1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: My brother is bullied mercilessly, and I don't care. He 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: kind of deserves it, am I. 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: The sole man? You know they say that tough love 4 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 2: is the best love they do. That's exactly what they say. 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I actually think my bullying built my character. 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: I think I'm a more resilient I actually believe this. 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: I am a more resilient human because I got kicked 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: in the nuts in middle school. 9 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 3: Would there be a Samuel Donner without a soundard. 10 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Be this podcast if my nuts weren't traumatized? I don't 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: think so. So I'm all about that nut trauma. 12 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 2: You might not have billions of sperm, but we have 13 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:33,959 Speaker 2: thousands of content episodes, so. 14 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 1: How we do and thousands of loyal followers and subscribers. 15 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: We love you the okay fam, that's right, Let's get 16 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: into this episode. So, my brother, Darren, fifteen male, is 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: getting bullied in quotes online in his and my parents' word, 18 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: I mean, in my opinion, which might be kind of bad. 19 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: I think he deserves it, damn. Basically, he slid into 20 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 1: a girl's DMS, got rejected, and unleashed a ton of 21 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: disgusting sexist abuse on her. The girl made an insta 22 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: post about it that got shared around the kids at 23 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: our school, and then a bunch of people commented about 24 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: how he had done similar things to them. 25 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: So that's the bullying is people being like, yo, stop 26 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: being in a soul. 27 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: Basically, yeah, it's it sounds like he was an ethole 28 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: and then got has come up and for being an. 29 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 2: A that's I feel like, that's just it's a two 30 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 2: way stress. 31 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: Bullying is as a purpose, Yeah, you know this bullying 32 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: has a great purpose exactly, like why do we have prison, 33 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: you tell me for people who do bad things? Why 34 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: do we have the death penalty? 35 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: Why? Sam? 36 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: Actually I don't think we should have the death penalty. 37 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: But bullying is good for this kid. He didn't kill 38 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: all the bullies, killed all the bullies. Murder every bully. 39 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: That's right, that's that's our punishment. But actually, maybe castration. 40 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: This guy needs to be castrated. You know, he's looking 41 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: at me like I'm saying something bad here. When you 42 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: take a stand, you take a stand. Let's go like 43 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: old school Biblical. You know, he who shall slither into 44 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: the DMS without respect shall lose both testicles. 45 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: Wow, that's a bad one. Bad DM slide And and 46 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 2: the no more testing chopped off. Wow, you'll solve the problem. 47 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: Bold move that is true, that would solve the problem. 48 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: Dribe gone. Yeah. 49 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: It was honestly disturbing to read. And while I knew 50 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: my brother was kind of off, I didn't think he 51 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: was this bad. I read that he called a black 52 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: girl an ugly and word once and they got into 53 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: an argument about politics. Why would you get into an 54 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: argument about politics that's throwing someone Like with someone who's 55 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: thrown racial slurs around, it's like they've already lost credibility. 56 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: I mean, this kid, I think, is basically like so 57 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 3: in Celle, so in Selle, so like in his own world, 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 3: so in this in this kind of like the cycle 59 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: of stupidity that he doesn't even understand. 60 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even know in cells could be combined with racists. 61 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: It's like all possible, all the ists in Soell. He's 62 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: like the Thanos of the Infinity Stones of dumba exactly 63 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: and being a being a bigot, and a lot of 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: other people have awful experiences with him as well. Her 65 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: post currently has over one thousand likes, so a lot 66 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: of people had seen it. 67 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: Damn, I mean, it's not an Okyo p episode. But 68 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Well, just think about this now, 69 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: this post is gonna get even more views in more 70 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 2: episode and more likes, and so we're gonna we're gonna 71 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: just absolutely destroy this man's whole life. That's right. This 72 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 2: in cell's life. You deserve it. You deserve to be 73 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 2: in a cell. No nuts wow, nutless. 74 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: My brother is currently suspended in the schools deciding on 75 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 1: what they should do moving forward. Suspension feels like the 76 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: right move. However, my parents are furious with me for 77 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: not sticking up for him or defending him. They have 78 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:42,119 Speaker 1: punished him, but they're currently in the midicatory period in 79 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: order to try to protect his future, which I mean, 80 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: they're their parents, you know, makes sense. They want to 81 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: make sure that he's not totally fed. 82 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 83 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, he just sounds like a kid that like just 84 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: started clicking on all these like crazy wormholes and just 85 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: got sucked in. 86 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: And it is just I think he's doing one hundred 87 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: percent a terrible thing. It deserves to be reprimanded if 88 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: he's young enough. I mean, I don't think his whole 89 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: life should be ruined. Yeah, like, like take this as 90 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: an opportunity to educate like, let's destroy his life, which 91 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: will probably only cement him worse in his ways. The thing, 92 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: let's take this opportunity to say you were being bad, 93 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: but not necessarily have you, don't have you not are 94 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: bad forever. 