Speaker 1: So I hard launched this weekend, and I want to
Speaker 1: discuss that a little bit, because things on paper are
Speaker 1: different than things in reality. So in my history, I've
Speaker 1: had private relationships. I had a full, over a year
Speaker 1: relationship with someone that was very serious while I was
Speaker 1: on The Housewives. When I came back, this person was
Speaker 1: very wanted to be very private, and some stuff came
Speaker 1: out about them just as a result. Because if you
Speaker 1: see us on the beach, someone's going to say who
Speaker 1: someone is, and no matter what, inevitably somebody's going to
Speaker 1: come out. Now, people like Ryan Goslin and Ava Mendez
Speaker 1: or Harrison Ford and Calisa Flockhart or Kim Kardashian and
Speaker 1: the guy she's with now, the race car driver. She's
Speaker 1: not saying it like the paparazzi's getting pictures and a
Speaker 1: story is being told.
Speaker 2: She's not saying anything. And she who has had Reggie.
Speaker 1: Bush on her show, Kanye and her show, Pete Davidson
Speaker 1: on her show, She's definitely going through that discussion in
Speaker 1: her mind as well about what to share. Chris Jenners
Speaker 1: had Corey on the show. There are so many different
Speaker 1: iterations of this. Kristin Cavaleri did a show with Jay Cutler.
Speaker 1: Then she dated the younger guy and kind of discussed it,
Speaker 1: like you go through these waves, Tory and Dean, like
Speaker 1: you go through these waves of what you're going to
Speaker 1: discuss and not look at Courtney and Travis, Like they
Speaker 1: were so public about affection because they're in love and
Speaker 1: they want to show people machine Gun Kelly and Meghan,
Speaker 1: and then something happened and then that went wrong, like
Speaker 1: because people bring you in and then they can't just
Speaker 1: spit you out when it goes down. So j Lo
Speaker 1: and Ben brought everybody in like he didn't really, but
Speaker 1: she did. She kind of included everyone and talked about
Speaker 1: it and gushed about it because she was excited. And
Speaker 1: there's an adrenaline too that it's almost like the way
Speaker 1: that oxytocin makes you so like into someone and like hormones,
Speaker 1: et cetera. Like you're excited and you just when you're
Speaker 1: in the bubble, in the love bubble, you don't think
Speaker 1: anything could ever go wrong, right, So there's a whole
Speaker 1: discipline to it. Also, like someone like a moll and George,
Speaker 1: I mean, actually he does discuss the relationship. He does
Speaker 1: say they do tell their story and how in love
Speaker 1: they are, and then other people never discuss it. Like
Speaker 1: I said, a Ryan or Eva, they never even go
Speaker 1: in a red carpet together. You'd never see their kids.
Speaker 1: There's so many different iterations, but also there are so
Speaker 1: many different iterations to fame.
Speaker 2: Like Ryan and Ava are quiet.
Speaker 1: Until they're doing a movie, and then they have to
Speaker 1: promote the movie, but it has nothing to do with
Speaker 1: their relationship. They can have a normal life, you know,
Speaker 1: Julia Roberts and Danny Motor normal life. But when they
Speaker 1: first got together and he had an issue with his
Speaker 1: ex wife, Julia, I remember wore like a T shirt
Speaker 1: about it. Like it's just like you go through these
Speaker 1: sort of phases of privacy, non private, and there are
Speaker 1: different types of talent. I share a lot with my audience.
Speaker 1: I don't share everything. I am a very private person.
Speaker 1: I am a very secretive person in many ways. I
Speaker 1: just protect myself and the people around me. When I
Speaker 1: was on reality television show, it was my job to
Speaker 1: do that. And also I had a show that was
Speaker 1: supposed to be about my business and then it ended
Speaker 1: up becoming about a wedding I was planning, and I
Speaker 1: was trying to fight the current, but it was just
Speaker 1: so hard to do because it was just what was
Speaker 1: going on, and it's just it's not the way that
Speaker 1: it would seem like. You could be like, why would
Speaker 1: you show that? Why would you include that? The game
Speaker 1: moves quickly, so let me explain it to you in
Speaker 1: my life with a launch. So, I am never attracted
Speaker 1: to someone who is a public person. I am only
Speaker 1: attracted to someone who has a small following, if any,
Speaker 1: doesn't really use social media unless it's just private or
Speaker 1: for their business, or not at all.
