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Speaker 1: the name of it. It's entitled The Reverse. Yo, this Caesar,
Speaker 1: what's up? Hey? Caesar's name every Sollivan? Do you want
Speaker 1: to change your name? Now? Man, I'm just get off
Speaker 1: my chess real quick. Don't starting forcing you walk to
Speaker 1: you because I don't like when Charlotte Magne and if
Speaker 1: you do that, you um, but yeah, leave get on
Speaker 1: my chest. Um. I don't like when people be kind
Speaker 1: of take I don't like when other people to be
Speaker 1: trying to take other people back and still hold like
Speaker 1: a like a like a brush against it. You know,
Speaker 1: like for example, if a dude cheeks on a girl
Speaker 1: and he like, I forgive you, I take you back,
Speaker 1: but like one week years down the road, you still
Speaker 1: like throwing it back in my face. That's like, come
Speaker 1: on now, so this just happens. This just happened to you, Caesar.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean, but this this is like
Speaker 1: this is like on long gold types stuff, you know,
Speaker 1: if I'm talking about like even nowadays, you know, like
Speaker 1: I see my partners go through and like versa, im
Speaker 1: through through with guys. It's like, hey, right. Well, I
Speaker 1: will say that sometimes things trigger you, you know, so
Speaker 1: you might have forgiven somebody, but that doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you completely forget it, and so there might be certain
Speaker 1: times when you fall back into some old habits. It
Speaker 1: takes a long time to build up that trust. So
Speaker 1: it's an effort on both people's parts, though I do
Speaker 1: agree you can't just keep on beating somebody up after
Speaker 1: you said let's work on it. But every now and then,
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Speaker 1: Hello this Yeah, what's out that? Tyler for Chicago, Tyler
Speaker 1: from the shot? What I brought to get you off
Speaker 1: your chest? Peace? Tyler. Hey, what's going on, Charlotte? How
Speaker 1: are you selling dog Let's black and Holly favorite King?
Speaker 1: That's what's up? That's what up? Hey man, I'm glad
Speaker 1: the guys are here. Maybe y'all can help me out.
Speaker 1: I'm in a little bit of a pickle. What's up, man?
Speaker 1: What's your pickle? So, man, my big sister, she got
Speaker 1: into some stuff. Man. Last weekend, she got in trouble,
Speaker 1: a little roadways incident that went all the way left,
Speaker 1: and she ends up getting arrested and hit with a
Speaker 1: class accelity. So her bond was one hundred thousand dollars
Speaker 1: and I gotta pay ten Okay, I don't want to
Speaker 1: pay tens. I got a vacation coming up in two weeks,
Speaker 1: and I feel like maybe a little jail time might
Speaker 1: give her a little character, you know. No, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. Um, I went to I
Speaker 1: went to jail one time for pointing in presenting the
Speaker 1: fire arm. I think the charge the charge originally was
Speaker 1: a Sultan battery would attend to kill I was. I
Speaker 1: was in the back. One of my homeboys, you know,
Speaker 1: was on the front and shot and my dad did
Speaker 1: the same thing. My dad let me sit for like
Speaker 1: forty five days. Number one. The bond was high and
Speaker 1: he was waiting for he was waiting for the bond
Speaker 1: to be reduced. But he did. He was He was
Speaker 1: letting me sit on purpose because he said he wanted
Speaker 1: me to learn a little lesson. Now, this is your
Speaker 1: sister's first incident. Uh, yeah, but she's forty two years old.
Speaker 1: Though she's forty two. What happened? She allegedly pulled out
Speaker 1: a weapon or something? Yeah, she did. How do you
Speaker 1: know about this? Did you hear about this on Facebook? No?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I mean, the only way
Speaker 1: you're gonna get a felony for a road rages if
Speaker 1: you bought a weapon. Brother, Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: If you let her it was pretty bad. If you bad,
Speaker 1: if you let her sit a little while longer with
Speaker 1: a bond go down. I don't be so because it's
Speaker 1: she hit like she ended up getting to it with
Speaker 1: a lawyer who happened to be white. She's whack. Oh
Speaker 1: it's pretty bad, bro. We got to get her a
Speaker 1: really good lawyer, like I'm talking about, like a Jewish lawyer.
Speaker 1: At the end, there's some good. There's some good black lawyers. Man,
Speaker 1: it's some great black attorney. What he's speaking? When's the vate?
Speaker 1: When's the vacation? Look, it's in two weeks. I was
Speaker 1: supposed to go down and know it's my only vacation
Speaker 1: time of the year, and I'm in a conflict. Man,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to spend this money
Speaker 1: because I don't think I'm gonna get it back. I
Speaker 1: don't know I'm going on vacation. Let me all right,
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Okay, hold, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, college Now, if you was in the
Speaker 1: same incident when she bailed you out, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know. My older sister, my twin sister, yes,
Speaker 1: but my older sister, I don't know. What does your
Speaker 1: heart tell you to do? What is your spirit telling
Speaker 1: you to do? Right now? Forget because the only thing
Speaker 1: that causes conflict is the devil. Keep my money, That's
Speaker 1: what the That's what the Lord is telling me to
Speaker 1: keep my money because I worked hard for Charlotte. Enjoy
Speaker 1: your vacation, King, Enjoy your vacation, King. She's forty two
Speaker 1: years old. She ain't got no money, did she got
Speaker 1: a crib? But anything. That's the big she kind of
Speaker 1: she's worked for the city. Her husband got a little
Speaker 1: bit of money. But her husband, she got a husband. Man,
Speaker 1: enjoy your vacation, King, that's what I'm saying. Okay, I
Speaker 1: appreciate your Enjoy your vacation. King. Y'all you figure that out.
Speaker 1: When you come back from vacation, you'll have a clearer mind.
Speaker 1: But what about if her husband ain't got no money,
Speaker 1: we ain't got nothing to do it that you'll have
Speaker 1: a clearer mind to think about it after that vacation.
Speaker 1: I started to go fund you that money. Yeah, enjoy
Speaker 1: your vacation, King, call us and tell us about your
Speaker 1: vacation after you take it. Ye, man, enjoy your vacation. Man. Sister,
Speaker 1: God bless her, God bless her kids, God bless her,
Speaker 1: God bless her. She got a husband, she made a choice.
Speaker 1: Let that man go enjoy his vacation. When you come back,
Speaker 1: then y'all figure it out. Enjoy your vacation, brother, get
Speaker 1: it off your chest. The Breakfast Club, Good morning, the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a
Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Oh, Maria, welcome, Thanks for
Speaker 1: having me a minute. Ya how you're throwing a long
Speaker 1: time a man all as well? Tell me about your
Speaker 1: morning routine, man, what do you do in the morning
Speaker 1: when you wake up? Um, I definitely take a beat,
Speaker 1: you know. UM usually do some breathwork, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, say some affirmations, and I pretty much get
Speaker 1: my day started after that. Yeah. I feel like at
Speaker 1: some point you went on a real journey of healing,
Speaker 1: because I remember when you was on your physical routine
Speaker 1: with the boxing and everything, and then it feels like
Speaker 1: at some point you started realizing I gotta get mentally
Speaker 1: and emotionally stronger. Yeah. Also because of a lot of
Speaker 1: the things that you know that were like happening on
Speaker 1: the outside, you know what I'm saying. And that's why
Speaker 1: this book really kind of came into fruition, unbothered the
Speaker 1: power of choosing joy, because you know, I needed to
Speaker 1: do something more, you know, really figure out what works
Speaker 1: for me, you know what I'm saying, And the breath work,
Speaker 1: you know, the mantras, all of these things that I'm
Speaker 1: sharing in the book definitely put me, you know, on
Speaker 1: another level, just as far as emotional intelligence. We made
Speaker 1: you not respond right because you've been going through a
Speaker 1: lot the last ten years. Everything and every I mean
Speaker 1: ninety percent of people are gonna respond somehow somewhere. Yeah,
Speaker 1: whether it's personal, whether it's relationship, whether it's family, whether
Speaker 1: it's your group, whether it's your label, whatever it is,
Speaker 1: don't respond right. Why. I am a methodical person. I
Speaker 1: am a thoughtful person. So a lot of the time,
Speaker 1: if I am going to respond, I want to make
Speaker 1: sure that I get what I need from it, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Because rarely when we react into
Speaker 1: life that we actually get what we want, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So for me, I've always just been like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what's best for me. Do you check
Speaker 1: a box like I remember he said that and she said, definitely.
Speaker 1: I definitely have a mental list. Nah, I'm mature enough
Speaker 1: to realize that a lot of people's perspectives and just
Speaker 1: position in life are temporary, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Because things change, you know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: try my best to not take things personal. You feel
Speaker 1: like you slipped a little with all these things that
Speaker 1: have been happening, and he has to be like, let
Speaker 1: me go back into my arm. No, I think no.
Speaker 1: I think that it's important to stand up for yourself too,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think people get confused
Speaker 1: when you know, people speak up, that it's like, oh
Speaker 1: mean not or me being bothered instead of being unbothered.
Speaker 1: But I think that it's important to also stand up
Speaker 1: for yourself and speak up when you feel that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Okay, So what about Rasby saying
Speaker 1: he was triggered by certain things in the documentary? Did
Speaker 1: you feel some type of or more? It's like, okay,
Speaker 1: this was a serious issue, you know for him, I think, um,
Speaker 1: for raz it's interesting because you know, he obviously is
Speaker 1: intelligent enough to see an opportunity to speak about things
Speaker 1: and use it to his advantage. And what do I
Speaker 1: mean by that? You know, I just mean that, you know,
Speaker 1: I know Rasby and I've never heard him say he's
Speaker 1: been tried, you know what I mean? But I also,
Speaker 1: you know, have you know, along with my team, especially
Speaker 1: on tour, you know, have given him the opportunity to
Speaker 1: better his process, and you know he hasn't taken those opportunities,
Speaker 1: you know. And the thing that's I think that's tough
Speaker 1: for me and a lot of people to understand. That is,
Speaker 1: you know, as a type of brother, you know, you
Speaker 1: have to hold your brother accountable, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So when he said that he was triggered, I think
Speaker 1: that that is something that he could have felt. But
Speaker 1: you know, if people watch actually watched the docu, I
Speaker 1: was there supporting him, you know, although that small clip
Speaker 1: was out there, you know, me and my team, we
Speaker 1: were out there supporting him, asking them what he needed,
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, you know, our best to help
Speaker 1: him face you know, these very traumatic things that he's
Speaker 1: been through. You know. So I just thought it was interesting,
Speaker 1: you know that he decided to see the clip, you know,
Speaker 1: in which he wrote off on to say that he
Speaker 1: was being triggered. I thought I just thought it was
Speaker 1: interesting because he knows that, you know, I've been for me.
Speaker 1: He had to sign off on his part in the documentary. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, you know, this was interesting. It's just
Speaker 1: like yo, but you know, we were on tour and
Speaker 1: we were supporting you. We told you ask and how
Speaker 1: did that work? But you know how healing is though.
Speaker 1: Healing is like it's not a destination, it's not train.
Speaker 1: So something may not bother you on Monday, but that's
Speaker 1: the same thing might trigger you on too. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you're right, I agree, you know. I just think that
Speaker 1: it's it's interesting in the timing, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because that clip had been out there for a couple
Speaker 1: of days and then it was just like, okay, but
Speaker 1: are you getting help? Bro? Yeah? Are you taking the steps?
