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Speaker 1: Talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode that

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Speaker 3: we Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and bitches.

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Speaker 1: I'm showing off. We got a co host today, y'all.

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Speaker 1: You're saying, as a girl a j what's up saying?

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Speaker 1: We got a co host on also kicking tam y'all.

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Speaker 1: It's me Tim.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all. Once again, thank y'all for tuning in.

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Speaker 2: Co hosts, go ahead and tell everybody who you are.

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Speaker 4: What up, y'all? It's your boy Price. I'm on here

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Speaker 4: with the ladies, man, and we're.

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Speaker 3: Doing every day it's supposed to be niggas, but.

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Speaker 1: I just went all out today.

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Speaker 4: All right, yeah, okay, okay, I was the one drink.

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Speaker 1: I'm just high off, like man, how is your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Yah my?

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Speaker 2: We can what did I oh? I went to see

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Speaker 2: Beyonce twice in one week, y'all. It was fall amazing. Listen,

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Speaker 2: every every weirdo in the world comes to Beyonce concert

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Speaker 2: and they feel free. I love every bit of it.

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Speaker 2: You can dress how you want to dress. You can

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Speaker 2: look how you want to look. Nobody's judging you.

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Speaker 5: And we just had a ball.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 5: It was such a good time. I went in at.

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Speaker 1: Blue. Ivy was yeah, she was there.

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Speaker 5: She was at both Charlotte and Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Now they had the mute you know, the mute challenge,

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Speaker 2: the Beyonce Mute challenge, and they said Atlanta one. But

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Speaker 2: I feel like Charlotte really wanted that thing. We was quiet.

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Speaker 2: He was really quiet during that mute scene. But whatever

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Speaker 2: they say, Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: Just proven adults got adhd. Y'all cannot follow director. Just

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Speaker 3: be quiet for a couple of seconds, for.

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Speaker 5: Seconds and be like.

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Speaker 4: Somebody something.

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Speaker 5: Somebody gotta say, woo, that's really what it is.

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Speaker 1: Yes, what did you do? Agent?

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Speaker 5: Nothing?

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Speaker 3: Play house, that's about it. I'm pretty sure your weekend

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Speaker 3: it was a lot more lit.

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Speaker 1: Ah.

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Speaker 3: After seeing all the videos about the concept, I was like, damn.

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Speaker 1: Should I have went to be on the concert?

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Speaker 4: Ah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you should have gone. It was a good time

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Speaker 5: I had.

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Speaker 2: So in Charlotte we had a suite and then in

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Speaker 2: Atlanta I had a floor seat, and I was I

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Speaker 2: thought the floor sleep was gonna be more lit because

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Speaker 2: I mean I was really close to Beyonce's aura, like

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Speaker 2: I could see it, like it was like she glowed.

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Speaker 4: Right, I was.

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Speaker 1: Real close to it.

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Speaker 5: But when I tell you, they maximized.

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Speaker 2: Every inch of that floor, like it was not enough

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Speaker 2: room to do between me and the next person to dance,

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Speaker 2: Like you just really packing that motherfucker like sardines, I

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Speaker 2: swear to God, Like it just was so close. So

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Speaker 2: I didn't like that part the suite. I got to dance,

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Speaker 2: I got to move around. It was food, that was.

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Speaker 2: It was just a much better experience.

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Speaker 3: Big events like that, Like y'all know how many of

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Speaker 3: us fucking energy harvesting.

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it. Y'all can't have my

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Speaker 1: energy what you did this weekend?

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Speaker 4: Right, ship man?

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Speaker 6: Slow motion for me writing for Sweety damn every day

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Speaker 6: she has been taking over my damn life.

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Speaker 4: But uh yeah, I just slow my vibes.

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Speaker 5: And then in the studio, Yeah that sounds like fun,

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Speaker 5: be fun.

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Speaker 1: I was soweedy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah she cool.

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Speaker 5: Did you get that Sweety McDonald's meal.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna be I'm gonna tell you the truth. Though,

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Speaker 6: I did the Travis Scott one when he did his Yeah,

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Speaker 6: because that's my nigga I'm like, Yo, this is the

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Speaker 6: first nigga rap nigga Nickdonald's.

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Speaker 5: Let me go just yeah, let me just go just

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Speaker 5: trying to kill u, y'all, Yes.

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Speaker 4: All right, let me go ahead and see what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: Trust niggas. That McDonald's dog.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you. Soon as I

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Speaker 6: get drunk enough, I'm gonna eat anything that's that's yeah,

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Speaker 6: that's that's probably my guilty pleasure. When I'm drunk, I'm

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Speaker 6: pulling up and getting me a little nugget.

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Speaker 4: With some sweet and salary. It's foul. It's out of line.

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Speaker 4: It's out of the line. Mystery exactly.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into this stupid internet news.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: For this week, y'all, Sexy Red said she is the

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Speaker 3: raw dog Queen.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, I would like to make the difference because

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Speaker 2: you are the raw dogs.

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Speaker 5: How she talking about the raw dog queen.

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Speaker 1: When she's been getting rack before Sexy Brand was born.

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Speaker 1: If you don't do it, do it, y'all doing everything else,

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Speaker 1: like now, you're gonna throw the plastic in between.

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Speaker 3: If you don't trust the nigga, just say that that

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Speaker 3: I don't trust these niggas.

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Speaker 4: Oh brown man. She said what she said.

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Speaker 3: Now, why y'all fucking with him at all? If you

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Speaker 3: don't trust him? That's my thing. Like, I'm literally not

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Speaker 3: fucking with somebody Like I'm not like gonna give you

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Speaker 3: my kucie, but I won't suck your dick. Like it

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Speaker 3: doesn't make sense to me, right, right, So if I'm

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Speaker 3: not willing to do all the things, I'm not fucking

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Speaker 3: with you, right.

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Speaker 1: It just doesn't make sense otherwise.

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Speaker 3: So I'm definitely not the raw dog queen, Okay, because

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm a bone ass woman. I take care like

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Speaker 3: my hygiene all that shit is number one priority. But

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Speaker 3: sex Red appearing on Low Yachties, a safe space podcast,

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Speaker 3: and shared explicit details about her bedroom experiences. Red shared

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Speaker 3: the story of her ex boyfriend suspecting her of cheating

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Speaker 3: due to a condom in the trash. Her surprising response

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Speaker 3: to him car fans and surely her man off guard

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Speaker 3: that wasn't my condom, Sexy Red said, I don't use

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Speaker 3: condom's baby, I'm the queen.

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Speaker 6: It made it a great argument though, because it's like,

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Speaker 6: if you know your girl and you know y'all would

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Speaker 6: be using condoms, and if you know, if that ain't

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Speaker 6: really her for a tay like that.

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Speaker 4: Then it's like, why would there be a condom?

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Speaker 1: It really was like that's worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you don't use condos, but that means you're

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Speaker 2: not maybe not using condoms with other niggas.

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Speaker 1: We'se nigga water balloons.

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Speaker 4: Oh, and then it's because but then she said because

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Speaker 4: I remember seeing it.

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Speaker 6: She said it was her homegirl's dude who was over

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Speaker 6: there that seen the condom in the trash can and

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Speaker 6: told her dude like, hey, you know what, right, I

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Speaker 6: think so fram and then went on over there with that.

