WEBVTT - Carefully Reckless Replay - Forever Fiancee

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and The Black Effect. Hey, y'all, what's up. It's your girl,

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<v Speaker 1>took a low break, but y'all know I can't leave

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<v Speaker 1>you know it. Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Recklessness.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode ten, y'all, I'm loving this ship. Help me celebrate.

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<v Speaker 1>Look story time. Alright, So my cousin Fie, she was

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<v Speaker 1>dating the guy Dawn. Now we all loved Dawn. She

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<v Speaker 1>was dating him a couple of years ago. Everything was

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<v Speaker 1>good with them. She had a good job, he had

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<v Speaker 1>a good job. They moved together, they were living together.

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<v Speaker 1>No kids. Uh, she never got pregnant or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 1>my cousin has always wanted to get married. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about always. She's never cared to who or whatever. She

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<v Speaker 1>is just all about getting married. She wants that fairy

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<v Speaker 1>tale ending whatever whatever. Right two years went by, Don

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't proposed, but they are still together. He seems happy.

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<v Speaker 1>She's happy too. So me and my family like to

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<v Speaker 1>get together and we like to do ship. So we

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<v Speaker 1>had bowling one night, just the girls, she tells me

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<v Speaker 1>and our other cousins. But she got until December to

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<v Speaker 1>put a ring on my finger. So I'm like, fee what.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, Yeah, I've been with this nigga too long

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<v Speaker 1>for him to have not proposed yet. I'm like two years.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, yeah, I feel like I've been with him

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<v Speaker 1>too long not to be married, or him to even

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<v Speaker 1>have popped the question or even to have thought about

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<v Speaker 1>it yet. I say, if you ever talked to him

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<v Speaker 1>about it? She's like, all the time, that's all I

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. So I was like, okay, you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you maybe pushing him away? She like, bitch, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for two years. Everything is good. I got good pussy,

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<v Speaker 1>I can cook, I claim, I do everything. I'm already

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<v Speaker 1>like a wife. Only thing he gotta do is make

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<v Speaker 1>me one. I said, well, ship, now listen. She had

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<v Speaker 1>a mindset on that ship. Like I told you all,

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<v Speaker 1>she's always wanted to be married, didn't matter what he

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<v Speaker 1>on it. So December comes, he does not propose. She

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<v Speaker 1>leaves him. She left this nigga sad as fuck y'all

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<v Speaker 1>has he loved her, she loved him, He was in

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<v Speaker 1>love with her. He loved fee man. I still keep

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with Dawn. He cool at ship. In my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>he was the best guy for my cousin. So she

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<v Speaker 1>leaves him, she gets with somebody else. He eventually gets

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody else. He married the girl that he started

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<v Speaker 1>dating after my cousin only after a year of dating.

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<v Speaker 1>He put a ring on somebody else's finger after only

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<v Speaker 1>dating her for a year, and my cousin meanwhile, still

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<v Speaker 1>to this day, to this day, it's stuck dating niggas,

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<v Speaker 1>pressuring niggas to marry her. Now, look, that's the end

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<v Speaker 1>of that story, which brings me to the carefully reckless discussion. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that Dawn married somebody else only a year

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<v Speaker 1>after dating her. To me, I didn't feel it was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>When my cousin found out, she damn they killed her stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>She was fucked up, stressed out, and she was with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else. Mind you a clown, asked nigga, if you will,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's the whole point about it. She pressured him.

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<v Speaker 1>When I asked, I said, if you talked to him

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<v Speaker 1>about it, Yeah, I thought I talked about Now. If

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know my cousin and a lot of y'all who

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<v Speaker 1>are listening, if y'all know me personally, y'all know Fee.

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<v Speaker 1>Fee is very impulsive. Fee will keep talking about some

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<v Speaker 1>ship for days and days and days like Yo, she'll

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<v Speaker 1>never leave it alone. That nigga got tired of hand

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<v Speaker 1>that ship. Let him do that. Also, Fie is very controlling,

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<v Speaker 1>not even only with the proposal ship, with everything. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted everything her way I'm talking about. She wanted the

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<v Speaker 1>nigga to eat a certain way, sleep a certain way,

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<v Speaker 1>walk a certain way, dress a certain way. She was

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<v Speaker 1>very controlling, but she knew she wanted to get married.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I've talked to Don. I asked, on damn, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you're married shortly after one year? He said, Yo, it

