1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,199 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Sherry is on the phone 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: for to Catch Your Cheater. Today, she thinks that her 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 2: boyfriend of three years named Aaron might be messing around. 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,079 Speaker 2: So we're gonna see if we can catch him in 6 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: just a second, but first let's find out what's going on. 7 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: Sherry, tell us about your situation. 8 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 3: So Aarin, I love him so much. 9 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 4: We've been together for three years, lots of up and downs, 10 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 4: but you know, he's really wonderful and I see his 11 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 4: growth and like communicating more with me, and we've been 12 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 4: going in a positive way. 13 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 3: I freaking love Valentine's Day, which he knows right around 14 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 3: the corner. Like I'm getting giddy thinking about it. 15 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 4: But you know, I always it's like pulling teeth sometimes 16 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 4: with Aaron around it. And I know, like he works 17 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 4: actually as a sooux chef at a really nice restaurant, 18 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 4: and of course it's mad busy on Valentine's So you know, 19 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 4: when I realized and we talked about it, like he's 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 4: going to be working all night, he said, I was 21 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 4: honestly disappointed about it. But you know, anyway, the reason 22 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 4: I'm calling you guys, is getting thick thinking about it. 23 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 4: I was sitting I was seeing with Aaron the other night. 24 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 4: He was on his laptop, I was on my phone. 25 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 4: He just like popped up to use the bathroom. And 26 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 4: I didn't mean to like snoop or anything, but just 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 4: like right on his computer his email and it was 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 4: a confirmation for like a real, really nice restaurant that 29 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 4: I've been wanting to go to with Erin for a 30 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 4: long time. And it was on Valentine's and so obviously 31 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 4: I got excited and I was like, oh, he's he's 32 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 4: pulling one offer on me. This is amazing, Okay. And 33 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 4: so I talked to him later and I was like, oh, okay, 34 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 4: so maybe we can, you know, get together after work 35 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 4: or something and try to try to suss it out. 36 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 4: And he was just like, no, it's gonna be really 37 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 4: busy and I should just go hang out with my 38 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 4: friend Crystal, who like, by the way, he hates Crystal 39 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 4: and he hates her and he was just really hurt 40 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 4: about it, and I just that's when my stomach kind 41 00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 4: of dropped. 42 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: I want to believe that like he's kind of playing dumb, 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: but there's this car of me that's like what the 44 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: heck you guys. 45 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 4: You know, so I'm just like kind of looping on 46 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 4: that over and over again, and I'm wondering what is 47 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 4: going on that night and if I'm even part of 48 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 4: the plan. 49 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah, because you want to believe that, Okay, 50 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 5: he's playing the long game. This is going to be 51 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 5: a real big surprise. You're going to have his heart 52 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 5: just turned upside down. I mean that still could be 53 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 5: the case. 54 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, it could, and I'm like really hopeful, like that's 55 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 4: just the way I roll. But I there, like, you know, 56 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 4: women's intuition is pretty strong or there's something us about this, 57 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 4: and it's. 58 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: Kind of eating at me. 59 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: Have you done anything else to try to figure it 60 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: out or not? 61 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 3: Not? Yeah? This is that was the main thing. I 62 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 3: mean I definitely, like, you. 63 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 4: Know, acted kind of coy and just kind of pushing 64 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 4: to that. 65 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: Night to see what he's going to be up to 66 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 3: and stuff like that. 67 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: But the other the other thing, yeah, I I it 68 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 4: was like, this is when it was like the nail 69 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 4: in the coffin for me is like my friend Crystal 70 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 4: is actually dating someone casually who works with Aaron, and 71 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: so when I was talking about Valentines, she said that 72 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 4: Aaron wasn't even working that night. Oh really yeah, that 73 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 4: was through his coworker that she said that. 74 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 3: So like, I'm just like wait what wow? Okay, right, 75 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: I'm not crazy. 76 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: No, you're not crazy at all. 77 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 5: It's either that or he terrible at planning surprises either way, Okay, 78 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 5: right right, you. 79 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: Told us what grocery store is a Rewards Card member at, 80 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 2: So we'll call and pretend to be from there and 81 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 2: say that since it's Valentine's Day, we're choosing a few 82 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: select Rewards Card members who get free flowers delivered to 83 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: anybody that they want on the big day, and we'll 84 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: see if he sends those to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, 85 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song come back and get 86 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 2: here to Catch a Cheater. 87 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: Next. 88 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: Right in the middle of To Catch a Cheater, if 89 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Sherry is on the phone and 90 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: she thinks that her boyfriend three years Aaron, might be cheating. 91 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: So on a second, we're gonna call him and see 92 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: if we can catch him. But first, Erry, why don't 93 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: you catch everybody up on your situation? 94 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: Valentine's right around the corner. 95 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 4: I love Valentine's Aaron worked at a really high end restaurant. 96 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: He said he's busy that night, but I heard see 97 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 4: the great mind, he is not. And I also saw 98 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 4: on his computer casually an email reservation for a fancy 99 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 4: dinner night out. 100 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 3: So I'm highly suspicious. 101 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: And he told you that he was working that night. 102 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, at his restaurant. He's a new chef. 103 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: All right, Well, we're about to call him from the 104 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at and 105 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: say that he's one of the lucky winners because for 106 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, we're giving a few people who are loyal 107 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 2: customers some free flowers they can have delivered to anybody 108 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: that they want for Valentine's Day. We'll see if he 109 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 2: sends us to you or somebody else. Okay, Okay, thanks guy, Okay, 110 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 2: here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Hi, 111 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 2: this is Jordan calling from I was looking for our 112 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: rewards card member named Aaron. 