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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Harvey. Ready, Steve, All right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Fatima in Chicago writes, my husband is upset because I

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Speaker 1: am friendly with his ex wife. It started as me

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Speaker 1: being the cool stepmom, but now I'm planning to go

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Speaker 1: on summer vacation with her and the kids. It's a

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Speaker 1: situation I'm married into. So why is he so upset

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Speaker 1: by our friendship? Oo? They should stay enemies? What's happening?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I prefer enemies. Why I oh no, that's I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't like what you're in a faseball.

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Speaker 2: And clearly she don't like me, thus the divorce. I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 3: You know, look they're going on vacation with all the kids.

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Speaker 3: If I don't know, Man, if they could.

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Speaker 2: Be cool, I guess it's cool. But I you know,

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Speaker 2: he's upset.

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Speaker 3: He's a little nervous because he don't know what the

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Speaker 3: conversation gonna be. You know, they could sit up one night,

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Speaker 3: get some wine, starck comparing notes.

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Speaker 2: H Yeah, that's the wait what what did wait?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait wait what did he tell you? Because women, they

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Speaker 2: they y'all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're yeah, we're laser focused.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, so how long had you known him

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Speaker 2: when he told you that? Then he then, y'all you.

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Speaker 3: Come back home with the You remember when you said

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Speaker 3: you was free of her? Y'all didn't stop talking until

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Speaker 3: twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, if you didn't lie or anything, you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have anything to worry about though, right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, concern yeah, okay, as he should be. But your

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Speaker 3: lion made the relationship last as long as it did.

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Speaker 3: Oh why God, why y'all over there discussing the lie

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Speaker 3: for what?

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Speaker 1: Well, you were so convincing at the time, we did

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Speaker 1: not know it was a lie.

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Speaker 2: The okay, the skill said, I have next question.

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Speaker 1: Well, they're friends, so there, okay. Moving on to Winston

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Speaker 1: and Tyler. Winston writes, my wife went to brunch and

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Speaker 1: lost her keys. She was drunk, so I took her

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Speaker 1: home and I went back to get her car. She

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Speaker 1: had a man in her car, and I could tell.

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Speaker 1: She swears that she was not with another man that day.

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Speaker 1: And how can I get to the bottom of this?

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Speaker 2: Well, how did you know it was a man in

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Speaker 2: the car?

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Speaker 1: He said he could tell. How he just said he

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Speaker 1: could tell?

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Speaker 2: Well, see, he did tellers. We need we need a

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Speaker 2: how you could tell it was a man in the

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Speaker 2: car and boson just see filtered back door. It was

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Speaker 2: a man in it.

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Speaker 1: Yep, not a very tall girlfriend of hers. Why you

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Speaker 1: hold your head down, steak big kid. Yeah, okay, So

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Speaker 1: how how can you tell if a man's in the car?

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Speaker 1: Because he said he could tell, Well, cigar smoke is one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cologne, man cologne, Okay, cologne, But men ain't that

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Speaker 3: good as smelling stuff, so you could take that off

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Speaker 3: the list. Okay, okay, Yeah, and I smell a man.

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Speaker 3: You ain't never heard no dude say that. But yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but you hear a woman say that all the time.

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Speaker 3: You needn't take good at that.

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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. Could you tell if

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Speaker 1: if if someone had, you know, a man in the.

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Speaker 3: Car, Well, if it's a if it's an open condom

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Speaker 3: wrapper on the dashboard, diad giveaway, that's a real good signs. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that one been in there right there, you know on

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Speaker 3: his neck tie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, evidence, that's hard evidence right there, exhibit a.

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Speaker 3: One size thirteen Nike. That's a dead giveaway. And he

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Speaker 3: got out quickly.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Other than that, I don't really know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could tell. He said it, all right, So

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Speaker 1: what should he do? How does he get to the

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Speaker 1: bottom of it?

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Speaker 3: He says, I mean, look, man, I mean I don't bru.

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Speaker 3: You can follow her. You can put the thing on

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Speaker 3: her car, you can put the little go to the

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Speaker 3: spy shop and put a little camera in.

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Speaker 2: The back of the car, up in the headliner. You

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Speaker 2: can do all that. They take all that. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: if you got to do that, dog, why you married

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Speaker 2: to her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? There you go, We're moving on. Steve Zaria and

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Speaker 1: Charleston writes, I've been married for twelve years and for

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Speaker 1: the past three months I've been sleeping with an older man.

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Speaker 1: He gives me cash every week and he got my

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Speaker 1: car fixed. My husband asked how I got the money,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not a good liar, so what should I

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Speaker 1: tell him?

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Speaker 2: Well, if you ain't a good liar, why did you

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Speaker 2: write into here? Because you good?

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Speaker 1: You need some skills.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, lady, you're not going you First of all, you stupid, no, no,

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Speaker 3: no no, no, let's get this out here, and stupid

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Speaker 3: people don't need to get into line. First of all,

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Speaker 3: you wrote in some specifics that if your husband were

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Speaker 3: listening to the show, he would know that it's you.

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Speaker 3: Then you said, I'm not a good liar, So what

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Speaker 3: should I do?

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Speaker 2: No, See, I can't help you. I can't help you.

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Speaker 1: You can't help her to give her a lie, to

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Speaker 1: tell her husband something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we did with professional lives here. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 3: you're stupid. You're gonna mess the loup.

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Speaker 2: Dang.

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Speaker 1: She can't just say okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: And you want to raffle You want to raffle down

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Speaker 2: at the job.

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Speaker 1: Why are you yelling?

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Speaker 3: First of all, hell can't stand helping stupid people.

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Speaker 1: To lie. Don't forget that part.

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Speaker 2: You want to raffle down at the job.

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Speaker 1: And Pa was tires, Oh so he got that's how

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Speaker 1: we got her car fixed together, her new tired. Okay.

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Speaker 3: And then your girlfriend at the job. Her husband owns

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Speaker 3: a car shop.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting a divorce.

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Speaker 3: On lunch, you went over there and had him look

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Speaker 3: at it. He told you to leave it. And then

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Speaker 3: your girlfriend drove you over there, and he had fixed

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Speaker 3: the call and said it was all happen and thanks

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Speaker 3: for being friends with my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Who has time. That's a long, extravagant lie lunch.

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Speaker 2: Who are you to tell me.

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Speaker 1: I could judge me your life too much, lying he

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Speaker 1: ranked your life. I'm calling, well, nothing personal, but it's

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Speaker 1: a lot Steve. All right, coming up, thank you. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we'll have some

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Speaker 1: entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.