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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward. Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Phone call Brook.

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Speaker 4: When your husband makes a mistake. Okay, not that he

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Speaker 4: ever does.

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Speaker 1: No, he's perfect, he is and all the cars you've

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Speaker 4: But if he ever does mess up, would you prefer

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Speaker 4: he come clean and tell you about it, oh.

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Speaker 5: For sure?

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Speaker 1: Or hold on?

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Speaker 4: Would you rather he try to hide it from you

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Speaker 4: and keep it a secret for years and years, praying

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Speaker 4: that you never find out.

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Speaker 2: Don't come clean?

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you listening, Michael?

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Speaker 2: Come clean right now?

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners.

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Speaker 4: Ryan knows that he made a mistake and his wife

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Speaker 4: won't be happy. So Brook, before you admonish him, remember he,

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Speaker 4: like your husband, is human and needs our support.

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Speaker 1: So Ryan, that's good.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you're coming for help.

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Speaker 1: Ryan, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 6: So me and Jeffer Inching are chares away from Brook

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Speaker 6: a little because I'm.

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Speaker 1: Scared for you here, Like, what are you guys talking about?

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Speaker 2: I am a good I've a good partner.

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Speaker 1: We're going to edit that part out because we know

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Speaker 1: what's wrong. Bryan.

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Speaker 4: Go ahead and tell us why you emailed the show,

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Speaker 4: and we will attempt not to judge you for it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a really tough one. So my wife

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Speaker 3: Julie and I like, we're going to have a baby.

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Speaker 1: Awesome.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well it is, but it's actually only about two

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Speaker 3: months till you day, and we agreed to keep the

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Speaker 3: gender a secret until it happens.

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Speaker 5: That's waited too for both our kids.

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Speaker 2: We didn't know before they came out. It was so exciting.

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Speaker 2: I mean, everybody has a surprise, it just is at

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Speaker 4: With your husband pretended he didn't know until it came out,

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Speaker 4: So good for him. Okay, do you support that idea?

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Speaker 3: Ryan? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm totally on board with it.

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Speaker 3: Like I good answer, No, No, no, I actually am

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Speaker 3: I just like Okay. So the other day I was

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Speaker 3: driving my wife's car and I noticed there's this like

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Speaker 3: sealed Manila envelope in between the passenger seat and the

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Speaker 6: You know, it's kind of scary that it's Manila. Those

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Speaker 6: are always like the most official, like scariest.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen another, like like a white one.

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Speaker 2: Did you get all sorts of information when you're pregnant

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Speaker 2: stuck in Manila envelope YEA pamphlets.

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Speaker 1: And every FBI movie that I see. This is like

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Speaker 2: It could just be a work thing even you know.

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Speaker 1: Did you look at it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I did, and it was a sonogram of our baby,

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Speaker 3: and yeah, it's nice, but I saw the gender and

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Speaker 3: I couldn't avoid seeing it.

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Speaker 1: You saw it's wee wee?

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Speaker 3: I mean yes, But also it's written on there.

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Speaker 2: Wait what why did she have that?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: What did you say? It was sealed or it was

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Speaker 3: It was sealed to you, but I didn't say like

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Speaker 4: What are you doing envelopes in your wife's car?

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Speaker 1: Broke to get them Brooke? Yeah, you guys, you're going

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Speaker 2: You're not going to tell her anything.

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Speaker 1: Act like you.

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Speaker 4: Don't keep from your spouse this.

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Speaker 1: You're telling me what the kid's eighteen?

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Speaker 2: There will be so much going on, she won't.

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Speaker 1: If you're bad acting.

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Speaker 4: Remember the advice comes the next segment. You're jumping ahead

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Speaker 4: telling him what you should and.

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Speaker 2: Should not because I'm nervous, Jeff.

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Speaker 4: Let's find out what happened next. So Ryan you accidentally

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Speaker 1: What did you do?

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Speaker 3: Well? I mean, I feel terrible and I am not

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

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Speaker 2: It's so hard if she's shopping for like neutral stuff

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Speaker 3: I have to pick up.

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Speaker 2: Names like honey, why don't you care about the girl name?

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Speaker 5: But you're so invested in the boy, you know, because

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's horrible, And I'm like, I'm in a complete

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Speaker 1: So what what made you reach out to us for help?

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Speaker 2: Desperation?

