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Speaker 1: Y'all just took over with you this Chris Brown, I've

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Speaker 1: officially joined the Breakfast Club. Say something, mother, I'm with it.

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Speaker 1: World Standreux Morning Show, Breakfast Club. Wake Up, wake up,

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Speaker 1: wake y'all. This is your time to get it off

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Speaker 1: your chat with you, man of blass. We want to

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Speaker 1: And lage y'alla being the card this morning, Rob was

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Speaker 1: going off, how are you doing? Brother? You always get

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Speaker 1: doing the Friday y'all doing? I'm doing I'm doing FD man. Listen, man,

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Speaker 1: it's time for some bars. Man. We gotta free from

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Speaker 1: This is my beginning, putting in work. Something the best

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Speaker 1: mic this whole game, sounding of life. Y'all on the bars,

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Speaker 1: when we like hip hop on that feet street breaking

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Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, I got something you ready? Hey, you

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Speaker 1: ountain high, you know, Oh, wide enough to touch the

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Speaker 1: wide enough to touch? Who? What was wide enough to

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Speaker 1: worry about it? Let me hear something, Let me get something. Well,

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Speaker 1: today's topic self destruction. It really ain't the wrap audience

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Speaker 1: that's bugging. It's one of two suckers and yourean brothers

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Speaker 1: trying to rob and kids on one another. The kids

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Speaker 1: it was supposed to be killing. It supposed to be killed.

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Speaker 1: These aren't original times you both did uh that was

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Speaker 1: supposed to be Thank you, old Rob. Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Guys had a cipher. Oh right, he

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Speaker 1: was spitting on each other. Hello, who's this ta? How

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Speaker 1: you doing good? Look? I don't even want to be

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Speaker 1: and I wanted to say my poem this morning. It's

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Speaker 1: entire remodeling my home. Okay, okay, I like this, I

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Speaker 1: like what it could be going. I need you to

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Speaker 1: have more enthusiasm me, okay, I had to divorce. Depression

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Speaker 1: said about the pain, beat up confusion and kicked out

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Speaker 1: the rain. Stressed tried to stay complaining everything, but I said,

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Speaker 1: don't look at me again, don't even say hey. Anxiety

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Speaker 1: kept trying to get back in along with this company

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Speaker 1: to call Sin and Gloom thought she still had a room,

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Speaker 1: but I cleaned the mall out with the biggest room.

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Speaker 1: I heard a knock at that George didn't sound the same.

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Speaker 1: I just knew it was Lie coming back to play

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Speaker 1: more games. But when I opened the door, piece to

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Speaker 1: it there with ease and comfort followups. Oh, I was

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Speaker 1: so pleased. Power called and said he was on the way.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy sent me a card. I got it on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Loved yet it was delayed. Was the only one that prayed.

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Speaker 1: Race poured up in the vine is called healing my

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Speaker 1: heart of the Jesus car Friendship came running, put her

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Speaker 1: with respect. Mercy, who was so kind of helping me

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Speaker 1: remodel my home, got rid of all the trash, down

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Speaker 1: the ugliness. That was amazing that I finally got y'all

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Speaker 1: uncle ahead, Where can people here or see some more

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Speaker 1: of your poetry. Well my boots on Amazon. Okay, what's

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Speaker 1: the name of it. It's entitled The Reverse. Yo, this Caesar,

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Speaker 1: what's up? Hey? Caesar's name every Sollivan? Do you want

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Speaker 1: to change your name? Now? Man, I'm just get off

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Speaker 1: my chess real quick. Don't starting forcing you walk to

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Speaker 1: you because I don't like when Charlotte Magne and if

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Speaker 1: you do that, you um, but yeah, leave get on

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Speaker 1: my chest. Um. I don't like when people be kind

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Speaker 1: trying to take other people back and still hold like

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Speaker 1: a like a like a brush against it. You know,

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Speaker 1: like for example, if a dude cheeks on a girl

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Speaker 1: and he like, I forgive you, I take you back,

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Speaker 1: but like one week years down the road, you still

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Speaker 1: on now, so this just happens. This just happened to you, Caesar.

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Speaker 1: We are you when we all be trying to, you know,

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Speaker 1: love our best lives out here. I feel you. Well,

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Speaker 1: chess eight hundred five eight five one on five one.

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Speaker 1: If you need to vent, hit it something now. It

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Speaker 1: was the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This

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Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest, whether

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Speaker 1: Hello this Yeah, what's out that? Tyler for Chicago, Tyler

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Speaker 1: from the shot? What I brought to get you off

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Speaker 1: your chest? Peace? Tyler. Hey, what's going on, Charlotte? How

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Speaker 1: are you selling dog Let's black and Holly favorite King?

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Speaker 1: That's what's up? That's what up? Hey man, I'm glad

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Speaker 1: the guys are here. Maybe y'all can help me out.

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Speaker 1: I'm in a little bit of a pickle. What's up, man?

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Speaker 1: What's your pickle? So, man, my big sister, she got

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Speaker 1: into some stuff. Man. Last weekend, she got in trouble,

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Speaker 1: a little roadways incident that went all the way left,

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Speaker 1: class accelity. So her bond was one hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: pay tens. I got a vacation coming up in two weeks,

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Speaker 1: forty five days. Number one. The bond was high and

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Speaker 1: me to learn a little lesson. Now, this is your

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Speaker 1: sister's first incident. Uh, yeah, but she's forty two years old.

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Speaker 1: Though she's forty two. What happened? She allegedly pulled out

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Speaker 1: a weapon or something? Yeah, she did. How do you

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Speaker 1: you bought a weapon. Brother, Let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: If you let her it was pretty bad. If you bad,

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Speaker 1: if you let her sit a little while longer with

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Speaker 1: she hit like she ended up getting to it with

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Speaker 1: it's pretty bad, bro. We got to get her a

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Speaker 1: really good lawyer, like I'm talking about, like a Jewish lawyer.

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Speaker 1: At the end, there's some good. There's some good black lawyers. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's some great black attorney. What he's speaking? When's the vate?

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Speaker 1: When's the vacation? Look, it's in two weeks. I was

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Speaker 1: supposed to go down and know it's my only vacation

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Speaker 1: time of the year, and I'm in a conflict. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to spend this money

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Speaker 1: don't know I'm going on vacation. Let me all right,

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Speaker 1: same incident when she bailed you out, that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. My older sister, my twin sister, yes,

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Speaker 1: but my older sister, I don't know. What does your

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Speaker 1: you to do? Right now? Forget because the only thing

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Speaker 1: that causes conflict is the devil. Keep my money, That's

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Speaker 1: what the That's what the Lord is telling me to

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Speaker 1: keep my money because I worked hard for Charlotte. Enjoy

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Speaker 1: your vacation, King, Enjoy your vacation, King. She's forty two

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Speaker 1: years old. She ain't got no money, did she got

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Speaker 1: enjoy your vacation, King, that's what I'm saying. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: When you come back from vacation, you'll have a clearer mind.

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Speaker 1: But what about if her husband ain't got no money,

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Speaker 1: I started to go fund you that money. Yeah, enjoy

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Speaker 1: your vacation, King, call us and tell us about your

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Speaker 1: vacation after you take it. Ye, man, enjoy your vacation. Man. Sister,

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Speaker 1: then y'all figure it out. Enjoy your vacation, brother, get

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Speaker 1: it off your chest. The Breakfast Club, Good morning, the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a

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Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Oh, Maria, welcome, Thanks for

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Speaker 1: having me a minute. Ya how you're throwing a long

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Speaker 1: time a man all as well? Tell me about your

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Speaker 1: morning routine, man, what do you do in the morning

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Speaker 1: when you wake up? Um, I definitely take a beat,

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Speaker 1: you know. UM usually do some breathwork, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, say some affirmations, and I pretty much get

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Speaker 1: because I remember when you was on your physical routine

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Speaker 1: power of choosing joy, because you know, I needed to

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Speaker 1: for me, you know what I'm saying, And the breath work,

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Speaker 1: you know, the mantras, all of these things that I'm

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Speaker 1: another level, just as far as emotional intelligence. We made

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Speaker 1: you not respond right because you've been going through a

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Speaker 1: ninety percent of people are gonna respond somehow somewhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: whether it's personal, whether it's relationship, whether it's family, whether

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Speaker 1: it's your group, whether it's your label, whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: don't respond right. Why. I am a methodical person. I

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Speaker 1: and I think it's been rumor that you know, he

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Speaker 1: talks about sexual abuse with Chrystokes. Have you ever seen

423
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: anything like that? I haven't. I haven't seen anything like that,

424
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But yeah, I haven't. Work. Yeah,

425
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: well he's still standing by the background dances remark or

426
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 1: you feel bad about that? Nah? You know what when

427
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,199
Speaker 1: I think about that, you know, I thought that was

428
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: funny because I'm gonna just you know, keep it playing

429
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: with you. You know what I'm saying, as you've seen

430
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: with the mother of my children, like, I'm never pressed

431
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 1: off of a woman choosing up or who she want

432
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: to be with. That's not my personality, you know what

433
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, Hey, women choose you know what I'm saying.

434
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: But for me, that's that's not what it was about.

435
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 1: That's trivial in a drop, you know what I mean.

436
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: In the ocean of the other things that we all

437
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 1: have shared an experience. That's another thing that's just like,

438
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: what does that have to do with anything? Bro? You

439
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,399
Speaker 1: know what I mean? What's up? Man? You know you

440
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: think all communication is done like because God forbid, we

441
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:00,959
Speaker 1: live in a real crazy world. You see things that's

442
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,239
Speaker 1: happening to people. If something was to happen to one

443
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 1: of them, wouldn't you feel some sort of way? Yeah, man,

444
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't want nothing to happen to nobody. And I

445
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,199
Speaker 1: wish the well man, you know what I mean, Like,

446
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: I really hope that they see through this experience and

447
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 1: they take a little bit more accountability, you know what

448
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 1: I mean, moving forward, and I like, I hope that

449
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: they do good things for that life. You know what

450
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I don't wish nobody bad. What does

451
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 1: She just asked me to ask you, what does watermelon

452
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 1: have to do with everything? Do you like water guys?