95 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can redeem yourself. Let's let's try to turn 96 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: the ship around. Probably the best chance of him actually 97 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 2: like seeing how. 98 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: Wrong he is exactly. It's true that it's getting pretty bad. 99 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: He gets hateful dms every day, and there's even a 100 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: Darren hate page. I guess his name is Darren on 101 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 1: Instagram with dozens of followers. A lot of his friends 102 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: have cut ties with him, and he's constantly crying or angry. 103 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 1: He's scared for his future and his mental health has 104 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 1: taken a toll. I've gotten backlash too for being a sister, 105 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: and I've had to explain to numerous people in my 106 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: DMS that I don't condone his behavior. I think it's 107 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: absolutely disgusting, et cetera. My parents and Darren expect me 108 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: to make some sort of statement of solidarity for him, 109 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: or at least tell people to move on. But I 110 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: don't want to. For one, that get people mad at me. 111 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: But two, I honestly think he deserves all of this 112 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: for what he did. I told him that I think 113 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: his future college slash career prospects are probably wrecked, but 114 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: there was no one to blame but himself. I don't 115 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: know if I would say that again, like in the 116 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: thought of like making sure he doesn't dive deeper into 117 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: these ways. Yeah, show him that, Hey, if you turn 118 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: this around and admit that you're being a total asshole 119 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: and see the error of your ways, maybe there is 120 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: a future fore. Yeah, you know, don't like completely destroy 121 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: this man's it's. 122 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: Also giving like just like a big sister energy where 123 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: it's like you stupid little bit, like you're not going 124 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 3: to get like it's. 125 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: A stupid little thing. Yeah, just do you know what 126 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 127 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 3: It's like it's like that's like the very like the 128 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: super empathetic like trying to make him grow approach versus 129 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 3: like this is my annoying little brother and he's being 130 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,239 Speaker 3: like a total ayonda beyond beyond annoying brother. 131 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: Like yeah, he's. 132 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: Legitimately being a terrible person, yes, but again, try to 133 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: turn the ship around. Yeah, unless I mean unless he 134 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: doesn't give it and then sink your brother sink it 135 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: that sent him into a sp irol of wailing and rage. 136 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: And my parents are incredibly angry that I don't support 137 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: him because quote, he can change, and ultimately he's my 138 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: brother and I need to be on his side when 139 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 1: the whole world is against him. There is an edit 140 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: to answer a common question. He has given a public apology, 141 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: but it felt really insincere to me since he only 142 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: said it after the girl's post started getting traction. When 143 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: she first posted it, he DMed her with threats and 144 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: insults to take it down. Also, I didn't say his 145 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: future prospects were gone, as in he couldn't grow and 146 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: not be sexist or racist, just that in a practical 147 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: sense he wasn't going to be getting into a really 148 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: good college slash become a politician like he wanted. Man 149 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: is making all the wrong political and he's trying to 150 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: how you build a career in politics. 151 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: But is opda hole for saying what she did and 152 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 2: not being on his side? What do you think? 153 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: I want to know what everyone else thinks in the conference? 154 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: What would you do if this was your brother? 155 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: What would you do? 156 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: And too, Surris, what would you do with this with 157 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: your brother? And you didn't care, you know, didn't have 158 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: a relationship with him. But what if you did. What 159 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: if this came out about like your current sibling that 160 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: you may may have a good relationship with, what would 161 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: you do? 162 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, John, I'm curious your thoughts. One hundred percent. 163 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 3: Like it's so, it's it's really an ahole move on 164 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 3: the parents to try and force op to come up 165 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: with this like statement. 166 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: Of solidarity or whatever. She doesn't believe that. 167 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I at first it seems like okay, they 168 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 3: were like trying to steer him on the right course 169 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 3: and like you know, trying to figure it out, but 170 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: like basically being like, oh no, he's okay, it's fine, 171 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 3: Like I stand with him, Like that doesn't help him. 172 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 2: Learn anything exactly. 173 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: Like and then also, like Opie said, like it puts 174 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 3: it on her like, oh now I'm going to catch off. 175 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 2: She's already catching a lot of smoke. Yeah, why should 176 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: she catch more heat for something this guy did? Yeah, 177 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: one hundred percent. 