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Speaker 3: Joe? So here's what I thought, Like, Okay, my wife

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Speaker 3: has this really good friend named Giselle. So I called

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Speaker 3: Gazelle and I left this long message and I told

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Speaker 2: You left the whole thing. Got a recording?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, was I not supposed to?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: No, hand written letters is the only communication we should

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Speaker 1: It's call me back.

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Speaker 5: We need to have a private confer Yeah, even jose

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I should have called you guys first.

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Speaker 1: What were you hoping to get from her best friend?

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Speaker 3: Well, I wanted her advice, yeah, you know, and she

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Speaker 3: and I just feel like I have to tell my

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Speaker 4: Okay, So now you want us, You want our help

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Speaker 4: that you do know the gender.

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Speaker 3: I just know I can't keep lying. So whatever advice

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Speaker 4: That's tough because Brook's advice earlier was pro lying to

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Speaker 4: me left the voicemail.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was trying to think of how upset I

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't know, like I would be pretty

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Speaker 1: This is very helpful.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: You're in a good place with us right now.

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Speaker 4: Ryan, We're gonna come back give you our best advice

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Speaker 1: Now, with your awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: Right after this. Thanks, guys, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: We've seen gender revealed disasters in the news where a

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Speaker 4: wipes out four endangered species. Stop that this might be

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Speaker 4: one tiny step below that, because our listener Ryan accidentally

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Speaker 2: Wife's car and he just had to open.

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Speaker 4: Inside found a sonogram with the gender of their baby.

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Speaker 1: Spelled out right there.

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Speaker 4: And that's a problem because he and his wife had

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Speaker 4: Oh man, he knows he can't keep a secret for

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Speaker 2: I mean, I can respect that he wants to be

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Speaker 2: he knows under no circumstance can he tell her what

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Speaker 5: Yeah, say boy or girl? And then you need to

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Speaker 5: go out and buy herself, being very expensive, and.

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Speaker 2: Create a revealed moment just for her.

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Speaker 3: Diamond.

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Speaker 4: Sure, I don't know, buy your wife off. Brook is saying,

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Speaker 4: what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Ryan? Yeah, I mean I think that's a good idea

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Speaker 1: We may have some more bad ideas, Jose, what do

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Speaker 3: Jeff.

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Speaker 6: Of course I'm with Brook first and foremost. You can't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she may be.

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Speaker 1: She may the day on the radio show.

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Speaker 3: Who knows. She may want to know right now.

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Speaker 2: She does not want to find out when she's mad. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's the worst time to find out.

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Speaker 6: Well, she could be blinded with rage and so she'll

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Speaker 4: So maybe she don't want to know the even if

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Speaker 4: she asks what the gender is, refuse to tell me.

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's right, they always.

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Speaker 4: Say, fathers know best.

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Speaker 1: Remember you are the dad. You're in control.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I mean honestly, she may think she wants to

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Speaker 2: That is not the time she actually wants to find out.

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Speaker 5: Radio.

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Speaker 4: Tell your wife, I am listening to another woman before

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Speaker 4: I listen to you. That is what That's what I feel,

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Speaker 4: an older and wiser woman.

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Speaker 2: You know that she's older than me.

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Speaker 1: Are you still having more kids?

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Speaker 2: I could if I wanted to.

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 4: You know, we're having a good time over here. But

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Speaker 4: I know Ryan is sweating bullets were loosening it up.

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Speaker 2: For you having a good time you I.

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Speaker 3: Think we are not having a good time over here.

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Speaker 1: Now you got this. We are on your side no

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Speaker 4: Okay, we're gonna dial up your wife Julia here and

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hey honey, Oh

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Speaker 3: hey you how's it?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Roll and roll and roll? And what what.

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: Like because of your belly, like you know, flick the

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Speaker 3: baby's rolling and try?

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Speaker 7: Oh it's okay, How are you What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: No, just a normal day, just uh, you know, cash

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Speaker 3: and check, snap the necks.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm just uh, I'm a little nervous.

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Speaker 7: Oh baby, We've talked about that. It's natural to be nervous.

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Speaker 7: That's why before the night on the calendar, you just

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Speaker 7: take the pail and if it happens, it happens.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, that's not what I mean. I'm not

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I'm nervous because I don't know how

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Speaker 3: to tell you this, but I found something sound what

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Speaker 3: so you know how I was like driving your car, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and there was this like Manila envelope in between the

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Speaker 7: Okay, I'm not sure exactly what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: Like, okay, I'm I'm really sorry, but I opened it

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Speaker 3: and it had a sonogram in there, and I saw

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Speaker 3: the gender of our baby. Wait what I know, I know,

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Speaker 3: I know we were to keep it a secret. I

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Speaker 3: did not mean to do this. So it's an accident

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Speaker 3: and I feel really terrible and.

