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Speaker 2: That's a big key. I feel like that's too much work.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, don't try too hard, because that comes

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners, William, emailed the show saying he's

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Speaker 1: worried he may have tried too hard on his date. William,

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Speaker 3: I tried too hard.

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Speaker 4: I didn't wake up in a strange house of three

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Speaker 1: Well, we can't undo anything that happened, but why don't

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Speaker 1: you tell us about it a little bit. What's the

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Speaker 3: Her name is Stacy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 3: I met her online? You know, at first, I was

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Speaker 2: Oh, because she's like really attractive to you.

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Speaker 3: Well, that for sure, but also she seems to have

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Speaker 4: I'll say, Okay, why did she put in her pictures

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there was like pictures of her on a sailboat

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Speaker 1: Oh oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: She was, you know, at soccer games in Europe.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a match, sir.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't expect you to be fancy enough to

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I was really intimidating, which I actually told

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Speaker 5: Oh you did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty honest, maybe to the fault, but.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well she obviously liked it because she responded, alexis.

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Speaker 1: If a guy writes to you, I'm intimidated by you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is that not a strong move? No?

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Speaker 2: I mean a football in Europe doesn't cost that much.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I don't be that until. Okay, I'm just

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Speaker 3: And yeah, she responded, all right, she said, ah, you

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Speaker 3: I made dinner reservations, nice little spot. I got dressed up,

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Speaker 2: Oh everyone, did you normally do that, like share fancy clothes?

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Speaker 1: You have a roommate life. I used to have a

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, it's like they doody.

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Speaker 1: Did that pay off for you?

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Speaker 3: I mean I was feeling good, So that's helpful, I think.

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Speaker 3: I mean I I reiterated how intimidated I was.

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Speaker 3: I think so. I mean she was really nice for

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Speaker 2: That's kind of a grandparent's chocolate.

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Speaker 3: Well, during dinner, I wanted to get to I had.

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Speaker 3: It starts to feel like somebody's given you the third

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Speaker 2: But I mean, if there's not like a real natural

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Speaker 1: Don't want the date to come off sounding like a job.

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Speaker 4: In Yeah, tell me here we see yourself. Can you

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Speaker 3: I asked her if she's ever been engaged before.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to the end of the day. What happened

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Speaker 3: Well, we had the almon roka for dessert, which was

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Speaker 2: Just opened up the package right there.

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Speaker 3: Have you heard from her, Well, I don't really heard

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Speaker 1: We're on the phone with William, who went out recently

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Speaker 1: with a world traveler named Stacy. Stacy has studied in

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Speaker 1: But obviously she is clearly a world traveler. He was

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Speaker 2: Jefferson came off so hard.

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Speaker 1: He said to himself that she's so worldly, she's so traveled.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm a nice guy, and I'm open to going

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Speaker 1: Oh, you've traveled the world.

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Speaker 2: Come on, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: Not everybody can afford that, But I think what it

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Speaker 1: For curious man. I think that's a totally different issue, Broke.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I think you sound totally fine.

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Speaker 4: By the way, William, honestly interested in her adventures, asked

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Speaker 1: Have you traveled at all?

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Speaker 1: Wow, Arizona. Okay, but there's something to work right here.

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Speaker 1: It's not quite you know, the Vienna Opera house, but

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Speaker 4: So the positive is she could show him all these places. Jeffrey,

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Speaker 1: He can show her the golf course at Scott's Stay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to talk to this worldly lady. Let's get

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Speaker 3: She does speak English, right, I think she speaks a

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Speaker 1: down the number right now. Hello, bon Joel is the Stacey.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I won't try. Sorry, Stacey, I'm hoping. This is a

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Speaker 5: Can I help you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need a lot of help, I really do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is it's a segment we do called Second

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Speaker 2: It's a real North American continent type thing.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I am well traveled. Who is the guy? Or

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Speaker 1: It was William? Oh yeah, William oh William? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you guys went and got dinner together the other night.

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Speaker 5: Yes, we went out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you enjoy it?

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Speaker 5: I don't know what you want from me here. It

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Speaker 1: Okay. Well, I guess is what we want is honesty. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: He really liked you a lot and thought that maybe

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Speaker 5: I just honestly, he just wasn't cultured enough for me.

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Speaker 5: And I don't know, he just he lacked manners.

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Speaker 1: Oh, lacked manners? Well, hold on, are we nitpicking? Did

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Speaker 5: He just he didn't. He doesn't have good.

