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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you want to say together decisions decisions. Hey guys,

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Speaker 2: welcome to another episode my decisions decision.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, mad DV.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking like that because you even dressed on Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm a little sophisticated lotot classy, a little demureur.

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Speaker 1: What happened to hear?

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Speaker 2: The girl was given demure and we lost time because

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Speaker 2: because a crackle went in fucking copyright and demure.

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Speaker 1: Right up on all the goddamn No, that is exactly

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Speaker 1: what happens. I'm weazy.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back for another episode. We're recording this episode out

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Speaker 2: of Atlantern, Georgia. Sure, so now you can let him

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Speaker 2: by a belt bibe five six months?

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Speaker 1: Yes, So what's it like?

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Speaker 2: And hel I realize the Southern hospitality ate so hospitality atalist.

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Speaker 1: It ain't given what they said it was given.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's because I god damn too much.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they thought the sweet tea was

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Speaker 2: gonna make up for it.

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Speaker 1: But these people is really slow out here.

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Speaker 2: They're slow, like they're slow and they don't want to

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Speaker 2: be a goddamn work And I stay that, Oh.

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Speaker 1: I see that.

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Speaker 2: But I'm gonna say the Southern hospitality is a little

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Speaker 2: different because there's it's so warm, like they're so warm

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Speaker 2: and loving, like I had a terrible way for wait,

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Speaker 2: who's warm and loving?

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Speaker 1: So I had some sushi in the airport because I

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Speaker 1: was like, airport sushi and the airport is nothing.

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Speaker 2: You want to know what's crazy, diabolical bitch in a

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Speaker 2: Tulum airport there's a Michevan's dark sushi restaurant.

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Speaker 1: You weren't talking about.

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Speaker 2: I just I'm trying to defend myself because what I

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Speaker 2: called my niggas told me the sushi said, I thought

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Speaker 2: you was still there for big.

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Speaker 1: It was just a tilly rope bitch. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: So the girl brought something else out and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is what I ordered. Could I also get that

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Speaker 2: water and bring you out? Did I say I was

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Speaker 2: gonna bring your baby? Why you ain't say nothing to me?

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Speaker 2: You know it's crazy, And I was like, she's so cute.

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you, sir, ma'am, and David is

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Speaker 2: not making up for incompetence, beach.

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Speaker 1: What I tell.

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Speaker 2: You, bro, I had bitched christ.

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Speaker 1: Like because here's the thing. In New York, they'd be

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Speaker 1: a fish in this pup.

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Speaker 2: They'd be like they with best because bitch, they got

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Speaker 2: fifty eleven people that they motherfucker got bet and they

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Speaker 2: get paid, get paid.

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Speaker 1: Some down here is like, bitch, So is that why

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Speaker 1: you like that one job? You said? What is that?

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Speaker 1: Why you like that one spot that we went to

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Speaker 1: because there was sad? This isn't is it crazy? Great?

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Speaker 1: Which one? Did I take your favorite? Another place that

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Speaker 1: we just went to? By by that spot? Yeah, don't

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Speaker 1: give it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what kind of food is it?

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Speaker 2: It don't matter because you'd be liking the safe s

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Speaker 2: didn't it? Didn't you given the team more work and

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Speaker 2: pulse because I'd be like, hey, bleep that ship, the wheezy.

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Speaker 1: Motherfucker barbacue this barbecue.

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Speaker 4: That's it?

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Speaker 1: I say, barbecue spot. But let me tell you you're

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Speaker 1: talking about my Atlanta spot.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that one was because we said at the

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Speaker 2: bar and the bartenders no meat first, they do. Okay,

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Speaker 2: because in Atlanta that toast o lytic. Shit, really do

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Speaker 2: hit that mother fucker Fried Snapper. But the service, That's

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I said all of that to

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Speaker 2: say it's been different living down here because I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, what do you love and what do you oh?

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Speaker 1: What do I love about Atlanta Georgia?

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Speaker 2: Actually something too that my boyfriend really enjoyed because he's

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Speaker 2: home here than anywhere. Also, maybe the audience doesn't know,

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Speaker 2: this is my third time living in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: So I went to.

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Speaker 2: High school here shout out to Lakeside. So I lived

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Speaker 2: here in five oh six, moved back here two thousand

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Speaker 2: Completely different Atlanta than when I went to high school

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Speaker 2: he's on a Patriot episode. He's from Atlanta, and like

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Speaker 2: he says, every time he's here and he needs people's age.

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Speaker 2: He has constant conversations about like this new Atlanta, Old Atlanta,

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Speaker 1: What was the thing?

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Speaker 2: So, I would say, my favorite part about being here,

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Speaker 1: The belt line. Oh you said? You walk in all

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Speaker 1: the time, three times a week minimum, and me and

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Speaker 1: my best friend do it. How long is it? Long

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Speaker 1: as fuck? It's like long as fuck? Like how long

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Speaker 1: does it take it a walk?

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Speaker 2: Because my best friend parks the car, we go a

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Speaker 2: doing about two point three.

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Speaker 1: Miles every time we walk. That's good.

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Speaker 2: I love the ability to be so close to my

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Speaker 2: friends I've been friends with for ten years plus.

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Speaker 1: So even on Easter, my best.

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Speaker 2: Friend Taylor, who has been my friend since tenth grade,

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Speaker 2: we went to high school together here in Atlanta. She cooked,

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Speaker 2: so we went over there and it was just like

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Speaker 2: it just felt really good. I also like too that

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Speaker 2: everyone has houses, because like, you can hang out in

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Speaker 2: people's houses, which is much cheaper than going out. Well

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Speaker 2: what I mean you don't do in New York. I

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Speaker 2: wasn't going to people's houses. No, niggas live with people.

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Speaker 1: It's small. It's like people's houses. No, man, he's not

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Speaker 1: as comfortable. You're not as comfortable.

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Speaker 2: What I don't like is the service here. The service

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Speaker 2: is terrible. Everywhere. Everyone is angry, upset. I get it tariffs,

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Speaker 2: but it's fucking like people don't seem happy here, which

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Speaker 2: is crazy because you assume that in New York everyone's

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Speaker 2: and they say, just like a standard possible, But I

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Speaker 2: expected like it to just be more hospitable. But no, really,

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Speaker 2: like when you think about it, or has some of

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Speaker 2: the best restaurants in the world. Yeah, when you set

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Speaker 2: a standard, people know how to follow through, right, And

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Speaker 2: who has the Atlanta standard?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Like I'm waiting. I do like just

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Speaker 1: so eat food is here because I don't go as often.

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Speaker 2: I will shout out some of the restaurants that I

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Speaker 2: have been into in Atlanta that I really like, food

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Speaker 2: wise and service wise. A sushi, which is my favorite restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I always come here, and they're Roomies. Roomies is Mediterranean.

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Speaker 2: They have one in Colony Square and another one but

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Speaker 2: those I experienced.

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Speaker 1: It, and I mean I'll go try them. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: this is the worst Nobuo of all the Noboos I've

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Speaker 1: ever had. Bitch oh I did it.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I can't talk to you because they paid me

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Speaker 2: to go, but okay, yeah, anyway, not as crazy. It

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Speaker 2: was different restaurant, but yeah, there was a You just

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Speaker 2: made me think of something when you said community what

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Speaker 2: it feels like?

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Speaker 1: You don't how munch of black people.

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Speaker 2: So I, as you guys probably know, my partner and

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Speaker 2: I plan a date night once a month.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday, now I'm under the weather. Yesterday was my day

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Speaker 1: to play in date night.

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Speaker 2: So I found I wanted to because we love music,

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Speaker 2: so I thought, let me break down music that we love.

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Speaker 2: So the first spot was a listening place, like a

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Speaker 2: listening bar, and this is very popular in New York.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to say it because they getting

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Speaker 2: too cool. But you type in listening where, I'm sure

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Speaker 1: Found one that played all blues. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Then the next one was what we were gonna eat,

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Speaker 2: and he loves Caribbean food, so that would be reggae

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Speaker 1: And the next place was a jazz bar.

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Speaker 2: So when we get to the Caribbean spot, it's called

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Speaker 2: Mango Bay. The food was great, okay, that's why I'm

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Speaker 2: shouting it out and He's like, oh, I've been here

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Speaker 2: before when it was Emani's and he's like, this place

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Speaker 2: bring me a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of memories right now. Yeah, I used to love

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Speaker 1: it here, and I'm like memories, Like what here you go?

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Speaker 1: Wait that bitch, hey what I know? Brou He was like, no,

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Speaker 1: this was like my first date spot when I was young. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I was like all right, and.

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Speaker 2: Then he's looking at me and he's like, why baby,

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Speaker 2: Like I haven't been since there's a new men her.

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Speaker 1: New stuff like that I have a bone to pick

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Speaker 2: Okay ahead, because chill out, see And I realized I

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Speaker 2: was like, okay, maybe I sound silly, weird fucking Everybody's

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Speaker 3: Strong example that I had not that long ago. Right,

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Speaker 3: So I don't want to say it was her birthday?

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Speaker 1: Right? She wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: This girl wanted to go see a ladder, right, Okay, Broadway,

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Speaker 3: simple Broadway, Disney, cute.

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Speaker 1: Magic carpet, Genie p It is lucky. My point is

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Speaker 1: is that what a Q experience.

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Speaker 3: She's like, oh my god, I want to see it,

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Speaker 3: sobod I'm like cool, right, I'm here, I'm about to

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Speaker 3: go get his ship.

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Speaker 1: But did you see it already? Is it a problem

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Speaker 1: really that I want to go see with another bitch?

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Speaker 3: Isn't a problem that I want to go see it

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Speaker 3: already now when you want to see it so bad?

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Speaker 3: And I saw it like years ago, years ago, years ago,

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Speaker 3: years ago.

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Speaker 1: Then he had to do the whole same thing. I

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Speaker 1: may not even been here since like twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 2: It was no, I don't say that though, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't see that's the That's what a lot of

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Speaker 2: you guys up with a date because that was pretty light.

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Speaker 1: It don't matter.

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Speaker 3: It don't matter because for a girl, I don't care.

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Speaker 3: It could be thirty years I could have been dead.

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Speaker 1: It don't matter. Like they're gonna think came matter.

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Speaker 2: No, your body is before the pandemic are eras well.

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Speaker 2: We talked about like the best beaches you ever bring

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Speaker 2: to the race.

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Speaker 1: It's not like race.

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Speaker 2: One of the best beaches I ever been to was Antigua. Okay,

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Speaker 2: did you wave there with that bitch? He's like, no,

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Speaker 2: but I really want us to go. I think you'll

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Speaker 2: love it. Why I don't need to love it? You know,

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Speaker 2: beaches are on the road. On the difference The difference

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Speaker 2: is that she wanted to go to the Land. I

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Speaker 2: know that south crazy. I know she wanted to go

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Speaker 2: to Latin though, and I'm here like, I'm with it.

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Speaker 2: Like, fuck, so I'm not giving you this new thing

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Speaker 1: In my life. Okay, so very like, let me say this.

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Speaker 1: Is that not natural?

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Speaker 1: Actually, no, I'm not mad at you Ador.

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Speaker 2: What's he and we just if you let's just man

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Speaker 2: if the bifth that he used to fuck is on stage,

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Speaker 1: It's just I'm actually saying this. Alex is going to

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Speaker 2: So we ordered Chinese food. We decided to watch We

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, baby, I really think I'm choking.

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Speaker 2: we ordered a sandwich, literally ordered it. You ain't breaded out, No, girl.

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Speaker 2: Was you an ambulance? He drives right, let's stays out

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Speaker 2: prove to me you're going to a hospital. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, my boyfriend's right outside. He's like, you need

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Speaker 1: I got my phone. Do you know what it's like that?

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Speaker 1: Remember something? I spot? Bitch. I'm like six four six

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Speaker 6: he's like, no, baby, I don't it's fine.

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Speaker 2: He dropped me off at triage. I get to the

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Speaker 2: getting worse. And the woman's like, quick question, he suffered

439
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Speaker 2: from anxiety And I'm like no, no, so because my

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Speaker 2: chest was hurting.

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Speaker 1: Did they hooked me up to this? Ekg oh my god,

442
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Speaker 1: min Gi. I'm in the middle.

443
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Speaker 2: Everybody's looking at me too. It's like they know there's

444
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Speaker 2: no curtains. This is like emergency triage. In the room,

445
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Speaker 2: there's like thirty people looking at me. They're hooking me

446
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Speaker 2: up to all these tabs, all these things on my

447
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Speaker 2: fingers and then finally a nurse comes over and she's like,

448
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Speaker 2: where do you feel it?

449
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Speaker 1: I point to where I feel it. She's like, let

450
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Speaker 1: me put gloves on. She did some kind of trick

451
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Speaker 1: with my throat. Bitch.