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Speaker 1: And then I mean, man, I don't got framed by

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Speaker 1: by a homeboy before.

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Speaker 4: What the hell is raw dog Queen mean? Though? Does

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Speaker 4: that mean you don't like because I get.

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Speaker 5: It, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I'm hoping to me.

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Speaker 6: Every single person that you encounter and you just raw

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Speaker 6: dog queen versus First of.

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Speaker 5: All, you can't be the queen without raw dog and everything.

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Speaker 4: He can't be the queen if you don't raw dog everything.

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Speaker 4: That is a bar.

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Speaker 3: Okay, damn well, you only got one kid. We don't

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Speaker 3: know how many abortions she had, but she only got

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Speaker 3: one kid, so maybe she's not really raw dog.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of times he's vicious be out

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Speaker 1: here saying ship for fun.

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Speaker 6: I got somebody one of my homies is really clusoing.

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Speaker 6: He's actually one of my cousins. It, I'm just not

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Speaker 6: gonna say his name, one of my cousins. His reason

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Speaker 6: for why he he's because he got a girl he's

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Speaker 6: extremely faithful to. But his one of his biggest inspirations

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Speaker 6: on why he's so faithful to her, how than the

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Speaker 6: fact he love he is the fact that he don't

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Speaker 6: use condoms, so he not Finnah just fun on anything.

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Speaker 1: Rather than not have sex.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because he's.

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Speaker 6: Not using her condom and so like it just not happens,

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Speaker 6: not even in the cards for him.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just not having sex without a condoms period,

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you.

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Speaker 2: I have this image right, and it just it scares

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Speaker 2: the funk out of me, of me in the hospital,

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Speaker 2: like all sick and all my family around me because

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Speaker 2: I had raw sex with somebody.

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Speaker 4: That was this right one.

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Speaker 3: No, look, that ain't scary, ain't not worse than fucking

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Speaker 3: on the nigga. And then he coughed right after, like

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Speaker 3: why are you coughing.

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Speaker 1: But if you have on a condoms, you're not as scared, right, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: might see a little hurt, that's skin contact.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's true. But what about her.

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Speaker 5: Make you cough? Like the ship that make you cough

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Speaker 5: trapped in right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? But what about world though, because that's.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, like, you can get all that in

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Speaker 1: your throat.

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Speaker 4: People, because nobody ain't nobody getting no head with no

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Speaker 4: kind of one. And it's like at that point, if

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Speaker 4: you if you even did that.

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Speaker 1: I that one about and KOUTI the same. That's all

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, but then what about pregnancy?

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Speaker 1: Throw baby?

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Speaker 2: Like you ain't never hurt? Nobody have a baby out

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Speaker 2: their throat. I'm sorry, that's.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I was born of my mama's throat.

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Speaker 3: There's so many tools out here. Now listen, get your

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Speaker 3: ovulation calendars. Women, If you don't want to get pregnant,

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Speaker 3: you don't have to. That ship is really up to us,

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Speaker 3: just around the oulation.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this girl is gonna advocate for raw dick.

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Speaker 1: Everything that's for safe. It's so safe, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Safe fraud dick is what I'm advocated.

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Speaker 2: An I can't sleep at night, I be laying in

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Speaker 2: the bed somebody you don't trust.

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Speaker 5: I don't trust none of these niggah.

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Speaker 1: Don't trust yourself is what I'm hearing.

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Speaker 5: Don't trust you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not the new vibes, man, it can't be the

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Speaker 4: new vibes.

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Speaker 6: But then again, like to your point, it could be

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Speaker 6: somebody that you being fucking with. Y'all could be fucking

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Speaker 6: around for X amount of time. But he dipping and

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Speaker 6: diving exactly.

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Speaker 3: I don't like nigg that's dead about niggas spend the

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Speaker 3: block anytime, like maybe years and niggas spend the block

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Speaker 3: like what you coming to give me?

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Speaker 1: Dipp The niggas aren't smashing wrong? Why you got that special.

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Speaker 3: Delivery Virginia Hotel room in Vegas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just it's it's it's tricky. It's tricky, Drake.

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Speaker 6: That's why I say, niggas just need to be cool. Man,

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Speaker 6: find you a little your little one too, and get

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they have like skin condoms and that thing feels

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Speaker 4: Skin, oh for sure.

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Speaker 6: The ecstasy joints is crazy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I'm moving right along. Drake came to

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Speaker 2: Was literally tussling with this woman for that towel, and

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Speaker 3: Megas got that Adam knock in their neck dog right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but no right right, that's the bar right there.

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Speaker 4: What you're doing right?

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Speaker 2: I don't even think the apple was real. I think

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Speaker 4: Oh for sure. But Drake did right though.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I got questions.

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Speaker 5: Does that make a difference.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't make a difference, but it does make it.

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Speaker 3: It's a little bit more understandable, but it's what it's

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Speaker 3: Y'alling y'all in VIP, damn y'all in VIP damn it.

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Speaker 3: nigga with the check like men, Yeah, do the same

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that work.

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Speaker 4: Niggas definitely be on.

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Speaker 6: One thing I can't stand is pushing the nigga all

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Speaker 4: Mo niggas.

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Speaker 6: It's six girls in this section, it's thirteen of you niggas.

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Speaker 6: Like somebody hit the dance floor, somebody go to the bar.

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Speaker 5: But right, yes, I get another section.

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Speaker 4: That's out of the question. That's out of the question.

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Speaker 4: Most times, these niggas ain't getting no sections.

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Speaker 6: Niggas in here off off the three drink minimum budget

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Speaker 3: Same way, the same way we like niggas of money.

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Speaker 3: Niggas like niggas of money too. Let's be very clear.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: There's nobody like broke niggas.

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Speaker 4: Let's be clear, right, y'all had said the bar though

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't know if I may say, but one

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Speaker 6: by how many people that could take care of her?

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Speaker 4: Something like that was that was that was fire. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, all right, So somehow I'm gonna just

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Speaker 1: I don't like that, dude. I'm sorry, I just don't

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Speaker 3: And now you're coming for I feel like me and

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Speaker 3: Erica Badu in the same coven. Okay, be careful, nigga,

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Speaker 3: to Erica Badu. Fact, this nigga was talking so reckless.

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Speaker 3: So apparently she was on every Day Struggle in twenty eighteen. Okay,

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Speaker 3: remember every Day Struggle was academics Joe Remy Ma and

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Speaker 3: some other It was one of the I think they

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Speaker 3: you know what you look like? She said, you know

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Speaker 3: And once you see that shit, you can't unsee it. Right,

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Speaker 3: there siding with six ' nine nigga stay snitching dry

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Speaker 3: snitching on people on his platform.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So now Harrid is twenty twenty three, got made it

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Speaker 1: through COVID. You know what I'm saying, whoever's alive, gonna

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Speaker 4: We chilling right?

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Speaker 3: How the fuck you beefing with Ericaba? Do buy some

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Speaker 3: shit she said to you in twenty eighteen? Why you

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Speaker 3: need to check her right there in her face? Here,

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Speaker 3: you a grown man in your fucking basement cussing Eric

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Speaker 3: Abadu out.