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Speaker 5: Yes, he just he got up and he says, I'm

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's bad etiquette.

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Speaker 1: Well, excuse me.

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Speaker 4: I think he was just trying to tell her where

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Speaker 5: Well, he could have just said, excuse me for a minute, exactly, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Have a lot higher standards than I do.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a little bit picky, at least for us.

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Speaker 5: No, We're at a very nice seakhouse and he waved

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Speaker 1: Bread, And okay, is that is that rude? What is that?

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Speaker 2: I love that bread.

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Speaker 1: I know, if the bread's good, you want more.

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Speaker 5: Well, it just seemed a little low class to me.

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Speaker 5: He would have waited till they came to refill you know,

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Speaker 1: A good server at a nice restaurant.

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Speaker 2: It's going to check on you all the time, so

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Speaker 2: Nobody lives by these rules anymore.

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Speaker 1: They're like, well, that's brook, but it's not okay. When

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Speaker 2: Beautiful steak dinner. Right, He's the one that picked it,

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Speaker 5: Yes, the restaurant was great. It's just I mean, there's

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Speaker 5: because there's other people around, and it was just really

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, excuse me, excuse me, I'm sorry. This is William.

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Speaker 3: We were at an outback steakhouse. It wasn't a Michelin

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Speaker 5: I mean, oh.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, hold on, hold on, hold on, William. I need

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Speaker 5: It was, Yes, it was an outback steakhouse. It was

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Speaker 1: You're so world You've never been to an outback, which

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Speaker 1: think that an outback steakhouse is a very like fine

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Speaker 4: It's a big.

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Speaker 5: It's not that it was like the best steakhouse I've

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Speaker 2: the other guests. You can wave down all the free

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Speaker 5: I have traveled a lot, and not all restaurants are

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Speaker 5: there's culture. So I thought that that was just an authentic,

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Speaker 4: There's definitely culture outback, but it's not like high society culture.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, honestly, I'm just happy he didn't take

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Speaker 1: You know, I wouldn't recommend googling out backs.

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Speaker 2: It would be you should try Applebee's. It's this little

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, great Long Island girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to give you too many ideas.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't even know what you guys are talking about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we don't worry about any of that. We should

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Speaker 1: with you the other night. Restaurant and etiquette aside, and

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Speaker 1: more time and give it another chance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what, if you do agree to

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Speaker 3: and night, I really do.

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Speaker 5: Hope you do.

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Speaker 3: I will take you to a really nice place and

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Speaker 3: I will show you that I have proper etiquette. I

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Speaker 3: am a classy guy. I know how to behave depending

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Speaker 3: on where I'm at. And wow, I want you to

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: It was a gentleman response if I have ever heard.

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Speaker 1: One, well crafted, very thoughtful. And all that's left now

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Speaker 1: is stacy a yes or no? If you want to

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Speaker 1: it and tell us if you're curtsying while you're doing it. Please.

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Speaker 5: You know what I I don't do charity. I'm okay,

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Speaker 5: Oh do charity?

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Speaker 2: You want to be charity like that good manners and

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Speaker 2: dar You really are.

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Speaker 1: Worldly, aren't you.

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Speaker 5: I do charity. I don't take charity, will man.

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Speaker 3: I am sorry, dude, Yeah, yeah, he can't win them all.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'll give it another crack out there, wave.

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Speaker 2: Your hands around and ask for help again.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Oh my god, it just occurred

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Speaker 1: to me. I totally forgot to bring up the almond roccas.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that sounds European and fancy.

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Speaker 2: It's a classy dessert.

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Speaker 1: It's not from Europe, but he should get points for

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Speaker 1: bringing a classy sounding dessert to out Okay, classy.

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Speaker 2: Sounding I like.

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Speaker 4: My husband used to send those to is Jamake, his

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Speaker 1: I think if you pull some gold foil wrapped candy

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Speaker 1: it's half melted, that is class.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't really melt because it's so hard.

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Speaker 1: But I totally forgot to mention it though. I am

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Speaker 2: That's what went wrong.

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Speaker 1: It could have been at least some bonus points in

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Speaker 1: his corner for having a little bit of extra you know, Jush.

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Speaker 2: Dude, she's a little confused. I mean she thought the

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Speaker 1: Well, we didn't get it done this time, but we

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Speaker 1: promised to do better next time. Yeah, okay, you can

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Speaker 1: be part of that next time. If you emailed the show,

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Speaker 1: we'll call that person who wasn't calling you back.

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Speaker 5: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning