Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second d I will make one prediction, and
Speaker 1: one prediction only about the second date update today. The
Speaker 1: guy on the phone that wants to do a second
Speaker 1: date update owns a really bad leather jacket. Really, that
Speaker 1: is my guest. Why do I say that? Because his
Speaker 1: email says that he met the girl that he wants
Speaker 1: us to call today at a dating mixer for one
Speaker 1: of those groups that puts together, you know, come get
Speaker 1: drinks at a bar. Every time I've been to one
Speaker 1: of those or seen one of those, always a bunch
Speaker 1: of dudes wearing bad leather jackets. Nick, do you own
Speaker 1: a bad leather jacket? Yeah? See, really I do, but
Speaker 1: I have awarded in a while, so yet it's awesome.
Speaker 1: So your email says that you met the girl you
Speaker 1: want to call today at a dating mixer. Have you
Speaker 1: been a part of this group for a while or
Speaker 1: is this a new thing for you? It's a new
Speaker 1: thing to me. Like I've been dating the girl for
Speaker 1: about two years. We've broke up before the summer, so
Speaker 1: I haven't been a single for a while. And the
Speaker 1: idea of a friend was like do it. I was
Speaker 1: like okay, And were you nervous going into it. Oh yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 1: Was it like a speed dating thing or was it
Speaker 1: just a hang out at a bar and try to
Speaker 1: hit on all the girls their thing? Yeah? Pretty much
Speaker 1: pretty much. It was like there went a bunch of
Speaker 1: sharks and then little minnows. Isn't that just like a
Speaker 1: normal like Friday night though? Yeah, it's just different with
Speaker 1: those things because, like I said, the leather jackets. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you saw your minnow her name is Christine, and
Speaker 1: you started talking to her. What did you like about
Speaker 1: Christine so much? Well, we figured out the where both
Speaker 1: like eighties kids. We were both born into eighty four,
Speaker 1: so we had that kind of it was shared mentality
Speaker 1: as far as all that nostalgia and those inside jokes.
Speaker 1: You're both the year of the Dragon, and it just
Speaker 1: drew you together. Yeah. Yeah, like you know, just we
Speaker 1: both grew up on Like Nicoloe, we spent about thirty
Speaker 1: minutes just singing theme songs to eighty TV shows. Right.
Speaker 1: It was so she were like I like Webster and
Speaker 1: she was like I liked Webster too, and then you
Speaker 1: guys bonded. That's yeah right, absolutely, people eighty five just
Speaker 1: would not have gone. So what did you do? Did
Speaker 1: you guys just meet that night and now she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back? Or did you actually go do a
Speaker 1: date because it just said in your email that you
Speaker 1: met her at this mixer and she hasn't called you.
Speaker 1: Did you guys go out? Yeah, we went out once.
Speaker 1: My grandpa has an apple orchard out in central Washington.
Speaker 1: Sucks with her out there. Well, that's a huge date.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of time to spend together. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean we mixed it up. We took some may We
Speaker 1: talked a lot and connected and I showed her like
Speaker 1: we have a lot of people there that uh that
Speaker 1: work out there and this family in general. So she
Speaker 1: feels like that's a I feel like that's a really
Speaker 1: good date, Nick, because it's kind of cool. It's different.
Speaker 1: You take her to an apple orchard. Girls like doing
Speaker 1: things like that and pumpkin patches and farms. They dig
Speaker 1: that kind of thing. And then also it makes her
Speaker 1: think maybe there's some family money involved because you can
Speaker 1: bile that land multiple levels of a great idea there, Nick,
Speaker 1: I love it. The first thing jokes on her, So
Speaker 1: did she seem to like the apple orch? I thought so?
Speaker 1: I thought we really connected, you know, I kind of
Speaker 1: explained to her. I used to hang out there a
Speaker 1: lot when I was a kid, and you know, just
Speaker 1: had a lot of memories there. And she seemed to
Speaker 1: give a lot of good feedback as far as the
Speaker 1: conversations that we're having, just the upbringing that we both had.
Speaker 1: Did you seem to enjoy herself? I think so. I
Speaker 1: felt like she didn't ended really well, and I made
Speaker 1: her dinner and everything, and she really enjoyed it, and
Speaker 1: I took her home. The thing that got me was
Speaker 1: like I dropped her off and it did feel like
Speaker 1: a good night kids or anything. But that's you know,
Speaker 1: I'm a gentleman. So I didn't want to try to
Speaker 1: push it too hard, but we hugged and then she
Speaker 1: said she would um call me back so I could
Speaker 1: to reach out to her, text and whatnot. She I
Speaker 1: feel like she's kind of dodging me. Have you heard
Speaker 1: anything from her at all? And I'll text her. She
Speaker 1: want to answer the call, so I don't want to
Speaker 1: call too much. And SAW text her and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, you want to grab abod to eat or something,
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, I got an appointment or did
Speaker 1: she Sometimes she wanted to respond but more for than
Speaker 1: you know, she's always busy. It seems like she's trying
Speaker 1: to avoid you. That's what it feels like. Is there
Speaker 1: anything that happened at all on your date or in
Speaker 1: your conversations that you could think of that might have
Speaker 1: turned her off? I don't know, man, Like I can't.
Speaker 1: Like I literally have been thinking about it because she's
Speaker 1: so cool, and I really want to if I did
Speaker 1: do something that stuff. I want to try to redeem myself.
Speaker 1: You know. All right, we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: get her on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on looking cubile in the morning.
Speaker 1: Nick is on the phone with us today. He wants
Speaker 1: us to call a girl named Christine that he met
Speaker 1: at a singles mixer. Their date included them going to
Speaker 1: an apple orchard, his family's apple orchard and picking apples
Speaker 1: and you know, having a good time. He said, Everything
Speaker 1: was cool until she seemed a little standoffish at the end. Nick,
Speaker 1: I think I know what your problem is. What's up?
Speaker 1: Too much? Too soon? I think you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like you never want to show a chick your apples
Speaker 1: that early? You know, like you gotta wait before you
Speaker 1: show her your apples, you know what I mean. I
Speaker 1: always wait till a third date before I let anybody
Speaker 1: see my apples, and even then it's with a picture text,
Speaker 1: not actually in person. But what what I mean by
Speaker 1: too much too soon? Though? I think taking her like
Speaker 1: in a couple hour drive to your family's orchard to
Speaker 1: pick apples with your family and stuff might be a
Speaker 1: little too much for a first date. So maybe she
Speaker 1: just thought you were too serious too quick, or you
Speaker 1: were gonna get too serious, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And I thought about that, but I'm like, I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: like my family, it's just my grandpa and like like
Speaker 1: my cousins and stuff. And you told her that's what
Speaker 1: you guys were going to do. It wasn't a surprise
Speaker 1: that day, right, yeah, right, right right? So she agreed
Speaker 1: to it. I don't know. Okay, all right, Well I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call her right now, see if we can get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and find out if something went wrong. Okay, okay, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Christine? Please? Yeah? This is her.
Speaker 1: Hey Christine? How are you? This is Jewil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the morning. How are you? I am good.
Speaker 1: Are you sure you have the right number. I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure I have the right number. Did you recently go
Speaker 1: out with a guy named Nick? Yeah? Then this is
Speaker 1: the Christine that I want to talk to. Okay, what's
Speaker 1: going on? I'm calling you because Nick emailed us to
Speaker 1: see if we could get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: ask why you're not calling him back. Boy. It's a
Speaker 1: segment we do on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Nick said he liked you a lot, he enjoyed your date.