Speaker 1: Are you taking the steps you know to to not
Speaker 1: always express you know, your emotion student Internet? Like, are
Speaker 1: you doing the work now? Are you doing the work?
Speaker 1: That's not what I see? And how is it with
Speaker 1: you know, because you guys were brothers growing up, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys were everywhere together. You guys grew up with
Speaker 1: each other. So how was it that you guys really
Speaker 1: don't mesh and communicate. When they do, it's usually I
Speaker 1: haven't heard you say really much bad about them, anything
Speaker 1: bad about them, but them talking bad about you? So
Speaker 1: how does that work? Because you all are still on
Speaker 1: tour a world. Yeah, that's that's a that's a that's
Speaker 1: a challenging question just because let's just take the concept
Speaker 1: of brotherhood right, everybody has a different version of that,
Speaker 1: you know. Unfortunately, because some people don't actually have siblings.
Speaker 1: I would say, in one aspect through our journey, you know,
Speaker 1: we were put together to be brothers, but I don't
Speaker 1: think in essence we were. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I think that, you know, there were a lot of
Speaker 1: people that made sure that we connected and then disconnected.
Speaker 1: It's almost like we were made to be brothers, to
Speaker 1: be secret enemies. Yeah, there's only certain stories that could
Speaker 1: embody like what that means, you know, because I believe
Speaker 1: in the real brotherhood, jealousy doesn't exist. You know, you
Speaker 1: might feel like, Okay, well dang, look at my bro
Speaker 1: he going up. I want to be inspired, but it
Speaker 1: never makes you vindictive. It never makes you jealous, It
Speaker 1: never makes you go past a certain point. You know.
Speaker 1: I would say, in the aspect of our journey, we
Speaker 1: have a brotherhood, but in reality, I wouldn't say they
Speaker 1: identify as what I consider my brother, like my brother Ryan,
Speaker 1: you know, like our journey, the things that we've shown
Speaker 1: each other, the challenging times we have, the way we
Speaker 1: got through that. You know, that's how you're able to
Speaker 1: really truly identify who someone is to you in your life.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Somebody that loves you. They
Speaker 1: don't do certain things, you know, they don't say certain things.
Speaker 1: So you know, if we're just really looking at it
Speaker 1: as far as what it is, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If it acts like a duck, talk like a duck,
Speaker 1: it's a duck. Don't move. It's the breakfast club. Good morning,
Speaker 1: the breakfast club and black Yard a breakfast club was
Speaker 1: too kicking with O Marion Charlemagne. Let's talk about the
Speaker 1: buying time. And because I find it so interesting in
Speaker 1: that there was the versus y right, probably didn't go
Speaker 1: to where you wanted it to go. Back fully, for sure,
Speaker 1: you seem like you reacted with work, You reacted with
Speaker 1: the doc, you're reacted with the book, the show. How
Speaker 1: did that come about? Because clearly that's divine time, yo,
Speaker 1: that's facts I've just been preparing. And even though you
Speaker 1: know versus didn't go you know it still was, you know,
Speaker 1: wildly successful, the most successful one, you know, so to
Speaker 1: be able to show up in the journey and be
Speaker 1: able to be like, you know what, damn, this might
Speaker 1: not have been a way that I wanted things to go.
Speaker 1: But oh wait a minute, watch this move right here.
Speaker 1: So I'm really highly thankful for you know, all the energies.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, rest in peace. My an
Speaker 1: energy transitioned earlier this year, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I definitely feel like the ancestors on the other
Speaker 1: side is moving certain things in the universe for me,
Speaker 1: and I'm just excited. Man. Feel when people were questioning
Speaker 1: your twent yeah, I was gonna say, what went wrong
Speaker 1: that night? What would you have changed? Well, you know,
Speaker 1: it was a lot of things that went wrong that night. First,
Speaker 1: not have a sound check. Another report why didn't you
Speaker 1: do a sound check? Was that it was no time.
Speaker 1: It was so underwhelming. They were not prepared, you know
Speaker 1: for what I expected to be kind of a night
Speaker 1: in R and B that just kind of turned the
Speaker 1: sexy up on the planet again, you know what I'm saying, Like, really,
Speaker 1: let's talk about the women, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But it became kind of hip hop really really fast,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Early on it was like
Speaker 1: that was the set of the energy, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And what was your question? Again? How do
Speaker 1: you people people questioning your Yeah, I think that that's
Speaker 1: the mark of a legend. I remember hearing people say
Speaker 1: Michael Michael Jackson couldn't seen. And when you have been
Speaker 1: doing something for so long, you know, you can definitely
Speaker 1: have an off night. But that is not the tell
Speaker 1: tale of you know, of a twenty two year career,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it felt like people
Speaker 1: took the opportunity to say things to you that they've
Speaker 1: always wanted. It definitely felt like, yeah, that was crazy
Speaker 1: and had to bother you a little bit, your artist
Speaker 1: and what LEVI say. It definitely challenged me unlike I've
Speaker 1: been challenging such a long time to level up because
Speaker 1: you know, I'm one of those people that I don't
Speaker 1: really move for much because I study and I practice
Speaker 1: and I work on my craft so much, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I'm unmoved. But one thing that
Speaker 1: can move me, one thing that has moved me, you know,
Speaker 1: was the will to just be better. You go to therapy? Um, no, no,
Speaker 1: I have what is a Marion done wrong in any
Speaker 1: of these situations? I think not speak up? And also
Speaker 1: I think I'm a little you know, early on, because
Speaker 1: I started so young, you know, I'm a little gullible,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Just as far as business,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And as far as what
Speaker 1: people don't give you, what people are not supposed to
Speaker 1: give you, you know what I'm saying, Like the respect
Speaker 1: that sometimes you assume you might give but that you're
Speaker 1: never really shown. You know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: would say that, you know, that's definitely on me. But
Speaker 1: I don't have no problem, you know I'm saying, being
Speaker 1: honest about my mistakes and taking accountability for anything that
Speaker 1: I've done wrong to people. If you ever came across
Speaker 1: me and you know, have a relationship with me and
Speaker 1: you were confused about something, there was always an opportunity
Speaker 1: for you to be able to gain some clarity. But
Speaker 1: the actions, you know what I'm saying, And that's something
Speaker 1: that we always have to bring into question when we
Speaker 1: speaking about people's personalities. Like there's layers to this, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, And people have to be held
Speaker 1: accountable for what they're projecting versus their actions, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So what I would say, you know
Speaker 1: that I've done wrong, it's just that, but it has
Speaker 1: gained me such a heightened level of awareness, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that it's probably second and none because
Speaker 1: you know, I've been through it over and over again,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So I know I know
Speaker 1: where I'm going. I want to ask you a couple
Speaker 1: more questions, especially in particular the drink champion of you.
Speaker 1: I saw Fitz said that he's not in contact with
Speaker 1: you because he never had your number and it's always
Speaker 1: been like that. That true. How does that sounds? I
Speaker 1: don't know that sounds crazy man without calling you first, Okay,
Speaker 1: come on? Ye. And he also said that you went
Speaker 1: solo because he had sex with a woman you liked. Nah,
Speaker 1: I don't remember that happening. He was the first one
Speaker 1: to go solo because you know, Fizz was like yeah
Speaker 1: and yeah, and you know, the rapper was like the
Speaker 1: most famous in the group, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So Fitz was definitely like in front, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean as far as certain vibes, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean in the group. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You know how like Okay, Fitz doing something or he
Speaker 1: on his own way, but we all getting on our
Speaker 1: own way, you know what I mean. So I viewed
Speaker 1: it like that. Didn't they kick you out the group? Basically? No,
Speaker 1: not really now, it wouldn't they fault. I take that back.
Speaker 1: It was Chris Stokes fault. He made us become brothers
Speaker 1: and then he separated us. The elder that you talk about, Um,
Speaker 1: he's one of the elders. Okay, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You don't have a relationship with that, you know, Rasby
Speaker 1: and I think it's been rumor that you know, he
Speaker 1: talks about sexual abuse with Chrystokes. Have you ever seen
Speaker 1: anything like that? I haven't. I haven't seen anything like that,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But yeah, I haven't. Work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well he's still standing by the background dances remark or
Speaker 1: you feel bad about that? Nah? You know what when
Speaker 1: I think about that, you know, I thought that was
Speaker 1: funny because I'm gonna just you know, keep it playing
Speaker 1: with you. You know what I'm saying, as you've seen
Speaker 1: with the mother of my children, like, I'm never pressed
Speaker 1: off of a woman choosing up or who she want
Speaker 1: to be with. That's not my personality, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, Hey, women choose you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But for me, that's that's not what it was about.
Speaker 1: That's trivial in a drop, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: In the ocean of the other things that we all
Speaker 1: have shared an experience. That's another thing that's just like,
Speaker 1: what does that have to do with anything? Bro? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? What's up? Man? You know you
Speaker 1: think all communication is done like because God forbid, we
Speaker 1: live in a real crazy world. You see things that's
Speaker 1: happening to people. If something was to happen to one
Speaker 1: of them, wouldn't you feel some sort of way? Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I don't want nothing to happen to nobody. And I
Speaker 1: wish the well man, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: I really hope that they see through this experience and
Speaker 1: they take a little bit more accountability, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, moving forward, and I like, I hope that
Speaker 1: they do good things for that life. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I don't wish nobody bad. What does
Speaker 1: She just asked me to ask you, what does watermelon
Speaker 1: have to do with everything? Do you like water guys?
Speaker 1: Do you like watermelon? Yes? Watermelon is the best, very healthy. Yes,
Speaker 1: it is good for your heart, good for your skin,
Speaker 1: thank you, and see so. And that's the window, and
Speaker 1: that's the window that people just don't want to walk
Speaker 1: through because they want to just stay at the you know,
Speaker 1: sexual aspect of it. You know what I mean, Because
Speaker 1: good things are like sex, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And that's why we're all addicted to it, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when you mix the fruit with
Speaker 1: the sex, that's another level. You might want to try that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Try water Momon Taylor, I'm
Speaker 1: telling you might want to try that. You want to
Speaker 1: might just want to start by kissing somebody, somebody that
Speaker 1: you love, well, watermelon, and see how you feel. It's
Speaker 1: interesting they give you Flag four. But when Beyonce you
Speaker 1: just randomly said it in the song, nobody cares randomly Watermelon.
Speaker 1: You just don't be in Oh say it, Oh do it?
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Speaker 1: Today's topic time phone call eight hundred five eight five
Speaker 1: one oh five one to join it to the discussion
Speaker 1: with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it. I want everybody
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Sharlomagane the guy we are
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, we're
Speaker 1: talking about a gentleman that call earlier had an incident
Speaker 1: with his dad at a club. Let's listen. We just
Speaker 1: celebrate my daddy fifty birthday just Friday, right, So me
Speaker 1: and my boy tells him out to the club. You know, uh,
Speaker 1: you know, we drunk, you get a few drinks. Man
Speaker 1: and my homeboy end up tapping me hard, thinking something's
Speaker 1: going to jump off. He like, look over there my
Speaker 1: daddy and you're talking. Man, Damn man, what I'm the
Speaker 1: best believe because I'm like, ain't no way this this
Speaker 1: this is my daddy. How you know? The next morning, man,
Speaker 1: I knew you know, I'll sleep doing it because he
Speaker 1: didn't said nothing the whole morning. So I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: man's basically till my mom been married? Why there twenty
Speaker 1: five year I don't want to go and blowing up
Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do? Man? So we're asking eight
Speaker 1: hundred and five A five, one oh five one? What
Speaker 1: would you do? All right? Now, we got our resident
Speaker 1: family on the line, trave what up? Draft? Here? What's up?
