Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1: Scrubber Duba Daba dubba dua do.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: We have to turn my ears down a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have earphones today. I'm raw dogging it
Speaker 1: and so I cannot hear myself or I am.
Speaker 2: Maybe the pitch, maybe the pitch was ssfferent.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard that song? Sonnay, thank you father give.
Speaker 3: I'm glad you brought that up, because often when you
Speaker 3: start the scrubby dub dub thing, to me, it sounds
Speaker 3: like California Love scrub and then you then you go off.
Speaker 1: I confirm, I have never thought of California lovell I've
Speaker 1: done it, so I think that's.
Speaker 3: I thought I was losing my mind because then you
Speaker 3: go into a different place after Grabba.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, tickets, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to ther I'll come back.
Speaker 1: It is, in fact, not Monday. It's not Monday for us,
Speaker 1: it's Monday for you.
Speaker 2: It's Monday for you, or it could be Tuesday, was there, Thursday.
Speaker 1: Friday, which whenever you're listening. But we're doing this early
Speaker 1: because you are going to see family.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to Louisiana, which is exciting homeland.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how many hours I'm a plane.
Speaker 2: It's not many hours on the plane, actually, it's I
Speaker 2: there's no direct flight, so that's tricky. But I am
Speaker 2: flying out a burbank, which if you live in the
Speaker 2: LA area, you know how how much better that is
Speaker 2: for the mental.
Speaker 1: Burbank is like the smaller airport in town.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyways, so yeah, I'm flying into Louisiana on Sunday,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to get to see my nephews play football,
Speaker 2: see my little niece who's one, and my sister, my
Speaker 2: brother in law, and then my parents are driving from Flora.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to see half of the fam.
Speaker 1: Very exciting.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: How many days are you going?
Speaker 2: I'm going Sunday to Thursday or full days. Yeah. Hailey's
Speaker 2: I can't believe you're leaving me. I keep thinking about
Speaker 2: it and I get stressed.
Speaker 1: I know, that's nice.
Speaker 2: Speaking of I. Okay, So Hailey's love language is food,
Speaker 2: but I'm not. I've never been like much of a cook,
Speaker 2: you know, It's not like a passion of mine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I'm not agree on you I understand
Speaker 1: either way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I've ever cooked for you, but
Speaker 2: if I did, you'd probably be underwhelmed. But last night
Speaker 2: she was getting her hair done all day and had
Speaker 2: worked all morning. So I was like, I'm going to
Speaker 2: order stuff because she wanted to cook, and she went
Speaker 2: to pasta. So I order stuff from Italy, which is like, wow,
Speaker 2: fresh fish, and so I was like, I'm going to
Speaker 2: make lobster pasta, which was really an undertaking because as
Speaker 2: for someone who could barely regular lobster, well, I didn't
Speaker 2: cook it. So what I did, I got cooked lobster meat.
Speaker 1: Smart.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really saved myself. What I did isn't that impressive,
Speaker 2: but it turned out great. So I made us dinner
Speaker 2: and it was like you guys, Normally, when I eat
Speaker 2: the food I make, I'm like, whatever, it's food, I
Speaker 2: made it, I should try better next time. It was
Speaker 2: like restaurant level.
Speaker 1: So did it make you want to cook more?
Speaker 2: Kind of oh wow? Yeah. The only thing I'm kind
Speaker 2: of when I get scared or intimidated by is cooking meat.
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 2: And also, Haley is sensitive to garlic and onion, so
Speaker 2: like that's a lot of the flavoring and a most recipe.
Speaker 2: So it's trying to find stuff that can substitute for flavor,
Speaker 2: so it's not just super bland. But yeah, after last night,
Speaker 2: I was like, dang, I mean I just followed a recipe.
Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. It wasn't like, oh.
Speaker 1: Just like a little pinch of this, a little pop
Speaker 1: of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't cook from the heart. I followed a recipe,
Speaker 2: but sometimes it don't turn out well and it really
Speaker 2: it's slash Wow, probably thank you. It was a big
Speaker 2: moment and she was just like I felt so loved.
Speaker 2: You know. Well, yeah, because it's not an official I
Speaker 2: guess it's an active service. Maybe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm going to try to do more.
Speaker 2: I made breakfast for us every day. Wow, eggs and
Speaker 2: stuff hash browns that is elaborate hash browns, like yeah,
Speaker 2: like the like the McDonald's time to like patties, film
Speaker 2: in the air fire.
Speaker 1: All right, that's nice, it's really nice. It's it's a
Speaker 1: it's a good day when I can like shake my
Speaker 1: protein powder into my almond milk.
Speaker 2: Get out of the thing. Here's the thing, Tanya. I'm
Speaker 2: not waking up at five am, right, right, I'm cruising
Speaker 2: in or around nine, ready to start the day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, some pancakes and hash Browns on a Tuesday. I honestly,
Speaker 1: it's just like it's so funny because I cannot picture it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I actually had a nightmare because I kept snoozing my
Speaker 2: alarm today. I think because at the weather being cloudy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: my body is really cocooning, Like I'm like, I don't
Speaker 2: want to wake up my alarm mom off at eight
Speaker 2: and I was like no, I felt like it was
Speaker 2: five am, so I was snoozing. But while I was snoozing,
Speaker 2: I was having a dream that I was running late
Speaker 2: and we interviewed Joey and Jenna, and I dreamed I
Speaker 2: was at the beach and I walked into the interview
Speaker 2: with like sandal in my hair, and I was like
Speaker 2: they won't notice.
Speaker 1: Okay. Interesting, So we could analyze that dream, okay, because
Speaker 1: there's always meaning. It's you're subconscious when you're dreaming. So
Speaker 1: what were you feeling in your dream? Underprepared?
Speaker 2: Oh, feeling like I needed to get up and I
Speaker 2: kept hitting snooze like I was. I was hitting the
Speaker 2: alarm in my dream too, Like I had an alarm
Speaker 2: set and then I was with Weirdly, I was with
Speaker 2: Marla's mom on the beach and she kept being like,
Speaker 2: you need to go, and I was like, oh, it's
Speaker 2: only ten, I don't have to be there till two.
Speaker 2: And then she goes this one fifteen, so I was
Speaker 2: like what. Then I showed up and I was all late.
Speaker 2: I think me being late isn't that crazy for.
Speaker 1: My reality, But maybe it's your subconscious telling you don't
Speaker 1: like this feeling anymore. Time to wake up, time to
Speaker 1: wake up, like figuratively.
Speaker 2: Trying to be more like I wouldn't say I'm on time,
Speaker 2: but I've been trying to be more committal. Like I
Speaker 2: committed to doing things last week, and normally I would
Speaker 2: be like, oh, I woke up, I'm not feeling great
Speaker 2: and I'm tired, whatever, I don't want to do it.
Speaker 2: And I went to both things that I committed to,
Speaker 2: and I was so happy that I went, and I
Speaker 2: was like, I need to be I need to be
Speaker 2: a committed person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have a really hard.
Speaker 2: Time committing to things because I fear that I'm gonna
Speaker 2: wake up or the time's gonna come and I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna want to do it.
Speaker 3: I know exactly how you feel. Like, I would rather
Speaker 3: have a day with no plans than yeah, you know,
Speaker 3: a lot of plans.
Speaker 2: So when Tanya goes, oh, what are you doing two
Speaker 2: weeks from now on this day, I'm like, that gives
Speaker 2: me absolute anxiety because well, I mean, what we're doing
Speaker 2: on Friday is very important, so I'm very excited about that.
