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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex Pete.

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Speaker 2: And it's your girls in a call and you are

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Speaker 2: tuned into another episode of poor Mine speak thought. So y'all,

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Speaker 2: let me tell y'all something. First of all, we got themosasmosas. Look,

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Speaker 2: I'm getting tipsy already. So this is the first time

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Speaker 2: we recorded an episode during the day, So clap for

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Speaker 2: us for me, we're trying to be professional, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Are So that was actually called the punctual she was

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Speaker 1: before our guests got here.

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Speaker 2: So let me tell y'all. So we have a guest

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Speaker 2: sit right here. But let me set this up for y'all.

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Speaker 3: So I had a lot of Drea this morning.

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Speaker 2: I'm confessing to you that I'm like I told her

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Speaker 2: that the guest was gonna be here at eleven thirty.

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Speaker 3: So guess what time Dre got here? Eleven thirty.

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Speaker 1: You got here at eleven twenty four. Four four. You

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Speaker 1: want me to show you what my apartments called to

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Speaker 1: let you in the gate? Eleven twenty four. But it's cool.

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Speaker 2: But because I said Dre get here at ten forty five,

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Speaker 2: so I can set up the computer and I can

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Speaker 2: set up everything and have it ready She's like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Girl, but we're here. She got here, look y'all.

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Speaker 4: And I probably shouldn't have the easiest, but I took

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Speaker 4: my week off last night and I had to wash

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Speaker 4: my hair and everything this morning so.

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Speaker 1: We can wake up at seven. We commend you. I

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Speaker 1: think that's pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you for doing a set favorite.

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Speaker 2: So anyways, I'm so excited to have his guest here today.

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Speaker 2: Y'all have been asking us to have her on over

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Speaker 2: and over again. Shout out to Mandy for linking me

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Speaker 2: up with her. We have passports Cuddy here today.

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Speaker 1: What's going on? I'm so good. I'm so happy to

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Speaker 1: be here, but I'm my voice is a little scratchy.

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Speaker 1: I've been doing a podcast O week. I know you.

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Speaker 3: Let me say how hard it is. It wants to

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Speaker 3: get her here.

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Speaker 1: Cause she is the sister is.

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Speaker 5: She's like, what can you do this this day that

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh, I got that, I got that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I was like, you know all.

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Speaker 4: Of them, and I was like, damn, let me get a.

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Speaker 1: I was like it live. Let me get in.

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Speaker 5: So many to tell you, and I think she forgot.

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Speaker 5: I was like, did you ever hit Like? She was like,

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Speaker 5: let me hit her down.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 2: So for those who don't know who Cutty is, tell

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Speaker 2: us a little about Cuddy and your brand and.

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Speaker 1: Who you are.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so pastoral Cuddy really started on Twitter, you know

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Speaker 5: when that was like.

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Speaker 1: Height, and that's really where I got my start.

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Speaker 5: It was just me being super unfiltered, raw commentary about sex, dating,

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Speaker 5: relationships and all that.

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Speaker 1: And then I.

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Speaker 5: Transferred into Instagram and made it visual, so I started

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Speaker 5: going like viral that way, and and I recently wrote

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Speaker 5: a book called The.

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Speaker 1: M mann Is for Money.

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Speaker 5: It's it's a woman's god on how to handle men.

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Speaker 5: It's a woman's god on how to handle men and

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Speaker 5: money and dating and relationships. Throughout my time on Twitter,

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Speaker 5: I was constantly talking about like guys giving me money

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Speaker 5: and people would always write me hot you how can

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Speaker 5: I get this guy to do this? Or how can

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Speaker 5: I ask this gy to do that? Well, I've been

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Speaker 5: dating this guy for four months. He ain't never did

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Speaker 5: nothing for me, or you know, like just asking me

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Speaker 5: And I realized that women are super uncomfortable having conversations

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Speaker 5: So I was like, you know what, I just got

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Speaker 5: to put everything that I think and that I know.

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Speaker 1: Women definitely have an issue talking to guys about.

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Speaker 5: Things because the first thing they do, I don't want

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, if he don't think the same thing

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Speaker 5: as you, then he not for you, right, you know.

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Speaker 2: So I feel when people say the thing like, oh,

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Speaker 2: asking him for money.

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Speaker 5: I don't like to use that particular analogy because then

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Speaker 5: I want them to know it's not about if that's

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Speaker 5: what they want, which is pussy. If you want dick,

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Speaker 5: that's cool, right, But if let's say his dick is

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Speaker 5: like you just want more, like you want to cuddle,

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Speaker 5: you know whatever. I just feel like I feel like,

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Speaker 1: What is it that you want the first day? You know?

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Speaker 5: Within yourself, like to know what you want from this

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Speaker 5: been flawing to money all around, or he's been approaching

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Speaker 5: you with money, so you're like, I want some money

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Speaker 5: feel like you don't have to be so direct with it,

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Speaker 5: like now some people can, you know, Like I literally

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Speaker 5: have friends who'll be like, how much you're gonna pay

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Speaker 1: You know, like but that's the thing, no, And you.

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Speaker 5: Know, the thing about it is is that it's not uncommon,

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Speaker 5: This is what it is. I have friends who did

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Speaker 5: saying it, then you just gotta know what you want

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Speaker 5: and then you gotta try to finesse it out of

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Speaker 5: I want to, you know, but what do they do.

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Speaker 1: They go and they put.

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Speaker 5: Their hand on your leg, or they say something sexual,

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Speaker 5: or they be like you know, And I just feel

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Speaker 5: like God's just always throwing in something at the most

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Speaker 5: awkward time, Like you're just like, oh sorry, I ain't

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Speaker 5: see your text. I was in a shower, and they'll

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Speaker 5: gonna be like, oh you dripping wet, ain't you?

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Speaker 1: I wish I could drive you?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: You just be like God if you think about it.

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Speaker 1: Men are so corny. That's so horny. Men are very

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Speaker 1: corny and very horny. Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna get into the first topic here

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Speaker 2: because yesterday on Twitter something happened with Meg thee Stallion

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Speaker 2: and she was out with trays home. Everybody was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Meg a ho and blah blah. She basically reacting was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not a hole? Why do y'all want me to

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Speaker 1: So bad?

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Speaker 2: And then one girl was like, well, you make whole music,

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Speaker 2: so why are you so mad about people calling you

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Speaker 2: a hope? And then another girl was like, well, don't

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Speaker 2: be dense, because nobody wants to be called out their name.

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Speaker 2: So I want to know what does the word home

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Speaker 2: have concacts, I like, oh, bitch, I'm going hole tonight, right?

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Speaker 2: I bets I want to be a hope. But if

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Speaker 2: le's a hope? I would be upset as fuck. So

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Speaker 2: it's like, what does the word like hoo mean to y'all? Like,

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Speaker 2: do y'all feel like it's a bad thing or have

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Speaker 2: we taken back the name hope.

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Speaker 1: Now I feel like it's about the intent. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I agree.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I use the word right, but when

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Speaker 1: But we be playing with us right right.

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Speaker 4: But I think it becomes negative when somebody using it

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Speaker 2: That's what they do historically, that's what the word means exactly.

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Speaker 5: So like before, right now, I've transitioned into calling myself

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Speaker 5: like an unconventional life coach, because you know, I give

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Speaker 5: on how to you know, get better, do better, all

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Speaker 5: coined me the whole coach, the home coach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my father. I need to learn. I'm ready

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Speaker 1: to learn. I was no, but you know, I didn't

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Speaker 5: I was just talking about, like I said, I was

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Speaker 5: talking about the sugar daddies. I was talking about dating guys, money,

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Speaker 5: I was talking about all of this stuff. I was

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Speaker 5: talking about sex online whatever, so you know, and all

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Speaker 5: the people who used to like retweet me and be

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Speaker 5: like a guy he said it like on some lady shit.

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Speaker 1: But I definitely was like.

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Speaker 5: Like at that because I was like twenty four twenty five,

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Speaker 5: so I was like, I'll get so I took that,

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Speaker 5: It's just it was just funny.

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Speaker 1: It was like, you know.

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Speaker 5: Whatever, but then people really start trying to make you

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Speaker 5: feel crazy about it, like oh, you coach hose or

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Speaker 5: your hoes, and you are you a hoe?

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Speaker 1: You the biggest hole, you the whole coup, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, And I'm just like, let me like move forward

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Speaker 5: way people are using it are so intentvely degrading. You know,

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Speaker 5: when you're saying anything you say, I always say, they're

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Speaker 5: gonna call you, Oh, if you don't fuck, they're gonna

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Speaker 5: call you whole. If you do fuck, they're gonna call

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Speaker 5: you a whole. Based on who you fuck, they're gonna

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Speaker 5: call it. Like so cause even.

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Speaker 4: If you don't fun make the assumption, right exactly.

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Speaker 1: But I look at it.

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Speaker 5: I was just telling somebody this other day, I said, Okay,

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Speaker 5: so you a whole if you fuck one hundred niggas, right,

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Speaker 5: this is what they're gonna say, Oh you a whole.

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Speaker 1: Whatever. You could fuck two niggas and they could.

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Speaker 1: It never bothers me because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: It used to bother me, Like I feel like when

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Speaker 4: I feel like we could definitely agree with Cudney and

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, from the show, like people like y'all have

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Speaker 5: And then if I do we or do you Well,

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Speaker 5: I look back at those sweets, like, you know, like

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Speaker 5: understand people's perception. I always say, like, you can't get

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Speaker 5: Right, So if you're comfortable putting out your business and

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Speaker 5: I always say, like, I can't get mad that people

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Speaker 1: So if they don't fuck with me, they just.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, Honey, you started a whole era,

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Speaker 2: Like nobody was tweeting like that, even the ship I say, now,

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Speaker 2: I had like thirty thousand on my other kind before

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Speaker 1: So it's like when you're real, people really fuck with it,

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Speaker 5: It's it's like people are always saying to me, Oh,

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Speaker 1: But I'm too scared. That's some real shit. That's some

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Speaker 5: But another thing is that as far as the type

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Speaker 2: So what we're gonna talk about dating who you want

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Speaker 5: I totally get that question, and it's it's still relevant

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Speaker 1: So it's like, sometimes you still need to date.

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Speaker 5: You could be making twenty thousand and need thirty thousands though,

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Speaker 5: Like I still need to date somebody who's gonna help

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Speaker 1: Help, right right.

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Speaker 2: I do feel like people look at us a certain

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Speaker 1: We're comfortable, you know what I'm saying. Dread a little

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I feel like people look

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Speaker 3: Guys feeling it right now? Draim wars than me.

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Speaker 2: She like, unless you got fifty million fans popping that Oh,

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Speaker 4: It's not I don't have time for small talk, right,

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Speaker 4: I don't have time for small what do you want?

