1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast. 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 3 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: Scrubber Duba Daba dubba dua do. 4 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 3: Wow. 5 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: We have to turn my ears down a little bit. 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have earphones today. I'm raw dogging it 7 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: and so I cannot hear myself or I am. 8 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: Maybe the pitch, maybe the pitch was ssfferent. 9 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: Have you ever heard that song? Sonnay, thank you father give. 10 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 3: I'm glad you brought that up, because often when you 11 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 3: start the scrubby dub dub thing, to me, it sounds 12 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,319 Speaker 3: like California Love scrub and then you then you go off. 13 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: I confirm, I have never thought of California lovell I've 14 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: done it, so I think that's. 15 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: I thought I was losing my mind because then you 16 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: go into a different place after Grabba. 17 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 2: No, I don't know. 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, tickets, Yeah. 19 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: Welcome back to ther I'll come back. 20 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: It is, in fact, not Monday. It's not Monday for us, 21 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: it's Monday for you. 22 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: It's Monday for you, or it could be Tuesday, was there, Thursday. 23 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: Friday, which whenever you're listening. But we're doing this early 24 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: because you are going to see family. 25 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to Louisiana, which is exciting homeland. 26 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, how many hours I'm a plane. 27 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: It's not many hours on the plane, actually, it's I 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: there's no direct flight, so that's tricky. But I am 29 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: flying out a burbank, which if you live in the 30 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: LA area, you know how how much better that is 31 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: for the mental. 32 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 1: Burbank is like the smaller airport in town. 33 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyways, so yeah, I'm flying into Louisiana on Sunday, 34 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: and I'm going to get to see my nephews play football, 35 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: see my little niece who's one, and my sister, my 36 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: brother in law, and then my parents are driving from Flora. 37 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to see half of the fam. 38 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: Very exciting. 39 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 40 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: How many days are you going? 41 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: I'm going Sunday to Thursday or full days. Yeah. Hailey's 42 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 2: I can't believe you're leaving me. I keep thinking about 43 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 2: it and I get stressed. 44 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: I know, that's nice. 45 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: Speaking of I. Okay, So Hailey's love language is food, 46 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: but I'm not. I've never been like much of a cook, 47 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 2: you know, It's not like a passion of mine. 48 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I'm not agree on you I understand 49 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: either way. 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I've ever cooked for you, but 51 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: if I did, you'd probably be underwhelmed. But last night 52 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: she was getting her hair done all day and had 53 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: worked all morning. So I was like, I'm going to 54 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 2: order stuff because she wanted to cook, and she went 55 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 2: to pasta. So I order stuff from Italy, which is like, wow, 56 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: fresh fish, and so I was like, I'm going to 57 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: make lobster pasta, which was really an undertaking because as 58 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: for someone who could barely regular lobster, well, I didn't 59 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: cook it. So what I did, I got cooked lobster meat. 60 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: Smart. 61 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really saved myself. What I did isn't that impressive, 62 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 2: but it turned out great. So I made us dinner 63 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: and it was like you guys, Normally, when I eat 64 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 2: the food I make, I'm like, whatever, it's food, I 65 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: made it, I should try better next time. It was 66 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 2: like restaurant level. 67 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: So did it make you want to cook more? 68 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: Kind of oh wow? Yeah. The only thing I'm kind 69 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: of when I get scared or intimidated by is cooking meat. 70 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: Me too. 71 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: And also, Haley is sensitive to garlic and onion, so 72 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 2: like that's a lot of the flavoring and a most recipe. 73 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: So it's trying to find stuff that can substitute for flavor, 74 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: so it's not just super bland. But yeah, after last night, 75 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: I was like, dang, I mean I just followed a recipe. 76 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. It wasn't like, oh. 77 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: Just like a little pinch of this, a little pop 78 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: of that. 79 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't cook from the heart. I followed a recipe, 80 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: but sometimes it don't turn out well and it really 81 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: it's slash Wow, probably thank you. It was a big 82 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: moment and she was just like I felt so loved. 83 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: You know. Well, yeah, because it's not an official I 84 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: guess it's an active service. Maybe. 85 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm going to try to do more. 86 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: I made breakfast for us every day. Wow, eggs and 87 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: stuff hash browns that is elaborate hash browns, like yeah, 88 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 2: like the like the McDonald's time to like patties, film 89 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: in the air fire. 90 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: All right, that's nice, it's really nice. It's it's a 91 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: it's a good day when I can like shake my 92 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: protein powder into my almond milk. 93 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: Get out of the thing. Here's the thing, Tanya. I'm 94 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,679 Speaker 2: not waking up at five am, right, right, I'm cruising 95 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 2: in or around nine, ready to start the day. 96 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, some pancakes and hash Browns on a Tuesday. I honestly, 97 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: it's just like it's so funny because I cannot picture it. 98 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so nice. 99 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 100 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 2: I actually had a nightmare because I kept snoozing my 101 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 2: alarm today. I think because at the weather being cloudy. Yeah, 102 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: my body is really cocooning, Like I'm like, I don't 103 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 2: want to wake up my alarm mom off at eight 104 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: and I was like no, I felt like it was 105 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,799 Speaker 2: five am, so I was snoozing. But while I was snoozing, 106 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: I was having a dream that I was running late 107 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 2: and we interviewed Joey and Jenna, and I dreamed I 108 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: was at the beach and I walked into the interview 109 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 2: with like sandal in my hair, and I was like 110 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 2: they won't notice. 111 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: Okay. Interesting, So we could analyze that dream, okay, because 112 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: there's always meaning. It's you're subconscious when you're dreaming. So 113 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: what were you feeling in your dream? Underprepared? 114 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 2: Oh, feeling like I needed to get up and I 115 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: kept hitting snooze like I was. I was hitting the 116 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: alarm in my dream too, Like I had an alarm 117 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: set and then I was with Weirdly, I was with 118 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 2: Marla's mom on the beach and she kept being like, 119 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: you need to go, and I was like, oh, it's 120 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: only ten, I don't have to be there till two. 121 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: And then she goes this one fifteen, so I was 122 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 2: like what. Then I showed up and I was all late. 123 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 2: I think me being late isn't that crazy for. 124 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: My reality, But maybe it's your subconscious telling you don't 125 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: like this feeling anymore. Time to wake up, time to 126 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,799 Speaker 1: wake up, like figuratively. 127 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 2: Trying to be more like I wouldn't say I'm on time, 128 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 2: but I've been trying to be more committal. Like I 129 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 2: committed to doing things last week, and normally I would 130 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 2: be like, oh, I woke up, I'm not feeling great 131 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: and I'm tired, whatever, I don't want to do it. 132 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 2: And I went to both things that I committed to, 133 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 2: and I was so happy that I went, and I 134 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: was like, I need to be I need to be 135 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 2: a committed person. 136 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have a really hard. 137 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: Time committing to things because I fear that I'm gonna 138 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: wake up or the time's gonna come and I'm not 139 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: gonna want to do it. 140 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 3: I know exactly how you feel. Like, I would rather 141 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 3: have a day with no plans than yeah, you know, 142 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 3: a lot of plans. 143 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: So when Tanya goes, oh, what are you doing two 144 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 2: weeks from now on this day, I'm like, that gives 145 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: me absolute anxiety because well, I mean, what we're doing 146 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: on Friday is very important, so I'm very excited about that. 147 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: I wantn't miss that. But if you're saying, like Cass, like, oh, 148 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,679 Speaker 2: let's go to dinner, you know, you know what I'm saying, yeah, yeah, yeah, 149 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: And then which you have told me multiple times, You're like, oh, 150 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: I cannot believe I committed to this thing. I'm so tired, 151 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: but you still go And I'm so impressed by that, 152 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: which I know is crazy because that's a sign of 153 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 2: being impeccable with your word and showing up for people 154 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: and uh, just like being a good person. 