Speaker 1: What's up? So there's only one solution I have. Yeah, basically,
Speaker 1: the mama and the son gotta jump the daddy? Yell,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Mama and the son gotta
Speaker 1: jump the daddy because he was seating. Let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question. Trap did Nate and his mama jump cal?
Speaker 1: I want the phone with theirs my mama? Right? What
Speaker 1: would you do? Mom? If I came home and told
Speaker 1: you to mama trashyma? All right? How you doing? What
Speaker 1: would you do if I came home and told johshon
Speaker 1: the club with dad and he was tonguing down the
Speaker 1: whole another? Man, That's where you get it from, boy, man,
Speaker 1: that's where you get it from. Boy. You just like
Speaker 1: your daddy. I knew that already. How would you feel
Speaker 1: about that? How would I feel about that? Would be gone?
Speaker 1: She said? Goodness, yeah, I definitely think that at the
Speaker 1: end of the day is still cheating. All right? Who
Speaker 1: said take your draft? Who said it's not cheating. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Good morning, Darren, Darren, Good morning. What you're
Speaker 1: doing if that situation happened to you, Darren? Yeah, I'm snitching.
Speaker 1: I'm telling I'm telling mind, Dad gonna go because now
Speaker 1: it's about her sneecy that can't go down. Gotta protect mom.
Speaker 1: All Ron, thank you so much. Hello, who's this? Jungle Jim?
Speaker 1: Jungle Jim? You got it? Brother? All right, Joe? You're
Speaker 1: doing today? I'm doing well. How you doing? I'm good?
Speaker 1: I'm good man. So so what should the gentlemen do? Bro?
Speaker 1: I think the gentleman shouldn't uh call into the radio
Speaker 1: first of all, to be talking about something like that
Speaker 1: that's really personal. And I also think that y'all shouldn't
Speaker 1: promote that stuff on the radio, promote what it's real
Speaker 1: that happens, infidelity. I agree we shouldn't promote infidelity on
Speaker 1: the radio. I've been listening to Charlotte Maagne to God,
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying. He's been speaking on
Speaker 1: a gay stuff a lot. Man. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You know what that does? Man? That plant seeds? Bro,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And if you world word
Speaker 1: I thought he was talking about infidelity, man, you're talking
Speaker 1: about I thought you were talking about the daddy that
Speaker 1: was going to the club with the with the fun
Speaker 1: that was being gay or something like that. Right, you
Speaker 1: think discussing things about people who are gay plant seeds.
Speaker 1: I do. The biggest issue in this situation is that
Speaker 1: the daddy's cheating on the mama, sir. That's the biggame.
Speaker 1: Mama with a man though, right, that's the second issue
Speaker 1: to me. It's a real life that really happened though,
Speaker 1: that that really wasn't made up. It really happened. A
Speaker 1: gentleman call. And I mean you say, we don't know
Speaker 1: if his name, we don't know where he you know,
Speaker 1: but you also know there's gay people in this world
Speaker 1: for real. Should we ignore gay people? No, we shouldn't.
Speaker 1: We shouldn't ignore the problem. That's what we shouldn't ignore.
Speaker 1: What's the problem. What's the problem? Cheating is the problem? No,
Speaker 1: cheating ain't never been a problem. Man, You know that
Speaker 1: cheating is not a problem. Okay, you let me let
Speaker 1: me okay, Charlemagne got let me get your position, man, please,
Speaker 1: all right, we are your position because I would really
Speaker 1: speak about something that need to be spoke about. And
Speaker 1: I know y'all probably wouldn't want me to speak about it.
Speaker 1: You know, ahead what you got to say? Okay, let
Speaker 1: me let me let me say about the cheaking situation. Okay,
Speaker 1: cheat and was something that was brought upon you? Now,
Speaker 1: if you did something that brought back to you from karma,
Speaker 1: then it comes back around to you. So's you cast
Speaker 1: your question? How would you feel if your mom? How
Speaker 1: would you feel if your girl cheated on you? I
Speaker 1: wouldn't feel no kind of way because it must have
Speaker 1: been something I did in order to make her go
Speaker 1: do that? Is that called victim planning? But someone gets
Speaker 1: cheated on, you're saying it's their own fault that they
Speaker 1: got cheated on. So you would stay with that is
Speaker 1: and that's not playing a victim. That's not playing the victim.
Speaker 1: But would you stay with her that's been aware of
Speaker 1: something that you've done? That? So what you gotta understand
Speaker 1: for every act? I respect that. No, he's absolutely right,
Speaker 1: But would you stay with your woman if you cheat?
Speaker 1: If she cheated on you? Would you stay with him? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'll stay with him. I have stayed with him. Well,
Speaker 1: if you just asking, okay, so if you cheat on
Speaker 1: your girl, that's her fuck. If I cheated on that's
Speaker 1: not what he said. It must have been something that
Speaker 1: she did in her previous relations right, so it's her fun.
Speaker 1: I can't have you ever had a situation to where
Speaker 1: a girl where you meet a person cheating and you
Speaker 1: end up losing them the same way. Have you ever
Speaker 1: had to happen before? I know you heard a thing.
Speaker 1: I understand what you said. I totally understand what you're saying. Brother,
Speaker 1: I totally get so when you go into relationships like that, Okay,
Speaker 1: you think that you got away with something that you
Speaker 1: might have been cheating on the man in the last relationship,
Speaker 1: you do what I'm saying, and now in this relationship, Yes,
Speaker 1: I totally get it. Every you know, everybody doesn't cheat.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people get cheated on and they haven't ever cheated. No,
Speaker 1: that's not scapable. You gotta understand the way you got
Speaker 1: You can't be ignorant about how the world were now
Speaker 1: and what you're saying. You're saying that you're saying, you're
Speaker 1: saying it goes both ways. So let's say your girl
Speaker 1: cheating on you, it's because of something that you were
Speaker 1: lacking or something that you did that you weren't giving
Speaker 1: her No, it's something that I did previously that came
Speaker 1: back on me. Maybe are you do Let me ask
Speaker 1: you this question. Do you understand what parma is? Yes,
Speaker 1: but I don't believe karma is causing effect. I believe
Speaker 1: karmen is created through actions. It's created through action. You're
Speaker 1: positively correct. That is correct. It is made through actions.
Speaker 1: So for every action, there's a reaction. Is that correct?
Speaker 1: We agree with that? Equal opposite? Yes, equal opposite. I
Speaker 1: agree with that. Okay, Now what we're speaking on it's
Speaker 1: parma right now, young man. You see what I'm saying
Speaker 1: so so so now it don't matter what I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give er on. Man, stop saying that. But now I
Speaker 1: see what he's saying. What he's saying, what he's saying
Speaker 1: makes perfect sense. Like he's not putting the blame on anybody.
Speaker 1: He's just saying that. You know, if he got cheated
Speaker 1: on in a previous relationship is probably because he cheated
Speaker 1: on somebody and a relationship previous. Now, conversation with that,
Speaker 1: you're pushing the narrative of gaining you know, that's what
Speaker 1: that's what he started with. Well, I ignore that. I
Speaker 1: don't give that any energy. Okay, all right, well, what's
Speaker 1: the mold of the story? I forgot what we were
Speaker 1: talking about. By the way, the moral of the story
Speaker 1: is cheating is wrong and everybody should be allowed to
Speaker 1: live the truth. And if you're in a situation where
Speaker 1: you're not able to live your truth, and maybe you
Speaker 1: need to get up out of that situation and stop
Speaker 1: having everybody live a lie with you. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Hey morning, everybody is DJ Envy,
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne MC guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: We got special guests in the building. She's in here
Speaker 1: with all this big queen energy. Ari Lennox, welcome to
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. How you feel this morning? All right?
Speaker 1: Who's nervous? Who are you? Because you're just kidding. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's just a little nervous. It's a very legendary show.
Speaker 1: So what took you so long to come up? Hinton?
Speaker 1: Fear Fear? Yeah? What you scared of y'all? Why? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I love No, it's just you know, y'all can be
Speaker 1: a little tough on people sometimes. Yeah, we've evolved, You've
Speaker 1: changed the whole lots. Yeah, and I feel that I
Speaker 1: feel that I want to if you don't mind, you know,
Speaker 1: for people that don't know who Ari Lennox is or
Speaker 1: where you're signed to or how you got your start,
Speaker 1: I want to start from the beginning for those people.
Speaker 1: Since this is your your to do a documentary. So
Speaker 1: you're signed to J Cole. How did you get into
Speaker 1: the music industry and signed to Cole? Well? I was
Speaker 1: working at public storage and just dropping music on SoundCloud
Speaker 1: and there's an amazing rapper named Omen. He loved my music.
Speaker 1: He told Eve and Cole about it, and he was like,
Speaker 1: we'll fly you out like tomorrow or tonight something like
Speaker 1: that so that you can meet Cole and the studio
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And I was horrified. You know,
Speaker 1: I just got the job. I didn't want to lose
Speaker 1: the job. It was ten dollars an hour. It was
Speaker 1: the highest paid job I ever had, ten dollars an hour. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to like lose this, so I
Speaker 1: almost didn't go. But honestly, I think it was fear,
Speaker 1: you know, fear of flying and things like that. But
Speaker 1: I just I got over it. I drank Matt vodka
Speaker 1: and I got on that flight. I was the first
Speaker 1: flight as well, first flight in a long time, like years.
Speaker 1: Did you lose your job? Yeah, I did, and I
Speaker 1: was I was horrified and I started doing uber. There's
Speaker 1: a lot here now. First of all, what were you afraid?
Speaker 1: Why are you afraid of flying? Well? I had a
Speaker 1: traumatic experience when I was young on a flight or
Speaker 1: the crash or something. Yeah, well the engines went out
Speaker 1: and so yeah and so as Yeah, so as we're
Speaker 1: about to land, he's basically telling us to brace for impact.
Speaker 1: And I was very young and just praying. But I
Speaker 1: don't remember having fear before that moment. But after that moment,
Speaker 1: I was just scared at trump. Yeah, so absolutely. Now
Speaker 1: let's let's let's rewind. Now, you lose your job and
Speaker 1: you become a noover driver. I can't see are you driving?
Speaker 1: Am I good driver? It depends. I'm very safe at driving, yes,
Speaker 1: but there are things that have happened where it's just
Speaker 1: like I could have been more a little bit more alert. Okay,
Speaker 1: where you what was your star rating? Star rating? Oh?
Speaker 1: It started dropping like crazy, and and I don't I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't know why some people thought I was driving
Speaker 1: too fast or one note I got was I was
Speaker 1: switching lanes too much, but I was trying to get them. Man,
Speaker 1: I don't know what he so. Yeah, I was public storage. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't have no big fancy you know, tell me. Um,
Speaker 1: it was just a nice black interior and a big
Speaker 1: bowl of candy and drivers have candy. Yes, I did
Speaker 1: have my charger. I would give because you know you
Speaker 1: can't trust didymus I did? No? Not my I would never,
Speaker 1: I mean never. No. Did you make conversation or were
Speaker 1: you quiet? I made some conversations sometimes. Um, three times
Speaker 1: people threw up in my car? How does that work?