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Speaker 1: You look crazy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I witnessed one thing I witnessed about that that

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Speaker 6: on person, it was a woman when he was yelling

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Speaker 4: Top, I'm the prize and all that and that shit.

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Speaker 4: So you never I don't watch too many niggas in person.

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Speaker 4: Check the fuck out of him.

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Speaker 6: Tell him crazy shit that nigga not budge, even with

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Speaker 6: Erikaba do telling him something in public in person, you're

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Speaker 6: not budge. But I think now that he's gotten so

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Speaker 6: So now that he's financially at a different space and

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Speaker 6: when he does, he got security. Now you're getting a

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Speaker 6: He wanted them, niggas, You wanted them, niggas want to security.

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Speaker 6: Finally come now he bucking and barking, like, nigga, what

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Speaker 6: you want to do? He wanted them, Like, I'm working

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Speaker 6: he's somebody who I really feel like I gotta stay

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Speaker 6: away from because I will probably put I'm.

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Speaker 4: Serious, I really do think I will put my hands

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Speaker 4: on him.

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Speaker 1: Just yeah, I feel like that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he's he's, he's it's just not fresh for

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Speaker 6: it's fucking up.

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Speaker 2: The narrative for him to say, like Nigga, what's up now?

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Speaker 2: What we're finna do is like are you threatening her?

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Speaker 5: Like what what is it?

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Speaker 2: Even if you don't like what she said, even if

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Speaker 2: you're mad at what she said?

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Speaker 1: Cool, but all of that, like what you're gonna fight

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Speaker 1: Eric I do?

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Speaker 6: Man, you better act like you better act like jail

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Speaker 6: Electronic cuts her baby daddy cool to fuck out. I'm

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Speaker 6: not even first of all, coming will fucking come step

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Speaker 6: that will literally fucking well.

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Speaker 4: But Nigga Jay Electronica will choke you to death.

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Speaker 6: That niggas a fruit of Islam, man, that nigga under

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Speaker 6: fair time, man, Nigga tripped, you better leave him alone.

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Speaker 4: So no, he crazy.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I think he just says things so like we

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Speaker 2: it's just you know, some shock therapy for all of us,

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Speaker 2: because why what was the point?

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Speaker 4: You know, it's clickbait. But he's really he's really too

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Speaker 6: He's a part of this era where it's just like

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Speaker 6: people get in front of their phone, get in front

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Speaker 6: of a computer camera, had just pop it, you know,

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Speaker 6: like Twitter fingers and you know Instagram warriors and YouTube

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Speaker 6: goons like this is what they do, you know what

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Speaker 6: I mean. Like he's like the epitome of that, you know,

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Speaker 6: so it's really sad.

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Speaker 4: K a fuck him up.

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Speaker 3: My money on her, Yeah, like Erica don't have to

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Speaker 3: That's academics.

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Speaker 1: You do look like Tom and Jerry. You do look

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Speaker 1: like Jerry.

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Speaker 3: She said, nothing wrong, Okay, it's all fat money. Definitely

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Speaker 4: But she said, and she said it in your face, man,

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Speaker 4: you don't.

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Speaker 6: We don't never fuck with nobody who like somebody y'all

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Speaker 6: and you don't budge, you don't move on it, and

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Speaker 6: then you go home and get on my Space, get

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Speaker 6: on Twitter, get on Instagram, get on black planning to

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Speaker 6: get on anything. Yeah, I'm taking all the way back

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Speaker 6: to there. I don't give a what you gonna get on.

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Speaker 6: You don't deal with that ship head on. You are

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Speaker 5: There's what the four or five years later?

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Speaker 4: Come on now at the bear.

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Speaker 3: I think I might start a beef with academics. I'm

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Speaker 3: thinking about it. I might have started. I might do

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Speaker 3: it this song. I'm starting beef with that nigga.

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Speaker 5: Just make a clip of this.

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Speaker 4: You will have started. I'm right, I've envisioned it. I've

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Speaker 6: I'm waiting to get to a certain level where it's

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Speaker 6: like where you're gonna respond to me, and then when

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Speaker 6: you respond, I'm I'm gonna hunt on you.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna be all.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna respond to us. He's gonna respond to a

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Speaker 3: woman before he responds a man. Anyway, you already know

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Speaker 4: I'm serious.

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Speaker 5: I'm not fighting no man, I promise you I'm not

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Speaker 5: fighting no man. I'm shooting though.

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Speaker 2: I have been going to the ring. All right, y'all,

447
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Speaker 2: we were about to go to a break and we're

448
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Speaker 2: gonna be talking relationships in marriage with Price and we

449
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Speaker 2: have another guest, so we'll be right back in a minute.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all listen, thank you for saying tune. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So for today's episodes, Tim and I wanted to talk

452
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Speaker 3: about marriage, right, but neither one of us I'm married.

453
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Speaker 3: We two single pitches, okay. And then we also wanted

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Speaker 3: to get.

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Speaker 1: The perspective of marriage for men. So today we have

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Speaker 1: mister do you call yourself a rapperneur? Is that how it?

457
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Speaker 7: Actually?

458
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Speaker 4: Yeah? A rappreneur?

459
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, music, I'm an artist, but I also

460
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 6: like love business. I'm crazy about business, so.

461
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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right.

462
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Speaker 3: So we got mister mister Price, the ratpreneur, okay, and

463
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Speaker 3: then we have uh uh film and TV executive producer

464
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Speaker 3: mister Vlad.

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Speaker 4: How's it going, Frazier?

466
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Speaker 1: Is that how you pronouncial? Is that your last name?

467
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Speaker 4: Frenchrivage?

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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Okay, y'all welcome, and we talked back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look y'all remember the movie Taller Perry movie?

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Speaker 1: Why did I get married? Why did y'all get married. Okay.

471
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Speaker 3: Vladd is currently married, y'all, and Price is a divorce

472
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 3: of a few years now.

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Speaker 5: So why did y'all get married? Let's start with you, led, Why.

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Speaker 4: Did I get married?

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Speaker 7: It's crazy, you know, So I did the whole I did.

476
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Speaker 7: My situation is a little different. So I got with

477
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Speaker 7: my wife about ten years ago, matter of fact, two

478
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Speaker 7: thousand and nine. About fourteen years ago, we had a

479
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Speaker 7: first child, we moved in together. Around twenty sixteen, I

480
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 7: had my second child, and by two thousand and seventeen,

481
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Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, we're fully committed to be done at all,

482
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Speaker 7: Like what's the next? There's nothing else to do but

483
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Speaker 7: to get married, right. I did it that way because

484
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Speaker 7: you know, I didn't like the way the traditional things

485
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Speaker 7: were running. You know, you get with somebody, then you

486
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Speaker 7: get married, then you have kids. That's where I always

487
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Speaker 7: like kind of like falters for me, and I never

488
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Speaker 7: really never seen a real relationship go down that way,

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Speaker 7: So you know, I had to do things a little different.

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Speaker 7: And I've been married four years since and it's been

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Speaker 7: good for me.

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Speaker 2: Really, I feel like me, I feel like men get

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Speaker 2: married like I, damn, we'd done been together seventeen years,

494
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Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead and married.

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Speaker 1: Like that too.