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Speaker 2: But I feel like the difference is though, because me

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Speaker 5: Well, I think that it's it's not uncommon that people

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Speaker 1: This still ain't got no popping wrong. No, I was

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Speaker 1: Right. So now it does it does sometimes, you know,

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Speaker 1: Got right exactly, so I need a guy. Remember, yes,

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Speaker 4: I used to his nigga. He told me one day

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Speaker 5: No, yeah they can, they they absolutely can because they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's happened. Some man wanna

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Speaker 5: She's not really asking for things that you know are important.

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Speaker 1: Was like, damn, I should have did that with the

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Speaker 2: Learning experience, Like recently I paid off my car with

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Speaker 1: Right, and I ain't got no car, you know what

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Speaker 2: But it's like, shit, no, when I tell you all

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay my run up. I'm gonna pay it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay knows about that speak on Queen. That's

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Speaker 1: what I like.

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Speaker 4: I will pay my rent up, I'll pay my car

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Speaker 4: promise that whenever one of us got a ro lea,

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00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 4: the other one was gonna give it the same year.

439
00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 4: So he bought his ear So he was like, it's

440
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 4: almost December, you go, you need to get your roles

441
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 4: And I was like, you know what, I do be

442
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 4: stacking my bread and I don't be spending my money

443
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 4: on half the sheet that I could be spending.

444
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:18,680
Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know what, I don't get myself right,

445
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 1: I mean because I desire, because it's like I really

446
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 1: don't be spending my money on bullshit. Want I look

447
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 1: at it.

448
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 2: I've been really responsible and it's okay to treat yourself

449
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:26,960
Speaker 2: every now.

450
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,679
Speaker 5: Right now, I've been one of the it's and I

451
00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 5: be so mad because I be thinking of myself. All

452
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 5: the money that the niggas done gave me. I still

453
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 5: don't got a rolette and never got one, but all

454
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,080
Speaker 5: the money even I spent on myself on anything. And

455
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 5: it's funny because I got a whole tour, no credit

456
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 5: card and still just won't go get it.

457
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 1: I just I mean, I don't think.

458
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 5: I've never spent fifteen or twenty thousand at one time

459
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 5: one time, and I'm just like, yeah, so the funniest

460
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,719
Speaker 5: story happened. Like I totally believe in signs and mercury

461
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 5: retrograde me and all of that.

462
00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna let these bitches talk the last.

463
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 5: So earlier this year, I'm in Miami and Bar Harbor

464
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 5: and I'm like passing tour now.

465
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, just go get the goddamn Rolex, right.

466
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 1: So I go in there and I'm like, it's mercury retrograde.

467
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: You know, you ain't supposed to be getting no big purchases.

468
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 5: You know you're not supposed to be buying technology, big

469
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 5: things signing contracts. Then I was like and then I

470
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 5: was like, I'm going against this. I'm give fuck, I'm

471
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,959
Speaker 5: right here. I'm just gonna do it now.

472
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:33,399
Speaker 1: No.

473
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 5: I walk in the store and I think my limit

474
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,719
Speaker 5: was only ten thousand, but the watch was fifteen thousand

475
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 5: that I wanted, and I was like I should probably.

476
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,680
Speaker 5: I was like, but I only got ten. And then

477
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 5: there was like, oh, well, you can try to raise

478
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 5: it and I was like, no, causin it's gonna, you know.

479
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 1: Affect my credit whatever.

480
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 5: And then they were like, I said, but I don't

481
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 5: want to get the client because I'm gonna fel on

482
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 5: in Baradras or whatever.

483
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: And she was like, it ain't nothing but to trial,

484
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,959
Speaker 1: like just try. Yeah. I was like, all right, go ahead. Right.

485
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 5: So I'm sitting there and my phone and then I'm

486
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 5: sitting there and the lady comes over.

487
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: She was like, she asked to speaks to you.

488
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 5: Usually when they asked us speak to the customer to verify,

489
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 5: that means that they're gonna raise it, so you probably

490
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 5: gonna get it.

491
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: So she was like here. So on the phone with

492
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: the lady.

493
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 5: The lady's like, oh, hey, man, can you do you

494
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 5: have the telephone number that we have on file so

495
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 5: we can send a security a text message, but security

496
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 5: or whatever to make sure that it's you.

497
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah.

498
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 5: As soon as she said, I'm about to send a

499
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 5: text message now, I swear on god. As soon as

500
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 5: she went to go send a text message, the phone broke.

501
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 5: The ship went and the it just said no service.

502
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

503
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 5: It really the phone literally all of a sudden lost

504
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 5: all the bars and where it says sprint, it literally

505
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 5: said no service. It would not I turned it back on.

506
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 5: I'm like, so, I was like, can you send this

507
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 5: send you? Can you send it to my other cell phone?

508
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 5: Because I have two phones. I said, can you said that?

509
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 5: They was like no, it has to be the one

510
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 5: on five.

511
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,719
Speaker 1: I was like, I know they think I'm a skimmer

512
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 1: in here. I know they Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed.

513
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:20,199
Speaker 1: But I was like, but look, you say, yeah, I

514
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 1: still don't got a guy, damn. Relative Okay, so.

515
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 5: Give me a little with the little baby. No, I

516
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 5: like the big face. No, I don't want to bus that.

517
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 1: I just want the bigger. I like the forty one.

518
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 5: Millim and they're about to discontinue them or they discontinue

519
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 5: them more ready.

520
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: But I don't like the little ones. I feel like

521
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: I want.

522
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 5: To be like a guy I want.

523
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 1: I'll take a Michael course. I just want to watch

524
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: Apple Watch. You're not so in closing.

525
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 2: So do you feel like now you can date who

526
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 2: you want versus all you need?

527
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: Because we get off topic all time, It's okay, So

528
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: do you mean not yet?

529
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 5: Because like, let's just use this as an example. Like

530
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 5: my dude, he got a couple of dollars. There's plenty

531
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 5: of times.

532
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 1: That I want to break up with his ass, and I'm.

533
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:27,400
Speaker 5: Like, I don't know, because you know, so I could

534
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 5: honestly say that we could even I don't know if

535
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 5: I could date who I want versus who I need.

536
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 5: But I also don't know if you could not put

537
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 5: up with certain ship because of you need and stuff.

538
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

539
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 5: So it's like, there's plenty of times I probably should

540
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 5: have been broke over with him a long.

541
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: Time ago, right, but then he could but then he.

542
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,400
Speaker 5: Comes back with a couple of thousand, and then he'd

543
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 5: be like, I know you need help.

544
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, I do you Honestly, that makes me feel

545
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 2: better because I don't know, but seriously, because I always

546
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: felt like like when women make more money that they

547
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 2: can just leave all the bullshit behind.

548
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: They can date who they want and everything.

549
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 5: Be happy to have more money, have more problems as well, right,

550
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 5: they be having more women.

551
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: Too, I'll be yo, let me tell you something to this.

552
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 5: Whole week i've been down here, I've been finding about

553
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 5: so I've been finding out about certain guys and them

554
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 5: having like mistresses and side chicks and stuff like that,

555
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 5: prominent people that I'm like.

556
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: No, he he he goes his wife every day.

557
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 5: I thought they was in love, and I mean they

558
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 5: might be in love, but yeah, he still got a

559
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 5: whole little ust.

560
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, you know, so it's like what you

561
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: have that type of money. It's like they just kind

562
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: to find That's I'll say.

563
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: I meant like when I say who you want, like,

564
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: I feel like when you have more, when you like

565
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 2: a woman, when she has her own money, she can

566
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 2: date who she want, as in he don't have to

567
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: have a lot of money because she got the money.

568
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Yeah, I don't want that. What

569
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 1: should be money? Why would you even want? Don't we know?

570
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: But we know Old girl because oh girl, you know,

571
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: you know, like she's getting money, but she's daddy somebody

572
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 2: who don't got nothing.

573
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: But it's true.

574
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm I'm an Okay, this is the last thing

575
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say.

576
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: No, that's not different. That's a lot of cases topic

577
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 1: though that goes to the next topic.

578
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 5: The last thing that I want to say about that

579
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 5: is that it's true, because I'm gonna be honest. It's

580
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 5: probably I thought to myself in my mind that there's

581
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 5: probably a guy.

582
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: That I would be with if he.

583
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 5: Like everything about him checks the box as far as

584
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 5: a guy who is a great companion, somebody who's loyal, loving, respectful,

585
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 5: that like, he checks all the box. But he broke right,

586
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 5: and I'm not to the level that.

587
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: I need to be for me to be with somebody broke.

588
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, I get what you mean.

589
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: Like if I was good and I didn't have me.

590
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:04,239
Speaker 5: Worried at all about money, I might be like, you

591
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 5: know what, let me get with the.

592
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: Guy who loves me.

593
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 5: I don't think he's gonna cheat, I don't think he's

594
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 5: gonna violate whatever.

595
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: Because worrying about the guy who has.

596
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 5: Money, you cut that comes with the problems and they're

597
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 5: not they're not respectful, they're not you know, But do y'all.

598
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: Feel like that's realistic?

599
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 4: So to say this guy is loving and he's respectful,

600
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 4: and he's all of these things. He don't have no

601
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 4: money over there, But say y'all get together and then

602
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 4: you're taking care of him, you fleeting the bills everything

603
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 4: because you read you.

604
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: Got it right, you taking care of him.

605
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 4: He living his lavish ass. Like, who's to say he

606
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 4: won't switch because.

607
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: Now he's right.

608
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like that's the with anybody though,

609
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 2: man like man or woman.

610
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So nig I know he

611
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 1: ain't gon sweitch because he already read. I'm not gonna die.

612
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,479
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I feel like, I don't know.

613
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: I feel like when I come up on some money,

614
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: my taste and men might change. Would money be stressful?

615
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 2: I'm not broke, but I won't be going after the

616
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 2: millionaires and ship.

617
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie once I had my meal. Yeah,

618
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: y'all is done. I'm not gonna be real like these

619
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: they are trash. You gotta pickson.

620
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: So, speaking of this topic, I wanted to talk about

621
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: women tricking because I feel like a lot of women

622
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: do that. Even when women don't have a lot of

623
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 2: money and they get a little bit of money, they

624
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 2: be wanting to.

625
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: Buy niggas to be like, oh, let me get you

626
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: these shoes. Oh we can go half on the rint,

627
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: let me pay for you with trip.

628
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: So I want to know how y'all feel about women

629
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 2: tricking because as women, we expect men to trick, So

630
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 2: why can't men expect women to trick?

631
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: I used to be the old sugar mama that was

632
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: a surprise. I wasn't ready.

633
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 5: It's funny because I think that I always say, like

634
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 5: a sugar mama, ain't nobody, I mean a golza gain nobody,

635
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 5: but a bit too tied the pan because she like, nah,

636
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 5: fuck that. So like in the book, I start off,

637
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 5: Like in the book I start, I tell like I

638
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 5: have stories in between the chapters of relationships and situations

639
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 5: that I had with guys and like what I learned

640
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 5: from it and what you know, like what happened with

641
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 5: them or whatever. So my first experience with a guy

642
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 5: who had money was at twenty one years old.