155 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: I think that, I know, but it's oftentimes to my detriment, 156 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, I think I 157 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: over commit and then I get overly tired, and then 158 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: I'm like everything else suffers because I'm overly tired, you 159 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean. 160 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 2: But I think that's why I tend to be non 161 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 2: committal because I don't want to commit and then regret 162 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: going or or bail. 163 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, no, you can't bail, but I cannot with 164 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: flaky people. 165 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: I know it's aqua. It's a character flaw. 166 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: It's a character flaw. So you're not gonna come you 167 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: don't want to do it, just tell me. 168 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: I know, so then I can just be like, oh, 169 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: I don't think so, you know. I'll try to be 170 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: more like that, as opposed to being like, oh, I'm 171 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 2: for sure going to be there because nine times out 172 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 2: of ten, to day comes and I'm like I need 173 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: I need to I'm a hybridnder. No one needs to 174 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: unwind or hibernate more than you. She was like, I 175 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: don't know how you do this. She's like, You've been 176 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: at home without leaving for days straight. 177 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: It's like it's so crazy because I can't even fact, 178 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: I can't even imagine it. Like there will be days 179 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: where I'm like I'll have like let's say I got 180 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: back from the I remember I got back from the 181 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: Hide Music Festival on a Sunday, and I was like, 182 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: I am exhausted. I slept five hours this whole weekend. 183 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: I have nothing to do on Sunday. I just want 184 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: to go home, take a shower, get in bed, and 185 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: just rotten bed all day. I had a nail on 186 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: my tire, so I had to like go to Pep 187 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: Boys and get that fixed because I needed to go 188 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: to work on Monday. So it's like I had to 189 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: get it fixed. So I was like in and out 190 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: of sleep, having Robbie like wake me up to take 191 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: you know, drop off the car, and like I just 192 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: can't even like I can't even put myself in that situation. 193 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think in that situation, I would have said, Okay, 194 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to uber to work to and I'll take 195 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 2: care of this tomorrow. I'm going to sleep today. Yeah, 196 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: Heley goes, I don't know how we could have children 197 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 2: because kids need you all the time, and you'll isolate 198 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: so much. How would you handle that? But you would 199 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 2: just shift, I know. That's why I told her. I 200 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 2: was like, I'm like, you. 201 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: Do it now because you can exactly. 202 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's why I have chosen not to go 203 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 2: down that path, right, because I'm not ready to give 204 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: that up. 205 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: Right, So you will eventually, maybe maybe you won't or 206 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: maybe you won't, but the time will come, but I'll 207 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: be ready. 208 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 2: And I always tell Ali she'll be ready because she 209 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 2: goes about at like eight pm and wakes up early. 210 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 2: And I'm like, once you get that baby on a 211 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 2: good schedule, you'll be smooth saling, no change. 212 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm already like I am getting like not baby fever, 213 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: but I'm getting excited about that next chapter. For sure. 214 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: I have to figure out if and when Haley and 215 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: I get married, how to go around my all my 216 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 2: friends being pregnant or having newborns or even infants. 217 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: What do you mean how to go around it? 218 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 2: How to pick a date? Like how do you like? Yeah, Like, 219 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 2: how do I pick. 220 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: It a date that works for you? And we all 221 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: work around it? 222 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: Y'all aren't going to be able to work around if 223 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 2: you're all like ninety nine. 224 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: Months pregnant is one thing like. 225 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: A newborn, You're gonna be like. 226 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: I bring the newborn to your wedding. Yeah, not to 227 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: your wedding, but I'll bring it with me wherever we go. 228 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah her, Yeah, it'll just be Yeah, it'll just be 229 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 2: what it is. Yeah. Anyways, but that's the season of 230 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 2: life I'm entering where it's like everyone's getting married, everyone's 231 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 2: having babies. I did a a real to that sound 232 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: of Rachel saying it on Friends. Everyone's either getting married 233 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 2: or getting pregnant or getting promoted, and I'm getting coffee. 234 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: It's funny that you're feeling like that, because we're even 235 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: feeling that a little bit, because Robbie was saying, you know, 236 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: like I feel like a lot of some of Tanya's 237 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: friends might not even be able to come because they're 238 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: going to get pregnant and like not want to travel. 239 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, I just it is what it is. 240 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, you just gotta go. You just gotta do you. 241 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 2: I hope that whoever can come, like, go. 242 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: Let God, good stuff, Let go let God. 243 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 2: But anyways, there is a significant thing happening. It's Surursday 244 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: for us. So tomorrow on Friday, Yes, a significant thing 245 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 2: for you. Yeah, what is it? We're gonna say yes 246 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: to the dress. This is a big deal. 247 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: It is a big deal. 248 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 2: This feels like we're locked in. 249 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we are. We are locked and loaded. We've got 250 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: tomorrow's address and we're gonna do so. Our appointments at 251 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: three thirty and they're usually like an hour and so 252 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna do dinner at our house after with everybody 253 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: that's there, plus the mends. So really just kind of 254 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: excited to just do that and have everybody. Robbie's gonna 255 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: cook a big fish. 256 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really important to you to have your 257 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: mom involved in the wedding dress process. 258 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we. 259 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 2: Had gone with Paulina to go and we were like, 260 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: this is the dress, right, You're like, I don't feel 261 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: ready to say yes to a dress without my mom 262 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: being here. Why was that significant? 263 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: I think, you know, it's funny when you get married, 264 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 1: like everyone's like it's all about you and it's about 265 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: what you want, you know, but it's also like the 266 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: people around you too, you know, the people that I 267 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: don't know what it's like because I have not had 268 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: a child, but like to envision that happening for your 269 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: child and being involved in that in some way. And 270 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: I think that there are certain things that I want 271 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,319 Speaker 1: to just handle and I don't want anybody involved in 272 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: because it's just like easier and streamlined in my life 273 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: right now. But then there are certain things that I 274 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: want them, you know, want her a part of, and 275 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: that this feels like something that I really want her 276 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: to be a part of So I'm excited we're gonna 277 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: have champagne what and I hope I'm for sure gonna cry. Yeah, yeah, 278 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try not to cry. 279 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 2: Do you want to give any spoilers of the dress? 280 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: No, it's white spoiler it's what Actually, you know, it's 281 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,079 Speaker 1: so crazy. I was getting my hair done yesterday and 282 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: the girl that was getting finishing her hair when I, 283 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: you know, like the person before me is also getting 284 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: married next weekend and she's wearing a dress from the 285 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: same designer, and she was like, I almost picked your dress. 286 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: It was my second choice. And I was like, well, 287 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: why didn't you like it? Like that's what my mind went. 288 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: I was like, why didn't you pick it? 289 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 2: Did she get did you see her dress? 290 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I tried on she tied it, yeah yeah, 291 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: yeah somebody. 292 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 2: She showed me her picture. 293 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 1: She had like the grid photos with like three dresses, 294 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: and she's like, these were my first, second, and third choice. 295 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 2: I think it's good. Everyone has like a different like 296 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 2: this is the one. Yeah you know? 297 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 298 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 2: Are you have you thought about traditional things that y'all 299 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 2: will or won't do, Like do you think you'll do a. 300 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: First look or sure, oh you will do it first. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 301 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 1: so the. 302 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 2: First time he sees you will be like, it'll be 303 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 2: Yell's private moment. 304 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 305 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 2: I just saw that Carissa brought your body. She just 306 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 2: had her wedding and they read their vowels to each 307 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: other the morning as I saw that, which I thought 308 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: was really sweet, because I fear that if I would 309 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 2: forget what I like, I don't know that I would 310 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: be I would be like so nervous and overstimulated that 311 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: I think I'd wonder what did what did I just hear? 312 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: And what did I just say? 313 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: So you'll remember what you say because you wrote it, 314 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: so you have it. But when we got engaged, I'm 315 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: not even joking you, it was like I blacked out, 316 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: like completely blacked out. I don't remember a war. All 317 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: I remember him saying is like you need you haven't answered, 318 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: because I was just like it was like blackout. And 319 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that he he put his phone up 320 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: and he recorded it. And I'm so grateful that he 321 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: recorded it because then I could go back and like, 322 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: hear what he was actually saying, because I truly did 323 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: not remember in the moment. So I'm like, I have 324 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: the same fear that he's gonna say it and it's 325 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: gonna be just like blackout. 326 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: Well, you'll have it documented, He'll have them written down. Yes, yes, 327 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: you can read you know, read them on the plane to. 328 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: The honey may just continue to read them. But yeah, 329 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: the blackout thing is so real. 330 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, we did. Uh the we read the vows for 331 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 3: each other during the first look with just the two 332 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 3: of us because Alison like hates public speaking, so she 333 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 3: was afraid of that. And then when we did actual 334 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 3: ceremony and the like do you take you know, sickness 335 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 3: and in health, Allison stumbled stumbled over the for rituer 336 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 3: for poorer part, which and then I made a joke 337 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: like that's an important one. Everyone laughed, But I thought 338 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 3: that was important for her to not feel nervous like 339 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 3: everyone watching during that in a moment. 340 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: But like, you know, I'm not concerned about the crying 341 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: because like I can't even talk about this stuff without crying, 342 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: and so like if we're reading our vows in the morning, 343 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to be crying. If we do it during 344 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: the first look, I'm going to start crying. Like I'm 345 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: just going to be a total mess, And like I 346 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: need to not be are. 347 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: You worried about your makeup or what? 348 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm just about looking puffy and like runny and like, yeah, 349 00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: like when you cried, you have mess Garet like that, 350 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: you'll have that waterproof. 351 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 2: You're gonna have very strong waterproof makeup. When I imagine. 352 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm very concerned that I'm not going to be able 353 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: to keep my self composed all day. 354 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you might get to where you're just kind of like, Okay, 355 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 2: I've cried a lot. I'm just ready to enjoy the moment, 356 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:22,119 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, hopefully. I do feel like the everyone's 357 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 2: staring at you and having to walk down the aisle 358 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: and then stand where everyone's still staring at you, that 359 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: to me already feels overwhelming. So then the thought of speak, 360 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 2: like having to read something and stay on the right line. 361 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: I feel overwhelmed at our engagement, just having like our 362 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: family and like closest fright, Like, I mean, how many 363 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: people were there fifteen right when we got engaged. That 364 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: was overwhelming because I was like, I want to hug everybody. 365 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: I don't know who to hug first. I don't know 366 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: how it's like to talk to first. I can't even 367 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: imagine what it's like like on your wedding day, like 368 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: it's probably so wild. 369 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: Yeah did you cry? 370 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 3: I did. I teared up during the ceremony and I 371 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 3: teared up during everyone's speeches, and uh when week after 372 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 3: the ceremonies down we came out like during the cocktail hour. 373 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 3: That was like I'm not used to getting that much attention, 374 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 3: you know, like that was that was that was, it was, 375 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 3: I don't want to say it awkward. It was great, 376 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 3: but like it's like, oh, there's my grandpa, there's my coworker, 377 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 3: you know, like this is Yeah, everybody in your life 378 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 3: that you know is there, and you want to like 379 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 3: hug everybody and talk to everyone, but you kind of 380 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: have to be like Mickey Masse Disneyland. 381 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: Just like I got advice somebody said, like just take 382 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: like at least like a ten minutes to just step away, 383 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: like being Robbie, to step away and like look at 384 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: everybody like interacting with each other, like you said, like 385 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: your grandparents, with your coworker, with your you know whatever, whatever, 386 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: and like how special that is because that's like this 387 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 1: is the only time that you really get that. 388 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: That's what Dean and Klein did. They went and sat 389 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 2: on a bench like outside of where we were all 390 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: sitting at the table and they were just kind of 391 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 2: like watching everybody, and they said that they did that 392 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: intentionally to go like to make sure they took like 393 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 2: so so soaked in. We're able to soak it in 394 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 2: and like see all the people they love together. 395 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: So yeah, but even like tomorrow is gonna be like 396 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 1: one of those days, you know what I mean, Like 397 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: Tomorrow's gonna be like one of those days where like 398 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: I want to like it. 399 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 2: You know, it's like a big day. Should we put 400 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 2: a GoPro on you? What if we put a GoPro 401 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 2: thing that? 402 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: Like I want something on my head when I'm like 403 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: trying on a dry Should I wear a go pro? Maybe? 404 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 2: Shoot, you need to go sorcel I get one of 405 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 2: those running straps. 406 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: But it's like crazy, you know, you just like want 407 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: to like even like so stupid. But like even when 408 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: like you know, Robbie was like designing the logo and 409 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: like we're sitting there like doing it, I'm like I 410 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: want to like soak it all in. 411 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you're talking. 412 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 1: I'm just talking about this and I'm crying. Yeah, they 413 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: even need to take a break and come back. 414 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, great timing, Tanya. 415 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: Thank you you saidn't just kind of on another note, 416 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: she's back, She's back. 417 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 2: But this are you about to talk to about the 418 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 2: scrubbing is? Yeah? 419 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,719 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. I was like on the flip side, somebody 420 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: needing a thirst trap and oh my god, I love 421 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: what happened. 422 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 2: This is my favorite thing ever because it's and I 423 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 2: mean this in the best way. It is so unhinged. 424 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 1: It is like, okay, excuse me, it's so unhinged to 425 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: one is hinged to another. Exactly see what I did there? 426 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, however your actions were also unhinged, but it 427 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: was hilarious and it like eventually worked out. 428 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: So do you want to do an explode unhinged? Yeah? 429 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: Do I want to explain what? No, you can explain. 430 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 2: Okay. So it was posted anonymously in the Facebook group. 431 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 2: First of all, if you're not a if you're not 432 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 2: in the Facebook group, you were missing out. You really 433 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 2: there's a source. 434 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 3: There are a lot of my friends that don't listen 435 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,479 Speaker 3: to the podcasts that are in the Facebook group, and 436 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 3: they texted me about this about this post. 437 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: Can you tell them to listen to the podcast? 438 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 439 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, subscribe but anyways, the Facebook group is a it's 440 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 2: an abundance of riches. So this scrubber said, I'm pulling 441 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: a Tanya and it's an emergency. Can someone with a 442 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: small build but a size se cup, brownish hair, blonde 443 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: highlights if it has to be in it, hair can 444 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 2: be pulled back, take a hot workout pick slash peloton 445 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 2: pic without it showing your face needing a thirst strap 446 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: but not in a position to take one. Please don't judge, 447 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 2: just help us to stir out. So the best part 448 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 2: is that fellow scrubbers pulled through a bunch of people 449 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 2: posted potential photos for her to use, So that was 450 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 2: giving a rizzler. 