WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Blunder Down Under

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day. One of the keys to

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<v Speaker 1>successfully dating is just to actually give a crap and try.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a big key. I feel like that's too much work.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, don't try too hard, because that comes

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<v Speaker 1>off desperate. You can't try too little either, though, because

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<v Speaker 1>then you seem like a jerk just doesn't care. Just

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<v Speaker 1>goldielocks it and try medium till it's just right. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, William, emailed the show saying he's

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<v Speaker 1>worried he may have tried too hard on his date. William,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't channel your inner Goldilocks for this.

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<v Speaker 3>I tried too hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't wake up in a strange house of three

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<v Speaker 4>bears failure.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we can't undo anything that happened, but why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us about it a little bit. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the woman that you went out with?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Stacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so where'd you meet her?

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<v Speaker 3>I met her online? You know, at first, I was

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<v Speaker 3>actually pretty intimidated just by her profile pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, because she's like really attractive to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that for sure, but also she seems to have

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<v Speaker 3>kind of an extravagant, sophisticated, cultured life more so than myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll say, Okay, why did she put in her pictures

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<v Speaker 4>to like to pick that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there was like pictures of her on a sailboat

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<v Speaker 3>with what looks to be her very well dressed family,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe in Greece somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>She was, you know, at soccer games in Europe.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a match, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wouldn't expect you to be fancy enough to

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<v Speaker 1>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I was really intimidating, which I actually told

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<v Speaker 3>her that in the initial messaging.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty honest, maybe to the fault, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well she obviously liked it because she responded, alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>If a guy writes to you, I'm intimidated by you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that not a strong move? No?

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<v Speaker 4>Not.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean a football in Europe doesn't cost that much.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, I don't be that until. Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>saying take it to get that. Okay, I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 2>I take it back.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. But the bottom line is she responded.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, she responded, all right, she said, ah, you

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<v Speaker 3>should be.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you do for a date?

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<v Speaker 3>I made dinner reservations, nice little spot. I got dressed up,

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<v Speaker 3>even borrowed nice shirt from my roommate.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh everyone, did you normally do that, like share fancy clothes?

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<v Speaker 1>You have a roommate life. I used to have a

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<v Speaker 1>blazer and we have like a community blazer.

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<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, it's like they doody.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that pay off for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was feeling good, So that's helpful, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>And she told me I looked, and she she looked incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you tell her that was scary too? How good

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<v Speaker 2>she looked?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I I reiterated how intimidated I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine, like cowering at everything, like just.

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<v Speaker 2>To eat.

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<v Speaker 1>We're playing it up for you, man, I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>were fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so. I mean she was really nice for

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<v Speaker 3>the most part. I mean I saw that she loves

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<v Speaker 3>chocolate off on her profile, so I thought i'd bring

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<v Speaker 3>her a gift, and I brought her almond rocca cute, Okay, sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the best option.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of a grandparent's chocolate.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, at this store and it looks nice,

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<v Speaker 3>it has like gold foil. I thought it looked kind

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<v Speaker 3>of fancy, but she said it's not really chocolate, which

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't really I'd never had really eaten myself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of toffee A lot of time, harsh to

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<v Speaker 1>say when someone's giving you a gift that's not actually

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<v Speaker 1>take us to the highlights of the date. What were

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<v Speaker 1>the good moments?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, during dinner, I wanted to get to I had.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so curious, you know, from her profile, and

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<v Speaker 3>I kept asking her a lot of questions and I

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<v Speaker 3>might have kind of asked too many questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that possible maybe if.

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<v Speaker 3>It starts to feel like somebody's given you the third

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<v Speaker 3>degree interrogating you. It wasn't really my attention.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, if there's not like a real natural

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<v Speaker 2>flow to it, I guess you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want the date to come off sounding like a job.

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<v Speaker 4>In Yeah, tell me here we see yourself. Can you

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<v Speaker 4>think of one question that went too far?

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<v Speaker 3>I asked her if she's ever been engaged before.

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<v Speaker 1>That date?

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<v Speaker 2>Question? Okay? And what was her response?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, because we talked a little bit about the house

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<v Speaker 3>relationships and she had, uh was dating a guy in

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<v Speaker 3>Spain for a long time, and and that's how it

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<v Speaker 3>came up because she said it was really serious.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind intense.

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<v Speaker 3>I was not trying to pry, though, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to the end of the day. What happened

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<v Speaker 1>at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we had the almon roka for dessert, which was

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<v Speaker 3>nice at the restaurant, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just opened up the package right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, because they asked if we wanted any of the dessert,

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<v Speaker 3>she said she wouldn't that hunger. But I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I brought this for you, and that's when I.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when she turned up her nose, and so it's

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<v Speaker 2>not really chocolate.

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<v Speaker 3>She did say that, but then we did actually enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>it together, and I hope she thought it was funny

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<v Speaker 3>that I tried even to fail that, even bringing chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well I'm going to give it a B

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<v Speaker 1>plus so far. That's my that's my grade on a curve.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you heard from her, Well, I don't really heard

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<v Speaker 3>from her, but it ended okay, like we hugged, we

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<v Speaker 3>said goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's that's what Brooke does with her children though,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can't really judge by that.

