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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk To.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning into season four? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we talked back with a new episode dedicated to you

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Speaker 1: dreamers and chasers. This is your co host, AJ Holiday.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Tam?

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, I love y'all. I love you to AJ.

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Speaker 2: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Rainie? As fuck? That's about it.

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Speaker 3: I did do a little bit of hanging out, depending

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Speaker 3: on who fucking listening. Depending on who listening, y'all, I

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Speaker 3: do much this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just nasty cool Rainie. Where El was

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Speaker 1: a m I can't say the same. Hey hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: hey hey.

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Speaker 4: I went to Tulum, Mexico over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: How was that. Did you take a picture in the cave?

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Speaker 1: I didn't take a picture in it.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't get in the cave because you had to

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Speaker 2: swim to that, and I was just scared, so I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't swim over there.

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Speaker 4: But I did take good picture.

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Speaker 1: I ain't swimming over there. Man, you whack man. You

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Speaker 1: were supposed to take a picture in there, an aerial picture.

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Speaker 2: I didn't see nobody looked like me swimming over there,

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Speaker 2: so I just was like, yeah, I'm gonna stay with

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Speaker 2: the people who.

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Speaker 1: Look like me. You ain't no real mermaid, man, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I never I never said I was the mermaid. I

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Speaker 2: stay in the water where I can stand up in it.

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Speaker 1: Shame.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was beautiful. The weather was nice. Tulum

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Speaker 2: is a nice place to go. It's different than Cancun,

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Speaker 2: and it's not like such a party place. It's like

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Speaker 2: almost even more romantic, honestly, which I had a little

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Speaker 2: something dick at the beach. Yeah, I did wish that,

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Speaker 2: but it was. It was a good time and I

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Speaker 2: got to relax, so that was cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I cannot wait to get some beach and sun.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go someplace. I'm definitely taking a solo trip

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Speaker 3: this year, and I'm gonna stay gone for at least

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Speaker 3: a month. That's like a bucket list for this year.

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Speaker 3: So it won't be Mexico, though.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta go somewhere. Yeah, You're gonna have

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Speaker 2: to go somewhere in Asia where your money go far

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Speaker 2: for a month.

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Speaker 3: Hell yeah, because you know like I some of the

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Speaker 3: condos and stuff like that. You paying like five and

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Speaker 3: six hundred dollars for the.

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Speaker 4: Whole month, and it'd be a nice place.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like some luxury shit. Yeah, yeah, I'm with that.

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Speaker 2: That sound nice, yes, Bali Thailand.

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Speaker 3: The most expensive shit be the flight. You know, food

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Speaker 3: is cheap. You're getting fresh seafood at the ocean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with it. Yeah, honey, you said learn how

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Speaker 1: to swim. Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 2: Like, if we were in a situation where my life

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Speaker 2: depended on me swimming, I can make it right. I

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Speaker 2: could swim, but I just say't jumping out there. Bro,

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Speaker 2: I'm not jumping out there if my life don't depend

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Speaker 2: on it.

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Speaker 1: But how deep was the water going over to the cave.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: There wasn't nobody standing up in it. They was all swimming.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, yeah, that's not for me.

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Speaker 2: I remember last year I was on the boat and

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Speaker 2: it was me uh Renny Routrie was on the boat,

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Speaker 2: this other mixed girl named Brittany, and then other mixed

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Speaker 2: girls Sanna and and then I was on the boat

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Speaker 2: and these bitches is jumping in the lake at night,

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Speaker 2: backstroking and swim with Lake Murray.

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Speaker 1: Oh hell, I no, they tripping and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: y'all different. Different. They was good at white floods.

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Speaker 2: And that's what I was thinking, like, because all these

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Speaker 2: bitches is this mixed race, and that's that white blood

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Speaker 2: jumping out in them because y'all y'all jumping in this

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Speaker 2: darkass water at night, talking about look at the.

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Speaker 3: Stars, girl, fuck you. Lake and ocean water is different.

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Speaker 3: The current inside of lake, that shit is different. Remember

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Speaker 3: you had your birthday party on Lake Norman. I hopped

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Speaker 3: off that fucking boat because I had just came from

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Speaker 3: Anguela like the week before, swimming in the ocean way

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Speaker 3: far out and level thirty and the ocean and shit,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking I could just hop into Girl. That current

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Speaker 3: was trying to pull me underneath the boat and I

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Speaker 3: was drinking and nigga had to pull me out the water. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like that's I'm not doing that, especially at night, y'all dripping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, the ancestor has got them.

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Speaker 3: Most of them laces built on top of black communities,

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Speaker 3: so they better be glad they have or something. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't with it.

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Speaker 2: I was very impressed with that shit because they was

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Speaker 2: doing backflips off the side of the boat into the

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Speaker 2: lake in the darkness.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nah, n I beat you got in.

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Speaker 2: Let's getting a stupid internet news.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I saw you know this guy Benny the Butcher.

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Speaker 3: He's a rapper from Buffalo, New York, and he was

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Speaker 3: recently on the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: I caught him on another podcast actually, well a podcast,

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Speaker 1: Well Breakfast Club is considered a podcast as well. But

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Speaker 1: and so it's conversation.

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Speaker 3: It started off cool, but then it just got really

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Speaker 3: weird near the end, and I just want to I

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Speaker 3: just feel like, why why people like fucking with black women?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 3: So Bennett the Butcher the caption said that black men

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Speaker 3: have a responsibility to black women.

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Speaker 1: That sounds good, right black men?

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Speaker 3: Yeah at that part, please right, but oh they's successful

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Speaker 3: black men. But when you get it, once you hit

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Speaker 3: play and get into the conversation, you realize a lot

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Speaker 3: of these niggas is blonde. Okay, because he starts, uh,

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Speaker 3: he's starts off cool, you know, saying black men, successful

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Speaker 3: black men have a responsibility to black women. But then

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Speaker 3: it goes into his homeboy marrying a white guy a

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Speaker 3: woman from marrying a white girl and he wants her

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Speaker 3: to marry the white He wants him to marry the

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Speaker 3: white girl so he can marry into some money. So

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Speaker 3: I'm assuming your homeboy don't have your money, right, And

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Speaker 3: he was like, you know, successful men we start, they

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Speaker 3: those guys want certain things, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So now they don't got to settle for just anybody.

