WEBVTT - Ep 17: The Player

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<v Speaker 1>Novel. This show contains adult material and swearing. You have

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<v Speaker 1>been warned.

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<v Speaker 2>I watch some very very supreme porn was and it's

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<v Speaker 2>like they're good films.

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<v Speaker 1>They're good quality of film.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why you're an irrelation man, I'm savagely.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you bored of modern dating?

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<v Speaker 2>Meeting the same people from the same apps in the

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<v Speaker 2>same bar You've only chosen because it's close to your

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<v Speaker 2>house and you can make your usual quick getaway. It's

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<v Speaker 2>time to change the narrative on how we find love.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to start looking for love in all the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong places. I'm going on a wild dating adventure, only

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<v Speaker 2>picking people who are the total opposite of my type.

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<v Speaker 2>And after twenty eight of the dates in two months.

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<v Speaker 1>Will I find that special.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone or well, this experiment proved that I should just

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<v Speaker 2>give up on dating altogether.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time to find out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Ros, I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to say I am drinking your diicoke, so I

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<v Speaker 2>made up.

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<v Speaker 4>You're going to work. Nothing makes you burke like diicoke, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just rubbing it in your face, so you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually I am so tired today and I actually

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<v Speaker 3>when I saw you open the bottle before we start recording,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I would love nothing more.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know when you just like want to be

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<v Speaker 2>injected with Dike, Like, honestly, shoot me up.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, great, says your show sponsored by diaicoke, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're just not telling me I didn't sponsor. Sorry, you

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<v Speaker 3>went on a new date this week? Was it a

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<v Speaker 3>friend of a friend?

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<v Speaker 2>This was somebody that Yeah, so someone I know works

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<v Speaker 2>with this guy and I had been shown for the

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<v Speaker 2>butts on second such a lady.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, Oh fucking hell.

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<v Speaker 2>I had been shown a picture of him, very good looking,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was told that he works in a finance

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<v Speaker 2>department and he is a bit of a player, is

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<v Speaker 2>what I got. Told that he goes on a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, well look he's met his Maxton.

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<v Speaker 1>That is that is true?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I agreed, you cannot be a HYPOCRISTI the.

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<v Speaker 1>Con right for me.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason why it wouldn't maybe work out with me

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<v Speaker 2>and someone who like is a player is because, well, Ross,

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<v Speaker 2>I am one as well.

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<v Speaker 4>You'd be playing each other.

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<v Speaker 5>We'd be fucking giving each other st d no oh good,

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<v Speaker 5>but no, it is is a it's a thing where

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<v Speaker 5>it's kind of like, can both of you be like that,

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<v Speaker 5>like at the beginning of relationship or does one of

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<v Speaker 5>you need to sort of like calm the other one down.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, okay, I've got a few points too, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Number one, I think a big kind of dating a

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<v Speaker 3>player is if you're someone who's not a player yourself, like,

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<v Speaker 3>for example, my experience of dating players.

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<v Speaker 4>It definitely can kind of affect yourself esteem.

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<v Speaker 3>Hear about it, and you kind of feel like maybe

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<v Speaker 3>you're second choice or you're just in this rotating pool

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<v Speaker 3>of other people. But number two, like, as adults, should

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<v Speaker 3>you probably look, I can be totally wrong here, but

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<v Speaker 3>should you not kind of tell the other person you're

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<v Speaker 3>dating if you are fucking around, because we're all adults

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<v Speaker 3>and we all need to make sure of our sexual health.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think it's just about being really upfront.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think the problem in dating is that there

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<v Speaker 2>are so many men, and I do think specifically men

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<v Speaker 2>do this more than women, who will say that they

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<v Speaker 2>are not a player and then sort of start seeing

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<v Speaker 2>you and law you into this feeling that you're getting

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<v Speaker 2>into a relationship and it's becoming a sort of commitment territory.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they're like, bad, I'm not looking for a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And that happens to me, It happens to my friends,

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<v Speaker 2>it happens all the time, and so yeah, i'd rather

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<v Speaker 2>probably know earlier on if they are a player. But

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<v Speaker 2>I am quite negative inherently about a lot of men.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, I feel like after a while you

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<v Speaker 2>find out that they've been shagging around, even if they

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<v Speaker 2>didn't say it.