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<v Speaker 2>But they complain about every food I am I give them.

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<v Speaker 1>So the good news is there's a lot of room

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<v Speaker 1>to improve from here, and we're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>do that when we come back and do your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right after this second if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on the phone with William, who went out recently

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<v Speaker 1>with a world traveler named Stacy. Stacy has studied in

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<v Speaker 1>the universities of Europe. She's dated the men of Spain

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<v Speaker 1>and cheered for the football clubs of Liechtenburg, where instead

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<v Speaker 1>of cheering hooray there they cheer and reverse. Oh really,

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<v Speaker 1>can you say horay backwards? Yeah? That's right. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>classy because it's European. Yeah. At the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>second date, when we get Stacy and William beat up again.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously she is clearly a world traveler. He was

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<v Speaker 1>intimidated by that, which led me to the question, William,

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<v Speaker 1>why would she want to go out with you in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place.

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<v Speaker 2>Jefferson came off so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>He said to himself that she's so worldly, she's so traveled.

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<v Speaker 1>What would be the appeal for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm a nice guy, and I'm open to going

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<v Speaker 3>on more traveling ventures. I mean, I've traveled a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you've traveled the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>Not everybody can afford that, But I think what it

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<v Speaker 4>would be appealing is he seems like a really curious guy, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's who someone who likes to travel website.

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<v Speaker 1>For curious man. I think that's a totally different issue, Broke.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I think you sound totally fine.

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<v Speaker 4>By the way, William, honestly interested in her adventures, asked

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<v Speaker 4>a ton of questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you traveled at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Before?

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<v Speaker 1>You not travel? What's your travel experience? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I've been out of the country. I've

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<v Speaker 3>gone to Cabo twice. Oh wow, I've driven to Scottsdale

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<v Speaker 3>before Scottsdale.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Arizona. Okay, but there's something to work right here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not quite you know, the Vienna Opera house, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's close.

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<v Speaker 4>So the positive is she could show him all these places. Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 4>you just have to convince her and.

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<v Speaker 1>He can show her the golf course at Scott's Stay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's just get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to talk to this worldly lady. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone right now. Here we go. You're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to speak English.

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<v Speaker 3>She does speak English, right, I think she speaks a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of languages actually, but.

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<v Speaker 1>English on your date is going to go really all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try and see how it goes here. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>down the number right now. Hello, bon Joel is the Stacey.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>For he French.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't try. Sorry, Stacey, I'm hoping. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I help you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we need a lot of help, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>But mostly we're looking for help for one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners named William, because he's a guy who, rumor has

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<v Speaker 1>it you went on a date with recently.

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<v Speaker 5>What is this about a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is it's a segment we do called Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update where our listeners go out with someone and

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not hearing back, or if they feel like

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting ghosted, they can email us and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and reach out to that person for them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a real North American continent type thing.

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<v Speaker 1>M m yeah, sorry for being weird about all the

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<v Speaker 1>North America stuff. It's just we we heard that you're

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<v Speaker 1>very well traveled.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I am well traveled. Who is the guy? Or

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<v Speaker 5>which date was this? And then on a couple recently.

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<v Speaker 1>It was William? Oh yeah, William oh William? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went and got dinner together the other night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we went out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you enjoy it?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what you want from me here. It

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<v Speaker 5>was it was a nice time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Well, I guess is what we want is honesty. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just we're trying to help out William a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit because he doesn't understand why there hasn't been a

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<v Speaker 1>second meetup.

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<v Speaker 4>He really liked you a lot and thought that maybe

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<v Speaker 4>they saw some potential between you two.

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<v Speaker 5>I just honestly, he just wasn't cultured enough for me.

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't know, he just he lacked manners.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, lacked manners? Well, hold on, are we nitpicking? Did

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<v Speaker 1>not like have his fork in the right area of

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<v Speaker 1>the place.

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<v Speaker 5>He just he didn't. He doesn't have good.

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<v Speaker 2>Etiquette, Okay, any example.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, An example is he kind of yelled out when

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<v Speaker 5>he had to go to the bathroom. You know, we're

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<v Speaker 5>in a.

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<v Speaker 1>Really nice restaurant, announced it to like the whole room

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<v Speaker 1>or what do you mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, he just he got up and he says, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to the bathroom, and it was like it was

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<v Speaker 5>a big announcement.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's bad etiquette.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, excuse me.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he was just trying to tell her where

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<v Speaker 4>he was going so that you didn't think he was

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<v Speaker 4>ditching you or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he could have just said, excuse me for a minute, exactly, I'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a lot higher standards than I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a little bit picky, at least for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that all that he did.

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<v Speaker 5>No, We're at a very nice seakhouse and he waved

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<v Speaker 5>down the waiter to get more.