178 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 3: So I think that that's a very bad parenting move 179 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: on the airport on their part. 180 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: And try just came out about your sister or something, right, 181 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: your sister's the same, And then you just find obviously 182 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: your sister would never do this. Yeah, yeah, world, hypothetical 183 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: world just came out. But your sister, you have the 184 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: relationship that you do with her, right now, what would 185 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: you do? 186 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: First step, you have to like sit down with them 187 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: and like really have a like deep one on one 188 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: conversation to understand, like, Okay, where did this come from? Like, 189 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 3: especially with this kid, like where did this come from? 190 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 3: Like you just like like as as neutral as possible, 191 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: just to ascertain like where is his head at? What 192 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 3: is what are the triggers that are like causing him 193 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 3: to go down these like different wormholes. And then the 194 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 3: second thing is like I think if anyone asks you one, 195 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 3: I don't think there's any public statement too, if anyone 196 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: ever asked, you'd be like yeah, like that was like 197 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 3: super fed up. I love my sister and like it 198 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 3: seemed super out of character for her to do that, 199 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 3: but she needs to be held accountable, and like I'm 200 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 3: trying to hold her accountable on that and help her 201 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 3: like grow and change and see why that's wrong. 202 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that is. 203 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 3: What the parents should tell the sisters, Like hey, if 204 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 3: anyone ever asks or anything like this, just be like yeah, 205 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 3: like what he said is completely wrong. I don't agree 206 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: with it at all, but I'm trying to work with 207 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 3: him so that we he can get better and do better. 208 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like, do you think the sister is 209 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: being as empathetic as she could be or should be? 210 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, there's probably like like what you were 211 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 3: saying with like this the schools and opportunities and stuff 212 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 3: like that, Like that's not as far as like, how 213 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 3: do we get him to start working on his mindset 214 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 3: as quickly as possible. Being like, oh, yeah, your future 215 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 3: is ruined is probably not the move the best way. 216 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: To everything else. I think that she's been saying and doing. 217 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: Besides that, I feel like has been pretty glass the 218 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: right decision. 219 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: She seems pretty level headed. 220 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: But I mean, like, I'm really curious what all of 221 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: you guys think, what would you do with this was 222 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: your sibling, your brother, your sister, maybe even your cousin 223 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: if you don't have a brother or sister, or your 224 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: friend if you don't have a brother, sister, or cousin, 225 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:49,479 Speaker 1: or I don't know, like your kebab shop, coffee barista, 226 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: person that you really like and talk to every day. 227 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: Shout out Vinnie, who's my barista person here. What would 228 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: you do if any of those people came out with 229 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: these comments? Put your answers in the comments below. In John, 230 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: I want to here the next work. 231 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 3: My girlfriend is getting too friendly with my high school bully, 232 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 3: so I went off on her. 233 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole because you have a cuckhold fetish, 234 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: and by going off, you mean exploded your sweet juices 235 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: on her while she was getting deep and down and 236 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: dirty with your bully. 237 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: He couldn't hold it in. He couldn't hold it in. 238 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: It's like, girl, it's so hot. Would you cook me 239 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: like that with the guy that cucked me my whole life? 240 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 1: I just got a bust. I love when Riley looks 241 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: at me like that, who's thout all that judgment? See 242 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: now has so we can't see his fully? Yeah, come on, 243 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: let's let's let's see those peepers. Yeah yeah that's older. 244 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 2: Ah ah ooh. 245 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: Baby, I went full frontal of your reactions. We could 246 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: honestly say anything about Riley and they wouldn't know. 247 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 2: What can he do? Yeah? Yeah, he's like literally naked 248 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 2: right now. Oh he dude, he's he's naked. His wiener 249 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: is covered in mosquito. Bites he actually might. 250 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: Be true, which honestly he did on purpose. He covered 251 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: it with honey and is like, hey, I heard this 252 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: will help it grow twelve inches. I mean it probably 253 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: it's got a python right now, little ridges like that's 254 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: probably for your pressure. 255 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, bumpy for your pressure. There we go. That's what 256 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 2: they said about herpies too, see bumpy for your pleasure. Riley, 257 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 2: you got the herb. We're never giving our producer a mic. 258 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, we will just forever say things and you will 259 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: just assume that it is correct because it is. 260 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: Yes, just be careful on Riley man, just make sure 261 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: you wrap it wrap before you tap, before you tap 262 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: it rap. You really don't be silly wise words from 263 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: our producer Riley. Me twenty six male and my girlfriend 264 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 1: twenty six female met in high school. We became really 265 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: good friends. She was basically my only friend in school, 266 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: and we decided to go to the same university so 267 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: we wouldn't drift apart when we. 268 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 2: Ever end poorly. 