1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Friends, the biggest stories of the day. You got Jason's pixel. Yes, 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: here we go, ladies and gentlemen. The results Oh, Jason's 3 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: Week two NFL picks are vice president of Sports Reporting. 4 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: I guess fucking in. 5 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: Who'd you have in the Canelo fight? By the way, 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: I forgot to ask you, uh, Canelo or the other guy? 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 3: I thought Canelo was the location? 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Okay they Canelo? No, Las Vegas was the location. 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to Canelo. Definitely Canelo. I mean it's 10 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 3: named after him, all right, No he didn't. 11 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 2: Wait Canelo. 12 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: Let someone named Bud beat him. I believe that's the 13 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: guy's nickname, right, I didn't. I gotta be honest with you. 14 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: I didn't watch it. That doesn't sound right. Doesn't it 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: sound like my Canelo? I want to say that it 16 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: was in that Allegiant stadium problematic, and I I saw 17 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: some people like post pictures they were in attendance. Unless 18 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: you're super super crazy rich, you're not gett anywhere close 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: to the ring. Which what point do you say, like, 20 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: I don't need to be here because I can see 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: it better on TV. Because yeah, Terrence Crawford is super 22 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: middleweight champ after convincing when over Canelo Alvarez. Why don't 23 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: I think his nickname as mud? Someone tell me if 24 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm right, if I read that correctly this morning. But no, 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,199 Speaker 1: I mean they were so far away that the people 26 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: were not like they did, tiny little ant looking people. 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: So it's like, you know you're there. Yeah, I got 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 1: to say I was. I was in the building for this, 29 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: but I mean I could also be down the street 30 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: in the bar, and then I guess you see what's 31 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: going on or at home not paying twenty seven dollars 32 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: for a beer. Right, I have no idea what it 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: costs to to just have ant level view, right, But 34 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: you know the boxing match, you know football stadium, that's 35 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: pretty wild things. All right, here we go, guys. So 36 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: you had the first game, you had the Commanders. Okay, 37 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: well you lost that one. Packers won, all right, Seahawks 38 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: over Steelers, Bangles over Jack Wars, Rams over Titans, four 39 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,919 Speaker 1: nine Ers over Saints, Lions over the Bears. My god, 40 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: which is good for Caitlin. Cardinals over the Panthers, Falcons 41 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: over the Vikings, Patriots over the Dolphins, Bills over the Jets, 42 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: Ravens over the Browns, Cowboys over the Giants at the 43 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: last minute, Colts over the Broncos at the last minute, 44 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: and Eagles over the Chiefs. And then today we've got Bucks, 45 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: Texans and Chargers Raiders, two games on Monday night football. 46 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: So how are we doing so far? 47 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 2: I'm sure did you see the Jaguars? 48 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: The Januars lost, Bengals mangles over the Jaguars. 49 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 4: Oh, okay, so he lost that one too, So how 50 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 4: do we do? 51 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 2: So he lost one? 52 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 4: Two, three? 53 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 2: Man, oh man, we're gonna bring out the second. Okay, 54 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: So so far he's lost eight and he has shoe 55 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: games tonight. 56 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: Tonight, it's gonna be a sweet So how many did 57 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: you win? Then one? So I don't know. You can 58 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: do the math on that. I don't know. It's not good. 59 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: And give the parslay again. 60 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 5: And then his parslay was Cairo Santos is going to 61 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 5: kick twice quote into the polls. 62 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 2: No, exactly, Trevis Casey is going to score? 63 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: No, no, no, he definitely didn't score. He did the opposite. 64 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: He tried not to score. 65 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 66 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 5: And then Dak Prescott is not going to spit on anyone. 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 5: He did not spite. 