Speaker 2: I wantn't miss that. But if you're saying, like Cass, like, oh,
Speaker 2: let's go to dinner, you know, you know what I'm saying, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: And then which you have told me multiple times, You're like, oh,
Speaker 2: I cannot believe I committed to this thing. I'm so tired,
Speaker 2: but you still go And I'm so impressed by that,
Speaker 2: which I know is crazy because that's a sign of
Speaker 2: being impeccable with your word and showing up for people
Speaker 2: and uh, just like being a good person.
Speaker 1: I think that, I know, but it's oftentimes to my detriment,
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, I think I
Speaker 1: over commit and then I get overly tired, and then
Speaker 1: I'm like everything else suffers because I'm overly tired, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean.
Speaker 2: But I think that's why I tend to be non
Speaker 2: committal because I don't want to commit and then regret
Speaker 2: going or or bail.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, no, you can't bail, but I cannot with
Speaker 1: flaky people.
Speaker 2: I know it's aqua. It's a character flaw.
Speaker 1: It's a character flaw. So you're not gonna come you
Speaker 1: don't want to do it, just tell me.
Speaker 2: I know, so then I can just be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't think so, you know. I'll try to be
Speaker 2: more like that, as opposed to being like, oh, I'm
Speaker 2: for sure going to be there because nine times out
Speaker 2: of ten, to day comes and I'm like I need
Speaker 2: I need to I'm a hybridnder. No one needs to
Speaker 2: unwind or hibernate more than you. She was like, I
Speaker 2: don't know how you do this. She's like, You've been
Speaker 2: at home without leaving for days straight.
Speaker 1: It's like it's so crazy because I can't even fact,
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine it. Like there will be days
Speaker 1: where I'm like I'll have like let's say I got
Speaker 1: back from the I remember I got back from the
Speaker 1: Hide Music Festival on a Sunday, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I am exhausted. I slept five hours this whole weekend.
Speaker 1: I have nothing to do on Sunday. I just want
Speaker 1: to go home, take a shower, get in bed, and
Speaker 1: just rotten bed all day. I had a nail on
Speaker 1: my tire, so I had to like go to Pep
Speaker 1: Boys and get that fixed because I needed to go
Speaker 1: to work on Monday. So it's like I had to
Speaker 1: get it fixed. So I was like in and out
Speaker 1: of sleep, having Robbie like wake me up to take
Speaker 1: you know, drop off the car, and like I just
Speaker 1: can't even like I can't even put myself in that situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think in that situation, I would have said, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm going to uber to work to and I'll take
Speaker 2: care of this tomorrow. I'm going to sleep today. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Heley goes, I don't know how we could have children
Speaker 2: because kids need you all the time, and you'll isolate
Speaker 2: so much. How would you handle that? But you would
Speaker 2: just shift, I know. That's why I told her. I
Speaker 2: was like, I'm like, you.
Speaker 1: Do it now because you can exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's why I have chosen not to go
Speaker 2: down that path, right, because I'm not ready to give
Speaker 2: that up.
Speaker 1: Right, So you will eventually, maybe maybe you won't or
Speaker 1: maybe you won't, but the time will come, but I'll
Speaker 1: be ready.
Speaker 2: And I always tell Ali she'll be ready because she
Speaker 2: goes about at like eight pm and wakes up early.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, once you get that baby on a
Speaker 2: good schedule, you'll be smooth saling, no change.
Speaker 1: I'm already like I am getting like not baby fever,
Speaker 1: but I'm getting excited about that next chapter. For sure.
Speaker 2: I have to figure out if and when Haley and
Speaker 2: I get married, how to go around my all my
Speaker 2: friends being pregnant or having newborns or even infants.
Speaker 1: What do you mean how to go around it?
Speaker 2: How to pick a date? Like how do you like? Yeah, Like,
Speaker 2: how do I pick.
Speaker 1: It a date that works for you? And we all
Speaker 1: work around it?
Speaker 2: Y'all aren't going to be able to work around if
Speaker 2: you're all like ninety nine.
Speaker 1: Months pregnant is one thing like.
Speaker 2: A newborn, You're gonna be like.
Speaker 1: I bring the newborn to your wedding. Yeah, not to
Speaker 1: your wedding, but I'll bring it with me wherever we go.
Speaker 2: Yeah her, Yeah, it'll just be Yeah, it'll just be
Speaker 2: what it is. Yeah. Anyways, but that's the season of
Speaker 2: life I'm entering where it's like everyone's getting married, everyone's
Speaker 2: having babies. I did a a real to that sound
Speaker 2: of Rachel saying it on Friends. Everyone's either getting married
Speaker 2: or getting pregnant or getting promoted, and I'm getting coffee.
Speaker 1: It's funny that you're feeling like that, because we're even
Speaker 1: feeling that a little bit, because Robbie was saying, you know,
Speaker 1: like I feel like a lot of some of Tanya's
Speaker 1: friends might not even be able to come because they're
Speaker 1: going to get pregnant and like not want to travel.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, I just it is what it is.
Speaker 1: You know, you just gotta go. You just gotta do you.
Speaker 2: I hope that whoever can come, like, go.
Speaker 1: Let God, good stuff, Let go let God.
Speaker 2: But anyways, there is a significant thing happening. It's Surursday
Speaker 2: for us. So tomorrow on Friday, Yes, a significant thing
Speaker 2: for you. Yeah, what is it? We're gonna say yes
Speaker 2: to the dress. This is a big deal.
Speaker 1: It is a big deal.
Speaker 2: This feels like we're locked in.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we are. We are locked and loaded. We've got
Speaker 1: tomorrow's address and we're gonna do so. Our appointments at
Speaker 1: three thirty and they're usually like an hour and so
Speaker 1: we're gonna do dinner at our house after with everybody
Speaker 1: that's there, plus the mends. So really just kind of
Speaker 1: excited to just do that and have everybody. Robbie's gonna
Speaker 1: cook a big fish.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really important to you to have your
Speaker 2: mom involved in the wedding dress process.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we.
Speaker 2: Had gone with Paulina to go and we were like,
Speaker 2: this is the dress, right, You're like, I don't feel
Speaker 2: ready to say yes to a dress without my mom
Speaker 2: being here. Why was that significant?
Speaker 1: I think, you know, it's funny when you get married,
Speaker 1: like everyone's like it's all about you and it's about
Speaker 1: what you want, you know, but it's also like the
Speaker 1: people around you too, you know, the people that I
Speaker 1: don't know what it's like because I have not had
Speaker 1: a child, but like to envision that happening for your
Speaker 1: child and being involved in that in some way. And
Speaker 1: I think that there are certain things that I want
Speaker 1: to just handle and I don't want anybody involved in
Speaker 1: because it's just like easier and streamlined in my life
Speaker 1: right now. But then there are certain things that I
Speaker 1: want them, you know, want her a part of, and
Speaker 1: that this feels like something that I really want her
Speaker 1: to be a part of So I'm excited we're gonna
Speaker 1: have champagne what and I hope I'm for sure gonna cry. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try not to cry.
Speaker 2: Do you want to give any spoilers of the dress?
Speaker 1: No, it's white spoiler it's what Actually, you know, it's
Speaker 1: so crazy. I was getting my hair done yesterday and
Speaker 1: the girl that was getting finishing her hair when I,
Speaker 1: you know, like the person before me is also getting
Speaker 1: married next weekend and she's wearing a dress from the
Speaker 1: same designer, and she was like, I almost picked your dress.
Speaker 1: It was my second choice. And I was like, well,
Speaker 1: why didn't you like it? Like that's what my mind went.
Speaker 1: I was like, why didn't you pick it?