269 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I got a little story at the little story 270 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 3: that I'll say for the end of the story about 271 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 3: the you know, post high school. 272 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 2: You know, romantic entanglements. Yeah, yeah, there's a lot of that. 273 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 2: There's a lot of those, a lot of those. 274 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 3: When we were in university, I finally asked her out 275 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 3: and we've been dating ever since. 276 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: You chose your university based off a girl that you 277 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 1: wanted to be your girlfriend. 278 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 2: You didn't ask beforehand. He just need a little more time. 279 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 2: You know. That's crazy? That is that is kind of 280 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: your whole life trajectory for a friend. 281 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 3: Because he was trying to like phrase it away like, oh, 282 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 3: we both decided to, but it's like, bro, you low 283 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 3: key low. 284 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: Key decided because oh my god, come on, I got 285 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: into Harvard. He went to like Florida State. 286 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 2: Hey, it's wrong with Florida actually from Florida State, because 287 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: go getors there, you go. 288 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 3: So to sum up my time in high school, it 289 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 3: was an awful time. I was very lonely, introverted, and 290 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: quiet in both high school and middle school, so I 291 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 3: was prone to getting bullied. 292 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 2: I was heavily bullied by this guy, let's call. 293 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 3: Him Louise, Louise, Louise, how dare you? And his group 294 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 3: of friends. He would poke fun at my eye condition, 295 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 3: intentionally embarrass me, and make me uncomfortable in front of everyone. 296 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 2: What's his eye condition? Is he blind? 297 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 3: When he said I condition, I thought of, like he's 298 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 3: wearing glasses. Maybe he has like a more. 299 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: Eyes my eye condition. Stop. Maybe I am actually genetic. 300 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 3: You know people have like a like birthmarks or like 301 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 3: other things like right. 302 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 2: That's that's what I assumed. 303 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: But like I don't know, or maybe he doesn't have 304 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: like maybe as like a like a pirate eye patch that. 305 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,199 Speaker 2: Too, And Louise is just like. 306 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 3: Me. 307 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: Maybe it's OPI don't steal me booty. 308 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: Ope, everyone that has an eye patch watching the show 309 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: is like, is pissed you guys? 310 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 2: Rightly? 311 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: So yeah, they would call me all kinds of names 312 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 3: and just made my life in school hell rough. 313 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 2: Sorry, Op. 314 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 3: This was majorly traumatizing because school was supposed to be 315 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 3: a safe place for me because I was getting emotionally 316 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 3: abused by my family at home. 317 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:48,839 Speaker 2: That sucks. 318 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. I was initially being like, what do 319 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: you mean? School was supposed to be a safe place. 320 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 1: School is the least safe place. 321 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 322 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think you should expect to be bullied 323 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: at school. Yeah, basically they're terrible. Basically I feel like, 324 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: expect to be bullied at school, expect love at home. Yes, Ope, 325 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 1: got neither. That sucks. We feel for you, op I'm sorry, man, but. 326 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: He ruined any chances of it being a safe place 327 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 3: for me by making every day horrible. 328 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 2: Oh pe, I just want to give you a big hug. Yeah. 329 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: Maybe some contacts, Yeah, some contacts. She didn't have to 330 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: wear the classes for I thought. 331 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 3: You made contacts like like, Oh, let me fill up 332 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 3: his rolodex of some let's beef up his network. 333 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 2: A little bit, mate, I mean that would probably help too. 334 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, if you're like friends with like I 335 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 2: started LinkedIn. 336 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 3: There the solution to bullying a strong LinkedIn profile. He 337 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: can bully someone with four years of experience analyzing data. 338 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 3: My girlfriend was aware of this bullying situation at the time, 339 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 3: and when we became closer friends, she always comforted me 340 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 3: about it and sympathized with me when I vented about it. 341 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 2: Oh that's sweet. I'm glad. I'm glad Opie had somebody. 