Speaker 1: He thought you guys clicked very well. But apparently he's
Speaker 1: been trying to get a hold of you, and you're
Speaker 1: kind of avoiding him, and you wanted to see if
Speaker 1: he did something wrong. So you want me to tell
Speaker 1: you about, like my personal with what happened on a date.
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily need you to get into your personal
Speaker 1: stuff if you're uncomfortable with that, but I would like
Speaker 1: to know if there's a particular reason that you're not
Speaker 1: calling Nick back. I'm so conciused about what's going on
Speaker 1: and that work right now. It was a good date,
Speaker 1: so all I have to say, so you had fun
Speaker 1: on the date? Yeah, it was great. Okay, then is
Speaker 1: there are you planning on calling him back because he'd
Speaker 1: like to know. I mean, probably not. And why is that?
Speaker 1: I know you're at work and I'll get you off
Speaker 1: the phone quickly. Here. I appreciate you staying on with
Speaker 1: us and being honest, But if he was such a
Speaker 1: great guy and you enjoyed the date, why don't you
Speaker 1: want to see him again? It was just kind of
Speaker 1: a weird thing that happened on our date, and I
Speaker 1: just don't. I don't know if I want to talk
Speaker 1: about it, and maybe we just go our separate ways
Speaker 1: and that everything's happier and easier. Do you think talking
Speaker 1: about it could at least help Nick in the future,
Speaker 1: You don't, you might not want to see him again,
Speaker 1: But with other girls that he goes out with constructive criticism, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess maybe wouldn't take another girl to
Speaker 1: the apple orchard. So that was really bad, like the
Speaker 1: whole experience of the apple orchard. I mean it was
Speaker 1: I just had a weird like encounter with his grandfather.
Speaker 1: You had a weird encounter with his grandfather? Yes, how so,
Speaker 1: I mean, can we just tell him that? And then Connor, Mary,
Speaker 1: I don't know what I mean. It is his grandpa
Speaker 1: just a weird dude. Do you think Nick would know that?
Speaker 1: So Nick had to take a call, And maybe I'm
Speaker 1: reading it weird. I don't know. But then I was
Speaker 1: left alone with his grandfather and she just said some
Speaker 1: kind of inappropriate things. I was just I just felt uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Is grandpa's a pervert? Am I reading it? That? Is
Speaker 1: that what you're saying? I mean, I don't care how
Speaker 1: old a guy is, but if he's like, come with
Speaker 1: me and I'll show you my apple press, really talking
Speaker 1: about his apple? Yeah, do you know for sure that
Speaker 1: he was being an old perv? Or was he legitimately
Speaker 1: talking about an apple press and you took it the
Speaker 1: wrong way? No, she said it and winked at me. Hey,
Speaker 1: little lady, you know you're hanging out with my grandson,
Speaker 1: but let me show you how a real man press
Speaker 1: his apples. That he didn't have like a something in
Speaker 1: his eye or anything like that. No, because like he
Speaker 1: put his hand on my leg and kind of just
Speaker 1: kind of like caressed my knee and I wasn't reading
Speaker 1: into it because it just was super uncomfortable. He didn't
Speaker 1: need to do that. I think as a person you
Speaker 1: can tell when somebody's starting to like encroach on your
Speaker 1: personal space and they're getting a little too handsy, and
Speaker 1: I guess that's what he was doing. Christine, thank you
Speaker 1: for being honest. I will let Nick know that his
Speaker 1: grandpa is a pervert and not to take girls around
Speaker 1: him anymore, or you can tell him yourself, because Nick's
Speaker 1: actually on the phone. What Christine. Hey, it's Nick. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm super sorry about what I just said. I just
Speaker 1: was put in a super uncomfortable situation and I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't want to embarrass you, but it was just weird.
Speaker 1: But how much are you reading into this? Like first
Speaker 1: of all, why didn't you tell me like what, like
Speaker 1: I'm and say, your grandpa hit on me? But so
Speaker 1: we just worked it out because it's just pop off,
Speaker 1: you know, that's what he does. I mean, wouldn't have worked.