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's really no rhyme or reason why

497
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Speaker 3: men get married. It's like, whoever you went at the time,

498
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Speaker 3: you feel like you're ready.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's all about mitigating the risks, you know what

500
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Speaker 7: I mean. It's like at that point, it's like where

501
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 7: we're both going, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It was like, right, what about your price? Why did

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Speaker 1: you get married?

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Speaker 6: I decided to get married. At the time when I

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Speaker 6: got married, I want to say I was twenty five.

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Speaker 6: I was I think I was twenty five young. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: very But what inspired me to get married because I

508
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Speaker 6: am an artist, you know, I'm in a lot of

509
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Speaker 6: musical settings and well other than the fact I was

510
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Speaker 6: like in love with with the woman, but.

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Speaker 4: You know what really was Yeah, it definitely definitely is.

512
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Speaker 6: But what inspired it more than anything too, I could say,

513
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Speaker 6: was just wanting to kind of like stand for something

514
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 6: a little different for like my generation and my people,

515
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Speaker 6: you know, like I'm big on.

516
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Speaker 4: Just black legacy. And I got two sons.

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Speaker 6: Well I have two sons now, but at the time,

518
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 6: I had one son and it was important for me

519
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 6: for my son who was not by my ex wife.

520
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Speaker 6: I just wanted him to see black family structure done

521
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 6: the right way. Like I didn't see that. My family

522
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 6: wasn't married. My mom my past was in the pen.

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Speaker 6: I was five, you know, my mom was in a

524
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Speaker 6: single mom so I'd never seen that structure. My mom

525
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Speaker 6: actually ended up getting married to my stepdad later, but

526
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 6: that shit was terribly balanced. My mom was the bread winner.

527
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 6: My steppapt just didn't work. It just did what the

528
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 6: fuck you wanted to do. So it was just just

529
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Speaker 6: not the proper representation of like a great black family structure.

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Speaker 6: And I kind of wanted to just create that for myself.

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Speaker 6: And so that's where my inspiration came from, other than

532
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Speaker 6: just love, because I feel like I've even loved other

533
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Speaker 6: women more than my ex wife, But it was like,

534
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Speaker 6: at the current time my life, I was just really

535
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 6: heavy on that, and yeah, I kind of just went

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Speaker 6: for it. That's one thing about me too, Like I'm

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Speaker 6: a risk taker, no risk, no reward, Like I believe

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Speaker 6: in that.

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Speaker 4: So I was just like, let's get it. You know.

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Speaker 4: It just didn't exactly, it didn't turn out, you know,

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Speaker 4: but we'll get to that.

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Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like men benefit from marriage because I

543
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Speaker 2: hear a lot of conversation now like marriages for the

544
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Speaker 2: woman is not for the man, and y'all don't benefit

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Speaker 2: at all from it.

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Speaker 7: I guess yeah, I benefit because what I like to

547
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 7: do is like everything with my wife, everything we do,

548
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 7: like we do like new things together, especially with the kids,

549
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 7: like it has to be we have a favorite restaurant,

550
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,959
Speaker 7: we'll go through that. But if we're doing something new,

551
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 7: we're doing something new together. Right. This is what keeps

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00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 7: it going instead of you know, stagnant. But now I

553
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 7: enjoy it, you know what I mean, because like this

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Speaker 7: dating scene.

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Speaker 1: Is kind of crazy crash who.

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Speaker 7: Right. And I never did the whole online dating things

557
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 7: because I'm just like an outside kind of guy. If

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Speaker 7: I meet you in person, that's the chemistry is dead.

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00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 7: We'll go from there. But the date I can't. I can't.

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Speaker 7: I don't even like putting myself on Instagram, like pictures

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Speaker 7: on myself on Instagram. So to do a whole profile

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00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 7: and like try to you know, yeah, an audition, it's

563
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 7: like a Nigga profile.

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Speaker 5: They're profile.

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Speaker 3: Yeah here I me the same people in heavy rotation

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Speaker 3: on those dating apps. To it's like a fucking freedom frenzy.

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00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 3: Frenzy for fucking that's.

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Speaker 1: All it is.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I've actually never been on none of the dating sites,

570
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Speaker 6: but I can't say when I was.

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Speaker 4: Where.

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Speaker 6: I can't, yeah, on Instagram unless Instagram is a dating site.

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Speaker 1: You know, it is the biggest dating site.

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Speaker 6: So then so then I would say then I definitely have.

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Speaker 6: But I would say that the man definitely benefit from marriage,

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Speaker 6: especially when it's the when it's right, you know what

577
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 6: I mean, when it's right, when there's a uh proper

578
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 6: life structure and just balancing communication levels. Man definitely benefit

579
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 6: because you got a partner, and if you got like

580
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 6: a wife that you know is a partner and team player.

581
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 6: It's many ways depending on what type of lifestyle you live,

582
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 6: that your your wife can help enhance your life and

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00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 6: vice versa.

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Speaker 4: You know. So I think for sure, man benefit.

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00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, like me, I'm a type of dude,

586
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 6: like I like, I'll be all over the place, so

587
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 6: I need somebody to kind of.

588
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 4: Haves shit a little structured.

589
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 6: I was cool with sharing like bank accounts and ship

590
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 6: like that, because I want you to just pay for

591
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 6: all this ship. I'm a money gonna be there. You

592
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 6: pay for everything you do. I like that type of shit.

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00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 6: You know, I make my life easy to think about it.

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Speaker 1: That's actually old school.

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00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's old school, you know, where the man bring

596
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 2: home the bacon and the woman spread the money out,

597
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: give him a little.

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Speaker 3: I know a lot of a lot of people that

599
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 3: I know I'm married, Like, usually the woman handles the

600
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 3: finances like you know what I'm saying. She has a pocketbook,

601
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 3: she has a check man. Just deposit the money and

602
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 3: the bills get paid. Now you can get a fucked

603
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 3: up wife who just be running to jack up on Instagram.

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00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: You know, I think I think pretty much that's how

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00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 3: a lot of people I know who are married running household.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that was where it was successful at for me.

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00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 6: So to answer the question, I think men definitely benefit

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Speaker 6: from marriage.

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00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was one one of y'all to say no,

610
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 3: so we can argue.

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00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 4: I wish I had, you know, I wish I had

612
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 4: some pressure back on that.

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00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, because if you're the type of man to where

614
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 6: like you actually want to be married, like like some

615
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 6: men are married based on like weird circumstances and ship

616
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 6: like y'all were talking about right.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm about to go to I'm about to go

618
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Speaker 2: to prison, and I don't need this woman to be

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Speaker 2: able to.

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Speaker 5: So I'm a marrier, yeah, or just some.

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Speaker 4: Type of fundy that your play you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: They don't want to like, oh youve got it pregnant

623
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 6: and like different from bro shitch suation black where it's

624
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 6: like it's Connie even like oh I got this girl

625
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 6: pregnant and she might do let me just marry her,

626
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 6: you know. Yeah, it be a lot of trickery. So

627
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 6: with those type of situations I don't even really speak on.

628
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 6: But when it's a man who actually wants to be

629
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Speaker 6: married and like values the woman they with, man benefit

630
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 6: too because when you married, you're like sharing your fusing

631
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Speaker 6: life with a person.

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Speaker 4: So like marriage forced me to see things about myself.

