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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?
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Speaker 3: we Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and bitches.
Speaker 1: I'm showing off. We got a co host today, y'all.
Speaker 1: You're saying, as a girl a j what's up saying?
Speaker 1: We got a co host on also kicking tam y'all.
Speaker 1: It's me Tim.
Speaker 2: I love y'all. Once again, thank y'all for tuning in.
Speaker 2: Co hosts, go ahead and tell everybody who you are.
Speaker 4: What up, y'all? It's your boy Price. I'm on here
Speaker 4: with the ladies, man, and we're.
Speaker 3: Doing every day it's supposed to be niggas, but.
Speaker 1: I just went all out today.
Speaker 4: All right, yeah, okay, okay, I was the one drink.
Speaker 1: I'm just high off, like man, how is your weekend?
Speaker 1: Yah my?
Speaker 2: We can what did I oh? I went to see
Speaker 2: Beyonce twice in one week, y'all. It was fall amazing. Listen,
Speaker 2: every every weirdo in the world comes to Beyonce concert
Speaker 2: and they feel free. I love every bit of it.
Speaker 2: You can dress how you want to dress. You can
Speaker 2: look how you want to look. Nobody's judging you.
Speaker 5: And we just had a ball.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 5: It was such a good time. I went in at.
Speaker 1: Blue. Ivy was yeah, she was there.
Speaker 5: She was at both Charlotte and Atlanta.
Speaker 2: Now they had the mute you know, the mute challenge,
Speaker 2: the Beyonce Mute challenge, and they said Atlanta one. But
Speaker 2: I feel like Charlotte really wanted that thing. We was quiet.
Speaker 2: He was really quiet during that mute scene. But whatever
Speaker 2: they say, Atlanta.
Speaker 3: Just proven adults got adhd. Y'all cannot follow director. Just
Speaker 3: be quiet for a couple of seconds, for.
Speaker 5: Seconds and be like.
Speaker 4: Somebody something.
Speaker 5: Somebody gotta say, woo, that's really what it is.
Speaker 1: Yes, what did you do? Agent?
Speaker 5: Nothing?
Speaker 3: Play house, that's about it. I'm pretty sure your weekend
Speaker 3: it was a lot more lit.
Speaker 1: Ah.
Speaker 3: After seeing all the videos about the concept, I was like, damn.
Speaker 1: Should I have went to be on the concert?
Speaker 4: Ah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you should have gone. It was a good time
Speaker 5: I had.
Speaker 2: So in Charlotte we had a suite and then in
Speaker 2: Atlanta I had a floor seat, and I was I
Speaker 2: thought the floor sleep was gonna be more lit because
Speaker 2: I mean I was really close to Beyonce's aura, like
Speaker 2: I could see it, like it was like she glowed.
Speaker 4: Right, I was.
Speaker 1: Real close to it.
Speaker 5: But when I tell you, they maximized.
Speaker 2: Every inch of that floor, like it was not enough
Speaker 2: room to do between me and the next person to dance,
Speaker 2: Like you just really packing that motherfucker like sardines, I
Speaker 2: swear to God, Like it just was so close. So
Speaker 2: I didn't like that part the suite. I got to dance,
Speaker 2: I got to move around. It was food, that was.
Speaker 2: It was just a much better experience.
Speaker 3: Big events like that, Like y'all know how many of
Speaker 3: us fucking energy harvesting.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it. Y'all can't have my
Speaker 1: energy what you did this weekend?
Speaker 4: Right, ship man?
Speaker 6: Slow motion for me writing for Sweety damn every day
Speaker 6: she has been taking over my damn life.
Speaker 4: But uh yeah, I just slow my vibes.
Speaker 5: And then in the studio, Yeah that sounds like fun,
Speaker 5: be fun.
Speaker 1: I was soweedy.
Speaker 4: Yeah she cool.
Speaker 5: Did you get that Sweety McDonald's meal.
Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna be I'm gonna tell you the truth. Though,
Speaker 6: I did the Travis Scott one when he did his Yeah,
Speaker 6: because that's my nigga I'm like, Yo, this is the
Speaker 6: first nigga rap nigga Nickdonald's.
Speaker 5: Let me go just yeah, let me just go just
Speaker 5: trying to kill u, y'all, Yes.
Speaker 4: All right, let me go ahead and see what they're doing.
Speaker 1: Trust niggas. That McDonald's dog.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you. Soon as I
Speaker 6: get drunk enough, I'm gonna eat anything that's that's yeah,
Speaker 6: that's that's probably my guilty pleasure. When I'm drunk, I'm
Speaker 6: pulling up and getting me a little nugget.
Speaker 4: With some sweet and salary. It's foul. It's out of line.
Speaker 4: It's out of the line. Mystery exactly.
Speaker 1: Let's get into this stupid internet news.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: For this week, y'all, Sexy Red said she is the
Speaker 3: raw dog Queen.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I would like to make the difference because
Speaker 2: you are the raw dogs.
Speaker 5: How she talking about the raw dog queen.
Speaker 1: When she's been getting rack before Sexy Brand was born.
Speaker 1: If you don't do it, do it, y'all doing everything else,
Speaker 1: like now, you're gonna throw the plastic in between.
Speaker 3: If you don't trust the nigga, just say that that
Speaker 3: I don't trust these niggas.
Speaker 4: Oh brown man. She said what she said.
Speaker 3: Now, why y'all fucking with him at all? If you
Speaker 3: don't trust him? That's my thing. Like, I'm literally not
Speaker 3: fucking with somebody Like I'm not like gonna give you
Speaker 3: my kucie, but I won't suck your dick. Like it
Speaker 3: doesn't make sense to me, right, right, So if I'm
Speaker 3: not willing to do all the things, I'm not fucking
Speaker 3: with you, right.
Speaker 1: It just doesn't make sense otherwise.
Speaker 3: So I'm definitely not the raw dog queen, Okay, because
Speaker 3: I'm I'm a bone ass woman. I take care like
Speaker 3: my hygiene all that shit is number one priority. But
Speaker 3: sex Red appearing on Low Yachties, a safe space podcast,
Speaker 3: and shared explicit details about her bedroom experiences. Red shared
Speaker 3: the story of her ex boyfriend suspecting her of cheating
Speaker 3: due to a condom in the trash. Her surprising response
Speaker 3: to him car fans and surely her man off guard
Speaker 3: that wasn't my condom, Sexy Red said, I don't use
Speaker 3: condom's baby, I'm the queen.
Speaker 6: It made it a great argument though, because it's like,
Speaker 6: if you know your girl and you know y'all would
Speaker 6: be using condoms, and if you know, if that ain't
Speaker 6: really her for a tay like that.
Speaker 4: Then it's like, why would there be a condom?
Speaker 1: It really was like that's worse.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you don't use condos, but that means you're
Speaker 2: not maybe not using condoms with other niggas.
Speaker 1: We'se nigga water balloons.
Speaker 4: Oh, and then it's because but then she said because
Speaker 4: I remember seeing it.
Speaker 6: She said it was her homegirl's dude who was over
Speaker 6: there that seen the condom in the trash can and
Speaker 6: told her dude like, hey, you know what, right, I
Speaker 6: think so fram and then went on over there with that.
Speaker 1: And then I mean, man, I don't got framed by
Speaker 1: by a homeboy before.
Speaker 4: What the hell is raw dog Queen mean? Though? Does
Speaker 4: that mean you don't like because I get.
Speaker 5: It, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: I'm hoping to me.
Speaker 6: Every single person that you encounter and you just raw
Speaker 6: dog queen versus First of.
Speaker 5: All, you can't be the queen without raw dog and everything.
Speaker 4: He can't be the queen if you don't raw dog everything.