Speaker 1: You would have worked it out and he would have
Speaker 1: just said, oh, that's fine, that's what he says. And
Speaker 1: then at if we go on another date and you
Speaker 1: leave meet alone with again, I mean, it started with
Speaker 1: a lag thing and I don't want it to go
Speaker 1: any further. And I get and I understand that, I
Speaker 1: get that it's just he's eighty two years old, so
Speaker 1: sometimes he doesn't like he's from he's just he's older,
Speaker 1: so he doesn't think about these things. And yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean that's that's a little unappropriate. I mean, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that I said those things about him, But like, what
Speaker 1: if I took you to, like volunteer at a senior
Speaker 1: center and some lady was like touching you uncomfortably. I
Speaker 1: don't think that would go over well. And I wouldn't
Speaker 1: just brush it off this lady your grandma that you
Speaker 1: would like, because I would tell you if it was
Speaker 1: someone your relationships. I mean, I just think it's easier
Speaker 1: if we go our separate waves. I don't want to
Speaker 1: have to be put in that situation ever again. Don't
Speaker 1: you feel do you feel like you're blaming him for
Speaker 1: something that he didn't do. I mean, I'm not blaming him.
Speaker 1: I'm just don't ever want to be in that situation again.
Speaker 1: Well it look look and I gets that. Look, here's like,
Speaker 1: here's the deal. I feel like we had a really
Speaker 1: really good connection. I don't know, it's just I don't
Speaker 1: want to give up on that. And I know I
Speaker 1: know that if I just talked to my grandpa and
Speaker 1: tell him. He needs to just cool it and not
Speaker 1: be like that. You know, don't need to touch you
Speaker 1: feely and just watch what he says that. I don't
Speaker 1: see why it would be a problem. Nick, have you
Speaker 1: has your grandpa ever hit on any of your dates before? No?
Speaker 1: I mean not that you know of the same girlfriend
Speaker 1: for two I mean why I have the same girlfriends
Speaker 1: for two years. I mean she didn't hang out with
Speaker 1: him too much, but she never said anything. Maybe that's
Speaker 1: why she left you for Grandpa and you don't know it. Christine,
Speaker 1: would you go out with Nick again? We'll pay for
Speaker 1: a second date. Nick would love to see you again.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you can work out the grandpa situation. Look,
Speaker 1: he's an old guy, and old guys are creeps, all right,
Speaker 1: all of them, every single one, Every single old guy
Speaker 1: out there is a pervy creep. I can't wait to
Speaker 1: be one one day. Yeah, So can you just maybe
Speaker 1: go out with Nick again and see if you guys
Speaker 1: can hang out and like each other and get past
Speaker 1: his grandpa hitting on you. I'm sure it can get better.
Speaker 1: I just can't be around him ever again, and I
Speaker 1: don't know if there's at any point, and even going
Speaker 1: out on a second date if I mean it leads
Speaker 1: to anything else. I mean there'll be weddings and babies,
Speaker 1: and I just don't want his grandpa around. And I
Speaker 1: don't want to put Nick in a bad spot. You
Speaker 1: know how many of your bridesmaids he could hit on. Though,
Speaker 1: If you guys are getting married, I'm not playing for
Speaker 1: a wedding. Yeah, well I am. I mean I'm not
Speaker 1: getting younger. I don't want to waste my time. So
Speaker 1: you're thinking about guys that you go out with, You're
Speaker 1: thinking about a future, and you don't see a future
Speaker 1: with Nick because his grandpa is a creepy old man. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: All right now, well, Christine, thank you very how much
Speaker 1: for your time? Nick, I'm sorry, no second date for
Speaker 1: you man. Well thanks guys, but Christine, I would love
Speaker 1: to pay for a second date with you and Nick's grandpa,
Speaker 1: if you're interested in that one broken jupil in the morning,