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<v Speaker 4>So like, what was he like? This player guy?

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<v Speaker 6>What was his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Ben?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know a lot about you. That's time, and

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<v Speaker 6>I did that on purpose. It's when I turned up.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't want to know everything about you, so they.

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<v Speaker 6>Keep it blowing.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't want to know everything about it, just sort

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<v Speaker 7>you're gonna know today this week.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't even asked you. What did he look like?

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<v Speaker 2>He had like like longish hair, like how do I

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<v Speaker 2>describe it? Like you probably could have put into a ponytail,

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe not, but like that length.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a face? What did it look like? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me find a picture one second.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, he does have a face. Ben is God. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's he has a really nice smile.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a good smile.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he looks really nice. He looks you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>just from that photo, he looks really friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's the thing about dating that is

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<v Speaker 2>key is someone that puts you at ease straight away.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously, like so many people like can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why dating is like a bit of a gamble,

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<v Speaker 2>because sometimes you go on a date and you're like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel so out of thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>But he put me straight away.

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<v Speaker 4>I've was a tattoo of.

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<v Speaker 7>You.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a power boy.

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<v Speaker 6>That's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've got matching with my best friends.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, saying do you have any I have one. But

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<v Speaker 6>it's just a it's just an hour glass.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 6>It's just when people lay, I can show them, you know. No,

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<v Speaker 6>it's just it's just like I don't know, it's just

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<v Speaker 6>like life.

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<v Speaker 7>Sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess it says life.

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<v Speaker 6>Sure, it's like life short. It's just like an hour glass.

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<v Speaker 1>What is an hour glass?

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<v Speaker 6>An hour glass?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, why gosh, show tattoo. Please take your top of.

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<v Speaker 3>Grace. I'm horrified. You don't know what an air glass is.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know, I know. It's my stay school education.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually think I have one right here.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because you know what confused me. See, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what that is.

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<v Speaker 3>When I've got ship to do, I'll put this on

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<v Speaker 3>and like I've given myself like two minutes to get

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<v Speaker 3>this like tiny task on.

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<v Speaker 2>I should get one of them. But what what confused

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<v Speaker 2>me is the hourglass figure? Me too thinking what is

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<v Speaker 2>our glass?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, when I first heard you talking about Aeroglass, I

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<v Speaker 3>thought you were talking describing his figure, and I was like, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>he's gone Aeroglass figure.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's so that's why the hourglass because it looks

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<v Speaker 1>just like that.

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<v Speaker 4>What was it actually a nice tattoo?

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<v Speaker 2>It was no, it looked like it had been done

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<v Speaker 2>like by a drunk person. Oh no, I say, very small.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's another thing that really gives me mick. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I remember once I woke up with this guy and

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, oh, I've got this tattoo, and you

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<v Speaker 2>show me this tattoo on his back and it was

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<v Speaker 2>his whole back was the face of a lion. But

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<v Speaker 2>it was done so badly that the lion was like melting.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awful.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So overall, Ben really nice guy. He's really handsome,

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<v Speaker 3>great smile, shit tattoos. Did anything else give you the yick?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know it didn't because I love like on dates.

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<v Speaker 2>I love talking about like crazy sex stories and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's always it's sort of how I

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<v Speaker 1>break the eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>My classic eyes breaker on a day is talk about like,

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<v Speaker 2>have you been to a sex party?

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<v Speaker 1>How many three soons have you had? Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>got them with a guy?

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<v Speaker 6>I've hissed the gub? Have you ever had a freezer?

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<v Speaker 6>I've had a.

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<v Speaker 8>Would you ever have a freezer with another guy?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what?

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe? Probably? I feel like I'd be happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Then?

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<v Speaker 6>Have you ever enjoy sex party?

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<v Speaker 5>Did you?

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<v Speaker 6>Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>Tell me more?

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<v Speaker 2>Please more?

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<v Speaker 4>I love Berlin.

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<v Speaker 6>I love it so much.

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<v Speaker 8>I lived after six months, which one.

