1 00:00:01,379 --> 00:00:05,569 Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, a production of iHeartRadio 2 00:00:05,670 --> 00:00:09,710 Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network. Talk, talk, talk to them. 3 00:00:10,070 --> 00:00:14,130 Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who 4 00:00:14,190 --> 00:00:15,830 Speaker 2: talk back. 5 00:00:17,590 --> 00:00:21,110 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in to season four, okay, 6 00:00:21,210 --> 00:00:23,729 Speaker 1: of We Talk Back with a new episode dedicated to 7 00:00:23,770 --> 00:00:28,070 Speaker 1: you dreamers and chasers. This is your co-host, AJ Holiday. 8 00:00:28,150 --> 00:00:28,890 Speaker 1: What's up, Tam? 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:34,589 Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. I love y'all. I love you too, AJ. 10 00:00:34,610 --> 00:00:36,510 Speaker 1: Hey. I love you back. 11 00:00:37,430 --> 00:00:38,650 Speaker 2: How was your weekend? 12 00:00:39,050 --> 00:00:41,550 Speaker 1: Rainy as fuck. That's about it. 13 00:00:43,010 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 3: I did do a little bit of hanging out, depending 14 00:00:46,229 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: on who fucking listening. Depending on who listening, child. I 15 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 3: didn't do much this weekend. Yeah, it was just nasty, cold, 16 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:58,620 Speaker 3: rainy where I was at. 17 00:01:00,950 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: I can't say the same. I went to Tulum, Mexico 18 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 2: over the weekend. 19 00:01:07,540 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: How was that? Did you take a picture in the cave? 20 00:01:10,180 --> 00:01:12,460 Speaker 2: I didn't take a picture. I couldn't get in the 21 00:01:12,500 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 2: cave because you had to swim to that. And I 22 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 2: was just scared. So I wouldn't swim over there. But 23 00:01:19,900 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 2: I did take a picture. 24 00:01:21,220 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: I ain't swimming over there. Man, you whack, man. You're 25 00:01:25,750 --> 00:01:26,930 Speaker 1: supposed to take a picture in there. 26 00:01:28,090 --> 00:01:31,050 Speaker 2: Aerial picture i didn't see nobody looked like me swimming 27 00:01:31,090 --> 00:01:33,350 Speaker 2: over there so i just was like yeah i'm gonna 28 00:01:33,770 --> 00:01:35,270 Speaker 2: stay with the people who look like. 29 00:01:35,150 --> 00:01:38,069 Speaker 1: Me you ain't no real mermaid man. 30 00:01:38,150 --> 00:01:41,300 Speaker 2: No i'm not i never i never uh said i 31 00:01:41,310 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: was the mermaid i stay in the water where i 32 00:01:44,300 --> 00:01:48,500 Speaker 2: can stand up in it shame yeah but it was 33 00:01:48,540 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: beautiful the weather was nice tulum is a nice place 34 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,660 Speaker 2: to go um It's different than Cancun, and it's not, like, 35 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,490 Speaker 2: such a party place. It's, like, almost even more romantic, honestly. 36 00:01:59,930 --> 00:02:03,410 Speaker 2: I wish I had a little something at the beach. Yeah, 37 00:02:03,470 --> 00:02:06,730 Speaker 2: I did. I wish that. But it was a good time, 38 00:02:06,790 --> 00:02:08,550 Speaker 2: and I got to relax, so that was cool. 39 00:02:08,870 --> 00:02:11,810 Speaker 1: Yeah, I cannot wait to get some beach and sun. 40 00:02:12,230 --> 00:02:13,089 Speaker 1: I'm going to go someplace. 41 00:02:13,150 --> 00:02:15,910 Speaker 3: I'm definitely taking a solo trip this year, and I'm 42 00:02:15,940 --> 00:02:18,899 Speaker 3: going to stay gone for at least a month. That's 43 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,780 Speaker 3: like a bucket list. for this year so it won't 44 00:02:21,820 --> 00:02:22,820 Speaker 3: be mexico though. 45 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,820 Speaker 2: No you gotta go somewhere yeah you're gonna have to 46 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 2: go somewhere in asia where your money go far for 47 00:02:27,540 --> 00:02:29,419 Speaker 2: a month hell yeah. 48 00:02:29,220 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 3: Because you know like i um some of the uh 49 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 3: condos and stuff like that you paying like five and 50 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,540 Speaker 3: six hundred dollars for the. 51 00:02:35,500 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: Whole month and it'd be a nice place yes like 52 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,100 Speaker 2: some luxury shit yeah yeah i'm with that that sound 53 00:02:43,139 --> 00:02:45,130 Speaker 2: nice bali or. 54 00:02:45,100 --> 00:02:48,910 Speaker 3: Something like that Yes, Bali, Thailand. The most expensive shit 55 00:02:48,930 --> 00:02:49,669 Speaker 3: be the flight. 56 00:02:50,310 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. You know? Food is cheap. You can get fresh 57 00:02:52,750 --> 00:02:53,780 Speaker 1: seafood out of the ocean. 58 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:55,220 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with that. 59 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: Yes, honey. 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,140 Speaker 2: You said learn how to swim? 61 00:02:59,940 --> 00:03:01,260 Speaker 1: Yes. I can't. 62 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,899 Speaker 2: Like, if we were in a situation where my life 63 00:03:03,940 --> 00:03:06,810 Speaker 2: depended on me swimming, I could make it, right? I 64 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,430 Speaker 2: could swim. But I just ain't jumping out there, bro. 65 00:03:10,630 --> 00:03:12,930 Speaker 2: I'm not jumping out there if my life don't depend 66 00:03:13,030 --> 00:03:13,210 Speaker 2: on it. 67 00:03:13,790 --> 00:03:16,889 Speaker 3: But how deep was the water going over to the cave? 68 00:03:17,940 --> 00:03:20,620 Speaker 2: I don't know. There wasn't nobody standing up in it. 69 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,100 Speaker 2: They was all swimming. So I was like, yeah, that's 70 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,220 Speaker 2: not for me. I remember last year I was on 71 00:03:27,300 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: a boat and it was me, Rennie Routree was on 72 00:03:32,340 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: the boat, this other mixed girl named Brittany, and then 73 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: other mixed girl, Shiana. And then I was on the boat. 74 00:03:41,260 --> 00:03:44,220 Speaker 2: And these bitches is jumping in the lake. At night, 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:46,260 Speaker 2: backstroking and swimming. 76 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: What lake? 77 00:03:47,820 --> 00:03:48,220 Speaker 2: Murray. 78 00:03:48,740 --> 00:03:50,990 Speaker 1: Oh, hell no. They tripping. I ain't jumping in the lake. 79 00:03:51,620 --> 00:03:54,670 Speaker 2: Oh, y'all different, different. They was doing it. 80 00:03:54,670 --> 00:03:55,350 Speaker 1: That white blood. 81 00:03:55,730 --> 00:03:58,470 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. Because all these bitches is 82 00:03:58,550 --> 00:04:01,250 Speaker 2: mixed race. And that's that white blood jumping out of them. 83 00:04:01,310 --> 00:04:05,290 Speaker 2: Because y'all jumping in this dark-ass water at night talking about, 84 00:04:05,330 --> 00:04:06,550 Speaker 2: look at the stars, girl. 85 00:04:06,590 --> 00:04:06,990 Speaker 1: Fuck you. 86 00:04:07,740 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: Lake and ocean water is different. The current inside a lake, 87 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,780 Speaker 3: that shit is different. Remember you had your birthday party 88 00:04:13,820 --> 00:04:17,580 Speaker 3: on Lake Norman? I hopped off that fucking boat because 89 00:04:17,610 --> 00:04:19,969 Speaker 3: I had just came from Anguilla like the week before. 90 00:04:20,710 --> 00:04:24,450 Speaker 3: Swimming in the ocean, way far out in level 30 in. 91 00:04:24,670 --> 00:04:26,670 Speaker 1: The ocean and shit. I'm thinking I could just hop in. 92 00:04:26,710 --> 00:04:29,230 Speaker 3: Girl, that current was trying to pull me underneath the 93 00:04:29,250 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 3: boat and I was drinking and nigga had to pull 94 00:04:31,130 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 3: me out the water. 95 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,140 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's, I'm not doing that, especially at night. 96 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: Y'all tripping. Yeah. 97 00:04:36,650 --> 00:04:38,730 Speaker 3: The ancestors got them. Most of them lakes is built 98 00:04:38,830 --> 00:04:44,909 Speaker 3: on top of black communities. So they better be glad 99 00:04:44,950 --> 00:04:46,730 Speaker 3: they have for something. 100 00:04:47,570 --> 00:04:49,610 Speaker 2: Yeah, I went with it. I was very impressed with 101 00:04:49,650 --> 00:04:52,390 Speaker 2: that shit because they was doing backflips off the side 102 00:04:52,430 --> 00:04:56,830 Speaker 2: of the boat into the lake in the darkness. Yeah, nah. Nah, bitch, 103 00:04:56,850 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: you got it. Let's get into stupid internet news. 104 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:03,540 Speaker 1: Okay. 105 00:05:04,220 --> 00:05:07,219 Speaker 3: So I saw, you know, this guy, Benny the Butcher, 106 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,150 Speaker 3: he's a rapper from Buffalo, New York. And he was 107 00:05:10,210 --> 00:05:15,930 Speaker 3: recently on The Breakfast Club. I caught him on another. 108 00:05:15,230 --> 00:05:19,130 Speaker 1: Podcast, actually. Well, a podcast. Well, Breakfast Club is considered 109 00:05:19,150 --> 00:05:23,620 Speaker 1: a podcast as well. And so his. 110 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:27,410 Speaker 3: Conversation, it started off cool. But then it just got 111 00:05:27,490 --> 00:05:30,300 Speaker 3: really weird near the end. And I just feel like, 112 00:05:30,420 --> 00:05:32,740 Speaker 3: why are people fucking with black women? 113 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:37,779 Speaker 1: Why? So, Benny the Butcher, the caption said that black 114 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:42,860 Speaker 1: men have a responsibility to black women. That sounds good, right? Mm-hmm. 115 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:43,980 Speaker 2: Successful black men. 116 00:05:44,620 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. Add that part, please. Right. 117 00:05:48,380 --> 00:05:52,310 Speaker 3: But, oh, it did say successful black men. But once 118 00:05:52,350 --> 00:05:55,570 Speaker 3: you hit play and get into the conversation... you realize 119 00:05:55,610 --> 00:05:59,930 Speaker 3: a lot of these niggas is blonde, okay? Because he 120 00:05:59,970 --> 00:06:03,870 Speaker 3: starts off cool, you know, saying black men, successful black 121 00:06:03,930 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 3: men have a responsibility to black women. But then it 122 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: goes into his homeboy marrying a white guy. 123 00:06:10,660 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: A woman. Marrying a white girl. 124 00:06:14,580 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: And he wants her to marry a white, he wants 125 00:06:16,460 --> 00:06:18,730 Speaker 3: him to marry a white girl so he can marry 126 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:19,370 Speaker 3: into some money. 127 00:06:19,710 --> 00:06:22,700 Speaker 1: So I'm assuming your homeboy don't have your money. Right. 128 00:06:23,790 --> 00:06:26,730 Speaker 3: And he was like, you know, successful men. We start 129 00:06:26,890 --> 00:06:30,450 Speaker 3: those guys want certain things. You know, I'm saying so 130 00:06:30,490 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 3: now they don't got to settle for just anybody. 131 00:06:34,060 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: They can pick who they want. Then that's where the 132 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,940 Speaker 1: conversation goes. 133 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:43,659 Speaker 3: And he further says how, you know, his wife was 134 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,020 Speaker 3: with him slinging dope. 135 00:06:45,830 --> 00:06:46,130 Speaker 1: Right. 136 00:06:46,310 --> 00:06:49,580 Speaker 3: That's why she's still by his side today. So it's 137 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,650 Speaker 3: still like that thing, like black women have to struggle first. 138 00:06:55,810 --> 00:06:59,850 Speaker 3: Risk their lives and their soul to marry a black man. 139 00:07:01,730 --> 00:07:04,469 Speaker 2: I just don't get it. Do y'all not like us? Like, 140 00:07:04,510 --> 00:07:07,550 Speaker 2: do y'all just not like us? Who like us? Raise 141 00:07:07,570 --> 00:07:09,110 Speaker 2: your hand because that's who I want. 142 00:07:09,830 --> 00:07:12,450 Speaker 1: Right. And the thing is, is that, you know, majority 143 00:07:12,490 --> 00:07:15,310 Speaker 1: of black men are married to black women. That is 144 00:07:15,420 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: a fact, right? But are you happily married? 145 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: Right. 