453
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: Do you like watermelon? Yes? Watermelon is the best, very healthy. Yes,

454
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: it is good for your heart, good for your skin,

455
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 1: thank you, and see so. And that's the window, and

456
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: that's the window that people just don't want to walk

457
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 1: through because they want to just stay at the you know,

458
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: sexual aspect of it. You know what I mean, Because

459
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 1: good things are like sex, you know what I'm saying,

460
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 1: And that's why we're all addicted to it, you know

461
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when you mix the fruit with

462
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 1: the sex, that's another level. You might want to try that,

463
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Try water Momon Taylor, I'm

464
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: telling you might want to try that. You want to

465
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: might just want to start by kissing somebody, somebody that

466
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: you love, well, watermelon, and see how you feel. It's

467
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: interesting they give you Flag four. But when Beyonce you

468
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: just randomly said it in the song, nobody cares randomly Watermelon.

469
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Speaker 1: You just don't be in Oh say it, Oh do it?

470
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Speaker 1: It's a problem, all right? Well were thanking guys the

471
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Speaker 1: power that you enjoy? All right? Well it's the breakfast

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Speaker 1: Today's topic time phone call eight hundred five eight five

479
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Speaker 1: one oh five one to join it to the discussion

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Speaker 1: with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it. I want everybody

481
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Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Sharlomagane the guy we are

482
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, we're

483
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 1: talking about a gentleman that call earlier had an incident

484
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: with his dad at a club. Let's listen. We just

485
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: celebrate my daddy fifty birthday just Friday, right, So me

486
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 1: and my boy tells him out to the club. You know, uh,

487
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: you know, we drunk, you get a few drinks. Man

488
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: and my homeboy end up tapping me hard, thinking something's

489
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: going to jump off. He like, look over there my

490
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: daddy and you're talking. Man, Damn man, what I'm the

491
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: best believe because I'm like, ain't no way this this

492
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 1: this is my daddy. How you know? The next morning, man,

493
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: I knew you know, I'll sleep doing it because he

494
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: didn't said nothing the whole morning. So I'm like, damn,

495
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: man's basically till my mom been married? Why there twenty

496
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: five year I don't want to go and blowing up

497
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do? Man? So we're asking eight

498
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: hundred and five A five, one oh five one? What

499
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: would you do? All right? Now, we got our resident

500
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: family on the line, trave what up? Draft? Here? What's up?

501
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: What's up? So there's only one solution I have. Yeah, basically,

502
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: the mama and the son gotta jump the daddy? Yell,

503
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Mama and the son gotta

504
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: jump the daddy because he was seating. Let me ask

505
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: you a question. Trap did Nate and his mama jump cal?

506
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: I want the phone with theirs my mama? Right? What

507
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: would you do? Mom? If I came home and told

508
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: you to mama trashyma? All right? How you doing? What

509
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: would you do if I came home and told johshon

510
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: the club with dad and he was tonguing down the

511
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: whole another? Man, That's where you get it from, boy, man,

512
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: that's where you get it from. Boy. You just like

513
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 1: your daddy. I knew that already. How would you feel

514
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: about that? How would I feel about that? Would be gone?

515
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: She said? Goodness, yeah, I definitely think that at the

516
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 1: end of the day is still cheating. All right? Who

517
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: said take your draft? Who said it's not cheating. Hello,

518
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: who's this? Good morning, Darren, Darren, Good morning. What you're

519
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: doing if that situation happened to you, Darren? Yeah, I'm snitching.

520
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm telling I'm telling mind, Dad gonna go because now

521
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: it's about her sneecy that can't go down. Gotta protect mom.

522
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: All Ron, thank you so much. Hello, who's this? Jungle Jim?

523
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 1: Jungle Jim? You got it? Brother? All right, Joe? You're

524
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: doing today? I'm doing well. How you doing? I'm good?

525
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: I'm good man. So so what should the gentlemen do? Bro?

526
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: I think the gentleman shouldn't uh call into the radio

527
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: first of all, to be talking about something like that

528
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: that's really personal. And I also think that y'all shouldn't

529
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: promote that stuff on the radio, promote what it's real

530
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: that happens, infidelity. I agree we shouldn't promote infidelity on

531
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: the radio. I've been listening to Charlotte Maagne to God,

532
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying. He's been speaking on

533
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: a gay stuff a lot. Man. You know what I'm saying.

534
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: You know what that does? Man? That plant seeds? Bro,

535
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And if you world word

536
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: I thought he was talking about infidelity, man, you're talking

537
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 1: about I thought you were talking about the daddy that

538
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: was going to the club with the with the fun

539
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: that was being gay or something like that. Right, you

540
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 1: think discussing things about people who are gay plant seeds.

541
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: I do. The biggest issue in this situation is that

542
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: the daddy's cheating on the mama, sir. That's the biggame.

543
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 1: Mama with a man though, right, that's the second issue

544
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: to me. It's a real life that really happened though,

545
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 1: that that really wasn't made up. It really happened. A

546
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: gentleman call. And I mean you say, we don't know

547
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: if his name, we don't know where he you know,

548
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: but you also know there's gay people in this world

549
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: for real. Should we ignore gay people? No, we shouldn't.

550
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: We shouldn't ignore the problem. That's what we shouldn't ignore.

551
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: What's the problem. What's the problem? Cheating is the problem? No,

552
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: cheating ain't never been a problem. Man, You know that

553
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: cheating is not a problem. Okay, you let me let

554
00:28:55,160 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: me okay, Charlemagne got let me get your position, man, please,

555
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: all right, we are your position because I would really

556
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: speak about something that need to be spoke about. And

557
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: I know y'all probably wouldn't want me to speak about it.

558
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: You know, ahead what you got to say? Okay, let

559
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: me let me let me say about the cheaking situation. Okay,

560
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: cheat and was something that was brought upon you? Now,

561
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: if you did something that brought back to you from karma,

562
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: then it comes back around to you. So's you cast

563
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: your question? How would you feel if your mom? How

564
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: would you feel if your girl cheated on you? I

565
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't feel no kind of way because it must have

566
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: been something I did in order to make her go

567
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: do that? Is that called victim planning? But someone gets

568
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: cheated on, you're saying it's their own fault that they

569
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: got cheated on. So you would stay with that is

570
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: and that's not playing a victim. That's not playing the victim.

571
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: But would you stay with her that's been aware of

572
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: something that you've done? That? So what you gotta understand

573
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: for every act? I respect that. No, he's absolutely right,

574
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: But would you stay with your woman if you cheat?

575
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: If she cheated on you? Would you stay with him? Yeah?

576
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: I'll stay with him. I have stayed with him. Well,

577
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: if you just asking, okay, so if you cheat on

578
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: your girl, that's her fuck. If I cheated on that's

579
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: not what he said. It must have been something that

580
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: she did in her previous relations right, so it's her fun.

581
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: I can't have you ever had a situation to where

582
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: a girl where you meet a person cheating and you

583
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: end up losing them the same way. Have you ever

584
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: had to happen before? I know you heard a thing.

585
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: I understand what you said. I totally understand what you're saying. Brother,

586
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: I totally get so when you go into relationships like that, Okay,

587
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: you think that you got away with something that you

588
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: might have been cheating on the man in the last relationship,

589
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: you do what I'm saying, and now in this relationship, Yes,

590
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 1: I totally get it. Every you know, everybody doesn't cheat.

591
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: Sometimes people get cheated on and they haven't ever cheated. No,

592
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: that's not scapable. You gotta understand the way you got

593
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: You can't be ignorant about how the world were now

594
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: and what you're saying. You're saying that you're saying, you're

595
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: saying it goes both ways. So let's say your girl

596
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: cheating on you, it's because of something that you were

597
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: lacking or something that you did that you weren't giving

598
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: her No, it's something that I did previously that came

599
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: back on me. Maybe are you do Let me ask

600
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: you this question. Do you understand what parma is? Yes,

601
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: but I don't believe karma is causing effect. I believe

602
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: karmen is created through actions. It's created through action. You're

603
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: positively correct. That is correct. It is made through actions.

604
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: So for every action, there's a reaction. Is that correct?

605
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: We agree with that? Equal opposite? Yes, equal opposite. I

606
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,719
Speaker 1: agree with that. Okay, Now what we're speaking on it's

607
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: parma right now, young man. You see what I'm saying

608
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: so so so now it don't matter what I'm gonna

609
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: give er on. Man, stop saying that. But now I

610
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: see what he's saying. What he's saying, what he's saying

611
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: makes perfect sense. Like he's not putting the blame on anybody.

612
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: He's just saying that. You know, if he got cheated

613
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: on in a previous relationship is probably because he cheated

614
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: on somebody and a relationship previous. Now, conversation with that,

615
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: you're pushing the narrative of gaining you know, that's what

616
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: that's what he started with. Well, I ignore that. I

617
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: don't give that any energy. Okay, all right, well, what's

618
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: the mold of the story? I forgot what we were

619
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: talking about. By the way, the moral of the story

620
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: is cheating is wrong and everybody should be allowed to

621
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: live the truth. And if you're in a situation where

622
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: you're not able to live your truth, and maybe you

623
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: need to get up out of that situation and stop

624
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: having everybody live a lie with you. It's the Breakfast Club.

625
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Hey morning, everybody is DJ Envy,

626
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne MC guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

627
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: We got special guests in the building. She's in here

628
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: with all this big queen energy. Ari Lennox, welcome to

629
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. How you feel this morning? All right?

630
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: Who's nervous? Who are you? Because you're just kidding. Yeah,

631
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: but it's just a little nervous. It's a very legendary show.

632
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: So what took you so long to come up? Hinton?

633
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: Fear Fear? Yeah? What you scared of y'all? Why? Yeah?

634
00:32:54,680 --> 00:33:00,080
Speaker 1: I love No, it's just you know, y'all can be

635
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: a little tough on people sometimes. Yeah, we've evolved, You've

636
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: changed the whole lots. Yeah, and I feel that I

637
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: feel that I want to if you don't mind, you know,

638
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: for people that don't know who Ari Lennox is or

639
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: where you're signed to or how you got your start,

640
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: I want to start from the beginning for those people.

641
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: Since this is your your to do a documentary. So

642
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: you're signed to J Cole. How did you get into

643
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: the music industry and signed to Cole? Well? I was

644
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: working at public storage and just dropping music on SoundCloud

645
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: and there's an amazing rapper named Omen. He loved my music.