Speaker 2: Did she get did you see her dress?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I tried on she tied it, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah somebody.
Speaker 2: She showed me her picture.
Speaker 1: She had like the grid photos with like three dresses,
Speaker 1: and she's like, these were my first, second, and third choice.
Speaker 2: I think it's good. Everyone has like a different like
Speaker 2: this is the one. Yeah you know?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Are you have you thought about traditional things that y'all
Speaker 2: will or won't do, Like do you think you'll do a.
Speaker 1: First look or sure, oh you will do it first. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so the.
Speaker 2: First time he sees you will be like, it'll be
Speaker 2: Yell's private moment.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just saw that Carissa brought your body. She just
Speaker 2: had her wedding and they read their vowels to each
Speaker 2: other the morning as I saw that, which I thought
Speaker 2: was really sweet, because I fear that if I would
Speaker 2: forget what I like, I don't know that I would
Speaker 2: be I would be like so nervous and overstimulated that
Speaker 2: I think I'd wonder what did what did I just hear?
Speaker 2: And what did I just say?
Speaker 1: So you'll remember what you say because you wrote it,
Speaker 1: so you have it. But when we got engaged, I'm
Speaker 1: not even joking you, it was like I blacked out,
Speaker 1: like completely blacked out. I don't remember a war. All
Speaker 1: I remember him saying is like you need you haven't answered,
Speaker 1: because I was just like it was like blackout. And
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that he he put his phone up
Speaker 1: and he recorded it. And I'm so grateful that he
Speaker 1: recorded it because then I could go back and like,
Speaker 1: hear what he was actually saying, because I truly did
Speaker 1: not remember in the moment. So I'm like, I have
Speaker 1: the same fear that he's gonna say it and it's
Speaker 1: gonna be just like blackout.
Speaker 2: Well, you'll have it documented, He'll have them written down. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: you can read you know, read them on the plane to.
Speaker 1: The honey may just continue to read them. But yeah,
Speaker 1: the blackout thing is so real.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we did. Uh the we read the vows for
Speaker 3: each other during the first look with just the two
Speaker 3: of us because Alison like hates public speaking, so she
Speaker 3: was afraid of that. And then when we did actual
Speaker 3: ceremony and the like do you take you know, sickness
Speaker 3: and in health, Allison stumbled stumbled over the for rituer
Speaker 3: for poorer part, which and then I made a joke
Speaker 3: like that's an important one. Everyone laughed, But I thought
Speaker 3: that was important for her to not feel nervous like
Speaker 3: everyone watching during that in a moment.
Speaker 1: But like, you know, I'm not concerned about the crying
Speaker 1: because like I can't even talk about this stuff without crying,
Speaker 1: and so like if we're reading our vows in the morning,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be crying. If we do it during
Speaker 1: the first look, I'm going to start crying. Like I'm
Speaker 1: just going to be a total mess, And like I
Speaker 1: need to not be are.
Speaker 2: You worried about your makeup or what?
Speaker 1: I'm just about looking puffy and like runny and like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like when you cried, you have mess Garet like that,
Speaker 1: you'll have that waterproof.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have very strong waterproof makeup. When I imagine.
Speaker 1: I'm very concerned that I'm not going to be able
Speaker 1: to keep my self composed all day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you might get to where you're just kind of like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I've cried a lot. I'm just ready to enjoy the moment,
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, hopefully. I do feel like the everyone's
Speaker 2: staring at you and having to walk down the aisle
Speaker 2: and then stand where everyone's still staring at you, that
Speaker 2: to me already feels overwhelming. So then the thought of speak,
Speaker 2: like having to read something and stay on the right line.
Speaker 1: I feel overwhelmed at our engagement, just having like our
Speaker 1: family and like closest fright, Like, I mean, how many
Speaker 1: people were there fifteen right when we got engaged. That
Speaker 1: was overwhelming because I was like, I want to hug everybody.
Speaker 1: I don't know who to hug first. I don't know
Speaker 1: how it's like to talk to first. I can't even
Speaker 1: imagine what it's like like on your wedding day, like
Speaker 1: it's probably so wild.
Speaker 2: Yeah did you cry?
Speaker 3: I did. I teared up during the ceremony and I
Speaker 3: teared up during everyone's speeches, and uh when week after
Speaker 3: the ceremonies down we came out like during the cocktail hour.
Speaker 3: That was like I'm not used to getting that much attention,
Speaker 3: you know, like that was that was that was, it was,
Speaker 3: I don't want to say it awkward. It was great,
Speaker 3: but like it's like, oh, there's my grandpa, there's my coworker,
Speaker 3: you know, like this is Yeah, everybody in your life
Speaker 3: that you know is there, and you want to like
Speaker 3: hug everybody and talk to everyone, but you kind of
Speaker 3: have to be like Mickey Masse Disneyland.
Speaker 1: Just like I got advice somebody said, like just take
Speaker 1: like at least like a ten minutes to just step away,
Speaker 1: like being Robbie, to step away and like look at
Speaker 1: everybody like interacting with each other, like you said, like
Speaker 1: your grandparents, with your coworker, with your you know whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: and like how special that is because that's like this
Speaker 1: is the only time that you really get that.
Speaker 2: That's what Dean and Klein did. They went and sat
Speaker 2: on a bench like outside of where we were all
Speaker 2: sitting at the table and they were just kind of
Speaker 2: like watching everybody, and they said that they did that
Speaker 2: intentionally to go like to make sure they took like
Speaker 2: so so soaked in. We're able to soak it in
Speaker 2: and like see all the people they love together.
Speaker 1: So yeah, but even like tomorrow is gonna be like
Speaker 1: one of those days, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: Tomorrow's gonna be like one of those days where like
Speaker 1: I want to like it.
Speaker 2: You know, it's like a big day. Should we put
Speaker 2: a GoPro on you? What if we put a GoPro
Speaker 2: thing that?
Speaker 1: Like I want something on my head when I'm like
Speaker 1: trying on a dry Should I wear a go pro? Maybe?
Speaker 2: Shoot, you need to go sorcel I get one of
Speaker 2: those running straps.
Speaker 1: But it's like crazy, you know, you just like want
Speaker 1: to like even like so stupid. But like even when
Speaker 1: like you know, Robbie was like designing the logo and
Speaker 1: like we're sitting there like doing it, I'm like I
Speaker 1: want to like soak it all in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you're talking.
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about this and I'm crying. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: even need to take a break and come back.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, great timing, Tanya.
Speaker 1: Thank you you saidn't just kind of on another note,
Speaker 1: she's back, She's back.
Speaker 2: But this are you about to talk to about the
Speaker 2: scrubbing is? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. I was like on the flip side, somebody
Speaker 1: needing a thirst trap and oh my god, I love
Speaker 1: what happened.
Speaker 2: This is my favorite thing ever because it's and I
Speaker 2: mean this in the best way. It is so unhinged.
Speaker 1: It is like, okay, excuse me, it's so unhinged to
Speaker 1: one is hinged to another. Exactly see what I did there?
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, however your actions were also unhinged, but it
Speaker 2: was hilarious and it like eventually worked out.
Speaker 1: So do you want to do an explode unhinged? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do I want to explain what? No, you can explain.
Speaker 2: Okay. So it was posted anonymously in the Facebook group.
Speaker 2: First of all, if you're not a if you're not
Speaker 2: in the Facebook group, you were missing out. You really
Speaker 2: there's a source.
Speaker 3: There are a lot of my friends that don't listen
Speaker 3: to the podcasts that are in the Facebook group, and
Speaker 3: they texted me about this about this post.