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Speaker 3: They could pick who they want. Then that's where the

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Speaker 3: conversation goes, and he further says, how you know his

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Speaker 3: wife was with him slanging dope, right, that's why she's

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Speaker 3: still by his side today. So it's still like that thing,

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Speaker 3: like black women have to struggle first, risk their lives

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Speaker 3: and their soul to marry a black man.

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Speaker 1: I just don't get it. Do y'all not like us?

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Speaker 4: Like do y'all just not like us?

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Speaker 1: Who like us?

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Speaker 4: Raise your hand because that's who I want, right.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is is that you know a majority

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Speaker 1: of black men are married to black women. That is

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Speaker 1: the fact, right, right? But are you happily married? Right?

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Speaker 3: Because there's a lot of women in unhappy marriages, and

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Speaker 3: it could be because.

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Speaker 1: Men are marrying some women that they don't tolerate. Me.

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Speaker 1: If you thought you could get something different, go do that.

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Speaker 1: Let the fuck alone. I just think people don't like

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Speaker 1: each other like that, no more like we don't.

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Speaker 3: I always say this, like being in love is a

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Speaker 3: state of mind. So if you with somebody, y'all gotta

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Speaker 3: do things every single day to continuously fall in love

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Speaker 3: with each other.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you're gonna be falling out of love. But damn,

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Speaker 1: do you at least like me, right, because don't do

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Speaker 1: us no favor? Favor sir? Going on about your business.

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Speaker 3: So you married your wife, you probably be cheating on

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Speaker 3: her because you probably don't respect her for real.

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Speaker 1: You just feel obligated to her because I just I

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Speaker 1: be side.

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Speaker 2: I am like, even though it's none of my business,

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Speaker 2: you know, be with who you want I be side.

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Speaker 2: I am like, what like a man when he's coming up,

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Speaker 2: he have a black woman, and then when he gets successful,

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Speaker 2: he have like some something outside of black that's tall,

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Speaker 2: or it's like some type of model or something someone

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Speaker 2: that they probably couldn't get before the success. And it's

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Speaker 2: like m hm, you know that is almost because it's like, damn,

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Speaker 2: are we not good enough for you in success?

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Speaker 4: Are we just good enough?

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Speaker 1: If you don't have it during struggle time. Kevin Hart

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Speaker 1: is a perfect example of that. That's what I was

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Speaker 1: thinking about.

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Speaker 3: And for some reason they expect Tory Hart right to

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Speaker 3: have this allegiance to him where he didn't have one

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Speaker 3: to her, because now she's on the Cat Williams store

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Speaker 3: and people talking hell of shit like she's supposed to

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Speaker 3: like still be his bottom bitch. Ah Wow, you were

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Speaker 3: cheating on him on her. You were cheating on her

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Speaker 3: with the woman that you ended up marrying. Ultimately you

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Speaker 3: married the sidebitch. Because I remember one time on social

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Speaker 3: media his current wife, I forgot her name. She was

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Speaker 3: posting like, you know, happy anniversaries such and such, We've

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Speaker 3: oh that overlaps my marriage.

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Speaker 1: That's all one y'all been together. Interesting. Yeah, So don't

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Speaker 1: do me no favors going on about your fucking business.

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Speaker 3: I II find somebody that genuinely loves me, like, cause

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Speaker 3: that comes with a lot of resentment in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: You end up you just marrying somebody because you feel

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Speaker 1: Bill's babies and see.

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Speaker 2: Like a part of me is like with Kevin Hrt situation,

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Speaker 2: like maybe he just this woman came along and they

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Speaker 2: were really meant to be together and there's just like

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Speaker 2: this real beautiful love that they had, right, And that's

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Speaker 2: what I would hope for everybody. But then there is

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Speaker 2: that part of me that is side eyes, like like

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Speaker 2: you could not have that with this beautiful black woman Tory, Like.

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Speaker 4: You couldn't have that with her.

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Speaker 1: No, they got it, they got it. Did you have

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Speaker 1: Williams saying they all got the same wife with that

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Speaker 1: same face they all get I don't want to. I

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Speaker 1: hate to. Yeah, it is what it is, man.

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Speaker 2: I just don't want to end up like Taraji p

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Speaker 2: on acrimony on one of these niggas.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: Just yeah, whole like because people a people watch that

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Speaker 2: movie and they say tour I mean, Taraji was the

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Speaker 2: wrong one.

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Speaker 4: But do you understand how she got that way?

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Speaker 3: Like she wasn't wrong, She wasn't wrong. It's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: two things could be true.

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Speaker 1: She definitely wasn't wrong in that movie because he the nigga,

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Speaker 1: put a lean on her mama house and they lost it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she gave everything to him. That's what drove her nuts.

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Speaker 3: She was already crazy now because remember she knocked the

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Speaker 3: trailer down the fucking hill, Like, so she was already crazy.

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Speaker 1: He chose to still be wr.

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Speaker 3: Got married all that shit, but she did a lot.

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Speaker 3: She's stuck in for a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he lost the house and I think

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Speaker 2: that took her over the top.

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Speaker 1: And then she left, like how long are you supposed

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Speaker 1: Send it to us. I need to hear that shit.

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Speaker 2: I don't blame her for being excited because they look

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Speaker 3: Four period and move on, girls, girl shit, Okay, that's

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Speaker 2: She just gotta figure out a better way to communicate

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Speaker 3: You said, she's a fucking virgo. Let me tell y'all

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Speaker 3: I bet y'all she a virgo. I go look her

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Speaker 3: To defend their decisions and shit, because they never feel

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Speaker 3: And look, Lisa is a goddamn virgo too, not even

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Speaker 3: so ain't nobody exempt from this dumb bitch? Isn't cut

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Speaker 3: you know? And I hope Rick Ross marries you me too.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't remember he was engaged with Lyra before Liara Galore,

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Speaker 3: You can't be about the check so bad that you

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Speaker 1: An old lady. Y'all the same age, nigga. Imagine that, Yea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like my I've dated some men that wasn't

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Speaker 4: I didn't you know, I never even considered that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I get what you're saying when you

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Speaker 2: It was gonna beautiful to me, you know, because it

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Speaker 1: This is my Of course, you're not gonna care.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about though world and how the world treat

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Speaker 1: Just be being.