646
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,479
Speaker 1: He told Eve and Cole about it, and he was like,

647
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,959
Speaker 1: we'll fly you out like tomorrow or tonight something like

648
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: that so that you can meet Cole and the studio

649
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And I was horrified. You know,

650
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: I just got the job. I didn't want to lose

651
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: the job. It was ten dollars an hour. It was

652
00:33:55,680 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: the highest paid job I ever had, ten dollars an hour. Yeah,

653
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to like lose this, so I

654
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: almost didn't go. But honestly, I think it was fear,

655
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: you know, fear of flying and things like that. But

656
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: I just I got over it. I drank Matt vodka

657
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 1: and I got on that flight. I was the first

658
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: flight as well, first flight in a long time, like years.

659
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: Did you lose your job? Yeah, I did, and I

660
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: was I was horrified and I started doing uber. There's

661
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: a lot here now. First of all, what were you afraid?

662
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: Why are you afraid of flying? Well? I had a

663
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: traumatic experience when I was young on a flight or

664
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: the crash or something. Yeah, well the engines went out

665
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: and so yeah and so as Yeah, so as we're

666
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: about to land, he's basically telling us to brace for impact.

667
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: And I was very young and just praying. But I

668
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 1: don't remember having fear before that moment. But after that moment,

669
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: I was just scared at trump. Yeah, so absolutely. Now

670
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: let's let's let's rewind. Now, you lose your job and

671
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: you become a noover driver. I can't see are you driving?

672
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 1: Am I good driver? It depends. I'm very safe at driving, yes,

673
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: but there are things that have happened where it's just

674
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,760
Speaker 1: like I could have been more a little bit more alert. Okay,

675
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: where you what was your star rating? Star rating? Oh?

676
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,479
Speaker 1: It started dropping like crazy, and and I don't I don't,

677
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: I don't know why some people thought I was driving

678
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: too fast or one note I got was I was

679
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: switching lanes too much, but I was trying to get them. Man,

680
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what he so. Yeah, I was public storage. No,

681
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: I didn't have no big fancy you know, tell me. Um,

682
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: it was just a nice black interior and a big

683
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: bowl of candy and drivers have candy. Yes, I did

684
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: have my charger. I would give because you know you

685
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 1: can't trust didymus I did? No? Not my I would never,

686
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean never. No. Did you make conversation or were

687
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: you quiet? I made some conversations sometimes. Um, three times

688
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: people threw up in my car? How does that work?

689
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: Do they pay for it? Or they pay for it

690
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: but it's nowhere near enough? And then you lose like

691
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: five days of work because your car stinks and you're traumatized. Yeah.

692
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: How long did you have the Uber job for? This

693
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: is interesting? This is my longest job today. Uber. I

694
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: probably did for like at least a year or something. Wow. Yeah,

695
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,479
Speaker 1: I guess the meeting didn't go well because you lost

696
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: your job, but then you started driving Uber. No, the

697
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: meeting went really well. I just you know, I had

698
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: to still make money. You know, they were still you know,

699
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: taking their time with the idea of like signing me.

700
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 1: It wasn't like an immediate This is my last uber

701
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: question when you saw that. When you saw the episode

702
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: insecureed we needs to rad was driving, did you say, oh,

703
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: I see me? Didn't see oh you know? Okay, yeah,

704
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: yeah she drove Insecure. Wow. I feel like a loser.

705
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 1: I need to you know why I never watched Insecure

706
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: because every time I would watch an episode, I would

707
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: just get so sad about my life and how like

708
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: sexy these men were and how I had no men.

709
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: But but that's my choice. I feel like that's my choice.

710
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: Maybe it is. It is my choice. Could you could

711
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: have a man? But it might not be that one.

712
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: Some people are okay with settling and saying Okay, I

713
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 1: don't want to be alone, and people make you feel

714
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: like that. But the truth is it's better to like

715
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: wait till the right person. Absolutely, And I've definitely learned

716
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: that like the hard way, so very like intentional particular

717
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: about like who I want to share my time with.

718
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: So I find myself for a loan a lot. Why

719
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: not changing the mindset a little? Like you see the

720
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: sexy man and you'd be like, I'm gonna have that

721
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 1: one day. I'm gonna have a man like that for

722
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: myself one day. I've been more adamant on like my standards. Absolutely,

723
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: I do do that. Like I'm more like, yes he

724
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: has to be fine, Yes, he has to have a

725
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: nice job. Yes, he has to be good to me,

726
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,439
Speaker 1: an effective communicator, like I am, like, have his own place.

727
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: He did have his own place. I am, you know,

728
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: chanting those things within. My assistant loves you, right, was Mercedes. Mercedes,

729
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: So she sent me a couple of questions. One of

730
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: the questions she said, you have a song called pof.

731
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: She's single, by the way, right, she says, have you

732
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: tried the dating app pof? And what you ever catfish?

733
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,439
Speaker 1: And then she goes, by the way, that dating site

734
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: is terrible? Oh, so have you ever tried plenty of

735
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 1: fish before? Absolutely? I met my first boyfriend on pof.

736
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: Really his name is John. I don't know if I'll

737
00:38:53,560 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: get in trouble for that, but yeah, I shouldn't shot

738
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 1: at that time of John lit? Right, John is gonna

739
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: be so lit when the interview come out. Yet kicked

740
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 1: up at some dating sites because people didn't believe that

741
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: it was you. Yeah, tender um they didn't believe it

742
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: was me, and I didn't want to blank my Instagram

743
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: so that people would know it's me and then maybe

744
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 1: reach out to me for the wrong reasons like secret rappers.

745
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: Well this is thank you. What is happening here? I

746
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 1: think I need to step outside more. But I'm finally

747
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: stepping outside and like meeting like nice, like you know,

748
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: enjoyable individuals. Let's go back to John for a second.

749
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: Why did you throw John back in the sea? Well?

750
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: John went to the military, and I felt like we

751
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: were growing apart and the affection was lacking. He called

752
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: me bro one and I was just like, you know what,

753
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: I couldn't yeah, and it triggered me. But and I

754
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: know it wasn't just bro. It's fine, you can call

755
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: me that. It's just I felt like our romance was

756
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: kind of dissipating, and so I think that was just

757
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: a triggering thing. And we had an argument. Now I

758
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: was like, well, I guess we're not together anymore, and

759
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 1: that's kind of where to protect myself. Unfortunately I do that,

760
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: and he was like, okay, fine, we're not together anymore.

761
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: And he was really serious. Well, his loss, how many

762
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: songs is he inspired? Um, probably po f the the

763
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 1: EP and my album Shape, but her Baby, that's literally

764
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: greatly inspired by him, and I'm so grateful. What was

765
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: the first relationship I ever had? Yeah, we're cool. We

766
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: check on each other sometimes. I ain't get an EP

767
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:44,839
Speaker 1: credit Shape. Well, I mean say when you just don't

768
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: want to get back together and back in tent. I

769
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: know women that swear by Shape butter Baby, like they

770
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: like that's like their their bible. So that's that's big

771
00:40:54,160 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: of him. You John I inspired Shape. But those T

772
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: shirts please? We got more with Ari Lennox when we

773
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: come back. It's the breakfast Clod Morning Morning. Everybody's DJ Envy,

774
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

775
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Ari Lennox. So you've met

776
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: a lot of guys like, well, you've dated guys and

777
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: they've been secret rappers. I thought that was really funny.

778
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: Oh when you date somebody and then all of a

779
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: sudden you find out later like your pastors to Cole

780
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: from Mere exactly, Oh my god, And it's the worst

781
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: it happens, like, but that's why I've learned with dating

782
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: acts specific questions, are you a rapper recording do you

783
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 1: play basketball? Specifically? Goodness, that is hilarious. That's a plot

784
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: for a movie or something. The girl thinks that the

785
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 1: guy is cheating, but he's really sneaking off the recording

786
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: escape exactly. And what did your mom and your family

787
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: say when you were recording with Cole and going out

788
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: there and recording because a lot of his parents don't

789
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: believe in the industry, right, my dad never really knew

790
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: what was going on in my life. Yeah, I mean

791
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 1: he knew. He was the one who always said you're

792
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: gonna be something one day, like he he always said that,

793
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: but like he was kind of always doing his own things,

794
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 1: so he never really was seeing that I was how

795
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: serious I was about music, which is why he was like,

796
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: you should be a nurse. But really he wanted to

797
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: be a nurse. And my mom was very calm, was

798
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: just like forward, like happy for me, but yeah, very supportive.

799
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: She never really knew this, like how serious he said that.

800
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: Your dad used to always tell you you're gonna be something,

801
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna be something. Is that put added pressure on

802
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: a daughter with wow, no, you know what? And it

803
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: sucks because we were not even speaking right now you

804
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: know what's going on. Okay, so we're not even speaking

805
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: right now, But I do feel like when you instill

806
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: certain things like that, it goes a long way for sure,

807
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 1: because um, that is the one area in my life

808
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: where I feel like I did really good right now

809
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: with you when your dad not now speaking, is it

810
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: something small that you can call him like because it's

811
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: so much so like it, Um, I really think it's

812
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 1: important for like people to be healed when they're bringing

813
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: kids into this world because it's just like that alone,

814
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: I feel like probably innately helped me in so many ways,

815
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: like always grinding and like that. But um, I could

816
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: also see the other like you know that I carry

817
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: and it's, um, I'm sure it has to do with

818
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: the others you know that you go through trauma. Let

819
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: me let me tell you something I learned in therapy

820
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: because the first time I had a breakthrough in therapy

821
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: was literally realizing all the daddy issues I had. Yeah,

822
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: So when me and my dad had a conversation and

823
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: I realized, damn, he was a human before he was

824
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: my dad, and he had his own issues self distribus

825
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: issues dealing with mental health issues, and he was just

826
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: doing the best he could with what he had at

827
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: the time. It allowed me to give him a lot

828
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: more grace. Yes, and got parents, I know, And I

829
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: feel like there needs to be a lot of group therapy,

830
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: and of course I want to continue my therapy alone,

831
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: but I think that would probably be best because I

832
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: know these are things I'm even carrying into my dating

833
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: life and I just don't want to have that weight

834
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: on me. And I do want to be more compassionate

835
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: because he went through a lot, you know, with foster

836
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: care and abandonment issues and all kinds of like dark things.

837
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 1: So I do recognize why he is the way that

838
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,720
Speaker 1: he is. And you've been really open about going to therapy.