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<v Speaker 1>just happened organically, like I fell in love with I

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<v Speaker 1>knew I wanted to marry her six months and I

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<v Speaker 1>got my money together for the wedding and everything because

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted a quick turnaround time. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>propose to her and we'd be engaged for years and

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<v Speaker 1>years and years. Now, black people they got a motherfucking had,

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<v Speaker 1>but are doing that. My brother proposed to his baby

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<v Speaker 1>mother like five six years ago and they still ain't married,

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<v Speaker 1>and he ain't gonna marya. He just did that to

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<v Speaker 1>show her to funk up because she wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>a wife. And she's still not a wife. She's just

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<v Speaker 1>an engage. But he fell in love with this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Now her name is Stephanie. I like her, and my

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<v Speaker 1>cousin doesn't like me anymore because I went to the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding fuked up. But that's on youth. He let the

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<v Speaker 1>girl love him, the girl let him love her, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just happened. She made him want to marry her.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't make him want to marry her. And he

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<v Speaker 1>stayed with her for two years. But he did love her,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he did. But he told me she was

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<v Speaker 1>very controlling. He said, the straw that broke the camel's

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<v Speaker 1>back for me was when she came into the room

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<v Speaker 1>one night and was like, you got until Christmas to

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<v Speaker 1>put a ring on my finger, nigga. He said, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when he knew he definitely wasn't marrying her. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't tell her no. Look, in my opinion, people

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<v Speaker 1>get married for all the wrong reasons. My cousin wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get married for all the wrong reasons. She just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be able to say she was somebody's wife.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted the fairytale wedding. A lot of people do that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a lot that goes into marriage, man, and

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<v Speaker 1>and that's fine. If you want to be a wife,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool. It's tradition. It's sort of fairytaler is, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. That's the way of life, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way it's supposed to be. But you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get married just to get the voice. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of money and a lot of time and effort

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<v Speaker 1>that goes into that ship. I think you should get

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<v Speaker 1>to know the person that you want to marry. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about knowing them inside and out. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>only way that you should be able to get married

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<v Speaker 1>is if you are able to say that's my best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta build that foundation, you gotta know that person

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<v Speaker 1>inside and out. I'm talking about little ship, from little

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<v Speaker 1>ship to big ship, because the little ship is what

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<v Speaker 1>mad is the most. If I'm walking around with an

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<v Speaker 1>attitude but I don't say it, you already post to

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<v Speaker 1>know why I gotta attitude and what the funk are

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<v Speaker 1>mad about? Why? Because you know me inside and out. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the most complicated thing in this world to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>is a woman's mind. But the second most complicated thing

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out in this world is a man's mind.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's only two of us, a woman and a man,

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<v Speaker 1>and shift. If you're gonna jump that boom, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be willing to do all the ship that helps you

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<v Speaker 1>get there. Get to know your partner before you make

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<v Speaker 1>them your spouse, because the last thing you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do is get married and then find out some ship

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't know about the motherfucker after you marry them.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to do that. Honestly, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>two years is long enough to be given a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>an ultimatum. I don't think so. I think maybe three

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<v Speaker 1>or four years tops. A lot of women know what

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<v Speaker 1>they want before men, Okay, And and that's true. Women

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<v Speaker 1>mature faster and a lot of different areas on a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of different levels before men. But you can't rush

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<v Speaker 1>a guy into growing up. You can't rush a guy

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<v Speaker 1>into marrying you. You can't. Marriage is a very serious

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<v Speaker 1>covenant and our reality it's a goddamn contract, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a contract you don't want to jump quick to sign,

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<v Speaker 1>just like signing any motherfucking contract without reading the fine print.

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<v Speaker 1>Be careful, make sure there's something you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>In my opinion, don't rush, but don't be my boyfriend forever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Now. Look, some people are

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<v Speaker 1>okay with not being able to get married. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>are okay with being boyfriend and girlfriend for years and

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<v Speaker 1>years and years for decades. That runs in the black

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<v Speaker 1>community as well. A lot of people don't get married,

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<v Speaker 1>but they'll stay together forever. Those other people who feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they don't need rings and vowels and a big

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<v Speaker 1>wedding and a reception to validate their love for one another.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I know a lot of people like that.