Speaker 4: That is a bar.
Speaker 3: Okay, damn well, you only got one kid. We don't
Speaker 3: know how many abortions she had, but she only got
Speaker 3: one kid, so maybe she's not really raw dog.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times he's vicious be out
Speaker 1: here saying ship for fun.
Speaker 6: I got somebody one of my homies is really clusoing.
Speaker 6: He's actually one of my cousins. It, I'm just not
Speaker 6: gonna say his name, one of my cousins. His reason
Speaker 6: for why he he's because he got a girl he's
Speaker 6: extremely faithful to. But his one of his biggest inspirations
Speaker 6: on why he's so faithful to her, how than the
Speaker 6: fact he love he is the fact that he don't
Speaker 6: use condoms, so he not Finnah just fun on anything.
Speaker 1: Rather than not have sex.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because he's.
Speaker 6: Not using her condom and so like it just not happens,
Speaker 6: not even in the cards for him.
Speaker 2: And I'm just not having sex without a condoms period,
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you.
Speaker 2: I have this image right, and it just it scares
Speaker 2: the funk out of me, of me in the hospital,
Speaker 2: like all sick and all my family around me because
Speaker 2: I had raw sex with somebody.
Speaker 4: That was this right one.
Speaker 3: No, look, that ain't scary, ain't not worse than fucking
Speaker 3: on the nigga. And then he coughed right after, like
Speaker 3: why are you coughing.
Speaker 1: But if you have on a condoms, you're not as scared, right, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: might see a little hurt, that's skin contact.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's true. But what about her.
Speaker 5: Make you cough? Like the ship that make you cough
Speaker 5: trapped in right?
Speaker 4: Yeah? But what about world though, because that's.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, like, you can get all that in
Speaker 1: your throat.
Speaker 4: People, because nobody ain't nobody getting no head with no
Speaker 4: kind of one. And it's like at that point, if
Speaker 4: you if you even did that.
Speaker 1: I that one about and KOUTI the same. That's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, but then what about pregnancy?
Speaker 1: Throw baby?
Speaker 2: Like you ain't never hurt? Nobody have a baby out
Speaker 2: their throat. I'm sorry, that's.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I was born of my mama's throat.
Speaker 3: There's so many tools out here. Now listen, get your
Speaker 3: ovulation calendars. Women, If you don't want to get pregnant,
Speaker 3: you don't have to. That ship is really up to us,
Speaker 3: just around the oulation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this girl is gonna advocate for raw dick.
Speaker 1: Everything that's for safe. It's so safe, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Safe fraud dick is what I'm advocated.
Speaker 2: An I can't sleep at night, I be laying in
Speaker 2: the bed somebody you don't trust.
Speaker 5: I don't trust none of these niggah.
Speaker 1: Don't trust yourself is what I'm hearing.
Speaker 5: Don't trust you?
Speaker 4: Yeah, not the new vibes, man, it can't be the
Speaker 4: new vibes.
Speaker 6: But then again, like to your point, it could be
Speaker 6: somebody that you being fucking with. Y'all could be fucking
Speaker 6: around for X amount of time. But he dipping and
Speaker 6: diving exactly.
Speaker 3: I don't like nigg that's dead about niggas spend the
Speaker 3: block anytime, like maybe years and niggas spend the block
Speaker 3: like what you coming to give me?
Speaker 1: Dipp The niggas aren't smashing wrong? Why you got that special.
Speaker 3: Delivery Virginia Hotel room in Vegas?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just it's it's it's tricky. It's tricky, Drake.
Speaker 6: That's why I say, niggas just need to be cool. Man,
Speaker 6: find you a little your little one too, and get
Speaker 6: on out the way.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they have like skin condoms and that thing feels
Speaker 2: close to.
Speaker 4: Skin, oh for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, shows.
Speaker 6: The ecstasy joints is crazy.
Speaker 1: Had a little loube too, feeling like you fall in love.
Speaker 5: I don't need no I had loub, I don't need
Speaker 5: no lub.
Speaker 3: My ship don't work right with them condoms, like it'd
Speaker 3: be feeling like I'm rubbing mychie on the carpet at
Speaker 3: some point, cooling it.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I'm moving right along. Drake came to
Speaker 2: the defense of a woman after a male fan was
Speaker 2: arguing with her over his toss towel in l a
Speaker 2: So Drake threw his towel in the crowd. He was
Speaker 2: throwing it to this particular woman and she caught it,
Speaker 2: but there was a man.
Speaker 1: Right next to her, and he tried to get the towel,
Speaker 1: and he.
Speaker 2: Was literally tussling with this woman for that towel, and
Speaker 2: Drake had to say, like, boy, I seen somebody up
Speaker 2: there on you like flax.
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, now Drake did, right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It seems like men are, you know, oftentimes bigger groupies.
Speaker 5: Than the women.
Speaker 4: Man is the new bitches. Man.
Speaker 1: It's always been this way, though.
Speaker 3: I think y'all really be lying on women the beginning
Speaker 3: of the time.
Speaker 1: Niggas is lying on Eve talking about she ate the apple.
Speaker 3: Megas got that Adam knock in their neck dog right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but no right right, that's the bar right there.
Speaker 6: Nah, but women being the ones lying from the day,
Speaker 6: I ain't gonna lie. I think niggas just niggas just
Speaker 6: been chasing the pussy from the beginning. So the woman,
Speaker 6: she just nibbled on the apple, bit it and there
Speaker 6: was she she did the unthinkable. But then the niggas
Speaker 6: see her doing it, he like, fuck it, I'm with
Speaker 6: my woman and you naked.
Speaker 4: What you're doing right?
Speaker 2: I don't even think the apple was real. I think
Speaker 2: the apple was Eve Adam bidden to her for sure.
Speaker 4: Oh for sure. But Drake did right though.
Speaker 6: I don't understand because at first when I seen the video,
Speaker 6: it was like it looked like girls was tesseling over
Speaker 6: And at first that's why I feel like Drake kind
Speaker 6: of had a little bit of resistance first, like he
Speaker 6: wasn't tripping because it looked like just women, you know,
Speaker 6: fighting over the towel, which is cool. But then it
Speaker 6: started getting crazy, like what And I wonder if the
Speaker 6: dude it's like, was the dude gay maybe, Like I wonder,
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I got questions.
Speaker 5: Does that make a difference.
Speaker 6: It doesn't make a difference, but it does make it.
Speaker 6: It does make a small difference.
Speaker 3: It's a little bit more understandable, but it's what it's
Speaker 3: homo eroticism that be going on with niggas. Niggas be
Speaker 3: writing poems each other through the raps. You're supposedly beefing
Speaker 3: with this nigga, but you're writing poems through your lyrics.
Speaker 3: Y'alling y'all in VIP, damn y'all in VIP damn it.
Speaker 3: Pushing women out of VIP to be next to the
Speaker 3: nigga with the check like men, Yeah, do the same
Speaker 3: groupie ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that work.
Speaker 4: Niggas definitely be on.
Speaker 6: One thing I can't stand is pushing the nigga all
Speaker 6: in the section to be around another niggas.
Speaker 4: Mo niggas.
Speaker 6: It's six girls in this section, it's thirteen of you niggas.
Speaker 6: Like somebody hit the dance floor, somebody go to the bar.
Speaker 5: But right, yes, I get another section.
Speaker 4: That's out of the question. That's out of the question.
Speaker 4: Most times, these niggas ain't getting no sections.
Speaker 6: Niggas in here off off the three drink minimum budget
Speaker 6: maniggas ain't doing it the.
Speaker 3: Same way, the same way we like niggas of money.
Speaker 3: Niggas like niggas of money too. Let's be very clear.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: There's nobody like broke niggas.
