WEBVTT - The Breakfast Club Rewind ( Ari Lenox Interview, Pour Minds Interview + More 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:04.840 Wow, the world's most stand Roux Morning Show, the Breakfast 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:10.520 Clubs Club. Y'all together, y'all are like a mega for us. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:15.080 Y'all just took over with you this Chris Brown, I've 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:18.159 officially joined the Breakfast Club. Say something, mother, I'm with it. 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:23.840 World Standreux Morning Show, Breakfast Club. Wake Up, wake up, 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:27.040 wake y'all. This is your time to get it off 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:30.680 your chat with you, man of blass. We want to 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.040 hear from you on the breakfast block. Hello, who's this? 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.400 And lage y'alla being the card this morning, Rob was 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:41.479 going off, how are you doing? Brother? You always get 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:46.520 doing the Friday y'all doing? I'm doing I'm doing FD man. Listen, man, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:50.440 it's time for some bars. Man. We gotta free from 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.040 O g Rother. Let's go all right, let's go listen. 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:58.440 This is my beginning, putting in work. Something the best 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:02.240 did cayn't dude with no cutch building in sand these 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:04.880 long after prust of my lungs. I'm gonna blaze the 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:07.959 mic this whole game, sounding of life. Y'all on the bars, 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.320 strike but checked it from one of the time to 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:13.520 when we like hip hop on that feet street breaking 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:15.720 but stripes on my suite. You know what I mean? 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.840 Oh god, okay, I got something you ready? Hey, you 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:21.840 can smoke split for the clip. But they're still them 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:24.760 ountain high, you know, Oh, wide enough to touch the 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:29.520 Nordy nappy, nasty happy happy, that's happy to be nappy's 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:32.320 wide enough to touch? Who? What was wide enough to 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:34.800 worry about it? Let me hear something, Let me get something. Well, 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.319 today's topic self destruction. It really ain't the wrap audience 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:41.399 that's bugging. It's one of two suckers and yourean brothers 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:44.920 trying to rob and kids on one another. The kids 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.600 it was supposed to be killing. It supposed to be killed. 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:51.840 These aren't original times you both did uh that was 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.520 supposed to be Thank you, old Rob. Don't worry about it. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:02:00.400 I appreciate you. Guys had a cipher. Oh right, he 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:08.800 was spitting on each other. Hello, who's this ta? How 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.959 you doing good? Look? I don't even want to be 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.320 up here long. I don't on my way to work, 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:21.040 and I wanted to say my poem this morning. It's 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:25.040 entire remodeling my home. Okay, okay, I like this, I 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.679 like what it could be going. I need you to 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:34.600 have more enthusiasm me, okay, I had to divorce. Depression 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.000 said about the pain, beat up confusion and kicked out 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:43.080 the rain. Stressed tried to stay complaining everything, but I said, 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:47.639 don't look at me again, don't even say hey. Anxiety 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:49.959 kept trying to get back in along with this company 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:52.720 to call Sin and Gloom thought she still had a room, 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.480 but I cleaned the mall out with the biggest room. 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.200 I heard a knock at that George didn't sound the same. 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:00.320 I just knew it was Lie coming back to play 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.120 more games. But when I opened the door, piece to 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:06.040 it there with ease and comfort followups. Oh, I was 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:09.000 so pleased. Power called and said he was on the way. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:12.000 Enjoy sent me a card. I got it on Tuesday. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:15.200 Loved yet it was delayed. Was the only one that prayed. 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:18.560 Race poured up in the vine is called healing my 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:22.000 heart of the Jesus car Friendship came running, put her 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:25.320 arms around my neck. Her brother came to his thing 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:28.320 with respect. Mercy, who was so kind of helping me 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:31.200 remodel my home, got rid of all the trash, down 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:40.280 the ugliness. That was amazing that I finally got y'all 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:42.960 uncle ahead, Where can people here or see some more 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:47.640 of your poetry. Well my boots on Amazon. Okay, what's 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:54.880 the name of it. It's entitled The Reverse. Yo, this Caesar, 0:03:55.480 --> 0:04:05.000 what's up? Hey? Caesar's name every Sollivan? Do you want 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.280 to change your name? Now? Man, I'm just get off 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:09.440 my chess real quick. Don't starting forcing you walk to 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.040 you because I don't like when Charlotte Magne and if 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:14.040 you do that, you um, but yeah, leave get on 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:18.400 my chest. Um. I don't like when people be kind 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.640 of take I don't like when other people to be 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:23.440 trying to take other people back and still hold like 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:26.640 a like a like a brush against it. You know, 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:31.000 like for example, if a dude cheeks on a girl 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.760 and he like, I forgive you, I take you back, 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:40.039 but like one week years down the road, you still 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.760 like throwing it back in my face. That's like, come 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:46.400 on now, so this just happens. This just happened to you, Caesar. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.160 I mean yeah, I mean, but this this is like 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:52.440 this is like on long gold types stuff, you know, 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:54.920 if I'm talking about like even nowadays, you know, like 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:58.360 I see my partners go through and like versa, im 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:03.760 through through with guys. It's like, hey, right. Well, I 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.840 will say that sometimes things trigger you, you know, so 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:10.080 you might have forgiven somebody, but that doesn't mean that 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:13.239 you completely forget it, and so there might be certain 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:15.599 times when you fall back into some old habits. It 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.120 takes a long time to build up that trust. So 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.440 it's an effort on both people's parts, though I do 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:23.400 agree you can't just keep on beating somebody up after 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.839 you said let's work on it. But every now and then, 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:27.920 you know you don't intend for it to happen, but 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.000 you get a little mad. You're right, you're right, you're right. 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:32.720 We are you when we all be trying to, you know, 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.160 love our best lives out here. I feel you. Well, 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:37.280 thank you, bro, good luck man, get it off your 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.720 chess eight hundred five eight five one on five one. 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:40.960 If you need to vent, hit it something now. It 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:48.760 was the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:50.640 is your time to get it off your chest, whether 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:53.279 you're mad or blast, but you better have the same insty. 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.120 We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:06:01.320 Hello this Yeah, what's out that? Tyler for Chicago, Tyler 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:02.720 from the shot? What I brought to get you off 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.240 your chest? Peace? Tyler. Hey, what's going on, Charlotte? How 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.560 are you selling dog Let's black and Holly favorite King? 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.760 That's what's up? That's what up? Hey man, I'm glad 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:13.760 the guys are here. Maybe y'all can help me out. 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.680 I'm in a little bit of a pickle. What's up, man? 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:19.880 What's your pickle? So, man, my big sister, she got 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:23.280 into some stuff. Man. Last weekend, she got in trouble, 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:27.159 a little roadways incident that went all the way left, 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.200 and she ends up getting arrested and hit with a 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:35.560 class accelity. So her bond was one hundred thousand dollars 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:39.240 and I gotta pay ten Okay, I don't want to 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.359 pay tens. I got a vacation coming up in two weeks, 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:45.640 and I feel like maybe a little jail time might 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.200 give her a little character, you know. No, you know, 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.159 I'm gonna tell you something. Um, I went to I 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.120 went to jail one time for pointing in presenting the 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:56.760 fire arm. I think the charge the charge originally was 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.359 a Sultan battery would attend to kill I was. I 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.840 was in the back. One of my homeboys, you know, 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.400 was on the front and shot and my dad did 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.160 the same thing. My dad let me sit for like 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.000 forty five days. Number one. The bond was high and 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:10.800 he was waiting for he was waiting for the bond 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.240 to be reduced. But he did. He was He was 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:16.119 letting me sit on purpose because he said he wanted 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:17.760 me to learn a little lesson. Now, this is your 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:21.560 sister's first incident. Uh, yeah, but she's forty two years old. 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:25.040 Though she's forty two. What happened? She allegedly pulled out 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:27.720 a weapon or something? Yeah, she did. How do you 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.360 know about this? Did you hear about this on Facebook? No? 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.320 I don't know. I mean, I mean, the only way 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:34.280 you're gonna get a felony for a road rages if 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.280 you bought a weapon. Brother, Let me ask you a question. 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:39.080 If you let her it was pretty bad. If you bad, 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:40.720 if you let her sit a little while longer with 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.640 a bond go down. I don't be so because it's 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.760 she hit like she ended up getting to it with 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:49.520 a lawyer who happened to be white. She's whack. Oh 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:52.120 it's pretty bad, bro. We got to get her a 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:54.960 really good lawyer, like I'm talking about, like a Jewish lawyer. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.880 At the end, there's some good. There's some good black lawyers. Man, 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.240 it's some great black attorney. What he's speaking? When's the vate? 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.600 When's the vacation? Look, it's in two weeks. I was 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.160 supposed to go down and know it's my only vacation 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.320 time of the year, and I'm in a conflict. Man, 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.720 I don't know if I want to spend this money 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:12.000 because I don't think I'm gonna get it back. I 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.480 don't know I'm going on vacation. Let me all right, 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.880 let me ask you a question. Okay, hold, wait, wait, wait, 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.920 wait wait wait, college Now, if you was in the 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:23.000 same incident when she bailed you out, that's the thing. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:28.080 I don't know. My older sister, my twin sister, yes, 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.600 but my older sister, I don't know. What does your 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.520 heart tell you to do? What is your spirit telling 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:34.160 you to do? Right now? Forget because the only thing 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.680 that causes conflict is the devil. Keep my money, That's 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:39.079 what the That's what the Lord is telling me to 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.360 keep my money because I worked hard for Charlotte. Enjoy 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:45.679 your vacation, King, Enjoy your vacation, King. She's forty two 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:47.959 years old. She ain't got no money, did she got 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:50.720 a crib? But anything. That's the big she kind of 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.040 she's worked for the city. Her husband got a little 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:56.080 bit of money. But her husband, she got a husband. Man, 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:59.839 enjoy your vacation, King, that's what I'm saying. Okay, I 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:03.280 appreciate your Enjoy your vacation. King. Y'all you figure that out. 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.600 When you come back from vacation, you'll have a clearer mind. 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:07.400 But what about if her husband ain't got no money, 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:08.640 we ain't got nothing to do it that you'll have 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.880 a clearer mind to think about it after that vacation. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:16.920 I started to go fund you that money. Yeah, enjoy 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:19.200 your vacation, King, call us and tell us about your 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:25.320 vacation after you take it. Ye, man, enjoy your vacation. Man. Sister, 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:29.000 God bless her, God bless her kids, God bless her, 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.120 God bless her. She got a husband, she made a choice. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.800 Let that man go enjoy his vacation. When you come back, 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:37.800 then y'all figure it out. Enjoy your vacation, brother, get 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:40.400 it off your chest. The Breakfast Club, Good morning, the 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:52.480 Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.520 the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:59.320 special guest in the building. Oh, Maria, welcome, Thanks for 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.520 having me a minute. Ya how you're throwing a long 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:04.280 time a man all as well? Tell me about your 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.720 morning routine, man, what do you do in the morning 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.880 when you wake up? Um, I definitely take a beat, 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.839 you know. UM usually do some breathwork, you know what 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:16.720 I'm saying, say some affirmations, and I pretty much get 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:18.520 my day started after that. Yeah. I feel like at 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.440 some point you went on a real journey of healing, 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.560 because I remember when you was on your physical routine 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.440 with the boxing and everything, and then it feels like 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:27.559 at some point you started realizing I gotta get mentally 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:31.920 and emotionally stronger. Yeah. Also because of a lot of 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:34.280 the things that you know that were like happening on 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:37.240 the outside, you know what I'm saying. And that's why 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:41.200 this book really kind of came into fruition, unbothered the 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:44.240 power of choosing joy, because you know, I needed to 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.600 do something more, you know, really figure out what works 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.840 for me, you know what I'm saying, And the breath work, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.439 you know, the mantras, all of these things that I'm 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.600 sharing in the book definitely put me, you know, on 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:59.200 another level, just as far as emotional intelligence. We made 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.640 you not respond right because you've been going through a 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:06.520 lot the last ten years. Everything and every I mean 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:09.800 ninety percent of people are gonna respond somehow somewhere. Yeah, 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:13.360 whether it's personal, whether it's relationship, whether it's family, whether 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.720 it's your group, whether it's your label, whatever it is, 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:22.440 don't respond right. Why. I am a methodical person. I 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.839 am a thoughtful person. So a lot of the time, 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.640 if I am going to respond, I want to make 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.880 sure that I get what I need from it, you 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:32.560 know what I mean. Because rarely when we react into 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:34.920 life that we actually get what we want, you know 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:38.079 what I mean. So for me, I've always just been like, Okay, 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.040 I'm gonna do what's best for me. Do you check 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:44.600 a box like I remember he said that and she said, definitely. 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:50.839 I definitely have a mental list. Nah, I'm mature enough 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:54.800 to realize that a lot of people's perspectives and just 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:58.000 position in life are temporary, you know what I'm saying. 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.439 Because things change, you know what I'm saying. So I 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:03.080 try my best to not take things personal. You feel 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:04.680 like you slipped a little with all these things that 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.040 have been happening, and he has to be like, let 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:08.719 me go back into my arm. No, I think no. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.400 I think that it's important to stand up for yourself too, 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.319 you know what I mean. I think people get confused 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:16.280 when you know, people speak up, that it's like, oh 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:19.920 mean not or me being bothered instead of being unbothered. 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.880 But I think that it's important to also stand up 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.080 for yourself and speak up when you feel that, you 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.000 know what I mean. Okay, So what about Rasby saying 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:29.000 he was triggered by certain things in the documentary? Did 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.599 you feel some type of or more? It's like, okay, 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:35.640 this was a serious issue, you know for him, I think, um, 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:41.240 for raz it's interesting because you know, he obviously is 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:47.120 intelligent enough to see an opportunity to speak about things 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:50.320 and use it to his advantage. And what do I 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.079 mean by that? You know, I just mean that, you know, 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:55.840 I know Rasby and I've never heard him say he's 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.640 been tried, you know what I mean? But I also, 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:01.720 you know, have you know, along with my team, especially 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:05.200 on tour, you know, have given him the opportunity to 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:11.599 better his process, and you know he hasn't taken those opportunities, 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:14.720 you know. And the thing that's I think that's tough 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.520 for me and a lot of people to understand. That is, 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:21.160 you know, as a type of brother, you know, you 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:24.600 have to hold your brother accountable, you know what I mean. 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.000 So when he said that he was triggered, I think 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.600 that that is something that he could have felt. But 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.680 you know, if people watch actually watched the docu, I 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.959 was there supporting him, you know, although that small clip 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.240 was out there, you know, me and my team, we 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.560 were out there supporting him, asking them what he needed, 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.720 trying to figure out, you know, our best to help 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:48.560 him face you know, these very traumatic things that he's 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:51.479 been through. You know. So I just thought it was interesting, 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:55.600 you know that he decided to see the clip, you know, 0:13:55.760 --> 0:14:00.240 in which he wrote off on to say that he 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:02.120 was being triggered. I thought I just thought it was 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:06.280 interesting because he knows that, you know, I've been for me. 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:08.560 He had to sign off on his part in the documentary. Yes, 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:11.920 I'm saying, like, you know, this was interesting. It's just 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:14.280 like yo, but you know, we were on tour and 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.240 we were supporting you. We told you ask and how 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:17.720 did that work? But you know how healing is though. 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.120 Healing is like it's not a destination, it's not train. 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.120 So something may not bother you on Monday, but that's 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.560 the same thing might trigger you on too. Yeah, and 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.000 you're right, I agree, you know. I just think that 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.040 it's it's interesting in the timing, you know what I'm saying, 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:34.720 because that clip had been out there for a couple 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.400 of days and then it was just like, okay, but 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.080 are you getting help? Bro? Yeah? Are you taking the steps? 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.640 Are you taking the steps you know to to not 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:48.640 always express you know, your emotion student Internet? Like, are 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.040 you doing the work now? Are you doing the work? 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:53.560 That's not what I see? And how is it with 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:56.360 you know, because you guys were brothers growing up, Like, yeah, 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:58.440 you guys were everywhere together. You guys grew up with 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:01.480 each other. So how was it that you guys really 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:06.040 don't mesh and communicate. When they do, it's usually I 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.200 haven't heard you say really much bad about them, anything 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.000 bad about them, but them talking bad about you? So 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:11.840 how does that work? Because you all are still on 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:16.160 tour a world. Yeah, that's that's a that's a that's 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:19.720 a challenging question just because let's just take the concept 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.760 of brotherhood right, everybody has a different version of that, 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:27.520 you know. Unfortunately, because some people don't actually have siblings. 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:31.000 I would say, in one aspect through our journey, you know, 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.760 we were put together to be brothers, but I don't 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:37.440 think in essence we were. You know what I'm saying. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.720 I think that, you know, there were a lot of 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:45.359 people that made sure that we connected and then disconnected. 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:47.720 It's almost like we were made to be brothers, to 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:52.520 be secret enemies. Yeah, there's only certain stories that could 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:56.360 embody like what that means, you know, because I believe 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:59.360 in the real brotherhood, jealousy doesn't exist. You know, you 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:01.720 might feel like, Okay, well dang, look at my bro 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.080 he going up. I want to be inspired, but it 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:07.960 never makes you vindictive. It never makes you jealous, It 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.880 never makes you go past a certain point. You know. 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:13.640 I would say, in the aspect of our journey, we 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:17.760 have a brotherhood, but in reality, I wouldn't say they 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:22.800 identify as what I consider my brother, like my brother Ryan, 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.520 you know, like our journey, the things that we've shown 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.200 each other, the challenging times we have, the way we 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.720 got through that. You know, that's how you're able to 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:34.040 really truly identify who someone is to you in your life. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:35.960 You know what I mean? Somebody that loves you. They 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:39.280 don't do certain things, you know, they don't say certain things. 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:42.040 So you know, if we're just really looking at it 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.080 as far as what it is, you know what I'm saying. 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:46.160 If it acts like a duck, talk like a duck, 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:49.600 it's a duck. Don't move. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:55.280 the breakfast club and black Yard a breakfast club was 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.760 too kicking with O Marion Charlemagne. Let's talk about the 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:59.880 buying time. And because I find it so interesting in 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:02.520 that there was the versus y right, probably didn't go 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.480 to where you wanted it to go. Back fully, for sure, 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:07.240 you seem like you reacted with work, You reacted with 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.480 the doc, you're reacted with the book, the show. How 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.760 did that come about? Because clearly that's divine time, yo, 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:16.600 that's facts I've just been preparing. And even though you 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.280 know versus didn't go you know it still was, you know, 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:23.320 wildly successful, the most successful one, you know, so to 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.240 be able to show up in the journey and be 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:27.360 able to be like, you know what, damn, this might 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:29.719 not have been a way that I wanted things to go. 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:32.480 But oh wait a minute, watch this move right here. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.960 So I'm really highly thankful for you know, all the energies. 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:38.439 You know what I'm saying, rest in peace. My an 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:41.200 energy transitioned earlier this year, you know what I mean. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.480 So I definitely feel like the ancestors on the other 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:46.560 side is moving certain things in the universe for me, 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:49.800 and I'm just excited. Man. Feel when people were questioning 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:51.440 your twent yeah, I was gonna say, what went wrong 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.399 that night? What would you have changed? Well, you know, 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:56.440 it was a lot of things that went wrong that night. First, 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.879 not have a sound check. Another report why didn't you 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:00.920 do a sound check? Was that it was no time. 