68 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: So here's my here's a challenge. From you. You're probably 69 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna have to like give us your picks because you're 70 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: going to be in Vegas with the Radio Music Festival 71 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: this week with your your black combat boots on your 72 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: piece and your clip. You're probably gonna have to give 73 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: them give us the picks ahead of time for to 74 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: read on your behalf. But maybe maybe a little little 75 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: fur we got a little further on the parsley. Maybe 76 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: we do a little little research, okay, because I know 77 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: you know, in the past these things have just come 78 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: to you. But I'm I maybe put a little bit 79 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: into it, okay, moving forward because we're not we're really 80 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: not doing great. Where would one research, like football dot com? 81 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: Sure we can start their NFL dot com, ESPN dot com, Okay, 82 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: I would think there'd be a lot of different places 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: that you could you can go, got it. I will 84 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: dive into that today. Did the Bears lose? Someone asked, 85 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, they did? Boy did they? 86 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: They certainly did? And who they lose to? Kitlin? 87 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 2: They lost to the Detroit Lions. 88 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: Jason, you did not pick oh no, yeah in their honolulublue. Yep, Yeah, 89 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: that was really bad. Hack Severan's pitt and seth rogen 90 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: one big at the Emmy Awards last night, and Caitlin, 91 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure has more on that. There's a heat wave, 92 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: which last week it was really nice. Week before it 93 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: was almost like borderline cool, and now we're talking about 94 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: heat wave that will stretch from Louisiana to Wisconsin. Heat 95 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: records are being challenged across the central US. Forecast is 96 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: worn that in the last week of summer, temperatures could 97 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: hit the upper nineties from Louisiana to Wisconsin through Wednesday. 98 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: The heat wave will drive temperatures five to fifteen degrees 99 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: above average, and some record highs set in the nineteen 100 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: thirties could fall. So we're not done. We're not done, 101 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: you guys. 102 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 3: I am screwed because we already shut down the air 103 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 3: conditioner for this year. 104 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: I don't shut down the air You don't even like 105 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: a building. So I don't know. They don't do those. 106 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: Maybe they do. I don't know anything about it. 107 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 3: It's something with the do hickey in the back and 108 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 3: then you cover it up for the winter, and you 109 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 3: like wrap it so that the snow doesn't get really 110 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 3: all up in there. Also, And I woke up and 111 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 3: it was seventy eight degrees in the house this morning. 112 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: He'll tell you that at your house. Absolutely not. 113 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Oh no. 114 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. It might blow all the way. 115 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: I don't ever, I said one time last winter the 116 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: heat came on once. It's ac year round, barely heat. Yeah, 117 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: I mean it's got to be cold. Yeah, Like I 118 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,119 Speaker 1: gotta be to wear a sweatshirt and pants in my house. 119 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: Like you won't do it. Yeah, And that's not often 120 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: because you want to get the sweatshirt the pants, you know, 121 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: maybe like you get the bad or something fine, you know, 122 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: you know, like likes of things, you know I got, Yeah, 123 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: I got a house uniform. What kind of jammy pants 124 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: you or like, you know, like viory, you know, like 125 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: come on, come on. I'm not like there's like cow 126 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 1: print on my you know, jammy pants, which I'm not. 127 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to cowprint on my jammy pants. I 128 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: just don't have any of those. 129 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: It's the problem with that. 130 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's nothing wrong with it. I just don't have 131 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: that nod a little more form fitting. I like to look, 132 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: you know, slam even when I'm just lounging, you know 133 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: what I mean. Like I like, I like form fitting. 134 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: Are you ordering viewery pants off the TikTok shop? 135 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: No viory is like a high Yeah, no viory is not. 136 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,559 Speaker 2: What's the one the girls are all selling. 137 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 7: I don't know that word. 138 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: Like oys like Lulu Lemon or alo or I don't know. 139 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 8: Maybe you're thinking no, I think they're I don't know, 140 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 8: imagine and like silk pajamas. 141 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: Well, I I don't know, like like like a you 142 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: have to robe? 143 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I just picture you walking around Jammy picking the 144 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 5: throw b thirt on songs. Right. 145 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it takes me all week. It's it's a very 146 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: very serious process. Yeah. And a monocle. 