839
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: When did you decide that that was something you wanted

840
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: to do this year? I was just tired of just

841
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: being a big ball of like traumas, like just being

842
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: unaware of like what was going on inside, and like,

843
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of times I could be so

844
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: triggered and it's just like, well why, And now I'm

845
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: realizing why somebody's just pretending like I don't exist, or

846
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: like not even looking at me, or like kind of

847
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: having like this arrogant nature can be so triggering, like

848
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: where did I see that like earlier in my life

849
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: or experience that, Like I'm starting to realize it never stops.

850
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: It's like a cycle. Like if you don't realize that

851
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: you're carrying all of this way, it comes out in

852
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: different ways and it people will be like, why is

853
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: she freak out? It wasn't even that serious. It was

854
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: a reminder. It was a flashback, probably a trigger without

855
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: even realizing where it came from. There's always something in

856
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 1: our childhood. Yeah, always something that happened in our childhood

857
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: and to bring you that happens to you an adult.

858
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: When it happened, you get triggered. You're like, oh, that's

859
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 1: what that's why therapy iss like, oh that's why I'm

860
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: reacting like yeah, what happened here? Yes, and it's it's

861
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: been really beautiful and like eye opening for sure. Are

862
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 1: you healing those those childhood wounds? Oh? Definitely, I want

863
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,959
Speaker 1: to keep going deeper. This start is happening for sure.

864
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: And you said you see a lot of that in

865
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: the relationships that you have now, Like what are some

866
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 1: things and patterns Like I know you said you want

867
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: to be more sympathetic, So what are some things that

868
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: you feel like, Okay, I gotta work on this, damn

869
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: probably how I'm communicating. I'm a very anxious person. So

870
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 1: basically instead of saying I've said this before, but instead

871
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: of saying like nobody cares, like it's just about well,

872
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like this is how I'm feeling,

873
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: like you know that I'm not being heard or you

874
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, I try to work on

875
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: how I'm communicating because I get so kind of in

876
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: my own anxiety and mess that I can kind of

877
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: be a little insensitive sometimes. So I just want to

878
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: work on like that. And when it comes to performing

879
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: and getting on stage, are you the type of person

880
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: who gets nervous before that or does it all go

881
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: away and that's where you feel most comfortable most times?

882
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 1: Are rarely get nervous like that nervous, but certain things

883
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: like TV performances like I'm shaking, like it's just certain things,

884
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 1: or Jasmine Jasmine like at the when we performed at

885
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: the BT Awards, like horrified, like I don't want to

886
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: let this legend down, like Jasmine Sullivan is everything. So yeah, question,

887
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 1: when you get triggered by secret rappers, do you remember

888
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: the struggle rapper who traumatize you. Oh, so many, so many,

889
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: Yeah's gracious, people will never hear of. There's so many, right,

890
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: people we never hear of. Like they just they won't

891
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: say it until like you like them, and it's just like, oh,

892
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm about to go to the studio. Why, like when whatever,

893
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: they don't know who you are when they want to

894
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: date you and act like, oh my god, like hey,

895
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: what what do you do? You know, and act like

896
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: they're not sure who you are. Yeah, I've definitely been

897
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: in a relationship where he acted like I was not

898
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: who I am at all. That's ridiculous. Yeah, I was

899
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: trying to feel appreciated. He kept trying to say it

900
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: was just it's ego, like, you know, it's not all

901
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: about you typing. But really I just felt like he

902
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: always kind of diminished everything about me, you know, like

903
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: kind of pretended like this singing part didn't even exist.

904
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 1: I hate people like that. Don't try to make me

905
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: feel small because you're clue. Yeah, oh my god, oh

906
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: my god, you know what. I want to know what

907
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: you know? What I mean? People that try to make

908
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: us feel small just because they haven't done what they

909
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: want to do. In life. Yeah, I guess so, but

910
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: now no Jesus, but now you know, like I just

911
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: my goal is just just a date nice people. It's

912
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: got to be hard though, because you're Arilenox now for

913
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: you don't know who well, you don't know who likes

914
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: you for you or who likes you because you're a

915
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: super Scars guys like side the you know plenty of

916
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: fish like where you meeting. Well, the other day I

917
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: met a guy at the fashion show that was really

918
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: nice and he was he was so fine, but the

919
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: day can get terrible. What was the date? Was his

920
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: dress probably better than yours want to dress? How he continue,

921
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: how you're sitting there? He walks over. He actually security

922
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: first while we were sitting in a seat, and he oh, dang,

923
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody to butts. Yeah, she's sitting next

924
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 1: to you, but I won't tell you that. You could

925
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: stop now. Yeah, he just he reached out and introduced

926
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: himself and like shook hands and it was really cute

927
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: and sweet. Was the first date the first day, I

928
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell you. It was a lovely restaurant, It

929
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: really was, but he was late. He was later. I

930
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: think it's bad during fashion Now he supposed to be

931
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: he was. He was hanging out with Jacole and um,

932
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: what what No, That's what I'm saying with Jacole my day.

933
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: The whole team is like, stopped my day. It's just

934
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 1: not all right. We got more with Ari Lynos when

935
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: we come back. It's the Breakfast Clobald Morning Morning. Everybody

936
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we are

937
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,760
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Ari Lennox, Charlomagne,

938
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: what was your intention with this album? The intention was

939
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: just me showcasing dating and its entirety from trying to

940
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: get away from dating. But used to bought us right back.

941
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: I know it's all right. It's on subject for and

942
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: it's where you are, you know what a lot of

943
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: people can relate to you. That's one of the main

944
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: questions people ask, how do you find somebody like, somebody good,

945
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: somebody nice? Do you think about marriage? Like? Are you

946
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 1: dating with the intention to get married? That's how you

947
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: find somebody probably is how finding yourself really, and so

948
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,959
Speaker 1: that's really what I'm focused on. I got a little

949
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: distracted with that recent date and then I was like, well,

950
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: let me see what else is out here? But I

951
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna pull back into like myself and just

952
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: kind of like change my number and just focus on

953
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: more beautiful books on trauma and just focus on me.

954
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: I got a great one for you, momenticum my grandmother's hands. Really. Yeah,

955
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: we also have a marian I'm bothered booking here? Wow?

956
00:51:54,800 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 1: Is that about traumas? Oh? Wow, look so adorable? Okay?

957
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, to get the book back. No singers,

958
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: no singers, no rappers. What about ball players? You said earlier? Oh,

959
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 1: if he played basketball, he doesn't mention that. Maybe a

960
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: soccer player? Is that? Where the money? That money yet?

961
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: Real money yet? Soccer? Okay, I'm just saying we have intentions,

962
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: that's all. Did you finish your thought on the intentions

963
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 1: of this album? The intention of the album is just

964
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: making beautiful music that sounds like I'm in love based

965
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 1: on crushes of people I've never even hung out with before,

966
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: like mean mug and hoodie crushes on fine men that

967
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: I never even on that one, and it gets to

968
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: blocking you towards the end, it gets the blocking you

969
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: And That's where I'm at right now with it, like

970
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 1: in real life. But yeah, it's just dating and the emotions,

971
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: and towards the end of the album, I'm definitely more

972
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: about like, Okay, it's time to protect my peace, Like

973
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: no one's gonna do that for me. And I find

974
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: it irresponsible to be moving around in life with all

975
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: of these unhealed you know, traumas and trying to you know,

976
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 1: get to know people. So I just, you know, I

977
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: want to check some things, some codependency things and anxiety.

978
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: Things that people fast about. Black people fast if they

979
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: ignore you, just black room. I do. Like one time,

980
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: I felt that there was distance happening, and I was like, hey,

981
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: can we talk. I feel like something is changing. He

982
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: was like, I thought we were good. I thought everything

983
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: was good. Um, you know what, I just need to

984
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: get something to eat. I'm gonna call you right back.

985
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: And so I got on the phone my dad and

986
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: me and my dad talked for like two hours wars

987
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 1: and I didn't hear from the guy and I'm looking

988
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: at my phone like wow, like and so I blocked him.

989
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: After that that was in We spoke one time since then.

990
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: I'm sure for some reason, I'm attracting avoidant people who

991
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 1: don't know how to communicate well. Well, you're probably attracting

992
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: what you are. That's why what you said about you know,

993
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: healing your own trauma before you get into another situation.

994
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: It's so important that right there, that's better than money.

995
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: You know how we are you know about to say,

996
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 1: you know how we always say you need a man

997
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: with money, but did you you know? You know, but

998
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: you really want a man that is doing the work

999
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: like you're doing the work every I got so many

1000
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 1: home girls say I can't date a man if they're

1001
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: not in therapy, they're not trying to heal. Wow, that's

1002
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: what I would want for myself, a secure individual and

1003
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 1: or someone who was striving to be secure and healing

1004
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: as well as I am healing and trying to heal.

1005
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, what did you think, because

1006
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 1: you know you are one of the leaders of this

1007
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: new R and B era, what did you think of

1008
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: did these comments that R and B is dead? I

1009
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: thought it was dismissive to all of the amazing legendary

1010
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: artists that have been in the game and that are

1011
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: also contributing. I mean, from Mary J. Bloige to Jasmine

1012
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: Sullivan to Summer Walker to elm to Money Long Van

1013
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: Jesse Lucky Day, Lucky Day, Aaron Ray. There's so many

1014
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: of us t Nariel, Brent Faiz, Jalen, Jossi her Her Yes, yes,

1015
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: let's you know, Jill Scott Sissa, like everyone is still

1016
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 1: killing it and dropping music. And it was dismissive just

1017
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: because I don't know. Yeah, Tank exactly amazing. Yeah, I

1018
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: don't know why he said that it was not nice,

1019
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:52,399
Speaker 1: but I do love all that he's contributed to music.

1020
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: So it's no shade, but it's like bee more nice

1021
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 1: to the people that are really you know, we're out

1022
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: here still like stop it. Often wonder when you was

1023
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: young trying to get on, what did you think the

1024
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: industry would be like? And what have you realized? You

1025
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,959
Speaker 1: know it really is. But I think it was gonna

1026
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 1: be like I don't remember. I just knew. I just

1027
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: I saw baw Waw up there and Joe Joe, and

1028
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be like them, like when I

1029
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: was young, Um, what did I think? I don't know

1030
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,439
Speaker 1: what I thought, Like maybe I thought there was gonna

1031
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: be like a lot of like devil people illuminatis. I

1032
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 1: haven't yet to see that. I thought there would be

1033
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: a lot of cocaine. Yet I've yet to see the runs.