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<v Speaker 1>To me personally, Yes, I want to get married. Yes

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have more children. No, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to have more children until I get married. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to get married. I would never pressure someone

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<v Speaker 1>into marrying me though it's up to you. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna wait around forever. No, I'm not. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't say what I'll do in that situation. Now, If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you for more in four years. You know, alright, nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>what we're doing, but it's not You better put a

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<v Speaker 1>ring on my finger by this date or I'm gone,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. That's just not how that

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<v Speaker 1>ship should be. And then some women take it upon

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<v Speaker 1>theirselves to propose. If a nigga wait too long, they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do the proposing, Like let me take your back

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<v Speaker 1>to Love and Hip Hop. Christie and Jim, Remember Christie

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get married very bad. They were together for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, you know what I mean. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why the funk this niggad and pop the question

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<v Speaker 1>neither I really wanted him to marry her. But nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>she seems just over it. She seems like she don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a funk anymore. But back then she really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be married. All she wanted from this nigga was

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<v Speaker 1>a commitment, a ring, a wedding, marriage, children. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>her saying she wanted children on Love of Hip Hop,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt as though that was one of the

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<v Speaker 1>cutest couples ever. Unfortunately it hasn't happened me. I could

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<v Speaker 1>never propose to a guy I'm not supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>the one dawn on the knee. It ain't got nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with tradition. Oh the guy is supposed to propose. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not ever gonna get down on the knee,

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<v Speaker 1>open up no box and say will you marry me? How? No,

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<v Speaker 1>what the funk? Unless I'm marrying a bit or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do that, nigga. What First of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>got bad knees and I would never do that ship anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm not creasing no McQueen to ask and ne

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<v Speaker 1>gonna marry me. It's not gonna happen. Hold up, Hold up,

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<v Speaker 1>I know the ship getting good. But listen to just

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll listen, and that brings me to just fix my mess.

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<v Speaker 1>And now listen. I asked you all online ladies, in

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<v Speaker 1>your opinion, when is the right time to get married?

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<v Speaker 1>And is it a dealbreaker if he never proposes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like always you always give me some good feedback, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna read off of you. Zalika McCrae says, funck

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<v Speaker 1>getting married, dying, big single period? Um, bitch, what listen

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<v Speaker 1>you You've been big hurt. Obviously she's like nah, nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>I just see a lot of marriages failing. But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't let that depict your future. You can't let that

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<v Speaker 1>control and dictate your situation. You don't know you might

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<v Speaker 1>meet the many fucking dreams, Zalika, Damn, just be easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll come to you and if it don't, die big

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<v Speaker 1>single like you said, I am her underscore a Dare says.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they say a man should know if he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to marry a woman within three months, not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that you should get married within that time, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think three years of a good relationship gives you time

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know a person. I agree with you somewhat,

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<v Speaker 1>three years of a good relationship and that gives you

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<v Speaker 1>time to get to know a person. I would say that,

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<v Speaker 1>I say about three to five years, well three or

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<v Speaker 1>four and a half. I don't know. I'm just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't like to put time and stipulations

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<v Speaker 1>on that marriage ship And because you know, listen, a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga could propose to you and never marry you like

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<v Speaker 1>my brother. Remember I said that ship. He could propose

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<v Speaker 1>to you just to shut you the funk up, but

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<v Speaker 1>never marry you. Now, A dare. I don't agree with this.

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<v Speaker 1>I never heard this ship, she said. I mean they

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<v Speaker 1>say a man should know if he wants to marry

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<v Speaker 1>a woman within three months, who the fund is they

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<v Speaker 1>and where they at? Because I ain't never hear nobody

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<v Speaker 1>say that they better get the funk out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>not three months. First of all, I get tired of

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<v Speaker 1>niggas in three weeks, so I'm not sure you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know you cannot get the norm motherfucking three months.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not gonna happen. Whoever they is been watching too

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<v Speaker 1>many movies, too much TV rereads zero zero zero to six.