342 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 3: She agreed that they were very cruel for no reason, 343 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: and I didn't deserve it all. 344 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: She told me she hated them for hurting me like that. 345 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: I sense the tithes of shifting fast forward to now, 346 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: Oh god, and what the problem actually is. 347 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 3: We were out together walking the dog and I told 348 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 3: her I jogged to a nearby store real quick, pick 349 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 3: up some cigarettes and come back while she stayed at 350 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 3: the park. 351 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: First mistake, what's the person, oh, being addicted to cigarettes? Yes, 352 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: maybe your girlfriend wouldn't try to leave you. Oh, God 353 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: for a better man. 354 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 2: You know. It doesn't smoke. Your teeth are yellow, the 355 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 2: breath is stinky, like you're gonna die. That's one. That's one. 356 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: That's one critique that we could cigarette structive criticism, like 357 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: hours of your life. 358 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 2: That's what the science says. That's what the science says. 359 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 2: What the science says. Bro, you think you're all cool, 360 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: but guess what smoking killed. 361 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right, smoking killed from your boys at okop, 362 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 3: don't do it. 363 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 2: Don't smoke. If you think about smoking, don't don't. 364 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 3: Can we become the like middle school elementary school like like, 365 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 3: uh oh, what is it? 366 00:15:55,360 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: Deer program smoke? I was like the US to screen 367 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 2: at kindergarteners for like a good cause. I got a 368 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: great one. 369 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 3: Yeah all right, we said we do it with the boys, right, 370 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 3: we'll like the we sit down with like the middle 371 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 3: school boys and be like, hey, boys, you know cigarettes 372 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 3: it's like a little cylinder. 373 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 2: I didn't know you like sucking penis. 374 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: Oh instant, we'll stop stop smoking campaign middle school. What 375 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: I would like to do, you know, like twenty one 376 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: Jump Street. 377 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: Yep. I want to do that, but for kindergarteners. Dressed 378 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 2: as a kindergartener and offer kindergartener cigarettes. If they take it, 379 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: smack it out of their hand, put them in prison. Genius. 380 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: That's basically the plot line of the show Cops. I've 381 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 3: ever seen the show. 382 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 2: No literally, they. 383 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 3: Will put like straight up a like a Ferrari on 384 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 3: the street and open both the doors and just wait 385 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 3: for someone to get in it. And then they have 386 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 3: like a lock control. They lock the person in and 387 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: they cannot get out. 388 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: I want to do that with kindergartens and cigarettes, Cops. 389 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: But gender needs to know this jend. The next generation 390 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 2: needs to know how bad smoking is. Anyway, back to 391 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 2: the story, I I try on smoking a side. I 392 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: have a quick story about smoking. 393 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 3: I'll talk about it two very quick juicy nuggets for 394 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 3: you to give me those juicy quick nugs. So when 395 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 3: I was walking back, I noticed her talking to someone 396 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 3: from a distance. 397 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,239 Speaker 2: She seemed all cheerful and laughing. Oh no. 398 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 3: They talked for a bit and he walked away in 399 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 3: the opposite direction. So I come up to her and 400 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 3: I asked her what's up. She nonchalantly smiles and says 401 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,160 Speaker 3: it was Luis. 402 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 2: From my school. No, not with a smile. That's tough. 403 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 2: That's tough. I awkwardly chuckled and said, whoa. You were 404 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 2: seriously happy to talk with that guy? She says, sure. 405 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 3: I told her you do remember he was the person 406 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 3: that basically made my life a living hell in high school? Right? 407 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 3: She told me, yeah, I remember, but I'm sure he 408 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 3: has changed, and he seemed really sweet. 409 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 2: Come on, I don't feel like that has a twelve 410 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 2: inch hog and super good looking. Yeah. 411 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 3: I was looking at that egg plant point thinking damn hoppy. 412 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you might have beat up my boyfriend middle school, 413 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: but hould you beat up this box? 414 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: Baby? Take that FedEx. I'm shipping up backage extra large, 415 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 2: extra large, instant delivery five seconds or less by the boom, Louise. 416 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 2: That's what he says every time he finishes to be funny. 417 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:26,159 Speaker 2: Gotta love it. I just imagining next hook up. I'm s. 418 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: That's pretty funny, that's pretty funny. Just know, if you 419 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: get a second date doing is it? 420 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 2: Do it and then report back on Sam's love chronicles, right, 421 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: and we'll see what happens. 422 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: One time a friend told me to say, I'm spilling 423 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: my ghost babies on you, and I did it nice. 424 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 2: I don't even know what's happening at this point. 425 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: Guys, I'm coming on someone's back. I'm just lost ghost babies. 426 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 1: It's not a ghost baby. It's like my sperm that 427 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: would have been like a real child. And it's dying 428 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: on your back. It's like a it's like a graveyard. 429 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 2: Fair enough. What about like carrying a daycare on your back? 430 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:03,719 Speaker 1: Like I mean, that's good too, you know, but like that, 431 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: they're dying, you know, and so they're right and they 432 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: look it's white. 433 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 2: It look like a little ghost. You know what. 434 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: I've come around. I've come around, That's what That's what 435 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: I did. Let's finish this story again. 436 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 2: Mom, I'm so sorry. It's late in the day. Guys. 437 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 3: I got pretty mad at that point and didn't say anything. 