1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: If you had a chance to go back and say 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: something to the one that got away, what would that be, 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: Because we're going to do that right now. 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: We're calling all of our got away. 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: So Brooke, go ahead. You could tell me whatever it 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: is that you've been dying to tell me all these years. 7 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: It's not you, jeff. 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: Brook's too scared. She's too scared to come out with. 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: But one of our listeners isn't She says, twelve years 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: ago things suddenly ended with the man of her dreams, 11 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: and not a day has gone by where she doesn't 12 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: wonder what happened to him? Wow, is there any chance 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: that he's been doing the same thing as she has? 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna find out in a brand new closure call 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: coming up right after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey in 16 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: the Morning, and we do this from time to time 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: whenever we get requests for it. It's a special segment 18 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: we have called the closure callit. 19 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 2: A minute since we've done one of these. 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, normally, it's like an awkward situation's happened between friends 21 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: or family members that left more questions than answers, right, 22 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: And we're willing to step in on your behalf to 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: try to track down that person from your past and 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: hopefully get you a little bit of closure that you 25 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: need in order to move on with your life and 26 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: just feel better about where you are. 27 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: I love this segment. I think it's so fascinating. 28 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: It is very interesting. It doesn't always go well, Creach, but. 29 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 2: Well, that's just kind of on par with the rest 30 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 2: of our show. 31 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just how closure works. And today our listener 32 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 1: Ashley is on the line. Apparently her situation involves an 33 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: old boyfriend from her past, girl who could possibly be 34 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: married to Brooke. Now hopefully that's not the case, but 35 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: let's find out from Ashley. Ashley, welcome to the show. Hey, 36 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of girlfriends. 37 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: Brooke, he had some girlfriends. Yeah, he's a cute guy. 38 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: I mean he better have had some girlfriends. I definitely 39 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 3: I do not want to have been as first. 40 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: That was Yeah, thank goodness. Actually I apologize on behalf 41 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: of the rest of my host here. 42 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: But I was just gonna say, if she is my 43 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 3: husband's ex, I was going to thank her for the 44 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 3: hard work to me. 45 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're making it strange, as thank you for being 46 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: on the show with us here. 47 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 4: You're welcome, So I was hoping you guys could actually 48 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 4: help me out because this situation has been bothering me 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 4: for a really really long time. And basically, like I've 50 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 4: been dating for probably like almost twenty years now. You know, 51 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 4: I wanted the whole marriage and a family, you know, 52 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 4: the way takes sense, and for whatever reason, I really 53 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 4: don't know why, but it's just never happened for me. 54 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's going to tell you why it 55 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: didn't happen for all. Is his name, Michael, let's Daniel. 56 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 4: His name is Danny. But like you know, for so 57 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 4: long that there was this one memorable relationship from about 58 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 4: twelve years ago, and it's like still on my mind, 59 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 4: and I just want to know what happened. 60 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: And like, okay, okay, slow down, you were talking so fast. 61 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 3: Do you feel like this Daniel, he's like the one 62 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: that got away? Is that what you're saying? 63 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: Kind of, But it was a really weird situation, like 64 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 4: we started dating and we became boyfriend and girlfriend, but 65 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 4: it was like a long distance relationship type of thing 66 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 4: where we don't like get to see each other like 67 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 4: once a month. Unfortunately. 68 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of every guy's dream. Sorry, I do 69 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: and it's not ideal for like a healthy, loving relationship, 70 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: but it does work sometimes. 71 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 4: But it was pretty serious stuff, Like it wasn't like 72 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 4: I was just going to his apartment, Like he was 73 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 4: taking on some like the most amazing idications like I've 74 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 4: ever been on, all around the world, like the Caribbean, Italy, French, Polynesia, 75 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: and like when we work together. He would tell me 76 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: gifts and like roses a note sing how much he 77 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 4: missed me, and blah blah. 78 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah blah. Real hit, give me 79 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: the presence I'm getting. 