147 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah. 148 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: So guys, I don't want you to be And this 149 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: sounds this sounds like it could be something else. You 150 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: could give me this story and I could say this 151 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: and then find out that you're all playing a joke 152 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: on me. But I don't want you to become a 153 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: quishing quishing victim. A lot of things come to mind 154 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: when I say it sounds like something not good, and 155 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: it's not good, but it sounds like it's something like 156 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 1: kind of dirty, but I guess it's not. The FBI 157 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: is sounding the alarm on a new scam, unsolicited packages 158 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: containing a mysterious QR code. The agency says that criminals 159 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: are now mailing random boxes, sometimes with no sender info, 160 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: in hopes that the recipient will scan the included code. 161 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,559 Speaker 1: The codes can take you to phishing sites, swap swipe 162 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: your personal data, drain your bank account, or quietly install 163 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: malware on your phone. The latest trick, also known as 164 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: quishing I hope I'm saying that right, is a high 165 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: tech twist on the so called brushing scams, where the 166 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: only danger was receiving a product and having a fake 167 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: review tie to your name. Now the stakes are higher. 168 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: The code in your surprise parcel may be the only 169 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: thing inside, and it's designed to peak your curiosity and 170 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: possibly compromise your financial life. Scammers are capitalizing on QR 171 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,119 Speaker 1: codes because they're everywhere, and because most people scan first 172 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: and then think later. The FBI and security experts offer 173 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: up some practical advice. Don't scan codes from unknown packages 174 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: or strange flyers, use strong anti virus software, preview QR 175 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: linked URLs before opening, limit your digital footprint, enable two 176 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: factor authentication. My favorite thing. I love it. This company 177 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: doesn't make you two factor authenticate absolutely everything every day, 178 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: multiple times a day or anything like that, and keep 179 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: your device updated and also report suspicious packages as well. 180 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: So don't get that sounds bad, don't get quished. Ooh yeah, 181 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: A few things come to mind, and I'm not going 182 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: to say what they are, but it's just none of 183 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: them are clean, but they are a lot of fun. 184 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: Krispy Creme has dropped their fall fare donuts could be 185 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: ninety two degrees but have a Krispy Creme, So beginning 186 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: today you could buy one of five flavors Cotton candy, 187 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: Cream Puff, blue Ribbon, apple Pie, and Caramel churro. Reading 188 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: this story, my teeth hurt. Like this sounds so sugary 189 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,719 Speaker 1: sweet that I think it would hurt to eat. The 190 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: treats are available for pickup and delivery through Krispy Cremes 191 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 1: app and website, and of course in their stores. And 192 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: a guy named Casper Lincoln was arrested in Prince George, 193 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: British Columbia for driving a child sized pink Barbie jeep 194 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: down a busy street while allegedly under the influence. I 195 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: need to hear the whole story. He was also driving 196 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,439 Speaker 1: with a suspended license in charge with prohibited driving. He 197 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: says he was going to meet a friend and get 198 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: a surpie. 199 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 6: Man. 200 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wasn't driving. He wasn't supposed to be driving, and. 201 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: He wasn't well he was. It turns out you can't 202 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,719 Speaker 1: drive a pink Barbie jeep, those things called barely you 203 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: can get a Do you want a bike? 204 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 9: You know that. 205 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 2: I've heard rumblings. 206 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: You've heard these rumors. 207 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 2: I've heard rumblings. Rather you be on a bike. 208 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: Yeah. Lincoln said that he was winning met a friend 209 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: to get a slurbey because obviously I would hop into 210 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: pink Barbie jeep to go meet my friend to get 211 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 1: a slurpee. Because he felt lazy, you chose to d 212 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: drive the toy car instead of walking. He claimed that 213 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: he didn't know it was illegal, saying he used hand 214 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 1: signals and everything, and he acted like he believed that 215 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: he was. 216 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 2: Following the law for his mine, my barbie cheap. 217 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: I mean, he just wanted a slurpee. Guys. 218 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. 219 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: I don't get it could have been so much worse. 