1034
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: I've never seen it before, never sacrifice a family member

1035
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: or something. I don't want to think I've never seen

1036
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: before either. No, yeah, exactly, I've been offered it, but

1037
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: I've never seen it. It was never been offered, I

1038
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 1: don't believe or I offered it twice in my life,

1039
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 1: but they didn't like have it in their hand. Wow,

1040
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: they were like deep party, Yeah, then I have been

1041
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: offered it before. Then, well yeah in the bathroom. Yes,

1042
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: that's what that meant. Oh my god, you've been offered cocaine.

1043
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,799
Speaker 1: I have been offered cocaine. Say all your friends are

1044
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: in the loom. We do appreciate you, We appreciate your music.

1045
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: And you know, I was kind of hurt when you

1046
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: said you don't want to do interviews anymore. I was like,

1047
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 1: don't let one bad interaction with somebody mess up somebody else,

1048
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: you know. And I'm glad you're over that, and I'm

1049
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: glad you're doing interviews again. Thank you. I want people

1050
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: to understand that was just a part of my anxious

1051
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: nature of like what I met earlier, when I was

1052
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 1: just like nobody cares. I kind of worst case scenario

1053
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 1: and jumped to like the extreme. I'm kind of black

1054
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 1: and white with things, especially Yeah, and I definitely didn't

1055
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,919
Speaker 1: mean that. I was just so heartbroken by the fact

1056
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: that he would release something that we didn't agree on

1057
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 1: him releasing, and I just kind of felt ambushed, you know. So, Yeah,

1058
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: get into a record off the album. What you want

1059
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: to hear? Oh? I guess boy bye, because that's the

1060
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: real sexy record. I love this Lucky Days awesome. I

1061
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you on TV and movies too.

1062
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: I see that in your future as well. That's so sweet.

1063
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: And we need to get with Sean de Rymes and

1064
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: do this mini series how to Get Away with Rapping?

1065
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, struggle rapping, brilliant little thrillers. Yes, we

1066
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: are athletics. Thank you for joining us. It wasn't that bad.

1067
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: It was beautiful, this energy. Wow. And we prayed before

1068
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: we came. Are you talking? Why are you talking? Yes?

1069
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: Why do you talk so much? Because I love you?

1070
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: I do the piece. No, not the day you talk

1071
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: too much? You guys? This about about? Don't we prayed

1072
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: together as a family. What are you talking about? God?

1073
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: We said an intention before the interview. That's what we

1074
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: did radio felt that they don't ever date a radio personality.

1075
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: I promise, okay almost, I won't. Really, that's all. No more.

1076
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 1: You can't do that. That's payola playing at breakfast club.

1077
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: Your morning's will never be the same. When it's time

1078
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: to get with someone special, the best way to do

1079
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: it is with Magnum large size condoms. That gold foil

1080
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: wrapper is a badge of honor, and it means you're

1081
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: protected and you take care of things with comfort. Accept

1082
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,960
Speaker 1: no substitutes. Bring the pleasure with the gold standard Magnum

1083
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: large size condom. I was born to donkey. It's the donkey,

1084
00:59:54,200 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: don't get that's devil. I'm gonna make this quick. It's

1085
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: just reinforcing a point. Donc gives the Dave goes to

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01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: every single individual who got a fraudulent PPP loan. Because

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01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: if you haven't heard, President Biden signed the bill aimed

1088
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: at helping crack down on pandemic relief fund. Oh what

1089
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive.

1090
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: All right, there's not one single solitary human I know

1091
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: with good sense who participated in p PPP fraud. Why

1092
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: because we all knew it was too good to be true.

1093
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: We all knew there was only one place fake LLC

1094
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 1: Twitter was gonna end up, and that's in PPP prison. Okay,

1095
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: PPP period. And that's why a couple of days ago

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01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: President Joe Biden signed the PAD bills to assist prosecutors

1097
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: cracked down on pandemic relief funds. Let's listen to what

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01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: he had to say. And today I'm shigning two bipartisan

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01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: bills and will give the federal local prosecutors more time

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01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: to hold criminals accountable for the fraud and American people

1101
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: during the once in a century pandemic. American people deserve

1102
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: to know was that their tax dollars or being spent

1103
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: as in ten. My message to those cheats out there

1104
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: is this, you can't hide. I'm going to find you.

1105
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna make you payback or you stolen, and hold

1106
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 1: you accountable under the law. I'm going to sign them

1107
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: in the law. That's true for another piece of my

1108
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: economic plan, the belief and the United States of America.

1109
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: There's nothing beyond our capacity. Nothing when we work together

1110
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: as the United States of America. That's just these bills

1111
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: represent y'all know, President Biden, love locking black people up,

1112
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: and y'all just helped them. See, I'm not wishing jail

1113
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: on nobody. I just understand it the consequences to all

1114
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: our actions. And for some reason in this era, people

1115
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: have forgotten that. All right, folks want to do whatever

1116
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 1: it is they want to do and then get mad

1117
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: when they don't get away with it. It's unreal to me.

1118
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: The mindset is crazy, okay. And these bills that Biden

1119
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: signed will extend the Statute of Limitations for prosecuting cases

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01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: of fraud against the government for ten years, so for

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01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: the next decade. If you did a fraudulent p P

1122
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 1: piece camp, you better act like you were rapper from

1123
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: Atlanta who's been warned by the DA that more ricos

1124
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: are on the way over the next sixty days. By

1125
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 1: the way, she said that three weeks ago, so y'all

1126
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: got about three or four more weeks left. But I

1127
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: just want to know what made y'all think y'all could

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01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: get away with this fraudulent PPP loan scam in the

1129
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: first place. Some of y'all never owned a business, never

1130
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: ran a business, nothing, But all of a sudden, you're

1131
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: creating these fake LLC's lying about the number of employees

1132
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: you have, about the profits you made. We told y'all

1133
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 1: this was gonna lead to you going to PPP prison,

1134
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: and you did it anyway. Okay, I don't feel sorry

1135
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: for y'all. Okay, I feel sorry for all the small businesses,

1136
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: all the small black businesses who couldn't get any PPP money,

1137
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: who wanted to relief, who needed to relieve, and for

1138
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: whatever reason, couldn't get it. But all of y'all out

1139
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: there with fake LLCs like Deally Nuts LLC and Beef

1140
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: King LLC and Rita Week Club LLC. What you'd like

1141
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: to know who those people were. Those were actual businesses

1142
01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 1: who claimed to be farms. But just what these farms?

1143
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: And I got farms in air quotes? Guess what? These

1144
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: farms were located in beach towns in New Jersey. Okay,

1145
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 1: hundreds of PPP loans went to fake farms and places

1146
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: where there is no damn farms. All right. There was

1147
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: an online lending platform called Cabbage that sent three hundred

1148
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:15,520
Speaker 1: and seventy eight pandemic loans worth seven million dollars to

1149
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: fake companies, mostly farms. Meanwhile, real farms couldn't get this

1150
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: kind of relief This is what makes me feel like

1151
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: all of this was a set up. Okay, how are

1152
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 1: so many legitimate businesses ignored couldn't get the relief they needed?

1153
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: But all these fake LLCs weren't. For all you YouTube

1154
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: conspiracy theorists out there, this is a conspiracy you can

1155
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: run with because they killed two birds with one stone.

1156
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: In this case, they killed two niggas with one loan. Okay,

1157
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: because if you're a small black and brown business who

1158
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 1: couldn't get a PPP loan, you probably ended up ultimately

1159
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: losing your business. So they killed black and brown businesses.

1160
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: And if you're a black or brown person who got

1161
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 1: a fake LLC, now you go into prison. And I

1162
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: don't even have to tell you how incarceration kills families.

1163
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: So therefore, this was the ultimate trap. Okay, you killed

1164
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: two niggas with one loan. It was clearly a trap,

1165
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 1: and y'all fell for it. I don't feel remorse for

1166
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: any of you, Okay. PPP was intended to help businesses

1167
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: make payroll during the pandemic, with those loans being forgiven

1168
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: if companies met specific criteria. Okay. It was for small

1169
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 1: businesses to stay afloat, not for you niggas, the ball

1170
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: out on boats. Okay, I don't feel sorry for any

1171
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 1: of y'all, and I am sick of folks acting like

1172
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: there's not consequences to their actions. All right. We see

1173
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: people doing things that are going to lead them to jail.

1174
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: We tell them they're going to jail. We can clearly

1175
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: see what the consequences of what they are doing is

1176
01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: gonna be. We warn them, they do it, they get busted,

1177
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: and now we feel sorry for them. No, not Lenard,

1178
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: not Uncle Shlah. Okay, y'all deserve to be afraid, all right,

1179
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 1: very afraid over the next decade. You made a choice.

1180
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: And I hope those crab legs and scrimps and all

1181
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: that cast and meagles was worth it. Please give everyone

1182
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 1: who got a fraudulent PPP loan the biggest he hull.

1183
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: Just my thoughts, just the way I'm feeling. At the time.

1184
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: It was a pandemic, you know what I'm saying. People

1185
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: was getting them banned. So I guess it's over now

1186
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 1: it's been over. Oh it was over two years. About

1187
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: to be a jail demic. It's gonna be a jailed demic,

1188
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,919
Speaker 1: you hear me. We told y'all this was gonna happen.

1189
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 1: We live. You go back and you listen to the

1190
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club during Kobe, we told you p P P

1191
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: was gonna lead the p P prison. Okay, we saw

1192
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: what this was going. Y'all didn't listen. Hey, now you

1193
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: got a decade to watch. You back, all right? The

1194
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Dank morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

1195
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

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01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: some special guests joining us, Alexandrea from The Poorman's Podcast. Welcome, Hi,

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01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for having us difficulty, but we got it together.

1198
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: How y're feeling this morning? We're feeling good. Let's start

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01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: from the beginning. How you get this podcast started? How

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01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 1: did y'all meet? Now, Oh, Claude, we was drinking and

1201
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 1: real making money. It was called prime Time. It wasn't Houston,

1202
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 1: but it wasn't open at long No, it was like

1203
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 1: it was DC, the guy that used to own be Live.