643
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: Before that, I ain't.

644
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 5: Even know guys had money because I was fucking with

645
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 5: people who didn't have a dome because I was that

646
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 5: girl who just kind of wanted the dude in her

647
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 5: pocket on her hip at twenty four to seven.

648
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: I just didn't want you to go nowhere. I wanted

649
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: you to be up under me. I was fucking like

650
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: I wanted to be smothered.

651
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 5: So if you talk about you've been at my house

652
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 5: for four days and you need to go home and change, No,

653
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 5: I'll buy you the whole new outfit.

654
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: No, I'm no stay one more night. Nobody. I watched him,

655
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: I buy you, you know, like whatever. I don't know why.

656
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 5: I was so like it's secure and stuff like so

657
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 5: I literally used to buy god stuff from the tip.

658
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: Of and like I was spoiled, so like my remember

659
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: to have money and everything. So I remember being sixteen

660
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: years old and I had a little boyfriend.

661
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 5: I was working at the Bronx Zoo and I had

662
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 5: a boyfriend who worked there with me. I literally used

663
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 5: to hand him over my whole check and be like

664
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 5: here you can go.

665
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: No, you fucking line no, because.

666
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 5: He okay, So we all was so we was all

667
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 5: working there and like but everybody who was working there, okay,

668
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 5: their check was like, Okay, I'm a bodies and sneakers

669
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 5: when I get paid on Friday, you know.

670
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: Like so I used to be like, oh, he don't

671
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: have no money here, you know.

672
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 5: So it's like his whole check at the end of

673
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 5: the week, it was like one hundred and sixty dollars.

674
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 5: He going to bost some sneakers and then but now

675
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,719
Speaker 5: he don't got no money for the outfit. So I'm like,

676
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 5: so he's like, yeah, I'm like, you're gonna get.

677
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: The sneakers or whatever. He'd be like, yeah, I'm gonna

678
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,479
Speaker 1: get sneakers.

679
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 5: I'm like okay. He's like yeah, but then I gotta

680
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 5: wait till next week to get the outfit whatever.

681
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can have my check. I was like, cause,

682
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna get theer.

683
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 5: Today, right, Like I'm gonna get the out like I'm

684
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 5: gonna have everything. And by sixteen, I was already driving

685
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 5: and everything. I was like, the money was so petty

686
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 5: to me at the time I get it. So it

687
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 5: was like here, I was like a little boy boy

688
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 5: for the project and.

689
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

690
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 2: That's very relatable for me because I used to be

691
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: that way too.

692
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: Honestly, I can't relate. I'm not gonna lie to you.

693
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: When I first started getting followed on Twitter, because I

694
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: used to be like, I love broke niggas.

695
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because you gotta realize.

696
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: I started working at the club at an early age,

697
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: and when I first got in the club scene.

698
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: It was popping. Yeah. It was like when Future first

699
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: came out and Drake was on top.

700
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: So I'm twenty one going in the club making twelve

701
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: hundred dollars in a week end. So it's like the

702
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: guys I was dating at that time, I was letting

703
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: niggas movie, I take my car. I'm like, we in love,

704
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: so I get it. Leo liked me so oh oh

705
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 2: you Leo.

706
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: Oh yes, I used to.

707
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 5: Be because we like need, like we need people.

708
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: Who was gonna like we like to your meeting. Yeah,

709
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: but not.

710
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 5: Only that, but we just need yes, so like if

711
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 5: you gonna beat it in my face and not move, okay.

712
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: Like whatever it takes, you know. Yeah.

713
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 5: I was like buying everything right, And then at twenty one,

714
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 5: when I met this dude and he gave me money,

715
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 5: I was like, hold up right, wait, guys have money.

716
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: Like niggas got money.

717
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 5: Gone niggers if you have money, right, he did, like

718
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 5: I met him at forty forty and then like he lived,

719
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 5: he stayed in Atlanta. He was from Jersey. When he

720
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 5: got back Atlanta, he was like. I was like, oh,

721
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 5: I've never been to Atlanta before. And he was like, well,

722
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 5: we probably got to get you down.

723
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: Here one of these days.

724
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:13,479
Speaker 5: And I'm like, really, I'm so like the next day,

725
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 5: so when am I? And then he said he was like,

726
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 5: oh when is He was like, I mean, I don't know.

727
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,239
Speaker 5: He's like, you know, and he's like, so where am

728
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 5: I going to stay? He's like in the hotel. I'm

729
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 5: like okay. And I'm like I'm like which one. He's like,

730
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 5: that's up to you.

731
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: So now you get that taste today, I go to

732
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: the laptop. I go to the laptop expedia dot com

733
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: and I typed it.

734
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 5: I was like when he's like two days is good,

735
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 5: you go like Thursday through Saturday whatever, and then I'm

736
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 5: looking online.

737
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: And then the first thing is that like featured the

738
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: hotel said the Risk Carson. I ain't never been near

739
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: Risk Carson, been in the Risk call to nothing.

740
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 5: The first time I went to the Risks, I was

741
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 5: looking there doing It's true, I was really looking like

742
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 5: I was like, hmmm, I think it said like I

743
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 5: don't know, like eleven, but I had never had anybody

744
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 5: spend anything like no God, but I was like, let me,

745
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 5: let me change you.

746
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 1: Right.

747
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: I will say this, In my opinion, women who trick

748
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: have never had a man trick on them. That's my

749
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 2: opinion because I used to be that girl. So until

750
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 2: you have somebody jason and spoil you and why why

751
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: are you doing that as a woman.

752
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: And see, even when I was in school, I think

753
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: you're right, that's probably why. No. I know because even

754
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: when I was in school, opposite wait for me when

755
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: they came.

756
00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 5: Yeahs every tourist, I know, it's like I'm God's gift

757
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 5: to the earth, and like I'm a I'm a princess

758
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 5: and that such and like hop.

759
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: In a house of tauris is. My mom is a

760
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 2: tourist and my sisters to me.

761
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: And her mom have the exact same. Yeah, so I

762
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: definitely get it. But yeah, I feel like women girls,

763
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

764
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I do know that it takes a lot

765
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 5: for a tourist women to really like full deeply in

766
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 5: love you, yes, but that person that they do, they

767
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 5: will give everything.

768
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: But that that's very that doesn't come. I'm going one day,

769
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm like here like bro right, every.

770
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 5: Tourist I know, it's just like here we go Like

771
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 5: with me, they be like, yo.

772
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: Can we not? I'm like he my husband, he my boyfriend.

773
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm so in love. I love him. And

774
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: I used to be like sorry in the club.

775
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 4: My people, but now but now I'm not like that anymore.

776
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 4: And now there she called me about a new just

777
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 4: be over. You're like, okay, you know exactly.

778
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's so funny you say three weeks

779
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 5: because I always tell everybody, I'm like, it's only three weeks,

780
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 5: like if I it is even like yeah with the

781
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 5: like let's say, for example, I've been with the same

782
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 5: guy for a long time, but like we went on

783
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 5: and off because we had people in between that.

784
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: Time where we was. You know, I'm not supposed to

785
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: kind of be with.

786
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 5: Nobody else but whatever, right, So then like every single

787
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,760
Speaker 5: time we get into it, I'm like everybody.

788
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: I ever delt, it was only for three weeks. You

789
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: be carrying them on for like a whole year or

790
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: five If I'm sorry.

791
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 2: If a leo fucks with you longer than like three

792
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 2: weeks a month, you might be.

793
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 1: Right a tours too, though. They cut people off even

794
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,760
Speaker 1: faster than y'all because I don't never like nobody.

795
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, y'all don't mind friend would y'all don't remind mean

796
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 5: y'all don't mind remaining friends?

797
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't. No, I know we coult them love exactly,

798
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: That's exactly what's going on.

799
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 4: I'm like, could be cool with you if I don't

800
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 4: like you, But niggas gonna be wanting to be cool.

801
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, no problem. No, I don't want to be cool

802
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 5: if it doesn't work out. Mm hmmend.

803
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: So look, y'all know we keep getting off top of

804
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 3: and talked about I.

805
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: Mean the sugar mamas.

806
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 3: Yes, the sugar mama.

807
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: So you don't be a sugar mama nine times team Okay,

808
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this though.

809
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 3: Do you feel like whenever you're in love and you

810
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 3: have a husband.

811
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: Like you wouldn't buy a lambo?

812
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 4: If you that's different? That's my husband. Yeah, I got

813
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 4: a boyfriend. Even if I got a boyfriend, I was

814
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 4: serious and spoke with my boyfriend and not riches. Fuck

815
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 4: like I would buy him whatever, that's my nigga.

816
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 2: But he knew the same right right, with no questions.

817
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: So it has to be reciprocated for sure. You would

818
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 2: never be the person that would do it first. No,

819
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: absolutely about.

820
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 1: Okay, Like if you was a.

821
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 5: Millionaire, like super super millionaires, you mean like yeah, like

822
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 5: if you had money, you wouldn't like do something for

823
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 5: a nigga, like except me.

824
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 4: If I'm a millionaire, I'm only dating niggas who got

825
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 4: more millions.

826
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: I'm bid because that's the time. Yeah.

827
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 4: Oh wait, so what about the trash? If I'm a

828
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 4: deal with a trash nigga, I'd rather deal with the riches.

829
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 5: But what about if you had twenty million and he

830
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 5: had ten million?

831
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: I could date a nigga with I was worth twenty million, Okay,

832
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: would you got a nigga with ten million?

833
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: Now that's what she's.

834
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: Like if they guaranteed or not? Hold on.

835
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 2: So for me in closing this topic, I just feel

836
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 2: like I don't see Honestly, I don't see nothing wrong.

837
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: I agree with drey on that I don't see nothing

838
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: wrong with women tricking as long as it's reciprocated. I

839
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 2: don't feel like women should do it first, because I

840
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,879
Speaker 2: feel like men are users and men are trash. I

841
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 2: do feel like women are more grateful when we get

842
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 2: gifts and we receive things. I feel like a lot

843
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 2: of times women will be in a relationship with the

844
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: guy and.

845
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: He'll do a lot for her.

846
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying there are women out there that

847
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,959
Speaker 2: don't use men, but I feel like if you're doing

848
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: things for a woman, I feel like more so she's

849
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,479
Speaker 2: appreciated and she really fucks with you. With a man,

850
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 2: if he's getting stuff from a woman, he's probably like, y'all,

851
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: look with this bitch, now, you know what I'm saying.

852
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's different on some corny shit.

853
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 5: So but also they, yeah, they start expecting it, and

854
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 5: then it makes you feel like they like the women

855
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 5: become like a slave to it, like yeah, for example.

856
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: Well, I personally do not.