Speaker 2: Mostly not at all. I'm not attracted to.
Speaker 1: Someone who has ever been on a red carpet or
Speaker 1: is a public person. Not because there can only be
Speaker 1: one peacock. It's because I just find it to be
Speaker 1: a turnoff, and I find a lot of what I
Speaker 1: do to be a turnoff. But also I found my
Speaker 1: way into this. I did not ever want to post.
Speaker 1: I didn't understand why someone would post if they were
Speaker 1: eating or where they were. When Twitter came out, I
Speaker 1: was like, what the hell? It just seemed so crazy,
Speaker 1: But then it became a business, and as a business
Speaker 1: I really understand it. But then also as a creative expression,
Speaker 1: I really really really understand it like as a way
Speaker 1: to share humor, and people want to peek into my
Speaker 1: life and bring them with me. And people don't get
Speaker 1: to go to amazing places and trips and stuff.
Speaker 2: I want to include them.
Speaker 1: Okay, So now enter me dating, and I'm talking about
Speaker 1: dates that go wrong and go right. Enter me dating
Speaker 1: and try to convince men that, like, I do have
Speaker 1: a private life and it is separate because it is,
Speaker 1: and I kind of share what I want and people
Speaker 1: are hesitant. They don't know what that animal is going
Speaker 1: to be like. As Tim Dillon, the comedian said, fame
Speaker 1: is the great destabilizer. Like, you make a lot of money,
Speaker 1: it will definitely fuck some other people up and they'll
Speaker 1: think of you differently. But you become famous, it just
Speaker 1: is a destabilizer. People want different things from you. It's
Speaker 1: just a different currency. People grab at you, say they
Speaker 1: dated you, went on a date with you. You know, everyone
Speaker 1: just sort of like wants to contact high. So now
Speaker 1: you start dating, and I'm not going to discuss what
Speaker 1: I'm doing right now, but I remember dating this guy
Speaker 1: who was a private person and didn't like the public
Speaker 1: aspect of it, but fell in love with me. And
Speaker 1: that's kind of What's happened time and time again. Someone
Speaker 1: falls in love with me, and the public aspect of
Speaker 1: it is a byproduct.
Speaker 2: They don't want it.
Speaker 1: And really most of these people don't want it. The
Speaker 1: people that I choose, they don't want it. It's not like,
Speaker 1: oh they're with her firm money or they want I've
Speaker 1: gotten my picker has gotten much better. I've done the
Speaker 1: work I took like a year off. I have been
Speaker 1: really intentional about dating. And I don't mean that i've
Speaker 1: been intentional. I've gone through phases where it's intentional I
Speaker 1: want to meet someone, then I've gone through intentional meeting.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to spend any time on anything unless
Speaker 1: it could be something otherwise I'd rather be alone. And
Speaker 1: that's kind of where I've come to. So I was
Speaker 1: dating this guy and it was serious. He fell in
Speaker 1: love with me despite the public. And we were at
Speaker 1: REO's one night and we were with a bunch of
Speaker 1: my friends, and I wasn't posting him at all. I
Speaker 1: would be posting myself and what I'm doing and the drink.
Speaker 1: But what happens is we're going to interesting places and
Speaker 1: doing interesting things with people. People are coming up to
Speaker 1: me and this person next to me becomes sort of invisible.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how good looking they are, how successful
Speaker 1: they are, how big fish in their own pond they are,
Speaker 1: they become invisible, which is why fame is the great destabilizer.
Speaker 1: I was once with a guy and I brought them
Speaker 1: to Mark Barnett's house, and they're big fish in their pond,
Speaker 1: and they just people would like look past them, like
Speaker 1: hand them a camera to take a picture of us,
Speaker 1: look straight at me, and it makes me feel self conscious.
