,

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Speaker 1: Like are their wives or girlfriends? Yeah, yeah, they're all married. Yes.

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Speaker 1: So I knew like two of the couples going into it,

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Speaker 1: but then there was a couple of them that I

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Speaker 1: it was like the perfect weekend because we just played

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Speaker 1: like tennis and bocci ball and we played fish bowl

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Speaker 1: just a really really fun weekend. And getting to see

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Speaker 1: him with like his oldest friends is just like so sweet.

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Speaker 1: You had you posted that you were having an emotional

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Speaker 1: morning one day of gratitude. Where did that come from?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Um, I feel like, um, I've been having.

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Speaker 1: One of my goals for August was to start every

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Speaker 1: day with something that I'm grateful for, because I found

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Speaker 1: that I was getting really wrapped up in the and everybody,

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Speaker 1: I feel like everybody can do this where you just

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Speaker 1: have such a laundry list of like to do that

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Speaker 1: you just feel like you're going, going, going, and you

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Speaker 1: I want to start every day like in attitude. And

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Speaker 1: so I'm doing that practice every single morning. And I

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Speaker 1: feeling like so grateful, um for my relationship because I

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Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times I can harp on

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Speaker 1: the things that aren't perfect about my relationship and I

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Speaker 1: focus on those and that's so minuscule in comparison to

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Speaker 1: like the good in my relationship. And so I've been

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Speaker 1: you have Hashumoto's disease, and I was like, I'm sorry, what,

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Speaker 1: But um, what I didn't realize is Robbie started doing

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Speaker 1: all this juicing that he's been doing lately because of

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Speaker 1: my hashimotos and he read that like these certain things

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Speaker 1: me and for that specifically, and I just started like bawling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's so nice, so thoughtful. It's so thoughtful, and also

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Speaker 1: takes a lot of time, like washing all those things first,

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Speaker 1: all buying them, all washing them, all juicing them, cleaning

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Speaker 1: been doing it every day since I found out, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that's why he was doing it until

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Speaker 1: And it just made me so emotional because I was

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Speaker 1: just like, that's what you want and a partner I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's it's it's such a good reminder if you're listening

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Speaker 1: to not settle, because like that is I know, you know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes people think of love and they think of like

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Speaker 1: the grand like love bombing estures that are like obvious

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Speaker 1: and flowers every day, extravagant days, and yeah, something like

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Speaker 1: that is such a beautiful sign of partnership and just

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Speaker 1: like love for somebody. Yeah. And it's interesting because I

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Speaker 1: one taking care of um. And it's interesting because when

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Speaker 1: to like take care of him, that's when he started

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Speaker 1: having this like shift of just like wow, like you're

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Speaker 1: an amazing partner, you know. And I think it's in

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Speaker 1: those moments where you know, like somebody's taking care of

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Speaker 1: just like yeah, such a crazy feeling. It's really cool,

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Speaker 1: really sweet. Yeah. I love Robbie. I know I did

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Speaker 1: to love you, and I love Robbie. Well, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: see him tonight because we're going to a pink punk tray. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Tanya, I don't remember how the conversation came up,

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Speaker 1: It's the kers All Challenge, like ping pong tournament. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're not paying. Tanya's here and she was like, I'm playing,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna text

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Speaker 1: go watch you. So I text Amy and she's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: maybe if I'm lucky. But I was thinking tonight, I

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Speaker 1: and we need to stock the calendar. Literally, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, what are you guys doing tonight? Happy

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Speaker 1: not today, but tomorrow, tomorrow, not to know, not tomorrow

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Speaker 1: but the next not today, not tomorrow but the next day.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, for a long time, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: The first thing we did this, she we had just met.