146 00:07:21,180 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 3: Because there's a lot of women in unhappy marriages. And 147 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 3: it could be because men are marrying some women that 148 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: they don't tolerate me. If you thought you could get 149 00:07:31,060 --> 00:07:34,230 Speaker 3: something different, go do that. Leave us the fuck alone. 150 00:07:34,490 --> 00:07:36,410 Speaker 2: I just think people don't like each other like that 151 00:07:36,450 --> 00:07:39,510 Speaker 2: no more. Like, we don't. 152 00:07:39,610 --> 00:07:42,250 Speaker 1: I always say this, like, being in love is a 153 00:07:42,290 --> 00:07:42,930 Speaker 1: state of mind. 154 00:07:43,010 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: So if you with somebody, y'all got to do things 155 00:07:45,270 --> 00:07:48,540 Speaker 3: every single day to continuously fall in love with each other. 156 00:07:48,820 --> 00:07:51,610 Speaker 1: Or you're going to be falling out of love. But damn, 157 00:07:51,630 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: do you at least like me? 158 00:07:53,740 --> 00:07:53,950 Speaker 2: Right. 159 00:07:54,390 --> 00:07:57,500 Speaker 3: Because don't do us no favors, sir. Go on about 160 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,740 Speaker 3: your business. So you married your wife. You probably be 161 00:07:59,780 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 3: cheating on her because you probably don't respect her for real. 162 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,380 Speaker 3: You just feel obligated to her because of time. 163 00:08:05,740 --> 00:08:08,260 Speaker 2: I be side-eyeing, like, even though it's none of my business, 164 00:08:08,580 --> 00:08:13,060 Speaker 2: you know, be with who you want. I be side-eyeing, like, what, like, 165 00:08:13,100 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: a man, when he's coming up, he have a black woman. 166 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,060 Speaker 2: And then when he gets successful, he have, like, some... 167 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 2: something outside of black that's tall or looks like some 168 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: type of model or something. Someone that they probably couldn't 169 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:30,750 Speaker 2: get before their success. And it's like, you know, it's 170 00:08:30,810 --> 00:08:34,329 Speaker 2: almost hurtful because it's like, damn, are we not good 171 00:08:34,370 --> 00:08:36,890 Speaker 2: enough for you in success? Are we just good enough 172 00:08:37,110 --> 00:08:40,949 Speaker 2: if you don't have it? During struggle time. Kevin Hart 173 00:08:40,990 --> 00:08:42,450 Speaker 2: is a perfect example of that. That's what I was 174 00:08:42,470 --> 00:08:42,970 Speaker 2: thinking about. 175 00:08:42,990 --> 00:08:48,230 Speaker 1: And for some reason, they expect Tori Hart to have 176 00:08:48,290 --> 00:08:51,290 Speaker 1: this allegiance to him where he didn't have one to 177 00:08:51,340 --> 00:08:53,620 Speaker 1: her because now she's on the Cat Williams tour. And 178 00:08:53,660 --> 00:08:58,059 Speaker 1: people talking hella shit like she's supposed to still be 179 00:08:58,100 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: his bottom bitch. Oh, wow. 180 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,500 Speaker 3: You were cheating on her. You were cheating on her 181 00:09:03,580 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 3: with the woman that you ended up marrying, ultimately. You 182 00:09:06,140 --> 00:09:09,100 Speaker 3: married the side bitch. Because I remember one time on 183 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,410 Speaker 3: social media, his current wife, I forgot her name, she 184 00:09:12,450 --> 00:09:15,290 Speaker 3: was posting like, you know, happy anniversary, such and such. 185 00:09:15,309 --> 00:09:16,670 Speaker 1: We've been together such and such years. 186 00:09:17,420 --> 00:09:22,150 Speaker 3: And Tori commented like, oh, that overlaps my marriage. That's 187 00:09:22,170 --> 00:09:23,070 Speaker 3: how long y'all been together? 188 00:09:23,690 --> 00:09:24,150 Speaker 1: Interesting. 189 00:09:28,590 --> 00:09:30,370 Speaker 3: Yeah, so don't do me no favors. Go on about 190 00:09:30,410 --> 00:09:33,100 Speaker 3: your fucking business. I could find somebody that genuinely loves me. 191 00:09:33,620 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 3: Because that comes with a lot of resentment in a relationship. 192 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:40,140 Speaker 3: You just marrying somebody because you feel obligated or because 193 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: of the circumstances. 194 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,059 Speaker 1: Bills, babies. 195 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: And see, like, a part of me is like with 196 00:09:46,059 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 2: Kevin Hart's situation, like, maybe he just, this woman came 197 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:51,510 Speaker 2: along and they were really meant to be together and 198 00:09:51,530 --> 00:09:54,770 Speaker 2: there's just like this real beautiful love that they have, right? 199 00:09:54,809 --> 00:09:56,929 Speaker 2: And that's what I would hope for everybody. But then 200 00:09:56,950 --> 00:09:59,810 Speaker 2: there is that part of me that it's side eyes, like... 201 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,540 Speaker 2: like you could not have that with this beautiful black 202 00:10:02,580 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: woman Tori like you couldn't have that with her no. 203 00:10:07,740 --> 00:10:09,460 Speaker 3: They got it they got it would you have what 204 00:10:09,620 --> 00:10:12,780 Speaker 3: I'm saying they all got the same wife with that 205 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,220 Speaker 3: same face they all get. 206 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,610 Speaker 2: I don't want to I hate to yeah It is 207 00:10:20,650 --> 00:10:22,809 Speaker 2: what it is, man. I just don't want to end 208 00:10:22,910 --> 00:10:26,630 Speaker 2: up like Taraji P on acrimony on one of these niggas. 209 00:10:27,610 --> 00:10:29,329 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? 210 00:10:29,350 --> 00:10:29,590 Speaker 1: Yeah. 211 00:10:30,090 --> 00:10:34,790 Speaker 2: Because people watch that movie and they say Taraji was 212 00:10:34,910 --> 00:10:35,550 Speaker 2: the wrong one. 213 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,620 Speaker 3: But do you understand how she got that way? She 214 00:10:40,660 --> 00:10:43,900 Speaker 3: wasn't wrong. She wasn't wrong. It's like, you know, two 215 00:10:43,940 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 3: things could be true. She definitely wasn't wrong in that 216 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 3: movie because the nigga put a lien on her mama 217 00:10:48,460 --> 00:10:49,420 Speaker 3: house and they lost it. 218 00:10:50,070 --> 00:10:52,490 Speaker 1: Yeah. She gave everything to him. 219 00:10:52,910 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: Everything she had. 220 00:10:53,490 --> 00:10:54,270 Speaker 1: That's what drove her nuts. 221 00:10:54,770 --> 00:10:55,069 Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. 222 00:10:56,110 --> 00:10:58,710 Speaker 3: She was already crazy now. Because remember, she knocked the 223 00:10:58,730 --> 00:11:01,209 Speaker 3: trailer down the fucking hill. Like, so she was already crazy. 224 00:11:01,230 --> 00:11:02,410 Speaker 3: He chose to still be with her. 225 00:11:02,429 --> 00:11:05,970 Speaker 1: Right. Got married, all that shit. But she did a lot. 226 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,100 Speaker 1: She stuck in for a lot. Yeah. 227 00:11:08,820 --> 00:11:11,540 Speaker 2: And then he lost that house. And I think that 228 00:11:11,580 --> 00:11:13,590 Speaker 2: took her over the top. And then she left him. 229 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, how long you supposed to struggle with him? 230 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:18,479 Speaker 1: How long? How long. 231 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:20,700 Speaker 3: How long is a black woman supposed to struggle? Like, 232 00:11:20,740 --> 00:11:23,140 Speaker 3: how much of my soul you want before you know 233 00:11:23,179 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: I'm the one? 234 00:11:24,140 --> 00:11:27,890 Speaker 2: But then she was, like, feeling like that woman was 235 00:11:27,929 --> 00:11:31,010 Speaker 2: living her life. Like, all the fruits of her labor, 236 00:11:31,050 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: now this lady gets to come in and just have it. 237 00:11:34,309 --> 00:11:36,510 Speaker 2: And I be wondering, do Tori feel like that? 238 00:11:37,950 --> 00:11:40,170 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure she does. I mean, she has his children. 239 00:11:40,190 --> 00:11:43,230 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure she's taken care of financially. But, I mean, 240 00:11:43,270 --> 00:11:45,829 Speaker 3: but she's still going. She's still working. She's going on tour. 241 00:11:45,870 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 3: But it's probably something she likes to do. They like 242 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,780 Speaker 3: to make jokes and say that she was writing his 243 00:11:51,260 --> 00:11:54,290 Speaker 3: jokes anyway. So I've seen some stuff. 244 00:11:54,309 --> 00:11:55,090 Speaker 1: She's pretty funny. 245 00:11:56,290 --> 00:11:59,270 Speaker 2: I just hate that for us, you know? I want 246 00:11:59,490 --> 00:12:03,030 Speaker 2: to see us win. I want to see it, like, 247 00:12:03,510 --> 00:12:05,530 Speaker 2: go through the trenches with our men if we have 248 00:12:05,590 --> 00:12:08,890 Speaker 2: to and receive the fruits of the labor at the end, 249 00:12:09,250 --> 00:12:11,070 Speaker 2: you know? So that makes me sad. 250 00:12:11,130 --> 00:12:12,949 Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of stories like that. But, 251 00:12:13,010 --> 00:12:15,290 Speaker 3: I mean, we going based off the Internet shit. 252 00:12:15,860 --> 00:12:16,140 Speaker 1: Yeah. 253 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 2: Right? 254 00:12:16,340 --> 00:12:19,700 Speaker 1: It's a lot of people who struggle together and still together. Yeah. 255 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 3: But I still like to see, like, the internet shit 256 00:12:23,860 --> 00:12:27,610 Speaker 3: because it gives, like, a nice little sample size of 257 00:12:27,710 --> 00:12:30,210 Speaker 3: how a lot of men still also think. 258 00:12:31,309 --> 00:12:33,630 Speaker 2: If y'all have a story of where you and your 259 00:12:33,650 --> 00:12:35,930 Speaker 2: man been in the trenches together and y'all still together 260 00:12:35,970 --> 00:12:38,730 Speaker 2: very much in love, DM us so we can read 261 00:12:38,750 --> 00:12:42,890 Speaker 2: it on the show because we share a lot of 262 00:12:42,929 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: the stories of where the women... get lost in the sauce. 263 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 2: So we want to share some of those stories of 264 00:12:48,020 --> 00:12:50,329 Speaker 2: where y'all went together. Send it to us. I need 265 00:12:50,350 --> 00:12:51,110 Speaker 2: to hear that shit. 266 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:52,110 Speaker 1: Yeah. 267 00:12:53,550 --> 00:12:56,610 Speaker 2: So Rick Ross is, go ahead. You tell that. Cause 268 00:12:56,670 --> 00:12:58,170 Speaker 2: I don't even be knowing these bitches names. 269 00:13:02,570 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: Christina. Oh, Charles, your lunch is ready. No, Christina. 270 00:13:10,820 --> 00:13:11,579 Speaker 2: You remember Christina? 271 00:13:11,620 --> 00:13:17,429 Speaker 1: What's the movie? Um, Diary of a Mad Black Woman. Christina. Oh, 272 00:13:17,490 --> 00:13:18,350 Speaker 1: Christina's in here. 273 00:13:19,970 --> 00:13:22,970 Speaker 2: She left. She took all your money with her. 274 00:13:23,730 --> 00:13:25,730 Speaker 1: Right. So Christina Mackey. Right. 275 00:13:25,890 --> 00:13:29,170 Speaker 3: That is Rick Ross current fling thing. And, you know, 276 00:13:29,210 --> 00:13:33,230 Speaker 3: he rotates bitches every six, 12 months. But they've been 277 00:13:33,270 --> 00:13:35,989 Speaker 3: together or publicly together since December. 278 00:13:36,990 --> 00:13:41,530 Speaker 1: And I don't. She's just on tour on Instagram now. Yeah. 279 00:13:43,150 --> 00:13:46,170 Speaker 3: And recently somebody asked her about Pretty V. Pretty V 280 00:13:46,330 --> 00:13:48,270 Speaker 3: and Rick Ross are friends. I don't believe that they 281 00:13:48,370 --> 00:13:51,030 Speaker 3: ever actually dated. I think that's like a whole little internet, 282 00:13:51,050 --> 00:13:53,579 Speaker 3: just fucking with people type thing. So she was asked 283 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 3: about him because people thought, people started saying, where's Pretty 284 00:13:57,860 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 3: V after they went public, after she and Rick Ross 285 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 3: went public. And she just was like, you know, I 286 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,460 Speaker 3: don't think that was this. This is what she said. 287 00:14:09,580 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 3: That wasn't this. There's no pictures of them. holding hands, 288 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 3: which is the truth. There's no this and there's no that. 289 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:16,740 Speaker 3: She didn't lie. 290 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: It just was her delivery that was a bit crass, 291 00:14:19,420 --> 00:14:22,540 Speaker 2: I felt like. You didn't tell a lie, but it 292 00:14:22,610 --> 00:14:26,370 Speaker 2: almost sounded like you think you're better than Pretty V. 293 00:14:27,070 --> 00:14:27,350 Speaker 1: Right. 