Speaker 1: I have made rules because the person with me in
Speaker 1: the beginning will hold the camera and be like so nice.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, you're not a photographer, Like respectfully, I'll
Speaker 1: handle it. I'll decay, let's take a selfie. Like I
Speaker 1: don't want the person next to me to feel like
Speaker 1: they're my photography assistant. And I also don't want them
Speaker 1: to be invisible. So you have to be a very
Speaker 1: secure person to be with someone that's famous. And you
Speaker 1: could be the best looking, best athlete, richest everything, and
Speaker 1: you're with someone who's famous, and you're gonna be like, wow, okay,
Speaker 1: so think about me. I have a big personality and charismatic.
Speaker 1: I know everybody I move a lot of product. People
Speaker 1: want to piece to me. So I've had that happen.
Speaker 1: So now I'm at REO's with this other guy and
Speaker 1: I'm taking pictures and he's like, no, you can include
Speaker 1: me in the picture. Like he wants to be in
Speaker 1: the picture because he doesn't want to be this invisible
Speaker 1: weirdo when in his life he's a big personality. So
Speaker 1: what happens is a person that I'm with without I
Speaker 1: won't ever share anybody else's truth. But like in a
Speaker 1: situation where I'm now like I am in something, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm in something, do you have to.
Speaker 2: Promise you that?
Speaker 1: Like, you know, do I want to fully include you?
Speaker 1: So then you know it's more pressure on us and
Speaker 1: that you could say, oh he'll be gone or I
Speaker 1: hope he has a lot of money, or she'll dump him,
Speaker 1: or she's crazy or she goes through that every minute.
Speaker 2: Like I'm a fifty five year old woman. Have I dated?
Speaker 1: Yes? Has every man that I've dated dated the same
Speaker 1: number of people that I have?
Speaker 2: Yes? So fuck off?
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's that, But like every relationship is not
Speaker 1: guaranteed to last forever, Like every relationship I've been in
Speaker 1: when I'm in love like what I love it to
Speaker 1: last forever.
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, are there a lot of factors in life? Yes?
Speaker 2: Do I have a daughter? Yes? Do I live in Florida? Yes.
Speaker 1: I I'm just saying to you that, Like, there's a
Speaker 1: pressure to launching and you could keep everything private, but
Speaker 1: there's also a pressure to making someone be like your
Speaker 1: plus one and not including them when they have a family,
Speaker 1: they have friends, they have people who have comments and thoughts,
Speaker 1: and their life changes too once a paparazzi gets us
Speaker 1: and it becomes public and people are speculating, They're getting
Speaker 1: text people reaching out to them, people want things from them.
Speaker 1: They have a lot to navigate too. They need to
Speaker 1: be coached through this too. They don't understand this life right,
Speaker 1: and so you're trying to be a partner. There does
Speaker 1: come a point where that other person would like to
Speaker 1: not be the invisible person. Okay they're not saying it,
Speaker 1: but you just feel you just know it, and you're
Speaker 1: also proud and you want to show the person that
Speaker 1: you're with that they mean something to you and that
Speaker 1: they're not just like because someone comes up to me
Speaker 1: at a dinner. Men come up to me and they
Speaker 1: think I'm single, and they don't think take this seriously,
Speaker 1: you know, And like through my dating community, people are
Speaker 1: talking to the woman who runs it and saying, like,
Speaker 1: what about Bethany, And they don't. You know, I have
Speaker 1: a guy that I used to date that he said
Speaker 1: to me, until you're married, I'm not gonna believe it,
Speaker 1: like you're my person, and I'm like, no, I'm with someone.
