1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Let's get it. Let's get it. Buckle up and hold 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you, Strawberry Letta, thank 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: you enough for your subject. He pays me for my services, 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, surely I've been married for a year and 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm the breadwinner of my family. We have a great 6 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: lifestyle because of my income. My husband works for a 7 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: cable company and he gets paid four hundred dollars a week, 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: and that just takes care of the car. Note. So 9 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: let me tell you how I'm the breadwinner. I'm seeing 10 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: this older guy who pays me to be his chaperone, 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: clean his house, et cetera. Oh and by the way, 12 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: this guy paid for my wedding a year ago. Yes, 13 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: he knows about my husband, but my husband does not 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: know about him. My husband thinks that I work at 15 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: a law firm, and now he's starting to ask questions 16 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: about my job and want to come pick me up 17 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: for lunch one day soon. What should I do? Should 18 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: I come clean with my husband? Please help me. I 19 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: could see if this was in your past, if you 20 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: had done these things in your past, But this is 21 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: going on right in your marriage right now, So you 22 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: gotta come clean somehow with your husband. I mean, you're 23 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: gonna have to at some point. I just don't know 24 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: how you're going to keep this from your husband if 25 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: he wants to come and take you to lunch and 26 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: pick you up at the office and things like that. 27 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 1: I just don't see how you can lie your way 28 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: out of this. I will say this, don't tell him everything, 29 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: so come clean, but not all the way clean. Um. 30 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: I mean, this man is paying you for your services, 31 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: and I can only mean you know think that you 32 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: mean sexual services. I think your husband is getting a 33 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: bit suspicious. What are you doing around the house or 34 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: what are you doing differently now? So he's getting a 35 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: little suspicious. He wants to know what you're doing or 36 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: somebody said something. So I say to you, you gotta 37 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: tell your husband something. You have to. I mean, this 38 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: is crazy. You've been married a whole year and you're 39 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: keeping this big life from him, especially if it's sexual services, 40 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: and you need to stop that immediately. So tell your 41 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: husband that you work for a man. Don't tell him 42 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: everything that you're giving him sexual services. Steve Shirley, I 43 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: don't know what the letter you read now? Where is 44 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: services in this letter? Where did I miss it? It's 45 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: in the title. He pays me for his services for 46 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: my services, pays me for myself for my services. Now 47 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: did we write the subject of this letter? Because in 48 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: the letter I see something else, and I'll tell you 49 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: what I mean. No, we didn't write the subject. She did. 50 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: This is hers here in the letter. Here going problem. 51 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: First of all, let's just start with cable board making 52 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: four un a week. Okay, just pay that's sweater dayn 53 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: problem right there, cable boy pull it in full hunted 54 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: and just paying the car. No, this ain't the red. 55 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: This ain't you know, groceries, the Saint al heating, Saint electricity, 56 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: This ain't gas, This is no clothing. This is the 57 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: problem right here. See this full hunted. They call that 58 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: college student money. Now full hunter. If you're want to 59 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: come up, I understand. I ain't knocking it at all, 60 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: but the full hunted creating a problem for you because 61 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: you knew when you got married you didn't want the 62 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 1: full hunted a week. So now, cable boy is the problem. 63 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: My husband worked for a cable company. He gets four 64 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: hundred week and they just take care of cardinal. So 65 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: now let me tell you how I'm the bred in 66 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: winner I'm seeing this older guy. Let's stop right there, 67 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: older guy. Yeah, what does older guy stand for? It 68 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: stands for sugar dad who pays me to be his chaperon. 69 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: This ain't the prom when in Bible summer school chaperon. 70 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Where do he need help getting too? Or 71 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: how old is he that's here? You nursing him chaperone 72 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: is a deceptive turn. Then she says, comma clean his house? 73 00:04:51,080 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Then Comma etc etcenta. Yeah, that's where we 74 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 1: must come to terms with what you're doing. It's the 75 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: etcetera that's getting the money chaperon and don't really pay. 76 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: How is cleaning limiting? How's cleaning you down with the 77 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: same money? Cable board naking, all you over they're doing 78 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: is cleaning house, but you're cleaning molting the house. You 79 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: are all up in cracks, crannits, cravit. Yeah, that's the 80 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: type of cleaning you're doing. And oh, by the way, 81 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: this guy paid for my wedding a year ago. Let 82 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: me tell you so, I'm a father with four daughters. 