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<v Speaker 6>So it wasn't like a club.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like a house.

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<v Speaker 1>Park, yeah, which is what I've had, Like the best

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 6>It was kidkat things, but it wasn't the hit.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't kick Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>They were like over the walls sex toys everywhere.

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<v Speaker 6>The ratio was like a little bit strap. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 6>It's quite dark.

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<v Speaker 4>You couldn't see anything.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really see a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>My dream sex buy would be like I'm not a

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<v Speaker 2>house buy and it's not sex fi, but it's house

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<v Speaker 2>fight and then suddenly everybody starts getting with each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I used to think if I was gonna have

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<v Speaker 4>a freeze, I wanted to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Two men because I love buying men like I love

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<v Speaker 2>men getting with each other.

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<v Speaker 8>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I watched loads of gay pors.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's expensive.

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<v Speaker 4>I played fifteen.

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<v Speaker 6>Pounds a month. Yeah, I say that I pay.

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<v Speaker 4>That's wait, I stopping there. Fifteen pounds a month.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I watch some very very supreme porn was and it's

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<v Speaker 2>like they're good films. They're good quality of films. They

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<v Speaker 2>should be nominated for the fucking Okay, these are some

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<v Speaker 2>good films.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, you're like watching the like Kreme de la Creme,

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<v Speaker 3>but like listen, fair play, ethical poor.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly and paid properly, and everybody looks like they're having

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<v Speaker 2>a nice time, and like.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people it's real sex.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, you know, worried about their electricity gasps, you're

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<v Speaker 3>worried about your porn bill.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know, living here, I am. But the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is a.

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<v Speaker 4>Question, is that just a flat rate or is that

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<v Speaker 4>just because you have to last.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's a flat rate. It's a monthly rate, which is.

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<v Speaker 2>More than you know, my now TV and my Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel it's worth it. Porn is a really

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<v Speaker 2>big part of my life, especially when I'm single. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I get a lot of my sexual stimulation from porn.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why you're an a relation coming on today.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, since I've got a dog, i'd want to play

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<v Speaker 9>left which she's like a corker.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, ask you something.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's a little bit weird. People had sex in

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<v Speaker 6>your bed.

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<v Speaker 4>In your bed, I have, but I have only had

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<v Speaker 4>the dog for three months.

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<v Speaker 6>But like, yeah, I have. I want to be honest

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<v Speaker 6>with you. I had that four days ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Horrible. There's a lot to digest there.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what I n I honestly when you brough

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<v Speaker 3>off the dog. Then when he said I want to

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<v Speaker 3>ask you something, I was like, I don't know where.

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<v Speaker 4>This is going. But I'm not I don't know where

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<v Speaker 4>this is going.

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<v Speaker 3>I was glad it was just the dog happened to

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<v Speaker 3>be in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>He wasn't happy about us.

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<v Speaker 3>He wasn't happy about.

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<v Speaker 2>That part to clarify something. I didn't have sex with

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<v Speaker 2>my dog, knowing how something sex. She was like fast

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<v Speaker 2>asleep and we were like also asleep, and we just

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<v Speaker 2>sort of had like really cool she.

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<v Speaker 4>Was pretending to be asleep, grace.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, oh gosh, she was like, just keep

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<v Speaker 3>your eyes closed, don't look.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I'll now do it again. I felt really bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like the midde of that she was fast

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<v Speaker 2>asleep and it had been snowing, so the guy like

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't get home.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like stranded in my house.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, sorry, back to there is a lot going on there.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I love how your thing was. My ideal sex party

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<v Speaker 3>is just a house party. But everyone then I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's not sex party, gracist. So he also seems like

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<v Speaker 3>quite open minded.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I mean. But that's what I like.

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<v Speaker 2>I love like talking about sex and so like that's

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<v Speaker 2>my dream chat on a first day because it's making

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<v Speaker 2>it a bit more like interesting and steamy.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I'm getting a vibe of like what your

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<v Speaker 1>dealer is.

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<v Speaker 7>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just liked that he was open, Like I just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I actually thought it was really good how

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<v Speaker 3>he was he seems quite curious when it comes to

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<v Speaker 3>his sex life, and he's experienced a lot, and.