Speaker 4: Let's be clear, right, y'all had said the bar though
Speaker 4: earlier y'all.
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know if I may say, but one
Speaker 6: of our prior conversations, y'all said the bar that was like, uh,
Speaker 6: you got some men that feel fueled by how many
Speaker 6: women make the fuck? You got some people that's fueled
Speaker 6: by how many people that could take care of her?
Speaker 4: Something like that was that was that was fire. I
Speaker 4: like this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, all right, So somehow I'm gonna just
Speaker 3: go ahead and say it, bitch azz academics.
Speaker 1: I don't like that, dude. I'm sorry, I just don't
Speaker 1: like him. Okay, I don't like him.
Speaker 3: And now you're coming for I feel like me and
Speaker 3: Erica Badu in the same coven. Okay, be careful, nigga,
Speaker 3: before we put you in a motherfucking jar. Put your
Speaker 3: ass and a freezer right quick. Be very careful talking
Speaker 3: to Erica Badu. Fact, this nigga was talking so reckless.
Speaker 3: So apparently she was on every Day Struggle in twenty eighteen. Okay,
Speaker 3: remember every Day Struggle was academics Joe Remy Ma and
Speaker 3: some other It was one of the I think they
Speaker 3: swapped out somebody. It was like another guy, another girl
Speaker 3: at some point, right, but those three main characters is
Speaker 3: always there. And Erica Badou was on and he was like,
Speaker 3: you know what you look like? She said, you know
Speaker 3: who you look like? Jerry Jerry off of Tom and Jerry.
Speaker 3: And once you see that shit, you can't unsee it. Right,
Speaker 3: the nigga literally looks like Jerry the Mouse off of
Speaker 3: Tom and Jerry. And we also know he was out
Speaker 3: there siding with six ' nine nigga stay snitching dry
Speaker 3: snitching on people on his platform.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So now Harrid is twenty twenty three, got made it
Speaker 1: through COVID. You know what I'm saying, whoever's alive, gonna
Speaker 1: be alive.
Speaker 4: We chilling right?
Speaker 3: How the fuck you beefing with Ericaba? Do buy some
Speaker 3: shit she said to you in twenty eighteen? Why you
Speaker 3: need to check her right there in her face? Here,
Speaker 3: you a grown man in your fucking basement cussing Eric
Speaker 3: Abadu out.
Speaker 1: You look crazy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I witnessed one thing I witnessed about that that
Speaker 6: guy is like he loves to one argue with women,
Speaker 6: because the only time you've ever seen him in the
Speaker 6: in person physical altercation go hard on a woman, well
Speaker 6: on person, it was a woman when he was yelling
Speaker 6: at her.
Speaker 4: Top, I'm the prize and all that and that shit.
Speaker 4: So you never I don't watch too many niggas in person.
Speaker 4: Check the fuck out of him.
Speaker 6: Tell him crazy shit that nigga not budge, even with
Speaker 6: Erikaba do telling him something in public in person, you're
Speaker 6: not budge. But I think now that he's gotten so
Speaker 6: much because he's up now, he millions up at this point.
Speaker 6: So now that he's financially at a different space and
Speaker 6: he really don't gotta go outside to make money, and
Speaker 6: when he does, he got security. Now you're getting a
Speaker 6: whole different tone out that nigga. It's a whole different
Speaker 6: He wanted them, niggas, You wanted them, niggas want to security.
Speaker 6: Finally come now he bucking and barking, like, nigga, what
Speaker 6: you want to do? He wanted them, Like, I'm working
Speaker 6: on me because me two years ago, I would be
Speaker 6: really trying to put my hands on me. But like
Speaker 6: he's somebody who I really feel like I gotta stay
Speaker 6: away from because I will probably put I'm.
Speaker 4: Serious, I really do think I will put my hands
Speaker 4: on him.
Speaker 1: Just yeah, I feel like that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he's he's, he's it's just not fresh for
Speaker 6: our people. And then for him to be kind of
Speaker 6: like a gatekeeper and a you know, it's it's it's
Speaker 6: it's fucking up.
Speaker 2: The narrative for him to say, like Nigga, what's up now?
Speaker 2: What we're finna do is like are you threatening her?
Speaker 5: Like what what is it?
Speaker 2: Even if you don't like what she said, even if
Speaker 2: you're mad at what she said?
Speaker 1: Cool, but all of that, like what you're gonna fight
Speaker 1: Eric I do?
Speaker 6: Man, you better act like you better act like jail
Speaker 6: Electronic cuts her baby daddy cool to fuck out. I'm
Speaker 6: not even first of all, coming will fucking come step
Speaker 6: on you like it's niggas that has just encountered her,
Speaker 6: that will literally fucking well.
Speaker 4: But Nigga Jay Electronica will choke you to death.
Speaker 6: That niggas a fruit of Islam, man, that nigga under
Speaker 6: fair time, man, Nigga tripped, you better leave him alone.
Speaker 4: So no, he crazy.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think he just says things so like we
Speaker 2: can talk about it, of course, Like I just think
Speaker 2: it's just you know, some shock therapy for all of us,
Speaker 2: because why what was the point?
Speaker 4: You know, it's clickbait. But he's really he's really too
Speaker 4: Internet nigga, and he's a part of that this era.
Speaker 6: He's a part of this era where it's just like
Speaker 6: people get in front of their phone, get in front
Speaker 6: of a computer camera, had just pop it, you know,
Speaker 6: like Twitter fingers and you know Instagram warriors and YouTube
Speaker 6: goons like this is what they do, you know what
Speaker 6: I mean. Like he's like the epitome of that, you know,
Speaker 6: so it's really sad.
Speaker 4: K a fuck him up.
Speaker 3: My money on her, Yeah, like Erica don't have to
Speaker 3: leave a house to touch that boy. He better be careful.
Speaker 3: That's academics.
Speaker 1: You do look like Tom and Jerry. You do look
Speaker 1: like Jerry.
Speaker 3: She said, nothing wrong, Okay, it's all fat money. Definitely
Speaker 3: on Erica, y'all.
Speaker 4: But she said, and she said it in your face, man,
Speaker 4: you don't.
Speaker 6: We don't never fuck with nobody who like somebody y'all
Speaker 6: had a physical in person conversation, disagreement, altercation, any of that,
Speaker 6: and you don't budge, you don't move on it, and
Speaker 6: then you go home and get on my Space, get
Speaker 6: on Twitter, get on Instagram, get on black planning to
Speaker 6: get on anything. Yeah, I'm taking all the way back
Speaker 6: to there. I don't give a what you gonna get on.
Speaker 6: You don't deal with that ship head on. You are
Speaker 6: the bottom of the barrel.
Speaker 5: There's what the four or five years later?
Speaker 4: Come on now at the bear.
Speaker 3: I think I might start a beef with academics. I'm
Speaker 3: thinking about it. I might have started. I might do
Speaker 3: it this song. I'm starting beef with that nigga.
Speaker 5: Just make a clip of this.
Speaker 4: You will have started. I'm right, I've envisioned it. I've
Speaker 4: envisioned it.
Speaker 6: I'm waiting to get to a certain level where it's
Speaker 6: like where you're gonna respond to me, and then when
Speaker 6: you respond, I'm I'm gonna hunt on you.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be all.
Speaker 3: You're gonna respond to us. He's gonna respond to a
Speaker 3: woman before he responds a man. Anyway, you already know
Speaker 3: it's about to be on and popping. But I'm pretty
Speaker 3: sure I could be academics up. I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 4: I'm serious.
Speaker 5: I'm not fighting no man, I promise you I'm not
Speaker 5: fighting no man. I'm shooting though.