857
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 5: Really condone women tricking because, like you said, especially if

858
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 5: it's not reciprocated or whatever. But I do remember this

859
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 5: situation where this girl said to me, you know, I'm

860
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 5: constantly paying for everything.

861
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: I haven't even.

862
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 5: Been able to do anything for myself in like two

863
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 5: damn years because I'm like helping fund his music career

864
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 5: and this and that, whatever the case is.

865
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: Right, So I said, I tell people all the time, like.

866
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 5: You can fuck with a bastard, you can't fuck with

867
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 5: a bum, like like meaning like you know, not that

868
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 5: I want to condone cheating it and all of that stuff,

869
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 5: but I'd rather you not fuck.

870
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: With the dude who like literally don't have nothing entreating

871
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: you like shit. Right.

872
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 5: So so when she said, I said, listen, I need

873
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 5: you to stop doing I said, I don't care if

874
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 5: you stay with him, whatever the case is, but I

875
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 5: need you to stop paying for stuff. Right. So, because

876
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 5: people always ask me like, how do I know if

877
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 5: I'm being used, because girls don't have no moderation, Like

878
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 5: we're the type of person that exactly, he buy you roses,

879
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:07,439
Speaker 5: we buy him a TV exactly like we always find

880
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 5: ourself doing that because we want to show that we

881
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 5: grateful in like some other crazy way or whatever. So

882
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 5: I'm like, ugh, So then I started saying, like you

883
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 5: gotta match what they.

884
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 1: Give you, you know what I mean.

885
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 5: So if they if they're generous, I always say, like

886
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 5: a broke god can give you his last dollar, you know.

887
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 5: So if you have a guy who makes less money

888
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 5: than you, and he would take the last five dollars

889
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 5: and feed you or you know, if he outside mowing

890
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 5: your lawn or he cooking for.

891
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: You or whatever the case would be.

892
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 5: And he's just showing that he appreciates you and that

893
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 5: he knows that you're the one who's like spending the

894
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 5: money and stuff, then okay, cool. But if you just

895
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 5: the person who's just putting out, putting out, and you

896
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 5: not even getting back into no capacity. And I tell

897
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 5: this to even sugar daddies like this guy he hit

898
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 5: us up on Instagram the other day and he was like,

899
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 5: you know, I was like, does she give you anything?

900
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 5: Like like, but were you happy like with the sugar baby,

901
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 5: Like if you just giving money, giving money, giving money,

902
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 5: that it's kind of.

903
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: Like what's the point.

904
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I don't care about the sugar baby's sugar

905
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 5: daddy dynamic, but like are you getting what you are?

906
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: You getting your money's worth? Right? Exactly?

907
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: Because I would say I've never been in a well,

908
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: I've had like one sugar daddy situation when I was younger,

909
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: but it was a.

910
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 3: Cool, like I actually kind of liked them, so it

911
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 3: worked out.

912
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: When you like when you like a sugar daddy.

913
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 2: No, but when you like a sugar daddy that you

914
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: would have hit Jack the jackparty, it's hard to like

915
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: a sugar daddy.

916
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm had, but I've had one sugar daddy and I

917
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: liked him.

918
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 2: But even now, like when I have men that like

919
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 2: give me money or do things that I want them

920
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 2: to do, I always make sure that I'm there for

921
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: them in whatever way that they need because they're there

922
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 2: for me financial and well, you know, I would be.

923
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: At work and they've given each other.

924
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 2: But I am like, I feel like, if a guy

925
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: is doing whatever I need him to do, I could

926
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: be at work.

927
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 3: He like, let me see them titties.

928
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: Baby, I'm running to the bathroom taking titties in the bathroom.

929
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

930
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: But I just feel like, no matter what the dynamic is,

931
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 2: I feel like.

932
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 1: Everything should be reciprocated.

933
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: You can't expect men to be paying your rent, or

934
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: paying your phone bill or paying anything and you're not

935
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 2: giving them nothing. You're not giving them good conversation, you're

936
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: not giving making them feel better after they've been.

937
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: That's my favorite thing. So I'm glad you brought up

938
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: stroking egos.

939
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: We've been doing good today and with these transitions, and

940
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 2: we've been and we've been drinking and we're not too drunk.

941
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: Because we did an episode with Kiki on cocktails and

942
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 2: we got to up. I hadn't delete it.

943
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 3: I have deleted it up.

944
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

945
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 2: So, speaking of stroking men ego, we gonna get into

946
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: the bed a A the.

947
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: Bed so a bad topic.

948
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 2: I want to talk about women faking orgasms and this

949
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 2: goes into stroking the male ego and making men feel

950
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 2: good versus you know women out there saying like Big

951
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 2: Sean said, he's giving Janayiko nine orgasms in a day.

952
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: It's all. I spoke about that on a lot this morning.

953
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: So how do you feel about it? You don't believe him,

954
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: you think he can I don't think. Well, I don't

955
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: know who's capping, but so do you?

956
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 2: Why do you feel like because I'm not gonna lie.

957
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 2: Last person I had sex with, I talked about this

958
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: on the last episode. I have four orgasms. I did,

959
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 2: but that that rarely happens. That's why I was so surprised.

960
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: Like literally my wig came off. My wig, Cuddy, my

961
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 2: wig literally came off. It came off while we was

962
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: fucking So I was like, we got my hair just

963
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 2: because I was so embarrassed.

964
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: We gotta go. She wasn't We wasn't ready.

965
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: But why do you feel like women fake orgasms?

966
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: Well? I feel like for two reasons.

967
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 5: Two primary reasons, like you said, either to stroke the

968
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 5: ego or so that.

969
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: You could haveavry the fuck up.

970
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 5: And and because you're taking too long, because like guys

971
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 5: be acting like they don't want to come until you

972
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 5: coming in, and you'll be like, all right, you're not really

973
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 5: doing a good job, and I'm not gonna come because

974
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 5: you're not doing Like for us, it's a rhythm, you know,

975
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 5: Like first of all, all that turning, I mean flipping

976
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 5: and changing positions every five seconds, we're not gonna get

977
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 5: that rhythm.

978
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: To come ye.

979
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 5: So and it's like every single time you pull it

980
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 5: out now you just kind of reset it, you know,

981
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 5: like all of that. So sometimes we just be like like, exactly, so.

982
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: Nuts, I don't think no.

983
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 5: I literally everybody has been jumping down my dim throat

984
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 5: about this all week because I had this thing that

985
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 5: always say I'll be like I'm good with nineteen minutes

986
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 5: sex three minutes a half for me three minutes a

987
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 5: half for your thirteen minutes SAX week good.

988
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: I was like, like, like, going.

989
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 2: Why are you gonna feel like sex needs to be

990
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:20,320
Speaker 2: forty five minutes?

991
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: I'm I'm as if you had a good sex. Let

992
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: me tell you something right now, as soon as you

993
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: put it in. It's just like.

994
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,439
Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna put on four Yes, I'm gonna

995
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 2: put on an episode of the Office by the time

996
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:33,959
Speaker 2: that ship.

997
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 1: Oh, but we better be fucking done.

998
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 2: We better once you that dude, I want nuts bust it.

999
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have time for that.

1000
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 2: And honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you like I'll

1001
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 2: talk about Garfield all time.

1002
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm keep it real.

1003
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 2: My pussy is not staying wet for no forty five

1004
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 2: minutes long.

1005
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: What I know? I told y'all. Now, I told y'all

1006
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: the trick you gotta spin in your hand and wrong

1007
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: and let him hit it from the back and rub.

1008
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 5: That's the craziest thing about is that spit not even

1009
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 5: that slippery.

1010
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 2: It's not it's not about what smoke weed and.

1011
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: Very smart use y'all spit very wisely. That is so funny.

1012
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 5: No, because people don't even understand Okay, So these two

1013
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 5: things I always be like, I know this seems like

1014
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 5: it's crazy, like it sounds crazy, but spit not really

1015
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 5: that way.

1016
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: It neither is the fucking.

1017
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 5: Having sex in the shower, like that ship will draw

1018
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 5: you up, so.

1019
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 1: Pull sex all that ship. And it's not too big.

1020
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: Y'all live in a ghetto ass apartment.

1021
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 2: My shower can fit one one and a half nigga

1022
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: from the Bronx.

1023
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: We damn sure don't got no bigger ass shower. Listen.

1024
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 5: And so I got a video about like shower sex.

1025
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 5: I'm like, shout, sex is whack whack. That's for rich

1026
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 5: sex people with big bathrooms. That's not for fucking no,

1027
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 5: not me my house.

1028
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 2: Well, in your other apartment it was. It was probably

1029
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: good because you had a big shower, you had a big.

1030
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 5: No, but you're about to bush your ass and you

1031
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 5: were about to drive up and fall in the top

1032
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 5: and kill yourself that much.

1033
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: But yeah, So.

1034
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 5: The faking orgasms thing, I don't usually fake because I

1035
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 5: can honestly say that I started. I got my first

1036
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 5: orgasm when I was seventeen years old. Right, it was

1037
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 5: by accident. I don't know what the fuck was happening.

1038
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 3: Was it with yourself or with the man?

1039
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: What? God? Oh wow, you're blessed.

1040
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 5: Yes, I know so, but you know what that's because

1041
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 5: missionary is very underrated and nobody want to.

1042
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: Do missionary and Michigan. It really is him a time.

1043
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm not know him on time.

1044
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: No, I can't come like that. It feels good, but

1045
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna come like that.

1046
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 1: See what come?

1047
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 5: Yes, because like you could like position it and grinding

1048
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 5: it like.

1049
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:15,240
Speaker 2: Actually mine, I'll say for me, I was. I started

1050
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 2: faking orgasms.

1051
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: At a very young age. I just almost choked.

1052
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 2: I started faking orgasms because like I didn't even I'm

1053
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 2: not gonna be funny.

1054
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: I think I started.

1055
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,479
Speaker 3: I started masturbating very young. I was like fifteen, but.

1056
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 5: Really I didn't even I started the first the first

1057
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 5: time I.

1058
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 2: Did, but I didn't know what I was doing. My homegirl,

1059
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,439
Speaker 2: her name is Lindsay. Shout out to Lindsay, my wife friend.

1060
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 2: She told me she was like, but in the bathroom.

1061
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 5: White people always introducing black people to sting sexual. I'm

1062
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 5: promised you it's always white people influencing us. Yes, I

1063
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 5: think I was about like twelve the bathroom and I

1064
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 5: was like, what, Oh my god, let me let me

1065
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 5: try it. So the first that was the first time

1066
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 5: I did, but I didn't get anything from it.

1067
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: I was twelve. I didn't know.

1068
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 2: I think the first time I really started kind of

1069
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 2: like rubbing myself and kind of feeling something, I was

1070
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: like fifteen, but I didn't have my first orgasm until.

1071
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: I was like older. So my guy was older. That's why.