451 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I I'm I'm bummed that she's anonymous because 452 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: I would love to know the results, Like I need 453 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: to know if she posted it, when she posted it, 454 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: like what the results are. But I'm just gonna I'm 455 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: here to defend our anonymous scrubber because when you were 456 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: in that moment and you are needing that thirst trap 457 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 1: and you need it immediately, like she said, emergency, I 458 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: felt that, Yeah, because there's a small window you have 459 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: time to really thirst trap them in. 460 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 2: I just loved it. I loved the post. I love 461 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: that the girls were like, let me, let me do 462 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: this for you did for you in the snow. 463 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Tory was my hero. 464 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,719 Speaker 3: There's a few people saying like, isn't this being dishonest 465 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 3: because it's not you honest was like, well, no, it's 466 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 3: not catfishing because I asked for someone who looks just 467 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:45,199 Speaker 3: like me. 468 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: So and first to say this, if anybody's on a 469 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 1: dating app, you lie, okay, like you. There's not one 470 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: person that's put on their dating app one hundred percent 471 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 1: the truth. I don't enjoy long walks on the beach. 472 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: I don't hike every day. But is that in my 473 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 1: hobbies one hundred percent? Because what I else want to 474 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: put on there? Like no, if you made a dating 475 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: profile on HINT, you're not going to say like I 476 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: don't leave my house for days and like I like 477 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: to highlightate like. 478 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe no, I do. I love going to the beach. 479 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 2: I do love going to the beach. If that was 480 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 2: like a date opportunity. I love with Haley. But if 481 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,159 Speaker 2: I'm by myself, I do whatever I want. But if 482 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 2: I'm with someone, I'm more inclined. 483 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is the dating process? Does you do 484 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: lie a little in the beginning, you know, like. 485 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 2: Saying if someone's like, if someone's like, oh my gosh, 486 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: one of my favorite things to do is going to 487 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 2: long walks on the beach like this is my girl. 488 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 2: And then and then you come to find out you 489 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 2: lied about something. 490 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,359 Speaker 1: So I mean, I love a long walk on the beach. 491 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: But when's the last time I took one? Two thousand 492 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 1: and five? Probably, but like, I love it. I love 493 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: a long walk on. 494 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 2: The beach often. So you're not lying, right, right, But. 495 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is like, it's not the full truth. 496 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: That's not what I do on my Sunday. I don't 497 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: take long walks on the beach, you know what I mean. Sundays, 498 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: I'm like prepping my food and like going there. 499 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 2: You been doing that? 500 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: It's yeah, see the lies just keep coming. 501 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 2: Flying. 502 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 3: But what about setting a photo of a body that 503 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 3: is not yours? 504 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: You know, lines get blurry, and uh, she's not posting 505 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: it saying this is me. 506 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 3: She's just saying he enjoy this. 507 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just posting it. Like, let the mind do 508 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 1: what it is. 509 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 2: If you if you were in that situation, what you 510 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 2: just want to you're just hoping that he or she 511 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: reaches out seeing the photo. Is that the hope? 512 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 513 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, likes it hurts it. 514 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 2: Just just a just to get their attention. 515 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, just a white flag. 516 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 2: I love it. I love the Facebook group. 517 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: You know, we shall not judge others for things they 518 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: feel they need to do. You know, I'm with you 519 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: if you need to post a picture pretending that you're 520 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 1: in snow when you're in sunny Studio City, California, to 521 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,439 Speaker 1: get that heart and to get that in agement. 522 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 3: Look where it got you. 523 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: Look where it got me. 524 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 2: Yep. Next thing, you know, she could be trying on 525 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 2: wedding dresses exactly, saying us to the dress. 526 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: And here's the thing. Eventually you tell the truth, you 527 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like the truth does come out. 528 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like she could be like, oh my gosh, remember 529 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 2: that time when you liked that picture of me on 530 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: the peloton? Wasn't me? 531 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was on my period. I really didn't want 532 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 1: to like take a photo of the feeling cute. 533 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 2: But I you know, I needed to, I needed. I 534 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 2: did what I needed to I need. 535 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 3: I did love how many scrubbers were coming together to help. 536 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 3: There was like one or two people going like, Ey, 537 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 3: this feels kind of weird, but everyone else is like, 538 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 3: I'm in, how can we do this? 539 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: Because you know, like we all want what's best for 540 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: the other. Like when I asked Torri for the photo, 541 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: you got it? What would you like? Would you like 542 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: your initials? Would you like heart around it? Do you 543 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 1: want to no feet toes? 544 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 2: Boots? 545 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, a little hair, you know. Yeah, it's the sister mistihood. 546 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 1: That's what I appreciate, the sisterhood. 547 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 2: So we have a future guest coming up, and she 548 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 2: just revealed some pretty crazy information on another podcast because 549 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 2: Sarah Drew I. 550 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: Was like, she's a future guest, No, so Via Bush. 551 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: Well, maybe Sophia Bush could be a future guest if 552 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 2: he still keeps working his magic. Everyone says they're into 553 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 2: it and then nothing. 554 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: She scrubs on like she's literally scrub scrubbing. She is 555 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 1: actually scrubbing in. 556 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 2: She's gonna be a recurring role on Gray's Anatomy, and 557 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 2: I'm curious if she's going to lean into like a 558 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 2: clear story since that could art imitates life or who 559 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 2: she's gonna have a relationship with, or she might not 560 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 2: have a relationship at all, or she just could be 561 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 2: a doctor coming in to stir things up and save 562 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: the day. But I'm excited about that. But anyways, Sarah 563 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 2: Drew went on Call It What It Is with Jessica 564 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 2: Capshan Camill Luddington are besties and basically said that her grades. 565 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: A month since we've had them on, when too soon 566 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: to ask again? Oh to have them back on a 567 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: couple more months? 568 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, maybe you're looking at twenty 569 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 2: twenty five. 570 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that'll be here before you know. 571 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, But Sarah said her Gray's exit felt 572 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 2: mean and unjust, and she said she they She said, 573 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 2: I guess her about her and Jessica because they were 574 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 2: let go at the same time, and she said, we 575 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 2: were unceremoniously like going away. That felt really mean and unjust. 576 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 2: And because of that, the outpouring of love was so enormous, enormous. 577 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 2: It was like you were sitting there watching people say 578 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 2: all the things that they love about you after you're dead. 579 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 2: I felt so sad because remember Jessica on the podcast, 580 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 2: she was like, I have never talked about that, yeah, 581 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 2: but maybe one day I will. 582 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: Meaning there's a story there, a story I don't know. 583 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 1: A story we don't know, Yeah, a story we would 584 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: like to know. 585 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: But what's interesting is that she Sarah has gone back 586 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 2: and forth, and so has Jessica like been back on 587 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 2: the show, like come back. So obviously either people that 588 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 2: let them go are no longer there or whatever whoever 589 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 2: whatever was toxic maybe isn't there anymore, or they've just 590 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 2: made peace with it, and it's kind of like, Okay, 591 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 2: it is what it is. I have a lot of 592 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 2: good memories here, so I'm not gonna you never go 593 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 2: back to it. 594 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. The thing that's so interesting with this 595 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: type of stuff that like I feel like we don't 596 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: you're when you're an actor, you're giving so much of 597 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,640 Speaker 1: like yourself and your life, and you're putting so much 598 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 1: into this role, right, but nothing is in your control. 