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Speaker 2: Your opinion to the Breakfast Club top.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I did five five one.

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Speaker 4: Morning.

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Speaker 5: Everybody's DJ Envy Charlomagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: We got our special guest co host, Big Sue K

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Speaker 5: ninety seven Memphis. Now, if you're just joining us, we're

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Speaker 5: asking eight hundred five A five one oh five one.

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Speaker 5: A gentleman called this morning during Get It Off your Chest,

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Speaker 5: and we're talking about this book marriage Rules in Dating,

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Speaker 5: all right, and we were talking about should you use

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Speaker 5: marriage rules in dating? Eight hundred five A five one

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Speaker 5: oh five one. Charlamage said no.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I agree with him. I don't think marriage

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Speaker 3: rules should be implied. Uh in dating are not implied

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Speaker 3: or imposed. I don't know what the word I'm looking for,

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Speaker 3: but marriage rules should not be involved when you're just

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Speaker 3: dating somebody. When you do dating somebody, you're dating them,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And as y'all grow in

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Speaker 3: the relationship, then you start to say to yourself, oh,

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Speaker 3: this is somebody I may want to be with, you know,

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Speaker 3: as a husband, as a wife, and then that might

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Speaker 3: start to evolve into what looks like more of a marriage,

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Speaker 3: and then hopefully you get engaged and then you actually

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Speaker 3: become married. But if you just dating a person, you

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Speaker 3: ain't got a reason to be treating that person like

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Speaker 3: a husband, and you ain't going to reason to be

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Speaker 3: treating that person like a wife if y'all just dating.

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Speaker 4: So you know what, I got to co sign that.

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Speaker 6: I think sometimes people get to dating and they're too

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Speaker 6: early in the relationship and then they start you know,

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Speaker 6: dating with a marriage mind is one thing, but starting

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Speaker 6: too early before you really know a person, that's when

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Speaker 6: you run into problems.

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Speaker 2: See.

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Speaker 5: I also think there's different stages of dating. Right there's

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Speaker 5: young dating, where I think people are young and they're

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Speaker 5: just out having fun. But I think there's also an

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Speaker 5: age where it's like people are ready to find that

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Speaker 5: right person. And in that situation, I feel like you

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Speaker 5: almost have to have marriage rules because you don't want

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Speaker 5: you don't want nobody to waste your time.

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Speaker 2: That causes a lot of problem.

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Speaker 5: You want to make sure that that person has the

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Speaker 5: same aspiration, the same inspiration, the same ethics, the same morales,

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Speaker 5: even when it comes to financing and it comes to credit,

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Speaker 5: it comes to because you're trying to build a life

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Speaker 5: with this person, and if they're if their values don't

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Speaker 5: fit with yours. You want to know early before you

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Speaker 5: waste your time, because you could be in a situation

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Speaker 5: for a yeah, and you're wasting your time with that person.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people lose people like that though, because

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Speaker 3: you know, you be a man or a woman that's

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Speaker 3: really looking for marriage, like you're really looking to get

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Speaker 3: chasing it right, and then you get with a person

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Speaker 3: that might be forty something fifty something that don't want that,

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Speaker 3: that person might have already been divorced, or that person

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Speaker 3: may have never wanted to be married, and being that

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Speaker 3: you want such a major commitment, they falling back from

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Speaker 3: you like.

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Speaker 5: Oh, but don't you want to know that early if

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Speaker 5: that person's not on that same vibe as you, if

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Speaker 5: you're ready to rock lock and you know, do it now?

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Speaker 5: And they like, Nah, don't you want to know early

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Speaker 5: before I waste my time, waste my birthdays, waste my valentine?

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Speaker 2: Tell me, so we don't even go on a date.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but at the same time, you can't go in

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Speaker 6: play some real heavy expectations.

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Speaker 4: On it early in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, let's go to.

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Speaker 4: The phone lines eight hundred five eight five one oh

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Speaker 3: What up?

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Speaker 2: Lake?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 7: What's going on?

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Speaker 8: Interviewing?

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Speaker 4: How you feeling?

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Speaker 2: Brother?

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Speaker 1: Can't?

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Speaker 4: Good morning?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 9: I want to stop.

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Speaker 1: In a marriage rule in my opinion, I want to

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Speaker 1: say that first because it's just my opinion. Dating is

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Speaker 1: an interview, for marriage is an extend. Your interest in

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Speaker 1: the position is show and you're performing. So if you're

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Speaker 1: gonna show up and step better the interview, you're not interested.

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Speaker 3: I think it's the difference in seeing if somebody is

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Speaker 3: marriage material as opposed to laying down marriage rules, right,

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Speaker 3: because like the things that you give a person in marriage,

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Speaker 3: when you are dealing with an individual, you can say

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Speaker 3: to yourself, man, this is somebody that I would.

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Speaker 2: Do all of that force. I think what he's saying

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Speaker 3: I just think that you know, when you're dating somebody

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Speaker 3: you're realizing that they are marriage material.

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Speaker 2: That don't mean you should apply to marriage rules yet.

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Speaker 4: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 7: And dingo?

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Speaker 2: Dingo?

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Speaker 4: What's going on wrong?

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Speaker 8: Hey?

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Speaker 7: What's up your husband? In a minute, how y'all feeling blessed?

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Speaker 2: Black and holly? Favor? Good? Brother?

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Speaker 7: That's what I'm talking about, And how you feel good?

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Speaker 7: I'm the name, but God, I love you my brother

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Speaker 7: Big two.

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Speaker 4: How you doing, Hey, I'm doing good. How you doing

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Speaker 4: this morning?

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Speaker 7: Hey, I'm good represented Memphis. I like that you're playing great.

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Speaker 8: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely so my take on this whole situation. I just

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Speaker 7: recently started dating the night young lady. We married a

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Speaker 7: couple of weeks in, and uh, you know, it's really

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Speaker 7: important to make your attentions clear when you're dated, Like

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Speaker 7: those first couple of dates are very vital to express

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Speaker 7: yourself and what you guys want in a relationship because

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Speaker 7: it'll make the dating process that much simpler. You know,

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Speaker 7: we have that understanding now. We know that we're dating

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Speaker 7: with attention and we're just not putting the pressure on

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Speaker 7: like a time frame. We're just letting things go day

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Speaker 7: by day and we're enjoying each other's company and that's

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Speaker 7: really all you got to do with Then once that

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Speaker 7: blossoms into something else, we go see where it goes.

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Speaker 2: I agree with you so much.

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Speaker 3: Ding Like dating, dating is a process, right, It's a

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Speaker 3: process in which two people get to know each other better.

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Speaker 2: Marriage, man, is when two people make a commitment to

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Speaker 2: be together for the rest of their lives. You're not

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Speaker 2: getting that we're just dating.

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Speaker 4: But you got to get to that.

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Speaker 5: But you got to make sure that y'all aligned the same,

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Speaker 5: you know, I mean, because you can be wasting a

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Speaker 5: some people, one side might be in there for fun

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Speaker 5: and another side might be in there for the long distance.

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Speaker 5: But you want to know these things now. You want

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Speaker 5: to know if you're compatible, if everything actually matches.

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Speaker 2: That's why you date. You date to learn all of that.

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Speaker 4: Let's call it one more caller.

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Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, what's up? And be just cue. Don't put marriage

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Speaker 7: rules and dating themselves.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you wrote the book. Yeah, we talked about

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I wanted to elaborate on it. You know, I could

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Speaker 7: definitely give some commentary contact to that. You know, it's

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Speaker 7: like this. You know a lot of people get into

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Speaker 7: find out the wrong things. You got to know who

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Speaker 7: your mate is, you understand. I want to know how

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Speaker 7: you was raised. I want to know if you had

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Speaker 7: both parents. I want to know if you carry in

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Speaker 7: some trauma, some PTSD. I want to know everything about you.

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Speaker 7: You know, people talk about what the obvious, what they like,

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Speaker 7: the superficial stuff. But I want to know what what

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Speaker 7: I what I probably won't like, like give me the

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Speaker 7: other stuff. Let me get to know who you are.

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Speaker 7: What's you know? HOWE was raised?

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Speaker 2: I agree with you? You got I think I agree?

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Speaker 2: I agree with you. Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Eight hundred five A five one o five one.

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Speaker 5: We're asking, do you guys put marriage rules into dating?

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Speaker 4: That is the question, should you? Let's discuss. It's the

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Speaker 2: Good morning, it's topic time. Eight hundred five five one

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Speaker 4: With the Breakfast Club Morning, everybody.

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Speaker 5: It's TJ n V. Charlamagne to God. We are the

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Speaker 5: Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host, Big Sus

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Speaker 5: of course K ninety seven Memphis, and we're asking eight

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Speaker 5: guys put marriage rules into dating? Kind of feel like

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Speaker 5: you have to, though, I kind of feel like if

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Speaker 5: but the duds out the way early.

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Speaker 3: But what about the process, whether it dating is the

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Speaker 3: process you're going through the process, You're learning a person,

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Speaker 3: you're getting to know somebody better.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying you're giving me the ring the first day.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, not even the ring.

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Speaker 3: That commitment that comes with the ring. Marriage is a

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Speaker 3: Correct for the person. I'm not going in there giving

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Speaker 2: I'm just dating.

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Speaker 8: Hell.

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Speaker 4: Hey, good morning, mama, good morning. What's your thoughts.

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Speaker 9: In those relationships? I feel like marriage wills kind of

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Speaker 9: make them well their way depending on how connect it

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Speaker 9: you are in the relationship you in. I think will

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Speaker 9: kind of brings themselves into the relationship that you're in, especially.

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Speaker 8: Out of respect.

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Speaker 9: I don't I don't feel like like you said, and

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Speaker 9: you should be treated like a wife or a husband

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Speaker 9: because that to me, that levels to to ative roles

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Speaker 9: in relationships.

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Speaker 10: But certain rules just to.

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Speaker 9: Find their way in there. And if you expect yourself

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Speaker 9: and know yourself, then and then you can have a

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Speaker 9: conversation with the person that you're with and you guys

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Speaker 9: can be mutually will mutually agree on certain aspects of

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Speaker 9: your relationship.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, mama, Regie, good morning.

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Speaker 8: Good morning.

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Speaker 10: Uh to one such on the barrass subtific roles and whatever. Yes, sir,

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Speaker 10: and I feel like, man, it's definitely made roles that

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Speaker 10: you know, single people shouldn't get, like, uh, next week

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Speaker 10: is my three year anniversary, and you know four three

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Speaker 10: years ago, I couldn't see myself giving a woman pass,

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Speaker 10: goes to my phone jailed. My location is definitely always

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Speaker 10: and stuff like that. Man, Look, it's it's completely different,

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Speaker 10: but I love it, you know, damn going up three years,

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Speaker 10: you know, changed for the world. But it's definitely a

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Speaker 10: difference and role that should be separate from marriage to day.

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Speaker 3: And we all know the difference because we've all been

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Speaker 3: in situations where we were dating and we've all been

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Speaker 2: Not all of us, but most of us are. We're

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Speaker 2: all married, is what I'm saying. We know the difference

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Speaker 2: between dating and marriage, right, So yes, there's.

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Speaker 3: Certain things that you are doing in a marriage that

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't think of doing with somebody you just dating.

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Speaker 8: Coach David, you know what's going on these and be

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Speaker 8: struggling me to god, how y'all doing? What?

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Speaker 2: Say? What up the big sue, big shoe?

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Speaker 8: How you doing, beloved?

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Hey, good morning?

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Speaker 4: How you doing all right?

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Speaker 8: Listen? You asked a very good question earlier. The difference

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Speaker 8: between being married and being you know, just dating, you know,

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Speaker 8: as a man, as a man of a current age,

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Speaker 8: and being married to my wife over twenty one years.

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Speaker 8: I look at it like this, there's a difference between

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Speaker 8: dating and courting. If you're dating, you know, we're we're

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Speaker 8: just being friends. We're being friendly, being caught. We can

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Speaker 8: few days. When courting, that's the situation. I'm probably looking

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Speaker 8: your parents at some point. We're preparing for marriage. So

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Speaker 8: there's a level of commitment that's there. You got to

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Speaker 8: think about it like this. You you want eggs and

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Speaker 8: bacon in the morning, right.

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Speaker 2: For breakfast, turkey bacon.

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Speaker 8: There's a different level of commitment between a chicken and

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Speaker 8: a pig. A chicken can give an egg and still

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Speaker 8: leg that pig gotta get his life for us to

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Speaker 8: eat bacon. But there's a different level of commitment when you.

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Speaker 2: Married, you're calling your wife a pig.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 8: I know how I know you, Bro, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm now I don't want to no, bro, get what

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Speaker 3: you're saying.

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Speaker 8: I expect you respect what you need taking my guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I get what you're saying, though, I do understand

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Speaker 2: what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: Thanks coach.

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Speaker 2: All right, you've been coaching saying be pork. I'm hungry.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm saying be pork.

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Speaker 6: I Actually he made a really good point, the difference

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Speaker 6: people are just dating and marriage isn't in the cards.

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Speaker 6: They enjoy dating, they like the companionship. Marriage isn't a

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Speaker 6: goal for them. You need to know that.

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Speaker 2: I never thought about that either.

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Speaker 3: There is levels, right, because I guess it's dating, and

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Speaker 3: then I didn't realize courting is when you're about to

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Speaker 3: take it to that next level, which is probably the

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Speaker 2: I never thought about it like that, at definitely levels.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, what's the morrow of the story Tomorrow?

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Speaker 2: Dating is a process, you know what I'm saying. Marriage

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Speaker 2: is a commitment.

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Speaker 3: You know, can't give somebody the commitment while you just

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, when we come back, we got

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Speaker 5: your room and report big. So what we're talking about

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Speaker 5: in the rooms this time?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we got to talk about Michael Ore.

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Speaker 2: Oh Lord, have mercy.

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Speaker 3: I laughed at that yesterday so much, but I always

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Speaker 3: knew that day was up to no good.

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Speaker 2: In that damn house.

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Speaker 3: I had a whole love theory okay, that I still

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Speaker 3: think is true, but we'll discuss.

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Speaker 4: All right, we'll get into that nextus The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Good morning,