633
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 6: I never even like I didn't know I had like

634
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 6: issues with anger, like I did, you know, certain things

635
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 6: I was like forced to see and forced to change

636
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 6: because I cared about like making my partner happy and ship.

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00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 7: So yeah, yeah of that too. It was great too

638
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 7: because me and my wife you started doing couple therapy

639
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 7: and like we didn't I didn't know from like certain perspectives,

640
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 7: like like certain certain things would affect that right. So

641
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 7: I was so stuck, you know, just doing my own thing,

642
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 7: just hustling whatever is like doing I need to do

643
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 7: for the fan. But when I would have a therapy session,

644
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 7: what was be like this, this is the way I

645
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 7: feel from this point of view. I'm like, I would

646
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 7: never know that, and this is why I feel from

647
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 7: this point of view. She would never know that. So

648
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 7: therapist was like a great like mediator to like seeing

649
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 7: point of views and working on that. And because I'm

650
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 7: a guy like I just get point of my feelings,

651
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 7: I'm like, you know, I'm gonna do what they need

652
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 7: to do. And if you get it, you know what

653
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 7: it is. I mean, the situation get fixed and then

654
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 7: we keep it moving. But yeah, having the therapist in

655
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 7: the marriage is like helpful even if you feel like

656
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 7: you don't need it and everything's good, but it helps

657
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 7: out a lot. Though.

658
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 2: Do you feel like your wife needs to be submissive

659
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: to you?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all what that's coming from. So we start.

661
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Speaker 3: We wanted to do this episode. Have y'all seen that

662
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 3: viral video that's going on right now. There's a man

663
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 3: and woman out at the altar right and you know

664
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Speaker 3: they're reading these traditional vows, which I want all the

665
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 3: listeners and y'all to know that the vows that they

666
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 3: read and they have you agree to when you're getting married,

667
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 3: that shit is not biblical.

668
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: It's not in the fucking Bible, Okay, is not.

669
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 3: Like so when they got to the part where he

670
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 3: was the preacher was like for richer or poor, she

671
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 3: was like because apparently they had dready talked about that

672
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 3: shit in therapy before getting married. And she was like,

673
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 3: oh no, I'm not agreeing to the obey part the

674
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 3: bows right. So that's like a big thing online. It's

675
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 3: about women being submissive.

676
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 4: Blah blah blah blah blah blah.

677
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 3: That's, you know, going into TAM's question, what do y'all

678
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: feel about submission in uh marriage?

679
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: Because I think.

680
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 3: Both me and Tam we feel like both people are

681
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 3: supposed to submit to each other.

682
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly, Yeah, exactly, yeah, because it's like, you know,

683
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 7: I don't want to I wanted to be bickering all

684
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 7: the time, you know what I mean. It's like somebody

685
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 7: has to get right, and it's like, yeah, yeah, I

686
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 7: mean that makes it entertaining as well, you know what

687
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 7: I mean. It's as long as we have like boundaries

688
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,239
Speaker 7: and structure in that, you know what I mean, we're

689
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 7: keeping with each other. It's like, okay, yeah, but yeah,

690
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 7: I'm married or a woman, you know what I mean.

691
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 7: You could be an independent strong woman, but you know,

692
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 7: being have a conversation, as you know.

693
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 5: I don't want to be an independent strong woman.

694
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: Yes, you do b.

695
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 4: Be married.

696
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: You want to be married right now?

697
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 5: Being an independent strong woman I.

698
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 2: Want to like all right, so it says that you

699
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 2: will obey, and people are like cringing at the word obey.

700
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 5: I don't mind that.

701
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: Let's read a definition. Let's read the definition of obey

702
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 3: right quick.

703
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 1: I got it for y'all.

704
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 3: Okay, The Cambridge Dictionary definition of obey is to act

705
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 3: according to what you have been asked or ordered to

706
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: do by someone in authority, or to behave according to

707
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 3: a rule, law, or instruction. No, you know what I'm saying,

708
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 3: Because everybody doesn't have all the answers, right, so I

709
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 3: should be able, we should be able to have a

710
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 3: conversation about whatever the problem is or whatever it is

711
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 3: that we're trying to solve together. I don't want to

712
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 3: always be the number one, number one problem solver or

713
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 3: decision right and I know that can get tiring for

714
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 3: a man, right.

715
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 4: So j do me a favorite though, when we're time,

716
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 4: can we read that one? We're time?

717
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 3: Okay to act according to what you have been asked

718
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 3: or ordered to do by someone in authority.

719
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 6: Let's stop right there, right So. I love how it

720
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 6: says asks asked or ordered right right, So it's not

721
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 6: just like whoever's ordering you to do some shit. To

722
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 6: tell you what, you know, what I'm saying it you're

723
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 6: being asked. Now if I got the order your as

724
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 6: depending on what the situation is, what we're talking about,

725
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 6: you might get ordered.

726
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm that I'm with that if it's my husband. I

727
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: married this man for a reason, right exactly. That's why

728
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm not like it doesn't make me

729
00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 2: cringe as much.

730
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I agree with you'll, like I agree with

731
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 6: what you said in the beginning or at the end

732
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 6: of the day. I believe that both partners should be

733
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 6: willing to submit because we're gonna have to submit it moments.

734
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 4: It's times where it's like I don't want.

735
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 6: To watch this show, baby, but fuck it, like here

736
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 6: we are here, we are watching that.

737
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 7: Love is blind.

738
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 6: Okay, it's small depending on who and who and what

739
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 6: you like, what you're doing, who you are. Because to me,

740
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 6: watching ship that I don't want to watch ain't small

741
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 6: because like to me, time is money wasted time is

742
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 6: wasting money. I'm spend two hours watching the show that

743
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck about, I'm not learning from

744
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 6: I'm not gaining anything from it. Just to satisfy you

745
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 6: with this in a time spending moment, that's not small

746
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 6: to me.

747
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

748
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 6: But on a bigger scale, there are just moments where

749
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 6: you know we'll have to see it.

750
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 4: Like me and my ex wife at the time, I.

751
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 6: Had a Porsche and she had I had a porch

752
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 6: that you know, we were married, so I put it

753
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 6: in both of our names because we're married. But I

754
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 6: bought the Porsche, you know what I'm saying, Like, obviously

755
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 6: you know I paid for the first et cetera, et cetera.

756
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 6: My ex wife at the time she had she she

757
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 6: had a car already like her dad gets cars, so

758
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 6: make let's start show. She ended up having this this

759
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 6: brand new Ford whatever. Whatever we we would argue over,

760
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 6: like if I'm going to a meeting or I got

761
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 6: a studio session with Travis Scott, etcetera, etcetera. It's like,

762
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 6: I gotta take the Porsche. You know, she'll be going

763
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 6: to She'll be going to brunch with her homegirls, and

764
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 6: we'll be arguing.

765
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 4: Over this year the board.

766
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: Nigga take the four she.

767
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 4: This would be real beef.

768
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 8: We'd be having real issues over this ship. Like I

769
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 8: would be sitting there looking like, yo, that's my car.

770
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 8: I wouldn't even go there like my ship. Yeah, I'm

771
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 8: not even gonna do the mind.

772
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 6: I'm gonna just actually like make you think about what

773
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 6: you're saying right now. Like so you want me to

774
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 6: pull up to Warner Brothers at the Enerscope in the

775
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 6: Ford when we have a Porsche who Pandamarica in the Groan,

776
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 6: But you want me to pull up in this fucking

777
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 6: forward so the niggas can.