294 00:14:27,510 --> 00:14:29,250 Speaker 2: And that's the part that I didn't like. 295 00:14:30,070 --> 00:14:30,350 Speaker 1: Right. 296 00:14:30,430 --> 00:14:33,630 Speaker 3: She said, I think it's funny. It's levels to everything, right? 297 00:14:33,970 --> 00:14:37,450 Speaker 3: And that was never this. After the host asked her 298 00:14:37,510 --> 00:14:41,150 Speaker 3: to elaborate, Christina replied, whatever they had is not what 299 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:41,790 Speaker 3: we have. 300 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: With a little laugh. She added that it's simple, but clarified. 301 00:14:46,660 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: It's no disrespect to anybody. 302 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,460 Speaker 3: Whatever y'all think they have is not what we have 303 00:14:52,500 --> 00:14:56,540 Speaker 3: for sure, Mackie emphasized. So I'm not worried about it. 304 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: I see the comments too. So they, I don't believe 305 00:14:59,460 --> 00:15:02,700 Speaker 3: that they were ever in anything. And that's why Pretty 306 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,620 Speaker 3: V did like a whole little skit eating fucking Wingstop. 307 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: Right, because if that was her real nigga, she wouldn't 308 00:15:08,140 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 2: do that, you know? Right, right. 309 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: Girl, you the only, well, I won't. 310 00:15:12,780 --> 00:15:14,859 Speaker 3: Say she's the only person who wants him because Rick 311 00:15:14,900 --> 00:15:15,980 Speaker 3: Ross just had a newborn. 312 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,260 Speaker 1: Okay. 313 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,500 Speaker 3: So this, Christina also has a video where, you know, 314 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:22,900 Speaker 3: people have been calling her a pick me. 315 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:24,260 Speaker 1: Right. 316 00:15:25,580 --> 00:15:27,500 Speaker 3: And she was like, I'll be a pick me because 317 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 3: I want my man to pick me all the time. 318 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: I want us to pick each other. I'll be a 319 00:15:31,700 --> 00:15:36,710 Speaker 1: pick me. But girl, you are misspelling or mispronouncing everything. 320 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: dummy let's be very. 321 00:15:39,740 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: Clear because this nigga that you be bragging about online 322 00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:47,650 Speaker 3: just had a whole nother human being with someone else. 323 00:15:47,990 --> 00:15:51,430 Speaker 2: Well you know I don't I don't blame her for 324 00:15:52,370 --> 00:15:54,630 Speaker 2: being excited because they look to be very much in 325 00:15:54,790 --> 00:15:57,050 Speaker 2: smitten with each other right now right so I don't 326 00:15:57,070 --> 00:15:59,670 Speaker 2: blame her for being excited about yeah right now all 327 00:15:59,690 --> 00:16:02,670 Speaker 2: we can do is the present so I don't blame 328 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:06,020 Speaker 2: her for being excited about this new romance that she's 329 00:16:06,140 --> 00:16:09,220 Speaker 2: in but I just think it's her delivery. It just 330 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: comes off very condescending. And I, and that's the part 331 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: I don't like, but she's being attacked for, you know, 332 00:16:14,660 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 2: people are attacking her. I wouldn't want to be called 333 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,540 Speaker 2: a pick me like, damn, is that what I'm giving? 334 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: You know, uh, that's not what I'm trying to give. 335 00:16:23,420 --> 00:16:26,060 Speaker 2: I think if someone would have asked me like, so 336 00:16:26,540 --> 00:16:29,780 Speaker 2: what about pretty V? And that's my niggas ex are 337 00:16:30,570 --> 00:16:33,690 Speaker 2: like publicly seeming like to be their ex. I would 338 00:16:33,710 --> 00:16:36,730 Speaker 2: have been like, I think she's so funny. She's very funny. 339 00:16:36,790 --> 00:16:37,210 Speaker 1: I love the. 340 00:16:37,170 --> 00:16:40,090 Speaker 2: Jamaican skit that she does. You know, I wasn't there 341 00:16:40,130 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 2: for that. So that's a question for Pretty V and 342 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,020 Speaker 2: Rick Ross. So much love to her. I hope she 343 00:16:45,060 --> 00:16:46,460 Speaker 2: has an amazing 2024. Period. And move on. 344 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:52,220 Speaker 1: That's some girls, girls shit. Okay. That's a brilliant response 345 00:16:52,870 --> 00:16:53,950 Speaker 1: and how you should respond. 346 00:16:53,970 --> 00:16:57,490 Speaker 3: But when you pick me, because that is what she's giving, 347 00:16:58,230 --> 00:16:59,730 Speaker 3: you would try to slight other women. 348 00:17:00,270 --> 00:17:03,030 Speaker 1: That's not what we here for. Right. I'm not really 349 00:17:03,050 --> 00:17:04,070 Speaker 1: here for her and her antics. 350 00:17:04,150 --> 00:17:07,860 Speaker 3: I don't know who found her online, but I'm kind 351 00:17:07,900 --> 00:17:10,300 Speaker 3: of tired of seeing her pop up on my timeline. 352 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 2: She just got to figure out a better way to 353 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:16,340 Speaker 2: communicate what she's saying because it's just... What's her sign? 354 00:17:16,380 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 2: You say it. 355 00:17:17,380 --> 00:17:20,510 Speaker 1: She's a fucking Virgo. Let me tell y'all about Virgos, okay? 356 00:17:20,550 --> 00:17:21,530 Speaker 1: This is a real thing. 357 00:17:22,090 --> 00:17:25,450 Speaker 3: Y'all, literally, we was in a meeting yesterday, and I 358 00:17:25,630 --> 00:17:27,550 Speaker 3: told Tammy and Taylor, I said, this bitch a Virgo. 359 00:17:27,970 --> 00:17:29,550 Speaker 1: I bet y'all she a Virgo. I go look her 360 00:17:29,590 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: birthday up. She's a fucking Virgo. 361 00:17:31,780 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 3: One thing about Virgos, they never see their perception of 362 00:17:37,540 --> 00:17:41,389 Speaker 3: what's going on. It's always going to defend their decisions 363 00:17:41,550 --> 00:17:44,770 Speaker 3: and shit. Because they never feel like they're being played. 364 00:17:44,790 --> 00:17:47,990 Speaker 3: They're always above everything that's going on. And they know 365 00:17:48,109 --> 00:17:51,230 Speaker 3: everything that's going on. I knew that. They sign up 366 00:17:51,270 --> 00:17:52,250 Speaker 3: for all the things, right? 367 00:17:52,270 --> 00:17:52,710 Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. 368 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,820 Speaker 1: I have a friend who's a fucking Virgo. And when 369 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,500 Speaker 1: I tell y'all, when I tell her my dumb bitch shit, 370 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,629 Speaker 1: she'd be like, I don't see, I don't see how 371 00:18:02,650 --> 00:18:04,449 Speaker 1: y'all can do that. I don't see how you could 372 00:18:04,470 --> 00:18:05,810 Speaker 1: deal with niggas. Girl, bye. 373 00:18:06,010 --> 00:18:07,850 Speaker 3: As if you've never been played by a man before. 374 00:18:07,869 --> 00:18:10,810 Speaker 3: Let's be, every woman has been played by a man. 375 00:18:10,910 --> 00:18:12,659 Speaker 3: Like that's what dumb bitch shit is about. 376 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:18,970 Speaker 1: Lisa. Okay. Stop playing with my friend now. And look, 377 00:18:19,300 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: Lisa's a goddamn Virgo too. That's what I'm talking about. 378 00:18:22,540 --> 00:18:25,220 Speaker 1: And that's not even the friend I was talking about 379 00:18:25,260 --> 00:18:28,660 Speaker 1: just then. There's another friend. Like, you can't tell these 380 00:18:28,700 --> 00:18:32,300 Speaker 1: bitches they ain't never been a dumb bitch. Okay? Y'all have. 381 00:18:32,580 --> 00:18:37,020 Speaker 1: Everybody has. Everybody. Men and women alike. Okay? So ain't 382 00:18:37,060 --> 00:18:40,780 Speaker 1: nobody exempt from this dumb bitch-ism. Cut it out. Christina, 383 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,350 Speaker 1: you being a dumb bitch right now, girl. You know, 384 00:18:43,390 --> 00:18:45,270 Speaker 1: and I hope Rick Ross marries you. 385 00:18:45,990 --> 00:18:46,690 Speaker 2: Me too. 386 00:18:46,930 --> 00:18:49,670 Speaker 1: Remember he was engaged to Lyra before. 387 00:18:50,230 --> 00:18:51,070 Speaker 2: Lyra Galore? 388 00:18:51,330 --> 00:18:54,740 Speaker 1: Lyra, Lyra. Yeah, Lyra Galore. And then she ended up 389 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: having a baby for P. Y'all, listen. I know y'all 390 00:18:59,060 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 1: gonna get on me for this type of shit, but listen. 391 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:02,780 Speaker 1: I am a cute girl. 392 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,940 Speaker 2: You are a beautiful woman. 393 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,180 Speaker 1: But, I am a beautiful woman. 394 00:19:07,369 --> 00:19:09,710 Speaker 3: But, one thing about it, I'm not about to risk my, 395 00:19:09,830 --> 00:19:10,950 Speaker 3: I'm not so selfish. 396 00:19:11,700 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: That I'm going to risk my. 397 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:19,670 Speaker 3: Child being beautiful having babies by certain niggas. Like, Lyra's baby, 398 00:19:19,790 --> 00:19:21,369 Speaker 3: this little girl is so, so cute. 399 00:19:21,490 --> 00:19:24,450 Speaker 1: But it could have went left. It could have went left. 400 00:19:24,510 --> 00:19:27,010 Speaker 1: This new baby that Rick Ross got is so, so cute, 401 00:19:27,050 --> 00:19:29,810 Speaker 1: but it could have went left. Because he got some 402 00:19:29,890 --> 00:19:32,890 Speaker 1: other kids that look kind of crazy. Uh-uh. 403 00:19:33,150 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 2: We not doing that with the kids now. 404 00:19:34,940 --> 00:19:37,159 Speaker 1: You can't be about the check so bad that you 405 00:19:37,180 --> 00:19:38,820 Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about your lineage. 406 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:40,020 Speaker 2: Come on, man. 407 00:19:40,060 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 1: Y'all bitches can't be that selfish. 408 00:19:42,140 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 2: Be careful. 409 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:43,660 Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. 410 00:19:44,380 --> 00:19:45,980 Speaker 2: That is so mean, AJ. 411 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,550 Speaker 1: That is not mean. I care about my offspring. 412 00:19:48,950 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 3: I care about my kids. And I don't love nobody 413 00:19:51,980 --> 00:19:56,100 Speaker 3: enough to fuck their lives up. You know, ugly people 414 00:19:56,140 --> 00:19:59,110 Speaker 3: have good lives too, right? That is not what my 415 00:19:59,140 --> 00:20:01,750 Speaker 3: middle school teacher told me. Okay, that nigga. 416 00:20:01,530 --> 00:20:03,950 Speaker 1: Said, if you challenge in the face, you will have 417 00:20:03,970 --> 00:20:07,790 Speaker 1: a hard life. If Rick Ross didn't have to check, 418 00:20:07,910 --> 00:20:09,490 Speaker 1: you think bitches would be on him like this? 419 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,260 Speaker 3: Rick Ross literally thinks he's a dime. He was talking 420 00:20:13,340 --> 00:20:16,260 Speaker 3: crazy about Toni Braxton calling her an old lady. 421 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,070 Speaker 1: Y'all the same age, nigga. Imagine that. 422 00:20:21,550 --> 00:20:22,270 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wild. 423 00:20:23,090 --> 00:20:25,190 Speaker 3: These niggas turn into bad bitches when they get the 424 00:20:25,250 --> 00:20:27,470 Speaker 3: check and they be treating people terribly. 425 00:20:27,490 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it. 426 00:20:31,140 --> 00:20:34,230 Speaker 2: All the children are. We at We Talk Back believe 427 00:20:34,390 --> 00:20:36,869 Speaker 2: all children are beautiful and God's gift to the earth. 428 00:20:36,910 --> 00:20:41,330 Speaker 1: That is not true. Children? They might be God's gift. Dog, 429 00:20:43,130 --> 00:20:44,959 Speaker 1: I am not the type to be like, if I, 430 00:20:45,700 --> 00:20:46,620 Speaker 1: never mind, let's go on. 431 00:20:49,220 --> 00:20:53,570 Speaker 2: All children are beautiful. I want one, so I'm not going, 432 00:20:53,609 --> 00:20:53,870 Speaker 2: you know. 433 00:20:54,810 --> 00:20:56,909 Speaker 1: I want one too, but I know like, listen. 434 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,340 Speaker 3: Depending on how much I love this nigga, he could 435 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,780 Speaker 3: be ugly, and I'm going to love him through. 436 00:21:01,660 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: The ugly baby. 437 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:09,020 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've dated some men that wasn't as aesthetically beautiful, 438 00:21:09,900 --> 00:21:13,219 Speaker 2: but had great spirit and good energy and made me 439 00:21:13,270 --> 00:21:16,129 Speaker 2: laugh with my whole soul, and had a big old dick. 440 00:21:16,270 --> 00:21:20,470 Speaker 1: You don't want your daughter looking like him. That is scary. 