Speaker 1: So you're trying to like validate what you're doing, right,
Speaker 1: And so for me, that's what a launch is. It
Speaker 1: doesn't mean like I'm going back to the reality show
Speaker 1: every day, let's share everything that I'm doing, or everyone's
Speaker 1: gonna be in every TikTok. I'm just saying, when you're
Speaker 1: somewhere and you're at a concert and you're roller skating
Speaker 1: and you're doing something thing, you kind of want to
Speaker 1: show your people that bought you your house, bought your products,
Speaker 1: connect with you, make you laugh, were there for you,
Speaker 1: and you had a miscarriage when your mom died, Like
Speaker 1: you want to share a little with them, and you
Speaker 1: don't want to get burned because of it. You're trying
Speaker 1: to navigate not getting burned because of it. So it's
Speaker 1: like a dance to decide what to share, and I
Speaker 1: try to navigate it, and you're dealing with I'm much
Speaker 1: just dealing with you guys and what to share with you.
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with what to share with my partner and
Speaker 1: like people on my team trying to like shoot video
Speaker 1: but then cut somebody out or you know, there's just
Speaker 1: a lot. And also if someone sees a video that
Speaker 1: they were in and you just like cut them out,
Speaker 1: and they might want to share with their friends. They
Speaker 1: might be on a private account and want to share
Speaker 1: what we did because that's what they normally do. Now
Speaker 1: they're going to hide me Like It's just not everything
Speaker 1: that you would think. So I'm not complaining. I'm just explaining.
Speaker 1: So this weekend at a roller rink, I did a
Speaker 1: post that said if a launch is hard, then this
Speaker 1: is a diamond, meaning this is a very hard launch.
Speaker 2: And I was happy I did it and it was fun.
Speaker 1: It was just us skating, and I don't want to,
Speaker 1: you know, get into too much detail, and I really
Speaker 1: don't want to share it too much. It is personal.
Speaker 1: I don't want to get go down that rabbit hole.
Speaker 1: But I just want to say that I'm in a
Speaker 1: good place. I am happy. I'm at peace and very intentional,
Speaker 1: meaning I'm not settling. I'm completely choosing different things than
Speaker 1: I ever did before. I've done the same thing over
Speaker 1: and over. My friend Louis says to me, bethany rock
Speaker 1: stars need rock stars. He's like, you've gone out with
Speaker 1: the same guy over and over. This was months ago,
Speaker 1: and I want to see you with a rock star.
Speaker 2: And so.
Speaker 1: That's all I'll say about that right now. But I
Speaker 1: just wanted to give you some context. I had the
Speaker 1: best weekend ever. It was my daughter's sixteenth birthday, sweet sixteen.
Speaker 1: She's in the middle of finals. It's different than when
Speaker 1: we were younger. They have two weeks off because they
Speaker 1: have a five hour final, like they are studying. I mean,
Speaker 1: her college will be so easy. And she has a
Speaker 1: discipline that I never had. I mean, when I tell
Speaker 1: you this kid, I don't tell her to do one
Speaker 1: bit of homework. If she said, mom, let's go to
Speaker 1: Italy for three days and get past that, I would
Speaker 1: take a rite. I would get on a plane today. Okay,
Speaker 1: I am the worst influence. Like she is self motivated.
Speaker 1: She sits for hours. She won't go out to dinner
Speaker 1: on the weekends. She wouldn't even celebrate her own birthday
Speaker 1: except for one dinner with me and a friend of
Speaker 1: hers came over late night to exchange presents. She'll have
Speaker 1: a party next week. But she is so disciplined. She
Speaker 1: is so incredibly disciplined, and her birthday was just lovely.
Speaker 1: It was just the two of us, And you really
Speaker 1: do have to take that time without the phone, sit
Speaker 1: down and like your kid will tell you about their friends,
Speaker 1: their boyfriends, their life. Like it's just the quality versus
Speaker 1: the quantity is so important. My kid has been home
Speaker 1: for a week, and I have been traveling more than usual,
Speaker 1: and I will be traveling more than usual. I have
Speaker 1: to go to New York for something for Sports Illustrated.
Speaker 1: I come back and then I'm going to another country
Speaker 1: for some stem cell thing. And I've been dating, and
Speaker 1: so it's been different. But when I'm here and like
Speaker 1: we just have like a meal or like go get
Speaker 1: frozen yogurt, it just feels so meaningful. I love this time.