Speaker 2: Can you tell them to listen to the podcast?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, subscribe but anyways, the Facebook group is a it's
Speaker 2: an abundance of riches. So this scrubber said, I'm pulling
Speaker 2: a Tanya and it's an emergency. Can someone with a
Speaker 2: small build but a size se cup, brownish hair, blonde
Speaker 2: highlights if it has to be in it, hair can
Speaker 2: be pulled back, take a hot workout pick slash peloton
Speaker 2: pic without it showing your face needing a thirst strap
Speaker 2: but not in a position to take one. Please don't judge,
Speaker 2: just help us to stir out. So the best part
Speaker 2: is that fellow scrubbers pulled through a bunch of people
Speaker 2: posted potential photos for her to use, So that was
Speaker 2: giving a rizzler.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I I'm I'm bummed that she's anonymous because
Speaker 1: I would love to know the results, Like I need
Speaker 1: to know if she posted it, when she posted it,
Speaker 1: like what the results are. But I'm just gonna I'm
Speaker 1: here to defend our anonymous scrubber because when you were
Speaker 1: in that moment and you are needing that thirst trap
Speaker 1: and you need it immediately, like she said, emergency, I
Speaker 1: felt that, Yeah, because there's a small window you have
Speaker 1: time to really thirst trap them in.
Speaker 2: I just loved it. I loved the post. I love
Speaker 2: that the girls were like, let me, let me do
Speaker 2: this for you did for you in the snow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Tory was my hero.
Speaker 3: There's a few people saying like, isn't this being dishonest
Speaker 3: because it's not you honest was like, well, no, it's
Speaker 3: not catfishing because I asked for someone who looks just
Speaker 3: like me.
Speaker 1: So and first to say this, if anybody's on a
Speaker 1: dating app, you lie, okay, like you. There's not one
Speaker 1: person that's put on their dating app one hundred percent
Speaker 1: the truth. I don't enjoy long walks on the beach.
Speaker 1: I don't hike every day. But is that in my
Speaker 1: hobbies one hundred percent? Because what I else want to
Speaker 1: put on there? Like no, if you made a dating
Speaker 1: profile on HINT, you're not going to say like I
Speaker 1: don't leave my house for days and like I like
Speaker 1: to highlightate like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe no, I do. I love going to the beach.
Speaker 2: I do love going to the beach. If that was
Speaker 2: like a date opportunity. I love with Haley. But if
Speaker 2: I'm by myself, I do whatever I want. But if
Speaker 2: I'm with someone, I'm more inclined.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is the dating process? Does you do
Speaker 1: lie a little in the beginning, you know, like.
Speaker 2: Saying if someone's like, if someone's like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: one of my favorite things to do is going to
Speaker 2: long walks on the beach like this is my girl.
Speaker 2: And then and then you come to find out you
Speaker 2: lied about something.
Speaker 1: So I mean, I love a long walk on the beach.
Speaker 1: But when's the last time I took one? Two thousand
Speaker 1: and five? Probably, but like, I love it. I love
Speaker 1: a long walk on.
Speaker 2: The beach often. So you're not lying, right, right, But.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is like, it's not the full truth.
Speaker 1: That's not what I do on my Sunday. I don't
Speaker 1: take long walks on the beach, you know what I mean. Sundays,
Speaker 1: I'm like prepping my food and like going there.
Speaker 2: You been doing that?
Speaker 1: It's yeah, see the lies just keep coming.
Speaker 2: Flying.
Speaker 3: But what about setting a photo of a body that
Speaker 3: is not yours?
Speaker 1: You know, lines get blurry, and uh, she's not posting
Speaker 1: it saying this is me.
Speaker 3: She's just saying he enjoy this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just posting it. Like, let the mind do
Speaker 1: what it is.
Speaker 2: If you if you were in that situation, what you
Speaker 2: just want to you're just hoping that he or she
Speaker 2: reaches out seeing the photo. Is that the hope?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, likes it hurts it.
Speaker 2: Just just a just to get their attention.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a white flag.
Speaker 2: I love it. I love the Facebook group.
Speaker 1: You know, we shall not judge others for things they
Speaker 1: feel they need to do. You know, I'm with you
Speaker 1: if you need to post a picture pretending that you're
Speaker 1: in snow when you're in sunny Studio City, California, to
Speaker 1: get that heart and to get that in agement.
Speaker 3: Look where it got you.
Speaker 1: Look where it got me.
Speaker 2: Yep. Next thing, you know, she could be trying on
Speaker 2: wedding dresses exactly, saying us to the dress.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing. Eventually you tell the truth, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like the truth does come out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like she could be like, oh my gosh, remember
Speaker 2: that time when you liked that picture of me on
Speaker 2: the peloton? Wasn't me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was on my period. I really didn't want
Speaker 1: to like take a photo of the feeling cute.
Speaker 2: But I you know, I needed to, I needed. I
Speaker 2: did what I needed to I need.
Speaker 3: I did love how many scrubbers were coming together to help.
Speaker 3: There was like one or two people going like, Ey,
Speaker 3: this feels kind of weird, but everyone else is like,
Speaker 3: I'm in, how can we do this?
Speaker 1: Because you know, like we all want what's best for
Speaker 1: the other. Like when I asked Torri for the photo,
Speaker 1: you got it? What would you like? Would you like
Speaker 1: your initials? Would you like heart around it? Do you
Speaker 1: want to no feet toes?
Speaker 2: Boots?
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little hair, you know. Yeah, it's the sister mistihood.
Speaker 1: That's what I appreciate, the sisterhood.
Speaker 2: So we have a future guest coming up, and she
Speaker 2: just revealed some pretty crazy information on another podcast because
Speaker 2: Sarah Drew I.
Speaker 1: Was like, she's a future guest, No, so Via Bush.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe Sophia Bush could be a future guest if
Speaker 2: he still keeps working his magic. Everyone says they're into
Speaker 2: it and then nothing.
Speaker 1: She scrubs on like she's literally scrub scrubbing. She is
Speaker 1: actually scrubbing in.
Speaker 2: She's gonna be a recurring role on Gray's Anatomy, and
Speaker 2: I'm curious if she's going to lean into like a
Speaker 2: clear story since that could art imitates life or who
Speaker 2: she's gonna have a relationship with, or she might not
Speaker 2: have a relationship at all, or she just could be
Speaker 2: a doctor coming in to stir things up and save
Speaker 2: the day. But I'm excited about that. But anyways, Sarah
Speaker 2: Drew went on Call It What It Is with Jessica
Speaker 2: Capshan Camill Luddington are besties and basically said that her grades.
Speaker 1: A month since we've had them on, when too soon
Speaker 1: to ask again? Oh to have them back on a
Speaker 1: couple more months?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, maybe you're looking at twenty
Speaker 2: twenty five.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that'll be here before you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, But Sarah said her Gray's exit felt
Speaker 2: mean and unjust, and she said she they She said,
Speaker 2: I guess her about her and Jessica because they were
Speaker 2: let go at the same time, and she said, we
Speaker 2: were unceremoniously like going away. That felt really mean and unjust.
Speaker 2: And because of that, the outpouring of love was so enormous, enormous.
Speaker 2: It was like you were sitting there watching people say
Speaker 2: all the things that they love about you after you're dead.
Speaker 2: I felt so sad because remember Jessica on the podcast,
Speaker 2: she was like, I have never talked about that, yeah,
Speaker 2: but maybe one day I will.
Speaker 1: Meaning there's a story there, a story I don't know.
Speaker 1: A story we don't know, Yeah, a story we would
Speaker 1: like to know.
