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Speaker 1: Angela, Hi, good morning, Good morning. I'm worried about my

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Speaker 1: friend over here Sago little group therapy here, relationships stuff.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you in this guy that you're seeing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I really just need, I guess, some advice.

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Speaker 2: I know it's called like stayergo, but I have no

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Speaker 2: intentions of leaving, Like I'm not even considering that.

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Speaker 1: I really I want to hear that we can change

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Speaker 1: your mind. Let's hear the whole story first, you know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So my boyfriend and I will probably be getting

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Speaker 2: engaged in like the next six months, two year and

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Speaker 2: he he recently told me that he's planning on proposing

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Speaker 2: with his grandma's ring, which is like really sweet and

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Speaker 2: like I I, you know, I know wants that.

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Speaker 1: Look on your face. Hold on a second, already, Adela,

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Speaker 1: Like you's got to look on her face. She already

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Speaker 1: knows like something smells bad in here, would you? I

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Speaker 1: already know where she's going at.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right now, yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: I love his hermal but but the ring is just

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Speaker 2: like it I you know, it's it's pretty, It's just.

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Speaker 1: Not pretty ugly.

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Speaker 2: I want to layer on my hand for the rest

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Speaker 2: of my.

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Speaker 1: Life, you know, yeah, because probably this style is probably

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Speaker 1: what sixty years old or something, you know, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I'm okay with you know, some kind

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Speaker 2: a lot, and I'm just not that way.

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Speaker 4: Uh, It's and I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know how to like be like, I would love to

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Speaker 2: marry you, but can I get my own ring?

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Speaker 1: You know that's tricky because you know, I'm a purist

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Speaker 1: about like heirlooms and stuff. I really am. Like, I

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Speaker 1: don't think that people should be switching up grandma's ring

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Speaker 1: because my first thought was, what if you used the diamond?

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Speaker 1: I've heard of that happening before. But then then you're

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Speaker 1: blowing up the whole you know. I realized it's the

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Speaker 1: same diamond, but it's not the entire right exactly, and

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Speaker 1: I don't love that. I also don't necessarily love using

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Speaker 1: someone else's ring. I think, like, also, she's still a lot.

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Speaker 1: Oh really so she's is Grandpa dad? Is that how

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Speaker 1: she can like she's not wearing the ring anymore?

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Speaker 2: Or is she right? Okay, just like she just hasn't

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Speaker 2: been wearing the like ring. She's like you know, gotten older.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't like to wear a lot of jewelries, and

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Speaker 2: she's like, okay, pass it down, and I'm like, so

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Speaker 2: I would be like, I love you, You're so wonderful.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to wear.

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Speaker 3: Her ring, Grandma, I don't even want to wear this ring.

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Speaker 3: She don't even want to wear an ring, and you want.

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Speaker 4: Me to wear.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people deserve to have their own ring, yes,

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, like, is there a way

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Speaker 1: to incorporate that. Maybe you wear maybe you get married you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how this would work,

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Speaker 1: but like it means something to him, but yet you

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Speaker 1: want your own ring, Like what's what's a compromise? I

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Speaker 1: don't know. That's why I called you. Oh you this

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Speaker 1: ring is worth Oh no, no, no no.

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Speaker 5: As long as grandma had a good marriage, I would

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Speaker 1: I think it's very sweet.

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Speaker 5: I think it's like if if, if his grandma means

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Speaker 5: to you, I think that's beautiful. You can maybe get

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Speaker 5: something down the line, but I think that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: And are there other kids? And it's it's very sweet.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so sweet. Does he have said.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't no no, so and he's really he's like

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Speaker 1: Wants you to have it. I mean that does really

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Speaker 1: mean something. And I get that it's not your style,

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Speaker 1: but like that is very nice.

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Speaker 2: It is very nice.

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Speaker 1: What is he supposed to go ahead? Rufi? But then

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Speaker 1: I want to know what you also check.

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Speaker 6: Off two of the four things you need when you

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Speaker 6: get like when you have a wedding, like something borrowed,

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Speaker 6: something old, and then you just need something new and

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Speaker 1: So that's nice.

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Speaker 2: I really love I would really love to check off

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Speaker 3: Something new with the ring that I like that I'm

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you have never seen this ringm but

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Speaker 3: Because the grandma don't even want to wait.

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Speaker 1: The grandma's husband's in, Yeah, what about this? What about

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Speaker 1: if he proposes with that ring and then he gets you? Like,

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Speaker 1: because a lot of people don't even wear their their

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Speaker 1: family and to him. They don't like that idea. You

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Speaker 1: can't show that off. She can't show that off in pictures, right.

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Speaker 3: The point Instagram pictures engaged is that the pointer is

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Speaker 1: But this always means something. It's all part of it.