Speaker 1: Do they pay for it? Or they pay for it
Speaker 1: but it's nowhere near enough? And then you lose like
Speaker 1: five days of work because your car stinks and you're traumatized. Yeah.
Speaker 1: How long did you have the Uber job for? This
Speaker 1: is interesting? This is my longest job today. Uber. I
Speaker 1: probably did for like at least a year or something. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess the meeting didn't go well because you lost
Speaker 1: your job, but then you started driving Uber. No, the
Speaker 1: meeting went really well. I just you know, I had
Speaker 1: to still make money. You know, they were still you know,
Speaker 1: taking their time with the idea of like signing me.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like an immediate This is my last uber
Speaker 1: question when you saw that. When you saw the episode
Speaker 1: insecureed we needs to rad was driving, did you say, oh,
Speaker 1: I see me? Didn't see oh you know? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah she drove Insecure. Wow. I feel like a loser.
Speaker 1: I need to you know why I never watched Insecure
Speaker 1: because every time I would watch an episode, I would
Speaker 1: just get so sad about my life and how like
Speaker 1: sexy these men were and how I had no men.
Speaker 1: But but that's my choice. I feel like that's my choice.
Speaker 1: Maybe it is. It is my choice. Could you could
Speaker 1: have a man? But it might not be that one.
Speaker 1: Some people are okay with settling and saying Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be alone, and people make you feel
Speaker 1: like that. But the truth is it's better to like
Speaker 1: wait till the right person. Absolutely, And I've definitely learned
Speaker 1: that like the hard way, so very like intentional particular
Speaker 1: about like who I want to share my time with.
Speaker 1: So I find myself for a loan a lot. Why
Speaker 1: not changing the mindset a little? Like you see the
Speaker 1: sexy man and you'd be like, I'm gonna have that
Speaker 1: one day. I'm gonna have a man like that for
Speaker 1: myself one day. I've been more adamant on like my standards. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I do do that. Like I'm more like, yes he
Speaker 1: has to be fine, Yes, he has to have a
Speaker 1: nice job. Yes, he has to be good to me,
Speaker 1: an effective communicator, like I am, like, have his own place.
Speaker 1: He did have his own place. I am, you know,
Speaker 1: chanting those things within. My assistant loves you, right, was Mercedes. Mercedes,
Speaker 1: So she sent me a couple of questions. One of
Speaker 1: the questions she said, you have a song called pof.
Speaker 1: She's single, by the way, right, she says, have you
Speaker 1: tried the dating app pof? And what you ever catfish?
Speaker 1: And then she goes, by the way, that dating site
Speaker 1: is terrible? Oh, so have you ever tried plenty of
Speaker 1: fish before? Absolutely? I met my first boyfriend on pof.
Speaker 1: Really his name is John. I don't know if I'll
Speaker 1: get in trouble for that, but yeah, I shouldn't shot
Speaker 1: at that time of John lit? Right, John is gonna
Speaker 1: be so lit when the interview come out. Yet kicked
Speaker 1: up at some dating sites because people didn't believe that
Speaker 1: it was you. Yeah, tender um they didn't believe it
Speaker 1: was me, and I didn't want to blank my Instagram
Speaker 1: so that people would know it's me and then maybe
Speaker 1: reach out to me for the wrong reasons like secret rappers.
Speaker 1: Well this is thank you. What is happening here? I
Speaker 1: think I need to step outside more. But I'm finally
Speaker 1: stepping outside and like meeting like nice, like you know,
Speaker 1: enjoyable individuals. Let's go back to John for a second.
Speaker 1: Why did you throw John back in the sea? Well?
Speaker 1: John went to the military, and I felt like we
Speaker 1: were growing apart and the affection was lacking. He called
Speaker 1: me bro one and I was just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I couldn't yeah, and it triggered me. But and I
Speaker 1: know it wasn't just bro. It's fine, you can call
Speaker 1: me that. It's just I felt like our romance was
Speaker 1: kind of dissipating, and so I think that was just
Speaker 1: a triggering thing. And we had an argument. Now I
Speaker 1: was like, well, I guess we're not together anymore, and
Speaker 1: that's kind of where to protect myself. Unfortunately I do that,
Speaker 1: and he was like, okay, fine, we're not together anymore.
Speaker 1: And he was really serious. Well, his loss, how many
Speaker 1: songs is he inspired? Um, probably po f the the
Speaker 1: EP and my album Shape, but her Baby, that's literally
Speaker 1: greatly inspired by him, and I'm so grateful. What was
Speaker 1: the first relationship I ever had? Yeah, we're cool. We
Speaker 1: check on each other sometimes. I ain't get an EP
Speaker 1: credit Shape. Well, I mean say when you just don't
Speaker 1: want to get back together and back in tent. I
Speaker 1: know women that swear by Shape butter Baby, like they
Speaker 1: like that's like their their bible. So that's that's big
Speaker 1: of him. You John I inspired Shape. But those T
Speaker 1: shirts please? We got more with Ari Lennox when we
Speaker 1: come back. It's the breakfast Clod Morning Morning. Everybody's DJ Envy,
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Ari Lennox. So you've met
Speaker 1: a lot of guys like, well, you've dated guys and
Speaker 1: they've been secret rappers. I thought that was really funny.
Speaker 1: Oh when you date somebody and then all of a
Speaker 1: sudden you find out later like your pastors to Cole
Speaker 1: from Mere exactly, Oh my god, And it's the worst
Speaker 1: it happens, like, but that's why I've learned with dating
Speaker 1: acts specific questions, are you a rapper recording do you
Speaker 1: play basketball? Specifically? Goodness, that is hilarious. That's a plot
Speaker 1: for a movie or something. The girl thinks that the
Speaker 1: guy is cheating, but he's really sneaking off the recording
Speaker 1: escape exactly. And what did your mom and your family
Speaker 1: say when you were recording with Cole and going out
Speaker 1: there and recording because a lot of his parents don't
Speaker 1: believe in the industry, right, my dad never really knew
Speaker 1: what was going on in my life. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: he knew. He was the one who always said you're
Speaker 1: gonna be something one day, like he he always said that,
Speaker 1: but like he was kind of always doing his own things,
Speaker 1: so he never really was seeing that I was how
Speaker 1: serious I was about music, which is why he was like,
Speaker 1: you should be a nurse. But really he wanted to
Speaker 1: be a nurse. And my mom was very calm, was
Speaker 1: just like forward, like happy for me, but yeah, very supportive.
Speaker 1: She never really knew this, like how serious he said that.
Speaker 1: Your dad used to always tell you you're gonna be something,
Speaker 1: You're gonna be something. Is that put added pressure on
Speaker 1: a daughter with wow, no, you know what? And it
Speaker 1: sucks because we were not even speaking right now you
Speaker 1: know what's going on. Okay, so we're not even speaking
Speaker 1: right now, But I do feel like when you instill
Speaker 1: certain things like that, it goes a long way for sure,
Speaker 1: because um, that is the one area in my life
Speaker 1: where I feel like I did really good right now
Speaker 1: with you when your dad not now speaking, is it
Speaker 1: something small that you can call him like because it's
Speaker 1: so much so like it, Um, I really think it's
Speaker 1: important for like people to be healed when they're bringing
Speaker 1: kids into this world because it's just like that alone,
Speaker 1: I feel like probably innately helped me in so many ways,
Speaker 1: like always grinding and like that. But um, I could
Speaker 1: also see the other like you know that I carry
Speaker 1: and it's, um, I'm sure it has to do with
Speaker 1: the others you know that you go through trauma. Let
Speaker 1: me let me tell you something I learned in therapy
Speaker 1: because the first time I had a breakthrough in therapy
Speaker 1: was literally realizing all the daddy issues I had. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So when me and my dad had a conversation and
Speaker 1: I realized, damn, he was a human before he was
Speaker 1: my dad, and he had his own issues self distribus
Speaker 1: issues dealing with mental health issues, and he was just
Speaker 1: doing the best he could with what he had at
Speaker 1: the time. It allowed me to give him a lot
Speaker 1: more grace. Yes, and got parents, I know, And I
Speaker 1: feel like there needs to be a lot of group therapy,
Speaker 1: and of course I want to continue my therapy alone,
Speaker 1: but I think that would probably be best because I
Speaker 1: know these are things I'm even carrying into my dating
Speaker 1: life and I just don't want to have that weight
Speaker 1: on me. And I do want to be more compassionate
Speaker 1: because he went through a lot, you know, with foster
Speaker 1: care and abandonment issues and all kinds of like dark things.
Speaker 1: So I do recognize why he is the way that
Speaker 1: he is. And you've been really open about going to therapy.
Speaker 1: When did you decide that that was something you wanted
Speaker 1: to do this year? I was just tired of just
Speaker 1: being a big ball of like traumas, like just being
Speaker 1: unaware of like what was going on inside, and like,
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of times I could be so
Speaker 1: triggered and it's just like, well why, And now I'm
Speaker 1: realizing why somebody's just pretending like I don't exist, or
Speaker 1: like not even looking at me, or like kind of
Speaker 1: having like this arrogant nature can be so triggering, like
Speaker 1: where did I see that like earlier in my life
Speaker 1: or experience that, Like I'm starting to realize it never stops.
Speaker 1: It's like a cycle. Like if you don't realize that
Speaker 1: you're carrying all of this way, it comes out in
Speaker 1: different ways and it people will be like, why is
Speaker 1: she freak out? It wasn't even that serious. It was
Speaker 1: a reminder. It was a flashback, probably a trigger without
Speaker 1: even realizing where it came from. There's always something in
Speaker 1: our childhood. Yeah, always something that happened in our childhood
Speaker 1: and to bring you that happens to you an adult.
Speaker 1: When it happened, you get triggered. You're like, oh, that's
Speaker 1: what that's why therapy iss like, oh that's why I'm
Speaker 1: reacting like yeah, what happened here? Yes, and it's it's
Speaker 1: been really beautiful and like eye opening for sure. Are
Speaker 1: you healing those those childhood wounds? Oh? Definitely, I want
Speaker 1: to keep going deeper. This start is happening for sure.
Speaker 1: And you said you see a lot of that in
Speaker 1: the relationships that you have now, Like what are some
Speaker 1: things and patterns Like I know you said you want
Speaker 1: to be more sympathetic, So what are some things that
Speaker 1: you feel like, Okay, I gotta work on this, damn
Speaker 1: probably how I'm communicating. I'm a very anxious person. So
Speaker 1: basically instead of saying I've said this before, but instead
Speaker 1: of saying like nobody cares, like it's just about well,
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like this is how I'm feeling,
Speaker 1: like you know that I'm not being heard or you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, I try to work on
Speaker 1: how I'm communicating because I get so kind of in
Speaker 1: my own anxiety and mess that I can kind of
Speaker 1: be a little insensitive sometimes. So I just want to
Speaker 1: work on like that. And when it comes to performing
Speaker 1: and getting on stage, are you the type of person
Speaker 1: who gets nervous before that or does it all go
Speaker 1: away and that's where you feel most comfortable most times?