Speaker 1: I love this relationship. I love that my daughter's birthday
Speaker 1: is on the same weekend as Mother's Day because my
Speaker 1: daughter broke the chain for me, the generational trauma.
Speaker 2: All of it, and then my Mother's Day.
Speaker 1: I treat it the way that I like my birthday
Speaker 1: to go, but it lands better with Mother's Day. Being
Speaker 1: in Florida has been great for me. I woke up
Speaker 1: with the man I'm seeing. We took a nice beach walk.
Speaker 1: We swam in the ocean a bunch. We're both very
Speaker 1: aligned and compatible with the things that we like to do,
Speaker 1: and we just swam on the ocean a ton. Taking
Speaker 1: my beach walk is healing for me. And then we
Speaker 1: all went to brunch with my daughter at this place
Speaker 1: that's like casual but special. So it's excellent food, but
Speaker 1: like you're wearing casual clothing, you know. I was wearing
Speaker 1: a cute cover up and bathing suits. We were going
Speaker 1: to the beach. I was wearing a hat. Like I
Speaker 1: liked that we were going somewhere to celebrate it. But
Speaker 1: it wasn't all stuffy, you know. It wasn't all stuffy,
Speaker 1: And just like let's go in the car to go
Speaker 1: to a Broadway show, to go to a meal, to
Speaker 1: sit at a restaurant. It was like, let's go to
Speaker 1: this cute casual place. Then Brent was driven home by
Speaker 1: my friend and she came home to study, and then
Speaker 1: I stayed at the beach club all day with this
Speaker 1: man and we were playing backgammon and swimming and I
Speaker 1: was just listening to music and just laughing. Then we
Speaker 1: came home and he made us dinner, like the most
Speaker 1: amazing dinner. I can tell you that I've never had
Speaker 1: a man cook me dinner before. Never, And I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna blame all men for that. I'm gonna say I
Speaker 1: partially because probably like I didn't want them to, I
Speaker 1: didn't trust them too.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: This man gave me such thoughtful gifts and cooked such
Speaker 1: a spectacular dinner that I was in shock, and so
Speaker 1: was Brent, because I was worried that it would be
Speaker 1: like Brin wouldn't love it, and she'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: then she wouldn't eat it, and then this feelings about
Speaker 1: would be hurt. I don't know, I don't know what
Speaker 1: the hell. I didn't even know this person could cook
Speaker 1: or do half the things that they can do because
Speaker 1: they're so humble. This meal was like it was insane,
Speaker 1: Like I'm still shocked.
Speaker 2: And then like.
Speaker 1: Watched a little bit of sports with them, watched a movie,
Speaker 1: had some ice cream, went to yogurt with Brynn.
Speaker 2: She was studying like it was just a.
Speaker 1: Lovely, beautiful week and the dog slept in the bed
Speaker 1: as they do. But like, what a beautiful mother's day,
Speaker 1: What a beautiful mother's day, birthday the weekend, I'm rested.
Speaker 1: I also want to let you know I haven't been
Speaker 1: drinking for like a week. The carbone f one weekend
Speaker 1: literally took me out. It was just too much activation,
Speaker 1: too much transacting, too much, too much, consuming, too much food,
Speaker 1: too much talking. I get overloaded, I get activated, I
Speaker 1: get overstimulated, and I just took it down because I
Speaker 1: want to be healthy for this next little supermodel era
Speaker 1: I've got going. And I have to say, in many
Speaker 1: cases I've thought it was boring and I didn't notice
Speaker 1: a difference. Not drinking is affecting the quality of my sleep.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you guys know this, but like
Speaker 1: that is something to think about.
Speaker 2: I have the or ring.
Speaker 1: Even though I think I sleep a lot, I still
Speaker 1: only get between five and last night was a record
Speaker 1: six hours a night. It's insane, Like I sleep six
Speaker 1: hours and I feel like I slept twelve. I would
Speaker 1: have guessed twelve because I went about at eleven thirty.