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Speaker 3: Realistic, that's all. I'm not trying to give my kids

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Speaker 3: work to her. To herself, she definitely was a pretty girl.

437
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: You so mean.

438
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 3: I'm not mean, like this is just are you a

439
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 3: girl's girl, Are you a girl's girl? I'm definitely a

440
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: girl's girl. But I know when somebody is not cute.

441
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 3: Let's not play like we don't know that, okay, and

442
00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 3: you may not say it on this fucking live, okay,

443
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: but we're gonna talk about your ass and we hang up,

444
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:07,239
Speaker 3: all right.

445
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 2: So on Tuesday, January ninth, Zanique and Izzy uploaded the

446
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 2: question to Answer video to their YouTube channel, The Hunter Family.

447
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 2: About eight minutes into the videos, Danik post a challenging

448
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 2: question to her boyfriend, would we still be together if

449
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 2: we didn't have our three year old daughter?

450
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 1: And this nigga.

451
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: Basically says, nah, he ain't with the bullshit, and he

452
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 2: like and he would not be with her if it

453
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 2: wasn't for the kid on this live. And I'm just

454
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 2: I'm impressed with how she remained calm, and I admire

455
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 2: that because as nice as I like to be, I

456
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 2: think that shit would have turned into an episode of Cops,

457
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,719
Speaker 2: because that's how he's gonna have it.

458
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: Was me, Yeah, because how you gonna play with me

459
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 1: like that on this shit?

460
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: Well, we got all these people listening, and you're gonna

461
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 2: tell me to my face that you would not be

462
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: with me, it would make me like, maybe they broke up,

463
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 2: you know, maybe they broke up after that lie, because

464
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 2: I would definitely be like they.

465
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 3: Didn't though, because they even posted a follow up video

466
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 3: after that, and he basically was saying, like, I'm here

467
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 3: because I want to be here. I got three other kids,

468
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying like this morning, like I'm

469
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 3: here because I want to be here. I think the

470
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 3: questions actually came from the audience. So somebody on the

471
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 3: live asked, you know, what they be together if it

472
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 3: wasn't for the three year old, and he said no,

473
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 3: explaining that he believes and Nick had envisioned raising their

474
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 3: daughter in a two parent household, which led her to

475
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 3: tolerate a lot of issues in their relationship.

476
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 1: So you recognize that she is trying to keep her family.

477
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: Together, and I guess he feels like he's also doing

478
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 3: the same thing by tolerating her attitude, because he was like,

479
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: you always got an attitude. I wouldn't let no bitch

480
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 3: nobody in general talk to me. You know, act the

481
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 3: way you be acting, is what he was saying to her.

482
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: But we talk about this a lot, how men like

483
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: women be having grievances with men, right, and we voice

484
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 3: them a lot. We tell them every single day where

485
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 3: we don't like till they do course correction. But men

486
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: oftentimes keep things in they don't tell the women. So

487
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 3: women really be thinking they be above reproach out this bitch,

488
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 3: you know, like they were perfect in a relationship.

489
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: It's only because a nigga never told you.

490
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 3: He probably just went to the club and had Krishawn

491
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 3: Rock sitting on his dick, that's fine, instead of telling you.

492
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 2: That's how they handle it. That's how they handle their issues.

493
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: Often.

494
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 2: I won't say all of them because I don't want

495
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: to just you know, condemn all.

496
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: Men, but.

497
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,959
Speaker 2: They will have like another person to alleviate the stress

498
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: that they have at home instead of just like you know,

499
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,880
Speaker 2: battling the issues upfront with your girl.

500
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, like tell her what's up so she can fix

501
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: the problems. You know what I'm saying. And women have

502
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: accountability issues, but they do to you.

503
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 2: I like, in hindsight of my last relationship, I see

504
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: all these yeah, a hundred years ago. Literally, I can

505
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: see how all the errors, all the errors of my

506
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 2: ways that he never like, even things that he never

507
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: brought to my attention.

508
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: I can look back and be like, that.

509
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 2: Was not okay, that was not it how you behaved

510
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: on that, you know. And I remember him not even

511
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: saying nothing. So I'm thinking, like, damn, he probably felt

512
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: away about that and just didn't or he went in

513
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 2: fuck somebody else effort. You know, who knows what he did,

514
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: but he didn't. He didn't come to me with it,

515
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 2: and he shouldn't. I and I did believe in a

516
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: lot of ways that I was a stellar girlfriend, and

517
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 2: oftentimes I wasn't, you know, so I really couldn't identify

518
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 2: with that.

519
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: You know.

520
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of us, a lot of

521
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 3: us can if we actually sit back and think about

522
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 3: our relationships. Rather, you were at fault majority of the

523
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 3: time when the man was at fault, you learned something

524
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 3: about yourself through that relationship. So what did you learn

525
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 3: about yourself, negative or positive?

526
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: What did you learn about yourself and your last relationship?

527
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 3: I think somebody asked me that recently, and I'm still

528
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 3: thinking about it. I'm still because it was so tumultuous.

529
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 3: I just don't know what was my Like. I know,

530
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 3: I always learned like how I don't want to be

531
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 3: treated right? There are things okay, So the tip fit

532
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: tat thing I learned, Like maybe I shouldn't be that way,

533
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 3: I should just walk away, you know what I'm saying.

534
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 3: But I just I feel like that is actually giving

535
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 3: grace if I'm tit tatting, You know what I'm saying,

536
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 3: because if you do something to me right, I won't

537
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 3: necessarily leave because I realize that we are just humans

538
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 3: and people gonna make mistakes, right, and I want to

539
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 3: be able to make a mistake too, and you not

540
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 3: harassed me about it.

541
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: That might be a fucked up way of thinking, but why.

542
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: Not, Like but if you intentionally make this mistake, because

543
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 2: they've made the mistakes.

544
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: It's not really intentional. It's like I wanted to do

545
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: this too, Like why you get to do it? Why

546
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: do you get to do it?