778
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, we live in a.

779
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 6: Perception era, in a perception day where at that point

780
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 6: niggas are gonna value me to this Ford. So now

781
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 6: I'm coming home with instead of one hundred thousand, maybe

782
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 6: ten thousand dollars play right, because you want to go

783
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 6: eat and drink.

784
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 4: With your homegirls and do who knows what the.

785
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: Fuck do the four make the music or do you

786
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 1: make the music?

787
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,720
Speaker 5: I know she was like that, go right.

788
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 4: Exactly.

789
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 6: So I'm just saying that to say at those moments,

790
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 6: it's like, all right, it gotta be some ordering here,

791
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 6: Like I ain't necessarily trying to like I want to

792
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 6: cement and being, but okay, now I gotta lay the

793
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 6: law down because I'm not taking the ford.

794
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 4: It's just not even optioning. No more.

795
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 6: Now we not even talk about it no more, like

796
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 6: it's not a debate no more.

797
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 4: Now we go do we can beef. We could do

798
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 4: it however you want to do it, but the conversation

799
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 4: is done.

800
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, oh there's no head of household.

801
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: Its equal.

802
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: Well go ahead if you want to.

803
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 6: I don't think it's equal, because I'm gonna tell you

804
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 6: why it's not equal. If God forbid, We're in our

805
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 6: home and we laying down and for whatever reason, our

806
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 6: little alarm system don't go off and somebody end up

807
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 6: in our house and I got this block at the.

808
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 4: Top of this damn uh this counter, I mean underneath

809
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 4: the bed, on the top of the shelf.

810
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 6: I'm finna lay whoever down and it came up in

811
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 6: our ship. Them niggas is going down, you're finna be

812
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 6: protected by all measures and period. You ain't even have

813
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 6: to think about nothing.

814
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 4: So to me, it's like I'm not gonna say it's

815
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 4: like a.

816
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 6: Head or a head of the house, like an overarchy,

817
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 6: like somebody just make all the decision about at the

818
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 6: same time.

819
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 4: Like there should be leadership, you know what I'm saying.

820
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 6: I feel like, like you said, if you if you are,

821
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 6: if you chose to like marry this man, you should

822
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 6: be able to trust his leadership. You know what I'm saying,

823
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 6: trush following behind or on side. I'm not even with

824
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 6: the whole following.

825
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,760
Speaker 7: You could just be on my side, right.

826
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 6: But I'm going to steer where we're going, you know

827
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. So that's why I think.

828
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm I'm sorry.

829
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 7: Sorry to cust you off. But from one thing that

830
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 7: you said that we are living in this perception era, right,

831
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 7: So my whole thing is like, before you get married,

832
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 7: figure all those things out, all those things are right

833
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 7: to get past that perception ship. And it's like, okay,

834
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 7: if I know we're going to do this, but whatever

835
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 7: we get into, it's like, you know, get past that

836
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 7: perception whatever and whatever you put on on the graund

837
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 7: and put out to people is what you want to

838
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,479
Speaker 7: put out to people. But you know when you're go home,

839
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 7: it's solid, right. And the communication too, it's like that

840
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 7: has to be key something I had to work on

841
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 7: a lot. Communication.

842
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:50,439
Speaker 4: But you know, in fact, I just.

843
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: I just want to point out that if there was

844
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: an intruder that came into me at AJ's house, we

845
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 2: both are going to have our gun. You got George

846
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 2: and I got my nigga, because.

847
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: Look, somebody gotta love to tell a story. It's always gonna.

848
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 7: Be mister and missus Smith.

849
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 4: That's like.

850
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 3: But yeah, in order for men to protect ladies, right,

851
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 3: you have to be able to take some type of direction,

852
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like you run and end

853
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 3: up dead if you can't listen to anybody, right, Yeah,

854
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 3: So if you want.

855
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,919
Speaker 1: The protection of a man, you gotta be able to right.

856
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 4: Or not even God forbid.

857
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 6: But just like and if we have children, like if

858
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 6: we got children in the house as well, you're gonna

859
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 6: have to go in here and protect the children at

860
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 6: the moment, Like you need to go in the road,

861
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 6: whether it's covering children, whether it's sneaking out whatever that

862
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 6: looks like, you're gonna have to do that.

863
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 4: That's that's that's that's the role.

864
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 6: You gotta tell you the roan for y'all to be

865
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 6: shooting out in here tying this nigga up or do whatever.

866
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 4: I will.

867
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: Play.

868
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 4: That's hilarious, But that's that's great to know that.

869
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:10,760
Speaker 1: Surprise.

870
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 3: You said you didn't grow up with like the well,

871
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 3: I won't even call it normal because the normal family

872
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:19,439
Speaker 3: structure in the Black community is mom usually usually right, glad,

873
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 3: did you grow up with your dad in the house,

874
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: so like, did you see like this husband.

875
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: Wife, like what love actually looked like growing up?

876
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 7: So my dad left when he was when I was

877
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 7: eight years old. My mom she she raised my brother

878
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 7: and I and I was like, you know, she's from Haiti,

879
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 7: so she was really strong, a strong woman. So you know,

880
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 7: that's why nothing to me is so traditional because I

881
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 7: don't know what traditional really is from just from watching TV.

882
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 7: So doing things the way I did it was like

883
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 7: more you know, speak, Some people say non traditional, but

884
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 7: it worked for me, right, And I feel like, you know,

885
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 7: I feel like I work with a lot of people.

886
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 7: When she gets another the persson you're dealing with before

887
00:41:55,560 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 7: you get married. Yeah, and that time a time when

888
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 7: I tell people this all the time, so she knew

889
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 7: what you went on getting married, like male or female, Like,

890
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 7: don't let nobody rush you, Like, don't let anybody rush you,

891
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 7: because if you rush me into getting married, I'm gonna

892
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 7: get a divorce right right. If I were doing on

893
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 7: my terms, you're doing on your terms, and it's like, okay, cool,

894
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 7: we're good.

895
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 2: But sometimes you gotta put a little, you know, a

896
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: little push behind that man because y'all be eighty seven

897
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: years old, Like, yeah.

898
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: Baby, you no more.

899
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 7: Right. I got a little ultimatum after year nine.

900
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the problem. I'm confused?

901
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, like I mean, and then just speaking to

902
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 6: it like the question you asked bro a lot of us.

903
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 6: And that's why it was so important for me because

904
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 6: I feel like everybody from the that's eighties babies, d

905
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 6: these babies, even like maybe late late seventies babies, but

906
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 6: for the most part eighties babies, nineties babies.

907
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 4: Things like that.

908
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 6: You know, we suffer from so many like traumatic ship

909
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 6: that happened into the black families and black communities to

910
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 6: where like not having no daddy's around the shit just

911
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 6: was the norm. Like it's our generation that is getting

912
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 6: like not even the clean slate, but we're getting the

913
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 6: opportunity to wipe the.

914
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 4: Slate clean and change.

915
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 6: Yeah company, Yeah, because when I'm talking about from crack

916
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 6: to them, Jim Crow to them, like to welfare, like

917
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 6: these couldn't even black women couldn't even get welfare if

918
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 6: like when my mom would try to be with my

919
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 6: little brother's housing, you even get no if the man

920
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 6: in the house, you know what I mean, which is just, uh,

921
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 6: it's a strategy.