80 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm getting Okay, So clearly this was a stronger connection 81 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: than just like a long distance fling. He seems like 82 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: he really cared for you. 83 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought so, because he was investing a lot 84 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 4: of time, after energy, you know, finances like everything. 85 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 3: Okay, at that point, were you thinking, like, man, I 86 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: could move and be with him. 87 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, is this my evor person? 88 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 4: Because up until this point I felt like I was 89 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 4: living in a fantasy land, Like why would. 90 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: You break up? 91 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 4: Sounds like an awesome relationship. 92 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 5: Well, I hate tase the word love bombing, but it 93 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 5: sounds like a classic explosion. 94 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: Well, it definitely wasn't my choice. But like one day 95 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 4: he reached out to me and he was like, listen, 96 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: I have a friend. She's a girl who's going to 97 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 4: be in town for the week. She needs a place 98 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 4: to stay, and I'm going to let her crash at 99 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 4: my place. So I was like, what the hell? I 100 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 4: was obviously feeling insecure about that. 101 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, especially if it's a friend you had never 102 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 3: heard of before, right, Like, if it was. 103 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 2: A true friend, it would been someone that you already knew. 104 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like Sarah, I've always told you about time 105 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: they won college best Friend. Okay, but since you didn't 106 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: know this girl, you were feeling uneasy about some random 107 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: woman staying with your boyfriend for an entire week. 108 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 5: We ever can. 109 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 1: See that like a little bit, Alexis, you wouldn't care 110 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: like a boyfriend of yours did that though, right, that'd 111 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: be fine for you. 112 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 5: Well, if I get a vacation out of it, I mean, 113 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 5: next week he takes me to fij you, you can 114 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 5: work it out. 115 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: I will say. 116 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 3: It's interesting a guy that can afford all these like 117 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: luxury vacations and he can't afford to get a hotel 118 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 3: room for his friend. 119 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a good that's a red point right there. 120 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 4: Anyway, So one day I called him after work and 121 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 4: I was asking him what was going on, and he said, well, 122 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 4: she's going to be here for longer. 123 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 3: Than a week. 124 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 4: She's kind of down on her look, And of course 125 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 4: I was super confused, like my emotions are boiling over. 126 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: I'm furious. It's triggering me like right now, like I'm 127 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 4: still not about it. 128 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: We can tell. 129 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: So I didn't even date you and I'm already scared. 130 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, did this lead to a big fight? 131 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 4: Ended up like hanging up the phone? And then I 132 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 4: sent him like a three page text like explaining my feelings. 133 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 4: And he called him later and he's like, nothing's happening, 134 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 4: and I'm like, yeah, but this isn't making me feel good, 135 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 4: Like what about my feeling? 136 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: Oh wow, so all of it is cousin is huge, right. 137 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: So what happened after your three page long text message? 138 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 4: Well, it obviously didn't go well and he ended up 139 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 4: blocking me. Well yeah, so I don't know. I thought 140 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: like hoping he would come down, but I never saw 141 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: or I never heard from him like ever again, ever again? 142 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: Do you have any idea like are you able to 143 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: follow his social media or anything like that, and like 144 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: figure out what happened. 145 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 4: I can't find him, Like, I think he's got me 146 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 4: blocked on everything that felt me. I looked and I've searched, 147 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 4: and I just there's nothing. 148 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: Did your three. 149 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 5: Page texts get kind of nasty to him? Used to 150 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 5: get blocked? 151 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,119 Speaker 4: I mean, like I was mad, I was super herd. 152 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 3: I mean he sounds kind of emotionally immature too, Like, 153 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 3: no matter how mad you are, you don't block your 154 00:06:58,440 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 3: significant other. 