220 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: That's another thing that hurts my teeth though, Like you know, 221 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: in college or something, slurpy Hell, yeah, you don't drink them. 222 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 6: Now. 223 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 1: I feel like if I did, I get brain freeze slashed, 224 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 1: my molders would hurt. 225 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 6: Wow. 226 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm I'm. 227 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 2: Like, once a week, do you really? 228 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: Yes, you have it once a week slurpee, Yes, it's 229 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 1: my medicine. Wow, you get it? 230 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 6: The Cola one? 231 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 10: Yeah, oh. 232 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: Surprise. I'm surprised Bella allows you to have that, right. 233 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 1: I don't think that's good for you. I think they 234 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: just pour sugar and then ice on top of the 235 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: sugar and then that's it. That's what you're consuming. But hey, 236 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: good for you though. It's National Learning Online Day, National 237 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: Neonatal Nurses Day, and National Tackle Kids Cancer Day. Order 238 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: it's a fresh show, all right. The Honorable Kikili is here, 239 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 1: Judge Kiki, Hey, take it away. 240 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 4: Wait all right, let's step into the courtroom. 241 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 8: The gabble has been hit, all right, it says, hey, 242 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 8: kikey am I wrong for refusing to let my ex 243 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 8: husband bring his former mistress to our child's birthday party. 244 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 8: I've been divorced for three years, and since the divorce, 245 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 8: my ex and I have always celebrated our kids' birthdays 246 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 8: together as a family. 247 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 4: It's the only day of the year that we keep 248 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 4: it cordial for our kids. 249 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 8: Well, my ex decided to marry his former mistress at 250 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 8: the beginning of the year, and now his new wife 251 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 8: is demanding to attend my daughter's birthday party, and Kiki, 252 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 8: it was an absolute no for me. However, my ex 253 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 8: decided to bring her to the party anyway, and it 254 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 8: completely ruined my daughter's party. I had to have both 255 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 8: of them removed from the party and it caused a 256 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 8: big scene. Now some of my family is saying that 257 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 8: I overreacted, but I don't think I deserve to have 258 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 8: to eat cake with a woman that ruined my family. 259 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 4: Am I wrong? 260 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: M Judge Kiki? All right, I say, you. 261 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 4: Know, at first, you know, I always going to take 262 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 4: the woman's side. This is what I do. 263 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 8: But I had to really think about this, and I 264 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 8: think both of you are selfish, the ex husband and you. 265 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 8: You know, I feel like you are selfish as well, 266 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 8: because in that moment, I told my ex not to 267 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 8: bring the lady to the party. So he's selfish for 268 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 8: bringing her because he should have just suggested in that moment. Okay, 269 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 8: well we need to start having separate birthday parties. I'm 270 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 8: not going to ask this man to disrespect his new wife. 271 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. I can understand him wanting 272 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 8: her to be there. 273 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 4: Whatever. 274 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 8: Then if he if he was a mature I feel 275 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 8: like he would have said, Okay, well we need to 276 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 8: start having separate birthday parties if you're not gonna allow 277 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 8: my wife. 278 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 4: To attend boom. 279 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 1: This is especially precarious though, because of the of the 280 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: cheating element. 281 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 4: Exactly. 282 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,719 Speaker 1: This isn't like they broke up and then went their 283 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: separate ways and met different people and then those different 284 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: people aren't allowed to be there. I mean this, he 285 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: was cheating with this woman, So it's a slap in 286 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: the face. It's a slack run. However, Judge Kiki, it 287 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: is not about them. It is about the kid exactly. 288 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 8: So in my opinion, when she arrived to my daughter's 289 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 8: birthday party, I would have tried to keep my coup 290 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 8: until after the party, like I wouldn't have caused the 291 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 8: scene had them removed. I would have be like, you 292 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 8: know what, I'm gonna eat this today for my kid, 293 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 8: but after this, I'm gonna deal with both of y'all. 294 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 7: You know. 295 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 4: That would have been my mentality towards it. 296 00:13:57,920 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 8: But I feel like He could have also just suggest 297 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 8: that they have separate birthday parties because he knew how 298 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 8: she felt about this before the party. 