Speaker 2: I have been going to the ring. All right, y'all,
Speaker 2: we were about to go to a break and we're
Speaker 2: gonna be talking relationships in marriage with Price and we
Speaker 2: have another guest, so we'll be right back in a minute.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all listen, thank you for saying tune. Okay.
Speaker 3: So for today's episodes, Tim and I wanted to talk
Speaker 3: about marriage, right, but neither one of us I'm married.
Speaker 3: We two single pitches, okay. And then we also wanted
Speaker 3: to get.
Speaker 1: The perspective of marriage for men. So today we have
Speaker 1: mister do you call yourself a rapperneur? Is that how it?
Speaker 7: Actually?
Speaker 4: Yeah? A rappreneur?
Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, music, I'm an artist, but I also
Speaker 6: like love business. I'm crazy about business, so.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right.
Speaker 3: So we got mister mister Price, the ratpreneur, okay, and
Speaker 3: then we have uh uh film and TV executive producer
Speaker 3: mister Vlad.
Speaker 4: How's it going, Frazier?
Speaker 1: Is that how you pronouncial? Is that your last name?
Speaker 4: Frenchrivage?
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Okay, y'all welcome, and we talked back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look y'all remember the movie Taller Perry movie?
Speaker 1: Why did I get married? Why did y'all get married. Okay.
Speaker 3: Vladd is currently married, y'all, and Price is a divorce
Speaker 3: of a few years now.
Speaker 5: So why did y'all get married? Let's start with you, led, Why.
Speaker 4: Did I get married?
Speaker 7: It's crazy, you know, So I did the whole I did.
Speaker 7: My situation is a little different. So I got with
Speaker 7: my wife about ten years ago, matter of fact, two
Speaker 7: thousand and nine. About fourteen years ago, we had a
Speaker 7: first child, we moved in together. Around twenty sixteen, I
Speaker 7: had my second child, and by two thousand and seventeen,
Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, we're fully committed to be done at all,
Speaker 7: Like what's the next? There's nothing else to do but
Speaker 7: to get married, right. I did it that way because
Speaker 7: you know, I didn't like the way the traditional things
Speaker 7: were running. You know, you get with somebody, then you
Speaker 7: get married, then you have kids. That's where I always
Speaker 7: like kind of like falters for me, and I never
Speaker 7: really never seen a real relationship go down that way,
Speaker 7: So you know, I had to do things a little different.
Speaker 7: And I've been married four years since and it's been
Speaker 7: good for me.
Speaker 2: Really, I feel like me, I feel like men get
Speaker 2: married like I, damn, we'd done been together seventeen years,
Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead and married.
Speaker 1: Like that too.
Speaker 3: I feel like there's really no rhyme or reason why
Speaker 3: men get married. It's like, whoever you went at the time,
Speaker 3: you feel like you're ready.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's all about mitigating the risks, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean. It's like at that point, it's like where
Speaker 7: we're both going, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It was like, right, what about your price? Why did
Speaker 1: you get married?
Speaker 6: I decided to get married. At the time when I
Speaker 6: got married, I want to say I was twenty five.
Speaker 6: I was I think I was twenty five young. Yeah,
Speaker 6: very But what inspired me to get married because I
Speaker 6: am an artist, you know, I'm in a lot of
Speaker 6: musical settings and well other than the fact I was
Speaker 6: like in love with with the woman, but.
Speaker 4: You know what really was Yeah, it definitely definitely is.
Speaker 6: But what inspired it more than anything too, I could say,
Speaker 6: was just wanting to kind of like stand for something
Speaker 6: a little different for like my generation and my people,
Speaker 6: you know, like I'm big on.
Speaker 4: Just black legacy. And I got two sons.
Speaker 6: Well I have two sons now, but at the time,
Speaker 6: I had one son and it was important for me
Speaker 6: for my son who was not by my ex wife.
Speaker 6: I just wanted him to see black family structure done
Speaker 6: the right way. Like I didn't see that. My family
Speaker 6: wasn't married. My mom my past was in the pen.
Speaker 6: I was five, you know, my mom was in a
Speaker 6: single mom so I'd never seen that structure. My mom
Speaker 6: actually ended up getting married to my stepdad later, but
Speaker 6: that shit was terribly balanced. My mom was the bread winner.
Speaker 6: My steppapt just didn't work. It just did what the
Speaker 6: fuck you wanted to do. So it was just just
Speaker 6: not the proper representation of like a great black family structure.
Speaker 6: And I kind of wanted to just create that for myself.
Speaker 6: And so that's where my inspiration came from, other than
Speaker 6: just love, because I feel like I've even loved other
Speaker 6: women more than my ex wife, But it was like,
Speaker 6: at the current time my life, I was just really
Speaker 6: heavy on that, and yeah, I kind of just went
Speaker 6: for it. That's one thing about me too, Like I'm
Speaker 6: a risk taker, no risk, no reward, Like I believe
Speaker 6: in that.
Speaker 4: So I was just like, let's get it. You know.
Speaker 4: It just didn't exactly, it didn't turn out, you know,
Speaker 4: but we'll get to that.
Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like men benefit from marriage because I
Speaker 2: hear a lot of conversation now like marriages for the
Speaker 2: woman is not for the man, and y'all don't benefit
Speaker 2: at all from it.
Speaker 7: I guess yeah, I benefit because what I like to
Speaker 7: do is like everything with my wife, everything we do,
Speaker 7: like we do like new things together, especially with the kids,
Speaker 7: like it has to be we have a favorite restaurant,
Speaker 7: we'll go through that. But if we're doing something new,
Speaker 7: we're doing something new together. Right. This is what keeps
Speaker 7: it going instead of you know, stagnant. But now I
Speaker 7: enjoy it, you know what I mean, because like this
Speaker 7: dating scene.
Speaker 1: Is kind of crazy crash who.
Speaker 7: Right. And I never did the whole online dating things
Speaker 7: because I'm just like an outside kind of guy. If
Speaker 7: I meet you in person, that's the chemistry is dead.
Speaker 7: We'll go from there. But the date I can't. I can't.
Speaker 7: I don't even like putting myself on Instagram, like pictures
Speaker 7: on myself on Instagram. So to do a whole profile
Speaker 7: and like try to you know, yeah, an audition, it's
Speaker 7: like a Nigga profile.
Speaker 5: They're profile.
Speaker 3: Yeah here I me the same people in heavy rotation
Speaker 3: on those dating apps. To it's like a fucking freedom frenzy.
Speaker 3: Frenzy for fucking that's.
Speaker 1: All it is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've actually never been on none of the dating sites,
Speaker 6: but I can't say when I was.
Speaker 4: Where.
Speaker 6: I can't, yeah, on Instagram unless Instagram is a dating site.
Speaker 1: You know, it is the biggest dating site.
Speaker 6: So then so then I would say then I definitely have.
Speaker 6: But I would say that the man definitely benefit from marriage,
Speaker 6: especially when it's the when it's right, you know what
Speaker 6: I mean, when it's right, when there's a uh proper
Speaker 6: life structure and just balancing communication levels. Man definitely benefit
Speaker 6: because you got a partner, and if you got like
Speaker 6: a wife that you know is a partner and team player.
Speaker 6: It's many ways depending on what type of lifestyle you live,
Speaker 6: that your your wife can help enhance your life and
Speaker 6: vice versa.
Speaker 4: You know. So I think for sure, man benefit.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, like me, I'm a type of dude,
Speaker 6: like I like, I'll be all over the place, so
Speaker 6: I need somebody to kind of.
Speaker 4: Haves shit a little structured.
Speaker 6: I was cool with sharing like bank accounts and ship
Speaker 6: like that, because I want you to just pay for
Speaker 6: all this ship. I'm a money gonna be there. You
Speaker 6: pay for everything you do. I like that type of shit.