441 00:21:20,930 --> 00:21:21,730 Speaker 2: Look like me. 442 00:21:21,750 --> 00:21:25,580 Speaker 1: Girl, these girls, these... Who you look like? 443 00:21:25,950 --> 00:21:30,020 Speaker 2: You know, I never even considered that. I just loved him, 444 00:21:30,100 --> 00:21:33,139 Speaker 2: so I didn't even consider, like, I would have an 445 00:21:33,300 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 2: ugly baby, you know? I never thought about it. I 446 00:21:36,420 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: don't know. I get what you're saying. 447 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 3: Even while on top of that ugly dick, you ain't 448 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:43,409 Speaker 3: never thought about it. 449 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 2: I just always thought, like, if I had a child, 450 00:21:46,940 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 2: the child would come out beautiful. Either way, it was 451 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,369 Speaker 2: going to be beautiful to me, you know, because it 452 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,420 Speaker 2: was my baby. Like, everybody look at my beautiful gargoyle. Like, 453 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,370 Speaker 2: I wouldn't care. This is my beautiful gargoyle. Of course 454 00:21:58,390 --> 00:21:59,310 Speaker 2: you're not going to care. 455 00:21:59,350 --> 00:22:03,250 Speaker 3: I'm talking about the world and how the world treat people. Like, 456 00:22:03,670 --> 00:22:05,470 Speaker 3: I just be being realistic. 457 00:22:05,510 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: That's all. I'm not trying to give my kids any disadvantages. 458 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:10,699 Speaker 1: That's it. 459 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 2: Let's talk about tiny daughters. 460 00:22:16,060 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: She lucky too. 461 00:22:16,820 --> 00:22:16,899 Speaker 3: Girl! 462 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:25,060 Speaker 1: Girl! Y'all see how they've been doing Tiny on the internet. 463 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 1: Zanique is fucking lucky to her daddy part. Fine as hell. Okay. 464 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,429 Speaker 1: Now Tiny was, Tiny was cute. Tiny should not have 465 00:22:35,470 --> 00:22:38,369 Speaker 1: done all that work to her, to herself. She definitely 466 00:22:38,390 --> 00:22:39,070 Speaker 1: was a pretty girl. 467 00:22:40,710 --> 00:22:43,130 Speaker 2: You so mean. She was. 468 00:22:43,210 --> 00:22:45,770 Speaker 1: I'm not mean. Like this is, it's just. Are you 469 00:22:45,790 --> 00:22:48,170 Speaker 1: a girl's girl? Are you a girl's girl? 470 00:22:49,230 --> 00:22:52,270 Speaker 3: I'm definitely a girl's girl, but I know when somebody 471 00:22:52,330 --> 00:22:54,670 Speaker 3: is not cute. Let's not play like we don't know that. 472 00:22:55,950 --> 00:23:00,010 Speaker 1: Okay. And you may not say it on this fucking live. Okay. 473 00:23:01,990 --> 00:23:03,540 Speaker 1: But we're going to talk about your ass when we 474 00:23:03,580 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: hang up. 475 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,250 Speaker 2: All right. So. On Tuesday, January 9th, Zanique and Izzy 476 00:23:11,330 --> 00:23:13,909 Speaker 2: uploaded a question and answer video to their YouTube channel, 477 00:23:14,190 --> 00:23:17,470 Speaker 2: The Hunter Family. About eight minutes into the video, Zanique 478 00:23:17,490 --> 00:23:20,890 Speaker 2: posed a challenging question to her boyfriend. Would we still 479 00:23:20,950 --> 00:23:24,669 Speaker 2: be together if we didn't have our three-year-old daughter? And 480 00:23:24,710 --> 00:23:29,740 Speaker 2: this nigga basically says, nah, he ain't with the bullshit. 481 00:23:29,940 --> 00:23:31,540 Speaker 2: And he would not be with her if it wasn't 482 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:36,580 Speaker 2: for the kid. On this live, and I'm impressed with 483 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:42,969 Speaker 2: how she remained calm. And I admire that. Because as 484 00:23:43,050 --> 00:23:45,230 Speaker 2: nice as I like to be, I think that shit 485 00:23:45,250 --> 00:23:48,350 Speaker 2: would have turned into an episode of Cops. 486 00:23:49,630 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: That's all you was going to hear if it was me. 487 00:23:52,180 --> 00:23:53,860 Speaker 2: Yeah, because how you going to play with me like 488 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 2: that on this shit? We got all these people listening, 489 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 2: and you're going to tell me to my face that 490 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,740 Speaker 2: you would not be with me. It would make me like, 491 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 2: Maybe they broke up, you know, maybe they broke up 492 00:24:05,900 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 2: after that live because I would definitely be like. 493 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 1: They didn't though. 494 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 3: Cause they even posted a followup video after that. And 495 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 3: he basically was saying like, I'm here because I want 496 00:24:14,340 --> 00:24:16,619 Speaker 3: to be here. I got three other kids, you know 497 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,050 Speaker 3: what I'm saying? Like this one ain't like I'm here 498 00:24:19,109 --> 00:24:22,649 Speaker 3: because I want to be here. Um, I think the 499 00:24:22,670 --> 00:24:26,389 Speaker 3: questions actually came from the audience. So somebody on the 500 00:24:26,430 --> 00:24:29,070 Speaker 3: live asked, you know, would they be together if it 501 00:24:29,109 --> 00:24:32,300 Speaker 3: wasn't for the three year old? And he said no, 502 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:36,129 Speaker 3: explaining that he believes Anique had envisioned raising their daughter 503 00:24:36,150 --> 00:24:38,869 Speaker 3: in a two-parent household, which led her to tolerate a 504 00:24:38,890 --> 00:24:42,330 Speaker 3: lot of issues in their relationship. So, you recognize that 505 00:24:42,430 --> 00:24:45,250 Speaker 3: she is trying to keep her family together. And I 506 00:24:45,290 --> 00:24:48,230 Speaker 3: guess he feels like he's also doing the same thing 507 00:24:48,300 --> 00:24:52,220 Speaker 3: by tolerating her attitude, because he was like, um, you 508 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,700 Speaker 3: always got an attitude. I wouldn't let no bitch, nobody 509 00:24:54,740 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 3: in general talk to me, you know, act the way 510 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,040 Speaker 3: you be acting, is what he was saying to her. Um, 511 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,810 Speaker 3: But we talk about this a lot, how men, like 512 00:25:02,850 --> 00:25:04,850 Speaker 3: women be having grievances with men, right? 513 00:25:05,350 --> 00:25:06,450 Speaker 1: And we voice them a lot. 514 00:25:07,170 --> 00:25:09,230 Speaker 3: We tell them every single day what we don't like 515 00:25:09,250 --> 00:25:13,189 Speaker 3: until they do course correction. But men oftentimes keep things in. 516 00:25:13,230 --> 00:25:16,250 Speaker 3: They don't tell the woman. So women really be thinking 517 00:25:16,270 --> 00:25:18,490 Speaker 3: they be above reproach out this bitch. You know, like 518 00:25:18,530 --> 00:25:19,950 Speaker 3: they were perfect in their relationship. 519 00:25:20,030 --> 00:25:22,590 Speaker 1: It's only because the nigga never told you. He probably 520 00:25:22,630 --> 00:25:24,510 Speaker 1: just went to the club and had Chris Sean Rock 521 00:25:24,609 --> 00:25:25,310 Speaker 1: sitting on his dick. 522 00:25:25,869 --> 00:25:26,750 Speaker 2: That's fine. 523 00:25:26,830 --> 00:25:27,669 Speaker 1: Instead of telling you. 524 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,380 Speaker 2: That's how they handle it. That's how they handle their 525 00:25:31,460 --> 00:25:33,700 Speaker 2: issues often. I won't say all of them because I 526 00:25:33,740 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 2: don't want to just, you know, condemn all men. But 527 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 2: they will have, like, another person to alleviate the stress 528 00:25:41,940 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: that they have at home instead of just, like, you know, 529 00:25:44,780 --> 00:25:47,859 Speaker 2: battling the issues up front with your girl. 530 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,810 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, tell her what's up so she can fix 531 00:25:50,830 --> 00:25:52,660 Speaker 1: the problem. You know what I'm saying? 532 00:25:52,740 --> 00:25:56,389 Speaker 3: And I know women have accountability issues, but it's on 533 00:25:56,410 --> 00:25:57,230 Speaker 3: their ass like they. 534 00:25:57,150 --> 00:25:57,429 Speaker 1: Do to you. 535 00:25:58,750 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 2: I like in hindsight of my last relationship, um, I 536 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 2: see all these, yeah, a hundred years ago, literally, I. 537 00:26:08,980 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: Can see. 538 00:26:10,900 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: All the errors, fuck you, all the errors of my 539 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 2: ways that he never, like even things that he never 540 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: brought to my attention. I can look back and be like, 541 00:26:20,900 --> 00:26:24,740 Speaker 2: that was not okay. That was not it. How you 542 00:26:24,790 --> 00:26:27,550 Speaker 2: behaved on that, you know? And I remember him not 543 00:26:27,609 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 2: even saying nothing. So I'm thinking, like, damn, he probably 544 00:26:31,020 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 2: felt a way about that and just didn't. Or he 545 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,980 Speaker 2: went and fucked somebody else after. You know, who knows 546 00:26:37,020 --> 00:26:39,909 Speaker 2: what he did. But he didn't come to me with it, 547 00:26:40,180 --> 00:26:43,140 Speaker 2: and he shouldn't. And I did believe in a lot 548 00:26:43,180 --> 00:26:48,380 Speaker 2: of ways that I was a stellar girlfriend, and oftentimes 549 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 2: I wasn't, you know. So I really couldn't identify with that, 550 00:26:53,550 --> 00:26:53,850 Speaker 2: you know. 551 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,190 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a lot of us can. 552 00:26:56,230 --> 00:26:58,990 Speaker 3: If we actually sit back and think, about our relationships, 553 00:26:59,010 --> 00:27:01,629 Speaker 3: whether you were at fault majority of the time or 554 00:27:01,650 --> 00:27:04,189 Speaker 3: the man was at fault, you learned something about yourself 555 00:27:04,230 --> 00:27:08,090 Speaker 3: through that relationship. So what did you learn about yourself, 556 00:27:10,450 --> 00:27:11,390 Speaker 3: negative or positive? 557 00:27:12,270 --> 00:27:14,369 Speaker 2: What did you learn about yourself in your last relationship? 558 00:27:17,690 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 3: I think somebody asked me that recently, and I'm still 559 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,500 Speaker 3: thinking about it. I'm still, because it was so tumultuous. 560 00:27:25,260 --> 00:27:26,220 Speaker 3: I just don't know. 561 00:27:26,810 --> 00:27:29,290 Speaker 1: What was my, like, I know I, I always learn 562 00:27:29,330 --> 00:27:32,450 Speaker 1: like how I don't want to be treated. Right. There 563 00:27:32,550 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: are things. Okay. 564 00:27:34,980 --> 00:27:36,980 Speaker 3: So the tit for tat thing, I learned like, maybe 565 00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:38,660 Speaker 3: I shouldn't be that way. I should just walk away. 566 00:27:39,420 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? 567 00:27:40,060 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: But I just, I feel like that is actually giving grace. 568 00:27:42,940 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: If I'm tit tatting, you know what I'm saying? 569 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,310 Speaker 3: Because if you do something to me, right, I won't 570 00:27:49,390 --> 00:27:52,130 Speaker 3: necessarily leave, leave because I realized that we are just 571 00:27:52,170 --> 00:27:53,590 Speaker 3: humans and people going to make mistakes. 572 00:27:54,070 --> 00:27:55,889 Speaker 1: Right. And I want to be able to make a 573 00:27:55,910 --> 00:27:58,540 Speaker 1: mistake too. And you not harass me about it. 574 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,140 Speaker 3: That might be a fucked up way of thinking. 575 00:28:01,700 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: But why not? 576 00:28:03,430 --> 00:28:07,550 Speaker 2: But if you intentionally make this mistake because they made 577 00:28:07,570 --> 00:28:08,070 Speaker 2: the mistake. 578 00:28:08,109 --> 00:28:10,650 Speaker 3: It's not really intentional. It's like, I wanted to do 579 00:28:10,710 --> 00:28:14,630 Speaker 3: this too. Like, why you get to do it? Why 580 00:28:14,650 --> 00:28:15,990 Speaker 3: do you get to do it and you think I 581 00:28:16,020 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 3: don't want to? But I'm practicing discipline in the relationship. 