Speaker 1: Are rarely get nervous like that nervous, but certain things
Speaker 1: like TV performances like I'm shaking, like it's just certain things,
Speaker 1: or Jasmine Jasmine like at the when we performed at
Speaker 1: the BT Awards, like horrified, like I don't want to
Speaker 1: let this legend down, like Jasmine Sullivan is everything. So yeah, question,
Speaker 1: when you get triggered by secret rappers, do you remember
Speaker 1: the struggle rapper who traumatize you. Oh, so many, so many,
Speaker 1: Yeah's gracious, people will never hear of. There's so many, right,
Speaker 1: people we never hear of. Like they just they won't
Speaker 1: say it until like you like them, and it's just like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm about to go to the studio. Why, like when whatever,
Speaker 1: they don't know who you are when they want to
Speaker 1: date you and act like, oh my god, like hey,
Speaker 1: what what do you do? You know, and act like
Speaker 1: they're not sure who you are. Yeah, I've definitely been
Speaker 1: in a relationship where he acted like I was not
Speaker 1: who I am at all. That's ridiculous. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: trying to feel appreciated. He kept trying to say it
Speaker 1: was just it's ego, like, you know, it's not all
Speaker 1: about you typing. But really I just felt like he
Speaker 1: always kind of diminished everything about me, you know, like
Speaker 1: kind of pretended like this singing part didn't even exist.
Speaker 1: I hate people like that. Don't try to make me
Speaker 1: feel small because you're clue. Yeah, oh my god, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you know what. I want to know what
Speaker 1: you know? What I mean? People that try to make
Speaker 1: us feel small just because they haven't done what they
Speaker 1: want to do. In life. Yeah, I guess so, but
Speaker 1: now no Jesus, but now you know, like I just
Speaker 1: my goal is just just a date nice people. It's
Speaker 1: got to be hard though, because you're Arilenox now for
Speaker 1: you don't know who well, you don't know who likes
Speaker 1: you for you or who likes you because you're a
Speaker 1: super Scars guys like side the you know plenty of
Speaker 1: fish like where you meeting. Well, the other day I
Speaker 1: met a guy at the fashion show that was really
Speaker 1: nice and he was he was so fine, but the
Speaker 1: day can get terrible. What was the date? Was his
Speaker 1: dress probably better than yours want to dress? How he continue,
Speaker 1: how you're sitting there? He walks over. He actually security
Speaker 1: first while we were sitting in a seat, and he oh, dang,
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody to butts. Yeah, she's sitting next
Speaker 1: to you, but I won't tell you that. You could
Speaker 1: stop now. Yeah, he just he reached out and introduced
Speaker 1: himself and like shook hands and it was really cute
Speaker 1: and sweet. Was the first date the first day, I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell you. It was a lovely restaurant, It
Speaker 1: really was, but he was late. He was later. I
Speaker 1: think it's bad during fashion Now he supposed to be
Speaker 1: he was. He was hanging out with Jacole and um,
Speaker 1: what what No, That's what I'm saying with Jacole my day.
Speaker 1: The whole team is like, stopped my day. It's just
Speaker 1: not all right. We got more with Ari Lynos when
Speaker 1: we come back. It's the Breakfast Clobald Morning Morning. Everybody
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we are
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Ari Lennox, Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: what was your intention with this album? The intention was
Speaker 1: just me showcasing dating and its entirety from trying to
Speaker 1: get away from dating. But used to bought us right back.
Speaker 1: I know it's all right. It's on subject for and
Speaker 1: it's where you are, you know what a lot of
Speaker 1: people can relate to you. That's one of the main
Speaker 1: questions people ask, how do you find somebody like, somebody good,
Speaker 1: somebody nice? Do you think about marriage? Like? Are you
Speaker 1: dating with the intention to get married? That's how you
Speaker 1: find somebody probably is how finding yourself really, and so
Speaker 1: that's really what I'm focused on. I got a little
Speaker 1: distracted with that recent date and then I was like, well,
Speaker 1: let me see what else is out here? But I
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna pull back into like myself and just
Speaker 1: kind of like change my number and just focus on
Speaker 1: more beautiful books on trauma and just focus on me.
Speaker 1: I got a great one for you, momenticum my grandmother's hands. Really. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we also have a marian I'm bothered booking here? Wow?
Speaker 1: Is that about traumas? Oh? Wow, look so adorable? Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, to get the book back. No singers,
Speaker 1: no singers, no rappers. What about ball players? You said earlier? Oh,
Speaker 1: if he played basketball, he doesn't mention that. Maybe a
Speaker 1: soccer player? Is that? Where the money? That money yet?
Speaker 1: Real money yet? Soccer? Okay, I'm just saying we have intentions,
Speaker 1: that's all. Did you finish your thought on the intentions
Speaker 1: of this album? The intention of the album is just
Speaker 1: making beautiful music that sounds like I'm in love based
Speaker 1: on crushes of people I've never even hung out with before,
Speaker 1: like mean mug and hoodie crushes on fine men that
Speaker 1: I never even on that one, and it gets to
Speaker 1: blocking you towards the end, it gets the blocking you
Speaker 1: And That's where I'm at right now with it, like
Speaker 1: in real life. But yeah, it's just dating and the emotions,
Speaker 1: and towards the end of the album, I'm definitely more
Speaker 1: about like, Okay, it's time to protect my peace, Like
Speaker 1: no one's gonna do that for me. And I find
Speaker 1: it irresponsible to be moving around in life with all
Speaker 1: of these unhealed you know, traumas and trying to you know,
Speaker 1: get to know people. So I just, you know, I
Speaker 1: want to check some things, some codependency things and anxiety.
Speaker 1: Things that people fast about. Black people fast if they
Speaker 1: ignore you, just black room. I do. Like one time,
Speaker 1: I felt that there was distance happening, and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: can we talk. I feel like something is changing. He
Speaker 1: was like, I thought we were good. I thought everything
Speaker 1: was good. Um, you know what, I just need to
Speaker 1: get something to eat. I'm gonna call you right back.
Speaker 1: And so I got on the phone my dad and
Speaker 1: me and my dad talked for like two hours wars
Speaker 1: and I didn't hear from the guy and I'm looking
Speaker 1: at my phone like wow, like and so I blocked him.
Speaker 1: After that that was in We spoke one time since then.
Speaker 1: I'm sure for some reason, I'm attracting avoidant people who
Speaker 1: don't know how to communicate well. Well, you're probably attracting
Speaker 1: what you are. That's why what you said about you know,
Speaker 1: healing your own trauma before you get into another situation.
Speaker 1: It's so important that right there, that's better than money.
Speaker 1: You know how we are you know about to say,
Speaker 1: you know how we always say you need a man
Speaker 1: with money, but did you you know? You know, but
Speaker 1: you really want a man that is doing the work
Speaker 1: like you're doing the work every I got so many
Speaker 1: home girls say I can't date a man if they're
Speaker 1: not in therapy, they're not trying to heal. Wow, that's
Speaker 1: what I would want for myself, a secure individual and
Speaker 1: or someone who was striving to be secure and healing
Speaker 1: as well as I am healing and trying to heal.
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, what did you think, because
Speaker 1: you know you are one of the leaders of this
Speaker 1: new R and B era, what did you think of
Speaker 1: did these comments that R and B is dead? I
Speaker 1: thought it was dismissive to all of the amazing legendary
Speaker 1: artists that have been in the game and that are
Speaker 1: also contributing. I mean, from Mary J. Bloige to Jasmine
Speaker 1: Sullivan to Summer Walker to elm to Money Long Van
Speaker 1: Jesse Lucky Day, Lucky Day, Aaron Ray. There's so many
Speaker 1: of us t Nariel, Brent Faiz, Jalen, Jossi her Her Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: let's you know, Jill Scott Sissa, like everyone is still
Speaker 1: killing it and dropping music. And it was dismissive just
Speaker 1: because I don't know. Yeah, Tank exactly amazing. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know why he said that it was not nice,
Speaker 1: but I do love all that he's contributed to music.
Speaker 1: So it's no shade, but it's like bee more nice
Speaker 1: to the people that are really you know, we're out
Speaker 1: here still like stop it. Often wonder when you was
Speaker 1: young trying to get on, what did you think the
Speaker 1: industry would be like? And what have you realized? You
Speaker 1: know it really is. But I think it was gonna
Speaker 1: be like I don't remember. I just knew. I just
Speaker 1: I saw baw Waw up there and Joe Joe, and
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be like them, like when I
Speaker 1: was young, Um, what did I think? I don't know
Speaker 1: what I thought, Like maybe I thought there was gonna
Speaker 1: be like a lot of like devil people illuminatis. I
Speaker 1: haven't yet to see that. I thought there would be
Speaker 1: a lot of cocaine. Yet I've yet to see the runs.
Speaker 1: I've never seen it before, never sacrifice a family member
Speaker 1: or something. I don't want to think I've never seen
Speaker 1: before either. No, yeah, exactly, I've been offered it, but
Speaker 1: I've never seen it. It was never been offered, I
Speaker 1: don't believe or I offered it twice in my life,
Speaker 1: but they didn't like have it in their hand. Wow,
Speaker 1: they were like deep party, Yeah, then I have been
Speaker 1: offered it before. Then, well yeah in the bathroom. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what that meant. Oh my god, you've been offered cocaine.
Speaker 1: I have been offered cocaine. Say all your friends are
Speaker 1: in the loom. We do appreciate you, We appreciate your music.
Speaker 1: And you know, I was kind of hurt when you
Speaker 1: said you don't want to do interviews anymore. I was like,
Speaker 1: don't let one bad interaction with somebody mess up somebody else,
Speaker 1: you know. And I'm glad you're over that, and I'm
Speaker 1: glad you're doing interviews again. Thank you. I want people
Speaker 1: to understand that was just a part of my anxious
Speaker 1: nature of like what I met earlier, when I was
Speaker 1: just like nobody cares. I kind of worst case scenario
Speaker 1: and jumped to like the extreme. I'm kind of black
Speaker 1: and white with things, especially Yeah, and I definitely didn't
Speaker 1: mean that. I was just so heartbroken by the fact
Speaker 1: that he would release something that we didn't agree on
Speaker 1: him releasing, and I just kind of felt ambushed, you know. So, Yeah,
Speaker 1: get into a record off the album. What you want
Speaker 1: to hear? Oh? I guess boy bye, because that's the
Speaker 1: real sexy record. I love this Lucky Days awesome. I
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you on TV and movies too.
Speaker 1: I see that in your future as well. That's so sweet.
Speaker 1: And we need to get with Sean de Rymes and
Speaker 1: do this mini series how to Get Away with Rapping?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, struggle rapping, brilliant little thrillers. Yes, we
Speaker 1: are athletics. Thank you for joining us. It wasn't that bad.
Speaker 1: It was beautiful, this energy. Wow. And we prayed before
Speaker 1: we came. Are you talking? Why are you talking? Yes?
Speaker 1: Why do you talk so much? Because I love you?
Speaker 1: I do the piece. No, not the day you talk
Speaker 1: too much? You guys? This about about? Don't we prayed
Speaker 1: together as a family. What are you talking about? God?
Speaker 1: We said an intention before the interview. That's what we
Speaker 1: did radio felt that they don't ever date a radio personality.
Speaker 1: I promise, okay almost, I won't. Really, that's all. No more.
Speaker 1: You can't do that. That's payola playing at breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Your morning's will never be the same. When it's time
Speaker 1: to get with someone special, the best way to do
Speaker 1: it is with Magnum large size condoms. That gold foil
Speaker 1: wrapper is a badge of honor, and it means you're
Speaker 1: protected and you take care of things with comfort. Accept
Speaker 1: no substitutes. Bring the pleasure with the gold standard Magnum
Speaker 1: large size condom. I was born to donkey. It's the donkey,
Speaker 1: don't get that's devil. I'm gonna make this quick. It's
Speaker 1: just reinforcing a point. Donc gives the Dave goes to
Speaker 1: every single individual who got a fraudulent PPP loan. Because
Speaker 1: if you haven't heard, President Biden signed the bill aimed
Speaker 1: at helping crack down on pandemic relief fund. Oh what
Speaker 1: a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive.