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:04.879 It was so underwhelming. They were not prepared, you know 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:09.040 for what I expected to be kind of a night 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.600 in R and B that just kind of turned the 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:15.160 sexy up on the planet again, you know what I'm saying, Like, really, 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:17.040 let's talk about the women, you know what I mean. 0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:19.840 But it became kind of hip hop really really fast, 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.000 you know what I'm saying. Early on it was like 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:23.920 that was the set of the energy, you know what 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:26.240 I'm saying. And what was your question? Again? How do 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.720 you people people questioning your Yeah, I think that that's 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:31.320 the mark of a legend. I remember hearing people say 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:35.119 Michael Michael Jackson couldn't seen. And when you have been 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:38.560 doing something for so long, you know, you can definitely 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:41.000 have an off night. But that is not the tell 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.840 tale of you know, of a twenty two year career, 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:45.680 you know what I mean. So it felt like people 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:47.880 took the opportunity to say things to you that they've 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:54.119 always wanted. It definitely felt like, yeah, that was crazy 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:58.239 and had to bother you a little bit, your artist 0:18:56.440 --> 0:19:03.000 and what LEVI say. It definitely challenged me unlike I've 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:06.959 been challenging such a long time to level up because 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:10.400 you know, I'm one of those people that I don't 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:14.240 really move for much because I study and I practice 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:17.240 and I work on my craft so much, you know 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:19.720 what I mean. So I'm unmoved. But one thing that 0:19:19.840 --> 0:19:23.080 can move me, one thing that has moved me, you know, 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:28.199 was the will to just be better. You go to therapy? Um, no, no, 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:31.280 I have what is a Marion done wrong in any 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:34.600 of these situations? I think not speak up? And also 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:38.160 I think I'm a little you know, early on, because 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:41.440 I started so young, you know, I'm a little gullible, 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.520 you know what I mean. Just as far as business, 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:45.200 you know what I'm saying. And as far as what 0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:47.960 people don't give you, what people are not supposed to 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:50.320 give you, you know what I'm saying, Like the respect 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:52.960 that sometimes you assume you might give but that you're 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:55.439 never really shown. You know what I'm saying. So I 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:58.520 would say that, you know, that's definitely on me. But 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:00.600 I don't have no problem, you know I'm saying, being 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:05.879 honest about my mistakes and taking accountability for anything that 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.920 I've done wrong to people. If you ever came across 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.720 me and you know, have a relationship with me and 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:14.760 you were confused about something, there was always an opportunity 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:17.080 for you to be able to gain some clarity. But 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:19.520 the actions, you know what I'm saying, And that's something 0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:21.600 that we always have to bring into question when we 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:25.480 speaking about people's personalities. Like there's layers to this, you 0:20:25.480 --> 0:20:27.880 know what I'm saying, And people have to be held 0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:31.600 accountable for what they're projecting versus their actions, you know 0:20:31.600 --> 0:20:35.119 what I'm saying. So what I would say, you know 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.680 that I've done wrong, it's just that, but it has 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:40.119 gained me such a heightened level of awareness, you know 0:20:40.119 --> 0:20:42.960 what I'm saying, that it's probably second and none because 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:45.520 you know, I've been through it over and over again, 0:20:45.560 --> 0:20:47.520 you know what I mean, So I know I know 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:49.240 where I'm going. I want to ask you a couple 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.720 more questions, especially in particular the drink champion of you. 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:56.960 I saw Fitz said that he's not in contact with 0:20:57.000 --> 0:20:59.440 you because he never had your number and it's always 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:03.600 been like that. That true. How does that sounds? I 0:21:03.600 --> 0:21:08.840 don't know that sounds crazy man without calling you first, Okay, 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:12.680 come on? Ye. And he also said that you went 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:16.240 solo because he had sex with a woman you liked. Nah, 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:19.000 I don't remember that happening. He was the first one 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:22.080 to go solo because you know, Fizz was like yeah 0:21:22.119 --> 0:21:24.040 and yeah, and you know, the rapper was like the 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:25.720 most famous in the group, you know what I'm saying. 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:29.119 So Fitz was definitely like in front, you know what 0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:32.000 I mean as far as certain vibes, you know what 0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:33.440 I mean in the group. You know what I mean. 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:36.159 You know how like Okay, Fitz doing something or he 0:21:36.240 --> 0:21:38.199 on his own way, but we all getting on our 0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:39.680 own way, you know what I mean. So I viewed 0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:43.720 it like that. Didn't they kick you out the group? Basically? No, 0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:46.160 not really now, it wouldn't they fault. I take that back. 0:21:46.680 --> 0:21:49.520 It was Chris Stokes fault. He made us become brothers 0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:53.720 and then he separated us. The elder that you talk about, Um, 0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:55.439 he's one of the elders. Okay, you know what I mean. 0:21:55.480 --> 0:21:58.160 You don't have a relationship with that, you know, Rasby 0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:00.840 and I think it's been rumor that you know, he 0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:03.440 talks about sexual abuse with Chrystokes. Have you ever seen 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:07.560 anything like that? I haven't. I haven't seen anything like that, 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:13.880 you know what I mean? But yeah, I haven't. Work. Yeah, 0:22:14.359 --> 0:22:19.240 well he's still standing by the background dances remark or 0:22:19.280 --> 0:22:22.400 you feel bad about that? Nah? You know what when 0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:24.199 I think about that, you know, I thought that was 0:22:24.240 --> 0:22:27.080 funny because I'm gonna just you know, keep it playing 0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:28.560 with you. You know what I'm saying, as you've seen 0:22:28.640 --> 0:22:30.920 with the mother of my children, like, I'm never pressed 0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:33.760 off of a woman choosing up or who she want 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:35.639 to be with. That's not my personality, you know what 0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:38.359 I'm saying, Like, Hey, women choose you know what I'm saying. 0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:40.520 But for me, that's that's not what it was about. 0:22:40.560 --> 0:22:44.440 That's trivial in a drop, you know what I mean. 0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:47.320 In the ocean of the other things that we all 0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:51.040 have shared an experience. That's another thing that's just like, 0:22:51.200 --> 0:22:53.359 what does that have to do with anything? Bro? You 0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:56.399 know what I mean? What's up? Man? You know you 0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:59.040 think all communication is done like because God forbid, we 0:22:59.119 --> 0:23:00.959 live in a real crazy world. You see things that's 0:23:01.000 --> 0:23:03.239 happening to people. If something was to happen to one 0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:06.440 of them, wouldn't you feel some sort of way? Yeah, man, 0:23:06.480 --> 0:23:08.520 I don't want nothing to happen to nobody. And I 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:10.199 wish the well man, you know what I mean, Like, 0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:15.000 I really hope that they see through this experience and 0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:17.399 they take a little bit more accountability, you know what 0:23:17.440 --> 0:23:20.359 I mean, moving forward, and I like, I hope that 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:22.440 they do good things for that life. You know what 0:23:22.480 --> 0:23:24.719 I'm saying, Like, I don't wish nobody bad. What does 0:23:25.000 --> 0:23:26.800 She just asked me to ask you, what does watermelon 0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:30.720 have to do with everything? Do you like water guys? 0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:35.720 Do you like watermelon? Yes? Watermelon is the best, very healthy. Yes, 0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:38.160 it is good for your heart, good for your skin, 0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:41.119 thank you, and see so. And that's the window, and 0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:43.120 that's the window that people just don't want to walk 0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:45.480 through because they want to just stay at the you know, 0:23:45.640 --> 0:23:48.160 sexual aspect of it. You know what I mean, Because 0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:50.920 good things are like sex, you know what I'm saying, 0:23:50.960 --> 0:23:53.159 And that's why we're all addicted to it, you know 0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:55.760 what I'm saying. So when you mix the fruit with 0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:58.399 the sex, that's another level. You might want to try that, 0:23:58.680 --> 0:24:00.920 you know what I'm saying. Try water Momon Taylor, I'm 0:24:00.960 --> 0:24:02.520 telling you might want to try that. You want to 0:24:02.600 --> 0:24:05.399 might just want to start by kissing somebody, somebody that 0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:08.720 you love, well, watermelon, and see how you feel. It's 0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:10.920 interesting they give you Flag four. But when Beyonce you 0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:16.119 just randomly said it in the song, nobody cares randomly Watermelon. 0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:20.880 You just don't be in Oh say it, Oh do it? 0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:24.959 It's a problem, all right? Well were thanking guys the 0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.320 power that you enjoy? All right? Well it's the breakfast 0:24:27.320 --> 0:24:31.200 club is or Mario, So breakfast club. Your morning's will 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:34.680 never be the same. 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We just 0:25:11.560 --> 0:25:15.639 celebrate my daddy fifty birthday just Friday, right, So me 0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:18.400 and my boy tells him out to the club. You know, uh, 0:25:19.000 --> 0:25:21.600 you know, we drunk, you get a few drinks. Man 0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:24.520 and my homeboy end up tapping me hard, thinking something's 0:25:24.520 --> 0:25:26.879 going to jump off. He like, look over there my 0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:30.720 daddy and you're talking. Man, Damn man, what I'm the 0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:33.320 best believe because I'm like, ain't no way this this 0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:36.360 this is my daddy. How you know? The next morning, man, 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:38.760 I knew you know, I'll sleep doing it because he 0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:41.800 didn't said nothing the whole morning. So I'm like, damn, 0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:46.320 man's basically till my mom been married? Why there twenty 0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:49.199 five year I don't want to go and blowing up 0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:51.960 what I'm supposed to do? Man? So we're asking eight 0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.320 hundred and five A five, one oh five one? What 0:25:54.520 --> 0:25:58.040 would you do? All right? Now, we got our resident 0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:01.640 family on the line, trave what up? Draft? Here? What's up? 0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:08.640 What's up? So there's only one solution I have. Yeah, basically, 0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:10.800 the mama and the son gotta jump the daddy? Yell, 0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:14.160 what are you talking about? Mama and the son gotta 0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:16.080 jump the daddy because he was seating. Let me ask 0:26:16.119 --> 0:26:18.720 you a question. Trap did Nate and his mama jump cal? 0:26:19.680 --> 0:26:21.560 I want the phone with theirs my mama? Right? What 0:26:21.560 --> 0:26:24.680 would you do? Mom? If I came home and told 0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:32.119 you to mama trashyma? All right? How you doing? What 0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:34.040 would you do if I came home and told johshon 0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:35.840 the club with dad and he was tonguing down the 0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:39.520 whole another? Man, That's where you get it from, boy, man, 0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:41.800 that's where you get it from. Boy. You just like 0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:45.880 your daddy. I knew that already. How would you feel 0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:52.080 about that? How would I feel about that? Would be gone? 0:26:52.119 --> 0:26:56.159 She said? Goodness, yeah, I definitely think that at the 0:26:56.240 --> 0:26:58.639 end of the day is still cheating. All right? Who 0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:03.399 said take your draft? Who said it's not cheating. Hello, 0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:07.480 who's this? Good morning, Darren, Darren, Good morning. What you're 0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:10.359 doing if that situation happened to you, Darren? Yeah, I'm snitching. 0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:12.800 I'm telling I'm telling mind, Dad gonna go because now 0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:16.480 it's about her sneecy that can't go down. Gotta protect mom. 0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:21.040 All Ron, thank you so much. Hello, who's this? Jungle Jim? 0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:24.199 Jungle Jim? You got it? Brother? All right, Joe? You're 0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:26.840 doing today? I'm doing well. How you doing? I'm good? 0:27:26.880 --> 0:27:29.639 I'm good man. So so what should the gentlemen do? Bro? 0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:33.480 I think the gentleman shouldn't uh call into the radio 0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.200 first of all, to be talking about something like that 0:27:36.200 --> 0:27:39.200 that's really personal. And I also think that y'all shouldn't 0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:42.080 promote that stuff on the radio, promote what it's real 0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:47.000 that happens, infidelity. I agree we shouldn't promote infidelity on 0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:49.840 the radio. I've been listening to Charlotte Maagne to God, 0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:51.600 and you know what I'm saying. He's been speaking on 0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:53.720 a gay stuff a lot. Man. You know what I'm saying. 0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:56.400 You know what that does? Man? That plant seeds? Bro, 0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:59.520 you know what I'm saying. And if you world word 0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:02.440 I thought he was talking about infidelity, man, you're talking 0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:04.439 about I thought you were talking about the daddy that 0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:06.880 was going to the club with the with the fun 0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:09.159 that was being gay or something like that. Right, you 0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:12.120 think discussing things about people who are gay plant seeds. 0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:14.840 I do. The biggest issue in this situation is that 0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:17.560 the daddy's cheating on the mama, sir. That's the biggame. 