Speaker 2: But what's interesting is that she Sarah has gone back
Speaker 2: and forth, and so has Jessica like been back on
Speaker 2: the show, like come back. So obviously either people that
Speaker 2: let them go are no longer there or whatever whoever
Speaker 2: whatever was toxic maybe isn't there anymore, or they've just
Speaker 2: made peace with it, and it's kind of like, Okay,
Speaker 2: it is what it is. I have a lot of
Speaker 2: good memories here, so I'm not gonna you never go
Speaker 2: back to it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. The thing that's so interesting with this
Speaker 1: type of stuff that like I feel like we don't
Speaker 1: you're when you're an actor, you're giving so much of
Speaker 1: like yourself and your life, and you're putting so much
Speaker 1: into this role, right, but nothing is in your control.
Speaker 1: You're not the producer, you're not like paying the bills,
Speaker 1: like you're just you're showing up to a job. But
Speaker 1: it feels so personal to you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And then they also can't really tell us what actually
Speaker 1: happened because maybe they're under contract, maybe they've signed NDA's
Speaker 1: like it's just this big mystery, so we have no
Speaker 1: idea what happened. We have no idea if they left,
Speaker 1: because again there was like some scuttle they got cut
Speaker 1: cut out. We don't know if they left because their
Speaker 1: demands weren't being met. We don't know, like we don't
Speaker 1: know anything.
Speaker 2: Well, she was saying. One thing she said was that
Speaker 2: she there, like when she goes back. Now there's no anxiety,
Speaker 2: because I think when she would go back or there
Speaker 2: was this anxiety about oh no if I if I
Speaker 2: piss off the wrong person, or if I do something
Speaker 2: wrong or they're not interested in me, then maybe they
Speaker 2: won't have me back. And she said, now she goes
Speaker 2: on and there's no anxiety about it. She just pops
Speaker 2: in and it's like she has peace about it, which
Speaker 2: must be a really good feeling. Yeah, because that would
Speaker 2: stress me out big time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're watching that show about.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's called Anatomy of Lies.
Speaker 1: It's on Can you explain it? And like, I've read
Speaker 1: the synopsis, so I think I but I can't understand
Speaker 1: what this show is about, and like why at Matt,
Speaker 1: like why it? Like why are you interested in it?
Speaker 2: It's a documentary about one of the biggest writers on
Speaker 2: Grey's Anatomy, and she basically lied about having cancer. She lied,
Speaker 2: I haven't gotten to I'm still midway through. But she
Speaker 2: yeah her. Yeah. So she got on the show basically
Speaker 2: because I think that they hired She had been trying
Speaker 2: to get on the show for a long time. They
Speaker 2: hired her because I think she was sick, and that's
Speaker 2: why they hired her. But she was in do you
Speaker 2: remember the storyline where they walked the patient who had
Speaker 2: been assaulted and all the women are lying in the walls.
Speaker 2: She they put her in there because she said she
Speaker 2: had the same story, but it was like a friend
Speaker 2: of her story or something that she used to write
Speaker 2: the show as her own, and they put her in
Speaker 2: scrubs and like she's one of the nurses. That's like
Speaker 2: walking the patient down the hall. So there was just
Speaker 2: all this stuff that she fully lied about. She was
Speaker 2: almost like catfishing, but not physically, Like she wasn't catfishing
Speaker 2: in the sense that she was using someone else's identity,
Speaker 2: but she was using other people's stories and then lying
Speaker 2: about her own story about like having cancer and being
Speaker 2: sick and like all this stuff. It's insane, but she
Speaker 2: was like up there, she was obsessed with Joe Camilla's character,
Speaker 2: like she wanted to write all of her storylines. It's
Speaker 2: a fascinating it's so.
Speaker 1: But then how did this all come to light?
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: How did everybody find out about this?
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I guess people either started
Speaker 2: putting stories. I haven't gotten to the post.
Speaker 3: Do you want to know?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: The spoiler spoiler for a documentary. So the Disney started
Speaker 3: investigating her medical history. I know because her estranged wife
Speaker 3: contacted Disney and Shondaland with information that she had uncovered
Speaker 3: about her past. During Disney's investigation, Finch refused to provide
Speaker 3: medical documentation or undergo an independent medical evaluation to substantiate
Speaker 3: her claims, and she was placed on leave. So they
Speaker 3: just looked into it and found that she had lied
Speaker 3: about her personal and medical history. After it was the
Speaker 3: a strange wife that kind of tipped him off.
Speaker 2: It's it's a it's a really wild ride. So so
Speaker 2: should I watch it? Yeah, it's it's I mean, I
Speaker 2: love a documentary, so personally.
Speaker 3: I love watching people get in over their head with lies.
Speaker 3: I don't know why I enjoy that. So it's like
Speaker 3: a because it's so I'm detached from it, like, oh
Speaker 3: I didn't do this, but I get the thrill of
Speaker 3: like watching someone make a terrible decision. Yeah, I'm going
Speaker 3: to watch this.
Speaker 1: So where do we feel like that lie is compared
Speaker 1: to our scrubbers lie about the posting on the peloton, Well,
Speaker 1: it just.
Speaker 2: Depends on the It's just it can't be a snowball effect.
Speaker 2: It's got to in there. It's gotta in with the
Speaker 2: peloton pick.
Speaker 1: Right right, right right. This can't be her gateway to
Speaker 1: then constantly.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, can't be a gateway, right, It
Speaker 2: has to just be a blip right right right?
Speaker 1: So like how many?
Speaker 2: How many of those did you have?
Speaker 1: So I did this snow one Robber Graham come over
Speaker 1: and post some things with Robert, and then everything else
Speaker 1: was just like my normal.
Speaker 2: Self. You would get dressed and I was like, you
Speaker 2: were going somewhere.
Speaker 1: And I wasn't going anywhere, right, but yes, innocent.
Speaker 3: I did get some text from you saying, hey, if
Speaker 3: if I posted this and you were would your eye.
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: And I was like, yes, post do it. He will
Speaker 3: react this way.
Speaker 2: Blame emojis coming and hot literally wow.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I was unhinged for two months, but I came
Speaker 1: back down. Yeah, and look what The one that really
Speaker 1: set us over was the was the orange dress, which
Speaker 1: was totally legit.
Speaker 2: Yes, no lies, right, no lies detected, No lies detected.
Speaker 2: This leads into our next thing. There was a Reddit
Speaker 2: post that said how do you know that you're attractive?
Speaker 2: And more than seven thousand responses came in and these
Speaker 2: are some of the best way east Would you like
Speaker 2: to read them? Uh?
Speaker 3: Yes I would. Oh, oh my god. They thank you
Speaker 3: handing me paper.
Speaker 2: Here.
Speaker 3: This is how to tell if you're attractive a coin
Speaker 3: to Reddit users. This is self reporting. Okay, this is
Speaker 3: not a scientific study. Here, little freebies when you're in
Speaker 3: public extra free scoop on the of the ice cream
Speaker 3: parking contented telling you not to worry when you're paying
Speaker 3: stuff like that, little freebies. You get hit on, and
Speaker 3: as you get older, you're no longer getting hit on
Speaker 3: as much. I don't know about that. Old people will
Speaker 3: say it out loud, okay, So the elderly people will
Speaker 3: just say, wow, you're hot. Little kids will ask We'll
Speaker 3: let you know if the opposite is true. So like
Speaker 3: children will tell you that you're ugly, you don't have
Speaker 3: to ask for confirmation. Okay, strangers remind you with favors
Speaker 3: and invitations. They make the effort spend time with you,
Speaker 3: not the other way around. Someone says, because my wife
Speaker 3: is fricking gorgeous, you don't find it hard to look
Speaker 3: for someone to date. Wait until you're old and attractive
Speaker 3: and look back on your younger pictures and say, oh wow,
Speaker 3: I was pretty.