299 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 4: So I think they're both selfish. 300 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: Eight five five three five context the same number you 301 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: guys are the jury. Yeah, yeah, I think if the 302 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: family dynamic is such that everybody can't get along and 303 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: the guy married the mistress, which means she's the stepmom 304 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: now and she's going to be around for the foreseeable future, 305 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: then they either have to agree to cooperate or they 306 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 1: have to have separate events. Because I mean, for how 307 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: long can you I mean, the mistress part and the 308 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: cheating part is unfortunate, but for how long can you 309 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: say this woman you married cannot be a part of 310 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: this little unit over here? Like how long can you 311 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: keep her out? You know, what's done is done, And you. 312 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 8: Want to say, you know, be the bigger person for 313 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 8: your kids, But like you said, it's a sensitive situation. 314 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 4: She was the mistress. 315 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 8: She you know, she played a part in my family 316 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 8: falling apart. You're entitled to that. But when you're at 317 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 8: your kid's birthday party, like, come on, let's all be 318 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 8: adults until this is over with and then we can 319 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 8: fight parking lot, you. 320 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: Know, like like adults, you know, yeah, like like civilized 321 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: like normal people. Yeah, take it outside, well, because the 322 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: kid's gonna remember this now, you know, the kids with 323 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: people getting drug at the parties and all this stuff. 324 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: You don't forget stuff like that. 325 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, And I mean you expressed that to your ex 326 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 8: before you told him no. He clearly doesn't listen. But 327 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 8: I feel like he's selfish because he could have just said, Okay, well, 328 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 8: my wife wants to be there, so we will celebrate 329 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 8: another time. 330 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 3: Right, But at some point too, like when can he 331 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 3: take responsibility for like what he's done in the past 332 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: and maybe oblige his ax a little bit, like you 333 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 3: messed up, but at least you know, you're supposedly happy 334 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 3: now you're with the mistress, like you can go on 335 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 3: and live your life, but like for your acts, like 336 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 3: maybe the mother of your kids, like maybe just oblige 337 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 3: her because you wear a dirty dog. 338 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: Right, you know. 339 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 8: But then he has to go home to the new 340 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 8: wife and she's like you telling me I can't come 341 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 8: somewhere with you. 342 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 4: I'm your wife. You know that can be a whole thing. 343 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: So it's it's messy, Yeah, it is hey, Michelle, Hey, hey, 344 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: so do you you've lived this? You know these stories? 345 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 10: I lived it? 346 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 2: Yes, I lived this story. 347 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: What happened? 348 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 11: Dad cheated on my mom. Mom found out and gave 349 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 11: him ultimatum. Dad chose to leave, and so at that 350 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 11: point then there was they separated, and then he's been 351 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 11: with her now for thirty years, and so she's the 352 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 11: first probably five years is a little bit hectic. But 353 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 11: then Mom received and she's like, I'm not going to, 354 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 11: you know, ruin my children's birthdays and holidays because this 355 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 11: woman ruined stuff. 356 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 10: I'm going to be like a bigger person. 357 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 11: And Mom didn't talk to her, but everybody was invited 358 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 11: to everything. 359 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, no one's asking anyone to be friends here, you know. 360 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: And I realized that when you're not involved, it's easy 361 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: to say, but at some point it's about the kid 362 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: or kids or whatever. And so you know, either you 363 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: have to choose to accept it and and just keep 364 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: your disc into and cooperate, or or I don't know 365 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: what the alternative is. Everything's divisive and and and there's 366 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: never any semblance of mom and dad getting along ever again. 367 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I mean, maybe that's better than this. 368 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, what are you saying? 369 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 11: I see that the past thing was was my parents 370 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 11: still got along, but the new wife didn't like the 371 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 11: fact that they got along. 