Speaker 6: You know, I make my life easy to think about it.
Speaker 1: That's actually old school.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's old school, you know, where the man bring
Speaker 2: home the bacon and the woman spread the money out,
Speaker 2: give him a little.
Speaker 3: I know a lot of a lot of people that
Speaker 3: I know I'm married, Like, usually the woman handles the
Speaker 3: finances like you know what I'm saying. She has a pocketbook,
Speaker 3: she has a check man. Just deposit the money and
Speaker 3: the bills get paid. Now you can get a fucked
Speaker 3: up wife who just be running to jack up on Instagram.
Speaker 3: You know, I think I think pretty much that's how
Speaker 3: a lot of people I know who are married running household.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was where it was successful at for me.
Speaker 6: So to answer the question, I think men definitely benefit
Speaker 6: from marriage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was one one of y'all to say no,
Speaker 3: so we can argue.
Speaker 4: I wish I had, you know, I wish I had
Speaker 4: some pressure back on that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because if you're the type of man to where
Speaker 6: like you actually want to be married, like like some
Speaker 6: men are married based on like weird circumstances and ship
Speaker 6: like y'all were talking about right.
Speaker 2: Like I'm about to go to I'm about to go
Speaker 2: to prison, and I don't need this woman to be
Speaker 2: able to.
Speaker 5: So I'm a marrier, yeah, or just some.
Speaker 4: Type of fundy that your play you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: They don't want to like, oh youve got it pregnant
Speaker 6: and like different from bro shitch suation black where it's
Speaker 6: like it's Connie even like oh I got this girl
Speaker 6: pregnant and she might do let me just marry her,
Speaker 6: you know. Yeah, it be a lot of trickery. So
Speaker 6: with those type of situations I don't even really speak on.
Speaker 6: But when it's a man who actually wants to be
Speaker 6: married and like values the woman they with, man benefit
Speaker 6: too because when you married, you're like sharing your fusing
Speaker 6: life with a person.
Speaker 4: So like marriage forced me to see things about myself.
Speaker 6: I never even like I didn't know I had like
Speaker 6: issues with anger, like I did, you know, certain things
Speaker 6: I was like forced to see and forced to change
Speaker 6: because I cared about like making my partner happy and ship.
Speaker 7: So yeah, yeah of that too. It was great too
Speaker 7: because me and my wife you started doing couple therapy
Speaker 7: and like we didn't I didn't know from like certain perspectives,
Speaker 7: like like certain certain things would affect that right. So
Speaker 7: I was so stuck, you know, just doing my own thing,
Speaker 7: just hustling whatever is like doing I need to do
Speaker 7: for the fan. But when I would have a therapy session,
Speaker 7: what was be like this, this is the way I
Speaker 7: feel from this point of view. I'm like, I would
Speaker 7: never know that, and this is why I feel from
Speaker 7: this point of view. She would never know that. So
Speaker 7: therapist was like a great like mediator to like seeing
Speaker 7: point of views and working on that. And because I'm
Speaker 7: a guy like I just get point of my feelings,
Speaker 7: I'm like, you know, I'm gonna do what they need
Speaker 7: to do. And if you get it, you know what
Speaker 7: it is. I mean, the situation get fixed and then
Speaker 7: we keep it moving. But yeah, having the therapist in
Speaker 7: the marriage is like helpful even if you feel like
Speaker 7: you don't need it and everything's good, but it helps
Speaker 7: out a lot. Though.
Speaker 2: Do you feel like your wife needs to be submissive
Speaker 2: to you?
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all what that's coming from. So we start.
Speaker 3: We wanted to do this episode. Have y'all seen that
Speaker 3: viral video that's going on right now. There's a man
Speaker 3: and woman out at the altar right and you know
Speaker 3: they're reading these traditional vows, which I want all the
Speaker 3: listeners and y'all to know that the vows that they
Speaker 3: read and they have you agree to when you're getting married,
Speaker 3: that shit is not biblical.
Speaker 1: It's not in the fucking Bible, Okay, is not.
Speaker 3: Like so when they got to the part where he
Speaker 3: was the preacher was like for richer or poor, she
Speaker 3: was like because apparently they had dready talked about that
Speaker 3: shit in therapy before getting married. And she was like,
Speaker 3: oh no, I'm not agreeing to the obey part the
Speaker 3: bows right. So that's like a big thing online. It's
Speaker 3: about women being submissive.
Speaker 4: Blah blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: That's, you know, going into TAM's question, what do y'all
Speaker 3: feel about submission in uh marriage?
Speaker 1: Because I think.
Speaker 3: Both me and Tam we feel like both people are
Speaker 3: supposed to submit to each other.
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly, Yeah, exactly, yeah, because it's like, you know,
Speaker 7: I don't want to I wanted to be bickering all
Speaker 7: the time, you know what I mean. It's like somebody
Speaker 7: has to get right, and it's like, yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 7: mean that makes it entertaining as well, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean. It's as long as we have like boundaries
Speaker 7: and structure in that, you know what I mean, we're
Speaker 7: keeping with each other. It's like, okay, yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm married or a woman, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: You could be an independent strong woman, but you know,
Speaker 7: being have a conversation, as you know.
Speaker 5: I don't want to be an independent strong woman.
Speaker 1: Yes, you do b.
Speaker 4: Be married.
Speaker 1: You want to be married right now?
Speaker 5: Being an independent strong woman I.
Speaker 2: Want to like all right, so it says that you
Speaker 2: will obey, and people are like cringing at the word obey.
Speaker 5: I don't mind that.
Speaker 3: Let's read a definition. Let's read the definition of obey
Speaker 3: right quick.
Speaker 1: I got it for y'all.
Speaker 3: Okay, The Cambridge Dictionary definition of obey is to act
Speaker 3: according to what you have been asked or ordered to
Speaker 3: do by someone in authority, or to behave according to
Speaker 3: a rule, law, or instruction. No, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: Because everybody doesn't have all the answers, right, so I
Speaker 3: should be able, we should be able to have a
Speaker 3: conversation about whatever the problem is or whatever it is
Speaker 3: that we're trying to solve together. I don't want to
Speaker 3: always be the number one, number one problem solver or
Speaker 3: decision right and I know that can get tiring for
Speaker 3: a man, right.
Speaker 4: So j do me a favorite though, when we're time,
Speaker 4: can we read that one? We're time?
Speaker 3: Okay to act according to what you have been asked
Speaker 3: or ordered to do by someone in authority.
Speaker 6: Let's stop right there, right So. I love how it
Speaker 6: says asks asked or ordered right right, So it's not
Speaker 6: just like whoever's ordering you to do some shit. To
Speaker 6: tell you what, you know, what I'm saying it you're
Speaker 6: being asked. Now if I got the order your as
Speaker 6: depending on what the situation is, what we're talking about,
Speaker 6: you might get ordered.
Speaker 2: I'm that I'm with that if it's my husband. I
Speaker 2: married this man for a reason, right exactly. That's why
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm not like it doesn't make me
Speaker 2: cringe as much.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I agree with you'll, like I agree with
Speaker 6: what you said in the beginning or at the end
Speaker 6: of the day. I believe that both partners should be
Speaker 6: willing to submit because we're gonna have to submit it moments.
Speaker 4: It's times where it's like I don't want.
Speaker 6: To watch this show, baby, but fuck it, like here
Speaker 6: we are here, we are watching that.
Speaker 7: Love is blind.