Speaker 1: All right, there's not one single solitary human I know
Speaker 1: with good sense who participated in p PPP fraud. Why
Speaker 1: because we all knew it was too good to be true.
Speaker 1: We all knew there was only one place fake LLC
Speaker 1: Twitter was gonna end up, and that's in PPP prison. Okay,
Speaker 1: PPP period. And that's why a couple of days ago
Speaker 1: President Joe Biden signed the PAD bills to assist prosecutors
Speaker 1: cracked down on pandemic relief funds. Let's listen to what
Speaker 1: he had to say. And today I'm shigning two bipartisan
Speaker 1: bills and will give the federal local prosecutors more time
Speaker 1: to hold criminals accountable for the fraud and American people
Speaker 1: during the once in a century pandemic. American people deserve
Speaker 1: to know was that their tax dollars or being spent
Speaker 1: as in ten. My message to those cheats out there
Speaker 1: is this, you can't hide. I'm going to find you.
Speaker 1: We're gonna make you payback or you stolen, and hold
Speaker 1: you accountable under the law. I'm going to sign them
Speaker 1: in the law. That's true for another piece of my
Speaker 1: economic plan, the belief and the United States of America.
Speaker 1: There's nothing beyond our capacity. Nothing when we work together
Speaker 1: as the United States of America. That's just these bills
Speaker 1: represent y'all know, President Biden, love locking black people up,
Speaker 1: and y'all just helped them. See, I'm not wishing jail
Speaker 1: on nobody. I just understand it the consequences to all
Speaker 1: our actions. And for some reason in this era, people
Speaker 1: have forgotten that. All right, folks want to do whatever
Speaker 1: it is they want to do and then get mad
Speaker 1: when they don't get away with it. It's unreal to me.
Speaker 1: The mindset is crazy, okay. And these bills that Biden
Speaker 1: signed will extend the Statute of Limitations for prosecuting cases
Speaker 1: of fraud against the government for ten years, so for
Speaker 1: the next decade. If you did a fraudulent p P
Speaker 1: piece camp, you better act like you were rapper from
Speaker 1: Atlanta who's been warned by the DA that more ricos
Speaker 1: are on the way over the next sixty days. By
Speaker 1: the way, she said that three weeks ago, so y'all
Speaker 1: got about three or four more weeks left. But I
Speaker 1: just want to know what made y'all think y'all could
Speaker 1: get away with this fraudulent PPP loan scam in the
Speaker 1: first place. Some of y'all never owned a business, never
Speaker 1: ran a business, nothing, But all of a sudden, you're
Speaker 1: creating these fake LLC's lying about the number of employees
Speaker 1: you have, about the profits you made. We told y'all
Speaker 1: this was gonna lead to you going to PPP prison,
Speaker 1: and you did it anyway. Okay, I don't feel sorry
Speaker 1: for y'all. Okay, I feel sorry for all the small businesses,
Speaker 1: all the small black businesses who couldn't get any PPP money,
Speaker 1: who wanted to relief, who needed to relieve, and for
Speaker 1: whatever reason, couldn't get it. But all of y'all out
Speaker 1: there with fake LLCs like Deally Nuts LLC and Beef
Speaker 1: King LLC and Rita Week Club LLC. What you'd like
Speaker 1: to know who those people were. Those were actual businesses
Speaker 1: who claimed to be farms. But just what these farms?
Speaker 1: And I got farms in air quotes? Guess what? These
Speaker 1: farms were located in beach towns in New Jersey. Okay,
Speaker 1: hundreds of PPP loans went to fake farms and places
Speaker 1: where there is no damn farms. All right. There was
Speaker 1: an online lending platform called Cabbage that sent three hundred
Speaker 1: and seventy eight pandemic loans worth seven million dollars to
Speaker 1: fake companies, mostly farms. Meanwhile, real farms couldn't get this
Speaker 1: kind of relief This is what makes me feel like
Speaker 1: all of this was a set up. Okay, how are
Speaker 1: so many legitimate businesses ignored couldn't get the relief they needed?
Speaker 1: But all these fake LLCs weren't. For all you YouTube
Speaker 1: conspiracy theorists out there, this is a conspiracy you can
Speaker 1: run with because they killed two birds with one stone.
Speaker 1: In this case, they killed two niggas with one loan. Okay,
Speaker 1: because if you're a small black and brown business who
Speaker 1: couldn't get a PPP loan, you probably ended up ultimately
Speaker 1: losing your business. So they killed black and brown businesses.
Speaker 1: And if you're a black or brown person who got
Speaker 1: a fake LLC, now you go into prison. And I
Speaker 1: don't even have to tell you how incarceration kills families.
Speaker 1: So therefore, this was the ultimate trap. Okay, you killed
Speaker 1: two niggas with one loan. It was clearly a trap,
Speaker 1: and y'all fell for it. I don't feel remorse for
Speaker 1: any of you, Okay. PPP was intended to help businesses
Speaker 1: make payroll during the pandemic, with those loans being forgiven
Speaker 1: if companies met specific criteria. Okay. It was for small
Speaker 1: businesses to stay afloat, not for you niggas, the ball
Speaker 1: out on boats. Okay, I don't feel sorry for any
Speaker 1: of y'all, and I am sick of folks acting like
Speaker 1: there's not consequences to their actions. All right. We see
Speaker 1: people doing things that are going to lead them to jail.
Speaker 1: We tell them they're going to jail. We can clearly
Speaker 1: see what the consequences of what they are doing is
Speaker 1: gonna be. We warn them, they do it, they get busted,
Speaker 1: and now we feel sorry for them. No, not Lenard,
Speaker 1: not Uncle Shlah. Okay, y'all deserve to be afraid, all right,
Speaker 1: very afraid over the next decade. You made a choice.
Speaker 1: And I hope those crab legs and scrimps and all
Speaker 1: that cast and meagles was worth it. Please give everyone
Speaker 1: who got a fraudulent PPP loan the biggest he hull.
Speaker 1: Just my thoughts, just the way I'm feeling. At the time.
Speaker 1: It was a pandemic, you know what I'm saying. People
Speaker 1: was getting them banned. So I guess it's over now
Speaker 1: it's been over. Oh it was over two years. About
Speaker 1: to be a jail demic. It's gonna be a jailed demic,
Speaker 1: you hear me. We told y'all this was gonna happen.
Speaker 1: We live. You go back and you listen to the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club during Kobe, we told you p P P
Speaker 1: was gonna lead the p P prison. Okay, we saw
Speaker 1: what this was going. Y'all didn't listen. Hey, now you
Speaker 1: got a decade to watch. You back, all right? The
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Dank morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
Speaker 1: some special guests joining us, Alexandrea from The Poorman's Podcast. Welcome, Hi,
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for having us difficulty, but we got it together.
Speaker 1: How y're feeling this morning? We're feeling good. Let's start
Speaker 1: from the beginning. How you get this podcast started? How
Speaker 1: did y'all meet? Now, Oh, Claude, we was drinking and
Speaker 1: real making money. It was called prime Time. It wasn't Houston,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't open at long No, it was like
Speaker 1: it was DC, the guy that used to own be Live.
Speaker 1: So they were trying to like a starlets in like
Speaker 1: starlets whack with the ya ya y'all weld have drinking,
Speaker 1: chilling and what made y'all meeting and Lincoln connect? Because
Speaker 1: usually girls when they meet, they don't really connect. Y'a
Speaker 1: connected over y'all baby heads. I don't say something about
Speaker 1: it because we was laying them down this morning. We
Speaker 1: don't like we gonna light them edgy. No. But I
Speaker 1: think the reason we connected was because like she didn't
Speaker 1: know how to make drinks at all, and real bart
Speaker 1: I would, but she was a good talker, like she
Speaker 1: was finessing it because I was making the drinks, and
Speaker 1: that we were like making a lot of money to oh,
Speaker 1: like the first night that we worked together, because when
Speaker 1: we were actually working together for a few months before,
Speaker 1: we actually talked. And then one night this guy came
Speaker 1: to the club and he was talking to me, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, he's talking about girl he went along island.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to make that. I mean he
Speaker 1: was asking for anything. He was like, man, yeah, like
Speaker 1: I know how to make it. He the see and cold,
Speaker 1: and so I think we made like four thousand dollars
Speaker 1: damn yeah, and we're splitting like I'm trying to figure
Speaker 1: out what well it was just because like I think
Speaker 1: a lot of it is he was just so impressed
Speaker 1: that she could actually make a drink, But it was
Speaker 1: really me making drinks like you know, so we just
Speaker 1: kind of got I was like, Okay, this is what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Yeah, you're gonna take all these I'm
Speaker 1: gonna make the drinks. Just let me know what you need.
Speaker 1: And it was like the service was fast because we
Speaker 1: was working together. But they didn't know that. That's what
Speaker 1: made y'all start the podcast? How did y'all start? What
Speaker 1: was that decision? You? Like people whenever where around people,
Speaker 1: they always be like y'all so crazy and y'all so funny,
Speaker 1: like y'all need y'all own show. Y'all need to people
Speaker 1: need to see this because we really are like these
Speaker 1: off camera too. But I feel like too, like you
Speaker 1: know how when people say that, everybody feel like, yeah,
Speaker 1: they have a good conversation. I need a podcast. Oh
Speaker 1: they've have a good time. God girl, we need to reality. Yes, right,
Speaker 1: that's not what God got planning. But it's a little
Speaker 1: different because I mean we wouldn't even be doing We
Speaker 1: would just be sitting on the couch at somebody house
Speaker 1: people like man like it was every time, I mean,
Speaker 1: no matter where we went, and we're in front of strangers,
Speaker 1: people who knew it. It was like Okay, well, let's
Speaker 1: like start a YouTube channel. We never thought that we
Speaker 1: were going to get into podcasts because her ex gave
Speaker 1: her the idea to start the YouTube. H because we
Speaker 1: used to do like a little show called wind Out
Speaker 1: on Wednesday before we switched it over the Poor Mine,
Speaker 1: and we got that idea from him. And then one
Speaker 1: of her friends was already a podcaster and she was like,
Speaker 1: y'all need to turn it into a podcast because y'all
Speaker 1: can make away more money and monetize this. When we
Speaker 1: switched the name to Poor Mine, who was your friend Candy? Okay,
Speaker 1: and who was your ex? Nobody? Cool? It ain't no,
Speaker 1: it ain't no. Our listeners are very very knowledgy, so
Speaker 1: as soon as I name they're gonna be like I
Speaker 1: say it, but so somebody people know? Um people yeah,
Speaker 1: used the people that no, people don't know DM me Homi,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you. Don't say that like what's up?
Speaker 1: What's up? That's worth and the work brothers said, brother,
Speaker 1: he must be terrible to be terrible. Good. No, he's
Speaker 1: not a terrible person. I feel like, you know, a
Speaker 1: terrible rapple. Oh my god, Okay, let me say this honestly,
Speaker 1: he can write. He got some good lyrics. I feel
Speaker 1: like the it's difference between making good music being like
Speaker 1: a lyricist like he has. He can write all day.