113 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is him. 114 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: Are you please don't hang up. This is not a 115 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: marketing phone call. 116 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: I'm actually gone to say congratulations, you're one of the 117 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: big winners. 118 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 3: What I'm gonna win it what did I win? 119 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: You know? 120 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 2: For Valentine's Day, We're choosing a few select Rewards Card 121 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: members to say thank you for being such loyal customers 122 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: US by offering you y. 123 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: This is so random. 124 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: It's two dozen long stim red roses, a box of 125 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: chocolates and card delivered to anybody that you want. 126 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: Okay, uh? 127 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 3: Sweet? And I can send it to anybody. 128 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: Yes you can. First thing I would need would be 129 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 2: the first and last name of the person. 130 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's about. 131 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: Okay cool, and then the last name is easy. Is 132 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 2: there anything you would like to put on a card 133 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 2: along with this? 134 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: This is Can I get there by Valentine's Day? 135 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: It is to be delivered on the big day? 136 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 5: Yes? 137 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: Oh okay? Yeah? 138 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah? 139 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: Can you put I got you these? 140 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 6: They? 141 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: Uh let's live it up tonight. 142 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: Yes, I can that down. And now I'll just let 143 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: you know that you're a girlfriend of three years. Sherry 144 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: is on the phone listening and probably want to start. 145 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 3: You Why, Aaron, what the what? 146 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 1: What this is actually the Jewel Show? Aaron? 147 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 6: What is that? 148 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 3: What actually is this? 149 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: It's a radio show and we have a segment where 150 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: we catch you for cheating and Sherry thought you might 151 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 2: be cheating on her? 152 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 3: Wow, you did not do this? Why are you gonna? 153 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: You can't get a gridsy right now? What you just do? 154 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: You just said Val? Who is Val? Who is Val? 155 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 4: Aaron? 156 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 3: Aaron? Who is Val? Oh my god? Who are Why 157 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 3: would you be? Who is Val? Just tell me? Just 158 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: tell me. I'm kissed. Yo. This is I did. I 159 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 3: did everything, happy, everything to make you happy. What is 160 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 3: happening right now? Oh my god, don't know? My bull 161 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: was someone that I met at work. 162 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 6: Okay, someone met when I was when I was working? 163 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 4: Oh man, so so so are you taking her to 164 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 4: the fancy restaurant that like on on Valentine's that I 165 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: saw on your email? 166 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 3: Like it was like in my face, Oh that's what 167 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: this was. Oh my god, you're sneaky. I knew this. 168 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 3: I knew you're the one. Damn. Like, what are we 169 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 3: what are we doing here? If we're not like this 170 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: is what you're com what We're not trusting each other? 171 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 3: You're cheating on me? You you burt bab What do 172 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: you mean? Do not turn this on me? 173 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: Right now? 174 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 3: Are you freaking kidding me? I just literally like, this 175 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 3: is this is a deal. This is the deal. 176 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 6: Okay, like like this is this is real, Valet is 177 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 6: real and you're in this like fairytale world like make 178 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 6: believe lovey dovey, like that's not even a real that's 179 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 6: not real life like valid someone, Okay, there it is, 180 00:07:58,640 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 6: there is. 181 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 4: You know, Oh god, oh my god, you have so 182 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 4: many freaking boundaries out that had taken three years for 183 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 4: you to be emotionally available to me, and you're not 184 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 4: even available to me, like go have to sleep with 185 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 4: someone else who's quote unquote real. 186 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? I put in so much work 187 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 3: with you, I've been so I don't have anymore like whatever. 188 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: This is wow? 189 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 3: Wow? Like this is this is this is the last 190 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: straw like this that was the last draw? 191 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 6: All right? 192 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 7: Uh? 193 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: He hung up, Cherry. I'm so sorry? 194 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: Is he crazy? I can't believe this is happening right now. 195 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 7: I actually loved I know, he sounded like an asked 196 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 7: I loved him so much. Oh no, I'm I'm like, 197 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 7: this is the worst, like but the best thing that 198 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 7: could have happened to freaking Like, can you imagine if 199 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 7: any done this for another year and I didn't see 200 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 7: that email or called you? 201 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 3: Got here? 202 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: I mean, what a coward? 203 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 5: Though, like he couldn't have told you, he couldn't have 204 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: broken up with you or anything beforehand, like and then. 205 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 3: He got mad at you. 206 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah what. 207 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 2: And also props to you for even in this moment, 208 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: realizing how thankful you are that you found out now 209 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 2: yeah right, instead of like good for you, you have 210 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 2: you have a very resilient outlook on things, so. 211 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 4: You will be just se honest, I will forget, Like 212 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 4: the minute I get off the phone, I'm just gonna 213 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 4: just forget. 214 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: So I need to remember that. 215 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, remind yourself of that, right, because that takes a 216 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 2: lot of strength. So you will definitely be okay, and 217 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 2: you will find someone who won't cheat on you. 218 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 5: It's gonna be hard for a minute, but you can 219 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 5: call us back anytime if you need a pep talk. 220 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I really appreciate that, guys. 221 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 4: I just we should have ended up like being a 222 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 4: positive the opposite of what happened. 223 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 2: You know what, Right now, I'm probably doesn't feel like that. 224 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: I guarantee you in a year from now, though, you 225 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: will think this is one of the most positive things 226 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: that ever happened to you, that finding that it's out. 227 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I believe you. I'm gonna believe that. 228 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: You will be a lot happier and he's definitely somebody 229 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: that you shouldn't be spending your time with. 230 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 3: Okay, thank you guys so much. 231 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:00,079 Speaker 1: Take care, Okay, bye, thank you. 232 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 3: Will show to catch a cheater.