Speaker 6: Okay, it's small depending on who and who and what
Speaker 6: you like, what you're doing, who you are. Because to me,
Speaker 6: watching ship that I don't want to watch ain't small
Speaker 6: because like to me, time is money wasted time is
Speaker 6: wasting money. I'm spend two hours watching the show that
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck about, I'm not learning from
Speaker 6: I'm not gaining anything from it. Just to satisfy you
Speaker 6: with this in a time spending moment, that's not small
Speaker 6: to me.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
Speaker 6: But on a bigger scale, there are just moments where
Speaker 6: you know we'll have to see it.
Speaker 4: Like me and my ex wife at the time, I.
Speaker 6: Had a Porsche and she had I had a porch
Speaker 6: that you know, we were married, so I put it
Speaker 6: in both of our names because we're married. But I
Speaker 6: bought the Porsche, you know what I'm saying, Like, obviously
Speaker 6: you know I paid for the first et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 6: My ex wife at the time she had she she
Speaker 6: had a car already like her dad gets cars, so
Speaker 6: make let's start show. She ended up having this this
Speaker 6: brand new Ford whatever. Whatever we we would argue over,
Speaker 6: like if I'm going to a meeting or I got
Speaker 6: a studio session with Travis Scott, etcetera, etcetera. It's like,
Speaker 6: I gotta take the Porsche. You know, she'll be going
Speaker 6: to She'll be going to brunch with her homegirls, and
Speaker 6: we'll be arguing.
Speaker 4: Over this year the board.
Speaker 1: Nigga take the four she.
Speaker 4: This would be real beef.
Speaker 8: We'd be having real issues over this ship. Like I
Speaker 8: would be sitting there looking like, yo, that's my car.
Speaker 8: I wouldn't even go there like my ship. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 8: not even gonna do the mind.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna just actually like make you think about what
Speaker 6: you're saying right now. Like so you want me to
Speaker 6: pull up to Warner Brothers at the Enerscope in the
Speaker 6: Ford when we have a Porsche who Pandamarica in the Groan,
Speaker 6: But you want me to pull up in this fucking
Speaker 6: forward so the niggas can.
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, we live in a.
Speaker 6: Perception era, in a perception day where at that point
Speaker 6: niggas are gonna value me to this Ford. So now
Speaker 6: I'm coming home with instead of one hundred thousand, maybe
Speaker 6: ten thousand dollars play right, because you want to go
Speaker 6: eat and drink.
Speaker 4: With your homegirls and do who knows what the.
Speaker 1: Fuck do the four make the music or do you
Speaker 1: make the music?
Speaker 5: I know she was like that, go right.
Speaker 4: Exactly.
Speaker 6: So I'm just saying that to say at those moments,
Speaker 6: it's like, all right, it gotta be some ordering here,
Speaker 6: Like I ain't necessarily trying to like I want to
Speaker 6: cement and being, but okay, now I gotta lay the
Speaker 6: law down because I'm not taking the ford.
Speaker 4: It's just not even optioning. No more.
Speaker 6: Now we not even talk about it no more, like
Speaker 6: it's not a debate no more.
Speaker 4: Now we go do we can beef. We could do
Speaker 4: it however you want to do it, but the conversation
Speaker 4: is done.
Speaker 2: So yeah, oh there's no head of household.
Speaker 1: Its equal.
Speaker 4: Well go ahead if you want to.
Speaker 6: I don't think it's equal, because I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 6: why it's not equal. If God forbid, We're in our
Speaker 6: home and we laying down and for whatever reason, our
Speaker 6: little alarm system don't go off and somebody end up
Speaker 6: in our house and I got this block at the.
Speaker 4: Top of this damn uh this counter, I mean underneath
Speaker 4: the bed, on the top of the shelf.
Speaker 6: I'm finna lay whoever down and it came up in
Speaker 6: our ship. Them niggas is going down, you're finna be
Speaker 6: protected by all measures and period. You ain't even have
Speaker 6: to think about nothing.
Speaker 4: So to me, it's like I'm not gonna say it's
Speaker 4: like a.
Speaker 6: Head or a head of the house, like an overarchy,
Speaker 6: like somebody just make all the decision about at the
Speaker 6: same time.
Speaker 4: Like there should be leadership, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: I feel like, like you said, if you if you are,
Speaker 6: if you chose to like marry this man, you should
Speaker 6: be able to trust his leadership. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: trush following behind or on side. I'm not even with
Speaker 6: the whole following.
Speaker 7: You could just be on my side, right.
Speaker 6: But I'm going to steer where we're going, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. So that's why I think.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: Sorry to cust you off. But from one thing that
Speaker 7: you said that we are living in this perception era, right,
Speaker 7: So my whole thing is like, before you get married,
Speaker 7: figure all those things out, all those things are right
Speaker 7: to get past that perception ship. And it's like, okay,
Speaker 7: if I know we're going to do this, but whatever
Speaker 7: we get into, it's like, you know, get past that
Speaker 7: perception whatever and whatever you put on on the graund
Speaker 7: and put out to people is what you want to
Speaker 7: put out to people. But you know when you're go home,
Speaker 7: it's solid, right. And the communication too, it's like that
Speaker 7: has to be key something I had to work on
Speaker 7: a lot. Communication.
Speaker 4: But you know, in fact, I just.
Speaker 2: I just want to point out that if there was
Speaker 2: an intruder that came into me at AJ's house, we
Speaker 2: both are going to have our gun. You got George
Speaker 2: and I got my nigga, because.
Speaker 1: Look, somebody gotta love to tell a story. It's always gonna.
Speaker 7: Be mister and missus Smith.
Speaker 4: That's like.
Speaker 3: But yeah, in order for men to protect ladies, right,
Speaker 3: you have to be able to take some type of direction,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like you run and end
Speaker 3: up dead if you can't listen to anybody, right, Yeah,
Speaker 3: So if you want.
Speaker 1: The protection of a man, you gotta be able to right.
Speaker 4: Or not even God forbid.
Speaker 6: But just like and if we have children, like if
Speaker 6: we got children in the house as well, you're gonna
Speaker 6: have to go in here and protect the children at
Speaker 6: the moment, Like you need to go in the road,
Speaker 6: whether it's covering children, whether it's sneaking out whatever that
Speaker 6: looks like, you're gonna have to do that.
Speaker 4: That's that's that's that's the role.
Speaker 6: You gotta tell you the roan for y'all to be
Speaker 6: shooting out in here tying this nigga up or do whatever.
Speaker 4: I will.
Speaker 1: Play.
Speaker 4: That's hilarious, But that's that's great to know that.
Speaker 1: Surprise.
Speaker 3: You said you didn't grow up with like the well,
Speaker 3: I won't even call it normal because the normal family
Speaker 3: structure in the Black community is mom usually usually right, glad,
Speaker 3: did you grow up with your dad in the house,
Speaker 3: so like, did you see like this husband.
Speaker 1: Wife, like what love actually looked like growing up?
Speaker 7: So my dad left when he was when I was
Speaker 7: eight years old. My mom she she raised my brother
Speaker 7: and I and I was like, you know, she's from Haiti,
Speaker 7: so she was really strong, a strong woman. So you know,
Speaker 7: that's why nothing to me is so traditional because I
Speaker 7: don't know what traditional really is from just from watching TV.
Speaker 7: So doing things the way I did it was like
Speaker 7: more you know, speak, Some people say non traditional, but
Speaker 7: it worked for me, right, And I feel like, you know,
Speaker 7: I feel like I work with a lot of people.
Speaker 7: When she gets another the persson you're dealing with before
Speaker 7: you get married. Yeah, and that time a time when
Speaker 7: I tell people this all the time, so she knew
Speaker 7: what you went on getting married, like male or female, Like,
Speaker 7: don't let nobody rush you, Like, don't let anybody rush you,
Speaker 7: because if you rush me into getting married, I'm gonna
Speaker 7: get a divorce right right. If I were doing on
Speaker 7: my terms, you're doing on your terms, and it's like, okay, cool,
Speaker 7: we're good.