Speaker 1: Raps are good songs, not so much. But you never know, No,
Speaker 1: you you're gonna be like this is ass what was
Speaker 1: you thinking? So for people that doing the podcast, what
Speaker 1: are y'all talking about? And discussing the podcast? We talk
Speaker 1: about everything, I think of what A lot of talk
Speaker 1: about dating, we talk about six we talk about music.
Speaker 1: I mean, we really just be navigating through life. I
Speaker 1: think that that's one of the great things about our
Speaker 1: podcasts that you can see the growth, like because we
Speaker 1: keep up all of the old contents, so you could
Speaker 1: look back from four years ago and really just see
Speaker 1: us grow. We see the evolution of the conversations. At
Speaker 1: one point we just talk about yeah, like men with
Speaker 1: money and that I think a lot of times people
Speaker 1: have the podcasts all wrong, you know, like because all
Speaker 1: of the clips that happen to go viral be us
Speaker 1: talking about men with money or you know, dating and
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, you know, how to get this.
Speaker 1: But I feel like our podcast is really about like
Speaker 1: celebrating women and what we deserve and you know, having
Speaker 1: higher standards and getting that confidence that you never had,
Speaker 1: and you know how we can talk about music and
Speaker 1: just showing us in a different light because of course
Speaker 1: when people look at us saying, you know, we're sexy,
Speaker 1: we like to be batties, but it's so much more
Speaker 1: than that to us, you know. So I feel like
Speaker 1: that's who the podcast is for, because we like to say,
Speaker 1: you know, traditionally, like batties don't listen to podcasts, you know,
Speaker 1: they just be outside. So we feel like this is
Speaker 1: a lane for the batties, find a bat for those
Speaker 1: who may not know what I mean. I definitely feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, you have to look the part, but that secondary.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's more of a mindset thing. You know,
Speaker 1: you can't be musty and bad. To me, like a
Speaker 1: baddie is somebody who like they're confident first of all,
Speaker 1: like they walk in a room, it doesn't matter you
Speaker 1: know how other people view them. They know how they
Speaker 1: view themselves. And I feel like that's with us, Like
Speaker 1: we don't care what clip goes viral or what y'all thing.
Speaker 1: Y'all can be like hot, these birds get on breakfast
Speaker 1: club because it's gonna be a lot of people saying
Speaker 1: that I don't care, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like a confidence thing, you know.
Speaker 1: And like I said, we cannot act like. It's not
Speaker 1: the looks thing too, Like that's what you gotta be.
Speaker 1: But it feel like you gotta be a nice person,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you can't be a baddy and
Speaker 1: be mean. Yeah, like I mean, we don't like mean girls.
Speaker 1: Girls just be mean. It's helping out reasoning. What if
Speaker 1: you nice, confident and musty, you're not a bad musty?
Speaker 1: People be coming around like you're You're not. We got
Speaker 1: more with the ladies from Poor Minds r Lex Andrea,
Speaker 1: So don't move, It's to Breakfast Club. Co morning. Everybody
Speaker 1: is t j Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Lex
Speaker 1: Andrea from the Poor Mind's podcast. So y'all say, y'all diding, No,
Speaker 1: y'all didating. I'm thinking right now? Yeah, relationships right right, M.
Speaker 1: I actually just got out of a situation. So suation
Speaker 1: relationship because it's like it's been complicated, it's been a
Speaker 1: very long time of a lot of back and forth.
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm single now, So what made you
Speaker 1: finally break up? He went back this way, not this
Speaker 1: one week. But no, I'm still like, I'm at a
Speaker 1: different point in my life. You know, I've had a
Speaker 1: lot of changes, a lot of things going on. I
Speaker 1: just feel like we're in two different places. It ain't
Speaker 1: no bad blood, Like I still got love for him,
Speaker 1: you know, it ain't. No. I'm not a girl that like,
Speaker 1: oh I hate him and I'm gonna talk down on him.
Speaker 1: I've never been break up. What was the situation with
Speaker 1: finally say it was over? I mean a lot of
Speaker 1: stress in our relationship, Like, no, not that. I mean
Speaker 1: I'm busy. I travel a lot. You know, he has
Speaker 1: a lot going on. That problem batty life right now,
Speaker 1: So I gotta do. Do men get jealous because they
Speaker 1: see y'all, you know, starting to grow in this space.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't really witnessed jealousy so much,
Speaker 1: but I think that it's weird because a lot of
Speaker 1: guys that I used to talk to be trying to
Speaker 1: like come back to me, and they be trying to
Speaker 1: do like extravagant things. So it's all mexing me now,
Speaker 1: And I think that's very strange because it's like, what
Speaker 1: made you have such a slitting and change of heart.
Speaker 1: I like a sudden change of heart. I don't like
Speaker 1: with you like I mean, but still like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tasting it, but still to leave me alone. Right, facts
Speaker 1: we always take together expensive as it was a while back.
Speaker 1: But he put that helped me get a car off
Speaker 1: my car. I got a Dodge Challenger, so you know,
Speaker 1: and then I got I got him to pay off
Speaker 1: my car. I wat it, I'm pocketing that money and
Speaker 1: did something else. No, it's I used to be a
Speaker 1: responsible batty in the streets, you know, like you get
Speaker 1: money from a man, girls just buying bags and shoes.
Speaker 1: I was the one, like, let me pay my bill?
Speaker 1: About you most expensive gift? How about me a Range Rover?
Speaker 1: Last year new bills payment like ninety thou Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't care. They should have paid for the student loans.
Speaker 1: You can sell it. You can't be my X after
Speaker 1: I pay your student loans off. You can't just walk
Speaker 1: away from me after that where you brought up student
Speaker 1: loans like he she can progress in life. Now, Wait
Speaker 1: a minute, how do you come with him? Yeah, loan,
Speaker 1: I just walk from a man after that was two
Speaker 1: different guys. Okay, well how do you listening for both
Speaker 1: of you? How do you just walk away from a
Speaker 1: man who paid your student loans? If he talks right,
Speaker 1: he's long away. But honestly, I feel like that's what
Speaker 1: we talk about on the show a lot. I feel
Speaker 1: like a lot of young women they out here like
Speaker 1: chasing these guys with money and then they have no
Speaker 1: like end goal. And I'm not saying, you know, use people,
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying, but I feel like in
Speaker 1: certain situations, I mean in certain situations, so like we
Speaker 1: know what it is, Like, let's not be dumb. These
Speaker 1: men want sex, you know, and women want money whatever.
Speaker 1: So if you're young and doing that, at least be
Speaker 1: smart about it. So that's what we try to tell people.
Speaker 1: At least be smart, Like don't be out here trying
Speaker 1: to keep up with her and buying Rick Owens, buying product,
Speaker 1: going doing all this. So for us, like when you're
Speaker 1: dealing with the man and he put you I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that, but like I just mean as far as
Speaker 1: like when you're dealing with a guy who buys you
Speaker 1: a bag, you'll leave? So why can't I deal with
Speaker 1: a guy who pay off my student loans and live before?
Speaker 1: But Michael cards don't count. Michael, course, I might have
Speaker 1: to take away your bad he calls. Years ago. I
Speaker 1: ain't had no been as minor that bad. Yea, it
Speaker 1: used to be popping. I remember I had a Michael
Speaker 1: Cords White. How do you break up? How you break
Speaker 1: up with somebody that brought your rangel? How's it over together?
Speaker 1: Tell them the wim me though? What's the wind? You know?
Speaker 1: But I didn't have sex with him? I said absolutely,
Speaker 1: just said he was a guy. Yeah, he was a guy,
Speaker 1: and you never let him smell it. No hams, no
Speaker 1: break this down? So what happened? He just hate babe,
Speaker 1: I want to buy your rain. So I met him
Speaker 1: through one of my other friends, and so I guess
Speaker 1: he wanted to talk to me. We had hung out
Speaker 1: a few times, and all of a sudden he just
Speaker 1: started texting her and he was like, I want to
Speaker 1: buy Drey another car. Yeah, And so she was like
Speaker 1: of course, she was like hell, yeah, I don't here
Speaker 1: buy it. So then she was texting me and she
Speaker 1: was like, oh, what kind of cars. He was like.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, I either want a Jelly
Speaker 1: Coop or I want a rain Drover, and he was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it. And then he started texting Legs
Speaker 1: saying the same thing. He was like, yeah, I just
Speaker 1: gonna want to get drag another car because I still
Speaker 1: have my other car too that I had before he
Speaker 1: bought me to Range Rover, and so he tried to
Speaker 1: buy one and then he didn't go through something happy,
Speaker 1: and then something happened he couldn't get it. Then we
Speaker 1: got into it. A few weeks later. I blocked him
Speaker 1: and stuff, and then all of a sudden he just
Speaker 1: popped up with this white Range drugger. He finally stole
Speaker 1: somebody credit card that work. Yeah, probably happened. He didn't try.
Speaker 1: He didn't try to have sex with you, Smash nothing.
Speaker 1: Of course he did. But I just wasn't interesting because
Speaker 1: he was corny, because even I knew he was doing
Speaker 1: it because he wanted like recognition, because even when he
Speaker 1: told me that he got the car, he was hitting
Speaker 1: her up in my friend He was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to take all of y'all to eat, and
Speaker 1: I'm an hire a videoographer. It was just weird. That's
Speaker 1: that's why I said the finesse came in because I
Speaker 1: was definitely helping. I'm like, yeah, she cares about you,
Speaker 1: bro get the call, and then she needed the call,
Speaker 1: and then I ended up out. He was going around
Speaker 1: telling people in Atlanta that he had sex with me,
Speaker 1: and he never had sex with me, so I was like,
Speaker 1: I knew he was corning somebody behind it. So he
Speaker 1: was like nobody here Roman slide. You supposed to let
Speaker 1: a rumor slid when somebody said a hand sex, you're
Speaker 1: a call. So I didn't. That's in jail right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: p scam. He enough for something. But that's what happened
Speaker 1: when you're not a nice person. Wow, man bought you
Speaker 1: a call. But you know that's a good point because
Speaker 1: I always say, just because somebody does something good for
Speaker 1: you doesn't mean they're good for you. And you don't
Speaker 1: mean heior motives, you know, like that wasn't coming from
Speaker 1: his heart. So you got played. But you said earlier
Speaker 1: that men and women know what it is. Women want
Speaker 1: money and men want sex, So is that really an
Speaker 1: Ontario motive? I mean, but it was more than that though.
Speaker 1: It wasn't just a sex for him. Like I said,
Speaker 1: he wanted to recogn it like he wants to be.
Speaker 1: He wanted to date her, but not because it was
Speaker 1: like he really liked her. Like he was ugly. He
Speaker 1: kind of looked like a lesbian. Yeah, he's one of them.
Speaker 1: He looked like, yeah, he's given the kind of like
Speaker 1: if you saw him, you because he was very femininely,
Speaker 1: like if you saw dram with it, you'd be like, damn,
Speaker 1: i't know, asked me vibes. He was definitely like because
Speaker 1: and then he tried to be my bestie, so I
Speaker 1: was he would be texting her. It was so weird.
Speaker 1: He was like yeah, he was like, I gotta get
Speaker 1: he texts you one time. What he said, I got,
Speaker 1: I gotta get dread this car because she said she
Speaker 1: gonna what I could to Christie like I said, I
Speaker 1: was gonna give him yeah, and she didn't, but I
Speaker 1: said that she was he said she was. I love it. Now.