582 00:28:20,740 --> 00:28:24,220 Speaker 3: Whereas you have none. So the minute I do some shit, 583 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,290 Speaker 3: it's like the world is about to end. That is 584 00:28:27,380 --> 00:28:29,990 Speaker 3: fucked up. But, I mean, men are men and women 585 00:28:30,030 --> 00:28:32,610 Speaker 3: are women, I guess. But I'm a grown-ass man. 586 00:28:33,170 --> 00:28:33,870 Speaker 1: So there's that part. 587 00:28:36,090 --> 00:28:38,790 Speaker 2: I think the greatest thing I learned, and I won't say, 588 00:28:40,410 --> 00:28:43,090 Speaker 2: it was a situation shift, honestly, because that was never 589 00:28:43,170 --> 00:28:45,170 Speaker 2: my man. I was never walking around saying, my man, 590 00:28:45,190 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 2: my man, my man, you know. But I learned that 591 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,690 Speaker 2: my boundaries have to be stronger than my empathy. with 592 00:28:56,710 --> 00:29:00,660 Speaker 2: people like I really that's one thing I really learned 593 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,220 Speaker 2: like I have to I would always well this happened 594 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,620 Speaker 2: to him and that happened to him so that's why 595 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 2: he can shit on me you know and I have 596 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 2: to realize that that's one thing I definitely learned that 597 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,330 Speaker 2: I have to be steadfast in my boundaries for myself 598 00:29:15,380 --> 00:29:18,510 Speaker 2: and I can't put my empathy for other people's situation 599 00:29:18,670 --> 00:29:22,150 Speaker 2: above the boundaries in my own life you know so 600 00:29:22,210 --> 00:29:26,750 Speaker 2: that was one great lesson and then another lesson is 601 00:29:26,790 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 2: that I can love someone selflessly. You know, I think 602 00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 2: in my other relationships, I definitely was more selfish and 603 00:29:34,020 --> 00:29:36,709 Speaker 2: like me, me, me, me, me. You're lucky to. 604 00:29:36,590 --> 00:29:37,190 Speaker 1: Be with me. 605 00:29:37,510 --> 00:29:39,910 Speaker 2: Nigga, do you see me, nigga? Like I find you. 606 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,580 Speaker 2: I'm beautiful I'm sucking your dick good I'm cooking for 607 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 2: you like and I was just a very me me 608 00:29:46,500 --> 00:29:50,460 Speaker 2: me bitch right and in that last situationship I was 609 00:29:50,700 --> 00:29:54,670 Speaker 2: able to be like very selfless to a flaw almost 610 00:29:54,990 --> 00:29:56,170 Speaker 2: you know to a fault. 611 00:29:58,430 --> 00:30:01,030 Speaker 3: Now that you're saying that I feel like in relationships, 612 00:30:01,310 --> 00:30:05,310 Speaker 3: I probably am not selfish enough because once somebody tell 613 00:30:05,350 --> 00:30:06,710 Speaker 3: me they want to do this, they want to do that. 614 00:30:06,930 --> 00:30:08,310 Speaker 1: I'm putting all my energy. 615 00:30:08,050 --> 00:30:10,650 Speaker 3: Towards whatever it is that they want to do. And 616 00:30:10,690 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 3: I put myself on the back burner. So that might 617 00:30:13,820 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 3: be like, I am learning to be a little bit 618 00:30:15,820 --> 00:30:20,460 Speaker 3: more selfish. And that's just even in friendship relationships, all relationships. 619 00:30:20,500 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 3: I feel like I'd be doing too fucking much and 620 00:30:22,860 --> 00:30:25,900 Speaker 3: I don't get nothing in return. A lot of times, um, 621 00:30:27,250 --> 00:30:29,770 Speaker 3: in a relationship with a man, like, if you help 622 00:30:29,810 --> 00:30:31,570 Speaker 3: him build a business, stuff like that, of course you're 623 00:30:31,590 --> 00:30:35,230 Speaker 3: going to get financial return. But are you feeling fulfilled 624 00:30:35,410 --> 00:30:37,290 Speaker 3: doing the things that you want to do? Because at 625 00:30:37,310 --> 00:30:39,430 Speaker 3: the beginning of this podcast, I was in a whole relationship. 626 00:30:40,260 --> 00:30:43,300 Speaker 3: And when we started this thing, it created a problem 627 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,700 Speaker 3: in the relationship, too, because I was doing something outside 628 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 3: of him. 629 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,140 Speaker 2: Yeah. 630 00:30:49,660 --> 00:30:52,620 Speaker 3: So discipline is one of the other things I learned. 631 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,060 Speaker 3: That nigga's hella disciplined. So I need to be more 632 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,100 Speaker 3: disciplined in this fucking struggle, because I have been doing 633 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,660 Speaker 3: what the fuck I want for many years, and I 634 00:31:00,740 --> 00:31:01,460 Speaker 3: can't do that. 635 00:31:01,540 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: I can't move that way anymore. So that's one of 636 00:31:04,180 --> 00:31:05,070 Speaker 1: the things I learned. Yeah. 637 00:31:06,050 --> 00:31:09,390 Speaker 2: It's all about balance, you know? Not being too selfish, 638 00:31:09,470 --> 00:31:13,350 Speaker 2: not being too selfless. Finding that happy medium where you 639 00:31:13,390 --> 00:31:19,450 Speaker 2: don't feel like your boundaries are being railroaded, and you're 640 00:31:19,490 --> 00:31:22,990 Speaker 2: not just caring only about yourself in a relationship. 641 00:31:23,470 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: Right. Mm-hmm. 642 00:31:25,930 --> 00:31:27,700 Speaker 2: Which is the slippery slope, baby. 643 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,540 Speaker 1: That's your favorite shit to say. 644 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 3: But, y'all, when we come back after break, we want 645 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 3: to get into our main topic. And it's kind of 646 00:31:36,940 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 3: stemming from the shit with this Christina Mackey, Rick Ross's girlfriend, 647 00:31:41,380 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 3: because online they're calling her a pick me. And then 648 00:31:43,860 --> 00:31:47,180 Speaker 3: there's another, like, trend that had been popular on TikTok 649 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,020 Speaker 3: and Instagram, this. 650 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:54,670 Speaker 1: Girls, girls thing. 651 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: 652 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: 653 00:32:04,540 --> 00:32:07,220 Speaker 1: 654 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:08,890 Speaker 1: . 655 00:32:09,990 --> 00:32:11,770 Speaker 2: . 656 00:32:11,570 --> 00:32:14,470 Speaker 3: 657 00:32:14,530 --> 00:32:17,870 Speaker 3: 658 00:32:17,890 --> 00:32:22,030 Speaker 3: anytime 659 00:32:22,090 --> 00:32:25,030 Speaker 3: somebody just does anything like to disagree with a woman 660 00:32:25,550 --> 00:32:27,410 Speaker 3: people in the comments like oh she is not a 661 00:32:27,450 --> 00:32:29,790 Speaker 3: girl's girl now that's one thing I don't agree with 662 00:32:29,850 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 3: like everybody ain't gonna like everybody right you could be 663 00:32:34,650 --> 00:32:42,100 Speaker 3: pleasant to everyone right this girl Christina Mackey people are 664 00:32:42,180 --> 00:32:44,220 Speaker 3: saying that she's not a girl's girl she's actually a 665 00:32:44,260 --> 00:32:45,260 Speaker 3: pick me which. 666 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:51,330 Speaker 1: I consider the counter for girl's girl Tam thinks different, though. 667 00:32:52,930 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 1: So what is a girl's girl to you? To me? 668 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:02,060 Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. I guess a girl's girl to me is someone 669 00:33:02,100 --> 00:33:04,740 Speaker 2: who advocates for women in all ways. You know, like, 670 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,820 Speaker 2: even the smallest of things, like just seeing a woman 671 00:33:07,860 --> 00:33:11,110 Speaker 2: walking down the street in a pretty dress and being like, yes, okay, dress. 672 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:15,050 Speaker 2: You know, just that energy, you know, always advocating for 673 00:33:15,110 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 2: women and spreading love. Yeah. The Brooklyn Waves. 674 00:33:18,620 --> 00:33:20,420 Speaker 1: I call it a hype girl. Because, bitch, I be 675 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: hyping bitches up. 676 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:21,780 Speaker 2: Okay? 677 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: Even if I don't know you. Like, I'm in your comments. Like, 678 00:33:23,860 --> 00:33:26,580 Speaker 1: if you look good, you're like, hey, girl, you look good. Da-da-da-da-da. 679 00:33:27,260 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: Even on the streets. 680 00:33:28,580 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 3: Those are, that's what I consider, like, one of the 681 00:33:31,140 --> 00:33:34,100 Speaker 3: characteristics of a girl's girl. 682 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: Right. 683 00:33:35,940 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: But that's the most basic. Like, if you fuck with 684 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:44,090 Speaker 2: another girl's man, can you call yourself a girl's girl? So, no. 685 00:33:44,220 --> 00:33:46,470 Speaker 1: I have, so I've made a list. I made, well, 686 00:33:46,530 --> 00:33:47,130 Speaker 1: kind of, sort of. 687 00:33:47,870 --> 00:33:49,989 Speaker 3: And part of my list is like things where you 688 00:33:50,030 --> 00:33:51,930 Speaker 3: might not be considered a girl's girl if you do 689 00:33:51,970 --> 00:33:56,510 Speaker 3: these things. And then I have like the internet definition 690 00:33:56,570 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 3: of a girl's girl. So this, I forgot where I 691 00:33:59,190 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 3: got this from, but a girl's girl typically refers to 692 00:34:02,660 --> 00:34:07,300 Speaker 3: a woman who is supportive, understanding, and friendly toward other women. 693 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,900 Speaker 3: It implies a strong sense of camaraderie and solidarity amongst women. 694 00:34:13,500 --> 00:34:17,219 Speaker 3: That's a basic definition of what a girl's girl is. 695 00:34:18,850 --> 00:34:21,650 Speaker 3: I'm definitely a girl's girl niggas really be trying to 696 00:34:21,690 --> 00:34:24,230 Speaker 3: get me to not be a girl's girl though and 697 00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 3: those were like pick me's are people who pander to 698 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 3: men for the approval of men I have a lot 699 00:34:31,100 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 3: of guy friends who send me DM's all the time 700 00:34:34,140 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 3: trying to disparage women because we talk a lot of 701 00:34:36,140 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 3: shit about men and women on this podcast but I'm 702 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,100 Speaker 3: a black woman first so I'm always going to show up. 703 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:46,630 Speaker 2: For us it's definitely if you can put somebody in 704 00:34:46,670 --> 00:34:50,610 Speaker 2: position you know, and then take that opportunity to do it, 705 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 2: that's definitely a girl's girl. Now, some of these lists 706 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 2: was almost sound like lesbian. Like, the only way you 707 00:34:56,620 --> 00:34:58,620 Speaker 2: could be a girl's girl is if you like eating 708 00:34:58,660 --> 00:35:04,210 Speaker 2: pussy too. That's not necessarily true. Like, it was like, 709 00:35:04,250 --> 00:35:05,630 Speaker 2: girl's girls like hate men. 710 00:35:06,510 --> 00:35:06,710 Speaker 1: No. 711 00:35:06,810 --> 00:35:09,009 Speaker 2: And that's not true. Like, you can be a girl's 712 00:35:09,050 --> 00:35:11,870 Speaker 2: girl and love men. But, alright, so, you were saying 713 00:35:11,910 --> 00:35:14,990 Speaker 2: that like, a pick me is like someone who panders 714 00:35:15,010 --> 00:35:19,890 Speaker 2: to men. Or like, Women who say like, I'm a 715 00:35:19,969 --> 00:35:24,609 Speaker 2: guy's girl, like I like. I'm cooler with guys than 716 00:35:24,670 --> 00:35:27,110 Speaker 2: I am women. Do you feel like they're pick me? 717 00:35:28,430 --> 00:35:30,230 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't. Those are guys, girls. 718 00:35:30,270 --> 00:35:36,130 Speaker 3: Those aren't girls, girls, because one of the characteristics of 719 00:35:36,190 --> 00:35:38,350 Speaker 3: a pick me would be someone who says I don't 720 00:35:38,390 --> 00:35:42,069 Speaker 3: have female friends. That's a guy's girl. I don't have 721 00:35:42,090 --> 00:35:45,970 Speaker 3: female friends. I only hang around guys. And the women 722 00:35:46,030 --> 00:35:49,430 Speaker 3: I know that, you know, stand on that, they oftentimes 723 00:35:49,469 --> 00:35:52,590 Speaker 3: done had sex with multiple of them homeboys of theirs 724 00:35:53,620 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 3: also that you'd. 725 00:35:54,900 --> 00:35:55,660 Speaker 1: Be hanging out with. 726 00:35:56,340 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 3: And they just be delusional and fucking ugly inside and out. Like, 727 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 3: I don't like women who don't like other women. 