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Speaker 1: You've never been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Shell. Hey Chris, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing okay, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Doing? All right?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman Chelsea? We got to

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Speaker 1: kind of know everything. It's waiting by the phone, trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out maybe if you have been ghosted. So

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Speaker 1: tell us about any days that you've been on with Chelsea.

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Speaker 1: Kind of how you met and where things are now,

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Speaker 1: the whole backstory.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we.

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Speaker 3: Met on a dating app, pretty much like everybody does nowadays.

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Speaker 3: We hung out twice. Now, I mean, I thought we

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Speaker 3: had a pretty good time. We did talk about our

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Speaker 3: past relationships, which I know is not.

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Speaker 2: A good thing to do.

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Speaker 3: But I am a little worried maybe I said too

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Speaker 3: much and that might be why she's not calling me back.

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Speaker 1: I see. Okay, little self awareness on this one. You know,

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Speaker 1: this dude did some real reflection. It wasn't like I

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Speaker 1: didn't do anything. And then it turns out that he,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, tried to put her feet

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Speaker 1: to make her smell better.

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Speaker 2: He never met her before, like I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, so you're saying that maybe maybe some of the

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Speaker 1: conversation was maybe some of the topics were the things

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Speaker 1: that you're not supposed to talk about on dates. But

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Speaker 1: other than that, you felt like everything went really well.

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no feet in the mouth or anything like that.

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Speaker 4: Good.

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Speaker 1: Now, we like to try and keep them out unless,

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Speaker 1: you know, unless somebody wants that, and no judgment there.

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Speaker 1: But that didn't happen here. So let's play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back, Hey, Chris, Yes, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call Chelsea. You guys, you made on a dating app

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Speaker 1: a lot of that's pretty much everybody meets, and you

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Speaker 1: went on two dates. You felt like everything went really well.

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Speaker 1: But you've reached out since the second date and you

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Speaker 1: haven't heard back from her in any form, and you

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Speaker 1: want to know why you feel like you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 2: You have no idea why. Yeah, I mean, like I said,

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Speaker 2: it might.

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Speaker 3: Be because I brought up some past relationships stuff, but otherwise, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but that does people do talk about that,

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Speaker 1: of all the things. So let's call Chelsea now and

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Speaker 1: and try and figure this out.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Thanks man. Hello, Hi, this Chelsea Chelsea. Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can which have for just a second? Would you mind?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, that's that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. We appreciate that we're calling on behalf.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she seemed like optimistic, but we'll see. We're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy named Chris. I guess

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Speaker 1: you recently went a couple of days with Chris.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember him? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I do? Okay, Well, he called us and he had

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Speaker 1: nice things to say about you and said that he

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, yeah, we.

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Speaker 4: Met on a dating app and like everyone does, and

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Speaker 4: after talking for a little bit, he got my number

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Speaker 4: and asked me out, and more than a few times

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Speaker 4: he brought up how important trust is and how he's

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So when he picks me up for our second date,

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Speaker 4: he told me he had a surprise for me, and

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Speaker 4: the surprise ended up being a lie detector test. Stop organized,

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Speaker 4: stop it.

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Speaker 1: I wish he took examiner on the second date, like

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know a nice when they hook

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Speaker 2: you up? What? Wow, I don't even know where you

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Speaker 2: find that? Is there a story? Is there a group

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: What did he take you to the FBI? Like?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he took you to get a legitimate.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And he for his reasoning was he said that

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Speaker 4: some questions and they would be like have you ever

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Speaker 4: cheated on someone. Have you ever lied to a partner? Wow?

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Speaker 4: I know it's past and right, well, I'm told him

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Speaker 4: he wasn't going to take the test because it's stupid,

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Speaker 2: Don't blame you. I wouldn't hey, I would have known

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Speaker 4: He slept out and said like, see, I knew this

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Speaker 1: I believe this guy had a light. He's hector test

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't any you know, because I don't even know

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Speaker 1: who to call. You call the Captain Stee. I guess

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Speaker 1: Kevin Steve, our guy, you know, and maybe he's not

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Speaker 1: somebody who does this but Greco Yeah yeah, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll call that guy left on this day of the investigation.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Chris in, Chelsea. I'm starting to rupt you,

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Speaker 1: but he's on the phone. I failed to mention that

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Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. But Chris, what are we doing? You

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Speaker 1: said you talked about past relationships. Fine, a lie detector test?

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Speaker 5: Well, to be honest.

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Speaker 3: I think she's kind of exaggerating the situation a little bit.

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Speaker 2: It was more like a playful kind of day. It

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Speaker 3: Because when she brought up her exes, I felt like

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Speaker 2: So I really didn't think it was that big of

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Speaker 1: Let's swing by the station and we'll get to some

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Speaker 1: electrodes and let's let's see. Let's see if you're really

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Speaker 1: telling the truth. Dude, you're not entitled to that information. Like,

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Speaker 1: it's very clear that you don't trust people. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: But for whatever reason you don't trust people, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: But like, you don't just get to go hook everybody

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Speaker 3: Well, no person would mind taking a light detector.

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Speaker 2: Taking detector. I don't know you. I didn't come murder.

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Speaker 5: Chris when I because when I got home, you texted

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Speaker 5: me that you forgave me and I owe you a drink.

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Speaker 1: That's the point where things got strange for you. I see, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, yeah, no, no, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Unprompted. I forgive you like that.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this girl was right. But this reminds

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Speaker 2: And then she was right. I was absolutely out of

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Speaker 2: the bus. But I can do that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I did lie. I did lie to her,

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Speaker 1: but you're not entitled to know that. Like, we went

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Speaker 1: I have every right to do that, but she called

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Speaker 1: then when I wouldn't pick up, it's like you liar

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Speaker 1: and I was. But that's it's not the point. I

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Speaker 1: can lie to someone and I don't. I don't know

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Speaker 1: after two dates, how you believe that you're entitled to

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Speaker 1: that level of access to someone's psyche, Like you gotta

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Speaker 1: trust issues, bro, you're gonna have. I mean, that's attractive

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Speaker 2: That's not helping, Chris fred I don't know. I think

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Speaker 2: I'm asking the wrong person here. It sounds like you're

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Speaker 2: a liar.

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Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I mean, you're not going

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Speaker 1: to I have absolutely lied, but I'm honest about it.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not asking people. You're insane, Chris.

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Speaker 1: I'm we're not stopping by the bureau you hooked up

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Speaker 1: to get your deepest darket secrets. I'm not entitled to

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Speaker 1: that information the same way that girl's not entitled to

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Speaker 1: know where I am after a date.

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Speaker 2: So I'll take lie detectors on the show. I'm busy.

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Speaker 1: So actually, you know what I would too, because I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's anything that I would have to lie about, Like,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to the club or are you not?

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Speaker 2: I went to the club I did.

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Speaker 1: All right, Look, Chelsea, I'll ask the question, no lie detector,

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Speaker 1: but you want to give this guy another chance? I

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Speaker 1: know the answer, but if you you know whatever, surprise me.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Okay, all right, Well we're all liars, Chris

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Speaker 2: so sorry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently you guys are a bunch of liars and

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Speaker 2: That's fine. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: If i'm you, find another way to regain trust rather

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Speaker 1: than strapping everybody in.

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Speaker 2: It's called therapy. No, keep doing this, don't work. That

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Speaker 2: man a group on. It's expensive, I'm sure