Speaker 1: You don't find it hard to find someone to date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's hard out there. Yeah, even the most attractive people
Speaker 1: have hard times.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, this is just this is not scientific.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, ready, users, le's remind you such of that.
Speaker 3: People come up and tell me how beautiful I think
Speaker 3: I am, men and women alike. I don't think about
Speaker 3: it otherwise. Okay, wherever you go, you meet nice people.
Speaker 3: Everyone is kind and forgiving towards you at first.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 3: Someone says, I heard this quote. When you're attractive, the
Speaker 3: world will let you know, but if you're not, you
Speaker 3: have to figure it out yourself.
Speaker 2: Day. So that was pretty just like standard issue, right generic?
Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of down after that, you know why? You
Speaker 1: know it's going to pick me up though. What Americans
Speaker 1: lose thirty six days a year to content consumption.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's devastating.
Speaker 1: I also saw this meme that said, you, I can't
Speaker 1: remember the number, but it's like you lose certain a
Speaker 1: certain amount of days if you if you say goodbye
Speaker 1: when you leave a party, and I have like the
Speaker 1: I'm like the longest goodbye give her, like when we
Speaker 1: decided to leave anything, Like it's like ap to say
Speaker 1: goodbye to everybody.
Speaker 2: It kind of I used to be like that, but
Speaker 2: I'm more like, depends on my mood, I for sure
Speaker 2: say goodbye to like the host or whoever I feel
Speaker 2: like is invited me. I at least say goodbye to them,
Speaker 2: and then you just depending on who I meet up
Speaker 2: with on my path on the way out, I'll say goodbye.
Speaker 2: But I used to be like I need to go
Speaker 2: around the table or I need to go around the
Speaker 2: space and make sure I say it to everyone. And
Speaker 2: now I'm like, they don't care. Why do I feel
Speaker 2: like I'm so important that they care?
Speaker 1: I know, it's not it's more of like I feel
Speaker 1: like rude.
Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying, like, why do I get
Speaker 2: the care some of mine out?
Speaker 1: I have to care less?
Speaker 3: I used to be so bad, Like I would wait
Speaker 3: till everyone until I thought everyone was drunk enough where
Speaker 3: they would notice, and then I would just tell whoever's
Speaker 3: talking to I'm like, I gotta get something on my
Speaker 3: car really quick, and I would just leave whoa Irish yes.
Speaker 3: And then Allison told me she was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: everyone hated you because you did that all the time.
Speaker 3: Like all of our friends were like, oh, he's it's
Speaker 3: a jerk because he never says goodbye. I was like,
Speaker 3: oh god, so now I just I think about the
Speaker 3: host now, but I still don't say about it.
Speaker 1: I need to explain everything, you know, Like in the
Speaker 1: words of Ariana Grande sympathy, Oh no, what is it?
Speaker 1: It's a knife.
Speaker 3: Sympathy is a knife.
Speaker 1: I'm forgetting the lyrics, but basically it's something to the
Speaker 1: effect of like people don't like, why do you explain everything?
Speaker 1: Because people it doesn't matter what people think. And I'm like, wow, yeah,
Speaker 1: it hit me. I feel like I've spent so much
Speaker 1: of my life explaining things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's just also kind of being a woman. Really, yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't explain themselves. Like everything I say, explain, but
Speaker 2: you don't have to like explain decisions or why you
Speaker 2: did certain things like we.
Speaker 1: Do yeah, or like if you say, notice something I have, Oh,
Speaker 1: I have to have something else that night otherwise I
Speaker 1: have to say.
Speaker 2: It can't just be like I don't.
Speaker 3: You know it's a complete sentence, right, I can't.
Speaker 1: I don' have never known that. Yeah, yeah, it feels
Speaker 1: like a lot of therapy.
Speaker 2: No, No, that does feel like something for your therapist
Speaker 2: to analyze. But yeah, you know it's not something for
Speaker 2: your therapist analyzed. Have you have you heard of the
Speaker 2: hear me Out Cake? No?
Speaker 1: I was actually just gonna I was gonna take it
Speaker 1: to another direction. But tell me about the cake.
Speaker 3: Tell me about the cake after oh after the break,
Speaker 3: really about the cake.
Speaker 2: All right, we're back, We're back, We're back. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 2: so hear me Out cake. I know Easton's gonna have
Speaker 2: some hear me out because I feel like he posts
Speaker 2: hear me outs on his Instagram story often. But you
Speaker 2: hear me out is like it's a character that's kind
Speaker 2: of hot. So like you're like, hear me out. This
Speaker 2: guy is hot, but it's something that you wouldn't probably
Speaker 2: naturally normally think is hot.
Speaker 3: So like, is this like does it have to be
Speaker 3: like a fictional character or like a cartoon.
Speaker 1: Okay, hear me out.
Speaker 2: Okay, hey arnold, no really kind of hot, tell me more.
Speaker 1: Something about the blonde hair, is unique face shape and
Speaker 1: the cute outfits.
Speaker 2: Okay, no, I mean no, hear me out is like
Speaker 2: totally subjective, objective, subjective, subjective. I was asking, but I
Speaker 2: hear me out is totally subjective, So like I don't
Speaker 2: I might not hear you out. I might not get
Speaker 2: you hear me out, but you get your hear me out. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like my hear me out is like spirit the horse
Speaker 2: chance if this guy was turned into a man very.
Speaker 1: Handsome Prince Eric from Little Mermaid.
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean that's pretty objective to me. I think
Speaker 2: everyone thinks he's No.
Speaker 1: I'm saying that looks like that that horse.
Speaker 2: Could be like Prince yea like John Smith or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Another one I had. I was obsessed with
Speaker 2: Linka from Captain Planet. That was actually someone that may
Speaker 2: have been an awakening for me and I didn't know,
Speaker 2: just like she's kind of she definitely has some WLW energy.
Speaker 2: I look at it all.
Speaker 1: I don't even know who that person is. I've never pled,
Speaker 1: never seen her cargo shorts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, you guys, it was right in
Speaker 2: front of my face the whole time.
Speaker 3: She's got the power of wind.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was the power of wind. You just gotta
Speaker 2: go over the wind blows, you know, you gotta go. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: this is a total you want to talk about it?
Speaker 2: Do your sound where it's a look kind of because
Speaker 2: speaking of wind, did you watch the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show?
Speaker 1: I love the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show?
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: I tried to get on the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show
Speaker 1: this year because now that I have a model. Oh
Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, it was like where does where do
Speaker 1: models belong? On the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show?
Speaker 2: Right right? Trying to go with the ogs?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you know Adriana Lima, Gigi Head, Tanya
Speaker 1: rag Moss, Oh yeah, Kate Moss. Yeah, it's just like
Speaker 1: fits right in, you know share.
Speaker 2: So did they did you get in touch on that? No?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, they didn't come and knock in.
Speaker 2: Well, what I was gonna say is that people were saying, well,
Speaker 2: first of all, what do you think about the show?
Speaker 1: Gorgeous?
Speaker 2: I loved it too. You know, there's something about social
Speaker 2: media which I feel like I'm beating a dead horse
Speaker 2: with this comment all the time. But there's so much
Speaker 2: critique on things. There's always opinions, and then it's like
Speaker 2: always negative. And it's like, we wanted the Victoria's Secret
Speaker 2: Fashion Show. They brought back the OG's it was there
Speaker 2: was diverse. It just felt so good to have it back. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and still people are like, there wasn't wind I wanted
Speaker 2: And I did agree with this. They did a lot
Speaker 2: of slicked back ponytail looks, and I feel like when
Speaker 2: I think about Victoria's Secret.