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Speaker 1: It's so hard, And like I also feel so grateful

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Speaker 1: some old podcasts where I'm like, I need someone who

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Speaker 1: the calendar, yep, go book me up, book me up, Sally,

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Speaker 1: It would make me really sad. I just saw Klin

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Speaker 1: I was like, should we start a support group? Because

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Speaker 1: a modern woman is doing what you want, like what

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Speaker 1: the desires of your heart are. And my heart is

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Speaker 1: every single night, touching me with my e T toe. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that is my truth and I am happy to speak it. Well,

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Speaker 1: I am going to go and see her, you know,

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Speaker 1: on certain stops, so it's not going to be like

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Speaker 1: I don't, I can't. I did offer to do a

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Speaker 1: girl cute girls weekend away. Oh, yeah, so that that's

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Speaker 1: of the other be introvert, like I get. I get

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00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: very nervous when I have to go to like parties

424
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: and stuff like I and I don't want to do

425
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: it and I don't like go and don't invite met

426
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: your party. I don't want to go, but yeah and

427
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: I go, and I'm I'm a fun time right. Uh.

428
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: I get very nervous about it and I have to

429
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: be like hyped up because my wife is a is

430
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: an extrovert and she's um, she's good at she's good

431
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: at that kind of thing. So introvert is my answer.

432
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: All right, I think I'm an extrovert for sure. Yeah,

433
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: but the NP is such her the sorry the Myers

434
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: Briggs is also very interesting and that I do think

435
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: they'd say that that's like a good thing to know

436
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: about your partner in a relationship because it really helps

437
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: with like figuring out how to have um constructive disagreements.

438
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 1: There's just like so much between attachment styles and Myers

439
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: Briggs and angiograms, and like, I think it's just learning

440
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: about I think those are all helpful, but I think

441
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: it really is like listening and learning. That's really what

442
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: it comes down to, being able to listen and not

443
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: get immediately defensive or you know, angry, and being able

444
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: to like have a productive conversation regardless of if your

445
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 1: signs a line or your numbers a line. I think

446
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 1: it's really when it comes down to, uh, we're gonna

447
00:24:49,119 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: think of break and we'll be right back, right back, Okay,

448
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 1: we're back. Um, I haven't. What did you think about

449
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 1: Pete and Kim breaking up initial feelings? I don't. I

450
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: think they're going to get back together. Oh why a

451
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: PR stunt so that nobody talked about Tristan and Chloe. Wow. Wow,

452
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: that is such a bold theory. Just a theory, simply

453
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: a theory. Did you see all on TikTok? Yes? No,

454
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: I definitely. I don't know if it was TikTok. I

455
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: definitely saw it somewhere and maybe Ginger TikTok. Yeah. Yeah,

456
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: but I I feel like, um, we haven't seen the

457
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 1: last of him. Oh Hannah thinks pr stunt for new season. Yeah,

458
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: I just I don't think it's over. I feel like

459
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: they haven't seen each other in a minute. So like

460
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 1: he's filming this movie in Australia right now, and so

461
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: it's an opportune time for them to say that they

462
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: split up, so that the Tristan and Chloe news wasn't

463
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: like a thing, and and then we'll see them get

464
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: back together. Interesting, I don't see it. I don't see

465
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: them getting back together. You didn't believe it was true love?

466
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: No hardened your heart? Becca Tilly? How dare you compare

467
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: Chelsea and Joe Coy too, Pete Skeet. I think they

468
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: were together around the same amount of time. Yeah, but

469
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: the way yeah, but the way that Chelsea talked about

470
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: her relationship was not the same. Okay. I think him

471
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: is like I think of him as being like I

472
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 1: just think of Pete not being up to like the

473
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: level that Kim needs or wants. Fighting words, no, not

474
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: fighting words. I think he's seen Everyone talks about how

475
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: amazing he is and likes b D. But I'm talking

476
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: about like, as a person. He seems like a genuinely

477
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: nice guy and funny and like, I think people love

478
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 1: him for a reason, and he's been able to date

479
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: a lot of women for that reason. However, I don't

480
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: know if for him, I don't think. I don't know.

481
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: Maybe you're right, maybe it was a pr stunt, maybe

482
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: their soul mates forever. I thought he was going to

483
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: be like her Travis Barker, Yeah, I think that's what

484
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: everyone was rooting for. Yeah, like treat her the way

485
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: like she's just like his queen. I saw a really

486
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: funny quote from brand from Chicks in the Office and

487
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: she goes, they got us, They really got us. Somehow.

488
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: I talked myself into the fact that Pete Davidson and

489
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian could have children together, and I believed it. Wait,

490
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,360
Speaker 1: it's true. I just feel like so many people, like

491
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: there was just so much hype and like, didn't he

492
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: get tattooed and stuff? Felt like the girl as a lawyer. Yeah,

493
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, I just believe in true love and I

494
00:27:55,440 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: believe in partnership. That's all I'm gonna say they were partner. Okay,

495
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: so you think they'll be back together? Kim and Pete

496
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: were partners, like they were like partners. Oh no, not

497
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 1: the partners again, like they were like real partners, Like

498
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: that was a partnership, you know, like if Joe Koy

499
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: had gotten a tattoo, if Chelsea handler on his chest,

500
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: would they have been partners? Perhaps? But we'll never know.

501
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: We'll never know. They weren't partners. They were not partners

502
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: like Pete and Kim. Kim and Pete were partners, do

503
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? No, like they were partners,

504
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: Yes you do. I have no idea what you're talking about.

505
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: Truth be told. They were like actual partners. Okay, I guess.

506
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: So the Defense restaurant they were partner. Thank you, thank you.

507
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I really won that round. Ye. Mark's

508
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: not here to to challenge you, that's right. Do you

509
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: think Mark so challenger aniogram number? Oh? I think he's

510
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't really know enough about them to like about

511
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: any of room. Yeah. Um, I think we have an email?

512
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: All right? Should we get into it? Eastern? Do you

513
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: want to read the email? Mark's not here. I would

514
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: love to read the email because I am a person

515
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: that can read words, and I can read the emails

516
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: just as good as Mark camp and I that's right,

517
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: and I have the email handy right here, so now

518
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm going to start reading it. It is from anonymous.

519
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 1: I have two questions that i'd let me get your

520
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: thoughts on. One more generally, do you guys believe in

521
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: the right in the right person, wrong time? And to

522
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: my specific situation, I was eating this guy for four

523
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: months and he checked off every checkbox that I had.

524
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: I really liked him. But he's starting a new job

525
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: and I'm moving to a new state to start grad school.

526
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: A month and a half later, I'm in my new

527
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: state starting to date this new guy. He treats me

528
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: so well. He makes me feel super secure in his

529
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: feelings towards me in a way that the first guy

530
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: in ever did. But he doesn't check off that one

531
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: big box. It's pretty important to my family and me,

532
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: and I can't help but compare him to the first guy.

533
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: Is he treats me like a queen? A good enough

534
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: reason for dating someone I couldn't help but wonder. Sincerely,

535
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: Carrie Bradshaw, I think right guy, wrong time is just

536
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: the wrong guy. We have talked about this. It goes

537
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: against your whole relationship. No, it does not, because it

538
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: was the right guy and it was the wrong It

539
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: was the No, it was an unopportune time for him.

540
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: Not change the wording of opportunity because because it was

541
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: an inopportune time. But he knew I was the right person.

542
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: So he fought through all the all those challenges, like

543
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: he was fighting. He was pulling himself through those things.

