1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 2: Jubile Show, Phoebe is on the phone today for to 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater. She thinks that her fiance, Rory might 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: be messing around, so she definitely wants to find out 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: if he is or isn't before they get married. It's 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: been together for five years, I guess, Phoebe, what's going on? 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: Hey? Yeah, So I've been with my now fiance for 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: five years. I love him very much and I trust him, 9 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: and you know, like any long term staying their abs 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: and flows, and I think that's natural. But lately we're 11 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: in more of a disconnected phase and it feels a 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: little bit different this time. 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 2: Okay, we have a lot going on, I. 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: Will say, like, we're trying to find a new place 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: because our lease is up and we have kind of 16 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: a cranky landlord, so we're trying to move on. And 17 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: we both work a lot, and he has been working 18 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: on like a special project recently, so he's been working 19 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: like eighty plus hours a week out. Yeah, so we 20 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:05,639 Speaker 1: bare me see each other, which is definitely putting strain 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: on the connection. And then he has this boss named Emily. 22 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: She just texts and calls him constantly, like twenty four 23 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: hours a day, pretty much like outside of work hours 24 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: for work related stuff. But he constantly is talking to her, 25 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 1: and it really feels like she kind of comes first. 26 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: Like if we're spending time together and she texts him 27 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,919 Speaker 1: or calls him for a work thing, he's like immediately 28 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: at her beck and call and like a couple of 29 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: happy hours and work things. But I came with him 30 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: to I feel like she once she has a couple 31 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 1: of drinks, she was like very touchy with him, and 32 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: that makes me a little bit uncomfortable for sure, right, 33 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: and he doesn't seem to like he's just been kind 34 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: of oblivious to all of this, Like he doesn't seem 35 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: to notice. But this is weird for me, which is 36 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,279 Speaker 1: kind of a concerning part. Like I said, I trust 37 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: him a lot, but I'm just this feels a lot 38 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: different than it has before. 39 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: Have you asked him specifically if he's messing around his boss? 40 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: I haven't. I just I do feel kind of bad 41 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: for even suspecting him, And it just feels like an 42 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: awkward thing to bring up because I don't want to 43 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: seem like the crazy, you know, fiance who's reading into something. 44 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, I haven't asked your ath week. I've just 45 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: been observing. 46 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: I definitely don't think you sound crazy, but I wonder 47 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 3: if you would be as concerned if his boss was 48 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 3: a man. You know, do you really think there's a 49 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 3: connection here or is it just if the phone was 50 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 3: ringing all the time and your boss is calling, chances 51 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 3: are you going to answer if your money's attached to it. 52 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: That's true. 53 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 3: I don't like the handsy part, though. You have a 54 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 3: very valid point there. Do you know if she's in 55 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: a relationship, is she single? 56 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I have no idea. Honestly, we'll try. 57 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 2: To figure it out for you. You already told us what 58 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So we'll 59 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: call and pretend to be from the grocery store and 60 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: say that every single month, we choose one rewards card 61 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: at random who gets free flowers delivered from our orl 62 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 2: department will seeve senzos to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, 63 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: all right, well play us on come back and then 64 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 2: get your to catch a cheater next it's time. 65 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 3: To catch a cheater only on the Jubile Show. 66 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. 67 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: Phoebe is on the phone and she thinks that her 68 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: fiance named Rory might be cheating on her. We're about 69 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery 70 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,119 Speaker 2: store that he's a REWARS card member at and say 71 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 2: that he's won free flowers delivered from our floral apartment, 72 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: just our way of saying thank you for shopping, and 73 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: we'll seev sends thos to his fiance Phoebe or to 74 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: somebody else. And before we do that, Phoebe, why don't 75 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory on your situation. 76 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. So, I've been with my now fiance for about 77 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: five years, and recently we haven't been seeing much of 78 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: each other, and he has been getting a lot of 79 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: out of ours, out of business hours calls and text 80 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: from his boss, who is the woman named Emily, at 81 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: a couple like work events. I felt, as the fiance 82 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: that she was a little touchy with him when she'd 83 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: had a few dreins, which kind of alerted me. And 84 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: then recently, it was late at night and we were 85 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: just hanging out at home and he got a text 86 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: from her and said that he had to go call 87 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: her about a work thing, and then he ended up 88 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: having to meet up with her and came home like 89 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: really late and really drunk, which is not like him. 90 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean that's kind of strange. I mean 91 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 2: it's super strange. Are you ready for us to call 92 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: him and see if he is or isn't cheating? 93 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? I let's do it, all right? 94 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from 95 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 2: I was looking for uh Rory? This is he? 96 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 4: Who am I speaking with? 97 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 2: Rory? Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing 98 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 2: phone call. We're calling to say thank you very much 99 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 2: for shopping with us and congratulations. Here this most big winner, 100 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 2: all right? 101 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 102 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member and 103 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our floora department. 104 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stin red roses, a 105 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: box of candy, and a card to be delivered anywhere 106 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: in the United States, absolutely free. Oh wow, Okay, if 107 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: you know who you want to send them to, I 108 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 2: can take the information in just a matter of minutes 109 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: over the phone. 110 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 4: Yes, could you please send them to Phoebe? 111 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 2: Is there anything you'd like to put on a card 112 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 2: to Phoebe. 113 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 4: Yes, please could you put I love you, I got 114 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 4: awesome news. Please put awesome in all caps if you could, 115 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 4: that be greatly appreciated it. Okay, period, and then dinner 116 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 4: question mark and then our sushi joint question mark. 117 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 2: Wouldn't it be funny if your news was that you 118 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 2: were cheating on her? I'm sure what This is actually 119 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called The Jubell Show. My name 120 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: is Jeuble. 121 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria, and Phoebe is 122 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 3: on the phone listening. 123 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where 124 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: you see if your significant other might be messing around 125 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: and maybe it's your horse. Yeah, you thought you might 126 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 2: be out there trying to tame some other horses. 127 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 4: Okay, what is happening? I'm sorry? Hi? 128 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: Okay, what's what's going on? Hi? Okay? This sounds silly, probably, 129 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: but I feel like lately you've been so am I 130 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: a with work and like constantly getting calls and texts 131 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: from Emily. And remember the night that you left to 132 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: meet up with her at like nine thirty and you 133 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: didn't come home until like one in the morning, and 134 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 1: you were wasted. 135 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Well, this is a lot, okay. I'm 136 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 4: I can't believe you think I'd be cheating on you, 137 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 4: but now like, uh. 138 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: Okay, I kind of get it. 139 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 4: Look, I uh, I'm sorry about that, okay, And I'm 140 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 4: sorry that you think all these things, and that I 141 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 4: understand why you see it seems like I'm by following 142 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 4: her around and I'm like at her beck and call. 143 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: But there's a real there's a reason, okay. And then 144 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 4: there's a reason I've been working so much too. And 145 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 4: I've been working to score the seal with a new 146 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 4: client for a couple of reasons. And the reason my 147 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 4: notes had awesome news and caps is because I wanted 148 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 4: to wait until after the meeting to tell you that 149 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 4: not only did the deal go through, but the commission alone, okay, 150 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: was enough to pay for a new condo and almost 151 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 4: pay for the wedding that we want. 152 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: To have baby whoa, oh god. 153 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 4: Oh And by the way, that's great, that's awesome, don't 154 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 4: get me wrong. But the big news is that the 155 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 4: reason why I've been working so closely with Emily is 156 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 4: that I was shadowing her, okay, And and I was 157 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: shadowing her so I could become a partner in the firm, 158 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 4: and so now I'm no longer working under her. That's 159 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 4: what the late night meeting was. They were there to 160 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 4: tell me that I'd not only been I mean, I've 161 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 4: been promoted and and I've become a partner in the firm. 162 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 4: So I apologize. I shouldn't have gotten so stupid drunk, 163 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 4: and I was a jerk for that, and I honestly, 164 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 4: maybe I really apologized for that. I was looking, I 165 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 4: was waiting for the perfect time to tell you in 166 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 4: the right way, and and so yeah, so and then 167 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 4: I got I don't know, I got caught up in 168 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 4: the excitement. A couple of tranks were flowing, but I 169 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 4: wanted to make it a complete surprise, the promotion and 170 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 4: the bonus. So that's that's why I apologize for you. 171 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: Wow, that's great. I'm happy for you. I I'm sorry. 172 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: I didn't mean to doubt you, and I trust you. 173 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: I just without any of that information in context, I 174 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: was just really anxious and like overthinking everything. 175 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 2: Which is totally understandable considering I know. 176 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 4: And and and look, and I of course, as you know, 177 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 4: I've been working soft and way too long of hours. 178 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 4: And there was an end goal for this, and I 179 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 4: definitely get oblivious to, you know, everything around me, you know, 180 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 4: when I'm focused on one thing, and but this is 181 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 4: the one thing that I was focused. 182 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: On was our future. 183 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 4: And so you know, I'm still sorry, but obviously I hope, 184 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 4: I hope this is worth it. And you know that doesn't, 185 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 4: you know, make up for hopefully it makes up for 186 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 4: my stupidity in this time. I just you know, I 187 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 4: hope we can. 188 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 2: We can still do date night. 189 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm. 190 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 4: Okay. That's start. That's a start, okay, and boundaries will 191 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 4: be had much more. So take that to the bank. 192 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 2: I thought they all get to go on to date 193 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: Night 194 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: The Jewbile shows to catch a cheater