155 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, so actulely, your email said that you wanted us 156 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: to try and track this guy Danny down and send 157 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: him a few questions so that you could figure out 158 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: what's happened in the last twelve years because you haven't 159 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: been able to talk to him at all. 160 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I want to know, like what happened back then, 161 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 4: like why did he stop talking to me? 162 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 3: Okay, But I also think we might need to prepare 163 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 3: for the possibility that he might not even remember this 164 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: at all. 165 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, If he doesn't remember, that would have 166 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: hurt at least that would be closure, Brooke. I would 167 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: be like, who are you even talking about? How well 168 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: you've already worked on the four questions with our producer 169 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: that you wanted to send to him and Daniel your 170 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: ex did respond, so just not applicable, not applicable? Yeah, no, 171 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: I remember he gave real answers to each and every 172 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: one of your questions. Are you ready to hear them? Ashley? 173 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 4: I am, oh, okay. 174 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: Well you're gonna have to wait because first we need 175 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: to play a song, and then we'll come back and 176 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: we will continue, hopefully give you the close sure that 177 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: you need with your closure call coming on right after this. 178 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: If you just joining us, we're trying to answer a 179 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: question that's been bugging our listener, Ashley for the past 180 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: decade plus. She's wondering, like many of us have, whatever 181 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: happened to my hunky, rich doctor ex boyfriend who used 182 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: to take me on vacations all over the world. 183 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was also long distance. I think that's really 184 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: important to know, yes, because. 185 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: They did have kind of a weird falling out where 186 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: he had a female friend stay with him at his place. Meanwhile, Ashley, 187 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: who was long distance, felt insecure about a strange, beautiful 188 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: woman sleeping over multiple nights. 189 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 3: She doesn't even know if the woman ever left became 190 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 3: her she could be there right. 191 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: Now that according to him, they were just friends. We 192 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: don't know what happened, but it starts. The insecurity came 193 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: out in a scathing, three page long text me then 194 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: Ashley sent, which went completely unanswered and has stayed unanswered 195 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 1: for the past twelve years. And Ashley, I know this 196 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: is all sounding very fresh for you. Still just hearing 197 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: the emotion come out in your voice in the first part. 198 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: I mean, clearly this guy meant a lot to you. 199 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, he did. I'm I was serious. 200 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 5: I was so hurt. 201 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 4: I mean, like I'm still hurt, but like I really 202 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: want answers. 203 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's a lot. But it has been twelve 204 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: years and people can change a huge amount in that time. 205 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,079 Speaker 1: Just look at Brooke in her outfits. 206 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 2: I guess twelve years ago I was wearing skinny jeans. 207 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: Oh, but the beanie and glasses have always stayed true. 208 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 3: True. 209 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: Something's don't change. But let's find out. Because you know 210 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: how this works. You worked with our producer to come 211 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 1: up with four questions that you wanted Daniel to answer, 212 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: signed Jeff, Daniel has responded to each one of them. 213 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: Let's hopefully get you some closure and start with the 214 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: first question here. So question one, you said, Hey, Daniel, 215 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry I'm going through the radio to do this, 216 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: but you blocked my number years ago and didn't respond 217 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: to my text, and I never knew why. Moved on 218 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: by now and are hopefully happy with your life. I 219 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: just want to let you know I still have fond 220 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: memories of our time together. 221 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 2: But how long is this question? 222 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 3: Yes? 223 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: I know it's long, but you know these are the emotions. 224 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 4: Make sure he was open, you know what I mean 225 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 4: your page text? 226 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: Remember, yeah, this is short for her style. Okay, so 227 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: she says, hopefully you did too. I'm just sad how 228 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: it ended. 229 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 2: So there is no question there yet. Interesting what did 230 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: he say? 231 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: So he responded to that with wow, I did not 232 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: expect this. That was so long ago, and absolutely it 233 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: was a great time in both of our lives. What 234 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: I think it's a good thing. You're saying I had 235 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: fun too. 236 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm surprised that he said that they were 237 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 4: great time with the how things ended in everything? Well, okay, 238 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 4: is there is there more? 239 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't finished. I'll address that part. But it says, 240 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: honestly that text message, I don't remember what was in it. 241 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: But it was really long. 242 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, three page text when you were mad. 243 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: And I just felt like I didn't know how to 244 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 1: make things right and it was easier to just not 245 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: deal with it. I assumed that you had moved on 246 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: with your life too and forgot all about me. I'd 247 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 1: love to get an update on you. 248 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 4: Way Why no way? Oh my god? 249 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: Are you shocked to how casual his response is. 250 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't know if I'm happy. I'm need 251 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 4: to like it in a smile on my face right 252 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 4: now much. I think I need the rest of the 253 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 4: answers though, before I get too excited about this though. 