728 00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: Pause. 729 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,180 Speaker 2: Yeah, not the pause. 730 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, because how do you get through life without your girlfriends? 731 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,100 Speaker 2: Yeah, I always find it weird, like, if I meet 732 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 2: a woman who don't have, if they wasn't a military brat, 733 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,819 Speaker 2: you know, who traveled, like, always moving, if you don't 734 00:36:20,860 --> 00:36:23,810 Speaker 2: have nobody that you grew up with as a friend, 735 00:36:23,870 --> 00:36:26,850 Speaker 2: not even one, I'd be side-eyeing bitches like that. Like, 736 00:36:26,890 --> 00:36:30,410 Speaker 2: where's your homegirls at? Where's your childhood friends? Like, how 737 00:36:30,430 --> 00:36:31,450 Speaker 2: do you not have any? 738 00:36:31,969 --> 00:36:34,270 Speaker 3: When I think about the women that I no longer 739 00:36:34,310 --> 00:36:37,660 Speaker 3: have relationships with, like, who I considered, like, best friends 740 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 3: at the time, they don't have any childhood friends. 741 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: They don't have any consistent friends. They have add water. 742 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,260 Speaker 3: For instant friends. Every three to six months, you hanging 743 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:53,020 Speaker 3: out with a different group of people. Those are wishy 744 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,930 Speaker 3: washy people. Like when I make friends with somebody, oftentimes 745 00:36:56,969 --> 00:36:58,390 Speaker 3: I'm friends, friends with them forever. 746 00:37:01,410 --> 00:37:03,310 Speaker 2: So, Oh, you know, I can't say the same. I, 747 00:37:03,610 --> 00:37:09,310 Speaker 2: I have, I have relationships that I've outgrown in different ways. Like, um, 748 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 2: Not because they're bad people or, but it just wasn't. 749 00:37:14,340 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 2: As we got older, our paths just took us different places. 750 00:37:18,540 --> 00:37:22,800 Speaker 2: So I can't necessarily say that I have everybody that 751 00:37:22,930 --> 00:37:25,830 Speaker 2: I've been friends with, you know. Some of them just, 752 00:37:25,870 --> 00:37:28,830 Speaker 2: we not like that no more. And it ain't no beef, 753 00:37:29,250 --> 00:37:32,830 Speaker 2: you know. It's just life. And then I do have 754 00:37:32,850 --> 00:37:35,790 Speaker 2: relationships or I've had relationships with people where I had 755 00:37:35,850 --> 00:37:38,630 Speaker 2: to exit them from my life. for whatever reason, it 756 00:37:38,650 --> 00:37:40,730 Speaker 2: just wasn't healthy. And I'm talking about people who were 757 00:37:41,370 --> 00:37:43,549 Speaker 2: close to me, you know, very close to me. And 758 00:37:43,590 --> 00:37:47,380 Speaker 2: I just, it wasn't healthy. The dynamic was no longer 759 00:37:47,500 --> 00:37:51,500 Speaker 2: suiting my life. So I had to exit them, you know, 760 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,620 Speaker 2: and people I still love very much, you know, and 761 00:37:54,660 --> 00:37:58,100 Speaker 2: I still might inquire about, you know, are they good? 762 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,100 Speaker 2: And I want them to be good, but bitch, I 763 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,410 Speaker 2: don't fuck with you like that. You know, you don't 764 00:38:02,430 --> 00:38:03,609 Speaker 2: have people in your life like that. 765 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 3: I have an ex-friend who I consider a family member. 766 00:38:08,500 --> 00:38:10,779 Speaker 3: I consider her like a sister, a family member who 767 00:38:10,820 --> 00:38:12,739 Speaker 3: I don't fuck with, who I don't talk to no more. 768 00:38:13,420 --> 00:38:16,439 Speaker 3: I do care about her well-being and how she's doing, 769 00:38:16,460 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 3: but she's not a good friend. She's really not a 770 00:38:18,700 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 3: good person. And she always got a different group of friends. 771 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:28,900 Speaker 3: Don't have no childhood friends for real. That's weird to me. 772 00:38:29,860 --> 00:38:32,260 Speaker 1: And I still hear stories about her friendships with other 773 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: women to this day. 774 00:38:34,630 --> 00:38:37,750 Speaker 2: Like having problems and issues and. 775 00:38:37,489 --> 00:38:39,890 Speaker 1: Be falling out. At some point you got to look 776 00:38:39,969 --> 00:38:41,730 Speaker 1: at you at some point. 777 00:38:41,870 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 2: Right. Right. Absolutely. I be falling out with bitches, but 778 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,700 Speaker 2: typically we always come back together, but people don't, you know, 779 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:57,420 Speaker 2: people either love or hate how forward I am at times. 780 00:38:57,500 --> 00:39:00,589 Speaker 2: Like it either is like, okay, I fuck with this 781 00:39:00,750 --> 00:39:02,970 Speaker 2: or I can, I can only deal with this bitch. 782 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,529 Speaker 2: in doses or i can't deal with this bitch at 783 00:39:06,630 --> 00:39:10,549 Speaker 2: all but they have most the people who i am 784 00:39:10,790 --> 00:39:16,089 Speaker 2: very close with still understand that even with my bluntness 785 00:39:16,410 --> 00:39:18,410 Speaker 2: it's coming from a place of love it might come 786 00:39:18,469 --> 00:39:22,230 Speaker 2: off aggressive but it's not meant to be hurtful and 787 00:39:22,250 --> 00:39:24,410 Speaker 2: that's why they can still fuck with me. 788 00:39:25,510 --> 00:39:27,950 Speaker 3: This is from tiktok it says in some ways the 789 00:39:28,050 --> 00:39:30,770 Speaker 3: rise of the girls girls on tiktok is about pushing 790 00:39:30,810 --> 00:39:33,430 Speaker 3: back against the notion that we need to separate ourselves 791 00:39:33,850 --> 00:39:37,530 Speaker 3: from other women and craft personalities that are different from 792 00:39:37,590 --> 00:39:39,070 Speaker 3: those of everyone else. 793 00:39:39,450 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: You know how guys be like, you're just so different 794 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,279 Speaker 1: from everybody else. Like how? 795 00:39:43,700 --> 00:39:46,100 Speaker 3: Because I can give you 30 bitches in my phone 796 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,120 Speaker 3: that seem just like me. 797 00:39:47,790 --> 00:39:50,649 Speaker 1: Right? So it's like a tactic that men use that 798 00:39:50,730 --> 00:39:51,850 Speaker 1: creates pick-me's. 799 00:39:52,489 --> 00:39:52,709 Speaker 2: Right? 800 00:39:52,730 --> 00:39:56,410 Speaker 1: Like, you're so different. A lot of us have a 801 00:39:56,450 --> 00:40:00,109 Speaker 1: lot of the same characteristics. You know what I'm saying? 802 00:40:00,190 --> 00:40:04,750 Speaker 3: And when you start changing yourself completely to suit a male, 803 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,020 Speaker 3: that's when it becomes, like, pick-me-ish. 804 00:40:09,300 --> 00:40:12,800 Speaker 1: You're just going against all women. Right? 805 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,930 Speaker 2: There's a lot of... Yeah, I see... I see a 806 00:40:16,950 --> 00:40:21,070 Speaker 2: lot of videos of women saying all these things about 807 00:40:21,130 --> 00:40:23,109 Speaker 2: what women need to do. And some of it might 808 00:40:23,150 --> 00:40:25,569 Speaker 2: be true, but then some of it does give off 809 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:31,660 Speaker 2: this energy that you're pandering to men in a real way. Like, 810 00:40:33,260 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 2: you need to suck his dick every day when he 811 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:41,919 Speaker 2: come home from work. It don't matter what happened. Like, what? Girl, 812 00:40:41,940 --> 00:40:43,100 Speaker 2: what are you talking about? 813 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,509 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. That's a pick me. 814 00:40:46,590 --> 00:40:48,390 Speaker 2: I'm not sucking nobody dick every day. 815 00:40:49,950 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 1: Right. 816 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 3: So these are the things I came up with that 817 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,500 Speaker 3: I consider a girl's girl. So a girl's girl literally 818 00:40:55,580 --> 00:40:58,980 Speaker 3: fixes each other's crown, even when you don't know the woman. 819 00:40:59,500 --> 00:41:03,380 Speaker 3: So if I see a woman with like toilet tissue 820 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,530 Speaker 3: coming out the bathroom on her shoe, I'd be like, girl, 821 00:41:05,590 --> 00:41:06,069 Speaker 3: hold on. 822 00:41:06,330 --> 00:41:07,609 Speaker 1: Before you go back out in the club. 823 00:41:08,130 --> 00:41:08,510 Speaker 2: Okay. 824 00:41:08,610 --> 00:41:11,009 Speaker 3: Tag sticking out. I'm tucking your tag and I don't 825 00:41:11,030 --> 00:41:12,990 Speaker 3: know you. Hair out of place. 826 00:41:13,070 --> 00:41:15,630 Speaker 1: I'm fixing your hair. Those are the type of things. 827 00:41:15,469 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 2: That- Lashes coming up. Close your eye. Your lash coming up. 828 00:41:18,130 --> 00:41:19,930 Speaker 1: Girl, I got some glue, girl. You know? 829 00:41:19,989 --> 00:41:23,410 Speaker 2: Like, you always trying to make sure their crown- Everybody 830 00:41:23,469 --> 00:41:24,590 Speaker 2: on point. Is good. 831 00:41:24,910 --> 00:41:28,390 Speaker 1: Right? Even women you don't know. With friends, you post 832 00:41:28,430 --> 00:41:32,189 Speaker 1: the best pics. Bitch, even if we- I look fine 833 00:41:32,210 --> 00:41:33,950 Speaker 1: as hell in this picture. You look fucked up. I 834 00:41:33,989 --> 00:41:35,450 Speaker 1: like this picture. This is the only picture we got. 835 00:41:35,469 --> 00:41:36,310 Speaker 1: The picture ain't going up. 836 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:37,379 Speaker 2: Right. 837 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:38,100 Speaker 1: If you don't look good in it. 838 00:41:38,100 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 3: Right. Right? 839 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,790 Speaker 1: Right. Um, and even catching candid photos of your friend 840 00:41:42,810 --> 00:41:44,150 Speaker 1: where you think she looking good. Like, girl, that's a 841 00:41:44,150 --> 00:41:47,189 Speaker 1: good picture. Stay right there. That's a girl's girl. 842 00:41:48,150 --> 00:41:51,730 Speaker 2: Right. But you know what? Sometimes I, somebody will post 843 00:41:51,810 --> 00:41:54,569 Speaker 2: a picture of you that you, they think look good 844 00:41:54,610 --> 00:41:55,930 Speaker 2: of you. And you'd be like, bitch. 845 00:41:56,660 --> 00:41:56,910 Speaker 1: Right. 846 00:41:58,180 --> 00:41:59,020 Speaker 2: That don't look good. 847 00:41:59,540 --> 00:42:01,460 Speaker 1: Right. And you should have ran by me first. 848 00:42:04,100 --> 00:42:05,500 Speaker 2: Um, that's ugly. 849 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,460 Speaker 1: To that one friend I was talking about. 850 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:13,330 Speaker 3: Um, It could be a general consensus that I'm wearing 851 00:42:13,350 --> 00:42:14,430 Speaker 3: some super fly shit. 852 00:42:15,620 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: And I would ask her like, you like this? It 853 00:42:17,460 --> 00:42:18,620 Speaker 1: would always be no. 854 00:42:19,620 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 3: The bitch never liked anything I ever had. Imagine that. 855 00:42:24,820 --> 00:42:26,590 Speaker 3: And I remember one time she called me crying on 856 00:42:26,610 --> 00:42:29,590 Speaker 3: the phone and she was like crying about her boyfriend 857 00:42:29,610 --> 00:42:31,169 Speaker 3: at the time. She was like, I feel like he's 858 00:42:31,230 --> 00:42:34,469 Speaker 3: intentionally disagreeing with me. Bitch, I like to put the 859 00:42:34,489 --> 00:42:37,029 Speaker 3: phone on mute to laugh because I feel like you've 860 00:42:37,070 --> 00:42:43,069 Speaker 3: been trolling me that same way our whole friendship. intentionally disagreeing, 861 00:42:43,110 --> 00:42:44,690 Speaker 3: intentionally just not liking shit. 862 00:42:45,010 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 1: Cause she's country bumpkin. So how the fuck am some 863 00:42:48,180 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 1: shit I'm wearing ain't fly bitch. Are you, are you blind? 864 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:56,070 Speaker 1: And everybody else thinks is nice. Yeah. She never liked it. 865 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 2: And you put the phone on mute and laugh. 866 00:42:59,320 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 1: Yes. 867 00:43:00,590 --> 00:43:01,430 Speaker 2: That's mean. 868 00:43:01,650 --> 00:43:05,270 Speaker 1: That is not mean because you're complaining about something that 869 00:43:05,290 --> 00:43:08,940 Speaker 1: you literally do to other people. Right? So you got 870 00:43:08,980 --> 00:43:13,150 Speaker 1: somebody who's challenging you. He was challenging her. And that 871 00:43:13,170 --> 00:43:15,570 Speaker 1: was a problem for her. You see what I'm saying? 