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Speaker 1: deserves her already. I don't just agree, but this really

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Speaker 1: means something to him. So how do you incorporate it?

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Speaker 1: Eight five five five nine three five. You can call

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Speaker 1: it text the same number if you've been through this,

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Speaker 1: been through this and they didn't necessarily want that ring,

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Speaker 1: And again people are texting, well, pull the stones off

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Speaker 1: and reset them. You can do that, But then that

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Speaker 1: makes it a different ring, right, So it kind of

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Speaker 1: defeats the purpose a little bit. And what is Grahama

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Speaker 1: going to think of you? If you're like, you're like,

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Speaker 1: oh wait, I'm actually going to redesign the whole day, Rusty. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Angel, let me take some phone calls

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Speaker 1: mean congratulations. I hope everything goes well and you guys

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Speaker 1: come up with a compromise. But good luck. Then, don't

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Speaker 1: be a snake. See, I'm a very believe it or not,

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Speaker 1: deep down a very sentimental guy, and this kind of

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Speaker 5: It's different than all the other rings. I mean, you

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Speaker 5: want something unique. I mean every ring looks the same.

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Speaker 1: That is true. That is true. Hey Nicole, good morning, welcome,

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Speaker 1: good morning.

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Speaker 4: How are you hi?

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Speaker 1: Doing great? Thanks for listening being part of the show.

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Speaker 1: So it's not really stay or go, because she's gonna stay.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we'll see what. I don't know, she might go

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Speaker 1: to it might go. What do you do here.

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Speaker 4: Oh, this one's pretty simple. Actually, you just tell them that,

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Speaker 7: And propose with grandma's ring.

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Speaker 6: I will wear it around Grandma, but I want my

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Speaker 6: own ring to wear all other time.

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Speaker 1: That's right, girl, Huh, that's right. Okay, But that defeats

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Speaker 1: the purpose kind of. That's like, yeah, I'll do this

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Speaker 1: the point of this, is to give you a symbol

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Speaker 7: She's accepting it and she's going to wear it on

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Speaker 7: times that are meaningful, but other than that, the rest

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Speaker 7: of her life, she's going to wear her own.

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Speaker 3: Ringkmatum Nicole, thank you have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Her take Hey, Amanda, how you doing good? How are

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Speaker 1: you Amanda? What do you think?

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Speaker 7: She definitely like this is actually she gets the upper

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Speaker 7: hand in this one because not only are they saving

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Speaker 7: money for one, but like the proposal is what was

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Speaker 7: to propose with his mom or grandma's ring. Didn't say

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Speaker 7: only rings. So my best friend did that. She was

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Speaker 7: and then they went together bought the ring that they

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Speaker 2: And that's just more of like a.

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Speaker 7: Special ring that she wears for like very special occasions

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Speaker 7: or if there's family situations going on or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we do keep coming back to two rings essentially.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so you get a diamond?

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, Thank you, Amanda. Yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 1: guess as long as we're not blowing up an heirloom

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Speaker 1: a diamond. We don't know what the ring looks like.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Well, because she said then get your get a diamond

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Speaker 5: like as if grandma's ring doesn't have a why I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know about that, but I just mean, why are

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Speaker 1: we changing it? Mike? Hi, Mike, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 4: I'm great, How are you Mike?

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Speaker 1: What do you think great? Thanks for asking? By the way,

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Speaker 1: what do you think.

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Speaker 4: Uh so in my opinion, and I'm actually getting ready

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Speaker 4: to propose to my own girlfriend. Congress, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 4: My mother actually gave me her ring. And what I'm

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Speaker 4: doing is I'm doing a slight read design and what

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Speaker 1: Okay, So it's kind of the best of both worlds.

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Speaker 1: But we are in fact changing an heirloom. But I

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Speaker 4: Yes, my mom is one hundred percent on board, and

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Speaker 4: it's going to be my girlfriend's ring with the sentimental

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so there's a compromise there, all right, Mike,

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Speaker 1: thank you and congratulations. I hope she says, yes.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I feel good about We'll get you on stare Ago.

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Speaker 2: Phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry about it than you get every If

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Speaker 1: things don't go well, you'll be on fiy. Fact, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Hey, Jessica Hight, Hi Jessica. So just to

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Speaker 1: recap here for the people just tuning in, this woman

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Speaker 1: I don't want that. I want my own ring. I

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Speaker 1: don't I don't want that ring. What did what's she

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Speaker 8: I think that she has a whole lifetime to get

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Speaker 8: I just got engaged last year and I did get

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Speaker 8: even though my grandma and his grandma's style wasn't mine,

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Speaker 8: I kind of wish I could have been in her position, honestly,

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Speaker 8: And I think that she shouldn't downplay it, and she

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Speaker 1: I don't love that five more years.