1204
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: So they were trying to like a starlets in like

1205
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: starlets whack with the ya ya y'all weld have drinking,

1206
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: chilling and what made y'all meeting and Lincoln connect? Because

1207
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: usually girls when they meet, they don't really connect. Y'a

1208
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: connected over y'all baby heads. I don't say something about

1209
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: it because we was laying them down this morning. We

1210
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 1: don't like we gonna light them edgy. No. But I

1211
01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: think the reason we connected was because like she didn't

1212
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:49,959
Speaker 1: know how to make drinks at all, and real bart

1213
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 1: I would, but she was a good talker, like she

1214
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: was finessing it because I was making the drinks, and

1215
01:06:57,160 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 1: that we were like making a lot of money to oh,

1216
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 1: like the first night that we worked together, because when

1217
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 1: we were actually working together for a few months before,

1218
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 1: we actually talked. And then one night this guy came

1219
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: to the club and he was talking to me, and

1220
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, he's talking about girl he went along island.

1221
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how to make that. I mean he

1222
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 1: was asking for anything. He was like, man, yeah, like

1223
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: I know how to make it. He the see and cold,

1224
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: and so I think we made like four thousand dollars

1225
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 1: damn yeah, and we're splitting like I'm trying to figure

1226
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 1: out what well it was just because like I think

1227
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: a lot of it is he was just so impressed

1228
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 1: that she could actually make a drink, But it was

1229
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: really me making drinks like you know, so we just

1230
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 1: kind of got I was like, Okay, this is what

1231
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Yeah, you're gonna take all these I'm

1232
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 1: gonna make the drinks. Just let me know what you need.

1233
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 1: And it was like the service was fast because we

1234
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: was working together. But they didn't know that. That's what

1235
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 1: made y'all start the podcast? How did y'all start? What

1236
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: was that decision? You? Like people whenever where around people,

1237
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: they always be like y'all so crazy and y'all so funny,

1238
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 1: like y'all need y'all own show. Y'all need to people

1239
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 1: need to see this because we really are like these

1240
01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: off camera too. But I feel like too, like you

1241
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 1: know how when people say that, everybody feel like, yeah,

1242
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: they have a good conversation. I need a podcast. Oh

1243
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 1: they've have a good time. God girl, we need to reality. Yes, right,

1244
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: that's not what God got planning. But it's a little

1245
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: different because I mean we wouldn't even be doing We

1246
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 1: would just be sitting on the couch at somebody house

1247
01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 1: people like man like it was every time, I mean,

1248
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:25,679
Speaker 1: no matter where we went, and we're in front of strangers,

1249
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 1: people who knew it. It was like Okay, well, let's

1250
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: like start a YouTube channel. We never thought that we

1251
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: were going to get into podcasts because her ex gave

1252
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: her the idea to start the YouTube. H because we

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01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 1: used to do like a little show called wind Out

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01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 1: on Wednesday before we switched it over the Poor Mine,

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01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 1: and we got that idea from him. And then one

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01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,600
Speaker 1: of her friends was already a podcaster and she was like,

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01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,639
Speaker 1: y'all need to turn it into a podcast because y'all

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01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 1: can make away more money and monetize this. When we

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01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:54,440
Speaker 1: switched the name to Poor Mine, who was your friend Candy? Okay,

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01:08:54,600 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 1: and who was your ex? Nobody? Cool? It ain't no,

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01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: it ain't no. Our listeners are very very knowledgy, so

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01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: as soon as I name they're gonna be like I

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01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 1: say it, but so somebody people know? Um people yeah,

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01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: used the people that no, people don't know DM me Homi,

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01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you. Don't say that like what's up?

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01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:31,519
Speaker 1: What's up? That's worth and the work brothers said, brother,

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01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: he must be terrible to be terrible. Good. No, he's

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01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:37,640
Speaker 1: not a terrible person. I feel like, you know, a

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01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:42,919
Speaker 1: terrible rapple. Oh my god, Okay, let me say this honestly,

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01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: he can write. He got some good lyrics. I feel

1271
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,720
Speaker 1: like the it's difference between making good music being like

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01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 1: a lyricist like he has. He can write all day.

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01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 1: Raps are good songs, not so much. But you never know, No,

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01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 1: you you're gonna be like this is ass what was

1275
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 1: you thinking? So for people that doing the podcast, what

1276
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 1: are y'all talking about? And discussing the podcast? We talk

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01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 1: about everything, I think of what A lot of talk

1278
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:19,280
Speaker 1: about dating, we talk about six we talk about music.

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01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: I mean, we really just be navigating through life. I

1280
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: think that that's one of the great things about our

1281
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 1: podcasts that you can see the growth, like because we

1282
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: keep up all of the old contents, so you could

1283
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: look back from four years ago and really just see

1284
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,080
Speaker 1: us grow. We see the evolution of the conversations. At

1285
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: one point we just talk about yeah, like men with

1286
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,719
Speaker 1: money and that I think a lot of times people

1287
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: have the podcasts all wrong, you know, like because all

1288
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 1: of the clips that happen to go viral be us

1289
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:46,560
Speaker 1: talking about men with money or you know, dating and

1290
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, you know, how to get this.

1291
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 1: But I feel like our podcast is really about like

1292
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 1: celebrating women and what we deserve and you know, having

1293
01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: higher standards and getting that confidence that you never had,

1294
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 1: and you know how we can talk about music and

1295
01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: just showing us in a different light because of course

1296
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: when people look at us saying, you know, we're sexy,

1297
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 1: we like to be batties, but it's so much more

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01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: than that to us, you know. So I feel like

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01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: that's who the podcast is for, because we like to say,

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01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: you know, traditionally, like batties don't listen to podcasts, you know,

1301
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 1: they just be outside. So we feel like this is

1302
01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 1: a lane for the batties, find a bat for those

1303
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 1: who may not know what I mean. I definitely feel like,

1304
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 1: you know, you have to look the part, but that secondary.

1305
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:35,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's more of a mindset thing. You know,

1306
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: you can't be musty and bad. To me, like a

1307
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 1: baddie is somebody who like they're confident first of all,

1308
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: like they walk in a room, it doesn't matter you

1309
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 1: know how other people view them. They know how they

1310
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 1: view themselves. And I feel like that's with us, Like

1311
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 1: we don't care what clip goes viral or what y'all thing.

1312
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 1: Y'all can be like hot, these birds get on breakfast

1313
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: club because it's gonna be a lot of people saying

1314
01:11:56,200 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: that I don't care, you know what I'm saying. So

1315
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,479
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like a confidence thing, you know.

1316
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: And like I said, we cannot act like. It's not

1317
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: the looks thing too, Like that's what you gotta be.

1318
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,439
Speaker 1: But it feel like you gotta be a nice person,

1319
01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you can't be a baddy and

1320
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: be mean. Yeah, like I mean, we don't like mean girls.

1321
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 1: Girls just be mean. It's helping out reasoning. What if

1322
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:24,679
Speaker 1: you nice, confident and musty, you're not a bad musty?

1323
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: People be coming around like you're You're not. We got

1324
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:49,639
Speaker 1: more with the ladies from Poor Minds r Lex Andrea,

1325
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:51,679
Speaker 1: So don't move, It's to Breakfast Club. Co morning. Everybody

1326
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 1: is t j Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we

1327
01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Lex

1328
01:12:57,439 --> 01:13:00,640
Speaker 1: Andrea from the Poor Mind's podcast. So y'all say, y'all diding, No,

1329
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: y'all didating. I'm thinking right now? Yeah, relationships right right, M.

1330
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 1: I actually just got out of a situation. So suation

1331
01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 1: relationship because it's like it's been complicated, it's been a

1332
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: very long time of a lot of back and forth.

1333
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm single now, So what made you

1334
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: finally break up? He went back this way, not this

1335
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 1: one week. But no, I'm still like, I'm at a

1336
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:31,560
Speaker 1: different point in my life. You know, I've had a

1337
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: lot of changes, a lot of things going on. I

1338
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 1: just feel like we're in two different places. It ain't

1339
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 1: no bad blood, Like I still got love for him,

1340
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:39,840
Speaker 1: you know, it ain't. No. I'm not a girl that like,

1341
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: oh I hate him and I'm gonna talk down on him.

1342
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 1: I've never been break up. What was the situation with

1343
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 1: finally say it was over? I mean a lot of

1344
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 1: stress in our relationship, Like, no, not that. I mean

1345
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm busy. I travel a lot. You know, he has

1346
01:13:56,240 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: a lot going on. That problem batty life right now,

1347
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 1: So I gotta do. Do men get jealous because they

1348
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,759
Speaker 1: see y'all, you know, starting to grow in this space.

1349
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't really witnessed jealousy so much,

1350
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 1: but I think that it's weird because a lot of

1351
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 1: guys that I used to talk to be trying to

1352
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: like come back to me, and they be trying to

1353
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,640
Speaker 1: do like extravagant things. So it's all mexing me now,

1354
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: And I think that's very strange because it's like, what

1355
01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 1: made you have such a slitting and change of heart.

1356
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 1: I like a sudden change of heart. I don't like

1357
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:30,639
Speaker 1: with you like I mean, but still like I'm gonna

1358
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 1: tasting it, but still to leave me alone. Right, facts

1359
01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 1: we always take together expensive as it was a while back.

1360
01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 1: But he put that helped me get a car off

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01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 1: my car. I got a Dodge Challenger, so you know,

1362
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 1: and then I got I got him to pay off

1363
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:50,240
Speaker 1: my car. I wat it, I'm pocketing that money and

1364
01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 1: did something else. No, it's I used to be a

1365
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,800
Speaker 1: responsible batty in the streets, you know, like you get

1366
01:14:56,880 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: money from a man, girls just buying bags and shoes.

1367
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: I was the one, like, let me pay my bill?

1368
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 1: About you most expensive gift? How about me a Range Rover?

1369
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:12,560
Speaker 1: Last year new bills payment like ninety thou Yeah, I

1370
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: don't care. They should have paid for the student loans.

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01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: You can sell it. You can't be my X after

1372
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 1: I pay your student loans off. You can't just walk

1373
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 1: away from me after that where you brought up student

1374
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 1: loans like he she can progress in life. Now, Wait

1375
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: a minute, how do you come with him? Yeah, loan,

1376
01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: I just walk from a man after that was two

1377
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,720
Speaker 1: different guys. Okay, well how do you listening for both

1378
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 1: of you? How do you just walk away from a

1379
01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 1: man who paid your student loans? If he talks right,

1380
01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 1: he's long away. But honestly, I feel like that's what

1381
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: we talk about on the show a lot. I feel

1382
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: like a lot of young women they out here like

1383
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,680
Speaker 1: chasing these guys with money and then they have no

1384
01:15:55,840 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: like end goal. And I'm not saying, you know, use people,

1385
01:15:59,000 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying, but I feel like in

1386
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 1: certain situations, I mean in certain situations, so like we

1387
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:05,960
Speaker 1: know what it is, Like, let's not be dumb. These

1388
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: men want sex, you know, and women want money whatever.