599 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: You're not the producer, you're not like paying the bills, 600 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,639 Speaker 1: like you're just you're showing up to a job. But 601 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 1: it feels so personal to you, you know what I mean. 602 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: And then they also can't really tell us what actually 603 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: happened because maybe they're under contract, maybe they've signed NDA's 604 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,120 Speaker 1: like it's just this big mystery, so we have no 605 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: idea what happened. We have no idea if they left, 606 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: because again there was like some scuttle they got cut 607 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 1: cut out. We don't know if they left because their 608 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: demands weren't being met. We don't know, like we don't 609 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 1: know anything. 610 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 2: Well, she was saying. One thing she said was that 611 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 2: she there, like when she goes back. Now there's no anxiety, 612 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 2: because I think when she would go back or there 613 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 2: was this anxiety about oh no if I if I 614 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 2: piss off the wrong person, or if I do something 615 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 2: wrong or they're not interested in me, then maybe they 616 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 2: won't have me back. And she said, now she goes 617 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: on and there's no anxiety about it. She just pops 618 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 2: in and it's like she has peace about it, which 619 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,160 Speaker 2: must be a really good feeling. Yeah, because that would 620 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 2: stress me out big time. 621 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're watching that show about. 622 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's called Anatomy of Lies. 623 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 1: It's on Can you explain it? And like, I've read 624 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: the synopsis, so I think I but I can't understand 625 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: what this show is about, and like why at Matt, 626 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: like why it? Like why are you interested in it? 627 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 2: It's a documentary about one of the biggest writers on 628 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 2: Grey's Anatomy, and she basically lied about having cancer. She lied, 629 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,479 Speaker 2: I haven't gotten to I'm still midway through. But she 630 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 2: yeah her. Yeah. So she got on the show basically 631 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: because I think that they hired She had been trying 632 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 2: to get on the show for a long time. They 633 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 2: hired her because I think she was sick, and that's 634 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 2: why they hired her. But she was in do you 635 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 2: remember the storyline where they walked the patient who had 636 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 2: been assaulted and all the women are lying in the walls. 637 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 2: She they put her in there because she said she 638 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 2: had the same story, but it was like a friend 639 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 2: of her story or something that she used to write 640 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 2: the show as her own, and they put her in 641 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 2: scrubs and like she's one of the nurses. That's like 642 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 2: walking the patient down the hall. So there was just 643 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 2: all this stuff that she fully lied about. She was 644 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 2: almost like catfishing, but not physically, Like she wasn't catfishing 645 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 2: in the sense that she was using someone else's identity, 646 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 2: but she was using other people's stories and then lying 647 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 2: about her own story about like having cancer and being 648 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 2: sick and like all this stuff. It's insane, but she 649 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 2: was like up there, she was obsessed with Joe Camilla's character, 650 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 2: like she wanted to write all of her storylines. It's 651 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 2: a fascinating it's so. 652 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: But then how did this all come to light? 653 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 2: What do you mean? 654 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: How did everybody find out about this? 655 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I guess people either started 656 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: putting stories. I haven't gotten to the post. 657 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 3: Do you want to know? 658 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 659 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 3: The spoiler spoiler for a documentary. So the Disney started 660 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 3: investigating her medical history. I know because her estranged wife 661 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 3: contacted Disney and Shondaland with information that she had uncovered 662 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 3: about her past. During Disney's investigation, Finch refused to provide 663 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 3: medical documentation or undergo an independent medical evaluation to substantiate 664 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 3: her claims, and she was placed on leave. So they 665 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 3: just looked into it and found that she had lied 666 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 3: about her personal and medical history. After it was the 667 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 3: a strange wife that kind of tipped him off. 668 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 2: It's it's a it's a really wild ride. So so 669 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 2: should I watch it? Yeah, it's it's I mean, I 670 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 2: love a documentary, so personally. 671 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 3: I love watching people get in over their head with lies. 672 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 3: I don't know why I enjoy that. So it's like 673 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 3: a because it's so I'm detached from it, like, oh 674 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 3: I didn't do this, but I get the thrill of 675 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 3: like watching someone make a terrible decision. Yeah, I'm going 676 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 3: to watch this. 677 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 1: So where do we feel like that lie is compared 678 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 1: to our scrubbers lie about the posting on the peloton, Well, 679 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: it just. 680 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 2: Depends on the It's just it can't be a snowball effect. 681 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 2: It's got to in there. It's gotta in with the 682 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 2: peloton pick. 683 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: Right right, right right. This can't be her gateway to 684 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: then constantly. 685 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, can't be a gateway, right, It 686 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 2: has to just be a blip right right right? 687 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: So like how many? 688 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 2: How many of those did you have? 689 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 1: So I did this snow one Robber Graham come over 690 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 1: and post some things with Robert, and then everything else 691 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: was just like my normal. 692 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 2: Self. You would get dressed and I was like, you 693 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 2: were going somewhere. 694 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: And I wasn't going anywhere, right, but yes, innocent. 695 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 3: I did get some text from you saying, hey, if 696 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:12,479 Speaker 3: if I posted this and you were would your eye. 697 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: No? 698 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 3: And I was like, yes, post do it. He will 699 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 3: react this way. 700 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 2: Blame emojis coming and hot literally wow. 701 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 1: Honestly, I was unhinged for two months, but I came 702 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 1: back down. Yeah, and look what The one that really 703 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: set us over was the was the orange dress, which 704 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: was totally legit. 705 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 2: Yes, no lies, right, no lies detected, No lies detected. 706 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 2: This leads into our next thing. There was a Reddit 707 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: post that said how do you know that you're attractive? 708 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 2: And more than seven thousand responses came in and these 709 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 2: are some of the best way east Would you like 710 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 2: to read them? Uh? 711 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 3: Yes I would. Oh, oh my god. They thank you 712 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 3: handing me paper. 713 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 2: Here. 714 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 3: This is how to tell if you're attractive a coin 715 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 3: to Reddit users. This is self reporting. Okay, this is 716 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 3: not a scientific study. Here, little freebies when you're in 717 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 3: public extra free scoop on the of the ice cream 718 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 3: parking contented telling you not to worry when you're paying 719 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 3: stuff like that, little freebies. You get hit on, and 720 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 3: as you get older, you're no longer getting hit on 721 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 3: as much. I don't know about that. Old people will 722 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 3: say it out loud, okay, So the elderly people will 723 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 3: just say, wow, you're hot. Little kids will ask We'll 724 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 3: let you know if the opposite is true. So like 725 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 3: children will tell you that you're ugly, you don't have 726 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 3: to ask for confirmation. Okay, strangers remind you with favors 727 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 3: and invitations. They make the effort spend time with you, 728 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 3: not the other way around. Someone says, because my wife 729 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 3: is fricking gorgeous, you don't find it hard to look 730 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 3: for someone to date. Wait until you're old and attractive 731 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 3: and look back on your younger pictures and say, oh wow, 732 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 3: I was pretty. 733 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: You don't find it hard to find someone to date. Yeah, 734 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: it's hard out there. Yeah, even the most attractive people 735 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 1: have hard times. 736 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, this is just this is not scientific. 737 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, ready, users, le's remind you such of that. 738 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 3: People come up and tell me how beautiful I think 739 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 3: I am, men and women alike. I don't think about 740 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,439 Speaker 3: it otherwise. Okay, wherever you go, you meet nice people. 