Speaker 1: You think of like the big curls, big.
Speaker 2: Big ways and like the wind blowing it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's an interesting it's an interesting conversation because I
Speaker 1: feel like I too have that sentiment about the Victoria's
Speaker 1: Secret Fashion Show. It's like nostalgic to me. I remember
Speaker 1: watching it like in college, Like that was kind of
Speaker 1: like it was like, oh, the holidays are coming because
Speaker 1: like it's the Victoria's area, you know, like it has that.
Speaker 1: But then on the flip side, I do see the
Speaker 1: like the harmfulness of it too, do you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? And the body expectations, which I feel like
Speaker 1: it was different this year. So it's like I see
Speaker 1: that and I can see how that can be triggering
Speaker 1: for people, you know what I mean to see it.
Speaker 1: So it's like I see both sides, but for me personally,
Speaker 1: and that's like all you can you know, that's all
Speaker 1: you can speak on. It does have those like Okay,
Speaker 1: this is like it's like the holiday season is a
Speaker 1: fun the angels have opened their wings and like it
Speaker 1: does have that feeling for me.
Speaker 2: I mean, Haley and I were watching the old ones
Speaker 2: with like Taylor Swift performing and we were like doing
Speaker 2: our walks. Yeah, it's just so fun. And I actually
Speaker 2: have realized I'd never watched one with Haley and I
Speaker 2: didn't know if she liked it or not, but she
Speaker 2: we literally had the best time. We went back on
Speaker 2: old YouTube videos and watched all the old performances and.
Speaker 1: It's so it's just like iconic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so iconic. Yeah, but yeah, I realized after
Speaker 2: saying I really thought I was crushing it with my
Speaker 2: like walk and then because Haley was videoing me and
Speaker 2: I was like, I cannot wait, I'm posting this and
Speaker 2: then I saw it and I'm like, that's harder than you
Speaker 2: would think.
Speaker 1: Much harder life is a model.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, and that runway was so long. I
Speaker 2: was thinking about you doing your Miami Swim Week.
Speaker 1: And how small mine was. Oh my, and I thought
Speaker 1: I was walking for days. I could not imagine walking
Speaker 1: that runway. I would feel like I was walking the plank.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like in those heels.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Did you did you have any standouts of like who
Speaker 2: you were excited to see.
Speaker 1: I didn't know who to see, Like, I didn't know
Speaker 1: who to look for. I was surprised Kendall Jenner wasn't there.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, I was a little surprised by that.
Speaker 1: I was like waiting for her and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: she is not here. Yeah, but I guess she has
Speaker 1: a Kavin kleineeal. So I think there's like a non compete,
Speaker 1: and that's.
Speaker 2: What that'd be upsetting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the rumor is a Bahodi Prince Lou to me
Speaker 1: is like yeah, everything. Yeah, And then I really love
Speaker 1: Candice wanna play.
Speaker 2: She's ever. She is Victoria's secret too. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She is.
Speaker 2: Her body is insane.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she just has like I don't know her personally,
Speaker 1: So this is literally like just totally but like she
Speaker 1: seems so sweet and like kind and like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know much about her. I just know that
Speaker 2: she is Victoria's secret model. To me, Yeah, but it
Speaker 2: was just fun. I loved like Kate Moss coming out.
Speaker 2: I love Jasmine Tuks. I followed Jasmine and I felt
Speaker 2: like they didn't show her enough because I think she's
Speaker 2: a standout and a lot of people agreed with me
Speaker 2: on TikTok Oh talk.
Speaker 1: I also love that like the performers were all women
Speaker 1: like Shaer, Lisa, Tyla, like the one name women like
Speaker 1: you know, just like I don't know. It just felt
Speaker 1: very like, oh you're I liked it.
Speaker 2: Tyler looks she's so beauty. She looks AI like she's
Speaker 2: so basically.
Speaker 1: I was also like, I do love a gazelle bunchin moment,
Speaker 1: so it was surprised.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was reading some things like she'd made some comments
Speaker 1: about like not loving like she likes modeling, but she
Speaker 1: doesn't love necessarily doing like people like looking up you know,
Speaker 1: and like, which I get. I mean like looking up
Speaker 1: at her, Yeah, like that type of stuff.
Speaker 2: That's fair.
Speaker 1: That's very fair.
Speaker 2: I like, yeah, you would like that. I think I
Speaker 2: would lean more towards Giselle.
Speaker 1: On that there's something very like, uh freeing about it,
Speaker 1: and maybe it's because like I'm not a model or
Speaker 1: like I have had excuse me, I used to not
Speaker 1: be a model and that has changed. But because I
Speaker 1: used to have like a lot, I had a lot
Speaker 1: of I wouldn't say like body issues, but I think
Speaker 1: I've struggled with weight and body image and stuff in
Speaker 1: the past, and so I think doing that walk, doing
Speaker 1: that movie empowering was empowering for me doing it at
Speaker 1: same week, I can't imagine how empowering it is doing
Speaker 1: it on such a like a bigger, grander scale, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like it really unlocked something in me, like
Speaker 1: a little bit of like inhibition, you know.
Speaker 2: Really, so innis round yasin. No one else can do
Speaker 2: it for you.
Speaker 1: No nobody else can do it for you, like you
Speaker 1: have to let it and let it in.
Speaker 2: That's true. Natasha knew it too, saying with those lies, maybe.
Speaker 1: Next year they'll get Natasha Bettingfield to do the vitrility
Speaker 1: of your fashion show and then maybe I could walk in.
Speaker 2: Well that's a good Before we end this conversation, who
Speaker 2: would be your dream performer? I forgot. Taylor did it twice.
Speaker 2: She did it during nineteen eighty nine and her Red
Speaker 2: album Wow.
Speaker 3: And with Fallout Boy. Right.
Speaker 2: Oh, I think she did saw that as a title.
Speaker 2: I didn't watch it, though.
Speaker 1: I kind of like it being all women performers. I
Speaker 1: know there's something like safe about it, sacred. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: I like.
Speaker 2: So. Uh.
Speaker 1: I don't know who's I don't know. I don't think
Speaker 1: I'm familiar enough with the catalog from the past, but
Speaker 1: I'd love to see a Sabrina Carpenter out there. She'd
Speaker 1: be perfect, yeah, or like an Ariana Grande. But I'm Madine,
Speaker 1: she's done it before.
Speaker 2: Sabrino will looks so tiny up there with the girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not with those heels on, though they have heels.
Speaker 1: But she's got her bad big babe, bad big bad babies.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like that would be a good one.
Speaker 1: Who else isn't that on my vision board? Or twenty
Speaker 1: twenty five? What Victoria's Secret Fashion Show?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Model, I want to go to the show.
Speaker 2: Jojo and I went in twenty eighteen, which I think
Speaker 2: was the last one before they stopped. Yeah, that was, like,
Speaker 2: I ca I can't believe.
Speaker 3: Twenty fourteen had a the lineup was it could have
Speaker 3: been today. It was Taylor Swift, Ariana Grande and Hosier
Speaker 3: Day and that's what Ariana Grande was hit by accident
Speaker 3: by Wait.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the meme. Yeah yeah, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Yea yeah ten years ago.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think who would be like the share
Speaker 2: that I would choose.
Speaker 1: Oh, Kelsey Ballerini, twin.