254 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 3: Okay, but were the next three just praising him again 255 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 3: and we miss him? 256 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: Let's find out. Let's go to the second question, which 257 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: was so okay. So currently, I'm thirty eight and single, 258 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: no kids, no marriages, and when I look back on 259 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: my dating life, I think about that time that we had. 260 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 1: You were always one of the kindest, most generous people 261 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: I'd ever met, and I just wish that I had 262 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: the courage back then to fight harder for you. Oh 263 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: it's my biggest regret. 264 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: Wow, I had no question, She's just. 265 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: Putting it out there. 266 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 4: Well, I felt like, if this was, you know, my 267 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 4: only chance to get answers, I should like really be honest. 268 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: Okay, let's see what Daniel wrote back. He wrote, that 269 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. 270 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: Oh please, don't beat yourself up about this. Life just 271 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: kind of happens. I also wish I had the courage 272 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: to do something more back then, but I'm not very 273 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: good with confrontation. Oh, obviously he keeps going. Funny enough, 274 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: I was married but it didn't last, and now I'm 275 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 1: actually single too. 276 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 4: Way, so wait, wait, wait was he married to the 277 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 4: girl that was there? 278 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: That is not made clear. 279 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,599 Speaker 2: He didn't make that a question. Yeah, thank you, Alexis. 280 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 4: I thought that would sound like way too jealous to 281 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 4: go and say that. 282 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Actually, your whole story was throwing up 283 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 3: cheater red flats left and right. 284 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anything. But now that we're 285 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 2: in it. 286 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: Well, the bottom line is he was married but it 287 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 1: didn't work out, so he's single now. Okay, that's the 288 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: part that I think we should be focusing on. 289 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 4: I mean, it makes me feel a little bit weird 290 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 4: if like he did choose her over me, Like that 291 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 4: was kind of like rude and that would like hurt me. 292 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: But he dumped her too, she dumped him. Yeah, either way, dude. 293 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: What's the third question? Jeffrey, give us something good here? 294 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 4: Brook. 295 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: I like that you're assuming that it's a question which 296 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: we haven't gotten in the first two. But there's hope here. 297 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: Remember we send all of these prompts all at once, 298 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: so Ashley didn't hear any of these responses. First. 299 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 3: What we've learned so far is she got blocked because 300 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 3: he didn't want to deal with it. 301 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 5: Eddie's single if she wants him bad basically, So. 302 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Let's see how this goes. Question number three, I miss 303 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: you so again. I don't know if you're married, divorced, 304 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: or whatever the case is, but I'm being vulnerable here 305 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: and saying if you're not in a relationship, I'd be 306 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: lying if I didn't admit there's still a spark in 307 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: my heart for you. There's a question next. What she says, 308 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: would you even consider the idea of us meeting up 309 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: again some time? 310 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 5: Yay? 311 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: Let's go, Ashley. You put it out there. 312 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 5: I'm embarrassed now. 313 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: That's what you're supposed to do. Twelve years you've been 314 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 3: thinking about this twelve years. You knew exactly what you 315 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 3: wanted to say. 316 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: You were brave enough to at least throw it out there. 317 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: So what did Daniel respond with? 318 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,359 Speaker 2: He said, Oh, don't disappoint her, Jeff. 319 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: I would love to. He keeps going, although I do 320 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: have to wait a few months because I'm currently wearing 321 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: an ankle monitor and legally cannot leave my house. 322 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 2: Hey, girl, he got that money somehow. 