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Speaker 1: Good morning, peepson. Welcome to okay F Daily with Meet

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Speaker 1: your Girl Danielle Moody, recording from the Home Bunker. Folks,

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Speaker 1: you know, there has been a lot of negative conversations

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Speaker 1: recently about our government, about our elected officials, thanks to

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Speaker 1: George Santos, the likes of Marjorie Taylor Green and others.

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Speaker 1: But the only way to actually get those people out

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Speaker 1: of office is for the courageous ones to decide that

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Speaker 1: call to run for office themselves. So I'm excited with

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Speaker 1: this episode to welcome back to the show Ashanti Gooehler,

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Speaker 1: who is the president of Emerge America and the founder

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Speaker 1: of Black Girl's Guide to Politics. And I've joined a

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Speaker 1: shanty show to talk about politics and talk about expressly

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Speaker 1: what is facing black women in politics. And so in

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Speaker 1: this conversation we talk about the ways that essentially training candidates,

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Speaker 1: particularly women, women of color, queer women, has changed and

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Speaker 1: not necessarily for the better. I open up the conversation,

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Speaker 1: you know, talking about this political climate and getting her thoughts.

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Speaker 1: But then also it is the norm that you need

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Speaker 1: to ask a woman multiple times to run for office

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Speaker 1: because oftentimes women feel unqualified, even though in a lot

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Speaker 1: of cases they are overqualified. So how can we use

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Speaker 1: this current media storm around the liar grifter George Santos

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Speaker 1: slash guitar slash. We don't know what the fuck his

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Speaker 1: name is or who he really is, and now we

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Speaker 1: know that his finances are, you know, as funny as

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Speaker 1: But how do we one convince women that you are

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Speaker 1: more than ready and capable to run for office, but

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Speaker 1: then two train in a time of heightened political violence. Look,

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Speaker 1: it is not normal to even blurt out those words

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Speaker 1: violence has become part and parcel of what it means

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Speaker 1: And so when you are a woman, we know that

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Speaker 1: the attacks on social media are absolutely disgusting. We know

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Speaker 1: And so how do you train people who want to

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Speaker 1: very real physical violence that could come along with running

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Speaker 1: for office. So Ashanti and I will get into so

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Speaker 1: many conversations, including our shared love of astrology and what

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, my conversation with a Shanty Goler, Folks,

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Speaker 1: I am very excited to welcome back to wok f

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Speaker 1: Ashanti Goler, who is the founder of the Brown Girls

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Speaker 1: Guide to Politics and the president of Emerge America. It

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Speaker 1: is twenty twenty three, yes, and when we change the calendar,

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Speaker 1: we like to believe that we are also somehow changing,

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Speaker 1: you know, everything, We started new resolutions, everything is starting fresh,

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Speaker 1: except with our politics it doesn't seem that way. So

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Speaker 1: I wanted to get you know, your sense of how

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Speaker 1: a Shanty and then where you see that we are

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Speaker 1: but you know, almost a month into twenty twenty three. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and it's so good to be talking to you again.

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Speaker 1: I just always love when we can chat it up.

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Speaker 1: And I know we've talked about how much I love

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Speaker 1: astrology and given how this year has started off. I

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Speaker 1: think I'm officially going to start my new year with

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Speaker 1: airy season, because oh mine god. Twenty twenty two. I

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Speaker 1: my new year with airy season because they wiled them

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Speaker 1: then fast forward, you know, ten plus years that we

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Speaker 1: saying that, like I subscribe to astrology and I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Like it's you know, thousands of years old,

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Speaker 1: but also for me. This is part of the plan

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Speaker 1: I always have so much fun with you. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I just talked to you forever and forever. And

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Speaker 1: it's also the show I can come on and talk

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Speaker 1: astrology and politicans, so it's like my favorite come back

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Speaker 1: anytime to talk about all the things. We appreciate you. Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you, says appreciate you. That is it for me

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Speaker 1: to day, dear friends, an woke app as always Power

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Speaker 1: to the people and to all the people. Power, get

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Speaker 1: woke and stay woke as fuck.