1389
01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:09,720
Speaker 1: So if you're young and doing that, at least be

1390
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 1: smart about it. So that's what we try to tell people.

1391
01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 1: At least be smart, Like don't be out here trying

1392
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,799
Speaker 1: to keep up with her and buying Rick Owens, buying product,

1393
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,559
Speaker 1: going doing all this. So for us, like when you're

1394
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 1: dealing with the man and he put you I'm not

1395
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: saying that, but like I just mean as far as

1396
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 1: like when you're dealing with a guy who buys you

1397
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 1: a bag, you'll leave? So why can't I deal with

1398
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:42,040
Speaker 1: a guy who pay off my student loans and live before?

1399
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 1: But Michael cards don't count. Michael, course, I might have

1400
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:48,560
Speaker 1: to take away your bad he calls. Years ago. I

1401
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,600
Speaker 1: ain't had no been as minor that bad. Yea, it

1402
01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:52,280
Speaker 1: used to be popping. I remember I had a Michael

1403
01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: Cords White. How do you break up? How you break

1404
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 1: up with somebody that brought your rangel? How's it over together?

1405
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 1: Tell them the wim me though? What's the wind? You know?

1406
01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 1: But I didn't have sex with him? I said absolutely,

1407
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 1: just said he was a guy. Yeah, he was a guy,

1408
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 1: and you never let him smell it. No hams, no

1409
01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:20,160
Speaker 1: break this down? So what happened? He just hate babe,

1410
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 1: I want to buy your rain. So I met him

1411
01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 1: through one of my other friends, and so I guess

1412
01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 1: he wanted to talk to me. We had hung out

1413
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 1: a few times, and all of a sudden he just

1414
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:29,640
Speaker 1: started texting her and he was like, I want to

1415
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 1: buy Drey another car. Yeah, And so she was like

1416
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 1: of course, she was like hell, yeah, I don't here

1417
01:17:35,479 --> 01:17:37,240
Speaker 1: buy it. So then she was texting me and she

1418
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:38,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh, what kind of cars. He was like.

1419
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, I either want a Jelly

1420
01:17:40,240 --> 01:17:42,760
Speaker 1: Coop or I want a rain Drover, and he was like, okay,

1421
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it. And then he started texting Legs

1422
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:46,240
Speaker 1: saying the same thing. He was like, yeah, I just

1423
01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: gonna want to get drag another car because I still

1424
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 1: have my other car too that I had before he

1425
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 1: bought me to Range Rover, and so he tried to

1426
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: buy one and then he didn't go through something happy,

1427
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,720
Speaker 1: and then something happened he couldn't get it. Then we

1428
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 1: got into it. A few weeks later. I blocked him

1429
01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 1: and stuff, and then all of a sudden he just

1430
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,439
Speaker 1: popped up with this white Range drugger. He finally stole

1431
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 1: somebody credit card that work. Yeah, probably happened. He didn't try.

1432
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 1: He didn't try to have sex with you, Smash nothing.

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01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 1: Of course he did. But I just wasn't interesting because

1434
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:23,800
Speaker 1: he was corny, because even I knew he was doing

1435
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 1: it because he wanted like recognition, because even when he

1436
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 1: told me that he got the car, he was hitting

1437
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:31,599
Speaker 1: her up in my friend He was like, oh, yeah,

1438
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:33,240
Speaker 1: I want to take all of y'all to eat, and

1439
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm an hire a videoographer. It was just weird. That's

1440
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:42,960
Speaker 1: that's why I said the finesse came in because I

1441
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 1: was definitely helping. I'm like, yeah, she cares about you,

1442
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 1: bro get the call, and then she needed the call,

1443
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 1: and then I ended up out. He was going around

1444
01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: telling people in Atlanta that he had sex with me,

1445
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:55,160
Speaker 1: and he never had sex with me, so I was like,

1446
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:57,640
Speaker 1: I knew he was corning somebody behind it. So he

1447
01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 1: was like nobody here Roman slide. You supposed to let

1448
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 1: a rumor slid when somebody said a hand sex, you're

1449
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 1: a call. So I didn't. That's in jail right now. Yeah,

1450
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:19,960
Speaker 1: p scam. He enough for something. But that's what happened

1451
01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:22,560
Speaker 1: when you're not a nice person. Wow, man bought you

1452
01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 1: a call. But you know that's a good point because

1453
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: I always say, just because somebody does something good for

1454
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: you doesn't mean they're good for you. And you don't

1455
01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,640
Speaker 1: mean heior motives, you know, like that wasn't coming from

1456
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:34,920
Speaker 1: his heart. So you got played. But you said earlier

1457
01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:37,639
Speaker 1: that men and women know what it is. Women want

1458
01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 1: money and men want sex, So is that really an

1459
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,639
Speaker 1: Ontario motive? I mean, but it was more than that though.

1460
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't just a sex for him. Like I said,

1461
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: he wanted to recogn it like he wants to be.

1462
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: He wanted to date her, but not because it was

1463
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:54,000
Speaker 1: like he really liked her. Like he was ugly. He

1464
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 1: kind of looked like a lesbian. Yeah, he's one of them.

1465
01:19:57,439 --> 01:20:01,200
Speaker 1: He looked like, yeah, he's given the kind of like

1466
01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:06,680
Speaker 1: if you saw him, you because he was very femininely,

1467
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:10,120
Speaker 1: like if you saw dram with it, you'd be like, damn,

1468
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 1: i't know, asked me vibes. He was definitely like because

1469
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 1: and then he tried to be my bestie, so I

1470
01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:21,519
Speaker 1: was he would be texting her. It was so weird.

1471
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 1: He was like yeah, he was like, I gotta get

1472
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 1: he texts you one time. What he said, I got,

1473
01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 1: I gotta get dread this car because she said she

1474
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 1: gonna what I could to Christie like I said, I

1475
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 1: was gonna give him yeah, and she didn't, but I

1476
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:44,600
Speaker 1: said that she was he said she was. I love it. Now.

1477
01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 1: We live for each other all the time, Like two

1478
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:53,320
Speaker 1: months ago about what we just be lying for each other.

1479
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,679
Speaker 1: I can't even remember. It'd be like small small things,

1480
01:20:57,320 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 1: We'll just give each other that look and I'd be like, oh,

1481
01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 1: I gotta lie. We got more with the ladies from

1482
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:04,200
Speaker 1: Poor Minds I lex Andrea, so don't oof. It's the

1483
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:16,599
Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody is DJ Envy,

1484
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 1: Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club

1485
01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: were still kicking it with lex Andrea from the Poor

1486
01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:25,479
Speaker 1: Mind's podcast, Charlemagne, lex, I heard you said that women

1487
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 1: cheat better than me. I absolutely believe it because black

1488
01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 1: men don't cheat. So of course y'all would be black

1489
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 1: black men that is. I'm a black man. I got

1490
01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:38,680
Speaker 1: a mirror. Black boys cheat. Men don't cheat. You know

1491
01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:41,560
Speaker 1: it goes. I feel like women cheat batter I'm not

1492
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 1: eating on huh a black boy. I don't even know

1493
01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: if he was black. Okay, maybe I'm putting up the

1494
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:51,280
Speaker 1: ladies on blasts right now, but I feel like we're

1495
01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:54,200
Speaker 1: just a little more smooth and sneaky with it. We

1496
01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:56,720
Speaker 1: don't a smarter. Yes, women are smarter, like gods will

1497
01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,760
Speaker 1: be out with another girl and letting her post stand

1498
01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 1: corn and other people that have seen it, like guys

1499
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:04,760
Speaker 1: are just sloppy. Yeah. I'm not saying that I've done

1500
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 1: this before, but it's like if I'm want by man.

1501
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,240
Speaker 1: I see a guy like my little side, what's up? Bro?

1502
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 1: I see? Yeah, that was my personality. So feel like Alex,

1503
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 1: you don't she got a lot you know that little

1504
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,439
Speaker 1: what if that? What if my boy blow you up

1505
01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:24,479
Speaker 1: right then? And he not? But he not because when

1506
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:26,560
Speaker 1: you when you cold with people, and it ain't that

1507
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:29,040
Speaker 1: they know how to act. Be cheated on before both

1508
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 1: of y'all, yeah, deserve what you mean. I don't say that.

1509
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: I did not say that, y'all fund out. I have

1510
01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 1: good investigation skills. I've had people tell me teens I

1511
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 1: said this all the time. I don't know why people

1512
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: like fly I I got to say, pain, Look, you

1513
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: never got caught cheating lex ever. I never. I only

1514
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:55,840
Speaker 1: cheat it one time though. It was like way back

1515
01:22:55,880 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 1: in college, who cheating on your boyfriend? Hoods X was

1516
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 1: weag okay, that's the reason reason. And then we were

1517
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 1: into different CDs. Okay, that's another way school and he

1518
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,640
Speaker 1: was stealing Houston d HM. He never know about this.

1519
01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:13,240
Speaker 1: He probably broke that boy had he never knew, No,

1520
01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 1: never know now before No, not him. It was somebody else.

1521
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:20,760
Speaker 1: They cheated on me. But I found out because I

1522
01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 1: went through his phone and that was the last time

1523
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 1: I ever got through because I lost team. She really did. Yes,

1524
01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:29,560
Speaker 1: I was straight lost the ass and everything. He was

1525
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: just talking to a whole bunch of girls I on

1526
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 1: Instagram telling him you was a savage. Yeah, why I

1527
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 1: was a savage before. The thing for me like when

1528
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: I cheat, if you don't tell me you love me,

1529
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:42,559
Speaker 1: I'm going to cheat. You said, what if you don't

1530
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,960
Speaker 1: say I love you, don't tell me good morning, I'm

1531
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:47,480
Speaker 1: going to cheat. Les cheated out. She's like a certified

1532
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:56,840
Speaker 1: love like a Grand Rising Queen. I'm going to cheat.

1533
01:23:56,840 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 1: If you say grand Rising, I'm going why she fine

1534
01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 1: version of good Morning, Grand Rising Queens, Grand Rising Queen.