922
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 4: It's a strategy place. So just saying that all to say,

923
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 4: so many of us that haven't seen that, and that's

924
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 4: why it is inspiring.

925
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 6: I do believe, like man, just it's important, you know

926
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, just got to be flying.

927
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 4: And got to be done right.

928
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 2: So there's this term of strong black women. You don't

929
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 2: never hear, Oh, I got a strong white woman. I

930
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: got a strong Asian woman. You'll never hear that. Do

931
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 2: y'all expect your spouse to be strong black women?

932
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 4: I would love for. I would love for. I said

933
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 4: I got sisters, I got nieces, I got mama.

934
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,240
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. I hated seeing how strong.

935
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 6: My mom had to be like you know, my sisters.

936
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 6: My sisters all got terrible ass baby daddies and for

937
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 6: the most part, so ideally, like I would love for

938
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 6: all like the black women in my life and just

939
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 6: all no period Black women that won't love that not

940
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 6: have to be that.

941
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 4: You know, like I want strong don't necessarily mean.

942
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 6: That you're weak, right, or you just go for everything

943
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 6: versus like you versus this, like strong becomes this in

944
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 6: the house with because we both can't be bulls in

945
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 6: this motherfucker like somebody, like women, black women ain't even

946
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 6: able to just be in a like feminine, divine, feminine.

947
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 4: Era and spirit creativity.

948
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I would love to see that for black

949
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 6: women because black women are naturally like black women are

950
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 6: naturally strong, you know what I mean, the real like

951
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 6: like it's just now tell me, but now it's become

952
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 6: like a it's a to me. It's a difference between

953
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 6: strong and independent, right, So like I would love for

954
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 6: my black women to be strong, but you ain't gotta

955
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 6: be like this, so happy to have like such this

956
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 6: independent energy where like I don't need nothing, I don't

957
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 6: need no niggat.

958
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 5: Never said that I need a nigga.

959
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 1: I've never said that ship like, I don't need no man.

960
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 3: I was raised by somebody like that. But I definitely like,

961
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: you need each other, you know what I'm saying?

962
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

963
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: You know my mom.

964
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 2: I asked my mom when my my mom and dad

965
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 2: got married. I was like, what was the first thing

966
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: you said to my dad after you married him? And

967
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: my mom said, I got you now, motherfucker. And that's

968
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: so that's what I household I was raised in.

969
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 6: So you were so you were raised and say, Tim,

970
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 6: you got to see uh, you know, marriage and I

971
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 6: got to.

972
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 5: See family structure.

973
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 2: But there was very much toxic energy in there because

974
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: they were still very much learning their way. You know,

975
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 2: as a child, I didn't understand, but looking in hindsight

976
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,959
Speaker 2: as a grown woman, they both were just young black

977
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 2: people trying to figure it out. And they and this

978
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 2: is the eighties, so you know, there's drugs, there's crack.

979
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 4: People.

980
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: People are trying crack because they don't know the devastation

981
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 2: that you know, it can cause. A party is a struggle. Yeah,

982
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: it was a party drug at that time.

983
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 4: Fact I explained that to people all the time, Like

984
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 4: people really like that, don't get it like who like

985
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 4: exactly or.

986
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 6: Just how like in our eras like perks it pills.

987
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 6: You know it's like but back then you only had

988
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 6: one time to try. You try to shit one time, good,

989
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 6: it'll be a rap.

990
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: So let me tell you crack.

991
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 3: I this is so off topic, but I wouldn't go

992
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 3: black people like listen, I read a fucking medical article

993
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 3: about crack cocaine in particular, how ad hair's to melanin.

994
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: So even like the.

995
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 3: Hair follicle test is racist, right because of how our

996
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 3: hair grows. And that's why they do the drug test

997
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,479
Speaker 3: on your hair now, because you gonna catch more black

998
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 3: people on cocaine or crack through the hair follicle than

999
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,479
Speaker 3: white people because they should. You know, slippery slipped down.

1000
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: Our ship is.

1001
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 3: Naughted at the root, right, crazy, so you have white crackheads.

1002
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: But it did not like take over the whole community

1003
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: like it did black people because it was created to

1004
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 3: fuck black people up, like with melanin, to to fuck

1005
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 3: with melan in particular.

1006
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:48,760
Speaker 4: Yes, a little fact, that's a fact.

1007
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 6: AJ and AJ were you was your parents married or

1008
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 6: did you get to see I think you said you.

1009
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 3: Did it toxic? Okay, they weren't. My mom definitely was married.

1010
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 3: All three of my sisters got the same dad. Tim

1011
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 3: got three girls, three girls, same scenario. Right, My dad

1012
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 3: never grew up. We actually had our dads on for

1013
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 3: episode last year or a year before whatever, And let

1014
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 3: that nigga tell it. No woman ever came between him

1015
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 3: and my mom's marriage. He was doing all this shit.

1016
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 3: They just don't grow up. And I think for a woman,

1017
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 3: you gotta grow up. You gotta grow up because you

1018
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 3: have other people you're responsible for. And sometimes men think

1019
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 3: they have the option, right, And he's coming from a

1020
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 3: house so we never saw like his dad was there.

1021
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 3: But then he left, his dad left his mom with

1022
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 3: eleven kids, you know what I'm saying. So I think

1023
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: when we talk about like the systems put in place

1024
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:42,280
Speaker 3: for black mothers, I think that we need to also

1025
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 3: consider that men were actually leaving the households as opposed

1026
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 3: to being put out right.

1027
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, not for sure.

1028
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 5: My mom.

1029
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: My mom was My mom was submissive, like I'll bring

1030
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: you your plate, i'll take your plate, I'll rub your feet,

1031
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 2: but I will also hit you with a car if

1032
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: you play with me. Yes, So there was it was

1033
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 2: that dynamic. It was all the way extreme one way

1034
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 2: and all the way extreme the other.

1035
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 5: Right, So I have a little bit of that. I

1036
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: don't think I hit nobody with no car, but I

1037
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 5: don't know.

1038
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 4: You bring y'all, y'all bring in the play and taking

1039
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 4: the play back.

1040
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, absolutely, absolutely, Yeah.

1041
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: I love to serve. That's why things that make me

1042
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: happy for real. But we're son We're Southern women.

1043
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: I don't know how that applies to women from like

1044
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,280
Speaker 2: the North and the West or whatever, but Southern women,

1045
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 2: I think we all like to serve in that way.

1046
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 7: So let me ask you this. So you guys want

1047
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 7: to get married right eventually?

1048
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: Absolutely. My last relationship, I was engaged it.

1049
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,439
Speaker 3: I didn't make it down at all, but I did

1050
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 3: say yes, how many years together?

1051
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: Uh?

1052
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: Like four years?

1053
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 7: About four years?

1054
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: Almost five years?

1055
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been single since twenty sixteen.

1056
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 4: First, what that means like not David or just not

1057
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 4: in a serious relationship? Like what is that?

1058
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: I mean?

1059
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: I No, I was.