452
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Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of dick sucking tip this is,

453
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Speaker 2: but it opened it up and it got it out right,

454
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Speaker 2: so I felt it go away. But now I'm like, fuck,

455
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Speaker 2: I'm hooked up to all these machines. Do I keep

456
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Speaker 2: this whole shirt?

457
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Speaker 4: No?

458
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Speaker 2: She solved the problem, so I'm like, I think it's fixed.

459
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Speaker 2: And they're like, well we have chess fancy of this

460
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Speaker 2: day and I'm like okay, and I'm like, oh my god.

461
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Speaker 2: Now my boyfriend's walking in after he parked the car,

462
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Speaker 2: and I'm sitting there and I'm just like, ooh, do

463
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Speaker 2: I hunch over? So he's not like this bitch got

464
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Speaker 2: off fund the house at three in the morning, Eat

465
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Speaker 2: Chinese food girl and the doctor came over.

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Speaker 1: She was like, so it was a chicken wing. I

467
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Speaker 1: was like, I never told you it was chicken. I

468
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Speaker 1: said it was food.

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Speaker 2: You raise his horror and she was like, well, we're

470
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Speaker 2: gonna hook give to some IVSA back.

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Speaker 1: I said, oh no, no, I don't need to pack

472
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Speaker 1: this much. I feel better, I yelled. I say, don't

473
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Speaker 1: m I around me. Don't girl, don't know better? Don't

474
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Speaker 1: you sell me?

475
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Speaker 2: No more tests? Wow, bitch, we get a car and

476
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Speaker 2: I was like, when you walked in there, you saw

477
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Speaker 2: this feeling bad?

478
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Speaker 1: Yes, I did. I thought myself. I knew if this

479
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Speaker 1: bitch was waiting one more meet, she would have burked

480
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Speaker 1: it up. Girl was so we got hold at four

481
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Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning.

482
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Speaker 2: Beach really was out three hours dealing with emergency room

483
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Speaker 2: shape because I was choking.

484
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Speaker 1: And I just want to say shout out to this

485
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Speaker 1: thing of being a trooper. Because I literally looked at him.

486
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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, bitch, just be like,

487
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Speaker 1: would you love me if I was a word that

488
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Speaker 1: is you. I was looking at him. I was like,

489
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Speaker 1: you know I was in the hospitals. Look at me

490
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Speaker 1: like you hated me or you love me. He's like, boo, baby,

491
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Speaker 1: what the fuck? Dog?

492
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Speaker 2: Choking is close to drowning though, Oh no, lie, like

493
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Speaker 2: this is well yeah, if you ever chosen on the

494
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Speaker 2: bone or saw the asphyxiation, oh my god.

495
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Speaker 1: There was literally crying.

496
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I think it wasn't looking die I was

497
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Speaker 2: so scared. And apparently the doctor said, when you have braces,

498
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Speaker 2: a lot of people forget to chew their food because

499
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Speaker 2: you have to chew it like double.

500
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Speaker 1: How do you forget if you got to do it double?

501
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Speaker 2: Because naturally when you're eating, you don't chew that much,

502
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Speaker 2: but it's harder to break down the food. Crazy anyway,

503
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Speaker 2: So that was my new adventure. Also shout out to

504
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Speaker 2: the nurse that you need very embarrassing when they look

505
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Speaker 2: me up to ekg.

506
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Speaker 1: She walking by a little clip where and she was like, wheezy,

507
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Speaker 1: I tell She looked twice and I was like, girl,

508
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Speaker 1: get me in and out.

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Speaker 8: I heard.

510
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Speaker 1: You a hazard.

511
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Speaker 2: Literally at this point, you are a hazard. It's time

512
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Speaker 2: we in the studio. Is something medical?

513
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Speaker 7: Is it?

514
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Speaker 1: Am? I?

515
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Speaker 2: Breaking the brace is choking on a bone? Allegedly, Well,

516
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Speaker 2: I'm ready to get rid of these braces. And then

517
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Speaker 2: you know what he said to me, trying to try

518
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Speaker 2: to be funny but not be funny.

519
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Speaker 1: When we got home, he was real quiet.

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Speaker 2: He was like, I feel like you're the type of

521
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Speaker 2: person that needs the top of the premium insurance. If

522
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Speaker 2: we're gonna be doing that, if we're gonna be going

523
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Speaker 2: to the hospital.

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Speaker 1: You need the best of it. You don't need no

525
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Speaker 1: little bullshit like you got. We might need to put

526
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Speaker 1: you in a bubble.

527
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Speaker 2: Literally there was some boy not bubble boy is crazy, bro,

528
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Speaker 2: Well then you really don't.

529
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Speaker 1: Like skin, bro. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: Me and Brehanna, I was like with you, Mohama's anxiety

531
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Speaker 2: I have because I'm on birth control.

532
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Speaker 1: Like, so you do have anxiety? No, no, but you

533
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Speaker 1: told me to a medical a lot of medical. I'm

534
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Speaker 1: an anxiety girl. Hello, but as you trying to say

535
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Speaker 1: it gas lighting chalk, you said no, I had got anxiety.

536
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Speaker 5: You lied.

537
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Speaker 1: I also live. When they asked me, I have to

538
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Speaker 1: be lied sext me? WHOA you should not be ashamed?

539
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Speaker 1: How dare you live in your truth? I don't know.

540
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Speaker 2: You know they only have people lot Oh, they don't

541
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Speaker 2: have your lifetime. When you go which people have you

542
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Speaker 2: had sex within your lifetime? That's what I feel that

543
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Speaker 2: though I do ask you a question last twelve then

544
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Speaker 2: they say men or women, and then you say both. Well,

545
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Speaker 2: y'all say both, Sorry.

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Speaker 1: They had it, Paul.

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Speaker 2: Okay, y'all have after our catchup every episode, so we're

548
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Speaker 2: gonna be doing something fun we're gonna give you snippets edit,

549
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Speaker 2: and Mandy gives me a number, and I'm gonna read some.

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Speaker 1: Things, or I'll give you one ear Okay, give me

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Speaker 1: a number. Sixty nine? Is it mine of yours? Course?

552
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Speaker 1: Sixty nine? So sixty nine comes from mine chapter.

553
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Speaker 2: Ooh. Up until the age of thirteen or fourteen, I

554
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Speaker 2: had no idea about almost anything when it came to

555
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Speaker 2: sex besides insert penis and vagina.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna get, Like, I need to wage.

557
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Speaker 1: This is my chapter. Can I put it back there?

558
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Speaker 1: Can you put it back? Yeah? It's me talking about

559
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Speaker 1: all of my ups and.