372 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you're a mistress. You'd a mistress, and 373 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: now you complaining about the Nah you don't get a 374 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: vote in this. No, you don't get a voting in 375 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: the functionality of a relationship that failed because there was infidelity. 376 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: You don't get a vote in this. 377 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 11: Exactly who you talking? 378 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 4: I mean, those little meta little mistresses got something to say? 379 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: No, no, now you're insecure. Oh wait a minute, So 380 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: you weren't insecure when you were, when you were part 381 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: of the demise of a relationship. But now they're insecure 382 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: because they get along because you know that your little flusy, 383 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 1: if she knew right, we'll carry out it to give 384 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 1: it a bit of another day. Thank you, Michelle, have 385 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: a good day. Thank you for sure. Now I want 386 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: to go live to Hadley. Now, now Hadley is eleven, Hadley, Hadley. Yes, 387 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: you are a little young to be chiming in on this, 388 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: but I'd still like to hear what you have to say. 389 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 9: Okay, so I agree with Keikey. I think that even 390 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 9: though the ex wife said don't bring her, and he 391 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 9: decided to bring her. Is selfish, but also kicking them 392 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 9: out is also selfish. But it shouldn't matter what the 393 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 9: parents want. It should matter what the kids want because 394 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 9: it's the kid's party, not the parents' party. 395 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 7: Thank you. 396 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: That is a very mature perspective of a situation. I 397 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: hope that you do not fully understand at eleven years old. Okay, 398 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 1: yeah you are. Hey, you are welcome here anytime. Handley, 399 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you, thank you, Thank you 400 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: so much. That teachable moment right there. Okay, we got 401 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 1: to we talk about how adults do stupid things and 402 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 1: kids oftentimes have to play the stupid game and get 403 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 1: the stupid prizes because the adults it's stupid stuff. Hey, Chrizly, Chris, 404 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: what's up, Bryan? How are you doing? Hey, what's going on? Brother? 405 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: What do you think in Kiki's court? 406 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 7: Well, listen, I feel for the lady. 407 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 6: I feel for the mom who's hosting the party, but 408 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 6: she's trying to be a control. 409 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: Freak the man. Look, the past is the past. 410 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 7: When you get married, that person's won. It's a package deal. 411 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 6: We see a lot of times where people try to 412 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 6: control situations because they don't like the result. And further, 413 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,719 Speaker 6: if it were reversed or if she were married at 414 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 6: the time as well, she wouldn't have a problem. Yeah. 415 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's easier said than don man, because 416 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: you know, now you got to look this woman in 417 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: the eye, who was part of the demise of your family. 418 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: And again, I don't know the whole situation here. It's 419 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 1: never really as cut and dry as one person just 420 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: teaches it. It's very rare and dry. 421 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 6: Yeah, but they're always listen, it's a divorce, so you know, 422 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 6: somebody's not going to be happy. But at the end 423 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 6: of the day, you cannot control the other person when 424 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 6: you're that's half this kid, when you're no longer married 425 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 6: to him. 426 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 7: It's just that's how it is. 427 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, So you know that's that's the type of thing 428 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 6: that does the kid wrong. How does your child learn 429 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 6: how to manage conflict if that's what they see? 430 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: No, you're adult, you're right, No, you're right, Thank you, man, 431 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: have a good day. I'm glad you called him. 432 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 7: All right. 433 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 1: No, it's true, I mean, it is true. 434 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 4: Get over it. 435 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: Well, it's like the adult's got to be adults and 436 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: it's it's so hard to do. Like no one's saying 437 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 1: that's easy. No, but the adults got to be adults, right, Hey, 438 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: al though. 439 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 7: Hey, hey, how you do a man? 440 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: Kiki? Scoring? So just just to recap here and make 441 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: sure I get this right, judge Kiki. But basically, a 442 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: woman and her ex husband, they were in a relationship 443 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 1: ahead a kid he cheated. Now he's married to the 444 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: woman with whom he cheated, and they have birthday parties 445 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: every year, and the former husband and wife get together, 446 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 1: you know, to set it right the kid's birthday and 447 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: they're cordial. Now the mistress showing up ext it was 448 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 1: now the wife Yeah, now she's showing up too. It's 449 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: making a whole thing uncomfortable. And there was an altercation 450 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: and people were drug out and it was a whole thing. 