741 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 3: Everyone is kind and forgiving towards you at first. 742 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 1: Uh. 743 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 3: Someone says, I heard this quote. When you're attractive, the 744 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 3: world will let you know, but if you're not, you 745 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 3: have to figure it out yourself. 746 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:39,360 Speaker 2: Day. So that was pretty just like standard issue, right generic? 747 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of down after that, you know why? You 748 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 1: know it's going to pick me up though. What Americans 749 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,280 Speaker 1: lose thirty six days a year to content consumption. 750 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's devastating. 751 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 1: I also saw this meme that said, you, I can't 752 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 1: remember the number, but it's like you lose certain a 753 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 1: certain amount of days if you if you say goodbye 754 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 1: when you leave a party, and I have like the 755 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm like the longest goodbye give her, like when we 756 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 1: decided to leave anything, Like it's like ap to say 757 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 1: goodbye to everybody. 758 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 2: It kind of I used to be like that, but 759 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 2: I'm more like, depends on my mood, I for sure 760 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,760 Speaker 2: say goodbye to like the host or whoever I feel 761 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 2: like is invited me. I at least say goodbye to them, 762 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: and then you just depending on who I meet up 763 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 2: with on my path on the way out, I'll say goodbye. 764 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 2: But I used to be like I need to go 765 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 2: around the table or I need to go around the 766 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 2: space and make sure I say it to everyone. And 767 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 2: now I'm like, they don't care. Why do I feel 768 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 2: like I'm so important that they care? 769 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,720 Speaker 1: I know, it's not it's more of like I feel 770 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 1: like rude. 771 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying, like, why do I get 772 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 2: the care some of mine out? 773 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: I have to care less? 774 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 3: I used to be so bad, Like I would wait 775 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 3: till everyone until I thought everyone was drunk enough where 776 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 3: they would notice, and then I would just tell whoever's 777 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 3: talking to I'm like, I gotta get something on my 778 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 3: car really quick, and I would just leave whoa Irish yes. 779 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 3: And then Allison told me she was like, oh, yeah, 780 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 3: everyone hated you because you did that all the time. 781 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 3: Like all of our friends were like, oh, he's it's 782 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,759 Speaker 3: a jerk because he never says goodbye. I was like, 783 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 3: oh god, so now I just I think about the 784 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 3: host now, but I still don't say about it. 785 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,320 Speaker 1: I need to explain everything, you know, Like in the 786 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: words of Ariana Grande sympathy, Oh no, what is it? 787 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:14,320 Speaker 1: It's a knife. 788 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,280 Speaker 3: Sympathy is a knife. 789 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: I'm forgetting the lyrics, but basically it's something to the 790 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: effect of like people don't like, why do you explain everything? 791 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 1: Because people it doesn't matter what people think. And I'm like, wow, yeah, 792 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 1: it hit me. I feel like I've spent so much 793 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: of my life explaining things. 794 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's just also kind of being a woman. Really, yeah, 795 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 2: I don't explain themselves. Like everything I say, explain, but 796 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 2: you don't have to like explain decisions or why you 797 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 2: did certain things like we. 798 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: Do yeah, or like if you say, notice something I have, Oh, 799 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: I have to have something else that night otherwise I 800 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: have to say. 801 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 2: It can't just be like I don't. 802 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,240 Speaker 3: You know it's a complete sentence, right, I can't. 803 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:10,240 Speaker 1: I don' have never known that. Yeah, yeah, it feels 804 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: like a lot of therapy. 805 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 2: No, No, that does feel like something for your therapist 806 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 2: to analyze. But yeah, you know it's not something for 807 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 2: your therapist analyzed. Have you have you heard of the 808 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 2: hear me Out Cake? No? 809 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: I was actually just gonna I was gonna take it 810 00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 1: to another direction. But tell me about the cake. 811 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 3: Tell me about the cake after oh after the break, 812 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 3: really about the cake. 813 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 2: All right, we're back, We're back, We're back. Yeah, Okay, 814 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 2: so hear me Out cake. I know Easton's gonna have 815 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 2: some hear me out because I feel like he posts 816 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 2: hear me outs on his Instagram story often. But you 817 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 2: hear me out is like it's a character that's kind 818 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 2: of hot. So like you're like, hear me out. This 819 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 2: guy is hot, but it's something that you wouldn't probably 820 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 2: naturally normally think is hot. 821 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 3: So like, is this like does it have to be 822 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 3: like a fictional character or like a cartoon. 823 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: Okay, hear me out. 824 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 2: Okay, hey arnold, no really kind of hot, tell me more. 825 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: Something about the blonde hair, is unique face shape and 826 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:34,360 Speaker 1: the cute outfits. 827 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 2: Okay, no, I mean no, hear me out is like 828 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 2: totally subjective, objective, subjective, subjective. I was asking, but I 829 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,240 Speaker 2: hear me out is totally subjective, So like I don't 830 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 2: I might not hear you out. I might not get 831 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 2: you hear me out, but you get your hear me out. Yeah. 832 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 2: Like my hear me out is like spirit the horse 833 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 2: chance if this guy was turned into a man very. 834 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 1: Handsome Prince Eric from Little Mermaid. 835 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,399 Speaker 2: Oh, I mean that's pretty objective to me. I think 836 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 2: everyone thinks he's No. 837 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying that looks like that that horse. 838 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 2: Could be like Prince yea like John Smith or something. 839 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. 840 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:18,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Another one I had. I was obsessed with 841 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 2: Linka from Captain Planet. That was actually someone that may 842 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: have been an awakening for me and I didn't know, 843 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 2: just like she's kind of she definitely has some WLW energy. 844 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 2: I look at it all. 845 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,240 Speaker 1: I don't even know who that person is. I've never pled, 846 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 1: never seen her cargo shorts. 847 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, you guys, it was right in 848 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:45,920 Speaker 2: front of my face the whole time. 849 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 3: She's got the power of wind. 850 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was the power of wind. You just gotta 851 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 2: go over the wind blows, you know, you gotta go. Yeah, okay, 852 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 2: this is a total you want to talk about it? 853 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 2: Do your sound where it's a look kind of because 854 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 2: speaking of wind, did you watch the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show? 855 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,720 Speaker 1: I love the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show? 856 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 2: I love it. 857 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: I tried to get on the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show 858 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 1: this year because now that I have a model. Oh 859 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, it was like where does where do 860 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: models belong? On the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show? 861 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 2: Right right? Trying to go with the ogs? 862 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you know Adriana Lima, Gigi Head, Tanya 863 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: rag Moss, Oh yeah, Kate Moss. Yeah, it's just like 864 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 1: fits right in, you know share. 865 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 2: So did they did you get in touch on that? No? 866 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 1: No, no, no, they didn't come and knock in. 867 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 2: Well, what I was gonna say is that people were saying, well, 868 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 2: first of all, what do you think about the show? 869 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 1: Gorgeous? 870 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:44,760 Speaker 2: I loved it too. You know, there's something about social 871 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 2: media which I feel like I'm beating a dead horse 872 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 2: with this comment all the time. But there's so much 873 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 2: critique on things. There's always opinions, and then it's like 874 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 2: always negative. And it's like, we wanted the Victoria's Secret 875 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 2: Fashion Show. They brought back the OG's it was there 876 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 2: was diverse. It just felt so good to have it back. Yeah, 877 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 2: and still people are like, there wasn't wind I wanted 878 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,839 Speaker 2: And I did agree with this. They did a lot 879 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 2: of slicked back ponytail looks, and I feel like when 880 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 2: I think about Victoria's Secret. 