0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:20.439 Mama with a man though, right, that's the second issue 0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:25.000 to me. It's a real life that really happened though, 0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:27.199 that that really wasn't made up. It really happened. A 0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:30.000 gentleman call. And I mean you say, we don't know 0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:31.639 if his name, we don't know where he you know, 0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:34.160 but you also know there's gay people in this world 0:28:34.160 --> 0:28:37.040 for real. Should we ignore gay people? No, we shouldn't. 0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.880 We shouldn't ignore the problem. That's what we shouldn't ignore. 0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:43.840 What's the problem. What's the problem? Cheating is the problem? No, 0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:46.080 cheating ain't never been a problem. Man, You know that 0:28:46.400 --> 0:28:55.080 cheating is not a problem. Okay, you let me let 0:28:55.160 --> 0:29:00.280 me okay, Charlemagne got let me get your position, man, please, 0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:03.560 all right, we are your position because I would really 0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:05.440 speak about something that need to be spoke about. And 0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:07.360 I know y'all probably wouldn't want me to speak about it. 0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:09.800 You know, ahead what you got to say? Okay, let 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:11.880 me let me let me say about the cheaking situation. Okay, 0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:14.840 cheat and was something that was brought upon you? Now, 0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:17.640 if you did something that brought back to you from karma, 0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:22.240 then it comes back around to you. So's you cast 0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:23.960 your question? How would you feel if your mom? How 0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:25.920 would you feel if your girl cheated on you? I 0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:27.720 wouldn't feel no kind of way because it must have 0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:29.400 been something I did in order to make her go 0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:32.200 do that? Is that called victim planning? But someone gets 0:29:32.280 --> 0:29:34.280 cheated on, you're saying it's their own fault that they 0:29:34.280 --> 0:29:36.960 got cheated on. So you would stay with that is 0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:39.160 and that's not playing a victim. That's not playing the victim. 0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:43.520 But would you stay with her that's been aware of 0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:46.600 something that you've done? That? So what you gotta understand 0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:49.600 for every act? I respect that. No, he's absolutely right, 0:29:49.600 --> 0:29:51.080 But would you stay with your woman if you cheat? 0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:53.600 If she cheated on you? Would you stay with him? Yeah? 0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:56.520 I'll stay with him. I have stayed with him. Well, 0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:58.840 if you just asking, okay, so if you cheat on 0:29:58.880 --> 0:30:01.640 your girl, that's her fuck. If I cheated on that's 0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:04.720 not what he said. It must have been something that 0:30:04.840 --> 0:30:08.240 she did in her previous relations right, so it's her fun. 0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:11.520 I can't have you ever had a situation to where 0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:14.360 a girl where you meet a person cheating and you 0:30:14.480 --> 0:30:16.840 end up losing them the same way. Have you ever 0:30:16.840 --> 0:30:18.320 had to happen before? I know you heard a thing. 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.160 I understand what you said. I totally understand what you're saying. Brother, 0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:26.240 I totally get so when you go into relationships like that, Okay, 0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:27.960 you think that you got away with something that you 0:30:28.000 --> 0:30:29.960 might have been cheating on the man in the last relationship, 0:30:30.040 --> 0:30:32.080 you do what I'm saying, and now in this relationship, Yes, 0:30:32.160 --> 0:30:34.920 I totally get it. Every you know, everybody doesn't cheat. 0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:38.160 Sometimes people get cheated on and they haven't ever cheated. No, 0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:40.760 that's not scapable. You gotta understand the way you got 0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:43.240 You can't be ignorant about how the world were now 0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:45.920 and what you're saying. You're saying that you're saying, you're 0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:48.160 saying it goes both ways. So let's say your girl 0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:51.080 cheating on you, it's because of something that you were 0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:53.760 lacking or something that you did that you weren't giving 0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:58.120 her No, it's something that I did previously that came 0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:02.240 back on me. Maybe are you do Let me ask 0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:06.400 you this question. Do you understand what parma is? Yes, 0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:08.480 but I don't believe karma is causing effect. I believe 0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:11.440 karmen is created through actions. It's created through action. You're 0:31:11.440 --> 0:31:15.040 positively correct. That is correct. It is made through actions. 0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:17.880 So for every action, there's a reaction. Is that correct? 0:31:18.320 --> 0:31:21.560 We agree with that? Equal opposite? Yes, equal opposite. I 0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:23.719 agree with that. Okay, Now what we're speaking on it's 0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:26.040 parma right now, young man. You see what I'm saying 0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:30.760 so so so now it don't matter what I'm gonna 0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:34.880 give er on. Man, stop saying that. But now I 0:31:34.920 --> 0:31:36.960 see what he's saying. What he's saying, what he's saying 0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:40.160 makes perfect sense. Like he's not putting the blame on anybody. 0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:42.400 He's just saying that. You know, if he got cheated 0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:44.680 on in a previous relationship is probably because he cheated 0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:49.400 on somebody and a relationship previous. Now, conversation with that, 0:31:49.440 --> 0:31:52.040 you're pushing the narrative of gaining you know, that's what 0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:54.400 that's what he started with. Well, I ignore that. I 0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:57.440 don't give that any energy. Okay, all right, well, what's 0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:58.880 the mold of the story? I forgot what we were 0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:00.880 talking about. By the way, the moral of the story 0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.880 is cheating is wrong and everybody should be allowed to 0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.320 live the truth. And if you're in a situation where 0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:08.520 you're not able to live your truth, and maybe you 0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:10.560 need to get up out of that situation and stop 0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:13.440 having everybody live a lie with you. It's the Breakfast Club. 0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:21.800 Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Hey morning, everybody is DJ Envy, 0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:25.080 Angela Yee, Charlemagne MC guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.000 We got special guests in the building. She's in here 0:32:27.000 --> 0:32:30.080 with all this big queen energy. Ari Lennox, welcome to 0:32:30.240 --> 0:32:34.120 Thank you so much. How you feel this morning? All right? 0:32:34.440 --> 0:32:41.640 Who's nervous? Who are you? Because you're just kidding. Yeah, 0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:44.840 but it's just a little nervous. It's a very legendary show. 0:32:44.920 --> 0:32:46.840 So what took you so long to come up? Hinton? 0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:54.520 Fear Fear? Yeah? What you scared of y'all? Why? Yeah? 0:32:54.680 --> 0:33:00.080 I love No, it's just you know, y'all can be 0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:04.200 a little tough on people sometimes. Yeah, we've evolved, You've 0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:07.000 changed the whole lots. Yeah, and I feel that I 0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:09.480 feel that I want to if you don't mind, you know, 0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.000 for people that don't know who Ari Lennox is or 0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:13.760 where you're signed to or how you got your start, 0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:15.240 I want to start from the beginning for those people. 0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:18.920 Since this is your your to do a documentary. So 0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:22.000 you're signed to J Cole. How did you get into 0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:26.600 the music industry and signed to Cole? Well? I was 0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:31.240 working at public storage and just dropping music on SoundCloud 0:33:31.720 --> 0:33:36.520 and there's an amazing rapper named Omen. He loved my music. 0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:40.479 He told Eve and Cole about it, and he was like, 0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:43.959 we'll fly you out like tomorrow or tonight something like 0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:46.480 that so that you can meet Cole and the studio 0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:49.280 and stuff like that. And I was horrified. You know, 0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:51.600 I just got the job. I didn't want to lose 0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:55.640 the job. It was ten dollars an hour. It was 0:33:55.680 --> 0:34:00.280 the highest paid job I ever had, ten dollars an hour. Yeah, 0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:02.800 so I didn't want to like lose this, so I 0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:06.040 almost didn't go. But honestly, I think it was fear, 0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:09.200 you know, fear of flying and things like that. But 0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:12.800 I just I got over it. I drank Matt vodka 0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:14.399 and I got on that flight. I was the first 0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:18.200 flight as well, first flight in a long time, like years. 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:22.680 Did you lose your job? Yeah, I did, and I 0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:27.640 was I was horrified and I started doing uber. There's 0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.080 a lot here now. First of all, what were you afraid? 0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:32.719 Why are you afraid of flying? Well? I had a 0:34:32.719 --> 0:34:35.799 traumatic experience when I was young on a flight or 0:34:36.600 --> 0:34:39.319 the crash or something. Yeah, well the engines went out 0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:46.120 and so yeah and so as Yeah, so as we're 0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:49.440 about to land, he's basically telling us to brace for impact. 0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:54.279 And I was very young and just praying. But I 0:34:54.320 --> 0:34:58.280 don't remember having fear before that moment. But after that moment, 0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:02.520 I was just scared at trump. Yeah, so absolutely. Now 0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:05.520 let's let's let's rewind. Now, you lose your job and 0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:09.600 you become a noover driver. I can't see are you driving? 0:35:10.440 --> 0:35:14.640 Am I good driver? It depends. I'm very safe at driving, yes, 0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:17.960 but there are things that have happened where it's just 0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:20.760 like I could have been more a little bit more alert. Okay, 0:35:20.800 --> 0:35:23.560 where you what was your star rating? Star rating? Oh? 0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:26.479 It started dropping like crazy, and and I don't I don't, 0:35:26.640 --> 0:35:29.400 I don't know why some people thought I was driving 0:35:29.400 --> 0:35:32.080 too fast or one note I got was I was 0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:36.200 switching lanes too much, but I was trying to get them. Man, 0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:45.080 I don't know what he so. Yeah, I was public storage. No, 0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:50.920 I didn't have no big fancy you know, tell me. Um, 0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:54.080 it was just a nice black interior and a big 0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:59.680 bowl of candy and drivers have candy. Yes, I did 0:35:59.800 --> 0:36:01.719 have my charger. I would give because you know you 0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:05.879 can't trust didymus I did? No? Not my I would never, 0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:14.520 I mean never. No. Did you make conversation or were 0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:19.360 you quiet? I made some conversations sometimes. Um, three times 0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:22.040 people threw up in my car? How does that work? 0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:24.000 Do they pay for it? Or they pay for it 0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:26.279 but it's nowhere near enough? And then you lose like 0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:31.960 five days of work because your car stinks and you're traumatized. Yeah. 0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:33.799 How long did you have the Uber job for? This 0:36:33.840 --> 0:36:37.000 is interesting? This is my longest job today. Uber. I 0:36:37.040 --> 0:36:41.160 probably did for like at least a year or something. Wow. Yeah, 0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:43.479 I guess the meeting didn't go well because you lost 0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:45.719 your job, but then you started driving Uber. No, the 0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:48.239 meeting went really well. I just you know, I had 0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:51.520 to still make money. You know, they were still you know, 0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.640 taking their time with the idea of like signing me. 0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:57.359 It wasn't like an immediate This is my last uber 0:36:57.440 --> 0:36:59.880 question when you saw that. When you saw the episode 0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:03.040 insecureed we needs to rad was driving, did you say, oh, 0:37:03.120 --> 0:37:07.040 I see me? Didn't see oh you know? Okay, yeah, 0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:13.080 yeah she drove Insecure. Wow. I feel like a loser. 0:37:13.120 --> 0:37:16.880 I need to you know why I never watched Insecure 0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:19.680 because every time I would watch an episode, I would 0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:22.560 just get so sad about my life and how like 0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:25.759 sexy these men were and how I had no men. 0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:34.040 But but that's my choice. I feel like that's my choice. 0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:37.359 Maybe it is. It is my choice. Could you could 0:37:37.360 --> 0:37:40.839 have a man? But it might not be that one. 0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:44.239 Some people are okay with settling and saying Okay, I 0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:45.839 don't want to be alone, and people make you feel 0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:47.960 like that. But the truth is it's better to like 0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:52.200 wait till the right person. Absolutely, And I've definitely learned 0:37:52.239 --> 0:37:56.120 that like the hard way, so very like intentional particular 0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:58.960 about like who I want to share my time with. 0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:01.160 So I find myself for a loan a lot. Why 0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:03.080 not changing the mindset a little? Like you see the 0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:05.279 sexy man and you'd be like, I'm gonna have that 0:38:05.320 --> 0:38:07.400 one day. I'm gonna have a man like that for 0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:13.319 myself one day. I've been more adamant on like my standards. Absolutely, 0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:16.279 I do do that. Like I'm more like, yes he 0:38:16.360 --> 0:38:18.759 has to be fine, Yes, he has to have a 0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:21.560 nice job. Yes, he has to be good to me, 0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:24.439 an effective communicator, like I am, like, have his own place. 0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:26.560 He did have his own place. I am, you know, 0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:31.960 chanting those things within. My assistant loves you, right, was Mercedes. Mercedes, 0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:33.960 So she sent me a couple of questions. One of 0:38:33.960 --> 0:38:36.800 the questions she said, you have a song called pof. 0:38:36.920 --> 0:38:39.400 She's single, by the way, right, she says, have you 0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:42.680 tried the dating app pof? And what you ever catfish? 