438 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 3: She notices the awkward silence that says, ah, dude, come on, 439 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 3: do you seriously still have a grudge against him? 440 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: I thought you'd be over it. 441 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 3: By now, Holy shot, that felt like a knife through 442 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 3: my stomach. It's not that effing easy to get over 443 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 3: years of trauma that sabotaged my self esteem in confidence. 444 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 3: It was so hurtful to hear coming from her, especially 445 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 3: because she was my rock during those times while I 446 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 3: was getting abused by everyone at school and home. 447 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 2: I still don't hate the. 448 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 3: Guy and his friends after all this time has passed, 449 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 3: or want them to suffer or whatever, but it's not 450 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 3: easy at all to forget what they. 451 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 2: Did to me. 452 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 3: Sure, maybe they changed for the better, but seeing her 453 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 3: talk to him so cheerfully and telling me about it 454 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 3: made me die inside. 455 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for this? There is a update, 456 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 2: decently meaty updates. 457 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 3: OK, but I'm curious everyone watching and Sam like, what 458 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 3: do you do in this scenario? Someone like your your 459 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 3: worst high school bully rizzes up your significant other, and 460 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 3: you're just like, what do I do? 461 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first off, we don't know. 462 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: This isn't a legitimate riz Like her being kind to 463 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: a guy that she hasn't seen in ages. 464 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 2: Is disgusting, is un exactly gross. I think it's fine. 465 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 1: I think it's fine, Like you should be nice to 466 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 1: people like if my high school bully talked to or 467 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: I didn't really have high school bollyes, but my middle 468 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:39,719 Speaker 1: school bully talked to, you know, my current girlfriend or something. 469 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: I would even if she knew about it, I would 470 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: expect her to be nice and kind. If she's like 471 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: touching the chest, feeling up the arms, laughing a little 472 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 1: bit too much, Hey, can I get your number sending nudes? 473 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna be like, all right, that's not cool. 474 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 475 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: I also feel like it's like a little bit depending 476 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: on how flirty your girlfriend is with other guys and 477 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: depending on what kind of style of relationship you have. 478 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of a red flag. 479 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: Like I had an ex that was like very flirty 480 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 1: with her guy friends, and it was just like I 481 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: saw it early on and then it became a problem later. Yeah, 482 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: And there's like a difference between having guy friends, which 483 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: is fine, and then like actively being physical with them, 484 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: which is I think less. Okay, Yeah, because like it 485 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 1: can communicate that she may be open to being physical with. 486 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 3: I've never been in a relationship like like that, but 487 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 3: definitely have seen relationships where the person is just naturally 488 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 3: like very you know, to the point of like, uh, 489 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 3: could be perceived as flirtatious by a lot of people. 490 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 1: And like with that ex girlfriend, Like I actually talked 491 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: to a guy today that was like good friends with 492 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 1: that ex girlfriend in distance him from her or distance 493 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: himself from her, and he was like yeah, like she 494 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: was like touchy to the point where it made me uncomfortable. 495 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 1: And I think, like that's like, that's one are the 496 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: reasons we broke up. But like, yeah, yeah, it's like 497 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: I think that if it's taken to that far, I 498 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: don't think that's okay. But like a like a you know, 499 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: a conversation that's like not physical, it could be. 500 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 3: Op embellishing it because of it's such a raw you know, 501 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 3: understandable that it's a raw experience. What do you think 502 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 3: is too flirtatious for your partner? Like what are your 503 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 3: flirtation boundaries? Ye, put your answers in the comments boundaries. 504 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 3: But John, I want to hear this meaty update. 505 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 506 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 3: Basically, everything was kind of tense between us after we 507 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 3: went home yesterday. When I woke up the next morning, 508 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 3: my girlfriend told me we needed to talk, so I agreed. 509 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 3: I was going to ask her first, but she beat 510 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 3: me to it. She asked me if I was still 511 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 3: upset about yesterday, so I told her that I was, 512 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 3: and I explained that hearing that he's a sweet guy 513 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,880 Speaker 3: from her was really painful, especially when she knew about 514 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 3: the stuff he did to me. I told her that 515 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 3: being friendly like that towards people who tormented me wasn't 516 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 3: something I accept and obviously explained that her get over 517 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 3: at comment was out of pocket and unnecessary. I told 518 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 3: her how him becoming a better person was kind of 519 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 3: irrelevant to me, because no matter how much he's changed, 520 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 3: the consequence of his actions will always stick with me. 521 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 3: She listened to me explaining, and she started crying in 522 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 3: the middle of it, and said that she was incredibly 523 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 3: sorry and that she didn't think too much of it 524 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 3: at the moment and failed. 