547
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 3: And you think I don't want to, But I'm practicing

548
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 3: discipline in the relationship, whereas you have none.

549
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: So the minute I do some shit, it's like the

550
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: world is about to end. That is fucked up.

551
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 3: But I mean men and men and women and women,

552
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: I guess, but I'm a grown ass man, So.

553
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: I think the greatest thing I learned, I won't say

554
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: it wasn't a relation. It was a situationship honestly, because

555
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: that was never my man. I was never walking around

556
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: saying my man, my man, my man, you know.

557
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: But I learned that.

558
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: I my boundaries have to be stronger than my empathy

559
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 2: with people like I really let that's one thing I

560
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: really learned, Like I have to.

561
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 4: I would always well.

562
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: Well, this happened to him, and that happened to him,

563
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 2: so that's right, and shit on me, you know, right,

564
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: And I have to realize that That's one thing. I

565
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: definitely learned that I have to be steadfast in my

566
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 2: boundaries for myself and I can't put my empathy for

567
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: other people's situation above the boundaries in my own life,

568
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 2: you know at the So that was.

569
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 4: One great lesson.

570
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: And then another lesson is that I can love someone selflessly.

571
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: You know.

572
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: I think in my other relationships, I definitely was more

573
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 2: selfish and like me, me, me, me, me, You're lucky

574
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: to be with me, do you see me, nigga? Like,

575
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm funny, I'm beautiful, I'm sucking yo, dick good, I'm

576
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: cooking for you, like, and I was just a very

577
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: me MEI me bitch right, And in that last situationship,

578
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,479
Speaker 2: I was able to be like very selfless to a

579
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 2: flaw almost, you know, to a fault.

580
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: Now that you're saying that, I feel like in relationships,

581
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 3: I probably am not selfish enough because once somebody's telling

582
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,719
Speaker 3: me they want to do this, they want to do that,

583
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 3: I'm putting all my energy towards whatever it is that

584
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 3: they want to do, and I put myself on a

585
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: back burner.

586
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: So that might be like I am learning to be

587
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: a little bit more selfish.

588
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 3: And that's just even in friendship relationships, all relationships, I

589
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 3: feel like I'd be doing too fucking much and I

590
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 3: don't get nothing in return a lot of times.

591
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:27,479
Speaker 1: With them.

592
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 3: In a relationship with a man, like if you help

593
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: them build a business stuff like that, of course you're

594
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 3: gonna get financial return, But are you feeling fulfilled doing

595
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 3: the things that you want to do? Because this at

596
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 3: the beginning of this podcast, I was in a whole

597
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 3: relationship and when we started this thing, it created a

598
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 3: problem in a relationship too because I was doing something

599
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 3: outside of him.

600
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So discipline.

601
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 3: Discipline is one of the other things I learned that

602
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: niggas hell of discipline, So I need to be more disciplined.

603
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 3: This is fucking struggle because I have been doing what

604
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 3: the fuck I want for many years and I can't

605
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 3: do that. I can't move that way anymore. So that's

606
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: one of the things I learned.

607
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 2: It's all about balance, you know, not being too selfish,

608
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: not being too selfless, finding that happy medium where you

609
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 2: don't feel like your boundaries are being railroaded and you're

610
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: not just caring only about yourself and a relationship.

611
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: Right, So, which is the slippery slope? Baby?

612
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: That's your favorite shit to say. But y'all, we can

613
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: come back after break. We want to get into our

614
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 3: main topic. And it's kind of stemming from the shit

615
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 3: with this Christina Mackie Rick Ross's girlfriend because online they're

616
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 3: calling her to pick me. And then there's another like

617
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 3: trend that had been popular on TikTok and Instagram.

618
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: This girls girls trend. Are you a girl's girl? Yeah?

619
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: Are you a girl's girl? Let's talk about it when

620
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: we come back, y'all.

621
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 3: All right, y'all were back, and we want to know

622
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 3: are you a girl's girl?

623
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: Damn? Do you think you're a girl's girl.

624
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 4: I'm absolutely a girl's girl.

625
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 3: I think I am too, okay, based on the characteristics

626
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 3: of what a girl's girl is.

627
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: But this is like a whole new trending thing online y'all.

628
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: And anytime somebody just does anything like to disagree with

629
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: a woman, people in the comments like, oh, she is

630
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 3: not a girl's girl. Now, that's one thing I don't

631
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: agree with, Like everybody ain't gonna like everybody, right, you

632
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 3: could be pleasant to everyone, right, this girl, Christina Mackie,

633
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 3: people are saying that she's not a girl's girl, she's

634
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 3: actually a pigmy, which I consider the counter for girls

635
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 3: girl tam. Thing's different though, So what is a girl's

636
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: girl to you?

637
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: To me?

638
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: I guess girls girl to me is someone who advocates

639
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 2: for women in al ways, you know, like even the

640
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: smallest of things like just seeing a woman walking down

641
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: the street and there pretty.

642
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 4: Dress and you like, yes, okay dress.

643
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: You know, just just their energy, you know, always advocating

644
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: for women and spreading love.

645
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I call it a hype girl, because bitch, i'd

646
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 3: be hyping bitches up, okay, even if I don't know you,

647
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: like I'm in your comments like.

648
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: If you look good, like, hey, girl, you look good,

649
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: da da da da.

650
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 3: Even on the streets, those are That's what I consider

651
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 3: like one of the characteristics of a girl's girl.

652
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 2: Right, But that's the most basic Like if you if

653
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: you fuck with another girl's man, can you call yourself.

654
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: A girl's girl?

655
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: No?

656
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: No, I have.

657
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: So I made a list I made well kind of

658
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 3: sort of uh, And part of my list is like

659
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 3: things where you might not be considered a girl's girl

660
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 3: if you do these things. And then I have like

661
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: the internet definition of a girl's girl. So this I

662
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 3: forgot where I got this from. But a girl's girl

663
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 3: typically refers to a woman who is supportive, understanding, and

664
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 3: friendly toward other women. It implies a strong sense of

665
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 3: camaraderie and solidarity amongst women. That's a basic definition of

666
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 3: what a girl's girl is.

667
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm definitely a girl's girl.