323 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: He keeps going. I won't get into it now, but 324 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: if you google her you might see it. 325 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 2: Oh. 326 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: Some publications are calling me Doctor Noddy for things I 327 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: shouldn't have done, but I want you to know most 328 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: of those instances are untrue. Wait, and now that my 329 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: wife has left me, it would feel really good to 330 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: have someone in my corner. Could you come over, preferably 331 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: in the next two weeks before my house forecloses. Oh 332 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: my god, I mean, hey, good news and bad news. Oh, 333 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: that's bad. That's bad. 334 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 4: I don't want to date a criminals. It sounds like 335 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 4: she just wants me because he's bored. 336 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: And alleged alleged criminal. Whatever Doctor Noddy happens and still single. 337 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 4: Just sounds really messy. I mean, I'm definitely gonna google 338 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 4: and look because I'm curious. 339 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: Now, okay, you're searching doctor Noddy would get a lot 340 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: of results. 341 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: Actually, I don't think you're going to find tax evasion. 342 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: When you get a nickname like. 343 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: That, you gotta do the Google shurt yourself. 344 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 4: Though. 345 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: We're running out of time, but we still have one 346 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: more question. You shared a fond memory with him, You said, 347 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: I just wanted to tell you I'll never forget that summer. 348 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: We went to the Caribbean and we stayed at the 349 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: Ritz Carlton. It was the most luxurious and romantic moment 350 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: of my life. I still look back at the photos sometimes. 351 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: And who knows dot dot dot. You never know what 352 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: the future might hold. A license, Does he still have money? 353 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 1: We don't know that. 354 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 2: I would leave the country, you guys. 355 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: He can't leave the house until he gets more closed 356 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 3: on Soddy's gonna be forced to leave. 357 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: He could be broken. Daniel clears things up. He says, well, actually, 358 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: I do know I'm not allowed to travel outside of 359 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: the US for the next decade decade pending litigation. And 360 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: I remember how much I spent on that trip. Depending 361 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: on how you're doing, I would love to get reimbursed 362 00:16:54,920 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 1: for your half legal bills are astronomicals. And then he 363 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: did a wide eyes emoji block him, block him away, 364 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: No way, no way on half of the reimbursement. Maybe 365 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: just a quarter would be enough for him. 366 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 4: So I need to be completely honest, no way on him, 367 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 4: Like I mean, I'm really glad that he responded, because 368 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 4: now I can like move on with my life and 369 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 4: put this behind me. It's like, no, what the hell 370 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 4: like hotness express, I don't want to deal with this. 371 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,959 Speaker 1: No, but think on the bright side, you could make 372 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: a ton of money with a tell all book called 373 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: I Dated Doctor Noddy, The True Story of what Really happened. 374 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:37,719 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'd buy it. 375 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: I'm customer number one, So you come out with that 376 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: and we'll be here for you. That was your closure call. 377 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: It's brooken, Jeffrey in the morning. 378 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 2: It's brooken Jeffrey in the morning. 379 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: Man, it felt like we were this close to a 380 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: true happily ever after love story with this. Think about it. 381 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 1: We do four questions. If we had just stopped after 382 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,479 Speaker 1: question number two, they could have been together. 383 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 2: I don't know that would have been a good thing 384 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: for her. 385 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: Jeff Oh yeah, South After number two, I don't know. 386 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 1: It could have been just like the Notebook where Rachel 387 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 1: McAdams comes back and Ryan gosling's working on the house 388 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: wearing his ankle monitor asking her to pay the rest 389 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: of the money that he owes. 390 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 3: We were this close, and it's sad he's working on 391 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 3: the house since he's gonna lose it. 392 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's still sweet that the thought has gone into me, 393 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: you know, making all the repairs. 394 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 3: I think it's a good lesson on how sometimes our 395 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 3: memories don't serve us right on who the people really 396 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 3: were that we were with ya. 397 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: Or the people change a lot in a short amount 398 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: of time. 399 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 2: That's possible to decade was long time. 400 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it lavished that doctors, but totally. 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