Speaker 3: Beyonce, imagine Beyonce.
Speaker 2: Naya Twain be good. That would be so good, man,
Speaker 2: I feel like a woman.
Speaker 1: Oh right to sell.
Speaker 2: I'd love to see Kelly Clarkson too, because I love
Speaker 2: to listen to her sing no matter what.
Speaker 1: That would be a good one.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, anyways, moving on.
Speaker 3: I saw Beetle Juice Beetle Juice last night. I know
Speaker 3: I'm late, but there's a part in that movie where
Speaker 3: I think Beetle Juice licks a picture of Lydia, Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I thought of I thought of you, Tiny, because
Speaker 3: I know you like that movie, and I know that
Speaker 3: you like to lick pictures on your phone.
Speaker 2: Used to as a kid.
Speaker 1: It was licking the pages, it was making out with them.
Speaker 1: I've under done it.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you've done it recently, but on your phone. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that was what was coming up in my mind. And
Speaker 3: it's like something I witnessed not a month earlier.
Speaker 2: So no, no, no, no, no, no, everyone did me.
Speaker 1: Oh right my sonny photo? Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw Beetlejuice licked the photo and then I
Speaker 3: know jealous and I'm like, tiny does that too?
Speaker 2: Is your is beetlejuice? Beetle Juice want of your hear
Speaker 2: me else?
Speaker 1: No, altho, No, I think about it. I mean the
Speaker 1: way he's obsessed with Lydia like hear me out yikes. Yeah.
Speaker 2: You remember how I told Tanya over the weekend. I
Speaker 2: was like, I feel like Robbie's like obsessed with you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and she comes really I'm like, yeah, I feel it.
Speaker 2: Am I just seeing it because I posted the chicken
Speaker 2: dance and he he said he left such a nice comment,
Speaker 2: like jokes on y'all because she crushed it. I'm like, well,
Speaker 2: a man in love.
Speaker 3: He is one of the first commenters on most of
Speaker 3: like the scrubbing. I like one just went up earlier
Speaker 3: about oh the mathematically beautiful people think, and Robbi's chiming
Speaker 3: in like five minutes after his person I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: we love you. Robbie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a dedicated scrubber. He'll show me things about
Speaker 1: the Facebook group that I didn't see. He's like, did
Speaker 1: you see that post day? And I'm like, no, you
Speaker 1: have to comment, you need to go in there. And
Speaker 1: I'm like you need to weigh in, you need to
Speaker 1: weigh in. Yeah, bless him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love his clment. His comment on Today's was
Speaker 2: really funny.
Speaker 1: A funny guy.
Speaker 2: He is a funny guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But like you know, I was actually having this
Speaker 1: debate earlier because it's like everybody says you need your
Speaker 1: partner needs to make you laugh, and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't think you necessarily need to find like a funny partner,
Speaker 1: because I think funny is subjective, Like you can make
Speaker 1: me laugh, but like people might not think you're a
Speaker 1: funny guy, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I because I think Hayley's really funny, But I
Speaker 2: don't know that people view her as funny because where
Speaker 2: she's funny is almost like it's not intentional, Like she's
Speaker 2: unintentionally funny to me, right, but.
Speaker 1: She makes you laugh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she makes me laugh, which is the levity.
Speaker 1: Levity and everybody wants in a relationship, right, So like
Speaker 1: if we went around the room. If there were a
Speaker 1: lot of people in this room and everybody had a partner,
Speaker 1: and we asked them, do you think your partner's funny?
Speaker 1: I guarantee every single person would say yes. And then
Speaker 1: if you ask me if their partner was funny, I'd
Speaker 1: probably be like, no, you know what.
Speaker 2: I mean, you don't know the ins and outs of right.
Speaker 3: I think that's so important. There was a post in
Speaker 3: the Facebook group recently, and I'm sorry to whoever this was,
Speaker 3: but they said, what do you do if your part
Speaker 3: you don't find your partner funny? Like my partner tries
Speaker 3: to make jokes all the time, and I just cringe.
Speaker 2: Oh that.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I just can't imagine
Speaker 3: that would be. Because Allison is the funniest person I've ever met,
Speaker 3: and like not even just like like I truly she
Speaker 3: is ninety percent of the funny stuff like I post
Speaker 3: online is stuff I stole from her, Like I just
Speaker 3: wanted to that clear. She is so funny. I could
Speaker 3: not if she was not funny, I don't I could
Speaker 3: not go on I could, I couldn't do it. That's right, So.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but I sometimes I think, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll see his comments. I'm like, that's so funny. Then
Speaker 1: I'm like, do other people think it's funny or is
Speaker 1: it just funny because I'm like in love with them,
Speaker 1: you know what i mean, right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, No, I think it'd be hard to have
Speaker 2: to be with someone, especially if they were trying to
Speaker 2: be funny. I'd almost rather someone like not like put.
Speaker 1: It intentionally funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because Haley always is like, you're literally the funniest
Speaker 2: person I've ever met. And she's like, I never thought
Speaker 2: that that was an important quality I wanted in someone, like,
Speaker 2: in fact, I don't think it was ever something I
Speaker 2: sought out and a partner. Yeah, And she's like, I
Speaker 2: love that you make me laugh. And I'm like, you
Speaker 2: make me laugh and you're so unintentionally funny. And she's like,
Speaker 2: I can't thought that's a compliment or not. And I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: it is because you're just funny, Like you are so
Speaker 2: serious with like your work and stuff. But then I
Speaker 2: get to see a different version of you, yeah, which
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 3: I think it's important, like to find the other person
Speaker 3: funny because it's like demonstrates that you can look at
Speaker 3: things from different perspectives and see different parts of life.
Speaker 1: We were talking about this earlier, but because we had
Speaker 1: Joey and Jenna on the podcast and we were all
Speaker 1: talking about how we would feel if like our partner
Speaker 1: was on Dancing with the Stars. That would be a disaster.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it, and I think
Speaker 1: I could. Let's just take Jenna as an example. I
Speaker 1: would hate to see Robbie dancing and grinding grinding on
Speaker 1: I couldn't even say Jenna on a weekly basis.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but I think I could do it if
Speaker 2: I was if we were doing it together, like if
Speaker 2: we were competing together, I could do it. But I yeah,
Speaker 2: I think it'd be really hard. I also really feel
Speaker 2: for people, like specifically in Joey and Kelsey situation, coming
Speaker 2: fresh off the batch, like coming from a competition in
Speaker 2: a totally different way for Kelsey and finally getting the
Speaker 2: guy and then it's like you have this like blissful
Speaker 2: few months and then it's like he's just this other person.
Speaker 1: Pray and it's not even like trust, like the trust
Speaker 1: is there. It's like there's not nothing's gonna happen, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. She's married, she has a baby,
Speaker 1: like she's good. But it's just that just seeing it.
Speaker 2: With social media people being like, oh my gosh, there's
Speaker 2: so much chemistry between them, Like you can definitely tell
Speaker 2: there's something going on. I'd be so in my head.
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 2: He I liked it. He was like, you just have
Speaker 2: to block out the noise.
Speaker 1: Because you have to, but you know, it's a great
Speaker 1: lesson in life.
Speaker 2: Block out the noise, wock out the I agree, it hard.
Speaker 2: I it is hard, but it's something we must do.
Speaker 1: A lot of noise out there.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of noise, a lot.
Speaker 1: Of noise, a lot of opinions.
Speaker 2: And with that, this podcast is over. It's come to
Speaker 2: an end.
Speaker 1: No more opinions here, noise starts now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the noise is ending in three two one