Speaker 1: We live for each other all the time, Like two
Speaker 1: months ago about what we just be lying for each other.
Speaker 1: I can't even remember. It'd be like small small things,
Speaker 1: We'll just give each other that look and I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I gotta lie. We got more with the ladies from
Speaker 1: Poor Minds I lex Andrea, so don't oof. It's the
Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody is DJ Envy,
Speaker 1: Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: were still kicking it with lex Andrea from the Poor
Speaker 1: Mind's podcast, Charlemagne, lex, I heard you said that women
Speaker 1: cheat better than me. I absolutely believe it because black
Speaker 1: men don't cheat. So of course y'all would be black
Speaker 1: black men that is. I'm a black man. I got
Speaker 1: a mirror. Black boys cheat. Men don't cheat. You know
Speaker 1: it goes. I feel like women cheat batter I'm not
Speaker 1: eating on huh a black boy. I don't even know
Speaker 1: if he was black. Okay, maybe I'm putting up the
Speaker 1: ladies on blasts right now, but I feel like we're
Speaker 1: just a little more smooth and sneaky with it. We
Speaker 1: don't a smarter. Yes, women are smarter, like gods will
Speaker 1: be out with another girl and letting her post stand
Speaker 1: corn and other people that have seen it, like guys
Speaker 1: are just sloppy. Yeah. I'm not saying that I've done
Speaker 1: this before, but it's like if I'm want by man.
Speaker 1: I see a guy like my little side, what's up? Bro?
Speaker 1: I see? Yeah, that was my personality. So feel like Alex,
Speaker 1: you don't she got a lot you know that little
Speaker 1: what if that? What if my boy blow you up
Speaker 1: right then? And he not? But he not because when
Speaker 1: you when you cold with people, and it ain't that
Speaker 1: they know how to act. Be cheated on before both
Speaker 1: of y'all, yeah, deserve what you mean. I don't say that.
Speaker 1: I did not say that, y'all fund out. I have
Speaker 1: good investigation skills. I've had people tell me teens I
Speaker 1: said this all the time. I don't know why people
Speaker 1: like fly I I got to say, pain, Look, you
Speaker 1: never got caught cheating lex ever. I never. I only
Speaker 1: cheat it one time though. It was like way back
Speaker 1: in college, who cheating on your boyfriend? Hoods X was
Speaker 1: weag okay, that's the reason reason. And then we were
Speaker 1: into different CDs. Okay, that's another way school and he
Speaker 1: was stealing Houston d HM. He never know about this.
Speaker 1: He probably broke that boy had he never knew, No,
Speaker 1: never know now before No, not him. It was somebody else.
Speaker 1: They cheated on me. But I found out because I
Speaker 1: went through his phone and that was the last time
Speaker 1: I ever got through because I lost team. She really did. Yes,
Speaker 1: I was straight lost the ass and everything. He was
Speaker 1: just talking to a whole bunch of girls I on
Speaker 1: Instagram telling him you was a savage. Yeah, why I
Speaker 1: was a savage before. The thing for me like when
Speaker 1: I cheat, if you don't tell me you love me,
Speaker 1: I'm going to cheat. You said, what if you don't
Speaker 1: say I love you, don't tell me good morning, I'm
Speaker 1: going to cheat. Les cheated out. She's like a certified
Speaker 1: love like a Grand Rising Queen. I'm going to cheat.
Speaker 1: If you say grand Rising, I'm going why she fine
Speaker 1: version of good Morning, Grand Rising Queens, Grand Rising Queen.
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I already know you're about to be
Speaker 1: on some bull I don't want to hear that. The
Speaker 1: damn Now, let's talk about flute out. The flute outcomes.
Speaker 1: Somebody flies you out? What are you giving them back?
Speaker 1: Are you expecting? Not a damn thing? You got a
Speaker 1: range rover and ain't give them the batty No batty,
Speaker 1: no uncle batty my new name from not one. I
Speaker 1: want y'all to stamp it. Don't call me nothing else. Okay,
Speaker 1: but now, honestly, I used to be like they like,
Speaker 1: I used to like go on trips with people and
Speaker 1: knew that I wasn't gonna have six with them. Now
Speaker 1: if I tell them up front of you, no, I
Speaker 1: would just go and enjoy myself and be like, you
Speaker 1: have a line to my period? Yeah? I have. I
Speaker 1: actually put a sandplonny on one song. But what about
Speaker 1: what the man said, I don't care a period, don't
Speaker 1: stop nothing but the sentence? Then what to be like?
Speaker 1: I want to do that. I don't want to smell
Speaker 1: like pennies in here. I've got lived places before. I
Speaker 1: don't nowhere off the country right right, But like I
Speaker 1: got left in Miami one time, God flew you out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he actually lived here on your period. And well I
Speaker 1: didn't tell him I was on my period. I just
Speaker 1: stried up tallow him, like I didn't want to have
Speaker 1: sex with him. But he was mad because he had
Speaker 1: bought me some shoes. What kind of shoes? Lu, And
Speaker 1: you walked right out of his life the hotel. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he left me. He didn't book my RESTIRN flight and
Speaker 1: this was all. I was still living in Houston. I
Speaker 1: hadn't moved to l Did you have the money to
Speaker 1: get back. Yeah, I did. I did, But like what
Speaker 1: if I did though, this is why I don't date
Speaker 1: outside my race because he was a white man. White.
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Shouldn't have get that white man. Nothing.
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. They're on tour right now.
Speaker 1: You can see that Arlington, Virginia on the eighteenth to September,
Speaker 1: y Richmond at twenty, Tampa, October fourth, October fifth, Miami,
Speaker 1: and October six, or Land. Y'all just did New York.
Speaker 1: I was the New York show. It was Ergie was
Speaker 1: really really good. Yeah. In New York. I feel like
Speaker 1: New York is kind of a different market. It's kind
Speaker 1: of hard. Yeah, because we country obviously, y'all can tell
Speaker 1: when we come like to New York. People be like,
Speaker 1: what these country bumpkins, but with all their families from
Speaker 1: down south. Yeah, y'all don't. Y'all don't have no other jobs.
Speaker 1: This is it, this is it. I finally was able
Speaker 1: to quit my job like we want to. Last year, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was last year. Wasn't last year? Yeah, So for me,
Speaker 1: it was like I moved to Atlanta literally with nothing,
Speaker 1: you know. I was trying to figure things out. And
Speaker 1: it was really it was like a really really hard
Speaker 1: time for me. Like the thing that I love about
Speaker 1: poor minds. And that's why we keep the old videos up.
Speaker 1: Like we joke about it, like how my hair used
Speaker 1: to love our makeup because like I mean, I didn't
Speaker 1: have any money. It was what I could do at
Speaker 1: the time. But we keep those old videos up so
Speaker 1: people can see the growth, you know, and they can
Speaker 1: see what consists and see and when you really believe
Speaker 1: in yourself, can't get you because I feel like we've
Speaker 1: only just scratched the surface of what we're gonna do,
Speaker 1: you know. So yeah, I feel I haven't had a
Speaker 1: job in like four years. Really was the last jobs
Speaker 1: the bar team, Okay, but that was like you but
Speaker 1: I haven't did this since like twenty eighteen, so I
Speaker 1: had like a nine to five. I wasn't even ready
Speaker 1: to quit my job. They kind of like gave me
Speaker 1: a ultimatum, was like, Okay, either you're gonna be here
Speaker 1: or be there. And I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, gone hand and quit. We gonna
Speaker 1: figure it out. So it was like I just quit
Speaker 1: and we figured it out. Well. I find y'all very entertaining,
Speaker 1: and I thank you. I think it was lady that
Speaker 1: just need to be on TV and I can't. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to ask you about the Division video.
Speaker 1: Y'all was in the Division video. Division video. That was fun.
Speaker 1: It was really fun. I think that's really how we
Speaker 1: be in real life, Like and Raya calling me me
Speaker 1: giving her bad and like me and a bad man
Speaker 1: was cool. The video was fun. Yeah, there really because
Speaker 1: I didn't even hear the song until he came out. Really,
Speaker 1: you didn't know what they didn't have a song playing
Speaker 1: when y'all doing the video. No, I want to ask
Speaker 1: this question for the white men and the Asian men
Speaker 1: and the black girling. Black men, don't cheatse on masks
Speaker 1: up for them. It's cheating a deal breaker in the
Speaker 1: space I'm in, I think it would be, Yeah, the
Speaker 1: space of a cheating you a Cheatah, So you can't
Speaker 1: be judgmental and it not like that, but I feel
Speaker 1: like it's a way too. No, I just feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, we have to live out our lives online.
Speaker 1: A lot of times, cheating is something hard to go through.
Speaker 1: So having to go through that under a magnifying glass
Speaker 1: in front of everybody, I don't think I would be
Speaker 1: ready for that. You know, so you can cheat, but
Speaker 1: you can't let somebody absolutely it's rules. Maybe it's not
Speaker 1: a deal breaker because the way I look at it,
Speaker 1: he's like, Okay, is this a I missed up one
Speaker 1: time thing or crazy? This like this is what you do.
Speaker 1: But it's like, that's the difference. Though, you're cheating one night,
Speaker 1: but you pay at her rent money? Oh you burke?
Speaker 1: You like the girl like you paying her rent? You
Speaker 1: got her money, you given her money because I buy
Speaker 1: a woman of burking. I mean I like him. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: you received the range er over he didn't like that? Man,
Speaker 1: go ahead, bade it. I didn't buy it. Same difference,
Speaker 1: just the same difference. So yeah, I think honestly, but
Speaker 1: like she's saying, I kind of agree, you know it
Speaker 1: levels of cheating honestly, Like the emotional cheating is way worse.
Speaker 1: So what if you sleep with a man right and
Speaker 1: the condom gets stuck in you? Then you go sleep
Speaker 1: with the guy you really like and they find would
Speaker 1: you want him to forgive you that? If you got
Speaker 1: you gotta said that same paper down now, because why
Speaker 1: is it grabbing anything like that? Are you talking about
Speaker 1: man if y'all ain't got that grip man at y'all
Speaker 1: age something right now you need I'm weak. No, but
Speaker 1: situations like that, it ain't like that. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'd be being funny, of course, But like
Speaker 1: I said, I've had situations where I'm stuff. I slipped up.
Speaker 1: It's not like something I do all the time, and
Speaker 1: I'm just you know every time. No, I don't honestly.
Speaker 1: But okay, I'll say this honestly, but I'm being honest,
Speaker 1: but I feel like women don't be honest. I can't.
Speaker 1: I feel like this last situation I got out of, No,
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I was very faithful because, like I said,
Speaker 1: I wanted a certain outcome, you know, So I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, let me give one hundred percent of myself,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie. When I first moved to Atlanta,
Speaker 1: I got in a relationship. This was what twenty seventeen,
Speaker 1: and I was with somebody who, you know, who was
Speaker 1: kind of known, and it was just like I just
Speaker 1: kind of had checked out. But that was my comfort zone.
Speaker 1: So it was just kind of like I was just
Speaker 1: in a weird space, you know, and like I said
Speaker 1: I was young, I'm thirty three. Now I'm like, I'm out,
Speaker 1: I'm out the game. I'm retired, I'm t is tired.
Speaker 1: I really don't want two three like men like I
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. So you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: proud of my past, but I'm growing every day now.
Speaker 1: I'm an untouched cooling right now at the poor underscore minds.
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