1060
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 2: I've been you know, having situationships or you know this

1061
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 2: and that for I was in a relationship most of

1062
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 2: my twenties and then most of my thirties. I was

1063
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: in a relationship too, So I just decided that I

1064
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: didn't want a man seriously like.

1065
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,359
Speaker 5: You could come over, you got to go.

1066
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: But then and now I'm in a space where I

1067
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 2: do want something more serious, but the dating pool is

1068
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 2: just very, very difficult.

1069
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 5: Now, Yeah, I feel.

1070
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: Like your husband already married, you's got weight for him

1071
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: to get a divorce around five to seven years.

1072
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:44,839
Speaker 5: That's when that ship break up.

1073
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: He got there five, he's about to get divorced, and

1074
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 1: then he's gonna be.

1075
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 6: Right now for real though, because sometimes people gotta go

1076
00:50:55,400 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 6: through you know, some some men are wor Like my

1077
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 6: experience made me incredible, I believe for the next situation,

1078
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, because I still I had

1079
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 6: to go through so much just living and learning and

1080
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 6: really dissecting of myself to realize, Okay, what do you

1081
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 6: bring to the table? What do you take from the table?

1082
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 6: Like you kind of be killing the body sometimes too,

1083
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 6: like you know what I mean. So I really had

1084
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 6: to just do a lot of self reflecting. And yeah,

1085
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 6: I'm pretty positive the next ship to be.

1086
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: I think that applies to everybody, like your relationships helped

1087
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 2: to guide you to be a better person for the

1088
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 2: next one. Because I know my mouth was reckless and

1089
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 2: my last relationship.

1090
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 3: I used to but I come with a lack of

1091
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 3: respect though, So something happened.

1092
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, respect for him. That's usually when the mouth

1093
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 1: start getting crazy.

1094
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 5: You know what it was?

1095
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 2: It was because he let his baby mama disrespect him

1096
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 2: and disrespect me, and I think that's made me be like, shit,

1097
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: I don't nobody respect you where I got to you know,

1098
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 2: really it really was like that, you know, like letting

1099
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 2: people talk to you crazy, you wash the dishes, mother.

1100
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 4: And that point.

1101
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 7: And that's that's perfect for you to know that because

1102
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:16,879
Speaker 7: if you would have gotten married and found out later

1103
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 7: you're like, I'm out, Yeah, you know what I mean.

1104
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 7: It's like it's kind of crazy.

1105
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's when I realized that I can't be

1106
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 2: with a beta male personality like you have to.

1107
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 5: It got to be an alpha because I'm gonna run

1108
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 5: over you.

1109
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 6: Yea.

1110
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 7: At that point becomes a game.

1111
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, facts, And y'all believe nobody who can get ran

1112
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 6: over like you said, Yeah, I.

1113
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: Don't want somebody that I can easily disrespect. I don't

1114
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:40,360
Speaker 3: want nobody like that.

1115
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 6: Or that's getting easily disrespected, like no, be with your

1116
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 6: man and then you hear his baby mamas.

1117
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 4: I got all right, I got two sons and not

1118
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 4: with it.

1119
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 6: So I got two baby mamas my ex wife and

1120
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 6: then my son's one before that.

1121
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 4: And it's order. It's order.

1122
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 6: Granted, you talking to they ship when they won't, you

1123
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 6: know what I mean, little here and there. But you're like,

1124
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 6: y'all don't run my program. Y'all don't run nothing rights,

1125
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 6: But would you gonna say something?

1126
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,720
Speaker 7: So it goes back to the whole submissive thing, like okay,

1127
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 7: so you don't want to be the male. You want

1128
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 7: an alpha male. So if he's telling you to do

1129
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 7: something and you're like, okay, cool, we're gonna we're gonna

1130
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 7: do it or not, like you know, I mean, it's like,

1131
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 7: where do you draw that line where it's like you

1132
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 7: are a little bit submissive to this alpha male who

1133
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 7: knows you know, it's gonna control everything. If that's what

1134
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 7: you're looking for at the alpha you.

1135
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 5: Know, so well, hold on ask me that again.

1136
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 7: Sorry, so you say you need.

1137
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 5: You interviewing me?

1138
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 7: It's both of you and Tam. It's like, all right,

1139
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 7: so you you want an alpha male, right and you

1140
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 7: know you know he's known for just telling things same

1141
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 7: things laying right? Yeah, So how does that form line

1142
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 7: when it comes to you mean submissive? You know what

1143
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 7: I mean? Does it? Does it? Is it a lign

1144
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 7: you draw like he can't tell me, he gonna tell

1145
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 7: everybody else but me? Or like, how do you go?

1146
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 5: I don't mind.

1147
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 2: As long as he's an alpha male and I respect him,

1148
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,839
Speaker 2: I'll let him take lead as long as I feel

1149
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: like he's leading me correctly. Right, you gambling all the

1150
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 2: money way and you're alpha male, that's not that's not

1151
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 2: gonna work. You know, like, damn baby, I lost ten

1152
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 2: thousand dollars again to night.

1153
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 5: That's not okay.

1154
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 7: You know, let me hold another five.

1155
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 3: I definitely would follow a man to the end of

1156
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 3: the earth if he leading me in the right direction.

1157
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't think that any man.

1158
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 3: Should expect a woman to just follow you blindly. Leans

1159
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 3: I can go out and I can go out in

1160
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 3: the world and get finessed by other people too.

1161
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 4: So do you really.

1162
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 1: Want a dumb bitch? Okay, be Claire. You know what

1163
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1164
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 3: I can be submissive at home, but I'm a run

1165
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 3: like run shit when I'm outside this household. You know

1166
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 3: you said something about the table. I cannot stand the

1167
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 3: fucking table, Okay. And I think a lot of men

1168
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 3: like these social media niggas, these podcasts niggas, they don't

1169
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 3: even know what they need on a table.

1170
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 1: While you're asking a woman what she was you do

1171
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: it to?

1172
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 4: What do you need? What do you need?

1173
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 3: Because I can bring you a lot of shit you

1174
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 3: don't need, you know, so let me know what you need.

1175
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: So I think that sometimes men have to figure out.

1176
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 3: I think men who are more prone to marriage, you

1177
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 3: understand the the benefits of being married to a woman.

1178
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 3: How woman just simply enhances a man's life. Like we

1179
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 3: talked about this shit a lot on the podcast. How

1180
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:28,240
Speaker 3: we literally keep niggas alive even in boyfriend girlfriend's situations.

1181
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: Like men don't pay attention to attention to their health.

1182
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: You're eating fucked up.

1183
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 3: You don't drink water, nigga, Like you wasn't even drinking water.

1184
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:38,399
Speaker 3: Now you're looking at pH and all this shit.

1185
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:47,479
Speaker 1: When you come to me, you would you get married again? Price? Yeah,

1186
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: I love to hear that.

1187
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 3: All right, y'all, have you enjoyed this episode. Tune in

1188
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 3: next week for a part to y'all this is just

1189
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:57,760
Speaker 3: part one of this much needed conversation with the Price

1190
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 3: and Vlad. Y'all, if you're enjoy this episode, tuning every

1191
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 3: Thursday on your iHeartRadio app wherever the fuck you get

1192
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Speaker 3: your podcasts at. This is your co host, AJ Holiday

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1194
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1195
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Speaker 1: Follow us now bye.