668
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: Niggas really be trying to get me to not be

669
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 3: a girl's girl though, And those where like pick mees

670
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: are people who pander to men for the approval of men.

671
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 3: I have a lot of guy friends who send me

672
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 3: dms all the time trying to disparage women because we

673
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 3: talk a lot of shit about men and women on

674
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 3: this podcast. But I'm a black woman first, so I'm

675
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 3: always going to show up for us.

676
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 2: Right, it's definitely if you can put somebody in position,

677
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: you know, and then take that opportunity to do it,

678
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: that's definitely a girl's girl. Now, some of these lists

679
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: will almost sound like lesbian, like the only way you

680
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 2: could be a girl's girl is if you like eating

681
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 2: pussy to you and that it's not necessarily true, like

682
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: it was like girls girls like hate men. No, and

683
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 2: that's not true, Like you can be a girl's girl

684
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 2: and love men. But all right, so you were saying that,

685
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: like it's a pick me is like someone who panders

686
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 2: to men, or like women who say, like, I'm a

687
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 2: guys girl, Like I like, I'm cooler with guys than

688
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 2: I am women.

689
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 4: Do you feel like they're pigmies?

690
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't.

691
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:33,479
Speaker 3: Those are guys girls, Those aren't girls girls, Because one

692
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 3: of the characteristics of a pick me would be someone

693
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 3: who says, I don't have female friends.

694
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: That's a guys girl. I don't have female friends.

695
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 3: I only hang around guys and the women I know

696
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: that you know.

697
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,959
Speaker 1: Stand on that they oftentimes that has.

698
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 3: Sex with multiple of them homeboys of theirs, ah that

699
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 3: you be hanging out with and they just be delusionaling

700
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 3: fucking ugly inside and out, Like I don't like women who.

701
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 1: Don't like other women.

702
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 4: Pause yeah, not the pause.

703
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, because how do you get through life without your girlfriends? Yeah?

704
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: I always find it weird, Like if I meet a

705
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: woman who don't have if they wasn't a military brand,

706
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,879
Speaker 2: you know, who travel like always moving, if you don't

707
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 2: have nobody that you grew up with as a friend,

708
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 2: not even one, I'm beside irom bitches like that, like

709
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: where's your homegirls at?

710
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 4: Where's your childhood friends?

711
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: Like how do you not have any?

712
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 3: When I think about the women that I no longer

713
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 3: have relationships with, like who I considered like best friends

714
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 3: at the time, they don't have any childhood friends.

715
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: They don't have any consistent friends.

716
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 3: They have add water for instant friends every three to

717
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 3: six months, you hanging out with a different group of people.

718
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 1: Those are wishy washy people.

719
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 3: Like when I make friends with somebody, oftentimes I'm friend

720
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 3: with friends with them forever.

721
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: So oh, you know, I can't say the same.

722
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 2: I have relationships that I've outgrown in different ways, like

723
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: not because they're bad people or but it just wasn't.

724
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: As we got older, our path just took us different places,

725
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 2: So I can't necessarily say that I have everybody that

726
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 2: I've been friends with, you know, some of them just

727
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 2: we not like that no more. And it ain't no beef,

728
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 2: you know, it's just life. And then I do have

729
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 2: relationships or I've had relationships with people where I had

730
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: to exit them for my life for whatever reason, it

731
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 2: just wasn't healthy. And I'm talking about people who were

732
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 2: close to me, you know, very close to me, and I.

733
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 4: Just it wasn't healthy.

734
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: The dynamic was no longer suiting my life, so I

735
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 2: had to exit them, you know. And people I still

736
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 2: love very much, you know, and I still might inquire about,

737
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 2: you know, are they good? And I want them to

738
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: be good, But bitch, I don't fuck with you like that.

739
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 2: You know, you don't have people in your life like that.

740
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: I have an ex friend who I consider a family member.

741
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: I consider her like my a sister, a family member

742
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 3: who I don't fuck with, who I don't talk to

743
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 3: no more. I don't care about her well being and

744
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 3: how she's doing. But she's not a good friend. She's

745
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: really not a good person, so I mean, and she

746
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 3: always got a different group of friends. Don't have no

747
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 3: childhood friends for real. That's that's weird to me, And

748
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 3: I still have stories about her friendships with other women

749
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 3: till to this day, Like falling out at some point,

750
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 3: you gotta look at you at some.

751
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 2: Point, right, absolutely, I'll be falling out with bitches.

752
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: But typically we always come back together. But people don't.

753
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: You know, people either love or hate how forward I

754
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: am at times, Like it either is like okay, I

755
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: fuck with this, or I can only deal with this

756
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:06,439
Speaker 2: bitch in doses, or I can't deal with this bitch

757
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 2: at all.

758
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: But they have.

759
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 4: Most the people who are very close.

760
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: With it still understand that even with my bluntness is

761
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: coming from a place I love. It might come off aggressive,

762
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 2: but it's not meant to be hurtful, and that's why

763
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 2: they can still fuck with me.

764
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: This is from TikTok.

765
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 3: It says, in some ways, the rise of the girls

766
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 3: girls on TikTok is about pushing back against the notion

767
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 3: that we need to separate ourselves from other women and

768
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 3: craft personalities that are different from those of everyone else.

769
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: You know how guys do like you're just so different

770
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 1: from everybody else?

771
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 3: Like how cause I can give you thirty bitches in

772
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 3: my phone that seemed just like me. Right, So it's

773
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 3: like a tactic that men use that creates picknies, right, Like,

774
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 3: you're so different, A lot of us have a lot

775
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 3: of the same characteristics, you know what I'm saying. When

776
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 3: you when you start changing yourself completely to suit a male,

777
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: that's when it becomes like pigmish.

778
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 1: You're just going against all women, right, it's a.

779
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 4: Lot of Yeah.

780
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: I see a lot of videos of women like saying

781
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 2: all these things about what women need.

782
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: To do, and some of it might be true, but

783
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: then some.

784
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: Of it does give off this energy that you're pandering

785
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 2: to men, you know, in a real.

786
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 4: Way, Like you need to suck his dick every day.

787
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: When he come off from work. It don't matter what

788
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 2: happened on some like what like, girl, what are you

789
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: talking about?