Speaker 2: But sometimes you gotta put a little, you know, a
Speaker 2: little push behind that man because y'all be eighty seven
Speaker 2: years old, Like, yeah.
Speaker 1: Baby, you no more.
Speaker 7: Right. I got a little ultimatum after year nine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the problem. I'm confused?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, like I mean, and then just speaking to
Speaker 6: it like the question you asked bro a lot of us.
Speaker 6: And that's why it was so important for me because
Speaker 6: I feel like everybody from the that's eighties babies, d
Speaker 6: these babies, even like maybe late late seventies babies, but
Speaker 6: for the most part eighties babies, nineties babies.
Speaker 4: Things like that.
Speaker 6: You know, we suffer from so many like traumatic ship
Speaker 6: that happened into the black families and black communities to
Speaker 6: where like not having no daddy's around the shit just
Speaker 6: was the norm. Like it's our generation that is getting
Speaker 6: like not even the clean slate, but we're getting the
Speaker 6: opportunity to wipe the.
Speaker 4: Slate clean and change.
Speaker 6: Yeah company, Yeah, because when I'm talking about from crack
Speaker 6: to them, Jim Crow to them, like to welfare, like
Speaker 6: these couldn't even black women couldn't even get welfare if
Speaker 6: like when my mom would try to be with my
Speaker 6: little brother's housing, you even get no if the man
Speaker 6: in the house, you know what I mean, which is just, uh,
Speaker 6: it's a strategy.
Speaker 4: It's a strategy place. So just saying that all to say,
Speaker 4: so many of us that haven't seen that, and that's
Speaker 4: why it is inspiring.
Speaker 6: I do believe, like man, just it's important, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, just got to be flying.
Speaker 4: And got to be done right.
Speaker 2: So there's this term of strong black women. You don't
Speaker 2: never hear, Oh, I got a strong white woman. I
Speaker 2: got a strong Asian woman. You'll never hear that. Do
Speaker 2: y'all expect your spouse to be strong black women?
Speaker 4: I would love for. I would love for. I said
Speaker 4: I got sisters, I got nieces, I got mama.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. I hated seeing how strong.
Speaker 6: My mom had to be like you know, my sisters.
Speaker 6: My sisters all got terrible ass baby daddies and for
Speaker 6: the most part, so ideally, like I would love for
Speaker 6: all like the black women in my life and just
Speaker 6: all no period Black women that won't love that not
Speaker 6: have to be that.
Speaker 4: You know, like I want strong don't necessarily mean.
Speaker 6: That you're weak, right, or you just go for everything
Speaker 6: versus like you versus this, like strong becomes this in
Speaker 6: the house with because we both can't be bulls in
Speaker 6: this motherfucker like somebody, like women, black women ain't even
Speaker 6: able to just be in a like feminine, divine, feminine.
Speaker 4: Era and spirit creativity.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I would love to see that for black
Speaker 6: women because black women are naturally like black women are
Speaker 6: naturally strong, you know what I mean, the real like
Speaker 6: like it's just now tell me, but now it's become
Speaker 6: like a it's a to me. It's a difference between
Speaker 6: strong and independent, right, So like I would love for
Speaker 6: my black women to be strong, but you ain't gotta
Speaker 6: be like this, so happy to have like such this
Speaker 6: independent energy where like I don't need nothing, I don't
Speaker 6: need no niggat.
Speaker 5: Never said that I need a nigga.
Speaker 1: I've never said that ship like, I don't need no man.
Speaker 3: I was raised by somebody like that. But I definitely like,
Speaker 3: you need each other, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: You know my mom.
Speaker 2: I asked my mom when my my mom and dad
Speaker 2: got married. I was like, what was the first thing
Speaker 2: you said to my dad after you married him? And
Speaker 2: my mom said, I got you now, motherfucker. And that's
Speaker 2: so that's what I household I was raised in.
Speaker 6: So you were so you were raised and say, Tim,
Speaker 6: you got to see uh, you know, marriage and I
Speaker 6: got to.
Speaker 5: See family structure.
Speaker 2: But there was very much toxic energy in there because
Speaker 2: they were still very much learning their way. You know,
Speaker 2: as a child, I didn't understand, but looking in hindsight
Speaker 2: as a grown woman, they both were just young black
Speaker 2: people trying to figure it out. And they and this
Speaker 2: is the eighties, so you know, there's drugs, there's crack.
Speaker 4: People.
Speaker 2: People are trying crack because they don't know the devastation
Speaker 2: that you know, it can cause. A party is a struggle. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was a party drug at that time.
Speaker 4: Fact I explained that to people all the time, Like
Speaker 4: people really like that, don't get it like who like
Speaker 4: exactly or.
Speaker 6: Just how like in our eras like perks it pills.
Speaker 6: You know it's like but back then you only had
Speaker 6: one time to try. You try to shit one time, good,
Speaker 6: it'll be a rap.
Speaker 1: So let me tell you crack.
Speaker 3: I this is so off topic, but I wouldn't go
Speaker 3: black people like listen, I read a fucking medical article
Speaker 3: about crack cocaine in particular, how ad hair's to melanin.
Speaker 1: So even like the.
Speaker 3: Hair follicle test is racist, right because of how our
Speaker 3: hair grows. And that's why they do the drug test
Speaker 3: on your hair now, because you gonna catch more black
Speaker 3: people on cocaine or crack through the hair follicle than
Speaker 3: white people because they should. You know, slippery slipped down.
Speaker 1: Our ship is.
Speaker 3: Naughted at the root, right, crazy, so you have white crackheads.
Speaker 3: But it did not like take over the whole community
Speaker 3: like it did black people because it was created to
Speaker 3: fuck black people up, like with melanin, to to fuck
Speaker 3: with melan in particular.
Speaker 4: Yes, a little fact, that's a fact.
Speaker 6: AJ and AJ were you was your parents married or
Speaker 6: did you get to see I think you said you.
Speaker 3: Did it toxic? Okay, they weren't. My mom definitely was married.
Speaker 3: All three of my sisters got the same dad. Tim
Speaker 3: got three girls, three girls, same scenario. Right, My dad
Speaker 3: never grew up. We actually had our dads on for
Speaker 3: episode last year or a year before whatever, And let
Speaker 3: that nigga tell it. No woman ever came between him
Speaker 3: and my mom's marriage. He was doing all this shit.
Speaker 3: They just don't grow up. And I think for a woman,
Speaker 3: you gotta grow up. You gotta grow up because you
Speaker 3: have other people you're responsible for. And sometimes men think
Speaker 3: they have the option, right, And he's coming from a
Speaker 3: house so we never saw like his dad was there.
Speaker 3: But then he left, his dad left his mom with
Speaker 3: eleven kids, you know what I'm saying. So I think
Speaker 3: when we talk about like the systems put in place
Speaker 3: for black mothers, I think that we need to also
Speaker 3: consider that men were actually leaving the households as opposed
Speaker 3: to being put out right.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, not for sure.
Speaker 5: My mom.
Speaker 2: My mom was My mom was submissive, like I'll bring
Speaker 2: you your plate, i'll take your plate, I'll rub your feet,
Speaker 2: but I will also hit you with a car if
Speaker 2: you play with me. Yes, So there was it was
Speaker 2: that dynamic. It was all the way extreme one way
Speaker 2: and all the way extreme the other.
Speaker 5: Right, So I have a little bit of that. I
Speaker 5: don't think I hit nobody with no car, but I
Speaker 5: don't know.