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<v Speaker 1>He was younger than me. What ages he he was

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty six.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know though, like like you do all that

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<v Speaker 3>stuff and you're that kind of age in your twenties though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then he like went on to say the

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<v Speaker 2>dog came in when he was having sex four days ago.

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<v Speaker 3>So he's talking about how he was having sex with

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<v Speaker 3>someone four days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, see that does that bug you out?

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<v Speaker 4>That would bug me out. I'd be like, okay, that

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<v Speaker 4>I feel of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it would bug me out if I was

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<v Speaker 2>like I want you to be my boyfriend, but like

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<v Speaker 2>ultimately I didn't feel that way, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really mind it. And also the thing is,

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<v Speaker 2>like I respect it because that's the kind of thing

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<v Speaker 2>I would do, Like on a first day, I very

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<v Speaker 2>much would be like, oh, yeah, I was like having

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<v Speaker 2>sex yesterday, like because I'm just the worst, and I

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<v Speaker 2>have like I'm very like unaware of like what is.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a boundary on a day.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't really mind it because then it like

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<v Speaker 2>licenses me to like talk about like all of that

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<v Speaker 2>stuff and make them uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, work, my very grace would be what

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<v Speaker 3>kind of dog do you have? And then I'd like,

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<v Speaker 3>what was her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you look like? I'm gonna go look her up

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<v Speaker 4>on the Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking, like, that's something that I think would

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<v Speaker 2>put a lot of my friends off, because some of

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<v Speaker 2>my friends have like real things of like if they're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about like their ex like on a first day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, this is a bit weird. I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>really care about that stuff. If like we've been seeing

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<v Speaker 2>each other for months and you're like, oh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>had sex four days ago, I'd be like, what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But when you don't know someone, they owe you nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>And I know, I totally get where you're coming from.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's something now I realized from you just

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<v Speaker 3>saying it, that would turn me off instantly, and it's wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, you.

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<v Speaker 10>Knew you were coming on the stage four days ago,

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<v Speaker 10>I think, And you know what's funny, I would have

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<v Speaker 10>said I was very much like you that I don't

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<v Speaker 10>really would not be jealous and secures unless I was

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<v Speaker 10>seeing guy for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>We decided to make it official, like whatever he does

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<v Speaker 3>is his business. But actually when you said when he

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<v Speaker 3>said that there.

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<v Speaker 2>I went, oh, but I think you have to like

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<v Speaker 2>hear it in the context of like I've just been

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<v Speaker 2>like talking asking him hout how many threeasons sad and

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<v Speaker 2>like I feel like he wouldn't have done that if

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<v Speaker 2>maybe he was on a date with you, because you're

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<v Speaker 2>not like being like you can talk about this stuff

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<v Speaker 2>for as I'm being like it's cool like everyone to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about So I do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think he wouldn't have maybe done that

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<v Speaker 2>if you felt like it was going to be like jarring.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think up until that point, I had honestly

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<v Speaker 2>spoken about like so much shit in my personal life.

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<v Speaker 6>I've got something terrible to admit to you. I want

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<v Speaker 6>to book a holiday.

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<v Speaker 7>And I was so confident that I go back with

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<v Speaker 7>the girl that I didn't even learn the accommodation.

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<v Speaker 6>That's unbelievable. That's me, that's actually kind of swear. That's

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<v Speaker 6>actually where though, where were.

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<v Speaker 4>You booked a holiday?

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't book accommodations? So I was like that, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Also can I just say, like that's bad game, because

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<v Speaker 2>like you should book accommodation to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, come back to my hand, like it's kind of tramping.

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<v Speaker 6>It's kind of tramping.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah, yeah, because like I feel, how old were you?

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<v Speaker 6>How old were you last?

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<v Speaker 4>Serious?

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're joking, you're joking, you're like, well into

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<v Speaker 2>your adulthood.

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<v Speaker 9>I was just like, you know what, like, I'm just

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<v Speaker 9>gonna that's that's legend and such a legend.

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't saying it for that. I'm telling you like

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<v Speaker 6>that was a fucking stupid Yeah. I actually regret it.