790
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: Absolutely not that's a pick me.

791
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: I'm not sucking nobody dick every day, right.

792
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 3: So these are the things I came up with that

793
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 3: I consider a girl's girl. So a girl's girl literally

794
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 3: fixes each other's crown.

795
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: Even when you don't know the woman. So I e.

796
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: If I see a woman with like tailet tissue coming

797
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: at the bathroom on her shoe, I be like girl

798
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 3: hold on before you go back.

799
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: Out in the club. Okay, tags sticking out, I'm talking

800
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,919
Speaker 1: your tag and I don't know you hair out of place.

801
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,399
Speaker 1: I'm fixing your hair. Those are the type of things

802
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: lash is coming up your close your eye, your lash.

803
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 3: Come, I got some blue girl, you know, like you're

804
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 3: always trying to make sure they're crying.

805
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 4: Everybody on point.

806
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: Is good, right, even women you don't know.

807
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 3: With friends, you post the best pics, bitch, even if

808
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 3: we I look fine as telling this picture, you look

809
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 3: fucked up. I like this picture. It's the only picture

810
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 3: we got. The picture ain't going up right, you don't

811
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: look good?

812
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: It right right right?

813
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 3: And even catching candid photos of your friend when you

814
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 3: think she looking good, like girl, it's a good picture.

815
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 1: Stay right there, that's the girl's girl. Right.

816
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 2: But you know what, sometimes I somebody will post a

817
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 2: picture of you that you they think look good at you,

818
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: and you be like, bitch, right, they don't look good?

819
00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: Right?

820
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 3: You should have read by me first, ugly to that

821
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 3: one friend I was talking about. It could be a

822
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 3: general consensus that I'm wearing some super fly.

823
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 1: Shit, and I would ask you like you like this?

824
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: It would always be no. The bitch never liked anything

825
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: I ever had. Imagine that. And I remember one time

826
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: she called me crying on the phone and she was

827
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 1: like crying about her boyfriend at the time. She was like,

828
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: I feel like he's intentionally disagreeing with me. Bitch. I

829
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: like to put the phone on mute to laugh, because

830
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: I feel like you've.

831
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 3: Been trolling me that same way our whole friendship, intentionally disagreeing,

832
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: intentionally just not liking shit because she's country bumpkin, So

833
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: how the fuck?

834
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: And some shit I'm wearing ain't fly, bitch? Are you?

835
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: Are you blind?

836
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 3: And everybody else thinks it's nice?

837
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 4: Yes, I never liked it, and you put the phone

838
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 4: on mute and laugh.

839
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: Yes, that's mean.

840
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 3: That is not mean, because you're complaining about something that

841
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 3: you literally do to other people. Right, So you got

842
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 3: somebody who's challenging you. He was challenging her, and that

843
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 3: was a problem for her. You see what I'm saying. Now,

844
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 3: he's intentionally disagreeing because he's challenging you. But you do

845
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 3: that to everybody else all day long, but you just

846
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 3: don't recognize it. These people don't see themselves oftentimes, you know,

847
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,359
Speaker 3: And that wasn't a that wasn't the time for me

848
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 3: to say, hey, you know you do that shit to me.

849
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 3: That wasn't the time she's crying on the phone about

850
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 3: the man doing the shit, Like I wasn't gonna use

851
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 3: that as an opportunity to tell her how much of

852
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 3: a fucking sucky friend she is, but it would have

853
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 3: been the truth that me, being a girl's girl, put

854
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 3: her feelings first.

855
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 2: Well you know, it's it's all about delivery too, because

856
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: that could have been an opportunity to share, like, you know,

857
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 2: how she maybe this is why this is happening, you know,

858
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: like sometimes you can be combative with us and like, yeah,

859
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 2: you know, even I understand where you know you don't

860
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 2: like you always tell me you never like anything I

861
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,720
Speaker 2: have on and it's hurtful.

862
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's never hurtful because I know she was a

863
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: hater then I just didn't. I didn't really realize it

864
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 3: until the end of the relationship, Like you've been hating

865
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 3: on me because I'm not the type of person who

866
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 3: likes to say, oh I got haters, like people aren't

867
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: like that are delusional to me, Those aren't girls girls.

868
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 3: The people who get on the internet and claim all

869
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 3: these people just always hating on them, like you're delusional.

870
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: You know, it's a general consensus that you're whack as fuck.

871
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 3: Nobody's hating on you, Okay.

872
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 1: But I realized she just was an aj hater.

873
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,760
Speaker 3: I realized that at the end of the relationship because

874
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 3: I'm rewinding like slick shit. She would say, you know

875
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like friends joke on each other all

876
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 3: at time time. You can't get mad because my jokes

877
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:07,479
Speaker 3: hit better, right, So now you initiated the joking, right,

878
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 3: and I just fucking cleaned your ass up right quick.

879
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 1: Now it's the problem. Yeah, that's the thing with women.

880
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: Me and my friend were just talking about that last night, like, oh,

881
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 2: we can be sensitive and some jokes are funny, and

882
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: then sometimes the joke's hurt, you know, Like, so you

883
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 2: just gotta be don't start nothing won't be nothing if

884
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 2: you're in that joke, if you in that joking mode.

885
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 3: Because I got an hour worth of stand up comedy

886
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 3: for anybody, it's real, okay. Yeah yeah, so now you

887
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 3: can't and then you can't negate how your joke made

888
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 3: me feel.

889
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: Just because I didn't like, I didn't cry about it.

890
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: I just came back harder. I'm a one.

891
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 3: Upper Okay, don't start no shit. It won't be no

892
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:47,479
Speaker 3: shit over here.

893
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,760
Speaker 4: So you and this girl are no longer friends.

894
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 3: No, absolutely fucking not. And over the years she's actually

895
00:45:54,000 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 3: tried to be my friend again. But I said some

896
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 3: shit on this podcast like two years ago, so and

897
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 3: I think she heard it, and finally she stopped. Because

898
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 3: I don't know how to be your friend. First of all,

899
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 3: I don't know how to be your friend. I don't

900
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 3: feel comfortable being you, Fred, don't feel comfortable telling you.

901
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: About my life. Nothing like.