0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:44.439 And then she goes, by the way, that dating site 0:38:44.480 --> 0:38:47.160 is terrible? Oh, so have you ever tried plenty of 0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:50.800 fish before? Absolutely? I met my first boyfriend on pof. 0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:53.560 Really his name is John. I don't know if I'll 0:38:53.560 --> 0:39:00.239 get in trouble for that, but yeah, I shouldn't shot 0:39:01.320 --> 0:39:05.439 at that time of John lit? Right, John is gonna 0:39:05.480 --> 0:39:11.120 be so lit when the interview come out. Yet kicked 0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:13.560 up at some dating sites because people didn't believe that 0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:16.480 it was you. Yeah, tender um they didn't believe it 0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:19.640 was me, and I didn't want to blank my Instagram 0:39:19.800 --> 0:39:22.680 so that people would know it's me and then maybe 0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:25.800 reach out to me for the wrong reasons like secret rappers. 0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:31.279 Well this is thank you. What is happening here? I 0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:35.680 think I need to step outside more. But I'm finally 0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:39.200 stepping outside and like meeting like nice, like you know, 0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:42.120 enjoyable individuals. Let's go back to John for a second. 0:39:42.719 --> 0:39:45.160 Why did you throw John back in the sea? Well? 0:39:45.520 --> 0:39:49.000 John went to the military, and I felt like we 0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:52.719 were growing apart and the affection was lacking. He called 0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:55.880 me bro one and I was just like, you know what, 0:39:55.960 --> 0:39:58.920 I couldn't yeah, and it triggered me. But and I 0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:01.440 know it wasn't just bro. It's fine, you can call 0:40:01.480 --> 0:40:04.000 me that. It's just I felt like our romance was 0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:06.960 kind of dissipating, and so I think that was just 0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:09.520 a triggering thing. And we had an argument. Now I 0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:11.680 was like, well, I guess we're not together anymore, and 0:40:12.160 --> 0:40:16.399 that's kind of where to protect myself. Unfortunately I do that, 0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:18.920 and he was like, okay, fine, we're not together anymore. 0:40:18.960 --> 0:40:21.279 And he was really serious. Well, his loss, how many 0:40:21.280 --> 0:40:25.960 songs is he inspired? Um, probably po f the the 0:40:26.000 --> 0:40:29.880 EP and my album Shape, but her Baby, that's literally 0:40:30.200 --> 0:40:33.719 greatly inspired by him, and I'm so grateful. What was 0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:37.319 the first relationship I ever had? Yeah, we're cool. We 0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:39.319 check on each other sometimes. I ain't get an EP 0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:44.839 credit Shape. Well, I mean say when you just don't 0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:48.040 want to get back together and back in tent. I 0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:50.480 know women that swear by Shape butter Baby, like they 0:40:50.560 --> 0:40:54.120 like that's like their their bible. So that's that's big 0:40:54.160 --> 0:41:00.279 of him. You John I inspired Shape. But those T 0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:03.279 shirts please? We got more with Ari Lennox when we 0:41:03.320 --> 0:41:07.879 come back. It's the breakfast Clod Morning Morning. Everybody's DJ Envy, 0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:11.360 Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:14.040 We're still kicking it with Ari Lennox. So you've met 0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:16.040 a lot of guys like, well, you've dated guys and 0:41:16.040 --> 0:41:19.040 they've been secret rappers. I thought that was really funny. 0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:20.800 Oh when you date somebody and then all of a 0:41:20.840 --> 0:41:23.680 sudden you find out later like your pastors to Cole 0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:28.000 from Mere exactly, Oh my god, And it's the worst 0:41:28.440 --> 0:41:31.560 it happens, like, but that's why I've learned with dating 0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:40.840 acts specific questions, are you a rapper recording do you 0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:46.439 play basketball? Specifically? Goodness, that is hilarious. That's a plot 0:41:46.480 --> 0:41:48.279 for a movie or something. The girl thinks that the 0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:50.840 guy is cheating, but he's really sneaking off the recording 0:41:50.960 --> 0:41:56.080 escape exactly. And what did your mom and your family 0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:58.560 say when you were recording with Cole and going out 0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:00.680 there and recording because a lot of his parents don't 0:42:00.680 --> 0:42:04.920 believe in the industry, right, my dad never really knew 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:10.200 what was going on in my life. Yeah, I mean 0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:13.399 he knew. He was the one who always said you're 0:42:13.440 --> 0:42:16.440 gonna be something one day, like he he always said that, 0:42:16.480 --> 0:42:19.200 but like he was kind of always doing his own things, 0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:21.799 so he never really was seeing that I was how 0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:23.759 serious I was about music, which is why he was like, 0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:25.920 you should be a nurse. But really he wanted to 0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:30.040 be a nurse. And my mom was very calm, was 0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:33.080 just like forward, like happy for me, but yeah, very supportive. 0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:37.680 She never really knew this, like how serious he said that. 0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:40.200 Your dad used to always tell you you're gonna be something, 0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:43.360 You're gonna be something. Is that put added pressure on 0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:47.840 a daughter with wow, no, you know what? And it 0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:52.920 sucks because we were not even speaking right now you 0:42:53.080 --> 0:42:55.600 know what's going on. Okay, so we're not even speaking 0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:58.640 right now, But I do feel like when you instill 0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:03.640 certain things like that, it goes a long way for sure, 0:43:03.800 --> 0:43:07.840 because um, that is the one area in my life 0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:11.600 where I feel like I did really good right now 0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:13.520 with you when your dad not now speaking, is it 0:43:13.640 --> 0:43:16.520 something small that you can call him like because it's 0:43:16.560 --> 0:43:21.960 so much so like it, Um, I really think it's 0:43:22.000 --> 0:43:25.760 important for like people to be healed when they're bringing 0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:30.920 kids into this world because it's just like that alone, 0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:34.920 I feel like probably innately helped me in so many ways, 0:43:35.000 --> 0:43:39.759 like always grinding and like that. But um, I could 0:43:39.800 --> 0:43:42.960 also see the other like you know that I carry 0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:46.239 and it's, um, I'm sure it has to do with 0:43:46.320 --> 0:43:50.279 the others you know that you go through trauma. Let 0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:52.000 me let me tell you something I learned in therapy 0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:54.320 because the first time I had a breakthrough in therapy 0:43:54.440 --> 0:43:57.160 was literally realizing all the daddy issues I had. Yeah, 0:43:57.280 --> 0:43:59.440 So when me and my dad had a conversation and 0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:01.840 I realized, damn, he was a human before he was 0:44:01.920 --> 0:44:05.600 my dad, and he had his own issues self distribus 0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:07.880 issues dealing with mental health issues, and he was just 0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:09.719 doing the best he could with what he had at 0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:11.640 the time. It allowed me to give him a lot 0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:18.360 more grace. Yes, and got parents, I know, And I 0:44:18.440 --> 0:44:20.560 feel like there needs to be a lot of group therapy, 0:44:21.400 --> 0:44:24.520 and of course I want to continue my therapy alone, 0:44:24.600 --> 0:44:28.160 but I think that would probably be best because I 0:44:28.239 --> 0:44:31.520 know these are things I'm even carrying into my dating 0:44:31.560 --> 0:44:34.480 life and I just don't want to have that weight 0:44:34.560 --> 0:44:36.960 on me. And I do want to be more compassionate 0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:41.600 because he went through a lot, you know, with foster 0:44:41.760 --> 0:44:46.880 care and abandonment issues and all kinds of like dark things. 0:44:47.000 --> 0:44:50.799 So I do recognize why he is the way that 0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:53.720 he is. And you've been really open about going to therapy. 0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:56.080 When did you decide that that was something you wanted 0:44:56.120 --> 0:44:59.680 to do this year? I was just tired of just 0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:05.040 being a big ball of like traumas, like just being 0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:09.040 unaware of like what was going on inside, and like, 0:45:09.760 --> 0:45:12.200 you know, a lot of times I could be so 0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:15.359 triggered and it's just like, well why, And now I'm 0:45:15.400 --> 0:45:19.759 realizing why somebody's just pretending like I don't exist, or 0:45:19.800 --> 0:45:21.719 like not even looking at me, or like kind of 0:45:21.719 --> 0:45:24.680 having like this arrogant nature can be so triggering, like 0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:27.759 where did I see that like earlier in my life 0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:31.440 or experience that, Like I'm starting to realize it never stops. 0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:34.200 It's like a cycle. Like if you don't realize that 0:45:34.320 --> 0:45:37.160 you're carrying all of this way, it comes out in 0:45:37.200 --> 0:45:39.360 different ways and it people will be like, why is 0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:42.040 she freak out? It wasn't even that serious. It was 0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:45.480 a reminder. It was a flashback, probably a trigger without 0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:48.920 even realizing where it came from. There's always something in 0:45:48.920 --> 0:45:51.720 our childhood. Yeah, always something that happened in our childhood 0:45:51.760 --> 0:45:53.600 and to bring you that happens to you an adult. 0:45:53.880 --> 0:45:56.359 When it happened, you get triggered. You're like, oh, that's 0:45:56.400 --> 0:45:58.839 what that's why therapy iss like, oh that's why I'm 0:45:58.880 --> 0:46:02.399 reacting like yeah, what happened here? Yes, and it's it's 0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:05.480 been really beautiful and like eye opening for sure. Are 0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:09.399 you healing those those childhood wounds? Oh? Definitely, I want 0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.959 to keep going deeper. This start is happening for sure. 0:46:13.160 --> 0:46:15.279 And you said you see a lot of that in 0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:17.239 the relationships that you have now, Like what are some 0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:19.759 things and patterns Like I know you said you want 0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:22.200 to be more sympathetic, So what are some things that 0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:24.880 you feel like, Okay, I gotta work on this, damn 0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:31.719 probably how I'm communicating. I'm a very anxious person. So 0:46:32.320 --> 0:46:36.240 basically instead of saying I've said this before, but instead 0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:39.200 of saying like nobody cares, like it's just about well, 0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:41.880 you know, I feel like this is how I'm feeling, 0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:45.640 like you know that I'm not being heard or you 0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:47.680 know what I'm saying, Like, I try to work on 0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:51.400 how I'm communicating because I get so kind of in 0:46:51.600 --> 0:46:55.480 my own anxiety and mess that I can kind of 0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:59.200 be a little insensitive sometimes. So I just want to 0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:02.680 work on like that. And when it comes to performing 0:47:03.160 --> 0:47:05.680 and getting on stage, are you the type of person 0:47:05.760 --> 0:47:08.040 who gets nervous before that or does it all go 0:47:08.160 --> 0:47:10.880 away and that's where you feel most comfortable most times? 0:47:11.200 --> 0:47:15.439 Are rarely get nervous like that nervous, but certain things 0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:19.719 like TV performances like I'm shaking, like it's just certain things, 0:47:19.800 --> 0:47:23.359 or Jasmine Jasmine like at the when we performed at 0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:26.239 the BT Awards, like horrified, like I don't want to 0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:32.560 let this legend down, like Jasmine Sullivan is everything. So yeah, question, 0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:36.320 when you get triggered by secret rappers, do you remember 0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:40.759 the struggle rapper who traumatize you. Oh, so many, so many, 0:47:41.719 --> 0:47:46.239 Yeah's gracious, people will never hear of. There's so many, right, 0:47:46.400 --> 0:47:50.080 people we never hear of. Like they just they won't 0:47:50.239 --> 0:47:53.200 say it until like you like them, and it's just like, oh, 0:47:53.200 --> 0:47:59.200 I'm about to go to the studio. Why, like when whatever, 0:47:59.560 --> 0:48:01.279 they don't know who you are when they want to 0:48:01.360 --> 0:48:03.920 date you and act like, oh my god, like hey, 0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:06.000 what what do you do? You know, and act like 0:48:06.080 --> 0:48:09.040 they're not sure who you are. Yeah, I've definitely been 0:48:09.080 --> 0:48:11.880 in a relationship where he acted like I was not 0:48:12.040 --> 0:48:15.080 who I am at all. That's ridiculous. Yeah, I was 0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:20.000 trying to feel appreciated. He kept trying to say it 0:48:20.200 --> 0:48:23.279 was just it's ego, like, you know, it's not all 0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:26.600 about you typing. But really I just felt like he 0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:32.160 always kind of diminished everything about me, you know, like 0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:35.560 kind of pretended like this singing part didn't even exist. 