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Speaker 7: I'm so you found it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm so so sorry. Stop.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, Bade, you're so sweet. That's not my sonogram.

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Speaker 6: Mm hmm, but.

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Speaker 7: That's not our baby that she sells sonogram what wait?

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Speaker 3: Seriously, Yeah, I gave her a ride the other day.

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Speaker 7: She's been looking for it. It must have split between the seats.

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Speaker 1: The baby and not the name of the mother.

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Speaker 3: What what's going on? Oh my god?

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Speaker 7: Am I a Brady right now?

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Speaker 1: Actually? Yeah, you are on the radio right now, Julia.

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Speaker 1: You do this segment a lot, Julian. Do you listen

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Speaker 1: to Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 7: No, but your voices sounds familiar.

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Speaker 1: I should admit that you listen.

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Speaker 2: It's not that embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: I would too.

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Speaker 4: But this is a segment that I don't know if

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Speaker 4: you're familiar with. It's called the awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: And your husband Ryan asked for our help. He didn't

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Speaker 4: know how to tell you about the Manila envelope situation.

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Speaker 4: He thought that that was the gender of your guys's baby,

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, this is so crazy.

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Speaker 3: Right, you could have just told me?

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Speaker 5: Well he could, I mean, be honest, he couldn't have

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Speaker 5: just told you if he had actually seen the gender

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of what we were expecting when we

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Speaker 4: called you.

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Speaker 1: So this is actually really really good news.

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Speaker 5: That is so Wait, Jazelle is your best friend. That

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Speaker 5: means you and your best friend are pregnant at the

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Speaker 7: That's so fah, we are our kids are going to

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Speaker 7: be best friends.

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, don't tell Meselle listens to the show because

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Speaker 6: she just found out the jenner of her baby.

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Speaker 2: Then we didn't never see wait oh we.

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Speaker 1: Didn't wait wait yet, but we do know.

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Speaker 5: Baby.

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Speaker 3: Wait.

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Speaker 4: Ryan, when you told us earlier that you called Giselle

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Speaker 4: in a panic and you left her a voicemail, did

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Speaker 4: you say anything about the gender? Then?

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Speaker 3: Oh you get it. I called Jaelle after a really

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Speaker 3: long message.

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Speaker 2: No, God, you have to call it right now and

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Speaker 2: tell her to delete that message before she sees it.

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Speaker 1: Drive to her house and destroy her phone.

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Speaker 2: Heed advice from your best friend.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, oh my god, I'm gonna text her till I

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Speaker 7: delete all voicemails.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, but you better not read them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can read a voicemail.

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Speaker 3: Yeah wait wait, wait, like I was a hero for

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Speaker 3: a second, and I'm the bad guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I think so. Yeah, welcome to being a dad.

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Speaker 7: And told her the gender of her baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I know, but it may be even worse.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's not like, but you just ruined the

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Speaker 5: surprise from someone who's not even.

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Speaker 7: She will murder you.

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Speaker 3: What happened to me? I was trying to do everything right.

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Speaker 2: Guys, what you get from being honest?

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Speaker 4: Ryan? Yeah, Brooke brought up a good point though, Like,

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Speaker 4: isn't the name of like the mom written right there

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Speaker 4: on the sonogram?

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Speaker 6: It's behind it, It's all on the sonogram.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you just saw they print the name right.

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Speaker 7: There, right.

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Speaker 3: I didn't study it. I didn't study it, honey. I

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Speaker 3: just saw the picture and I.

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Speaker 7: Wait, wait, wait he just said, boy, does that mean

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Speaker 7: that she's having a boy? Because I didn't know that.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: He never told us. Jose just assumed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He said, I saw it, and you assumed that you

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Speaker 2: could see it.

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Speaker 3: Ryan.

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Speaker 4: Remember Brooks advice from earlier, don't tell your wife what

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Speaker 4: she wants to know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything. I'm ignorant about everything that madam, boy,

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Speaker 3: you're gonna have.

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Speaker 2: A long, happy marriage.

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Speaker 4: Some romantic talk, right, I turned me on.

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Speaker 7: I married an idiot, but he's my idiot.

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Speaker 3: But honey, but honey, good news are actually great news.

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Speaker 3: We still don't know. Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,