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<v Speaker 8>But where did you sleep? Oh you found it? Okay,

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<v Speaker 8>well done.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, I'm just saying it's a stupid, stupid pig

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<v Speaker 6>to it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love how he started to telling the story like

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<v Speaker 3>he's a legend, and instantly as he's saying it out loud,

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<v Speaker 3>realizes that it's one of the dumbest things and he

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<v Speaker 3>just comes across as such a cocky prick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. It's actually really embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so kind of embarrassing, so embarrassing, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's another thing of him being like I'm such

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<v Speaker 2>a lethario.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that bug you out? Would that put you off?

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<v Speaker 1>With that story? Put you off? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like I would be just I also think

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<v Speaker 3>like for anyone who hasn't guessed by now, like by

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<v Speaker 3>my accent, I'm Irish. Like the thing we fucking hate

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<v Speaker 3>the most Irland is cocky. People who are cocky. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to bring down a peg, do you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean? So if honestly, if a guy came in

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<v Speaker 3>was like I didn't even book accommodation holdgs, I'd go

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<v Speaker 3>home with a girl, I'd be like, you're a little

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<v Speaker 3>prick at no.

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<v Speaker 2>But I completely agree with that. But I think, like

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<v Speaker 2>I just found it really funny. Like if I met

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<v Speaker 2>someone on a night out in London and they were like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just here for the weekend, I'm like, where are

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<v Speaker 2>you staying and they're like with you, I'd be like, no.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like shag for shelter, That's not what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But I think it's because I talk about sex

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<v Speaker 2>so much, and like my comedy persona Quils, like the

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<v Speaker 2>men really like tell me stuff where they think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to judge them because they think I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>non judgmental kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>But then some of these things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm not sure that paints the best character

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<v Speaker 2>description of you.

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<v Speaker 3>You are like coaxing the worst and like the deepest

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<v Speaker 3>secrets and all their fancies out of them, and then

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<v Speaker 3>you're like duber.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly, I'm like whoa, whoa, whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's just and it's for listening to him raina

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<v Speaker 3>back in and actually, like I actually think he's like

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<v Speaker 3>digest seeing the fact a year later that it was

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<v Speaker 3>a really stupid thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's what was even funnier is that

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was like something he did when he

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<v Speaker 2>was like nineteen, but it was like literally like last year.

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<v Speaker 3>I do have to say, like, to his credit, he's

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<v Speaker 3>extremely honest.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I also just think he had that he has that

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<v Speaker 2>like confident vibe, which I like if like he tells

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<v Speaker 2>these stories, but I knows it's funny, Like it's a

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<v Speaker 2>bit like that's like what I'm like.

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<v Speaker 4>He is like the male version of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like your conversation is when I go and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in London and I'm with you and you start

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<v Speaker 3>telling me a crazy story and I'm like, what, Gracie,

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<v Speaker 3>do you even get into that situation?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but hold on. There was also something else that

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<v Speaker 2>was not amazing. Let me play this clip.

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<v Speaker 7>So for me, like the biggest lips test is if

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<v Speaker 7>I'm with a girl and I want to.

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<v Speaker 6>Spend all day in bed with her, I fancy it.

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<v Speaker 7>But if I don't want to spend a day in

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<v Speaker 7>bed with that, I probably don't fun I've had it.

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<v Speaker 6>But why I sapt the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I chat ship.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, look, I've got a workout in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>I've got spin class at nine am. I want you

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<v Speaker 7>to I don't feel comfortable girl staying in my bed.

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<v Speaker 7>And I told her that is that true? No, that's

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<v Speaker 7>all right. She was like seven am, My cong go back.

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<v Speaker 7>My friends were asleep, and I was like, oh right, fine, steak.

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<v Speaker 7>You slept from seven to ten ten am.

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<v Speaker 6>I wake up. I'm like, look, I've got a workout class.

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<v Speaker 6>You've got to go home.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got one near by home.

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<v Speaker 7>And I put in the message at you, but hey,

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<v Speaker 7>really sorry, but I'm fancy.