0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:37.320 I hate people like that. Don't try to make me 0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:42.200 feel small because you're clue. Yeah, oh my god, oh 0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:55.520 my god, you know what. I want to know what 0:48:55.719 --> 0:48:57.080 you know? What I mean? People that try to make 0:48:57.280 --> 0:48:59.799 us feel small just because they haven't done what they 0:49:00.320 --> 0:49:02.920 want to do. In life. Yeah, I guess so, but 0:49:03.600 --> 0:49:12.400 now no Jesus, but now you know, like I just 0:49:13.120 --> 0:49:16.399 my goal is just just a date nice people. It's 0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:18.480 got to be hard though, because you're Arilenox now for 0:49:18.600 --> 0:49:20.719 you don't know who well, you don't know who likes 0:49:20.760 --> 0:49:22.719 you for you or who likes you because you're a 0:49:22.800 --> 0:49:27.520 super Scars guys like side the you know plenty of 0:49:27.600 --> 0:49:30.360 fish like where you meeting. Well, the other day I 0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:32.960 met a guy at the fashion show that was really 0:49:33.120 --> 0:49:35.520 nice and he was he was so fine, but the 0:49:35.680 --> 0:49:39.440 day can get terrible. What was the date? Was his 0:49:39.600 --> 0:49:47.440 dress probably better than yours want to dress? How he continue, 0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:51.480 how you're sitting there? He walks over. He actually security 0:49:51.560 --> 0:49:55.279 first while we were sitting in a seat, and he oh, dang, 0:49:55.280 --> 0:49:58.799 I don't want nobody to butts. Yeah, she's sitting next 0:49:58.800 --> 0:50:01.239 to you, but I won't tell you that. You could 0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:07.320 stop now. Yeah, he just he reached out and introduced 0:50:07.440 --> 0:50:10.520 himself and like shook hands and it was really cute 0:50:10.560 --> 0:50:13.080 and sweet. Was the first date the first day, I 0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:17.800 ain't gonna tell you. It was a lovely restaurant, It 0:50:17.920 --> 0:50:21.600 really was, but he was late. He was later. I 0:50:21.640 --> 0:50:23.440 think it's bad during fashion Now he supposed to be 0:50:25.000 --> 0:50:27.719 he was. He was hanging out with Jacole and um, 0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:34.960 what what No, That's what I'm saying with Jacole my day. 0:50:35.640 --> 0:50:41.080 The whole team is like, stopped my day. It's just 0:50:41.320 --> 0:50:43.839 not all right. We got more with Ari Lynos when 0:50:43.880 --> 0:50:47.200 we come back. It's the Breakfast Clobald Morning Morning. Everybody 0:50:47.360 --> 0:50:51.200 is DJ Envy, Angela Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we are 0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:54.760 the Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Ari Lennox, Charlomagne, 0:50:54.840 --> 0:50:57.719 what was your intention with this album? The intention was 0:50:57.840 --> 0:51:03.040 just me showcasing dating and its entirety from trying to 0:51:03.040 --> 0:51:04.640 get away from dating. But used to bought us right back. 0:51:04.760 --> 0:51:10.279 I know it's all right. It's on subject for and 0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:11.680 it's where you are, you know what a lot of 0:51:11.719 --> 0:51:13.799 people can relate to you. That's one of the main 0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:17.239 questions people ask, how do you find somebody like, somebody good, 0:51:17.480 --> 0:51:19.840 somebody nice? Do you think about marriage? Like? Are you 0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:23.400 dating with the intention to get married? That's how you 0:51:23.520 --> 0:51:27.640 find somebody probably is how finding yourself really, and so 0:51:27.800 --> 0:51:30.959 that's really what I'm focused on. I got a little 0:51:31.040 --> 0:51:34.120 distracted with that recent date and then I was like, well, 0:51:34.200 --> 0:51:35.960 let me see what else is out here? But I 0:51:36.080 --> 0:51:38.640 think I'm gonna pull back into like myself and just 0:51:38.880 --> 0:51:42.279 kind of like change my number and just focus on 0:51:43.160 --> 0:51:46.520 more beautiful books on trauma and just focus on me. 0:51:46.640 --> 0:51:51.319 I got a great one for you, momenticum my grandmother's hands. Really. Yeah, 0:51:51.440 --> 0:51:54.120 we also have a marian I'm bothered booking here? Wow? 0:51:54.800 --> 0:52:00.800 Is that about traumas? Oh? Wow, look so adorable? Okay? 0:52:02.200 --> 0:52:13.120 Oh no, no, to get the book back. No singers, 0:52:13.400 --> 0:52:17.160 no singers, no rappers. What about ball players? You said earlier? Oh, 0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:20.239 if he played basketball, he doesn't mention that. Maybe a 0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:27.799 soccer player? Is that? Where the money? That money yet? 0:52:29.239 --> 0:52:35.840 Real money yet? Soccer? Okay, I'm just saying we have intentions, 0:52:37.680 --> 0:52:39.960 that's all. Did you finish your thought on the intentions 0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:42.360 of this album? The intention of the album is just 0:52:43.040 --> 0:52:46.200 making beautiful music that sounds like I'm in love based 0:52:46.239 --> 0:52:50.280 on crushes of people I've never even hung out with before, 0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:56.040 like mean mug and hoodie crushes on fine men that 0:52:56.880 --> 0:53:00.480 I never even on that one, and it gets to 0:53:00.600 --> 0:53:02.680 blocking you towards the end, it gets the blocking you 0:53:02.840 --> 0:53:04.880 And That's where I'm at right now with it, like 0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:09.759 in real life. But yeah, it's just dating and the emotions, 0:53:09.880 --> 0:53:13.239 and towards the end of the album, I'm definitely more 0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:16.160 about like, Okay, it's time to protect my peace, Like 0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:18.239 no one's gonna do that for me. And I find 0:53:18.320 --> 0:53:21.400 it irresponsible to be moving around in life with all 0:53:21.480 --> 0:53:25.600 of these unhealed you know, traumas and trying to you know, 0:53:25.719 --> 0:53:28.320 get to know people. So I just, you know, I 0:53:28.440 --> 0:53:33.880 want to check some things, some codependency things and anxiety. 0:53:34.000 --> 0:53:38.200 Things that people fast about. Black people fast if they 0:53:38.239 --> 0:53:41.560 ignore you, just black room. I do. Like one time, 0:53:42.000 --> 0:53:44.600 I felt that there was distance happening, and I was like, hey, 0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.600 can we talk. I feel like something is changing. He 0:53:47.760 --> 0:53:50.040 was like, I thought we were good. I thought everything 0:53:50.200 --> 0:53:52.560 was good. Um, you know what, I just need to 0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:54.239 get something to eat. I'm gonna call you right back. 0:53:54.760 --> 0:53:57.680 And so I got on the phone my dad and 0:53:58.280 --> 0:54:00.320 me and my dad talked for like two hours wars 0:54:00.960 --> 0:54:03.080 and I didn't hear from the guy and I'm looking 0:54:03.080 --> 0:54:06.080 at my phone like wow, like and so I blocked him. 0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:10.480 After that that was in We spoke one time since then. 0:54:11.200 --> 0:54:15.680 I'm sure for some reason, I'm attracting avoidant people who 0:54:15.719 --> 0:54:18.440 don't know how to communicate well. Well, you're probably attracting 0:54:18.480 --> 0:54:20.000 what you are. That's why what you said about you know, 0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:22.520 healing your own trauma before you get into another situation. 0:54:22.600 --> 0:54:25.120 It's so important that right there, that's better than money. 0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:26.520 You know how we are you know about to say, 0:54:26.520 --> 0:54:27.799 you know how we always say you need a man 0:54:27.840 --> 0:54:32.560 with money, but did you you know? You know, but 0:54:32.719 --> 0:54:35.120 you really want a man that is doing the work 0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:36.640 like you're doing the work every I got so many 0:54:36.680 --> 0:54:38.080 home girls say I can't date a man if they're 0:54:38.120 --> 0:54:41.120 not in therapy, they're not trying to heal. Wow, that's 0:54:41.160 --> 0:54:43.920 what I would want for myself, a secure individual and 0:54:44.600 --> 0:54:48.760 or someone who was striving to be secure and healing 0:54:49.120 --> 0:54:51.920 as well as I am healing and trying to heal. 0:54:52.080 --> 0:54:53.600 I wanted to ask you, what did you think, because 0:54:53.640 --> 0:54:54.960 you know you are one of the leaders of this 0:54:55.120 --> 0:54:56.600 new R and B era, what did you think of 0:54:56.680 --> 0:54:59.120 did these comments that R and B is dead? I 0:54:59.280 --> 0:55:03.480 thought it was dismissive to all of the amazing legendary 0:55:03.640 --> 0:55:06.200 artists that have been in the game and that are 0:55:06.239 --> 0:55:10.000 also contributing. I mean, from Mary J. Bloige to Jasmine 0:55:10.040 --> 0:55:15.640 Sullivan to Summer Walker to elm to Money Long Van 0:55:15.800 --> 0:55:20.960 Jesse Lucky Day, Lucky Day, Aaron Ray. There's so many 0:55:21.080 --> 0:55:28.560 of us t Nariel, Brent Faiz, Jalen, Jossi her Her Yes, yes, 0:55:28.760 --> 0:55:33.160 let's you know, Jill Scott Sissa, like everyone is still 0:55:33.280 --> 0:55:37.320 killing it and dropping music. And it was dismissive just 0:55:37.520 --> 0:55:43.480 because I don't know. Yeah, Tank exactly amazing. Yeah, I 0:55:43.760 --> 0:55:45.680 don't know why he said that it was not nice, 0:55:46.400 --> 0:55:52.399 but I do love all that he's contributed to music. 0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:55.160 So it's no shade, but it's like bee more nice 0:55:55.200 --> 0:55:57.640 to the people that are really you know, we're out 0:55:57.719 --> 0:56:01.840 here still like stop it. Often wonder when you was 0:56:01.920 --> 0:56:03.480 young trying to get on, what did you think the 0:56:03.560 --> 0:56:06.640 industry would be like? And what have you realized? You 0:56:06.719 --> 0:56:08.959 know it really is. But I think it was gonna 0:56:09.000 --> 0:56:11.640 be like I don't remember. I just knew. I just 0:56:12.280 --> 0:56:15.120 I saw baw Waw up there and Joe Joe, and 0:56:15.160 --> 0:56:16.960 I just wanted to be like them, like when I 0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:20.160 was young, Um, what did I think? I don't know 0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:22.439 what I thought, Like maybe I thought there was gonna 0:56:22.480 --> 0:56:26.560 be like a lot of like devil people illuminatis. I 0:56:26.560 --> 0:56:28.759 haven't yet to see that. I thought there would be 0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:33.200 a lot of cocaine. Yet I've yet to see the runs. 0:56:36.120 --> 0:56:39.479 I've never seen it before, never sacrifice a family member 0:56:39.560 --> 0:56:43.440 or something. I don't want to think I've never seen 0:56:43.920 --> 0:56:47.040 before either. No, yeah, exactly, I've been offered it, but 0:56:47.320 --> 0:56:49.719 I've never seen it. It was never been offered, I 0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:52.600 don't believe or I offered it twice in my life, 0:56:52.760 --> 0:56:55.320 but they didn't like have it in their hand. Wow, 0:56:55.480 --> 0:56:58.719 they were like deep party, Yeah, then I have been 0:56:58.800 --> 0:57:01.960 offered it before. Then, well yeah in the bathroom. Yes, 0:57:02.040 --> 0:57:05.120 that's what that meant. Oh my god, you've been offered cocaine. 0:57:05.200 --> 0:57:09.799 I have been offered cocaine. Say all your friends are 0:57:09.800 --> 0:57:17.080 in the loom. We do appreciate you, We appreciate your music. 0:57:17.720 --> 0:57:19.480 And you know, I was kind of hurt when you 0:57:19.480 --> 0:57:21.200 said you don't want to do interviews anymore. I was like, 0:57:21.280 --> 0:57:25.200 don't let one bad interaction with somebody mess up somebody else, 0:57:25.280 --> 0:57:26.880 you know. And I'm glad you're over that, and I'm 0:57:26.880 --> 0:57:29.360 glad you're doing interviews again. Thank you. I want people 0:57:29.440 --> 0:57:32.880 to understand that was just a part of my anxious 0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:35.800 nature of like what I met earlier, when I was 0:57:35.880 --> 0:57:39.160 just like nobody cares. I kind of worst case scenario 0:57:39.440 --> 0:57:42.400 and jumped to like the extreme. I'm kind of black 0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:47.200 and white with things, especially Yeah, and I definitely didn't 0:57:47.280 --> 0:57:50.919 mean that. I was just so heartbroken by the fact 0:57:51.000 --> 0:57:53.920 that he would release something that we didn't agree on 0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:59.240 him releasing, and I just kind of felt ambushed, you know. So, Yeah, 0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:01.600 get into a record off the album. What you want 0:58:01.600 --> 0:58:04.440 to hear? Oh? I guess boy bye, because that's the 0:58:04.600 --> 0:58:08.360 real sexy record. I love this Lucky Days awesome. 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I'm gonna make this quick. It's 1:00:04.040 --> 1:00:07.440 just reinforcing a point. Donc gives the Dave goes to 1:00:07.520 --> 1:00:11.240 every single individual who got a fraudulent PPP loan. Because 1:00:11.280 --> 1:00:14.080 if you haven't heard, President Biden signed the bill aimed 1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:16.720 at helping crack down on pandemic relief fund. Oh what 1:00:16.880 --> 1:00:19.520 a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive. 1:00:19.760 --> 1:00:22.320 All right, there's not one single solitary human I know 1:00:22.440 --> 1:00:26.360 with good sense who participated in p PPP fraud. Why 1:00:26.680 --> 1:00:28.600 because we all knew it was too good to be true. 1:00:28.840 --> 1:00:31.400 We all knew there was only one place fake LLC 1:00:31.560 --> 1:00:34.640 Twitter was gonna end up, and that's in PPP prison. Okay, 1:00:34.760 --> 1:00:37.440 PPP period. And that's why a couple of days ago 1:00:37.560 --> 1:00:40.640 President Joe Biden signed the PAD bills to assist prosecutors 1:00:40.680 --> 1:00:43.240 cracked down on pandemic relief funds. Let's listen to what 1:00:43.360 --> 1:00:46.120 he had to say. And today I'm shigning two bipartisan 1:00:46.240 --> 1:00:50.000 bills and will give the federal local prosecutors more time 1:00:50.040 --> 1:00:52.720 to hold criminals accountable for the fraud and American people 1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:56.720 during the once in a century pandemic. American people deserve 1:00:56.800 --> 1:00:59.400 to know was that their tax dollars or being spent 1:00:59.520 --> 1:01:02.200 as in ten. My message to those cheats out there 1:01:02.320 --> 1:01:05.440 is this, you can't hide. I'm going to find you. 1:01:06.040 --> 1:01:08.360 We're gonna make you payback or you stolen, and hold 1:01:08.360 --> 1:01:10.840 you accountable under the law. I'm going to sign them 1:01:10.880 --> 1:01:13.320 in the law. That's true for another piece of my 1:01:13.400 --> 1:01:16.760 economic plan, the belief and the United States of America. 1:01:16.800 --> 1:01:21.040 There's nothing beyond our capacity. Nothing when we work together 1:01:21.160 --> 1:01:24.160 as the United States of America. That's just these bills 1:01:24.240 --> 1:01:28.160 represent y'all know, President Biden, love locking black people up, 1:01:28.200 --> 1:01:30.720 and y'all just helped them. See, I'm not wishing jail 1:01:30.800 --> 1:01:33.520 on nobody. I just understand it the consequences to all 1:01:33.560 --> 1:01:36.120 our actions. And for some reason in this era, people 1:01:36.200 --> 1:01:38.600 have forgotten that. All right, folks want to do whatever 1:01:38.760 --> 1:01:40.640 it is they want to do and then get mad 1:01:40.720 --> 1:01:42.920 when they don't get away with it. It's unreal to me. 1:01:43.080 --> 1:01:45.880 The mindset is crazy, okay. And these bills that Biden 1:01:45.960 --> 1:01:49.080 signed will extend the Statute of Limitations for prosecuting cases 1:01:49.080 --> 1:01:52.160 of fraud against the government for ten years, so for 1:01:52.280 --> 1:01:55.200 the next decade. If you did a fraudulent p P 1:01:55.400 --> 1:01:57.640 piece camp, you better act like you were rapper from 1:01:57.680 --> 1:02:00.440 Atlanta who's been warned by the DA that more ricos 1:02:00.440 --> 1:02:02.240 are on the way over the next sixty days. By 1:02:02.280 --> 1:02:04.040 the way, she said that three weeks ago, so y'all 1:02:04.040 --> 1:02:05.680 got about three or four more weeks left. But I 1:02:05.760 --> 1:02:08.120 just want to know what made y'all think y'all could 1:02:08.160 --> 1:02:11.480 get away with this fraudulent PPP loan scam in the 1:02:11.560 --> 1:02:14.520 first place. Some of y'all never owned a business, never 1:02:14.640 --> 1:02:16.600 ran a business, nothing, But all of a sudden, you're 1:02:16.600 --> 1:02:19.560 creating these fake LLC's lying about the number of employees 1:02:19.600 --> 1:02:22.480 you have, about the profits you made. We told y'all 1:02:22.560 --> 1:02:25.520 this was gonna lead to you going to PPP prison, 1:02:25.600 --> 1:02:29.000 and you did it anyway. Okay, I don't feel sorry 1:02:29.000 --> 1:02:32.440 for y'all. Okay, I feel sorry for all the small businesses, 1:02:32.480 --> 1:02:35.600 all the small black businesses who couldn't get any PPP money, 1:02:35.840 --> 1:02:38.680 who wanted to relief, who needed to relieve, and for 1:02:38.800 --> 1:02:41.520 whatever reason, couldn't get it. But all of y'all out 1:02:41.560 --> 1:02:45.120 there with fake LLCs like Deally Nuts LLC and Beef 1:02:45.240 --> 1:02:48.720 King LLC and Rita Week Club LLC. What you'd like 1:02:48.880 --> 1:02:52.040 to know who those people were. Those were actual businesses 1:02:52.200 --> 1:02:55.960 who claimed to be farms. But just what these farms? 1:02:56.200 --> 1:02:58.360 And I got farms in air quotes? Guess what? These 1:02:58.440 --> 1:03:03.000 farms were located in beach towns in New Jersey. Okay, 1:03:03.440 --> 1:03:06.600 hundreds of PPP loans went to fake farms and places 1:03:06.640 --> 1:03:09.000 where there is no damn farms. All right. There was 1:03:09.040 --> 1:03:12.360 an online lending platform called Cabbage that sent three hundred 1:03:12.400 --> 1:03:15.520 and seventy eight pandemic loans worth seven million dollars to 1:03:15.600 --> 1:03:19.280 fake companies, mostly farms. Meanwhile, real farms couldn't get this 1:03:19.400 --> 1:03:22.520 kind of relief This is what makes me feel like 1:03:22.960 --> 1:03:25.880 all of this was a set up. Okay, how are 1:03:26.080 --> 1:03:30.880 so many legitimate businesses ignored couldn't get the relief they needed? 1:03:31.160 --> 1:03:35.520 But all these fake LLCs weren't. For all you YouTube 1:03:35.600 --> 1:03:38.800 conspiracy theorists out there, this is a conspiracy you can 1:03:38.880 --> 1:03:41.840 run with because they killed two birds with one stone. 1:03:42.080 --> 1:03:45.400 In this case, they killed two niggas with one loan. Okay, 1:03:45.640 --> 1:03:48.040 because if you're a small black and brown business who 1:03:48.040 --> 1:03:51.160 couldn't get a PPP loan, you probably ended up ultimately 1:03:51.280 --> 1:03:53.720 losing your business. So they killed black and brown businesses. 1:03:53.720 --> 1:03:55.640 And if you're a black or brown person who got 1:03:55.760 --> 1:03:58.160 a fake LLC, now you go into prison. And I 1:03:58.200 --> 1:04:00.640 don't even have to tell you how incarceration kills families. 1:04:00.760 --> 1:04:04.040 So therefore, this was the ultimate trap. Okay, you killed 1:04:04.080 --> 1:04:07.240 two niggas with one loan. It was clearly a trap, 1:04:07.400 --> 1:04:09.800 and y'all fell for it. I don't feel remorse for 1:04:09.880 --> 1:04:12.760 any of you, Okay. PPP was intended to help businesses 1:04:12.840 --> 1:04:15.960 make payroll during the pandemic, with those loans being forgiven 1:04:16.120 --> 1:04:19.480 if companies met specific criteria. Okay. It was for small 1:04:19.560 --> 1:04:21.920 businesses to stay afloat, not for you niggas, the ball 1:04:21.960 --> 1:04:24.560 out on boats. Okay, I don't feel sorry for any 1:04:24.600 --> 1:04:26.360 of y'all, and I am sick of folks acting like 1:04:26.440 --> 1:04:29.600 there's not consequences to their actions. All right. We see 1:04:29.640 --> 1:04:31.640 people doing things that are going to lead them to jail. 1:04:32.000 --> 1:04:34.160 We tell them they're going to jail. We can clearly 1:04:34.200 --> 1:04:36.200 see what the consequences of what they are doing is 1:04:36.200 --> 1:04:39.640 gonna be. We warn them, they do it, they get busted, 1:04:39.880 --> 1:04:43.880 and now we feel sorry for them. No, not Lenard, 1:04:44.240 --> 1:04:47.840 not Uncle Shlah. Okay, y'all deserve to be afraid, all right, 1:04:48.040 --> 1:04:50.120 very afraid over the next decade. You made a choice. 