1072
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: That's probably why.

1073
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 2: But I think whenever I first started having sex, cause

1074
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 2: I lost my virginia when I was seventeen, I just

1075
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: I didn't even I didn't even know women could orgasm, right,

1076
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 2: I didn't even know that.

1077
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: I didn't know what it. I didn't even I never

1078
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: heard of it.

1079
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 5: I never I just know, you know what that they

1080
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 5: they say orgasm in come right, you think you coming.

1081
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 5: It's like sometimes when you have sex, it's like this

1082
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 5: little surge like you're like shit yeah, like a little

1083
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 5: shit yeah. And you were like, oh I hey, and

1084
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 5: you don't even know that nothing. That's not until it

1085
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 5: actually happens, you're like, oh shit, could we redo the

1086
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:55,399
Speaker 5: whole gas like ten years because I didn't even know

1087
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 5: that orgasm existed. I tell people like that, do this,

1088
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 5: I said, let's that little that little searge. If you

1089
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 5: never felt like you went to heaven and then you're

1090
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 5: like like resurrected that came back down, like you did.

1091
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: Not have an orgasm because you would.

1092
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 5: It's like this builds up. You're like, wait, where am

1093
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 5: I going? Where am I going?

1094
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: And I just like, and I'll say this, once I

1095
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:24,720
Speaker 2: I taught I had to teach myself how to orgasm

1096
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,760
Speaker 2: with men, like I did. And once I taught myself,

1097
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 2: I know how to make myself orgasm. I'm gonna have

1098
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 2: an orgasm nine times out of ten because I know

1099
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 2: what to do right, you know what I'm saying. So

1100
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 2: now I don't have to fake it, but I'll be

1101
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 2: thinking about it. It's a lot of men in my

1102
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,320
Speaker 2: past that are probably like, man, I broke clips.

1103
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, business, But I'm like, did you really right? A

1104
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: lot of in my past.

1105
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 2: They just didn't put it down, but they'd be out

1106
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 2: here thinking that they put it down.

1107
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: But before you know, I'm going to bring one of

1108
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: them on the show. I just want to admit to

1109
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: you that you wasn't doing nothing.

1110
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: It's crazy because a lot of men they really don't

1111
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 2: know that we're faking and they feel like they're that

1112
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: one exception because on top, that's what I'm saying, you're

1113
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 2: psy I feel like a lot of guys don't even

1114
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,959
Speaker 2: know what happens with a woman or right, they don't

1115
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 2: they gonna believe, right, And that's what I'm saying with

1116
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 2: That's why I brought in the big Sean very because

1117
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 2: everybody was like, oh, yeah, I do that to my

1118
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: woman all the time. I'm like, ninety percent of women

1119
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: are not experiencing orgasms. So there's no way that all

1120
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 2: you men are sitting up here talking about you're making

1121
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 2: your woman orgasm. It's just not realistic and it's not happening,

1122
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: not nine times, so that you're barely doing it one, barely,

1123
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: barely barely one, and then when you do it once, okay.

1124
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 2: So we just happened to be talking about this on

1125
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 2: Live this morning and I was like, okay, so when

1126
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 2: you do it once.

1127
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: How is it that shit is so sensitive?

1128
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 5: Like what type of alien monster are you to want

1129
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 5: to keep on fucking through there? Like you don't want

1130
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 5: to savor it, Like it's like calming down, you trying

1131
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 5: to funk through that to get another one, Like okay, like, yeah,

1132
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 5: you could funk through it to get like but nine

1133
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 5: more times.

1134
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 2: Not noe more time. I'm not like I said, I

1135
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 2: can come multiple times. It is sensitive, but like I

1136
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 2: feel like once I get like a that five ten,

1137
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 2: I'm ready again.

1138
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I can't fuck again immediately.

1139
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 2: It's like you touched it, like like, don't touch me.

1140
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 5: Don't even when guys be like like my dude will be.

1141
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: Like, oh, you're gonna keep sucking after I come, I'm like,

1142
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 1: uh huh, and that's my favorite thing.

1143
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 5: No, but I mean I don't want to, but I'll

1144
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 5: do it if you're saying it, so then I'll try

1145
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 5: to be like, I'm like, but you told man, He's like,

1146
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 5: but you told me to keep on like that.

1147
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, see that's how I know. Yeah, we definitely

1148
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: having an add of body experience. Oh yeah, for sure.

1149
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 2: But I mean so the women, I know, you gotta

1150
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: think about if you're having an orgasm, whiite man is

1151
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 2: in your pussy, it's the same.

1152
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: It's the same feeling.

1153
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 2: Well, I can't say that because I don't have a dick,

1154
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 2: but I think it's the same kind of react.

1155
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: No, we do, got our own little deck. Yeah, like

1156
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: it really is. That's what I'm saying.

1157
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 2: So I just want women that are listening to the show.

1158
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 2: I feel like it's very important because I feel.

1159
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: Like we've all had orgasms with men before.

1160
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:21,800
Speaker 2: So my ladies out there that are straight, because I

1161
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 2: feel like when you have a sex with a woman,

1162
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 2: you orgasm every time. But for the ladies that are

1163
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 2: straight out there, I just feel like we as women

1164
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 2: really need to stop doing that faking orgasm like we

1165
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 2: really kind of it really is and we're getting and

1166
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 2: show him because there's no there's literally no.

1167
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: Benefit for us unless, like I said, it's like.

1168
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 3: A transactional situation.

1169
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: There's no benefit from you sleeping with a man that

1170
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: you have feelings. You already gave me myiche.

1171
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 2: Right like like right, I'm just saying like, if it's

1172
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 2: somebody that you like or that you care about, or

1173
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 2: that you're in a relationship with, you're not getting any

1174
00:54:58,400 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 2: benefits from.

1175
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 5: And then one thing I always say is if he

1176
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 5: asked you, did you come? Well, first of all, there's

1177
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 5: a lot of things I say about this coming thing, right,

1178
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 5: So number one, if he says if he doesn't ask you,

1179
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 5: I mean some girls be like, oh I don't want to.

1180
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 5: I don't want nobody to ask me if I came, right,

1181
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 5: But I feel like gods do be asked, right, Yeah, yeah,

1182
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 5: if we don't lie on that, but if somebody.

1183
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: Says did you come? Whoa?

1184
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean if they think we came, But

1185
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:35,919
Speaker 5: it's kind of productive to lie. But because we lie,

1186
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 5: they do ask, you know. So it's like I say,

1187
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 5: if they be like, oh, you came, if you say no,

1188
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 5: well you should say no if it's not true, like

1189
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 5: you should say no. And if he don't do nothing

1190
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 5: to try to make you come, like on some eating

1191
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 5: you out or like or even to act like he

1192
00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 5: care instead of like, look, okay, you know, then it's like,

1193
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 5: you know, he's selfish and he's probably not worth.

1194
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: He'd be like damn right. No. One time a dude

1195
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 1: told me, I was like, stop, I ain't coming. He

1196
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 1: was like, you're not always gonna come? What?

1197
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 2: And this was my point. I'm glad you said that,

1198
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 2: because that's why I said. It's not the same though,

1199
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: because no matter what a man is gonna come, all

1200
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: they need is friction.

1201
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 1: They can cut a hole in.

1202
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 4: This fucking dry No. Somebody that it was a nigga.

1203
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 4: I forgot who it was. It was like if like

1204
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 4: Nigga saying it a beach got good pussy or whatever.

1205
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 4: It is something that niggas just came up with how

1206
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 4: to try to like divide women with some drops.

1207
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 2: Gonna come, but for women it's not the same. So

1208
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 2: I feel like men should care more. But I feel

1209
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: like women are so delicate during sex. We go in,

1210
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 2: but just like how you said earlier, like when women go,

1211
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 2: we go in, whether it's financial or in the bedroom too. Emotionally,

1212
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 2: women we just go for the juggler and everything. So

1213
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 2: we're in bed, bitch, we turning tricks. We don't ask

1214
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 2: our friend, bitch, how you stuck here?

1215
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: How what you knew? Let me we learned.

1216
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: All the tricks were like Missy made a whole song,

1217
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 2: puts it on film, and now I gotta turn this

1218
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 2: nigga out.

1219
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: So I gotta turn nigga out. He gonna So that's

1220
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: what the reason we deserve. I deserve, I deserve, That's

1221
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:28,479
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1222
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 2: So we all pussy ain't gonna turn o nigga out

1223
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 2: and niggas gonna nut regardless, So I feel like we

1224
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 2: need to turn it back to sex needs to be

1225
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 2: about the women and satisfying us. It don't matter what

1226
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: you do, a man is gonna nut period us.

1227
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: The whole experience is just awesome. Man.

1228
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 5: We're gonna be super right, We're gonna be super wet,

1229
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,439
Speaker 5: We're gonna be super open, like you might be able

1230
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 5: to get it in the ass, eve.

1231
00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: Like hello, oh my goodness, let me get the loan.

1232
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 2: Look, y'all can tell these mimosas.

1233
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: The mimosas have settled in. So yeah, so let us

1234
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: know how.

1235
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 2: Y'all feel, because we still got a letter to read,

1236
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: so yeah, we gotta do the bob. So yeah, let

1237
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 2: us know how y'all feel about women faking orgasms and

1238
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 2: any ladies out there, if you're faking an orgasm, I

1239
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 2: really want y'all to write in and tell us.

1240
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: Why why you do it, and to stop and to stop.

1241
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into the Bop up the week.

1242
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 2: So look, you ready because your phone is in hand.

1243
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 2: Sister is never ready for the bob.

1244
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: What is your bop of the week? I knew it.

1245
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: I swear to God.

1246
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 3: Oh fucking brother, go ahead, bitch, go ahead.

1247
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 4: Well, okay, Party next Door came out with a song

1248
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 4: called I Love that.

1249
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: Song, and they supposed how you love it? It just came

1250
00:58:58,280 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: out last night.

1251
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 4: I don't give a I don't I love and I

1252
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 4: love Party way on him to drop a new project,

1253
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 4: because again they came out with with the new project

1254
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 4: in like with probably like three three years ago.

1255
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 2: It was it's like a little kind of afrobat song, right, yeah,

1256
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 2: what was his last song?

1257
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, well, his last project. I know, like

1258
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: the last popular song because I don't remember everybody.

1259
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 4: The song recognized with Drake, right, I don't popular song

1260
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 4: he had, but that was like twenty sixteen because all.

1261
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: The songs I.

1262
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 2: Heard earlier, Mood of Forever Moved No Jaane is one

1263
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 2: of my favorite songs about Drake.

1264
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 5: Yes, they're supposedly supposed to be coming out with No

1265
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 5: Recognize was twenty four it was Oh Damn with You

1266
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 5: was twenty oh it's about us right now?

1267
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 1: So where are you going? More life? Yeah? No with

1268
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: yeah with you? Yeah with you.