872 00:43:16,090 --> 00:43:22,230 Speaker 3: Now he's intentionally disagreeing because he's challenging you. But you 873 00:43:22,290 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 3: do that to everybody else all day long, but you 874 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,190 Speaker 3: just don't recognize it. 875 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,940 Speaker 1: People don't see themselves oftentimes. You know? 876 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,819 Speaker 3: And that wasn't the time for me to say, hey, 877 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:34,819 Speaker 3: you know, you do that shit to me. 878 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,900 Speaker 1: That wasn't the time. She's crying on the phone. about 879 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 1: the man doing the shit. 880 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,740 Speaker 3: Like I wasn't going to use that as an opportunity 881 00:43:40,780 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 3: to tell her how much of a fucking sucky friend 882 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 3: she is, but it would have been the truth. 883 00:43:45,219 --> 00:43:48,589 Speaker 1: Yeah. But me being a girl's girl. Yeah. 884 00:43:48,610 --> 00:43:49,310 Speaker 2: It wouldn't have been good. 885 00:43:49,330 --> 00:43:50,290 Speaker 1: I put her feelings first. 886 00:43:51,350 --> 00:43:54,190 Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's, it's all about delivery too. Cause 887 00:43:54,210 --> 00:43:58,130 Speaker 2: that could have been a, a opportunity to share like, 888 00:43:59,090 --> 00:44:02,690 Speaker 2: you know, how she, maybe this is why this is happening. 889 00:44:03,330 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 2: You know, like, Sometimes you can be combative with us. 890 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,700 Speaker 2: And like, yeah, you know, even I understand where, you know, 891 00:44:12,469 --> 00:44:14,790 Speaker 2: you don't like, you always tell me you never like 892 00:44:14,870 --> 00:44:18,330 Speaker 2: anything I have on. And it's hurtful sometimes. 893 00:44:18,790 --> 00:44:21,229 Speaker 3: It's never hurtful because I know she was a hater then. 894 00:44:21,530 --> 00:44:23,969 Speaker 3: I just didn't, I didn't really realize it until the 895 00:44:24,130 --> 00:44:25,030 Speaker 3: end of the relationship. 896 00:44:25,070 --> 00:44:25,969 Speaker 1: Like you've been hating on. 897 00:44:25,930 --> 00:44:28,509 Speaker 3: Me because I'm not the type of person who likes 898 00:44:28,530 --> 00:44:29,650 Speaker 3: to say, oh, I got haters. 899 00:44:29,710 --> 00:44:32,549 Speaker 1: Like people are like that are delusional to me. Those 900 00:44:32,630 --> 00:44:33,430 Speaker 1: aren't girls, girls. 901 00:44:33,790 --> 00:44:36,450 Speaker 3: The people who get on the internet and claim all 902 00:44:36,469 --> 00:44:37,930 Speaker 3: these people just always hating on them. 903 00:44:37,969 --> 00:44:38,850 Speaker 1: Like you're delusional. 904 00:44:39,450 --> 00:44:42,020 Speaker 3: You know, it's a general consensus that you're whack as fuck. 905 00:44:42,140 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 3: Nobody's hating on you. 906 00:44:43,980 --> 00:44:49,790 Speaker 1: Okay. But I realized she just was a, a, a, 907 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:50,780 Speaker 1: a AJ hater. 908 00:44:50,900 --> 00:44:53,760 Speaker 3: I realized that at the end of the relationship because 909 00:44:53,820 --> 00:44:57,009 Speaker 3: I'm rewinding like slick shit. She would say, you know 910 00:44:57,030 --> 00:44:59,870 Speaker 3: what I'm saying? Like friends joke on each other all 911 00:44:59,890 --> 00:45:02,669 Speaker 3: the time. You can't get mad because my jokes hit better. 912 00:45:04,010 --> 00:45:04,290 Speaker 1: Right? 913 00:45:04,570 --> 00:45:08,370 Speaker 3: So now you initiated the joking, right? And I just 914 00:45:08,550 --> 00:45:12,070 Speaker 3: fucking clinked your ass up right quick. Now it's a problem. 915 00:45:13,390 --> 00:45:15,029 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing with women. Me and my friend 916 00:45:15,050 --> 00:45:17,839 Speaker 2: was just talking about that last night. Like, we can 917 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 2: be sensitive and some jokes are funny and then sometimes 918 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 2: the jokes hurt, you know? Like, so you just got 919 00:45:24,060 --> 00:45:26,819 Speaker 2: to be, don't start nothing, won't be nothing if you 920 00:45:26,860 --> 00:45:28,800 Speaker 2: in that joke, if you in that jokey mode. 921 00:45:28,820 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 1: Because I got an hour worth of stand-up comedy for anybody. 922 00:45:31,820 --> 00:45:33,450 Speaker 1: It's real. Okay? 923 00:45:33,489 --> 00:45:36,799 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, so now you can't negate how your joke 924 00:45:36,820 --> 00:45:39,700 Speaker 3: made me feel just because I didn't cry about it. 925 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:44,830 Speaker 1: I just came back harder. I'm a one-upper. Okay? Don't 926 00:45:44,870 --> 00:45:47,450 Speaker 1: start no shit. It won't be no shit over here. 927 00:45:48,489 --> 00:45:50,750 Speaker 2: So you and this girl are no longer friends? 928 00:45:50,870 --> 00:45:53,930 Speaker 3: No, absolutely fucking not. And over the years, she's actually 929 00:45:53,989 --> 00:46:00,129 Speaker 3: tried to be my friend again. But I said some 930 00:46:00,150 --> 00:46:03,549 Speaker 3: shit on this podcast like two years ago or so. 931 00:46:04,110 --> 00:46:06,380 Speaker 3: And I think she heard it, and finally she stopped. 932 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,919 Speaker 3: Because I don't know how to be your friend, first 933 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 3: of all. I don't know how to be your friend. 934 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,980 Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable being your friend. I don't feel 935 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:13,700 Speaker 3: comfortable telling you. 936 00:46:13,660 --> 00:46:17,140 Speaker 1: About my life. Nothing. Like, you're not somebody who I 937 00:46:17,180 --> 00:46:20,180 Speaker 1: would want to rekindle anything with. I wish you well, though. 938 00:46:20,219 --> 00:46:24,990 Speaker 1: I hope you're doing well all the time. You know? Because, again, 939 00:46:25,050 --> 00:46:27,230 Speaker 1: it's one of those things where you realize why somebody 940 00:46:27,330 --> 00:46:29,430 Speaker 1: is the way they are. But I don't have to 941 00:46:29,510 --> 00:46:31,280 Speaker 1: use it to justify how the fuck you treat me. 942 00:46:32,810 --> 00:46:33,090 Speaker 2: Right. 943 00:46:33,430 --> 00:46:36,250 Speaker 1: You got to go figure that out. You got to 944 00:46:36,290 --> 00:46:43,380 Speaker 1: go figure it out. One of the characteristics of someone 945 00:46:43,420 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: who is not a girl's girl would be a habitual 946 00:46:46,580 --> 00:46:47,140 Speaker 1: side bitch. 947 00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:50,580 Speaker 2: Always fucking with somebody, man. 948 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,060 Speaker 1: Yes. Okay. 949 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 3: Intentionally fucking with people when you know who they fuck 950 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,180 Speaker 3: with or who you know who their girlfriend is. 951 00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:58,980 Speaker 1: That's weirdo behavior to me. 952 00:47:00,340 --> 00:47:04,040 Speaker 3: If you have a personal relationship with people and you 953 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,700 Speaker 3: fucking on somebody that. 954 00:47:06,420 --> 00:47:10,469 Speaker 1: They're with or used to be with. How about that? 955 00:47:12,450 --> 00:47:15,930 Speaker 3: Fucking with somebody that used to fuck with somebody that's 956 00:47:15,969 --> 00:47:16,430 Speaker 3: your friend. 957 00:47:16,630 --> 00:47:19,750 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. Like we had an actual relationship with 958 00:47:19,790 --> 00:47:20,270 Speaker 1: this person. 959 00:47:22,030 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 2: And you're being deceitful and fucking with them behind their back. 960 00:47:25,300 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 961 00:47:27,260 --> 00:47:31,430 Speaker 1: Yeah. Um... The other thing I had was says they 962 00:47:31,450 --> 00:47:32,169 Speaker 1: only hang with dudes. 963 00:47:32,330 --> 00:47:34,410 Speaker 2: Are you a girl's girl? If you fuck with a 964 00:47:34,450 --> 00:47:39,540 Speaker 2: man and you don't know his bitch, you still not like... 965 00:47:39,540 --> 00:47:41,960 Speaker 2: I guess that's not good girl's girl's behavior. 966 00:47:42,300 --> 00:47:46,660 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not because I always say that women, 967 00:47:46,739 --> 00:47:48,610 Speaker 1: they have a responsibility. They have. 968 00:47:51,180 --> 00:47:53,390 Speaker 3: We have a responsibility to other women. You know how 969 00:47:53,410 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 3: it feels to be hurt. You know how it feels 970 00:47:54,820 --> 00:47:57,530 Speaker 3: to get cheated on. We always want to blame the man. 971 00:47:57,810 --> 00:48:01,550 Speaker 3: But like I say, a man can't cheat unless a 972 00:48:01,590 --> 00:48:04,630 Speaker 3: woman is willing to compete. And bitches is always willing. 973 00:48:05,489 --> 00:48:05,750 Speaker 1: Right? 974 00:48:06,070 --> 00:48:08,990 Speaker 3: So if there was no woman that would be willing 975 00:48:09,010 --> 00:48:11,690 Speaker 3: to sleep with a man knowing that he has a situation, 976 00:48:11,750 --> 00:48:14,009 Speaker 3: knowing that he lives with his baby mama, knowing that 977 00:48:14,050 --> 00:48:18,110 Speaker 3: he has a wife, knowing that he, you know, fucking 978 00:48:18,130 --> 00:48:21,850 Speaker 3: with this... person off and on forever this is a 979 00:48:21,870 --> 00:48:25,149 Speaker 3: forever person in his life he would never be able 980 00:48:25,190 --> 00:48:28,240 Speaker 3: to really cheat if women weren't willing to cheat with 981 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,799 Speaker 3: him so we got some responsibility in that bullshit too 982 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,460 Speaker 3: so no that's not a girl's girl to me. 983 00:48:36,020 --> 00:48:38,980 Speaker 2: We got a huge responsibility in that and that's why 984 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 2: i said no pussy outside the pussy. 985 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,899 Speaker 3: Right that's why i said habitual though if you're not 986 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,260 Speaker 3: always doing it this is not like some normal shit 987 00:48:46,300 --> 00:48:49,540 Speaker 3: you do like ending up with somebody's man I wouldn't 988 00:48:49,580 --> 00:48:53,339 Speaker 3: say you're not a girl's girl, but if this is like, 989 00:48:53,420 --> 00:48:56,430 Speaker 3: this is your like main position in fucking life. 990 00:48:56,700 --> 00:48:59,870 Speaker 2: Like you, you always fucking with somebody who belonged to 991 00:48:59,910 --> 00:49:00,489 Speaker 2: somebody else. 992 00:49:00,670 --> 00:49:00,990 Speaker 1: Right. 993 00:49:01,850 --> 00:49:03,250 Speaker 2: All the time. Yeah. 994 00:49:03,570 --> 00:49:04,430 Speaker 1: You're not a girl's girl. 995 00:49:04,450 --> 00:49:05,090 Speaker 2: That's a problem. 996 00:49:05,630 --> 00:49:08,650 Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, yeah, I agree. I agree. 997 00:49:10,610 --> 00:49:11,850 Speaker 2: You're not even for yourself. 998 00:49:12,570 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 3: You know, Khalees called out Beyonce for not being a 999 00:49:15,219 --> 00:49:15,739 Speaker 3: girl's girl. 1000 00:49:15,780 --> 00:49:16,339 Speaker 1: You remember that? 1001 00:49:18,530 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 2: No, what happened? 1002 00:49:19,739 --> 00:49:24,180 Speaker 1: Yeah, Beyonce's last album. This is last year. And Khalees 1003 00:49:24,260 --> 00:49:24,900 Speaker 1: went live. 1004 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,020 Speaker 3: People act like they ain't heard from Khalees in years, 1005 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,940 Speaker 3: but I've been following Khalees for years. She's one of 1006 00:49:28,980 --> 00:49:31,880 Speaker 3: my favorite people on Instagram. I aspire to have a 1007 00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:36,510 Speaker 3: farm and all that shit she got going on. So 1008 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:43,620 Speaker 3: Beyonce sampled a Khalees song. And Khalees's intellectual property has 1009 00:49:43,660 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 3: been finessed by Pharrell, right? So Khalees felt like, you know, 1010 00:49:48,020 --> 00:49:51,299 Speaker 3: Pharrell did that shit on purpose to slight her, but 1011 00:49:51,340 --> 00:49:53,720 Speaker 3: she felt like Beyonce, you know me, you know people 1012 00:49:53,739 --> 00:49:55,350 Speaker 3: that know me, we have mutual friends. 1013 00:49:55,690 --> 00:49:57,870 Speaker 1: You could at least give me a heads up as 1014 00:49:57,930 --> 00:49:59,490 Speaker 1: two black women in the industry. 1015 00:50:00,930 --> 00:50:03,649 Speaker 3: Like people, music and stuff, be they pride and joy. 1016 00:50:03,670 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 3: And then Pharrell was on a whole press tour talking 1017 00:50:06,060 --> 00:50:07,500 Speaker 3: about how she just felt like it was a lot 1018 00:50:07,540 --> 00:50:11,740 Speaker 3: of hypocrisy. You got Beyonce saying how she's a girl's girl, 1019 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,479 Speaker 3: make all this woman empowerment music, but the opportunity that 1020 00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,899 Speaker 3: you have to actually be a girl's girl, you don't 1021 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,380 Speaker 3: do it. You don't take it. Why not tell me, 1022 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,600 Speaker 3: give me a heads up that these men are using 1023 00:50:23,620 --> 00:50:25,340 Speaker 3: my music? Are you going to be using my music 1024 00:50:25,420 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 3: and they just giving you my shit like it's nothing? 