Speaker 4: You bring y'all, y'all bring in the play and taking
Speaker 4: the play back.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, absolutely, absolutely, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I love to serve. That's why things that make me
Speaker 1: happy for real. But we're son We're Southern women.
Speaker 2: I don't know how that applies to women from like
Speaker 2: the North and the West or whatever, but Southern women,
Speaker 2: I think we all like to serve in that way.
Speaker 7: So let me ask you this. So you guys want
Speaker 7: to get married right eventually?
Speaker 1: Absolutely. My last relationship, I was engaged it.
Speaker 3: I didn't make it down at all, but I did
Speaker 3: say yes, how many years together?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: Like four years?
Speaker 7: About four years?
Speaker 1: Almost five years?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been single since twenty sixteen.
Speaker 4: First, what that means like not David or just not
Speaker 4: in a serious relationship? Like what is that?
Speaker 1: I mean?
Speaker 4: I No, I was.
Speaker 2: I've been you know, having situationships or you know this
Speaker 2: and that for I was in a relationship most of
Speaker 2: my twenties and then most of my thirties. I was
Speaker 2: in a relationship too, So I just decided that I
Speaker 2: didn't want a man seriously like.
Speaker 5: You could come over, you got to go.
Speaker 2: But then and now I'm in a space where I
Speaker 2: do want something more serious, but the dating pool is
Speaker 2: just very, very difficult.
Speaker 5: Now, Yeah, I feel.
Speaker 1: Like your husband already married, you's got weight for him
Speaker 1: to get a divorce around five to seven years.
Speaker 5: That's when that ship break up.
Speaker 1: He got there five, he's about to get divorced, and
Speaker 1: then he's gonna be.
Speaker 6: Right now for real though, because sometimes people gotta go
Speaker 6: through you know, some some men are wor Like my
Speaker 6: experience made me incredible, I believe for the next situation,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, because I still I had
Speaker 6: to go through so much just living and learning and
Speaker 6: really dissecting of myself to realize, Okay, what do you
Speaker 6: bring to the table? What do you take from the table?
Speaker 6: Like you kind of be killing the body sometimes too,
Speaker 6: like you know what I mean. So I really had
Speaker 6: to just do a lot of self reflecting. And yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm pretty positive the next ship to be.
Speaker 2: I think that applies to everybody, like your relationships helped
Speaker 2: to guide you to be a better person for the
Speaker 2: next one. Because I know my mouth was reckless and
Speaker 2: my last relationship.
Speaker 3: I used to but I come with a lack of
Speaker 3: respect though, So something happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, respect for him. That's usually when the mouth
Speaker 1: start getting crazy.
Speaker 5: You know what it was?
Speaker 2: It was because he let his baby mama disrespect him
Speaker 2: and disrespect me, and I think that's made me be like, shit,
Speaker 2: I don't nobody respect you where I got to you know,
Speaker 2: really it really was like that, you know, like letting
Speaker 2: people talk to you crazy, you wash the dishes, mother.
Speaker 4: And that point.
Speaker 7: And that's that's perfect for you to know that because
Speaker 7: if you would have gotten married and found out later
Speaker 7: you're like, I'm out, Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: It's like it's kind of crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's when I realized that I can't be
Speaker 2: with a beta male personality like you have to.
Speaker 5: It got to be an alpha because I'm gonna run
Speaker 5: over you.
Speaker 6: Yea.
Speaker 7: At that point becomes a game.
Speaker 6: Yeah, facts, And y'all believe nobody who can get ran
Speaker 6: over like you said, Yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Don't want somebody that I can easily disrespect. I don't
Speaker 3: want nobody like that.
Speaker 6: Or that's getting easily disrespected, like no, be with your
Speaker 6: man and then you hear his baby mamas.
Speaker 4: I got all right, I got two sons and not
Speaker 4: with it.
Speaker 6: So I got two baby mamas my ex wife and
Speaker 6: then my son's one before that.
Speaker 4: And it's order. It's order.
Speaker 6: Granted, you talking to they ship when they won't, you
Speaker 6: know what I mean, little here and there. But you're like,
Speaker 6: y'all don't run my program. Y'all don't run nothing rights,
Speaker 6: But would you gonna say something?
Speaker 7: So it goes back to the whole submissive thing, like okay,
Speaker 7: so you don't want to be the male. You want
Speaker 7: an alpha male. So if he's telling you to do
Speaker 7: something and you're like, okay, cool, we're gonna we're gonna
Speaker 7: do it or not, like you know, I mean, it's like,
Speaker 7: where do you draw that line where it's like you
Speaker 7: are a little bit submissive to this alpha male who
Speaker 7: knows you know, it's gonna control everything. If that's what
Speaker 7: you're looking for at the alpha you.
Speaker 5: Know, so well, hold on ask me that again.
Speaker 7: Sorry, so you say you need.
Speaker 5: You interviewing me?
Speaker 7: It's both of you and Tam. It's like, all right,
Speaker 7: so you you want an alpha male, right and you
Speaker 7: know you know he's known for just telling things same
Speaker 7: things laying right? Yeah, So how does that form line
Speaker 7: when it comes to you mean submissive? You know what
Speaker 7: I mean? Does it? Does it? Is it a lign
Speaker 7: you draw like he can't tell me, he gonna tell
Speaker 7: everybody else but me? Or like, how do you go?
Speaker 5: I don't mind.
Speaker 2: As long as he's an alpha male and I respect him,
Speaker 2: I'll let him take lead as long as I feel
Speaker 2: like he's leading me correctly. Right, you gambling all the
Speaker 2: money way and you're alpha male, that's not that's not
Speaker 2: gonna work. You know, like, damn baby, I lost ten
Speaker 2: thousand dollars again to night.
Speaker 5: That's not okay.
Speaker 7: You know, let me hold another five.
Speaker 3: I definitely would follow a man to the end of
Speaker 3: the earth if he leading me in the right direction.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't think that any man.
Speaker 3: Should expect a woman to just follow you blindly. Leans
Speaker 3: I can go out and I can go out in
Speaker 3: the world and get finessed by other people too.
Speaker 4: So do you really.
Speaker 1: Want a dumb bitch? Okay, be Claire. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I can be submissive at home, but I'm a run
Speaker 3: like run shit when I'm outside this household. You know
Speaker 3: you said something about the table. I cannot stand the
Speaker 3: fucking table, Okay. And I think a lot of men
Speaker 3: like these social media niggas, these podcasts niggas, they don't
Speaker 3: even know what they need on a table.
Speaker 1: While you're asking a woman what she was you do
Speaker 1: it to?
Speaker 4: What do you need? What do you need?
Speaker 3: Because I can bring you a lot of shit you
Speaker 3: don't need, you know, so let me know what you need.
Speaker 1: So I think that sometimes men have to figure out.
Speaker 3: I think men who are more prone to marriage, you
Speaker 3: understand the the benefits of being married to a woman.
Speaker 3: How woman just simply enhances a man's life. Like we
Speaker 3: talked about this shit a lot on the podcast. How
Speaker 3: we literally keep niggas alive even in boyfriend girlfriend's situations.
Speaker 1: Like men don't pay attention to attention to their health.
Speaker 1: You're eating fucked up.
Speaker 3: You don't drink water, nigga, Like you wasn't even drinking water.
Speaker 3: Now you're looking at pH and all this shit.
Speaker 1: When you come to me, you would you get married again? Price? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love to hear that.
Speaker 3: All right, y'all, have you enjoyed this episode. Tune in
Speaker 3: next week for a part to y'all this is just
Speaker 3: part one of this much needed conversation with the Price
Speaker 3: and Vlad. Y'all, if you're enjoy this episode, tuning every
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