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Speaker 3: It's not about the ring.

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Speaker 1: You already waited. How long has they been dating?

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Speaker 8: A way to her holiday?

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 7: I mean too, I honestly, if you're looking at the value,

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Speaker 8: Even be better with an older ring, like.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you want to look at it like that

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Speaker 1: thank you, Jess, to have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: I've told the story before, but I have a buddy

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Speaker 1: who saved up a bunch of money proposed to his

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Speaker 1: after I think ten years, she's like, well I want

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Speaker 1: to I want a bigger diamond. And he's like, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's fine, except that diamond that I'm about to go

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Speaker 1: buy you has no meaning. I mean, I used all

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Speaker 1: the money I and the one she had wasn't bad.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like it was this tiny little thing. And

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Speaker 1: then now they have money and they can get a biggeray,

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Speaker 1: but it's a nice ring and a nice diamond. And

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Speaker 1: he's like, that's what I saved up for, that's what

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Speaker 1: I held in my pocket, that's what I got on

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Speaker 1: want to give that back just for another one, just

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Speaker 1: because it's bigger. That has no meaning why? And she won,

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Speaker 1: by the way, but he was kind of bent about it.

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Speaker 1: He's like, this new ring has no meaning except that

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Speaker 1: it's flashier. Who cares, you know? I mean honestly, and again,

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Speaker 1: I can see if you had like a tiny you know,

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Speaker 1: you guys, have some success in life or you grow

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Speaker 1: and then you upgrade it. Maybe, but there's other role

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Speaker 1: with the first one. So I don't know, Lynn, Hi Lynn,

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Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm doing good? Lynn. We're talking about

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Speaker 1: whether well she should stay or go. She says she's

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Speaker 1: not gonna go over the ring. But you say, I

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Speaker 7: Because I mean, they're talking about Ferris and she's getting

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Speaker 7: caught up on a ring.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I tend to agree if it's that important

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Speaker 1: to him and and but yet, but yet it's that

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Speaker 1: important for her not to have it. I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: But she has to walk around wearing it. Guys, she

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Speaker 1: doesn't get to say at all. That's true.

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Speaker 5: But it's a gift from him.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a gift from him.

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Speaker 8: And it's also about more about the marriage that they're

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Speaker 8: going to build. It's not about what she's going to

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Speaker 8: be wearing on her her band. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: My question is if if they don't they get married,

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Speaker 6: they end up getting divorced, who gets the ring?

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Speaker 1: Then? Oh? I think she has to give it back

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Speaker 1: to give it back sentiment. That's the point. If you

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Speaker 1: get an heirloom, then there should be some agreement that

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Speaker 1: I either buy it back or you give it back

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Speaker 1: to me or something. Because if it's an air again,

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Speaker 1: if it's an heirloom that can't be replaced. If it's

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Speaker 1: just a two carrot ring or a carrot ring or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and that was my gift to you and an original gift,

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Speaker 1: that's yours, I don't get it back. But if it's

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Speaker 1: Grandma's ring, I should maybe buy it back or something,

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Speaker 1: because again, what are you going to do with it?

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Speaker 1: You're just gonna take it to a pawn shop and

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Speaker 1: sell it. That's a family heirloom. On this side, maybe

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Speaker 1: somebody else wants it. Yeah, yeah, you gotta work that

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Speaker 1: out ahead of time. But thank you, Lynn, have a

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Speaker 1: good day, because I'm of the mindset that if I

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Speaker 1: propose to you, Kiki, yes, and unless you cheat on me,

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Speaker 1: that ring is yours. If the relationship doesn't work out

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Speaker 1: and we decide that unless you cheat on me or

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Speaker 1: you decide you don't want me, you find somebody else,

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Speaker 1: in which case I don't know why you'd want the

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Speaker 1: ring anyway, then that's a gift. If I screw up

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Speaker 1: or I break up with you, that ring is yours.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it back. Yeah, or I shouldn't assume

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Speaker 1: that I get it back. But if I gave you

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Speaker 1: my mom's ring, then we have to work out ahead

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Speaker 1: of time. Like, look, if something were to happen, that

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Speaker 1: can't be replaced. So so I need to move my man.

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Speaker 3: I'm losing my man, my marriage, my ring, my dignity.

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Speaker 3: I can't have nothing out like this is stressing me out.

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Speaker 2: A ring.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny because Big Tim's out there on

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Speaker 1: one name. But he got grandma's ring, but you didn't

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Speaker 1: want it. Yeah, you don't want it anyway, So he

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Speaker 1: just left everything fun