544
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: Am I literally crazy? Or is this not the exact

545
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: email that she's asking about? What that she had met

546
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: the guy that she thinks is the right person, but

547
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: there's these challenges, But should she fight through them because

548
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: she thinks he's the right guy. No, she was dating

549
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: somebody that she thought was like the right guy wrong time,

550
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: because she ended up moving and now she didating somebody

551
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 1: else that treats her like a queen. So they're two

552
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: different guys. Because she's wondering if the first guy who

553
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: she thinks is the right person wrong time, is the

554
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: right person. No, how do you not see how this

555
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: doesn't contradict your own life? I feel like I'm being

556
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:55,479
Speaker 1: gasolit Honestly, here we go again. I just need someone

557
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: Hannah Eastern. Do you see the parison here? I do, okay,

558
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: but but it's not a parallel situation, and these situations

559
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: are not one size fits all. Yeah, but the concept,

560
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: generally speaking, is what she's asking, do you think wrong person,

561
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: right person, wrong time? Because I think eventually it will

562
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: be right person, right time. The woman was too stunned

563
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: to speak. Does it make sense, Eason? No? Well, I mean,

564
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: let's let's make it more a more like like specific comparison.

565
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: If if Robbie had moved away, would you have stuck

566
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 1: with him? Or would you have you know, correct, I mean,

567
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: what would you would you not like, let's see long distance,

568
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: I'll go with you? Or or do you think that's

569
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: wrong time? Um, I can't put myself in something. I'm

570
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: pretty hitched to the city of Los Angeles. I can't like,

571
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: I can't say if he needed to move, if I

572
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: would move with him, I'd say at this point, yeah, okay.

573
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: Tony is never going to admit the similarities of the

574
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: situation because she stated her stance, which is she does

575
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: not believe in right person, wrong time. She just thinks

576
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: it's not the right person person. Every all of her

577
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: actions contradict her words. But moving on from that, they

578
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,959
Speaker 1: do not. I never gave up on him. I always

579
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: believed he was the right one. Even when we were

580
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: broken up. I was like, this is my dude. I

581
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: didn't even question it. I know, but I didn't date

582
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: anybody else. But this is what she's saying. I was like, no,

583
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: this that guy's might do. I tried to date someone else,

584
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: just didn't go. Well, no, I did not. I went

585
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: on a FaceTime date. Well that's all we had during

586
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: COVID with somebody that I talked about Robbie the entire

587
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: time with so I clearly and he talked about his Yeah, okay,

588
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: well when you guys split, did you think this is

589
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: the wrong time, Like the timing was different. No, when

590
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: we broke up, but remember, do not remember I kept saying,

591
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: but this is not he, this is she the whole time.

592
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: When we broke up, I went to Becca and I

593
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: was like, we broke up, but I don't know why

594
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: because he's my guy. Like I was like, I don't

595
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 1: understand what's happening here, right, but not by my choice,

596
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: but here together he was not the right guy. Wrong

597
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: time for me, is what I'm saying. I know, but

598
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is it was the wrong time, regardless

599
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: of whose terms that was on, and you still got

600
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 1: back together because you felt like he was your guy.

601
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: Because but the whole time I felt like he was

602
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: my guy, even when we were broken up. I was like,

603
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 1: he's my guy. But it was the wrong time because

604
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: he needed time, but but not me. It was not

605
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: the right person, wrong time for me. I'm speaking on

606
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: my perspective. Does that make sense? Am I making more sense?

607
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: Slightly less? But if anyway I think to help Anonymous, Yeah,

608
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: if I may, I think that in this a this

609
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: Italian situation as well, if this guy is the right

610
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: person and and Anonymous feels like he is, except he

611
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,919
Speaker 1: you know, he moved away somewhere, that your lives will

612
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: come back together. It's you know, I think I think

613
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: at some point, I mean, Alison and I had a

614
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: had a little uh adventure together many years ago, and

615
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: and um we were like, yeah, I mean we're just

616
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: better off his friends and uh, and then the universe

617
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: brought us back together. And now she has to find

618
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: a judging the attorney if she wants to leave me.

619
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: So uh, I think that will happen for this person

620
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 1: and if it does, it doesn't. If it doesn't, it doesn't.