881 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: You think of like the big curls, big. 882 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 2: Big ways and like the wind blowing it. 883 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's an interesting it's an interesting conversation because I 884 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,280 Speaker 1: feel like I too have that sentiment about the Victoria's 885 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,280 Speaker 1: Secret Fashion Show. It's like nostalgic to me. I remember 886 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 1: watching it like in college, Like that was kind of 887 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 1: like it was like, oh, the holidays are coming because 888 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: like it's the Victoria's area, you know, like it has that. 889 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: But then on the flip side, I do see the 890 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: like the harmfulness of it too, do you know what 891 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 1: I mean? And the body expectations, which I feel like 892 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 1: it was different this year. So it's like I see 893 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 1: that and I can see how that can be triggering 894 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,360 Speaker 1: for people, you know what I mean to see it. 895 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: So it's like I see both sides, but for me personally, 896 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: and that's like all you can you know, that's all 897 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,800 Speaker 1: you can speak on. It does have those like Okay, 898 00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: this is like it's like the holiday season is a 899 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 1: fun the angels have opened their wings and like it 900 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: does have that feeling for me. 901 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 2: I mean, Haley and I were watching the old ones 902 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,359 Speaker 2: with like Taylor Swift performing and we were like doing 903 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: our walks. Yeah, it's just so fun. And I actually 904 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,319 Speaker 2: have realized I'd never watched one with Haley and I 905 00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 2: didn't know if she liked it or not, but she 906 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 2: we literally had the best time. We went back on 907 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 2: old YouTube videos and watched all the old performances and. 908 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,240 Speaker 1: It's so it's just like iconic. 909 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so iconic. Yeah, but yeah, I realized after 910 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 2: saying I really thought I was crushing it with my 911 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 2: like walk and then because Haley was videoing me and 912 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 2: I was like, I cannot wait, I'm posting this and 913 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 2: then I saw it and I'm like, that's harder than you 914 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 2: would think. 915 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 1: Much harder life is a model. 916 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, and that runway was so long. I 917 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,960 Speaker 2: was thinking about you doing your Miami Swim Week. 918 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: And how small mine was. Oh my, and I thought 919 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 1: I was walking for days. I could not imagine walking 920 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,360 Speaker 1: that runway. I would feel like I was walking the plank. 921 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, like in those heels. 922 00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 923 00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,799 Speaker 2: Did you did you have any standouts of like who 924 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 2: you were excited to see. 925 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know who to see, Like, I didn't know 926 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 1: who to look for. I was surprised Kendall Jenner wasn't there. 927 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, I was a little surprised by that. 928 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 1: I was like waiting for her and I was like, oh, 929 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 1: she is not here. Yeah, but I guess she has 930 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: a Kavin kleineeal. So I think there's like a non compete, 931 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,320 Speaker 1: and that's. 932 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 2: What that'd be upsetting. 933 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, the rumor is a Bahodi Prince Lou to me 934 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: is like yeah, everything. Yeah, And then I really love 935 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: Candice wanna play. 936 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 2: She's ever. She is Victoria's secret too. Yeah. 937 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 1: She is. 938 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 2: Her body is insane. 939 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she just has like I don't know her personally, 940 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 1: So this is literally like just totally but like she 941 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 1: seems so sweet and like kind and like, I don't know. 942 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 2: I don't know much about her. I just know that 943 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 2: she is Victoria's secret model. To me, Yeah, but it 944 00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,359 Speaker 2: was just fun. I loved like Kate Moss coming out. 945 00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 2: I love Jasmine Tuks. I followed Jasmine and I felt 946 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,879 Speaker 2: like they didn't show her enough because I think she's 947 00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 2: a standout and a lot of people agreed with me 948 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 2: on TikTok Oh talk. 949 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 1: I also love that like the performers were all women 950 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: like Shaer, Lisa, Tyla, like the one name women like 951 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 1: you know, just like I don't know. It just felt 952 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 1: very like, oh you're I liked it. 953 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:20,839 Speaker 2: Tyler looks she's so beauty. She looks AI like she's 954 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 2: so basically. 955 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 1: I was also like, I do love a gazelle bunchin moment, 956 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 1: so it was surprised. 957 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:26,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 958 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 1: I was reading some things like she'd made some comments 959 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:33,880 Speaker 1: about like not loving like she likes modeling, but she 960 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 1: doesn't love necessarily doing like people like looking up you know, 961 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,399 Speaker 1: and like, which I get. I mean like looking up 962 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,840 Speaker 1: at her, Yeah, like that type of stuff. 963 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 2: That's fair. 964 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 1: That's very fair. 965 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 2: I like, yeah, you would like that. I think I 966 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 2: would lean more towards Giselle. 967 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 1: On that there's something very like, uh freeing about it, 968 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 1: and maybe it's because like I'm not a model or 969 00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: like I have had excuse me, I used to not 970 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:07,359 Speaker 1: be a model and that has changed. But because I 971 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,239 Speaker 1: used to have like a lot, I had a lot 972 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 1: of I wouldn't say like body issues, but I think 973 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,960 Speaker 1: I've struggled with weight and body image and stuff in 974 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 1: the past, and so I think doing that walk, doing 975 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,279 Speaker 1: that movie empowering was empowering for me doing it at 976 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,760 Speaker 1: same week, I can't imagine how empowering it is doing 977 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: it on such a like a bigger, grander scale, Like 978 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,840 Speaker 1: I feel like it really unlocked something in me, like 979 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 1: a little bit of like inhibition, you know. 980 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 2: Really, so innis round yasin. No one else can do 981 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:42,720 Speaker 2: it for you. 982 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: No nobody else can do it for you, like you 983 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 1: have to let it and let it in. 984 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 2: That's true. Natasha knew it too, saying with those lies, maybe. 985 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: Next year they'll get Natasha Bettingfield to do the vitrility 986 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 1: of your fashion show and then maybe I could walk in. 987 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 2: Well that's a good Before we end this conversation, who 988 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 2: would be your dream performer? I forgot. Taylor did it twice. 989 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 2: She did it during nineteen eighty nine and her Red 990 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 2: album Wow. 991 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 3: And with Fallout Boy. Right. 992 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 2: Oh, I think she did saw that as a title. 993 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 2: I didn't watch it, though. 994 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 1: I kind of like it being all women performers. I 995 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 1: know there's something like safe about it, sacred. Yeah, that 996 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 1: I like. 997 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,080 Speaker 2: So. Uh. 998 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: I don't know who's I don't know. I don't think 999 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:25,880 Speaker 1: I'm familiar enough with the catalog from the past, but 1000 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: I'd love to see a Sabrina Carpenter out there. She'd 1001 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,400 Speaker 1: be perfect, yeah, or like an Ariana Grande. But I'm Madine, 1002 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 1: she's done it before. 1003 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,760 Speaker 2: Sabrino will looks so tiny up there with the girls. 1004 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, not with those heels on, though they have heels. 1005 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 1: But she's got her bad big babe, bad big bad babies. 1006 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like that would be a good one. 1007 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,959 Speaker 1: Who else isn't that on my vision board? Or twenty 1008 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: twenty five? What Victoria's Secret Fashion Show? 1009 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:51,399 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1010 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,960 Speaker 1: Model, I want to go to the show. 1011 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: Jojo and I went in twenty eighteen, which I think 1012 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 2: was the last one before they stopped. Yeah, that was, like, 1013 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 2: I ca I can't believe. 1014 00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 3: Twenty fourteen had a the lineup was it could have 1015 00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 3: been today. It was Taylor Swift, Ariana Grande and Hosier 1016 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 3: Day and that's what Ariana Grande was hit by accident 1017 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 3: by Wait. 1018 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the meme. Yeah yeah, right, yeah, yeah. 1019 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 3: Yea yeah ten years ago. 1020 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1021 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think who would be like the share 1022 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 2: that I would choose. 1023 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 1: Oh, Kelsey Ballerini, twin. 1024 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,600 Speaker 3: Beyonce, imagine Beyonce. 1025 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 2: Naya Twain be good. That would be so good, man, 1026 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 2: I feel like a woman. 