Speaker 1: I woke up at seven something and I thought it's
Speaker 1: eight hours, like I just would have always been like
Speaker 1: I got eight hours of sleep, but somehow like it
Speaker 1: wasn't real sleep.
Speaker 2: I wasn't sleeping like the or ring says six hours.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I know that I'm sleeping better
Speaker 1: and it feels cleaner, and it's not as I'm not
Speaker 1: sweating as much, and it's not like it just you
Speaker 1: feel better, you just feel cleaner. This time, I really
Speaker 1: notice it. Last night I had a bunch of wine
Speaker 1: and I'm been going out and I've been dancing. But
Speaker 1: like the balance of being happy is I'm so happy,
Speaker 1: I'm having so much fun and I'm not sleeping enough,
Speaker 1: and like I'm aware of that, but I really do
Speaker 1: struggle with like the balance between like happiness and being RESTful.
Speaker 1: Like I didn't drink for a year and a half
Speaker 1: and I was kind of like bored.
Speaker 2: I was in Greenwich. I was sort of depressed.
Speaker 1: I so like that can't be better for me than
Speaker 1: like dancing, having sex, like party, having fun, being social,
Speaker 1: getting dressed up, being cute. Like I don't know, happy
Speaker 1: has to win, right, all those people that live to
Speaker 1: like a hundred, they're like happy.
Speaker 2: I don't know that.
Speaker 1: They're like I sat and was vegan and drank fucking
Speaker 1: water for a year.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I am in a good place.
Speaker 1: I am in a good place. And I struggle with
Speaker 1: what to share with you in my personal romantic life
Speaker 1: because I get excited and I want to tell you
Speaker 1: what's going on, but I also want to preserve my
Speaker 1: privacy and other people's privacy because we've seen it go sideways.
Speaker 1: So let's just say I'm very happy, and that I've
Speaker 1: told myself I wouldn't fully commit to anyone unless I
Speaker 1: was going to marry them. Like I've told myself that
Speaker 1: I took like a year off. It was a little
Speaker 1: less than a year from dating. And in starting the CORE,
Speaker 1: I practice what I tell everyone else to docticing when
Speaker 1: I'm preaching and sticking to intention, Like it's actually helped me. So,
Speaker 1: for example, there are people in the CORE and like
Speaker 1: we're saying there's no bread crumbing, and we're saying you
Speaker 1: can't just like be a pen pal. We're saying you
Speaker 1: can't be duplicitous and have two things going on we're
Speaker 1: saying you have to be intentional, you have to like
Speaker 1: want it, work for it, et cetera. And so in
Speaker 1: my dating, whether meeting someone through the core or not,
Speaker 1: I have really really adhered to that. So there's a moment.
Speaker 1: And by the way, all the rules are kind of bullshit,
Speaker 1: Like the more you think something through, it's kind of bullshit.
Speaker 1: Most of you who are in relationships realize that, like
Speaker 1: when things have happened, they probably weren't supposed to happen.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a person who I was serious about
Speaker 1: that I reached out to at mid at eleven o'clock
Speaker 1: at night and said, I'm about to overserve myself. It's
Speaker 1: like feels like a Chelsea Hammler story. And then we
Speaker 1: started like dating. Like it was like, that's not the
Speaker 1: way someone meets you at a club when you're with
Speaker 1: your friend and to chaperone and you stay about to
Speaker 1: overserve myself. You don't even think anything of the person.
Speaker 1: You wake up the next morning, you forget you even
Speaker 1: met the person, and then they reach out to you,
Speaker 1: You go on a date, and then you like are
Speaker 1: dating them. Like that's not the way things start. But
Speaker 1: that's why energy and chemistry is important, and like being
Speaker 1: awake and alert to the signs is important. But nevertheless,
Speaker 1: the one thing that has always served me is in
Speaker 1: the moment when I'm not feeling comfortable or getting what
Speaker 1: I need, finding a way to land it in a
Speaker 1: non desperate, in a confident way, saying like this, just
Speaker 1: letting you know, this is what I'm looking for, this
Speaker 1: is what I want, And if you're not looking for that,
Speaker 1: I understand, but this is what I expect in even
Speaker 1: dating or friendship or like, there is a way to
Speaker 1: land getting what you need. You can't survive in anything
Speaker 1: if you're not getting what you need.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: You don't have to rush everything on the first day.