451 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: What do you think. 452 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 7: I think that the new wife, who has nothing to 453 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,959 Speaker 7: do with the kid, shouldn't come now that it happened 454 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 7: once that that sort of it's already happened. And I 455 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 7: agree the kid wasn't thought of by either parent and 456 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 7: that issue. But going forward, Hey, look, if you want 457 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 7: your new wife to have a party with your daughter, fine, 458 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 7: but not with me. You know, it's that's simple, and 459 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 7: it's simply because I think mom's a little warm right now. 460 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 7: A couple of years down the road, she probably calmed down. 461 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 7: It's not like the daughter doesn't see this new woman 462 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 7: when she goes visit her father. We're just talking about 463 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 7: the birthday. 464 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. I think this was a 465 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 1: situation where maybe that that woman doesn't need to be 466 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: included in this particular event. You know, you're not saying 467 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 1: you can't have a relationship with her, because you're right 468 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: when you go over to his house, you're going to 469 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: meet this woman and develop a relationship hopefully or whatever. 470 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 1: But for this particular thing, maybe she doesn't need to 471 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: be there. Maybe this is just mom and dad handling 472 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: this so that there's everyone's comfortable. I agree. Although, thank you, 473 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: have a good day. You're glad you called. Thank you 474 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: for listening. A lot of people have lived this. Hey, Lindsey, 475 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: she is, hey, good morning. What do you think? 476 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 10: Well, so, being someone that has sort of lived this, 477 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 10: my ex husband and I would do the same thing 478 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 10: for the kids, celebrate their birthdays together. But once I 479 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 10: started dating someone who I'm now currently married to. I 480 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 10: just got married last Friday. Awesome, thank you, thank you, 481 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 10: thank you. I we stop, We've just stopped. You like, 482 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,479 Speaker 10: once someone else is involved, I mean, regardless of cheating 483 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 10: or cordially separating, whatever it is, once you have a 484 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 10: significant other or another spouse or I don't feel there's 485 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 10: any reason to have to blend all of it together. 486 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 10: Sure in passing, kids take up switching weekends, whatever it is, great, 487 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 10: be cordial, Hi, how are you see you later? But 488 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 10: families say there's no reason for it out of respect 489 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 10: for everyone involved. That's uncomfortable. Some people can do it great, 490 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 10: but given the circumstances that you cheated at and she 491 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 10: now the little mistress home wrecker wants to like the 492 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 10: white or the mom's set eat cake with the girl 493 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 10: that ruined their family, absolutely unacceptable. So everyone needs to 494 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 10: be an adult, do the things separately, and the kids 495 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 10: can have three freaking birthday parties. Yeah, you don't have 496 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,479 Speaker 10: to sit face to face with the person that stirred 497 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 10: your whole world up. 498 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, because as a kid, I lived the thing where 499 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 1: people were trying to force the family unit. It's like, 500 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: well these you know, this is your step mom now, 501 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: and this is your these are your step brothers, and 502 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 1: it's like, no, no, no, I why do I have 503 00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: to accept I don't have to accept this? Like I don't. 504 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't want any of this. I don't have. 505 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,120 Speaker 1: Why do I have to like this lady? Like I didn't. 506 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: I didn't pick her. You did, and you picked her 507 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: with your pecker. Yeah, so so there, so get her 508 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 1: out of here and she'll be gone soon anyway. And 509 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 1: she was, thank you, Lindsey, you have a good day. 510 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 6: Yeah I don't. 511 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like the whole forced family unit thing. 512 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: It's like, well, but she's here now, so you have 513 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: to accept that. 514 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 11: I know. 515 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,400 Speaker 1: I don't. I got a mom and I got a dad.