902
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 3: You're not somebody who I would want to rekindle anything with.

903
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 3: I wish you well, though, I hope you're doing well

904
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: all the time, you know, but because I again, it's

905
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 3: one of those things where you realize why somebody is

906
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 3: the way they are. But I don't have to use

907
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 3: it to justify how to fuck you treat me right.

908
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: You got to go figure that out. You got to

909
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: go figure it out.

910
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 3: One of the characteristics of someone who is not a

911
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 3: girl's girl would be an habitual side bitch.

912
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 4: You're always fucking with somebody man.

913
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, intentionally fucking with people when you know who

914
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: they fuck with. Or who you know, who their girlfriend is.

915
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 3: That's where it'll behavior to me. If you have like

916
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 3: a personal relationship with people and you fucking on somebody

917
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 3: that they that they're.

918
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 1: With or used to be with. How about that.

919
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 3: Fucking with somebody like that that used to fuck with

920
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 3: somebody that's your friends.

921
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree.

922
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: It's like they had an actual relationship with this person.

923
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: And and you're being like deceitful and fucking with them

924
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 2: behind their back.

925
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 4: It's crazy. Yeah.

926
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: The other thing I had was says they only hang

927
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: with dudes. Are you a girl's girl?

928
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 2: If you fuck with a man and you don't know

929
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: his bitch, you still not? Like, I guess that's not

930
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: good girls girls behavior.

931
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: It's not.

932
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 3: It's not because I always say that women they have

933
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 3: a responsibility.

934
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: They have.

935
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 3: We have a responsibility to other women. You know how

936
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 3: it feels to be hurt, You know how it feels

937
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,479
Speaker 3: to get cheated on. We always want to blame the man.

938
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 3: But like I say, a woman can't cheat and let

939
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 3: a man can't cheat unless a woman is willing to compete,

940
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 3: and bitches is always willing, right, So if there was

941
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 3: no woman that would be willing to sleep with a

942
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 3: man knowing that he has a situation, knowing that he

943
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 3: lives with his baby mama, knowing that he has a wife,

944
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 3: knowing that he you know, fucking with this this this

945
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 3: person off and on forever. This is a forever person

946
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 3: in his life. He would never be able to really

947
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 3: cheat if women weren't willing to cheat with him. So

948
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 3: we got some responsibility in that bullshit too. So no,

949
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 3: that's not a girl's girl to me.

950
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:40,760
Speaker 4: We got a huge responsibility in that. And that's why outside.

951
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 3: Right, That's why I said habitual though, if you're not

952
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 3: always doing it, this is not like some normal shit

953
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 3: that you do, like ind and up with somebody's man,

954
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say you're.

955
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: Not a girl's girl. But if this is like this

956
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: is your like main position in fucking.

957
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 2: Life, like you you always fucking with somebody who belonged

958
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 2: to somebody else.

959
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: Right all the time.

960
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're not a girl's girl. That's a problem.

961
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, you not even for yourself.

962
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: You know, Caalise called out Beyonce for not being a

963
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: girl's girl. You remember that, No, what happened?

964
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, Beyonce's last album this is last year and Caalise went.

965
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: Live and people back like they didn't hear.

966
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 3: It from Kalise in years, But I've been following Kalise

967
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 3: for years, like she's one of my favorite people on Instagram,

968
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: Like I aspire to have a farm and all that

969
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 3: shit like she got going on. But so Beyonce sampled

970
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 3: a Kalise song and Kalisa's intellectual property has been finessed

971
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 3: by Pharrell, Right, so Calise felt like, you know, Pharrell

972
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 3: did that shit on purpose to slight her. But she

973
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 3: felt like, Beyonce, you know me, you know people that

974
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 3: know me, we have mutual friends. You could at least

975
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 3: given me a heads up as two black women in

976
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 3: the industry like people's music and stuff be they pride

977
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 3: enjoyed and that Forrell was on a whole press tour

978
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 3: talking about how she just felt like it was a

979
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 3: lot of hypocrisy. You got Beyonce saying, how you know

980
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 3: she's a girl's girl, make all this woman empowerment music.

981
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 3: But the opportunity that you have to actually be a

982
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 3: girl's girl, you don't do it, you don't take it.

983
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 3: Why not tell me give me a heads up that

984
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 3: these men are using my music? Are you going to

985
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 3: be using my music and they just giving you my

986
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: shit like there's nothing even though I don't have control

987
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 3: over it, right, It's just still like common courtesy basically,

988
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 3: because she's like plenty of people have sampled her shit,

989
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 3: but they will still give her a heads up.

990
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 2: Beyonce said, I ain't got time to call every bitch

991
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: who I'm on my album girl.

992
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 3: By if somebody were to sample or Beyonce anything, if

993
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 3: somebody were to do that to Beyonce, all hell would

994
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 3: break loose. But I remember seeing a video and y'all

995
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 3: can look this up, just google Beyonce saying she's steal

996
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 3: There's a video out there with Beyonce laughing and Kiki

997
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 3: and with somebody in a studio saying people don't like

998
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 3: when they come to their shows because we're gonna we're

999
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:13,399
Speaker 3: gonna steal everything.

1000
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: After we leave. She was laughing.

1001
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 3: She said, she said, and then we will go meet

1002
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: everybody and say how great the show was, how great

1003
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: the show was, and then steal it. This is what

1004
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 3: she said and laughing and joking about it.

1005
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 4: I just I love Beyonce so much.

1006
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,320
Speaker 2: I just refuse to believe that she's not a girl's

1007
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: girl like I feel like her music just be like

1008
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 2: empowering women.

1009
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 4: It's all for the girl.

1010
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: That's what Alice was saying. Like you, she was like,

1011
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: I really walk this walk, you just talk. She was like,

1012
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: you're not a girl's girl.

1013
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're not looking out for other women, especially

1014
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 3: when they're being slighted by men, you're not a girl's girl.

1015
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 3: You're not because for real was going around talking about

1016
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,240
Speaker 3: like how artists should be able to restructure their deals,

1017
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 3: how they should have of, you know, more ownership and

1018
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 3: stuff like that, like advocating for the artists, and he

1019
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 3: was ripping her off simultaneously. Or he has ripped her

1020
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 3: off and she hasn't been able to really make money

1021
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 3: off of her music. But other people can use her

1022
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 3: shit and not even say hey girl, I'm gonna use

1023
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 3: your shit at least because this is still my shit.