1:04:50.440 --> 1:04:52.280 And I hope those crab legs and scrimps and all 1:04:52.320 --> 1:04:54.760 that cast and meagles was worth it. Please give everyone 1:04:54.800 --> 1:04:57.360 who got a fraudulent PPP loan the biggest he hull. 1:05:00.640 --> 1:05:02.480 Just my thoughts, just the way I'm feeling. At the time. 1:05:02.560 --> 1:05:04.720 It was a pandemic, you know what I'm saying. People 1:05:04.800 --> 1:05:08.640 was getting them banned. So I guess it's over now 1:05:09.160 --> 1:05:11.840 it's been over. Oh it was over two years. About 1:05:11.840 --> 1:05:15.160 to be a jail demic. It's gonna be a jailed demic, 1:05:15.280 --> 1:05:17.919 you hear me. We told y'all this was gonna happen. 1:05:18.120 --> 1:05:19.920 We live. You go back and you listen to the 1:05:20.000 --> 1:05:23.120 Breakfast Club during Kobe, we told you p P P 1:05:23.440 --> 1:05:26.040 was gonna lead the p P prison. Okay, we saw 1:05:26.160 --> 1:05:29.280 what this was going. Y'all didn't listen. Hey, now you 1:05:29.360 --> 1:05:33.080 got a decade to watch. You back, all right? The 1:05:33.320 --> 1:05:41.440 Breakfast Club Dank morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, 1:05:41.600 --> 1:05:43.840 Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got 1:05:43.880 --> 1:05:48.280 some special guests joining us, Alexandrea from The Poorman's Podcast. Welcome, Hi, 1:05:49.280 --> 1:05:52.280 Thank y'all for having us difficulty, but we got it together. 1:05:53.040 --> 1:05:55.560 How y're feeling this morning? We're feeling good. Let's start 1:05:55.560 --> 1:05:57.720 from the beginning. How you get this podcast started? How 1:05:57.760 --> 1:06:03.280 did y'all meet? Now, Oh, Claude, we was drinking and 1:06:03.640 --> 1:06:09.720 real making money. It was called prime Time. It wasn't Houston, 1:06:09.800 --> 1:06:12.840 but it wasn't open at long No, it was like 1:06:12.920 --> 1:06:15.080 it was DC, the guy that used to own be Live. 1:06:15.680 --> 1:06:17.960 So they were trying to like a starlets in like 1:06:18.360 --> 1:06:26.800 starlets whack with the ya ya y'all weld have drinking, 1:06:26.880 --> 1:06:29.760 chilling and what made y'all meeting and Lincoln connect? Because 1:06:29.840 --> 1:06:32.240 usually girls when they meet, they don't really connect. Y'a 1:06:32.240 --> 1:06:39.840 connected over y'all baby heads. I don't say something about 1:06:39.840 --> 1:06:42.960 it because we was laying them down this morning. We 1:06:43.080 --> 1:06:45.200 don't like we gonna light them edgy. No. But I 1:06:45.280 --> 1:06:47.560 think the reason we connected was because like she didn't 1:06:47.560 --> 1:06:49.959 know how to make drinks at all, and real bart 1:06:51.720 --> 1:06:53.920 I would, but she was a good talker, like she 1:06:54.160 --> 1:06:56.760 was finessing it because I was making the drinks, and 1:06:57.160 --> 1:06:59.440 that we were like making a lot of money to oh, 1:07:01.600 --> 1:07:03.880 like the first night that we worked together, because when 1:07:03.880 --> 1:07:06.000 we were actually working together for a few months before, 1:07:06.120 --> 1:07:09.040 we actually talked. And then one night this guy came 1:07:09.120 --> 1:07:10.960 to the club and he was talking to me, and 1:07:11.000 --> 1:07:12.960 I'm like, he's talking about girl he went along island. 1:07:12.960 --> 1:07:14.320 I don't know how to make that. I mean he 1:07:14.400 --> 1:07:17.480 was asking for anything. He was like, man, yeah, like 1:07:17.520 --> 1:07:19.400 I know how to make it. He the see and cold, 1:07:20.240 --> 1:07:22.920 and so I think we made like four thousand dollars 1:07:23.160 --> 1:07:26.960 damn yeah, and we're splitting like I'm trying to figure 1:07:27.000 --> 1:07:28.840 out what well it was just because like I think 1:07:28.920 --> 1:07:31.520 a lot of it is he was just so impressed 1:07:31.600 --> 1:07:34.040 that she could actually make a drink, But it was 1:07:34.080 --> 1:07:36.280 really me making drinks like you know, so we just 1:07:36.400 --> 1:07:37.560 kind of got I was like, Okay, this is what 1:07:37.600 --> 1:07:39.440 we're gonna do. Yeah, you're gonna take all these I'm 1:07:39.440 --> 1:07:40.880 gonna make the drinks. Just let me know what you need. 1:07:40.960 --> 1:07:42.720 And it was like the service was fast because we 1:07:42.800 --> 1:07:44.800 was working together. But they didn't know that. That's what 1:07:44.960 --> 1:07:46.720 made y'all start the podcast? How did y'all start? What 1:07:47.040 --> 1:07:49.840 was that decision? You? Like people whenever where around people, 1:07:49.880 --> 1:07:52.520 they always be like y'all so crazy and y'all so funny, 1:07:52.600 --> 1:07:55.160 like y'all need y'all own show. Y'all need to people 1:07:55.200 --> 1:07:56.960 need to see this because we really are like these 1:07:57.040 --> 1:07:59.320 off camera too. But I feel like too, like you 1:07:59.400 --> 1:08:01.680 know how when people say that, everybody feel like, yeah, 1:08:01.720 --> 1:08:04.680 they have a good conversation. I need a podcast. Oh 1:08:04.920 --> 1:08:11.360 they've have a good time. God girl, we need to reality. Yes, right, 1:08:11.960 --> 1:08:15.720 that's not what God got planning. But it's a little 1:08:15.760 --> 1:08:18.000 different because I mean we wouldn't even be doing We 1:08:18.080 --> 1:08:20.040 would just be sitting on the couch at somebody house 1:08:20.960 --> 1:08:23.599 people like man like it was every time, I mean, 1:08:23.720 --> 1:08:25.679 no matter where we went, and we're in front of strangers, 1:08:25.720 --> 1:08:27.760 people who knew it. It was like Okay, well, let's 1:08:27.800 --> 1:08:30.000 like start a YouTube channel. We never thought that we 1:08:30.080 --> 1:08:32.200 were going to get into podcasts because her ex gave 1:08:32.280 --> 1:08:34.800 her the idea to start the YouTube. H because we 1:08:34.880 --> 1:08:36.479 used to do like a little show called wind Out 1:08:36.479 --> 1:08:38.519 on Wednesday before we switched it over the Poor Mine, 1:08:38.840 --> 1:08:40.960 and we got that idea from him. And then one 1:08:41.000 --> 1:08:43.600 of her friends was already a podcaster and she was like, 1:08:43.720 --> 1:08:45.639 y'all need to turn it into a podcast because y'all 1:08:45.640 --> 1:08:48.000 can make away more money and monetize this. When we 1:08:48.040 --> 1:08:54.440 switched the name to Poor Mine, who was your friend Candy? Okay, 1:08:54.600 --> 1:09:02.040 and who was your ex? Nobody? Cool? It ain't no, 1:09:02.160 --> 1:09:05.360 it ain't no. Our listeners are very very knowledgy, so 1:09:05.479 --> 1:09:07.000 as soon as I name they're gonna be like I 1:09:07.280 --> 1:09:12.679 say it, but so somebody people know? Um people yeah, 1:09:12.800 --> 1:09:16.320 used the people that no, people don't know DM me Homi, 1:09:16.360 --> 1:09:20.360 I'm gonna give you. Don't say that like what's up? 1:09:20.479 --> 1:09:31.519 What's up? That's worth and the work brothers said, brother, 1:09:32.920 --> 1:09:35.599 he must be terrible to be terrible. Good. No, he's 1:09:35.640 --> 1:09:37.640 not a terrible person. I feel like, you know, a 1:09:37.720 --> 1:09:42.919 terrible rapple. Oh my god, Okay, let me say this honestly, 1:09:43.600 --> 1:09:45.720 he can write. He got some good lyrics. I feel 1:09:45.720 --> 1:09:48.720 like the it's difference between making good music being like 1:09:48.800 --> 1:09:51.320 a lyricist like he has. He can write all day. 1:09:51.640 --> 1:09:58.360 Raps are good songs, not so much. But you never know, No, 1:09:59.760 --> 1:10:04.400 you you're gonna be like this is ass what was 1:10:04.479 --> 1:10:09.519 you thinking? So for people that doing the podcast, what 1:10:09.560 --> 1:10:12.120 are y'all talking about? And discussing the podcast? We talk 1:10:12.200 --> 1:10:15.160 about everything, I think of what A lot of talk 1:10:15.160 --> 1:10:19.280 about dating, we talk about six we talk about music. 1:10:20.000 --> 1:10:22.200 I mean, we really just be navigating through life. I 1:10:22.400 --> 1:10:24.160 think that that's one of the great things about our 1:10:24.240 --> 1:10:26.200 podcasts that you can see the growth, like because we 1:10:26.360 --> 1:10:28.160 keep up all of the old contents, so you could 1:10:28.240 --> 1:10:30.360 look back from four years ago and really just see 1:10:30.439 --> 1:10:33.080 us grow. We see the evolution of the conversations. At 1:10:33.080 --> 1:10:36.160 one point we just talk about yeah, like men with 1:10:36.320 --> 1:10:38.719 money and that I think a lot of times people 1:10:38.920 --> 1:10:42.160 have the podcasts all wrong, you know, like because all 1:10:42.240 --> 1:10:44.200 of the clips that happen to go viral be us 1:10:44.280 --> 1:10:46.560 talking about men with money or you know, dating and 1:10:46.640 --> 1:10:48.240 trying to figure out, you know, how to get this. 1:10:49.560 --> 1:10:52.600 But I feel like our podcast is really about like 1:10:53.240 --> 1:10:56.519 celebrating women and what we deserve and you know, having 1:10:56.640 --> 1:10:59.920 higher standards and getting that confidence that you never had, 1:11:00.200 --> 1:11:02.920 and you know how we can talk about music and 1:11:03.360 --> 1:11:05.240 just showing us in a different light because of course 1:11:05.280 --> 1:11:07.519 when people look at us saying, you know, we're sexy, 1:11:07.600 --> 1:11:09.920 we like to be batties, but it's so much more 1:11:10.160 --> 1:11:12.640 than that to us, you know. So I feel like 1:11:12.760 --> 1:11:14.760 that's who the podcast is for, because we like to say, 1:11:14.800 --> 1:11:18.040 you know, traditionally, like batties don't listen to podcasts, you know, 1:11:18.200 --> 1:11:20.920 they just be outside. So we feel like this is 1:11:21.200 --> 1:11:24.120 a lane for the batties, find a bat for those 1:11:24.200 --> 1:11:28.080 who may not know what I mean. I definitely feel like, 1:11:28.160 --> 1:11:30.920 you know, you have to look the part, but that secondary. 1:11:31.080 --> 1:11:35.000 I feel like it's more of a mindset thing. You know, 1:11:35.240 --> 1:11:38.479 you can't be musty and bad. To me, like a 1:11:38.600 --> 1:11:42.000 baddie is somebody who like they're confident first of all, 1:11:42.080 --> 1:11:44.080 like they walk in a room, it doesn't matter you 1:11:44.200 --> 1:11:46.559 know how other people view them. They know how they 1:11:46.680 --> 1:11:48.840 view themselves. And I feel like that's with us, Like 1:11:49.280 --> 1:11:52.120 we don't care what clip goes viral or what y'all thing. 1:11:52.200 --> 1:11:54.519 Y'all can be like hot, these birds get on breakfast 1:11:54.520 --> 1:11:56.160 club because it's gonna be a lot of people saying 1:11:56.200 --> 1:12:02.240 that I don't care, you know what I'm saying. So 1:12:02.439 --> 1:12:04.479 I feel like it's just like a confidence thing, you know. 1:12:04.600 --> 1:12:07.080 And like I said, we cannot act like. It's not 1:12:07.400 --> 1:12:10.760 the looks thing too, Like that's what you gotta be. 1:12:11.439 --> 1:12:13.439 But it feel like you gotta be a nice person, 1:12:13.560 --> 1:12:15.000 Like I feel like you can't be a baddy and 1:12:15.080 --> 1:12:17.120 be mean. Yeah, like I mean, we don't like mean girls. 1:12:17.479 --> 1:12:19.840 Girls just be mean. It's helping out reasoning. What if 1:12:19.840 --> 1:12:24.679 you nice, confident and musty, you're not a bad musty? 1:12:24.760 --> 1:12:46.760 People be coming around like you're You're not. We got 1:12:46.840 --> 1:12:49.639 more with the ladies from Poor Minds r Lex Andrea, 1:12:49.720 --> 1:12:51.679 So don't move, It's to Breakfast Club. Co morning. Everybody 1:12:51.800 --> 1:12:55.000 is t j Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we 1:12:55.080 --> 1:12:57.360 are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Lex 1:12:57.439 --> 1:13:00.640 Andrea from the Poor Mind's podcast. So y'all say, y'all diding, No, 1:13:00.760 --> 1:13:07.280 y'all didating. I'm thinking right now? Yeah, relationships right right, M. 1:13:07.320 --> 1:13:10.720 I actually just got out of a situation. So suation 1:13:13.520 --> 1:13:17.880 relationship because it's like it's been complicated, it's been a 1:13:18.000 --> 1:13:20.000 very long time of a lot of back and forth. 1:13:20.160 --> 1:13:22.960 But you know, I'm single now, So what made you 1:13:23.080 --> 1:13:26.840 finally break up? He went back this way, not this 1:13:27.040 --> 1:13:29.840 one week. But no, I'm still like, I'm at a 1:13:29.880 --> 1:13:31.560 different point in my life. You know, I've had a 1:13:31.600 --> 1:13:33.280 lot of changes, a lot of things going on. I 1:13:33.400 --> 1:13:35.920 just feel like we're in two different places. It ain't 1:13:35.960 --> 1:13:37.840 no bad blood, Like I still got love for him, 1:13:37.880 --> 1:13:39.840 you know, it ain't. No. I'm not a girl that like, 1:13:39.960 --> 1:13:41.960 oh I hate him and I'm gonna talk down on him. 1:13:41.960 --> 1:13:43.880 I've never been break up. What was the situation with 1:13:44.520 --> 1:13:47.640 finally say it was over? I mean a lot of 1:13:48.680 --> 1:13:53.720 stress in our relationship, Like, no, not that. I mean 1:13:53.800 --> 1:13:56.200 I'm busy. I travel a lot. You know, he has 1:13:56.240 --> 1:14:01.080 a lot going on. That problem batty life right now, 1:14:01.240 --> 1:14:05.599 So I gotta do. Do men get jealous because they 1:14:05.640 --> 1:14:07.759 see y'all, you know, starting to grow in this space. 1:14:08.160 --> 1:14:11.000 I don't know. I haven't really witnessed jealousy so much, 1:14:11.160 --> 1:14:13.040 but I think that it's weird because a lot of 1:14:13.080 --> 1:14:14.760 guys that I used to talk to be trying to 1:14:14.840 --> 1:14:17.000 like come back to me, and they be trying to 1:14:17.040 --> 1:14:19.640 do like extravagant things. So it's all mexing me now, 1:14:19.800 --> 1:14:21.479 And I think that's very strange because it's like, what 1:14:21.720 --> 1:14:23.800 made you have such a slitting and change of heart. 1:14:24.439 --> 1:14:26.080 I like a sudden change of heart. I don't like 1:14:26.520 --> 1:14:30.639 with you like I mean, but still like I'm gonna 1:14:30.640 --> 1:14:33.160 tasting it, but still to leave me alone. Right, facts 1:14:33.200 --> 1:14:37.519 we always take together expensive as it was a while back. 1:14:37.600 --> 1:14:40.880 But he put that helped me get a car off 1:14:40.920 --> 1:14:44.400 my car. I got a Dodge Challenger, so you know, 1:14:44.560 --> 1:14:46.040 and then I got I got him to pay off 1:14:46.080 --> 1:14:50.240 my car. I wat it, I'm pocketing that money and 1:14:50.320 --> 1:14:53.680 did something else. No, it's I used to be a 1:14:53.760 --> 1:14:56.800 responsible batty in the streets, you know, like you get 1:14:56.880 --> 1:14:59.200 money from a man, girls just buying bags and shoes. 1:14:59.240 --> 1:15:00.880 I was the one, like, let me pay my bill? 1:15:01.240 --> 1:15:04.439 About you most expensive gift? How about me a Range Rover? 1:15:04.600 --> 1:15:12.560 Last year new bills payment like ninety thou Yeah, I 1:15:12.600 --> 1:15:14.519 don't care. They should have paid for the student loans. 1:15:15.360 --> 1:15:18.280 You can sell it. You can't be my X after 1:15:18.280 --> 1:15:20.320 I pay your student loans off. You can't just walk 1:15:20.360 --> 1:15:27.000 away from me after that where you brought up student 1:15:27.160 --> 1:15:34.080 loans like he she can progress in life. Now, Wait 1:15:34.080 --> 1:15:36.439 a minute, how do you come with him? Yeah, loan, 1:15:36.680 --> 1:15:39.000 I just walk from a man after that was two 1:15:39.040 --> 1:15:41.720 different guys. Okay, well how do you listening for both 1:15:41.720 --> 1:15:42.800 of you? How do you just walk away from a 1:15:42.800 --> 1:15:46.599 man who paid your student loans? If he talks right, 1:15:47.120 --> 1:15:49.360 he's long away. But honestly, I feel like that's what 1:15:49.479 --> 1:15:51.320 we talk about on the show a lot. I feel 1:15:51.320 --> 1:15:53.120 like a lot of young women they out here like 1:15:53.520 --> 1:15:55.680 chasing these guys with money and then they have no 1:15:55.840 --> 1:15:58.960 like end goal. And I'm not saying, you know, use people, 1:15:59.000 --> 1:16:00.800 That's not what I'm saying, but I feel like in 1:16:00.880 --> 1:16:04.200 certain situations, I mean in certain situations, so like we 1:16:04.320 --> 1:16:05.960 know what it is, Like, let's not be dumb. These 1:16:06.000 --> 1:16:08.240 men want sex, you know, and women want money whatever. 1:16:08.320 --> 1:16:09.720 So if you're young and doing that, at least be 1:16:09.800 --> 1:16:12.200 smart about it. So that's what we try to tell people. 1:16:12.200 --> 1:16:14.479 At least be smart, Like don't be out here trying 1:16:14.520 --> 1:16:17.799 to keep up with her and buying Rick Owens, buying product, 1:16:17.880 --> 1:16:20.559 going doing all this. So for us, like when you're 1:16:20.600 --> 1:16:33.120 dealing with the man and he put you I'm not 1:16:33.200 --> 1:16:35.840 saying that, but like I just mean as far as 1:16:35.880 --> 1:16:37.320 like when you're dealing with a guy who buys you 1:16:37.400 --> 1:16:39.200 a bag, you'll leave? So why can't I deal with 1:16:39.240 --> 1:16:42.040 a guy who pay off my student loans and live before? 1:16:42.080 --> 1:16:46.519 But Michael cards don't count. Michael, course, I might have 1:16:46.600 --> 1:16:48.560 to take away your bad he calls. Years ago. I 1:16:48.560 --> 1:16:50.600 ain't had no been as minor that bad. Yea, it 1:16:50.680 --> 1:16:52.280 used to be popping. I remember I had a Michael 1:16:52.320 --> 1:16:54.960 Cords White. How do you break up? How you break 1:16:55.040 --> 1:16:58.160 up with somebody that brought your rangel? How's it over together? 1:16:59.040 --> 1:17:02.000 Tell them the wim me though? What's the wind? You know? 1:17:02.840 --> 1:17:09.160 But I didn't have sex with him? I said absolutely, 1:17:09.280 --> 1:17:12.800 just said he was a guy. Yeah, he was a guy, 1:17:14.760 --> 1:17:17.720 and you never let him smell it. No hams, no 1:17:18.040 --> 1:17:20.160 break this down? So what happened? He just hate babe, 1:17:20.160 --> 1:17:22.040 I want to buy your rain. So I met him 1:17:22.080 --> 1:17:24.639 through one of my other friends, and so I guess 1:17:24.680 --> 1:17:26.439 he wanted to talk to me. We had hung out 1:17:26.439 --> 1:17:27.960 a few times, and all of a sudden he just 1:17:28.040 --> 1:17:29.640 started texting her and he was like, I want to 1:17:29.680 --> 1:17:33.360 buy Drey another car. Yeah, And so she was like 1:17:33.560 --> 1:17:35.400 of course, she was like hell, yeah, I don't here 1:17:35.479 --> 1:17:37.240 buy it. So then she was texting me and she 1:17:37.320 --> 1:17:38.600 was like, oh, what kind of cars. He was like. 1:17:38.640 --> 1:17:40.160 So I was like, okay, I either want a Jelly 1:17:40.240 --> 1:17:42.760 Coop or I want a rain Drover, and he was like, okay, 1:17:42.760 --> 1:17:44.719 I'm gonna get it. And then he started texting Legs 1:17:44.800 --> 1:17:46.240 saying the same thing. He was like, yeah, I just 1:17:46.320 --> 1:17:48.280 gonna want to get drag another car because I still 1:17:48.280 --> 1:17:49.920 have my other car too that I had before he 1:17:49.960 --> 1:17:53.000 bought me to Range Rover, and so he tried to 1:17:53.120 --> 1:17:55.439 buy one and then he didn't go through something happy, 1:18:05.640 --> 1:18:07.720 and then something happened he couldn't get it. Then we 1:18:07.800 --> 1:18:09.920 got into it. A few weeks later. I blocked him 1:18:09.960 --> 1:18:11.120 and stuff, and then all of a sudden he just 1:18:11.200 --> 1:18:13.439 popped up with this white Range drugger. He finally stole 1:18:13.479 --> 1:18:17.240 somebody credit card that work. Yeah, probably happened. He didn't try. 1:18:17.280 --> 1:18:19.320 He didn't try to have sex with you, Smash nothing. 