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<v Speaker 1>Sy is damn that sounds like a jail number. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to hear answers on this one. I've been with

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<v Speaker 1>my man for fourteen years. Actually we turned in fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>next week and still waiting. Oh bit, you crazy fuck

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<v Speaker 1>that when you got me fucked up now? It may

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<v Speaker 1>not be that serious to her, Like I said, some

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<v Speaker 1>people actually really feel that is okay. It's okay not

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<v Speaker 1>to get married as long as we together and we're happy,

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<v Speaker 1>we're good to each his own. But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>she she's a little mad about that ship. Like at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of Little bit, She's like, I'm still waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're still waiting, then bitch, maybe you need to

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<v Speaker 1>propose them. Then go ahead and do it, chrissie and

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<v Speaker 1>see what happened. You never know because y'all been together

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<v Speaker 1>already for a decade and a half. If he ain't leave,

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<v Speaker 1>ye ain't gonna leave now. So should just see pop

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<v Speaker 1>the question to see what you say? Yo. Jim was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. What the fund does that mean? Yo?

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<v Speaker 1>When Christy was like will you marry me? Jim said

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. I would have smacked the brains off

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<v Speaker 1>your head. I ain't even gonna lie. Hey, yo, he

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<v Speaker 1>was as a bit too anyway. My bit Jade twenty says,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, if he never proposed, do not give

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<v Speaker 1>him an ultimatum, and please do not marry someone who

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<v Speaker 1>was quick to propose. True love is what it's about,

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<v Speaker 1>and you only know if it's real if you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the same page, wave level and compatibility, same love language.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is love, no excuses. I love this, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not give him an ultimatum, and don't marry somebody

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<v Speaker 1>too quick. You don't want to do it, because as

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<v Speaker 1>quick as you can get married is as quick as

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<v Speaker 1>you can get the voiced. Nobody wants to do that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of court fees and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dumb man ship to go through. Nobody wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>that last one. I'm gonna read re underscore, Costa says,

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<v Speaker 1>laughing my ass off. That ship really don't mean anything

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<v Speaker 1>to me. But bitch, I'm giving you two years to know,

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<v Speaker 1>three years to propose, and if we're not, we're still

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be all good because I don't give a funk

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<v Speaker 1>for real, Bitch, you definitely care not Bitch, I'm giving

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<v Speaker 1>you two years to know, three years to propose, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really give a funk for real. You definitely

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<v Speaker 1>give a fun So tell that nigga what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're really really stunting this ship and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>got to read. You don't got to. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get married, that's fine. Don't let your pride be

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<v Speaker 1>in a way, but don't chase away even with the pride. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>let's kick it over to a brief break, so to

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<v Speaker 1>slide over the current news. I know y'all seen this ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about it ever since. Now this is

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<v Speaker 1>off the fucking topic. But Danny Lay looks a little pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>She was in the shoe store and she was walking

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<v Speaker 1>around and she was poking our stomach out, but it

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<v Speaker 1>did look like a little baby. But now she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to think she was pregnant. Batter ship. Even if

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<v Speaker 1>she's not, she wanted us to think that that that's

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<v Speaker 1>like the most clown and ship ever. But it is

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. If she is, congratulations the baby, you

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<v Speaker 1>got a third baby on the way, and um, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we've got another song coming from me, Me and

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<v Speaker 1>Danny Laid. Congratulations if you do have a button in

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<v Speaker 1>the oven. But if you're not, you clown the funk

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<v Speaker 1>out for sticking out your stomach because you already knew

0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:14.240
<v Speaker 1>what the funk we was gonna say. And if it

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<v Speaker 1>is the baby's baby, I hope they make it tied

0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:20.000
<v Speaker 1>us in people having kids and not staying together. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>that ship is clowned out as well. The Grammys and

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<v Speaker 1>people finally get offensive this year. Was it appropriate? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it inappropriate? It's the Grammys. I think the Grammys needed

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<v Speaker 1>us And when I say us, I mean black people

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<v Speaker 1>for their fucking ratings this year. I think the Grammys

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<v Speaker 1>is usually very fucking boring, not gonna lie a little inappropriate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if it was on b et VH one

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<v Speaker 1>or you know what I'm saying, it would have been fine.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been suitable. But not on like ABC,

0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.480
<v Speaker 1>CBS and all that ship and Nah, I don't think

0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:56.920
<v Speaker 1>all that explicitness should have been on there. But I mean, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the new way of the motherfucker world and

0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.320
<v Speaker 1>the him this since were great. I think Doja Cat

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<v Speaker 1>killed that ship always. That's one talented bitch. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>I love her. I love her. I tried not to

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<v Speaker 1>love her, but I love it. I can't. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't do not talent. The baby did great.

0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:15.640
<v Speaker 1>Lord baby always kills it. Cardi and Meghan they did good.