Speaker 1: You don't have to like ask so much to propose
Speaker 1: on the first day. But you can get exactly what
Speaker 1: you need if you if you find a good, tactful
Speaker 1: way to ask for it. And that's the thing about
Speaker 1: the core, Like you wouldn't stay in something if someone
Speaker 1: was treating you exactly the way you deserve to be
Speaker 1: treating you, being transparent with you, aligning with you, like intentional,
Speaker 1: like and the other thing I'll say, I'm really finding
Speaker 1: that it's not that age is just a number.
Speaker 2: It is a fact.
Speaker 1: But time and time again, I've gone out with men
Speaker 1: that have fallen in love with me, literally that have
Speaker 1: been with either before or after me. Women twenty years younger, okay,
Speaker 1: twenty years younger than me, Like in some case now
Speaker 1: I don't think it could be that they could be
Speaker 1: my daughter. Yeah, someone twenty years younger than me could
Speaker 1: be my daughter. But like they are dating people twenty
Speaker 1: years younger than I am and still have much stronger
Speaker 1: feelings for me than them. So don't get caught up
Speaker 1: in like looks and age and things like that, Like,
Speaker 1: you're amazing at any age. It's about your attitude. It's
Speaker 1: about your spirit, your happiness, your how you present yourself.
Speaker 1: Like I have just unintentionally redefined age for a lot
Speaker 1: of people. So I'm hearing like when I went to
Speaker 1: the Sports Little party last night and the you know,
Speaker 1: the women who were in the show are like in
Speaker 1: their twenties, and one of the women who works at
Speaker 1: Sports Illustrated, she was like every.
Speaker 2: Younger mom, older mom, pere mom.
Speaker 1: Everyone was like when you walk that show, holy shit,
Speaker 1: like you redefined like being a mother and a woman.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I did not know that I
Speaker 1: was old, Like no one told me, no one sent
Speaker 1: me the memo that I was old. I'm not self deprecating,
Speaker 1: and I don't mean to say it that way. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, like, by definition, people were so shocked by
Speaker 1: the way that I walked that runway, not just because
Speaker 1: of how I look, but because of the confidence, because
Speaker 1: oh my god, that's fifty five, And like, no one
Speaker 1: told me that I was fifty, Like, I didn't know
Speaker 1: that that was old. So I was the most surprised
Speaker 1: of anybody. I'm like, why is everyone making such a
Speaker 1: big fucking deal. Why is everyone making such a big
Speaker 1: fucking deal. Like it's not that I mean, maybe it
Speaker 1: is all I have no idea, but like it's the
Speaker 1: same thing with being a man or a woman in business.
Speaker 1: No one ever told me that, like I was supposed
Speaker 1: to be handicapped because I was a woman like that,
Speaker 1: I would you know, Like, oh my god, what are
Speaker 1: the struggles being a woman in business? Like I don't
Speaker 1: know how to think about them. I wasn't born a dog.
Speaker 1: I was born a woman. This is what I have.
Speaker 2: I walked down that runway.
Speaker 1: They gave me the gig, So I walked down the
Speaker 1: runway as a fifty five year old woman, I didn't
Speaker 1: know to be like, wait, oh my god. I mean
Speaker 1: I did think I was gonna wear like a respectful
Speaker 1: bathing suit of mom bathing suit because I was trying
Speaker 1: to be respectful, to like my age and not be
Speaker 1: like a desperado. And then someone hands me a fucking
Speaker 1: thong and I wore it, which is insane because never
Speaker 1: in my life if I ever worn a thong. But
Speaker 1: there's a time and a place for everything. I guess
Speaker 1: my ex dentist who passed away, he said, a woman
Speaker 1: must know when to hang up her thong.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe they do, but I don't know when that
Speaker 1: is