1269
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 4: Then they had a song to on More Life, but

1270
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,919
Speaker 4: Party next Door by his self haven't actually.

1271
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: Came out like yeah with the song I don't think

1272
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 1: I know what this is? You don't know? Part next

1273
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:10,439
Speaker 1: Door I know the name, but I don't know the song.

1274
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 1: What was his song? There was a song? What was

1275
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: the song?

1276
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 2: It was like, come some about him, you're coming through coming,

1277
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 2: come and see me for once?

1278
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah that's him. That's that's what I

1279
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: didn't think about it. Yeah, so.

1280
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 4: Supposedly soon and I'm excited. I'm like, I need to

1281
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 4: give my heart broken, my heart heart broken.

1282
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 2: Yes, they yes, they try to stun if you want to.

1283
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: Once.

1284
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a heartbroken. I got a heartbroken once

1285
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,959
Speaker 2: in my life since I met you. Honestly, you don't

1286
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 2: never like nobody. I've never seen you in a relationship.

1287
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't never see you really fun with somebody. So

1288
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 2: that's why I said it was weird for me when

1289
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 2: you were going through that, because I'm like, what the

1290
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 2: fuck is this? She's like, I'm crying over.

1291
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: This. It's usually merying going on here.

1292
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop of the week, y'all know, I

1293
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 2: love Summer Walker and that's my bitch and Chris Brown

1294
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 2: is my favorite, y'all know. I cannot And they got

1295
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 2: a song together that dropped last night. Yes produce produced

1296
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 2: by London. On the track, I love that She's I

1297
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 2: would say, even if they don't work out, I love

1298
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 2: the fact that she's getting the best work from his nigga.

1299
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 3: I never knew that he could make R and B

1300
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 3: beats like this.

1301
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: He's but I knew he was hard. No, I know

1302
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: he was hard.

1303
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 2: But with rap music, it's different to be a producer

1304
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 2: of R and B and a producer of rap music

1305
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 2: is totally different.

1306
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: The fact that this.

1307
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,959
Speaker 2: Man can do rap music and R and B that's

1308
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 2: really not people can't really do that. It's like Timberland

1309
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 2: can do that, like Swiss BEA's like great. People can

1310
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 2: do that. Not a lot of people can do life. Yeah,

1311
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 2: can do only do trap be like I mean, look

1312
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 2: at south Side. He's one of the hot, hottest producers

1313
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,959
Speaker 2: right now, but he's only the same thing with what's

1314
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 2: his name, hit Maker?

1315
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: He mostly does well it maker does both. Did y'all

1316
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: watch did y'all watch Rhythm? Yes? I did. I loved

1317
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: Rhythm And you didn't watch it? Yeah?

1318
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 2: Yes, it was amazing because the producers really are the creatives,

1319
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 2: like that really the person that's bringing the music alive.

1320
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 3: So I like, I love I feel like y'all remember how.

1321
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: Like what did you want? To win real quick. I

1322
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: I think the person who one deserved it. What was

1323
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: the guy's name though? Yeah, him over the weekend. Yeah,

1324
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: I really think he deserves it. Actually is so fine

1325
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: in real life. He was fine on the show. I

1326
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: mean he was.

1327
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 5: I'm just saying he just looked. I don't know, maybe

1328
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 5: two fifty made him a little more finer.

1329
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: I did like what's ther name london Be. I liked her.

1330
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 1: I feel like it was a little gimmicky and it wasn't.

1331
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I loved Flawless. I don't know why,

1332
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: but Lawllas was good. Lawless was good. You know who else?

1333
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: I liked what was the little girl's name being?

1334
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 5: Yes, they hold her they when they put them together

1335
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 5: because they like the same That's what I'm saying.

1336
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 2: It's like, how can you battle against a battle rapper

1337
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 2: like that was totally unfair.

1338
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: So, but yeah, do you have about of the week?

1339
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: What you've been listening to this week?

1340
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 3: It'll have to be a new song and all.

1341
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 5: I've been listening to sir okay, I love and that's

1342
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 5: de Smoke's brother.

1343
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: And I had no idea yesterday that makes I didn't

1344
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: fucking know that I watch these show that.

1345
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: They look alike, but I had no idea their full

1346
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 2: blood like mom and dad.

1347
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: I don't know their brothers.

1348
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 5: And I was like what, Yeah, so they performed together

1349
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 5: on the Soul Train Awards.

1350
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh wow, See I didn't watch the Soul Train Awards.

1351
01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: I haven't watched it either.

1352
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, so sirs album at fire friend was playing it

1353
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 5: fire Now. I found out about Sir from Joe butden

1354
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 5: On on the podcast.

1355
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 2: Love Some R and b let me let me take

1356
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,000
Speaker 2: Let me tell how crazy Joe is.

1357
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: We're at a pool party. He had Lucky Day, performed

1358
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: niggas is getting drunk and he's had a lucky day

1359
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: up there, something about I got me aig. It's like

1360
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: we're drunk, Sir, We're going to chill all the time.

1361
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's how so, sir. That album was good.

1362
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 2: I gave it a couple of runs that I really like.

1363
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 2: His voice is so calm.

1364
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:42,479
Speaker 1: But he don't look like how he sounds at all.

1365
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 1: He looks like Lamar. Yeah, he loves you know.

1366
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 5: He looks like he's about to be a new Kendrick Lamar.

1367
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 5: And then he and then he sounded like Miguel and

1368
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 5: and then he.

1369
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 2: Don't play because when he went on Breakfast Club, Charlemagne

1370
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 2: was trying to play him about his name.

1371
01:04:58,080 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 3: Was like, oh, your real name is sir.

1372
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, because it means respect, like you

1373
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 2: have to respect me, So he don't play.

1374
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: I was Charlemaine Lenard. It ain't cut, no, but sir

1375
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: is actually a dope name.

1376
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: Yes, especially if that yeah, he said, that's what he said,

1377
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 2: something about his grandmother gave him that name because she

1378
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 2: always wanted to make sure people respected him when they

1379
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 2: addressed him.

1380
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: With Charlemagne, I like Charlamagne, but he's also nerd. Name

1381
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: is Charlemagne.

1382
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:42,439
Speaker 3: Charlomgaine said, okay, okay, So those are.

1383
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: The box of the week. We got the question.

1384
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 3: We got the question.

1385
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 2: So make sure y'all always email us if you want

1386
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 2: to get your question answered on the show. Email us

1387
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 2: at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1388
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: That's a s k p O. You are in my

1389
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: n d s at gmail dot com.

1390
01:05:58,520 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 3: So go ahead, little Drea.

1391
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 4: Hey, So it says advice keep me anonymous pleased.

1392
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: First, I absolutely love y'all.

1393
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 4: Y'all have me in hysterics every week at work, but

1394
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 4: I need help. I'm twenty seven have a good job,

1395
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 4: pursuing a master's degree, and have all my own sheep.

1396
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 4: I'm plus size, gang, but y'all girls, but your girl

1397
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 4: is a little cutie.

1398
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 1: The only thing lacking is my dating life.

1399
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 4: Men are definitely interested in me, but I can't seem

1400
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 4: to keep them interested, and I think it's because I'm

1401
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 4: a virgin. My call is to stay a virgin until married,

1402
01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 4: but as I've gotten older, I've changed my mind. I'm

1403
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 4: ready to pop some sheet orgasms fuelled and have me

1404
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 4: some sick shout out for she orgasms. But I don't

1405
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 4: know how to broach the topic with niggas at all.

1406
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 4: MC clingy crazy ain't no time for teaching. Stigmas usually

1407
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 4: deter me from bringing it up. I masturbate, love porn,

1408
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 4: and have given a head a couple of times, so

1409
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 4: it shouldn't be a completely horrible first.

1410
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: Time, right. I haven't out of town.

1411
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 4: God waiting to come spend the night with me, coming, wait,

1412
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 4: waiting to come and spend the weekend with me.

1413
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: But he doesn't know I'm a virgin.

1414
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 4: I hate for him to come four plus hours to

1415
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 4: feel like he wasted his time. I don't want to

1416
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 4: scare him or any other guys off. But when's a

1417
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 4: good time to closing me in? How can I get

1418
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,919
Speaker 4: these cherry pop and start exploring help a beach out?

1419
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 4: Sign horny as a Muslim?

1420
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't wanna talk about this. My I g for

1421
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: peak references, So I like, I love the fact that

1422
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 1: you signed in a horny as a motherfucker. Yeah, I'm

1423
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: always horny, listen, I am. I don't wanna talk about this.

1424
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 6: No, No, I mean, like y'all, I'll be feeling so

1425
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 6: bad when people wait so long, but to the new virginity,

1426
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 6: cause I'm like, girl, you ain't gonna even fucking talk

1427
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 6: to the person.

1428
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 1: Who to talk Instagram.

1429
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I just feel like, how many of y'all

1430
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 5: like done already wrote off the person that you.

1431
01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna line. I mean, I barely

1432
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: even think about it.

1433
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 2: I don't think about we still but yeah, we still talking?

1434
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: See what this is? The thing?

1435
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's gorgeous, But the thing is, nobody ain't tap

1436
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 5: that ass yet, queen.

1437
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 2: No.

1438
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 5: But the reason why I'm saying this is because I

1439
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 5: be so it hurt my heart to know that she's

1440
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 5: gonna give it up at this age and this stage,

1441
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 5: and this person is just gonna be like a fucking blank, right,

1442
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 5: It's just gonna be a freaking blank of an eye

1443
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 5: and you already on to the next and then, but

1444
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 5: emotionally you gonna feel like I waited so long for

1445
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 5: my opportunity and it's not gonna And that's why I.

1446
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 2: Say, don't feel pressure. Do not feel pressure, because sister,

1447
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 2: you have waited this long. So make sure I feel like.

1448
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: If you like.

1449
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 2: Somebody, that's something you gotta let him know. And that's

1450
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 2: a conversation you need to have because I don't want

1451
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 2: you to waste it.

1452
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 1: Because I'm not like, oh, hey, pop pussy one time.

1453
01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 5: Okay, guess what I think the best I think the

1454
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 5: best advice that we all could give her is to

1455
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 5: sell it.

1456
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:15,920
Speaker 1: Shut up. I don't know I was I'm twenty eight.

1457
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: If I was twenty eight and I was a virgin, god,

1458
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 1: I'll be telling the love you. I think it's on

1459
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: like online, you could sell your virginity. Well, I don't agree.

1460
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:30,799
Speaker 1: Running the bands up real quick.

1461
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 5: Y'all are terrible because the first going to the highest no,

1462
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 5: because no, no.

1463
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 1: No, no, it's like a whole thing.

1464
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 2: I know, I getting paid for selling your virginity because

1465
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 2: the first person who have sex with is not.

1466
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: But she said she wants to try to wait until

1467
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 1: she's married. She said, fuck it, I was calling of confused. Well,

1468
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 1: I'll say this either.