560
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Speaker 2: Downs and unlearning problematic ways in which we learned about

561
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Speaker 2: anal sex and my thoughts around and me acknowledging my

562
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Speaker 2: own homophobia.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was a good chapter. Can I put

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Speaker 1: it back there?

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Speaker 2: Give me a number. I'm going to eighty six. I'm

566
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Speaker 2: going to give you the number one hundred and twelve. Okay,

567
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Speaker 2: I think number two one.

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Speaker 1: Twelve that is creative. Oh oh, okay, this is just

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Speaker 1: so oh this kind of sad.

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Speaker 7: Oh this is when the page stops her. Oh no, okay, yeah,

571
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Speaker 7: matter it got dark. Give me, give me, give me

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Speaker 7: no no, no, don't read it. Give me forty two. Okay,

573
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Speaker 7: no'm mine, give me forty nine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, get us out of here. Oh, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: hold Okay, this is funny. The first word on the page,

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Speaker 1: it's Mandy's What the fuck is this?

577
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Speaker 2: It was so interesting that I found this feeling of

578
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Speaker 2: safety and complete ease with two strangers, and I decided to.

579
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Speaker 1: Say fuck it yet again? Nice, yes, good s.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy because and I'll share with you guys, I

581
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Speaker 2: have wrapped filming the audible version of this, and I

582
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Speaker 2: assume Weze just landed in the pain chapter. So I

583
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Speaker 2: chose because they were the easiest ones for me to write,

584
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Speaker 2: because I was like, so for the pain chapter, you

585
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Speaker 2: chose paying to read first.

586
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Speaker 1: I chose pain first. Damn Beach, Sorry, I am reading my.

587
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Speaker 2: It was my damn I can't remember now it was

588
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Speaker 2: either my abortion chapter or my sexual I believe it

589
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Speaker 2: was my sexual assault chapter. I get done reading it,

590
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Speaker 2: I come out of the booth and the engineer is

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Speaker 2: sobbing oh and like, and I don't want to do

592
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Speaker 2: black girl. So I'm through my pain chapter and she

593
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Speaker 2: has no idea what she's recording.

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Speaker 1: Bitch.

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Speaker 2: They record Future and ran pur Nigga's in the studio,

596
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Speaker 2: so she has no clue.

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Speaker 1: She's just on the schedule recording Black Girl shout out

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Speaker 1: to her.

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Speaker 2: I come out to the studio and she's like, I

600
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Speaker 2: need a break because normally they take breaks based on me.

601
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Speaker 2: And she's like, can I get a hug? And she's sobbing,

602
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: and she's like and she's like, this book is so important,

603
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Speaker 2: thank you, And I'm just like, like, I'm now crying

604
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: because so daring reading this. There's two chapters where I

605
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 2: literally start crying reading it. In mind, you didn't cry

606
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 2: writing it, but as I read it, because I'm talking

607
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: from the voice of myself and talking to my mom

608
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Speaker 2: or myself, talking to people who made me feel like

609
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 2: I should expect my sexual assault, And as I'm reading

610
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Speaker 2: the words, I literally start choking up and bitch, your

611
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: voice can't be cracking for the audiobook?

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Speaker 1: Do they keep it what they do?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. Of all the things we've done,

614
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 2: reading this book for you, y' all literally is one

615
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 2: of the most mentally draining and hardest things I think

616
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: I've ever had to done. With the Freedom podcast, it's literally, well,

617
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: we're only doing the shared chapters bitch hard as fuck,

618
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Speaker 2: like I was hitting on my best friend, Like, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I need a drink.

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Speaker 1: We need to read Negotia. No bitch when I tell you,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, we ain't get paid enough. That shit was hard.

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Speaker 2: So if you guys did not know, No Holes Bart

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Speaker 2: is also available on audible. Audibly however you listen to

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Speaker 2: your audiobooks kindle all of that. Do also purchase the hardcover.

625
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: And also we're going on tour bringing the pages to

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Speaker 2: the stages. Make sure you come and support us for

627
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: the No Holes Bar Tour. Well, let's lighten it up

628
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: with some reactionary bullshit. Okay, I actually want to show

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Speaker 2: y'all to de Lulu clips, not to de Lulu.

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Speaker 8: This is the first Okay, I had a radical heart

631
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Speaker 8: shift from that moment I got in my word under

632
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Speaker 8: my word, I just completely changed as a person. And

633
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 8: I realized that God loves me, that God has a

634
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Speaker 8: purpose and plan for my life, that God chose me,

635
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Speaker 8: that I'm fearfully and wonderfully made. So he would call

636
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 8: me out my name, it wouldn't bother me because I

637
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 8: allowed God's voice to be louder than his. And when

638
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 8: I was going through transition of him not coming home

639
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 8: on the weekends, not being there, telling me I hate you,

640
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 8: I'll never love you. I wish I never married you.

641
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Speaker 8: I knew that life and death is in the power

642
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 8: of the tongue through the word of God. So I

643
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 8: would say, you will love me one day. We will

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Speaker 8: have a good marriage one day. And although he would

645
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Speaker 8: go out for weekends, I would literally help him get

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Speaker 8: ready to go meet his side check by ironing his

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Speaker 8: clothes and getting him ready for the night. And these

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Speaker 8: are all things I was grace to do. I would

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Speaker 8: not encourage anybody to do that unless you are.

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Speaker 1: Graced by God to do this. But once I knew

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Speaker 1: who I was, I realized, now here's why. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: sinners is there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you said what you gotta say, and I'm gonna

654
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Speaker 2: say what I gotta say because I might lean a

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Speaker 2: little bit.

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Speaker 1: At this point. Everyone's seeing sinners right the reason of

657
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: anything thinking about sinners.

658
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: I was like, yo, okay. So I told a friend

659
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: who is very scared of scaring movies.

660
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: Don't worry. God kind of wins in the end.

661
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,479
Speaker 2: But they said that on a call with black effect,

662
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: and they said, bitch, don't tell us the end, but

663
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: he doesn't win in the end now because when Sammy's praying.

664
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: Hold on Brone, people may still haven't seen it, y'all.

665
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: That ship right now.

666
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 2: But when he's praying, they're not dying from the prayer.

667
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 2: They dying from the sunset. And it just kind of

668
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 2: exposes how bullshitty church fo guard. This woman was a pastor.

669
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: This is not people that believe in God, by the way,

670
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 2: church fulk and y'all know, it wasn't talking about you're.

671
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: Telling me God made you do this, although in the

672
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: Bible don't they talk about you?