525 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 2: To consider my feelings. Oh it's really nice. It's a 526 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 2: nice response, she said. 527 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 3: After I explained it from my POV, she realized she 528 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,879 Speaker 3: was being the a hole and it was a stupid 529 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 3: assumption that the trauma would go away over time and 530 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 3: I would forget about it. We understood where each of 531 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 3: us was coming from, and I forgave her. She was 532 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 3: very genuine about it, and I know that she's not 533 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 3: a malicious person and wouldn't. 534 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 2: Want to intentionally hurt me. Even if it did hurt. 535 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: There was a bunch of people telling me to break up. 536 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 3: With her in the comments, man, divorce chant just always goes, 537 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 3: always goes, always. 538 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 2: A divorce chant in the comments guys, good gravy. 539 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if redda it gives the best relationship 540 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: advice we the jury is still out. 541 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't take relationship advice from people who are single. 542 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 2: That's true, it's true. That is true. That's true. It 543 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 2: is true, they're single. Why would you take relationship advice 544 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: from someone who's in a state that you don't want 545 00:23:58,840 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 2: to be in? That's true? 546 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 3: What I would I take investment advice from someone who's 547 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 3: broke the firefighters guy. No, no, it's not the move. 548 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 3: It's not the move. And I see why to some 549 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,679 Speaker 3: other people this would be a complete deal breaker. But 550 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 3: in my opinion, relationships obviously come with their ups and downs, 551 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,959 Speaker 3: misunderstandings and conflicts like this one. So I forgave her 552 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 3: for this and I moved on, especially when she realized 553 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 3: what she did was wrong and apologize. 554 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 1: In what world is this a complete deal breaker. Yeah, 555 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: talking to what the you got reddit? 556 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: Get together? This is way too much. 557 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: You're put it in a bag, get it together, pack packet. 558 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 3: If she hadn't, it would have been a completely different thing. 559 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 3: She told me that she didn't want to keep contact 560 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 3: with him after this and doesn't care about him at all. 561 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 3: Even told me that she wants to block him on 562 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,439 Speaker 3: the socials that they exchanged, and I said that that 563 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 3: was up to her. 564 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,880 Speaker 2: I didn't know they exchanged socials. That's maybe more. 565 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,360 Speaker 3: Closer to the because if I if I saw someone 566 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 3: and I'll keep from a tanchup, but if I saw 567 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 3: someone that I knew from back in the day, like 568 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 3: oh hey, what's up, I don't know if I would 569 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:03,880 Speaker 3: exchange What. 570 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 2: If they asked you like, oh, let me grab your Instagram? 571 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: If they asked me, that's fine, yeah, but which he 572 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: probably asked her. 573 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 2: That's true. Well, fair enough, fair point. 574 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 3: So far, everything seems to be okay, And I feel 575 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 3: like this helped our relationship in terms of setting boundaries 576 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 3: and respecting them. 577 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: And I'm glad we were able to talk it out. 578 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 3: Well, we want to talk it out with you guys, 579 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 3: because I think this is a very good conversation. What 580 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 3: are your boundaries in your relationship? What are things that 581 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 3: are our no go for you, deal breakers, et cetera. 582 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 3: Let us know in the comments, we would definitely love 583 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 3: to hear from you guys. 584 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think, you know, there's not necessarily a 585 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: universal law of how you should conduct a relationship. One 586 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 1: of like my friends I was talking about how he's 587 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 1: in a non monogamous relationship. As long as your relationship 588 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 1: contract is this aime between both of you and you 589 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: keep to it, that's all that matters exactly. And there's 590 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 1: different waly Like, there's different relationships all throughout. It's like 591 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: some people might be comfortable with you flirting with other 592 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 1: people a little bit, some people that you know, I 593 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: even look in the direction of another woman or man. So, 594 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: you know what, what what feels comfortable to op isn't 595 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: necessarily universal. I think like coming from the story, I 596 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 1: feel like there was maybe a little bit of an 597 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,239 Speaker 1: overreaction on OP side. I think so the only thing 598 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: I think that his girlfriend did wrong was like trivializing 599 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: his trauma, saying like you should be over it by now. 600 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 1: That's a little bit of an a hole move. But 601 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: everything else. I think it's fine. But good on her 602 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: for hearing where he came from and apologizing for how 603 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 1: he made her how she made him feel. 604 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: That's that's like always a good thing. Everyone makes mistakes. 