83 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: I didn't paid for two wins. I know how much 84 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: winds costs now for this older man to have you 85 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: chaperon and cleaning the house and etcetera, and paying for winds. 86 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: Do you know the monkey flips that you're in there doing. 87 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: You guys to be in there doing some things naked 88 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: that can't be printed. That's why this led us so 89 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: damn show. And then come talking about yes he knows 90 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: about my husband. You just said he paid for the wind, 91 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: said trying to throw us off with you and you 92 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: just ain't paid for the wind. Don't try to throw 93 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: us off of what you do. Let's get back to 94 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: this etc. Because that's what this let about, so etcetera. 95 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: What is etcetera? Well, let's explore the word E. E 96 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: stands for extra. You're doing way mod and cleaning house lady, 97 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 1: you're doing way way mode and CHAPERONEI you're doing extra. 98 00:06:54,640 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 1: What does the T me you're doing all this to him? Yeah, 99 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: E too and d n C E t C. You're 100 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: doing all this extra to him to get him to 101 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: do what? What? What Cash? Think about it? Cash? I'll 102 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: be back with the second half and exposed to you 103 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: what to see? Is okay? All right? Steve? This letter, 104 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: uh strawberry letter. Today's subject He pays me for my services. 105 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: I don't huh. I think everybody got to see this 106 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: letter for what it is. What is that I thought 107 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: I did? Well, you know I didn't say you didn't shill. 108 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: I said everybody needs to see this letter for what 109 00:07:55,960 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: it is. First of all, lose the attitude to see it. 110 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: You know, you do your hand for the letter. You 111 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: throw exactly what is you alway here being sensitive about 112 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: my side of the letter. I don't know when you 113 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: was talking. Listen to me. This older man didn't pay 114 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: for this woman's with right, she's saying, he over they're 115 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: doing chores, cleaning the house, chaperoning. Don't know what the 116 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: hell let mean? We ain't kids mhm and etc. Mm hmmm. 117 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 1: E stands for extra. Yeah, okay, that's more than anybody else. 118 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: That's above and be on what anybody else would do? 119 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: Think or won't you coming there with extra? That's the E, N, extra, 120 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: H etc. Is The acronym stands for extra. T is too. 121 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: You do the extra to him? That's my favorite. Now 122 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: the CE. You do all this extra to him to 123 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 1: get him to what? That's what the C is? Yeah, 124 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: all that E T C is all that extra to 125 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: get him to what? Okay, yeah, come come on now 126 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: come here, come here, come on, come with it, communicate, 127 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: communicate little Yeah, that's the e t C. Come up, Yeah, 128 00:09:53,880 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: come up a deal, come out, come out about now. 129 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: My husband thinks I work at a law firm, and 130 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: now he's starting to ask questions about my job and 131 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: wants to come pick me up for lunch one day soon. Well, 132 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: won't he be surprised when he put up at this 133 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: old man house. Yeah, and you and it ain't exactly 134 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: dressed like a lawyer, but she is going over his briefs. 135 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: What should I do? Should I come clean with my husband? 136 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: Please help me, lady, come clean. You won't have a 137 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: marriage anymore. You got to do what all men would do, 138 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: all real men in this situation. Ladies, I wrote the book, 139 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: act like a lady, think like a man. Now is 140 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: your opportunity to do the one thing that all me 141 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: and would do. Lie. Yes, just as you have lied before. 142 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: See rule no one to line. Ride your lie all 143 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: the way out. Don't shoot. Let no by d talk 144 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: you off that line. You work at a law firm, 145 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: and you are the assistant to the head of the 146 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: law firm. Hold it and y'all working from the house 147 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: that day he want to take you to lunch. Mm hmmm. 148 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: That's it. Now you got to go out and get 149 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: yourself some business cards printed up. You gotta install a 150 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: fake line at the man's house. You need a brief case. Yes, 151 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: m you gotta get some horn, real blastes with a 152 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: chain on, and you got to start playing the role. 153 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: What you can't do is tell his young boy that 154 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: you've been in there serving this etc. And this old 155 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 1: man because it ain't gonna go good ladies and gentlemen. 156 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: That is my response to the letter. And the next 157 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: time you write me with the word E T C. 158 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: And that you're gonna gets it from now on, just 159 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: like she don't see You don't want me to assume 160 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: that you tricking spell it out. I actually won't some etc. Not. 161 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: You know you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.