673
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: Okay, because from what I know, when you guys make

674
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: the vow to be with each other, to honor each other,

675
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: how is one thing that God wants for you? Not

676
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: the save as the vows she made that day. And

677
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 2: it's a big disappointment to watch somebody who's leading a

678
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 2: congregation and telling us what she would allow someone to

679
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: do to her because God wanted it. So when I

680
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: heard her speak of this, I think first time, y'all know,

681
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: I think religion is a cult. That's my views and

682
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: thoughts on that. However, what I got from this clip

683
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: is that she is using the name of God to

684
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 2: save her. Sure, Nope, to explain her her non monogamous

685
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 2: viewpoint on relationships. The fact that you were ironing your

686
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: man's clothes to go see his side, chick, is just

687
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 2: you using God as an excuse to actually say that

688
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: you're okay. But I didn't get that because she brought

689
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 2: up him cursing her out, well, it didn't seem like

690
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 2: she was well. And then he stepped out, he cheated.

691
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: I knew you'd come back and be a good husband

692
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 2: to me, I'll let you go like that to me

693
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: was God said that you would come back to me. Ah, bitch,

694
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you go do what you want to

695
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: do because I'm gonna stay here, whether you chating.

696
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: On me or not, whether you're a good partner or not.

697
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: To me, is actually her using God as an excuse

698
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 2: to admit that she don't really love herself. She doesn't

699
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 2: believe she deserves better. She loves this nigga through anything,

700
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: and the fact that you fucking on another bitch don't

701
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: bother me. So let me just sit here and say

702
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 2: God's voice when she talks.

703
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: About how he treated her like he was calling me

704
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: out of it.

705
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 2: That's part where she doesn't believe she deserves better, so

706
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 2: she gonna put up with the nigga she love A

707
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: God said.

708
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: Okay, now here's a comment that I think is insane.

709
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 2: Love you though, Jay Murphy, He said, it sounds very wild,

710
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: but it also sounds like she was very serious about

711
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 2: the covenant she made with God despite the infidelity. Marriages

712
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 2: are spiritual legal agreements in the spiritual world as well

713
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: as the physical until death. To us part literally means

714
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: death is the only thing that can separate, and nowadays

715
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 2: we're accustomed to divorce for our own reasons that hold

716
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 2: validity in our eyes. But when people stay and fight,

717
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 2: sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. She stayed the

718
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: fuck down and didn't have to. Seems delusional, but it's

719
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: a true reflection of her character and heart. Most women

720
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: wouldn't last a day in her shoes because they would

721
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 2: have been checked out. And that's fine too, you know what.

722
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: I was like, Kobe, can we all sing? Can we

723
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: call a spade a spade?

724
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: What? It sounded more crazy, but we absolutely accepted when

725
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 2: Gia said it, I asked her why she didn't leave

726
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: the marriage after and be cheated on her?

727
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: And what did she say? Just for the kids.

728
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 9: And she said the only explanation and I thought it,

729
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 9: but God, God is because God, and he admitted he

730
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 9: cheated that.

731
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 2: Nikola was sitting right there being saying, yo, yo're talking

732
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: about forgiveness with God like in my opinion, I don't

733
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: know if you heard that, but to me, when she

734
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 2: brought up God, it was like, Hey, I found forgive forgiveness.

735
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: This to me, she just didn't say. She said she

736
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: was graced by God the iron close to another beach

737
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 2: because because through God he didn't know, but through God

738
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 2: she got through it. Really, but that's what I'm saying

739
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: to me, it's the same thing. One sounds nicer than

740
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 2: the other. One is explained differently because they both speak differently.

741
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: She sounds a lot more preachy, Gilla said, said it

742
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: in a way that was I think more digestible for

743
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: us to not question. I think it was probably relatable

744
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 2: to because a lot of times in a hard relationships,

745
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 2: I'm pulling up another Delulu clus but a lot of

746
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 2: times and and also Gia didn't sound Alulu to me.

747
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: That's why I said, it's the way she's sounding. This

748
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 2: woman sounds more preachy and leaning into God is the

749
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 2: all great manners. So why she's accepting bullshit?

750
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: But she said.

751
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: Accepting bullshit while Gia was forgiving, accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit.

752
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: No, I don't see a huge line with that. Let's

753
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: agree to disagree on this.

754
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 2: Accepting bullshit and forgiving bullshit. What is the difference to you,

755
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 2: okay and accepting that something happened and forgiving it?

756
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: Are they not the same? Here's the difference to me.

757
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: Forgiveness means you've approached me with a mistake you made, okay,

758
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: I you aren't going to do it again, and a

759
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 1: mistake is not falling into other pussy. But if you

760
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: want to use mistakes, sure.

761
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 2: Sure, But whatever it is, like you, you did something wrong, Okay,

762
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 2: you did, You're not want you don't want to do

763
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: it again.

764
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 1: You're owning up to it. Fine. Accepting bullshit looks like

765
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: if Envy was having Gia.

766
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: I in the fucking clothes and call it her a

767
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 2: bitching horror in the middle of you, because that's what

768
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 2: this nigga is saying. I do not think the two.

769
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously their situation isn't as crazy. That's probably

770
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 2: why it's bad. But yeah, maybe in that scenario. Okay,

771
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: here's another crazy couple. I don't know if y'all remember

772
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: this as an old clip too.

773
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: There was a big infidelity in New York that took

774
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: me ten years to heal from ten years ten years, and.

775
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: We would go through the motions because with that infidelity,

776
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,479
Speaker 4: who you don't want to wish it on your worst enemy.

777
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: We had to experience murder through that.

778
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 4: I was held at gunpoint with my own gun and

779
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 4: watched the mistresses I was living with at that time

780
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 4: killed in front of me, which she had to bear

781
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 4: that burden too. We lost our home to marson. Then

782
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: an innocent person was killed rushing to the fire of

783
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 4: our house burning down. Because of our mess, it was.

784
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 2: Hard to get through and we had we had some

785
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 2: counseling and we felt that we were now.

786
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: Here's so, as the story does, bitches, and it is,

787
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: the lives was lost because you couldn't keep your dicking

788
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: your beans. Is she still there?

789
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 2: Here's here's what Apparently, as the story goes, the mistress

790
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: had someone come get her, killed her, lit their house off.

791
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,879
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was one, and the mistress said,

792
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: who come get what? Explain this to me? Okay?

793
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 2: So the mistress set him up for robbery, okay, and

794
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: the robbers off the mistress.

795
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: Damn bitch? What yes?