605 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: We don't live in each other's heads. And yeah, so. 606 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 1: It's not even necessarily a mistake. It's just like this 607 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 1: something that someone's uncomfortable with. I think speaking language of like, hey, 608 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: like you did this and it made me feel like 609 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: you can't argue with someone's feelings exactly. Ope's girlfriend isn't 610 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 1: a jerk, but maybe she made him feel a certain 611 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: way and he can voice that. 612 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 2: Can I tell you my smoking story really quick. I 613 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 2: think that's of juicy nuggets. So you have a juicy 614 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 2: nugget too, Okay, mine's really quick. Okay. 615 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: So I was in Australia. This is why I hate 616 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 1: smoking so much. I was in Australia. I was staying 617 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: in a hostile. One of the girls I was in 618 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: the hostel, super cute Australian, was like, hey, come out 619 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: drinking with us, so down, all right? So we pregame 620 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: out the hostel. We get properly drunk before we even 621 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: go to the bars. There we go right I'm with 622 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: this cute Australian. I'm like with it. I'm excited. I 623 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: think I'm risen and I'm properly drunk about to go 624 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: to the bar. And she takes out a cigarette and 625 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: she was like, do you want one? And then all 626 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: of a sudden, ten years of programming about not smoking 627 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 1: a cigarette and my mom's saying. 628 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,160 Speaker 2: Don't smoke a cigarette, it's so bad. 629 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: For you, has like gone through my head. But then 630 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: this cute Australians handing me the cigarette, I'm like, I 631 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,159 Speaker 1: might as well try one, right pure Oh sure, bam. 632 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 1: She lights it up, I smoke it, hold it in 633 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 1: blow out and I'm instantly not drunk. 634 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, that is the most bullsh I 635 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: pay for these shots. That's the most bullsh thing ever. 636 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: I throw the cigarette on the ground and I repeat 637 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: what my mom always said, smoking kills and I totally 638 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 1: ruined my relationship with that Australian girl. But at least 639 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: I didn't really win my relationship with my lungs. 640 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 2: You know, that's how we should advertise it. 641 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 3: If you don't want to ruin your experience abusing one substance, 642 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 3: then don't do this substance. 643 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 644 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 1: Exactly literally, like I think smoking is so dumb for 645 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: the express purpose that it makes you less drunk. 646 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: That's so lame. 647 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 3: A unique take from Samuel Donna as always what Johnny boy, Yes, 648 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 3: I heard you have a little story about lost love 649 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 3: and college. Indeed so similar to not quite similar, but 650 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 3: like right after high school I started seeing this girl 651 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: like literally in the last like two or three months, 652 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 3: and we were like, Oh, let's like stay together, let's 653 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 3: do long distance. 654 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 2: Da da da da. 655 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 3: The second I moved out to California, I was like 656 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 3: applying to jobs. 657 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 2: I was like doing all these things. I'm like, all right, 658 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: I gotta like make money. Da da da. 659 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 3: And she would literally like stay in her room all 660 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 3: day and wanted to literally skype like twelve hours a day, 661 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 3: like right when I moved out there. It's like crazy, yeah, 662 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 3: because when we were here, like when we were in 663 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 3: the same place, like oh, we would hang and like 664 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 3: do whatever. 665 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 2: But it was like very normally, Oh are you free 666 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 2: like twelve hours a day? Yeah. So I knew couples 667 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 2: like that. 668 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: I knew this couple that would would FaceTime eight hours 669 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: a day. Sorry, they weren't a couple they were friends, 670 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: she had a boyfriend. They were FaceTime eight hours a day. 671 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: I actually knew the boyfriend she broke up with and 672 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: eventually got with this guy that she was FaceTime eight 673 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: hours a day. 674 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 2: Oh that shit, dude's whack. 675 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 3: But our relationship ended in a seven hour skype call 676 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 3: through the night where. 677 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: She got what she wanted. She that's true, Okay. She 678 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: was basically like, why are you breaking up with me? 679 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 3: And I'm just like, we spend all day on Skype 680 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: and I need to like go out here and live 681 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 3: my life. And it's just like it's not working, Like 682 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 3: do you think this is working? 683 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: And she'd like, no, explain why. It's just that is 684 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 2: my high school. How she doing now? I have no idea. Good. 685 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 2: I hope no. Good riddance. I hope this doesn't make 686 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: it back to her Loki. Yeah, yeah, last time. 687 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: I saw her was literally like twenty fifteen. Twenty fifteen. Dang, yeah, damn. 688 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: I wonder if she's seen the glow up. 689 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I don't know. I'm taking so 690 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 2: could have made this baby like kind of like I 691 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: broke up with it. 692 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm taking so I'm like, damn, I'm 693 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 3: just double dunking on this poor girl, like for no reason. 694 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 3: But you know what, Sam, I really want you to 695 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 3: dunk this next story. 696 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna freaking Kobe rest in peace. This next 697 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: story all on you. Let's do it.