1469
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 4: Or you not.

1470
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this.

1471
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 2: I just want I don't want her to feel the

1472
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 2: pressures of being horny, because let me tell you, if

1473
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 2: if you're masturbating right now, that's the best orgasm you're

1474
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 2: gonna get first of all.

1475
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: So let me explain that to you. I don't, I don't,

1476
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,680
Speaker 1: I don't agree. Well to get you.

1477
01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 2: The fact.

1478
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 1: Okay, no, no, no, no, no, let me tell you why

1479
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 1: I said that.

1480
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 2: Because she's twenty seven. No, listen, she's twenty seven and

1481
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 2: she's never had sex. By the time she's gonna have

1482
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:25,040
Speaker 2: a good orgasm during sex, it's probably gonna be like

1483
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 2: six seven years from hate that long.

1484
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 4: Because they say that once you hit thirty or in

1485
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 4: your sexual prime.

1486
01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: I am okay, I think I went down. You think

1487
01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 1: I should went down. I'm warning all the time I can.

1488
01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 4: If I'm looking forward for thirty, if a year and

1489
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 4: a half, if I've been looking forward though, because I'd be.

1490
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:48,120
Speaker 2: Like I heard the show listen if I see anything

1491
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 2: shaped like a cylinder, I'm ready to fuck.

1492
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 3: I'm ready to fuck.

1493
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:54,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, always ready.

1494
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 2: It's even though it's even worse now, Like I'll be

1495
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 2: like my nigga over, be like, hey, you want to

1496
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 2: come over.

1497
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 1: He's like, I ain't got no juice, police alone, leave

1498
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: me alone. Yes, don't touch me, but no.

1499
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:13,640
Speaker 2: But like I was saying saying to her, I feel like,

1500
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 2: don't let the pressure that you feel like, Oh, you're ready,

1501
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 2: you're ready, You're ready.

1502
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,240
Speaker 1: I feel like you've waited this long. You might as

1503
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 1: well wait until.

1504
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 2: You're in a serious situation because I feel like, for me,

1505
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 2: the best sex that I have now is when there's

1506
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 2: a mental connection and an emotional connection. So I feel like,

1507
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 2: at least wait till you find somebody that has a

1508
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:34,600
Speaker 2: connection to you mentally and emotionally.

1509
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: I don't agree.

1510
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 4: I don't agree because I feel like niggas will lie.

1511
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:46,360
Speaker 1: I will lie absolute lazy. So say she met a.

1512
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 4: Nigga and he and he lying, and he acted like

1513
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 4: he a certain type of way just so he can

1514
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 4: get yeah, and he really turned out to be a

1515
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 4: fuck boy, and she done gave him some play because

1516
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 4: she thought they had a connection I don't feel like

1517
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 4: it needs to make I don't think the connection should make.

1518
01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: I mean it matter. I feel like, as a woman,

1519
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 1: you know when you're ready to get? Were you ready

1520
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 1: to have? Sick? When I decided to have six when

1521
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: I was fifteen, I knew I.

1522
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 2: Was ready, But you didn't know you was just ready

1523
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 2: to fuck because that's what everybody else was doing.

1524
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: Okay, but that's fine. But I knew I was ready

1525
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: to pluck. That's what I'm trying to tell you. I

1526
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: knew I was ready.

1527
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:21,600
Speaker 2: No, No, it was fucking at fifteen because that's what

1528
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 2: everybody else was doing.

1529
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 1: When I look back on it was already. No, you're

1530
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 1: wrong because I have friends who were the same age

1531
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 1: as meet and nineteen. But that's truely.

1532
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is when you're fifteen, you don't know

1533
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 2: what you're fucking.

1534
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 1: You just fucking. But I knew that I thought I

1535
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,600
Speaker 1: was ready to get. You thought, Oh I got that.

1536
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 1: You thought that you thought.

1537
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,519
Speaker 4: But so I feel like if she meets fuck, like,

1538
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 4: if she feels like she's at that point in her

1539
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 4: life where she's ready, she should fuck if she ready.

1540
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm just being honest.

1541
01:12:57,960 --> 01:13:02,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not gonna going.

1542
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 4: To go ahead and give it up. Being that sees

1543
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 4: you might sell it. I was fifteen. I couldn't see it.

1544
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:08,679
Speaker 1: I was too young.

1545
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 2: And cannot believe y'all tell her, I can't believe you feeling.

1546
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:18,080
Speaker 2: I just well, I'm not gonna lie to them, but

1547
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 2: I will say they selling it for like five hundred thous.

1548
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 1: Birthday August twenty, you are in August. I'll say this.

1549
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: I'll say this.

1550
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like she wants the she

1551
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 2: wants a situation. That's how the letter came off to

1552
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:40,719
Speaker 2: me though, because she's like this guy from out of town.

1553
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:42,679
Speaker 3: I like him. He wants to come to spend a weekend.

1554
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 1: She's and she's going to get emotional, y'all.

1555
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:48,680
Speaker 2: She is going so you can't tell her just go

1556
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 2: fuck because that's not gonna happen.

1557
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:52,599
Speaker 1: She's gonna get attached, but.

1558
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:56,639
Speaker 2: She might not get some more aid.

1559
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:03,839
Speaker 5: You'll get attached when there ain't nothing on the table

1560
01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 5: else besides your virginity. That's why I said sell it.

1561
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 5: So whether it's it good or not, you don't. You

1562
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 5: not gonna feel no way because you got something for it, right,

1563
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 5: but you give it you give you no, seriously, you

1564
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 5: get you.

1565
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 1: Get your virginity taken away by it. Dude.

1566
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,000
Speaker 5: Who Now, we don't know if he's gonna fall in

1567
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 5: or fall fall back. We don't know if he's gonna

1568
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 5: be in relationship with you or not. We know if

1569
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:34,920
Speaker 5: he's gonna call you back or not. We don't know

1570
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 5: if he gonna give you anything or not. Like that's

1571
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 5: super risk money exactly money.

1572
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 1: I would sell it. I would go on sugarnaddy dot com.

1573
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 5: I'm being dead ass serious. I would go on sugar

1574
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,400
Speaker 5: naddy dot com. You would food all pains and put

1575
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 5: well this is this might be illegal. I don't know,

1576
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 5: this might be part prostitution. I'm not sure. I would

1577
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 5: go on sugarnaddy dot com and be like a virgin

1578
01:14:57,400 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 5: looking for.

1579
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: Or whatever whatever websites they got.

1580
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:06,160
Speaker 5: Oh oh, so when I was doing my tour, they

1581
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 5: told me about this website cooled name your price.

1582
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: Or something like that where you get paid. Let me

1583
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 1: write this, I'm doing all this promo for the I

1584
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 1: don't even let me write so.

1585
01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 5: Like this is website when you go on and you

1586
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 5: get paid to go on a date with the guy,

1587
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 5: so you don't waste your time.

1588
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:29,599
Speaker 1: Wow, I think I kind of like that. I heard it, like.

1589
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,640
Speaker 2: Write something so okay. So y'all's advice is for her

1590
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 2: to sell her virginity. That's what y'all want to stick with.

1591
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 4: I feel like, steal it or go FuG.

1592
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: Do you like a nigga that you're being cool with? Now?

1593
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,720
Speaker 1: I agree with that? Thank you. Now you're talking with

1594
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: some logic.

1595
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 2: Now if you have always talk about logic when I'm

1596
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 2: talking about you for money? First of all, well no not.

1597
01:15:58,200 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 2: We're not talking about the money.

1598
01:15:59,360 --> 01:15:59,679
Speaker 1: You said.

1599
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 2: If you have a friend, someone that you've been friends

1600
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:03,720
Speaker 2: with for a long time, that you trust, then go

1601
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 2: fuck him.

1602
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 1: I can agree with that.

1603
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 2: So if you have a close, close friend that don't

1604
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 2: mind putting it down on you, I think that that

1605
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 2: that's a that's a good option too.

1606
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 3: But like I said, don't rush and don't feel pressure.

1607
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 2: That's all I can say because we don't know how

1608
01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 2: it's gonna end up, right, you know what I'm saying.

1609
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 4: I'm saying, if you don't do it, do you think?

1610
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 6: So?

1611
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 1: Good luck? Sister. I know we answered your question, but

1612
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: we did the best we can do.

1613
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 5: I answered my question very very concisively. Okay, Now, lex

1614
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 5: just doesn't want your heart to be broken. She's trying

1615
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 5: to make sure that your email heart broke. No, she

1616
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 5: may get sure that she's gonna be emotionally ready, right,

1617
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 5: And this is why it's so, this is why it

1618
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 5: scares me because it's so late in the game.

1619
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1620
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 5: See now we done long got over our ship from

1621
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 5: fifteen years ago. Yeah, so that's why we don't care.

1622
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 5: We like shit to God. Who I lost my virginity

1623
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 5: to die?

1624
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 1: So damn r ip, I love to brother. Here she goes,

1625
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 1: I know you're just relate because your niggas I never

1626
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: got kid Jesus. Well, first of all, I don't date

1627
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: the hood nigga. My the person that I love.

1628
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 5: One of the people that I love, Gott died on

1629
01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 5: a motorcycle accident.

1630
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:26,919
Speaker 3: Damn all right, RP.

1631
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: White niggas you used to be on the motorcycle and

1632
01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:36,759
Speaker 1: they still live and kicking, still live and kicking. But anyways, anyways,

1633
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 1: like yeah, like Hoddy said, I'm.

1634
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 2: Just I'm looking out for more of your emotional and

1635
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 2: your mental state that's gonna come afterward, because it's different

1636
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 2: when you're thirty.

1637
01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: Honestly, at thirty I'm still having sex.

1638
01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 2: And I get emotional. I'm like, do I know this man?

1639
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 2: Do I want to marry him? And am I about

1640
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 2: to get on one knee?

1641
01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 1: Right? So, so all.

1642
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:56,600
Speaker 3: I'm saying is for her, it's going to be a

1643
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 3: little more emotional.

1644
01:17:57,560 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: The fact that she's like, she's she's about to get one.

1645
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:04,200
Speaker 1: I never thought.

1646
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 2: But no, That's all I'm saying is I just want

1647
01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 2: you to look out for your emotional state being at

1648
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 2: your twenty seven. Like, it's easier to get over stuff

1649
01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 2: when you're young. You don't really know what's going on

1650
01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 2: in this and you just live in life and you

1651
01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 2: learn it. But you're twenty seven, so it's just different.

1652
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 2: So the best thing you can do is just listen

1653
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:19,880
Speaker 2: to yourself and your once and your knees and just

1654
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:21,559
Speaker 2: take because we can tell you what to do all

1655
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 2: day every day, but we are not you.

1656
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 1: Right.

1657
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 5: The crazy thing about it, after that, once you lose

1658
01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 5: your virginity, then like right after you lose your I

1659
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:35,720
Speaker 5: don't know how this.