1025 00:50:27,739 --> 00:50:30,250 Speaker 3: Even though I don't have control over it, right? It's 1026 00:50:30,290 --> 00:50:33,650 Speaker 3: just still common courtesy, basically. Because she's like, plenty of 1027 00:50:33,670 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 3: people have sampled her shit, but they will still give 1028 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:38,279 Speaker 3: her a heads up. 1029 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,620 Speaker 2: Beyonce said, I ain't got time to call every bitch 1030 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:47,820 Speaker 2: who I'm on my album. Girl, bye. 1031 00:50:48,610 --> 00:50:52,470 Speaker 3: If somebody were to sample a Beyonce anything, if somebody 1032 00:50:52,489 --> 00:50:54,609 Speaker 3: were to do that to Beyonce, all hell would break loose. 1033 00:50:54,670 --> 00:50:56,410 Speaker 3: But I remember seeing a video, and y'all can look 1034 00:50:56,450 --> 00:51:01,570 Speaker 3: this up. Just Google Beyonce saying she steals. There's a 1035 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:02,600 Speaker 3: video out there with. 1036 00:51:02,510 --> 00:51:05,820 Speaker 1: Beyonce laughing and kiki-ing with somebody in a studio saying, 1037 00:51:06,410 --> 00:51:10,310 Speaker 1: people don't like when they come to their shows because 1038 00:51:10,910 --> 00:51:13,770 Speaker 1: we're going to, we're going to steal everything after we leave. 1039 00:51:14,790 --> 00:51:15,390 Speaker 1: She was laughing. 1040 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 3: She said, she said, and then we'll go meet everybody 1041 00:51:18,540 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 3: and say how great the shore was, how great the 1042 00:51:20,700 --> 00:51:23,859 Speaker 3: show was, and then steal it. This is what she 1043 00:51:23,900 --> 00:51:25,870 Speaker 3: said and laughing and joking about it. 1044 00:51:26,700 --> 00:51:29,250 Speaker 2: I just, I love Beyonce so much. I just refuse 1045 00:51:29,270 --> 00:51:32,750 Speaker 2: to believe that she's not a girl's girl. Like, I 1046 00:51:32,770 --> 00:51:35,650 Speaker 2: feel like her music just be like empowering women. It's 1047 00:51:35,730 --> 00:51:36,450 Speaker 2: all for the girl. 1048 00:51:36,489 --> 00:51:38,710 Speaker 1: That's what Khalees was saying. Like you, she was like, 1049 00:51:38,850 --> 00:51:40,570 Speaker 1: I really walk this walk. 1050 00:51:40,710 --> 00:51:44,620 Speaker 3: You just talk. She was like, you're not a girl's girl. 1051 00:51:45,620 --> 00:51:48,140 Speaker 3: If you're not looking out for other women, especially when 1052 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,940 Speaker 3: they being slighted by men, you're not a girl's girl. 1053 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:53,320 Speaker 1: You're not. 1054 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,630 Speaker 3: Cause Pharrell was going around talking about like how, um, 1055 00:51:57,210 --> 00:51:59,660 Speaker 3: artists should be able to restructure their deals, how they 1056 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:04,399 Speaker 3: should have, you know, more ownership and stuff like that. Like, 1057 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:09,140 Speaker 3: advocating for the artist and he was ripping her off simultaneously. 1058 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,569 Speaker 3: Or he has ripped her off and she hasn't been 1059 00:52:11,620 --> 00:52:13,370 Speaker 3: able to really. 1060 00:52:13,190 --> 00:52:15,489 Speaker 1: Make money off of her music. But other people can 1061 00:52:15,610 --> 00:52:18,210 Speaker 1: use her shit and not even say, hey girl, I'm 1062 00:52:18,230 --> 00:52:22,150 Speaker 1: gonna use your shit. At least. Because this is still 1063 00:52:22,230 --> 00:52:22,669 Speaker 1: my shit. 1064 00:52:22,730 --> 00:52:23,380 Speaker 2: What song? 1065 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 1: It was Milkshake, I believe. 1066 00:52:25,860 --> 00:52:25,960 Speaker 2: Um. 1067 00:52:26,900 --> 00:52:28,890 Speaker 3: It's just you can hear the sample, the music. You 1068 00:52:28,910 --> 00:52:31,050 Speaker 3: know how this be like parts and pieces. 1069 00:52:31,090 --> 00:52:32,210 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can hear it. 1070 00:52:32,350 --> 00:52:33,110 Speaker 2: A little snippet. 1071 00:52:33,790 --> 00:52:35,469 Speaker 1: Yeah. It was some shit like that. 1072 00:52:35,530 --> 00:52:35,890 Speaker 2: Damn. 1073 00:52:35,989 --> 00:52:39,029 Speaker 1: And that's like one of her number one songs. Come on, man. 1074 00:52:39,530 --> 00:52:42,590 Speaker 2: Well, I think we could find an example in everyone's 1075 00:52:42,630 --> 00:52:45,100 Speaker 2: life that wasn't a girl's girl shit. 1076 00:52:45,260 --> 00:52:48,819 Speaker 1: Yeah, they said talking behind women's backs. Come on. 1077 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,480 Speaker 3: I talk shit about everybody, including you. 1078 00:52:52,130 --> 00:52:52,950 Speaker 1: Let's be clear. 1079 00:52:53,250 --> 00:52:55,410 Speaker 3: Like, who I'm going to vent to if I'm trying 1080 00:52:55,450 --> 00:52:57,330 Speaker 3: to work through a problem with this person? So I 1081 00:52:57,390 --> 00:53:00,230 Speaker 3: can't talk to the problem sometimes about the problem. You 1082 00:53:00,250 --> 00:53:03,330 Speaker 3: have to go to outside sources sometimes. It's not gossip, though. 1083 00:53:03,710 --> 00:53:07,569 Speaker 3: I'm not telling people's personal lives to other people. But 1084 00:53:07,610 --> 00:53:10,180 Speaker 3: just like, you know, if we're experiencing something. 1085 00:53:10,590 --> 00:53:13,090 Speaker 2: I don't think that counts. Because I think all women 1086 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,359 Speaker 2: do that, you know? You need to vent. 1087 00:53:16,500 --> 00:53:18,340 Speaker 1: Yeah, like talking behind somebody's back. 1088 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 2: As long as you're not like. 1089 00:53:21,850 --> 00:53:24,029 Speaker 1: I don't consider that really talking behind someone's back. Yeah, yeah. 1090 00:53:24,050 --> 00:53:24,970 Speaker 1: Disparaging them. 1091 00:53:25,010 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, just saying. Just hateful, mean hateful shit, and it's 1092 00:53:29,100 --> 00:53:32,440 Speaker 2: supposed to be your friend. That's, I think, talking behind 1093 00:53:32,460 --> 00:53:34,739 Speaker 2: someone's back. Yeah. 1094 00:53:35,540 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 1: But other than that, I don't agree with that. Yeah, 1095 00:53:37,739 --> 00:53:41,799 Speaker 1: me neither. Even that quiz. That quiz was like, do 1096 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,380 Speaker 1: you gossip? Like, gossip? Gossip is like telling, girl, let 1097 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:48,330 Speaker 1: me tell you about this bitch and who she fucking today. Right. Like, no. 1098 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,060 Speaker 3: Bitch cause we all got our little things I'm not 1099 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,259 Speaker 3: telling nobody to ask for them to be side-eyeing you 1100 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 3: side-eyeing the next person when they see them in person 1101 00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,740 Speaker 3: absolutely not but it'd. 1102 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,570 Speaker 2: Be like let me tell you what this bitch said 1103 00:54:01,620 --> 00:54:02,890 Speaker 2: in the meeting just now. 1104 00:54:03,850 --> 00:54:10,190 Speaker 1: Right absolutely nothing y'all would I tell y'all absolutely fucking 1105 00:54:10,250 --> 00:54:13,770 Speaker 1: nothing but anyway y'all yeah so listen I want to 1106 00:54:13,790 --> 00:54:16,250 Speaker 1: encourage all women to aspire to be a girl's girl 1107 00:54:16,510 --> 00:54:18,629 Speaker 1: okay you may not have been one in the past. 1108 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,850 Speaker 3: Start looking out for other women, even women you aren't 1109 00:54:22,870 --> 00:54:28,270 Speaker 3: related to, even women you don't know personally. One thing 1110 00:54:28,330 --> 00:54:33,010 Speaker 3: I don't like today I saw on Instagram was Carisha 1111 00:54:33,050 --> 00:54:35,450 Speaker 3: posted that she's made a million dollars off of the 1112 00:54:35,510 --> 00:54:41,970 Speaker 3: brand Carisha Please, right? As of 2024, right? And people 1113 00:54:42,010 --> 00:54:46,580 Speaker 3: in the comments disparaging her, you know, God takes care 1114 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:47,820 Speaker 3: of fools and babies. 1115 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,240 Speaker 1: All type of little weird comments. 1116 00:54:49,300 --> 00:54:52,710 Speaker 3: I'm like, dog, I can't do nothing but congratulate that 1117 00:54:52,770 --> 00:54:56,890 Speaker 3: young mother of two. Maybe she does things in an 1118 00:54:56,969 --> 00:55:00,770 Speaker 3: unconventional way that I probably wouldn't do to. 1119 00:55:00,030 --> 00:55:04,169 Speaker 1: Get the bag. But however she feels like she has 1120 00:55:04,210 --> 00:55:06,549 Speaker 1: to do it, she's doing it. So who am I 1121 00:55:06,610 --> 00:55:07,180 Speaker 1: to judge that? 1122 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 2: It's all crazy. People just be finding a reason to 1123 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,589 Speaker 2: be mad. And it really be like, when I see 1124 00:55:12,610 --> 00:55:14,839 Speaker 2: people like that, I'd be like wondering what's going on 1125 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,300 Speaker 2: in their own life. Are they, is their shit together? 1126 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,980 Speaker 2: Are they okay? Because why do you have so much 1127 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,320 Speaker 2: time to bring other people down? It's crazy. 1128 00:55:24,050 --> 00:55:26,130 Speaker 1: Right. And a lot of people will say that comes 1129 00:55:26,190 --> 00:55:28,310 Speaker 1: with celebrity. I, I. 1130 00:55:29,830 --> 00:55:31,549 Speaker 3: Wouldn't say if I like, if I got like some 1131 00:55:31,590 --> 00:55:33,790 Speaker 3: super duper stardom that I would be like a Cardi 1132 00:55:33,830 --> 00:55:35,410 Speaker 3: B always trying to clap back. 1133 00:55:38,140 --> 00:55:42,029 Speaker 1: But I don't feel like, people being nasty and mean 1134 00:55:42,050 --> 00:55:44,450 Speaker 1: to you should come with being a celebrity. It shouldn't. 1135 00:55:45,070 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Because the people are the. 1136 00:55:47,430 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 3: Reason these people get elevated in the first place. So 1137 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,460 Speaker 3: it's almost like they think that they should also be 1138 00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,180 Speaker 3: the ones to tear them down when they get too big. 1139 00:55:55,260 --> 00:55:58,340 Speaker 1: Oh, be humble and shit like that. Like, no, bitch. 1140 00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,819 Speaker 1: Pop your shit. I like when women pop their shit. 1141 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 1: I saw a post. 1142 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,100 Speaker 2: Just focus on the positive energy coming your way. Because 1143 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,899 Speaker 2: as much negative energy is coming your way, there's positive too. 1144 00:56:08,180 --> 00:56:10,509 Speaker 2: Focus on that. That's what I say. 1145 00:56:10,530 --> 00:56:13,340 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of times people fixate on 1146 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,100 Speaker 3: the negative shit instead of just. 1147 00:56:16,580 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 1: Commenting back to the people who bigging you up. Right. 1148 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:20,680 Speaker 1: Comment back to the hype girls. 1149 00:56:20,700 --> 00:56:22,060 Speaker 2: Right. The girls girls. 1150 00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,610 Speaker 1: Girls who like girls. Yes. Okay. 1151 00:56:26,690 --> 00:56:29,230 Speaker 3: We hype girls here at We Talk Back. Anyway, y'all 1152 00:56:29,270 --> 00:56:32,069 Speaker 3: be friendly. Say hi to black women when y'all see one. 1153 00:56:32,610 --> 00:56:35,250 Speaker 3: Say hi to each other. Tell them they look good today. 1154 00:56:35,290 --> 00:56:37,319 Speaker 3: Bitches might be having a bad day and you saying, bitch, 1155 00:56:37,340 --> 00:56:37,980 Speaker 3: you look good. 1156 00:56:38,020 --> 00:56:41,969 Speaker 2: Just could change the trajectory. could change the trajectory it's 1157 00:56:42,070 --> 00:56:44,370 Speaker 2: just about the you know treat others how you want 1158 00:56:44,390 --> 00:56:46,410 Speaker 2: to be treated I mean you learned that in the 1159 00:56:46,450 --> 00:56:49,950 Speaker 2: first grade so that's that. 1160 00:56:50,090 --> 00:56:52,890 Speaker 3: Yeah or treat others how they want to be treated 1161 00:56:52,930 --> 00:56:56,900 Speaker 3: how about that yeah but y'all find a way to 1162 00:56:56,930 --> 00:57:00,920 Speaker 3: be nice anyway if you enjoyed this episode girls girls 1163 00:57:01,300 --> 00:57:03,180 Speaker 3: shout out to all the girls girls y'all tune in 1164 00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:05,500 Speaker 3: continue to tune in and we thank you for all 1165 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,500 Speaker 3: your support, girls, girls. 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