796
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 2: And from what apparently reports are the husband and the

797
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: wife's house burnt down from another mistress because who just

798
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 2: set their house on fire? Probably another bitch that was

799
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: apparently it had to do with the setup. So just

800
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 2: because this nigga cheated, they lost their home, a bitch

801
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 2: lost their life.

802
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: Whoever came to put the fire out they died too.

803
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: And now you're telling me because you want a new

804
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: pussy that bad.

805
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 4: No.

806
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: But also she's still with him. At what point do

807
00:37:51,160 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: we say, now, what load is about that holds you?

808
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 2: Was living in a mistress and that bitch sets y'all

809
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 2: ass okay till death? It was part no kill me, No, no,

810
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: that is you know what. I ain't gonna hold you.

811
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: My spirit will live.

812
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 4: I will.

813
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: I want to know how.

814
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 2: She had to have moved out the city, made all

815
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 2: new friends, got a new job, and disowned her family,

816
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 2: because I don't see how she could be sitting next

817
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: to the nigga that calls all that she said and

818
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: everyone just is like, look each other said it through this?

819
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: She said, I mean you know it took us a

820
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: while to get through it. I'm trying to pull up

821
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: the comments because a lot of people have shi how

822
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 2: do you get through Nigga? Two people died and you

823
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 2: lost your house. I don't know how you get through it.

824
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,919
Speaker 2: Obviously a lot of therapy, but therapy in the goddamn world.

825
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 2: And to me, well, here's the thing. You probably traumab

826
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 2: on through the whole thing you do, so the whole

827
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: time is going on. He got fighting you, nigga, You

828
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 2: make it it seem like we got through this this

829
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: mishap together.

830
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: Nigga.

831
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: You on the col bridge, you caused all this ship

832
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 2: and now I gotta go through this ship with you.

833
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: And that's the thing.

834
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 2: He just saw someone die, So now he's like, oh

835
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 2: my god, baby, you know what's crazy?

836
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: Someone said, made hold on, now, hold on?

837
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 2: I mean, bro, she was consoling him over the loss

838
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: of his mistress. Not he was probably crying to her

839
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 2: mad that he lost the pussy.

840
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: But it's not even that. Maybe because he just saw

841
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: someone die, it's traumatic. The bitch that he was fucking

842
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: that he probably liked just as much as hurt, or

843
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: even a little more more. Man, he was crying on herd.

844
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 1: You're so sad, b no ship traumatic deeds nuts.

845
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 5: I just lost wait, just lost my better tonsha, I

846
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 5: just lost lost the woman Like what didn't y'all were saying,

847
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 5: when motherfucker Angela Tasha?

848
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:05,919
Speaker 2: Please, I'm grieving the love of my life to y'all,

849
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: Remember that Nigga said that this will go like that.

850
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 2: This is really staying to make her life.

851
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: Either Puerto rican as shit. Listen, that wasn't good. We

852
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: don't know what mistress looks. Okay, wait, so some people

853
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: are saying, oh, this is the story that she set

854
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: him up. Is a rumor. Other people are fighting, but

855
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: it says that's what he said. May have happened.

856
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 2: For all we know, the killer was telling uh that

857
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 2: that story is to bring suspicions away from him.

858
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 1: Oh wait, maybe he killed her. This is tea.

859
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: The three robbers were never confirmed. The police can't even

860
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 2: prove there were three robbers.

861
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: Mind you. They threatened him with a gun, his gun,

862
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: but decided to stab her and slit her throat. Wait

863
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: a second, you want to know who this reminds me of?

864
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 2: Eden? I don't know if you can fet check because

865
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: I don't have my phone. There's a really big I

866
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 2: just watched this documentary. There's a big time football player

867
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 2: who ended up dying, and the story is the Spanish nigga.

868
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, that's Aaron Fernandez nigga. He was

869
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: killing niggas. Yeah, all right, So the.

870
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 2: Story is this football player was married, who had a

871
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: whole nother house and mistress and everything. This young bitch

872
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: that he met at like Twin Peaks or some shit

873
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 2: like that. Kea and the dying come to find out,

874
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 2: she says, they claim that it's another nigga. X y

875
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 2: Z come to find out her other lover and her

876
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 2: the mistress went and killed him. Oh because she was

877
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: He was trying to break up with her and they

878
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: tried to put it on a whole nother nigga, but yeah,

879
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 2: the mistress.

880
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: All I know is there was a false story created.

881
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: It's on Netflix. Look up football players killed by mistress.

882
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: Steven mnick. Bitch Not I didn't even Netflix. Steve McNair, No,

883
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't need to watch it before I go to

884
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: been a loon girl. Ain't scary. It's real life. They

885
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: realized jealous girlfriends. He was scared.

886
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 2: Jill killed by jealous hotel room and I started just

887
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: scary stuff popular, so stuff like this. If those three

888
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: robbers were never found that nigga might be a psychopath.

889
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,359
Speaker 2: He probably killed the mistress because the mistress was gonna

890
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: tell the wife, I'd have seen a lot of motherfucking

891
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 2: life timeh Someone said, this has been ten years old,

892
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 2: and there's so many misinformed stories over the years. Someone

893
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 2: else said, girl, I googled it and the blogs got it.

894
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 2: He definitely said that.

895
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: HELDO hold on another story, because this is what I'd

896
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: be liking, y'all. Look up.

897
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 2: It's another documentary on Netflix, and it actually nigga, This

898
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 2: nigga who tried to kill his wife, who actually killed

899
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 2: his wife and tried to claim it a murder suicide

900
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: for insurance policy, ended up starting a whole race war

901
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 2: in Boston in the fucking eighties.

902
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: Look at it.

903
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 2: But literally all some lies. Bro, niggas will do whatever,

904
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 2: We'll do whatever for money. It's a covenan motherfucking lie.

905
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: So much money? Are you gonna kill me for it?

906
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: Can you tell the insurance he's trying to get it together?

907
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:59,240
Speaker 1: It was bro. Chuck Stewart, Chuck Stewart, Thank you, Chuck Stewart. Basting.

908
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: It literally started a whole race war and can can

909
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: I be so honest? There's two reasons I don't cheat,

910
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: only it should be way more on is that I

911
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: don't want to like die.

912
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 3: Because I feel like cheating bill and has caused a

913
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 3: lot of people to be murdered. And two, I don't

914
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 3: think i'd be good at it. Yeah, might, she didn't

915
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 3: kind of hard.

916
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: You will tell on me. I might tell on you

917
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: because my cheaters, But then I'm not gonna te your nerve.

918
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: As long as we've been having.

919
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 2: This spot, I'll tell you to open up swing, let

920
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 2: him go, get some more coochie, do something.