1660
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if it works the.

1661
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 5: Same way when you get older, but one thing I

1662
01:18:39,520 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 5: can say is that you start like counting the bodies

1663
01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 5: more closely. You'd be like, oh, I already had one.

1664
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:47,719
Speaker 5: I don't want to have two so soon.

1665
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, we definitely do. But now I'll be ready

1666
01:18:54,880 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: to add a body. Just call up about it about

1667
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:01,759
Speaker 1: a week ago.

1668
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 5: No, you know what I'll be like, As long as

1669
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 5: I can name them all, I'm good.

1670
01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 1: I do keep a list now, I'm not gonna lie.

1671
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 2: I have a list, and my list is a little long,

1672
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 2: but I got the list.

1673
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 5: You ever be doing the list and don't know the

1674
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 5: person first the last name, and then I make you

1675
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 5: feel like, oh, you'll be like, damn.

1676
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:22,680
Speaker 1: Bro, I got like niggas first the last name. I

1677
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:25,559
Speaker 1: don't know nigga's middle name. No, I don't know day

1678
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 1: first or last name. I don't even know my own

1679
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:28,040
Speaker 1: middle name.

1680
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 2: I do, I I've got. I'm not gonna lie on

1681
01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 2: my list. I got about four Andres.

1682
01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:36,760
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I got Sean. I got I

1683
01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:45,240
Speaker 1: got like four Andres, not mad Christie and Sean.

1684
01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 3: That's oh, I got Chris and Sean.

1685
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 1: Shout to Chris, and Shawn said this name that I

1686
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:56,840
Speaker 1: know I'm not gonna name, Okay.

1687
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 5: Of them, Sean is either gonna turn into a drug dealer.

1688
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 5: I mean, I mean a drug addict or a billionaire.

1689
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: A whole as nigga. Yeah, like three of them.

1690
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:13,720
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna wrap this up because we've been

1691
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:16,360
Speaker 2: talking and ranting and going on and on and fucking on.

1692
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:18,560
Speaker 3: This is a good episode.

1693
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed you, cunty. Honestly, I'm not gonna Cuddy,

1694
01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1695
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:24,519
Speaker 2: We've had some guests on the show. You've been my

1696
01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:32,240
Speaker 2: favorite guests so far. She has so tell everybody where

1697
01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 2: they can find you and where they can find your

1698
01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:34,759
Speaker 2: book and everything.

1699
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm on Instagram and Twitter, Passport underscore, Cuddy.

1700
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:40,280
Speaker 1: See U T T Y.

1701
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 5: I'm on Facebook and Instagram too, but it's just the

1702
01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:45,640
Speaker 5: same stuff from Twitter and Instagram.

1703
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:48,840
Speaker 1: Because I can't keep up with the platform. You just

1704
01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:51,040
Speaker 1: be sending it from one to the next, you know whatever.

1705
01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 5: But I do put different content on YouTube sometimes, so

1706
01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 5: since it's longer whatever.

1707
01:20:56,520 --> 01:20:58,440
Speaker 1: But my book is on Amazon.

1708
01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 5: It's on e book, print copy, and Audible, and I

1709
01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 5: love the Audible.

1710
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 1: Because I read it myself, so they really good.

1711
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 2: Down Oh my god, she read book. But I'm gonna

1712
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:12,880
Speaker 2: read it and I'm gonna give it to.

1713
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 1: You when I'm I literally brought. I came from Vegas

1714
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 1: for the Soul Training Awards.

1715
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:21,599
Speaker 5: I brought the books for the podcast, and when I

1716
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:22,840
Speaker 5: was over there like I want to work.

1717
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:23,160
Speaker 1: I want to.

1718
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's a popular book.

1719
01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:29,400
Speaker 1: They got books. I'm falty, no gonna lie to you.

1720
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 3: My best friend, every time I say anything, that's why

1721
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:33,040
Speaker 3: I can't wait.

1722
01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 1: You've gotta give me what I'm about to get on

1723
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 1: Amazon and know.

1724
01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying, my best friend.

1725
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 2: Every time I say in your audible, every time I

1726
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 2: say anything about a man on what I'm doing, she was.

1727
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 1: Like, well cut he see, we'll cut it. Scene forgot that.

1728
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like, well goddamn at the end of the

1729
01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 2: day because I'm not gonna lie. I've been cutting up

1730
01:21:53,160 --> 01:21:55,479
Speaker 2: ever since I turned thirty. Like I've been going on

1731
01:21:55,520 --> 01:21:57,000
Speaker 2: some trips. I'm gon giving you know.

1732
01:21:58,439 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm in I've been cutting it.

1733
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:03,160
Speaker 2: So when I read this book, Yo, if y'all catch

1734
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 2: me in a lamba, don't be surprised, nigga yours.

1735
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:12,720
Speaker 5: Watch me work Like I want a lambo. She's like,

1736
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Speaker 5: I don't want to ride in a lamb. I want

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01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 5: to I want it to be mine.

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01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 1: I'm like yours.

1739
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna be riding something besides the challenge.

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01:22:25,200 --> 01:22:25,759
Speaker 1: God damn.

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01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:29,200
Speaker 2: So thank y'all, so again, thank you Cuddy, cause this

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01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 2: is an amazing episode.

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01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,280
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all tune in every Tuesday.

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01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 2: We're on ninety six to seven the Beat for Timeline

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01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 2: Tuesdays from three to four p m.

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01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:42,519
Speaker 1: And this has been another episode. Well you have any

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01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 1: item of the week.

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01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:52,240
Speaker 2: Oh, let me think, so something anything like something that something. Oh,

1749
01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what my item mother week is. I

1750
01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 2: went to the nail shop recently. I got my nails

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01:22:57,320 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 2: nothing and I'm not gonna lie when I have my

1752
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 2: lavender nails. I got a lot of compliments. But I

1753
01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 2: want to talk about my Ferrari Red I nails this

1754
01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:05,280
Speaker 2: week too.

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01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 1: I have gotten a lot.

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01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 2: Of compliments on my nails. Shout out to Diamond because

1757
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 2: she put me onto the color. So that's my item

1758
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:13,880
Speaker 2: of the week, Ferrari Red nails. If y'all go to

1759
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 2: the nail show, it's a it's a jail polish. So

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01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 2: Ferrari Red get that on your nails to be the

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01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 2: bad bit you deserve to last.

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01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:20,960
Speaker 1: Period.

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01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:26,479
Speaker 5: One of my favorite items is I have really dry

1764
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:29,280
Speaker 5: skin and I'm always looking for a good moisturizer for

1765
01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:32,200
Speaker 5: people who have really dry skin, and I like you

1766
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:35,640
Speaker 5: know that store Lush l Usa. Oh yeah, yeah, so

1767
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:39,559
Speaker 5: they have a moisturizer called Skin Drink and I really

1768
01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 5: like it.

1769
01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 1: I like that name.

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01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:44,320
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, because I have really dry skin and I

1771
01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 5: be needing something.

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01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:49,599
Speaker 1: Well, you look good at moisturized. Now I like it. Okay,

1773
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 1: what about your little drew?

1774
01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 4: Okay, so my week is this. It's like a roll

1775
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:56,360
Speaker 4: on that you put on your bikini.

1776
01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 1: What is it?

1777
01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 4: Y'all be all about vaginal hill thing and pussy hills,

1778
01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 4: pH balance and all that shit.

1779
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:10,759
Speaker 1: So it's a it's called I have it, really really

1780
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 1: really is.

1781
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:14,479
Speaker 4: I used to use this about like a year and

1782
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 4: a half of well, honestly, I started using it when

1783
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,439
Speaker 4: I lived in Houston, but then I stopped using it

1784
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:20,200
Speaker 4: when I moved here.

1785
01:24:20,240 --> 01:24:21,640
Speaker 1: But now I just got to.

1786
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 4: Basically dark spots everything your pussy gonna be so.

1787
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 5: So, but you gotta use it, right so basically, well, yeah,

1788
01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 5: so what happens is with the with the roll on,

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01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:42,560
Speaker 5: I think it says you don't after you take the

1790
01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:44,600
Speaker 5: hair off, you don't use it that first day, but

1791
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,240
Speaker 5: then the second day you use it like once a day, yeah,

1792
01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:48,720
Speaker 5: m or was it twice a day? I don't know,

1793
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 5: but they Okay, So the instructions are on there, right,

1794
01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 5: but you gotta use it consistently because it's for people

1795
01:24:55,880 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 5: who have like curly hair and then like you get

1796
01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:00,800
Speaker 5: the ingrowns that I have really really really course their

1797
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,720
Speaker 5: so I get the ingrols immediately.

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01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 1: So like I usually don't like to shave, but if

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01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,760
Speaker 1: you have to just just in case, you know, like

1800
01:25:09,280 --> 01:25:09,880
Speaker 1: at the drop.

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01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 5: You know, like any given Sunday that you don't have

1802
01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:14,720
Speaker 5: seven minutes for VAT or something, or you can't go

1803
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:18,320
Speaker 5: get away or whatever. Right, so if you shave or

1804
01:25:18,479 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 5: v or nair or whatever or wax, it really really

1805
01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 5: really does work. And I'm saying this, I'm co signing

1806
01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 5: because I.

1807
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:29,599
Speaker 1: Have really really really curly and that's how mine is.

1808
01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:31,120
Speaker 3: Mine is like real rough down there.

1809
01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it works, wonders Like like I said, I don't

1810
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 4: even know why ever stopped place.

1811
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:41,000
Speaker 1: Okay, now it's a holy real of money, it really does.

1812
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 1: So definitely use it. So what's the name of it again?

1813
01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 5: It's called p and venice like in am I Bia

1814
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 5: I have, Like I'm.

1815
01:25:52,560 --> 01:26:00,599
Speaker 1: About to start so I have my little I got

1816
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: my little Yes, yeah, I'm gonna actually post it soon

1817
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah it's there. I got it from a

1818
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:13,240
Speaker 1: from a spot one time when I want to go

1819
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:13,639
Speaker 1: get away.

1820
01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:15,599
Speaker 4: That's where I got That's how I started using it too.

1821
01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 4: I used to go to this place called Pretty Kitty

1822
01:26:17,439 --> 01:26:22,880
Speaker 4: in Houston. Okay, pretty Kitty, and I was like, damn

1823
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 4: is she?

1824
01:26:23,600 --> 01:26:24,920
Speaker 1: It really worked well.

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01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 2: Keep y'all pussy right and tight, ladies. We got the

1826
01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:31,320
Speaker 2: items of the week. Anything else y'all need to add,

1827
01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 2: all right, Thank y'all so much for tuning in once again.

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01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:35,759
Speaker 1: Shout out to Passport Cudding.

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01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:38,680
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all follow her on all platforms, and we'll

1830
01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:39,559
Speaker 2: see y'all next week.