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<v Speaker 1>They did good. They did good. Cardi did good, Megan

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<v Speaker 1>did good. Now, my thing is people found their Whop

0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:24.240
<v Speaker 1>performance to be inappropriate. What the funk did you think

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<v Speaker 1>they were gonna do the name of the song is

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<v Speaker 1>an acronym for wet ass pussy? What the funk did

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<v Speaker 1>you think they was gonna do? Dance around and do

0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.080
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of TikTok dances and ship in full and

0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:39.600
<v Speaker 1>full outfits CARDI was a fucking stripper. Megan is stripper inspiration.

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<v Speaker 1>What the funk did you think was gonna come out

0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:45.800
<v Speaker 1>of wet ass pussy? What the fuck? Calm the funk down.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen worse. We've all seen worse. Trust me, now, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I would never understand is the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>Lord Wayne has no Grammys. Chris Brown has no Grammys.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicki Minaje has no fucking Grammys. I didn't even know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. I just found that ship out

0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:06.760
<v Speaker 1>this year. Now y'all know, I'm a Nicki fan. I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I am pissed off about that ship, though. That bothers me,

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<v Speaker 1>because what the funk. Listen, this woman has worked so

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<v Speaker 1>fucking hard for years. She's been in a game for

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<v Speaker 1>more than ten years. She's worked hard as a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, y'all know this ship and has

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<v Speaker 1>not earned one fucking Grammy. That ship pisses me off.

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<v Speaker 1>Lord Wayne tweeted fuck the Grammys exactly he should have been.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's any man that deserves Grammys, it is Lord Wayne.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm telling you all, this ship is ran by

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<v Speaker 1>social media. It's all about views, it's all about popularity.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. Everything feeds off of the internet,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, it is different. It's fucked up, but it's different.

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<v Speaker 1>I do congratulate all the nominees for being nominated. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a big, big, big deal. And I do congratulate all

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<v Speaker 1>of the winners. And that brings me to the end

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<v Speaker 1>of this episode, episode number ten of Carefully Reckless. Y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure y'all don't rush into these mother can marrige this,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't give a nigga an ultimatum because one

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<v Speaker 1>day a nigga is gonna slap shit out. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever walk in the room like my cousin Fie, who

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<v Speaker 1>was listening right now, because I know she she regrets

0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:13.679
<v Speaker 1>that ship bad as because that nigga was Stephanie Now baby,

0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:18.880
<v Speaker 1>he was stiffening. He yo a ship. But don't ever

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<v Speaker 1>walk in the room and be like, you got until

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<v Speaker 1>December to marry me, nigga, because if I'm that nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say pacal right across your motherfucking face. They're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make me my fucking sandwich. And that's on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love y'all, and I know y'all love me back.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I fixed y'all mess because I'm just I

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<v Speaker 1>see you next week. Little ass back there, nice little

0:17:41.960 --> 0:17:53.960
<v Speaker 1>asked back there, Nice little asked back there, nice little like,

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<v Speaker 1>just you got your ass, nigga, shut the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been out hit on my cash coach. I'm a hustle.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been stop. I don't do know nothing getting money

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<v Speaker 1>like the snapping like if you cut, I might just

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<v Speaker 1>pop it. Got your bitch asking for pictures if she ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna crop it. I just no houstide the office

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<v Speaker 1>and I lay you made him. I like niggas with

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<v Speaker 1>tattoos who careree gunsn't can and he liket and I'm lying.

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<v Speaker 1>Still hold me nice still ask back there? Now, I

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<v Speaker 1>still hold me. Hent be like that. I'm lying. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be on the grammar or I do what's make them laugh?

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<v Speaker 1>Now they hear my songs and all they do. What

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<v Speaker 1>ship they ask? Don't the ship with crystal? If you

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<v Speaker 1>woke this, please don't ask. I don't want your nigga

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<v Speaker 1>because I heard this dick with trash sia, don't get tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Seven days I did eight shows. Real niggas on my side,

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't move. Say so in their roles and

0:19:01.760 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 1>them bank rolling your roads to them. Pay So I

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<v Speaker 1>pop down and I fea ship like I'm like I

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<v Speaker 1>still hold me, steel ass back there, hold me can't

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<v Speaker 1>be like I'm like hold me. I feel aspect the

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<v Speaker 1>nice Stele aspect, I still aspected, nice still as still

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<v Speaker 1>still carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from my heart Radio,

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