1:18:19.520 --> 1:18:21.599 Of course he did. But I just wasn't interesting because 1:18:21.600 --> 1:18:23.800 he was corny, because even I knew he was doing 1:18:23.880 --> 1:18:27.040 it because he wanted like recognition, because even when he 1:18:27.200 --> 1:18:29.439 told me that he got the car, he was hitting 1:18:29.520 --> 1:18:31.599 her up in my friend He was like, oh, yeah, 1:18:31.600 --> 1:18:33.240 I want to take all of y'all to eat, and 1:18:33.240 --> 1:18:41.360 I'm an hire a videoographer. It was just weird. That's 1:18:41.439 --> 1:18:42.960 that's why I said the finesse came in because I 1:18:43.040 --> 1:18:45.000 was definitely helping. I'm like, yeah, she cares about you, 1:18:45.080 --> 1:18:48.439 bro get the call, and then she needed the call, 1:18:48.800 --> 1:18:51.120 and then I ended up out. He was going around 1:18:51.200 --> 1:18:53.400 telling people in Atlanta that he had sex with me, 1:18:53.439 --> 1:18:55.160 and he never had sex with me, so I was like, 1:18:55.240 --> 1:18:57.640 I knew he was corning somebody behind it. So he 1:18:57.880 --> 1:19:07.439 was like nobody here Roman slide. You supposed to let 1:19:07.439 --> 1:19:09.880 a rumor slid when somebody said a hand sex, you're 1:19:09.880 --> 1:19:15.920 a call. So I didn't. That's in jail right now. Yeah, 1:19:16.200 --> 1:19:19.960 p scam. He enough for something. But that's what happened 1:19:20.000 --> 1:19:22.560 when you're not a nice person. Wow, man bought you 1:19:22.600 --> 1:19:25.120 a call. But you know that's a good point because 1:19:25.120 --> 1:19:27.040 I always say, just because somebody does something good for 1:19:27.160 --> 1:19:29.800 you doesn't mean they're good for you. And you don't 1:19:30.120 --> 1:19:32.640 mean heior motives, you know, like that wasn't coming from 1:19:32.720 --> 1:19:34.920 his heart. So you got played. But you said earlier 1:19:35.000 --> 1:19:37.639 that men and women know what it is. Women want 1:19:37.720 --> 1:19:39.880 money and men want sex, So is that really an 1:19:39.920 --> 1:19:42.639 Ontario motive? I mean, but it was more than that though. 1:19:42.680 --> 1:19:44.320 It wasn't just a sex for him. Like I said, 1:19:44.360 --> 1:19:46.040 he wanted to recogn it like he wants to be. 1:19:47.800 --> 1:19:49.760 He wanted to date her, but not because it was 1:19:49.800 --> 1:19:54.000 like he really liked her. Like he was ugly. He 1:19:54.200 --> 1:19:57.320 kind of looked like a lesbian. Yeah, he's one of them. 1:19:57.439 --> 1:20:01.200 He looked like, yeah, he's given the kind of like 1:20:01.320 --> 1:20:06.680 if you saw him, you because he was very femininely, 1:20:06.720 --> 1:20:10.120 like if you saw dram with it, you'd be like, damn, 1:20:10.120 --> 1:20:17.200 i't know, asked me vibes. He was definitely like because 1:20:17.360 --> 1:20:18.960 and then he tried to be my bestie, so I 1:20:19.040 --> 1:20:21.519 was he would be texting her. It was so weird. 1:20:21.680 --> 1:20:23.200 He was like yeah, he was like, I gotta get 1:20:23.240 --> 1:20:24.760 he texts you one time. What he said, I got, 1:20:24.920 --> 1:20:26.960 I gotta get dread this car because she said she 1:20:27.120 --> 1:20:30.960 gonna what I could to Christie like I said, I 1:20:31.080 --> 1:20:35.240 was gonna give him yeah, and she didn't, but I 1:20:35.320 --> 1:20:44.600 said that she was he said she was. I love it. Now. 1:20:44.640 --> 1:20:50.120 We live for each other all the time, Like two 1:20:50.200 --> 1:20:53.320 months ago about what we just be lying for each other. 1:20:54.000 --> 1:20:56.679 I can't even remember. It'd be like small small things, 1:20:57.320 --> 1:20:59.200 We'll just give each other that look and I'd be like, oh, 1:20:59.240 --> 1:21:01.559 I gotta lie. We got more with the ladies from 1:21:01.600 --> 1:21:04.200 Poor Minds I lex Andrea, so don't oof. It's the 1:21:04.240 --> 1:21:16.599 breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody is DJ Envy, 1:21:16.840 --> 1:21:19.599 Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club 1:21:19.640 --> 1:21:22.040 were still kicking it with lex Andrea from the Poor 1:21:22.160 --> 1:21:25.479 Mind's podcast, Charlemagne, lex, I heard you said that women 1:21:25.600 --> 1:21:28.599 cheat better than me. I absolutely believe it because black 1:21:28.640 --> 1:21:31.360 men don't cheat. So of course y'all would be black 1:21:31.439 --> 1:21:34.880 black men that is. I'm a black man. I got 1:21:35.000 --> 1:21:38.680 a mirror. Black boys cheat. Men don't cheat. You know 1:21:39.080 --> 1:21:41.560 it goes. I feel like women cheat batter I'm not 1:21:41.680 --> 1:21:46.439 eating on huh a black boy. I don't even know 1:21:46.479 --> 1:21:49.320 if he was black. Okay, maybe I'm putting up the 1:21:49.360 --> 1:21:51.280 ladies on blasts right now, but I feel like we're 1:21:51.360 --> 1:21:54.200 just a little more smooth and sneaky with it. We 1:21:54.240 --> 1:21:56.720 don't a smarter. Yes, women are smarter, like gods will 1:21:56.800 --> 1:21:59.760 be out with another girl and letting her post stand 1:22:00.120 --> 1:22:02.400 corn and other people that have seen it, like guys 1:22:02.439 --> 1:22:04.760 are just sloppy. Yeah. I'm not saying that I've done 1:22:04.800 --> 1:22:06.840 this before, but it's like if I'm want by man. 1:22:06.960 --> 1:22:09.240 I see a guy like my little side, what's up? Bro? 1:22:09.800 --> 1:22:17.439 I see? Yeah, that was my personality. So feel like Alex, 1:22:17.520 --> 1:22:19.960 you don't she got a lot you know that little 1:22:20.000 --> 1:22:21.439 what if that? What if my boy blow you up 1:22:21.520 --> 1:22:24.479 right then? And he not? But he not because when 1:22:24.520 --> 1:22:26.560 you when you cold with people, and it ain't that 1:22:26.920 --> 1:22:29.040 they know how to act. Be cheated on before both 1:22:29.080 --> 1:22:33.040 of y'all, yeah, deserve what you mean. I don't say that. 1:22:33.160 --> 1:22:40.120 I did not say that, y'all fund out. I have 1:22:40.240 --> 1:22:44.080 good investigation skills. I've had people tell me teens I 1:22:44.160 --> 1:22:45.800 said this all the time. I don't know why people 1:22:45.840 --> 1:22:50.280 like fly I I got to say, pain, Look, you 1:22:50.400 --> 1:22:53.599 never got caught cheating lex ever. I never. I only 1:22:53.680 --> 1:22:55.840 cheat it one time though. It was like way back 1:22:55.880 --> 1:23:00.320 in college, who cheating on your boyfriend? Hoods X was 1:23:00.360 --> 1:23:03.960 weag okay, that's the reason reason. And then we were 1:23:04.000 --> 1:23:07.120 into different CDs. Okay, that's another way school and he 1:23:07.200 --> 1:23:09.640 was stealing Houston d HM. He never know about this. 1:23:09.800 --> 1:23:13.240 He probably broke that boy had he never knew, No, 1:23:13.800 --> 1:23:19.160 never know now before No, not him. It was somebody else. 1:23:19.240 --> 1:23:20.760 They cheated on me. But I found out because I 1:23:20.760 --> 1:23:22.240 went through his phone and that was the last time 1:23:22.240 --> 1:23:26.360 I ever got through because I lost team. She really did. Yes, 1:23:26.479 --> 1:23:29.560 I was straight lost the ass and everything. He was 1:23:29.640 --> 1:23:31.200 just talking to a whole bunch of girls I on 1:23:31.360 --> 1:23:35.360 Instagram telling him you was a savage. Yeah, why I 1:23:35.439 --> 1:23:38.479 was a savage before. The thing for me like when 1:23:38.520 --> 1:23:40.320 I cheat, if you don't tell me you love me, 1:23:40.720 --> 1:23:42.559 I'm going to cheat. You said, what if you don't 1:23:42.600 --> 1:23:44.960 say I love you, don't tell me good morning, I'm 1:23:44.960 --> 1:23:47.480 going to cheat. Les cheated out. She's like a certified 1:23:49.720 --> 1:23:56.840 love like a Grand Rising Queen. I'm going to cheat. 1:23:56.840 --> 1:24:00.400 If you say grand Rising, I'm going why she fine 1:24:02.200 --> 1:24:06.200 version of good Morning, Grand Rising Queens, Grand Rising Queen. 1:24:06.360 --> 1:24:08.320 Oh hell no, I already know you're about to be 1:24:08.400 --> 1:24:13.519 on some bull I don't want to hear that. The 1:24:13.680 --> 1:24:16.519 damn Now, let's talk about flute out. The flute outcomes. 1:24:17.400 --> 1:24:19.720 Somebody flies you out? What are you giving them back? 1:24:19.760 --> 1:24:21.640 Are you expecting? Not a damn thing? You got a 1:24:21.760 --> 1:24:29.679 range rover and ain't give them the batty No batty, 1:24:29.760 --> 1:24:33.960 no uncle batty my new name from not one. I 1:24:34.120 --> 1:24:36.799 want y'all to stamp it. Don't call me nothing else. Okay, 1:24:37.400 --> 1:24:39.800 but now, honestly, I used to be like they like, 1:24:39.880 --> 1:24:41.840 I used to like go on trips with people and 1:24:41.960 --> 1:24:43.800 knew that I wasn't gonna have six with them. Now 1:24:43.880 --> 1:24:45.760 if I tell them up front of you, no, I 1:24:45.800 --> 1:24:49.600 would just go and enjoy myself and be like, you 1:24:49.720 --> 1:24:51.880 have a line to my period? Yeah? I have. I 1:24:51.920 --> 1:24:53.920 actually put a sandplonny on one song. But what about 1:24:53.960 --> 1:24:55.280 what the man said, I don't care a period, don't 1:24:55.320 --> 1:24:59.720 stop nothing but the sentence? Then what to be like? 1:25:00.000 --> 1:25:01.479 I want to do that. I don't want to smell 1:25:01.640 --> 1:25:12.760 like pennies in here. I've got lived places before. I 1:25:12.800 --> 1:25:15.400 don't nowhere off the country right right, But like I 1:25:15.520 --> 1:25:18.880 got left in Miami one time, God flew you out. Yeah, 1:25:19.439 --> 1:25:22.640 he actually lived here on your period. And well I 1:25:22.640 --> 1:25:23.920 didn't tell him I was on my period. I just 1:25:23.960 --> 1:25:25.400 stried up tallow him, like I didn't want to have 1:25:25.439 --> 1:25:26.800 sex with him. But he was mad because he had 1:25:26.840 --> 1:25:29.600 bought me some shoes. What kind of shoes? Lu, And 1:25:29.720 --> 1:25:33.800 you walked right out of his life the hotel. Yeah, 1:25:34.000 --> 1:25:35.680 he left me. He didn't book my RESTIRN flight and 1:25:35.720 --> 1:25:37.040 this was all. I was still living in Houston. I 1:25:37.120 --> 1:25:38.960 hadn't moved to l Did you have the money to 1:25:39.000 --> 1:25:41.200 get back. Yeah, I did. I did, But like what 1:25:41.320 --> 1:25:43.160 if I did though, this is why I don't date 1:25:43.200 --> 1:25:46.320 outside my race because he was a white man. White. 1:25:46.920 --> 1:25:48.840 I ain't mad at you. Shouldn't have get that white man. Nothing. 1:25:53.439 --> 1:25:55.439 I ain't mad at you. They're on tour right now. 1:25:55.520 --> 1:25:58.479 You can see that Arlington, Virginia on the eighteenth to September, 1:25:58.760 --> 1:26:03.759 y Richmond at twenty, Tampa, October fourth, October fifth, Miami, 1:26:03.880 --> 1:26:06.640 and October six, or Land. Y'all just did New York. 1:26:06.720 --> 1:26:09.760 I was the New York show. It was Ergie was 1:26:09.840 --> 1:26:11.479 really really good. Yeah. In New York. I feel like 1:26:11.520 --> 1:26:13.280 New York is kind of a different market. It's kind 1:26:13.280 --> 1:26:16.559 of hard. Yeah, because we country obviously, y'all can tell 1:26:17.520 --> 1:26:19.320 when we come like to New York. People be like, 1:26:19.680 --> 1:26:23.160 what these country bumpkins, but with all their families from 1:26:23.200 --> 1:26:27.639 down south. Yeah, y'all don't. Y'all don't have no other jobs. 1:26:27.720 --> 1:26:30.519 This is it, this is it. I finally was able 1:26:30.560 --> 1:26:33.280 to quit my job like we want to. Last year, yeah, 1:26:33.280 --> 1:26:35.760 it was last year. Wasn't last year? Yeah, So for me, 1:26:35.880 --> 1:26:38.719 it was like I moved to Atlanta literally with nothing, 1:26:38.920 --> 1:26:41.200 you know. I was trying to figure things out. And 1:26:41.720 --> 1:26:43.599 it was really it was like a really really hard 1:26:43.680 --> 1:26:46.200 time for me. Like the thing that I love about 1:26:46.240 --> 1:26:48.439 poor minds. And that's why we keep the old videos up. 1:26:48.479 --> 1:26:50.639 Like we joke about it, like how my hair used 1:26:50.640 --> 1:26:52.400 to love our makeup because like I mean, I didn't 1:26:52.400 --> 1:26:53.680 have any money. It was what I could do at 1:26:53.720 --> 1:26:56.120 the time. But we keep those old videos up so 1:26:56.240 --> 1:26:58.920 people can see the growth, you know, and they can 1:26:59.000 --> 1:27:01.160 see what consists and see and when you really believe 1:27:01.200 --> 1:27:03.320 in yourself, can't get you because I feel like we've 1:27:03.360 --> 1:27:05.080 only just scratched the surface of what we're gonna do, 1:27:05.280 --> 1:27:08.720 you know. So yeah, I feel I haven't had a 1:27:08.840 --> 1:27:13.080 job in like four years. Really was the last jobs 1:27:13.160 --> 1:27:15.519 the bar team, Okay, but that was like you but 1:27:15.600 --> 1:27:17.600 I haven't did this since like twenty eighteen, so I 1:27:17.680 --> 1:27:19.920 had like a nine to five. I wasn't even ready 1:27:19.960 --> 1:27:21.400 to quit my job. They kind of like gave me 1:27:21.439 --> 1:27:24.000 a ultimatum, was like, Okay, either you're gonna be here 1:27:24.280 --> 1:27:25.400 or be there. And I was like, you know what, 1:27:25.960 --> 1:27:27.840 I was like, girl, gone hand and quit. We gonna 1:27:27.840 --> 1:27:30.040 figure it out. So it was like I just quit 1:27:30.080 --> 1:27:33.160 and we figured it out. Well. I find y'all very entertaining, 1:27:33.320 --> 1:27:35.280 and I thank you. I think it was lady that 1:27:35.400 --> 1:27:38.960 just need to be on TV and I can't. Oh, 1:27:39.000 --> 1:27:40.880 I don't wanted to ask you about the Division video. 1:27:41.000 --> 1:27:45.720 Y'all was in the Division video. Division video. That was fun. 1:27:45.880 --> 1:27:47.600 It was really fun. I think that's really how we 1:27:47.720 --> 1:27:50.200 be in real life, Like and Raya calling me me 1:27:50.280 --> 1:27:52.320 giving her bad and like me and a bad man 1:27:56.760 --> 1:27:59.160 was cool. The video was fun. Yeah, there really because 1:27:59.160 --> 1:28:01.639 I didn't even hear the song until he came out. Really, 1:28:02.160 --> 1:28:03.439 you didn't know what they didn't have a song playing 1:28:03.439 --> 1:28:05.240 when y'all doing the video. No, I want to ask 1:28:05.280 --> 1:28:07.000 this question for the white men and the Asian men 1:28:07.080 --> 1:28:15.320 and the black girling. Black men, don't cheatse on masks 1:28:15.360 --> 1:28:17.720 up for them. It's cheating a deal breaker in the 1:28:17.840 --> 1:28:19.880 space I'm in, I think it would be, Yeah, the 1:28:19.880 --> 1:28:21.559 space of a cheating you a Cheatah, So you can't 1:28:21.560 --> 1:28:25.280 be judgmental and it not like that, but I feel 1:28:25.280 --> 1:28:27.720 like it's a way too. No, I just feel like, 1:28:28.120 --> 1:28:30.560 you know, we have to live out our lives online. 1:28:30.600 --> 1:28:33.240 A lot of times, cheating is something hard to go through. 1:28:33.520 --> 1:28:36.679 So having to go through that under a magnifying glass 1:28:36.720 --> 1:28:38.360 in front of everybody, I don't think I would be 1:28:39.479 --> 1:28:41.560 ready for that. You know, so you can cheat, but 1:28:41.680 --> 1:28:47.080 you can't let somebody absolutely it's rules. Maybe it's not 1:28:47.280 --> 1:28:49.560 a deal breaker because the way I look at it, 1:28:49.680 --> 1:28:52.439 he's like, Okay, is this a I missed up one 1:28:52.560 --> 1:28:54.880 time thing or crazy? This like this is what you do. 1:28:55.640 --> 1:28:58.200 But it's like, that's the difference. Though, you're cheating one night, 1:28:58.720 --> 1:29:04.639 but you pay at her rent money? Oh you burke? 1:29:06.040 --> 1:29:09.160 You like the girl like you paying her rent? You 1:29:09.280 --> 1:29:11.639 got her money, you given her money because I buy 1:29:11.640 --> 1:29:14.360 a woman of burking. I mean I like him. Excuse me, 1:29:14.520 --> 1:29:16.559 you received the range er over he didn't like that? Man, 1:29:16.760 --> 1:29:20.400 go ahead, bade it. I didn't buy it. Same difference, 1:29:21.280 --> 1:29:24.519 just the same difference. So yeah, I think honestly, but 1:29:24.680 --> 1:29:26.400 like she's saying, I kind of agree, you know it 1:29:26.840 --> 1:29:30.639 levels of cheating honestly, Like the emotional cheating is way worse. 1:29:30.880 --> 1:29:32.400 So what if you sleep with a man right and 1:29:32.439 --> 1:29:34.120 the condom gets stuck in you? Then you go sleep 1:29:34.160 --> 1:29:36.960 with the guy you really like and they find would 1:29:36.960 --> 1:29:39.240 you want him to forgive you that? If you got 1:29:40.720 --> 1:29:44.040 you gotta said that same paper down now, because why 1:29:44.240 --> 1:29:47.599 is it grabbing anything like that? Are you talking about 1:29:47.800 --> 1:29:49.880 man if y'all ain't got that grip man at y'all 1:29:49.920 --> 1:29:53.439 age something right now you need I'm weak. No, but 1:29:53.840 --> 1:29:56.080 situations like that, it ain't like that. Like I said, 1:29:56.160 --> 1:29:58.479 I'm not I'd be being funny, of course, But like 1:29:58.520 --> 1:30:00.840 I said, I've had situations where I'm stuff. I slipped up. 1:30:00.880 --> 1:30:02.560 It's not like something I do all the time, and 1:30:02.640 --> 1:30:10.920 I'm just you know every time. No, I don't honestly. 1:30:11.040 --> 1:30:18.479 But okay, I'll say this honestly, but I'm being honest, 1:30:18.520 --> 1:30:20.519 but I feel like women don't be honest. I can't. 1:30:21.240 --> 1:30:23.320 I feel like this last situation I got out of, No, 1:30:23.479 --> 1:30:25.320 I wasn't. I was very faithful because, like I said, 1:30:25.360 --> 1:30:27.800 I wanted a certain outcome, you know, So I was like, 1:30:27.840 --> 1:30:29.400 you know what, let me give one hundred percent of myself, 1:30:29.400 --> 1:30:31.479 but I'm not gonna lie. When I first moved to Atlanta, 1:30:31.520 --> 1:30:34.040 I got in a relationship. This was what twenty seventeen, 1:30:34.600 --> 1:30:36.680 and I was with somebody who, you know, who was 1:30:36.760 --> 1:30:38.680 kind of known, and it was just like I just 1:30:38.760 --> 1:30:42.360 kind of had checked out. But that was my comfort zone. 1:30:42.920 --> 1:30:44.400 So it was just kind of like I was just 1:30:44.479 --> 1:30:46.360 in a weird space, you know, and like I said 1:30:46.360 --> 1:30:48.120 I was young, I'm thirty three. Now I'm like, I'm out, 1:30:48.400 --> 1:30:50.719 I'm out the game. I'm retired, I'm t is tired. 1:30:50.840 --> 1:30:53.479 I really don't want two three like men like I 1:30:53.479 --> 1:30:55.880 don't want to do that. So you know, I'm not 1:30:56.000 --> 1:30:59.960 proud of my past, but I'm growing every day now. 1:31:01.520 --> 1:31:12.679 I'm an untouched cooling right now at the poor underscore minds. 1:31:13.960 --> 1:31:16.880 Thank God for having go to poremond dot com to 1:31:16.960 --> 1:31:19.160 check out the tour dates and all that other good stuff. Man, 1:31:19.280 --> 1:31:22.479 it's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Your 1:31:22.520 --> 1:31:26.280 mornings will never be the same. Draft King sports Book 1:31:26.360 --> 1:31:29.080 is an official sports betting partner of the NBA. 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