921
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: But be honest, I don't think. I don't think i'd

922
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 1: be good at it. Like my like my sub conscious

923
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: would like hurt like a lot.

924
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 2: I'm conscious all the cheating. I think the thing is

925
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: like stepping over your tracks. That becomes difficult, like think

926
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 2: about what I excuse me, I think about what I

927
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 2: was cheating.

928
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, damn.

929
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would tell them because what happened to me

930
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: for the day, And I told the same sir, Oh God,

931
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: bab let me, you just told me that, and I'll

932
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 2: be like, damn, I thought I was on my other

933
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: boyfriends like, yeah, well you know the way you just say, yeah,

934
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 2: I told her friend, but you told us on the

935
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 2: black Effect call.

936
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: No, I told a friend that told So you'd be

937
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 1: repeat a story. So that's okay. Yeah, so it makes sense.

938
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 2: Good babe, you know i'd be repeatd she I was

939
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: talking about whole good never again.

940
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

941
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: So let's take into Comma Sutra. What do you know

942
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 2: about commisations trip that on the cover of the books,

943
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 2: it be looking like that. Basically it's sexy.

944
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm gonna be like touch points and moving

945
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: and looking and like it's sexual. There's different positions, so

946
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: other positions.

947
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: I knew it was conversator as Indian physicians, not Indian position.

948
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 1: Okay, Well let me read it because there's more ship

949
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: to it that I did not know. Okay.

950
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: Comma Sutra is the Principles of love from ancient and

951
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 2: Hindu text so it can considered the oldest textbook in

952
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: Hindu autoerotic love, covering more than just sexual physicians, not

953
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 2: that bible on sex. Basically, I think like there's like

954
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: a bunch of books you could buy. It's like almost

955
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: like a calendar. Yeah, but The interesting thing is it

956
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 2: also includes aspects of love, love relates, my break, fifth love, relationships,

957
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: and the art of living.

958
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 1: The author but Sanyanayanada Malangara is believed to have compiled

959
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: and systematized this knowledge. Okay, here's what's crazy.

960
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 2: I thought it was all sexual and these people were

961
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: so free and Kavastuture is often shown as something liberal

962
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 2: and progressive.

963
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,919
Speaker 1: But it was only the sex part.

964
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: Because it's so many people in ancient times in India

965
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 2: and today that fall victim to the prejudices of this text.

966
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 2: It vets the cast system of it is and since

967
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 2: and it literally forbids intercast sex. What is?

968
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: What is the chasmics is like society right right, So

969
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 1: you can't talk someone social classes, social social classes. That's thinking.

970
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: That's better. So yeah, you can't fuck someone under your

971
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: social class based on commons.

972
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: I like that.

973
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: No you don't, Well, niggas don't deserve no asked, what

974
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: about rich niggas who want to fuck you? Mitch, I'm

975
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: rich out how rich? Rich and rich for blocks? And

976
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 1: what if the blacks is like period? What about Jason MoMA?

977
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: He ain white?

978
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 2: But I'm not fucking these white people within my community?

979
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 2: I'm doing very well, okay, So that's great.

980
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 1: Principles of love.

981
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 2: So in the first section they lay the groundwork of

982
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 2: the text by defining comma, which is the pursuit of

983
00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 2: desire okay, explaining that attraction and passion to connect to

984
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: the heart, which Mandy would like to hear because she

985
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: says she don't want to fuck know O beatings it

986
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 2: don't it don't. Understanding your own desires is actually the

987
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: key to a good life. The next one getting a partner.

988
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 2: The second section of Kava Sutra covers courtship and marriage,

989
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: in which he talks about the qualities to look for

990
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 2: a partner. Physical beauty is first, virtue, and then compatibility,

991
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 2: so me saying, and I know you did because iby

992
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: fucking niggas off they looks and I never sometimes get

993
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 2: to the third one. We don't be compatible, but as

994
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: long as we both are attracted, it's fine. Now we're

995
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 2: not compatible with being together, but I do believe in chemistry.

996
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: What was number two? Oh, physical beauty, virtue, and compatibility?

997
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: What the fuck is virtue? Is it their own ambition?

998
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

999
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't be talking about ambition when we talk about

1000
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 2: the dick. Now the dude on on before we get there.

1001
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: I do want to know what virtue is because virtue definition?

1002
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: Are we dumb?

1003
00:47:59,680 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 7: No?

1004
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: No, you google? Oh bitch behavior showing high moral standards? Oh,

1005
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I always got that. I've read you.

1006
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 2: If a bitch have a dated a drug dealer, you

1007
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 2: don't be looking at vice. You ever was a side

1008
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,240
Speaker 2: chick to a married nigga, you're not looking at virtue.

1009
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: That nigga might have a body under his belt. What morals?

1010
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? If he aka his taxes?

1011
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: What morals? That doesn't.

1012
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 2: Say?

1013
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: I'm like you see the snow a scare cannot be

1014
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 1: good verse rod we is. Oh that's a good one.

1015
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 7: Do you know?

1016
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:51,240
Speaker 2: Like that's how they say all of my people because

1017
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 2: they hated out turkeys, we could take away their bodies

1018
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 2: because they was feeding the place.

1019
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: That's robinhood.

1020
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 2: It's not Escobar was giving niggas turkeys and the caves.

1021
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: Well, no, he was killing yoholok, let's do alcohol.

1022
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 2: He is in the third sections about the duties in

1023
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 2: a marriage and he explains the role of a wife

1024
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: in the household and that is only to support the

1025
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: husband and the family.

1026
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: Wait, come a sutra gets in a marriage? Did not

1027
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 1: note that? Why then the next one other men's wives.

1028
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: The fourth text in this section they talk about cooking.

1029
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:36,720
Speaker 2: Sor is about extra marital relationships, seduction and desire beyond marriage.

1030
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 2: He explores the dynamics of attraction and infidelity and the

1031
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 2: motivations towards it in societal norms, and why many just

1032
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 2: seem deem it to be controversial. He says, it is

1033
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: meant to be about the many ways that people express

1034
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 2: love and desire.

1035
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,240
Speaker 1: It is human experience and connection.

1036
00:49:55,640 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 2: So human experience is like basically infidelity, is it, which

1037
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 2: is crazy because we want to talk about virtue. Yeah,

1038
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:04,919
Speaker 2: well not only that, no, but we also talk about

1039
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 2: ethical nominogamy a lot.

1040
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: So as long as you understand it's human nature and

1041
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: niggas could just be like, I'm I'm a man, so

1042
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: of course I'm gonna do it.