1027 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,919 Speaker 1: Oh right to sell. 1028 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 2: I'd love to see Kelly Clarkson too, because I love 1029 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 2: to listen to her sing no matter what. 1030 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: That would be a good one. 1031 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 2: All right, Well, anyways, moving on. 1032 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 3: I saw Beetle Juice Beetle Juice last night. I know 1033 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 3: I'm late, but there's a part in that movie where 1034 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 3: I think Beetle Juice licks a picture of Lydia, Yeah, 1035 00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 3: and I thought of I thought of you, Tiny, because 1036 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,279 Speaker 3: I know you like that movie, and I know that 1037 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,760 Speaker 3: you like to lick pictures on your phone. 1038 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:00,359 Speaker 2: Used to as a kid. 1039 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: It was licking the pages, it was making out with them. 1040 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 1: I've under done it. 1041 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:09,560 Speaker 3: I'm sorry you've done it recently, but on your phone. Yeah, 1042 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 3: that was what was coming up in my mind. And 1043 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,640 Speaker 3: it's like something I witnessed not a month earlier. 1044 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 2: So no, no, no, no, no, no, everyone did me. 1045 00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 1: Oh right my sonny photo? Right? 1046 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw Beetlejuice licked the photo and then I 1047 00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 3: know jealous and I'm like, tiny does that too? 1048 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 2: Is your is beetlejuice? Beetle Juice want of your hear 1049 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 2: me else? 1050 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,600 Speaker 1: No, altho, No, I think about it. I mean the 1051 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 1: way he's obsessed with Lydia like hear me out yikes. Yeah. 1052 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,279 Speaker 2: You remember how I told Tanya over the weekend. I 1053 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 2: was like, I feel like Robbie's like obsessed with you. Yeah, 1054 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 2: and she comes really I'm like, yeah, I feel it. 1055 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 2: Am I just seeing it because I posted the chicken 1056 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 2: dance and he he said he left such a nice comment, 1057 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 2: like jokes on y'all because she crushed it. I'm like, well, 1058 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 2: a man in love. 1059 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 3: He is one of the first commenters on most of 1060 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 3: like the scrubbing. I like one just went up earlier 1061 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 3: about oh the mathematically beautiful people think, and Robbi's chiming 1062 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,560 Speaker 3: in like five minutes after his person I'm like, oh, 1063 00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 3: we love you. Robbie. 1064 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a dedicated scrubber. He'll show me things about 1065 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 1: the Facebook group that I didn't see. He's like, did 1066 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: you see that post day? And I'm like, no, you 1067 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: have to comment, you need to go in there. And 1068 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm like you need to weigh in, you need to 1069 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 1: weigh in. Yeah, bless him. 1070 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love his clment. His comment on Today's was 1071 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 2: really funny. 1072 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: A funny guy. 1073 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:43,919 Speaker 2: He is a funny guy. 1074 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, But like you know, I was actually having this 1075 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:47,880 Speaker 1: debate earlier because it's like everybody says you need your 1076 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:49,520 Speaker 1: partner needs to make you laugh, and I'm like, I 1077 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 1: don't think you necessarily need to find like a funny partner, 1078 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: because I think funny is subjective, Like you can make 1079 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,480 Speaker 1: me laugh, but like people might not think you're a 1080 00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 1: funny guy, you know. 1081 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I because I think Hayley's really funny, But I 1082 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:05,280 Speaker 2: don't know that people view her as funny because where 1083 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,520 Speaker 2: she's funny is almost like it's not intentional, Like she's 1084 00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,879 Speaker 2: unintentionally funny to me, right, but. 1085 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 1: She makes you laugh. 1086 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, she makes me laugh, which is the levity. 1087 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: Levity and everybody wants in a relationship, right, So like 1088 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 1: if we went around the room. If there were a 1089 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 1: lot of people in this room and everybody had a partner, 1090 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,880 Speaker 1: and we asked them, do you think your partner's funny? 1091 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,000 Speaker 1: I guarantee every single person would say yes. And then 1092 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 1: if you ask me if their partner was funny, I'd 1093 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 1: probably be like, no, you know what. 1094 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 2: I mean, you don't know the ins and outs of right. 1095 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,400 Speaker 3: I think that's so important. There was a post in 1096 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,239 Speaker 3: the Facebook group recently, and I'm sorry to whoever this was, 1097 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 3: but they said, what do you do if your part 1098 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,719 Speaker 3: you don't find your partner funny? Like my partner tries 1099 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:45,400 Speaker 3: to make jokes all the time, and I just cringe. 1100 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 2: Oh that. 1101 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I just can't imagine 1102 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,880 Speaker 3: that would be. Because Allison is the funniest person I've ever met, 1103 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,440 Speaker 3: and like not even just like like I truly she 1104 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 3: is ninety percent of the funny stuff like I post 1105 00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 3: online is stuff I stole from her, Like I just 1106 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 3: wanted to that clear. She is so funny. I could 1107 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 3: not if she was not funny, I don't I could 1108 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,359 Speaker 3: not go on I could, I couldn't do it. That's right, So. 1109 00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,359 Speaker 1: I'm saying, but I sometimes I think, I'm like, oh, 1110 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,440 Speaker 1: I'll see his comments. I'm like, that's so funny. Then 1111 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, do other people think it's funny or is 1112 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: it just funny because I'm like in love with them, 1113 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,320 Speaker 1: you know what i mean, right? 1114 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, No, I think it'd be hard to have 1115 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 2: to be with someone, especially if they were trying to 1116 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,760 Speaker 2: be funny. I'd almost rather someone like not like put. 1117 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 1: It intentionally funny. 1118 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, because Haley always is like, you're literally the funniest 1119 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 2: person I've ever met. And she's like, I never thought 1120 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,840 Speaker 2: that that was an important quality I wanted in someone, like, 1121 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 2: in fact, I don't think it was ever something I 1122 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 2: sought out and a partner. Yeah, And she's like, I 1123 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 2: love that you make me laugh. And I'm like, you 1124 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 2: make me laugh and you're so unintentionally funny. And she's like, 1125 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 2: I can't thought that's a compliment or not. And I'm like, no, 1126 00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 2: it is because you're just funny, Like you are so 1127 00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 2: serious with like your work and stuff. But then I 1128 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,439 Speaker 2: get to see a different version of you, yeah, which 1129 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:54,839 Speaker 2: I love. 1130 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,839 Speaker 3: I think it's important, like to find the other person 1131 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 3: funny because it's like demonstrates that you can look at 1132 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,279 Speaker 3: things from different perspectives and see different parts of life. 1133 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,440 Speaker 1: We were talking about this earlier, but because we had 1134 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 1: Joey and Jenna on the podcast and we were all 1135 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 1: talking about how we would feel if like our partner 1136 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,440 Speaker 1: was on Dancing with the Stars. That would be a disaster. 1137 00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it, and I think 1138 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 1: I could. Let's just take Jenna as an example. I 1139 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:29,120 Speaker 1: would hate to see Robbie dancing and grinding grinding on 1140 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,520 Speaker 1: I couldn't even say Jenna on a weekly basis. 1141 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but I think I could do it if 1142 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:39,200 Speaker 2: I was if we were doing it together, like if 1143 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 2: we were competing together, I could do it. But I yeah, 1144 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 2: I think it'd be really hard. I also really feel 1145 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,600 Speaker 2: for people, like specifically in Joey and Kelsey situation, coming 1146 00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 2: fresh off the batch, like coming from a competition in 1147 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 2: a totally different way for Kelsey and finally getting the 1148 00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 2: guy and then it's like you have this like blissful 1149 00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:01,239 Speaker 2: few months and then it's like he's just this other person. 1150 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 1: Pray and it's not even like trust, like the trust 1151 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,520 Speaker 1: is there. It's like there's not nothing's gonna happen, you 1152 00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean. She's married, she has a baby, 1153 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 1: like she's good. But it's just that just seeing it. 1154 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 2: With social media people being like, oh my gosh, there's 1155 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,960 Speaker 2: so much chemistry between them, Like you can definitely tell 1156 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 2: there's something going on. I'd be so in my head. 1157 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:20,640 Speaker 1: Me too. 1158 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 2: He I liked it. He was like, you just have 1159 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 2: to block out the noise. 1160 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,799 Speaker 1: Because you have to, but you know, it's a great 1161 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:26,480 Speaker 1: lesson in life. 1162 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 2: Block out the noise, wock out the I agree, it hard. 1163 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 2: I it is hard, but it's something we must do. 1164 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 1: A lot of noise out there. 1165 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,640 Speaker 2: There's a lot of noise, a lot. 1166 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,320 Speaker 1: Of noise, a lot of opinions. 1167 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 2: And with that, this podcast is over. It's come to 1168 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:40,799 Speaker 2: an end. 1169 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 1: No more opinions here, noise starts now. 1170 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the noise is ending in three two one