1535
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:08,320
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I already know you're about to be

1536
01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: on some bull I don't want to hear that. The

1537
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 1: damn Now, let's talk about flute out. The flute outcomes.

1538
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 1: Somebody flies you out? What are you giving them back?

1539
01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:21,640
Speaker 1: Are you expecting? Not a damn thing? You got a

1540
01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:29,679
Speaker 1: range rover and ain't give them the batty No batty,

1541
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:33,960
Speaker 1: no uncle batty my new name from not one. I

1542
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:36,799
Speaker 1: want y'all to stamp it. Don't call me nothing else. Okay,

1543
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 1: but now, honestly, I used to be like they like,

1544
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:41,840
Speaker 1: I used to like go on trips with people and

1545
01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:43,800
Speaker 1: knew that I wasn't gonna have six with them. Now

1546
01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 1: if I tell them up front of you, no, I

1547
01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:49,600
Speaker 1: would just go and enjoy myself and be like, you

1548
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:51,880
Speaker 1: have a line to my period? Yeah? I have. I

1549
01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 1: actually put a sandplonny on one song. But what about

1550
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 1: what the man said, I don't care a period, don't

1551
01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: stop nothing but the sentence? Then what to be like?

1552
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 1: I want to do that. I don't want to smell

1553
01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:12,760
Speaker 1: like pennies in here. I've got lived places before. I

1554
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 1: don't nowhere off the country right right, But like I

1555
01:25:15,520 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 1: got left in Miami one time, God flew you out. Yeah,

1556
01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:22,640
Speaker 1: he actually lived here on your period. And well I

1557
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 1: didn't tell him I was on my period. I just

1558
01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:25,400
Speaker 1: stried up tallow him, like I didn't want to have

1559
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:26,800
Speaker 1: sex with him. But he was mad because he had

1560
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,600
Speaker 1: bought me some shoes. What kind of shoes? Lu, And

1561
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:33,800
Speaker 1: you walked right out of his life the hotel. Yeah,

1562
01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:35,680
Speaker 1: he left me. He didn't book my RESTIRN flight and

1563
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:37,040
Speaker 1: this was all. I was still living in Houston. I

1564
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:38,960
Speaker 1: hadn't moved to l Did you have the money to

1565
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 1: get back. Yeah, I did. I did, But like what

1566
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:43,160
Speaker 1: if I did though, this is why I don't date

1567
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 1: outside my race because he was a white man. White.

1568
01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:48,840
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Shouldn't have get that white man. Nothing.

1569
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:55,439
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. They're on tour right now.

1570
01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 1: You can see that Arlington, Virginia on the eighteenth to September,

1571
01:25:58,760 --> 01:26:03,759
Speaker 1: y Richmond at twenty, Tampa, October fourth, October fifth, Miami,

1572
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:06,640
Speaker 1: and October six, or Land. Y'all just did New York.

1573
01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:09,760
Speaker 1: I was the New York show. It was Ergie was

1574
01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 1: really really good. Yeah. In New York. I feel like

1575
01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: New York is kind of a different market. It's kind

1576
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:16,559
Speaker 1: of hard. Yeah, because we country obviously, y'all can tell

1577
01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 1: when we come like to New York. People be like,

1578
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 1: what these country bumpkins, but with all their families from

1579
01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:27,639
Speaker 1: down south. Yeah, y'all don't. Y'all don't have no other jobs.

1580
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:30,519
Speaker 1: This is it, this is it. I finally was able

1581
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 1: to quit my job like we want to. Last year, yeah,

1582
01:26:33,280 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 1: it was last year. Wasn't last year? Yeah, So for me,

1583
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:38,719
Speaker 1: it was like I moved to Atlanta literally with nothing,

1584
01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:41,200
Speaker 1: you know. I was trying to figure things out. And

1585
01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 1: it was really it was like a really really hard

1586
01:26:43,680 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 1: time for me. Like the thing that I love about

1587
01:26:46,240 --> 01:26:48,439
Speaker 1: poor minds. And that's why we keep the old videos up.

1588
01:26:48,479 --> 01:26:50,639
Speaker 1: Like we joke about it, like how my hair used

1589
01:26:50,640 --> 01:26:52,400
Speaker 1: to love our makeup because like I mean, I didn't

1590
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:53,680
Speaker 1: have any money. It was what I could do at

1591
01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:56,120
Speaker 1: the time. But we keep those old videos up so

1592
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 1: people can see the growth, you know, and they can

1593
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:01,160
Speaker 1: see what consists and see and when you really believe

1594
01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: in yourself, can't get you because I feel like we've

1595
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 1: only just scratched the surface of what we're gonna do,

1596
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:08,720
Speaker 1: you know. So yeah, I feel I haven't had a

1597
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:13,080
Speaker 1: job in like four years. Really was the last jobs

1598
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:15,519
Speaker 1: the bar team, Okay, but that was like you but

1599
01:27:15,600 --> 01:27:17,600
Speaker 1: I haven't did this since like twenty eighteen, so I

1600
01:27:17,680 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 1: had like a nine to five. I wasn't even ready

1601
01:27:19,960 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 1: to quit my job. They kind of like gave me

1602
01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:24,000
Speaker 1: a ultimatum, was like, Okay, either you're gonna be here

1603
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:25,400
Speaker 1: or be there. And I was like, you know what,

1604
01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:27,840
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, gone hand and quit. We gonna

1605
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:30,040
Speaker 1: figure it out. So it was like I just quit

1606
01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:33,160
Speaker 1: and we figured it out. Well. I find y'all very entertaining,

1607
01:27:33,320 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 1: and I thank you. I think it was lady that

1608
01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 1: just need to be on TV and I can't. Oh,

1609
01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to ask you about the Division video.

1610
01:27:41,000 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 1: Y'all was in the Division video. Division video. That was fun.

1611
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:47,600
Speaker 1: It was really fun. I think that's really how we

1612
01:27:47,720 --> 01:27:50,200
Speaker 1: be in real life, Like and Raya calling me me

1613
01:27:50,280 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 1: giving her bad and like me and a bad man

1614
01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,160
Speaker 1: was cool. The video was fun. Yeah, there really because

1615
01:27:59,160 --> 01:28:01,639
Speaker 1: I didn't even hear the song until he came out. Really,

1616
01:28:02,160 --> 01:28:03,439
Speaker 1: you didn't know what they didn't have a song playing

1617
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:05,240
Speaker 1: when y'all doing the video. No, I want to ask

1618
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 1: this question for the white men and the Asian men

1619
01:28:07,080 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 1: and the black girling. Black men, don't cheatse on masks

1620
01:28:15,360 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: up for them. It's cheating a deal breaker in the

1621
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:19,880
Speaker 1: space I'm in, I think it would be, Yeah, the

1622
01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:21,559
Speaker 1: space of a cheating you a Cheatah, So you can't

1623
01:28:21,560 --> 01:28:25,280
Speaker 1: be judgmental and it not like that, but I feel

1624
01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:27,720
Speaker 1: like it's a way too. No, I just feel like,

1625
01:28:28,120 --> 01:28:30,560
Speaker 1: you know, we have to live out our lives online.

1626
01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:33,240
Speaker 1: A lot of times, cheating is something hard to go through.

1627
01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:36,679
Speaker 1: So having to go through that under a magnifying glass

1628
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:38,360
Speaker 1: in front of everybody, I don't think I would be

1629
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:41,560
Speaker 1: ready for that. You know, so you can cheat, but

1630
01:28:41,680 --> 01:28:47,080
Speaker 1: you can't let somebody absolutely it's rules. Maybe it's not

1631
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:49,560
Speaker 1: a deal breaker because the way I look at it,

1632
01:28:49,680 --> 01:28:52,439
Speaker 1: he's like, Okay, is this a I missed up one

1633
01:28:52,560 --> 01:28:54,880
Speaker 1: time thing or crazy? This like this is what you do.

1634
01:28:55,640 --> 01:28:58,200
Speaker 1: But it's like, that's the difference. Though, you're cheating one night,

1635
01:28:58,720 --> 01:29:04,639
Speaker 1: but you pay at her rent money? Oh you burke?

1636
01:29:06,040 --> 01:29:09,160
Speaker 1: You like the girl like you paying her rent? You

1637
01:29:09,280 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 1: got her money, you given her money because I buy

1638
01:29:11,640 --> 01:29:14,360
Speaker 1: a woman of burking. I mean I like him. Excuse me,

1639
01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:16,559
Speaker 1: you received the range er over he didn't like that? Man,

1640
01:29:16,760 --> 01:29:20,400
Speaker 1: go ahead, bade it. I didn't buy it. Same difference,

1641
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 1: just the same difference. So yeah, I think honestly, but

1642
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 1: like she's saying, I kind of agree, you know it

1643
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:30,639
Speaker 1: levels of cheating honestly, Like the emotional cheating is way worse.

1644
01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:32,400
Speaker 1: So what if you sleep with a man right and

1645
01:29:32,439 --> 01:29:34,120
Speaker 1: the condom gets stuck in you? Then you go sleep

1646
01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:36,960
Speaker 1: with the guy you really like and they find would

1647
01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:39,240
Speaker 1: you want him to forgive you that? If you got

1648
01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:44,040
Speaker 1: you gotta said that same paper down now, because why

1649
01:29:44,240 --> 01:29:47,599
Speaker 1: is it grabbing anything like that? Are you talking about

1650
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:49,880
Speaker 1: man if y'all ain't got that grip man at y'all

1651
01:29:49,920 --> 01:29:53,439
Speaker 1: age something right now you need I'm weak. No, but

1652
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:56,080
Speaker 1: situations like that, it ain't like that. Like I said,

1653
01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 1: I'm not I'd be being funny, of course, But like

1654
01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:00,840
Speaker 1: I said, I've had situations where I'm stuff. I slipped up.

1655
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:02,560
Speaker 1: It's not like something I do all the time, and

1656
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm just you know every time. No, I don't honestly.

1657
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:18,479
Speaker 1: But okay, I'll say this honestly, but I'm being honest,

1658
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:20,519
Speaker 1: but I feel like women don't be honest. I can't.

1659
01:30:21,240 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 1: I feel like this last situation I got out of, No,

1660
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I was very faithful because, like I said,

1661
01:30:25,360 --> 01:30:27,800
Speaker 1: I wanted a certain outcome, you know, So I was like,

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