621
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 1: That's how you know if it's the right person. But

622
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I I don't know if that was

623
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: helpful at all, But I I think that if it's

624
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: the if it's the right person, you know, yeah, that's

625
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: allers too. But she does basically what I said. She says,

626
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: he makes me feel super secure in his feelings towards me,

627
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: this new guy in a way that the first guy

628
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,479
Speaker 1: never did. So I don't even know if we should

629
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: be encouraging this is her guy because the thing is

630
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: in Tanya situation, I will say that there was nothing

631
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: I even remember telling her, like listen, I really like

632
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: Robbie and I think he's really wonderful, but you you

633
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Speaker 1: just are someone who chooses you. So until he chooses you,

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Speaker 1: I'm not rooting for him, and he ended up choosing her,

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00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: and I'm one, I'm like Robbie's biggest fan. But I

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00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: do think if you're telling us that you know that

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Speaker 1: he does not make you feel secure in the relationship,

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Speaker 1: that's that's something you should be listening to. So I'm

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00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: with Tanya on this one that I don't think this

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00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: is your guy but in general, I don't think Tanya

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00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: actually believes that. But in this case, I do think

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00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: that I'm just gonna need Crystal to turn that into

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Speaker 1: a loop. Tanya was right, I said, I agree with

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00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: Tanya and whatever you said. But also she said, he

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00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: doesn't check off one big box guy, this new guy,

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00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: and listen, these are two guys. Let me tell you something.

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00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: Though Anonymous unboxed myself comparing him to this first guy.

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Speaker 1: So I don't think the second guys like it for

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Speaker 1: many reasons, including the big box. But I do think

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Speaker 1: there are so many people that you have yet to

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Speaker 1: meet in this world. To settle for two one who

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00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: doesn't make you feel secure and one who you're thinking

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00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: about somebody else. Don't settle, don't limit yourself to these

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00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: two options. Yeah, but let me tell you, as a

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00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: girl that dated a lot that's exhausting, I get it.

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00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't date anyone over these like date yourself, take

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00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: yourself on date, date yourself. Great advice like get that

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00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: vibrator out and have a fun Friday and sleep in

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00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: on a Saturday day, like kick yourself to the movies,

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00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: go on dates, hang out with your friends, take your

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00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: friends on day It's like, don't settle for two guys

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00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: that make you question your yourself and what you want.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Glad we got to a meeting place, Tonya.

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Speaker 1: It took took some hard we gave some good advice.

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Speaker 1: I think we did too. I agree, good work, teamwork

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00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:29,439
Speaker 1: from the three of us exactly and Hannah who said

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00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,720
Speaker 1: she was too hungover to deal with this argument again.

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00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,839
Speaker 1: But I think that we can all say that neither

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Speaker 1: one of them are her partners. I don't think any

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00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: of these are your guys unless unless guy number one

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00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: chooses you and makes you feel secure and like he

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00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: is going to fight for you. Because that's what Robbie did.

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Speaker 1: I always hesitate because I feel like you're going to

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Speaker 1: correct me and go red star. That's what Robbie did

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00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: for Tanya, and he proved that he wanted her. And

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00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: you know, I felt myself going like, yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: this is the guy, but don't settle. And she's the

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Speaker 1: one who moved away the anonymous, So I mean, this

679
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: guy could this guy can come to your state, you know,

680
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Speaker 1: you know, you never know if he decides to choose you.

681
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: And you could also walk into a restaurant one day

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Speaker 1: in lock eyes with the love of your life and go.

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Speaker 1: You never made me question anything. You're my guy, You're

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00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: you're the one, You're my girl, that's right, or you're

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Speaker 1: my girl. Great correction, Becca, great correction. Thank you for that. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: as of now, that's the end of this show. That

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Speaker 1: is the end of this show. We have some ping

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Speaker 1: ponging to get to do, so we're gonna go practice

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Speaker 1: and we will talk to you guys on Thursday with

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Speaker 1: the Lady Gang. They are the best and I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for you all to hear that episode. It's so fun.

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Speaker 1: Talk to you later, Bail h