1043
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 2: But there's it's human nature to to be able to

1044
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: look at someone and be aroused to not have the

1045
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 2: wandering eye if your partners insecure and kids, and that

1046
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 2: exact fidelity sometimes goes back to religion, which this doesn't

1047
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 2: necessarily cover. Interesting, but he said to let him about

1048
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 2: the love expression itself. It is literally human experience and connection.

1049
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if we look this up, but is

1050
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 2: the is the Hindu religion much like Islam? Do they

1051
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 2: allow most wives and Hinduism? I don't know, but I

1052
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 2: mean it says other men's wives, so like it might be.

1053
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 2: Now the next session section is interesting and I love

1054
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 2: this one. It's about Cortison's. Do you know what a

1055
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 2: cortison is?

1056
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: The creep.

1057
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 2: It's a bitch selles pussy, not the court of zone cortisan.

1058
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 2: So it's a does about it in brothels today in Nevada.

1059
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: No no niggas because I'm watching hand mace tills.

1060
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 2: Okay, So women who held significant social power to in

1061
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 2: back in this time period for Hinduism describe skills and

1062
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 2: seductions and relationships with patrons. So he would give a

1063
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:23,439
Speaker 2: glimpse into dynamics of love and desires and how courtisans

1064
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 2: were also practical for this society because he believed that

1065
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 2: you do need to go out there and fuck people.

1066
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 2: And then the final text is seven and it's literally

1067
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 2: the positions. It encourages people to approach sex with love, curiosity,

1068
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 2: and passion and teaches you how to have physical pleasure

1069
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 2: beyond just the physical but psychological enjoyment. So if you

1070
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 2: look up all the positions, it's crazy because I thought

1071
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 2: khamistuture was just the positions.

1072
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 1: I mean, it means all this other shit.

1073
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 2: I do also want to add in Hinduism, they do

1074
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 2: not accept the practice of polygamy.

1075
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: And it's so funny my search. That said, otherwise, what

1076
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: is it? Well, what is your search? Are you talking

1077
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: about in India or are you talking about religious that?

1078
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hinduism is a text so in India, yes, because

1079
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 2: in India it's split between hint well, Hinduism, Buddhism and Islam.

1080
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 2: Like Muslim Islamic religio religion. The Islam religion does allow

1081
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 2: multiple wives.

1082
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, in India, because there's Islams. Bitch, I'm trying

1083
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: to South Park. Don't motherfuck the Latin Sorry I don't.

1084
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: I'm here, there's Islams.

1085
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 2: But also y'all already know the only Muslim experience I

1086
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: have is the Harlem girl.

1087
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: We tired asos are different? Please no war, Actually, no, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I'm in Atlanta now, I am in not one Muslim.

1089
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: Do you know how everybody has pork they're not here, bitch,

1090
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 2: I love it the great pork when I go in

1091
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 2: order as see what they say you want bacon. There

1092
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 2: is no question about the bacon down here.

1093
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: Is there any posit?

1094
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 2: They don't even know what alai Isn't you just say

1095
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 2: like hello, The only thing they got some veiggest spots.

1096
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: They got some plant based spots. That's the whole tips.

1097
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: That's it.

1098
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 2: But baby, when I say pork is an abundance down here,

1099
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm loving it. I'm loving it. Okay, Well, if you

1100
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 2: guys want to look up con, I would only go

1101
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,959
Speaker 2: to the positions because this other shit is a little

1102
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 2: too outdated for me.

1103
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:25,760
Speaker 1: Beach. You think it's out dating. I think.

1104
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 2: The idea that sex is super just for pleasure, like

1105
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: I think we're too much of conscious human beings now.

1106
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 2: And when you look up the fourth text, which he

1107
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: talks about the courtisions, like how they're like there's there's society,

1108
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 2: how they're needed in patriarchy and all this shit like

1109
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 2: we are sex workers. He's saying, yeah, patriarchy, I believe

1110
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: that right, But to me, it makes women more disposable.

1111
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: The wife's only thing is to support the family and

1112
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 2: keep the husband intact, there's nothing about women having sex

1113
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: for pleasure in here.

1114
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: This is male centered.

1115
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 2: I know it's males, but the overall notion though of it,

1116
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 2: And maybe it's because we can now express our desired

1117
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 2: need of pleasure. I think it's actually healthy and today

1118
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 2: to have a book teaching that sex can be just

1119
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 2: pleasurable instead of being for us. It's not maternal like

1120
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 2: in Christianity women should only have sex to bear children.

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00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 2: That's that's that, that's a sair point, you know what

1122
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 2: I mean to know something that old and says you

1123
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 2: can fuck for a pleasure. I think it's just that

1124
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 2: it's always at the expense of a woman having to

1125
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 2: bear the bright bullshit.

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00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: Well duh, because these niggas don't be doing the work.

1127
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: But also the Indian niggas all do it. Indian niggas

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00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: a'll do what you say.

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00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 2: Islam, the Muslims, the Protestants and the cat Now what

1130
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,720
Speaker 2: about the Chinese people from Sinners?

1131
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 1: What was they? It was Christian? Yeah, they were Christian too.

1132
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 2: They were she I don't think it was he was

1133
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 2: trying to go out there and get some much Nah,

1134
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 2: I ain't even go hold you. She did some bullshit

1135
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 2: but shall if you want to hear us discuss our

1136
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 2: take on the movie centers, we do cinema over on

1137
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 2: the Patreon where we break down our thoughts on movies,

1138
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 2: film symbolism, all the things.

1139
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: We did it like two months ago on.

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00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 2: Baby Girl with Nicole Kidman, and we love to take

1141
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: your suggestions as well. That's only on the Patreon. So

1142
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 2: not only are you getting Horrible Decisions episodes, you get bts,

1143
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: you get Mandy on the hotline.

1144
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: You ye oh, are you got Decisions video?

1145
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 2: There's a lot of stuff over on the Patreon and

1146
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 2: ad free out episodes, add free episodes in no bleaps

1147
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 2: like y'all get over.

1148
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: You mean you can rob banks and trains, but you

1149
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 1: can't steal these pussy. Here we go.

1150
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 2: You've been saying that for like the last ten days forever.

1151
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 2: All right, I'm saying it before the movie came up.

1152
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

1153
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 2: Anyways, guys, Noel's barred a doing man a us on

1154
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: sexual exploration and power available.

1155
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: Now get your motherfucking book What's the Whole?

1156
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 2: And thank your opportunity to another motherfucking episode of Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 1: We'll see you next week. Who