1024
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: What song milk it was? Milkshait? I believe.

1025
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 3: It's just you can hear the sample the music, you know,

1026
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 3: this be like parts and pieces, Yeah, but.

1027
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 4: You can hear a little snippet.

1028
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was some shit like that, damn. And that's

1029
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 3: like one of her number one songs. Come on, man,

1030
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 3: well I think we.

1031
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 2: Could find an example in everyone's life that wasn't a

1032
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 2: girl's girl shit.

1033
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, they said talking talking talking behind women's backs.

1034
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 3: Come on, I talked shit about everybody, including you. Let's

1035
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 3: be clear, like who I'm a vent to If I'm

1036
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 3: trying to work through a problem with this person, So

1037
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 3: I can't talk to the problem. Sometimes about the problem,

1038
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 3: you have to go to outside sources. Sometimes it's not

1039
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 3: gossip though, I'm not telling people's personal lives to other people.

1040
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: But just like you know, if we experiencing something.

1041
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 2: I don't think that counts because I think all women

1042
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 2: do that. You know, you need someone you need to.

1043
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 3: Then, yeah, like talking behind somebody's man, as long as

1044
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 3: you're not, like I don't consider that really Yeah, dispiriting them, yeah.

1045
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: Just saying just hate me, hateful ship and it's supposed

1046
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 2: to be your friend. That's I think talking behind someone thing.

1047
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, But other than that, I don't. I don't agree

1048
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: with neither even at quinn is that quiz is like

1049
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: do you gossip? Like gossip?

1050
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 3: Gossip is like telling girl, let me tell you about

1051
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 3: this bitch and who she fucking to day, Like, no, bitch,

1052
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 3: because we all got our little things. I'm not telling

1053
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 3: nobody that for them to be Si eyed in you sigh,

1054
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 3: and that the next person when they see them in person,

1055
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 3: absolutely not.

1056
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 2: But it'll be like, let me tell you what this

1057
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 2: bitch said in the meeting just now, right, Absolutely nothing, y'all.

1058
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 2: What I tell y'all, absolutely fucking nothing.

1059
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: But anyway, y'all.

1060
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, so listen, I want to encourage all women to

1061
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 3: aspire to be a girl's girl. Okay, you may not

1062
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 3: have been wanting the past, start trying. Start looking out

1063
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 3: for other women, even women you aren't related to, even

1064
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 3: women you don't know personally. I one thing I don't

1065
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 3: like today I saw on Instagram was Karesha posted that

1066
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 3: she's made a million dollars off of the brand Koresha

1067
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 3: please right as of twenty two four right, and people

1068
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 3: in the comments disparaging her. You know, God takes care

1069
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 3: of fools and babies, all type of little wear comments.

1070
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, dog, I can't do nothing but congratulate that

1071
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 3: young mother of two. Like maybe she does things in

1072
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 3: an unconventional way that I probably wouldn't do, you know,

1073
00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 3: to get the bag, but however, she feels like she

1074
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 3: has to do what she's doing.

1075
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: It Why aren't I to judge that.

1076
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 4: The people people just be finding a reason to be mad.

1077
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 2: And it really be like when I see people like that,

1078
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 2: I'd be like wondering what's going on in their own life?

1079
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 4: Are they is their shit together? Are they okay?

1080
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 2: Because why do you have so much time to bring

1081
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 2: other people down?

1082
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 3: It's crazy, right, And a lot of people will say

1083
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 3: that comes with celebrity. I I wouldn't say if I, like,

1084
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 3: if I got like some super duper stardom, that I

1085
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,439
Speaker 3: would be like a CARDI b always trying to clap back.

1086
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 3: But I don't feel like people being nasty and mean to.

1087
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: You should come with being a celebrity.

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Speaker 3: It shouldn't, you know what I'm saying, Because you're the

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Speaker 3: real The people are the reason these people get elevated

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Speaker 3: in the first place. So it's almost like they think

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Speaker 3: that they should also be the ones to tear them

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Speaker 3: down when they get too big. Oh be humble and

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Speaker 3: shit like that, like no bitch pop, I like the

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Speaker 3: pop they shit I saw a post.

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Speaker 2: Just focus on the positive energy coming away because as

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Speaker 2: much negative energy as coming away.

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Speaker 4: There's positive too. Focus on that.

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Speaker 1: That's what I say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of times people fixate on

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Speaker 3: the negative shit instead of just commenting back to the

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Speaker 3: people who bigging you up. Right, comment back to.

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Speaker 2: The hype girls, right, the girls, girls, girls who like girls.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, we hype girls here. We talked back.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, y'all be friendly. Say hi to black women when

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Speaker 3: y'all see one, say hi to each other. Tell them

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Speaker 3: they look good today. Bitches might be having a bad

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Speaker 3: day and you saying bitch.

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Speaker 1: You look good.

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Speaker 2: Just could change the director, could change the trajectory. It's

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Speaker 2: just about the you know, treat others how you want

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Speaker 2: to be treated. I mean you learned that in the

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Speaker 2: first grade, So that's that, ye.

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Speaker 1: Or treat others how they want to be treated. How

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Speaker 1: about that? Yeah, But y'all find a way to be

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Speaker 1: nice anyway.

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Speaker 3: If you enjoy this episode, girls, girls, shout out to

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Speaker 3: all the girls girls, y'all tune in, continue to tune in,

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Speaker 3: and we thank you for all your support. Girls girls, Okay,

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Speaker 3: tune in every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app wherever the fuck.

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Speaker 1: You get your podcast at. This is your co host,

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Speaker 1: AJ Holiday. It's two point zero. On instagrams, y'all follow

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Speaker 1: me now.

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Speaker 2: If you won't get on y'all is official. Tanbama on Instagram,

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Speaker 2: follow me. I love y'all once again. Y'all send us

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Speaker 2: your dumbitch stories. We love those and we need those.

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Speaker 1: Y'all. Remember to speak now and never hold your peace.

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Speaker 4: Douce itees.

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