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<v Speaker 6>I was so fun of me. It was actually like

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<v Speaker 6>a legend you did it. I didn't know you did it.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, I got to kick her up, right,

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<v Speaker 6>I said something like that, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My god, okay, I two things there. He was going

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<v Speaker 3>to spin class. No, that I instantly I would just

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<v Speaker 3>I would actually roll off my chair and leave. And

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<v Speaker 3>number two, he called him, he called him to have legendary, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Is how I know now.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was also that he was telling that story

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<v Speaker 2>because he thought it was going to make my dick hard,

0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Like you thought I was going to be like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, just such a joker.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the as a bravado that men like feel

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<v Speaker 2>they have to do when they're around me, where they

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<v Speaker 2>have to prove themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>So being like, you know, like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I because it was funny, like what I said

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<v Speaker 2>to that when he was saying that that's his litmus

0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:14.480
<v Speaker 2>test is I have the exact opposite, where like when

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<v Speaker 2>a man stays at my house past ten in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>it gives me the itch. I don't like people who

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<v Speaker 2>outstay they're welcome. I think at the beginning, let's just

0:20:20.560 --> 0:20:22.440
<v Speaker 2>keep it sweet like you don't, and then that makes

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<v Speaker 2>me want to see you more, Whereas if you ever

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<v Speaker 2>say you're welcome, then I'm like, oh get away, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I like no, marry, I actually think I'm the I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like you the opposite to him, if I really like someone,

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<v Speaker 3>or I don't. I don't like sleeping side anyone anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, so exactly because it's so uncomfortable. I find

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<v Speaker 2>it really unsettling, Like it takes me a while to

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<v Speaker 2>sleep like calmly with a new person.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, at least you know his test.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, So if you do go on a second date

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<v Speaker 3>and he he says he's go to the fucking spin

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<v Speaker 3>class in the morning, you know it's game over.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh how dare he? Honestly, that as a constantus made

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<v Speaker 1>me so high? What gives him the right?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, when I was listening to that, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, throughout the whole thing, I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>he's not for me, but like he's actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>he's all right, and you know he's he's a good fun,

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<v Speaker 3>he's honest, he's open minded.

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<v Speaker 4>But then that last bit, man, he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a bit of a Yeah, I do agree a

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<v Speaker 2>bit too. He was a bit too sure of himself.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so after all of that, are you going to

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<v Speaker 3>go on another date with him?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you for me off with it. No, I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think I would, but I think now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, now I've listened back to that.

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<v Speaker 2>This is so funny about this concept of hearing myself

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<v Speaker 2>on a day. It's like I don't remember any of that,

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<v Speaker 2>and then now I've heard backfilm that is kind of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I got the dig a few times listening to that.

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<v Speaker 7>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's this is why this is actually a really

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<v Speaker 2>like destructive process because hearing it back, I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe that wasn't as like great as I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, but maybe I would.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's like one of those dates where

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<v Speaker 2>like if there hadn't been like a microphone and like

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<v Speaker 2>a set of microphones on us, maybe we would have

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<v Speaker 2>gotten with each other like there and then. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>like it's a different concept when you're being recorded. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think we have another where I'll like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>have sex like well we're being recorded.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, that would be too fair. I'm not listening

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<v Speaker 3>to that audio. I refuse to.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, last question.

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<v Speaker 3>Is he the type of guy that you would not

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<v Speaker 3>think of a long term relationship with He's just someone

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<v Speaker 3>you'd have fun with, or is he someone you'd give

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<v Speaker 3>a chance?

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's not someone I would have a long term

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with.

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<v Speaker 3>No, thank god, right, okay, No, no, not happening.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's not He's not.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I look forward to hearing about next week

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<v Speaker 4>to day.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you me too.

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<v Speaker 3>It can only go up from here.

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<v Speaker 1>Next time. On twenty eight dates later.

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<v Speaker 4>We raised awareness of jealousy.

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<v Speaker 1>Please jealousy I'm starting.

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<v Speaker 2>When were they cure it?

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<v Speaker 1>When they cure it?

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<v Speaker 6>What is the cure?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna run this marathon.

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<v Speaker 4>Why for jealousy?

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to come back jealousy somehow, Aldo.

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<v Speaker 3>Me, I'm a savage.

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