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<v Speaker 1>Bread, And okay, is that is that rude? What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>I love that bread.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, if the bread's good, you want more.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it just seemed a little low class to me.

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<v Speaker 5>He would have waited till they came to refill you know,

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<v Speaker 5>my wine, or I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>A good server at a nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to check on you all the time, so

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<v Speaker 2>you expect him to be around every five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess if I remember back to my private school,

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<v Speaker 1>you are supposed to wait for the waiter to come

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<v Speaker 1>to the table. You're not supposed to shout across the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody lives by these rules anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, well, that's brook, but it's not okay. When

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<v Speaker 1>you go to an actual respected place, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful steak dinner. Right, He's the one that picked it,

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<v Speaker 2>he's the one that took you there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, the restaurant was great. It's just I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 5>more stuff. He's just so loud and I was whispering

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<v Speaker 5>because there's other people around, and it was just really

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<v Speaker 5>inappropriate for such a nice place.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, excuse me, excuse me, I'm sorry. This is William.

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<v Speaker 3>We were at an outback steakhouse. It wasn't a Michelin

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<v Speaker 3>star type of restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, hold on, hold on, hold on, William. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to let Stacy know that William has been waiting on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening to this whole conversation. He's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>It was, Yes, it was an outback steakhouse. It was

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<v Speaker 5>the first time I've ever been. It was a very

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<v Speaker 5>lovely Australian steakhouse. Lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so world You've never been to an outback, which

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<v Speaker 1>is not worldly you what do you mean, stay You

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<v Speaker 1>think that an outback steakhouse is a very like fine

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<v Speaker 1>dining establishment.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a big.

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<v Speaker 1>Problement for any outback people listening.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not that it was like the best steakhouse I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever been, but it was just it felt authentic.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, wait did you did you look around at

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<v Speaker 2>the other guests. You can wave down all the free

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<v Speaker 2>bread you want there.

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<v Speaker 5>I have traveled a lot, and not all restaurants are

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<v Speaker 5>five star, you know, Michelin restaurants, but they're beautiful and

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<v Speaker 5>there's culture. So I thought that that was just an authentic,

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<v Speaker 5>you know thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Giving it the fact it doesn't really.

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<v Speaker 4>There's definitely culture outback, but it's not like high society culture.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, honestly, I'm just happy he didn't take

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<v Speaker 5>me to a chain restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I wouldn't recommend googling out backs.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be you should try Applebee's. It's this little

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<v Speaker 2>quaint place.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, great Long Island girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to give you too many ideas.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I don't even know what you guys are talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we don't worry about any of that. We should

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<v Speaker 1>be worried about is William, who had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>with you the other night. Restaurant and etiquette aside, and

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<v Speaker 1>what he really wants is just to see you one

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<v Speaker 1>more time and give it another chance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you know what, if you do agree to

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<v Speaker 3>go on a date with me on the second day

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<v Speaker 3>and night, I really do.

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<v Speaker 5>Hope you do.

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<v Speaker 3>I will take you to a really nice place and

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<v Speaker 3>I will show you that I have proper etiquette. I

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<v Speaker 3>am a classy guy. I know how to behave depending

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<v Speaker 3>on where I'm at. And wow, I want you to

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<v Speaker 3>give a chance to show that to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a gentleman response if I have ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>One, well crafted, very thoughtful. And all that's left now

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<v Speaker 1>is stacy a yes or no? If you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him one more time, we'll pay for

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<v Speaker 1>it and tell us if you're curtsying while you're doing it. Please.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I I don't do charity. I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 5>Oh do charity?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be charity like that good manners and

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<v Speaker 2>dar You really are.

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<v Speaker 1>Worldly, aren't you.

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<v Speaker 5>I do charity. I don't take charity, will man.

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<v Speaker 3>I am sorry, dude, Yeah, yeah, he can't win them all.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'll give it another crack out there, wave.

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<v Speaker 2>Your hands around and ask for help again.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. Oh my god, it just occurred

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I totally forgot to bring up the almond roccas.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that sounds European and fancy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a classy dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not from Europe, but he should get points for

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<v Speaker 1>bringing a classy sounding dessert to out Okay, classy.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounding I like.

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<v Speaker 4>My husband used to send those to is Jamake, his

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<v Speaker 4>grandma and Jamaica, and she called them the candy with

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<v Speaker 4>the bread crumbs.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you pull some gold foil wrapped candy

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<v Speaker 1>out of your pocket after dinner, I don't care if

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<v Speaker 1>it's half melted, that is class.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't really melt because it's so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But I totally forgot to mention it though. I am

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<v Speaker 1>losing my touch.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>It could have been at least some bonus points in

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<v Speaker 1>his corner for having a little bit of extra you know, Jush.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, she's a little confused. I mean she thought the

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<v Speaker 2>outback was fancy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we didn't get it done this time, but we

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<v Speaker 1>promised to do better next time. Yeah, okay, you can

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<v Speaker 1>be part of that next time. If you emailed the show,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call that person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning